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90 Day The Single Life S05E11
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00:01Previously on The Single Life, we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah.
00:06We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do.
00:07And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute.
00:11This legit might be my person.
00:13We got to do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money
00:19to go over to another country to have my heart broken again?
00:25We are in Hollywood.
00:27Oh, my God.
00:28Look who's here.
00:30I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm going to meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
00:36I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40Yeah.
00:40I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's going to be any chance for our relationship to work,
00:47I'm going to have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
00:58you could work this out.
01:00I'm not going to be one of his options in his love triangle.
01:03It's like you had me, and you lost me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
01:09but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done, like...
01:20Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:21Are you serious?
01:22You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a freaking dance class,
01:28we might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
01:32I'm just, like, really done with this .
01:48Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:50How are you feeling this morning?
01:52I'm feeling good.
01:53I'm feeling good, too.
01:55That was one wild, crazy night.
02:07That was pure madness.
02:09How'd you like your lap dance?
02:10Ah, the lap dance was amazing.
02:13Good, I'm glad.
02:15Last night, Natalie took me to a strip club in LA,
02:19and we had an amazing, terrific time.
02:21Both of us were, like, hot and sweaty by the time it was done,
02:25and we were horny and excited to, like, have some real fun.
02:29I unleashed the beast last night.
02:32You were a wild and crazy man.
02:34The sex was so much better than the first time.
02:38Seeing this freaky side of Natalie took all my anxiety away.
02:42I had no problem throwing my hat off and getting down.
02:47So, yeah.
02:50So, what are we gonna do today?
02:53Plan for the day is to meet my family.
02:55Do you know where we're going or anything?
02:57It's a surprise.
02:58But we need to get going because the reservation's coming up soon.
03:01Okay, let's hit the road.
03:03Today, Gino and I are meeting up with my daughter, Bella,
03:06and my brother, Nick.
03:08Do we have a car picking us up?
03:10We're walking.
03:11Are we walking?
03:12We're walking.
03:13Oh, my goodness gracious.
03:15Bella is skeptical about Gino because what's happened in the past,
03:19but I'm hoping everybody can have fun,
03:22just let their guard down,
03:23because my feelings for Gino are only getting stronger,
03:26and I really need for everybody in my family,
03:30especially Bella, to be on board.
03:32Nick!
03:34Nick!
03:35Oh, hi.
03:36Hey!
03:36How are you doing?
03:37How are you?
03:39I'm doing good.
03:40Oh, nice to meet you.
03:41This is Gino.
03:42How are you doing?
03:42Nice meeting you, finally.
03:44Nice meeting you, too.
03:45This is my twin brother.
03:47Twin brother.
03:47Yeah.
03:48Yeah.
03:48She's a pretty twin.
03:50Yeah.
03:51No, I think you're the pretty twin.
03:54I can see the resemblance.
03:56The first time Natalie dating Gino, everything went to crap.
04:00Everything was a nightmare.
04:01She was calling me, crying all the time.
04:04And, I mean, he broke her heart.
04:06So, when Natalie told me she was dating Gino again,
04:09I thought she was crazy.
04:10This is going to be a whole huge drama mess,
04:13like every other relationship she's been through.
04:16We're going to see some entertainments.
04:18Have you ever seen a drag show before?
04:20Drag show?
04:21I haven't...
04:21I've heard of them, but I've never seen one.
04:24You're in for a treat.
04:25Oh, yeah.
04:25Is Bella there already?
04:27Have you talked to her?
04:27I haven't seen Isabella since yesterday.
04:30You haven't talked to her?
04:31Not since yesterday.
04:34I'm just going to text her real quick.
04:38Yesterday, when Bella dropped her mom off at the hotel,
04:42she was really cold to me and had an attitude.
04:46I can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me.
04:50Okay.
04:52I texted.
04:53All right.
04:54So, we're good to go?
04:55Yeah, let's go.
04:56We're going to miss the show.
04:58Okay.
04:58Stop worrying.
04:59I'm not.
05:00Yeah, don't worry about anything.
05:01It's not good for that pretty face.
05:03Stop.
05:06I'm the girl you see on the street.
05:08Drove love boy down to my feet.
05:10I like when you're underneath.
05:12What?
05:15How's everybody doing today?
05:17Woo!
05:19Are you all ready to get started?
05:21Yeah!
05:21Yeah!
