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90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days S08E19
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Would you feel better about Michael
00:00:06if I just cut him out of my life?
00:00:09No.
00:00:10I don't want you to cut your relationship with him.
00:00:14I love Laura because she has a pure heart,
00:00:17and I'm not going to be the one who breaks them apart.
00:00:20We can still be friends.
00:00:23But not best friend, not that weird friendship.
00:00:30I really want you to stay.
00:00:33It's tearing me up thinking about being away from you.
00:00:36But I think mom was kind of right.
00:00:39Getting you to the United States is the best option.
00:00:45Forrest's mom is much more controlling
00:00:47than he would realize.
00:00:49And I'm worried that she could break us apart.
00:00:56When do you plan on applying for the fiance visa?
00:01:00So I can live here in Belize.
00:01:02And I thought you were going to apply for me in the US.
00:01:07No.
00:01:08Based on everything that he said to me,
00:01:10I had always thought that I was going to be the one moving here.
00:01:14Don't ask us, ma'am.
00:01:16I love you.
00:01:17I love you.
00:01:19It's just really weird timing,
00:01:20and I can't help feeling like, is this a red flag?
00:01:27How do you plan to make this work?
00:01:29If I was to move here, where would we go?
00:01:31Who would pay for it?
00:01:32He and I find a place we move in together.
00:01:34Josh tells me everything I want to hear,
00:01:37but there's no action.
00:01:39Am I even being realistic with my expectations with him?
00:02:10I believe that it will work.
00:02:12Don't fall through.
00:02:15I'm in love with you,
00:02:17but I do still have feelings for her, too.
00:02:20I don't have nothing to do with you.
00:02:22Oh, wait, please.
00:02:22Just, please.
00:02:24I'll just walk away, and never speak to him again.
00:02:29I wish you realized that I do love her,
00:02:32and I do want us to be together.
00:02:56I just feel so gross.
00:02:58I'm a mess.
00:02:59I'm tired.
00:03:00I'm so confused.
00:03:02I don't even know what to do.
00:03:04I'm so tired.
00:03:06I'm literally leaving for the airport in one hour.
00:03:10And he just left.
00:03:22Do I text him and say, like, where are you?
00:03:24Like, are you taking me to the airport?
00:03:28Oh, my God, he stopped sharing his location with me.
00:03:31I'm going to stop sharing mine then.
00:03:32Like, he just stopped sharing it.
00:03:34Literally.
00:03:37I'm so confused right now.
00:03:39Last night at dinner, like, we did have some tough conversations,
00:03:42and it did get a little heated.
00:03:44But on the way home, everything was fine between us.
00:03:59I thought we were going to enjoy our last night together in the rental, and I was, like, super excited.
00:04:05And the next thing I know, he invited friends over to party with him in the rental.
00:04:10Two girls came over with a guy, and, like, Josh was, like, disrespecting me.
00:04:14And I went to the bedroom, and I started crying.
00:04:16And I, like, was just in the bedroom up all night.
00:04:20They were out here all night partying.
00:04:22I tried to tell him, like, why are your friends here?
00:04:25Like, it's our last night.
00:04:26Like, I'm leaving tomorrow, and he's like, I don't care.
00:04:28These are my friends.
00:04:29This is what I want to do.
00:04:31And I stayed in the room, trying to pack up, and this morning, I just woke up, and he walked
00:04:36away.
00:04:40Like, how can you tell me you love me, and you're falling for me,
00:04:43and then you bring the girls back and disrespect me, and just then walk away?
00:04:51I, like, don't even know.
00:04:58The guy needs to stop partying.
00:05:02Don't tell me you love me, and me if, like, he is choosing his friends and partying over me.
00:05:10Like, I, yeah, I've been so apprehensive, and so, like, like, my walls are up with him,
00:05:15because, like, you're feeding me everything you want me to hear.
00:05:19I feel like I'm going to throw up.
00:05:22I just need, like, five minutes.
00:05:32Have you slept?
00:05:34No.
00:05:35Well, at least your sleeping pattern will be perfect for me.
00:05:43I feel like I'm feeling some of your hydration styles.
00:05:48How is the vibe in the apartment this morning?
00:05:50Well, it's not good vibes when you can hear Elise crying.
00:05:53Do you know what I mean?
00:05:53And any girl crying is bad vibes.
00:05:56Yeah.
00:05:57I think it was a terrible idea having girls over on Elise's last night,
00:06:00but try and stay out of all external problems,
00:06:03especially relationship ones to do with friends.
00:06:05It's not my business.
00:06:06So, I was working on my laptop in my room while they were fighting.
00:06:11But, uh, no, it wasn't a good idea.
00:06:20Huh?
00:06:31I'm so sorry.
00:06:32Why are you doing this to me?
00:06:33Left the place in front of your location and left me.
00:06:36I was angry.
00:06:37I'm upset.
00:06:37I just drove off.
00:06:38I was angry.
00:06:39Where did you go?
00:06:40I just drove off the road.
00:06:43I just had a panic attack.
00:06:44I just thought you didn't care anymore.
00:06:47Stop.
00:06:47Look at me.
00:06:48I'm falling apart.
00:06:49I'm, I'm being here.
00:06:50I'm sorry.
00:06:52I'm so sorry.
00:06:55All I wanted was a night with you.
00:06:57That's all I wanted.
00:06:57And you had to have those people where you disrespected me.
00:07:00I've asked you.
00:07:01I wanted a night with you.
00:07:03I'm sorry.
00:07:03I'm sorry.
00:07:04I'm sorry.
00:07:06I don't want to miss a bit, but I told you.
00:07:08This is so embarrassing.
00:07:09I told you last night in bed.
00:07:11I'm so sorry.
00:07:11I love you so much.
00:07:13Josh, stop.
00:07:14You up.
00:07:16I'm sorry.
00:07:18I need to go to the airport.
00:07:23Last night, in hindsight, I probably should have just spent the night with her.
00:07:26But I asked her if they could come over.
00:07:29She said, yes, that's absolutely fine.
00:07:31And then turns around and says, you know, that's not OK.
00:07:34We just started arguing all night.
00:07:37Like, she can be very nasty.
00:07:39She's like, you don't love me anymore.
00:07:41You know, you know, you don't want me anymore.
00:07:43Do you love her?
00:07:44Yeah, I do.
00:07:45And like, I do.
00:07:47I do love her.
00:07:55Are you sure you even want to take me?
00:07:58Yeah, I am taking you.
00:08:01You just left me, so I feel like I'm making you do something I want to do.
00:08:05Yeah, I walked out because I was angry.
00:08:06But I realized I just needed to calm down.
00:08:11All I want is to be alone with you.
00:08:14Yeah, but like, you should have said that.
00:08:16Josh, this is crazy.
00:08:19Yeah.
00:08:20This is going to go in circles.
00:08:21Yeah.
00:08:22This is going to go in circles.
00:08:24Let's go.
00:08:25Bye, please.
00:08:26It's been real.
00:08:29What the ?
00:08:30One minute, he's on his hands and knees telling me he's sorry and he loves me.
00:08:34And the next minute, he puts all the blame on me.
00:08:37Like, all of it was my fault.
00:08:39I have no words to describe how much this hurts.
00:08:44One part of me is like, I'm falling in love with this man.
00:08:48At the same time, I am so exhausted from this emotional roller coaster of the past 12 hours.
00:08:55And I'm just confused.
00:08:57Like, I can't stay and fix this.
00:08:58I have a flight to catch.
00:09:00I have to go home.
00:09:01Like, what do I do now?
00:09:15I have a flight to catch.
00:09:16I have to go home, I mean, we never did happen yet.
00:09:21And I'm just kidding me and I don't know.
00:09:22I'm just wondering how you are changing yourąø to catch music it will't be.
00:09:23Like a direction, like it's changing your phone?
00:09:24Gonna play like a different way.
00:09:25Let's go home.
00:09:26Go home.
00:09:26Look where you all be a fight.
00:09:26I know I bet you won't be any of this.
00:09:27Go home.
00:09:31I have big assistance.
00:09:31God.
00:09:32I am, eine Afficallybrielle.
00:09:48Nice winter.
