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00:00Previously on 90 Day The Single Life.
00:03I've never gone past kissing a woman before.
00:06I think Rebecca's very beautiful.
00:09We bide really well, and it gives me hope.
00:12I am down to see, like, where you and I can go.
00:14Yeah?
00:14Yeah, I am, yeah.
00:18If me moving to Florida and you not.
00:21Yeah, you moving to Florida is a deal breaker.
00:23Enjoy your life with your ex.
00:25It sounds like you two will be very happy together in Florida.
00:28I'm not looking for a boyfriend.
00:31I'm not looking for a buddy.
00:32I'm looking for a husband.
00:39It's definitely a memorable first date.
00:42I had such a great time with Dan.
00:44I would like to see you again.
00:46Aww.
00:47But any time Ronald catches me on the phone,
00:49he tries to reel me back in.
00:51My love for you is so strong.
00:53You don't miss me?
00:59Oh, my God.
01:01I do want to see Michael, but it's very confusing for me.
01:32It's been about a week since I went on my date with Dan.
01:35And the chemistry was just flying.
01:38It was great.
01:40But things just got so much more complicated.
01:46Last night, I got a message from Ronald.
01:49And it said, can you please bring the kids to South Africa?
01:53I really want to see them.
01:54It's been long enough.
01:56I love you, and I miss you.
01:59He hasn't seen the kids in over a year.
02:02But I know what he's doing.
02:03And I know this is his way of trying to get us back together.
02:08To hear these things definitely messes with my feelings a lot.
02:12But I have to come back to reality and realize that these are just words.
02:23Hi, friend.
02:25Hey.
02:27How's it going?
02:28Good.
02:30My friend Angelique knows my entire history with Ronald.
02:33So she can give me a reality check.
02:35Because I feel like I'm not thinking straight right now.
02:38What's going on?
02:40I've just been really stressed out.
02:44Why?
02:45You know, I'm pushing myself to go out there.
02:47Because I do want to move on.
02:49There was this one guy, Dan.
02:50Super sweet.
02:51I feel like there's something there that could definitely grow.
02:55And I don't know.
02:59I'm scared.
03:00I don't know what the to do.
03:03Why are you scared to let somebody treat you well?
03:09So Ronald texted me saying he wants me to bring the kids to South Africa.
03:14And afterwards he goes, I love you.
03:16I miss you.
03:17So I'm like, what is motivating you to even consider going to South Africa?
03:25Honestly, I have that guilt of like, Carly has not seen her dad in over a year.
03:31I hate that we're in two separate countries.
03:33Because it's not like her dad is here in Nebraska.
03:37Or like, you know what?
03:38I'll get on a quick flight, take her, and then come back.
03:40It's like the other side of the world.
03:43It's always going to be my responsibility.
03:46I get to decide whether they have a relationship or not.
03:49I want Carly to have a relationship with him.
03:53But I just don't know.
03:54I don't know.
03:55This is so confusing.
03:58I really do want Carly to see her dad.
04:01But if I do consider going to South Africa, what's that going to do to me?
04:05Is that going to make me take steps backwards?
04:07Is that going to make me fall back into like trying to fix things with Ronald?
04:10I don't know.
04:13If you go over there and you're separated, are you staying in his house in a separate room?
04:19Are you going into his mom's?
04:21Do you want to be putting yourself in a situation where you're vulnerable?
04:25Like, I don't understand how that, how it's going to work.
04:31I have no idea, like at all.
04:34I haven't even thought about that.
04:35Like, I don't know what to do.
04:40I thought that Tiffany and Ronald separating was probably for the best.
04:44Their relationship was really tumultuous.
04:46And my biggest fear is that by going back to South Africa,
04:49she's just going to fall into those patterns of loving him and wanting to be there for him.
04:54Instead of thinking about what's best for her.
04:59I feel like the only difference now is he's like realized, like finally,
05:04in the long run, where his faults were.
05:07He's very apologetic.
05:09If Ronald has actually changed, then maybe it could work.
