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The Valley Persian Style - Season 1 - Episode 07: Reza-lution?
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00:06Previously on the Valley Persian Style.
00:09Hi!
00:10Look at this.
00:12Look at the spread he put out for you, dude.
00:15I have a listing.
00:17I spoke with the seller about having a twilight open.
00:20Great.
00:21I think that's kind of a good start.
00:22I'm close with Golnesa's sister, Layla.
00:25But I don't talk to Layla about Golnesa.
00:27I don't talk to Golnesa about Layla.
00:30Oh, my God!
00:32The painful question.
00:34How much?
00:35It's right around $14,000.
00:36Ooh, $14,000.
00:38I definitely need Dennis' help.
00:41I don't want to waste our time.
00:42I don't want to fight.
00:42I want to make money.
00:45She's wearing your jewelry.
00:46You think it's cool to rub on your dog?
00:49Have you ever paid retail price?
00:52Usually I would back my friend, and I can't when she says dumb like that, right?
00:56I don't feel like she meets me halfway.
00:58I feel like every time we have an argument, I'm the one reaching out to you.
01:01They were sucking my blood, and you were just sitting there.
01:04Oh, f***ed up.
01:06I know we're waiting for one more person.
01:08I f***ing hate ambush.
01:19I don't want to waste.
01:42I don't know where I can put that purse.
01:44Here, I can take this.
01:45Are you going to get...
01:46You know what?
01:47Can I just rub it?
01:48Perfect.
01:50So I think this matches my outfit.
01:52I'm confused.
01:54Exactly what it looks like is happening, it's happening.
01:56But I think for the sake of friendship is talk it in a setting where we're calm and we can
02:03have a conversation.
02:04Good.
02:05Okay.
02:06I'm embarrassed.
02:07It's an unpleasant surprise.
02:09I did not expect to have to be set up on a lunch because your ego didn't allow you to
02:15reach out.
02:16How petty.
02:17So I want to leave and get out of here.
02:20You're like running.
02:21Don't take her purse.
02:22No, I'm going to hold it to you.
02:23Don't worry.
02:24It's safe.
02:25Good luck.
02:26I'll be here close, watching.
02:28What the f***?
02:30You take their purses away?
02:31Why?
02:32Because they can't leave.
02:35Genius.
02:39I guess the floor is yours.
02:41I mean, you're the one who experienced a lot of things.
02:44You were there.
02:45You saw what happened.
02:47That night was too much and heavy and I wanted you to have my back and you didn't.
02:52Okay.
02:52And then that's when I was very pissed off and disappointed.
02:56Especially your husband started a tag.
02:58First and foremost, Reza started the conversation, not Greg.
03:02No, it was Greg.
03:03No, it was Reza.
03:04We're going to look at a $2 million house so you can, can you ease up on the shopping?
03:08You would think you grew up with a silver spoon in your mouth and a trust fund.
03:12You're on the hill of, let's say, Beverly Hills.
03:16You guys wouldn't be able to afford it.
03:18I don't, I don't think it's the right move.
03:20Okay, you guys get on the same page and stop fronting, bro.
03:23You don't have another choice, honey.
03:29You were ambushed and I feel so bad for that.
03:32Oh, you do?
03:33You do feel bad?
03:34It's the way you're approaching it is offending people.
03:38It feels like you're above and they're beneath you and-
03:43Oh, they are.
03:43Yes.
03:44Everybody is like pretending that they want to be very classy and things, but nobody's acting classy.
03:50Acting like a hyena, sitting, waiting for a moment to jump on.
03:54It's so beneath me and I can't go that low as much as I don't want to look down on
03:59people.
04:00But listen, sometimes, sometimes you have no choice.
04:04You know, Reza said the serum thing, okay?
04:07That you went behind my back and talked to Reza about the serum thing.
04:11Correct.
04:11For that, I apologize because I would feel the same way if Reza came to me and said, whatever.
04:17But you look back and tell me, let me ask you something.
04:20Do you know what kind of a discount I give you?
04:22That's the first thing that came to your mind.
04:24When Reza said that, your husband says, yes, exactly.
04:28After my wife spends thousands of dollars on you and supporting your business.
04:34If your wife wanted to have my pieces, it wasn't just because of supporting my business.
04:40She wanted to have the piece and she did came to me.
04:44I am supporting my friend's business.
04:45Yes.
04:46Correct.
04:46And it is thousands of dollars.
04:47That's correct.
04:48You never paid a full price or even the price that anybody ever paid.
04:52I'm not a starving student that I need this money so bad that I'm dying.
04:57If you don't support, my business is going to crash.
05:00It's not right.
05:02I do buy your jewelry because I want to support your business.
05:06Okay.
05:07But that's because we're friends and that's what I do for my friends.
05:09Let me tell you something before you move forward.
05:12Everything is started with that night.
05:15Okay.
