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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breed you? Yes, I would.
00:00:12She really liked my girl, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one-woman type of guy.
00:00:31Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child.
00:00:50I'm still sick.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged,
00:00:54and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything,
00:00:57and he doesn't want me,
00:00:59and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me.
00:01:06He's trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend
00:01:17because I know he has a lot of money,
00:01:18and I'm not in a position of these 400 like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval
00:01:33to marry her,
00:01:34so now I have to go and get their approval
00:01:37while I have to tell them
00:01:38that their days are basically numbered
00:01:40with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:44First, it's your career.
00:01:47I'm going to have to tell my parents
00:01:49the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders,
00:01:54it's quite hard,
00:01:56so I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:03With my jobless situation
00:02:06and my debts,
00:02:07I am just broke.
00:02:09Did you say your debts?
00:02:11Yeah.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:15That's a lot of money.
00:02:18I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:22I'm worried if she finds out
00:02:24how I make money sometimes.
00:02:27She could leave me.
00:02:54That's so beautiful.
00:02:56No.
00:03:06You have
00:03:07the
00:03:10nicest ass
00:03:11I have ever seen.
00:03:15I'm blessing.
00:03:19And you know,
00:03:20I always thought your dimples
00:03:21were my favorite thing,
00:03:22but you know what my favorite thing is now?
00:03:26You're not going to...
00:03:27You're belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an Audi.
00:03:33It's not an innie.
00:03:34It's so cute.
00:03:37I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel,
00:03:42and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:44I'm engaged.
00:03:46I'm engaged.
00:03:46Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:48I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:50All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:53He's everything I could have dreamed about,
00:03:56except he doesn't have to.
00:03:59We have to talk about last night.
00:04:02It was awful.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:08Why?
00:04:10Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:17Last night was uncomfortable,
00:04:20and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:27And I don't think he was full-on
00:04:31and I had so much anticipation.
00:04:33I was very
00:04:34so it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:38Even though we had sex,
00:04:40it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:42So it just deflated me.
00:04:44I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:46Maybe I am, you know,
00:04:48not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:51I was really questioning myself.
00:04:55I was stressed last night
00:04:57because of, you know?
00:04:58It was really awkward for me
00:04:59because it's been so long
00:05:01since I've been intimate like that.
00:05:04And then you didn't finish.
00:05:07And then it was...
00:05:11I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:14I'm embarrassed.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed,
00:05:19he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:21So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night,
00:05:28preparing, getting ready
00:05:29to go and welcome you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:33It was a trial run.
00:05:34Yes.
00:05:35We have a test.
00:05:37It was a test run.
00:05:38Tested it.
00:05:39It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:40Yeah.
00:05:41I'm sorry for the first time.
00:05:43But I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:46You did.
00:05:47Yeah.
00:05:51But you want me to be honest?
00:05:53You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little painful at first.
00:06:01Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:05At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:08And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable.
00:06:12And I seem to have stretched to fit you just perfectly.
00:06:15And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:20I'm so happy.
00:06:21I'm so happy.
00:06:27I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:28And I love you so much.
00:06:30I love you, Mom.
00:06:32And I'm so happy to have you here.
00:06:36Now that Daniel and I have been physical and I'm engaged to him,
00:06:42I'm even more concerned how he's going to handle what I have to tell him
00:06:46about being still married and it's a woman
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:53I'm already 100% into this relationship physically and emotionally.
00:06:58And it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle
00:07:00if he can't accept my past.
00:07:05You keep saying things like that.
00:07:07We're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:37Let's go ride on a trike.
00:07:39Oh my goodness.
00:07:41Oh my God.
00:07:43Oh Lord.
00:07:44Oh my God.
00:07:45Give me strength.
00:07:46This is worse than the bus.
00:07:49She and I getting into this tricycle
00:07:52is like what a sardine feels like being inside of a can.
00:07:56I would never do this with anybody else but you, Sheen.
00:08:01That's pretty great.
00:08:02I get to, you know, get up nice and close.
00:08:04But she's also crushing me to death.
00:08:06I love those.
00:08:07Woohoo!
00:08:08Oh!
00:08:09Whoa!
00:08:11I wish they'd give us a nice, you know,
00:08:13extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:23I'm afraid I'm going to fall off
00:08:24and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:27Today I'm going to meet Sheena's family
00:08:29for the first time in a province called Covide.
00:08:33So we're almost there though.
00:08:35We'll just have to get along.
00:08:35I'm so nervous, baby.
00:08:38Oh man.
00:08:40Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago,
00:08:42her family has been like these ominous figures.
00:08:46She's told me that they manipulate
00:08:47and exploit her financially.
00:08:56I've always pictured this meeting
00:08:58as me putting my foot down
00:08:59and letting them know that Sheena
00:09:01is going to completely cut them off financially.
00:09:04But now it's turned into something
00:09:05completely and totally different
00:09:07than what I envisioned.
00:09:09You didn't tell me that there was going to be
00:09:11a mountain treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:14Yeah.
00:09:16Oh man.
00:09:18First she told me that I need her parents' approval
00:09:20to marry her.
00:09:21And then she said that they're going to ask me
00:09:24about my career and how I make money.
00:09:26But the truth is I don't have a job.
00:09:28I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:30I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:34Baby, we can do this.
00:09:36Just be careful, baby.
00:09:38So at this point, I'm concerned
00:09:40that I won't be able to get
00:09:41the blessing for Sheena's family
00:09:43that I apparently need.
00:09:47Oh my gosh, is that them?
00:09:49Yes, my love.
00:09:51Oh my goodness.
00:10:00You must be Forrest.
00:10:02Yeah, Forrest.
00:10:02Yeah, my dad.
00:10:03Wow.
00:10:08Hello, sir.
00:10:09It's finally nice to meet you
00:10:10after so long.
00:10:12Nice to meet you, too.
00:10:14Hello.
00:10:15Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:17This is my dad's dad.
00:10:17He said it's Katrina.
00:10:18I'm a little bit of a dreamer, so.
00:10:21Yep.
00:10:22She's just a little shy
00:10:23to my dad's version, though.
00:10:26It's OK.
00:10:27I'm a little shy myself here.
00:10:29Yes, forrest.
00:10:30I hope you enjoy your stay here.
00:10:33No, I'm so happy that you're
00:10:34allowing me to stay here
00:10:35and I'm finally getting to meet you.
00:10:42Oh, man.
00:10:43Oh.
00:10:45Sheena told me that her mom is sick,
00:10:47so I won't be meeting her.
00:10:48But her dad and sister
00:10:49seem nice enough.
00:10:50A bit quiet,
00:10:51which I guess is kind of normal,
00:10:53but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:57You want to take a break
00:10:59from traveling?
00:11:00Yeah.
00:11:00To do that,
00:11:01can you show them?
00:11:02Yeah.
00:11:03Follow me.
00:11:03You want to check the gardens?
