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00:00Previously on The Single Life Tell-All,
00:04would you consider Natalie your girlfriend?
00:06There's still a lot of things that Natalie needs to figure out.
00:09You know, Natalie is still married.
00:10You want her to figure out if she's done with Mike or not?
00:14Absolutely.
00:15Natalie, you have to pick.
00:16Is it going to be him or is it going to be Mike?
00:18And you've got to give 100% to that person.
00:27And Natalie just left, guys.
00:30I spent so much time and emotion in this relationship
00:33that didn't really go anywhere.
00:35Justin, why wait until after you slept with her
00:39to tell her that you were...
00:40That's just a bad coincidence.
00:42Oh, yeah.
00:43I'm trying to, like, help her because clearly she's failed
00:46since we split up of keeping a long-term relationship.
00:52I planned it with him to go to South Africa
00:54to figure out if this marriage is salvageable.
00:56Still, I went there, did nothing wrong,
00:58and he everything up.
01:00Oh, so you want to go down?
01:01I found out he was still talking to that ex-girlfriend
01:03and getting money from her.
01:07That's a lie.
01:08Oh, my God.
01:09I have the proof.
01:10Stop, stop, stop.
01:10Why would I lie?
01:12Don't make up bull .
01:12Don't make up bull .
01:14.
01:14No more.
01:16you, man.
01:18.
01:18Oh, .
01:21Oh.
01:22My.
01:23God.
01:23.
01:34.
01:34You, man.
01:35.
01:36.
01:38I'm out.
01:38I'm out.
01:39I'm out.
01:40I'm done.
01:40I don't need to listen to her.
01:41.
02:11Sorry, ass, f***ing insane
02:12Yeah, well, I want to find out if there's any chance
02:15that we're getting Ronald back.
02:16What made him so angry?
02:19The truth.
02:20The truth!
02:21I've been quiet for almost seven years.
02:23No more.
02:24At one point, you felt you were in a good place, right?
02:28For, like, three days.
02:29For three days.
02:30Yeah.
02:31And then it was at that three-day mark,
02:33after you got there, that you knew...
02:35I shut down in here.
02:36Uh-huh.
02:37And I said, I'm just gonna let him this up.
02:40Okay, Tiffany, we need clarification.
02:43You took Carly to see her dad.
02:45Mm-hmm.
02:45So you get there.
02:47Three days after you get there,
02:49are you contacted by this woman?
02:51No.
02:51How do you know something...
02:52She called his phone.
02:53She calls his phone.
02:53And he was sleeping, so I answered.
02:55And what did she say?
02:56What was that conversation?
02:57She said, I need you to put Ronald on the phone.
02:58I said, why would I do that?
02:59Yes.
02:59Stop calling.
03:00She said, what do you mean?
03:01We're still together, Tiffany.
03:03And I was like, ha-ha.
03:06And she's like, he told me you were going there to bring Carly,
03:09and you were sleeping at his mom's house.
03:10I said, I'm sleeping with him in bed every night.
03:14Me and him are together.
03:15So in that moment, I said, you know what?
03:17Whether he loved me ever or not,
03:19I just don't care at this point.
03:20I need to wake the up.
03:22This man is not for me.
03:25So right before the tell-all,
03:27you guys have a conversation.
03:28He wanted you to really stay quiet.
03:31He wanted me to pretend everything is fine.
03:34Because that's, of course, what he's going to want.
03:36And this was the first time that he realized
03:39you weren't going to adhere to that promise.
03:42Exactly.
03:43That's why he lost his s***.
03:44You weren't going to take it anymore, right?
03:45I'm not going to take it anymore, no.
03:46And he did not expect me to finally hit that point.
03:49I mean, it is crazy that you did that.
03:50I never thought you looked like the crazy one.
03:53I always thought he looked like the s***.
03:55What happens with Carly, though?
03:57I mean, there's going to be,
03:58at some point when things calm down,
03:59like there has to be some sort of co-parenting.
04:01I don't want Carly to never have her dad in her life.
04:03But I'm done being the good guy.
04:05If he wants to see his daughter,
04:06I will meet him halfway.
04:09Wow.
04:11Where does your marriage stand today?
04:12And are you pursuing a divorce?
04:14I already did the first session with the divorce lawyer.
04:18We're getting the paperwork together.
04:19The divorce is in the process.
04:21There's no looking back for me.
04:22No second-guessing it.
04:25Does Ronald know?
04:26No.
04:26He doesn't know that you have talked to the lawyers?
04:29No.
04:29I think everything was a surprise to him today.
04:32Yeah.
04:33So he does not know.
04:35Another surprise coming for Ronald.
04:37Oh, boy.
04:38Tiffany, you have been through a lot.
04:40A lot.
04:40A straight gangster.
04:40One person you had a connection with,
04:43he said he would wait for you.
04:45That was Dan.
04:47And we've got Dan tonight.
04:50Let's welcome him.
04:51Dan?
04:52Did you know?
04:53No.
04:54It's been a really difficult, like, six years.
04:57I want to find somebody who could be my soulmate,
05:00or who could be my partner in life,
05:02and who we could, like, explore things together
05:04and learn things together.
05:06Um, would it be okay if I gave you, like,
05:09a kiss on the cheek?
05:10Of course.
05:12All right, cool.
05:12Oh, I'm so sorry.
05:14Oh, I'm so excited to see you again.
05:17I really had an amazing time.
05:19Same here.
05:20Hi!
05:21Hi, Dan.
05:22Hi.
05:24Hi, there.
05:24Hi, guys.
05:26How does it feel to see him?
05:28It's great.
05:29Yeah?
05:29I miss your face.
05:31I miss yours, too, princess.
05:34Aw!
05:35He's adorable.
05:37So, Dan, have you been watching what's been going on?
05:41Uh, yeah, I've been tuned in.
05:43I just saw all the drama with Ronald.
05:44That was pretty nuts, to say the least.
05:47Did you know that Tiffany had that side to her
05:49where she could fly under the radar
05:52and then, like, bam, hit you with something?
05:55Oh, yeah.
