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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:07Wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:11Didn't have one.
00:00:12I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex.
00:00:30You keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:35I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky s***.
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:05Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but...
00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:11I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
00:01:16It's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:23You see, it's like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any.
00:01:27Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:39You don't want a b***y wife.
00:01:42Don't be a b***ing a**hole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:48I love you so much.
00:01:50But stop telling me lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him, and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:57So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:03You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:08It's not...
00:02:09It's not as bad as...
00:02:10Don't come close to me.
00:02:18Yeah, I can feel your energy is passing through me.
00:02:25I feel so alive.
00:02:37Good morning.
00:02:39Hi.
00:02:40How are you?
00:02:40Okay.
00:02:43Thank you for taking care of me last night.
00:02:45That's all right.
00:02:46I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here.
00:02:49Yeah, you're taking chances.
00:02:51It's the same chances.
00:02:53I want you more.
00:02:56Yeah.
00:02:58I feel so bad.
00:02:59Like, every hour I was making you get up and give me water.
00:03:02So, I had a nice sleep.
00:03:04You're a very big caretaker.
00:03:06Yeah, well, long flat.
00:03:08And you weren't feeling this, so, you know.
00:03:11You're such a good boy.
00:03:14I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend Joshua for the first time face-to-face.
00:03:21The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night, but I was up every hour of the
00:03:27night.
00:03:27I was coughing, I was shivering, and he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of
00:03:32me all night.
00:03:33It just feels like it's, like, a sinus infection almost.
00:03:36Like, it's just, like, swollen here.
00:03:38Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray.
00:03:42Yeah.
00:03:44I am a needy bitch, especially when I'm sick.
00:03:47I need my man to attend to me, like, a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball.
00:03:53Joshua does that.
00:03:55I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink, and I took my
00:04:00medicine.
00:04:01That's good. It's probably a good start.
00:04:04What is it?
00:04:05It's Regiment.
00:04:06What's that?
00:04:07You have to try it.
00:04:08It's a big thing in Australia.
00:04:09This smells like sardines.
00:04:13There's no fish in it.
00:04:16Just take a big bite.
00:04:22Suck!
00:04:22Is it good?
00:04:24It's not bad.
00:04:26No, I don't like it.
00:04:28I don't like it.
00:04:29Ew, ew, ew!
00:04:30Joshua, what is that?
00:04:32Is that fish?
00:04:33It's not fish.
00:04:36Do you want a tissue?
00:04:38It's a condiment.
00:04:40I don't know how to explain it.
00:04:41And you love it?
00:04:42Yeah, I do love it on toast.
00:04:44You're not Australian if you're not eating Vegemite.
00:04:46Tastes like s***.
00:04:49I hated it.
00:04:53All right, take this Vegemite away from me.
00:04:56All right.
00:04:56There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.
00:05:01Yes.
00:05:01And then if you feel a bit better, maybe do you want to go wander up to the beach and
00:05:05see Bondi?
00:05:07Yeah.
00:05:07All right, well, don't make me sick.
00:05:11I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.
00:05:16Well, I might get Tom's too then.
00:05:23Wow, so this is your beach.
00:05:25This is it.
00:05:26Oh, my God, all the guys that wear the what's-the-sweet-o thing.
00:05:30I can't, I can't, I can't.
00:05:36Wow, the sand feels so nice.
00:05:38Very different than Miami.
00:05:40It's, like, really soft.
00:05:43Do you want to go in?
00:05:44Yep.
00:05:45Wait, I have to change.
00:05:47Towel's in my bag.
00:05:49So let's figure this out.
00:05:51So here's to cover me.
00:05:53Okay.
00:05:55Cover me now.
00:05:56About this.
00:05:57Well, this one, I can just go like this.
00:05:59Yeah.
00:06:02My top is up.
00:06:05Hold me.
00:06:06Hold me.
00:06:07How do you do this part?
00:06:08All right, so now we're going to go down.
00:06:09Go.
00:06:10So.
00:06:12How are you going to do that now?
00:06:15Hold it tight.
00:06:18I'm losing it.
00:06:20Hold it.
00:06:23Voila!
00:06:24Well done.
00:06:28That was pretty impressive.
00:06:49It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours, and it's so natural.
00:06:56There's a lot of sexual chemistry there.
00:06:59We're so touchy-feely, but he seems a little reserved.
00:07:04So I'm just trying to feel him out.
00:07:09I mean, I do have three weeks here, and I came here to find my potential husband.
00:07:14So getting to be alone with Joshua, it's nice, because I want to get into the deeper stuff, for sure.
00:07:22Holy moly, I'm cold.
00:07:25It's funny, um, you see adults, you know, they're freezing, and then you see, like, little kids, and they're just,
00:07:30like, following you around for hours.
00:07:32I think when I was a kid, I spent every day at the beach.
00:07:36We'd be swimming in the pool every morning.
00:07:38Okay.
00:07:39But then in the afternoons, we'd be, like, doing the board training every single afternoon.
00:07:45I love learning about you.
00:07:47I want to get to know everything about you.
00:07:49Like, I want to know the heart.
00:07:50Like, I want you to open up.
00:07:51I feel like you're reserved.
00:07:55Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:07:58Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship.
00:08:00I was.
00:08:01Yeah.
00:08:02One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up, and then having it used, like, against me.
00:08:10You know, my previous relationship, we dated for seven years, but I never felt secure.
00:08:19I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her.
00:08:22She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful, and I was constantly being told if I wasn't, she
00:08:30would walk away.
00:08:32So I was always living in fear, I guess.
00:08:35She could just end it at any time.
00:08:36Um, ultimately, I had my heart broken, and I'm closed off because of that.
00:08:44Like, are you constantly thinking, like, is something on your mind, or, like, it's just...
00:08:48Yeah, I'm always thinking.
00:08:50Always, always thinking.
00:08:51What's your top thought right now?
00:08:54This is...
00:08:54I like that you're sort of asking these questions, but, you know, it's scary at the same time.
00:09:00Because it's opening up and being vulnerable.
00:09:02No, I get it.
00:09:04Like, opening up can be scary.