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:08So this is a place.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:15There's more improvements
00:11:16over the years.
00:11:19Wow.
00:11:20Yeah.
00:11:22Yeah, this is the place
00:11:23where we have our group meals
00:11:26for guests.
00:11:28Boy.
00:11:28OK, cool.
00:11:31Sheena told me that her family
00:11:33runs a bed and breakfast
00:11:34out of their family home.
00:11:35And I've heard over and over again
00:11:37that they need the money
00:11:38to fix this roof.
00:11:39Oh, they need the money to do this.
00:11:41Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:42That's why they're stealing
00:11:43all this money from me.
00:11:44But it turns out
00:11:45that this is a nice, fancy place.
00:11:48OK, welcome to our house.
00:11:51Oh, wow.
00:11:52I think you're going to be
00:11:53on the second master's bedroom.
00:11:55This place is huge.
00:11:57Wow.
00:12:00So Gary was under the impression
00:12:03that her family
00:12:04might be desolute
00:12:06or they are going to starve
00:12:07without her.
00:12:08It doesn't add up.
00:12:12OK, come on, come on.
00:12:13Thank you very much.
00:12:15We're going to have dinner.
00:12:16Yeah, all right.
00:12:17Enjoy and relax.
00:12:19Yeah, all right.
00:12:20Thank you, guys.
00:12:23Oh.
00:12:27My mind's just confused.
00:12:29I don't understand.
00:12:31So you like the place?
00:12:33Yeah.
00:12:34It was way worth
00:12:35the getting crushed in the bus.
00:12:37Yeah.
00:12:38Your dad seems like
00:12:39a really awesome guy.
00:12:43Yeah, they're great people.
00:12:47OK.
00:12:48Well, I think I want to
00:12:49clean up my face real quick.
00:12:50Yeah, sure.
00:12:50OK.
00:12:51Take your time.
00:12:52I'm going to head
00:12:52in the bathroom real quick.
00:12:52Yeah, go great.
00:12:53Go very quick.
00:12:56Do you think Forrest
00:12:57was expecting something different
00:12:59from what he's seeing
00:13:01at your family's house?
00:13:03Mm-hmm.
00:13:04Yes.
00:13:05Which is probably my fault.
00:13:07Test for the water
00:13:08if it's good.
00:13:10Wash your face around,
00:13:11wash your hands.
00:13:12Yeah.
00:13:13I'm worried about
00:13:14what I'm going to be honest.
00:13:18And I'm worried
00:13:19about what is going to be said.
00:13:23What Forrest could say,
00:13:24what my family could say.
00:13:27I'm worried that
00:13:28everything could fall apart.
00:13:37Do you think I'm going to marry you
00:13:40for your money?
00:13:42That's what
00:13:43everybody else thought.
00:13:45I thought he was
00:13:47the man
00:13:47who's going to honor
00:13:49the provide and protect
00:13:50that he sold me on
00:13:52in the beginning.
00:13:53And now I don't know.
00:13:54The debt
00:13:55is a big deal.
00:13:58Are you excited
00:13:59about my show tonight?
00:14:01Yeah, I am.
00:14:02What songs are you singing
00:14:04at your show?
00:14:04Mariana,
00:14:06Vicky.
00:14:08So who is
00:14:10Vicky?
00:14:28You can't tell me
00:14:29that's not beautiful.
00:14:30We have like the second
00:14:31most active
00:14:31barrier recently.
00:14:33I'm so grateful
00:14:34that I live here.
00:14:34It's so pretty.
00:14:36Do you want to jump in?
00:14:37Okay.
00:14:38Come on.
00:14:38You know I can't swim.
00:14:39Don't play with me.
00:14:41I don't think about you.
00:14:43I like it
00:14:44I'm feeling for you.
00:14:46I could daydream about you.
00:14:48I could daydream about you.
00:14:51You know what you need?
00:14:52Mm-hmm.
00:14:53Right?
00:14:54Coconut water.
00:14:55We're good for your brains
00:14:56and good for your soul.
00:14:59That sounds good.
00:15:00Wash out of that.
00:15:01What energy?
00:15:03This is Aviva's
00:15:05second full day
00:15:06in Belize
00:15:07and we're here
00:15:08in beautiful San Pedro
00:15:09because I'm going to
00:15:10perform tonight.
00:15:13Yesterday, Aviva was
00:15:14accusing me of not
00:15:15being over my ex
00:15:16from Texas
00:15:16but in a hotel
00:15:18last night.
00:15:19I do believe
00:15:20that I was able
00:15:21to calm her down.
00:15:22I'm old.
00:15:23Are you going to be
00:15:24so fine and want to
00:15:24trip?
00:15:26Huh?
00:15:26Stop stressing.
00:15:28I'm trying.
00:15:36We had sex
00:15:37three times.
00:15:38No protection again.
00:15:40We're risking it all.
00:15:41We're just going
00:15:42with the flow.
00:15:44How is it?
00:15:46It's good.
00:15:47Mm-hmm.
00:15:47Refreshing.
00:15:48You have this in the States
00:15:48in Arizona?
00:15:49No, not like this.
00:15:55Are you excited about
00:15:57my show tonight?
00:15:59Yeah, I am.
00:16:01What songs are you
00:16:02singing at your show?
00:16:03Marry a Dark Heart,
00:16:05you know,
00:16:06TMTM,
00:16:09Vicky.
00:16:13I am trying
00:16:14to have this
00:16:15romantic beach
00:16:16moment with Stig
00:16:17but he mentions
00:16:19the song Vicky
00:16:20and I can't help
00:16:22but think of
00:16:23when my Aunt Spring
00:16:24brought up that rumor
00:16:25to me.
00:16:26They actually just
00:16:27did a big concert
00:16:28like for Valentine's Day.
00:16:30The first song
00:16:31that was performed
00:16:32was Vicky
00:16:33and she was
00:16:35at the concert
00:16:36and they left
00:16:37together.
00:16:41So who is
00:16:42who is Vicky?
00:16:46The concept of Vicky
00:16:48is a girl
00:16:50is a girl
00:16:51I was messing
00:16:51with who had a man
00:16:52and the man
00:16:53wasn't treating her
00:16:54good.
00:16:54She was married
00:16:55and I was the
00:16:56little bartender
00:16:58showing her love.
00:16:59You know what I mean?
00:17:00On the side.
00:17:02So
00:17:03is it someone
00:17:04you still talk to?
00:17:05Is it someone
00:17:05that you
00:17:07have a past with?
00:17:08I had a past with, yeah.
00:17:09That's years ago.
00:17:12So my Aunt Spring
00:17:14she knows a lot
00:17:15of people here.
00:17:16I've heard a lot
00:17:17of rumors
00:17:18that Vicky
00:17:19went to the
00:17:19your last show
00:17:21with you
00:17:21and you
00:17:22left the show
00:17:23with her
00:17:23and I just
00:17:25I'm confused
00:17:26and I'm just
00:17:27hoping that you
00:17:27can clear
00:17:28some things up
00:17:28with me.