05:56Yeah, I mean, since I met Tiffany,
05:58I could tell she's a real one.
05:59Like, and she's smart, so I feel like, you know,
06:01I'd take somebody smart like that
06:02to be able to, like, get out of a tough situation like that.
06:05Yeah, yeah.
06:06Uh, okay, so what is the status of things
06:10between you and Dan?
06:12We're just talking right now.
06:14Mm-hmm.
06:15But I definitely like him.
06:17Do you think that there is a future
06:19for this relationship?
06:21We're definitely gonna just see where it goes.
06:23I've made mistakes in the past
06:25of, like, rushing into something,
06:26but we have so much more in common.
06:28We get along really, really, really well.
06:32Okay.
06:32So I feel hopeful, but we'll see where it goes.
06:35Uh, Tiffany, what would you like to say to Dan?
06:39See you soon.
06:40There are plans to see each other in the future?
06:43Yes.
06:43Yeah.
06:44See you Thursday.
06:46See you Thursday.
06:47Mm-hmm.
06:50All right.
06:52I'm so glad you're in a peaceful place now,
06:54and I will be very curious to see what happens
06:56between you and Dan in the future.
06:59Thank you, Dan.
07:00Oh, thanks, guys.
07:02Bye.
07:02Have a good one.
07:03See you Thursday.
07:04Bye.
07:04See you Thursday.
07:05See you Thursday.
07:07Let's pause here and take a quick break.
07:10There is still so much more to talk about.
07:13There we go.
07:14Yay.
07:15Oh, my God.
07:16Woo!
07:17That came out.
07:18He's into you.
07:20Congratulations.
07:21I wish you the best.
07:22I hope it works out.
07:22It's going to be fun.
07:25You did good.
07:25I'm proud of you.
07:27Hearing their reactions when I said,
07:29I'm done,
07:31I was like,
07:33oh, my gosh.
07:34Like, I knew it.
07:35Like, I knew in my gut.
07:36I knew in my gut that I wasn't wrong.
07:38I knew I wasn't the problem.
07:39How the f*** was that?
07:41I was doing the right thing for myself.
07:44I know what the f*** I'm worth,
07:46and you don't have control over me anymore.
07:54Ready?
07:55In four, three, two.
07:58I'm furious as f***.
08:02I'm angry.
08:03I'm hurt.
08:04I'm everything.
08:05It's, it's,
08:08I don't know.
08:10Who I'm talking with.
08:13Because,
08:14Tiffany is not the Tiffany I fell in love with.
08:17She wasn't even wearing her ring.
08:19That's the other thing.
08:20I was wearing mine.
08:22Mine's somewhere here.
08:23I f***ed through it.
08:25Tiffany, I tell you straight.
08:28I loved you.
08:30I'm sorry for this.
08:32I exploded.
08:35It's a side of me.
08:36I don't want to show nobody.
08:38But it's better we get a divorce.
08:42Just look off me, kids.
08:44Please.
08:49F*** birds for reason.
08:52Hey, Tiffany.
08:54We got a savage in the house.
08:56Oh.
08:57In my whole life,
08:58I'm not,
08:58I'm non-confrontational.
08:59At all.
09:00Ever.
09:00But when I'm angry,
09:01I will,
09:02like, nose to nose.
09:03I'm like,
09:05say something.
09:07Yeah,
09:07you strike me as a type
09:08that is not scared of any man.
09:10No, I'm not.
09:11You're not back down.
09:13It's dangerous.
09:14That's for sure.
09:15Yeah, because that's how Veronica is.
09:16Like,
09:17she seems all nice and s***,
09:18but when you date her,
09:19if you piss her off,
09:21it's like the Tasmanian devil.
09:23Yeah.
09:24With that,
09:25it is time
09:26to start moseying.
09:27Ready?
09:30Oh, man.
09:30Here we go.
09:36All right,
09:37here we go.
09:38Three,
09:38two.
09:39All right,
09:40I want to move on now
09:41to Cesar.
09:42Even though things
09:43did not work out well
09:44with his ex, Maria,
09:46Cesar still had his heart set
09:48on finding
09:49a Ukrainian girlfriend.
09:50So,
09:51he traveled to Kiev,
09:52where he went on dates
09:53with three beautiful strangers.
09:55Ultimately,
09:56he had the strongest connection
09:58with Ilona.
09:59First of all,
10:00let me ask you,
10:00you had a unique way
10:02of trying to find love.
10:03through a matchmaker.
10:05Yes.
10:06Cesar,
10:07one of our viewers said,
10:09there are 194 other countries
10:11in the world.
10:12You've had no luck
10:14with Ukrainian women,
10:15perhaps someone more local.
10:19Have you ever tried
10:20to use a matchmaking service
10:22to find an American woman?
10:24No,
10:25I haven't.
10:26Why not?
10:27Yeah,
10:28why?
10:28I haven't tried it
10:29because I just,
10:31that was just the thing
10:32at that time
10:33that I was,
10:34my mind was focused on.
10:35Cesar,
10:36how old are you?
10:38I'm 50 years old.
10:39Okay,
10:40because he's been trying
10:40to date here
10:41for 50 years.
10:43It hasn't worked yet.
10:44What is it specifically
10:47about Ukrainian women
10:48that has made you say,
10:50I'm going to zero in
10:51to this country?
10:53Yeah,
10:53why?
10:54Because I want to get them
10:55straight from the country.
10:57Like he's going to like
10:59wives are us,
11:00like let me just go
11:00pick one up
11:01and bring it back.
11:02pick one up,
11:03bring him right back.
11:03That's not how life works.
11:05I think he chose
11:06his words poorly.
11:07I think what he meant
11:08is that he didn't want
11:09them westernized yet.
11:11Yes,
11:11that's right.
11:12I don't want them westernized.
11:13Explain it for me,
11:13Tim.
11:14I feel like
11:15in other countries,
11:16women treat me better
11:18and look at me
11:19at a higher standard
11:20than women in this country.
11:22So do you all think
11:23it could be maybe
11:23because you all are Americans
11:25and maybe could be
11:25the one to bring them here?
