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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 16: Mile High Club
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03My little chef.
00:00:05Oh, babe.
00:00:07Oh.
00:00:09You have pregnancy grievance?
00:00:11Even though we started using protection
00:00:13since we left San Pedro,
00:00:15we had plenty of sex without a condom
00:00:17the first few days I got here.
00:00:20Do you want to take a test?
00:00:21I think we should.
00:00:27The annual income for petitioners
00:00:29for K-1 visa is $26,500.
00:00:33And, you know, disability benefits
00:00:35is not an income.
00:00:38It's easier for me to stay here.
00:00:40We got the Filipino visa.
00:00:42I don't know if I can leave my family.
00:00:45But I don't want to be apart from you that long.
00:00:53I don't want to be apart from you.
00:00:57I don't want to be apart from you.
00:01:01I don't want to be apart from you.
00:01:03I don't want to be apart from you.
00:01:06I don't want to be apart from you.
00:01:09Where is the honesty?
00:01:10Up to 20-something years with your fellow woman?
00:01:14This is an abomination.
00:01:18Is there a way we can solve this?
00:01:34You got that final warning at work,
00:01:37and Nat's helping you out.
00:01:39These question marks make me feel
00:01:40like it's super unstable.
00:01:41I'm just sick of the peppering
00:01:43and peppering, peppering.
00:01:44You're flogging the same all.
00:01:45It's like...
00:01:45Because when I get a f***ing warning like that,
00:01:48when you send me...
00:01:48I don't know what happened,
00:01:49but now it's...
00:01:50I still have a job.
00:01:51Okay, but it makes me worried
00:01:52that you could be using me.
00:01:55If you think that,
00:01:56then I would not expect anything less
00:01:58than you wanting to go.
00:01:59So please, please let me know.
00:02:09Are you kidding me?
00:02:11He said he has a f***ing fiancé.
00:02:16How dare Zia dump me and leave me alone in the desert?
00:02:19Muhammad standing me up.
00:02:21Like, I'm just so over it.
00:02:23F*** this ring!
00:02:24And f*** everything that it represented!
00:02:27Now, if I left somewhere else!
00:02:30Ah!
00:02:57I'm just feeling hangry, hangry bear.
00:03:00When I'm hangry, I'm moody.
00:03:03I see that.
00:03:04Want some nuts?
00:03:07This one nut.
00:03:10I feel like a chipmunk.
00:03:12Yep, I'm a chipmunk Sheen.
00:03:21I just want to stay here like this.
00:03:26Yesterday, Sheen and I met up with an immigration attorney,
00:03:28and we learned some disappointing news.
00:03:31Turns out, I don't make the necessary income
00:03:33to bring Sheena over on a K-1 visa.
00:03:36And that could take years to build up.
00:03:39So the only option for us to be together right now
00:03:42really is for me to stay here
00:03:43so I can get my Filipino visa instead.
00:03:48But I'm not sure I'm ready to just pick up
00:03:50and move to another country.
00:03:55Sheena, we have some real big decisions we have to make.
00:03:59But I'm looking forward to tonight,
00:04:02and I really just want to put that down for tomorrow.
00:04:05I understand my love.
00:04:09I can't wait to, you know, visit the beaches.
00:04:12At least no one's going to disturb us.
00:04:17I'm bringing forth the Batangas,
00:04:19the province along the south area.
00:04:21It's quite popular for beautiful sandy beaches.
00:04:25Since talking the immigration lawyer
00:04:27causes a lot of emotional stress,
00:04:30I'm hoping that some alone time will be relaxing
00:04:33and that it will give me the opportunity
00:04:36to get him to really consider living here with me.
00:04:43Also looking outside here.
00:04:45Mm-hmm.
00:04:46One thing I don't like about the beaches,
00:04:49jellyfish.
00:04:51Well, let's hope that we don't get stoned by jellyfish.
00:04:53But turns out I did bring the jelly.
00:04:57Maybe if we have a kind of a special night tonight
00:05:00Oh, that would be great.
00:05:05I'm going to have to ask you
00:05:07if mom approves about this.
00:05:10Mm.
00:05:11Mom's going to be there watching and cheering
00:05:13the entire time.
00:05:15You're craving me now.
00:05:18All right.
00:05:19I think this is it.
00:05:20Nice.
00:05:21It's a very tight fit.
00:05:24Oh, that's tight fit.
00:05:26Oh, my gosh.
00:05:29Sheena and I talked about it.
00:05:31And now, not having anybody to kind of hold us back,
00:05:36I think now is the perfect time
00:05:38to kind of let our sexual tensions go.
00:05:41Lead away, honey.
00:05:42Yeah.
00:05:45Oh, look, there's a hammock, honey.
00:05:47Wow, this is such a beautiful place.
00:05:50Oh.
00:05:51Oh, wow.
00:05:52Wow.
00:05:55Did you prepare this?
00:05:57I mean, this is so sweet.
00:05:58I did.
00:05:59To be honest, I am quite nervous to lose my virginity.
00:06:04And I'm quite excited as well.
00:06:07I was like, oh, wow.
00:06:09Hey, baby.
00:06:11Boom.
00:06:13I'm quite happy because I wanted to give this to the person
00:06:17that who had loved me for the longest years.
00:06:21And I think Forrest deserved that kind of love more
00:06:25than anyone else.
00:06:28Oh, wait.
00:06:29You know what?
00:06:30I had to freshen myself up and get some sexy lingerie.
00:06:35Mm.
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:37It's the eternal.
00:06:39I don't know what you are.
00:06:42When I was younger, I always thought, you know,
00:06:45my first time would be great and extravagant and amazing.
00:06:48And I got older and it wasn't happening.
00:06:52I did worry that that's just one of those life experiences
00:06:56that other people just get to have, but not me.
00:06:59So going into this love nest that I have made for Sheena and I,
00:07:05I am extremely nervous on what to do or how to do things,
00:07:10but I have no doubts that I'm doing it with the right person.
00:07:27You're looking so sexy.
00:07:29You love my dress.
00:07:30What do you think about me?
00:07:31Oh, yeah.
00:07:31You look so handsome, I know.
00:07:32I got it all ready for you.
00:07:34You're making me love her.
00:07:36You're making me love her.
00:07:38You're making me love her.
00:07:39I'm finally getting to be with the woman of my dreams,
00:07:44the vixen of the internet.
00:07:47And I'm glad that I'm getting to give you my virginity.
00:07:52And I wouldn't want to give it to anybody else but you.
00:07:55You're going to have to help me get the song, by the way.
00:07:57Oh, really?
00:07:58Oh, my God.
00:07:59Oh, there it is.
00:08:03You're ready to go, honey?
00:08:04Ready.
00:08:05Oh, yeah?
00:08:08We'll wait.
00:08:13You're going to have to keep me waiting.
00:08:15Here I come, baby.
00:08:17Oh, you're super macho.
00:08:24You're the sweetest home in V.I.L.L.?
00:08:26Yes, ma'am.
00:08:44I wish I was a princess.
00:08:48You're so sweet.
00:08:49That's beautiful.
00:08:57I kind of lost my appetite.
00:09:00I'm really nervous.
00:09:02It's not something I would do every day in my world.
00:09:07So, yeah, it's scary.
00:09:17You look handsome.
00:09:31Is this where we're going?
00:09:33This is a big market.
00:09:41Okay, we'll get our goat.
00:09:45Last night, Daniel's uncle was able to talk to the elders.
00:09:48And he talked to the chief priest.
00:09:51And the chief priest says, we have to do a cleansing.
00:09:54But first, I have to buy a goat, two yams, and bring money.
00:10:02We are going to the Makoko market to get the items.
00:10:05And then we'll go to see the chief priest in his shrine.