05:16So now you want to-
05:18For me, that was good enough.
05:21Right.
05:21You want to say the skincare situation, I'm like, you know what?
05:24In your eyes, I up.
05:26Yeah, I get it.
05:27That was not my intention, but I it up.
05:29Okay.
05:30And from bottom of my heart, I'm very sorry.
05:35We're missing the Persian culture here where it's like thoughtful and it's taro and it's beautiful and it's hospitality and
05:44it's family.
05:45And it's very sad for me.
05:46But eventually it has to be that if it didn't mean anything to you at any time, then you have
05:53to show that that's enough for you to want to hear the other side.
06:28I'm going to see this as a friendship that matters to you.
06:31I can't carry this whole thing on my shoulder to keep a friendship going.
06:36You know what it feels like?
06:37It feels like you're always one foot out the door, whether it's with your friendship, at least with me.
06:43And subsequently, it makes me feel like, what am I fighting for?
06:48If I ever give you that feeling after all this years, then I'll be concerned.
07:07Stop leaving your sticks and garbage and trash everywhere.
07:09Just throw them out, dude.
07:10I don't know where you get there.
07:12Wait, can I have a hug?
07:13Can I have a hug?
07:14Can I have a hug?
07:16Fine.
07:16Oh, I love you.
07:17Oh, I love you.
07:20Anyway.
07:21What's going on?
07:22Right now, it's been a while since I've sold a house.
07:25This is a very scary market for a real estate agent.
07:28All the most productive real estate agents have not sold that much in a long time.
07:33Our nest egg, if it doesn't, if I don't produce, I get worried a lot.
07:38Tommy is building a podcast network, and he's on the ground floor.
07:42Let's do shots.
07:43No, rabies shots.
07:44That's what we're going to do.
07:46But in the meantime, that puts a lot more pressure on me to make sure that I'm performing and producing
07:51and bringing everything to the table to keep us afloat.
07:55It's a lot of constant stress.
07:57I have to market myself, or else I'm going to be a one-house Wanda.
08:01I have to be a multi-house Maris.
08:04I have to sell more.
08:05I just feel like I'm also the only one that worries.
08:08Like, I just don't think that it feels at all balanced.
08:12Everything is coming together for the Twilight Open House.
08:15I'm inviting agents from the agency, Reza Gigi Adam and the whole crew.
08:20But I feel like people are like, where's Tommy?
08:24He's not coming to this.
08:25And I was like, hang on.
08:26I'm not doing this.
08:27I'm not doing this.
08:29I'm not going.
08:30Doing what?
08:30I don't like them.
08:32That's it.
08:33That's it.
08:34You understand?
08:36I don't think it's fair.
08:38When you say, I don't like them, you're protecting your feelings.
08:42And I respect that you're protecting them.
08:43You're not, because you keep pushing at it.
08:45Do you understand that for that?
08:47I was in depression.
08:48I had to go for anger management.
08:50I had to go to jail.
08:51I had to get therapy for something that made me miserable.
08:55And it's that simple.
08:58The shit that went down with Reza and I was not a weekend.
09:02It was not a bad couple of days.
09:03It went off for a year.
09:04My happiness and my peace of mind is worth way more than anything else do.
09:10Some things that you do in life are irreparable.
09:12You can't forgive, but you just can't be forgetful because that will come back on you if you're not careful.
09:19He's not worth my time.
09:21I do not care.
09:22Let's not just take this to the Reza thing.
09:24We have a lot of friends that you don't have a negative history with whatsoever,
09:28like Amir and Natasha and these other guys like Greg and Reza Jackson.
09:33I don't want to hear anymore about not knowing Natasha or Boris or heckle and Jekyll and Clyde.
09:39I don't give a f***.
09:40Do you understand?
09:41Go.
09:42Do what makes you happy.
09:43I want to do what makes me happy.
09:45I am a stable, dependable rock.
09:48I have come through for us.
09:50You have not come through for me.
09:52Well, you really lucked out, man.
09:54I'm a s***ing husband.
09:57I don't feel supported.
09:59I'm like this Stepford wife, Stockholm suffering, frozen Elsa, not doing anything and just going like,
10:08okay, you're not okay with that.
10:10Okay.
10:11That I don't feel like I deserve.
10:13You have thrown your hands up in the air.
10:14It's never going to be what I think you want it to be.
10:25Coming up, what if you decide I'm like over you and then I'm stuck with a vasectomized, uh...
10:31You're going to go have other kids with other people.
10:43You have walkie-talkies, right?
10:45Mine has a police one on it, so I can talk to the police.
10:50Yes, you like to talk to the police.
10:51So, if any bad guys break into my house and steal all the money that we have.
10:59Do you think a bad guy is going to break into our house with those dogs that we have?
11:02But what if the dogs are outside?
11:05That's easy.
11:05Not too easy.
11:12Are these real gold?