05:14But at the same time, I want to see you grow as a person.
05:18I want to see you take a chance on something that could be better for you.
05:24You really need to do some soul searching and figure out what is best for Tiffany for once.
05:31If I do go to South Africa, I'm going to see my husband that I haven't seen in over a
05:37year.
05:39And I'm not sure I'm ready for that.
05:42My worst fear is that I see Ronald and I'll just see the guy that I love
05:47and just immediately fall right back into fixing things with him.
05:51No matter what I do, the f***ing outcome is huge.
06:08Take my words right from my mouth.
06:12Kiss me, love me, shout it out.
06:20Oh my god.
06:22I don't know.
06:30I'm about to see Michael after one year.
06:33And I feel like a lot of emotions because I never thought I would be coming back.
06:39It's a huge deal.
06:48Hi.
06:51Come on, you brought me flowers?
07:08Come on, you can say.
07:11When I see the trailer, all memories come back to me of my life, Joe and Michael.
07:20You have all your Bibles and stuff right here.
07:22Mm-hmm.
07:23Oh, what is that?
07:25Those are piggy banks.
07:26Oh, she moved in.
07:28Uh, yeah.
07:29How does she feel?
07:30She likes it here.
07:31It's definitely a change for her, you know?
07:34I didn't know Trish was leaving with him.
07:39I hope we don't have to see her.
07:43Trish caused a trouble to me, honestly.
07:45And Trish wants to possess and control Michael and what is around.
07:49Oh, my chrysa.
07:53She's so big now.
07:56Oh, hi, boobuchko, hi.
07:58Can we go outside?
07:59Yeah.
08:01Oh, it's so beautiful now.
08:06Being back with Michael now, I feel like I was very legendary for him.
08:12I was a legendary woman for Michael.
08:14Because he never met anyone like me, and I don't think he will ever meet.
08:19And for Michael, I was the best.
08:22For Josh, uh, he doesn't give me this feeling.
08:34She hasn't seen you in forever.
08:38Lots of stuff going on inside right now, different emotions and stuff.
08:42You want to have a seat?
08:43Yes.
08:44I would hope, uh, she knows how much she hurt me, you know?
08:48There's a lot of pain there.
08:51So I'm just going to take it, uh, one minute at a time right now.
08:59So how have things been?
09:01Fine, I'm fine.
09:03I was so stressed when I was coming here.
09:04I was like, how will I feel?
09:06What will I feel?
09:08Yeah?
09:09Why did you end up wanting to come up here?
09:12I wanted to see you.
09:15Honestly, when you told me that you're going to divorce me,
09:19it hurt a lot.
09:20You break my heart.
09:21I cried like crazy.
09:24And we didn't talk after.
09:27And after the war started, and you were the first person
09:31who actually reached out to me and support me.
09:35I'm glad I was able to at least, you know, try to help you and your mom out, you know?
09:39Yeah?
09:46I remember, like, when I left, I was very angry with you.
09:52And because, you know, I came to America, COVID started.
09:57We never had vacation, never had anything good.
09:59We had a lot of pain, a lot of fights.
10:05I remember, Natalie.
10:08The road has definitely been bumpy for us.
10:11Michael, it was not your fault.
10:13I went through emotional breakdown.
10:15I lost my confidence.
10:16I was overweight.
10:17I was depressed.
10:18I was angry, mean.
10:19So many stuff.
10:20And I needed time just, you know, step away.
10:23It took a while to normalize myself until I was ready to be able to, you know, let it go.
10:32I'm glad that you worked on your problems and stuff.
10:35But you did hurt me a lot.
10:39You just up and left.
10:43You know, you said you wanted to take a break.
10:46And then all of a sudden, you moved to Florida.
10:49And while you ran off, it seemed like you were having a lot of fun dating people.
10:56I was still here struggling by myself, day in and day out.
11:02I know you were going through hard times, too.
11:04But I was also going through some really, really hard times.
11:09I, uh, withdrew myself from everyone for a while.
11:12And, uh, yeah.
