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00:19Previously on summer house is this the girlfriend dance?
00:23I'm so excited. Are you right now? This is so good. How much long have you got now?
00:27It's like five weeks. Three weeks to finish this. Five weeks to opening.
00:31Where's Amanda? Yeah, where is she? I don't know if she's going to make it at all.
00:35She's not coming? I just can't do it. You're not coming at all?
00:40The idea of, like, going out there is overwhelming me so much. I was like, I just need to, like,
00:45not go.
00:47Here I am, for the first time in a long time, having fun, feeling a little more like myself.
00:50And it's because my wife's nowhere to be seen. And that is a rude awakening.
00:55See? They went on a private boat tour.
00:58Wait, her and my? Yeah. Oh, wow.
01:01I would just like to think that there's enough foundation of me just trying to be respectful.
01:06That the up last Saturday is, like, just a blip.
01:11They do miss you as, like, my friend.
01:15I mean, yeah, me too. It's really hard.
01:17Can we just be best friends again?
01:27I just want to float, float, float.
01:29I just want to glide a little bit.
01:31Need to go with the sky a little bit.
01:33Bogey, bogey, bogey, bogey, bogey, bogey, bogey.
01:36KG, you want to give me a hand?
01:37Yeah.
01:38Water, drinks, sandwiches, towels.
01:41What a glorious day.
01:43Yeah.
01:43Guys, let's go.
01:44Baby girl.
01:45I love you.
01:46I love you.
01:47You guys are sweet.
01:50Mmm, smells pretty damn tasty in there.
01:53I hope it is.
01:54Thank you, honey, for helping.
01:56Thank you for making this happen.
02:00Okay.
02:00Not as much.
02:01Have fun. Safe.
02:03Bye, Scott!
02:04All right, boys, you're stuck with just me now.
02:07See you, Scott!
02:09You're a f***!
02:11Woo-hoo!
02:12Good vibes only.
02:13There ain't no taking my spot, cause I do it to leave.
02:15I'm excited to get some sun today.
02:17Me too.
02:17I still can't believe, so Wes and Sierra, and this is just me jumping to like 13,000 conclusions.
02:23Yeah.
02:24Is there a world in which she acknowledges she still has lingering feelings, or is that not this chat?
02:29I think first things first, it's like them just trying to have a friendship.
02:33Yeah.
02:34The different world all day, they got back together at this coffee, man.
02:37I'm a helpless romantic.
02:38No, you're not.
02:41A hopeless romantic or a helpless romantic?
02:43No, you're just hopeless.
02:45Yeah, I'm hopeless.
02:45It's just hopeless.
02:47What if they're just hand in hand, in the air, welcoming us onto the boat?
02:52That'd be the best thing ever.
02:57Over this way.
02:59Hey, guys.
02:59Over here.
03:02Hi.
03:02Yo, what this s***?
03:04Hello, Cage.
03:05Hi, Cage.
03:05How you guys doing?
03:06F***ing right.
03:07You guys just get f***ing married?
03:09Kinda.
03:10They're doing what I was hoping they would be doing.
03:12Oh, my God.
03:14Did they hear us?
03:15Oh, this is a bad guy.
03:17Oh, my God.
03:18You look so cute.
03:19You look so cute.
03:21Okay, let's get on the boat.
03:22You ready?
03:23I'm walking.
03:25Ar, she blows.
03:27Hello, guys.
03:28Hello.
03:29How are you?
03:29Nothing.
03:30Nice.
03:30All right, party people.
03:34Let's f***ing go.
03:35Her ass is so big.
03:36I know.
03:37It's crazy.
03:38Jess, I'm going to give a selfie with you in your sock bar hat.
03:40She'll be like, bring extra clothes.
03:41I said, I don't have anything that can dress that ass.
03:46That's a great pic.
03:47Thanks, brother.
03:49You're going to make your investment proud.
03:56How was your conversation with Blast?
03:59Good.
04:01Honestly, good.
04:02As weird as it is, like, I do feel like he is my person.
04:07Like, we have, like, this really weird friendship.
04:11And it's hard to, like, ignore that, you know?
04:14I honestly, I'm so proud of you because I know that's, like, not easy.
04:18Bitch, that's not me.
04:19That's not who you are.
04:21You know what?
04:21Snip, snip.
04:22Yeah, like, obviously everyone knows I'm not the most warm and fuzzy person.
04:26I am warm.
04:28I might not be fuzzy, but I'm warm.
04:29And, like, yeah, I guess making up isn't really my thing.
04:34But I'm trying to be less rigid, which is a theme of my summer.
04:37Okay?
04:38Let's get some sun.
04:41Get some sun and some gray.
04:42All in got it.
04:43Three, two, one.
04:46It's my life.
04:49Perfect form.
04:53Hold on.
04:58Okay, don't go fast.
05:01Kyle, go slow.
05:03Kyle, go slow.
05:06I'm so scared.
05:09I'm fine, though.
05:10I'm chilling.
05:11I feel like if you got in the water, it might help.
05:13Pull me back.
05:14Oh, it's Amanda.
05:16Hey.
05:18Yeah.
05:19Oh, hi, Lucy.
05:21When I live.
05:23Yeah, you did.
