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00:00I don't want to be on the end or the front.
00:04Can you please help me?
00:06No, you have to fend for yourself.
00:09I'm the girl and I get put in the very, very back.
00:11That's how I know something is up.
00:13Honestly, I just can't really put my finger on it.
00:16Haylin, can we talk to my truck for a minute?
00:20Can you turn your mic on?
00:23I'm king of the world!
00:25What are you doing?
00:26Oh, oh, oh, hello.
00:28I like him to call first before he shows up.
00:32I don't want to be in the house and look out the window and just see him there.
00:37I want to know if I look out, I'm going to see woods and birds, maybe a deer.
00:42I'm not going to see Barry.
00:44I'll just say it all so there's nothing left in the dark.
00:47She called me out on social media, which just hurt.
00:51For me, from the time that you two said I do, I see you as a son, son-in-law,
00:56part of the family.
00:57I just think actions really speak louder than words.
00:59And so I just hope that now that she's said that, it actually turns into action.
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01:34You're going to get a drink?
01:36I'm going to have cider in a can.
01:37Yeah, I might.
01:38It's 5 o'clock somewhere, right?
01:41Yeah.
01:42Today's a good day to meet up with Ethan and Micah and Mariah.
01:47When they're in town, you know, we do make a point
01:49to just get together.
01:52There she is.
01:53There she is.
01:54It's been a while, huh?
01:55Yeah.
01:56So today is just one of those infrequent times
01:58where we just go to a restaurant bar and just have
02:02some pizza and have a drink just to chat.
02:05Yeah.
02:09Cheers to Ethan saying his first word today.
02:15I have an idea.
02:17Let's all go around and say something
02:21that we wish we didn't do today.
02:24Do you have more of an original idea?
02:26Why don't you start?
02:28Did you drive into another fountain today?
02:30No.
02:31I haven't had any incidences since I left Georgia.
02:35There's a lot to run into out there.
02:37I mean, and there's a lot that can go wrong in Montana
02:39in the winter, you know?
02:40I thought there was nobody out there,
02:42and that's why I wanted to move out there.
02:44But then I realized there were people,
02:45and I also realized I kind of need people.
02:48Like, not you guys, but some people.
02:50You know, I'm joking.
02:51I don't blame you there.
02:53I'm joking.
02:54What are the people like?
02:56Like, the community is very tight because they need each other.
02:58I can, like, pretty much promise you that when you guys come out to see me,
03:02you're going to know exactly why I couldn't come back.
03:04I will always have a very special place in my heart for Cairo.
03:09But Montana's my new home.
03:11That's where I feel like I belong.
03:13I worried about you when you first moved out there.
03:15I worried about myself, but I wasn't going to tell anyone.
03:21There's been some things in my life that I've had to work through.
03:25And I just, you know, I needed a reset.
03:27And I needed to just figure things out on my own and grow up a bit.
03:34Micah, I think we've lost her to Montana for good.
03:37But at least she found her home on a good spot.
03:41Mariah seems really happy.
03:42Probably the happiest I've ever seen her.
03:44And I think Mariah's happy because she's found peace.
03:49And peace is hard to come by.
03:50And when you find it, you should keep it.
03:52And that's what I want.
03:57You know, I had in my mind's eye this, like, vision of me
04:04finding some lady in Montana.
04:12What do you think of that?
04:14At this point, I'm just introducing them
04:16to the topic of me dating someone.
04:21I am open to meeting people in a variety of locations, right?
04:26Montana being a novel thought, that would be fun.
04:28It would be great to meet somebody.
04:32The only woman I've ever known my dad to be with is my mom.
04:34And I don't think that's going to be his type.
04:38I'm staying out of it.
04:40I just don't want to be the one son that is out at a bar with my dad
04:44and hooks him up with somebody.
04:46And then it's just hell, you know?
04:48If you meet somebody that looks good,
04:51but are you just thinking with that third leg?