11:13Yeah, so we work in 18-karat gold.
11:16Pick it up.
11:16You can look at anything you want.
11:22That's a nice heft to it.
11:24Yeah.
11:25Yeah, it's a forever piece.
11:26Hi.
11:26There's my friend.
11:27Oh, hi.
11:28Elizabeth, this is my friend.
11:30Mercedes.
11:31Mercedes.
11:32Yes.
11:33Mercedes, yes.
11:33Meet you, Elizabeth.
11:34Elizabeth was just showing me some of the options of what I can turn my dad into.
11:41My dad died in February of 23.
11:44Once I got the connection from the medium to my dad.
11:49And your dad has passed as well?
11:52And he just said, he goes, I'm always here.
11:55You need to know.
11:56You need to know I'm always here for you.
11:58I just had a light bulb moment.
12:00And I thought having a pendant, having my dad as a diamond, and being able to wear him
12:06close to my heart would be really meaningful to me.
12:10These are lab-grown diamonds.
12:12We use ashes or hair.
12:14We extract that carbon, and then we make a diamond from there.
12:19Oh, my God.
12:27Watching him go through dementia in the final cycle of his life, to realize the life I have
12:41was because of this man.
12:42He was a Persian Jew in Iran in the 50s, and he married a Muslim woman.
12:48He walked so I could run.
12:52I love him a lot.
12:53He was a great dad.
12:58What do you think I should do, Maris?
13:00Look at the options.
13:01Can I ask how much?
13:03It's around $28,000.
13:05$28,000?
13:09That's what I said.
13:11I was like, what?
13:12I could bring you back for $28,000.
13:16Obviously, the only person I could have with me today is MJ, because she knows my dad.
13:22We've been friends for so long.
13:24Plus, she and I spread her dad's ashes at the beach together.
13:29Go for it.
13:30Do a thing.
13:31Do a handful.
13:33Oh, oh, oh.
13:38I just got something in my mouth.
13:47I think I should do him as, like, a pendant like this.
13:51Neck.
13:51Neck.
13:52Close to my heart.
13:53This is one of those things that just solidifies our friendship and just reinforces the fact
14:00that we're meant to be together.
14:02We're better together than we are apart.
14:04Thank you for coming.
14:06I needed you here to do all that.
14:09Not to, like, get off death and ashes.
14:13Yep, let's get off death and ashes.
14:15Yeah.
14:16So I'm freaking out over the Twilight Open.
14:19Babe, where is this open house at?
14:22It's at Layla's house.
14:24No, no way.
14:26That's the only listing that it makes sense to have it.
14:29I know that Colnesa might have a problem with me selling her sister's house because they
14:36have always had a really strained relationship.
14:40I have one five-year-old.
14:41I don't need another.
14:42I have one bitch.
14:43I don't need another.
14:44But we've had a tough time with Layla's house.
14:47This listing is not moving as fast.
14:50And, you know, her pricing is a little bit...
14:54So you got to have big parties for the houses that are harder to sell.
14:58So let me ask you this.
15:00Are you talking to Colnesa about this?
15:03Don't you think you should be like, listen, you obviously know I have your sister's house
15:07listed on the market.
15:08Right.
15:09And I just want to give you the heads up and let you know.
15:13Because I love where the three of us...
15:16Me too.
15:17...are at.
15:17I'm going to tell her as soon as I know the date.
15:20Okay.
15:33Thank you so much.
15:35Can I offer you any cocktails or a glass of wine this evening?
15:38I'm going to get this one, sir.
15:39I'm going to have a glass of Fortaleza Blanco.
15:43Where's your orange?
15:44Absolutely.
15:46How are you doing?
15:47Today I was supposed to meet with Reza Jax.
15:50And then literally a second later, I saw Tani and walked in.
15:54She walked in?
15:56Yeah.
15:58And I'm like, well...
16:00Pardon my interruption.
16:01Is there anything I can offer you guys this evening?
16:03Let's do the beef tolma and let's do the summer salad.
16:06And King Tali is the beef dumpling.
16:08Yeah.
16:08But let's do that.
16:09You got it.
16:12So she really tried very hard to convince me Reza Jax.
16:17Reza started a conversation.
16:18No.
16:19Reza may have, but I don't remember anything.
16:23Let me tell you something.
16:24As much as I'm pissed off by Greg, I'm pissed off by this and that,
16:28I have to say you're the main, main cause of all of this.
16:33I swear to God, you would think you grew up with a silver spoon in your mouth and a trust
16:38fund.
16:38I'm still very mad at Bombshot because he just didn't defend me in Palm Springs.
16:44How long do you think you're going to be mad at him?
16:47Most probably for the rest of my life, I'm going to be mad at him.
16:50I wish I had done the right thing.
16:52I didn't do the right thing and I'm the first one to admit it.
16:54You're the boys.
16:55I said, look, you guys disrespected my wife.