00:17:36Aviva's Aunt Spring
00:17:37I never met her
00:17:38I only
00:17:39heard about Aunt Spring
00:17:40but apparently
00:17:41she knows me
00:17:41better than I know myself.
00:17:43Is she
00:17:44the Secret Service?
00:17:46I don't
00:17:47nothing to hide
00:17:48at the concert
00:17:49I was there
00:17:50with the bros
00:17:51trying to make
00:17:51a good set
00:17:52you know
00:17:54trying to
00:17:55make sure
00:17:55to share members
00:17:56Did you go home
00:17:57with her?
00:17:57No I did not
00:17:59I didn't go home
00:17:59with any girl
00:18:02You don't believe me?
00:18:04Apparently
00:18:04there was
00:18:05some article
00:18:06or you were
00:18:06tagged in something
00:18:07or she was tagged
00:18:08in something
00:18:10of you guys
00:18:11going home together
00:18:11so I'm not really sure
00:18:13how I'm supposed
00:18:13to believe you
00:18:14Belize isn't the fake news
00:18:16Don't let get to your bed
00:18:22I'm definitely gonna
00:18:23do my best
00:18:24to not be in my head
00:18:25about it
00:18:26but you're apparently
00:18:27gonna sing it tonight
00:18:29how do I know
00:18:30she's not gonna be there?
00:18:31That's one of my biggest
00:18:32songs in Belize
00:18:32I can't not sing that
00:18:34Yeah
00:18:35You don't want me
00:18:36to sing the song?
00:18:37My biggest
00:18:37one of my biggest songs?
00:18:39Yeah
00:18:41Come on
00:18:42don't do that
00:18:46All of my exes
00:18:47they start off saying
00:18:48I'm not gonna be jealous
00:18:50I got you
00:18:51but
00:18:53I thought Aviva
00:18:54was gonna be different
00:18:55and now
00:18:56I am worried
00:18:57how she's gonna react
00:18:58when I perform Vicky
00:18:59when I do perform it
00:19:02Tonight could
00:19:05the whole thing up
00:19:06I don't want that
00:19:08If tonight is a problem
00:19:10that's gonna throw me off
00:19:11I don't
00:19:12you know
00:19:12I don't know if I can
00:19:12deal with that
00:19:14That's not what I signed up for
00:19:18I mean I'll do my best
00:19:19but
00:19:20I just wouldn't feel
00:19:21more comfortable
00:19:21if you didn't perform
00:19:22Vicky
00:19:23that's all I can say
00:19:36I had a lot of people
00:19:38before I came here
00:19:40say that you
00:19:41would only want to be with me
00:19:43because you would want a
00:19:45green card and money
00:19:48and hearing that
00:19:51kind of makes it seem
00:19:53like that's true
00:20:02Do you think like
00:20:05I'm gonna marry you
00:20:06for your money
00:20:09That's what
00:20:10everybody else thought
00:20:12Did you think that?
00:20:14Well I don't know right now
00:20:15I'm literally just hearing
00:20:16about most of this
00:20:17for the first time
00:20:20Birkhan just told me
00:20:21that he's 50k in debt
00:20:23and that he'd flee the country
00:20:25and flee his debt
00:20:26and just ignore it
00:20:27I'm frustrated
00:20:29and incredibly concerned
00:20:30because it's making me feel
00:20:33like he's just straight up
00:20:34using me
00:20:35to get out of his debt
00:20:40You know
00:20:42that's not who I am
00:20:43actually
00:20:44If
00:20:45I was
00:20:46someone like that
00:20:47I would have lied
00:20:49I would have never
00:20:50told you about my debt
00:20:51you know
00:20:56I know that
00:20:57but
00:20:58I want to make sure
00:21:00that I'm making
00:21:00a smart decision
00:21:01when it comes to
00:21:02future plans
00:21:03like getting engaged
00:21:06I just
00:21:07gotta hustle
00:21:08because money
00:21:09is money
00:21:10you know
00:21:12You know what
00:21:14I'm ready to go
00:21:15Okay let's go
00:21:16Let's go
00:21:38I'm pretty frustrated
00:21:40He told me
00:21:41a lot of things
00:21:42at dinner
00:21:42that were
00:21:43concerning
00:21:44The debt is a big deal
00:21:46to me
00:21:46because he's talked
00:21:47about nothing
00:21:48but like honesty
00:21:49and pride
00:21:49and respect
00:21:50and it's really hard
00:21:51to respect someone
00:21:52that's not outright
00:21:53and straightforward
00:21:54with the truth
00:21:56I thought he was
00:21:58the man
00:21:58who's going to
00:22:00honor
00:22:00the provide and protect
00:22:02that he sold me on
00:22:04in the beginning
00:22:05and now I don't know
00:22:10What are you doing?
00:22:13Washing the dishes
00:22:19Why are you upset?
00:22:21I told you why
00:22:22I'm frustrated
00:22:23that you let things
00:22:24go the way they did
00:22:25Why are you mad?
00:22:27Ha ha ha
00:22:28Don't be cute
00:22:29That doesn't fix this
00:22:31You think I'm cute?
00:22:33I'm not going to
00:22:34answer that right now
00:22:35You gotta ask
00:22:36No
00:22:36You gotta ask
00:22:37I do not have to answer
00:22:39You think
00:22:39Why are you mad?
00:22:49Stop
00:22:50You think
00:22:50a couple kisses
00:22:51will win me over?
00:22:53You think
00:22:54doesn't?
00:22:55Oh
00:22:57I'm still
00:22:58feeling nervous
00:22:59about what
00:23:00his intentions are
00:23:01but this is
00:23:02probably
00:23:03all of the fantasies
00:23:04I had had
00:23:05kind of rolled
00:23:06into one
00:23:06in that moment
00:23:08Having a hot
00:23:09Turkish guy
00:23:09push you up
00:23:10against the wall
00:23:10and make out
00:23:11with you
00:23:12I don't know
00:23:13what it is
00:23:14I just
00:23:14can't resist him
00:23:16You're adorable
00:23:17I know
00:23:18I know
00:23:18that's why you love me
00:23:20Ha ha ha ha
00:23:22You are here
00:23:24Oh, that's hot out
00:23:27Look, look
00:23:28Le Moe
00:23:30Maybe they should
00:23:31buy me some stuff
00:23:32in here
00:23:32This bougie chick
00:23:34There ain't nobody
00:23:36sugared at him
00:23:37I don't know
00:23:38why he act
00:23:39this way
00:23:40It's like
00:23:41he assumes
00:23:42the worst
00:23:43I'm already
00:23:44doing things
00:23:45for you
00:23:45So why are you
00:23:46asking for more?
00:23:48Is that what you
00:23:49want me for?
00:24:05Get out of here
00:24:09David, they didn't
00:24:10give me anything
00:24:11since this morning
00:24:12so
00:24:13you need a kid
00:24:22You ready?
