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00:00:12I loved our first dates totally but I think there comes a time where you have
00:00:18to kind of be honest to people I have dated Cabin Crew in the past and it
00:00:24didn't work out what was it about them that didn't work I mean because it's just it
00:00:35was the way how sporadic or shifts were kind of working we tried really hard it
00:00:41just kind of fizzled out and that kind of put me off the idea
00:00:58there's so many common grounds that we've got and I get butterflies with you and I don't get
00:01:05that with every other guy it's funny because we've we found each other in this yeah and the thing that
00:01:18I feel with you is that I've got a future that I think could work
00:01:28I'm still at an age where I want I want kids I want I want that person I want I
00:01:34want my teammate
00:01:35yeah I do want to find my person that I want to marry and you know build a tribe with
00:01:42with with
00:01:44work there is opportunities to go on the ground so nine to five work could be in the picture if
00:01:49we
00:01:49wanted to have a family and flying wasn't in our it didn't suit us it obviously means a lot to
00:01:58me
00:01:58the family and the fact you've said that is massive to me yeah you know I mean it's that was
00:02:04just so
00:02:05that that's me all over so the more we talk about this could work you're my strongest connection with
00:02:14you I've I'm always smiling and you're the only one I've connected on in every single level yeah
00:02:19this thing like whenever I come into the room with you you got me laughing straight away I can't stop
00:02:24thinking about going to your mess that set me wild I just thought of you and like a little sexy
00:02:30dress
00:02:30on my arm just oh I can't wait I'd love to see you at work yeah I bet you would
00:02:40you're thinking
00:02:42about me in your new phone you got me all giddy I'm getting like goosebumps I think we're very much
00:02:51aligned I think I think we are too yeah my job I don't think it is for everybody but with
00:03:03him I'm
00:03:03getting the feeling that it's gonna be okay I'm gonna touch the screen bye I'm falling for Billy
00:03:13definitely definitely good thing for me is a bit of reassuring is my number one from the first day
00:03:31where you pick him between 15 girls so they're 14 good days she's still in the morning she's got mad
00:03:36mad to think as well is that survivor yeah I'm like a rabbit and I'd like to meet you know
00:03:42family
00:03:42yeah Pakistan Indian rivalry yeah it's bad I've met I've met Indian girls before we weren't allowed
00:03:49to date Pakistani guys yeah and vice versa honestly I'm so surprised I've connected with somebody so fast
00:04:04well Sarova's got her Indian heritage it's obviously very important to her I've got my
00:04:08Pakistani heritage is important to me I hope it's not gonna sort of crop up later and like mess things
00:04:12up hello because it feels good talking to her and it'll only get stronger
00:04:20how's your day been it's been good let's address the elephant in the room right I just wanted to
00:04:26check because it was on my mind yesterday like there's there's definitely no issues about you
00:04:31marrying guys mixed race but the other side is from Pakistan I always did have it in my head that
00:04:37I need to like make everybody proud yeah I have to make my parents proud I have to make my
00:04:42grandparents
00:04:42proud so for example someone whose background is sort of similar whether they're Indian or long down
00:04:50that route yeah I get you and I almost put what I was looking for so far aside yeah that
00:04:58I lost what
00:04:59I was actually wanting have you only dated binding guys then yeah and I realized that I need to reset
00:05:07and going back to what does Sarova want that undoing so many years of upbringing it took it took a
00:05:15long
00:05:15time it took some work actually my parents turn by turn did apologize to me and sat me down they
00:05:21said no
00:05:21you need your own experiences you shouldn't have had the pressure of what we had over the years
00:05:26honestly even my grandparents are so open and we have such mixed marriages in the family now
00:05:36putting myself first is why this is just so exciting for me love that special isn't it yeah do you
00:05:45ever
00:05:45like pinch yourself and think like what's happened what remind yourself what's what's actually happening
00:05:49oh remind yourself of where you are oh for sure what baffles me I feel like even though that glasses
00:05:56are
00:05:57I feel like I'm going to be really attracted to you I'm I'm the feeling is so mutual weird that
00:06:05in it
00:06:07maybe there's certain type of energies we don't fully understand yet it's true I don't put my heart on
00:06:14the line for anybody that I'm glad it's you
00:06:27cow makes me feel so happy cow makes me feel seen and loved and heard and it's crazy all the
00:06:35good crazy
00:06:53so technically I've been single my whole life I've never had like a serious long-term relationship
00:06:58I live on my own right now me and my little kitten panther I'm like the old cat lady but
00:07:02I'm young and I'm a man
00:07:05I got all the pieces everyone sees my big smile it gets me indoors sometimes it gets me thrown out
00:07:12of the door sometimes I'm a charmer I don't find it difficult to date multiple women
00:07:20I'm very competitive naturally I hide your girl hide your girl bro but I don't need to compete for
00:07:27women good luck fellas hello hello ultimately I came here to find my wife they say that men that
00:07:38are married live longer I want to live a long happy life who am I talking to you um Katisha
00:07:46Katisha
00:07:47Katisha yeah it's me who's this Javan Javan oh that's hot I love that thank you you're making me blush
00:07:57cool so where are you from I'm from Scotland okay okay I'm from London London London boy
00:08:06what is it that you do if you don't mind me asking um yeah I'm a nanny oh and I'm
00:08:12a makeup artist we're
00:08:13like bridal events yeah so you're multi-talented is what yeah she's multi-passionate yeah what about
00:08:19you what do you do so basically I'm a health and fitness coach what got you into fitness I used
00:08:24to
00:08:24play for Crystal Palace oh nice yeah so I was at Palace for 10 years ages 8 to 18 and
00:08:29then I had a
00:08:30knee surgery and the surgeon told me that I wouldn't be able to play football again and like
00:08:36I always loved training so it was just kind of a natural progression I kind of just fell into it
00:08:40you must be a good teacher then I'm all right I'm all right I got some questions for you though
00:08:45oh yes
00:08:46hit me I got some questions for you so why are you here online dating man I can't cope okay
00:08:54I've been
00:08:54single for six years okay yeah I just feel like I'm in a really good place now and I'm ready
00:08:58to have
00:08:58something sustainable and something genuine why do you feel like nothing's materialized over the last
00:09:04six years for you I feel like I'm quite gentle with my heart because I've had like it messed with
00:09:09a few
00:09:10times by people that I thought that I trusted and I've had a bit of a traumatic breakup what happened
00:09:16you gotta dive into that you can't just skirt over that one you gotta um he was unfaithful like quite
00:09:23a
00:09:23lot okay and I just believed them like every time right I'm sorry you had to go through that
00:09:28oh yeah it's fine thank you yeah it's just yeah I don't think I asked you about your family so
00:09:35like
00:09:35do you have a big family yeah I'm the oldest of seven wow yeah okay yeah what about you I'm
00:09:42the
00:09:42youngest of five the youngest yeah do you want babies yeah what babies how many I would like
00:09:50anything between two and three two and three yeah yeah what about you I think the same
00:09:59Katisha has like a very kind spirit I feel like there's a lot of vulnerability there and she's
00:10:04someone that I could care for speak soon very soon hopefully bye bye I like jabbing yeah I just felt
