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The Valley Persian Style - Season 1 - Episode 02: Darth Vida
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00:05Previously on The Valley Persian Style.
00:10A lot has changed.
00:12I'm a mom now.
00:13You're not going naked into a pool, bro.
00:16Reza, Golnesa, and I are in a really good place.
00:20Bro, should I let him go?
00:22The fact that the three of us are back together makes me so f***ing happy.
00:28I'm a retiring party boy.
00:31Go to the bar, talking to a few girls.
00:34What happens after is none of your business.
00:37We need to actually plan another trip.
00:39Where are we going next?
00:41Girls trip we could do in New York.
00:42Sky and I have been inseparable for about five years.
00:45We've become sisters.
00:47Cheers, babe.
00:48Tommy's New Year's resolution was 17 date nights.
00:53When you have kids, we stop prioritizing that romantic, whimsical thing.
00:58I want you to scale back in rent.
01:01She's had a dad that's bankrolled her life forever.
01:05Outgoing every month.
01:06I'm talking about my move.
01:07I'm just saying.
01:07No, it's literally, I don't know what else.
01:09I don't know how this is so f***ing lame.
01:12You've been a topic tonight.
01:14It's about your house hunt.
01:15Because you're looking.
01:16Why was it brought up?
01:18Who says that to someone who just walked in?
01:23I'm going to go home.
01:24I'm done.
01:33I'm done.
01:54do you ever think you'd marry someone who you're able to buy property with
01:58a sweet loving husband gay marriage becoming legal was a surprise the second it became legal
02:04you asked me to marry you gotta you had to pin this one down hello oh my god they're gonna
02:15jump
02:23her mom she'll randomly pop in
02:28she cooks for me she brings me food every couple days but i love her persian cooking
02:33yeah sometimes she's coming to pick up her pots and pans because she's running out she has she
02:38can't even bring food because she's brought everything to our place well thank you so
02:41much i love you thanks nana her mom likes me i believe the biggest difference is the language
02:46i only speak armenian i don't speak farsi the food is similar but even the persians will tell you
02:52that the best chefs in iran are armenian this is food for 40 people just gonna eat all day today
03:00i'm gonna give you coffee in this glass today okay no no no i don't drink coffee in a whiskey
03:07glass
03:07that's is it a whiskey glass yeah it's a whiskey glass and i don't have a coffee right now you
03:13know
03:13why because you already put your lipstick on yes they definitely broke the mold when they made my mom
03:21she is brutally honest by the time they get married they turn fat and ugly she doesn't care how she's
03:29coming at you if it's the truth it needs to be said you can invent matte shiny red lipstick that
03:40it doesn't come off onto your glass matt and shiny don't go to get it
03:56oh my gosh this is so cute omgg
04:05hi hello hello hi how are you good how are you you guys ready to go inside go in wow
04:14look at all
04:15these little tubs you can pull the sign out and stick it on the wall good job that's creepy let
04:22me
04:22get you another wipe i don't want to be like ew don't touch that like oh stop like i just
04:27i don't
04:28want to be that mom oh no no no no no let's not do that i definitely it comes out
04:33always wash your
04:34hands sanitize like everything thank you honey like in these situations i always try and like
04:43remind myself like it's for the kids so you went yesterday for the parent teacher conference parent
04:49teacher conference was really good but i got to find out where i'm living in order to find out where
04:53i'm gonna go to school that's the problem you know right now my house is six bedrooms i'm looking
04:59for something that's like four bedrooms or five bedrooms that's a big downsize for me my son has a
05:04bedroom my son has a playroom i have a guest room and then the rest are closets i need the
05:11space my
05:11clothes need the space what are my clothes going to do put them outside they're not animals i don't even
05:16put my animals outside it is what it is last night we were all hanging out we all know that
05:25gulnessa
05:26has to find a place she walked out of dinner because she's always over the top and dramatic it was
05:32a
05:32little bit underwhelming i know that gulnessa wants to bury her head in the sand and pretend like the
05:38problems aren't there but that is not adulting sis god forbid something happened to the father
05:45leila has two children she has no husband those kids are going to get significantly less because
05:52gigi has been maintained and been taken care of for 30 years inheritance inheritance money leila and
05:59gulnessa have had a contentious relationship for years thanks for all the help appreciate it yeah
06:06thanks for being you know being what sister done with you don't ask me for anything you seriously need
06:14to work on your aid for management issues i am close with leila but i don't talk to leila about
06:21gulnessa i don't talk to gulnessa about leila that's the rule i mean she owes her son to be the
06:27best
06:28mother that she could be is actually i wish you would talk to her oh good you went too crazy
06:32for
06:32me i got enough fat women in my life dude i'm good did you have a good time last night
06:39i did