05:24Wait, when you, when Wes said best night of my life and you said damn, was that, like,
05:28sarcasm?
05:29No, like, when you don't rub salt in the woods.
05:32Oh, it was?
05:33Wow.
05:33So she was feeling jealous.
05:35Yeah.
05:36Well, if the best night of his life is the one night I'm not there, yeah, that feels
05:40great.
05:41Oh, damn.
05:42You mean it about you, but I get it.
05:44It was all for you.
05:45Of course she did.
05:46All right.
05:47Well, I just wanted to say hi.
05:49Love you.
05:50All right.
05:52All right, bye.
05:52Love you.
05:55How is it being exclusive?
05:57I was a little with KJ.
05:58I was a little nervous yesterday.
06:00I saw you guys talking to him and I was like, oh.
06:02Look, all I say is I think it's a little fast.
06:05Obviously, I care about you and, you know, you're a little younger than her and I just want to
06:10make sure you guys are in line with what you want, what she wants and being aware of the
06:16realities, you know?
06:17That's what we're saying.
06:18Part of me was like, it was too quick and I don't have any qualms about it, but I don't
06:21want him to have qualms.
06:23Yeah, or like him to change his mind.
06:24Yeah.
06:25Like to double back would probably wreck me.
06:28Yeah.
06:29You know?
06:30I think, you know, KJ is obviously mature for his age.
06:35Good God, the way I've been waiting for that kind of.
06:37Yeah, he's a good guy, but it's more just like he's just a little younger than you.
06:41You guys are in different phases of your life, so like you have to keep that in mind.
06:45How you guys doing?
06:47Dude, can I just say that you're looking incredible lately.
06:51I have back nipples.
06:51No, you're still pretty shredded for being 43.
06:55God, my nipples are hard.
06:57It feels weird without Amanda here.
07:00Do you feel like you're able to have more levity and just a good time this weekend because
07:06she's not here?
07:08I mean, yeah.
07:10Dude, when I'm just being myself, I feel like I just irritate her.
07:15That's not a good way to feel.
07:17If I'm being honest.
07:18Yeah, you should be honest.
07:20You're different people, but that's okay.
07:22Yeah.
07:22But the reality is you guys are either just going to accept and love each other for who
07:27you are, because you have your faults and she has hers, or it's, I don't know.
07:36Can I be honest?
07:37Can we just not talk about this?
07:39I'm already like, I was having a good weekend.
07:44Do you guys want to party or?
07:46Yeah!
07:52Oh my God.
07:53Oh my God.
07:54Oh my God.
07:55Oh my God.
07:57Jack, don't let me go, Jack.
07:59Okay, I want to go home.
08:01Let's go.
08:02All right.
08:02Guys, let's go.
08:03Let's go.
08:07We're home.
08:08I'm hungry.
08:10Okay, boys, empty the car.
08:13Oh.
08:14You got that?
08:15Sounds like this group needs a DJ.
08:17Let's go.
08:19It's me.
08:20Come here.
08:21Come here.
08:36I'd love to see it.
08:38I'm going to take a shower real quick.
08:40I'm going to take a shower in the pool.
08:43What are you?
08:43Hello.
08:44What are you doing?
08:46So what happened?
08:47Can I know everything?
08:49Oh.
08:50Oh.
08:57Okay, so tell me everything.
08:58Okay, so this morning we woke up.
09:00We got in an Uber and we went to, like, the pier before everyone else on the boat.
09:04Dude, that was so much fun.
09:07What?
09:08The boat.
09:09So he actually did a lot of the talking and he was like, well, you make it so confusing because
09:14I don't know when I can have a conversation with you.
09:16Tell about the end.
09:18Like, you know, man.
09:19Like, I'm waiting for the end, which is the best part.
09:22Like, and then he was like, kind of like, okay, so, like, where do we go from now?
09:28He's like, I could be your best friend tomorrow.
09:30And I was like, okay, let's be better.
09:33You can be better at that.
09:34Wait, really?
09:35That's how you do?
09:37And I cried and then he hugged me and then I just cried.
09:40Stop.
09:41Oh, I'm going to cry.
09:43I mean, Wes did say he has a crush on you.
09:47What?
09:49Sabrina Bell.
09:51What we talk about in the walls of my apartment stays in the apartment.
09:56One night when we came back after a night out, we were in the kitchen.
10:00Wes was like, I've still got a crush on it.
10:02I'm like, yeah.
10:04I'm like, oh, no way.
10:11And I've told Sabrina, I mean, that's my fault.
10:14I shouldn't, I shouldn't be telling rumors and telling stories.
10:18That's not going to help anything, especially if another girl comes and sits on his lap again.
10:25Jeez, you can't it up yourself.
10:30Dinner!
10:32Come and get you the dinner!
10:34Wait, I can't believe this is our first Denny on this tape.
10:37Yo, this place looks really good.
10:39I like what I'm seeing so far.
10:42Thank you for getting food, Ciara.
10:43Where's KJ?
10:44I can sleep, eh.
10:47Can't believe summer's almost over.
10:49Mine just begun, brother.
10:53Wow.
10:55So, what's everyone's plan this week?
10:57I'm excited for your party.