00:10:11like I caught a little bit of a vibe I'm here to find someone that wants to get to know
00:10:18me like the
00:10:19real me I've had a few mishaps in the past I've had like people not took me very well and
00:10:30I would
00:10:30say I've probably had a particular type I feel like I go for a very emotionally unavailable man
00:10:39let's go my usual types not working for me so I'm not gonna go with that I'm looking for the
00:10:47love
00:10:47story now oh hello hello hello I just just walked into the wall my mr. Darcy who am I speaking
00:10:59to I'm
00:11:00Katisha oh lovely hi Katisha how are you I'm good how are you I'm good thank you who's this story
00:11:06Demala Demala are you having a good day yes I am I am I am and I was a bit
00:11:13nervous but now it's good
00:11:15you speak really quiet I'll try and speak louder if that if that helps I can hear you but I'm
00:11:22just
00:11:23like it's nice it's like soft it's like I feel like you're whispering in my ear oh I hope that's
00:11:28a
00:11:28good thing yeah do you date much um I would say no not really to be honest um I'm not
00:11:37trying to just
00:11:39settle I want to make sure that the person I am with is my soulmate and I can love her
00:11:44up forever
00:11:44honestly and I mean that um love that and what about you I feel like I wasn't really dating with
00:11:50purpose and I want to find my soulmate I want to be in love I want something genuine like a
00:11:55genuine
00:11:55connection definitely that's a big thing for me where whereabouts are you from I'm from Scotland
00:12:01Dunbury St Galloway oh okay I I'm not gonna act like I know where that is but um I want
00:12:07to go to
00:12:08Scotland that's what the only place in the UK I don't think I've been to so hopefully you can show
00:12:12me around then yeah 100% you've never been to Scotland literally everyone everyone I speak
00:12:16to from England has never been Scotland what about you I am from Romford but um my heritage is
00:12:25Nigerian is there um I don't know what the language is they speak in Nigeria they speak Nigerian I can
00:12:30speak Europe because that's where I'm from um I used to live with my grandma um she passed away not
00:12:36like a few years ago she was like my best friend oh I'm sorry no no it's okay um oh
00:12:44you are just
00:12:44adorable I was gonna say like what does your um your wedding look like oh I've not had it yet
00:13:00Demla is so nice he's so nice he's really loving he's really kind he's really goofy and funny we have
00:13:08good energy together take care Katisha lovely speaking to you and I'm sure I'll speak to you
00:13:12again you too bye that finished really nicely from the off I just felt good energy she had like a
00:13:24soft
00:13:24Scottish accent I ended up just being drawn to it I just got a little spark and a little feeling
00:13:30and
00:13:30I'm just trusting that stand out do you think you have a standout I got it all written down so
00:13:36who's your standout Katisha really that's interesting no I liked her she was cool
00:13:43there's a saying that the early bird gets the worm if you want a woman you've got to pursue her
00:13:47however
00:13:48you want to do it that's just a part of the game but do you think yeah like if you
00:13:52find someone you
00:13:52really like you're just gonna put all your eggs in one basket there's got to be a bit of a
00:13:56strategy to
00:13:57do this basically this is our triangle was formed it's all part of the game it's all part of the
00:14:02game
00:14:20when it comes Ashley I feel like I'm a teenager back at school
00:14:26I did have doubts about Ashley's job however I want to give it a go I've got a good feeling
00:14:32moving forward and to be honest I can't wait for the next date
00:14:40every time I go into the room I'm genuinely excited
00:14:47what is this oh my god I've got a pink cowboy hat mustache so this was my idea I was
00:14:54going to
00:14:54learn to two-step with you I can't believe you've done this okay I'm putting my hat on oh 100
00:15:00% oh my
00:15:01god the music's on you so we're holding each other like my arms are out so I've got my hands
00:15:07on your hips at the moment
00:15:09okay right one two tap tap one two tap one two tap all right so I'm doing the last oh
00:15:20yeah so I've got you
00:15:21got me right yeah and pulling the end of me and back in oh my god well done thank you
00:15:32very much
00:15:36so in front of you I yeah I've wrapped something up for you okay it's something that is sentimental to
00:15:44me I collect thimbles from everywhere that I go
00:15:52you got me a little love heart thimble
00:15:55thimble yes I did oh my god you're gonna make me cry
00:16:01oh my god I just um oh my god
00:16:07yeah I just want you to know that um yeah I'm your girl like you've taken my heart you've got
00:16:17all of me
00:16:18and I'm just so excited for our future together
00:16:31sorry it's just oh it's so much um it's okay wow um thank you so much
00:16:38I absolutely love it oh it just makes me want to see even more and
00:16:45and just start everything start life together yeah
00:16:52what's the first thing you want to do when you see me
00:16:57the first thing that came to my mind was I'm going to tell you I love you
00:17:13oh my god I'm literally like oh my god oh my god I'm shaking like
00:17:17I'm shaking so bad
00:17:22I
00:17:24I
00:17:26I love you too
00:17:31I I really really really really love you
00:17:36Billy
00:17:37oh my god
00:17:42it's such a big thing to me because I haven't said that since I was married
00:17:45and I'm so grateful it's you and I've got to experience this for you because
00:17:52I don't know it just feels right
00:17:58oh my god
00:18:01I'll see you tomorrow I can't wait
00:18:03bye Billy I can't wait
00:18:04love you
00:18:04love you
00:18:10oh my god
00:18:11oh my god
00:18:12I love him yeah that's it feels so right so right
00:18:20and for once I've been lucky in love
00:18:31I gave up hope on finding love again because I felt that because I had it once before
00:18:36maybe that was it
00:18:38can a cowboy get a drink in this place
00:18:43I haven't found someone like Ashley ever
00:18:46the fact that the feeling's mutual feels incredible
00:18:50good type of thing
00:18:51awesome
00:18:52unbelievable
00:18:57oh my god
00:19:12Christ it's a lot in it
00:19:14I have no idea what tomorrow brings me
00:19:16I'm just trying to take it day by day right now
00:19:18honestly
00:19:18I know myself I'm just doing me and I feel like I'm doing the right things
00:19:22so
00:19:23and hey look it's not going to be the fairy tale for everyone
00:19:32my head has been in a bit of a pickle
00:19:36I have strong connections with Megan and Sophie
00:19:43hello
00:19:43hello
00:19:45hi Kieran
00:19:46hello
00:19:47I want to find someone that I can have that real deep emotional connection with
00:19:54how are you?
00:19:56yeah I'm really good thank you
00:19:57what would you say your
00:20:00like biggest insecurities?
00:20:04um
00:20:06I don't know I feel like
00:20:07when it comes to relationships and stuff
00:20:09I can be a bit insecure about
00:20:11what I do
00:20:12because I feel like some people don't think it's a real job
00:20:15really?
00:20:16how about you?
00:20:18like everyone I have them of course
00:20:19um
00:20:22so my parents did get divorced when I was three
00:20:25so I don't really remember them together
00:20:27right
00:20:27my biggest fear is getting married having kids and getting divorced
00:20:32and that's because that's what I've seen in life
00:20:33yeah
00:20:34my mum was not a mummy mum at all
00:20:37right
00:20:37I love it to pieces and we've worked
00:20:39we've worked quite hard in our relationship since I've been an adult
00:20:43that's why in a relationship realistically I'm probably a little bit needy
00:20:47and also it makes me want to look at my future wife and say
00:20:51you're going to be a really you know caring mother
00:20:54because I can't imagine the love I will have for the mother of my children
00:20:59I think you know be off the scale do you know what I mean?