04:56Dad, did you really have a vision?
04:58I'm looking at Micah, and I'm looking at Ethan going,
05:01I'm in one mode, and they're in another.
05:04Ethan, you know, he's kind of playing the role of bump on the log
05:07right now.
05:08Hey, Micah, I don't know if Micah realizes it,
05:10but he needs to process that relationship that was so toxic
05:13and work through it.
05:15But I have an optimistic outlook on life right now.
05:17The divorce is behind me.
05:19Now, new chapter's totally begun.
05:22It's a day of new beginnings, Mariah.
05:25Yeah.
05:28This is going to be an interesting journey.
05:31Dad, what's your best pick-up line?
05:34I don't have any.
05:35You don't have any?
05:36He doesn't have any.
05:37No wonder he's single.
05:39Yeah.
05:40Mariah, he's been out of the game for like 30 years.
05:42Oh, OK.
05:43Ethan, what's a good pick-up line?
05:44I don't have any.
05:46Micah used to use some.
05:48My dad just needs to walk up to a girl and go like,
05:51how you doing, baby?
05:54How you doing?
05:55How you doing?
05:57How you doing?
06:00How you doing?
06:01How you doing?
06:02How you doing?
06:02How you doing?
06:02I'm Barry.
06:04I'm from New York.
06:08I honestly would just like to see my dad try and flirt with him.
06:14How you doing, baby?
06:15Where do you park your car?
06:17Maybe I wouldn't want to see that.
06:18You know, never mind.
06:19I changed my mind.
06:20I don't want to see that.
06:23You'd make a pretty, pretty interesting New Yorker.
06:27Do they look like willing wingmen?
06:31It's not going to happen.
06:33They're nowhere near any type of wingman.
06:35That's fine.
06:36There'll be other people who might offer me advice or introduce me to someone.
06:41You have one job.
06:42And that would be?
06:43Take your time and find the right one.
06:45Yeah.
06:45Yeah.
06:50Bye, bye.
07:05So a few days ago, we were at the Halloween thing,
07:09and I could sense something was off.
07:13And so afterwards, we had a long talk,
07:16and me and Isaac ended up breaking up.
07:19I never saw it coming,
07:22and I kind of thought everything was going really good.
07:25Today, I'm at my friend Kim's house.
07:27I've had a really, really rough week,
07:30and it might help just a little bit to have a glass of wine.
07:34We're both nurses, and we graduated together.
07:37I share a lot of things with her,
07:39and she knows Isaac and some about the family dynamics.
07:44Hey.
07:45Hey.
07:47How you doing?
07:50Just as you would expect.
07:53It's kind of been a lot the past few days.
07:56I can understand that.
07:58When he came to you, what exactly did he say?
08:04So we were at that Halloween thing,
08:07and I could kind of feel like something was off in a way.
08:10Like he was just kind of distancing himself?
08:13Yeah.
08:15So he pulled me aside after we got done,
08:18and he was like, can we talk?
08:20And I was like, yeah.
08:21And I knew it was, like, I knew something was coming.
08:24That's when it all happened.
08:25And first, he can't get out the words, and then, you know, I kind of make him like, you got
08:32to say it, say it with your chest.
08:35And he, you know, said that I think we should break up, and honestly, like, I'm kind of shocked in
08:44a way.
08:45Like, it threw me, like, it's thrown me for a loop.
08:49You know, I was just like, I, honestly, I just, I didn't even know what to think.
08:52I'm just really shocked, because out of all the people in the world that I know, I never would have
08:58saw this coming.
09:01Yeah, and nobody saw it coming either.
09:07So, Dad, I have not heard this directly from you, but I have heard it around when you're open to
09:13date.
09:14That was the topic of conversation here before you walked in.
09:18I mean, it's kind of weird to be talking to my ex-husband about dating other people.
09:23You know, it's a new age.
09:25Another woman can have him.
09:27I'm okay with that.
09:29So how's everything been going, man?