05:22Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the stage, Penny Ridge Rapper!
05:26Woo!
05:31I have never been to a drag queen show before.
05:34Being here in person is freaking amazing.
05:45And they're putting their in my face.
05:54This is what I love about Natalie.
05:57She brings me out of my shell.
05:59Or even out of my comfort zone.
06:01She can do that to me.
06:11Yeah!
06:12You all have a good time with us today?
06:14Yeah!
06:14Oh, yeah!
06:16Happy birthday, everybody.
06:17I'm Joy.
06:17Wow!
06:22After the show, it really clears out, doesn't it?
06:24Yeah.
06:25Man, I wish Bella was here.
06:26She's not responding to me.
06:28Really?
06:29That's weird.
06:33She texted you?
06:35Yeah.
06:39Bella arranged the whole thing to come here.
06:41And at the last minute, something just went off.
06:44She just doesn't like Gino.
06:46She doesn't trust him.
06:47All she wants to make sure is her mom is happy.
06:50And she doesn't think Gino is that person.
06:54I'm sad myself because I wanted to get to know her a little bit.
06:57It seems like she doesn't want to meet you.
06:59You think so?
07:01She's told me she does not like him.
07:03And that's the reason why she did not come.
07:05I mean, you're still married.
07:07Your ex attacks Natalie.
07:09That's ridiculous.
07:10But we came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it.
07:15But she hasn't gone past it.
07:17That's the problem.
07:18We don't have to deal with Jasmine anymore.
07:21So take Jasmine out of the equation and everything has been progressing really good.
07:26Like, we are having fun together.
07:27So have you filed for divorce?
07:31Um...
07:37Bella has a lot of anger towards me.
07:40And Nick, he's kind of questioning if I'm the right person for her as well.
07:46So everything I did to rebuild my relationship with Natalie is falling apart.
07:52I mean, I don't blame Isabella.
07:54You're still married to another woman.
07:57And she doesn't want to see her mother hurt.
07:59I get it.
08:00She wants to look out for me.
08:02And I love her and I appreciate that.
08:04But I still would like her to give him a chance.
08:08You're just going to have to show her it's not like the other relationships that you had in the past.
08:15She comes first.
08:17She comes first.
08:19Bella has never seen me happy with a man in my entire life.
08:23They are toxic.
08:25They're liars.
08:26They're not honest.
08:27I had an ex that was a serial cheater and I knew it.
08:32So when it comes to Geno, Bella has her guard up.
08:35I think she is very protective and very leery of his intentions.
08:42You're going to have to win her over.
08:44She's the hard one to win over.
08:46Yeah.
08:47And don't piss her off.
08:48I'm coming off, Maggie.
08:52Trying to find out what it is that makes it always feel like this.
08:57I'm so tired.
08:59Six, seven, walk her through.
09:01We go one, two.
09:03We go forward tap.
09:05What the ?
09:06I just don't freaking get it.
09:22I asked you if you want to dance and you said no so then I told you I'm gonna dance
09:27with somebody
09:27else and I did and then you interrupted me in the middle of the dance so like I wanted you
09:31to have
09:31fun and I wanted you to come come into my world I was I enjoyed the dancing so what's the
09:37problem
09:37then I mean we just talked about coming to his class learning how to dance and social was out
09:45nowhere and all of a sudden we talk about that and then you storm off find some Vin Diesel guy
09:50or
09:51actually a guy looks just like your ex and you're just having a good time are you so here's the
09:56thing
09:56you're going to Ibiza in a couple weeks there's gonna be many socials in Ibiza too and there's
10:01gonna be many socials in Croatia as well so you think I'm gonna go cheat on you with a guy
10:05in Ibiza
10:06what I'm trying to say is like if you're gonna dance with random guys what's gonna happen
10:10and they want to have a good time they want to have a good time so because they want to
10:15have a
10:15good time I need to be punished and I'm gonna be and I'm gonna be yeah so you're trying to
10:20accuse me
10:20of something that I haven't even done yet so you have freedom of reign to do whatever you want
10:24I just don't understand Tony because it's like a vacation listen I danced with a guy after a dance
10:29class after you said that you don't want to dance and now you're accusing me of of of dancing with
10:33random
10:33guys in Ibiza and like potentially cheating on you like you're literally putting words in my
10:40mouth I never said that he knew I was a dancer when we started dating he knew I was a
10:49dancer when we
10:50were friends I feel like at this point in our relationship he should trust me he should know who
10:55I am he should know what I stand for he should know that I would not do anything to disrespect
11:00him
11:00or put our relationship in jeopardy Tony is projecting his own insecurity on me and I'm