00:10:09And that's where the ceremony will take place.
00:10:12You're overly dressed.
00:10:15This whole thing is crazy.
00:10:17But I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
00:10:22What are they washing?
00:10:23What is that?
00:10:26This is what I put in this suit.
00:10:28So that's how they prepare.
00:10:31Be careful.
00:10:34My shoes are going to be a mess.
00:10:36My feet are going to be a mess.
00:10:37It's my case.
00:10:39Oh, God.
00:10:40This place is so crowded, baby.
00:10:42How are we going to find goats?
00:10:44The uncle has said in the olden days they slaughtered the goat.
00:10:47Now they don't do that anymore.
00:10:48So now what it's done, it must be a female goat because I'm female.
00:10:52But the goat gives milk.
00:10:54So he will feed the tribe with the goat milk.
00:10:56But what are the yams for?
00:10:59The two yams.
00:11:00It's what the ancestors demanded.
00:11:04We don't know why.
00:11:08This is what we're looking for.
00:11:10They're huge.
00:11:11These are the biggest yams I've ever seen in my whole entire life.
00:11:14Have you seen them before?
00:11:15No.
00:11:15We have big yams in Nigeria here.
00:11:18Oh, my God.
00:11:18This one is as big as me, right?
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:24I think this is the biggest.
00:11:26This one we need.
00:11:26How much is this?
00:11:28Five, five.
00:11:30Five thousand five hundred.
00:11:31For one or?
00:11:33One.
00:11:33One.
00:11:34Ah.
00:11:35This is expensive.
00:11:37But baby, we need it for the cleansing.
00:11:39Negotiate.
00:11:40We are giving 10,000.
00:11:42This two.
00:11:43Yes.
00:11:43Okay.
00:11:44How much?
00:11:4510,000.
00:11:4610,000?
00:11:47Yes.
00:11:47So you're giving him full price.
00:11:49You're not negotiating.
00:11:50You need to negotiate better once we get to the goats.
00:11:54Daniel is spending my money like it's water.
00:11:57He spent 10,000 on two yams.
00:11:59And I still have to buy a goat.
00:12:01I feel like we were ripped off.
00:12:03I don't think Daniel's a good negotiator.
00:12:04Look, look, look, look.
00:12:06Ah!
00:12:07Is this where we buy goats?
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:09Yes.
00:12:11Which ones are females and which ones are males?
00:12:13This is female.
00:12:14This is a male.
00:12:15Ah!
00:12:16This one is female.
00:12:17Yeah.
00:12:18Ah!
00:12:19Is she going to be good enough to cleanse me, though?
00:12:21Ah!
00:12:23What's the price?
00:12:24Ah!
00:12:25200,000.
00:12:26What?
00:12:27200,000 for a goat?
00:12:28No.
00:12:30I don't know.
00:12:31What do you want to pay?
00:12:32A lot less than that.
00:12:33Ah!
00:12:34How low would you go?
00:12:35Ah!
00:12:36How low would you go?
00:12:37I'm not paying 200 for her.
00:12:38I'm not.
00:12:39Baby, hold on.
00:12:39No, you're letting me.
00:12:41How much?
00:12:41Not 200, no.
00:12:43Give me 100.
00:12:43Ah!
00:12:44Yeah.
00:12:45We are not paying.
00:12:46Hold on.
00:12:46Oh, God, we are not paying 100.
00:12:48We are paying $70,000, please.
00:12:52Oh, my God.
00:12:54We just bought a freaking goat.
00:12:57I have enough money for this, but we still have to pay the priest.
00:13:04Poor goat.
00:13:07Are you sure this is the right way?
00:13:09Oh, God.
00:13:11What the smell, honey?
00:13:14Everything comes down to this priest and this cleansing.
00:13:18He can say that I can't be cleansed, and that will be the end of everything.
00:13:23I will lose Daniel forever.
00:13:33Where are you taking me, baby?
00:13:35Just be careful.
00:13:36I am.
00:13:38This one right here?
00:13:39Yes.
00:13:40Go in.
00:13:41Oh, my God.
00:13:47Hold on.
00:13:48Hold on.
00:13:49He's yelling at me, Daniel.
00:13:50Give me your shoe, please.
00:13:52I will.
00:13:53Hold on.
00:13:56Hold on.
00:13:59May I come in?
00:14:02Go in.
00:14:03Go in.
00:14:03Go in.
00:14:04Go in.
00:14:05Go in.
00:14:09I have to be dreaming.
00:14:11This can't be real.
00:14:13Damn bitch.
00:14:15I want to run.
00:14:26I'm about to take this pregnancy test.
00:14:29Should we get it over with?
00:14:32Aviva is really hoping that she's pregnant, but if she's not, I'd be a little relief.
00:14:38Okay.
00:14:41Babe.
00:14:42Oh, my God.
00:15:06Things are still, like, tense between Josh and I.
00:15:09He came back to the apartment, but he's barely speaking to me.
00:15:13And after talking to my parents, I am just so confused.
00:15:18My parents think that I'm judging Josh too harshly.
00:15:21And, like, I don't know.
00:15:23I am the queen at self-sabotaging.
00:15:25But I'm just trying to protect myself and my family.
00:15:27And it sucks because my heart wants one thing, my mind's telling me another right now.
00:15:32And, um, it's scary.
00:15:45You all right?
00:15:48Yeah.
00:15:49Are you?
00:15:51Yeah.
00:15:53I'm gonna get out of the apartment.
00:15:56Okay.
00:15:58Cool.
00:16:01I'm still feeling hurt by Elise.
00:16:03I'm starting to have a little bit of doubt creeping.
00:16:07I know I've fallen for her, but I don't want to be in a relationship where I have to explain
00:16:10myself 400 times.
00:16:12If she thinks that I'm using that, then I could use her.
00:16:15And that's not the case.
00:16:17And I would never want to use someone.
00:16:20It feels like she's attacking my integrity.
00:16:25So, like, last night sucked.
00:16:31And I know you've got these worries, right?
00:16:33But, like, I don't want you to think that, you know, I would use you, you know, or I'd be
00:16:38like your past relationships.
00:16:40I'd take advantage of you.
00:16:42Like, that's what angered me.
00:16:44You know, it's the last thing I want to do.
00:16:47Okay.
00:16:48Just, I really like her.
00:16:51You know, I feel when you sort of say, you know, that I'm dependent on other people
00:16:56and I might be dependent on you.
00:16:58You know, and that, you know, she gave me a place to be, that's her.
00:17:03That's weird.
00:17:03It's not weird.
00:17:04It's weird.
00:17:06You know, you've said it.
00:17:07You've made your point.
00:17:09I have nothing to hide with her.
00:17:11Have you, let me ask you a question.
00:17:12Have you given me a reason for me to trust you?
00:17:15Do you not trust me?
00:17:17Not right now, no.
00:17:19I want to.
00:17:20I do.
00:17:20But let me earn that trust then.
00:17:22By showing you that, you know, I can look after myself.
00:17:24I can depend for myself.
00:17:25I can be a partner for you without having to lean on, you know, friends or, you know.
00:17:31Please, I'm telling you right now, please.
00:17:34If you can't let me prove it to you, then you just don't trust me and it's not going to
00:17:37work.
00:17:44Okay.
00:17:47I am sorry.
00:17:49I do sometimes poke and prod.
00:17:52Yep.
00:17:52That's just a character defect.
00:17:54I just don't want this to be words.
00:17:58Like, words are great to me and that's made me settle in my entire life with every relationship.
00:18:03I fell for words.
00:18:04And, like, I don't want to fall back into that.
00:18:06Like, I've been engaged three times.
00:18:07Like, I'm 32.
00:18:08I want to get married and I want to have kids.
00:18:10And it scares me because I do like you.