09:31There's some going on right now.
09:33I'll work through it and get through it, but it's going.
09:37I got scared.
09:38I felt like it was moving too fast, and I was too young.
09:41Just seeing her happy and stuff, knowing what I was about to do to her just still haunts me to
09:46this day, honestly.
10:01We need, like, a steady hour with the big hose to knock all that dirt off.
10:06It would definitely make it easier, for sure.
10:08Today we're at one of our sheds, and we just finished up picking peanuts.
10:13Me and Ralph have, uh, we've known each other since I started last year.
10:17We hit it off pretty well.
10:19We both just, like, screwing around, spending time together.
10:22We'll get this one washed off.
10:23Okay.
10:27There's no easy way to say it.
10:29But me and Kalen, I broke up with her because I felt like it was moving too fast and I
10:38was too young.
10:41Just certain thoughts built up to where I felt like I was under too much pressure and I wanted to
10:46just be free.
10:48I know she is a little bit older than me, so she may want to settle down a little sooner
10:52than I would have in mind.
10:54Just everything my family's been through, it scared me.
11:04Explain it. Did she say something?
11:05No, no. I mean, I wouldn't be the type to break off with someone because they say something.
11:09It wasn't, like, an instant decision.
11:10It was just something that I was thinking about.
11:12And that's one thing that was really hard was seeing her happy and her not knowing anything's going to happen,
11:18you know.
11:19Knowing what I was about to do to her just still haunts me to this day, honestly.
11:24He didn't know if he was ready to, like, be completely settled down, you know, like, because he knows marriage
11:28is on the table for me one day.
11:30Yeah.
11:31It got into his head that he thought I wanted to be married in the next, like, year or two
11:34and that was not the case.
11:35And then some of the guys at work kind of got into his head a lot.
11:40They were like, are you sure you want to be settled down? Are you sure you're ready for that?
11:43With divorce with Kim and then Mike and Veronica, I mean, he has been surrounded by relationship failure after relationship
11:54failure.
11:55And I think that's put a real big fear on him.
12:00But he's got to understand, you are so far from the type of person Veronica was.
12:07Your relationship is not the same as the things that he's experienced with his family.
12:13How has he been after the fact, though?
12:15It was either Sunday or Monday night. He called my parents.
12:20Stop.
12:21And, yeah, he called mom and daddy.
12:25Why would he do that, though?
12:26He wanted to apologize.
12:28For hurting their daughter?
12:30Yeah, he just apologized. He apologized to them.
12:33He asked mom and daddy to pray for them.
12:35And he was like, I'm always going to love your daughter.
12:38Mama was like, you could tell he's confused about some stuff.
12:48So how's everything been going, man?
12:50Like work or personal life?
12:52A little bit of both?
12:54It's been going.
12:55I mean, work's been good other than working with you.
12:59But then everything else is, there's some going on right now.
13:03I'll work through it and get through it.
13:05But it's going.
13:08It's only been a few days.
13:09That's one of the things that makes me feel so stupid.
13:12And it's one of those things where right after you make the decision,
13:15you just know in your gut it wasn't a good decision.
13:18She didn't deserve to be treated that way after everything she's done for me.
13:23We're not really talking, but I kind of reach out to her.
13:27And I have no desire to do anything other than to rebuild it with her.
13:30And that's all I want.
13:31That's all I can see myself doing.
13:33She's going to have to decide what she wants to do.
13:36A few days of being by myself is too much already.
13:39And it's killing me inside, but I just miss her, man.
13:47I'm good at up somebody.
13:49Maybe I should listen to Mario for advice.
13:52You live and you learn.
13:53I don't think I should have listened to him.
13:54Some lessons are best learned the hard way?
13:56Yeah, I guess so.
13:58Where I'm at personally is pretty close to hell.
14:01It's just really sitting in now and looking back,
14:05that's something I should never have even thought about letting go of.
14:10I hate myself so much that I just don't even want to wake up if I can't be with her.