06:40i texted you because i wanted to make sure you were like okay the way you left two seconds after
06:47i
06:47walked and she's like i just want you to know this whole time everyone was talking about you
06:51anyone who's talking about me yeah okay because i'm not there persians in general are very secretive
06:58people they like you to think that they've got a lot when they don't i might be one of them
07:06what
07:06happened with rj and that girl they sent me a picture last night and then i called her to ask
07:14her
07:14like how it went and she's like oh he's right here and you could ask stop i love archie he's
07:22so sweet
07:22and kind and very handsome i just um
07:31i bet you none of the married people got any not one in the morning when i'm like exhausted after
07:38cleaning up yeah you guys have high sex drive that's why we have three kids
07:50did you have coffee no can you make me one can you please not make a mess in the kitchen
07:55i won't
07:57what are we doing today just gonna go pick up the kids okay uh bring them home and uh you
08:03know same
08:04old same old homework and stuff i thought you said the other day it's like you said you want
08:08to talk to me about something when we were at emily's and natasha's you made some comments about
08:15me snoring snoring i don't know that's that's it's not the secret i was hanging out with sky
08:20and she told me bomb shot snores like a month it's not that bad what especially everybody snores
08:27you snore oh you didn't know that you snore oh my god don't even go there i swear to god
08:37i'm gonna
08:37come tonight and i'm gonna record you please do i will please do yeah and then it led into that
08:43we're sleeping in the separate bed that you do not sleep in the same room with me anymore it's been
08:49really not nice i want you back a lot of times we want to kill each other but at the
08:55end of the day
08:55we have an amazing family we stay away from conflict because nobody's going to agree nobody
09:02wins you go take care of your sleeping situation i'll come back this is not something that i want
09:08the kids to see to be honest this is not what i want them to be like oh this is
09:12how marriage looks
09:13like she has her bedroom my dad has his own my parents divorced definitely it affected me really
09:21really hard and that was the reason that i never wanted to really settle down so since we are
09:26talking about it how would you suggest you need to go see an ent doctor they're going to give me
09:31some
09:31pills if that helps yes of course the reason that i don't like to get into a fight is my
09:38parents i
09:39definitely got scarred for that i wanted to protect my kids i don't want to do the same thing that
09:44my
09:44parents did and i don't want to bring another child to this world and then do the same thing that
09:49they did
09:49to me other than that we're good i'm not good i'll stay in my bed i'm not good okay so
09:55then go take care
09:55of it
10:03what's the deal skin joe i don't want you to see me while i'm getting dressed so that you could
10:07see
10:08the reveal oh the big reveal yeah okay bye all right but i better be doing oh okay okay okay
10:22oh my gosh nice listen buddy mommy comes out i want you to tell her how pretty she looks you
10:29heard
10:30no ow ow ow ow ow
10:34sometimes she wears too much makeup though no take it down a notch
10:40yeah that's what i'm saying what color jacket oh you look great mommy yes dress very nice your
10:47waistline and your stomach uh don't eat anything keep it that way all right okay should i get a jacket
10:55like your color of what you are yeah man leave the cans out little windy those nips might start getting
11:00you know cut nice it's date night with the wife this one is a special one because it's our anniversary
11:05we get to revel in the love that we are celebrating dinner date this is number what
11:13uh four i want a healthy happy loving marriage i definitely felt that there was a point now where
11:20sham's at an age when we could get back to us do you know what this is uh from pack
11:25yes yeah where did i
11:27get it probably from uh store i don't know you me i didn't get some great oh did i oh
11:35i did get you
11:36that that's right i did get you that i gave you such good stuff man to my wife never forget
11:42that i love
11:43you if i could give you one thing in life i would give you the ability to see yourself through
11:50my eyes
11:51yes see you as i see you which is what beautiful what is that a physical attribute yes that's why
12:01it's a mirror you dumbass coming up like is this rare for you like do you ever ask girls out
12:12yeah
12:12what do you usually do hit him and quit it are you a boy this is going to be a
12:18fun ride
12:25big boy range big boy range big boy range big boy range i have one that i want to go
12:44on a date
12:44with uh sophia hello this is her friend sophia this is rosa jack you have to get married and after
12:55marriage you have to have kids don't don't worry that's that's a part of the plan so hopefully soon
13:01i absolutely do feel the pressure to settle down and have grandkids most importantly part of it has
13:07to do with being an only child because i'm like their prized possession right so i have empathy for
13:11for their position you know i do agree with them it's just the time is the only only thing in
13:17question you are 35 years old it's gonna be late no it's not gonna be late 35 is the new
13:2425.