00:18:15And I didn't expect to like you so much so soon.
00:18:19It's good to hear.
00:18:20Because I didn't plan on, like, falling for you as hard as I've fallen for you so quickly.
00:18:26I don't want you to feel like you've, you know, you've settled and I've roped you in, I've made you
00:18:31fall in love and then I'm some, you know, I'm useless.
00:18:35You know, I wouldn't let you feel like you've made the wrong decision.
00:18:39I won't.
00:18:43Like, I'm crazy about you, to be honest.
00:18:48I'm glad that Elise is having a little more faith in me.
00:18:52The relationship needs to be built on mutual respect and not this sort of toxic, takedown mentality that I can
00:18:57see that she's doing.
00:18:59I'm hoping that things get better and we just keep building because I do see a future with Elise.
00:19:03So, I think we get that out of the way and then we can just get stronger and stronger.
00:19:11You know what?
00:19:13Isn't it really sexy when the wind almost blows your top off?
00:19:16Hopefully it gets a bit windier.
00:19:17I've fallen.
00:19:21Hope you've been like this.
00:19:23I love you.
00:19:29What do you know?
00:19:42I'm gonna have chutes.
00:19:44I love you.
00:19:46I love you.
00:19:48How are you feeling, babe?
00:19:51I'm freaking out.
00:19:53I am too, actually.
00:20:01All right, should we get it over with?
00:20:04I'm going to go in there alone.
00:20:07Why?
00:20:08Because I just want to do it on my own.
00:20:11How long does it take?
00:20:13I don't know. It's in Spanish.
00:20:15Oh, my.
00:20:18It just feels so surreal thinking about how far Stick and I have come over the past few weeks.
00:20:23Come on, let me get a good little kiss.
00:20:26A few days ago, I was convinced we were breaking up.
00:20:30Now I'm taking a pregnancy test.
00:20:32So much has happened, but I'm leaving in less than two days, and I have a lot of mixed emotions.
00:20:39I would love to find out that I'm pregnant and get this incredible news, but leaving Stick is going to
00:20:46be really difficult.
00:20:48After this, there might be no drinking, no partying, none of that.
00:20:53For you, too?
00:20:54No, no, no, no.
00:20:55Hmm.
00:20:56If it says positive, I've got to celebrate later on.
00:21:02I would be excited about all this.
00:21:04We would make, like, beautiful kids.
00:21:06They would.
00:21:07And I would love to have a son, and by the grace of God, he wants to sing.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:13I'm not saying he has to be an artist because that's, you know, what I did.
00:21:16No, I agree.
00:21:16Nothing like that.
00:21:17Mm-hmm.
00:21:18I'm scared.
00:21:21All right.
00:21:22We'll do your thing.
00:21:23Okay.
00:21:25I just like boys because I know they're, like, mama's boys, and they...
00:21:30It's going to be daddy's boy.
00:21:31What are you talking about?
00:21:32No, no.
00:21:33The girls always favor the dad.
00:21:34That's what I've heard.
00:21:35The boys always favor the mom.
00:21:36That's what I've heard.
00:21:36I've seen it.
00:21:37Not to sound bad, but I don't want the sins of my past to fall on me, so I'm scared
00:21:41to have a daughter.
00:21:42I don't want to have to kill anybody.
00:21:45Whatever.
00:21:46Gives me baby fever.
00:21:53Okay.
00:21:57I really want to know now before I leave, I don't want to find out when I'm back in
00:22:01Arizona without him, because that would suck for him and me.
00:22:10Even though we only had unprotected sex for, I don't know, four to five days, I still just
00:22:17feel like I might be pregnant.
00:22:20I just have that feeling.
00:22:25Babe.
00:22:27Mm-hmm.
00:22:27How's it going?
00:22:28Are you done?
00:22:29Not yet.
00:22:30Be patient.
00:22:34Here goes nothing.
00:22:36Moment of truth.
00:22:42I'm talking.
00:22:54Bro, my palms are sweaty.
00:22:57I can tell that she's really hoping that she's pregnant.
00:23:00If she is, I'm going to be right by her side.
00:23:04But honestly, if she's not pregnant, I'd be a little relief.
00:23:10Babe.
00:23:11Oh, my God.
00:23:16Okay.
00:23:19Una y cinco minutos.
00:23:22So, you got to wait one to five minutes.
00:23:24Right now, I don't think we're ready.
00:23:27So, it's a little scary.
00:23:30If there's one line, it's negative.
00:23:32Two, it's positive.
00:23:35Hello?
00:23:44I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:23:47I think this has shown me I just want something different.
00:23:50I'll just wait a few minutes.
00:23:53Before I leave Morocco, there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:24:21Oh, thank you.
00:24:22Sorry.
00:24:23I have a lot of stuff.
00:24:27Thank you so much.
00:24:44Yesterday was another emotional day for me.
00:24:48I got stood up by Mohammed.
00:24:51I am single.
00:24:53I have no reason to be in Morocco anymore, and I'm ready to go home.
00:24:59I just know that this wasn't meant for me.
00:25:04I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days, and I think the best thing to
00:25:09do in this moment is to just get back home as soon as possible.
00:25:13So, I am flying back to the U.S. today.
00:25:20Last night, when I got back to my hotel, I received a text from Mohammed, and he said,
00:25:29Are you serious?
00:25:30You came to Morocco for someone else, not for me.
00:25:33I'm not your plan B.
00:25:36I think this was his plan all along.
00:25:38To bail on me and humiliate me one last time.
00:25:43He knew I came here for someone else, and he was really mad about it.
00:25:46So, he just had me running around Morocco and jumping through hoops for him like I always
00:25:52used to do in the past.
00:25:54And I fell for it.
00:25:57I feel kind of dumb getting ditched by Mohammed.
00:26:01But at least now, I don't have to wonder about any more what ifs.
00:26:05That door is closed forever.
00:26:13I'll just be a few minutes.
00:26:16But before I leave Morocco, there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:26:34Hi.
00:26:38I really want to leave Morocco in peace after both of these failed relationships.
00:26:43So, when I changed my flight, I decided to let Ziad know.
00:26:48And he actually agreed to meet me to say goodbye.
00:26:56Good morning.
00:26:58How are you?
00:27:00Okay, how are you?
00:27:02Fine.
00:27:04This day you're going to travel to your country.
00:27:07Yeah.
00:27:10So, I wish you a good word.
00:27:12Yes.
00:27:14And that's all what they have to say.
00:27:16So...
00:27:17You don't want to say sorry for anything?
00:27:19Me?
00:27:20Mm-hmm.
00:27:21To me, we should say sorry.
00:27:23I mean, I think we both have things to apologize for.
00:27:27Come on.
00:27:27What do you want to find out?
00:27:32I'm hurt with what happened.
00:27:35I came here because I loved you.
00:27:37And because I wanted to be with you.
00:27:40Did you ever love me?
00:27:44Before you come here, I was in love with you, really, yeah.
00:27:47But when you come here, we see each other in the reality how we are.
00:27:51Everything about us, it's not work.
00:27:56I'm really sorry.
00:27:59It's fine.
00:28:01Yep.
00:28:04Okay, well, thanks for everything.
00:28:07Thanks for you, too.
00:28:09So, yeah.
00:28:11That's all.
00:28:14Okay.
00:28:18Bye.
00:28:20Goodbye.
00:28:31Bye.
00:28:44Talking to him didn't make me feel better.
00:28:47It's almost like it doesn't matter to him.
00:28:50I was just expecting him to care a little bit more.
00:28:56This has definitely been a learning experience.
00:28:59I think this has shown me and taught me what I don't want in a relationship.
00:29:09Thank you so much.
00:29:20I want to go home and focus on becoming the best version of me.
00:29:30How many bags?