00:24:23Yeah, I'm ready
00:24:24Okay, let's go
00:24:31Oh, I'm so tired
00:24:33Why?
00:24:36Because we were
00:24:37packing all night
00:24:38that's why
00:24:38Ha ha ha
00:24:43Yesterday was tough
00:24:45but after we had
00:24:47argument about my ex
00:24:49we went back to the
00:24:50hotel and we did
00:24:51make up
00:24:52sex
00:24:54It was really good
00:24:57I love sex
00:24:58after argument
00:24:59Oh, yeah
00:25:04Woo-hoo
00:25:05Excited
00:25:06And it's the plane
00:25:09I know that
00:25:11we still have
00:25:12trust issues
00:25:12to work through
00:25:13but today
00:25:15we are going
00:25:16to a romantic trip
00:25:17that Rick
00:25:18booked for us
00:25:19in Noosey Bay
00:25:20First flight
00:25:22together, baby
00:25:23Noosey Bay
00:25:24is a really
00:25:25beautiful island
00:25:26They do have
00:25:28loomers
00:25:29and
00:25:30a beautiful
00:25:32beach
00:25:33If you have
00:25:34someone to
00:25:35spend time
00:25:36together
00:25:37romantic
00:25:38Go there
00:25:45Look how beautiful
00:25:47I'm driving
00:25:48Look how
00:26:10you are here
00:26:12Oh, very hot out
00:26:14Really hot
00:26:15Whoo!
00:26:20Whoo, it's nice and cool.
00:26:22Whoo!
00:26:23Finally.
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28I'm hot.
00:26:29Oh, my God, baby, are you serious?
00:26:34Okay, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:42Gee, look, look.
00:26:44Le Mans.
00:26:46Maybe you should buy me some stuff here.
00:26:52Pencils.
00:26:53Here we go.
00:26:54We'll see.
00:26:57I know you got expensive taste.
00:27:01You're so cheap.
00:27:05Tastes good.
00:27:06It's cheap.
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08It's bougie chick.
00:27:11Is she serious?
00:27:14Man, I'm serious.
00:27:18There ain't nobody sugar daddy.
00:27:28Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:33I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you are a boozy girl, Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, and I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he act this way.
00:27:48I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like, he assumes the worst.
00:27:54It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:58I will never ask him for anything.
00:28:01Look.
00:28:08Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:11Look.
00:28:14See what I set up for you?
00:28:17I don't care.
00:28:19You don't care.
00:28:20You don't care, of course.
00:28:22Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:31So what are we here to do?
00:28:34Huh?
00:28:35I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37But your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:50You just say, oh, you act like a boozy.
00:28:52Oh, you act like I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:06I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08Did I pay your rent?
00:29:09Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:29:12So why are you asking for more?
00:29:14Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:29:22It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need,
00:29:27but I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:39See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:45So why did you come?
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:50So I thought also you were different.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:58Because that I'm not.
00:30:03I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:07I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love, but I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:30:17It's crazy. I don't even...
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:31So what were you expecting?
00:30:34What were you expecting?
00:30:35I know you were not a rich, Rick.
00:30:36I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:50I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:56What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:06I just want to look at them.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi.
00:31:09Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:11I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:15They were my pets.
00:31:16They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:19Your chicken watch TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25She and his family, they seemed pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:31:31What were you expecting when you go here?
00:31:34Oh.
00:31:35This is going to be mind shattering here.
00:31:38Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:58I'll open the door for them, okay?
00:32:00Okay.
00:32:05Oh.
00:32:08I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:10You're such a gentleman.
00:32:12You treat me like a queen.
00:32:23So, that is a taxi?
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:26Moilue.
00:32:27Moilue.
00:32:28Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue?
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:32And that means what?
00:32:34It's taxi.
00:32:35Oh.
00:32:40Is this where we're going?
00:32:43The market?
00:32:44I have always wanted to go to a market.
00:32:46I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:52This is my first time out of the country.
00:32:55This is nothing like the farmers markets that I have been to.
00:33:03No one thinks the same.
00:33:07Let's go from here.
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:10It kind of reminds me of a flea market, but a flea market with food.
00:33:14And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.
00:33:18You can buy anything and everything.
00:33:21There are live poultry.
00:33:23There is dry fish, smoked fish.
00:33:26Hello.
00:33:27There are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market.
00:33:31It looks so beautiful.
00:33:35Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:33:37I just want to look at them.
00:33:39Oh, my goodness.
00:33:43Be careful.
00:33:45Hello.
00:33:46Hi.
00:33:47Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:33:49She handed me the chicken as if I was going to eat the chicken.
00:33:51I eat chicken.
00:33:53No, no, I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:33:54You don't kill a chicken?
00:33:56I had chickens.
00:33:57They were my pets.
00:33:58My chickens were spoiled.
00:34:00They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:34:03Your chicken watch TV?
00:34:04Yes.
00:34:06Really?
00:34:09Oh, my God.
00:34:12Bye, chicken.
00:34:15Okay.
00:34:15Let's go.
00:34:16Okay.
00:34:18I have to take you to the stars.
00:34:21I love fabric.
00:34:24Hello.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:26They're beautiful.
00:34:28You're welcome.
00:34:29I would like you to check the one that will feed you.
00:34:31Because, you know, my uncle came yesterday to welcome you.
00:34:34And he was there.
00:34:35You saw him.
00:34:39I saw you.
00:34:40You are great.
00:34:42It's about to pay him a visit.
00:34:44We have to pay him a purchase.
00:34:46Why?
00:34:47Because my uncle had to approve.
00:34:50You know he doesn't know you that much.
00:34:53So he'll ask you some questions.
00:34:56All right.
00:34:57I'm confused.
00:34:58What has he not given us approval for.
00:35:00He was very happy at the engagement.
00:35:03Yes, but he has not given us the blessing to marry.
00:35:08The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:35:12In my culture, you get blessing from your parents.
00:35:15But my dad is not well.
00:35:17My uncle will have to call my father and report back.
00:35:20But I thought everything was said and done.
00:35:22I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:35:24I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:35:26That is just a proposal.
00:35:28In America, you have to get blessings before you give the ring.
00:35:31This is Nigerian.
00:35:33I know.
00:35:33We have different cultures.
00:35:35We have different way of life.
00:35:37But you didn't warn me about that.
00:35:40He have to see you, dress in traditional attire.
00:35:45Maybe one of the wrapper here.
00:35:48This?
00:35:49This one here.
00:35:49Yeah, this one.
00:35:51You know, my uncle love her.
00:35:55He likes good tea.
00:35:57Yes, it's nice.
00:35:57And this is colorful.
00:35:58Yes.
00:35:59This is a hair tie.
00:36:00You have to tie this one on your head.
00:36:03OK.
00:36:03Yes.
00:36:04On the head.
00:36:07I'm confused.
00:36:08You're confused.