11:16I mean, we got married right here 10 feet away from us, you know.
11:26It was tough.
11:31I'm sorry.
11:34I'm sorry that I left.
11:37I'm sorry.
11:39Appreciate that.
11:41It was my mistake.
11:44But, Michael, we had a good start.
11:46Weren't we happy?
11:48Well, I was really happy in the beginning, Natalie.
11:51I never wanted to divorce with you.
11:53Never.
11:56I can't take you all out of my life.
12:00You left, Natalie.
12:04Michael, I love you.
12:08We'll always have love for each other, Natalie.
12:10I could move back.
12:13I could move back.
12:41I could move back.
12:41I got to stick with the floor.
12:49I went out on my first date with a woman, and it went really damn well.
12:54Do you feel ready?
12:56No, but go ahead.
13:01Rebecca and I tried to make plans, but it didn't work because she's leaving in just a couple days.
13:08However, I feel like I overcame my fears, and I'm ready to keep exploring.
13:21Today, Dre and I are having lunch with Kate. I became friends with Kate soon after arriving on the island.
13:28I haven't seen her since Johnny's party, and I'm excited to fill Kate in with everything.
13:34So that was a such a nice little spot that Johnny got.
13:38Yeah, I loved it. It was so much fun.
13:40Yeah.
13:44So anybody stand out to you at the party?
13:48Daphne, it was really pretty.
13:50Yeah.
13:52And that's kind of a...
13:55Yeah.
13:57What is that about?
13:58Oh yeah, we haven't talked.
14:00Yeah.
14:00No.
14:03Well, you know, like I just like there are different things I want to try.
14:06Just opening up to new experiences.
14:11Yeah.
14:12And I've never been with a woman.
14:15How does that work? Like, are you...
14:17I don't know how it works.
14:18I'm all new to this.
14:19Yeah.
14:20So, you know what?
14:21I actually went on my first date with a woman, but she's leaving in just a couple days.
14:26I'm mad it wasn't a potential.
14:27That's the only thing I'm mad about.
14:29You know, I was attracted to her and maybe it could have been, but we don't know.
14:33And is that something that you feel is like aligning with what you want in life?
14:42Because you are still married.
14:47Mentally and emotionally, I'm divorced.
14:49I just don't understand what the holdup is.
14:51Wait, so you guys aren't working towards that?
14:54There's no working towards that.
14:56I didn't know if you were signing papers.
14:57I literally could go to the courthouse and just say,
14:59hey, can I get a no-contestant divorce thing?
15:01I sign it, send it to Sinjin, he'll sign it.
15:03Yeah.
15:03I just haven't done it yet.
15:08I didn't know that they haven't signed those papers.
15:10That's news to me.
15:12Me personally, I would want the man or the woman who I'm with to be officially over and done with.
15:20Because if you still have a legal attachment to them, I feel like that's a little strange.
15:25If it didn't work, why hold on to it?
15:29I don't care about legal papers at all in the least bit sense.
15:33But don't you think if you're entering a new relationship that that's kind of like
15:37residual that would be creeping into anything new?
15:42I don't get this excuse about paperwork is just paperwork.
15:46She still wants to hold on without actually holding on.
15:52It's just weird because, I don't know, it just makes me feel like maybe this isn't something that
15:58you're done and over with.
16:01It's still a legal attachment that you have.
16:04I don't give a about legal attachment.
16:05I don't.
16:06But it is.
16:08Are you going to end up in a situation where you're just stuck and then years and years go by?
16:15Just don't miss out.
16:19Moving on from my marriage is taking time.
16:23Because maybe I'm not actually over my ex.
16:49I am so disappointed with how my relationship with Justin ended.
16:53It's another person that seemed like such a nice guy, but who turned out to be a jerk.
16:58If even the nice guys are ass , then like, who? Who is out there?
17:09Ugh, I really hope Tim is not an ass .
17:13If there was ever a day he was going to be nice to me, today's the day.
17:20I told Tim that I wanted to establish boundaries with our friendship.