00:09:50Yeah, it's a beautiful day.
00:09:52I'm excited for some sunshine.
00:09:55Yeah, too bad that it is last day.
00:10:00Yeah.
00:10:02But I'm sad.
00:10:04We have surprised.
00:10:05Actually, I have surprised.
00:10:07You always have surprises.
00:10:09Today, Michael is sightseeing on his own
00:10:12so that Birkhan and I can spend some quality time together
00:10:15before I have to go back to the States tomorrow.
00:10:19I'm glad Birkhan and I were able to reconcile
00:10:22and I don't have to cut Michael out of my life.
00:10:25But I'm literally leaving when we just got things back on track
00:10:29and I'm worried that as we go back to being long distance
00:10:33that we're only going to have more drama and more problems.
00:10:39We are going somewhere that is really important for me.
00:10:44Okay.
00:10:45You have to play, too.
00:10:46I have to play?
00:10:47Yeah, you have to.
00:10:48I'm sorry, what am I playing?
00:10:50Soccer.
00:10:50I'm playing soccer.
00:10:52Yeah.
00:10:52Oh, really?
00:10:53Yeah, you have to.
00:10:56My first love was soccer
00:10:59and my last love was Laura.
00:11:02So I believe sharing the thing that I love most
00:11:06is important.
00:11:09I will play.
00:11:11You can impress me first, though.
00:11:13By doing...
00:11:15Kick the ball from there to there.
00:11:17I can do that.
00:11:18Okay.
00:11:19I've never kicked a soccer ball in my life
00:11:22and it's hot as balls
00:11:24and I'm in jeans for crying out loud.
00:11:26This is not at the top of my list of things to do on my last day.
00:11:30Are you ready?
00:11:31Yeah, you got this.
00:11:33I don't feel any pressure, though.
00:11:38Holy balls.
00:11:44Beer con is so good at soccer.
00:11:47It's like panty-dropping good.
00:11:48I feel like I'm fangirling over here
00:11:50and I should ask for your autograph.
00:11:52Yeah, do you want some?
00:11:53Yeah, actually.
00:11:54I mean, there is nothing wrong
00:11:56with watching this hot guy kick a ball around.
00:11:58Jeez.
00:11:59Oh, my God.
00:12:02And now,
00:12:04you're going to learn how to play.
00:12:05Oh, my...
00:12:05No, you do it again.
00:12:06I don't know how to play.
00:12:07I don't even know what foot to kick the ball with.
00:12:10Doesn't matter.
00:12:12It is instinct.
00:12:14Your instinct kicks the ball.
00:12:17See?
00:12:18Your strong foot is your left.
00:12:21No, right.
00:12:22It is my left.
00:12:26Oh, God.
00:12:28When it comes to soccer,
00:12:29if I give her between one to five...
00:12:33Oops.
00:12:34Out the door?
00:12:35She's probably zero.
00:12:38But even Edison tried 2,000 times.
00:12:42So I think she can score one
00:12:44if she tries 2,000 times.
00:12:47So...
00:12:48Yeah.
00:12:50You have just one shot.
00:12:51Just one score?
00:12:52From all the...
00:12:53Oh, my God.
00:12:55It feels really far.
00:12:58Go with the ball.
00:13:02Go with the ball.
00:13:07I told you.
00:13:08You believed in yourself
00:13:10and you just did it.
00:13:12It was actually a lot of fun.
00:13:15And also,
00:13:15this has a meaning
00:13:17because, you know,
00:13:19you thought it was distance, right?
00:13:21Yeah.
00:13:22You didn't believe that
00:13:23you were going to score?
00:13:24No, I did not.
00:13:25You just scored.
00:13:27This is what belief is.
00:13:30If you believe something
00:13:32with your heart,
00:13:34it's going to happen.
00:13:36Yeah.
00:13:37And this is the same thing
00:13:39we have
00:13:41in our future.
00:13:43We all have that distance,
00:13:46but don't stuck on distance.
00:13:49Don't stuck on problems.
00:13:52You're going to follow your heart.
00:13:54We'll be fine.
00:13:56We will have the goal.
00:13:58We will score.
00:14:03You're my love.
00:14:07Do you know what this is?
00:14:09No.
00:14:11Give me your ring finger.
00:14:16This one?
00:14:17Left one, right?
00:14:19Yeah.
00:14:20Do you know why
00:14:21people call this ring finger?
00:14:24No.
00:14:26It is the only finger that
00:14:28you have
00:14:29a vein
00:14:31goes through your heart.
00:14:34And this
00:14:36is why people
00:14:37wearing rings
00:14:38on that finger.
00:14:42See?
00:14:43We have a wine
00:14:45that
00:14:45bonds us.
00:14:48We don't need rings.
00:14:51Nope.
00:14:52All we need
00:14:53is a spell.
00:14:57Now,
00:14:58I'm asking you,
00:15:03you want to
00:15:04bond your heart
00:15:04with mine?
00:15:08Will you marry me?
00:15:14Lakey,
00:15:15I haven't been
00:15:16feeling well.
00:15:18I've been
00:15:18luscious.
00:15:21So,
00:15:22today,
00:15:23I decided to
00:15:24take a pregnancy test.
00:15:30You ready
00:15:31for some exercise?
00:15:32No.
00:15:33It helps me
00:15:33cleanse my head
00:15:34and feel airy.
00:15:35Is that why
00:15:36you're blonde now?
00:15:38I was so sure
00:15:39of him.
00:15:40And now,
00:15:40I'm just insecure.
00:15:42He's not
00:15:43communicating
00:15:44with her much.
00:15:45I wanted to
00:15:45find a reason
00:15:46why.
00:15:47And
00:15:48I did
00:15:49find things.
00:15:49It's not
00:15:50normal that
00:15:51he has
00:15:51a wife
00:15:52contact.
00:15:53That's not
00:15:53your number.
00:16:07So,
00:16:09Lakey,
00:16:10I haven't
00:16:10been feeling
00:16:11well.
00:16:14I've been
00:16:15luscious.
00:16:20So,
00:16:21today,
00:16:21I decided
00:16:22to
00:16:23take a pregnancy
00:16:24test.
00:16:33I'm just
00:16:34gonna have
00:16:35to wait
00:16:35for a few
00:16:36more minutes
00:16:36and
00:16:37I guess
00:16:38I'm gonna
00:16:39see
00:16:40all the answers
00:16:42to my
00:16:42questions.
00:16:46Okay.
00:16:46It's been
00:16:48a few weeks
00:16:49since our
00:16:50renewal
00:16:50about.
00:16:52Juvon's
00:16:53extended his
00:16:53visa to
00:16:54stay with
00:16:55me longer
00:16:55and
00:16:56she's been
00:16:57amazing.
00:16:58It means a lot
00:16:59to me that
00:17:00he was willing
00:17:01to miss work
00:17:02so he could
00:17:03travel and
00:17:04make memories
00:17:05for me.
00:17:06It's actually
00:17:07been very
00:17:07helpful in
00:17:08carrying
00:17:09which makes
00:17:09me find
00:17:10him attractive
00:17:11so,
00:17:12you know,
00:17:13we were
00:17:13very busy.
00:17:15Busy doing
00:17:16what?
00:17:17Oh my God,
00:17:18like, so many
00:17:18sex.
00:17:20I'm going to
00:17:21church on
00:17:22Sunday.
00:17:26Juvon.
00:17:27Hmm.
00:17:28Boo!
00:17:30Uh...
00:17:30Juvon.
00:17:31What?
00:17:37Come here.
00:17:40I'm going to
00:17:41show you
00:17:41something.
00:17:42Okay.
00:17:44Boo,
00:17:45you want to
00:17:46tell you
00:17:47something?
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:48Go ahead.
00:17:49Check this
00:17:50out.
00:17:54Is that
00:17:55is what
00:17:55I think
00:17:56it is?
00:17:58Yeah.
00:17:59Wow.
00:18:06Are we
00:18:07about to
00:18:07have a
00:18:08baby?
00:18:09Oh,
00:18:09steps?
00:18:12Hell yeah.
00:18:14Yeah.
00:18:15Nice,
00:18:16boo.