13:25i'm ahead of the game
13:44oh my goodness so thank you my friend really it's like breathtaking let's go easy on the food so
13:52that you don't overeat i'm gonna stuff my big fat face no yeah diarrhea diarrhea it's gonna be great
13:58gonna be great
14:12ow wait till the panic hits right this way sophia and i had an incredible night we connected right away
14:20like
14:20there was a vibe there she's fun it's bonnie and clyde aka sophia and reza
14:28let's get a
14:31saline
14:33yeah salon with uh salon old fashions
14:36salon of fashions
14:41i just took such a dump oh come on oh man it's magnificent magnificent the frogs agree yeah yeah it's
14:49like
14:49but my commercial here it's frogs though wow last night was interesting what sense elaborate some of
14:57the girls there at dinner last night they don't sleep in the same room with their husbands they
15:01actually have separate bedrooms yeah i can't it is very difficult for me to sleep without you next to
15:10you know i have sleep apnea it's difficult for me to sleep and you snore are you
15:14you think you don't you think you don't snore you want a video i got video actually okay show me
15:20right now
15:22oh that's because i just had surgery okay you know you don't look terrifying at all it's like
15:28sleeping next to a dump truck driving through a nitro gristle imprint yeah today's not the day it's date
15:33night and i would appreciate that you don't make those jokes tommy is always making fun i think a
15:39little too much i think that teasing is definitely a way that i show love don't you think that shams
15:45hears the way that you crack jokes at me oh yeah but he's got a great humor sense of humor
15:49and like
15:50none of it's ever malicious you know what i mean he's mimicking like the teasing so you miss your
15:55brother or no sometimes he's painting the box yeah how cute am i looks great you take not beat it
16:05i don't think he's aware that it can be hurtful i love him enough but is love enough you know
16:14all right some discernment for you oh no actually i think we're okay i'll take the check let me ask
16:20you
16:20this if she takes her top off will that be getting some type of discount oh no yeah she wants
16:24the
16:24cans out
16:25with the point with the bullet and a hollow bag with the point with the bullet and a hollow bag
16:32with the
16:32point with the bullet and a hollow bag with the point with the bullet and a hollow bag
16:34you know kiana jomi yo to your captain
16:37all right hi
16:41okay
16:44growing up in high school my best friend would get all the girls that i liked
16:49i had braces i was getting bullied like this my ears did you pin them yeah they used to call
16:57me dumbo no i swear to god damn then i remember i was like 16 i lost my baby fat
17:04on my face and like
17:06i grew up my hair like rishana ronaldo and that was a game changer all of a sudden girls loved
17:13me
17:13and i was like yeah so did you like everyone last night i did i mean obviously outside
17:18of me well are you are there two nezas
17:23two razas yeah yeah what happened to your thumb
17:28i slammed the car door are you concerned about me yeah you slammed it in the door did that hurt
17:34a little
17:34bit um i think we vibed last night though you actually tried to kiss me a couple times and i
17:40dodged you you're right you did dodge my kiss a few times yeah i just met you
17:47what are you looking for what am i looking for like is this rare for you like do you ever
17:51ask girls
17:51out this is where i'm really yeah i usually do
17:58i go out parties hit him and quit it are you a boy i'm a retiring boy i'm retiring why
18:07i mean
18:08i'm definitely in trouble at this point i don't think she's absolutely wrong she is making some solid
18:13points and i'm a terrible liar so that's kind of what's going on like okay got me but i'm retiring
18:20how are you going to retire about habits i'm in literally in the process of retiring should i stick
18:27with you through that process or wait till you're done
18:34i'm going to separate those three i do not believe that i'm a boy quote on quote
18:39i'm promiscuous that's a more accurate depiction
18:43for a heavy for a second day what very heavy for a second day why is this heavy why not
18:49get to the
18:49point this is gonna be a fun ride
18:59coming up like how do you just keep this spark seven years in a lot of people say things like
19:05you know after a while it feels like you're you know having sex with your sister i've never heard
19:22anybody say that
19:31am i allowed to kiss her or are you happy girl why don't you alcohol wipe your lips i did