00:29:32Three.
00:29:33A lot of makeup.
00:29:35Thank you so much.
00:29:40But I'm not giving up on my search for love.
00:29:43I'm a hopeless romantic.
00:29:45I love love.
00:29:46And no matter how many times people have left me or dumped me, that's never going to stop me because
00:29:52I know true love is real.
00:29:54And I know somewhere in the world, my person does exist, who's happy to be with me.
00:30:03And I know that I'm going to find it.
00:30:05I know I'm going to find it.
00:30:08And, um, I'm not going to stop until I do find it because I know it's out there.
00:30:17And this isn't the end of my journey.
00:30:20And you never know.
00:30:21It could happen tomorrow.
00:30:25Or on the plane.
00:30:30Morocco, it's been real.
00:30:32A lot of ups and downs.
00:30:33But I'm ready to go home.
00:30:37I'm ready.
00:30:38So, goodbye, Morocco.
00:30:45This is the water.
00:30:47Yeah.
00:30:48Yeah.
00:30:48Let's do this.
00:30:50I'm making a real effort here to fit in.
00:30:56You never had a washing machine?
00:30:59Remember you called me boozy?
00:31:01I'm not boozy.
00:31:02I think I got to take that back.
00:31:06My wife-to-be had an affair with half a little woman.
00:31:13Woman, is it true what your husband said?
00:31:17Yes.
00:31:19This is totally sacrilege.
00:31:22The lesson is over.
00:31:48The lesson is over.
00:31:52Yeah.
00:31:53Yes.
00:31:55That's it.
00:31:56Let me do some squats with this.
00:32:12All right.
00:32:15It's my second day with Trisha's family.
00:32:19And I've been trying to make myself useful today.
00:32:22You know, helping around the house.
00:32:25This is the water.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:28All right.
00:32:29Let's see.
00:32:30Let's do this.
00:32:33How often do you use the water?
00:32:34How often do you do this?
00:32:35Every day or?
00:32:38You watch every day, huh?
00:32:40You cook every day.
00:32:41Oh, cook every day?
00:32:43You got to get the water for laundry, for cooking everything.
00:32:48I'm making a real effort here to fit in.
00:32:51To, you know, do some of the chores that they do.
00:32:55Here's my shoulder.
00:32:56Oh!
00:32:58Oh!
00:32:59Oh!
00:33:02Man.
00:33:03Hey, babe!
00:33:06Check out your man, baby.
00:33:10You good?
00:33:11Not easy.
00:33:12Put it there.
00:33:12Bring the water here.
00:33:14Okay.
00:33:15Thank you for showing me where the water was.
00:33:18Let me show Chadwick.
00:33:24That's it.
00:33:25Man, is this enough of my soap here?
00:33:28Yeah.
00:33:29You have to.
00:33:33It's gonna take forever.
00:33:36I think this is easier.
00:33:39I've never washed my clothes to the machine.
00:33:43Babe, are you serious?
00:33:44You never had a washing machine?
00:33:46We never had one.
00:33:48You even do this in Tana, huh?
00:33:50Yeah, even in Tana.
00:33:51I'm doing this.
00:33:55Remember you called me boozy?
00:33:57I'm not boozy.
00:33:58Man, I think I gotta take that back now.
00:34:01I know you be doing this .
00:34:05Man.
00:34:06Man.
00:34:08So how was with my dad?
00:34:11Did you understand each other?
00:34:12Oh, yeah.
00:34:14We didn't talk about anything serious.
00:34:18He didn't talk about babies?
00:34:21I don't know.
00:34:21I thought it was best just to leave that subject alone for now.
00:34:29He's not gonna leave the subject alone.
00:34:32He's really, really worried about the baby more than I thought.
00:34:41I don't know.
00:34:41So you should not take a long time.
00:34:45He wants that you should decide it before you go.
00:34:53What do you think your dad would do if I don't come up with an answer in the next couple
00:35:00days?
00:35:00He's worried.
00:35:02I don't know, Rick, but it's not just my dad.
00:35:07To me, having a baby, it means a lot.
00:35:12I want the mother-child relationship that I didn't get to have.
00:35:18You know, my mom, she left for another person.
00:35:29When I was one years old, my parents break up and my mom found another man.
00:35:40In my culture, when two people broke up and they have a child together,
00:35:49and the girl decided to marry with another man.
00:35:56She cannot touch the baby.
00:35:59She cannot see the baby.
00:36:02Unless her husband buys animals and she has to cut the throat,
00:36:10the blood, they put it here on the babies.
00:36:14My mom didn't do it after she left us because her husband didn't accept for doing it.
00:36:24So she left me with my dad.
00:36:29She just followed the guy.
00:36:32She didn't care.
00:36:40Wash your clothes.
00:36:45I know.
00:36:47I'm not used to talk about my mom because she makes me a little bit upset.
00:36:54Like, how?
00:36:55How she could not love a baby?
00:36:59It's cute, though.
00:37:02She left.
00:37:03I was just one years old.
00:37:05I know you're precious.
00:37:06Yeah.
00:37:09You had a daddy that loves you more than...
00:37:14That's why I want, I want to make them happy.
00:37:19They want grandchild.
00:37:23I think that Trish is trying to fill a void.
00:37:26And I want her to heal and have the life that she's envisioning.
00:37:31She deserves to be a mom.
00:37:33And I don't ever want to take that away from her.
00:37:37But at the same time, I'm not even financially prepared right now to have another child.
00:37:45My worst fear is to lose Trish.
00:37:48And it hurts me to think that I might have to let her go.
00:37:53I'm not even thankful.
00:37:59It's only for us like that, but if we're still here and there, you can handle it.
00:38:02We can't do it.
00:38:03You can kill people.
00:38:04Hi.
00:38:05You look sexy driving that boat!
00:38:08Today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:38:12But he got a final warning because he took out a boat for a joy ride and crashed it.
00:38:16I have so many questions.
00:38:18This whole thing is just super confusing to me.
00:38:21Squared away, so you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:38:25Joshua, it was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:38:28How did you pay for that?
00:38:45Chris?
00:38:47Yes.
00:38:47I think I have to poop.
00:38:49Could you leave?
00:38:50Just pretend I'm not able to eat.
00:38:51No, you have to leave.
00:38:53I haven't gone in seven days.
00:38:56You look like a serial killer.
00:39:18I feel so much better.
00:39:20I could finish shaving.
00:39:21I sprayed.
00:39:22Don't worry.
00:39:23It doesn't smell.
00:39:24Yeah.
00:39:26I like Chris.
00:39:27I do.
00:39:28He's a great roommate.
00:39:29Really fun.
00:39:30And he's like a brother.
00:39:32That's hot.
00:39:34Whatever.
00:39:36But I'm not dating Chris.
00:39:38I'm dating Josh.
00:39:39Woo!
00:39:40And things have been a little rocky with Josh and I the past few days.
00:39:45Hopefully this red light mask did wonders.
00:39:47I need to get cute to go on this boat.
00:39:50We had an intense conversation at the beach the other day.
00:39:52But ever since then, things are starting to move in a better direction.
00:39:57And today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:40:01You'll have a fun day out there.
00:40:02It'll be awesome.
00:40:03It's a fun job.
00:40:04Well, I know it's fun.
00:40:05A little too much fun.
00:40:08Please, focus on the positives for today.
00:40:10Let's have a positive day.
00:40:11Period.
00:40:11I like that.
00:40:12I'll give you a report card tonight.
00:40:14Okay.
00:40:14I get along well with Elise.
00:40:16I like Elise.
00:40:17But she's definitely looking for problems.
00:40:19Since she's been here, I've seen them go up and down very quick and very fast.
00:40:22Almost like a perfect little toxic relationship.