16:58She was getting attacked.
17:00When you talk to my wife, you're talking to my family.
17:02If you're talking to my family, you're talking to me.
17:05I told them that she never offended anybody.
17:08Did you say that?
17:09Yes.
17:09You said this.
17:10Because I already told you.
17:11I'm not going to let it go.
17:13What do you want me to say?
17:14You made a mistake over there.
17:16What the do you want from me?
17:18I was fighting with everybody that night and then you sat right next to me and then you looked at
17:26me.
17:27Don't talk to me like that ever in your life.
17:30Ever.
17:32You owe me.
17:33Oh yeah, you do owe me.
17:35A lot.
17:36The answers that you want, I have already given you.
17:55I've been through a lot of difficulties, pretty much on my own.
17:59She's always been self-centered, but then again, she's my wife.
18:03I've accepted her the way she is and I have to support her.
18:09Right or wrong, I'm always going to have her back.
18:11You know what?
18:12I don't even think I should have in this conversation with you ever.
18:16F*** that night.
18:17Seriously.
18:18I don't even know what you want.
18:42Can you warm it up?
18:44Please.
18:46Even Cece knows how to say please.
18:49Can you show her some love?
18:51Anything?
18:51Yeah, anything?
18:53No emotion, nothing?
18:54OK.
18:55Can I have my iPad, please?
18:59Anything else, my master?
19:02I say water, please.
19:03OK.
19:04Are we ready for the pool party this week?
19:06I got the water slide, I got the bartender,
19:08and he promised to show up.
19:11I think everybody should have a good time.
19:13Post-Paul Springs, there's a little bit
19:15of this underlying residual drama.
19:19So I kind of want to get everybody together.
19:21Why not do it amongst the innocence of kids and relax?
19:25Let's channel our inner child and just get back to being friends.
19:31So everything should be set?
19:32I just ordered a bunch of stuff on Amazon,
19:34so don't yell at me.
19:35For yourself or for the party?
19:36No, for the party.
19:37But is there anything in there for yourself?
19:41Not that I can think of.
19:42Mm-hmm.
19:43I'll be opening them all.
19:53Are you guys excited to buy some stuff?
19:55The Scooby Snacks.
19:57I've been dying to come here, you guys.
19:59It's so cute in here.
20:02This is the cutest place.
20:04Adam would love this place.
20:04Love it.
20:05It's gorgeous.
20:07We're like in Golnesa's Shangri-La.
20:10It's a weed cafe that's beautiful and botanical.
20:14Oh, my gosh.
20:16Like, Golnesa is in heaven.
20:19This is so pretty.
20:19Isn't it?
20:32The rest of your eyes are half-closed.
20:34Are they?
20:34Yeah.
20:35Thank God I didn't smoke anything.
20:37Can I show you guys something?
20:38OK.
20:38Yeah.
20:39OK.
20:39Where's my bag?
20:40Big.
20:41Big.
20:43I saw this house today.
20:45Wow.
20:45That's right up the street from my house.
20:48You're going to buy it?
20:49They listed it for sale.
20:50And then he's like, you know what?
20:53We're also going to be listing it for lease as well.
20:56I said, well, how much is asking?
20:58And he said $14,500.
21:00$14,500?
21:02It's a lot of money.
21:03I think about it all day.
21:05I'm going to ask Dennis for the money.
21:09How much money?
21:10$3,000 of it will come from him per month.
21:13Put the lease on him.
21:13He owes me alimony.
21:15Put the lease on his name.
21:15He f***ed my friend a week after we got married.
21:18You're working this guy that you threw out of the vacation house,
21:22sent his ass packing, and now you're going to hit him up and squeeze him?
21:27Hopefully, she puts his name on the lease because what if he doesn't want to give her
21:31the money after month one, two, three, four?
21:34Like, then you're stuck paying this $14,000.
21:40So anyway, I am having the Twilight open house.
21:45It's at your sister's house.
21:49You know that I've been selling your sister's home, and it hasn't sold yet,
21:53so I have an opportunity to have a big push, and I expect everyone to be there in a loving,
21:58supportive way.
21:59I don't think I can make it that day.
22:01Don't say that.
22:02I just did.
22:03No, babe.
22:04It's my family.
22:06Back off.
22:07What is your relationship with your sister like?
22:10Non-existent.
22:11Marissa is definitely overstepping by throwing this Twilight at my sister's house
22:15and inviting me to it, but I guess she overstepped over a decade ago
22:19when she decided to become best friends with my sister,
22:22knowing the dynamic between my sister and I.
22:25So you're going to not come?
22:26Absolutely.
22:26I'm not going to come.
22:27If you don't want to come, that's one thing, but you don't need to insult her.
22:31I'm not insulting anyone.
22:32Yeah, you're like, that's my family.
22:33Back off.
22:34I think you're pushing.
22:35Dude, we're all in a good place.
