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Love Is Blind: Sweden - Season 3 - Episode 11: Love Is a Decision
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00:00:06Can anybody hear me Tell me am I on my own
00:00:13Living in my own head Oh, I'm slipping away
00:00:20Everything we had
00:00:31How do you feel?
00:00:37I feel that we should be honest against ourselves
00:00:41What we feel, and we've gone far and back
00:00:44both of you and I
00:00:45but are we a gift goal?
00:00:51It's the time when you and I don't talk about the future
00:00:56about how we want to have it or our feelings
00:00:59that we have as best
00:01:01It's not a long relationship
00:01:04You can't just look at everything
00:01:07and say, now we're going to be friends
00:01:10and then it feels good
00:01:12It doesn't work to be able to get married
00:01:17I've said that it's a decision
00:01:18but you have a feeling for the person
00:01:21to be able to love him
00:01:25the time we had the case
00:01:26it was wonderful
00:01:27as I said
00:01:28you got to feel loved
00:01:30on a way that I haven't known for several years
00:01:32you talk about three years of loneliness
00:01:36Yes, I hear what you say
00:01:38but I feel like
00:01:39we don't get back to our time
00:01:42how much we even try
00:01:43and it's because we don't have the love
00:01:46to each other
00:01:48that needs
00:01:49you have through love
00:01:53I've landed very often
00:01:55that we think about our you
00:01:57as other beings
00:01:59but it isn't for me
00:02:01the trying situation
00:02:03we don't got to love
00:02:03to gendo
00:02:06so I feel like
00:02:08we cannot shake down
00:02:11so because
00:02:12we are trying to fall
00:02:12to say
00:02:12when we're both aware
00:02:13we're gonna be realized
00:02:15It doesn't exist.
00:02:19It doesn't exist.
00:02:23It doesn't exist.
00:02:24It's a really sad thing.
00:02:29We both will find our partner.
00:02:33I don't have much more to say.
00:02:39I'll remember the positive things.
00:02:45I'm wondering so.
00:02:49Let me sleep easily.
00:02:52I need to go to the toilet.
00:02:59Thanks.
00:03:05It's a shame that I and Lars-Erik have decided not to continue.
00:03:10It's a shame.
00:03:12It's a shame.
00:03:13It's also a shame.
00:03:15I know that we're not right for each other.
00:03:23I thought I had met my soulmate.
00:03:32It's a shame.
00:03:40It's a shame.
00:03:43I'm going to read a book in the Bible.
00:03:44And it's the book of Job.
00:03:46He's finished with everything he has.
00:03:48And through all tests, he's still alive.
00:03:52And it ends up with that he'll get everything back.
00:03:57And I hope it will be so for me.
00:04:01To live with hope that there might be something there for me.
00:04:09It's the end of life.
00:04:13I know I'll be in the book.
00:04:24I know.
00:04:25I've been a bit here for a few weeks.
00:04:26Now we're home.
00:04:27Now we're home.
00:04:27Or we're going to gift us.
00:04:29Then we're home.
00:04:30Then we're home.
00:04:33So.
00:04:33Yeah, that was all.
00:04:35Don't forget the ring.
00:04:37The ring...
00:04:39But that's it.
00:04:42It's done.
00:04:44This is the last boss.
00:04:46Yes, it's a game over.
00:04:50But then you've done the game, I think.
00:04:54But what happened then?
00:04:57Then we were happy together and we lived a life.
00:05:01You'll never know what happened when Maria has ridged Princess.
00:05:06No, but they might live happy all the time.
00:05:09It's funny, right?
00:05:13What are you most looking at now?
00:05:28How are you looking at my husband?
00:05:32Just now it's like I'm going to meet my friends.
00:05:35But when I come here, I think it's like my husband.
00:05:38Mm.
00:05:40I think so much about everything.
00:05:43Mm.
00:05:45I think it's going to be a few rounds in her mind.
00:05:49I think so much about how she actually feels, and if I'm right for her.
00:05:55And if she's going to be able to take such a big step.
00:05:57I think so much about everything.
00:05:59Yeah.
00:06:00But at the same time, I also think that we love each other.
00:06:04I love her, and I think that she loves me too.
00:06:07So, yeah, it's clear that she feels like she's playing so tough, but I see it through it.
00:06:17I think so.
00:06:18Come now.
00:06:19Find her.
00:06:25Shit.
00:06:28Hey, how are you?
00:06:30Hey, how are you?
00:06:32You're good.
00:06:33You're good, I'll learn to tell you.
00:06:34Same.
00:06:35Our time is up.
00:06:37How are you, Rina?
00:06:45What's up, Nore?
00:06:46Nore.
00:06:47Heard on it.
00:06:48That's good.
00:06:49Now I'm going.
00:06:51Heard on.
00:06:52Heard on.
00:07:07Heard on it.
00:07:09I'm never straight here.
00:07:11I see my blood.
00:07:12Blood.
00:07:13I can't give up.
00:07:14Now we're out so much we can.
00:07:18Stephanie!
00:07:19Now we're going.
00:07:19Now we're going.
00:07:21This day is for Angie.
00:07:24This is her last single.
00:07:25It's fucking crazy.
00:07:31There are some!
00:07:33There are some!
00:07:37There are some!
00:07:43There are some!
00:07:50There are some!
00:07:50Oh, you're good!
00:07:52You are not that.
00:07:53Let me see you!
00:07:54I'm coming, so shut down.
00:07:56And I'm with my mom.
00:07:57We're now!
00:07:58Hey!
00:08:01Go for now!
00:08:02I can't wait!
00:08:05Hello, Andy.
00:08:07You're in for a ride. You both are ready for the galda gänget to take care of you.
00:08:20I don't know if I'm ready.
00:08:30This is my hip. It's so big.
00:08:37I'm gonna see you.
00:08:38Ta den på tutten!
00:08:45Kan du inte berätta på riktigt brutalt ärligt?
00:08:49Vad har du för farvågor? Vad känns bra? Vad känns lite mindre bra?
00:08:53Det här är dina bästa vänner här.
00:08:56Det har ju varit upp och ner.
00:08:58Det ska jag inte sticka med solen med.
00:09:01Du är med i ett experiment. Det här är en del av processen.