17:24But we went from this one-week no-contact trial period to just not talking hardly at all.
17:30Like, that's not what I was asking for.
17:34Tim took it to the extreme and I just feel abandoned.
17:40But I need him. Like, I need, need, need him right now.
17:44So I've asked him to meet up with me.
17:53Oh my god.
17:57So apropos.
18:02Have you missed each other?
18:04Yeah, I'm, I'm genuinely excited to see Veronica.
18:07I mean, there's some things about Veronica that I miss and some things I don't.
18:10I've missed you.
18:11You have to make adjustments in life sometimes.
18:13It like, it takes time to get adapted to.
18:15Mm-hmm. I'm never going to get adapted to it.
18:20Welcome.
18:21So, you know, we can boss some stuff up, get in a nice, good mood.
18:27I'm, I'm hopefully going to get there.
18:29You should probably put your purse down.
18:33Oh.
18:41That sounded good.
18:43It did.
18:45Woo, you, Justin.
18:47I have just built up this, like, anger cloud over me.
18:54So, smashing things is very gratifying.
19:00I'm just like, you, Justin.
19:03I'm busy.
19:05Your lack of affection.
19:08Making me beg for it.
19:10Woo.
19:11You, Tim.
19:13You, my ex.
19:14You, my other ex.
19:19Like, just it all.
19:21It all.
19:22The street of Florida.
19:29I think we need to sit down and cool off for a bit.
19:31Okay.
19:34Oh, my God.
19:35It seemed like you got a lot of aggression to get out.
19:37I'm angry at everyone.
19:39I'm so...
19:39Tell me the story.
19:41Oh, my God.
19:41Tim, I don't even know where to start.
19:43Like, Justin's moving to Florida.
19:45And conveniently, he doesn't tell me he's moving to Florida
19:48until literally the night after we did it.
19:50He's like, oh, no.
19:52It was just a coincidence that it happened like that.
19:55So then, like, out of one side of his mouth, he's like,
19:57oh, I didn't know I was moving to Florida.
19:59And then he's like, ever since I moved to Charlotte,
20:01it was always a possibility of moving back to Florida.
20:03I'm sorry.
20:04That's being a liar.
20:05Yeah.
20:05But if I told you from the beginning, that's not gonna work.
20:08Oh, my God.
20:08Yeah, but Tim, you have been completely MIA.
20:10And I've needed you, and you haven't been there for me.
20:13Why do I feel like I'm being attacked?
20:14Because you have literally chosen me.
20:16Because I've been dealing with all this , Tim.
20:19And, like, you're right.
20:19It didn't end up working out.
20:20But, like, it would have been very nice to have somebody
20:23that I could talk to about it.
20:24But we talked about this.
20:25We established very early on with you dating this guy
20:28that I wasn't gonna be that guy during this relationship.
20:32All I was saying was don't randomly beat my house unannounced.
20:35That didn't mean, hey, let's not be friends anymore.
20:40A friend is somebody who you hang out with.
20:42A friend is somebody who's, like, always there for you
20:44when you need them.
20:45It's not been as easy, I think,
20:47she thinks it has been, to just cut her out of my life.
20:52Normal friendships don't come with all the
20:54that comes of exes being friends.
20:58It's absolutely caused fights with me and my girlfriend.
21:01But it's not specifically, personally, about Veronica.
21:04It's just the insecurities of society.
21:07Okay, well, society.
21:12I'm sorry you feel that way, really, Veronica.
21:14I get that you're still mad about it.
21:15But, I mean, I don't have a time machine to go back.
21:18So what do you want resolution-wise out of it?
21:20I want my friend back.
21:23I have always been there for you.
21:25I always thought that I would have you there for me.
21:27You've always said, like, we're ride or die.
21:29We have this marriage pact that if we don't get married
21:32by the time we're 50, like, we're going to get married.
21:37The marriage pact was Tim's idea.
21:39I merely agreed to it.
21:41And you're the one who keeps adjusting the age
21:43because you keep hitting the age.
21:45And now that I'm about to be 37,
21:47you're like, never mind.