11:08really hurt by that I don't think I deserve it you don't see a problem here at all you're not
11:14even
11:14looking at it from my perspective what is the freaking problem the problem is actually us
11:19because you look at it as hey this is my everyday life this is what I've been doing for years
11:23this
11:23is my passion I see it as this is not appropriate for a new relationship that's the problem so you're
11:28stopping me from being who I am because I'm in a relationship with you I think there's compromise
11:33there's compromise we're not having it this is unbelievable Tony this is really it's it's not
11:39it's compromise you ruined everything so I hope you're happy I need to go find my freaking phone
11:45I'm taking over home and this is it I'm done with this she's been single for a very long time
11:53she
11:54still does things her own way I'm concerned that sometimes Vanya may not look at the big picture of
11:59when you're in a relationship it's about compromise and to me dance is very central dance has a lot of
12:05feelings attached and you know it's very easy to fall in love with your dance partner he's gonna
12:10storm off again no I just I'm done Tony I'm calling an uber and I'm going home I brought up
12:16concerns
12:16about her traveling and dancing with other guys and other clubs and she completely said hey that's my
12:21prerogative is to have fun hey by the way Tony just trust me when I can't even trust her when
12:26I'm
12:27watching her and with her so that's it that's it she's gonna storm out again yeah really yeah no
12:33compromise there's no resolution to anything now is there what compromise is there really you're
12:38accusing me of being somebody who's who's has nefarious intentions in mind you said you can do
12:43whatever you want you said I can have fun I can dance whatever what do you want me to do
12:49then just
12:49stay in my hotel room the whole time I'm there maybe you should enjoy join Ibiza you know we'll see
12:56how it works out when you get back then it's now you're threatening me what you obviously don't
13:07trust me and I'm going home seriously
13:24this guy is acting like a complete control freak trying to tell me how to live my life it is
13:30unacceptable I'm a grown woman I can make my own decisions I'm not gonna be told what I can and
13:35cannot do I'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them I mean what
13:45else do you think is gonna happen here this is really making me worried about our relationship
13:51going forward because if this is how Tony is acting when we're together I cannot even imagine what he's
13:57going to be a life once we're apart for two weeks it's really scaring me
14:18mama didn't raise no food she let me walk in my own shoes so double down and let me lose
14:23there ain't no mountain I can't move
14:37now what do we need these for what do you want avocado we're on a diet okay put them off
14:42you better put them back huh hey we're on a diet yeah
14:58I'm gonna get a cabbage we're gonna make some cabbage rolls so I talked to Colt oh my gosh
15:06where is he at no he's in Brazil he went to Brazil yeah to see the other woman yeah for
15:14the last month
15:14I haven't been in touch with Colt because I needed a break from that dumpster fire of a
15:20relationship but he called me out of the blue this morning from Brazil did he go back to Canada when
15:27no I guess I guess he went straight from Florida to Brazil oh my gosh seriously yeah I thought Colt
15:36went to Canada to live with his mom I found out the whole time he's been in Brazil with Diana
15:42the woman
15:42he's been sending videos too okay they're saying the ligaments in his knee need to be replaced so
15:50he has to have another surgery but he said he's found a doctor here that will accept the insurance
15:55and stuff here yeah in Orlando so I guess he's coming back he's not staying at our place no no
16:03okay
16:05oh my gosh one thing we've learned from this experience is there's no stranger's gonna stay
16:12at our house again ever it's not gonna happen it's not gonna happen is he still in the wheelchair or
16:18is
16:18he yeah well I guess the doorways are small there so he's been using crutches because the wheelchair and
16:23Walker are too big how's he gonna get around yeah he can't drive no I said I'd go pick him
16:28up and
16:28like help him get situated in the hotel picking up Colt from the airport is gonna be torture you
16:36know we had a really strong connection there's still some type of bond which is maybe really dumb
16:42but I feel responsible for him does he want to try to get back with you I don't know what
16:48he wants
16:49don't don't let it happen he's not gonna be faithful yeah yeah no I think he's gonna lie and
16:58keep lying and lying and lying I don't trust him so it's like how can I be with somebody I
17:02don't trust
17:04when he you keep lying about stuff is you're not sincere yeah I don't see any sincerity at all to
17:13this no respect I mean leave our daughter alone I mean bottom line well if it was me I would