00:18:16I'm very
00:18:17happy.
00:18:17I'm very
00:18:18happy,
00:18:18too.
00:18:19Yeah.
00:18:23Thanks,
00:18:23boo.
00:18:25I don't
00:18:25even know
00:18:26what to
00:18:26feel right
00:18:27now.
00:18:27Part of
00:18:28me is
00:18:28happy about
00:18:29it,
00:18:29and another
00:18:30part of
00:18:30me is
00:18:30like,
00:18:31holy
00:18:31I'm
00:18:32about
00:18:32to
00:18:32be
00:18:32a
00:18:32dad.
00:18:34I'm
00:18:35scared
00:18:35as
00:18:38I'm
00:18:39in shock,
00:18:39but I
00:18:39don't know
00:18:40why,
00:18:41but...
00:18:41I'm not
00:18:41really
00:18:42surprised,
00:18:43but I'm
00:18:43so nervous.
00:18:45Yeah,
00:18:45me too.
00:18:47I'm happy,
00:18:48though,
00:18:48boo.
00:18:48Oh,
00:18:49me too.
00:18:50Love you.
00:18:51Love you.
00:19:02Thank you,
00:19:03boo,
00:19:03for packing
00:19:03my bag.
00:19:04Appreciate it.
00:19:05Uh-huh.
00:19:07love you.
00:19:08am very
00:19:08happy.
00:19:09I
00:19:10just
00:19:10wasn't
00:19:10expecting
00:19:11this to
00:19:12happen
00:19:12this
00:19:13quickly,
00:19:14but
00:19:15the timing
00:19:16is terrible
00:19:16because
00:19:17Jovon is
00:19:19leaving
00:19:19tomorrow,
00:19:20and we
00:19:21haven't really
00:19:22made any
00:19:22decision
00:19:23for the
00:19:25future yet.
00:19:26How you feel?
00:19:28Bloated.
00:19:29Bloated?
00:19:30Gassy?
00:19:31Yeah.
00:19:31Yeah.
00:19:32But I'm
00:19:33very happy.
00:19:34We have a
00:19:34bonus,
00:19:35and I'm
00:19:36really excited.
00:19:39You know,
00:19:40you always
00:19:40question,
00:19:40like,
00:19:41what's the
00:19:41meaning of
00:19:42my life?
00:19:43And now,
00:19:44I feel like...
00:19:46You have a
00:19:46reason.
00:19:47I have a
00:19:47reason why
00:19:48I'm doing
00:19:48what I'm
00:19:48doing.
00:19:50You know
00:19:50what I mean?
00:19:51There you
00:19:51go.
00:19:53But a
00:19:54part of me
00:19:55feels anxious.
00:19:58Well,
00:19:59because there's
00:20:00a lot of
00:20:00things that
00:20:00we haven't
00:20:02figured out
00:20:02yet.
00:20:05Right now,
00:20:06the main
00:20:07focus is
00:20:08your health
00:20:08and the
00:20:09baby and
00:20:11getting things
00:20:11in order
00:20:12over here.
00:20:13Then once
00:20:14that's good,
00:20:16we will
00:20:17definitely
00:20:17look more
00:20:19into you
00:20:21coming over
00:20:22there.
00:20:23You know,
00:20:24baby alone
00:20:24is very
00:20:25expensive.
00:20:26Mm-hmm.
00:20:26You know,
00:20:27and then you
00:20:28add the
00:20:28visa on top
00:20:29of that.
00:20:32Yeah.
00:20:34But there's
00:20:34a lot of
00:20:35things you're
00:20:35going to be
00:20:36missing out.
00:20:37Yeah.
00:20:37Like the
00:20:37first appointment
00:20:39to the doctor.
00:20:40You got to keep
00:20:41me posted.
00:20:41Monthly, yeah.
00:20:42I'll keep you posted.
00:20:43I know it's not the same,
00:20:44but it's all we have
00:20:46for right now,
00:20:50so...
00:20:51realistically,
00:20:53when do you think
00:20:54you could come back?
00:20:55I can't give you
00:20:56an exact month
00:20:58because I'm not
00:20:59back home yet,
00:21:01but I'll be back
00:21:02before you even
00:21:03get birth.
00:21:04That I can tell you.
00:21:07now that I'm
00:21:08pregnant,
00:21:09I thought
00:21:11he would
00:21:11want to work
00:21:12harder
00:21:12to live with me
00:21:13in one place
00:21:14together.
00:21:16But I guess
00:21:17I was
00:21:17wrong.
00:21:20I know
00:21:21he loves me
00:21:21so much,
00:21:23but I can't
00:21:24help but
00:21:24feel sad
00:21:26that I'm going
00:21:26through
00:21:27the pregnancy
00:21:28alone.
00:21:29Let's not
00:21:30worry about it
00:21:31too much tonight.
00:21:32We have to
00:21:33finish packing
00:21:35and we have
00:21:35to get up
00:21:36early.
00:21:38Okay.
00:22:02You ready for this?
00:22:03Ready for some
00:22:04exercise?
00:22:05No.
00:22:05No?
00:22:06It's a beautiful
00:22:07day.
00:22:07Come on.
00:22:08It's hot.
00:22:10This is really
00:22:11good for me.
00:22:12It helps me
00:22:12cleanse my head
00:22:13and I really
00:22:13want to,
00:22:14you know,
00:22:15feel better
00:22:16and,
00:22:17you know,
00:22:18be airy
00:22:19and light.
00:22:20Is that why
00:22:21you're blonde now?
00:22:22Why,
00:22:23because I'm
00:22:23an airhead?
00:22:24Yeah.
00:22:24No,
00:22:25I'm not an airhead.
00:22:26What does
00:22:27Daniel think
00:22:27of your blonde hair?
00:22:29He wants
00:22:29an African-style
00:22:30braid.
00:22:32He wants
00:22:32braids.
00:22:33He does
00:22:34realize,
00:22:36one,
00:22:36how expensive
00:22:37and time-consuming
00:22:39that is
00:22:39and,
00:22:40two,
00:22:41you're a,
00:22:42um,
00:22:44white American.
00:22:45I know.
00:22:46Why do I have
00:22:47to say
00:22:48and be
00:22:49and act
00:22:49and look
00:22:50exactly as
00:22:51he chooses?
00:22:53It's hard.
00:22:54I've given
00:22:55so much
00:22:56to make
00:22:56Daniel happy.
00:22:58I know.
00:22:59You're working
00:23:00three jobs.
00:23:00You're working
00:23:01your ass
00:23:02off
00:23:02to pay off
00:23:03debt
00:23:04that you
00:23:04also added
00:23:05on for him.
00:23:07Why isn't
00:23:08he going
00:23:08out and
00:23:09getting another
00:23:09job?
00:23:10Where is
00:23:11his effort?
00:23:14I don't know.
00:23:15I'm just
00:23:15feeling different.
00:23:17I was
00:23:18so sure
00:23:19of him
00:23:20and
00:23:21so in
00:23:22love
00:23:22and now
00:23:23I'm just
00:23:24insecure.
00:23:27when mom
00:23:28first came
00:23:29back from
00:23:30Nigeria
00:23:30she was
00:23:31definitely
00:23:31really
00:23:32excited.
00:23:34She was
00:23:34making all
00:23:35of these
00:23:35wild plans.
00:23:36She said
00:23:37she wanted
00:23:37to go back
00:23:38to Nigeria
00:23:38and stay
00:23:39for about a
00:23:39year
00:23:40and then
00:23:41over the next
00:23:42couple weeks
00:23:43she just
00:23:44started saying
00:23:45that he's not
00:23:46communicating
00:23:46with her much
00:23:47and I wasn't
00:23:49liking the
00:23:49situation.
00:23:50I wanted to
00:23:51find if
00:23:51there was
00:23:52another reason
00:23:53why he's
00:23:54not communicating
00:23:55like he was
00:23:56and I did
00:23:58find things
00:23:59and none
00:24:00of them
00:24:00were positive
00:24:01things.
00:24:04It's not
00:24:05normal that
00:24:06he has
00:24:07four other
00:24:08phone numbers
00:24:09and not even
00:24:10that he also
00:24:11has a wife
00:24:12contact.