11:27But then that's you
11:28summarizing a country
11:29saying that every woman
11:30is just interested
11:31in money.
11:32Cesar,
11:33it's interesting to me
11:34because you said
11:34that you wanted to find
11:36someone who really loved you,
11:37but then you went
11:38through a transactional
11:40method to get one.
11:41Yeah.
11:42So I just don't understand
11:43why you're trying
11:43to buy a wife.
11:44You are trying to buy one.
11:46What you want
11:47is to find someone
11:48who loves you.
11:48But how am I trying
11:49to buy a wife
11:50when I'm getting
11:50a match matriot?
11:52Why does it trigger,
11:53y'all, so badly
11:54that he just doesn't
11:55want an American wife?
11:56He wants someone
11:57that he can control.
11:58No.
11:58No, no, it's not,
12:00it's not control.
12:00Yes, yes.
12:02For an average guy,
12:03like I'm a guy
12:05of average looks,
12:06I go to South America,
12:07I've got blue eyes,
12:08I'm American,
12:09like I'm exotic over there.
12:11You could go to church,
12:13Russian, Ukrainian church,
12:15like you could find
12:16someone from church.
12:17Why not?
12:20I'm just saying
12:24I love all type of women,
12:25but nobody seems
12:26to want me.
12:27So what am I going to do?
12:28I'm going to sit there,
12:29I'm going to go
12:29to another country
12:30where somebody does want me,
12:32where they can appreciate me.
12:34You're handsome.
12:35Very.
12:35You have a good personality.
12:36You have such a good personality.
12:36Like, any woman
12:38would be lucky to have you.
12:39You just need to believe that.
12:41All right.
12:42Cesar, I want to know
12:43what happened with Alona.
12:45Well, the thing was,
12:46was that, you know,
12:47I was, I was really,
12:49really interested in Alona.
12:51But the thing about it was,
12:52once the war started,
12:53she says,
12:54I want to stay there
12:54because my father's here.
12:56So I said,
12:57I respect that.
12:58Are you dating someone
12:59other than Alona right now?
13:04Yes, two women.
13:06Holy s**t.
13:07You have two girlfriends?
13:08Yeah, I got two girlfriends.
13:09You got two girlfriends?
13:10Yeah, I got two girlfriends.
13:12Stella and Katrina.
13:14I met them online.
13:16And then they both
13:17want to date me.
13:18Right now,
13:19Stella and Katrina
13:20are in Ukraine.
13:21Is that right?
13:22Yes, they're in Ukraine.
13:23They have visas.
13:24And they plan to come
13:24to the States?
13:26Yes.
13:26To be with you?
13:27Yes.
13:27And then what happens
13:28after that?
13:29Uh, they, uh,
13:30after that, you know,
13:31probably we're going to get,
13:32they're going to get pregnant.
13:33Oh.
13:34Oh, probably, okay.
13:35And we're,
13:36and we're going to have kids.
13:37All right.
13:37And we'll all have kids together.
13:39You still have us back?
13:39As a family.
13:41I'm, I'm about to break bro code.
13:43Cesar, you're talking crazy now.
13:45I was down with you till then.
13:48What, what is the plan?
13:50When do they plan
13:50to come to the States?
13:51They plan on coming
13:52to the States, uh, next month.
13:54So, they obviously can't work
13:56when they get over here.
13:58So you're going to support
13:59both of these women
14:00on your salary.
14:02Is that right?
14:03Yes.
14:04Woo, that's a lot of nails.
14:08They're scamming you.
14:08How much money have you given them?
14:10I don't have,
14:11I don't have to give them any money.
14:12Yeah, but how much do you give them?
14:13You don't have to,
14:14but how much do you?
14:14I don't give them anything.
14:15Do you know anything
14:16about these women?
14:18Anything at all?
14:18Do you sit and talk?
14:19I mean, what do you talk about?
14:20Yeah, we talk about, um,
14:22how they're doing over there
14:23and making sure that they're safe.
14:24These two women said,
14:26we love you,
14:28convince you
14:28that they're madly in love with you
14:30and want to have your children
14:32and come back to the United States.
14:34Doesn't that sound
14:35a little bit strange?
14:36But it didn't even
14:37start off like that.
14:39At that time,
14:40when, when the war started,
14:42she was like,
14:43well, why don't we fly down there?
14:44I was like, well, come on down.
14:46Like, it's because they think
14:47you can give them things.
14:49No, probably because
14:49their men treat them wrong there,
14:51where I can treat them
14:52like a rural woman
14:53and they can sit there
14:53and they can go to school,
14:54they can educate themselves.
14:56You're inside of my country right now.
14:59I think it's bull****.
15:00I don't believe it.
15:01I think they don't exist.
15:03It's not even like that.
15:04I think you're thinking
15:04of something different.
15:05I'm not talking to you anymore.
15:07Yeah, you're thinking
15:07of something totally different.
15:08Whatever, I'm crazy, yes.
15:09I didn't even say
15:10nothing bad about your country.
15:39I didn't even say
15:40nothing bad about your country.
15:41Why don't you choose
15:42normal woman?
15:43I mean, what are you doing?
15:45Why are you so all the time
15:46trash about my country?
15:47I'm tired of this.
15:48No one's talking trash
15:48about your country, Natalie.
15:50No one's talking trash.
15:51It's not true.
15:52It's not like this.
15:52No one's talking trash.
15:54Bring it in.
15:55No one's talking trash.
15:57I'm not putting down your country.
15:58I care about your country a lot.
15:59I even went down there
16:00and I care about your country a lot.
16:02But I do think
16:03there's a power dynamic
16:04that you're not acknowledging.
16:06Both of these women
16:07said they want to be
16:08in a relationship with you,
16:10a throuple, a threesome.
16:11Yes, that's right.
16:12And they plan to come
16:13to the United States
16:14and live in your
16:15two-bedroom apartment.
16:16Yeah.
16:17I got a huge bed,
16:18king-size bed.
16:19So we're all gonna sleep together.
16:21No.