00:09:07But, you know what?
00:09:09You made me feel safe already.
00:09:11Really?
00:09:12That's, like, an early call.
00:09:15So, it's mostly already the same thing.
00:09:17Yeah, I feel safe with you, too.
00:09:21Bye.
00:09:21Bye.
00:09:23Bye.
00:09:28I've never really had a guy say that to me, actually.
00:09:30Like, guys have said a lot of things to me, but feeling safe is not one I've heard.
00:09:35It feels good.
00:09:37I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable.
00:09:42So, yeah, the plan was to wait.
00:09:44But, like, he's so sweet to me.
00:09:47He's so attentive to me.
00:09:48He's letting his guard down.
00:09:49Like, it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well.
00:09:52So, we'll see.
00:10:07It's not...
00:10:08Don't...
00:10:08It's not as bad as...
00:10:10Don't come close to me.
00:10:13Daniel.
00:10:15You're telling me you have been a lesbian?
00:10:19Listen.
00:10:20Don't, don't, don't try it.
00:10:22Listen to...
00:10:22Don't even come...
00:10:23Don't, don't, don't try it.
00:10:24Listen.
00:10:25I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle.
00:10:30I want it all out.
00:10:31That's why I said I needed another day.
00:10:33I wanted you to know everything.
00:10:39Daniel.
00:10:41Daniel.
00:10:42Don't come close to me.
00:10:44Please try to understand.
00:10:47You don't know how hard it was to...
00:10:49You have a lot of secrets.
00:10:50I have no more secrets.
00:10:52Just listen, please.
00:10:55I'm trying to tell you who I am.
00:10:57Jesus Christ.
00:10:59I'm not a lesbian.
00:11:00I'm not straight.
00:11:01I'm not bisexual.
00:11:03I just believe that people should love people.
00:11:06People should love people by their soul.
00:11:08And people should love people for who they are on the inside.
00:11:11Not on what is on the outside.
00:11:16I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:11:18You told me you have had a series of, you know, relationship.
00:11:21I didn't know it's your fellow women.
00:11:23Same sex.
00:11:26Yes.
00:11:28And you have been lying to me.
00:11:31I'm sorry.
00:11:34You are evil.
00:11:37I'm not evil.
00:11:38You know me.
00:11:39I take care of people.
00:11:40And I've even taken care of you.
00:11:42I'm not evil.
00:11:44I have a good heart.
00:11:45And I'm a good person.
00:11:46What makes you a good person?
00:11:49Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:11:50That doesn't make me evil.
00:11:53I'm still the same person you fell in love with.
00:11:57The same person who tells lies and keeps secrets.
00:12:00I love you.
00:12:02I don't want to hear that from your mouth again.
00:12:04I love you.
00:12:05Don't, don't, don't say that again.
00:12:07And you can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it.
00:12:10I am in love with you, Daniel.
00:12:12That's why I'm coming clean to you.
00:12:14I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you.
00:12:17But I'm telling you.
00:12:19Shut your mouth.
00:12:19You have been touched by a woman.
00:12:21Not even woman.
00:12:22Women.
00:12:26You are a liar.
00:12:28I'm just a person who has been lost.
00:12:36Don't.
00:12:37Can you hold this ring?
00:12:38No.
00:12:40Hold the ring.
00:12:43I've seen that from your head to toe is full of secrets and lies.
00:12:48So you're full of evil.
00:12:51I'm not full of evil, Daniel.
00:12:55I'm staying in my room tonight.
00:13:09I thought I've seen it all.
00:13:11Or she keep on vomiting secrets.
00:13:15No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:13:21I didn't think he called me evil.
00:13:23I'm not evil.
00:13:26I just believe a person loves a person.
00:13:28And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:13:35Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
00:13:38You know what?
00:13:40F*** him.
00:13:41F*** him.
00:13:45He's lost.
00:13:54You're officially on the jeepney.
00:13:56I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:13:59And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America.
00:14:02So I have to be very clear here.
00:14:05If you file today for the K-1 visa, it will be denied.
00:14:17We are likely.
00:14:23A taxi is coming.
00:14:31This was right out so we could see.
00:14:35We are here.
00:14:37I'm tired.
00:14:38Let's get a rest.
00:14:40I will.
00:14:57So this is like a, it's going to be like a village environment, right?
00:15:01Yeah.
00:15:03Yesterday, we traveled from Nusibet to Fort Dauphin, my hometown.
00:15:09We arrived late, so we stay in a hotel.
00:15:12And now we are going to my family's village for a few days.
00:15:18Can't forget my baby wipes.
00:15:20I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.
00:15:23We use water.
00:15:26F***.
00:15:27We had a big fight last night.
00:15:30I still love him and I want him to meet my family.
00:15:34But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.
00:15:42I don't want to ruin this vacation.
00:15:45But the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like.
00:15:53I went a little overboard.
00:15:55I'm sorry for that.
00:15:58I'm sorry for raising my voice to you.
00:16:02It's just I was so frustrated, you know,
00:16:06hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly.
00:16:09And I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back.
00:16:19Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.
00:16:25Okay.
00:16:26We are going to see my family and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:32I want them to accept you
00:16:34because I want this relationship work.
00:16:39I do too.
00:16:42I overreacted yesterday.
00:16:45It seemed like she was taunting me
00:16:47over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:16:51Then it just totally set me off.
00:16:54I want to be here and I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:00Yeah.
00:17:01There's definitely a strong connection between her and I.
00:17:06And I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.
00:17:13So I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:23Let's go now.
00:17:29Nice tuk-tuk right here.
00:17:31Yeah, it's nice.
00:17:45It's quiet, you see?
00:17:47Not much fickle.
00:17:48Not what I expected.
00:17:51Ooh.
00:17:53This is rough roads.
00:17:57The roots are made of aluminum.
00:18:00Let's get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:02Yeah.
00:18:03Tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk
00:18:05-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk
00:18:09-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk.
00:18:09No.
00:18:09I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:13Everything is just simple.
00:18:16There is no running water, no fancy toilet,
00:18:20but everybody are kind in my village, and it's beautiful.