00:40:26So, short term, I think it's going to be fine.
00:40:29But long term, I don't know.
00:40:31I don't know.
00:40:43Have a good day.
00:40:51Hi.
00:40:53Does...
00:40:54Do you guys know if Josh is here?
00:40:56He's not here right now, no.
00:40:58He works here, right?
00:40:59Yeah, he does.
00:40:59Oh, okay.
00:41:00Yeah, that's it.
00:41:00That's actually his desk.
00:41:01This one?
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:03Should I sit at his desk?
00:41:03Yeah, go for it.
00:41:04Go for it.
00:41:05That's his desk.
00:41:06That is where the magic happens.
00:41:08Hi, I'm Joshua.
00:41:11You just go down here, turn right.
00:41:13Straight down to the right.
00:41:14Yep.
00:41:24Hi!
00:41:25You look sexy driving that boat!
00:41:37I know Alyssa's been a bit worried about my position at work because of some of the mistakes
00:41:41I made.
00:41:42Of course, the main part of my job is selling boats.
00:41:44But I wanted to see with her own eyes that I've still got a job and, you know, she's got
00:41:49nothing to worry about.
00:41:50Are you ready?
00:41:51I'm ready, baby.
00:41:54It's so pretty around here.
00:41:56Wow.
00:41:57Yeah.
00:41:58It's a beautiful day and it's a beautiful boat with a beautiful man.
00:42:02So, when I walked in looking for you today, I went into your office and I met someone and
00:42:08I sat at your desk.
00:42:09Did you?
00:42:10Yeah.
00:42:11Did you get some work done?
00:42:13No, not at all.
00:42:15It's fun to show off a little bit.
00:42:17I do like being out on the water any chance I get.
00:42:20That was my first impression of you when I saw you on social media.
00:42:23She's on the front of a boat looking fabulous.
00:42:25I think it was on the back, actually.
00:42:28You're on the front.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:30You would know boats better than me.
00:42:32Yes.
00:42:34Can I see outside?
00:42:36Yeah.
00:42:36I got some champagne.
00:42:37Smart boy.
00:42:39This was, like, an ideal day for me.
00:42:41I'm glad.
00:42:46Well, I'm happy you took me on the boat.
00:42:48Did you ask your boss or?
00:42:51I did, yeah.
00:42:52And he gave you permission?
00:42:53Yep.
00:42:55Before I got to Australia, Josh had sent me a text saying he got a final warning from
00:43:00work because he took out a company boat that they were selling for a joyride with friends
00:43:06and crashed it.
00:43:08He has to pay back the damages.
00:43:10He owes $20,000.
00:43:11So, yeah, I'm happy he still has a job.
00:43:13But I feel like what he did was 100% irresponsible.
00:43:17I have so many questions, and I still haven't had a proper conversation about it yet.
00:43:22Listen, it's like, I'm not here to make you feel any worse.
00:43:27But this whole boat thing is just super confusing to me.
00:43:39Nat and a few other, Nat and another few friends, they have friends who were going to become
00:43:45clients of mine.
00:43:46And those clients who I'm trying to network with and get closer to are then going to come
00:43:52to me when they want to buy a boat.
00:43:54So I took them out on one of our company boats and on our way back here.
00:44:00So I got a bit too shallow and clipped through the rock.
00:44:03Then I was bricks.
00:44:05But, you know, it could have been way worse.
00:44:11It got fixed straight away.
00:44:16Joshua, you told me it was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:44:20Well, look, when I first, when I first did the damage, I thought that it was, you know,
00:44:24going to be a little bit more damage because I didn't know exactly.
00:44:27I couldn't swim under the boat and see what happened.
00:44:29But no, it was like, it was a couple of grand.
00:44:32Thank God, you know.
00:44:33And is that paid off?
00:44:34Yeah, it is paid off.
00:44:36How did you pay for that?
00:44:38Well, before you got here, I sold a boat.
00:44:40I sold a share in a boat, so that commission did not go to me.
00:44:44The money that you sold, you didn't get that money.
00:44:46It went to that damages.
00:44:47So that squared away.
00:44:49So you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:44:52I'm still working.
00:44:53I'm still got a job.
00:44:54I'm responsible.
00:44:55I can, I'm trusted.
00:44:57And I got worried about it.
00:44:59But all in all, you know, I have my shit together.
00:45:03Yeah.
00:45:05Okay.
00:45:07Well, I understand that.
00:45:09And I'm really happy I came on the boat.
00:45:12But I guess the only thing that's, like, really on my mind and, like, putting a damper on this is
00:45:18the knot situation.
00:45:20Okay.
00:45:21Why can't I drop the knot then?
00:45:24I didn't realize she was on the boat with you that night.
00:45:27And, like, this emotional connection you have with her, the financial hold she has on you.
00:45:33I don't want to have to keep ten times having to tell you something and you not believe it.
00:45:38You're not letting things go.
00:45:39No, I'm letting it go.
00:45:40I just didn't.
00:45:41It doesn't seem like you are.
00:45:42I'm trying to get down to the bottom of this.
00:45:44Okay.
00:45:45Let's go and see her.
00:45:46Let's us three hang out so it's just us three.
00:45:48And, you know, hopefully I can put your mind at ease.
00:45:52We'll do it tonight.
00:45:55Okay.
00:45:57Of course she was on the boat.
00:45:59Did she pay for the damages?
00:46:01Should have been my first question.
00:46:03I mean, Josh clearly still has a job, but he depends on that financially.
00:46:08I'm just still really confused.
00:46:10So I'm really glad that I'm going to see Nat tonight so I can get some answers and just finally
00:46:15put this to rest.
00:46:30I swear to God, I am about to be cursed.
00:46:33I am scared.
00:46:35This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:46:38They will come after you.
00:46:50So you've got to wait one to five minutes.
00:47:07So two lines is pregnant.
00:47:09One line is not.
00:47:18Well, there we go.
00:47:23It's a pretty strong, dark one line.
00:47:27Not two.
00:47:29Yeah, I know.
00:47:30Well, yep.
00:47:32Two means pregnant.
00:47:34Two means pregnant.
00:47:36Think it's going to just stay negative?
00:47:38I think so.
00:47:43I actually feel really disappointed.
00:47:46Stig and I have had so much fun the past few weeks.
00:47:48We've gotten closer.
00:47:50I've gotten to see a side of him I didn't know before.
00:47:52And I was really excited to think about having our baby and starting a little family.
00:47:58I'm really sad.
00:47:59I'm really bummed.
00:48:02Don't worry.
00:48:03I feel more let down than I expected.
00:48:06I don't know.
00:48:07I thought it would be a perfect end to our trip.
00:48:11I don't know.
00:48:12If we could, you know.
00:48:14I just don't know when I'm going to see you next.
00:48:16No.
00:48:17Why are you saying that?
00:48:18Like, you're acting like, well, we're going to break up when you leave or something?
00:48:20That would just, I feel like, make things happen quicker.
00:48:25Like, I would have motivation to hurry up, move, instead of go home and, eh.
00:48:31Don't stress yourself out.
00:48:33Don't think about it so deep.
00:48:37It's really hitting me that I'm going home and I just have no idea what to expect.
00:48:42Without a baby, it's hard to know how serious he is about our future.
00:48:50I'm worried that after I leave Belize, he's not going to be around me anymore.
00:48:55And Stig is going to go just right back into his old partying ways.
00:49:00I just feel a little unsure about what the future holds.
00:49:04And it's giving me a lot of anxiety.
00:49:34My shit.
00:49:35You're not the one.
00:49:36I'm talking.
00:49:36Well, now he's talking.
00:49:39Mm!
00:49:40What else was it?
00:49:43This is so not what I expected.
00:49:45This is a small, tiny cubby hole.