10:58What day is the soft launch again?
11:0027?
11:01Wednesday, yeah.
11:02There's so much going on with it.
11:03It's just completely overwhelming.
11:05You made a ton of progress in a year.
11:07Yeah.
11:08Because, like, last year you guys only had the truck.
11:10And now y'all have...
11:11Yeah, we were just kind of starting out there.
11:12I know, like, people expected things to happen quicker.
11:15I, trust me, I wanted to.
11:16It's been a year.
11:17Yeah, Carolina.
11:18Congratulations.
11:19That's awesome.
11:20There's been a lot of, like, people really, you know, come through in my family and friends.
11:24I mean, I have some people at this table who've been incredibly...
11:26I mean, you all have, but with their wallets have been supportive.
11:30But then also just energy and all of it.
11:33It's been a journey, so.
11:36To be honest, I'm a little shook.
11:39You know, this conversation about investing took place literally seven months ago.
11:43And again, in the summer.
11:44My wallets way too deep in Loverboy.
11:47Is the business actually in trouble, like, folding?
11:51Yeah.
11:51I've tried to be open and honest with where I'm at.
11:55With my business, marriage, our sex life.
11:58He knows more than everybody.
11:59He's not communicating to me.
12:01Because I'm having to hear about his issues with me from other people.
12:05He said when you didn't invest.
12:06He was so sad.
12:08He wrote out a whole email to you and didn't send it.
12:12When?
12:13In the winter?
12:14In the winter?
12:15What?
12:15Like, recently.
12:19I don't know.
12:23Coming up?
12:25I don't think they've had sex in, like, maybe years.
12:29Where'd you hear that from?
12:31The rear mirror mail.
12:32Who said that?
12:34Carl.
12:35Oh!
12:41All right.
12:42We're gonna go to Murph's.
12:43Yes!
12:43Are we ready?
12:47Yeah, that's it.
12:48Okay.
12:56Hello.
12:57Sierra West.
12:58They're, like, f***ing BFFs again.
13:00It's just...
13:00And it's just...
13:01It's, like, it's so good.
13:04So now we can all hang and stuff.
13:08Sierra!
13:24Let's have it, Carl.
13:25Oh, Carl, come on up.
13:28That was KJ's plate, but I actually gave it.
13:30I don't think I've been gave it for you, though.
13:49I will say my text thread with Amanda is perhaps one of the most depressing text threads of all time.
13:55Hey, babe, taking off.
13:56Hey, babe.
13:57Landed.
13:58Great set.
13:59Calling it tonight.
14:01Morning.
14:02Taking off.
14:03Nothing.
14:06The only reaction we got all weekend from her was when West said in the group chat,
14:11best night ever.
14:12Amanda, her ears perked up, and she's like, damn.
14:16That's what it took to give her a little FOMO.
14:22Hey, hi.
14:24Hi.
14:27I'm glad we don't.
14:30If I did, what did we do?
14:33Let's hear it for you.
14:36I'm sobering.
14:38You?
14:39I'm an idiot.
14:44See you in the morning.
14:45See you in the morning.
15:04I gotta push my cheek.
15:07Get up.
15:10What the f***?
15:14What are you counting?
15:15Rate your weekend.
15:17Out of 10?
15:1810.
15:1912.
15:20I wish you were at dinner last night, also.
15:22Everyone was being really silly.
15:24Really?
15:24But I'm glad you got some silly.
15:26See?
15:27These naps.
15:28But my body clearly needed it, so.
15:32Can I ask, like, how this week was?
15:35Like, kind of just, like, telling everyone about, like, the title and...
15:40I mean, I was nervous, not gonna lie, especially talking to the girls.
15:44Yeah.
15:44Just because they asked a hard question.
15:46Yeah, but, like, I told them I need that.
15:51I really need a shit part.
15:55This is a crazy outfit.
15:57Whatever, don't care.
16:01Yeah.
16:01Are you peeing?
16:03Yeah.
16:05I almost saw Peter Johnson, dude.
16:08Is that how you wash your hands?
16:10This is yours.
16:11This is your starter.
16:14What's going on?
16:15Oh, wow.
16:16My old stomping grounds.
16:19I'm really happy that you and Wes are friends again.
16:22Does baby feel settled in his home?
16:24Now that mommy and daddy are getting along.
16:26Yeah.
16:28Oh, beautiful day.
16:30How do you think Kyle was this weekend?
16:33Um, he was good.
16:35Yeah.
16:36Yeah, he was happy.
16:37He was able to be himself without Amanda yelling at him for being himself.
16:43Mmm.
16:44Oh, my God.
16:45Look at Kyle cleaning his car with the giant thing.
16:48Kyle, what is that thing?
16:50This is a California duster.
16:53California duster.
16:55Hi, friends.
16:56Hey, mamma mia.
16:59How are we friends?
17:01Better now.
17:03What are you talking about?
17:04What's going on?
17:05Just Kyle.
17:05Kyle.
17:06Just Kyle.
17:07He didn't seem upset that Amanda wasn't here this weekend, that's for sure.
17:11No.
17:12He was in, like, rare...
17:13I've actually never seen Kyle like that before.
17:15Well, now he doesn't want to talk about his relationship with Amanda.