14:19I want more than anything to talk to her and work it out.
14:24There's a lot of trust that would need to be rebuilt.
14:27And I'm willing to go to the ends of the earth to do it.
14:30But I don't know if I can recover from this with her.
14:34You know, I don't know if she'd be open to that.
14:37I'm really waiting to see, you know, where she stands.
14:41I don't know.
14:42I just don't know if I've done too much damage to redo it.
14:45But I'm just praying for a second chance.
14:55Has he been trying to contact you a lot since this?
14:58He's reached out probably like once a day.
15:01He wants to meet up sometime and talk.
15:05And he was like, you know, the ball's in your court.
15:06Whatever you want to do whenever I feel like I'm ready.
15:11And I was, you know, kind of confused about it.
15:13And you didn't message immediately back, did you?
15:16No.
15:16OK.
15:17No.
15:17Yeah, make him wait it out.
15:20I have mixed emotions because, you know, I do still care for him.
15:22I do still love him.
15:24But I've always known my self-worth.
15:26I've always stuck up for myself.
15:28You know, I'm never a second option and I'm not for all that.
15:31You can't just make these decisions without thinking about other people's feelings.
15:36I know it was probably really rough.
15:38And I know that it took a lot for him to come to you and talk to you about this.
15:42Yeah.
15:42But I want the best for you.
15:45And I don't know if Isaac's it.
15:47There's trust issues there.
15:49Yeah.
15:49You're going to have that.
15:50That's the whole thing about it though.
15:52When you put that seed of doubt into somebody and then in the future want to work that out
16:00or wait and see if he can reconcile, that seed of doubt's going to be there.
16:07When a man loves you and he wants to wife you up and marry you, he will show you.
16:14There will not be a doubt in your head.
16:17They won't allow him to exist.
16:19If he, you know, really wants this, he's going to prove it to me with his actions.
16:22Because, you know, to me, it's always actions over words.
16:26Honestly, right now I don't necessarily know where me and Isaac stand.
16:29I really believed so much that he, you know, was the one.
16:35But, you know, trust isn't just giving.
16:37It's something that you have to earn with your actions.
16:40We'll just see what he does.
16:42And yeah, just give it to God because that's the only other thing I can do.
16:54Do you guys want to sing some music with me?
16:57Yeah.
17:00Ethan's back in Cairo.
17:01It's great to have him here.
17:02I think Ethan's doing good.
17:05It's kind of hard to tell, you know, with him.
17:09But since Ethan's been back here, he's been really quiet.
17:12What do you want to sing?
17:13Oh, I don't know.
17:15Some gospel songs or something.
17:17I don't know what Ethan's thinking.
17:19But every once in a while, he'll share something with me.
17:22Wait, I need to be in the middle.
17:24But he's not like a very open person, as we all know.
17:27You know Amazing Grace?
17:29Yeah.
17:31It's just really nice to have him around.
17:35Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me.
17:50I think it's been a good move for my little sisters to come back here.
17:54I'm very thankful for the time I get to spend with my siblings, especially my little sisters.
18:00I think that I did need to come back and see what it's like here, what it's like living here
18:05again.
18:06Just so I would know if I really wanted that or not.
18:09What?
18:10The days of the farm and all of us there, it's not that anymore.
18:15It probably never will be.
18:17And that chapter's come and gone.
18:21And grace my fears relieved.
18:27I don't know.
18:28Whenever I'm with Tegan, I feel completely at home.
18:31And like everything, all the little things that bug you in life or day to day or whatever,
18:35they're just gone.
18:36And when I'm not with her, when I'm away from her, it's like I'm just restless.
18:42I can't sit still.
18:45I don't sleep very well.
18:49It's just, I know I'm not supposed to be here.
18:54It was grace that taught my heart to fear.
19:02So at this point, you don't know if you're going to stay in Georgia or not, right?
19:09Mm-mm.