00:09:05Nu ska vi se hur jag ska formulera mig här.
00:09:07Du ska inte tänka.
00:09:09Vad känner du helt ärligt?
00:09:11Vad känner du är lite jobbigt?
00:09:14Osäkerheter.
00:09:17Alltså, egentligen är det väl bara...
00:09:20Det är ingenting i honom som jag känner kommer att bli ett problem eller nånting.
00:09:28Nej.
00:09:29Nej, det känner jag inte.
00:09:30För han är ju verkligen...
00:09:32Alltså, han är ju allt som jag vet att jag vill ha innerst inne som jag inte har fappa.
00:09:38Nej.
00:09:38Och som jag behöver.
00:09:41Men samtidigt så här...
00:09:42Som jag pratade med dig.
00:09:43Ja.
00:09:44Och bara så här...
00:09:45Ja, men han är ju väldigt lugn.
00:09:48Jag är ju knäpp och galen och så här...
00:09:51Jag kan ju inte riktigt kanske få ut...
00:09:54Eller göra...
00:09:55Alltså...
00:09:55Det har du ju oss till.
00:09:56Ja, jag vet.
00:09:57Det var det du sa.
00:09:58Du har ju dina vänner att göra det till.
00:09:59Ja, det är fan sant.
00:10:00För jag menar, jag ska ju inte...
00:10:02Det här är ju liksom...
00:10:03Det här är ju liksom...
00:10:03Min mann och pappan till mina barn.
00:10:06Exakt.
00:10:07Har du en kille som är det här mjuka som du behöver?
00:10:11Ja, och så fick jag hin...
00:10:12Han jag blev kär i personligheten innan jag märker hur personen är i badan.
00:10:18Och hur han ser ut.
00:10:18Allt utseendet.
00:10:19Alltså, det är helt sinnessjukt.
00:10:21Ja.
00:10:21Jag känner ju att Aron och Angie är en match made in heaven.
00:10:25Det måste jag säga.
00:10:27Han har överträffat alla mina förväntningar.
00:10:28Jag blir nån sån här rör när jag pratar om det.
00:10:31Jag är så här...
00:10:31Jag blir typ gråtfärdig.
00:10:33Är du grön?
00:10:34Nej, jag är bara känslig när det gäller dig.
00:10:38Han tillför väldigt mycket lugn och harmoni.
00:10:41Och jag tror att både Angie och alla i vårt umgänge behöver det.
00:10:46Men har Aron något så svensaxe i då?
00:10:48Ja.
00:10:48Jaha.
00:10:49Alltså snälla, hon har hittat rätt nu.
00:10:51Alltså, förut så har hon gått på hög octania snubbar som är här uppe precis som hon.
00:10:56Och det är frontalkrockar.
00:10:59Det går inte.
00:10:59Det här är ju helt perfekt.
00:11:01Någon som är lugn och grundad och djup och no bullshit.
00:11:06Jag tror att det är perfekt för henne.
00:11:07Han kommer vara lite av en läromästare för henne tror jag.
00:11:13Älskar det bråd.
00:11:17Åh!
00:11:17Åh!
00:11:18Åh!
00:11:21Åh!
00:11:30Åh!
00:11:32Åh!
00:11:33And it's time for you. And it's time for you.
00:11:45Let's go for Ib and A.
00:11:49Go for A.
00:11:51Married men to be, I guess.
00:11:53It's really fun to be here.
00:11:55Have you not had any doubts during the last week?
00:11:59It's not a big doubt. It's clear that everything goes very fast.
00:12:08How much is it that you just follow a plogad way?
00:12:14It feels like it's been too bad for you to stay up, or?
00:12:17It's been good, but we haven't been able to do so many problems.
00:12:24Have you spoken once?
00:12:25It's not a small chafs, but a thing that can be solved within a hour.
00:12:32Have you ever spoken with anyone?
00:12:36We've had our spoken, and it's nice.
00:12:39We know that we can take us through it and communicate.
00:12:43It feels like we're stronger every time we have a chafs argument.
00:12:48It's not a smooth sailing, but you have to try to meet the feelings of logic.
00:12:56She can take me on the ground when I need it.
00:12:58It's no one who has done it before.
00:13:00She's like, do this, take these clothes.
00:13:03I like it because I haven't had it.
00:13:05I think it's good.
00:13:05Is it something new?
00:13:06Yes, it's new for me.
00:13:08And how they get me to feel.
00:13:10They get me to feel loved on a way I don't know.
00:13:14So, it feels really good.
00:13:17I haven't heard of them talk about a girl.
00:13:21No, I don't.
00:13:25More alcohol, what is this?
00:13:26This is for the birds.
00:13:28The birds are weak.
00:13:30You've been eating small экs.
00:13:31Are you so real loving keeping easy to meet?
00:13:33I haven't made me blush or tell you.
00:13:34Girl, I can't seem to jack myself when it can't see anything with you.
00:13:38Where were your first...
00:13:40...st 13th time I sign you'll have knut up that.
00:13:45Glimmer for the hunters?!
00:13:47Oh my god I don't know!
00:13:48Very sweet!
00:13:57What did he say he wouldn't have before he got in the program?
00:14:02He wouldn't have a musician.
00:14:06Why?
00:14:07He didn't want to have a musician before, and he didn't want to have a musician again.
00:14:11Here we are, and here we are.
00:14:15He wouldn't fly to Stockholm.
00:14:17He would go to Köping.
00:14:21He's from Tranås, but he's going to fly.
00:14:26He's going to fly to Stockholm, and he doesn't want to have a musician.
00:14:33Näsringen?
00:14:34Yes, and I didn't have it.
00:14:35He didn't have it.
00:14:39I didn't think so.
00:14:42I didn't think so much about it when I had it, and I didn't think so much about it now.
00:14:46Did you talk about the appearance?
00:14:51He knew that I had tattoos.
00:14:54I knew that he was like, how tattooed are you?
00:14:59He said it with a bit of a bit of a bit.
00:15:03He was glad that I didn't have tattoos.
00:15:05It's okay.
00:15:06It's okay.
00:15:07He's like, yeah.
00:15:08He's like, yeah.
00:15:12He loves you.
00:15:12You're like, yeah.