22:36And you're pushing for something right now.
22:37I don't know what you're pushing for.
22:38We're in a good place.
22:39There's no lack of loyalty.
22:41This is my job, and I'm sorry if it's not perfect for you.
22:44I find it to be very immature at this point in our lives.
22:47Figure it out, or else when it's time for me to show up for you,
22:50I will piss on your parade.
22:53Is your husband coming?
22:56Why?
22:57He doesn't feel comfortable around everybody that's there.
23:00So that's a good excuse.
23:02I don't feel comfortable being there.
23:03Okay, let's put the Twilight on ice, because I'm going to tell you.
23:07Maris, should I text Tommy and see if we can move past this?
23:12What?
23:13Why are you laughing?
23:14I'm being sincere.
23:15You want to text Tommy right now?
23:17Yeah.
23:17Oh, yeah.
23:18I'd encourage it.
23:20I feel like you should say, I look forward to a day that there's a hang.
23:25Read it before you send it.
23:28Hi, Tommy.
23:28I'm sorry if this seems like it's coming from left field.
23:31I wanted to say that it would be great to see you at Maris' Twilight Open.
23:36And I understand if that's not an option.
23:39But I look forward to a time in the future where we can be in a better place.
23:43Regards, Reza.
23:44MJ and I have had a hard time of progressing our friendship.
23:49Like, we need to figure out how to get right with Tommy.
23:53So it feels comfortable coming around in our social circle when we do couples things.
23:59I need some holy water.
24:01This is a big deal.
24:02Oh, my God.
24:04You sent it?
24:05I did.
24:06OMG.
24:07If Tommy hits me back, I might have a heart attack.
24:10Oh, my God.
24:11This is so much more fun now.
24:16Oh, God.
24:16Coming up.
24:17We had a conversation.
24:18Is it back to the way it used to be?
24:20Unless I see some drastic efforts, there's no chance we can go back to that.
24:37Who's going to get in their bed first?
24:40No, no, no, no.
24:42Okay.
24:42Hey, Roman, no, please.
24:43That's dangerous, dude.
24:45Can you brush your teeth, bud?
24:47Let's get in the bed.
24:50Okay.
24:50I love you, buds.
24:55I got him to sleep, finally.
24:59Kaden just did not want to go down.
25:01You still want a fourth kid?
25:03I never said I wanted a fourth kid.
25:05Are we having this conversation again?
25:07She was trying to get a vasectomy.
25:09Yeah, exactly.
25:09I was, like, telling her, I was, like, what if, like, just there was an accident, and she was just
25:13like, oh, my God, I don't know what we would do.
25:14That was a fourth kid?
25:15It's something to think about.
25:17I don't think that you need to just, like, be like, no, absolutely not.
25:21There's plenty of other methods.
25:22Like what?
25:23Like a condom.
25:25We're married.
25:27Table of the conversation?
25:28Why don't you just get a consult?
25:30Listen, I don't know how it's going to affect me.
25:32Why would I risk it?
25:33I'd rather, why don't you just get on birth control?
25:36It's reversible, because I'm not putting hormones into my body.
25:38I eat so healthy.
25:40I take all these supplements to be, like, super healthy.
25:43I got to go under surgery and subject my body to the trauma.
25:47Okay.
25:47I did it three times.
25:49I got three C-sections.
25:51I carried three children.
25:52I breastfed them all.
25:54You did the fun part.
25:56If we're going to do it, it should be you.
25:58What if you decide I'm, like, over you, and then I'm stuck with a vasectomized...
26:03You're going to go have other kids with other people?
26:06I'm just saying.
26:08You want to keep your options open?
26:09Okay.
26:11I went through this crazy-ass experience in my first marriage.
26:15We're really trying to have a baby, and it couldn't be done.
26:19And now here I am, and I have them, and it just feels wrong to eliminate the ability
26:24to do something that was so hard to do.
26:29If I were to do it, it would come with some very, very nice perks.
26:32Uh-huh.
26:40Hi.
26:44Hi.
26:45How are you?
26:46So good to see you.
26:47You're stupid.
26:48You look beautiful.
26:49You look amazing.
26:51How have you been?
26:52Good.
26:53Just, honestly, running errands today has been insane, but good, good.
26:57And hungry, so thankfully.
26:59I've been dying to try this place.
27:01The food's amazing here.
27:02Yeah, I come here all the time.
27:03Okay.
27:04Hi, welcome.
27:05How are you doing today?
27:06Good.
27:06How are you?
27:07Very good.
27:08Can we get two sultani's, one chicken, one beef served family style?
27:12Family style.
27:13And then Tadiq with Horme and Raimeh.
27:15Thank you so much.
27:16Anything else?
27:17I think that's plenty.
27:19Beautiful.
27:20We'll keep having it for you.
27:22How have you been?
27:23I've been okay.
27:24You know, I had a boys' night.