17:21And he's trying to just, like, table any conversation because he knows himself.
17:26And he's smart enough to know that anything that comes out of his mouth is going to be negative and
17:30cause issues in his relationship.
17:32Mm-hmm.
17:33And it's not, like, solving the underlying problems in the relationship.
17:37Right.
17:37I don't think they're having sex.
17:39I don't think they've had sex in, like, maybe years.
17:43Where'd you hear that from?
17:45Rumors.
17:46The rumor mill.
17:47Who said that?
17:49Carl.
17:50Oh!
17:54Jesse, Jesse, have you learned that?
17:55He said it didn't even take any pressure.
18:00He said, who said that?
18:00Oh, God.
18:02I mean, I hear that once you get married, it starts to happen less.
18:07Maybe that's why I'm so scared of it.
18:10The marriage.
18:11But not that much less.
18:14Yeah, I just don't know what Amanda wants.
18:16I don't really know what Kyle wants, either.
18:18It almost seems as if they, like, didn't really think about how they would each evolve individually in the relationship
18:26over the years.
18:27But are they compatible at this stage of their life?
18:31Like, or can they find that compatibility again?
18:36Like, do you think that they can?
18:38Yeah.
18:38I don't know.
18:46Bye, everyone.
18:48I love you.
18:49I love you.
18:51What time is it?
18:5312.02.
18:54Oh, .
18:54We gotta get on the road.
18:57I love you.
18:58Billy and Millie.
19:00Let's do it.
19:01Are we ready?
19:01Yeah.
19:02Hey, boys.
19:03And girls.
19:04Hey.
19:07I got the moves all day.
19:08Oh, yes.
19:09I make them say wow.
19:10I got the moves all day.
19:12Oh, yes.
19:13I make them say wow.
19:15I can't believe we're getting grills, getting grills.
19:19I've been waiting for this.
19:20Maybe open with some diamonds.
19:22You want to flood it.
19:24Yeah.
19:24Are you a, like, solid girl?
19:27I can be whatever you want me to be.
19:29Hey.
19:30Okay.
19:34I got the moves.
19:36This party.
19:36I need you.
19:37We're into crunch time.
19:38No, I know.
19:39So, I brought a little deck, some visuals.
19:42So, it's the It Girl anniversary party.
19:43This is the big moment to, like, showcase everything you've done.
19:46Yeah.
19:47Yeah.
19:47And then we can talk about, oh, the mood boards.
19:50It has been two years since I started my show, It Girl.
19:53I love it.
19:54A true It Girl.
19:55I am planning this huge two-year anniversary party.
19:57And it's a celebration of me, but it's really a celebration of the people who did so much
20:01for me and gave me these interviews.
20:03I can't wait.
20:04I can't wait.
20:04It Girls Only.
20:07We need a sign on the door.
20:09I can feel it now.
20:13Can you feel it now?
20:15Feel it now.
20:17Feel it now.
20:18Feel it now.
20:18What's going on, Riety?
20:20Just imagine me next summer with my two cats in the stroller.
20:25I want a stroller.
20:27Just Jasper and miscellaneous other cat.
20:30TBD cat.
20:31Can we sit down over there?
20:33Yeah.
20:34How was the weekend?
20:35I missed a big one.
20:37You missed a big weekend.
20:38Well, for you.
20:40You missed Carl and Lindsey getting engaged.
20:43We're engaged.
20:44He did it.
20:46Oh, look at the girls.
20:47The girls.
20:49I know.
20:49Me and Wes making up.
20:51Well, that's why I have to stay back sometimes so that, like, these big gestures happen.
20:56How was your weekend?
20:59Fabulous.
20:59Without Kyle.
21:00I know.
21:01It was so necessary.
21:03I was so...
21:04I think I'm, like, falling into a depression again where I'm just, like, really tired.
21:10I'm just sort of out of it and not feeling myself.
21:13Yeah.
21:13But we did go to therapy today.
21:16We actually just went this morning.
21:17I just came from there.
21:19Oh, wow.
21:19It's our first, like, couples counseling in a while.
21:22In couples therapy, I am telling this woman our love story and it sounds like a, like, psychological thriller.
21:32Okay?
21:33There is no rom in this com.
21:36Okay?
21:38I'm like, yeah, so we met and he went into find the relationship with me and then he broke
21:42up with me.
21:43He made out with multiple women.
21:45We got engaged and then there was a rumor that he cheated on me and then we got married
21:49and then there's been multiple rumors ever since and now we hate each other and here
21:53we are.
21:53And she's like, where's the part where you fell in love?
21:57But, yeah, there were certain things I'd say where you could tell that he just, like,
22:00feeling a bit uncomfortable.
22:02Oh, really?
22:03But it felt good to, like, say everything.
22:05Yeah.
22:06And it's funny, like, when we talk, I feel like my frustrations with him stem from, like,
22:14early on or, like, my traumas or whatever it is.
22:17So whenever I'm talking, I'm talking about, like, pre-wedding.
22:21Right.
22:21And, like, it feels like everything he's talking about is almost, like, post-wedding, like,
22:25current.
22:26Yeah.
22:26Oh, so you guys are, like, living in two different phases of your relationship.