00:15:13I hope so.
00:15:14I hope so.
00:15:14But then he'll say, you need to go to the bathroom.
00:15:18Then he'll go to the bathroom.
00:15:22Then he'll go to the bathroom.
00:15:24Okay, then he'll go to the bathroom.
00:15:29Oh my God.
00:15:32Oh my God.
00:15:33He's like, I can't help you.
00:15:34I can't help you.
00:15:41Oh, my God.
00:15:43Oh, my God.
00:15:48Wow.
00:15:50Oh, my God.
00:15:55Are we ready?
00:15:57Are we ready?
00:16:00Are we ready?
00:16:01Woo!
00:16:02Oh, hey!
00:16:10Oh, dear!
00:16:13How are you doing?
00:16:15I don't know.
00:16:21I know what?
00:16:22Hey!
00:16:23How are you doing?
00:16:24How are you doing?
00:16:26How are you doing?
00:16:27Are you okay?
00:16:28Yes.
00:16:30How are you doing?
00:16:31How are you doing?
00:16:33Can I get married?
00:16:35I'm single.
00:16:44I want to have some juicy stuff.
00:16:46You're coming from the inside.
00:16:49We don't have anything.
00:16:50Have you heard about the bathroom?
00:16:53No.
00:16:54Tell me.
00:16:55What I heard her say in three days a week was like,
00:17:00No, he's 2.06 long.
00:17:02It doesn't work.
00:17:03It doesn't work.
00:17:04She said, my car is very little.
00:17:06He doesn't have any place.
00:17:07Ha ha ha!
00:17:08No, I'm serious.
00:17:10In three days.
00:17:11You're independent.
00:17:12You're independent.
00:17:13What are you doing?
00:17:15No.
00:17:15She's a kind of woman.
00:17:18I said, you're not going to be long.
00:17:21You're not going to be long.
00:17:23She said, no, it doesn't work.
00:17:25Okay, what are you doing?
00:17:27She said, my toilet is very little.
00:17:30She said, no, I need to buy a new house.
00:17:33I don't have a deal with a new house.
00:17:35I don't have a deal with a new house.
00:17:35Ha ha ha!
00:17:36Letar problem.
00:17:39Letar problem.
00:17:40It's not perfect.
00:17:44This experiment, now that I'm with you,
00:17:48I can trust you on the fact.
00:17:50This woman has been born for this man.
00:17:53Ha ha ha!
00:17:56It's so old.
00:17:57It's so old.
00:17:58It's so old.
00:17:59It's so old.
00:17:59It's so old.
00:18:00Ha ha ha!
00:18:02I really liked blonde and blonde.
00:18:04It's like Kalles caviar in a tube.
00:18:08It's so old.
00:18:08It's so old.
00:18:10When you see her, how you're in love.
00:18:15I'm getting a pair of love.
00:18:17It's so old.
00:18:19He's being so old.
00:18:23Be the queen.
00:18:25They're the galna.
00:18:26Just the trygness.
00:18:29You don't need to think about how you are.
00:18:32You can just be.
00:18:33You're loving it.
00:18:35It's like...
00:18:36Oh gud, you're my house.
00:18:38I can't even talk about it.
00:18:41I'm speechless.
00:18:41I'm like...
00:18:43Who is so old?
00:18:44I can't say anything.
00:18:46I'm on the bristningsgränsen.
00:18:48I'm crying for every single second.
00:18:51I love Aron.
00:18:53Aron is not exactly what she found on paper.
00:18:57But...
00:18:58It's her match.
00:19:00It's what she needs.
00:19:02What we've seen of him,
00:19:03So she'll have a smile.
00:19:04If she doesn't get a smile.
00:19:06If she doesn't get a smile.
00:19:07We're going to play a little.
00:19:08We have a picture of all of our girls.
00:19:13We have a picture of all of our girls.
00:19:26We have a smile.
00:19:29Even in my eyes.
00:19:30We're so glad I don't ask...
00:19:42We break them up.
00:19:46We comigo.
00:19:46We're ready.
00:19:47We're ready.
00:19:48We're ready.
00:19:49We're ready to talk about it.
00:19:50We're ready to talk about it.
00:19:50Angelica...
00:19:51No...
00:19:51Let's go.
00:19:52No, help me!
00:19:53How do you think about it?
00:19:55Yes.
00:19:55What the fuck are you doing?
00:19:58Really?
00:20:00We're getting married.
00:20:01We are two.
00:20:04Have you had no doubt about this man in the rest of my life?
00:20:16Have you had no doubt about it?
00:20:19It sounds so funny, but I haven't had any doubt.
00:20:23I haven't had any doubt about it.
00:20:25Have you had no doubt about it?
00:20:27Yes!
00:20:30I've had a period where I've had no doubt about it.
00:20:32But it's okay.
00:20:36I'm a person with anxiety.
00:20:40The nervousness before has taken over me so much.
00:20:44I'm afraid that it will take over me so much so that I can't feel after it.
00:20:49Yes, I understand.
00:20:52That's what I'm afraid of.
00:20:53There's a fear in this. What is real?
00:20:57Exactly.
00:20:59I'm nervous about that it's not true.
00:21:02Think about a feeling of reality when I get the question and I'm just...
00:21:09No.
00:21:10Had you ever said no and then have you ever stayed on?
00:21:14I haven't even thought about it.
00:21:17It doesn't exist.
00:21:18But if I had done it, then I knew that we could not have been able to stay on the
00:21:25next week.
00:21:25No.
00:21:26Or have you ever stayed on the next week.
00:21:30from that I say no.
00:21:32No, exactly.
00:21:35You have to do what feels right for you.
00:21:37But at the same time...
00:21:40For me,
00:21:41it's like...
00:21:43If he said no,
00:21:44I would have felt so mad.
00:21:47So mad.
00:21:49Have you said
00:21:50that you love me?
00:21:52No.
00:21:55It doesn't exist.
00:21:56It doesn't exist.
00:21:59It had to be a damn
00:22:00You had to get him.
00:22:02And I had to get him.
00:22:05Don't play
00:22:07for you
00:22:09for you
00:22:09for you
00:22:16Have you opened up your
00:22:18strongest sides?
00:22:20Yes.