21:48It's when we both turn 50.
21:50Yeah, but, I mean, I didn't actually really think
21:53that we were going to...
21:54Be single?
21:55Yeah, I just never thought that that would be a reality.
21:58But here we are.
21:59Yeah.
22:01I'm sorry.
22:02I still am your friend.
22:03I still care about you.
22:04I am your friend.
22:05Let's establish that.
22:07I didn't realize it was bothering you this badly.
22:10I appreciate that, Tim.
22:12And I hear you saying that you want to be my friend.
22:14But literally, I would like to see you acting like my friend,
22:16not just telling me you're my friend.
22:22I never thought that I would be 37 and single.
22:26And even though it was like a bit jokey,
22:29there was that part of me that knew that by us making this marriage pact,
22:34that we would always be there for each other.
22:36But after everything that has happened,
22:39I don't know if this friendship can ever be what it was before.
22:47My mama told me I got a lot to learn.
22:50She said love's not a healer.
22:52Sometimes it burns.
22:54Oh, oh.
22:55I will never let him go.
22:58Oh, oh.
22:59We're losing control.
23:02Hi.
23:03I'm sick, doctor.
23:04Okay.
23:05I take a harden.
23:14I'm struggling with the pros and cons of going to South Africa.
23:18The main goal here is for Carly to see her dad.
23:21But there are so many little things that come into play with me making that decision.
23:25It's been over a year since the last time I saw Ronald.
23:30He's always kind of trying to pull me back in and trying to reconcile.
23:34Let's call Dada and show him how you're a doctor.
23:37I've definitely lost sleep thinking over and over again what the right choice is.
23:43But I've made my decision.
23:47Hello.
23:49Hello.
23:51Um, Carly and me are playing right now.
23:53She's a doctor.
23:54So I don't know if you want to pull.
23:57No one can tip the baby in the heart.
24:02Sounds great.
24:03It's hurting.
24:05His heart is hurting.
24:07It hurts.
24:08Let me help you.
24:09Hey, help me.
24:10Help me.
24:13It's hurting.
24:14Ah, I feel so much better, my lippy.
24:18Let's move your, let's move your toysies over there so I can talk to Dada about something.
24:24She has grown so much.
24:27Yeah.
24:28I don't know if you have given it to me for working around.
24:33Maybe bringing the kids to South Africa because you and I both know that if I could, I would have
24:40been in the U.S. a long time ago.
24:42But I can't get there.
24:44I'm actually depending on you to bring them to me if you can.
24:48Um, I actually wanted to talk to you about something.
24:53What now?
24:53What did I do?
24:54No, it's nothing you did.
24:56It's actually about something I did.
25:00What did you do?
25:07I bought tickets for me and Carly and we're going to go see you.
25:10No, we're not.
25:12I'm serious.
25:14Yeah, man.
25:17How long are you planning to come?
25:19I'm not sure yet.
25:20It's open-ended tickets for now.
25:21We're trying to figure it out as we go.
25:24I'm speechless.
25:27I ended up buying the tickets because I put myself in his shoes and, you know, if I was
25:33the parent of this perfect little girl, you know, I'd also sit there feeling like I'm missing out on so
25:39much.
25:39So, I think I'm doing what I can as Carly's mom to make sure that she has a relationship with
25:44her dad.
25:50I think the best thing is to maybe wait on bringing Daniel over just so he doesn't miss school.
25:56And also, I don't want to bring Daniel along for something that might be confusing.
26:01I don't know what your expectations is when you come here.
26:06But one thing I definitely expect us to do when you are here, you sit by a table and talk.
26:19Okay.
26:20What do you want to talk about?
26:24Everything.
26:28I love you.
26:28You love me.
26:29At the end of the day, we got married for a reason.
26:33Those feelings don't just disappear overnight.
26:36In the ideal world, I just want us to be a family member.
26:42To hear these things definitely melts my heart a little bit, but I can't show him that.
26:47Running in the back of my mind is the fights, the gambling, the lies, the gaslighting.