19:36just come
19:36from the gym that's it oh oh thank you god i love you
19:46still have a happy hour till six all right we'll make it
19:54all right we already have a table yeah right that way should i sit here right here you're sitting in
19:59the hot seat no i don't want to i'm here where's he at is he coming he's here what's up
20:06guys oh
20:15i just walked myself in the door is open hi baby how are you long time i know tell me
20:25how was cabo cabo was good the wedding was beautiful we both got food poisoning she ordered this like
20:34wagyu hot dog which was disgusting it was definitely not romantic in that sense that is not fun i know
20:41that was that now tell me about this i've been waiting for this for like five years in the making
20:48but it's here i work for a tech company i'm a coo and i just feel like i've been running
20:55everyone else's company i think i became passionate about skincare i was kind of a product whore
21:03i always wanted to be an entrepreneur and do my own thing and this is something i feel comfortable
21:07putting my name on so this is for a face it's for a face and it's like all locally sourced
21:14all
21:14california everything you see yeah everything on the on that paper is like i'll put it on molly too
21:21okay guys let me let me know how you feel about it mommy i have no expectations of her putting
21:28it
21:28on her face but neither did i have expectations for her to put on her dogs
21:37dude you missed a lot man we missed you i swear to god i was like we had the persian
21:41night this guy's
21:42giggling with his date it was oh you had a date there first night it was great we established that
21:48there
21:49isn't a match there i just don't think it's a it's a fit dodge the boy
21:58how's things with greg good busy yeah dealing with our communication issues as usual so all of us we
22:07have problem in that department that's for sure we met actually being friends we weren't really dating
22:12because he was like this hollywood playboy and it was kind of really on and off eventually real life
22:17set in and we both realized that we want to be together but overall in every sense of the word
22:23we're just complete different personalities i'm very resolution oriented and he's very like hopefully
22:29the problem will go away so uh that annoys me for sure let me tell you one thing though don't
22:35ever use
22:35the bathroom in front of your i never go to the bathroom in front of natasha so this guy is
22:40proper guy
22:41oh hell no you fart oh no hell yeah i rip them i think that should be normal i'll blame
22:47it on the
22:48kids that should be normalized i think in front of like a long-term partner she doesn't go to the
22:54bathroom in front of me either why would she that's so weird um like how do you just keep this
23:01spark seven
23:02years in same girl are there any sparks yeah we have sparks i mean you know look a lot of
23:10people
23:10say things like after a while it feels like you're you know having sex with your sister because it's
23:17like family at this point oh my god i wouldn't put sister and wife anywhere near each other that's not
23:23what he said there's no way run back the tape man feels like you're you know having sex with your
23:32sister because it's like family at this point yeah that's crazy nobody that's weird i don't know i've
23:41never heard anybody say that we're kind of like feels like we're roommates that are best friends and
23:47i love him to death as my brother but as a husband who you rely on as a support like
23:53i don't go to him bro i'm chasing i'm chasing this asha bro he's such a good guy bro i'm
23:59i'm just
23:59giving it to you straight in his defense he acts a certain way with his wife because he's had something
24:03that he cherished and then it was taken away from him i almost did you know but like i'm lucky
24:09to
24:10this point where like you know she survived that horrific car accident i don't know did i tell you
24:15guys this story no this was like earlier early on in the relationship we were uh on our way to
24:20dubai for
24:21new year's and we had this uh nine hour layover in washington dc she had some friends out there
24:27this guy picked the stuff in the airport he's taking us to the ritz carlton to kill time we're
24:31getting in the car the all the girls jump in that guy's car his friend is alone i go sit
24:36in the other
24:36car we're following them i literally finished the sentence by saying bro your friend drives like a
24:42dumb i finished that sentence the car was in the air humbly they hit a tree my wife is literally