22:31Yeah.
22:32Do you ever feel like, because we were kind of talking about it this weekend, like,
22:35Jesse was like, I feel like Kyle was almost able to, like, be himself this weekend without
22:40you there.
22:41And I'm like, yeah, it's probably great for them to just, like, have time apart.
22:46Behind closed doors, nobody really knows what's happening in a marriage.
22:51I would hope and pray that it's entirely different than what I'm seeing.
22:54But at this point, what I'm seeing doesn't feel like it's conducive to, like, building a future together.
23:01Do you ever wonder if, like, you guys took time apart and, like, separated for, like, two
23:07weeks, a month or something, and, like, were able to, like, focus more on the crux of your
23:13issues and then...
23:15No, I agree.
23:16And I don't think that that's, like, a bad idea.
23:18I just feel like he would never go for it.
23:23I know.
23:25Never.
23:28Coming up...
23:29Have you said anything about Christmas?
23:35No, no.
23:37So I'm gonna meet us while we're dead!
23:39Damn.
23:42Step into your best life.
23:52Hi.
23:53How are you?
23:53How are you?
23:55It's hard to really describe what I've been doing.
23:57Even just saying what I have been saying for the last couple of years.
24:01This non-alcoholic bar.
24:03This sober bar.
24:03This sober sports bar.
24:05You...
24:05Now you can see it.
24:07Pure passion to hard work works.
24:10Told you.
24:16Carl did his thing.
24:17This is...
24:18This is...
24:18This is so cool.
24:21Yay!
24:22Hi!
24:23Hi!
24:24How are you?
24:25You look so beautiful.
24:27You look so beautiful.
24:28Look at you.
24:29You look like a classic Barbie doll.
24:31You look like a classic Barbie doll.
24:31This is my favorite hair on you, I think.
24:34Hey!
24:35Sorry.
24:36Hi!
24:36Hi!
24:37Thank you for being here.
24:38This is like crazier hair.
24:40My man.
24:41It looks completely different.
24:42I know, bro.
24:43Right?
24:43Thanks for being here.
24:45Hi, Bailey.
24:45Hi!
24:46Thanks for being here.
24:48Appreciate you.
24:49I'll be fine.
24:49Thanks for being here.
24:50Appreciate you guys.
24:52Have you guys had a chance to try anything?
24:54No, I'm so excited.
24:55Okay.
24:55What's the...
24:56Didn't you say there's one that makes you horny?
24:57So, we're developing...
24:59Oh, okay.
25:00It's not out yet?
25:01Not out yet.
25:01Oh, sorry.
25:02Again, I'm filling tea.
25:03I can't wait to try it.
25:04I am so unbelievably proud of Carl.
25:07I could not imagine trying to open a bar in New York City.
25:10That is a terrifying thing.
25:11He cares so much about every single detail.
25:14He's just like walking around all confident.
25:17Sexy.
25:20Congrats, brother.
25:21Thanks, buddy.
25:22It's beautiful.
25:22Thanks, man.
25:23What do you think?
25:23It's huge.
25:25It's massive.
25:27Thanks.
25:27Are you kidding me?
25:28What do you think?
25:29It's pretty good, right?
25:30I can't believe...
25:32...like five weeks ago...
25:33I know.
25:34...the color scheme...
25:35...perfect.
25:36...the materials...
25:37...even better.
25:38It's a phenomenal job.
25:39I appreciate it.
25:42Marvelous.
25:43That's really good.
25:44And I would not know if...
25:44I actually like this more than apples.
25:46Yes.
25:47This is honestly the best thing I've ever had in my life.
25:50It's like an iced coffee, but it's like...
25:52I cannot believe how good this is.
25:54Ice coffee, that's like...
25:55...magic.
25:56Oh!
25:57Anyways, how are you two lovebirds doing?
25:59Good.
26:01What?
26:01That's rich counter for you, man.
26:03Oh, come on.
26:04Come on.
26:04Well, um...
26:05Yeah, you can have a space.
26:06Um...
26:07How are we going?
26:08We're good.
26:09We good?
26:10Yeah.
26:10Have you...
26:12...said anything about Christmas?
26:17No, no.
26:17Do you know...
26:19No, I haven't said anything about Christmas.
26:20Wait, what?
26:21So when I bought my tickets to Australia...
26:24...um, the other week I bought Sabrina a ticket as well, so...
26:27I'm gonna meet his family.
26:28She's gonna come back, yeah.
26:30I'm so excited.
26:31She's gonna be telling everyone stuff.
26:32I've never been, and I'm gonna get to meet his family for the first time, which I'm so excited.
26:36Like, to meet his parents, I'm like, nothing would make me happier.
26:40Yeah.
26:40That'll be fun.
26:41Tell him what you told your mom about the next girl that you bring home.
26:46I love this part.
26:48Tell him, tell him.
26:48Well, for a long time I've been telling mom that the next girl that I bring home will be something
26:53special, so...
26:54So you're the one.
26:56The summer took a turn quick.
26:58Me and Ben both came in as single bachelors.
27:01Not looking for anything serious.
27:04Now Ben's about to get married.
27:05Dude.
27:06Wow.
27:07What a summer.