00:21:01you're a just gorgeous human aren't you?
00:21:04I think that's so important to be able to like share that love with your child
00:21:10like my mum was always really amazing with me and like
00:21:13I don't know my real dad
00:21:15okay
00:21:16so she always like gave us everything that we needed
00:21:19so what is the situation with your dad?
00:21:21so my mum and him broke up when I was born
00:21:25okay
00:21:25I would just see him like once a week
00:21:28and then like when I was about five or six
00:21:30I had zero contact with him whatsoever
00:21:32you don't have any contact with him now?
00:21:34no
00:21:34but a really weird situation happened when I was 17
00:21:37I worked at a pub in Brighton
00:21:40yeah
00:21:40I was like serving at the bar
00:21:43and this couple came in like really close to the end of the night
00:21:46and I just knew he was my dad
00:21:48that's crazy
00:21:49yeah
00:21:49and like he just didn't speak
00:21:52did you say hello?
00:21:53no
00:21:53I just served them like a like normal
00:21:55yeah
00:21:56and I went back for my shift like the next weekend
00:21:59and he had come back and left me a card
00:22:02oh really?
00:22:03the card was just like just nothing
00:22:06yeah that's hard
00:22:08my mum's relationships have definitely impacted
00:22:11how I like open up to men
00:22:14and like how I let people in
00:22:16and like be fully vulnerable
00:22:17because I didn't really see a loving happy relationship growing up
00:22:28I just know my mum's like amazing
00:22:30and has so much potential
00:22:31like and love to give
00:22:32and she's just never ever ever had the right person
00:22:36and has never been treated right
00:22:37and that's just like
00:22:39yeah I just would never want to be like that
00:22:42and I just like
00:22:43yeah I just hate that my mum's got like
00:22:47been through all of that
00:22:48your mum sounds like an amazing person
00:22:50yeah she is
00:22:51yeah
00:22:51I can't necessarily say the same for the men that have been in your life
00:22:55yeah
00:22:56um
00:22:58why do you think you're ready now
00:23:00for a long-term commitment?
00:23:03I just like
00:23:04I just have like so much faith
00:23:06that like
00:23:10there's like a fairytale ending for me
00:23:13yeah
00:23:14yeah I'm just like so ready
00:23:16to meet that right person
00:23:21sorry
00:23:21it's alright
00:23:24are you okay?
00:23:26yeah
00:23:28you deserve to have
00:23:29high standards Meg
00:23:31like you deserve to get what you want from
00:23:33your life
00:23:34I feel like I understand you even better
00:23:36so
00:23:37I'm grateful for that
00:23:40find relief
00:23:41you're just so sweet
00:23:43making effort
00:23:45do it for me
00:23:48being vulnerable with
00:23:49someone behind a wall
00:23:51is just like the most alien thing ever
00:23:54see you soon
00:23:55I'll see you soon
00:23:58I definitely have been very closed off
00:24:01in the past
00:24:01and found it really hard to
00:24:03fully open up
00:24:04but
00:24:05I feel like I've definitely done that with Kieran
00:24:07I think it's all kind
00:24:08I'm all kind
00:24:10I think
00:24:11being able to
00:24:13get deep with someone
00:24:14and get open with someone
00:24:15is such an important part of a relationship
00:24:17and I'm not sure I've had that in the past
00:24:31in my dates with Megan
00:24:32I feel like we
00:24:34haven't been able to
00:24:35open up with each other
00:24:36with Sophie
00:24:37we've got that
00:24:38surface level
00:24:39connection
00:24:40but I think we need a bit more time together
00:24:42and I think we're still figuring each other out
00:24:44a little bit
00:24:46hello hello
00:24:46hello
00:24:48Sophie
00:24:48Kieran
00:24:49this makes me happy
00:24:51I want to see if
00:24:52we've got anything deeper
00:24:56I'm genuinely
00:24:57like
00:24:58very excited
00:25:00to talk to you again
00:25:01that's
00:25:01that's
00:25:02the honest truth
00:25:03I really like you
00:25:04I think you're an amazing person
00:25:05and
00:25:06I am
00:25:07very much ready
00:25:08to
00:25:09open
00:25:10my book
00:25:11and
00:25:11yeah
00:25:12get as deep as we want to get
00:25:14yeah
00:25:14it's a little bit scary
00:25:16it's kind of the point though isn't it
00:25:18yeah I know
00:25:18but I don't do this
00:25:21talk to me about
00:25:22what you want to do with your life
00:25:23like what
00:25:24what are the big things that
00:25:25you feel like
00:25:26I wish I could do that
00:25:27and you know
00:25:27hopefully with me
00:25:29some of mine are like quite superficial
00:25:31what are those things
00:25:34there's a few designer bags on that list
00:25:36that I want to hit before I turn a certain age
00:25:39right
00:25:39and then other things is just travelling
00:25:41I've done quite a few
00:25:42isn't it
00:25:42quite a few of Japan was top of my list
00:25:44oh
00:25:45it's just one of those places I've always wanted to go to
00:25:47yeah I can't believe you did that
00:25:49I'm so jealous
00:25:50oh yeah
00:25:51this one's a big one
00:25:52what does like
00:25:54what does success look like for you
00:25:56um
00:25:57I feel like a minute right now
00:25:59if I'm honest
00:26:00yeah
00:26:00I always say
00:26:02I've got success in my life
00:26:03but not in my love life
00:26:04like it's literally the only thing
00:26:05I'm not successful at
00:26:06which is
00:26:07which is hard
00:26:08yeah
00:26:09but
00:26:09I don't let people in
00:26:11if I'm honest
00:26:14yeah
00:26:15I've written that down
00:26:16yeah
00:26:18okay
00:26:18interesting
00:26:21to be honest with you
00:26:22I'd say there's a lot more to explore
00:26:24like in order for us to connect
00:26:26to a level where you could fall in love
00:26:27like there's
00:26:28yeah we're not obviously not
00:26:29we're obviously not there yet right
00:26:30summer rain hits different
00:26:33when you're in it
00:26:34do you think I'm open
00:26:36do you think I'm more open now
00:26:37than day one
00:26:38I feel like the door is creaking open
00:26:40that's kind of what I'm
00:26:41that's what I'm looking for Soph
00:26:45only you
00:26:49I'm now trying to question
00:26:51am I self-sabotaging
00:26:53I sit there and it's nice
00:26:55and I feel safe to be open and vulnerable with him
00:26:58but it's a very alien feeling for me
00:27:02ultimately that's what I want
00:27:03I want to find a husband that I feel like I can be my
00:27:07authentic vulnerable self with
00:27:09so I feel like that's going to have to change
00:27:21I've felt this way and well
00:27:22I've fallen for like
00:27:26it's cute
00:27:27big kid mate
00:27:28big kid
00:27:35being married before
00:27:36I was convinced at the time that
00:27:38she was the one
00:27:40I never married
00:27:41to get divorced one day
00:27:42I married forever