00:49:47It is hot.
00:49:49The priest is yelling and screaming at me,
00:49:51and I don't know what he's saying.
00:49:56I know this is supposed to cleanse me from my lies,
00:50:00but I swear to God, I am about to be cursed.
00:50:02I am scared .
00:50:04This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:50:46Somehow he knows when he throws these shells,
00:50:49and they land in a certain way, I'm there for a cleansing.
00:50:53This is craziness.
00:50:56Who is this man?
00:50:58He's to be my husband.
00:50:59Why are you here?
00:51:02I love Christ.
00:51:03My wife-to-be had an affair with her fellow woman.
00:51:09Hmm?
00:51:12Woman?
00:51:14Yes, sir.
00:51:15Is it true what your husband said?
00:51:19Yes.
00:51:20Hmm.
00:51:22There's more, though.
00:51:23I also lied to everybody.
00:51:26I wasn't married twice like I had told Daniel.
00:51:30I was married five times.
00:51:32And we're waiting on the divorce of the fifth one.
00:51:37This is totally sacrilege.
00:51:39This is totally sacrilege.
00:51:42In Africa, any woman that committed an abomination,
00:51:47there is something we call sacrilege.
00:51:49It requires I clean them up by the gods directing us.
00:51:54We are just the mouthpiece to the gods.
00:51:58If they mess up the cleansing, the gods will say no.
00:52:02Okay.
00:52:03You're not alone.
00:52:04I'm alone!
00:52:06I'm alone!
00:52:07And I'm alone!
00:52:13He's not alone!
00:52:15He's not alone!
00:52:16From your heart.
00:52:19Give him all of what you have in your pocket that I gave you.
00:52:22Give him all of it, Daniel.
00:52:23Put it there.
00:52:24Don't put it there.
00:52:29When you are there,
00:52:33What is your response?
00:52:45You are bringing goat, you are bringing young.
00:52:48There is another thing you want to do.
00:52:52That is what they are saying.
00:53:03This is your husband.
00:53:07This is you.
00:53:09Repeat after me.
00:53:11Me and my husband are one.
00:53:14Forever and ever.
00:53:16No man, no woman.
00:53:19Put us under.
00:53:21That is what I promise.
00:53:22That is what I promise.
00:53:23Kiss it.
00:53:24Give it to me.
00:53:26You have agreed.
00:53:33You are crying?
00:53:34Yes.
00:53:35What is that Madale?
00:53:44No.
00:53:46No.
00:53:48You are messing with me.
00:53:51You're right.
00:53:52And the other Ad aprende is messing with me.
00:53:54I will be.
00:53:55I want you.
00:53:57I will be.
00:54:03I wish I knew what the f**k was going on.
00:54:06This is terrifying.
00:54:08I'm telling you, this is voodoo magic f**k.
00:54:14After this cleansing today, will you mess up again?
00:54:18No.
00:54:19It's an agreement between you and Oracle.
00:54:22If you miss BF, they will come after you.
00:54:31You need to remove the wrapper.
00:54:34You are presented the yam.
00:54:36You are presented the goat.
00:54:38Remove the wrapper.
00:54:48Take him off the wrapper from the goat signifies that she has been cleansed.
00:54:54That is our tradition.
00:54:56Embrace your husband.
00:54:59You're okay?
00:55:00How you clean?
00:55:01What are you?
00:55:01How you clean?
00:55:02How you clean?
00:55:04Am I clean?
00:55:08Hmm?
00:55:10What the news from today?
00:55:16Holy piece.
00:55:18This thing is over.
00:55:19Azul, you get your phone.
00:55:20Your phone.
00:55:22That's a good one.
00:55:23No problem.
00:55:25That's a good one.
00:55:26The answer says,
00:55:27no problem.
00:55:27I'm sorry.
00:55:28No problem.
00:55:28I'm sorry.
00:55:28I don't know what the just happened I know I'm cleansed I don't care about
00:55:34anything else point is if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and
00:55:39wife and that's all I wanted I am extremely happy that's we are we are
00:55:57cleansed we can go ahead and get my red I really appreciate right can we have sex
00:56:15why not come on
00:56:32last night was more and sloppy I thought it would be I'm not a virgin anymore it's way better than
00:56:42what I thought me and my hand I'm sorry we're gonna have to break up I'm just glad that we
00:56:46didn't break
00:57:03the bed
00:57:05sheena I feel lots of weight off my mind yeah last night just being able to touch you and feel
00:57:13you
00:57:15just makes me so so happy
00:57:20it was the most special moment that I've ever had with you
00:57:27I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed
00:57:39you tied me out yeah it's like you took the driver's seat and just kept going
00:57:44as of today I'm not a virgin anymore it was a great sensation I never it's way better than what
00:57:52I
00:57:52thought okay way better than what I do at night by myself
00:57:55uh me and my hand I'm sorry we're gonna have to break up
00:58:01I really enjoyed it last night with you and I'm so so happy and I'm so glad that we've been
00:58:07come to this stage
00:58:10yeah I was thinking about how it'd be before sleeping with you and I thought it'd be like this magical
00:58:16thing
00:58:17like there was gonna be like sparks and fireworks and last night was exactly kind of what I thought
00:58:25well more sloppy than what I thought it would be
00:58:31when you got on top and started going uh my legs were so I felt like I needed a life
00:58:39preserver to make sure I don't drown
00:58:42it was the best 35 seconds of my life
00:58:45no okay I lasted a little bit longer than that
00:58:48but Sheena man she went and hopped on top of me and just showed me who was the boss
00:58:54I didn't do it oh yeah you did you took charge
00:59:01I'm happy because you're quite gentle you're quite the gentle one for me I mean so I felt the respect
00:59:06and
00:59:07the love from you so I didn't want to hurt you so that's kind of why I kind of laid
00:59:11back and let you go
00:59:24there's a lot of learning but I think that we haven't got it and giving all myself to Forrest I
00:59:32felt amazing it's hard to describe
00:59:36how would you rate me one to ten well let me say around one just 11 perhaps for me
00:59:47sex is great yeah I know the connection that we got afterwards after after is definitely something
00:59:54I was not expecting I just feel like you know the world is revolving around us now
01:00:03yeah it's like a magnet
01:00:05mm-hmm and I really feel like even though we're not legally married we can work out the paperwork later
01:00:14but last night you became my wife you are my wife till the end of the earth
01:00:27and if I go back now then I won't have you and I won't have basically my wife with me
01:00:33so this is
01:00:36made me even more committed to you know do everything in my power to be with you
01:00:43having sex with Sheena definitely has changed a lot of things I feel like our heart and our souls
01:00:50are one in the same but I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines and I'm
01:00:56just
01:00:56extremely torn right now because you can go and you can be like oh I love you I love you
01:01:01on the phone
01:01:02but it's not the same as holding the person in your arms I'm starting to feel like maybe the right
01:01:09choice is to stay here in the Philippines but I know that my mother she she's not gonna have a
01:01:16good
01:01:16reaction to that it's going to be like a typhoon hitting hurricane and kind of just blow everything up
01:01:28I love Trisha very very much I need more time I'm not prepared to do so
01:01:50do you want to go see the minor words today yeah what happened you're still in a bad mood
01:01:59there's plenty of time I'm gonna make babies stop tripping
01:02:15excited to see these yes it's amazing yeah this is our very last day together on this trip so I
01:02:24want
01:02:24to make it count I want it to be special so today I decided to take Aviva to the Mayan
01:02:29ruins one of
01:02:30Belize's main attraction you're gonna love this I'm gonna be your official tour guide I'm glad we're at
01:02:41this place this is very spiritual for me so I want to experience this with Aviva
01:02:59hey at one point this used to be just like imagine just mountains and hills and somebody