00:18:27You think they'll be happy to see?
00:18:29Yeah, to see me!
00:18:31What about me?
00:18:34They going to be happy to see me, babe?
00:18:36I don't know.
00:18:37Meet me.
00:18:43Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:19:00My family won't accept Rick.
00:19:05Men in my tribe is very strong.
00:19:09When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.
00:19:14Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.
00:19:19I'm worried he doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:26Is it right here?
00:19:28Yeah, it's here.
00:19:29There's no turning back.
00:19:41So we're going to have to call a GP.
00:19:44I'm super duper nervous about riding one.
00:19:46Ah, you're going to have to.
00:19:47How's that work?
00:19:49Well, you can see those signboards.
00:19:51Uh-huh.
00:19:51Just have to find the right location.
00:19:54Then we just have to go para.
00:19:56Para is the south.
00:19:57Oh.
00:20:02It's right here.
00:20:03Oh, here?
00:20:04Yes.
00:20:05There it is.
00:20:07All right.
00:20:08We're officially on the GP.
00:20:13Oh, there it is.
00:20:14The big part.
00:20:16Ah!
00:20:17Woo!
00:20:18Oh!
00:20:19I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore.
00:20:23Yeah.
00:20:24It's hot.
00:20:25It smells like diesel.
00:20:29it's been a couple days since i proposed to sheena and we are just over the moon in love with
00:20:35each
00:20:35other but not everyone's happy my mom is still mad at me because i proposed to sheena against
00:20:44her guidance and the vibe in the condo is just really awkward so sheena and i have been trying
00:20:53to do our own thing oh my gosh so this is the ball here all right here we go we're
00:20:59getting off
00:21:02well it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself right now is not the time to put the
00:21:06brakes on things i only have a week left here in the philippines and i don't want to waste any
00:21:11time in bringing sheena to america good morning do you have an appointment with mr alexander king
00:21:19please now that we're finally engaged i called an immigration lawyer in manila just so we can get
00:21:25a consultation oh hi sir hi good morning good morning nice to meet you nice to meet you
00:21:35yeah good afternoon good afternoon welcome to our office and welcome to the philippines
00:21:41thank you i've been enjoying my stay okay so for for this consultation i would like to you know
00:21:47um make an assessment of course if you are eligible for the k1 visa yeah no how long have you
00:21:55been in
00:21:56this uh in this relationship seven years seven years seven years and you have never been convicted
00:22:01of any crime in the u.s no okay be clean yeah when i walk you can hear yeah so
00:22:09uh are you uh working
00:22:11right now currently i'm not working but i can prove that i'm getting paid monthly okay i'm receiving
00:22:21uh disability benefits which is it's a good enough amount to have me you know live my basic life and
00:22:29um you know get an apartment and get food all that good stuff
00:22:35i see so i have to um uh be very clear here you know disability benefits is not an income
00:22:46you know you cannot consider it as income the annual income for petitioners for uh k-1 visa is
00:22:53more or less 26 500 usd now is that shared between no it's only the petitioner only the petitioner okay
00:23:03so um if you will file today for example it will be denied
00:23:14my suggestion is you build your financial capacity you know find again full employment then uh you can
00:23:23proceed i am in complete shock right now i feel devastated to find out that my disability payments
00:23:31that i get monthly does not count towards the amount that i need to bring shit into the united states
00:23:38to be honest because of my autism i am terrified about working full-time and starting a job
00:23:47in the past i've had jobs that ended
00:23:52awfully because i didn't understand or i messed up but my back is at a wall right now that if
00:24:01i don't get
00:24:02a job our entire dream of bringing china to the united states is done so let's say you know i
00:24:10go back
00:24:10home yeah and i instantly start working yeah how long is enough to have the stable form of income
00:24:17you know before the k-1 is actually granted so yeah uh you need probably a year uh employment history
00:24:26okay and then uh you will meet another year uh at least uh to have the petition approved and bring
00:24:34your
00:24:34fiance to the u.s yeah it's quite frustrating for me that i'm the only one who's been working
00:24:45if he happened to have a job then he could have acquired the cave of visa sooner i'm worried that
00:24:55since forest have a disability it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a job long term
00:25:01um is there other any other options so depending on your goal here in the
00:25:09philippine immigration we have a straightforward process if you get married here and he comes to the
00:25:15philippines and live here there is no requirement of financial capacity okay okay so
00:25:20there will be a 100 chance that the petition will be approved okay okay
00:25:28so these options will depend on your goal
00:25:34at this point it's sounding almost impossible for forest to bring me to the u.s
00:25:40i know it's going to be difficult but i think he's going to have to consider other options
00:25:56i don't know i'm just real pissed off and at this moment i'm at a crossroads i don't know how
00:26:01to move
00:26:02for it
00:26:12can i at least have my wallet no okay don't talk to me don't come to me
00:26:26you think you can just treat me this way humiliate me all the time all right i'm gonna just give
00:26:31you
00:26:31a little bit of space all right
00:26:33so
00:27:03Ano, baki liko kasi yung asawa ko yung doon sa doon.