27:26Mm-hmm.
27:27I'm sure Greg told you about it.
27:29And it was really difficult.
27:31She does not disrespect anybody because they're living in the valley.
27:37This man had his ass handed to him by his wife.
27:41Oh, my God.
27:42Yes.
27:45Do you feel like you got it off your chest about how you feel?
27:49So, honestly, the most important person I wanted to talk to was you.
27:54I'm very sorry because I didn't like that I put you in a sticky situation.
28:00And that was not my intent.
28:02What did you do when your friend pulled out her serum?
28:05Hold on, Reza, Reza, hold on.
28:07And then what?
28:07I rub it on my dog.
28:08Okay.
28:09You think that's a good look?
28:10Okay.
28:12Accountability is huge to me.
28:13I really appreciate you apologizing already.
28:16And, you know, and I know already that you would not have malicious intent.
28:20It felt like you had so many things you were upset about.
28:24Totally.
28:25We had a conversation.
28:26I think she thinks nobody likes her.
28:28She feels ambushed.
28:29She feels attacked.
28:30All the things she did say.
28:32She hates that I didn't stand up for her.
28:34Stand up for her?
28:36She's nuts.
28:37Whatever her insecurity is or whatever it is, she's in this defensive mode.
28:41And she wants to protect it so badly.
28:44What is she protecting?
28:45I'll tell you a different version of the story.
28:48She also then moved to the States by herself with no family.
28:51That's why we accept them as our own family because we want them to feel like they have that.
28:56But you would think that would humble you and somehow it didn't.
28:59I know.
29:03Tanin is telling me about Skye's upbringing, familial situation.
29:08It's very good to know these things.
29:10It's very helpful.
29:11You lower your expectations way down to the floor because this person has zero self-awareness, doesn't take any accountability.
29:21It makes sense now.
29:22Is it back to the way it used to be as if this never happened?
29:26Like, where do you stand with Skye today?
29:28Unless I see some drastic efforts, there's no chance we can go back to that.
29:38Coming up...
29:39Whenever we met, we didn't have any stress.
29:42I was very passionate back then...
29:44Oh.
29:44...about us.
29:45No, gang, you're not now?
29:47Here we go.
30:02What kind of color is that?
30:04That's a gorgeous charcoal.
30:06Alcatraz black.
30:08Want to know what I've been saying that's nice about you behind your back?
30:11Probably not much.
30:12Our podcast has been one of the main places where we've had healthy communication and I'm grateful for it.
30:20Oh, man.
30:21It sounded like a dragon just flew by.
30:23We have a podcast, Till the Dirt.
30:25The podcast has been great for us.
30:27Should your husband know what color roses that you want?
30:32No, I know you like white.
30:33They didn't have them.
30:34Aren't you glad I didn't get you dog s***?
30:38When we sit down and we turn that mic on, we're honest and we're vulnerable.
30:42It's been a key for our relationship.
30:44So, are you going to tell me who you got a text from last night?
30:48Reza.
30:49By the way, Tommy responded to my text.
30:51Shut up!
30:52Why are you not telling me this?
30:55What?
30:57Yeah.
30:58He wrote, appreciate you reaching out.
31:01We're almost robbed, so let's touch base once filming is done and we can go from there.
31:05I just thought he responded.
31:08That was great.
31:09Yeah.
31:10Yeah.
31:11Whoa.
31:13That one might have registered on the Richter scale.
31:15Look, doing all of the adulting that we have to do, we carry so much stress.
31:20And whenever we met, we didn't have any stress.
31:23I was very passionate back then.
31:25Oh.
31:25About us.
31:26Okay.
31:27You're not now?
31:28I want to be, but I have to feel safe to be passionate.
31:33Like, I don't get when you talk about feeling safe.
31:37I'm not saying I'm perfect.
31:38I'm far from it.
31:39I know I'm a good guy, you know, and I know that...
31:42You are a good guy.
31:43If you weren't happy here...
31:45I'd be gone, dude.
31:46You would.
31:47I'd be gone.
31:48We would never do that with Shams in the picture.
31:51So we want to make sure that we're good just us.
31:55Yeah, but there's also a level, I don't want to teach him the wrong things either.
31:59So I'm not going to stay in a situation where I'm not happy.
32:02If you make a choice, you don't have to die with the decision.
32:05You can fix it.
32:06You can change it.
32:07Okay, so I love that you said that because that makes me feel like you're not staying despite us just
32:15for him.
32:16But then I also want to know that we are staying just for each other.
32:21We should probably go to therapy, man.
32:23I think that it's important for you to have someone to be that sounding board.
32:28It makes me happy to hear you say this stuff because I feel like I can see through the crazy
32:33stuff that maybe before I would have thought it was, like, negative.
32:37I was so hopeless, you know?
32:41Like, I had lost hope for us.
32:43I feel like people are like, where's Tommy?
32:46He's not coming.