01:03:06some bright mind came and said yo maybe we should check it out and dig and dig and I didn't
01:03:12find all
01:03:13these stuff where's your stage babe front and center go see this is one right back in the day I
01:03:19would be right here and I would have been the group eight in the front row
01:03:31hope you're seeing that babe that I do want kids with you I do want a family this is not
01:03:37something
01:03:38just regular for me not just a little vacay you visited me this is more than that for me okay
01:03:45it makes me happy babe I love you I love you too I was feeling pretty upset about the negative
01:03:55pregnancy
01:03:55test but now stay and I are joking around having a good time and he's just making me feel so
01:04:01special
01:04:02look at the tree pretty right it's super cool walking around the Mayan ruins it's beautiful so much
01:04:09that's huge history and I just love spending this quality time with him
01:04:18wow that's huge right that is so cool I know
01:04:25people go all the way to the top that is beautiful we should for sure you want to go to
01:04:30the top hell yeah
01:04:31me too I'm full of gratitude at this point we've been through so much and there were days when it
01:04:44looked dark when we thought that you know maybe this is it I'm gonna race you to the top now
01:04:49but look at
01:04:51us I think opposites attract like she's the missing piece of the puzzle I feel like we're a perfect balance
01:04:59and I can see the future clearly you want to go through that for real yes let's do it let's
01:05:05go
01:05:07way way up there
01:05:14babe maybe you should stop for real I want to tell you something
01:05:22since the first time I met you babe at the airport
01:05:25something just made me feel like you're the one for real I know I was gonna do this I know
01:05:30you were scared
01:05:31but I actually fell in love with you of you and I want to be with you for the rest
01:05:37of my life
01:05:38that's so sweet
01:05:41will you marry me
01:05:48yes
01:05:49she said yes
01:06:05you got me shaking
01:06:08is this on us left
01:06:11left
01:06:13hopefully it fits
01:06:14yes
01:06:17what
01:06:24I've engaged to Stig the artist like how cool is that
01:06:30you are full of surprises but this is definitely the best one
01:06:34this is the most nervous I've ever been for real for real
01:06:38I'm an engaged man now
01:06:41I've been carrying around this engagement ring for a while but at first I wasn't too sure because
01:06:46I felt like she was questioning me and who I am you know that made me a little sad
01:06:51but then closer leading up to today I felt sure in my heart
01:06:57you still want to go to the top
01:06:58of course I do
01:06:59let's go
01:07:00let's go
01:07:01this is my fiancee Aviva
01:07:03this is my fiancee Stig
01:07:05thank you
01:07:09you're walking in sync
01:07:11you gotta call it spring
01:07:13I'm gonna oh
01:07:14I have to tell it spring
01:07:16oh no
01:07:17I'm gonna marry your niece
01:07:23so cool
01:07:24I'm alright
01:07:25babe
01:07:26there's always gonna be people spreading rumors
01:07:28trying to get into your mind
01:07:31forget about all that right
01:07:32I got you
01:07:33we're a team now
01:07:34I'm not gonna lie to you
01:07:35okay
01:07:36promise you
01:07:37I definitely believe you now
01:07:47I love you babe
01:07:48I love you too
01:08:12let's get some bananas let's get some for your family
01:08:14you want bananas
01:08:17I think your family likes bananas too don't they
01:08:27so the dark green one isn't better
01:08:30yeah this is better
01:08:33tonight Trish and I are flying back to Antananarivo
01:08:41these past few days I've seen more sides to Trish
01:08:45I've fallen even deeper in love with her
01:08:48but I haven't made up my mind yet
01:08:51whether or not I want another child
01:08:53this is my grandma used to sell fruits before
01:08:59this was her stand right here
01:09:01did you sell stuff out here
01:09:03yeah
01:09:04like fruits
01:09:05oh my god
01:09:06I just cannot picture you doing that
01:09:09yeah
01:09:09I know how important it is to Trish and her family
01:09:14but I think the best solution to this
01:09:18is for Trish to ask her dad again for more time
01:09:22Trish's dad seems like a nice guy
01:09:25and maybe they could ease up a little bit
01:09:28with his family all to where I am
01:09:38but he leaves
01:09:40he needs a littleified
01:09:46and what he means
01:09:47for his family
01:09:48he needs me
01:09:48so how do I treat you
01:09:51and people will want to
01:09:52you inside
01:09:52thank you
01:09:53yeah
01:09:53yes
01:09:54thank you
01:09:54thank you
01:09:55I don't want three
01:10:00No, Dad wants to talk with us.
01:10:03OK.
01:10:04No?
01:10:05No.
01:10:06No, Mandrus.
01:10:07OK.
01:10:08No.
01:10:10No.
01:10:10No, Mandrus.
01:10:11OK.
01:10:12No.
01:10:12No, Mandrus.
01:10:18OK.
01:10:24That was the night for me.
01:10:29That's the night for me.
01:10:30Oh, thank God.
01:10:31I don't know what that knife was for.
01:10:33I didn't see nothing to cut.
01:10:42What are you?
01:10:47Oh!
01:10:48That's a beautiful run.
01:10:50What do you call me?
01:10:59You say, how was your vacation?
01:11:03Oh, it's been wonderful.
01:11:05I love your daughter very much.
01:11:08And each day that goes by, I'm loving her even more.
01:11:24That's good.
01:11:25It is.
01:11:33We're going to leave.
01:11:35So that's why he's called us here.
01:11:38Mm-hmm.
01:11:50Um, what about your answer about the kids?
01:12:04I want to respect your dad's demands for a decision now.
01:12:11Um.
01:12:15But I'm not prepared to do so.
01:12:20I want to.
01:12:24Um.
01:12:31I love Patricia very, very much.
01:12:35I know that well.
01:12:37And not that the problem.
01:12:40About the kids now.
01:12:42I need more time.
01:12:45Your decision today, not yesterday, not what?
01:13:00You have to decide it, yes or no.
01:13:03But if no, they have to hold me.
01:13:08Like, we cannot be together anymore.
01:13:18You guys are emotionally kind.
01:13:20Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:21So why the am I here?
01:13:22Is it just, is this just sexual?
01:13:24And she's helping you financially.
01:13:26No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:13:27If you said that one more time, I'm going to leave.
01:13:29I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
01:13:33Want me to go ask every single person here?
01:13:35Hey, guys.
01:13:36Let me ask you guys all the questions.
01:13:39This guy's a psycho.
01:13:52Should I have a quick shower?
01:13:53I didn't shower.
01:13:55Yeah, but you don't need a shower at home.
01:13:58I stink.
01:13:59Oh, maybe you do need a shower.
01:14:00Right now.
01:14:02I'm feeling it right now.
01:14:05Let me show you how.
01:14:07Well, you look good.
01:14:13Oof.
01:14:14Is this okay for the bar?
01:14:16Or where we're going?
01:14:18I love it.
01:14:19Josh took me out on one of his company's boats today, and it honestly was great.
01:14:24It would be nice if he owned the boat, but like driving his company's boat, it's okay.
01:14:29I feel like I got some questions answered, but the Nat situation has not cleared up, and that's like the
01:14:34one thing kind of lingering over us.
01:14:36So we set up tonight for us to just all get together and put everything on the table.
01:14:41We can be dirty together.
01:14:43We'll shower later.
01:14:44I feel salty.
01:14:45It'd be two seconds.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:48Got to make sure you shower for Nat.
01:14:52I don't want this affecting our relationship, but like Josh hasn't been transparent from the start.
01:14:56He lied about his living situation with Nat.
01:14:59Now I'm just finding out she was there the night he crashed the boat.
01:15:03And on top of that, they text throughout the day, throughout the night, at all hours of the night.
01:15:08Like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, not, not, not, not.