24:53like and not my wife at the time just girlfriend she's knocked out and i'm like slapping her face
24:58like wake up wake up wake up wake up and she woke up i was like bawling to my friends
25:05i'm like i think
25:06this was the love of my life like i'm about to lose her right now only 10 of people that
25:10go through the
25:11surgery that she went through in her head uh will come out of it with not having to learn how
25:16to
25:16read write to walk talk very lucky to be alive we were just seeing each other at that point i
25:23think
25:23that woke me up and maybe shook me out of that that time and place of that party animal greg
25:30got real
25:31you know what i mean there's definitely trauma bond after the accident it really changed everything
25:36if i think of like how i was then i don't see me at all taking him seriously at the
25:43time if the
25:43accident didn't happen slowly as you age you get cursed with perspective you're never going to check
25:49all the boxes we're okay with that
25:57coming up you cannot teach an old monkey a new tree you know that you don't know that it's all
26:03dogs
26:04mommy no no no it's a monkey
26:16okay
26:16hi mommy how was your morning i didn't have my coffee oh
26:25hi babe how are you what are you up to good mom how are you good i just picked up
26:30my mom we're gonna
26:31pick up champs and then we're gonna come home do anything that i need to do to prepare just make
26:36sure there's tons of toilet paper stacked in every single bathroom i already took care of uh my bathroom
26:45do you have to say that word is itch i hundred times okay i'm okay bye babe okay i love
26:53you guys see
26:54okay you know i think that you notice that champs is really starting to mirror
27:01tommy's behavior he's not going to change the way of his talking because champs is around so you can
27:09teach your six years old son but you cannot teach an old monkey a new treat you know that you
27:17don't know
27:17that it's a it's old dogs mommy no no no it's a mind listen i don't want to be the
27:24mom that's always
27:26correcting the kid because i don't want to do what you did and tell him what he's doing wrong
27:33my mom still doesn't acknowledge anything that i do on a daily basis are you proud of me no i'm
27:40not
27:41proud of you she rags on me even to this day can i get a matcha iced latte do you
27:48mind if i add the
27:53i want to actually cut off the generational trauma of like putting your kid down that's
28:00why i'm a very up onion of a human being because there's layers of torture torment and criticism
28:07you know with tommy um i just don't feel relaxed and at ease and safe and not even safe no
28:17i mean
28:18i don't think he's gonna cheat on me or anything like that but but that is insane after being seven
28:24years in this marriage you don't know where you are and you blame it on tommy and then you say
28:29i
28:29don't feel comfortable in this marriage i don't feel safe come on mercedes cut the bs
28:58good god the bs is always on time
29:07hi hi hi babe how are you come on in this is for you oh my god that's so beautiful
29:14thank you
29:15come on in i'm working yeah let me grab some plates and some napkins yeah omgg look at these berries
29:24oh my
29:25gosh the garden is so lush yeah the host with the most you know i'm trying to do a little
29:31something
29:32so much stuff is growing dude yeah it feels magical being back here yeah i don't have any plants to
29:37water i really don't need to worry about the bill of all the watering speaking of not worrying about
29:43the bill of watering i know you know this my advice if you downsize for a certain amount of time
29:50to build
29:51up reserves then you do have enough money to buy the type of house that you expect to live in
29:58you know
29:59steve harvey said he recommends every single person out there goes and buys one first class ticket to
30:07experience that because every day they will continue to thrive to get to that next level in life
30:12i'm never gonna downgrade my life my dad told me and taught me that a sucker pays rent and gold
30:21nessa
30:22in my dad's equation is that big sucker there's a part of me that wants to be like
30:30wake up you would not be a real friend if you didn't say these things i just want to know
30:35you're
30:35saying them to me and not to everybody else in our group i mean obviously i felt like i was
30:40helping or
30:40coming from a place of how is it how wanting to help to be having these intimate conversations
30:45about your so-called friend does that seem nice to you i'm saying i wouldn't move on to something