17:23be over
17:23with it but it's you I think you're strong enough but when he cast that fishing line and reel you
17:32back
17:33in and you know he's gonna try don't revolve your life around him no no because he could care less
17:40about you he's just using you once again I feel he can't use me because I'm offering help I'm
17:46offering to do this for him I want to do this for him so it's like he's not using me
17:50it's like
17:51he's not playing me he's playing himself but then how far are you gonna take this yeah I just want
17:57to
17:57you know get him from the airport to the hotel yeah okay set boundaries like all the crying and
18:03stuff I've been doing I think it's just like feeling sorry for him like he might be permanently
18:07disabled so I cry more about his leg than about him dating other women I know my parents are worried
18:15about Cole breaking my heart again they see that he still affects me and like the truth is I don't
18:22know
18:22what I'm gonna feel when I see him we had such a deep intense connection and you can't just turn
18:30that off I feel like Cole has some type of crazy power over me and I don't really trust myself
18:36with
18:36him life is way too short to be putting up with that fill your life with happy things I will
18:44you want
18:44the doughnuts no I think I need the wine the wine yay stockings here you can hang your own stocking
19:02up
19:02son all right boom okay there we go look at that look at that you already have stuff in your
19:14stocking
19:14is it candy oh yeah I gotta get one okay this isn't good it's been there since last year
19:35here we go grand Illuminate so she looks pretty good do you remember this monkey grandma bought this
19:43for you so I'll let you hang that just hang it neck near her yeah it's cute huh Christmas is
19:51in a few
19:51weeks and I'm really really excited because it's my favorite holiday everything's all sparkly
19:57everybody's just nice and it brings back so many happy memories of my mom and my sister and previous
20:02holidays when I do stuff like this it reminds me of grandma because this was like our thing and my
20:07grandma it was like our thing was to like decorate you know so it's gonna be our thing now I
20:11think so
20:11and I think we should include Larry in this as well because he doesn't know any of our stuff
20:15there's no anything you want to call him yeah Christmas is all about family and this Christmas
20:22is even more special because my family just got bigger my relationship with my son that I placed
20:29for adoption is just getting better and better we video chat all the time and it's really become a
20:35special part of my life hey what's up y'all what's up how are you I'm doing good man it
20:43looks like y'all in the
20:44Christmas spirit yeah I'm really excited to talk to him today and show him my Christmas decorations but I
20:50also have some news to share with both him and Jamal so we thought we would call you and get
20:55you in the
20:56Christmas spirit with us so Jamal's gonna carry you around let's go for a tour all right look so
21:03this is my little tree I like bling you know I'm all about the glitter I love the sequins and
21:07stuff so
21:08this is instead of doing a star I do a top hat isn't it cute isn't it cute it's so
21:15cute and then I do
21:17stockings am I gonna get a stocking yes you're gonna get a stocking of course you are there was
21:25never a holiday a birthday or any other day and 35 years that I did not think about Larry or
21:33my
21:34daughter I always wondered like what kind of life they had how they celebrated their birthdays how they
21:40celebrated their holidays love my hair a little flat I'm so grateful to Larry that he gave me the
21:51chance to make up for lost time I'm really glad that you can enjoy some of this with us yeah
21:57for sure so
21:58yeah and I'm glad that we have communication especially now I think the communication is a
22:02lot better now that I've been I agree I'm free so speaking of that I told you guys about the
22:08guy
22:09that I've been talking to in England and I'm going he invited me to come so I'm gonna go and
22:15meet
22:15him I mean everybody deserves a chance at love so I don't see why you wouldn't take it just don't
22:22get your hopes up no you know I'm saying a little bit your hopes too high it's a little bit
22:27of hope
22:27no no let's just stay neutral I mean just go over there with an open mind yeah I like him
22:32but I'm not
22:33I'm not doing what I did with Usman it's a totally different thing I've learned from my mistakes
22:39don't look so skeptical no I am I can't help but naturally be concerned when you take these trips
22:46for men I haven't met you're gonna fly by yourself you're gonna be there by yourself I remember even
22:52when you go to Nigeria by yourself you would call me and be like I wish you were here why
22:57don't you go
22:57with me what are you doing no why is it not too much why don't you go you don't have