16:22You're disgusting.
16:23Really?
16:23You're disgusting, Susan.
16:24It is disgusting.
16:25It's not even like that.
16:28You have such a low opinion
16:30of women,
16:30it's really sad.
16:31How do I not have no respect?
16:33You think they can be
16:34bought and sold really easy.
16:36They already have visas.
16:37He's not getting them visas.
16:39They might be good
16:40and honest people.
16:41Don't do this to them.
16:44Obviously,
16:47Natalie does not believe
16:48in the true intentions
16:50behind this.
16:51Then be mad at them,
16:52not mad at him.
16:54Now you're judging
16:55your own sisters.
16:57I don't agree
16:58that he should be finding
17:00matchmakers
17:00in certain countries,
17:01but he found two women.
17:03Let them try to date.
17:04Let's wish him the best.
17:05If he gets hurt,
17:06I'm sorry,
17:08but had a little bit
17:09more discernment,
17:10but let's wish you
17:10the best.
17:11Why does he have
17:12to have two of them?
17:13Why two?
17:14Why can't he have three
17:15or four or five?
17:16Why?
17:16If I want to have two,
17:17I can have two.
17:18You know what?
17:19In a weird, crazy world,
17:21maybe these girls
17:22really just fell in love with you
17:23and want to have a kid
17:24with you right now
17:25and both want to marry you.
17:26Maybe.
17:27Maybe I'm wrong,
17:28but maybe it's just
17:28you're very gullible.
17:30I didn't spend any money.
17:31I didn't give him any money
17:32because I don't do that anymore
17:34because my relaxed relationship,
17:35I did that.
17:36You know,
17:37let me just be happy.
17:38Let me be happy.
17:39I haven't been happy
17:40in a long time now.
17:41Live your best life.
17:42Let me be happy
17:43at least one time.
17:44At least let me try this
17:45and if it doesn't work,
17:47then it doesn't work.
17:49All right, Cesar,
17:50we're going to turn
17:51our attention
17:51to someone else for a bit,
17:52but we will return to you
17:54and your search for love
17:55a little later on.
17:58Tanya,
17:59how are you doing?
18:00Yeah, it's my turn.
18:01Yes, it's your turn.
18:02A little bit nervous?
18:04Yes.
18:05Tell me overall,
18:05how have you been?
18:06I've been,
18:07I've been really good.
18:08So you've been traveling?
18:10Yes.
18:10This time,
18:11since we last saw you?
18:12Yes.
18:12I have been to Aruba
18:14a couple times.
18:15I've been throughout the States.
18:17Yeah,
18:18and I just came back
18:18from the mountains.
18:20Vanlifing,
18:21traveling.
18:21For me,
18:22that was a no-go.
18:23We've got to settle down
18:24and buckle down
18:25and do our life.
18:26While in Aruba,
18:27Tanya had a realization
18:29to finally get over Sinjin.
18:32She had to find someone
18:33truly different,
18:33and that led her
18:35to broaden her search
18:36to people she had never
18:37considered dating before.
18:39Hi.
18:41Nice to meet you.
18:43Nice to meet you, too.
18:45So have you ever dated
18:46a girl before?
18:48No, actually.
18:50I've never gone past
18:52kissing a woman before.
18:53Oh, wow.
18:54Okay.
18:55Is that okay?
18:56I'm so nervous.
18:57No, yeah, no.
18:58Ease your way in.
18:59Love it.
19:00Can we cheers to that?
19:00Yes, we absolutely can.
19:02My heart rate's gonna go down.
19:04Okay, that seemed fun.
19:05Yeah, it was.
19:06I feel fun, Dave.
19:07Even though things
19:08did not work out with Rebecca,
19:09we saw you exploring
19:11your sexual freedom
19:13with women
19:14and just really in general.
19:15How did that work out for you?
19:17So far,
19:19it's Tanya zero.
19:20Okay.
19:23But I'm happy
19:25that it hasn't held me back
19:26from continuing to try.
19:28Okay.
19:29Do you think
19:31you have a romantic
19:32attraction to women?
19:38I currently have
19:40a romantic attraction
19:42attraction to a woman.
19:43Oh.
19:46Is that surprising for you?
19:48To be honest, yeah.
19:51It was someone
19:52I met in Aruba
19:53and I was
19:55actually hooking up
19:56with one of her friends.
19:57Okay.
19:58And that's how
19:58her and I met.
19:59And it just,
20:00it was just always
20:01like weird tensions,
20:02like good weird tensions.
20:04It was just,
20:05and we almost did
20:06and then I stopped it
20:07because I was like scared
20:08and yeah.
20:12Are you going to tell her?
20:13Are you going to?
20:14So that is something
20:15that is fueling
20:16my next Aruba trip.
20:18So there's someone
20:19in the picture now.
20:20They're not in the picture.
20:22Does she know?
20:25I don't know.
20:26So, but,
20:27I'm so hot.
20:28I don't know.
20:29You know,
20:29maybe it is true
20:30that she's trying
20:30to endorse her lifestyle,
20:32but for me,
20:33it's not.
20:34She always wanted
20:35to protect her,
20:36a man,
20:37somebody to give her
20:38a child,
20:39to be a father
20:40of her child.
20:40So just interesting
20:41that she's going
20:42this dynamic way.
20:44So, yeah,
20:45this is literally
20:46the first time
20:46I'm hearing about this.
20:48Tanya,
20:48you said on your dating profile
20:50that you were interested
20:51in couples.
20:52Yes.
20:53My dating profile
20:54says,
20:55goal is to find
20:56real, raw, deep love
20:57to have a family with,
20:59but in the meantime,
20:59fun,
21:00and looking to explore
21:02with women
21:03and couples.
21:07So,
21:08having children
21:10was a big point
21:11of contention
21:12between you
21:13and Sinjin.
21:13Yes.
21:15What is the timeline
21:16you have put on that?
21:17It's hard to have
21:18a timeline
21:18when I don't have
21:19a partner.
21:20All you spoke
21:21about is the timeline.