30:51more expensive i wouldn't i would move down not up but it wasn't about the cost of the house it
30:57was
30:57about credit at that time right so we're back into this conversation no i don't want to i know i
31:02don't
31:03want to have this conversation you're saying to me why did you do this you're trying to make me look
31:10up why cheaper places we're not accepting that you i never called a cheaper place
31:14i don't know all the houses that you showed me before were over eight thousand dollars i never
31:19looked at things you said i won't live north of the boulevard it's not safe
31:23where are you going to church i'm at work um yes honey some of us work and it's a weekday
31:31i don't go to
31:32church do you think i want to have this conversation yelling i don't know why you're
31:36you got it you're getting hit you're turning your voice you're getting hot with me i'm not getting hot
31:40with you
31:54you're getting hot with me why are you guys heated you're never you guys never fight
32:01this is asiago by the way before you got here she said to me i'm not downsizing my life is
32:09about
32:10upward movement i'm not going back and we're done are you guys still like agent no no it's better just
32:17keep the friendship yeah we're gonna be friends while i know his heart is in the right place his
32:23approach is too aggressive i don't want to hear about it anymore what's your money game like girl
32:29i just started uh only fans you started an only i just started are your feet are on there are
32:35your
32:35feet on there i've done a beat shot i'm so jealous they buy you gifts i'll say like oh look
32:41my toenail
32:42polish chip can someone send me 300 for a pedicure goldness is such a good girl even though people
32:48see her as like a exotic you know just force of nature i can't see goldnessa leaning in
32:56to that full-fledged only fans girl i post much less risque on my only fans than i have in
33:05my lingerie
33:05shoots for my sex drive
33:09no wonder the bitch is looking at ten thousand dollar house in cheers to the only fans cheers to
33:17money
33:22oh wow if we both weren't short kings this would be more awkward yeah but fresh how many people have
33:29your head in here what do you mean oh god am i sitting on something no you're not oh god
33:57i think you're gonna like it oh this is nice this is very pretty good job i'm just taking photo
34:03of
34:03you no take a picture with everything talking one two okay did you take it yeah the steak looks
34:11amazing when's the last time we did this it's been a while i mean i feel like we do it
34:17like
34:18at least once every two weeks but not like this i mean you're you're always out okay you're out all
34:25the time my going out is going to a friend's house i'm not going out to like some fancy dinner
34:29maybe it's
34:30not a good look like you know you're a married woman you're always out i don't know not that i'm
34:34insecure about it i just don't like the thought of let's say somebody some man like staring at my
34:39wife or looking at her and giving her on the eye i don't like that i don't know maybe it's
34:44kind of
34:45like a armenian old school mentality my mom was never out she was always home if i'm at a friend's
34:51house having a couple drinks that's a harmless thing that's all we're talking about but if i sit let's say
34:56if at book if i'm at the beverly hills hotel bar and some girl says oh what's your instagram or
35:04whatever you know and i give it to her somehow you manage to do that every time yeah but usually
35:10i'm
35:10just being nice i'm not being like i'm not being a creep i don't want to i i don't put
35:15myself in
35:15those positions you know yeah it's obviously it's going to happen wait i give away my phone number and
35:22stuff you have oh god here we go you you have we haven't fought over you giving your ig and
35:30your
35:30phone number out yeah like eight ten years ago yeah no you just told me two months ago there was
35:35some
35:35weird girl texting at 2 a.m because i was just being nice because i was with my friends at
35:40zero
35:41attraction to her there was nothing there's really no need for her to be bringing that up at all a
35:46couple
35:46of girls were out of town they're asking me where to go i had zero interest and i just gave
35:51her my number
35:51i got a text at two in the morning saying hey baby what are you
35:57so the first thing i did was i went to my wife i'm like look at this person if i
36:01had something to
36:01hide that's the last thing i'd be deleting that text i'm i'm not that guy anymore i just feel if