00:22:22I can show you why
00:22:25why I'm weak.
00:22:26I can show you why I'm weak.
00:22:29That's it?
00:22:30I've never felt like that.
00:22:34Angelica is a
00:22:37boss bitch
00:22:38in some situations.
00:22:40But she has a
00:22:41so soft side.
00:22:43And she's so
00:22:46nice.
00:22:47That's what I've never felt before.
00:22:49I want to be better for her.
00:22:52I've never felt it.
00:22:53But it's just
00:22:54that she's so nice to see you.
00:22:59Yes.
00:22:59It feels like you and I
00:23:00are the same thing.
00:23:01Yes, I think.
00:23:03We are
00:23:03as we are.
00:23:04We are quite
00:23:05own.
00:23:06Both of you and I.
00:23:07On a lot of ways.
00:23:07Yes.
00:23:08We can't stop.
00:23:10We can't stop.
00:23:10We can't stop.
00:23:11We can't stop.
00:23:11We can't stop.
00:23:12We can't stop.
00:23:14It's so sad.
00:23:16It feels so good.
00:23:19For that often
00:23:19When it feels like it,
00:23:20it feels like it's.
00:23:21In my case,
00:23:23It's been so bad.
00:23:24If it has felt that good
00:23:25for yourself,
00:23:26it has been so bad.
00:23:27And it's been so beautiful.
00:23:31When it has been so bad,
00:23:33it's been that bad for yourself.
00:23:34Well, today.
00:25:35Hur känns det? Vad humör du var.
00:25:37Jag mår bra. Jag känner mig att jag ska dö stabilare än oss.
00:25:44Vi har varit så pirriga. Vi pratade också om hur lång tid det skulle ta innan något sånt här.
00:25:48Jag tippade på nu. Man bara, det här är så sjukt.
00:25:54Och det var så på riktigt.
00:25:57Men hur känns det då? Det regnar.
00:26:00Men det betyder tur. Det betyder tur på Brölofsdagen.
00:26:04Du ser så lugn ut.
00:26:06Du ser lugn och säker ut.
00:26:08Det spelar väl ingen roll om jag har faceplantar när jag går ner där eller någonting.
00:26:12Så länge vi säger ja liksom.
00:26:14Alltså, det är väl det viktigaste.
00:26:17Så klart.
00:26:18Tänker jag.
00:26:19Ja.
00:26:22Det är så himla känslosamt att se Anela på det här sättet.
00:26:25Jag vet inte ens om jag trodde att hon skulle kunna vara på den här nivån av lugn, lycklig, trygg
00:26:30på sin brålopsdag.
00:26:32You found him!
00:26:35Och det är så, äh, gud.
00:26:37Nu förstår man att det är rätt.
00:26:40Hon har hittat hem.
00:26:42Hon har verkligen hittat det hon sökte efter och det...
00:26:46Alltså, det är så fint.
00:26:50Det har gått så lätt.
00:26:51Jag vet inte. Det låter ju också så himla sjukt att säga, men vi har ju bara liksom...
00:26:56Det har ju varit självklart.
00:26:57Typ sen kapslarna.
00:26:58Det är som en liten sagahistoria.
00:27:01Det är.
00:27:02Det känns som slutet på en film.
00:27:04Det är nu ni reder bort till solnedgången.
00:27:07Och så zoomar de ut och så är lyckliga alla sina dagar.
00:27:09Åh, nej, ja.
00:27:13Alltså, om några timmar är du gift.
00:27:14Nej, men gud.
00:27:17Är det någonting som du känner lite orolig för nu idag?
00:27:20Men alltså, inte gäng...
00:27:21Alltså, jag är ju verkligen inte orolig över att han kommer säga nej eller nåt.
00:27:23Nej, nej, nej.
00:27:24Det känns ju...
00:27:25Nej, alltså, vi kommer säga ja, liksom.
00:27:26Alltså, verkligen så.
00:27:27Jag känner mig väldigt trygg i vad det kommer bli för svar idag, liksom.
00:27:32Det känns som att jag bara kan vara lugn i det, liksom.
00:27:35Vi ska verkligen vara vänner resten av livet.
00:27:36Ja.
00:27:38Tror du på det här förhållandet så tror vi på det också.
00:27:41Ja, ja, ja.
00:27:41En sista skål kanske, då?
00:27:42Ja.
00:27:44Skål för Ibbe som valde mig.
00:27:45Ja.
00:27:45Alltså, han är lyckligt.
00:27:48Han är lyckligt.
00:27:48Han är lyckligt bra.
00:27:49Han är lyckligt bra.
00:27:49Han är smart för den här.
00:27:50Ja, verkligen.
00:28:14Det är helt galet det jag ska gifta mig göra.
00:28:17Det känns helt otroligt.
00:28:18Jag trodde aldrig jag skulle komma hit.
00:28:21Jag gick ju in med intentionen att träffa någon.
00:28:23Jag hoppades att jag skulle träffa någon.
00:28:25Men jag trodde nog inte att det gick.
00:28:27Jag trodde inte jag skulle kunna få känslor för någon på det här sättet.
00:28:35Sen är det ju en otroligt unik situation.
00:28:37Med tanke på att det är ett experiment och att det gick ju så oerhört snabbt allting.
00:28:42Och helt plötsligt så står det här nu.
00:28:47Nej, men det känns bara helt ofattbart.
00:28:52Ja.
00:28:54Att man ska gifta sig.
00:28:58Det går inte riktigt.
00:29:00Det är svårt att ta in.
00:29:03Känslomässigt är jag där hundra procent.
00:29:05Men jag är nervös.
00:29:10Delvis för att jag skulle ha missat någonting i vår relation.
00:29:16Bara jag tänker på det så blir jag ju livrädd.
00:29:20Men, ja.
00:29:34Det förändrar ju hela mitt liv på många sätt.
00:29:37Så att man någonstans skulle få kalla fötter eller tveka någonstans på ägaren hade kanske inte varit så konstigt.
00:29:46Ja.
00:29:47Är ni nervösa?
00:29:50Nej, packade lagom.
00:29:51Jag är väl lätt.
00:29:52Hur känner du?
00:29:52Nej, jag börjar bli nervare nu.