00:36:09You're confused.
00:36:09You're confused.
00:36:13OK, so it gets wrapped around.
00:36:15Yeah.
00:36:18And then it gets tied.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:20Just giving you the feel on how to tie it.
00:36:24I can't hear you.
00:36:26It's very loud.
00:36:30Oh, my gosh.
00:36:31How am I going to do this?
00:36:33I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.
00:36:36I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.
00:36:39And there's no way I'm going to remember how to do everything.
00:36:42Yeah.
00:36:43Yeah.
00:36:43I don't want to look like a fool.
00:36:45I don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle.
00:36:48Very easy.
00:36:49Very easy.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:51It's nice.
00:36:57What should I expect?
00:36:59Like, how will this be wrapped?
00:37:01We have to cut it.
00:37:03OK.
00:37:04Yeah.
00:37:04We have to give it to a teller.
00:37:06Oh, yes.
00:37:07I can cut.
00:37:08But I don't know because we are a bit fat.
00:37:12The wrapper, if I cut it, it may not go round.
00:37:18Because I'm too fat.
00:37:19Yeah.
00:37:20Let me cut you.
00:37:21I'm coming.
00:37:22All right.
00:37:24I'm too fat.
00:37:26Baby, you're not fat.
00:37:28You said you're fat.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:32I'm feeling awful.
00:37:33And I'm kind of taken aback.
00:37:35I have to meet his uncle.
00:37:37And I have to wrap myself up in two layers of this wrap.
00:37:41This big headdress.
00:37:43And I'm going to look fat.
00:37:46OK.
00:37:46Make your wrap, please.
00:37:52I have to try to impress his uncle.
00:37:54But what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?
00:37:58What kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:38:01I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:38:07This whole thing could be a disaster for me.
00:38:10So I'm scared.
00:38:27I'm trying to be supportive, but he's dancing and flirting with some random girl on stage
00:38:32right in front of me.
00:38:36What the is Aviva doing?
00:38:50What the is Aviva doing?
00:38:52See, I'm outside in San Pedro in the main street walking holding hands.
00:38:57I have to let the whole world know about my baby.
00:39:00You can't question my love for you or anything at this point.
00:39:12How you feeling?
00:39:13We good?
00:39:14I'm nervous.
00:39:15Don't be overthinking.
00:39:17Enjoy the show.
00:39:18Enjoy the entertainment.
00:39:20I'm an entertainer, all right?
00:39:22All right.
00:39:23We good?
00:39:24Yes.
00:39:25All right.
00:39:27I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song.
00:39:31But listen, I'm still going to go and piece-stick the artist and hype this place up.
00:39:35I don't want anything to throw me off my game.
00:39:39Ready?
00:39:40Semi-ready.
00:39:42Ready.
00:39:42You have to say it like me.
00:39:43No, you can't say ready.
00:39:43You can't say ready.
00:39:44Ready.
00:39:49Come on.
00:39:49Come on.
00:39:50Come on.
00:39:56That's good, bruh.
00:39:59Trouble.
00:40:00It's in, mother .
00:40:01All right.
00:40:03Aviva.
00:40:08Welcome to all the party people tonight.
00:40:10Sting the parties are independent.
00:40:16I'm super, super excited to see Sting performing for the first time.
00:40:22But I feel super nervous.
00:40:27I still have my suspicions to what Sting's manager in Antspring had to say about Sting and
00:40:34other women.
00:40:35I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him, at his shows.
00:40:41I don't know what to expect.
00:40:47Anybody from Belize?
00:40:48Make some nice.
00:40:51To all the girls that came from far for this one.
00:40:54They're like, yo.
00:40:57Lessons on your life.
00:41:01Too many things.
00:41:02Long time you went for a wedding ring, girl.
00:41:06Today I'm going to meet your father.
00:41:08This is what I'm going to say.
00:41:09I'm going to marry your daughter.
00:41:11Can I have your blessings?
00:41:13That would be amazing.
00:41:16I know you think that I'm a bad guy.
00:41:18And I'm going to break her heart.
00:41:22What is that?
00:41:27Yeah, we smoke.
00:41:28Yeah, we smoke.
00:41:28Yeah, we smoke.
00:41:29Yeah, we smoke.
00:41:48I'm trying to enjoy myself and I'm trying to be supportive, but he started playing Vicky after
00:41:54I asked him not to.
00:42:02Not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl and flirting with her on stage right in front
00:42:10of me.
00:42:15It's just really hard to watch and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:42:20Not only that.
00:42:26I know you feel good.
00:42:28I know you feel too supportive of you.
00:42:35No, no.
00:42:36So good.
00:42:39Yeah.
00:42:40But what you think all that information looks like is the thing?
00:42:43Why don't you feel good?
00:42:44Deadly speaking to her for her for her for her.
00:42:49And that having me feel good.
00:42:50What the is Aviva doing?
00:42:54I'm seeing a sea of people partying,
00:42:57having the time of their lives,
00:43:01and Aviva head down in her phone while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife,
00:43:09much less my girlfriend right now.
00:43:10Like, come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on release.
00:43:19Yeah.
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:40Oh, six for us.
00:43:42Yeah, yeah.
00:43:43One, two, three, four, five.
00:43:45Hey, I forgot all the new songs, I forgot.
00:43:51You're distracting me.
00:43:54I am so pissed.
00:43:56I can't even think straight right now.
00:44:04Ah, make this round.
00:44:06Make this fufu to be round.
00:44:08How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:10Are you asking me?
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:14Call it very well.
00:44:16No.
00:44:16No.
00:44:18Stop raising your voice on me.
00:44:20Call it again.
00:44:21He's pushing me really hard, and I'm getting angry.
00:44:24What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:26Can you stand up and walk?
00:44:27Let me see.
00:44:28You want to see me walk?
00:44:29Yes.
00:44:30Are you walking now, ma'am?
00:44:31Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back.
00:44:33Come back.
00:44:54I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:44:58You're angry?
00:44:59I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:45:04Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:45:07I got something to prove, ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:45:14No, no, you're not fat, baby.
00:45:15Come on.
00:45:17And I'm stressed.
00:45:20No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:21That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:27Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:29I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:31I tried to quit, and I couldn't, and I, ah.
00:45:35I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:38It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:49I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:52He doesn't want me to vape, and I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:58But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle for the blessing.
00:46:02And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:46:08So I'm stressing out, and I want my vape.
00:46:16You surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:19How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:24I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:25So I'm from Ibo land, so we have to learn.
00:46:29Ibo people, we have tradition.
00:46:32If Lisa wants to marry me, she have to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed OK for this?
00:46:41Yeah, look good.
00:46:42Look good.
00:46:43Come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture,
00:46:47to impress my uncle.
00:46:51Oh, thank you.
00:46:52That would become white.
00:46:53That would be the one.
00:46:55There's a traditional way of blessing powai, OK?
00:46:57OK.
00:46:58We have to shake it.