00:27:44this time around
00:27:46I'm getting butterfly feelings again
00:27:48I can feel the love in my heart
00:27:50and it excites me
00:27:52and
00:27:53I'm hopeful that
00:27:54me and Ashley can get it right
00:28:02hello
00:28:03hi Billy
00:28:04hey you
00:28:05hey
00:28:06how are you
00:28:07I'm good
00:28:09I just feel overwhelmed with
00:28:12love right now
00:28:13yeah
00:28:14and um
00:28:15I don't think I've truly been myself with anybody
00:28:18romantically or intimately
00:28:20and
00:28:20the fact that you've been able to do that
00:28:23and
00:28:25make me feel
00:28:27the way I do about you
00:28:28which is
00:28:29that I
00:28:31I love you
00:28:33um
00:28:34I just can't believe it
00:28:36and I'm so grateful for
00:28:38meeting you
00:28:39and you letting me
00:28:41be me
00:28:42for once
00:28:43I know we're sitting down
00:28:44but
00:28:45if you
00:28:45don't mind standing up
00:28:47and come
00:28:47to the
00:28:48the window
00:28:52oh gosh
00:28:55um
00:28:56I came into this experiment
00:28:58hopeful
00:28:58but
00:28:59I honestly
00:28:59didn't think it was on the cards for me anymore
00:29:01I thought my time
00:29:02would come and pass
00:29:03and I would never find this feeling again
00:29:06however
00:29:09you've
00:29:09blown me away with your kindness
00:29:12your trust
00:29:13your sense of humour
00:29:13and
00:29:15the love you've shown me so far
00:29:18before this
00:29:19I was unsure
00:29:20if love was blind
00:29:21but
00:29:21it has truly taught me that
00:29:23love can be blind
00:29:24so
00:29:25on that note
00:29:29I'm taking a knee
00:29:31and
00:29:32I want to say
00:29:33Ashley
00:29:35I love you
00:29:35and
00:29:36I want to ask you
00:29:37to marry me
00:29:38I'll wait for you
00:29:40wait for you
00:29:42of your life
00:29:46Billy
00:29:46oh my god
00:29:47oh my god
00:29:48oh my god
00:29:51yes
00:29:51I will marry you
00:29:53I can't wait
00:29:54I'm touching the glass
00:29:56Billy
00:29:57I just
00:29:57oh my god
00:30:05I just can't tell you how hard
00:30:08like it is for me to let somebody in
00:30:10like
00:30:11that's just been a massive insecurity
00:30:13for 30 years
00:30:14and the fact that I've just followed my heart
00:30:16in this experiment
00:30:17and it's led me to you
00:30:18is just amazing
00:30:22I'm just so happy to hear
00:30:24I didn't think anybody
00:30:25could make me feel like this
00:30:26but
00:30:27you've done it
00:30:27just by the sound of your voice
00:30:29and
00:30:29meeting you has absolutely changed my life
00:30:33I feel really lucky
00:30:35really lucky right now
00:30:36to have met you
00:30:38me too
00:30:41oh my god
00:30:42you've said yes to marry me
00:30:43you're my fiancé
00:30:44I can't believe it
00:30:48I'm counting down the minutes
00:30:50and the hours
00:30:51until
00:30:51I get to see you
00:30:52I love you Ashley
00:30:54I love you Billy
00:30:56I'll see you later
00:30:56I'll see you soon
00:31:00oh
00:31:00I feel like I need a minute
00:31:04oh my god
00:31:08oh
00:31:10it's happened for me
00:31:11it's happened
00:31:14oh
00:31:15oh my god
00:31:17it's happy tears
00:31:20I never thought that
00:31:23I would be sat here with an engagement going on
00:31:29there is a million and one emotions going through my head
00:31:33going through my heart
00:31:33I am on closed name
00:31:38I'm in the room
00:31:39so just forms
00:31:43I'm in the room
00:31:44oh my god
00:31:44never he'd go
00:31:45what's it ever he'd go
00:31:46what's it ever he'd go
00:31:47that's huge lads
00:31:47I wanna give up for you.
00:31:49I wanna give up for you.
00:31:51I wanna give up for you.
00:31:56No one can give up for you.
00:32:07Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:32:13With Patrick, let's get deep, bro.
00:32:16Yeah.
00:32:16Yeah, a lot of people are saying he's too spiritual for them, you know?
00:32:19I'm more spiritual than him.
00:32:21So with Patrick, I think the chemistry is growing.
00:32:24There's a lot of mental, like, connection.
00:32:27And for me, that's, like, important.
00:32:29Hello.
00:32:30Good morning.
00:32:31Morning, you.
00:32:32I feel very, like, safe with Patrick.
00:32:34And I think that's, like, wow, what a beautiful quality.
00:32:37For me, you're the most intelligent person here.
00:32:40Thank you so much.
00:32:40Emotionally intelligent, emotional awareness.
00:32:44Wow.
00:32:44Thank you so much, for real.
00:32:45Yeah, I'm a straight shooter, pow, pow.
00:32:49Pow, pow.
00:32:52He's the only person that I want to see.
00:32:55I'm pretty content, so, yeah.
00:32:59Whenever I talk to you, I feel like it's always, like, growth.
00:33:02It's always...
00:33:03I believe someone there in the future who can push me to be better.
00:33:08I know you call it your spleenic awareness.
00:33:12Yeah.
00:33:12I call that the Holy Spirit.
00:33:14Wow.
00:33:14But I know this is going to another realm here, but...
00:33:17No, that's powerful.
00:33:17I love that.
00:33:18You always go back to Christianity, and that's so interesting.
00:33:20Like, you put it to your faith.
00:33:21Obviously, I'm a Christian, but I'm not perfect.
00:33:23Mm-hmm.
00:33:24I've still got a long way to go.
00:33:26Me too.
00:33:27But, like, my heart is willing, you know?
00:33:31I think in terms of marriage and stuff, I've been thinking very heavily.
00:33:34Me too.
00:33:35Me too.
00:33:35Yeah.
00:33:36And would you want to wait till marriage before consummating the relationship?
00:33:42Personally, no.
00:33:43Okay.
00:33:44However, if you decide you want to wait, of course I can wait.
00:33:48That's no problem.
00:33:49But not an issue whatsoever.
00:33:53Also, I want to ask, is it hard for you to fall in love?
00:33:59I think so, you know?
00:34:01It's not something I take lightly.
00:34:03Same.
00:34:04This is marriage.
00:34:05This is something so sacred, you know?
00:34:08When I think of my parents, I'm like, wow, like, they got married because they saw something
00:34:13that they didn't see with anyone else in the world, and they thought, wow, I made this
00:34:19commitment to you.
00:34:20Wow.
00:34:21You just got to choose that person, and then consciously every day be like, yep.
00:34:26I choose you.
00:34:27I choose you.
00:34:27I choose you.
00:34:28For real.
00:34:30And you're number one, Anu.
00:34:32Oh, same.
00:34:34I want to sing a song in harmony, cause it's always only been me, waiting on my love songs
00:34:42to come true.
00:34:43The reason why I'm very attracted to Anu is the growth mindset.
00:34:47When I think about marriage, I think about my best friend, my partner, and that has to
00:34:51be someone who brings me something I don't know.
00:34:54I feel like I'm finding a life partner, someone that I can explore with, make memories with,
00:34:59make money with, have beautiful children with.