23:02to meet him
23:02like the first day but you should maybe you should go with me go Jamal you should go yeah you
23:08should
23:08go you should definitely go I do wish I would have went to Nigeria sooner me too because maybe I
23:13could
23:13have helped in that one faster the men you've met they're so nice to you in the beginning and they
23:18they
23:19trap you because you get stuck and you fall fast yeah so luckily when I'm there maybe I'm able to
23:24talk to her and be like just remember to not give too much in the beginning yeah yeah in the
23:32past once
23:33my mom really starts to like a guy she starts believing whatever they say so I really do hope
23:39Wayne is this nice guy that he's been telling her that he is because my mom's heart cannot take much
23:46more
23:46I feel like now everybody everybody's in place I'm working on myself it's time for me to go and
23:51find love well I think you've had a lot off your shoulders yeah like telling you about your sister
23:58and everything telling me about him then telling yeah him about her yeah speaking of um sister I
24:05reached out to the adoption agency like we all agreed upon to try to find her and well they sent
24:09me a
24:09letter her adopted mom had wrote me a letter so I have the letter it's like 10 pages long and
24:16I was waiting for an opportunity to just kind of bring it out I don't see it all right when
24:22the
24:22adoption agency told me they had a letter about my daughter from when she was six years old I was
24:28stunned this was dated November 26 98 okay it says to the birth mother of our beloved daughter R
24:40she came home with us in January of 93 she was then and has continued to this day to be
24:45a healthy and
24:46happy child I can't read this yeah this is crazy
25:13I haven't seen Tony since our dance class a few nights ago and obviously things ended on a really
25:19bad note I'm really nervous it's not an easy thing to like have that huge blow off and then off
25:26I go for
25:27half a month
25:45Tony is coming over to take me to the airport and it's awful because I'm leaving for two and a
25:51half week
25:52vacation to Europe this is not how I wanted to leave things between us
26:08I made us a little snack so have a seat I'll go grab it
26:14having seen Tony and his reaction during the dance class it has me worried that this kind of
26:21jealousy and control is only going to get amplified while I'm gone then it could be the end of us
26:31so how are you feeling I mean I know you're leaving soon so I thought we at least talk about
26:41you know
26:42what's going on and I just don't want this tension anymore so what's what's what's on your mind
26:51I do trust you but the words escalated the emotions escalated and all of a sudden you left and I'm
26:57like
26:57wow are we really just throwing it away
27:03yeah I agree that that wasn't the best thing to do I shouldn't have done what I did like stormed
27:10out but
27:11I you know I was I was very upset but at the end of the day you you mean the
27:17world to me and I want
27:19to make sure that when I'm away that you feel comfortable that you're not you know thinking
27:24what am I doing what's going on am I putting our relationship in jeopardy because I would never do
27:30anything like that thank you I mean that means a lot to me I'm not trying to say hey listen
27:39to
27:39either you dance or it's me I just really want to make sure that we're on the same page going
27:44forward
27:44and you know this upcoming trip I just don't want it to be about us not talking a lack of
27:50communication or if there's tension I just don't want it to just linger I agree we're not going to
27:57go sleep angry we're not going to let the day end with us not having a resolution okay I like
28:04that
28:05okay I'm just going to put this in the kitchen and then we can skedaddle we both took responsibility
28:13for what we did wrong and I'm feeling a little bit more secure Vanya I'm going to help grab your
28:18luggage okay okay thank you all right but at the same time our relationship is just starting to take
28:24the next step we even started saying I love you to each other and now I'm leaving immediately for
28:30two and a half weeks I mean this gives us no time together to hug and kiss and just be
28:35good
28:39oh sucks
28:53baby I'm gonna miss you so much oh my god I can't believe we're here already
29:01oh my god I'm gonna try as much as possible let's keep in touch
29:05all right
29:07love you baby
29:15next trip is gonna be a together trip
29:18absolutely
29:18okay
29:19okay I miss you already
29:21I miss you too baby
29:22all right
29:23oh bye
29:24bye babe
29:28I feel like our relationship is so new that there is worry
29:33the last few weeks we've had a great foundation and I really hope this trip is not going to test
29:38it
29:38to the point where she's going to realize that the single life is better for her
29:42I would be in shambles if I lost Vanya it would break me apart