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00:30:26me to do is it's something else you want me to do so i like look i just give up
00:30:34there's nothing else that i can do to make you you know happy i feel exactly the same sometimes
00:30:52i'm so cold come have a shower with me
00:30:56i mean are things moving a little fast maybe
00:31:01but i mean like i wanted to save water i'm a big environmentalist you know
00:31:36she out with me
00:31:39never thought you would ask
00:32:02i mean are things moving a little fast maybe but joshua and i are both super sandy and gross
00:32:10from the ocean and i mean like i wanted to save water i'm a big environmentalist you know
00:32:19i'm trying to control myself but josh is just like so hot and we've been making out all day
00:32:26you know in the back of my mind i do have some questions and i do want to see more
00:32:31of him and
00:32:31more of his life but like at this point like it feels right so i bought some massage oil and
00:32:38then
00:32:38i think there's some wine maybe you can have a glass and relax i love it okay perfect
00:32:48i do
00:32:53hey are we coming yeah
00:32:59everything feels really natural everything feels like it's progressing between us
00:33:04we just draw on to each other which is you know really exciting we had an amazing day together
00:33:10and i want to pamper elise now's the time to pour some wine um you know light a candle and
00:33:16you know show that i've got skills wow look at this
00:33:26welcome to sydney making you feel better more relaxed cheers
00:33:41feel like a massage yeah i would love one this doesn't mean you're necessarily sleeping in the
00:33:47bed tonight it's a cow in the speaker lay on your stomach okay
00:34:05wow that's a lot of oil
00:34:09you can go harder
00:34:16you're like trying to be like a little
00:34:20respectful but come on give me a little bitch give me like everything slap on the ass yeah slap
00:34:27on the ass like grab my hair with the oil in it i mean i don't have extensions for nothing
00:34:32rip me around a little bit here wow it's a family show i thought you said
00:34:41i can feel it you reckon
00:34:46mm-hmm
00:34:53all right guys
00:34:56what the are you doing
00:35:01oh my god
00:35:05the timing on me
00:35:07hi chris
00:35:09yeah hi nice
00:35:11now it's a party now it's a party
00:35:14i'm gonna stop on my car i'll get another wine glass
00:35:19i did not see that coming
00:35:21i did
00:35:23i'm naked right now
00:35:25but you know there's better places to give a naked massage in the house than the communal area
00:35:29half naked massage whatever it was
00:35:31yeah you know what you're absolutely right
00:35:31yeah but um you know i think i was just blind with lust
00:35:37ew you just have to say it's so weird for bro
00:35:43all right well i'm gonna go to my room
00:35:48well that just ruined the moment
00:35:50this is exactly why i don't want a guy with roommate
00:35:56can you button me back up
00:35:58i'm like literally in my bra and underwear
00:36:02showing your skin to other people
00:36:04who is that
00:36:05who would have
00:36:06no i'm not embarrassed like i'll get naked in front of everyone we know that
00:36:10but like chris walks in as your hands are groping my body and it's like such a sexual nice night
00:36:16and like
00:36:16yeah i probably should have done it in the bedroom
00:36:18not my finest hour
00:36:21sorry baby
00:36:21well that killed the mood
00:36:23for now
00:36:27okay
00:36:45i'm a little bit i'm the rest of his reaction in front of my father paper for this this is
00:36:54paper to write on you wipe this yeah
00:37:19well babe this is where you grew up yeah it's here
00:37:34okay
00:37:35yeah that's your rooster
00:37:38No, not mine, but my neighbors.
00:37:40Oh, OK.
00:37:42We just got to the area of Trish's family home.
00:37:45I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road.
00:37:52Ooh, this is a journey.
00:37:54Don't complain.
00:37:56But I'm happy to be here with Trish because I want a future with her.
00:38:02And if I can get her family's approval, I think that she would be able to see that I'm a
00:38:08good person.
00:38:09And maybe it would make up for what I did in the past.
00:38:14Oh, this is it?
00:38:15Yeah, this is my home.
00:38:19Oh, that's my sister.
00:38:21Oh, this is your sister.
00:38:23I'm trying to get to meet her.
00:38:27She does look like you.
00:38:28She's very beautiful.
00:38:29Yeah, she is.
00:38:30Nice to meet you.
00:38:33And who is this?
00:38:35My brother.
00:38:36Oh, this is your brother?
00:38:37Yes.
00:38:37Oh, my brother.
00:38:38For a vote.
00:38:40Cheesy.
00:38:41I don't know.
00:38:42Hello, sir.
00:38:42How you doing?
00:38:43Nice to meet you.
00:38:45Nice to meet you.
00:38:48Trish has told me that she has a huge family and they all live on this compound together.
00:38:54Yeah.
00:38:54All right, I'm Rick.
00:38:55Nice to meet you.
00:38:57Oh, this is your brother.
00:38:57OK.
00:39:00OK.
00:39:01Nice to meet you.
00:39:01Nice to meet you.
00:39:02Nice to meet you.
00:39:03Oh, how are you?
00:39:04My sister.
00:39:05This is your sister?
00:39:06Yeah.
00:39:06It's so nice to meet you.
00:39:08You look like my grandmother.
00:39:10I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:39:13You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:39:18Just when I'm thinking, that should be everybody there.
00:39:21Then there's more people coming.
00:39:23Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names and who they are?
00:39:28Bye-bye.
00:39:44My dad says you sleep down.
00:39:49Oh, and me, I'm sorry.
00:39:51Uh, thank you.
00:39:53The bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid and me and my sister.
00:39:57I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age.
00:40:02But I respect her dad and their culture.
00:40:11What is the shower?
00:40:15Yeah.
00:40:16We just put water in the container and bring it here.
00:40:20I mean, there's no running water coming up to wrench you off.
00:40:24No.
00:40:25And where does this water come from?
00:40:28From the river or?
00:40:29Like, something under the ground.
00:40:32A whale?
00:40:33Yeah.
00:40:35He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:40:37Okay.
00:40:38Oh, man, I smell something already.
00:40:43Oh, hell no!
00:40:46All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it.
00:40:52Paper for the, uh, and then, yeah.
00:40:55Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:40:56Yeah.
00:40:58This is paper to write on.
00:40:59You wipe, you wipe this?
00:41:01Yeah.
00:41:01With this?
00:41:02Rick, stop it.
00:41:03That's how I...
00:41:04Sit, sit, sit.
00:41:05Finish.
00:41:06Oh, good.
00:41:07That's it.
00:41:09I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.
00:41:15But I'm not surprised.
00:41:17Ever since Rick came to Madagascar, he complains about everything.
00:41:24I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:41:27And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:41:32These are tight quarters right here.
00:41:34They're getting, uh, kind of squished.
00:41:36It's hot.
00:41:37I hope it's not going to be this hot nosy day.
00:41:40Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:41:42No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:41:44You are the only bougie here, Alfredo, or something.
00:41:47Oh, my God.
00:41:48Terrible.
00:41:49Ha, ha, ha.
00:41:50Oh, what?
00:41:52This is the living room?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:55Yeah, this is the living room.
00:41:58Mandrosa, Mandrosa, Mandrosa, Mandrosa, Mandrosa.