00:35:02We're really on the same mindset.
00:35:04I'm really curious to see how the life would look like with him.
00:35:07No one in this experience has given me a feeling apart from one girl.
00:35:13Anu.
00:35:13Yeah.
00:35:14She gave me that feeling.
00:35:15Yeah, yeah.
00:35:15It's just who challenges you, who gives you something different, you know?
00:35:28Never used to when you're calling my name.
00:35:30Drop your left.
00:35:31Maybe I should not over-complicate it.
00:35:33Wait, what knee is it again?
00:35:35Just make sure I'm comfortable.
00:35:37There's no doubts.
00:35:38That's the mad thing.
00:35:39Can't wait to do life with Sorora.
00:35:42Here's an update.
00:35:43You've got this.
00:35:43Thank you, mate.
00:35:44Appreciate it.
00:35:47I know she's the one because of the excitement I feel before I'm getting to speak to her.
00:35:55That excitement, it doesn't happen very often, and I feel lucky that we've met, actually.
00:35:59I feel like maybe we was, I don't want to say meant to be, it's a little bit cheesy,
00:36:02but the universe at play, maybe.
00:36:04Who knows?
00:36:08Even though there are other cultural differences, as long as I'm doing right by her,
00:36:15being respectful, being a good husband, I think that's the main thing any girl's parents
00:36:19could ask for and want.
00:36:23Princess?
00:36:25Oh, how are you feeling?
00:36:27Good.
00:36:29I feel like we do come from different backgrounds, but we're also so similar.
00:36:34to have made this connection with you and not let, like, culture, traditions, ethnicity
00:36:40get in their way.
00:36:41I think that's a beautiful thing.
00:36:42I know.
00:36:44So I'm going to speak from the heart.
00:36:52Coming into this experiment, I was sceptical whether love could be blind for me.
00:36:59Yeah.
00:37:00But I wanted to come give it a go anyway, and then, the unfathomable happened, the unthinkable.
00:37:08Fell for somebody who I'd never even laid eyes on.
00:37:14And there is something that I would like to ask you.
00:37:27But nothing could prepare me for just how much
00:37:31you could
00:37:32Uh-oh.
00:37:33When I know you feel
00:37:36like I feel
00:37:38But you fight against the tide
00:37:42Will you join me on this
00:37:44insanely
00:37:46crazy
00:37:47beautiful
00:37:48rollercoaster we call life
00:37:51and marry me?
00:37:53There'll never be a good time
00:37:55to fall
00:37:56in love
00:37:58I will.
00:38:07100%
00:38:07No doubt
00:38:08I am so, so ready
00:38:11for our next chapter together
00:38:13I'm grinning from ear to ear right now
00:38:16I'm literally, like, shaking
00:38:18Tell me that you feel this way
00:38:20Will you blow me a kiss through the glass?
00:38:22I feel like I could even touch the glass
00:38:24and feel like
00:38:25I don't know if you could feel it
00:38:27I've got my palm on the glass
00:38:33I never thought I had this in me
00:38:35to be like this
00:38:36Princess
00:38:38This has been
00:38:39a day I will remember
00:38:40for the rest of my life
00:38:42Can't wait to see you
00:38:44Oh my God
00:38:44As a fiancée
00:38:46Goodbye
00:38:47Goodbye, fiancée
00:38:48Goodbye, fiancée
00:38:52I want to see us rise up
00:38:55I've found my wife here
00:38:56100% conviction
00:38:57I can say that
00:38:58and roll on the big day
00:39:02Got some bad news
00:39:04Oh
00:39:05For the single girls out there
00:39:06Because I'm off the market
00:39:13It's just an overwhelming sense of excitement
00:39:15and happiness and joy
00:39:17and there's not one emotion
00:39:20that's just not positive
00:39:22that's oozing out of me right now
00:39:23I'm a fiancée
00:39:30This process and being with him
00:39:33has just changed me
00:39:34I put myself first now
00:39:36I've dropped expectations
00:39:38I've dropped those voices
00:39:39I was hearing about
00:39:40having to make everybody proud
00:39:42Oh, I'm so happy
00:39:43I'm very, very happy
00:39:44So I want to celebrate you
00:39:50So you are the one, babe
00:39:52You are the one for me
00:39:55For me
00:40:25How are you feeling?
00:40:27The big back here maybe gives it away as well
00:40:28But I've got more to me
00:40:30I'm half Lebanese
00:40:31It gives me a little bit of a spice
00:40:32A little bit of a difference
00:40:33Maybe we can get this right
00:40:36For me, I feel like I'm quite set
00:40:37I've got a good job
00:40:38I've got a loving family
00:40:39Great bunch of friends
00:40:41And all that's missing for me
00:40:42is obviously the wife
00:40:43That's obviously why I'm in this experiment
00:40:47I'm very family orientated
00:40:48My mum's cooking is unreal
00:40:50So I'll go around on a Sunday
00:40:52We have our Sunday roast
00:40:53If you guys don't know
00:40:54Hummus on the roast
00:40:55Game changer
00:41:02Bringing my wife back to the roast
00:41:04It actually means everything to me
00:41:07It's almost like a last piece of the puzzle
00:41:09for me on a Sunday
00:41:10My brother's got his girlfriend
00:41:12And the kids
00:41:13Mum and dad are still together
00:41:14And it's just me
00:41:15Lonely me
00:41:17Deep down I'm quite a softie
00:41:18I'm a bit of a marshmallow
00:41:19Like when it comes to love
00:41:21Hello, hello
00:41:22Hi
00:41:22Who do I have here?
00:41:24It's Barda
00:41:25Barda
00:41:26I want someone that I can
00:41:28Spend the rest of my life with
00:41:29Someone I can grow a family with
00:41:30Someone that I can trust
00:41:31And someone to feel like home
00:41:33I would love nothing more
00:41:36Than to bring my wife back home
00:41:37Yeah
00:41:40What's your name?
00:41:41My name's Jed
00:41:42J-E-D
00:41:43Jed
00:41:43Hi Jed
00:41:44Where are you from?
00:41:45I'm from Essex
00:41:47Essex?
00:41:48Okay
00:41:48I lived in Lebanon for four years
00:41:50When I was younger
00:41:50No way
00:41:51Yeah, because I'm half Lebanese
00:41:53Do you speak Arabic?
00:41:55I used to
00:41:55I'm very rusty now
00:41:56Why do you speak Arabic?
00:41:58I speak Albanian
00:41:59Are you Albanian?
00:42:01I am
00:42:02Barda
00:42:03Say something Albanian to me
00:42:05I like that
00:42:12I was actually born in Kosovo
00:42:14Okay, cool
00:42:15But I've been here most of my life
00:42:18So I feel like I've got the best of both cultures
00:42:21That's nice
00:42:22Yeah, and I was brought up Muslim as well
00:42:24Okay, yeah, my dad's Muslim
00:42:25My family is
00:42:27I'm not really religious myself
00:42:28I try to eat mainly halal
00:42:30I'm a bit of a foodie and I eat anything
00:42:32Okay
00:42:32But we know the best places to get halal food
00:42:35So don't worry about that
00:42:35Amazing
00:42:36I make sure that my wife is taken care of in every aspect
00:42:39I make sure she's happy
00:42:40Oh, wifey already
00:42:41I'm here for it
00:42:42We're not here to mess about, girl
00:42:46Have you got any siblings?