29:48there are so many variables that could go wrong on this trip and I hope we can get through it
29:54but
29:54I would be lying if I said I wasn't concerned because if he has another meltdown while I'm away
30:00I don't think our relationship can survive
30:23to the birth mother of our beloved daughter are I can't read this this is crazy
30:42this letter was not delivered to me almost 30 years ago because I moved around a lot
30:46I was in the military so I just never received it
30:50it's very emotional for me because it's like me getting to know her
30:54it means so much to get a glimpse into what her life was like growing up
31:02her developmental skills progressed normally except in one area where she
31:07proved exceptionally gifted she's very verbal I guess she talks like her mama right
31:13ours vocabulary is tremendous her thoughts and desires at a level beyond her six years
31:19we hope to keep her in private school as long as we can afford it
31:24ours favorite food is pasta pasta pasta that's her Italian side she is also a great vegetable
31:30eater we have a large vegetable garden she loves to go out and pick vegetables for dinner
31:36she had a pretty nice life wait a minute
31:40I think reading this letter and finding out these things about her like now we know her name
31:44starts with an R we know she had a vegetable garden we know she went to private school
31:53sorry
31:58and it's like a bittersweet feeling right like it makes her more real to me and it just makes me
32:04so happy to
32:05know that she was raised so well we are indeed thankful for having her in our lives and love
32:12her very much with best best wishes to you and yours
32:18it's really intense
32:20I'm really glad that she's had such a good life like that's that's why I did what I did you
32:25know
32:25because I know I couldn't provide that for you or her
32:29like I can't say like I regret what I've done I can't say that now I can say that the
32:33way I handled
32:34it was up but I can't like I can't like feel bad for what I did you know
32:41yeah and that's what I keep trying to tell you since you know day one so I'm glad you finally
32:46kind of you know seeing it for yourself too
32:49yeah
32:51the decision to place my children up for adoption was the most heartbreaking decisions I've ever had to make in
32:57my whole life
33:00now
33:0234 years later I can honestly say I'm at peace
33:06I feel like I did what was best for my children
33:12and really at the end of the day that's all that matters to me
33:16all we can do now is just wait
33:19yeah
33:20we'll see what happens I do have a feeling we're going to find her
33:24I hope so
33:25like I'm very positive about that
33:27I hope so
33:32I'm going to try calling her
33:35hello
33:35hi Bella
33:37I just wanted to know why you didn't show up today
33:40I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating you know with such a troll like Gino
33:46whoa
33:47I care about Gino but this is a lot bigger than my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that
33:53I'm dating
34:10oh you want to sit down for a moment enjoy this beautiful fire pit
34:17oh they got blankets
34:20this is kind of like camping or something I don't know
34:23we just don't have a tent
34:37that was rough
34:38yeah
34:38I'm a little bit
34:40I don't know concerned now because
34:42Nick was saying that
34:45she doesn't like me
34:47well she doesn't know you
34:51one of the big reasons that I came to LA
34:54was to get to know Natalie's daughter Bella
34:57but when it was time to hang out
35:00she never showed
35:03apparently Bella's mad at me because Jasmine attacked Natalie last year
35:08you definitely want to have approval of the family members
35:12or you know the chances of this relationship working is not very good
35:18but I'm going to try calling her
35:25hello
35:26hi Bella
35:28hi
35:29it's mom how are you
35:31I'm fine
35:33um
35:34I just wanted to know
35:36why you didn't show up today
35:39I just want to say what I have to say honestly
35:41and then you can do whatever you want
35:45I love you but I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself
35:49by associating you know with such a troll like Gino
35:54I don't see why you feel the need to extend any grace to him at all
35:57after how badly he disrespected you in Michigan
36:01you're a grown woman you can make your own decisions
36:03but at this point don't expect me to support it anymore
36:06well
36:07uh
36:09and I just think you're just too beautiful and smart and successful
36:12to be with such a spineless loser like him
36:15and I wish you saw that too
36:17I love you but that's just really all I want you to hear from me
36:21hey
36:21hey
36:25whoa
36:29she does not like me
36:35are you okay?
36:37No.
36:41I want to throw up.
36:44That was a lot of nasty words that Bella was saying about me.
36:48How bad of a person I am, what trash I am, loser, whatever.
36:55She didn't even give me a chance.
36:56She didn't even show up and meet me.