00:42:01What is this, like, a family meeting or something?
00:42:03Oh, my God.
00:42:04Okay.
00:42:06Yeah.
00:42:18So they approve that you are here, and it's going to give us a blessing.
00:42:25This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:42:31Okay.
00:42:32In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there without your parents'
00:42:39acceptation.
00:42:41Like, it's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:42:44No.
00:42:45It's just he's giving an authorization to having relationship.
00:42:52It's a blessing.
00:42:54That's it, too, babe.
00:42:55It is a silver.
00:42:56Was that a bracelet?
00:42:57Yeah, a bracelet.
00:42:58Oh, my God.
00:43:01My God is still working.
00:43:08My God, my God.
00:43:18My
00:43:45Thank you, thank you for this.
00:44:10Thank you, thank you.
00:47:47Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:47:52Just allow me to be.
00:47:54Like, we have to talk.
00:47:55You can't ignore me forever.
00:47:58Please.
00:48:00You need to give me time.
00:48:02I have to think.
00:48:07Can you grab your bags?
00:48:08I can't carry everything to the car.
00:48:12I'm not happy that the person I loved have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:48:19I'm not happy.
00:48:20Another love gone bad again, bad again, bad again.
00:48:25But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:48:29I love Lisa.
00:48:31I want to forgive her.
00:48:33But after what she did, I don't trust her anymore.
00:48:37I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:48:39You're on your own.
00:48:40Hope you feel the pain.
00:48:42Of your thoughts inside driving you insane.
00:48:52And I will love as my shoulder.
00:48:56Cause you can't hurt anymore.
00:49:00Hurt anymore.
00:49:02And I'm forever done.
00:49:14So are you ever going to talk to me?
00:49:17I am totally confused.
00:49:20We dated for six months.
00:49:22You have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me.
00:49:25But you never did.
00:49:27I was scared.
00:49:28Why didn't you tell my uncle?
00:49:31Because this is between me and you.
00:49:33Why does he need to know anything?
00:49:36Anything?
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:37You called it anything?
00:49:38Yeah.
00:49:39Same sex is a disgrace to any family that is involved in it.
00:49:45It's against our tradition.
00:49:48But it's not against American tradition.
00:49:50But you are in my country.
00:49:51You are in my tribe.
00:49:52This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:49:56My uncle will have to be involved.
00:49:59Are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same sex?
00:50:03Daniel, if we're married, I plan on marrying you for the rest of my life.
00:50:07There's not going to be another woman.
00:50:09If I'm with you, I'm with you.
00:50:12Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us?
00:50:15Or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:50:17I don't know.
00:50:19I don't think I will continue with this relationship until my uncle comes.
00:50:24I should have told you.
00:50:26I should have told you before I came.
00:50:28And then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be with me.
00:50:32And there wouldn't be all these emotions involved.
00:50:34And there wouldn't be all this struggle.
00:50:36I should have just told you.
00:50:37I was scared to tell you.
00:50:40And I was scared to lose you.
00:50:43I'm scared of losing you.
00:50:46This all comes down to his uncle.
00:50:48When he finds out that I lied about me being with women for 21 years,
00:50:53I'm worried that his uncle will never forgive me and never accept me.
00:50:58And this relationship will be over.
00:51:02I don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes.
00:51:05Please.
00:51:22Don't help that out.
00:51:24That does not hurt.
00:51:25That really hurts?
00:51:27It's not happening.
00:51:27That's how you know I'm so sexually attracted to you because I love popping your pimples.
00:51:31I'm good.
00:51:41Did you sleep well?
00:51:43I'm pretty tired.
00:51:45I can't believe after six months I had sex.
00:51:49I feel like I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:51:52Like I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer, but it felt right.
00:51:57It was a lot of fun.
00:52:00Do you think Chris hurt us?
00:52:05Possibly.
00:52:07How many times did you have sex last night?
00:52:09Twice.
00:52:11It was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like it flowed.
00:52:15It was like missionary.
00:52:17It was great.
00:52:18And then like to the side was the other one.
00:52:22Did you get a glimpse of the picture of Chris above?
00:52:24I forgot that painting was in the room.
00:52:26Well, you didn't even me doggy style.
00:52:28I couldn't even see the painting last night.
00:52:33Yeah.
00:52:34I feel like we're an old married couple.
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:36Like I'm so comfortable with you.
00:52:38Like usually like at home like if I like sleep with a guy like I just want to like go
00:52:43leave the next day but like I'm stuck with you and I'm here with you and then like I'm happy
00:52:48that I'm here and like I came.
00:52:51You know, did you?
00:52:53I did.
00:52:56Chris walking in when I'm on the couch getting massage.
00:52:58That definitely brought the mood down.
00:53:00He had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it
00:53:04up.
00:53:04It was everything I could have dreamed of and more.
00:53:08Everything about this man is so sexy except the uncircumcised.
00:53:14There's a first uncircumcised.
00:53:18It's a little weird.
00:53:19It's like, you know, but also there's not like a dictionary on like how to use the extra skin, but
00:53:28like, like I'm not complaining about it.
00:53:32I can deal with that.
00:53:35I'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly.
00:53:42I did.
00:53:43I'm like one part of me is like super happy, but the other part of me is like I should
00:53:47have I should I want to know more that and then but whatever like I shouldn't be so hard on
00:53:51myself.
00:53:52Just ask anything you want.
00:53:54Do anything you want.
00:53:55Say anything you want.
00:53:56Yeah.
00:53:57Okay, I'll start asking.
00:53:58Don't hate me.
00:53:59Okay, go.
00:54:01So I'm confused about this rental situation like a little annoying that Chris like walked in during that like why
00:54:08is he even here with you renting it in the first place because last I knew as you lived with
00:54:14your parents.
00:54:15Yep.
00:54:17Um, I mean like we were living together and then we sort of had to get out after we moved
00:54:22out.
00:54:22I dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week.
00:54:25But then, you know, I, um, I've been living with Nat.
00:54:33I've been staying at hers because, you know, she lives a lot closer to work.