00:29:54Jag har inte känt någonting innan nu börjar det bli ganska jobbigt.
00:29:58Jag trodde det skulle vara att man...
00:30:01Alltså, innan jag cirkade in experimentet så trodde jag nog att...
00:30:05Jag ville ju nå så långt som man borde ha gjort.
00:30:08När man ska gifta sig.
00:30:10Mm.
00:30:10Alltså, vi känner ju inte varandra.
00:30:12Nej.
00:30:13Så när ni är gifta, ni känner ju varandra utan att innehåg liksom.
00:30:17Ja, det blir egentligen så.
00:30:19Och då har ni ju det framför er.
00:30:21Det är ju nästan lite som att du vet, ha kakan och äta den också.
00:30:24Ja, jag tänker på...
00:30:25Alltså, de borde vara gifta men även ha mycket av det framför sig.
00:30:30Och jag tror inte det behöver vara...
00:30:32Dåligt.
00:30:33Nej.
00:30:34Det impulserade ligger lite bakom er.
00:30:36Alltså, det som har hänt sedan ni gick in i de här experimenten, det är ju inte så impulsivt liksom.
00:30:45Han brukar vara lite snabbare kanske.
00:30:48Lite rappare i käften än vad han var idag.
00:30:51Man märker att det går ont lite grejer i huvudet på honom.
00:30:55Man vet ju aldrig om han har någon osäkerhet eller oro.
00:31:01Men...
00:31:03Ja, det är väl förväntat.
00:31:07Men känner du dig helt säker när du går fram till altaret nu?
00:31:10Nej, nej, nej.
00:31:15Jag säger, ibland kan man ju bara dyka upp en tanke och tänka om liksom...
00:31:19Man får panik och inser att...
00:31:21...vad man håller på med typ.
00:31:23Ja, och så känner man kanske att man inte kan säga ja.
00:31:28Absolut, ibland så kommer det lite sen.
00:31:31Det är ändå där vi splirar.
00:31:35Mm.
00:31:36Läva splirar.
00:31:41Jag tror i efterhand kan jag känna att på ett sätt att det var lite naivt att tro att man
00:31:45skulle ha nått så långt och känna så pass mycket och känna sig så säker som man skulle gjort om
00:31:50man gifte sig i vanliga fall och hade känt någon i flera år.
00:31:54Relationsmässigt så är det lite naivt att tro att man skulle ha tagit sig igenom allting för att veta om
00:32:01det går att leva ihop för alltid lite såklart.
00:32:04Hej, hej.
00:32:07Hej, älskade gulla.
00:32:10Hej, hur känns det?
00:32:12Jättebra.
00:32:13Hej.
00:32:14Tack, gaj, tack, gaj.
00:32:15Vad härlig.
00:32:16Hej, vad mycket.
00:32:17Hej, vad mycket.
00:32:19Gud, jag känner den vid ett jättestor.
00:32:20Ja, men alltså jag är också nervös.
00:32:23Jag känner mig trygg och säker på det här.
00:32:26Det...
00:32:26Ja.
00:32:30Han kan ju söna i.
00:32:37Han sov lite dåligt en natt och var lite nervös och sen så har han börjat tänkt om och bara...
00:32:41Nej.
00:32:43Då...
00:32:44Nej.
00:32:45Det tror jag inte.
00:32:46Det känns väldigt säkert faktiskt.
00:32:50Mm.
00:32:56Den mest skrämmande tanken just nu är ju ifall Ibe skulle säga nej.
00:33:01Såklart.
00:33:01Och det är en tanke jag inte ens vill tänka och jag tänker att den inte ens finns.
00:33:05Jag hade blivit...
00:33:06Alltså...
00:33:07Så oerhört sårad om det hade.
00:33:12Hej, Ibe.
00:33:13Hej, Ibe.
00:33:49Hej, Ibe.
00:34:24Hej, Ibe.
00:34:26Hej, Ibe.
00:34:28Hej, Ibe.
00:34:29Hej, Ibe.
00:34:30Hej, ibe.
00:35:00I have a great show.
00:35:03So this is when it rains.
00:35:06What a dream!
00:35:09What a dream day for you.
00:35:13How do you feel?
00:35:16I'm a little nervous.
00:35:18It's so beautiful.
00:35:20It's so beautiful.
00:35:23Here I sit here.
00:35:24It feels good.
00:35:26Yes it does.
00:35:28You're so beautiful.
00:35:30I'm so glad you're here.
00:35:32I love you.
00:35:34I love you.
00:35:58Oh, my Fu...
00:36:06I love you.
00:36:07I love it.
00:36:19I love you.
00:36:34Ibrahim, Aniela,
00:36:35this is a special day and special time
00:36:39and I know that you feel it in the depths of your hearts.
00:36:45Kärlek, gladness and hope have led you to come here today
00:36:49as you are forgiven.
00:36:51And you are here with us to show
00:36:54if you want to take care of each other.
00:36:58My lot has said during your journey together.
00:37:02And now you have the opportunity to share
00:37:04what you feel in this moment
00:37:07and what you feel for each other.
00:37:12Aniela, you will start.
00:37:14Varsågod.
00:37:21When I went to this experiment for six weeks ago
00:37:24I had so much hope to meet the man in my life.
00:37:28He would stand there, talk with me and sometimes talk to me.
00:37:33He would have the same power and envy as myself
00:37:36and that would do that we could achieve even more.
00:37:39He would have made me feel the same as I am.
00:37:43And now we are here together
00:37:45and I look back on our journey
00:37:46so I see you have all of my egenskaper.
00:37:52I think I've never met someone who sees me on the way I am.
00:37:56Someone who is so happy,
00:37:57and reliable,
00:37:58but also sprallig like a golden retrieval.
00:38:04There is no other thing I can think of
00:38:06that I would have done these weeks with.
00:38:08And despite the fact that the experiment is done,
00:38:11it's just for me to start us on our journey.
00:38:14For now when I've found you
00:38:15so I can't think of myself without you.
00:38:18I've said many times in this experiment
00:38:20that a good relationship for me
00:38:21is to choose each other every day.
00:38:23Not every day, but every day.
00:38:27And I promise you that I will always choose you.
00:38:32There are a thousand things I want to say
00:38:33to describe what I feel for you.