21:23A threesome
21:24is probably not
21:24a great place
21:25to find someone
21:25if you want a baby,
21:26though.
21:26That wasn't,
21:27no,
21:28I wasn't looking
21:28to have a baby
21:29with a threesome.
21:30I was just looking
21:30to have experience.
21:32Just because I want
21:32to have a baby
21:33doesn't mean I can't
21:34have fun in the meantime.
21:35I don't,
21:36I don't think
21:37you want to have a baby.
21:38I hear you say
21:39I want to have a baby.
21:39Whoa, really?
21:40And I know
21:41you said that to Sinjin,
21:42but I think that
21:43when we,
21:43everything we saw,
21:44like,
21:45none of that indicated
21:47I want a baby.
21:49When are you looking
21:50to have a f***ing child?
21:52Look,
21:52I think you got married
21:54and I imagine
21:55you're probably
21:55at that age
21:56where everyone's
21:56getting married
21:57and everybody's
21:57having babies
21:58and I feel like
21:59you're like,
21:59okay,
21:59I've got the husband,
22:00check.
22:01Now I need a baby.
22:02And then we saw you
22:03in Aruba
22:03and it was like
22:04a completely different Tanya.
22:07I never really knew why,
22:08but, like,
22:09I wanted to be
22:10a younger mom.
22:12That, it's literally,
22:13it's f***ed with me.
22:14It f***ed with my head
22:15because I'm, like,
22:17I didn't get married
22:18to get divorced,
22:19you know?
22:20Like,
22:21what do I do?
22:25My God.
22:30Coming up.
22:31You can have
22:32your opinion, Debbie,
22:33but when I give you facts,
22:34when I give you my truth,
22:35you can't still hold that.
22:37I can have my opinion.
22:38You can't.
22:38It's not facts.
22:39I'm asking a question.
22:41Why?
22:42Because you've literally
22:43asked multiple times.
22:44I can't ask a f***ing question.
22:46I can ask a f***ing question,
22:47okay?
22:55I didn't get married
22:56to get divorced,
22:57you know?
22:58Like,
22:59what do I do?
23:02I'm trying to figure out
23:03my next steps.
23:03I'm trying to figure out
23:04my plan,
23:05but I'm not just gonna
23:06sit in the house
23:06and be like,
23:08I'm gonna have a baby
23:08so I can only have
23:09serious relationships
23:10and I can't do anything
23:10until I have a serious
23:11relationship so I can have
23:12my baby.
23:12No,
23:13I'm gonna go out
23:14and I'm gonna have fun.
23:15You could have had fun
23:16with Sinjin
23:17because you guys
23:18ultimately got divorced
23:18because he didn't want
23:19to have a baby,
23:20right?
23:21So now you're
23:22having fun on your own
23:23and it sounds like
23:24you could have had fun
23:25with somebody
23:25that you really love.
23:26I was fun.
23:27I met Sinjin having fun.
23:29It turned into, like,
23:31there was no balance.
23:32There was no f***ing balance,
23:33so I felt like I had
23:34to come so grounded
23:35so we weren't just
23:37f***ing partying
23:37all the time.
23:38My God.
23:39Sorry, it's just...
23:41I wouldn't be partying
23:43at home all the time
23:43with f***ing traveling,
23:44do something with our lives
23:45instead of f***ing
23:46trying to make you pregnant.
23:49F***ing.
23:49When Sinjin left
23:50and everything,
23:50it was a really,
23:51really hard time.
23:52I went through
23:52such a bad depression
23:54and everyone would be like,
23:54when are you dating?
23:55When are you getting out there?
23:56You wanted a baby.
23:56You wanted all this.
23:57I'm like, yo,
23:57let me just be.
23:58And I do feel a lot better.
24:00I'm like, you know what?
24:01What is everything I want?
24:02Let me start revisiting it.
24:03Let me start putting
24:04action plans in.
24:05I am starting
24:06to step into that.
24:10Well, we'll get deeper
24:12into this once
24:12Sinjin joins us later.
24:14But now,
24:16let's talk about
24:17Tanya's time
24:17with Joel in Aruba.
24:19On her quest
24:20to find love,
24:21Tanya traveled to Aruba,
24:22but in the early part
24:24of that trip,
24:25questions about
24:25her failed marriage
24:26seemed to get in the way
24:28of her forming new bonds.
24:30Take a look.
24:35What's your story, actually?
24:37I'm Venezuelan,
24:38but I was born in Connecticut.
24:40Traveled a lot.
24:42Newly separated.
24:44You are separated?
24:45Separated, yes.
24:46Okay.
24:47On paper?
24:48Not on paper.
24:52If you've been separated,
24:54why don't you arrange it?
24:58Because to me,
24:59like, paperwork
24:59doesn't mean that much.
25:04You want to stay married?
25:05No, I don't want
25:06to stay married,
25:07but it's not also
25:07I don't feel married,
25:08so I don't think it's, like,
25:09something I think about.
25:11Yeah, but it's not really
25:12fair to another person.
25:14Signing divorce papers
25:16doesn't make my marriage
25:17any more over
25:18than it already is.
25:19I'm emotionally
25:20and mentally divorced.
25:24Are you going to get divorced?
25:27I don't know.
25:28Am I, Debbie?
25:28Am I?
25:29I'm not, like,
25:29I'm not against, like,
25:31divorce like Natalie is.
25:32To me,
25:33it's something I literally
25:34just never think of.
25:37All right.
25:38Let's move on.
25:39We have Joel
25:40joining us remotely.
25:42Hi, Joel.
25:44Hi, guys.
25:45How are you?
25:46Hi!
25:47Thank you for having me.
25:49How does Tanya look today?
25:51Stunning.
25:53You know,
25:54Tanya's separation
25:55was a big concern for you.
25:58Why so?
25:59It's a very big issue.
26:01I think you cannot move on
26:03while still being married.
26:04I think you need to cut it off
26:06and just start over.
26:07If it's no big deal,
26:08why don't you do it?
26:09But, Debbie,
26:09because I don't think about it.
26:11Like he said,
26:11it'll still be on your mind.