36:58I mean, come on.
37:00Don't judge me based on, you know, what you hear for one incident.
37:04And it's not fair.
37:09After all of that, you know, how do you feel about me, I guess?
37:17My feelings for you haven't changed.
37:22However, I would like her blessing.
37:27Okay, so, okay.
37:31So, basically, our relationship is kind of, like, on hold until you get her blessing.
37:38She's my number one.
37:39She's my number one priority.
37:43So, what happens if she doesn't change her mind and she doesn't give her blessing?
37:49What would happen, you think, between us?
37:52I need to talk to her.
37:54And then, as soon as I get the answer, I'll talk to you.
37:58Are you going to stay over at my place tonight?
38:03I'm going to try to go over to see Bella.
38:05Okay.
38:05It's important to me that we don't end a conversation on a negative note.
38:11Okay.
38:13That's fair.
38:15I get it.
38:18I care about Gino, but this is a lot bigger than my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that
38:24I'm dating.
38:25All right.
38:27Let's, uh...
38:28Let's go.
38:28Let's go.
38:30Bella doesn't trust my judgment.
38:33She's never seen me in a healthy relationship.
38:36All right.
38:36Well, let me get packing.
38:39And it makes me feel like a failure as a parent, that I was not able to show my daughter
38:45that I am capable of being in a good relationship.
38:51And I just want to go, and I want to comfort her, and I want to let her know that
38:55I'm okay and safe.
38:56She's my priority.
38:59Okay.
38:59Well, I better get going.
39:02Well, I had a really good time.
39:03Me too.
39:05So.
39:08The last two days have been awesome.
39:11Aw.
39:12Yeah.
39:12I know.
39:13They have.
39:14Yeah.
39:14They've been awesome.
39:17The hardest thing is, what if my daughter never accepts him?
39:21Where would this relationship go?
39:23And I think he knows the answer.
39:27That's something I really don't want to deal with at this moment.
39:32I don't want to talk about this anymore.
39:35We'll have to see each other again soon.
39:38Yeah.
39:39Bye.
39:40Take care.
39:44I thought that this trip would bring Natalie and I closer together.
39:48I could use a drink.
39:50I imagine hitting it off with Bella, and then in the future, potentially becoming a father
39:57figure to her.
39:59I've always wanted to be a dad.
40:01So her daughter not wanting anything to do with me, it's impacting the dreams that I had
40:08for my life.
40:09And it makes me really sad.
40:12But these eyes won't cry, no fear, I'll cry.
40:23God.
40:29Next time on The Single Life.
40:32Let me touch it.
40:34Oh, wow.
40:35Okay.
40:37Going into this day, I don't really have any expectations.
40:40He's cute.
40:41He has a good body.
40:42It seems fun.
40:42Like, this is literally one of the reasons I came to DR, to just have fun.
40:52Whoa, is that the Queen of England?
40:54Hello, peasants.
40:55Hello.
40:57After talking to Wayne for the past three months, I am in jolly old England to meet
41:02him in person.
41:02Hi.
41:03Oh, wow.
41:04I'm really hopeful that by the end of this trip, I do go home in a relationship.
41:09Now, I have to ask you.
41:11Okay.
41:11Are you dating now, here?
41:16Hey, Natalie, what's up?
41:19After Natalie's daughter disapproved of our relationship, I don't know where things stand.
41:24I was hoping that at some point you would talk to Bella to see how she feels.
41:30Because I know at the time you were saying, if she didn't like me, that, you know, we wouldn't
41:36have a relationship.
41:38Has that changed at all with her?
41:43I mean...
41:46Hey, Courtney.
41:49I'm going through a lot of internal conflict right now.
41:52I still care about Colt, and I still have love for him.
41:56Really, it is nice to see you.
41:58But then my mind's like, this lying, cheating, manipulative son of a bitch.
42:02Did you sleep with Diana?
42:04Can't say I didn't do that.
42:07Well, I'm glad you worked for her.
42:12Here we go, Ibiza, bitches.
42:14I'm trying to go with Sanela, listen to some music, and then you send me a message, and
42:18another, and another.
42:20You're ruining my night, but on top of it, I'm there with my cousin, and I'm embarrassed
42:24in front of her all over again.
42:26I need to understand what caused you to do what you did.
42:29If Tony wants to be with me, he's going to have to change.
42:33Fast.
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