36:08you're gonna say you can't go to beverly hills then you better than not do that it's like which is
36:13it right it does seem a little insecure he literally ran to me and he told me this story so
36:19i'm happy to hear your insecurities but you have to like approach it differently you bring it up being
36:26this concern then it makes me think of the things that you do and it's just not a two-way
36:31street so
36:32what's your idea of communication i could even tell you about my skincare line or something you even
36:39ask me sometimes and i'm responding to you and you're not listening i can't focus on like i oh
36:46do you like this dress that i bought i can't focus on okay don't even do that because that's
36:51very unfair to my personality this is why we can't communicate
37:00like i guess my whole point is like i have come to a very comfortable
37:05space right now where i don't communicate so that's a problem
37:25it's just i'm tired of talking about the same all the time
37:34how do we get here
37:48how do we get here i think it's just what is prioritized in our minds and how we show each
37:55other to prioritize it where you feel important and i feel important i think that we can make it a
38:03a plan to get these things in order i'm happy that we had this this chat i don't want to
38:11ever make
38:11you cry i just think that what i expect is effort and really putting in the work we have to
38:18make a
38:18change towards actually hearing each other and i think that's our main objective is to be on that path
38:23of just growing together this is day one of starting fresh
38:37you're married an amazing husband who listens to you i just want you to be more like
38:44like pet you and kiss me i do all these things minus pet you see you're listening
39:01what's your name watch your step yes i already know what i want i get the same thing every time
39:10i come so if you want to check out the menu can you tell me what is it i get
39:13the blue jam benedict
39:16look at the picture of this omelet oh yeah it looks attractive beautiful beautiful put that on
39:23a wall i like to order this something different no one's stopping you kid don't stop it so let me
39:29get to why i wanted to have a plan with you today i was talking to yesterday about
39:35her marriage is she happy she told me she's not because um she doesn't feel safe in this marriage
39:45and you should spend more quality time together you do you have her interpretation and she's been
39:52the same way for 10 years she's crazy i have a good relationship with vita could be better for sure
39:58i mean vita's super critical about everything so with vita sometimes it can be a little bit of
40:04headbutt i just got engaged does anybody has magnifying glass
40:16i love this ring more than anything you'll have to do something to improve your relationship
40:22i'm good no wait what no we've been together for 10 years what are we going to improve upon it
40:28but i'm not gonna have someone tell me that i need to change
40:33the way you explain it seems like you know everything not at all again you don't you don't
40:39either and you talk i know i know much more than you all day
40:44darth vita is on another level she's on another level we are very different we come from different
40:49places i grew up in queens real deal gangsters came from my neighborhood i was 13 when my mother died
40:59no dad in the picture i used to sleep in a park on a park bench my wife she's super
41:05critical she
41:06should be grateful i feel like i'm a good husband i'm a good dad you know what i mean i'm
41:10not out in the
41:11bar i'm not at the tv club i'm a loyal guy it bothers me and makes me upset i don't
41:18deserve that
41:27i get triggered because the faults in my wife i see in coming from you from the the the disagreements
41:35and the way that you guys will talk to each other and then she'll get mad at me or then
41:40you're snippy
41:41then you're leaving it's not healthy for one but now i got a little guy and he sees us does
41:47he think
41:48that that's now okay for him but are you happy i'm very happy but she doesn't feel that way
41:59she's not happy then she should get divorced
42:12next time on the valley persian style
42:15tabouli is not a person dish but if he likes to make it good for him he looks so cute
42:22i know
42:24are you an option for me i asked you to do something and you couldn't deliver you know
42:29what i'm a big failure jenis and i dated for about four months and we got married go yourself
42:37you're acting like i left you just to be with her what is this
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