00:54:37So why I feel like I'm a detective and I'm trying to like navigate this like detective puzzle because you've
00:54:44confused me so much.
00:54:46I know now we've talked on the phone a few times, but living together.
00:54:51I think their relationships a little weird.
00:54:54If it's so platonic and you're just friends, why would you have to lie to me about it and tell
00:54:58me you're living with your parents.
00:55:00This just smells fishy to me.
00:55:04Um, I just, I mean, to me, it's a little weird that you're living with a girl and like you
00:55:12talk about her a lot too.
00:55:14And like, I just, I don't know, like, she's my friend.
00:55:19You're here.
00:55:20You're my, you're my girlfriend.
00:55:21So that's, it's exactly the same as Chris.
00:55:24I would, I would treat exactly the same as I do Chris.
00:55:26You know, like, do you guys like share a bathroom?
00:55:28Like, does she see you naked?
00:55:29Like, like, how does that work?
00:55:31Why is that funny?
00:55:32No, it's funny because, you know, I get it.
00:55:35That's, you know, I get why you would ask those questions.
00:55:37Um, yeah, of course we share a bathroom, right?
00:55:39But, um, she hasn't seen me naked.
00:55:42Her and I are just friends.
00:55:43She's like, you know, just a really good friend.
00:55:45But, you know, she knows about you and that you're my partner.
00:55:48And, you know, um, I really want you guys to get along because it's important for me.
00:55:52Well, you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her.
00:56:00Maybe it was a part of me, you know, not wanting you to get, you know, jealous and back out
00:56:04of this before you got here.
00:56:05And how do I know you're telling me the truth?
00:56:08Well, that's your job to believe me and it's my job to prove it to you.
00:56:14I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight, including Nat.
00:56:18So I need to take advantage and get the whole picture of him.
00:56:21I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her, see what she says to me.
00:56:25If there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me that I'm going to find out.
00:56:29It's like, what else do I not know that I should know?
00:56:33I want to give Joshua the benefit of the doubt, but I don't fully trust him after this.
00:56:38At the end of the day, like, you know, you're, you know, you're mine and you're my number one priority,
00:56:43so.
00:56:53Oh, I'm 52.
00:56:5652.
00:57:05They want babies.
00:57:27You can help.
00:57:29Okay.
00:57:32That's a goat.
00:57:33We call it a woosh.
00:57:36That's enough.
00:57:37It's swollen up there.
00:57:50Oh, march to it.
00:57:52Enjoy.
00:57:53Oh, thank you.
00:57:59I don't know if I can clunk my legs like this.
00:58:02I'm going to sit like your aunt.
00:58:05I'm going to try that.
00:58:12Only women are allowed to sit like this.
00:58:15She's not going to sit like this till the end,
00:58:17just serving the food.
00:58:20So far, everything is seem pretty good with Rick and my family,
00:58:25even though he's acting like an old man.
00:58:31My father said, you have to use to do it.
00:58:36But I know my family is going to be asking him a lot of questions,
00:58:40and I don't know how Rick is going to respond.
00:58:52Like, what is the intention to me?
00:58:58I look at her as being a prospective wife-to-be.
00:59:10I love her very much,
00:59:12and I'm hoping that she could possibly love me the same.
00:59:16I love her really, though.
00:59:20I know what you say.
00:59:36How old are you?
00:59:38Oh.
00:59:41I'm 52.
00:59:4752.
00:59:54You have the same age as him.
01:00:24You have married?
01:00:28You have married?
01:00:29Yes, I've been married twice.
01:00:33But now, I'm not married.
01:00:37Do you have a child?
01:00:41Yes.
01:00:42I have two babies, and then I have three adults.
01:00:52Five years.
01:01:09They want babies.
01:01:19Trish and I have been talking about whether or not we're going to have kids, and I'm just not ready
01:01:27to make that decision yet.
01:01:41They want to make that decision.
01:01:45They want respect, and as a mother, we get married.
01:01:59They want to make that decision.
01:01:59I have a child.
01:02:03I have a child.
01:02:08I have a child.
01:02:29I have a child.
01:02:30I understand that.
01:02:31And now that I see how important this is, it's going to be the forefront of my mind.
01:02:45and when are you going to decide it before you know i come to your father and ask for your
01:02:57hand
01:02:57in marriage i will make a decision okay
01:03:10trish she warned me about how strongly her family felt about having kids
01:03:16but now the heat is on and i'm starting to feel the pressure
01:03:21my feelings have grown so much for trish that i i couldn't picture a life without her at this point
01:03:29but i really don't want to have more kids i don't know how i'm going to make this decision
01:03:41today i found out that he was living with you yeah i thought you knew that i don't think that
01:03:46guys and girls can be friends without hooking up i've tried that it's never succeeded i have so
01:03:50many guy friends let's put two and two together josh lied to me about living there something's fishy
01:03:56something shady so are you jealous of me
01:03:59so
01:04:33i'm so frustrated with juvon but it makes me feel good when i look good so
01:04:39just gonna do my own thing
01:04:42and can we talk
01:04:54that's all we do talk so frustrating
01:05:02i'm really starting to feel hopeless
01:05:05that we're never gonna resolve this problem
01:05:09really can't do this submissive thing i'm afraid that he's trying to change me
01:05:19but i mean this is not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where you can just back out
01:05:27we're married so i just can't ignore him forever especially now that he's in my house
01:05:33i don't know what i'm afraid that he's in my house
01:05:39hey hey
01:05:41i like your outfit
01:05:50thanks
01:05:52i mean
01:05:53do you want to talk any about yesterday
01:06:09i just think that i feel like i have to fight to be heard you know i know you want
01:06:13to come off like you
01:06:14know i'm not gonna be pushed around you're gonna hear me
01:06:18i mean it
01:06:21it causes more fights than it solves
01:06:24i get what you're coming from but this is what you married
01:06:30i am not the type of woman
01:06:32who would just say yes just to have peace
01:06:36ever since i was a child i felt like i was voiceless
01:06:40and i saw my mom you know she gone through this domestic abuse in the past
01:06:46the goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused
01:06:53and i promised myself that's not gonna happen to me