32:47I don't like them.
32:48That's it.
32:49What you do is you shove everything under the rug.
32:52A lot of the times where we couldn't communicate with it is because we were in the fight because we
32:56took no accountability for something.
32:58I think that just, Tommy, like, you really need to turn it down.
33:01I just don't feel relaxed and at ease and safe.
33:05That's why it's a mirror, you dumb ass.
33:09When he tells me that he's open to therapy, then I'm like, oh, my God, we're able to have a
33:14conversation.
33:15Nobody needs to blow up for no reason.
33:17And I'm just like, this is how it should always be.
33:22And I want this more.
33:23You did good.
33:25When you married me, you did great.
33:28Yeah, totally.
33:45Okay, we're watching you.
33:50That was dangerous.
33:52Okay.
33:54Yes or no?
33:55Okay.
33:56Okay.
34:03Aw, that's so cute.
34:04Aw, look at that.
34:05Oh, wow.
34:07The moment's coming.
34:08Whoa!
34:10Hi!
34:11What's up, guys?
34:12Hi.
34:13Good for having us.
34:13This is where I want to play.
34:15Is that okay?
34:15You guys are more than welcome to come on the water slide and hang out
34:19Getting paid for being myself
34:23Lo and behold he comes with a gift too?
34:25All black on the...
34:26No, I haven't even got ready. We almost kissed.
34:29What, you been disappointed?
34:31Yeah, I love you.
34:36You guys look great. Wow, that is a serious...
34:40No joke.
34:41My goodness. Yeah, let me get another table.
34:43What's up?
34:44How are you?
34:45I'm good, how are you?
34:46Good.
34:47What's up, my dude?
34:48That looks beautiful, that cheese.
34:49Yeah, looks delicious too.
34:51Oh my God, you guys, MJ and I go to meet Golnesa.
34:55Golnesa goes, I went and saw this house and it's for rent for $14,000 a month.
35:02I'm like, okay.
35:03She goes, but I have a plan.
35:07I want to hit up Dennis for like three grand of that money.
35:12That's quite a lot of money for a platonic relationship or not.
35:19Why even get into depending on someone who you say betrayed you?
35:25Where do we just draw the line?
35:27Why the would he do that?
35:29They have a very unique relationship, right?
35:35What?
35:36Oh my gosh.
35:40Speak of the devil.
35:41Speak of the devil.
35:42Who's here?
35:44What's up?
35:45Hi.
35:46Hi.
35:46We were talking about the house you checked out.
35:48Hello?
35:48Hello is usually a word.
35:50Hi.
35:50Hi.
35:51I love you.
35:52If you talk about me, you can say hello to me.
35:54Calm down, bro.
35:54You came in hot again.
35:55I have nothing to hide, but why am I always the topic?
35:59Move on.
36:00Talk about your failing marriages.
36:03Hi, Vida June.
36:05How are you?
36:06Hi, Vida June.
36:06Nice to see you.
36:07You look lovely.
36:09So do you.
36:10Hello.
36:10Hi, Vida June.
36:11How about you?
36:12Vida June is at number two.
36:14Yeah, number two.
36:19It's Guy coming?
36:20I really don't know, honestly.
36:22Have you spoken to her since boys' night?
36:24What am I going to speak to her about?
36:25I text her.
36:25I text her.
36:26She didn't respond.
36:27Do you want a taco?
36:29You hate tacos?
36:31Damn.
36:32Every time they've gotten into anything,
36:33she's always been the one reaching back out
36:35and trying to make amends.
36:36And finally, she's like, you know what?
36:38I've done this every time.
36:39How important is this relationship to you as far as friends?
36:41I think we will be cordial, and I'll see her,
36:45and it'll be more on the surface, you know?
36:55Hello.
36:55Hi.
36:56How are you?
36:57You look beautiful.
36:58I do.
36:59I love it.
37:00Very cute.
37:01Rono.
37:02Romy.
37:03Shams.
37:04Shams is over there.
37:06Oh, okay.
37:07Mommy.
37:08Yeah, baby.
37:09I feel such stupid.
37:10That wasn't a nice thing to say, was it?
37:12Say, you know what, Gabriel?
37:13I don't use words like that.
37:16I'll take care of it in a minute, Eli.
37:20I'm not going to get on your case because...
37:23About what?
37:23Are you giving me any best friend attention because you're trying to take care of your husband right now?
37:26He wants me to give him some more affection, like touching.
37:30Very true.
37:31He does.
37:32I mean...
37:32I'm thinking about tantric yoga.
37:34I've heard people saying they can have an orgasm from doing that.
37:37No.
37:37Yes, from just staring at each other in the eyes, they will have an orgasm.
37:41It's very intimate.
37:43Do you think tantric yoga is something Reza would be into?
37:46I think anything related to being closer, more intimate with you, Reza would be into.
37:51And you need a cute little, some cute undies and some lubes.