00:47:00After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, OK?
00:47:04The ground must test it first, then picking it up again.
00:47:08Mm-hmm.
00:47:09Woman blessing powai is a taboo.
00:47:12It's not good.
00:47:14Can I drink it?
00:47:16Yes, you can test it, but it's very strong.
00:47:19It's very strong.
00:47:20OK, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:31Yes, sir.
00:47:32It's cassava.
00:47:33Did you pound it?
00:47:35Did you pound it?
00:47:35Oh, OK.
00:47:36Pounded one.
00:47:37OK.
00:47:38Mm.
00:47:39Oh.
00:47:44You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:51It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:54I learned you flatten it.
00:47:56I learned you dip it.
00:47:57So I'm prepared, and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:01Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:03It.
00:48:07Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:18You just swallowed it.
00:48:19Boil it again.
00:48:23All right.
00:48:24Dip your hand.
00:48:27Ah.
00:48:28Make it round.
00:48:29Make the fufu to be round.
00:48:30How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:32Are you asking me?
00:48:34Yes.
00:48:36Ah.
00:48:41This is really good.
00:48:43This is oha, oha soup.
00:48:44I could just eat that.
00:48:46Good.
00:48:46I need a spoon.
00:48:47Use your hand to eat fufu.
00:48:48I'm not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:50That's what the fufu is for.
00:48:51Dip your hand inside the soup and take...
00:48:54Look, baby.
00:49:00I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me.
00:49:03But I didn't think he'd be so forceful about it.
00:49:07I am in the nursing field, and I work in caregiving.
00:49:12I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:15It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:17It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup.
00:49:21Scoop it up.
00:49:23Suck your fingers and lick them dry.
00:49:25That's no.
00:49:26That's just nasty.
00:49:28I think he's being very rude.
00:49:31Um, have you taken your power wine?
00:49:34No.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:36Can you taste it?
00:49:40Test.
00:49:41Go on, go on.
00:49:42Test, test.
00:49:46You have to respect this thing.
00:49:48I did.
00:49:49I tasted it.
00:49:56Do you know what we call it in our dialect?
00:49:58No.
00:49:59My uncle.
00:50:00My uncle.
00:50:01Eh?
00:50:01I can't say that.
00:50:02What does it mean?
00:50:03My uncle.
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10You drink it.
00:50:11You respect it.
00:50:12Look at me.
00:50:15Stop raising your voice at me.
00:50:17Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Eh?
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:25I'm done talking to you.
00:50:27I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:31What is that?
00:50:32I thought you were drunk.
00:50:33I took one sip.
00:50:34Yes.
00:50:34It doesn't matter.
00:50:36Just a job can make you change the system.
00:50:39No, I'm not.
00:50:39You're the one who's changing.
00:50:40Look at you.
00:50:41Put it down and talk my sleep.
00:50:44This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:47I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things a proper etiquette way.
00:50:53But he's being rude to me.
00:50:55What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:57Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:59Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking now, man?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:05You're walking now.
00:51:05Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:07Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09Come back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:22For the last seven years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:51:26But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31Hey, Dr. Goddard, what's your job?
00:51:35The importance, you have pants, you know?
00:51:38To help her.
00:51:41Well, for us.
00:52:04Are you ready to go?
00:52:06Yeah.
00:52:07It's already late.
00:52:08I think the boat is waiting for us.
00:52:19I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:22We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:25Last night was really rough.
00:52:27We got in this big argument.
00:52:31I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me
00:52:36to buy her stuff.
00:52:37I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:52:43So eventually, we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:52:49Oh, my God.
00:52:52But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:53:03Wow, baby.
00:53:12So beautiful.
00:53:14Today, we took a boat to an island called Nosy Aranja.
00:53:18This place looks like paradise.
00:53:21I see crystal blue waters, a sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:29It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time and be sad.
00:53:35You know, take some strolls along the beach.
00:53:41I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:46Thank you so much.
00:53:49Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52No, I don't.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No.
00:53:56I wouldn't have learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Like, you see.
00:54:02Oh, man.
00:54:02That's cool.
00:54:04Oh, what?
00:54:05It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:54:10You got like a nest up there.
00:54:11No.
00:54:12You can do it.
00:54:14All right.
00:54:14Here we go.
00:54:15Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife, and I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:27She has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:54:36Let me see.
00:54:38But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:54:44a future.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:51Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53This is beautiful.
00:54:55Mm-hmm.
00:54:56I'm so glad that we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yeah.
00:55:03I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:13I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich, so I'm not asking a lot.
00:55:22Just you do money, then that's it.
00:55:28I think when you were asking me for things, that, you know, kind of triggered some things that I've gone
00:55:36through in the past.
00:55:38What you mean?
00:55:40Just past relationships.
00:55:43And I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want to be with me
00:55:51anymore.
00:55:52I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:05I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Chini, for seven years.
00:56:09Chini is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:14I think, uh, Chini had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide.
00:56:20And it caused a lot of issues between us.
00:56:24That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:31You run with that money.
00:56:34I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything.
00:56:38But I just want to make sure if you buy all my needs, that's it.
00:56:44That's what I'm asking.
00:56:47You know when you bring me to your country, I have to let everything in here.
00:56:54My life, my job.
00:56:57Yes, I know that.
00:56:58Yeah, so I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:05That's the promise that I'm making to you.
00:57:07A promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:57:15But everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:57:20My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:57:25With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you give me affection, I love that.
00:57:38You think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:40Yeah, yes you are.
00:57:42You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:48And I love you, that's why I want our relationship worse.
00:57:53This is what I want too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:01Yeah, I want to get in the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:06I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:13That's what I need to feel.
00:58:16Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:23I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:28But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place.
00:58:40But everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:44I really don't know how to tell her.
00:58:46But eventually, it needs to come out.
00:58:54Do you love me?
00:58:55Of course, baby.
00:59:12The fruit is ready.
00:59:16Ah, just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:59:20Perfect.
00:59:20Yeah, thanks.
00:59:21Good stuff.
00:59:22We hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:26Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:31That sounds awesome.
00:59:34Dinner is served.
00:59:45See how it works in America or in my culture?
00:59:49We normally start with the oldest and we go down the line.
00:59:52We do gifts first.
00:59:53Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:59:55Oh, I'm the biggest.
00:59:56We go by size here.
00:59:59Okay.
01:00:01I just met Sheena's family and so far, they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
01:00:08For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating her awfully.
01:00:13And now, I'm hearing that they are decent people.
01:00:18I feel confused, but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then go
01:00:27from there.
01:00:31So, how's your travel here from America?
01:00:33It was long and it was hard, but I got to see my Sheen for the first time.
01:00:41Mm-hmm.
01:00:42And finally, yes.
01:00:44Finally.
01:00:45I'm curious though.
01:00:46What were you expecting when you go here?
01:00:49Oh.
01:00:51I was expecting, um...
01:00:57Well, I was expecting...