00:24:13That's not
00:24:13your number.
00:24:14No it's
00:24:15weird.
00:24:16Who
00:24:17who is
00:24:17this wife?
00:24:18Not you.
00:24:20You wrote
00:24:21her.
00:24:21She didn't
00:24:21deny it.
00:24:22I kept
00:24:23the conversation.
00:24:25Before going
00:24:26to Nigeria
00:24:26to show
00:24:28that I
00:24:28could trust
00:24:28Daniel he
00:24:29gave me
00:24:29his passwords
00:24:30for his
00:24:31email account.
00:24:32Faith
00:24:33logged into
00:24:33his email
00:24:34and got
00:24:35his contacts.
00:24:36He has
00:24:37me listed
00:24:37as Liz
00:24:38Baby
00:24:39and then
00:24:40he has
00:24:40another number
00:24:41listed as
00:24:43Wife Chat
00:24:44and it's a
00:24:45Nigerian phone
00:24:46number.
00:24:47Faith
00:24:48reached out
00:24:48to the
00:24:49number
00:24:50and introduced
00:24:51herself and
00:24:52said do you
00:24:52know Daniel?
00:24:54I've got your
00:24:54number from his
00:24:55email and you
00:24:56are listed as
00:24:57his wife.
00:24:58And the person
00:24:59answered back
00:25:00and said so
00:25:02what do you
00:25:03want?
00:25:03Faith pretty
00:25:04much told him
00:25:05my mom is
00:25:06also married
00:25:07to Daniel.
00:25:08I'm concerned
00:25:09about this.
00:25:10I think we
00:25:10should talk
00:25:10about it.
00:25:11And she
00:25:11said lose
00:25:12my number.
00:25:14Who the
00:25:15is Wife?
00:25:16And why
00:25:16won't she
00:25:17talk?
00:25:20Daniel hasn't
00:25:21been giving
00:25:21me the
00:25:21attention
00:25:22that he
00:25:23was.
00:25:23I'm not
00:25:24getting the
00:25:25good morning
00:25:25text anymore.
00:25:26He hasn't
00:25:27been calling
00:25:28like he used
00:25:29to.
00:25:30Daniel says
00:25:31he loves
00:25:31me and
00:25:32that he's
00:25:32been busy
00:25:33but I'm
00:25:34suspicious.
00:25:36If there
00:25:36is a wife
00:25:37out there
00:25:37and he
00:25:38put me
00:25:39through all
00:25:39this and
00:25:40he has
00:25:40a wife
00:25:41out there
00:25:42what does
00:25:43that mean?
00:25:46It's just
00:25:47too much
00:25:47at this
00:25:48point mom.
00:25:49What is
00:25:50your game
00:25:50plan now?
00:25:51Are you
00:25:51still going
00:25:51to go
00:25:52there and
00:25:53marry him?
00:25:55I don't
00:25:55know.
00:25:56I'm going
00:25:56to have
00:25:56to confront
00:25:57him but
00:25:57I'm torn
00:25:58faith.
00:25:59I go
00:25:59back and
00:25:59forth
00:25:59every day
00:26:00thinking
00:26:00about
00:26:01this.
00:26:02I mean
00:26:03he's
00:26:03going to
00:26:03gaslight
00:26:04you.
00:26:04You know
00:26:04that.
00:26:05But you
00:26:06also can't
00:26:07deny
00:26:07physical
00:26:08proof.
00:26:10I know
00:26:11that I
00:26:11need to
00:26:12confront
00:26:12Daniel but
00:26:13I am
00:26:14afraid that
00:26:15he's going
00:26:16to gaslight
00:26:16me just
00:26:17like he
00:26:17has in
00:26:18Nigeria.
00:26:22This is
00:26:23her picture.
00:26:24Do you
00:26:24remember her
00:26:24now?
00:26:26You do
00:26:27know this
00:26:27person.
00:26:28No, no.
00:26:28You remembered
00:26:29last night
00:26:30when I brought
00:26:30it up.
00:26:31Now all of a
00:26:31sudden you're
00:26:31pretending
00:26:32you don't
00:26:32know her?
00:26:37Going
00:26:37through this
00:26:38has been
00:26:38very traumatic
00:26:39and my
00:26:40headspace is
00:26:41all over
00:26:41the place.
00:26:42There's
00:26:42proof.
00:26:43She didn't
00:26:44say I'm
00:26:44not his
00:26:44wife.
00:26:45She didn't
00:26:45say who
00:26:46are you
00:26:46talking to.
00:26:47That answer
00:26:48is everything
00:26:48I need.
00:26:49He can't
00:26:49come up
00:26:50with an
00:26:50excuse for
00:26:51that.
00:26:52It's time.
00:26:53It's time
00:26:54to tell
00:26:54Daniel what
00:26:55you have
00:26:55found.
00:26:56It's time
00:26:57to ask him
00:26:57about this
00:26:58wife.
00:26:59I love
00:27:00him and I
00:27:01miss him
00:27:02but I
00:27:03just feel
00:27:03betrayed.
00:27:05I'm
00:27:05mentally,
00:27:06physically,
00:27:07totally
00:27:07exhausted.
00:27:12I'm
00:27:13proud of
00:27:13you,
00:27:14mom.
00:27:14You know
00:27:15I always
00:27:15support you.
00:27:22Off
00:27:22we go.
00:27:24I still
00:27:25don't
00:27:25completely
00:27:26trust
00:27:26Sheena.
00:27:27I love
00:27:27you,
00:27:27purple
00:27:28bear.
00:27:29You
00:27:29don't
00:27:29need
00:27:29to be
00:27:29worried.
00:27:30She's
00:27:31still
00:27:32manipulates
00:27:33better
00:27:34than
00:27:34anybody
00:27:34I
00:27:35know.
00:27:37You
00:27:37okay?
00:27:41I don't
00:27:42want
00:27:42you
00:27:42to
00:27:43leave
00:27:43me.
00:28:01I
00:28:01I
00:28:01know.
00:28:08I
00:28:09mean
00:28:09words
00:28:09can't
00:28:10express
00:28:10how I
00:28:12feel
00:28:12at this
00:28:13moment
00:28:14having to
00:28:15leave
00:28:16Madagascar
00:28:17and not
00:28:18being able
00:28:18to say
00:28:19goodbye
00:28:19to
00:28:19Trish.
00:28:31me.
00:28:32It was
00:28:32hard not
00:28:33being able
00:28:34to
00:28:34be with
00:28:36her
00:28:36the last
00:28:37few nights
00:28:38because I
00:28:39still love
00:28:40her.
00:28:43But I
00:28:44know
00:28:44that
00:28:44it's not
00:28:46right or
00:28:46fair for
00:28:48me
00:28:50to
00:28:52not let
00:28:53go of
00:28:53the past.
00:28:56I'm
00:28:57really sad
00:28:58with it
00:28:58being
00:29:00over
00:29:01between
00:29:02Trish and I.
00:29:05But I
00:29:07couldn't help
00:29:08the way
00:29:08that I
00:29:09felt.
00:29:09And I
00:29:10couldn't lie
00:29:11and say
00:29:12that I
00:29:13don't
00:29:13have
00:29:13any
00:29:13feelings
00:29:14for my
00:29:14ex.
00:29:19Because
00:29:20of that
00:29:20I lost
00:29:22something
00:29:22that could
00:29:23have been
00:29:23really
00:29:23special.
00:29:28There
00:29:29was a
00:29:29lot of
00:29:29times
00:29:30when
00:29:31everything
00:29:31was good
00:29:32between
00:29:32us.
00:29:33I
00:29:33was
00:29:33really
00:29:34happy
00:29:34and
00:29:34I
00:29:35see
00:29:35so
00:29:35many
00:29:35good
00:29:36qualities
00:29:36in
00:29:37Trish.
00:29:39I
00:29:39feel
00:29:39like
00:29:40she
00:29:40lights
00:29:40up
00:29:40the
00:29:40room
00:29:41you
00:29:41know
00:29:42when
00:29:44she's
00:29:44in
00:29:44her
00:29:45good
00:29:45moods.