00:42:48Yeah, I've got one brother
00:42:50He's been kind enough to give me two nieces
00:42:52Oh, I have two nieces
00:42:54Oh, they mail me, honestly
00:42:56Yeah
00:42:56Yeah, they call me the unpaid entertainer
00:42:59Oh, my God, I'm the aunt that spoils them always
00:43:01Yes, we would be a good team, Barda
00:43:02I think so
00:43:03Just run around after kids that aren't ours
00:43:06I know, for now
00:43:07Oh, oh
00:43:09I have to have kids
00:43:10Like, that's
00:43:11Great answer
00:43:12That's a must
00:43:13I'm going to put that in capitals
00:43:14Have to
00:43:16Have to
00:43:16You think I'm joking?
00:43:18You literally have taken the words right out of my mouth
00:43:21And especially if they're Albanian and Lebanese as well
00:43:23Imagine how cute they're going to be
00:43:26I'm just going to put that out there
00:43:27I mean
00:43:29You have such a soothing voice
00:43:31Do I?
00:43:32Yeah
00:43:32I can honestly talk to you all day
00:43:34Yeah, me too
00:43:35I feel really safe
00:43:36Stop it, you make me smile
00:43:38I'm blushing
00:43:39I'm trying to talk to a call
00:43:40Stop it
00:43:42Done
00:43:43Sorry?
00:43:43I'm done
00:43:44Sorry, can you say it a little bit louder?
00:43:45I'm done
00:43:47Off the market
00:43:49Bada, what are you doing to me?
00:43:56Bada's giving me wifey vibes
00:43:57And it just makes me want to have more dates with her
00:44:00It was good to speak to you
00:44:02Enjoy the rest of your day
00:44:03A little shimmy
00:44:04Let's go
00:44:07Oh, he's gone
00:44:09I've always wanted to get engaged and get married
00:44:12As much as I am, you know, very independent
00:44:14I've always wanted the traditional way of doing things
00:44:18I think it, like, stems back from, like, my culture
00:44:21I just met my husband
00:44:22No!
00:44:23My husband!
00:44:24What?
00:44:25What happened?
00:44:26I don't want to leave that pod
00:44:27I want to go back in
00:44:28No!
00:44:29Stop!
00:44:30With Jed, we have got the same backgrounds
00:44:33It's very, very early
00:44:34But he seemed just as excited as I did
00:44:37And I couldn't stop smiling the whole way through
00:44:51Like, I'm feeling Kieran
00:44:53Like, and this is what I want
00:44:54And he was basically on the same page
00:44:57Do you feel this could be your...
00:44:59Me and Kieran, yeah
00:45:00Like, me and Kieran are, like...
00:45:02Solid!
00:45:02Yeah, like, solid
00:45:04Can't fault the man
00:45:07It's hard to hear that someone else is dating someone
00:45:10That you're interested in
00:45:11Kieran makes me want to give my heart to him
00:45:14Like, I've not had this with someone else before
00:45:17And I'm going to try and not be closed-minded
00:45:25Hello?
00:45:26Hello?
00:45:26Hello, Soph
00:45:28Hi!
00:45:29I'm trying not to repeat the mistakes I've made
00:45:32In previous relationships
00:45:35There's a lot more for us to explore at some point
00:45:38I feel like I can feel myself
00:45:40Letting my guard down with you
00:45:42That's nice
00:45:44Yeah
00:45:44I think it's just my personality, to be honest
00:45:46Like, all the things I've done in my life
00:45:49Has moulded me to be who I am
00:45:50But equally, I'm a daddy's girl
00:45:53So, like, I'm always trying to make him proud of me
00:45:56Are you?
00:45:57Yeah
00:45:58What's your mum like?
00:45:59Um, we have a good relationship now
00:46:02We've had a bit of a rocky relationship
00:46:05Yeah
00:46:06We didn't speak for a few years
00:46:09After my mum and dad divorced
00:46:11She had a new partner
00:46:14And ultimately, she chose him
00:46:17Her relationship with him was more important than the one with me
00:46:23There's a lot in there
00:46:25I didn't really know how much it affected me
00:46:28Until doing this process, actually
00:46:30Yeah
00:46:31I feel like I'm really scared to give my heart to someone
00:46:34Because, like, the one person in your life
00:46:36That's supposed to love you unconditionally decided
00:46:40Something else was more important than me
00:46:41So, how is my husband not going to do that?
00:46:47I, I, by you just going through that with me
00:46:50Like, I feel like I understand you even better
00:46:52So, I'm grateful for that
00:46:55I'm melting, slowly
00:46:57Yeah
00:46:57Yeah, slowly
00:46:59You know one of those can-go ice blasts that you have?
00:47:03Yeah
00:47:03You've slapped up all my juice
00:47:07And now it's just, like, ice
00:47:10You've got to wait for it to melt again
00:47:11To have some more juice
00:47:13Mm
00:47:14I am actually a cute girl
00:47:16Are you?
00:47:16Yeah
00:47:17Yeah, you tend to be an ice queen
00:47:18Yeah
00:47:19Yeah, it's just a front
00:47:22It's just a guard
00:47:31I see that she's clearly trying to open up
00:47:35And that's a massive thing in a relationship
00:47:38I don't know what to think
00:47:40I've been back and forth on this in my head
00:47:46So many feelings, the process
00:47:48It's a lot to think about
00:48:01Oh my God
00:48:09I thought my second chance would never come, to be honest
00:48:13Ashley has given me that second chance of love
00:48:17Oh my God
00:48:20I actually feel nervous right now
00:48:23But I trusted the process
00:48:26And I just listened to my heart the whole way through
00:48:28And it led me to Billy
00:48:31My whole body feels in love
00:48:33Not just my heart
00:48:34It's a really magical feeling
00:48:42Not everyone has the chance to fall for someone so deeply
00:48:46Without even seeing them
00:48:53Ashley could have pink hair
00:48:55She could have blonde hair
00:48:56She could be a brunette
00:48:58I haven't got a clue
00:48:59It's not going to matter
00:49:00I just hope that she feels the same on the other side
00:49:11I've been having dreams about Billy
00:49:13But I don't know what he's going to look like
00:49:15I really don't
00:49:17Nice legs would be nice
00:49:19Nice sexy legs
00:49:24I can't wait to be close physically
00:49:26Look into his eyes
00:49:27And tell him that I love him in front of him
00:49:29It's just going to be the best feeling
00:49:45Oh my God
00:49:47Billy
00:49:48Oh, Ash
00:49:49You're real
00:49:51Oh, you are gorgeous
00:50:02I don't know what to do
00:50:04I just dig in
00:50:06Oh, my God
00:50:07You're just perfect
00:50:08Like, I just
00:50:10Let me spin you round
00:50:12No, let me spin you round
00:50:13Let me spin you round
00:50:16Wow
00:50:16You weren't just a voice
00:50:17Like, this is just crazy
00:50:19You have hair
00:50:20I thought maybe you wouldn't have hair
00:50:21You're blonde
00:50:22I didn't know
00:50:23Did you know when I was going to be blonde?