19:12If you don't stay in Georgia, what might you do?
19:15Only God knows that, I don't know.
19:18We've no less days to say God's praise than when we first begun.
19:35It's very nice.
19:37Very nice.
19:38Mm-mm.
19:51I can start with the comb.
19:53I just washed it.
19:55Okay.
19:55And I didn't do anything to it.
19:57I didn't brush it.
19:58Here.
19:58I can do it.
20:00I'm a professional, remember?
20:02Yeah.
20:02I'm a hairdresser now.
20:03Mom and I have been trying to get more time together lately.
20:05And apparently she wants the haircut that I did on myself like last year or something.
20:13I've always wanted to be close with my mom.
20:15And I feel like through the years we have had our times where we were closer than others.
20:19But there's always been like a lack of transparency, a lack of vulnerability.
20:24We're both adults now.
20:26She's got to be able to let her walls down.
20:30What I want to clear up with my mom is kind of one of the root issues of the distance
20:37in our relationship.
20:40Is this your first time seeing a hairdresser?
20:44Um, this year it is.
20:49The distance in Lydia and I's relationship, I feel like my part in that is not reaching out to her
20:55as much as I would have otherwise because I felt condemnation, judgment about my life choices, especially the divorce.
21:04I would love to get back to where we were before.
21:10Okay.
21:12You've been married less than a year, you know, so I'm sure you're still on that, you know, honeymoon stage
21:19and all that.
21:20Yeah, I mean, I know there were aspects that were quick.
21:23For us personally, it never felt rushed.
21:25I understand for you guys not having too much time with him and everything, that was hard.
21:32But I don't want to be, you know, 10 years into marriage and just be like, well, the honeymoon phase
21:37was fun, but now here we are.
21:39Yeah.
21:39And I feel like we've been doing that pretty well, having tough conversations.
21:45Things that we admired about each other at the very beginning that we feel like has faded a little bit.
21:50That's hard to hear, but it's needed.
21:54Yeah.
21:54And he doesn't shy away from hard conversations.
21:57I've definitely always been one to shy away from hard conversations, but.
22:01Yeah.
22:02Marriage takes two.
22:03It takes two to be vulnerable.
22:04It takes two to be honest.
22:05It takes two to sacrifice.
22:07And when hurt from life gets in the way and wounds you and numbs you, it affects every aspect of
22:14your life.
22:15Oh my goodness.
22:17Oh Lord.
22:18The tangles are like right back here.
22:20Oh.
22:21Oh.
22:22Oh, I see.
22:26You know, Isaac's coming over to visit.
22:28Nice.
22:28And we're gonna talk, I think, about Kaelin's stuff.
22:34Yeah.
22:35That's really sad.
22:36I feel like, even though it's really hard, I feel like he did make the right decision in the fact
22:42that, like, he is only 20 and so to have some time just him figuring stuff out I think is
22:48really good.
22:49And I would love it if they could grow and come back together once they're in a good place, but.
22:56I'm hoping that Lydia is kind of realizing that dating people, going through breakups, getting married, relationships can be more
23:05complicated.
23:06It's not always just, well, this is the right thing to do, just do it.
23:12Okay.
23:16You and I used to be really close and I feel like all of this other stuff has kind of
23:21crept in over the years with the separation and divorce and all of that.
23:27Mm-hmm.
23:27When the divorce and the separation happened, you know, there was a rift between Lydia and I.
23:33I felt like Lydia has been a supporter of Barry and not me.
23:40Well, speaking of which, um, like whenever I would talk to you, it just felt like there was, like I
23:47was talking to a brick wall.
23:58Like whenever I would talk to you, it just felt like there was, like I was talking to a brick
24:03wall.
24:06Mm-hmm.
24:07I felt that you were judging me and, like, not accepting where I was in life.
24:14Mm-hmm.
24:15It hurts to hear because I certainly never intended to be like a brick wall.
24:20So I'm making an effort towards chatting about things on a deeper level.