26:13It's literally
26:13never on my mind.
26:15You just go down to file
26:16and do it.
26:17But it's not fair
26:18to the other person
26:18because I invest time.
26:20And that's fair.
26:21I would be insecure about that.
26:23Like,
26:23I would be wondering
26:24if you were trying
26:24to get back together
26:25with your ex or like,
26:26and just because you know
26:28doesn't mean
26:28that the new guy
26:29doesn't know.
26:30Do you think that
26:32she hasn't gotten divorced
26:33because she's still
26:35leaving that door open?
26:36I think,
26:37of course,
26:38why not?
26:38Yeah.
26:40You can have your opinion,
26:41Debbie,
26:42but when I give you facts,
26:43when I give you my truth,
26:44you can't still
26:44hold that.
26:45I can have my opinion
26:46no matter,
26:47it's not facts,
26:48it's your opinion,
26:49it's my opinion.
26:49But it's my,
26:50it's about my life now.
26:51I'm asking a question.
26:53And Debbie,
26:53so when I'm letting you know
26:55why,
26:55it's because I don't think
26:56about it.
26:56Why are you so defensive?
26:57Because you've literally
26:58asked multiple times
26:59and when I give you
26:59the same answer.
27:00You didn't give me an answer.
27:02I just wondered why.
27:03But we're telling you
27:04why, Debbie,
27:05and you're still asking why.
27:07Relax, okay?
27:09I can't ask
27:10a question.
27:15Coming up,
27:16do you think
27:17that Tanya
27:17still has feelings
27:18for Sinjin?
27:20Yes,
27:21most definitely.
27:22Do you still,
27:23I think,
27:24honestly,
27:24still love him?
27:35I can't ask
27:36a question.
27:37I can ask
27:38a question,
27:39okay?
27:40Why are you so defensive?
27:42Debbie,
27:43when you ask a question
27:43and I give you an answer
27:44and you don't like it,
27:46you can't say
27:46that's not the truth.
27:47It's because you're
27:47leaving a door open.
27:48You can't.
27:49I didn't say
27:49I didn't like it.
27:50I said I want
27:51and I want to know why.
27:52Let me try this.
27:53Let me try translating.
27:55She basically
27:56is telling us
27:57I am a lazy
27:58Yes, no, yes.
27:59I'll say that
27:59about myself too.
28:00I'm a lazy
28:01and I just
28:01haven't gotten around
28:02to it,
28:03but if somebody
28:03came and was like,
28:04hey, let's go do it,
28:06I would go do it.
28:06I just wondered
28:07why.
28:08That's it,
28:09but we're telling
28:09you why, Debbie,
28:10and you're still
28:11asking why.
28:12Okay, let me
28:13get back to Joel.
28:14Whatever,
28:15you're so defensive
28:16over it.
28:16Joel?
28:18Hi.
28:19What is your opinion
28:20about why
28:20Tanya hasn't gotten
28:21divorced?
28:22I think to keep
28:23the door open,
28:24of course.
28:24Why not?
28:25I think lazy
28:26is a stupid excuse.
28:27She does so many
28:28things in life.
28:29She's a very active
28:30person.
28:30Do you think
28:31that Tanya still
28:32has feelings
28:33for Sinjin?
28:34Yes,
28:35most definitely.
28:38Why?
28:38Because I'm married?
28:40No, but I just
28:40think I've been
28:41listening the last
28:42couple of minutes
28:43and I think
28:43you're a bit
28:44all over the place,
28:45but you still,
28:46I think,
28:47honestly,
28:47still love him.
28:49Yes,
28:49I love Sinjin,
28:50but it's not like
28:51a feelings,
28:51like I still
28:52want to be with him.
28:52It's,
28:53I'm,
28:53that's over
28:54and in the past.
28:55Yes, sir,
28:55you guys make me
28:55fired up by
28:56watching this.
28:57Yes, sir.
29:00That's a bull.
29:02Tanya,
29:03we're going to wrap
29:03Joel up.
29:04Is there anything
29:05you'd like to say
29:05to him?
29:07Well,
29:08I'm going to be
29:08in Aruba soon,
29:08so I guess
29:09I'll stop by.
29:10I guess I'll see you
29:11then, huh?
29:11Stop by your bar.
29:13Well,
29:13Joel,
29:13we appreciate you
29:14taking the time
29:15to speak with us today.
29:16Take care.
29:16Thank you very much.
29:17My pleasure.
29:18Bye, girls.
29:19Bye.
29:19Bye, guys.
29:21Bye, Joel.
29:24He's cute.
29:26Yeah,
29:26he is really good looking.
29:27He is.
29:29All right,
29:30Tanya,
29:30we have covered
29:31a lot with you already,
29:32but we are going
29:33to come back
29:33to you in just a bit.
29:35There is still
29:36plenty ahead.
29:36Stay with us.
29:43It was so hard
29:44because I can understand
29:46like how people
29:48can have a hard time
29:49understanding
29:49that, yes,
29:51I'm still legally married,
29:52but I'm not actually
29:53like married.
29:54It just sucks
29:55when people keep asking,
29:56keep going after
29:56versus just saying,
29:57hey, I don't understand,
29:58but if that works for you,
29:59that works for you.
30:02You know,
30:03I hope me and Tanya
30:04can have a cordial relationship.
30:05We didn't betray each other.
30:07We didn't cheat
30:07on each other.
30:08We literally just,
30:09this ain't working.
30:10Let's leave each other.
30:11Do you think
30:12that Tanya is over you?
30:15Oh,
30:17this one's going
30:18to get me in trouble?
30:19Hmm.
30:20I can't speak for her.
30:21This was tough for me,
30:22but I don't think
30:23she's moved on.
30:26What's going on?
30:27Good to see you, man.
30:28Hey, I haven't seen you
30:29in a long time, man.
30:30You look good.
30:31Yeah?
30:32Yeah, it's been
30:33like a minute, man.
30:34I'm feeling old.
30:35I don't know,
30:3542 hit me hard.