26:52So, I kind of have to like bring myself back to earth and remind myself of these things,
26:56because I have the tendency to get swept away with just words, and I don't want to do that anymore.
27:05I still have my concerns about, like, what's going to happen.
27:10But I know we owe each other to sit down and have that talk. I agree.
27:15Well, do I basically make it as comfortable as possible.
27:18I appreciate it.
27:20Oh, goodness.
27:22It's going to be good.
27:27I am willing to take this trip because my daughter deserves to have her dad in her life,
27:32and Ronald deserves to have his daughter in his life. But also, I hope seeing Ronald,
27:37after all this time, will, I guess, give me, like, my clear answer.
27:43Um, have a good night. Get some rest.
27:46Have a good evening.
27:47All right. Bye-bye.
27:48Bye-bye.
28:06And with the closed eyes, let's take a long inhale and exhale.
28:16I've been in Aruba for a few months. When I came to Aruba, I was ready to start a new
28:21chapter.
28:23But recently, I started realizing that I haven't fully healed from my separation from my husband's
28:30engine. It hurts. It hurts.
28:36We're so privileged to be here and be able to share a safe space between women and to remind
28:45each other about past experiences, a new focus on the future.
28:51I still need to fully process my grief and, like, everything post-separation.
28:57So I decided to do a women's circle. I think it can help me to move on from my marriage.
29:07The intention I set for this women's circle is about letting go of your past.
29:14We begin by opening the space. Inhale and exhale slowly.
29:21You have all the answers in you.
29:24All of this toxic energy, may we cut this energy now.
29:33I never imagined separating from my husband, Sinjin.
29:37Will I find that deep love again? Like, will I feel that deep love?
29:42And I never had a question. I never had a question.
29:51Sinjin's love for me.
29:56But there was a lot more bigger issues in our relationship.
30:05Sinjin's love for me.
30:06May we begin to close and release energies that we may have with toxic people, past lovers.
30:28It's hard thinking about the future.
30:31Sinjin and I are over. We're no longer together.
30:37I'll never regret my relationship with Sinjin.
30:40But moving forward, there's things emotionally that I have to continue to work through.
30:48Gently coming back to the space.
30:51Move a bit. Create some energy.
30:55Share some energy.
30:58If you would like to share with the others in the group.
31:04Yeah, a lot came up for me.
31:06I have things I know I need to work on and heal on.
31:09My relationship was so miserable.
31:11So going forward, like, I just want to make sure I'm thinking of myself.
31:15And just being intentional with any new relationships that I may start.
31:19I'm in charge of my own happiness.
31:20So it's just something I need to make sure I'm focusing on moving forward.
31:26So thank you.
31:29Namaste.
31:34Now moving forward, I need to be intentional with dating and relationships and taking it all a little
31:41bit more seriously.
31:50I know I want and I deserve to be happy, whether it's with a man or with a woman.
31:57May you be divinely protected in this beautiful space.
32:03It means I'm open for opportunities.
32:05I'm open for chances.
32:06I'm open for miracles.
32:08And I'm ready to be able to move on.
32:18Don't take my heart, if you've got nothing to give me.
32:24Don't you drain my soul, if you've got nothing to say.
32:30I've got something to say.
32:34Carly and I are getting on a plane to South Africa tomorrow.
32:37And I feel overwhelmed.
32:40With everything going on with this trip,
32:43I've definitely slowed down communicating with Dan since our first date.
32:48I don't like to hide things.
32:50So I want to see him and let him know what's been going on with the situation with Ronald.
33:02I know how important honesty is to Dan.
33:05And I do not want to lead him on if something could happen with Ronald.
33:11You look really nice.
33:13How's everything been?
33:14It's been stressful.
33:15Oh, really?
33:16Very stressful, yeah.
33:18Yeah, I just planned a trip.
33:19So I've been planning that.
33:22What kind of trip?
33:22Like a vacation?
33:25Not really.
33:26So I told you about my situation with my ex, Ronald.
33:31And he hasn't seen our daughter in over a year.