27:08Yeah, I know, Russ.
27:09You're doing it before me, brother.
27:12I biked.
27:14Do I look just?
27:15You look just great.
27:16Do you know?
27:17Hi, mama.
27:18I was not the first person that you came to see.
27:21I think you are outside.
27:22Yeah, yeah.
27:23How are you?
27:24I'm good. How are you?
27:25Fantastic. You look great.
27:26Have you met Mia before?
27:27Hi, I'm Mia.
27:28Nice to meet you.
27:29Nice to meet you.
27:30This is Carl's mom.
27:31It's so nice to meet you. Congratulations to you guys.
27:34Just make sure today I don't make any ill comments.
27:38Nope.
27:39You'll be good.
27:40Don't worry.
27:41You're so good.
27:42Also, I mean...
27:44I got in trouble last year.
27:45How proud are you?
27:47It was just such a crap year since the breakup and all that.
27:51And she was mean to me, too.
27:53Yeah, it's tough.
27:53Do you feel like you've been able to fully let go, forgive?
27:57Eh, not quite.
27:58They've gotten along quite well.
28:00Yeah, so...
28:00I don't know what he told you, but it's been great.
28:02Yeah, so I'm gonna congratulate her.
28:05Yeah.
28:06Yeah.
28:07Yeah.
28:10Wow!
28:12Hey, we really came together.
28:13Oh, hello!
28:15You look lovely.
28:16I'm so excited for after.
28:18I know.
28:18Are you...
28:20I...
28:20I...
28:20You guys look...
28:21I look though.
28:22I didn't dress up that well.
28:23Wait, okay.
28:23So, I...
28:24Literally, I was on the phone with Sierra last night, and I was talking about how amazing
28:27and beautiful you are, and Ben was like, all right, calm down.
28:30So, like...
28:31Aw.
28:33Sabrina told me I was going on a double date.
28:35I don't know.
28:36She was like, Wes, you and Sierra should come to dinner.
28:38And Sierra, like, agreed, so then I agreed.
28:42Even I, like, it's too soon for that, you know?
28:44We've been friends for five minutes.
28:46We're not date ready.
28:48But, yeah, Sabrina booked our wedding venue already, I feel like.
28:52Hey, girly pops.
28:53Hi!
28:55How are you?
28:56Did you get a soft cocktail?
28:57I'm waiting online.
28:59Is this the Spritz?
29:00This is, uh, app where all Spritz.com got you.
29:04Does it have any benefits?
29:06Um, just being delish.
29:10I can't believe how much progress you made in the last two weeks.
29:13No, this is crazy.
29:15I'm getting sparkling rosé.
29:17Let's get a drink.
29:19You gonna order it here, Amanda?
29:20Sure.
29:21Can we order it with you?
29:22What are you, uh, drinking?
29:24Did you try the drink here?
29:25This is an espresso martini.
29:27Okay.
29:27Espresso martini's good, but it's not alcohol.
29:30Not one item in here has alcohol.
29:32I thought he was gonna have a lover boy.
29:37Not only did we discuss soft bar serving lover boy non-alc,
29:41I literally connected him with our distributor.
29:44Things were set in motion.
29:46And for me to show up and there's just no lover boy, I'm like, damn.
29:52Can you tell me he was all set with, with, I don't know.
29:56I don't know if this is punishment for not investing, but it hurts.
30:03Coming up...
30:04So how's baby girl doing?
30:06She's great.
30:08Slightly mean, just like me, right?
30:10Who are you?
30:12Who are you?
30:13Who are you?
30:15Who are you?
30:17We're gonna level up now.
30:19Running it wild.
30:21Yeah, pace right now.
30:24Thank you for being here.
30:25Appreciate you.
30:26How are you?
30:27Good to see you.
30:27Hi, Sam.
30:28Hi, Sam.
30:28This is so f***ing here.
30:30Appreciate you.
30:31This is so special.
30:34What do you think?
30:34It's also a really great club.
30:36Like, it's so busy around.
30:38There's a lot happening here.
30:39Hey!
30:40My old f***ing coach.
30:41My guy.
30:42Give me a hug.
30:43Stand up!
30:44You did it!
30:44You did it, buddy.
30:46You did it.
30:47I'm so proud of you.
30:49I'm so proud of you.
30:49I'm so proud of you.
30:51Congratulations.
30:53This is gorgeous.
30:54I'm sure the last 48 hours was like crazy.
30:57Jesse Sullivan.
30:58It is, guys.
31:00Love you, brother.
31:00Thanks for being here, man.
31:01Appreciate you.
31:02And this guy's outfit.
31:03Okay.
31:03I'm soft bar themed.
31:06I love it.
31:06I should've worn green.
31:07Damn it.
31:08Look good.
31:10Uh, can I get you something?
31:11Uh, not either.
31:13Thanks.
31:13Looks really good.
31:17Oh!
31:18Soft bar.
31:19There it is.
31:20Are we in, like, a warehouse district?
31:22We're in Green Point.
31:24I'm too old to leave Manhattan.
31:26But here we are.
31:27Going to a bar ride.
31:29Also cannot drink anything.
31:30We're going to my ex-fiance's
31:32sober bar.