00:29:48I
00:29:48feel
00:29:49like
00:29:49I'm
00:29:49like
00:29:49the
00:29:50luckiest
00:29:50man alive
00:29:51to be
00:29:54standing
00:29:55next to
00:29:55her
00:29:55holding
00:29:56her hand.
00:30:04If my
00:30:05ex
00:30:05had never
00:30:06contacted
00:30:07me
00:30:10to be
00:30:12Trish
00:30:12and I
00:30:12would
00:30:12definitely
00:30:13be
00:30:13in a
00:30:13much
00:30:14better
00:30:15place.
00:30:17Looking
00:30:17back
00:30:18at all
00:30:18these
00:30:19beautiful
00:30:20times
00:30:20that
00:30:21Trish
00:30:22and I
00:30:22shared
00:30:23together
00:30:24I
00:30:25had
00:30:25such
00:30:25high
00:30:25hopes.
00:30:30My
00:30:31baby.
00:30:32I
00:30:32love
00:30:32Trish.
00:30:35Good morning,
00:30:36baby.
00:30:42Yes,
00:30:43dear.
00:30:43Yes,
00:30:43dear.
00:30:44Yes,
00:30:44dear.
00:30:45Yes,
00:30:45dear.
00:30:46Baby.
00:30:48Yes,
00:30:52dear.
00:30:53This is
00:30:54making me
00:30:54think about
00:30:55how much
00:30:56I could
00:30:57be missing
00:30:57and how
00:30:59much I'm
00:30:59going to be
00:31:00missing in
00:31:01the future
00:31:01with her.
00:31:08She's
00:31:09not,
00:31:09man.
00:31:12This
00:31:13isn't how
00:31:13it was
00:31:14supposed
00:31:14to be.
00:31:17And this
00:31:18hurts me
00:31:19deeply
00:31:19that it
00:31:20didn't
00:31:20work out.
00:31:24I'm
00:31:25leaving
00:31:25with no
00:31:25hope
00:31:26at all.
00:31:45Baby.
00:31:54you're
00:31:56cute.
00:31:58win long long longsti
00:32:02and I'm
00:32:02nowhere
00:32:04to be.
00:32:11Jane,
00:32:12why
00:32:12I
00:32:13...
00:32:16melli
00:32:30this is the one that's got all the stash of stuff in there are you allowed to have big bags
00:32:35of chips
00:32:36they're not going to like pop and explode no i think they're like well the air pressure's
00:32:40going to be different you might have exploded confetti chips no i mean people take their
00:32:44dogs on planes so you don't explode right well we'll find out well i think we're just about there
00:32:58you guys oh man yes mom
00:33:09i can't believe that the time was sheena's ending we had a lot of back and forth yesterday about why
00:33:16i have to leave today she was hurt she was upset she wanted me to stay all right it was
00:33:25the hardest
00:33:25choice i ever had to make saying that i need to leave the one i love
00:33:33oh okay
00:33:37big ones first
00:33:40thank you guys thank you
00:33:44waking up this morning next to forest i was really sad because
00:33:48it's been hard enough to wait as long as i waited to be with him
00:33:58it's so hard to let him go but his mom meddles too much so i don't have a choice
00:34:07i love you machine i love you purple bear
00:34:12the thing i'm going to miss the most is waking up in bed beside you and you know having you
00:34:17cuddle
00:34:18cuddle the snow out of me on top of your grinding teeth
00:34:23it's a perfect alarm clock every morning to get up
00:34:27what i'm missing is the good old bear who loves me to take care of me
00:34:33who's been farting all night sometimes every day almost 24 7
00:34:36it's too good
00:34:40you're funny babe
00:34:42you don't need to be worried
00:34:44it may have taken seven years to get here but it's not going to take seven years to get you
00:34:48back home
00:34:50thank you papa bear
00:34:55overall this trip was a wonderful experience
00:34:59i feel really good that i got to see forest happy and to see him so in love
00:35:04but i'm just i'm afraid of what the future is going to bring
00:35:12i'm not looking forward to this
00:35:18truthfully i still don't completely trust sheena
00:35:23here i thought i was coming to get all these questions answered
00:35:26no i have more questions
00:35:29i still don't have a full understanding of sheena's financial you know relationship when it comes to her
00:35:36family and all of that she still manipulates better than anybody i know
00:35:41that's why i am so completely relieved that i saved forest from making the biggest mistake of his life
00:35:47i mean if he would have stayed here it would have been a nightmare
00:35:55which way is the gate
00:35:57right here
00:35:59uh-huh
00:36:01well
00:36:03we're gonna go ahead and let you guys have some time to yourselves
00:36:06okay
00:36:07i will see you again
00:36:15you'll be all right okay
00:36:27despite sheena's faults i know that they really truly love each other
00:36:32and it hurts me and breaks my heart to know that they might lose them
00:36:38it's gonna be all right okay
00:36:41that truly is the hardest part of all of this
00:36:47he's taking care of you guys
00:36:48we better go
00:37:03are you okay
00:37:08this is not goodbye forever
00:37:10this is the beginning
00:37:15this is the beginning of our future
00:37:20i love you sheena
00:37:21i love you papa bear
00:37:34i don't want you to leave me
00:37:37i'm sorry baby it's time for me to go
00:37:40but you gotta be strong for me okay
00:37:56i want you to have this until i get back okay
00:37:59what a beer
00:38:00it's a guarantee that i'll be back for you
00:38:03okay
00:38:05i know it's not much but i love this hat and i love you
00:38:08and i want you to wear it every day all right
00:38:11i'm gonna wear that work because we don't see my joy
00:38:26before meeting forest i was afraid that i wouldn't find someone who would love me for
00:38:34what i am but for us open my heart back again i just have to trust his promise that he's
00:38:44going
00:38:44to come back for me and that this isn't the end of our story
00:38:59thank you have a safe life
00:39:08it's heartbreaking saying goodbye to sheena
00:39:12it's going to be the hardest thing i've ever done
00:39:27being with sheena has propelled me to stop being stagnant to grow up and start
00:39:34really making changes that i should have been doing years ago
00:39:37to ensure that she and i have a life together
00:39:42this cannot be the end
00:39:49i must continue moving forward
00:40:03i'm gonna miss everything the good and the bad
00:40:06oh yeah yeah from arguing to make up sex
00:40:13i'm trying to stay emotionally strong obviously we still have a lot to work on but i love her
00:40:20don't cry
00:40:21and i feel like i'm leaving a piece of me behind
00:40:41i'm asking you
00:40:43do you want to bond your heart
00:40:45with mine
00:40:51will you marry me
00:40:56of course i will
00:41:07can you believe that
00:41:08get engaged
00:41:09no it's it's crazy
00:41:12congratulations you get engaged with me
00:41:16i've never had an engagement string so
00:41:19it's very cutesy
00:41:21probably not a lot of people had that
00:41:25probably not
00:41:27i got everything i wanted
00:41:29this is a win
00:41:31here is my trophy
00:41:33oh
00:41:38who needs a ring
00:41:40i'm in my jeans and i played just football
00:41:42and i just got engaged
00:41:45who cares
00:41:46we don't need fancy boat rides
00:41:48we don't need anything
00:41:50only thing matters
00:41:52is i love you
00:41:54i love you too
00:41:57i am blown away by the fact that beercom proposed today
00:42:01it was something i thought was off the table as soon as michael showed up
00:42:07but i think we've both learned and grown as individuals and as a couple
00:42:13and truthfully if i had to do this over
00:42:19i would have done it the exact same way
00:42:30i've never been this happy in my life
00:42:32that was a long road
00:42:34yeah it's been a pretty crazy path to this moment right now
00:42:38it was
00:42:40but
00:42:41all i want is you
00:42:43i love that
00:42:46i'm glad
00:42:48you are the best thing that ever happened to me
00:42:50you are the best thing that ever happened to me
00:42:55i never thought that i would fall in love again
00:42:58i always thought that
00:43:00i'm gonna die alone
00:43:02so
00:43:03i guess i'm not
00:43:06the distance could mix up her mind
00:43:10but
00:43:10she has red string
00:43:12so
00:43:13she already knows
00:43:15her soul is bonded to mine
00:43:22am i supposed to stay tight to you forever or do i get an actual ring
00:43:25oh yeah i'm gonna think about that
00:43:27you'll think about it well
00:43:29yeah
00:43:32so
00:44:03Long flight today.