24:26I mean, the hardest thing in all of that was knowing that it was hurting all of you kids and
24:31that was the last thing I wanted.
24:33Mm-hmm.
24:34And I'm sorry that that...
24:35Yeah.
24:37...happened.
24:38I mean, it definitely would have been easier if he had been the one to leave, you know?
24:49What's going on?
24:52I don't know.
24:54I'm dating someone.
24:58I don't know if you can step out of 24 years of marriage and then so soon jump into any
25:06other relationship.
25:08I can't support this.
25:09I can't say I agree with it.
25:14You're okay?
25:17Yeah.
25:18What's going on?
25:23I just...
25:25I don't know.
25:27Sack it up.
25:28We'd put into words like you.
25:37you know that's understandable now seeing that everything you were going through that you were
25:42the one that left you had to do it what you had to do there were definitely repercussions from that
25:49but it's something that we can all grow from the last thing I ever wanted for it to come across
25:56was
25:56that I was judging my mom I think there's definitely part of me that was hurt but deep down this
26:02you know
26:03was never my intention and you know it's hard to hear that that's you know one of the reasons that
26:10she distanced herself going through all that was just about as hard as this tangle here
26:18does Ken know you're getting this haircut or are you just going to get it and see if he notices
26:22no he wouldn't he would not
26:28it's kind of something I wanted to talk about with you back when you guys started dating
26:34it was like right when everything was fresh and then I expressed how I didn't approve and I know
26:43there's been lots of ups and downs for you guys but I see you guys are doing a lot better
26:50and I see
26:50there's um you know you're in a healthy place now and and the girls are happy and and you guys
26:57are
26:57happy and I just wanted to make sure you knew that that I'm happy really happy for you and I
27:02approve
27:03and if that day ever comes and I'll be really happy for you guys
27:10thank you
27:24thank you
27:33that really means a lot to me yeah because you know like I hated how everything happened like it
27:40did yeah where like I wanted so much to give all of you kids a stable home and two parents
27:50and but at
27:51some point I just couldn't and I hated that I was the one that left but I didn't really
27:59I feel like I didn't I didn't have a choice it really means a lot that you know there's some
28:06grace
28:07there for yeah how all that played out yeah today really helped I felt like in her not accepting Ken
28:16it wasn't that she wasn't accepting Ken she wasn't accepting me and my choices to me it means she loves
28:22me no matter what I do and that just was huge for me I wasn't expecting to hear that today
28:28all right
28:29start with four inches maybe I just want to be able to move forward as a family and Zach is
28:35family now
28:37no going back oh these are nice scissors
28:44I'm excited to see what this looks like
28:48okay now if you want to stand up and I'll just look at the layers and see if anything needs
28:51to be
28:52okay yeah I think I should trim
28:58maybe I was supposed to cut it the other way oh no that's not what you want to hear
29:08are you laughing no I'm are you crying no I'm making it all good back here don't worry
29:17okay okay I think that's good all right go look in the okay now can I look mirror and see
29:23what you
29:23think you know I do see that she does want to be close with us and she does want the
29:29best for us
29:29I'm glad we could share this with each other and I'm excited to see where our relationship goes
29:36from here I hope it's good oh that looks good Lydia okay I love it I love it it's perfect
29:46let's go
29:53so how's the day good everything's good yeah you know I'm just prepping at the house for some
29:59other things Zach and I have had time now to spend together more and more and so if I need
30:05to talk
30:05with a guy and Zach is a guy I can go to yeah I know you got a pool table
30:09that's fun
30:12so tonight we're at Giorgio's and it's guys night at Giorgio's it's true I'm living for that shirt
30:19let's go to Hawaii right I have one very similar I may actually wear to church tomorrow now yeah
30:24I'm just looking for good wingmen who want to be a member of the few the proud my wingmen I
30:31didn't
30:31know I was being knighted tonight you're being enlisted into a valiant service need my hugs guys
30:39oh good to see you all right man it's good to see you you too Taylor's a friend of Zach's