00:50:24Brunette
00:50:25Blonde
00:50:25I didn't know what to think
00:50:26So, I want to actually do this for real
00:50:29And I want to take a knee
00:50:34So, will you marry me, Ashley?
00:50:37Oh, my God
00:50:40Yes
00:50:42Oh, I'm shaking
00:50:43I can't even stick it on
00:50:44Oh, my God
00:50:45Oh, my God
00:50:45Oh, my God
00:50:48It looks so good on you
00:50:55Wow, wow, wow
00:50:57She left me speechless
00:50:59Her smile was unbelievable
00:51:01I was just blown away
00:51:02I can't believe it
00:51:03You're real
00:51:04Look at this
00:51:05He's everything
00:51:06Everything and more
00:51:08I just want to take you all in
00:51:09Billy's got lovely lips
00:51:11Billy's a good kisser
00:51:13You've got really long eyelashes
00:51:14I love them
00:51:16They're like mine
00:51:17They're nearly as long as mine
00:51:18I've done a competition for you
00:51:20Yeah
00:51:22Although, I didn't say it
00:51:23But I love you
00:51:24I love you too
00:51:25So much
00:51:26Like
00:51:27Oh
00:51:30You're making me all shy again
00:51:33Oh, my God
00:51:36Such a new kisser, too
00:51:44I love you
00:51:45I love you
00:51:46I love you, Billy
00:51:47It just felt like it was just me and her in the room
00:51:49Nobody else
00:51:50No outside noise
00:51:55Oh
00:52:04This is it
00:52:05This is it
00:52:06Are you ready for our future?
00:52:07I can't wait
00:52:07I cannot wait
00:52:09I can look at this view all day long
00:52:11This is your view forever now
00:52:13Love you, babe
00:52:14I love you
00:52:19Oh, my God
00:52:20Oh, yes
00:52:22Get in
00:52:23I can honestly say that Ashley
00:52:26Has fully and truly stolen my heart
00:52:28And she's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with
00:52:31Oh
00:52:34I feel like
00:52:36I found the gold at the end of a rainbow
00:52:40Wow
00:52:41Ashley's found love
00:52:42Like, Ashley has found true happiness in love
00:52:49What just happened?
00:52:54I'm marrying the love of my life, Ashley
00:52:57Today is the beginning of the rest of mine and Ashley's life
00:53:10Yes, that's good
00:53:11Go on, give it us
00:53:12Hold on
00:53:12Give it us
00:53:13Give it us
00:53:13So far, this is what I've got
00:53:15Sitting in the lounge
00:53:16Talking about going on a date
00:53:17Young flyboy going on a pod date
00:53:19To meet my wifey now
00:53:21She my right-hand pal
00:53:22Love is blind
00:53:23I'mma find my girl
00:53:24Oh, yeah
00:53:25Yeah, see, I'mma cook something
00:53:27I'mma cook something
00:53:29Don't worry about it
00:53:33When I say I'm an accountant normally
00:53:35People just think I'm boring
00:53:36Love numbers
00:53:37But there's more to me
00:53:40I can be emotional
00:53:42I can be sensitive
00:53:43And also just be real deep
00:53:50I'm a sucker for love
00:53:51I love love
00:53:51When you see two people who love each other
00:53:53It's just so beautiful
00:53:55When I look at my mum and dad
00:53:57For how many years they've been married
00:53:59To still have that love
00:54:00And at the same time still argue
00:54:02Because that's what relationships bring
00:54:03I just love seeing it
00:54:04And I want that for myself
00:54:05Let's go, lad
00:54:07I want to love up my future wife
00:54:10As much as possible
00:54:11Hello, hello
00:54:12Hi
00:54:13How are you?
00:54:14I'm good, how are you?
00:54:15I am good, thank you
00:54:16I'm ready to kick the dating world out of here
00:54:20And I don't want to see another dating app
00:54:23I'm ready to leave it all the way behind
00:54:25Just play me a picture of your childhood
00:54:27So I moved out of my family home when I was 16
00:54:30Okay
00:54:31At the time it was like, yay
00:54:34But actually I'm still a child
00:54:37Yeah, that must have been like a lot to be honest
00:54:41Yeah, it was a bit wild
00:54:42I don't really know what I was doing
00:54:43But there I was
00:54:45I got a job
00:54:48I started working quite young
00:54:49I started working like 14
00:54:50Oh wow
00:54:51Sound like you have done a lot
00:54:53I won't lie
00:54:53No, I've done loads
00:54:56I've lived like six lives
00:54:57Honestly
00:54:58What about you?
00:55:00Okay
00:55:01I grew up in East London
00:55:03Lived with my older brother
00:55:04My younger sister
00:55:06Mum and dad
00:55:08It was like a real loving home
00:55:09Where we just, you know, kind of had fun
00:55:12Lived with my grandma as well
00:55:14She was getting old
00:55:15I used to walk with my grandma around the block
00:55:18And like just have chats about her life really
00:55:21And you know, I really just enjoy doing that stuff
00:55:24That's so love
00:55:25I love the way that you talk about your grandma
00:55:26And I'm really close to mine as well
00:55:29Yeah, no, yeah
00:55:29Oh
00:55:31It's got me in my feels
00:55:32I love my grandma so much
00:55:35When my grandma passed away
00:55:36I was bawling my eyes out
00:55:38To be honest
00:55:38But like, um
00:55:40She was like my best friend
00:55:42But, um, she's always with me
00:55:48And yeah, that's why
00:55:49Like, yeah
00:55:53But yeah, no, sorry
00:55:54I didn't want to go
00:55:55Oh, don't apologise
00:55:56No, please don't apologise
00:55:57That's amazing
00:55:58Thank you for sharing, honestly
00:56:04Demla is sweet, kind, caring
00:56:07He's very family orientated
00:56:09I feel like I can talk to him quite openly
00:56:11Yeah, it's a good time
00:56:13It's a good feeling
00:56:14Honestly, I can't wait to speak to you again
00:56:16Yeah, me too
00:56:16Speak soon
00:56:20But I also really like Javin
00:56:22Javin is a cool guy
00:56:25I guess more like my usual type
00:56:28I'm glad I'm talking to you right now
00:56:30I was looking forward to this
00:56:31Yeah, me too
00:56:33This is something that I wanted to ask
00:56:35Go ahead
00:56:35So, are you close to your family?
00:56:37Yeah, yeah
00:56:37So, me and my sister's brother's very, very close
00:56:40All my extended family is in Jamaica
00:56:42Wow
00:56:43I'm trying to make it a habit to try and go every two years
00:56:46Ah, okay
00:56:47Just to make sure I see them
00:56:49Yeah, of course
00:56:50So, my mum is Jamaican Spanish
00:56:54Really?
00:56:55Are you in touch with, like, the Jamaican side of your family?
00:56:57Not really
00:56:57Okay
00:56:58I wish that I was, though
00:56:59Maybe I can help you explore that
00:57:01Yeah
00:57:02But you know what I do want to know?
00:57:04Like, in a marriage, for you, how important is sexual chemistry?
00:57:07I would say it's pretty important
00:57:08Yeah
00:57:09I would say having an emotional connection
00:57:12And emotional intimacy is more important
00:57:14Okay
00:57:15I feel like, if I feel, like, emotionally connected to you
00:57:17Then, obviously, I'm going to be physically connected to you, too
00:57:19What does emotional intimacy mean to you, though?