30:36My testosterone
30:37is messed up, man,
30:38so I'm going to start getting...
30:40Do you take the shot
30:40in the ass?
30:41No, I'm going to get that
30:42by like two weeks, man.
30:43I set my whole program up, man.
30:44Have you done it before, really?
30:46No, they're going to start it
30:47because mine is low.
30:48Can you still call that kid?
30:49Heck yeah, man.
30:50We're going to...
30:51You didn't get clipped?
30:52Are you talking about
30:53like birth control?
30:54Clipped, yeah.
30:54No, no, no, not that.
30:55I thought you meant
30:56like circumciser or something like that.
30:57Well, of course, yeah.
30:59Oh, okay.
30:59Everybody does that,
31:00don't they?
31:01No, not really.
31:04Debbie, what up?
31:04Debbie, what's going on?
31:07Have you ever been
31:07with a dude
31:08that wasn't circumcised?
31:10Yes.
31:11Is it different?
31:13Like sexually,
31:15can you feel it,
31:15like the difference?
31:16No, it's fine.
31:17I don't see a problem with it.
31:19Who's not circumcised?
31:20No, I don't know.
31:21I'm circumcised.
31:23Yeah, I don't know.
31:24I can't say.
31:26You already said.
31:27You can't say if you're right up?
31:28Yeah, yeah, yeah.
31:29Colt's not circumcised.
31:30Really?
31:30And he's never thought about
31:31like as an adult,
31:33and what made you decide
31:35to do that?
31:36When he was born,
31:36he was born three months early
31:38and there was no way
31:39he could have survived
31:40that kind of an operation
31:42right away.
31:43And then his dad just decided,
31:45no, it's fine.
31:46We don't,
31:46there's no reason for it.
31:47So Colt's happy, I guess.
31:50I don't know.
31:50I haven't talked to him
31:51for a while.
31:52Yeah.
31:53He's supposed to be here.
31:56What would you say
31:57you're most anxious
31:57about discussing today?
31:59I don't want Colt
32:01to pick up
32:03where he left off.
32:04The last tell-all,
32:06he was pretty bad.
32:07I mean, he was,
32:08he wasn't very nice.
32:10I shouldn't be bothered
32:11with your life.
32:12This is your life.
32:13Can you stop, please?
32:14I can't stop
32:15because this is very important
32:16to me.
32:16Stop influencing me so much
32:17and always there,
32:18there, there.
32:19I am 36 years old.
32:21Stop treating me
32:21like I'm a kid.
32:23I just want to talk.
32:25And that always bothers me.
32:27A mother doesn't want
32:28to hear those bad things,
32:29you know, said from her son.
32:34Everybody hold
32:35your positions quiet.
32:41And we are back.
32:44We're going to pick things
32:45up again with Debbie.
32:47Tired of being single
32:48for 13 years,
32:49Debbie finally decided
32:50to dive into the dating pool.
32:52And while she would
32:53have been happy
32:54finding a man
32:55to spend a night with,
32:56she may have found
32:57a man to spend
32:58the rest of her life with.
33:02And Debbie,
33:03how is living in Canada?
33:06You seem to be very happy.
33:08I am happy.
33:08I'm really, really happy.
33:10You seem to have met
33:12the man of your dream.
33:14So how about
33:15we all meet Tony?
33:16You ready?
33:17Okay, come on out, Tony.
33:19Hello.
33:20Hello, Tony.
33:21Good to meet you.
33:25Aw, very sweet.
33:27Well, at first,
33:29Debbie and Tony
33:29took things slow,
33:31spending a lot of time
33:32just talking and flirting.
33:34But when they finally
33:35met up in Las Vegas,
33:37their innocent romance
33:38quickly turned
33:39into a passionate
33:40love affair.
33:41Well, hello there.
33:47Oh.
33:49I just wanted to grab him
33:50and take him upstairs.
33:53his brains out.
33:57Really?
33:58I did.
33:59Walking in and seeing
34:00Deb for the very first time,
34:02she's hot.
34:04Oh.
34:08All the moaning here.
34:10It's all you.
34:11It's all you.
34:12Turn the sound down.
34:14Can you turn the sound down?
34:15Some heavy things.
34:16It's all you.
34:18Get it, Debbie.
34:20Oh, my God.
34:22It's embarrassing.
34:24Good Lord, Debbie.
34:27Oh.
34:32Oh, my God.
34:34Whoa, I don't think
34:35we've had a steamier
34:37first meeting
34:38in the history
34:39of 90 Day.
34:40I love the first sight.
34:42So what is different
34:43about sex
34:45around your 70s?
34:48What's different?
34:49Takes longer.
34:50You know,
34:51you just have fun.
34:52What'd you say, Tim?
34:53I said it takes longer.
34:55What takes longer?
34:56The sex.
34:57I'm assuming.
34:58Takes longer, you know,
34:59you're a little slower,
35:00so.
35:01I'm getting older.
35:02I'm feeling it.
35:02Like, I'm not as fast
35:03as I used to be.
35:04You know, people don't talk
35:06when they have sex.
35:07They don't.
35:08They don't communicate.
35:09They just think,
35:09okay, fine,
35:10let's go to bed.
35:10They get up
35:11and walk away.
35:13That's not the way you do it.
35:14You find out,
35:16what do you like?
35:17You know,
35:17and then you spend more time.
35:19What does he like?
35:23That's a different program.
35:26He likes me.
35:27Put it that way.
35:29Yes, Debbie.
35:31So what are the issues
35:32that you two are struggling with?
35:34My staying in Canada
35:37is becoming a problem.
35:39We have to wait till February
35:41to get filed for permanent residence.
35:45I don't have any medical up there.
35:48All my stuff is in storage.
35:49You know,
35:50I don't want to take more things up there
35:51because if I'm not going to live up there.
35:54It's also depressing
35:55because everything I own
35:57is in this locker.
35:58Seventy years of my life
35:59is in this one.
36:01It's okay.
36:03It'll be fine.
36:07One of your biggest concerns
36:09about moving to Canada
36:10was how it was going to affect
36:12your relationship with Colt.