00:38:35But I've always been better to describe myself in music
00:38:38than just words.
00:38:40And that's why I chose to write a song to you
00:38:43that describes how much I felt for you.
00:38:46even though I haven't even seen it again.
00:38:49And the song was a start to our journey.
00:38:53And since I've heard the song last time,
00:38:55I think I'll say yes now.
00:38:59So now I'm going to end up with this song.
00:39:04I'm going to end up with this song.
00:39:23I spent last night thinking about the shape of your lips,
00:39:28how they smile towards me, how they failed to be kissed.
00:39:32Oh, darling, wishing you would be here now.
00:39:40I spent last night thinking about your hand in my hand.
00:39:45Still don't know your face, but you look good in my head.
00:39:49Oh, darling, I know we will figure it out.
00:39:57I know love is clueless.
00:40:01It can feel pretty wild.
00:40:05Sometimes love has patience, but I start to lose mind.
00:40:13Yeah, I know love is crazy.
00:40:16I never knew it was blind.
00:40:21I know that love is crazy.
00:40:26And now I know that it's blind.
00:40:29I know that it's blind.
00:40:59Angela, when I came in with this experiment,
00:41:02there was still a certain hope.
00:41:04A part of me thought that it could go to meet someone on this way.
00:41:08But another, a more cynical part,
00:41:10the one who liked control, logic and clear answers,
00:41:12thought, we'll see how it will be.
00:41:15I was open, but also reserved.
00:41:20Then I met you.
00:41:21The camera disappeared.
00:41:23The head was silent, and my inner skeptic,
00:41:25who wanted to have evidence for everything,
00:41:27started listening.
00:41:30We could have taken care of music,
00:41:32to be honest with each other.
00:41:34And I, who normally analyzes everything in absurdum,
00:41:37free it.
00:41:40It was the most logical,
00:41:42and the most clear that others did.
00:41:46You're not just warm and thinkable,
00:41:48but you carry on a calm and calm,
00:41:52you're strong, but never hard.
00:41:54You're restless, but never slow.
00:41:56You show your feelings,
00:41:57without letting them go over.
00:41:59And you've learned me to stay steady,
00:42:01even when it's stormed.
00:42:03You've learned me a lot about love,
00:42:05not through big words,
00:42:06but through the way you see me,
00:42:08listen,
00:42:09and that you're still alive.
00:42:13And I'm so grateful for that I've met you.
00:42:27Now has time come to know
00:42:29if the blind person is blind.
00:42:35I ask you now,
00:42:39do you want Emma,
00:42:42Aniela Eklund,
00:42:44take Ibrahim,
00:42:45Andreas,
00:42:46Cass,
00:42:47Gargi,
00:42:48to your man
00:42:49to love him
00:42:50in love and love?
00:42:58You must.
00:42:59it will be.
00:43:00Sure.
00:43:03of course.
00:43:04Yeah,
00:43:15it will be.
00:43:17Totally.
00:43:18Andreas Kass Gerg, ta Emma Angela Eklund till din hustru att älska henne i nöd och lust.
00:43:48Ask me to.
00:44:00Yo.
00:44:18Are we too fast now?
00:44:27With this, I'll explain this to me...
00:44:30...fereckta maka.
00:44:49We are gifta!
00:44:51We are gifta!
00:44:53We are gifta.
00:44:54We are gifta.
00:44:55We should not admire you.
00:44:58I don't know.
00:45:04This is Fru Gaggy.
00:45:06This is Fru Gaggy.
00:45:08What do you think?
00:45:09What have you done?
00:45:11I don't know.
00:45:12I don't know.
00:45:17Fru Gaggy is so happy.
00:45:20You are so happy.
00:45:20You are happy to be so happy.
00:45:24Let's go.
00:45:42We are filled with a kiss.
00:45:43Because if we are honest.
00:45:45Even when we sat like star-crossed lovers.
00:45:49We took it in our stride.
00:45:52And alchemized the night.
00:45:54My love.
00:45:57We are so happy.
00:46:00It feels so sad.
00:46:01It feels so sad that we are here.
00:46:02It is more than what I expected.
00:46:06It would feel like it would be.
00:46:07There is no other thing I would want to do this.
00:46:10It would be very bad.
00:46:12Then it will be very bad.
00:46:13No!
00:46:16I'm sorry.
00:46:19How are you?
00:46:20How are you doing?
00:46:21It's not a holiday.
00:46:22There is something extra with this.
00:46:25If we take the steps.
00:46:26We choose each other.
00:46:28On a way above all.
00:46:32There is always a chance.
00:46:34She can call her.
00:46:35She is a scary person.
00:46:38She thinks a lot.
00:46:40But it is not my feeling.
00:46:42It feels like we are completely clear.
00:46:46It is us.
00:46:48And she is here.
00:46:49She is my person.
00:46:51She is the best I have seen.
00:46:54In and out.
00:46:56You don't understand?
00:46:57She is the most magical person I have met in my life.
00:47:02Did you feel her throughout the journey?
00:47:04Or did you feel her?
00:47:06Yes.
00:47:07It is of course.
00:47:09Are we really compatible?
00:47:11It works 100%.
00:47:13But I never want to be with her.
00:47:16We love each other.
00:47:18And she has such a warm heart.
00:47:20She is such a beautiful person.
00:47:23And she has so much potential.
00:47:25She has so much in her.
00:47:27And there is something in her that I am just there for.
00:47:31And for such a person.
00:47:34I want to give her the world.
00:47:37I choose her.
00:47:38I want to be with her.
00:47:40I want to give her everything.
00:47:41I want to give her everything.
00:47:42I want to give her everything for the woman.
00:47:45The experiment works.
00:47:48It is incredible.
00:47:49And it is the best I have done in my life.
00:47:54It is time to stand there.
00:47:56And say her last words as a single man.
00:48:02It feels so good.
00:48:06It feels so good.
00:48:07But it feels so good.
00:48:09Jan Amos is that she is the best.
00:48:10How is she?
00:48:16She is the best.
00:48:36She has a new life.
00:48:37Then she is the best.
00:48:51Hey!
00:49:00Come on.
00:49:07My little heart, it's not good. It'll be great.