00:44:05Boo, these are your coins in America?
00:44:09Those are pennies.
00:44:13Javon is flying back home today,
00:44:15and I'm so grateful that I got to finally spend time with my husband in person,
00:44:21and even more grateful that I'm having a baby.
00:44:26But, you know, like, I imagine that if I would be pregnant,
00:44:30I would be with my partner.
00:44:33That I'm not going to go through this alone,
00:44:35and that's not what's happening.
00:44:40Oh, how are you feeling today?
00:44:43Mixed emotions.
00:44:44I feel okay, I guess.
00:44:47Still a little worried about leaving you.
00:44:53You know?
00:44:54I know you're coming back, and I'll be okay here with Mama,
00:44:59but I wish you could be here.
00:45:01Yeah.
00:45:01While the baby's growing.
00:45:03Yeah.
00:45:09I'm trying to stay emotionally strong, not just for us, but for her.
00:45:15But I definitely feel like there's a lot more pressure since she's pregnant,
00:45:20because we have a lot more finances to take care of,
00:45:24and it's all on my shoulders.
00:45:27Hello, Mama.
00:45:29Hello.
00:45:32She's packing me a lot.
00:45:33This is...
00:45:34Oh, thank you.
00:45:35Chicken adobo.
00:45:36Ah.
00:45:41I miss you.
00:45:43Miss you too.
00:45:44I know you're going to take care of Anna when I'm gone.
00:45:52I promise her that you're going to come back soon for us and for the baby.
00:45:59I promise.
00:46:03Okay?
00:46:06I'm so happy when I knew that Anna was going to come back soon.
00:46:10I'm happy because we've already had a lot of fun.
00:46:13I'm happy for my son.
00:46:16All right, Mama.
00:46:17I'm going to leave, okay?
00:46:19Aw.
00:46:21I miss you, okay?
00:46:23I'll let you know when I land, okay?
00:46:25Okay.
00:46:26Okay.
00:46:26Pero, masakit na, lalayo na naman sinong dalawa.
00:46:32Huwag naman sa anong mangyari yung katulad namin, na broken family.
00:46:39Kasi naranasan ko na at naranasan na ni Anna.
00:46:42Naranasan na ni Jibon.
00:46:43So, ang pangarap ko para sa kanila ay isang buo at masayang pamilya.
00:46:48Sana lang yung promise ni Jibon, huwag na huwag niyang bibiguin para sa kanyang mag-ina.
00:47:15Well, I know one thing I'm going to miss.
00:47:17The food.
00:47:18The food.
00:47:19Definitely going to miss traveling with you.
00:47:22Mm-hmm.
00:47:23That was really fun.
00:47:24Yeah.
00:47:25I'm going to miss everything, boo.
00:47:27The good and the bad.
00:47:29Oh, yeah?
00:47:29Yeah.
00:47:30From arguing to make-up sex.
00:47:34Just how much we always find a way to forgive each other.
00:47:41You make all the good things bad.
00:47:47A heavy load like that.
00:47:50Come on.
00:47:51That's just what you do.
00:47:55There's no one else like you.
00:47:59All right, boo.
00:48:01I'm going to miss you and I love you.
00:48:04I'm going to miss this face.
00:48:06Keep me posted with the baby, okay?
00:48:11I'm going to call you, all right?
00:48:12Don't cry.
00:48:20Looking back on the trip and what it meant to me, I've definitely learned a lot about Anna and our
00:48:28marriage as well as myself.
00:48:33Obviously, we still have a lot to work on, but regardless of all the issues, I love her, and I
00:48:41feel like I'm leaving a piece of me behind, you know?
00:48:44Wish I was there.
00:48:45Who knew they did?
00:48:46Uh, Javon.
00:48:47Wish I could stay.
00:48:50But the world won't let me in.
00:48:52My life's been taken away.
00:48:56Yes.
00:48:59I feel like I learned that marriage, it's not always about your happiness.
00:49:06It's not always fun.
00:49:08You have to work not just on a relationship.
00:49:11You have to work on yourself individually.
00:49:14I definitely need to work on myself a lot because I know I have, you know, I have some, I
00:49:23need to work on my temper, but it's really hard.
00:49:34But no matter what happens, I feel totally, 100% sure that I made the right decision.
00:49:41And I can't wait for us to be together as a family.
00:49:45Of all the things we've done, from this broken world we live in, we need to stay and share the
00:49:56love we know.
00:50:03Rolling.
00:50:05When you're ready, tell me what happened.
00:50:08I don't even know where to start.
00:50:10Like, it was crazy.
00:50:12As you...
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00:52:40was talking to other women um i could tell he was pulling away and so then it went from like
00:52:51me
00:52:51basically just saying i over and over i would respect you so much more if you just
00:52:56based ended things because i already i already know what you're out there doing just
00:53:02just end things took him a while i would say a few days but then he finally texted me and
00:53:10was like i can't do this he blamed it all on me he said he just didn't trust me like
00:53:16it was crazy
00:53:20i think he's projecting he knows he did me dirty and he just is hiding from it
00:53:35he didn't even have the decency to call me just did it over to
00:53:45and then seconds later posted videos with other girls
00:53:50i know she got little pretty friends so more than likely you're looking beautiful so
00:54:11like i just like think oh if i didn't do that if i didn't do this maybe if i handled
00:54:19this differently
00:54:20like it would have been a different outcome but then it's like i can't just dwell on that
00:54:32are you questioning the whole relationship at this point
00:54:43i mean i'm definitely i'm left with so many unanswered questions like that's just the part that i i struggle
00:54:57with
00:54:58is like it's like all the unknown and
00:55:05yeah do you think you'll ever get the answers
00:55:08i don't know
00:55:28baby
00:55:38okay why
00:55:51what does this mean
00:56:00i forgot to give you this
00:56:03i buy the matching outfit before you come in here
00:56:09sweetheart
00:56:11and we want to look cuteness together
00:56:19thank you thank you thank you thank you so is this why you came here
00:56:26yeah and also
00:56:31i want to say goodbye
00:56:37we're gonna leave and we'll never see again I'm not hoping anything from him I'm not hoping he
00:56:48would make the right decision like Trisha I love you I'll be with you I'm going to block my eggs
00:56:54I just wanted to see him that's it but when I see Rick at the airport my heart tells me
00:57:06that
00:57:07I do still love him but you cannot be with him
00:57:17it's sad I don't know what what to say
00:57:23you know I still love you I still want to I still want to see you what's the point
00:57:33do you don't forget about your eggs you'll never change so why you want to still see this
00:57:41you know that eventually I'm going to get over that this is going to take time
00:57:50I want us to work but I don't know we just
00:57:57make it work baby make it work
00:58:22it's not easy
00:58:28nothing worth having ever is
00:58:36we don't we don't have to commit to anything right now
00:58:39but let's just continue to talk and see if we can work through it okay
00:58:57okay
00:59:02but I'm not promising you that I'm going to get back with you or whatever
00:59:09I'll take that I'll take that
00:59:17I don't want to get hard again but I'm hoping that he will change and not having feelings for his
00:59:28ex
00:59:28anymore I'm going to take the day at a time talking with him as a friend and we will see
00:59:39that's it
00:59:59I know there's many many things that I have to do to make it up to her but I'd be
01:00:06willing to do
01:00:07whatever it takes to win her back are you willing to block your ex right now
01:00:16I mean really I can't block her because
01:00:24it would be like on our times that we shared together in the past
01:00:33but I know that for Trisha and I's relationship I have to start you know making a stronger stand
01:00:41of letting it go
01:00:45because I still keep looking back on the feelings that we had after visiting her family and getting
01:00:52their approval um that's that's the feeling that
01:00:58that's giving me hope that we can that we can get back to that place again
01:01:31my heart wants him my heart cares for him but like I just feel so
01:01:35I want a guy that's fighting for me if every little speed bump becomes this massive thing