01:01:02It's kind of hard to say.
01:01:04You know, my mom's under the impression that I might be walking into a scam.
01:01:17Every, I know, there's, in every place, there are scammers, no, no, no, not...
01:01:22A lot of scammers.
01:01:23She'll be meeting us tomorrow.
01:01:25Prove her wrong.
01:01:27Prove her wrong.
01:01:28That's the rest thing.
01:01:29That's, that's it.
01:01:32How'd you guys feel, uh, when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:01:40Yeah, I, I thought, finally, because it's so long, um, we're not really, we're not really sure if we're gonna
01:01:49meet you in person.
01:01:50You know, I, I have to say, uh, a lot of it had to do with, uh, finances.
01:01:56I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:02:01Just eat, babe.
01:02:03Enjoy your meal.
01:02:03Mm-hmm.
01:02:07Um...
01:02:07But, uh, question is, uh, I, I, I don't recall it.
01:02:12What's your job?
01:02:15Yeah.
01:02:18So, this is kind of going to be mind shattering here.
01:02:24I'm unemployed right now.
01:02:30I, I'm actually, uh, receiving disability.
01:02:33Disability for, for what?
01:02:35So, I have, uh, autism.
01:02:37I have problems talking with, with others.
01:02:40Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:02:47So, that, that's enough for you, for your daily life?
01:02:51It cover, it covers everything in my life right now.
01:02:54But I, I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:03:02But, I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:03:07Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:03:09And, I was hoping I could get your blessing.
01:03:20Well, Forrest, of course, the importance, you have pants, you know?
01:03:30So, without any funding, how, how will you survive, you know?
01:03:36The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:03:39Yeah.
01:03:40Proper job.
01:03:41I have, I have the energy.
01:03:42I have the drive.
01:03:43I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:03:47I'm going to be working full-time.
01:03:48And, yeah, be support for her.
01:03:53I prefer that, uh, Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable.
01:03:58Because, it's the guy's, uh, obligation to support a wife.
01:04:05And, Sheena also is, you know, she's very helpful, you know?
01:04:11There, no, so, talagang hindi mawawala sakin yan.
01:04:21Okay.
01:04:22Okay.
01:04:23You have my blessing.
01:04:27But, you're going to help her.
01:04:30And, she's been helping us also.
01:04:32Oh.
01:04:34How has she been, uh, doing that?
01:04:37Sometimes, if we lack funds for her, you know,
01:04:41she would help us, you know, pay, like that, you know?
01:04:44Oh.
01:04:45I understand.
01:04:48Yeah.
01:04:49Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:04:55My mom and dad.
01:04:57They definitely have a lot to, kind of, talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:05:03We're looking forward to it.
01:05:05It's going to be a blast.
01:05:07I should be happy that I got their blessing, but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with
01:05:13me.
01:05:14What I've seen, it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:05:20The way she described her family, the way they live, the whole money situation.
01:05:26The stories are not adding up.
01:05:28And I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to come in and going to think everything has been
01:05:37a lie this entire time.
01:05:38She's going to basically flip out.
01:05:42she's not going to give her a lie.
01:05:46You got her to buy some money.
01:05:52Michael, I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:05:59so you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him yes you heard me right this kind of
01:06:07changes my thinking a little bit and i'm about him no
01:06:32yeah i mean that was definitely fun
01:06:42i know i killed it but i forgot my lyrics middle troll my mind but don't be so hard on
01:06:49yourself
01:06:49i'll always be hard on myself
01:06:54i'm so tired it's been such a long night yeah we're just getting back to the hotel from stig's
01:07:01performance and i felt a little uncomfortable but i think i did well i knew i had to hold it
01:07:11together and just push my feelings to the side
01:07:16my feet are killing me you want to give me a foot massage maybe
01:07:24maybe
01:07:28i had a good time i thought you did really well thank you
01:07:35so did i handle it okay like
01:07:41i guess you guess what'd i do
01:07:48how does this girl think that she handled this well like how
01:07:54you're mad at me
01:07:57aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance
01:08:02she's on her phone texting while i'm performing
01:08:05i'm boiling inside
01:08:08and she she she thinks everything is fine and dandy
01:08:13please tell me what i did wrong
01:08:16when you were on your phone texting
01:08:21hmm
01:08:23hmm
01:08:27oh no it wasn't like that like
01:08:30like shall hurt my feelings
01:08:32being on my phone
01:08:33yes not the right time for that
01:08:36you weren't even watching you were
01:08:38yes bro i'm literally performing singing to you
01:08:45i wasn't trying to be disrespectful it wasn't intentional but he was dancing with another
01:08:53woman in front of me and he played vicky even though i asked him not to so it's a little
01:08:59annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song it wasn't even a big event i just feel like it's
01:09:04not fair
01:09:12sorry
01:09:13all right i don't have anybody out here like you have to understand that there is all these girls on
01:09:18stage with you so i'm gonna talk to my people i'm gonna text my friends i can do that
01:09:23you're like do what you want
01:09:25cool
01:09:26for me that's
01:09:30you're supposed to be on on my team a part of my team that you did not hype me up
01:09:35kind of killed my vibe actually
01:09:38that's why i felt like i forgot my lyrics i was just distracted
01:09:43you keep talking about these other girls this these other girls having fun hyping me up and my girl is
01:09:48there just
01:09:49on her phone
01:09:52it's my first time in a situation like this there's lots of beautiful girls around i just
01:09:57i felt awkward i didn't feel confident and i just wanted you really think that's the best way to handle
01:10:02it
01:10:06anyways
01:10:07i'm disappointed
01:10:08maybe
01:10:09i need to
01:10:11cut her clothes or
01:10:12uh
01:10:13i didn't mean to make you feel a certain way but okay
01:10:19brb
01:10:21brb
01:10:22brb
01:10:22brb
01:10:23brb
01:10:23brb
01:10:26i'm
01:10:27kind of at a loss because i am trying my best to
01:10:32not get super jealous not overreact but apparently i
01:10:38didn't do a very good job
01:10:42i am worried that if he thinks i'm too jealous and crazy he might just break up with me
01:10:48i don't want to scare him off but part of me is terrified that i already have
01:10:56i am
01:11:06leaving
01:11:07you
01:11:08ruth
01:11:08brb
01:11:16brb
01:11:19brb
01:11:20brb
01:11:20brb
01:11:21brb
01:11:21brb
01:11:22brb
01:11:22brb
01:11:22brb
01:11:23brb
01:11:23No, you're fine.
01:11:25My English is perfect.
01:11:26Your English is perfect.
01:11:27Reboot, reboot.
01:11:39Last night, I found out that Birkan has an immense amount of debt.
01:11:45And I was worried that he really just does want a green card.
01:11:50But I have put a lot into this relationship.
01:11:53So maybe I just need to give it a little bit more time to see how red the red flags
01:11:59actually are.
01:12:02Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:12:04I don't know.
01:12:11There's lots of evil eyes.