33:34And he kept asking me, like, when are you going to bring Carly to see me, whatever.
33:39I'm like, you know what?
33:40Let me take our daughter to see him to South Africa.
33:44How long are you planning on going down there for?
33:48So I bought open-ended tickets.
33:51So that's why I haven't been very communicative.
33:54No, I mean, that's a lot.
33:55I come from divorced parents and it's tough.
33:59I mean, I can only imagine how you're feeling.
34:03So do you feel like this is just something, just trying to look out for your daughter?
34:07Or is this more like you're trying to rekindle things with him?
34:10Or I guess I'm just trying to understand, like, where your head's at?
34:15So I want to tell you just completely everything.
34:17Like, even if it's hard to say.
34:19Yeah.
34:19Um, my head is like, we're not good for each other.
34:21We're bad for each other.
34:23But feelings don't just stop, like, when you separate, right?
34:26Which makes everything really confusing.
34:28Yeah.
34:28It's really hard.
34:30I really appreciate the honesty from her, but it's not the best thing to hear that
34:35someone you're into is traveling across the world to see their ex.
34:40Tiffany's great.
34:41I felt like we were vibing, so.
34:44I'd be lying if I said I wasn't, like, a little disappointed.
34:48In an ideal world, it would be nice to see you again down the road.
34:53So, balls in your court in a way.
34:58Let me give you a hug.
34:59Okay.
35:03Dan, he actually was so understanding.
35:05And that makes this so much harder because he's kind and he's patient.
35:11All these amazing things.
35:13Am I really willing to let this go for someone who might hurt me again?
35:35I'm going to miss you.
35:36I'm actually happy I get to stay with my friends.
35:38Yeah?
35:39Yeah.
35:40Today I'm leaving for South Africa, which unfortunately means that I have to say bye to Daniel.
35:46It's an added layer of stress knowing that he's staying behind and I have to be away from my son
35:51while I'm trying to sort things out with Ronald.
35:53But I know he's going to be in good hands with my mom and this is the best decision.
36:00Oh, I feel like you still need some help with this bag.
36:02Hey.
36:03Hey, Mom.
36:04Oh, my God.
36:04Thank God you're here.
36:06You still need a couple of shirts and some pants.
36:08So, get some and I'm going to check your bag before you zip it up, all right?
36:10Okay.
36:11Cool.
36:11Yeah.
36:12Can you help me with my bags?
36:12Yeah.
36:15I feel a little bit, like, bummed out because, you know, I wanted to go, but at the same time,
36:20I don't because, you know, I just have a lot of things to do and it's only long to be
36:23happy,
36:24you know, just hope she has a nice trip and everything.
36:29As you can see, there's a lot.
36:33Oh, my goodness.
36:34I cannot believe you're going to South Africa.
36:38Me either, actually.
36:40What is the purpose of this trip, really?
36:41It's taking Carly to see her dad and Ronald, no.
36:45No, Ronald has mentioned to me that he wants to, like, you know,
36:48get everything out in the open and he wants his family to be together.
36:51Wow.
36:53That's a terrible idea.
36:57I already know how you feel about it.
36:59I mean, I'm not going there with the intentions of getting back, but...
37:03To me, he's a person that really loves himself more than anyone else.
37:07And I haven't seen him grow up.
37:10Doubted that I ever will.
37:13Tiffany's having a really hard time moving on.
37:16And this trip to South Africa, I think it's a waste of, you know, her emotional time.
37:21I don't think things have changed.
37:24Definitely want her and him to be over, get a divorce,
37:26just live happy without each other because they're not good together.
37:31It really does hurt me, though, that you're in the situation and I can't save you from it,
37:35because you're an adult.
37:37But you know what?
37:38This needs to happen.
37:39This needs to happen.
37:40Carly needs to see her dad.
37:41I'm going to figure out what the is going on with me and Ronald.
37:43I could also get the closure that I need and that might be what needs to happen.
37:48I got to get going because the car service is going to be here soon.
37:51Okay.