01:01:42it's never going to work can we move past that
01:02:01I feel sick to my stomach I think I just feel so
01:02:10sorry sorry sorry
01:02:11my last name was so eye-opening
01:02:28like I didn't come here to hang out with all your friends like I'm a people pleaser I try to
01:02:32make you happy
01:02:33don't say yes to please me and then have a fight with me
01:02:36I don't have a choice I didn't mean
01:02:37don't say yes to please me when I ask you and then have a fight with me after when you
01:02:42said yes
01:02:42okay then we're going to have our differences
01:02:44but last night you hurt my feelings I didn't feel hurt you made me feel really small and you ruined
01:02:49our last night
01:02:50that is like I didn't I wasn't malicious or disgusting
01:02:54and then you tried to talk about me when I went in the bedroom
01:02:56I didn't
01:02:57okay everything that I say you're going to fight bad
01:03:01I was kind of hoping that things would call off before you know we got to the airport
01:03:05but the tension was just you know palpable every time we have an argument when I try and find a
01:03:12resolution or apologize you know it's just it doesn't go anywhere I love her a bit like I don't know
01:03:20what to
01:03:28do
01:03:29that's not a soft
01:03:35I mean like I just can't believe you tell me you're in love with me and we're talking about like
01:03:46what's going to happen between us and
01:03:51then it's just like all unraveled
01:03:54well look I don't know how many times I can say I apologize for it
01:03:56you still won't accept it on a day where we're leaving on a bad note
01:04:01if if if every little speed bump becomes this massive thing it's never going to work it's not
01:04:07going to work and I don't want that
01:04:09you are so hot and cold with like how you feel I feel like one minute you want this and
01:04:15one minute
01:04:15you don't and you're so easy to walk away like you just said I'm out yeah turned off your location
01:04:21but you're minimizing that it's very erratic to me that's scary because I don't know what's going on
01:04:26your head that's fair I could have handled it better and I'm sorry can we live past that
01:04:42I'm falling for you I care about you more than you ever know
01:04:47I wanted it to work so mad
01:04:52you mean everything to me I'm going to think about you all the time I'm going to think about
01:04:55the great times but I don't like feeling uncertain
01:05:01I think I'm going to be settling and like you can't do this
01:05:05it's not going to work out
01:05:31my heart wants him my heart cares for him but I know
01:05:35that I would be doing myself without service if I stayed with him
01:05:42his job situation his son's situation his living situation I genuinely feel bad and I want to take
01:05:47care of him but it's not my job
01:05:50let me know you give home time
01:05:54see ya
01:06:02I wanted this so bad but how can you tell me that you're in love with me and then have
01:06:07no
01:06:07reaction when I'm breaking up with you and I'm about to never see you again if he really loved
01:06:12me and wanted to make this work he would be fighting right like I want a guy that's fighting
01:06:16for me like he's just unfortunately not the guy for me and like I came here so excited to find
01:06:22love
01:06:22it I'm leaving alone
01:06:33I guess it's too late to say I'm sorry
01:06:37if I meant to let you down
01:06:39I'm not the type to sort of be like no baby please don't
01:06:42that's not me like I'm not going to force someone you know
01:06:46I did what I could
01:06:47you know I didn't do the best but I did what I could
01:06:51I said I'm in love with her and it's not an exaggeration but she always was hesitant
01:06:56but I think she played with my feelings a little bit
01:06:59well she was scared that she'd get hurt so she'd cut it off first I don't know
01:07:07but it's devastating yeah she goes one way I'll go the other
01:07:15I just wanna let you know I don't wanna let you go
01:07:21maybe in another life
01:07:22every kiss he gave to me is in my memory like we were meant to be
01:07:28I can't wait to get back to Miami and see my cats and I'm gonna be okay but
01:07:34the roots is sad
01:07:37we did have a great connection and I did really like him and I do so really like him
01:07:42I know I made the right choice but
01:07:45it hurts
01:07:48I don't wanna let you go
01:07:54good morning
01:07:55good morning
01:07:57when it comes to Michael we have to have better boundaries
01:08:00but I'm feeling a lot of anxiety that things aren't gonna be the same between us
01:08:07you look a little bit emotional
01:08:10yeah
01:08:11yeah
01:08:13we got engaged
01:08:40I don't even know why I bothered putting makeup on this sucks
01:08:44I don't even know why I bothered putting makeup on this sucks
01:08:44it will be fun
01:08:45it will be fun
01:08:46I know
01:08:46I didn't think it was gonna be this hard
01:08:50if you think about it it's getting harder than others
01:08:52I know
01:08:54I'm trying not to think about it as hard when I'm packing everything up
01:08:59it's just hard to have spent this much time with you
01:09:03and now I don't get
01:09:07today
01:09:08today
01:09:09I'm going back home
01:09:12and it sucks
01:09:14to have just gotten engaged yesterday
01:09:17and now I have to leave
01:09:21after they approve that paper
01:09:24we'll be together
01:09:26I think it's gonna be a long time before that happens
01:09:29it could be like a year and a half
01:09:31I know
01:09:33everything has its price
01:09:34I know
01:09:36it just feels like a lot can go wrong
01:09:38in that time
01:09:40but always
01:09:42if you really wanna be with me
01:09:45if I really wanna be with you
01:09:47we will end up together
01:09:49what if you change your mind?
01:09:51but if you change your mind
01:09:55I believe in us
01:09:58yeah I do too
01:10:00I don't want you to cry
01:10:01I don't want you to cry
01:10:07too late
01:10:16that's probably Michael
01:10:18do you want me to take the door?
01:10:20yeah you go get the door
01:10:21I'll grab my bag
01:10:23okay
01:10:25I know that I'm gonna be an absolute emotional wreck today
01:10:29so I'm glad Michael booked the same flight as me
01:10:33good morning my good man
01:10:35how are you?
01:10:36doing well how are you?
01:10:37very good
01:10:40so you're all packed up and ready?
01:10:42yep good morning
01:10:43and the cab downstairs
01:10:45excellent excellent
01:10:47when it comes to Michael
01:10:49I'm feeling a lot of anxiety
01:10:51about the future of our friendship
01:10:53there's no way we can continue to
01:10:56watch movies in bed
01:10:58and cuddle on the couch
01:11:01we have to have better boundaries
01:11:04it's worth it
01:11:05to make beer con feel secure in our relationship
01:11:09but
01:11:09it's a little bit sad to me
01:11:12that things aren't gonna be the same between us
01:11:17you look a little bit emotional
01:11:19how's your uh
01:11:20last 24 hours been?
01:11:22it's been pretty good
01:11:24it's really hard to leave
01:11:26I can imagine
01:11:29but yeah I mean
01:11:30I don't know
01:11:35it's just
01:11:37we got engaged
01:11:46it's funny
01:11:47I found you engaged and uh
01:11:50here you are again
01:11:51it's a fascinating world
01:11:53very interesting
01:11:55cool
01:11:57it was just so sweet and sentimental
01:11:59like everything he does has so much meaning
01:12:01which I love
01:12:03you know it was great
01:12:09come in
01:12:09I can
01:12:12there's a point
01:12:13for the knocking
01:12:14I can't go in
01:12:15are you taking too long?
01:12:20I put the bags
01:12:21in the cab
01:12:24okay excellent
01:12:24cool
01:12:30well congratulations both of you
01:12:32thank you man
01:12:34thanks
01:12:34yeah
01:12:34I appreciate that
01:12:35well we gotta get going
01:12:36those planes don't wait
01:12:38yep
01:12:41takes time to make her mine
01:12:46she's got all she wants
01:12:48and doesn't
01:12:49fear con is still a mystery to me
01:12:51but I mean it did not take me long to figure out
01:12:54he's a good guy
01:12:55is he right for Laura?