01:06:58every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes i mean
01:07:05we argue my initial reaction is to stand up for myself if i have to
01:07:14i know but anna
01:07:16you understand i'm not your father i don't raise my voice at you and i'm not this person that's trying
01:07:22to like dominate you i know you're not my dad the point is you're hard on me i'm hard on
01:07:29you but
01:07:30i'm not aggressive with it you know i know i've married a strong woman but you you're a little bit
01:07:35too
01:07:35strong and that can that can sometimes work against you rather than for you
01:07:42i grew up with an abusive father
01:07:47he died long time ago but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad
01:07:54i learned from a very young age when to speak up if i'm not comfortable i should know how to
01:08:02express my feelings and set boundaries but maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent
01:08:08without lashing out
01:08:16i'm sorry because i haven't realized that i was
01:08:23and i'll do my best to you know
01:08:28i guess just not be so you know sarcastic and arrogant okay all right deal all right come on be
01:08:40all right
01:08:43work it out okay
01:08:47okay let's go to the room where it's cool man all two yeah all right
01:08:54i just know you know whatever issues that me and anna have had i'm very proud to be worried
01:09:01thank you so much thank you
01:09:05i don't know what it is but every time we make up he starts to look hot oh yeah
01:09:15yeah yeah take me a minute
01:09:19it's ketchup
01:09:31i get the feeling that we going all the way
01:09:35because we falling deep boy and i got so much to say baby do i look okay absolutely perfect
01:09:44but it might get a bit cold at night so maybe grab a jacket or something yeah and guess what
01:09:51what i have
01:09:52a purse that matches your outfit perfectly so i have to carry it yeah that's not great
01:10:04oh god it's a little nipple-y out a little nipple-y
01:10:07a little nipple-y
01:10:24i am excited but nervous more so i explained to elise that i was living with nat and she was
01:10:31not
01:10:31happy about it but i want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about
01:10:38like
01:10:40are you falling yeah fully for you oh no was cool wow
01:10:50Wow.
01:10:50This is like stunning.
01:10:52Like, not what I expected.
01:10:54It's nice, huh?
01:10:55It's beautiful.
01:10:57Thank you, babe.
01:10:59I love how you hold my purse.
01:11:03Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:11:04Like, I'm afraid, you know,
01:11:06am I gonna catch him in any more lies?
01:11:08I'm nervous to see how he's gonna act towards me.
01:11:10Is he gonna be attentive?
01:11:11Is he gonna make me feel comfortable?
01:11:13Really important to be accepted into the friend group,
01:11:15but on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:11:17I want answers and I want to figure out his life.
01:11:19And like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:11:23Hey.
01:11:24Hello, hello, hello, hello.
01:11:25Hey.
01:11:26Hello.
01:11:27Hi.
01:11:29Nice to meet you.
01:11:29Nice to meet you.
01:11:30Nice to meet you.
01:11:30You're beautiful.
01:11:31Oh, you're a y'all person.
01:11:32I'm tall.
01:11:33No, I meant y'all, not tall.
01:11:35Hey, Liz.
01:11:36How are you?
01:11:36Steve.
01:11:37Nice to meet you, finally.
01:11:38Nice to meet you.
01:11:40And I know y'all.
01:11:41I know y'all.
01:11:42Ugh.
01:11:43Keep back.
01:11:44Keep back.
01:11:45That's it, Leo.
01:11:47Chewbacca?
01:11:48Where are we all sitting?
01:11:50Are we all sitting alone?
01:11:51We're all sitting alone, man.
01:11:51Yeah, we're sitting, I guess.
01:11:52We'll get attacked by seagulls, but...
01:11:53Hopefully no one can look up my skirt.
01:11:57Just everyone, man.
01:11:58Yeah, sorry.
01:12:00This is great.
01:12:01Oh, my favorite people.
01:12:04I need this.
01:12:06Thank you so much.
01:12:07To, uh, my girlfriend, Elise, being in, uh...
01:12:10I don't know why that's so funny.
01:12:11Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:12:13It's like...
01:12:14Okay.
01:12:14To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:18I can't.
01:12:20Yes.
01:12:22I've spoken to Elise before, and she comes across lovely, but she comes across very Miami.
01:12:29Like, a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:12:31Very skimpy.
01:12:31Yeah.
01:12:32But gorgeous.
01:12:32Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:12:34Yeah, well...
01:12:35Very skimpy.
01:12:35Yeah, yeah, correct, correct.
01:12:37Skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:12:4016 hours.
01:12:41I'm so jet-lagged.
01:12:42I'm in this way.
01:12:43You guys...
01:12:44I don't lie.
01:12:44I don't lie.
01:12:45They're sitting too far away, so...
01:12:46Yeah, I know.
01:12:46Wrap up to this other bar?
01:12:48Yes, let's do it.
01:12:48Let's go.
01:12:52Are we gonna go in here?
01:12:54Yeah.
01:12:54Yeah, yeah.
01:12:54We're over here.
01:12:55Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:12:56Yeah.
01:12:57My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.
01:13:03But when I see Nat and I think my boyfriend lives with her, I'm like, is there something
01:13:08like I'm not understanding?
01:13:10Because I don't think there's a sexual connection, but like, I think it's weird.
01:13:14I think it's so weird.
01:13:16Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:13:20Okay.
01:13:21So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:13:24I can make you love Sydney.
01:13:25I would love that.
01:13:27How are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:31I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:13:36Yep.
01:13:37Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:13:39Yeah.
01:13:40I thought you knew that.
01:13:41Yeah.
01:13:41He was staying with me for a little bit.
01:13:46So, so how did he ask to live with you?
01:13:48Like, how did this happen?
01:13:50He was kind of between places and I was like, why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:13:54Because it was much closer for his work.
01:13:56And I, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:14:00Um, and I needed, um, to be, I needed comfort.
01:14:03I needed someone there to, to, to, yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:14:06So, it was, it worked out well.
01:14:09Yeah.
01:14:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:14:14There's a lot to unfold.
01:14:16I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:14:18I've tried that.
01:14:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:14:20I have so many guy friends.