01:15:14It's like, dude.
01:15:16Like, I haven't like looked at the messages, but it's just shady and weird.
01:15:21I need to figure out once and for all what is going on because I am so confused.
01:15:37Just do me a favour, don't kick off.
01:15:41Can't promise you anything.
01:15:46Hi.
01:15:47How are you doing?
01:15:48How are you doing?
01:15:50Good.
01:15:50Good to see you.
01:15:51Good.
01:15:52Thanks for coming, guys.
01:15:54Don't mind me.
01:15:55I just brought some hand warmers.
01:15:56It's so cold.
01:15:57I'm freezing.
01:15:58It's not that cold.
01:15:59I'm freezing.
01:16:01How are you?
01:16:02I'm good.
01:16:03I'm good.
01:16:04Busy day today.
01:16:05Poured a couple of things.
01:16:06What'd you get?
01:16:07I got this nice dress.
01:16:10I feel like everyone in Australia wears black.
01:16:14Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:15I love black, so.
01:16:19I really want Elise to see that I'm taking her concern seriously and that I'm committed to
01:16:24building a relationship with her.
01:16:26But I know for that to happen, she needs to trust me, especially when it comes to Nat.
01:16:30What are we choosing, Jill?
01:16:33We need to sort of get her to realize that we're just friends and that we can finally
01:16:37move on.
01:16:38We went on the boat today.
01:16:40Oh, DJ, how was it?
01:16:41It was beautiful.
01:16:42Yeah, it was beautiful.
01:16:43And what else is happening?
01:16:44Obviously, like, we've been talking a lot.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47And there's so much to digest, you know, everything.
01:16:50Yeah, of course.
01:16:53I mean, I do feel like uncomfortable.
01:16:56One of our problems in our relationship is not you necessarily, but like, I just feel
01:17:04very uncomfortable about this connection.
01:17:08Every single time I see him on his phone, he's talking to you.
01:17:12You're together all the time.
01:17:14You're even on the boat together that night.
01:17:16He damaged it.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:19So what's the problem?
01:17:21You guys are emotionally tied.
01:17:24Yeah, absolutely.
01:17:24I wouldn't want to be best friends with someone if I wasn't emotionally tied with him.
01:17:28But it's not just an emotional aspect to it.
01:17:31I'm going to be honest.
01:17:31Like, I'm scared he's so close financially with you.
01:17:37So I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
01:17:41Like, how does it work?
01:17:45What do you mean?
01:17:47Well, he lives there.
01:17:49He doesn't say rent.
01:17:51He doesn't say rent.
01:17:51You help him.
01:17:52Like, yeah, I've loaned money.
01:17:55He's paid me back.
01:17:57I don't know what you want me to say.
01:17:59When people talk about money, to me, it's really icky.
01:18:02Like, that's, I just think it's gross.
01:18:05I just, I think it's weird.
01:18:08I don't want a guy I'm dating and a guy that's literally telling me he's falling for me to be
01:18:13supported by another girl.
01:18:15Like, so why the **** am I here?
01:18:17Is it just, is this just sexual?
01:18:19Because you have an emotional relationship with a woman and she's helping you financially.
01:18:23So, like...
01:18:24No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:18:25If you said that one more time, I'm going to leave the ****.
01:18:28We have both said that that's not the case.
01:18:33But then, what's your **** game plan?
01:18:36What?
01:18:36I want to know, when I leave, you are going to go live with Nat, yes or no?
01:18:44Well, I probably would go back to hers, but it is short **** term.
01:18:51But I don't want to **** because my man living with another girl.
01:18:54Why can I not have a friend and it be free now?
01:18:57I think it's **** weird.
01:18:58Do you want me to go ask every single person there?
01:19:00Because I will.
01:19:00I would, and it would be embarrassing to you.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:05Okay, let it be embarrassing for me.
01:19:07I don't give a ****.
01:19:09Hey, guys!
01:19:11Let me ask you guys all the **** question.
01:19:14Am I crazy?
01:19:16Or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially **** supported crazy?
01:19:24Did you know?
01:19:25No!
01:19:26He's **** lying to me!
01:19:28That's pretty crazy.
01:19:30Thank you!
01:19:30How long have you been to?
01:19:32We've been talking six months.
01:19:33We've been talking six months.
01:19:34I hadn't met until just recently, though.
01:19:38He shouldn't be living with her, right?
01:19:40And getting financially supported, right?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:41Thank you!
01:19:42He shouldn't be living with her, and he's getting financially supported.
01:19:45Do you think that's crazy?
01:19:46Thank you!
01:19:50I mean, is this not crazy now?
01:19:52It could be.
01:19:52Is this not crazy now?
01:19:53Yeah, but I'm having two against one.
01:19:56What the **** are they supposed to do?
01:19:57You're not saying that.
01:19:57Tell them half I'm sorry.
01:19:58But you're not yelling in a bar where I live.
01:20:01She's a psycho.
01:20:03She's a psycho.
01:20:04She's a ****.
01:20:04Sorry.
01:20:05You don't know which one you're getting, is it?
01:20:07**** you, bitch.
01:20:08**** you, **** off.
01:20:09Good luck.
01:20:13Like, honestly, I'm not doing that.
01:20:16She's a **** psycho.
01:20:17What the ****?
01:20:18Who does that?
01:20:18Who yells at people in a bar?
01:20:20Like, she's creating all of these issues that aren't even there.
01:20:23Yeah.
01:20:24Yeah.
01:20:24That's a big red flag.
01:20:26Huge red flag.
01:20:31Hey, Nat.
01:20:33You all right?
01:20:34Yeah.
01:20:35Are you okay?
01:20:36Q, you guys are together.
01:20:37Cool.
01:20:38So **** you.
01:20:39Give me my purse.
01:20:40So **** you.
01:20:41So you run to her after this, right?
01:20:43It's just both.
01:20:45Do you want to go?
01:20:46Bye, guys.
01:20:47**** asshole.
01:20:51Oh, I'm just embarrassed.
01:20:52Like, I'm confused as well now.
01:20:54What do I do?
01:20:55I feel like I was falling in love, though.
01:20:58But that ****, I'm done.
01:21:00Like.
01:21:07Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:12I miss you.
01:21:13There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
01:21:17What's that?
01:21:19Oral sex.
01:21:22Our fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
01:21:25I am not a woman.
01:21:26I have my ****.
01:21:29It's major for me.
01:21:34Ready, bro?
01:21:37In a couple of days, we're going to renew our vows.
01:21:40And I just can't wait.
01:21:42How are you looking for wedding bands?
01:21:45$268.
01:21:48I think he's not sure.
01:21:50I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
01:21:55Take it happy.
01:21:57Okay.
01:21:58Okay.
01:22:00She went off yelling from the whole bar.
01:22:03**** that.
01:22:06I'm ****.
01:22:07Angry, angry.
01:22:09Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
01:22:11I think it was a massive overreaction.
01:22:13For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that would be the end.
01:22:22I'm worried I'm going to disappoint my mom.
01:22:25It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
01:22:27Not just following her orders around.
01:22:30My mother, she's always been my safety net.
01:22:32But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
01:22:37Did you guys make any plans?
01:22:39Because we are leaving tomorrow.
01:22:43Yeah.
01:22:44I have decided I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:22:50This is our choice.
01:22:53What's that **** that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:58Was it okay?
01:22:59Yeah, he's a good guy.
01:23:01But it turns out, we're not so good.
01:23:06Something is going on between you and Michael.
01:23:08Nothing is going on.
01:23:09Will you just shut up and listen?
01:23:11Don't tell me to shut up.
01:23:14I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I tried to kiss Michael.
01:23:18BeerCon's massive reaction, that pisses me off.
01:23:26Hey.
01:23:27Hey.
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