31:34I mean, it took two years after our breakup, but here we are.
31:37He is actually doing something that deserves my attention.
31:42I would prefer my juices to have alcohol in them at this moment in time.
31:47But I'm going to go support him and his $25 fruit drinks.
31:55Looks like it's hopping.
31:57Oh!
31:58Hello!
31:59Hello!
32:00Thank you for coming.
32:02Congratulations!
32:03Welcome.
32:03I brought you a gift.
32:05If you want to open it.
32:09Is it a little boo-boo?
32:11Mm-hmm.
32:12A little boo-boo.
32:12I know how you love everything soft.
32:16Yeah.
32:17So, if you need a hug.
32:18Give me a hug.
32:20I just want a hug right now.
32:21That's okay.
32:22Harder.
32:26Okay.
32:29I do.
32:30Just to let you know.
32:30A lot of people.
32:31Yeah.
32:32We've got about 115 people here tonight.
32:34So, it's been a process.
32:36So, this is the soft opening?
32:38Private soft opening.
32:40Right.
32:40Grand opening to the public September 17th.
32:43Okay.
32:43So, we've got another two weeks.
32:45The hard opening.
32:45Hard opening.
32:47I love the terminology.
32:49Hard opening for softball.
32:50You created it.
32:52Do I miss her?
32:53100%.
32:53I do.
32:54I miss the friendship that I've had with Lindsay.
32:56And this little moment of the teddy bear, even if it's a little backhanded or silly or
33:01whatever she's going for here, it means a lot to me.
33:04Thank you, Lindsay.
33:05I appreciate you coming.
33:07Your feedback, believe it or not, is why we're standing here right now.
33:11Wow.
33:12Yeah.
33:13Take yourself at home.
33:14Yeah.
33:14Thank you for the bear.
33:17Soft bear.
33:17Oh, he should live up there.
33:19Oh, that's so cute.
33:21It fits right in.
33:22I love it.
33:25The place is awesome, man.
33:27Of course, dude.
33:28I'm always gonna support you.
33:29It's really good.
33:29It's all like it came together, brother.
33:30It looks really good.
33:32What's your favorite drink?
33:33The espresso martini.
33:34They have athletic beer.
33:36I just wanna...
33:36And then this one's good, though.
33:39I didn't know you were coming, bro.
33:43Yes!
33:44Yes!
33:45Yes!
33:46Congratulations.
33:46I love you guys.
33:47Thanks for coming.
33:49How are you, brother?
33:49Good job.
33:55I'm glad we both wore the outfits that we said we were gonna wear.
33:57I know.
33:58Yeah, that's great.
33:59I think Carl's gonna address everybody soon.
34:01Okay.
34:03Start us off.
34:04Hello, hello!
34:06Hello!
34:06How's everybody doing?
34:09Good.
34:11Thank you, everybody, for being here.
34:13Welcome to Soft Bar.
34:19You know, obviously, this concept is, it connects deep with my family and kind of the things
34:25we've been through as a family.
34:26Obviously, alcoholism, mental health has been a challenge.
34:28I wanna try and help break the family cycle and the generations of trauma and issues that
34:35we've had.
34:35And I really believe leaning in on something like this is a way to do that.
34:38So, my brother is a big inspiration for this.
34:41I know Christopher's mother, Lorraine, is a big inspiration for this.
34:44I know Brian's dad was a big inspiration for this.
34:46And those three folks are no longer with us, but still with us.
34:50I, of course, wish my brother was here.
34:52But I don't know if software would exist if he was here.
34:56Cause, like, my brother passing away was what, what, yeah, what saved my life.
35:04I don't know if I would've looked in the mirror like I did if he didn't pass.
35:08I would burn Soft Bar to the ground to get my brother back.
35:11But if I can reconcile that my brother was in a safer place looking out and protecting me,
35:15and he's guiding me.
35:16He's looking out over me and making sure that I stay on the right track.
35:20I'm really f***ing proud, if I can just say that.
35:25Um, seriously guys, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
35:29This would not be possible without you guys.
35:31So, thanks for being here.
35:34Let's f***ing go!
35:37Cheers.
35:46Mom is here.
35:47Oh, I was just thinking that in my head. Where?
35:50Right behind me.
35:51Yes.
35:52The last time I spoke to Sharon, the weird text she sent me a month after my breakup.
36:00Why even send that?
36:02My goal is to just, like, keep my distance and, like, avoid.
36:07Well, I have a young woman I have to speak to that I haven't spoken to in a long time.
36:15There she is.
36:16Hey, girl.
36:18Yeah, she's right there.
36:19Got this, though.
36:20Your hair is so short.
36:27Excuse me.
36:28Excuse me.
36:50For someone that just had a baby, you look spectacularly good.
36:57Yeah.
36:57Thank you so much.
36:58How are you doing?
37:00I'm good.
37:01Congrats.
37:02Yeah, thank you.
37:04Do I get a hug?
37:06You and girl love hugs.
37:09I love hugs.
37:11I love your hair, too.
37:16So, how's baby girl doing?
37:18She's great.
37:20She's not walking yet, is she?
37:23Pretty much.
37:25That's crazy.
37:26Yeah, she's a go-getter, just like her mom.