00:49:13It's a lot of feelings.
00:49:16It's the same heart.
00:49:20It'll be great.
00:49:22If you start to cry, I'll also cry.
00:49:25I'll see you.
00:49:27All will be great.
00:49:29Set it.
00:49:30Set it.
00:49:32How does it feel if you just let your feelings out?
00:49:38It feels really bad that I'm going to get married.
00:49:44But when I come home, it's so scary.
00:49:50I've had a worry about how it's going to get married.
00:49:56Mm.
00:49:57And that's what I'm not going to feel.
00:50:04There were a lot of feelings on the stomach.
00:50:08People were so glad for my skull.
00:50:11For example, Julia was so glad and cried.
00:50:16And then I felt like, why don't I cry? Why don't I feel like she's feeling like that?
00:50:21Mm.
00:50:22And it was like...
00:50:24Alla overröste liksom med lycka, kärlek, att det kommer bli så bra.
00:50:29Och då var jag såhär bara, ja, det kommer bli bra.
00:50:32Men sen så kände jag...
00:50:34Alltså om jag ska vara ärlig mot mig själv...
00:50:37Jag tror inte att jag kände så som det ska kännas på en smöhippa.
00:50:42Mm.
00:50:42Jag var glad för att ni var där.
00:50:45Mm.
00:50:46Men jag...
00:50:49...kände nog inte...
00:50:50...det man ska känna.
00:50:55Men Annelika, inte för att lägga någon press på dig.
00:51:00Men tänk till här, att vara så nära ett bröllop överhuvudtaget, det skapar ju så mycket känslor.
00:51:10Ja.
00:51:11Ångest och glädje och allting, så att det är klart att det är säkert på mycket press och stress att
00:51:15du ska gifta dig till din livspartner och tjänsten.
00:51:19Det som ni har gjort på, vad är det, fem veckor, det är liksom vad en normal människa gör på
00:51:23fem år.
00:51:24Mm.
00:51:25Så att så mycket känslor och toppar och dalar man kommer in i, det är ju helt galet.
00:51:31Mm.
00:51:32Så att det sker ju mycket i kroppen och i tankarna och känslorna och så bröllopet och din press och
00:51:37jag känner ju dig.
00:51:39Det är ju verkligen, det är ju toppar och dalar och när någonting blir stressigt och är det ju jobbigt
00:51:43liksom.
00:51:44Så att kanske när allting är över och det är bara ni och ni liksom kan prata om saker som
00:51:48ni kanske inte har hunnit göra nu.
00:51:49Det är ju säkert bara bröllopnärvorna just här och nu.
00:51:53Men det kommer ju släppa det också sen.
00:51:55Men vi har ju haft lite så när vi har pratat om känslor och det är klart att allt kan
00:51:59ju inte vara perfekt, det kommer ju inte vara med någon.
00:52:01Det kommer ju alltid vara små saker som stör en eller som inte är så här, okej det var inte
00:52:05exakt så jag hade tänkt mig men de här små sakerna kan man se över eller så här, det där
00:52:09kommer ändå lösa sig.
00:52:10Det är väl också det som är kärlek.
00:52:12Ja, att det är lite upp och ner att man stör sig på någonting eller allt är inte hundra, det
00:52:18är sånt man löser för så är äktenskap eller ett förhållande eller vänskap eller vad som helst.
00:52:23Men det har ju väl varit lite så på vägen också och man har haft lite tvivel och sådär och
00:52:27sen har han ju träffat alla oss och det har ju varit verkligen så.
00:52:29Så passar det i kompisgruppen och vi tycker att han är superhärlig och vi vill att det ska gå bra
00:52:35liksom för att vi tycker om honom jättemycket.
00:52:38Och jag som har umgåts med dig och Aron vet ju att ni har så stark kärlek för varandra, det
00:52:43är ingen tvivel.
00:52:44Och jag förstår det för Aron är en fantastisk man på så många plan, han är en fin man.
00:52:53Verkligen, en otroligt bra människa.
00:52:55Ja, ni är två fantastiska människor här. Ni har gjort den här fantastiska resan tillsammans och hittat massa egenskaper hos
00:53:03varandra som ni kommer kunna ha nytta av sen.
00:53:07Och det vet jag att du vet också.
00:53:09Ja.
00:53:09Du har ju glittrat när du är runt om honom.
00:53:13Alltså, verkligen.
00:53:15Det är liksom, alltså han som person har ju liksom varit helt nytt för mig.
00:53:21Eh, och det har ju verkligen gett mig den här känslan av att känna mig älskad på riktigt och för
00:53:29hela mig.
00:53:30Och det är liksom, jag tänker att det är omöjligt men det är det ju inte.
00:53:36Så att, eh...
00:53:40Ibland är det svårt att prata om det man tycker är jobbigt för man vill inte vara tyngd på någon.
00:53:46Exakt.
00:53:46Där är du väldigt bra på att stänga av.
00:53:49Och Aron är en underbar person, han är klok. Så det är viktigt att ni får prata med alla.
00:53:55Jag ska prata med honom och säga hur jag känner.
00:53:57Så, eh, hoppas jag att allt igen blir bra.
00:54:01Och så är det lite typiskt dig och man people pleaser, så det är ju bra att du gör det
00:54:04du verkligen känner nu.
00:54:05Mm.
00:54:05Och inte går efter det som du tänker att alla andra vill att du ska göra, liksom.
00:54:09Det är det.
00:54:10Mm.
00:54:10Alla gånger.
00:54:18Alla gånger.
00:54:39Alla gånger.
00:54:40Hey.
00:54:43Hey.
00:54:49Hey.
00:54:50Hey.
00:54:55Sjukt.
00:54:59I'm going to sit here.
00:55:01Oh, super long.
00:55:05I'm going to have a sauna.
00:55:10I'm going to sit here.
00:55:12It works.
00:55:15How do you feel?
00:55:17It's fine.
00:55:19Yeah, it's really nice.
00:55:22Now you've got time to go back to everything.
00:55:27It was you from the beginning.
00:55:33You gave me the good energy.
00:55:37I felt confident.
00:55:41I got stuck.
00:55:43You had something I'm not used to.
00:55:46You were so close to your feelings.
00:55:49We could talk very quickly.