37:53I have no idea what to expect when I get to South Africa.
37:56My head is all over the place right now with my situation with Ronald,
37:59with this flight that I have to go on, with leaving my son behind.
38:03This trip really could blow up in my face.
38:05Love you.
38:06I love you, baby.
38:07Give me one last kiss.
38:09Bye.
38:10Oh, wow.
38:12What?
38:13Bye.
38:14Love you guys.
38:14I love you.
38:23What are we going to go see?
38:26Yes.
38:31So we're waiting to board right now.
38:34Show your puppy.
38:35Let me see your puppy.
38:36She got a little puppy.
38:38Got a long flight ahead of me.
38:41Ronald and I, our breakup was definitely like a roller coaster.
38:46We need to either realize, hey, we're going to still work on this,
38:49or we're closing this chapter and it's done.
38:52I'm feeling some type of way right now.
38:55Like, I don't know what the hell is going to happen when I see him go.
39:20Michael, I love you.
39:24I could move back.
39:34I don't know.
39:36I waited a long time, Natalie.
39:37I just waited and sat here.
39:40And just, uh, yeah, that part really hurt me, you know?
39:46At the end of the day, you made your bed,
39:48and then you went out and you wanted to follow your dreams, and you did.
39:51It just costs, it just cost us.
39:56I made a huge mistake leaving Michael.
40:00We care for each other.
40:03And if, for example, we decide to come back to each other,
40:06I will do my best to fix it.
40:08If Michael takes you back, what are you going to tell Josh?
40:12If Michael takes me back, I'm going to tell Josh, it's over.
40:16Because Michael, he does care for me.
40:21I'm appreciated, and he missed me.
40:39It's kind of a shocker.
40:42I never thought Natalie would want to get back together.
40:47Are you cold?
40:48Do you want to go inside?
40:49Okay.
40:52We actually had our best conversation ever.
40:59Natalie really opened up to me and apologized, and I think that was long overdue.
41:06Good to see you again.
41:11Yeah.
41:12Just a lot of things go through my head.
41:14I still love Natalie, but I don't know, you know?
41:19Is she thinking about us, or is she just thinking about herself?
41:26I got your clothes and stuff on my bed in there.
41:29Okay.
41:29Um, you know, the ones from your closet and stuff there, so.
41:32Where is my papers, documents?
41:34Your documents are right here.
41:39My birth certificate, you don't have?
41:42Yeah, you have it.
41:44Biden, your president, he said, any person who is Ukrainian in America
41:50can apply for this status, refugee status.
41:52You need to have your birth certificate, like something from Ukraine that you exist.
41:56Makes sense, yeah.
41:57Mm-hmm.
42:00Three, five, four, thump.
42:03Who's coming?
42:07Hi.
42:09Hi.
42:13I'm scared to hell to see Mike's mom.
42:17She doesn't like me.
42:19And she's influencing Mike a lot.
42:24Pray for me.
42:30Next time on 90 Day The Single Life.
42:32How are things going over there?
42:34Are you doing okay?
42:35Because, um, it's, uh, it's crazy.
42:39Since the Russian invasion, it makes me really worried that Alona is still in the Ukraine,
42:44and I feel helpless.
42:46Would you want to come to the United States?
42:48Uh.
42:53You ready?
42:56Who does this at 70 years old?
42:58Who gives up their whole life, their friends, their family, their son, their country?
43:02What's going to happen if Tony and I are going to have a big fight and he says, go home?
43:11What's going to happen if Tony and I are going to have a big fight?
43:13Being separated from Tiffany is really hard, but being separated from Kali is even harder.
43:19It did me serious off.
43:22In a few minutes, I'm going to be face to face with Ronald.
43:27I'm potentially walking back into my old relationship that made me miserable.
43:33You are married, so either we fix this or we don't.
43:42You totally used Michael.
43:44That's all you did was use him to get to America.
43:49Trish look at me like as a person who could take her son from her.
43:53But I have to accept it if I want to be with Michael.
44:03Let's see you quickly.
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