01:12:12Yeah.
01:12:13I like that tree full of them.
01:12:16Today, my plan is taking Laura to another tree.
01:12:20I wanted to show her different areas and different villages.
01:12:25And also, it is the place that makes evil eye beads there.
01:12:39When you hear it, it's like something bad.
01:12:43But it is not.
01:12:44It is for good luck.
01:12:54When people see you, if they get jealous about you, thoughts about you, the evil eye consumes bad thoughts and
01:13:02protects you.
01:13:09Perfect.
01:13:10Oh, you did it!
01:13:11I got one!
01:13:16In Turkey, everybody believes that superstition because, you know, people needs to believe something.
01:13:24Not me.
01:13:25I'm into reality, actually.
01:13:27But I know that Laura, she loves crafting, so she will enjoy.
01:13:37Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yeah, I am.
01:13:47Check at this.
01:13:47I have no talent.
01:13:49No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It just has a tail.
01:13:55And it just roll.
01:13:58Apparently, I suck at evil eye beads.
01:14:02Yeah, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:05I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life, you know?
01:14:09Sometimes I can suck.
01:14:12Okay.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:17Enjoy the moment.
01:14:20All of the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yeah.
01:14:23Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like, you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something that your family taught you?
01:14:28Your parents taught you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30Yeah, they taught me.
01:14:31Okay.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:14:36Yeah.
01:14:37Usually, we kind of dance around that topic, and I'd like to know more about them.
01:14:43We never had a good relationship.
01:14:47Do you see them very often?
01:14:50No, actually.
01:14:52My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:15:03Birhan has been a little evasive about the relationship with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:15:11So, hearing that Birhan's parents don't approve of me is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already doesn't approve of this, and it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship
01:15:26where I feel like everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think that there's a point where I would ever meet your parents?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:37But I do feel like meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know more information about a
01:15:47person.
01:15:49My family is my friend's.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:54For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know.
01:16:13Well, he is very important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:16:35So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:16:42No, actually, it's not an ultimatum, you know.
01:16:45What is it then?
01:16:46You're going to choose me.
01:16:50This is the point.
01:16:51We are thinking about marriage.
01:16:54When we get married, he is not going to be a part of our lives.
01:16:58And yes, you heard me right.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend, and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:17:11He can't.
01:17:12This is a relationship.
01:17:15This is the one who you get married, not some activity buddies.
01:17:23I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan tells me that I'm going to have to cut Michael out of my life,
01:17:33it absolutely feels like some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet,
01:17:38and I really don't like.
01:17:40This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm involved.
01:17:44About him?
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't want to make.
01:17:54So, why don't you think a little, you know.
01:17:57I just get some air, maybe.
01:18:01Or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:18:16It's super disrespectful to me, especially when I've tried to be very understanding
01:18:24with the massive amount of debt that he revealed to me.
01:18:30This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:18:39I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:18:41The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and no.
01:18:44No, he's not going to do that.
01:18:46And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:18:51Oh, shit.
01:19:09I'm mad.
01:19:10And he better come and apologize.
01:19:12And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:19:15I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:19:17The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and no.
01:19:19No, he's not going to do that.
01:19:22He's not going to shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:25Let me go.
01:19:26Let me.
01:19:28Where is my woman?
01:19:46Oh, shit.
01:19:52Baby, why are you here?
01:19:56Why are you talking to me like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand in my face.
01:20:01No, I gave you pawine.
01:20:03I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:05That's why I did like this.
01:20:07It makes someone...
01:20:08I took two sips.
01:20:09I don't want to...
01:20:09I'm not even going to drink it anymore.
01:20:11Even a drop can make someone go...
01:20:13Then why are you drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it?
01:20:15I wanted to let you know that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:20:21And don't get mad at me because I can't pronounce everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:30So what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:33Oh, come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:35You are raising your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry, okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:40Come on, eat.
01:20:41Are you going to be nice?
01:20:44I'll be nice always.
01:20:46Let's go.
01:20:46Come and eat your food.
01:20:51My queen.
01:20:52I'll tell you, go.
01:20:53No.
01:20:53Don't put your arm around me.
01:20:56No.
01:20:57The most beautiful queen.
01:20:58No.
01:21:02I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:21:05This is our first full day together, and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving is giving off warning signs.
01:21:12I don't like it.
01:21:16I'm sorry.
01:21:17I'm a little nervous.
01:21:19My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:21I told him that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:26We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?
01:21:29You're not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle that you don't, babe?
01:21:35No, you said you don't talk about it at all.
01:21:39I don't want to be a liar.
01:21:42In my family, we don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle does not give you the blessing, does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:22:00How's this?
01:22:09You told me you were a man who could make his own decisions.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria for a reason, and now you're telling me without a blessing that you can't marry me.
01:22:17Yes, I'm a grown man, but I came from somewhere.
01:22:22In my family, we have wear of our own.
01:22:25The way we do our things.
01:22:26And I want everything possible to make sure that my uncle gave us blessing.
01:22:31That's my concern.
01:22:32And that's, and the vaping is the only thing that you're very concerned about.
01:22:36That's your biggest concern.
01:22:37Yeah.
01:22:48Daniel is so worried about the vape, but that seems really small compared to all the other
01:22:55things that Daniel doesn't know about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:23:01I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me.
01:23:03And even if he accepted my past, once I reveal my secrets to him, is he going to have to
01:23:09tell
01:23:09all of his family that I've only been with women for the past 21 years, and that I'm still married?
01:23:14If we tell his uncle about that, I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:23:20I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:23:27I'm here, huh?
01:23:29Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:32So cute.
01:23:33Maki Maki.
01:23:34Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:23:36Yeah.
01:23:37It'll be worth it if I can bring a step-mommy home.
01:23:40But I want to have my own.
01:23:43If he decided does not want to have kids, I don't know if I could be with him.
01:23:49You want what you don't want.
01:23:54Now that I'm in person with my husband, he's giving me trust issues.
01:23:59Remember what you promised me before you came down here.
01:24:03I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:24:06So, can I see your phone now?
01:24:14Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:24:17Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
01:24:22Ben söyleyeyim.
01:24:24Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:24:28I don't want to make things bigger.
01:24:30Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek bence.
01:24:34Wait.
01:24:35What is she saying?
01:24:38Oh, yes.
01:24:39Moment of truth.
01:24:43Man.
01:24:43This is so beautiful here.
01:24:47Holy .
01:24:48Well, would you look at that.
01:24:51Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents don't take her money, that they're going to starve.
01:24:57Tonight, we'll get the truth for Sheena.
01:25:00She told us if she didn't give the money, that you would mistreat her.
01:25:07Did you say this?
01:25:23I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I want us to have this blessing more than anything in
01:25:28the world.
01:25:29Are you a practicing person?
01:25:31I have not always been, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
01:25:36Are you or were you a lesbian?
01:25:40Do you practice lesbianism?
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