01:14:21Oh, yay!
01:14:22I have so many guy friends.
01:14:24And this is probably Australia.
01:14:26It's probably a little bit different.
01:14:27It's a culture.
01:14:27It's a culture.
01:14:28It's a culture thing.
01:14:29It's a bit more laid back.
01:14:31We're a bit more easy about it.
01:14:32Like, we trust more, I think.
01:14:34I think we trust.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:38I think men and women can be friends.
01:14:39I have a lot of male friends.
01:14:41I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:14:42He's my brother to me.
01:14:44So, I find it very weird.
01:14:46Yeah.
01:14:46I think about lies around insecurities.
01:14:48And hopefully they'll grow together and grow through that.
01:14:51Yeah.
01:14:51And that's how trust is built.
01:14:56I think that he's going to have a struggle.
01:14:59Maintaining you and maintaining me.
01:15:01If I have to be completely honest.
01:15:07So, are you jealous of me?
01:15:08And our relationship?
01:15:11I feel uneasy about it.
01:15:14Yeah.
01:15:14Well, look, I get it.
01:15:15And hopefully that can change, you know.
01:15:17I think it's more of the fact that we are living with her.
01:15:19Yeah.
01:15:20I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:15:22Like, are you letting them lay there for free?
01:15:24I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:15:29Great, but...
01:15:29You have been generous.
01:15:30I've been generous.
01:15:31I'm a generous person and I love doing that for my friends.
01:15:34Yeah.
01:15:34Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:15:37I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:15:41No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:15:42No, I don't.
01:15:43No, that's...
01:15:44No.
01:15:45That's...
01:15:45See, that...
01:15:46That offends me.
01:15:52She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:15:54So, yeah, you could say financially help me there.
01:15:56But in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:15:58Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:16:00Well, I should have been more clearer and I should have been more transparent.
01:16:04Let's put two and two together.
01:16:06Joshua's struggling financially.
01:16:08He's lied to me about living there.
01:16:11Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:16:13I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.
01:16:17That's disgusting and weird.
01:16:19Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:16:26Why do we have to live in your country?
01:16:28If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:16:31I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:16:34I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:16:37If he happened to come back to his country,
01:16:39we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:16:44Sorry.
01:16:44I'm so sorry, Acheen.
01:16:57So that was eye-opening.
01:17:00Yeah, I know.
01:17:10It's just so much information all at once.
01:17:14Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:17:17Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer,
01:17:20and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:17:25I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months
01:17:28to get Sheena to the United States and everything figured out.
01:17:31But now, after hearing that my disability payments
01:17:34that I get monthly does not count,
01:17:37and it's going to take years,
01:17:39this is the biggest setback ever.
01:17:45There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:17:47I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:17:52Well, for me, it's like, I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:17:56But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:18:00Plus, you're going to add another two or three years
01:18:02while you find a job and save enough money for the K-1 visa.
01:18:09I don't know.
01:18:12I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:18:16But why do we have to live in your country?
01:18:18That's my good question.
01:18:22It's easier for me to stay here beyond the K-1 visa.
01:18:27And I'm a professional here.
01:18:29If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:32Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:18:36I think that's the best option for us.
01:18:42I still have my worries about that, though.
01:18:45With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:18:49And I know I am fighting with my mom,
01:18:52but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:58What makes me upset is, like, he loves his mom, his family.
01:19:03I understand that.
01:19:04But what about me?
01:19:06I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:19:09If he happened to come back to his country,
01:19:11we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:19:14So I will be the one who's stranded,
01:19:16and I will be hurt as well.
01:19:30I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:19:33I was expecting you.
01:19:35That I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:19:44I don't know.
01:19:51I don't want to be apart from you that long,
01:19:54and I don't want to...
01:19:57I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:04Sorry.
01:20:05I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:20:14Now that I know that I can possibly stay here
01:20:17and be with Sheena every single day,
01:20:21I feel kind of stuck.
01:20:22Any option I make,
01:20:23I'm either going to hurt the woman I love
01:20:25or my mother.
01:20:30This...
01:20:32This is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
01:20:35She's my second half.
01:20:37I know she's the one for me.
01:20:40And just being with her,
01:20:42being able to talk, joke, have everything,
01:20:45I don't want to lose that.
01:20:46I won't give it away.
01:20:51I won't keep trying.
01:20:54Good.
01:20:57Good.
01:20:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:01Teamwork makes the dream work, babe.
01:21:03Ah!
01:21:03You're going to play.
01:21:04Sorry.
01:21:05You're kind of turning me on.
01:21:07Babe.
01:21:08I did not know.
01:21:09Roland's on Panthéria.
01:21:11Could be sexy.
01:21:12I'm so hungry.
01:21:14You having pregnancy clearance?
01:21:17I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:21:19How would you feel if I was?
01:21:25Tell me you love her.
01:21:27If I was in love with her,
01:21:29I would have made a move.
01:21:30Dude, you made a move.
01:21:31You blow it.
01:21:32No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:21:34Laura made a move on me.
01:21:36I am thinking about sharing my life,
01:21:38and you are keeping secrets from me.
01:21:42Because it is betrayal.
01:21:50See, this water is cold.
01:21:52Ha.
01:21:52You can survive.
01:21:54I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying,
01:21:57and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:22:10Going to Casablanca right now to see Muhammad,
01:22:12It's kind of surreal. I mean, I have my engagement ring Mohammed gave to me when he proposed
01:22:19Putting this ring back on it's actually bringing up old feelings
01:22:23But I don't know how this meeting is gonna go
01:22:28My heart's racing
01:22:34Why did you just leave so you don't care that I'm upset
01:22:41She's walk away from me after what I found out about not my mind is just in so many directions,
01:22:48and I'm freaking out
01:22:50I don't know what going on right now
01:22:55I want to go home
01:22:58And then he'll be super
01:23:00She have gotten married five times
01:23:04From 21 years. She has been in a relationship with several women
01:23:09Why am I here in this one now? This is an abomination
01:23:13No, I can't help what my past is like. I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with
01:23:19Daniel
01:23:19I can't believe you
01:23:22Because of this the mind will be over
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