37:29Well, that's good.
37:30Yeah.
37:30We need to go get her.
37:32Slightly mean, just like me.
37:34Right?
37:35Slightly mean.
37:38Slightly mean.
37:39You are you.
37:41And isn't that the most important thing to me?
37:46I don't know.
37:48But I am glad to get to see you.
37:50Yeah, it's good to see you, too.
37:52It is.
37:52Enjoy.
37:53Yeah.
37:53Take care of yourself.
37:54Right now, it's like that.
38:01How was it?
38:04Not good.
38:08This is probably my favorite fit of this summer for me.
38:10Wow.
38:11Yes.
38:12Best for last.
38:14Saturday went well.
38:15Like, probably couldn't have gone better.
38:17That's good.
38:18It just was like everything we should have talked about.
38:21Can I eavesdrop a little?
38:22Yeah.
38:23It's just everything we should have.
38:25I'm trying to fill her in.
38:25Yeah.
38:27Let him just talk.
38:28I just didn't want to eavesdrop without giving some back.
38:31No, you're good.
38:31You're good.
38:32So we were on the dock, and then they all came later,
38:35and, like, got out of the car, and I was like,
38:36oh, I wish Amanda was getting out of this car.
38:39Because I was like, we should with them and, like, do something.
38:41Yeah, it was hilarious.
38:42We roll up.
38:43They both, they go like this.
38:46Yeah.
38:47I'm so happy.
38:49Hey.
38:49Hi.
38:50Thanks for coming.
38:52Appreciate you.
38:53It looks so good.
38:54It's exactly like how it was supposed to look.
38:57We're proud of you.
38:58I mean, this is like a reunion, uh, reunion.
39:02We have Luke, we have Danielle, and Leia.
39:05Wait, where are you at?
39:06I haven't seen Danielle yet.
39:07She's behind me.
39:09Wait, so when was that time you seen her?
39:12Said you right?
39:14Really?
39:14Was there, like, a falling out or just, like, a ghost thing?
39:19It wasn't even really, like, a ghost thing.
39:21Like, I just watched the show, like, everyone else,
39:24and, like, her confessionals, like, were brutal after brutal.
39:28The thought of having Lindsay, Carl, under the same roof,
39:33and she's now pregnant.
39:36With someone else's baby.
39:39We'll move in together when it feels like normal for a normal relationship.
39:45A normal couple pace?
39:47I think the ship has sailed on the normal couple pace.
39:51I just don't want it to feel like you're, like, single-momming this up.
39:57I just, like, I have such limited time to even, like,
40:01see my friends and, like, do anything ever.
40:05I just don't need negativity or, like, friends that feel like they need to compete with me all the time.
40:11Or, like, I just, that's not the kind of friendship I want.
40:15I'll say hi to Danielle and feel it out.
40:20What up?
40:22How are you?
40:22How are we doing?
40:23It's good to see you.
40:24How are you doing there?
40:26I didn't realize that you and Lindsay weren't really...
40:29Are you into it a minute?
40:31No, is she, is she here?
40:36I have to run.
40:37Okay.
40:39I have to go relieve my nanny.
40:41Love you.
40:41Love you.
40:44I would have loved to say hi to her, but...
40:46Love you one.
40:48I think she knows.
40:49I was trying to get those...
40:50She was upset about how, I don't know, how things were said on, like, about the coral situation.
40:58Do you want to see if you can grab her?
40:59This weekend.
41:00Well, it is weekend.
41:01And then we should catch up.
41:02I would love to catch up.
41:04I would just, you know, the longer the silence continues, the harder it is to break it.
41:11So, you might still catch her. I don't know.
41:15Thank you so much for having us.
41:17Thank you so much for having us again.
41:17I appreciate it. Thanks for coming.
41:22Are you feeling recharged and ready for the weekend?
41:25No, but I will be. It's only Wednesday.
41:28Man, I can't believe you missed the squashing of the beef with Wes and Sierra.
41:31I can't believe I missed it either.
41:33Now they're, like, hanging out after this.
41:37Tonight?
41:37Yeah.
41:38They have plans.
41:39Not one-on-one.
41:40But, yeah, like, Sabrina text me because we talk now.
41:44And she's like, Ben and I are going to drinks with Wes and Sierra.
41:48You should come.
41:49I haven't talked to Wes about it.
41:52But, yeah, they're, like, back to being normal friends, I guess.
41:56Okay, but, like, that's not friends.
42:00That's like a double date.
42:01Yeah.
42:03How do we go from zero to 100?
42:05I mean, they're going on a double.
42:07I feel like Wes has to be cautious.
42:11Yeah.
42:12Because I don't think that she could handle, like, just friendship.
42:16But we'll see.
42:23Next time on Summer House...
42:26How does that feel? How does that feel?
42:28Your white dress.
42:30It looks good.
42:31There you go.
42:31Okay, but it was completely secret.
42:32I know.
42:36I'm weary of him.
42:38Sierra's a very special, incredible person, and, like, you need to treat her differently.
42:43I agree.
42:44I'm losing my mind.
42:45Kyle.
42:46No!
42:46Go out.
42:47Go off.
42:48Chill the out.
42:50Seriously.
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