30:46Taylor's a
30:46friend of mine Lydia has worked for him Mariah has worked for him Taylor is Kim's boss as well so
30:53Taylor knows what's going on with the Plath clan even when the Plath clan doesn't know what's going
30:58on with the Plath clan so what are you guys doing today we're just hanging out just relaxing just
31:06doing a father-in-law son-in-law hangout day yeah oh yeah we're trying to catch up yeah what
31:11should I
31:11have what would you recommend do you do you have one of your mocktails do the ginger orange mocktail
31:17it's out of this world the ginger orange mocktail ginger orange mocktail you got it absolutely yeah
31:22Barry and I have been friends for a little over a year now at the restaurant one evening Barry came
31:27in and I got to meet him and we just clicked right away Barry and I both have just come
31:31out of very long
31:32relationships and before I met the Plath I was in a really bad relationship it was the guy that I
31:39was
31:39with for 15 years and you get a lot of judgment from that from the fundamentalist community but
31:45the friendship that I've gotten from them and the non-judgment that I've gotten from the Plath have
31:49really helped mold me into the person I am today they have a special place in my heart for that
31:55yeah so what have you been up to yeah it's a new chapter I'm feeling pretty good right cheers yeah
32:02there's times where I think you know it'd be nice to maybe go out and go on a date and
32:07meet somebody
32:07uh but I really haven't dipped my foot into the dating pool sure at all yet it takes time so
32:15what
32:15are you looking for exactly somebody likes to go to the beach somebody likes to travel the mountains
32:20yeah somebody who's very grounded in her faith someone who likes to stay active because I'm in
32:27like the second act of life and I'm like there's no slowing down so you know I kind of envision
32:32my path
32:33will intersect with the one exactly and then we'll both know with the two of us we're very extroverted
32:39so yeah you know if he hangs with us basically Zach and I are going to be your wingman you
32:44can you
32:45can be my wingman oh absolutely I mean yeah yeah it's much more fitting with like Micah and Ethan my
32:51my son's being wingman and I'm like no that's weird you know do you think Barry has game are you
32:58maybe in a position to help him kick it up a notch um well I'm a little more in tune
33:07with how to date
33:08and stuff like that obviously just marrying Lydia it's nice to have a good father-in-law relationship
33:13and there's a couple generations separating us so there might be some different dating cues but
33:18you know I'll do my best we're like family thing wingman that just doesn't make sense we've got
33:22you yeah yeah we've got him on this we're not his children we're not in weird places ourselves so
33:28we're gonna be his wingman we're gonna find the right guy yeah right guy we're gonna find the
33:32right girl for Barry yeah okay so pretend like I'm a beautiful blonde woman oh no we're not gonna do
33:45what's your name I think that he's been with the same person for 25 years so now it's time to
33:51see
33:52what else is out there I actually have an aunt that is single and age-appropriate you want to see
34:00a
34:00picture well in due time well it's been a while since Barry's been on a date so at this point
34:06in
34:06life I think Barry's type is the type that has a pulse hey girls well look who's arrived look who
34:19I
34:19found the ex-wife is there she's got a boyfriend Barry's looking to get a girlfriend it's just the
34:25dynamics are present in the tension well I mean the divorce is final the divorce is final so I don't
34:32know what this world is anymore I don't know I I'm an extroverted person it's very easy for me to
34:48approach people are you like willing to talk to anybody kind of thing I'd like to engage people sure
34:53yeah well it is not on my agenda that I would give my father-in-law dating advice but I
35:00feel like I'm in
35:01the best position too so you know I have the most recent experience so I gotta help a man out
35:06you're
35:07a single man it's time to get you out on town I was thinking we could go throw axes oh
35:12now that
35:12would be interesting did you know that locally here there's a place where you can go and do sauna cold
35:17plunge no but I would do that in a second no that sounds awesome who are you gonna meet at
35:22a sauna
35:23doesn't seem like this would be a lot of places ladies would hang out you know to be well-rounded