01:12:56I mean he's still young
01:12:57and they just have such different lives
01:12:59and long distance relationships are very hard to navigate
01:13:02a lot of them end up failing
01:13:05I don't think love is enough
01:13:07and right now that's what they got
01:13:09in my eyes
01:13:10that's just that's all they got
01:13:14I know the next 9 to 18 months
01:13:16gonna be difficult for you guys
01:13:18we know
01:13:19yeah
01:13:20it feels overwhelming
01:13:24actually everything is overwhelming right now
01:13:27actually everything is overwhelming right now
01:13:28I feel like
01:13:31half of my soul is leaving me
01:13:36oh god we're here
01:13:41our struggle just began
01:13:43we have distance
01:13:45we could have problems
01:13:48but if we both want it
01:13:50it will work
01:13:52alright buddy
01:13:53this is where our journey ends
01:13:54yeah
01:13:56it is just the beginning
01:13:58I'll see you in the 9 to 18 months apparently
01:14:01okay don't say it out loud
01:14:02it's just sad
01:14:04alright I will give you your last moments here
01:14:06and see you on the other side girl
01:14:07thanks
01:14:08okay
01:14:13um
01:14:14mm-mm
01:14:15oh god
01:14:16no crying
01:14:17no crying
01:14:18no crying
01:14:20no I hate this
01:14:33we had our moments
01:14:35I know
01:14:36and we will still have our moments
01:14:41ultimately if we are going to get married
01:14:44I feel like there's so many challenges that BeerCon and I are going to have to face
01:14:49this visa could take up to 18 months
01:14:52he could get denied
01:14:53long distance communication is exhausting
01:14:57but I love him and he loves me
01:15:01and it's all worth it
01:15:06yeah
01:15:06do you believe us?
01:15:07yeah
01:15:09I believe us too
01:15:11I will too
01:15:12I love you too
01:15:14I love you too
01:15:22thank you for loving me
01:15:24I will always love you
01:15:27always
01:15:29thank you
01:15:30this was truly
01:15:31this was truly
01:15:32the experience of a lifetime
01:15:34and I wouldn't change it
01:15:36all I can think is that I need more time
01:15:38I want more time
01:15:40and I'm out
01:15:59how come in your contacts you have somebody listed as wife?
01:16:04I don't know what you're talking about
01:16:05faith went on your email
01:16:07I have screenshots it is true
01:16:12I'm being real
01:16:13are you being real?
01:16:14I'm being real
01:16:37I'm being real
01:16:40I'm being real
01:17:01I want you to be real
01:17:03I want you to do
01:17:08your phone
01:17:09you did too much damage baby
01:17:10good god he hasn't called me and now he calls me and now i'm scared but his voice gives me
01:17:17butterflies in my stomach still and i'm trying to harden my heart and i don't know how to do that
01:17:24i don't know how to do that with him it has been at least a week since faith snooped into
01:17:31daniel's email accounts again faith communicated with this woman that he saved in his phone
01:17:38as wife and she didn't deny knowing daniel she didn't deny anything does he have a wife does he
01:17:46have kids does he have somebody else on the side was i paying for a whole second family
01:17:52i've been so scared to talk to daniel about any of this maybe because i don't want to face reality
01:17:57but i know that i need to talk to him immediately and say what the hell are you doing i
01:18:04can't keep
01:18:05doing this i can't keep busting my ass to get to nigeria and get to daniel till i find out
01:18:10what's
01:18:10going on
01:18:20hey
01:18:22hi beautiful how are you
01:18:27i'm fine how are you doing i'm okay stressed it was a stressful day today
01:18:34oh i'm so sorry um you know i always tell you not to walk so hard
01:18:41i'm gonna i'm gonna walk around a little bit hold on i'm tired of sitting
01:18:47baby i love your wig
01:18:51thank you i don't understand i'm confused suddenly he is being attentive and loving
01:19:01where has this been for the last two two and a half months where has this been
01:19:06it feels like he knows he did something wrong and he's trying to cover it up
01:19:13so like why don't you ever have time to communicate with me
01:19:19maybe i do communicate with you but um i don't yes i don't communicate with you like before
01:19:25because you know we spent some weeks in lagos so uh when i came back to my states i find
01:19:34out that
01:19:34i'm having having a lot of debts
01:19:39i have a lot of debt too but i always make time for you
01:19:43yes and i'm working three jobs and you're not doing anything but going to football and working
01:19:48one job i'm so sorry i'm sorry about that i'm sorry you're not the same daniel that i used to
01:19:56talk
01:19:56to i never changed my mind i still love you i'm not sure you'll ever make me to denounce the
01:20:04love
01:20:04i have for you i can't do that then i have a question how come in your contacts you have
01:20:12me
01:20:13listed as liz baby and you have somebody listed as white i don't think that's true faith went on your
01:20:23email i have screenshots it is true
01:20:32and you're being real i'm being real
01:20:38why do you like laying accusations on my head it's not about accusations faith texted that person
01:20:45and i have the screenshots of what she texted she said daniel has you listed as wife and she said
01:20:52so
01:20:52what do you want of it so who is this wife
01:21:00i don't know what you're talking about maybe you should come up with the evidence
01:21:06i do have the evidence so don't don't don't you're not going to do this to me
01:21:12he gaslights me all the time he thinks i'm a fool because i've fallen for everything he's done
01:21:20but not this time all right i'll send you the screenshots and then i'd like to hear what you
01:21:26have to say
01:21:31you have a contact that says wife and you lied and now you're smiling and smirking and acting like you
01:21:37don't care can you stop can we can we be serious i'm not playing these games anymore daniel i loved
01:21:43you with everything i had i was willing i worked three jobs to get to you i already made the
01:21:48effort
01:21:49to be there with you and you change he's not admitting it but he's not really denying it either
01:21:57that's why he's ignoring me it answers all my questions everything's answered what other conclusion
01:22:03can i come to no matter how much i love daniel this is the final straw
01:22:11you have been laying accusations on my head you're not even acting like you care
01:22:16oh god you're not caring this is a joke to you but i'm done once i hang up i'm not
01:22:23calling back
01:22:25and i'd like you to know that i don't want this relationship anymore
01:22:31i want to call it a quits because you think i'm a wife this is um this is so funny
01:22:38honestly it's not
01:22:40funny and i'm hanging up because it's not funny did you find out you know i'm done calling people
01:22:46i'm done checking up on you i'm done goodbye daniel goodbye forever
01:22:55you okay no i'm not okay he tried to gaslight me again again he's trying to gaslight me and again
01:23:02he he just showed his true self again he made a fool out of me and he broke my heart
01:23:15and he used me
01:23:20i'm not taking him back i'm done i can't do this anymore i'm tired of being made feeling like i'm
01:23:27crazy
01:23:30this marriage that i wanted more than anything in the world is over there is no marriage to daniel
01:23:42next time on 90 day fiance before the 90 days the couples tell all trisha you have a big update
01:23:50yes
01:23:51oh my god get married
01:23:58oh my god get married
01:23:59molly do you still feel like sheena lies to you yes all of the money with her family sheena changes
01:24:07the story daily no no no no her parents were asking her for money as recently as a week ago
01:24:14that's the last time oh my oh i started this thinking molly was the problem and now i switched to
01:24:20thinking sheena's the problem aviva and stig the engagement
01:24:27is broken off aviva got caught talking to other men somebody texted me that guy is never gonna love
01:24:35you like like i would oh look at me right now and say that you didn't cheat oh my god
01:24:43michael and i have not really seen each other since turkey huh oh wow yeah because you're sending me
01:24:50you're on your own oh my god i was joking at no point in time would i say oh you
01:24:57are such a condescending
01:24:58man lisa and daniel you're definitely not back together we are broken up no no no hold on listen
01:25:06the situation now is uh complicated she's my wife what i am not with you you tricked me oh no
01:25:19is emma lying when she says that you two had sex if i i did sex with him i would
01:25:25not say i did it so
01:25:26you like to participate but you don't want to talk about it right because that's your religion right
01:25:29you're a fake muslim oh you are a fake father i'm a real father fool i'm more father than you
01:25:38will
01:25:38ever be ever in your life you piece of there is something that i've been like upset about okay i
01:25:47found out you tried to hook up with him i really cared about a friendship with you i feel like
01:25:52i don't
01:25:52know who i can like trust i think it's very weird that you're like poor me i'm the victim when
01:25:57i didn't
01:25:57do anything wrong what is happening don't raise your voice at me don't get me mad and attack me
01:26:02that guy's not your boyfriend he's able to do whatever the he wants
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