00:57:22Sharing
00:57:22Yeah
00:57:23With your partner
00:57:24But, like, working on getting this relationship
00:57:26How we both want it to be
00:57:27Yeah
00:57:27No, I understand that
00:57:29What about you?
00:57:30I think they're so intertwined
00:57:32They kind of go hand in hand, in my opinion
00:57:34Yeah
00:57:34So, I say I kind of value them equally, I guess
00:57:37On the sexual side, do you feel like you
00:57:39Is there any
00:57:40Do you feel like you have any requirements?
00:57:42Per se
00:57:43You feel like, okay, you know, in that thriving relationship
00:57:46I want to be active every day
00:57:50Once a day, once a week, two times a week
00:57:52Um, I actually don't know
00:57:55It's something that I, I'm, like, looking forward to navigating
00:57:58Mm-hmm
00:57:58I will say that, like, I, like, I don't have any, like, fake headaches or anything
00:58:04It's all good, it's all good
00:58:05I'm built for high energy, so
00:58:07Okay, good
00:58:07That's not a problem
00:58:09Good
00:58:10Yeah, I like that
00:58:15I like Javin
00:58:16I just quite liked his honesty
00:58:18I feel like he was just like, yeah, cool, this is who I am
00:58:22I'm gonna see you soon
00:58:23Yes
00:58:24All right
00:58:24See you soon
00:58:26But I also really like Jamila
00:58:28So, I'm exploring both connections
00:58:30And I'm enjoying it
00:58:32Kind of
00:58:55I think gut feel and heart is what this is all about
00:59:00Yeah
00:59:01I don't think this is about head
00:59:04If I'm honest
00:59:06That's my approach to this
00:59:07Love is a matter of the heart, isn't it?
00:59:08It is, really
00:59:11It's gonna be interesting
00:59:14Oh, you stay there
00:59:15Mixed emotions today
00:59:20My approach to this entire experiment has been that I'm gonna trust the process
00:59:29I'm going to give my 100% in every date
00:59:32And what will be will be
00:59:36But it's getting to the point where I put my cards on the table of where my head is actually
00:59:40at
00:59:44Hello
00:59:45Hello
00:59:46Oh, I've been waiting to hear that voice
00:59:51I'm actually a bit nervous, I'm not gonna lie
00:59:54Really?
00:59:55Oh my gosh, what is this?
00:59:57That's my little sentimental gift
00:59:59It's a Japanese ornament
01:00:02Call it an omamori
01:00:04Okay
01:00:05Which are supposed to bring good fortune to your life
01:00:08And that's mine
01:00:10Thank you so much
01:00:12And I hope it brings you good fortune slash us good fortune
01:00:15I'm actually obsessed with that
01:00:18And also, I did also spread it with my heart to shave
01:00:20Yeah, I was gonna say, it smells
01:00:22Well, that's how I smell
01:00:23It smells nice
01:00:24I feel like I needed to put my cards on the table
01:00:28And that's what I'm doing
01:00:30Oh my gosh
01:00:31I'm like flustered
01:00:33I've just got such a good vibe from you
01:00:36From literally the first time we spoke to each other
01:00:39Which is madness
01:00:43I feel like super comfortable with you
01:00:46Like you make me feel very like safe
01:00:47And I feel like I can definitely be open with you
01:00:49Which is amazing
01:00:50That's not easy for me
01:00:51And I don't think we would have ever got here
01:00:54Like if we had just met in London
01:00:56Yeah
01:00:59I just want to continue to go on this journey with you
01:01:02Like wherever it takes us
01:01:03Oh, you're adorable
01:01:11I feel really excited about Kieran
01:01:13I feel like, yes
01:01:14Like, he's the one
01:01:19I think the gift has
01:01:21Definitely, you know, steps up the relationship a notch
01:01:24And it was something that was, like, really sentimental to him
01:01:28It meant a lot to me that he wanted to give it to me
01:01:34Happy boys
01:01:38I've told a few people about Kieran
01:01:41But, yeah, not too much information
01:01:45I generally don't know
01:01:46What's your idea?
01:01:47I think
01:01:48Has someone been proposed to?
01:01:52We're back
01:01:53We're back
01:01:55We're back
01:01:57We're back
01:01:57We're back
01:01:58She's back
01:01:59I'm back
01:02:01She's back
01:02:02Do you feel like
01:02:03You're the only one that has Kieran as, like, number one at the moment
01:02:06I think Megan likes Kieran
01:02:08Oh, yeah
01:02:10What's in your hand?
01:02:12So cute
01:02:14So basically, it's like a little Japanese ornament that they use
01:02:17And I'm giving it to you
01:02:19And I was like, stop it
01:02:21And I sprayed it with my colonel
01:02:23Oh, yeah
01:02:26Good times?
01:02:28I think that's for me
01:02:30Why is that for you?
01:02:31Give it a gift
01:02:32Oh, really?
01:02:33Went down very well
01:02:34Really?
01:02:35Yeah, very happy
01:02:36I'd love to see her face on Sophie now
01:02:38She's already walked out
01:02:40Got this present from Kieran
01:02:44Oh, yes!
01:02:46She's had Kieran
01:02:48Oh, sweetheart!
01:02:50That's lovely!
01:02:51Imagine a girl screaming like that about your man
01:02:54Oh, is that him?
01:02:55Well, he's screaming about Kieran
01:02:57Oh
01:02:57I presume it's him
01:02:58Because he's been to Japan
01:03:00And then they run about some Japanese things
01:03:02Oh
01:03:02Yeah, I'm so cute
01:03:03Oh, that's lovely, babe
01:03:04That's so sweet
01:03:05I'm so happy for you too, girl
01:03:06Yeah
01:03:07Literally
01:03:08That's my man
01:03:09And then he's giving her some Japanese teddy on a date
01:03:13That's also very territorial as well, isn't it?
01:03:15Yeah, that's like your mind
01:03:16I wouldn't let that get in your head, though
01:03:18Nah, that's big
01:03:19Like, I'm not a dickhead
01:03:20I ain't doing that
01:03:24This is a joke
01:03:25It's a very bold statement
01:03:27To be like, this is my person
01:03:28I've just gifted them
01:03:30He's naive if he thought that was never going to get back to me
01:03:33Being someone's second best
01:03:35That's not me
01:03:37I ain't being like, oh, it's between me and another girl
01:03:39Fuck that
01:03:46If you don't think I'm the one for you, fine
01:03:49But don't sit there and feed me loads of bullshit
01:03:52And then pick some off a girl
01:03:53Look at the mess you, look at the mess you've made
01:04:00Look at the mess you've made
01:04:03Left me to pick up the pieces
01:04:06Look at the mess you've made
01:04:09All the dumb things you did left me speechless, yeah
01:04:14Look at the mess you've made
01:04:16Look at the, look at the, look at the leaves
01:04:20This is the worst mistake
01:04:26Look at the mess you've made
01:04:29Left me to pick up the pieces
01:04:32Look at the mess you've made
01:04:35All the dumb things you did left me speechless, yeah
01:04:39This is the worst mistake
01:04:41How do you save the night knowing what you did to me?
01:04:49Look at the mess you, look at the mess you've made
01:05:21Look at the mess you've made
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