35:28you
35:29want to do stuff with your friends you have a community do stuff with people in robbery bonding
35:35yeah these are great guys I like these guys a lot I'm pretty fond of them myself and who knows
35:42what
35:42we might be doing next you know on guys night out send me the plans and I'm there okay I'll
35:49be back
35:49over to visit when I get a chance I need to go check and do my work yep absolutely single
35:54and ready to
35:55mingle single and ready to mingle let's go find you a girl hey girls you got a haircut yeah it
36:03looks
36:04great well look who's arrived look look who I found hey your wife does a good job on the hair
36:11yeah it
36:12looks good yeah it looks really good you did a great job yeah looks great so if your day job
36:18doesn't hold up you can always go into cosmetology yeah right I can do that Perry comes over almost
36:24every Sunday for lunch but up to this point I haven't always seen Kim really reaching out to
36:29us as means of checking in or wanting to know how we're doing it's it's more just like hey come
36:36help
36:36me with this thing the thing that Lydia has just told me that she feels is missing is nourishment of
36:43just
36:43like being understood so dad I have not heard this directly from you directly from me heard it
36:52around you're open to date well is that misinformation we were discussing or tell me that was the topic of
37:01conversation here before you walked in I mean there's a lot to think about like my dad dating
37:07I'm honestly kind of excited because this would be this would be something well I've just heard
37:13you're like oh so-and-so told so-and-so told so-and-so I was like I need to
37:17hear from dad first
37:20yeah well I mean the divorce is final the divorce is final so go for it
37:28I'm sitting next to Zach and then my ex-wife pops into the picture and we're discussing dating and she's
37:35giving me advice it's really like an episode from the twilight zone but there it was you know it's
37:42a new age it's kind of comical when we're here like go for whatever I don't know what this world
37:47is
37:47anymore yeah I mean it's it's kind of weird to be you know I'm talking to my ex-husband about
37:55dating
37:55other people but I mean it's almost been five years since we separated so go for it I can't imagine
38:03going that long and not dating anybody is it just the dating that you can't imagine going that long without
38:12what do you mean
38:16so has that given you good advice or are you guys just talking oh he's giving me great advice I
38:21think the
38:21first thing we're gonna go do is just throw axes guys hang out should it concern me at all that
38:27the
38:28talk about Barry dating went straight to guys night no we're mixing okay how did we get to guys night
38:36out from Barry dating like did I miss something there's a girl supposed to be in there somewhere
38:41right that's definitely the way to start dating someone go have a guys night yeah there's there's
38:47dating and then there's guys night and I'm mixing the two right thank you for the heads up I'm getting
38:53lots of notes to file today here
38:57the ex-wife is there she's got a boyfriend Barry's looking to get a girlfriend it's just the dynamics
39:03are present and the tension but it's just not necessarily a conversation I feel like Kim needs
39:10to be a part of it's kind of an interesting dynamic of someone who wants to know it all and
39:15someone who
39:16maybe doesn't need to know anything about it so yeah this is a guy talk you guys can have your
39:21own
39:21conversations another woman can have them I'm okay with that so you know I've offered you this business
39:31Russell's military vehicles right there no I got somebody else's name right here we haven't talked
39:36in a while Tegan gave me the freedom to live up there or live down here and it's not good
39:43without her
39:43does she feel the same way or what you you think I think I gotta ask relationship are you dating
39:51anybody it's not like I really want to get into any conversation with Ken about my dating life it's
39:57been a very long time since I've even done anything like that although it'd be funny if I asked him
40:05let me give you a few pointers watch out for x y and z you know I heard that you
40:12broke up with
40:13Caitlin I don't know what the hell I was doing or thinking but I'm gonna try to unscrew it I
40:20really
40:20don't know if I will get her back that really scares me
40:24you
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