36:13How are things
36:14between you and Colt now?
36:16Um,
36:18I don't know.
36:20Well, it has been too long
36:22since Debbie has gotten
36:23to see her son
36:25and daughter-in-law.
36:26So please welcome
36:27Colt and Vanessa.
36:35Coming up.
36:36I'm Southern Reyes
36:38and the way you talk to your mom
36:39is disgusting to me.
36:40Okay.
36:41And her mentioning my,
36:42how disappointing
36:43my father,
36:44my dead father would be.
36:45I apologize for saying that.
36:47That's a mound of,
36:47that's a mound of respect.
36:48I apologize for you
36:49for saying that.
36:49A mound of respect.
36:57Please welcome
36:59Colt and Vanessa.
37:03I'm not going to clap.
37:05He disrespected his mama.
37:07I'm not going to clap for him.
37:09Long time no see.
37:10You guys are great.
37:11You too.
37:12I haven't seen her
37:13in a few months, huh?
37:14Yeah, I did great.
37:15You look good too.
37:17Colt, Vanessa,
37:18how are you guys doing?
37:20All right.
37:21Yeah.
37:22We're trying.
37:24A few long months.
37:26Yeah.
37:26A few long months.
37:27A few long months.
37:29Why does it feel long,
37:30Vanessa?
37:34I've never experienced Colt
37:37without Debbie,
37:37and I feel like
37:39I gained a son now.
37:42Oh.
37:45Yeah.
37:47Oh.
37:48Really?
37:48Really?
37:49Yeah.
37:50He needs to be
37:51taken care of.
37:52He's very high maintenance.
37:53But you knew
37:54he was locked out
37:57way back.
37:57Because you lived with this.
37:59Sure, sure, sure.
37:59You knew he was.
38:01No, no, no.
38:01I didn't realize
38:02how much you did do for him.
38:04And now that, you know,
38:05I'm stuck with it,
38:06I'm like,
38:07holy
38:07you really cannot
38:08take care of yourself,
38:10can you?
38:10She's like,
38:10please move back in, Debbie.
38:12Yeah.
38:13Yeah, well, so interesting.
38:14Like, the last tell-all,
38:16I mean,
38:17Debbie was really blamed
38:19for the majority
38:20of your problems.
38:22Now that Debbie
38:23is not in the picture,
38:25still,
38:25it has really
38:26shined the light.
38:27I just wanted
38:28to see the difference
38:29if Debbie was gone,
38:31but no,
38:32he's a child.
38:33He is 100% a child.
38:35All right.
38:35So, as Debbie
38:37was starting
38:37her romance with Tony,
38:39her relationship with Colt
38:40was taking a turn
38:41for the worse.
38:42Colt had moved out,
38:43and when he came
38:44to pick up
38:45some of his things,
38:46they found themselves
38:47having one of their
38:49infamous fights.
38:50Take a look.
38:51This is what you
38:52totally don't understand.
38:55You think that
38:56because I am
38:57so connected to you
38:58that I think
38:59you need me.
39:01Have you ever thought
39:03that it was
39:03the other way around
39:04that I needed you?
39:08I needed you.
39:10You're my son.
39:11Guilt trip.
39:12You guilt trip me
39:13all the time.
39:14What do you want?
39:15I'm not going to watch you.
39:16No.
39:16I just want...
39:17No, no.
39:18Seriously.
39:18What do you want
39:20me as a mother?
39:21What do you want?
39:24Whatever.
39:25I don't care.
39:25This is ridiculous.
39:26We don't care.
39:27I can't.
39:28I'm sorry.
39:28I tried.
39:29Goodbye, Mom.
39:31My entire life
39:32has been your life.
39:33You've been the bus driver
39:34of my life.
39:35What the hell
39:36is wrong with you?
39:38Your dad would be
39:40so disappointed in you.
39:44You know what,
39:45Colt?
39:45We're done.
39:47You treat me like
39:48a second-class citizen.
39:50you.
39:52out of here.
40:05Let me ask, Colt,
40:06how does it feel
40:07seeing that again?
40:10I wish I could say
40:12I felt something,
40:14but I don't.
40:17I think she's kind of
40:19just faking it.
40:21If you're going
40:22to talk to your mom,
40:23have a little bit
40:24more respect
40:24because you only
40:25get one mom.
40:26It is your mom
40:27at the end of the day.
40:28I don't even call her
40:29my mother half the time.
40:30Well, but...
40:31I've never done that
40:32in 20 years.
40:33That's how much
40:34I don't feel
40:34like I have a mother.
40:36I'm Southern raised
40:37and the way you talk
40:38to your mom
40:39is disgusting to me.
40:40Okay.
40:41And her mentioning
40:41how disappointed
40:43my father,
40:44my dead father,
40:44would be...
40:45I apologize
40:45for saying that, right?
40:47That's a amount
40:47of respect.
40:48I apologize
40:48to you for saying that.
40:49I have respect.
40:56Next time
40:57on The Single Life
40:58Tell All, Part 3.
41:00You dismiss her
41:01all the time.
41:02You just off.
41:04Okay.
41:04Seriously.
41:05Out.
41:06I've had enough
41:07of your bull
41:07I want to go back
41:11to Veronica.
41:12You're actually
41:13dating somebody new.
41:15It's somebody
41:16that I met
41:17kind of casually
41:19and I didn't
41:21expect it
41:21to go anywhere
41:22but we just
41:23really, really
41:24hit it off.
41:25Okay, Veronica,
41:26let's bring him out.
41:34Please welcome
41:35Alona.
41:37What makes you so emotional
41:39right now, Cesar?
41:42The feelings
41:43that feel like
41:45that I miss you.
41:46I still have
41:47strong feelings
41:48for you.
41:49So, Cesar,
41:51are you going to say
41:51goodbye to Katrina
41:52and Stella?
41:59I think one person
42:01who's missing
42:01from this conversation
42:02is Mike.
42:05Yes.
42:06Absolutely.
42:07Absolutely.
42:18Do you want
42:20Natalie back?
42:20I don't know.
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