37:56Can you make it in a mouth?
38:04Wow, he is here.
38:06Oh, wow, sky's not here.
38:07Here we go.
38:08Oh, s***.
38:12Oh, s***.
38:22Cheers.
38:24How nice to meet you guys.
38:25Love you.
38:26This is so good.
38:28Live stream.
38:29Woo!
38:30Do you want Chase?
38:31What is that?
38:35Oh, wow, sky's not here.
38:37Here we go.
38:39Sorry, I'm late.
38:40Sorry, I'm late.
38:40How are you?
38:42How are you?
38:43Good to see you.
38:44Good to see you.
38:44Good to see you.
38:45Sorry, I'm late.
38:46How are you, baby?
38:47Thank you so much.
38:48How are you doing, buddy?
38:49How are you?
38:50It's hot.
38:51It's nice.
38:53What's up?
38:53You think Reza and I should still have kids?
38:55How does it work?
38:57What, what, why do you keep doing this?
38:59How does it work?
39:00Here you go.
39:00This is what you can say.
39:01Yeah, RJ.
39:02What does this mean?
39:03Is that a reflection of you in bed?
39:06Palm Springs.
39:07Okay.
39:08Like, I'm getting out of this.
39:09Hold on.
39:09Palm Springs was like this.
39:11Oh, wow.
39:12Palm Springs was like this.
39:14I was very shocked.
39:15I was very shocked.
39:17Don't go close to the pool.
39:19Hi, are you the lifeguard?
39:21Yeah, yeah.
39:21Okay, but fine, thank you.
39:24This part is for me.
39:25Yeah, I'm away.
39:26They should go only that part.
39:28You should be that side, huh?
39:31No, I should be here.
39:33Oh.
39:34Are you a professional lifeguard?
39:36Yeah.
39:37I teach kids swimming for a living.
39:39It's just a matter of life and death in a second.
39:42So, where's Skye?
39:44She's in Vegas.
39:45Jewelry show convention.
39:46It's been a minute since boys died.
39:48I know.
39:49I think that's somewhere.
39:50He's having fun.
39:50That's somewhere swimming was at your house, huh?
39:52This is the most relaxed we've seen him in quite some time.
39:55I'm conflicted about the situation.
39:57It's not easy to forgive and forget.
40:00Skye feels disrespected.
40:03They came at her.
40:04You know, they attacked her.
40:06So, yeah, I'm kind of like in limbo between me and Skye,
40:10and this group of people.
40:12I'm surprised Bombshot's here.
40:13I was happy to see him.
40:15Yeah.
40:15So, he came without his wife.
40:26Bombshot, how do you feel right now?
40:28I haven't seen you since Palm Springs.
40:29Are you good?
40:30I mean, I feel okay.
40:31I think Palm Springs for me was a bit of a surprise.
40:35I felt like I was disrespected.
40:38If you disrespect my wife, you're disrespecting my family.
40:42Therefore, you're disrespecting me.
40:44The way that I think of Skye is that she thinks she's right
40:46and she's holding on to being right
40:48more so than she's holding on to mending fences
40:51with everybody that loves and cares about her and supports her.
40:55So, I hope that in the time since you're the only one
40:58that's really talking to her, that she shows up so that we can mend.
41:02Yeah, but you got to understand that that whole situation
41:04also put me in a compromising position with my wife.
41:08I'm not saying she should forgive.
41:10I'm saying she should show up to my event.
41:12She wants buyers.
41:13No, I don't.
41:14I want that Skye does not exclude herself
41:19because I hate a divide.
41:21I've been the person on the outside
41:23and I've been the one that is feeling like on the sidelines.
41:27Let me tell you just one thing.
41:28I don't think she has any negative feelings,
41:32anything bad towards you at all.
41:35If you feel that way, maybe you should reach out to her
41:37and just ask her because I cannot answer that.
41:40Right.
41:41Yeah, certainly.
41:42I don't know.
41:43I don't think she will have her guards down anytime soon.
41:47So, in going forward, hey, watch out.
41:51She's coming for you.
41:52We don't want to put him in the hot seat again.
41:54No, and I will never do it again.
41:56There's definitely some walls and there's some...
41:58Hopefully, we'll get through it.
42:00Of course.
42:01That's what I'm saying.
42:02Hopefully, we'll get through it, but time will tell.
42:12Next time on The Valley Persian Style.
42:15So, you have to like flush out the seamen 20 to 30 times.
42:18I think we should do it together.
42:20Uh-huh.
42:21That's not gonna happen.
42:23Sky really sent me over.
42:25So, I started a company that's called Valley Girl.
42:27We're doing jewelry.
42:28V for the valley.
42:30Found girl.
42:31Little.
42:31Like, the color scheme is a little, like, starkish.
42:34And it's also a little dated.
42:39Tommy's here.
42:39You wanna come out with me?
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