00:55:52We are very different.
00:55:55But you got to realize that I need the sides you have.
00:56:02And the other sides that we're looking at.
00:56:11What are those things?
00:56:14Yes.
00:56:16You are very calm.
00:56:19And I appreciate that.
00:56:21That's what I love for you.
00:56:23That's what I love for you.
00:56:26Even though I can be a lot.
00:56:30And I don't really feel like we are meeting there.
00:56:34I don't feel like I can be the foolish and foolish side.
00:56:42I'm full of you.
00:56:47And then I've been recognized from others that it doesn't need it.
00:56:53You can find it in your friends.
00:56:56But at the same time, it's me who is in this.
00:57:05So that...
00:57:07Yeah, it just feels like it's not right.
00:57:19And I don't want to just get married.
00:57:22I just want to just get married for you.
00:57:24So that I understand that for you it's a sudden.
00:57:29And that I'm so sad for you.
00:57:33But it's not right.
00:57:35It's either for you or for yourself.
00:57:38Even though I know that you can love me.
00:57:42So I want to also give you the same to you.
00:57:47And I don't feel like I'm there.
00:57:52You can't take me, you can't break me
00:57:56You can't make me, you can't fake me
00:58:01All I need is to be free
00:58:12What's your answer to this question?
00:58:19De gånger du har legat bredvid mig och sagt att jag är det finaste, du vet att du älskar mig
00:58:25Har du inte känt så?
00:58:29Jo, känslorna är ju där
00:58:31Jag älskar dig och jag är kär i dig
00:58:36Men jag är inte tillräckligt kär för att ta steg och gifta sig
00:58:44Så det är absolut inte att du har gjort någonting fel
00:58:48Utan det är mer att jag inte känner att det är rätt
00:58:53Och jag är jättebesviken på mig själv över att jag inte kunde komma där känslomässigt
00:58:59Men jag kan liksom inte styra mina känslor, det går ju inte
00:59:03Och känns det inte rätt så gör det inte det, jag kan inte göra så mycket åt det
00:59:08Så att jag tog det valet själv och jag ber om ursäkt för det
00:59:15Och jag känner mig som en hemsk människa och det känns som att jag liksom sviker
00:59:21Jag vet inte vad du vill, jag vet inte vad du menar
00:59:25Jag fattar, du vill inte gifta dig, det beslutet har du tagit
00:59:30Exakt, och jag vill ta i tur med de här känslor jag har nu efter att ha gjort det här
00:59:35valet
00:59:36Alltså jag mår ju liksom inte bra över valet
00:59:40Jag måste liksom få smälta det här innan jag kan säga någonting om vad jag vill för att jag vet
00:59:48inte
00:59:48Jag har svårt att förstå hur du kan säga att du kär mig
00:59:50Men samtidigt vill du inte vara med mig
00:59:52Det är ju det jag sa
00:59:54Jag kan liksom inte ha tagit det här beslutet och sen bara gå tillbaka till det vanliga som vi hade
00:59:58innan
00:59:58Det kan inte jag göra för att det här är jobbigt för mig
01:00:01Jag måste få smälta det först innan jag ska gå in i det här igen och se vad jag känner
01:00:06Eller om det ens, om jag ens kan säga att jag vill träffa dig igen
01:00:09Och jag vill verkligen att du bara respekterar att jag inte kan säga ja eller nej
01:00:14Nej, jag respekterar det, såklart
01:00:17Jag har inte förstå hur du kan säga att du är kär i mig
01:00:20Men du samtidigt säger att du inte vill vara med mig
01:00:23Du sa ju det, men du lyssnar ju inte
01:00:25Du har hela tiden sagt till mig att det värsta vet är om man går från hundra till noll
01:00:31Och du gjorde exakt det med mig
01:00:34Och det är så svårt för mig att fatta
01:00:37Fast det är inte att jag har gått hundra från noll
01:00:40Jag har bara tagit det här beslutet, det betyder inte att jag inte är kär i dig
01:00:44Det har jag inte sagt
01:00:45Det jag inte förstår är hur man kan vara så kärleksfull med någon
01:00:52Och sen
01:00:57Bara så inte
01:00:59Att du inte då känner nu att du fortfarande vill vara med mig
01:01:04Jag kan inte förstå det från mitt eget perspektiv
01:01:12Varför har du sagt det?
01:01:14Vad did I do to deserve this pain?
01:01:21Jag vill ju vara med dig
01:01:22Och det är det som för mig blir så konstigt
01:01:24För jag trodde verkligen att vi hade något så starkt
01:01:27Så det gör mig jätteledsen
01:01:33Vi skulle ha haft den här glädjefyllda dagen
01:01:38Med massa kärlek
01:01:40För att här skulle man kunna sitta och vara gifta
01:01:48Just precis nu
01:01:50Och jag hoppades att det här var personen jag skulle bygga en framtid med
01:01:58Och att jag, så jag ville ju ge henne världen
01:02:02Det var så jag kände
01:02:17Det gör mig ledsen också såklart
01:02:21Det fattar jag inte
01:02:25Men jag
01:02:31Jag ville bara
01:02:34Förstå
01:02:36Nu blir det bara pannkaka
01:02:37Jag orkar inte mer
01:02:40Nu orkar jag inte prata längre
01:03:04Jag eller bara
01:03:06Jag vill bara
01:03:09Förstå
01:03:29Förstå
01:03:55I don't want to go back, I just want to go back.
01:04:00It's really good.
01:04:02It's really good.
01:04:04But also really good.
01:04:06But also really good.
01:04:07Really good.
01:04:12I love you.
01:04:23I love you.
01:04:28That was good.
01:04:29That was good, right?
01:04:30Yeah.
01:04:36We shine like stars in the sky
01:04:38Like rolling candles in your night
01:04:41We turn the dark into blaze
01:04:44This is our golden age
01:04:46Shake on the world with you
01:04:48Let's stop and take in the view
01:04:51See it winds on with the wave
01:04:53This is our golden age
01:04:58Our golden age
01:05:03Our golden age
01:05:08Our golden age
01:05:10Our golden age
01:05:11Our golden age
01:05:12Our golden age
01:05:13Our golden age
01:05:28You
01:06:01You
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