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00:00:11You
00:00:14Get it best defender I've seen in a minute. Don't do tricks. I don't know. That's not a trick. That's
00:00:20normal
00:00:25Look at you
00:00:28Balls coming in my face. No, I get so scared. I'm just gonna let you score
00:00:35Yay, our marriage lesson is easy peasy
00:00:51Now you can take her nice up turn out. That was beautiful
00:00:56And then just together. Oh, yeah, I like it
00:00:59Let's fall in love while we're young
00:01:04Fall in love while we're young
00:01:16Oh, did you give me flowers?
00:01:19I did.
00:01:22Oh, God.
00:01:25Of course.
00:01:26So today we are, as you can hear,
00:01:31they love to show off.
00:01:32I love that.
00:01:33Got a nice dinner plan.
00:01:34Final date before the wedding.
00:01:36It's kind of crazy.
00:01:39Meeting your fam.
00:01:41That was, like, one of the best nights of my life.
00:01:42How Tina and Brandon opened up their home,
00:01:45like, he wanted to show you his bourbon collection,
00:01:46and, like, Tina's like, go upstairs,
00:01:48and we have fresh towels, and we have this,
00:01:49and we have that.
00:01:49It's, like, how they showed up for us in that moment
00:01:54is how I expect, like, us to show up for others, too,
00:01:57as a household.
00:01:58You want someone to feel at home in your home.
00:02:01It's so important to me to, like, create a home like that.
00:02:05Yes, same.
00:02:07So with G-Man, I try to call him...
00:02:08Mr. McNeese.
00:02:09I try to say Mr. McNeese.
00:02:11I knew he was going to be, like,
00:02:14oh, my gosh, I have to come in, like,
00:02:17the iron fist of, like, Bree's dad,
00:02:19and, like, my baby girl is getting married.
00:02:20Like, I need to be so critical.
00:02:24You're cheesing.
00:02:25Like, are you laughing at me, or are you happy?
00:02:28No, it's just...
00:02:28I'm so...
00:02:28Like, it's just, like, so weird for me.
00:02:30I'm, like, being so honest.
00:02:32I feel like, weirdly,
00:02:33me and him are, like,
00:02:34a lot more alike than
00:02:36either of us would ever maybe admit.
00:02:38Even just, like, little mannerisms.
00:02:40It's, like, slightly look over,
00:02:41make sure, like, you're good,
00:02:42and just, like, always
00:02:44holding the door,
00:02:45paying for stuff.
00:02:46I don't know.
00:02:47I feel like
00:02:48he can see me as a normal guy.
00:02:50It was just really nice.
00:02:51We just kept
00:02:52talking about stuff,
00:02:53and he's, like,
00:02:54oh, she'll do that.
00:02:55Yep.
00:02:56Oh, you already know that.
00:02:57And I think he just said at one point,
00:02:59he's, like, I trust you kids.
00:03:00Like, even, like,
00:03:00when we were leaving,
00:03:01he's, like, well,
00:03:02might need to get a tux
00:03:02or something here soon, don't we?
00:03:04I do know what I want,
00:03:05and I wanted it to be us.
00:03:08You are just, like, a boss bitch,
00:03:10and you do what you want
00:03:11when you want.
00:03:12And the fact that you do
00:03:13choose me every day
00:03:15makes me even feel confident
00:03:17more about myself.
00:03:18Because, like, I am, like,
00:03:19I know what I want.
00:03:20You have so much in your place.
00:03:21So, like, you're, like,
00:03:22I want this man.
00:03:23So, like, that makes you feel like,
00:03:25hell, yeah, she wants me.
00:03:26Yeah, it does.
00:03:26That's interesting.
00:03:28Because, like,
00:03:29you are not getting the best of me.
00:03:31Like, I'm not myself right now.
00:03:33And it's crazy that you're
00:03:34falling in love with this part of me
00:03:35because, like, this is not my best self.
00:03:37There's gonna be some days
00:03:38where you need your resets
00:03:40that, believe me,
00:03:42I won't...
00:03:45ever take offense to it.
00:03:46You're grinding your ass off
00:03:47going to work,
00:03:48and I can just see,
00:03:50obviously, and just feel
00:03:51some of the stresses
00:03:52that you've been under.
00:03:53But you will...
00:03:54even if you come home,
00:03:55like, tired and exhausted,
00:03:56you still at least, like,
00:03:57give me a hug, give me a kiss,
00:03:58at least a little smile.
00:04:00I think even on some
00:04:01of my worst days,
00:04:02you know how to talk to me.
00:04:04The moments that I have...
00:04:07I've needed you,
00:04:08you've been there.
00:04:09And that means, like,
00:04:10the world to me.
00:04:13I feel like I even fall in love
00:04:14with you, like,
00:04:14more and more each day.
00:04:15Stop.
00:04:16Oh, okay.
00:04:19Like, each night
00:04:20we get to go to sleep
00:04:21and I'm just like,
00:04:21this is awesome.
00:04:23Each time I wake up,
00:04:24even though you're like,
00:04:25I need you to get me up earlier.
00:04:27Those five minutes
00:04:28in the morning
00:04:29when you finally
00:04:30let me cuddle you
00:04:31because you wanted
00:04:32to be away from me all night.
00:04:33Okay.
00:04:34Not all night.
00:04:34Ew.
00:04:35But, um,
00:04:37it's just, like,
00:04:37those little moments
00:04:38I'm like,
00:04:38feels like a forever thing.
00:04:41I know you're
00:04:41going to be a good mom.
00:04:42And especially
00:04:43since we're dreamers,
00:04:43that's all I'm thinking
00:04:44about right now.
00:04:44I'm just like,
00:04:45yeah,
00:04:46our little left-footed
00:04:48midfielder
00:04:48playing well
00:04:49and you on the sidelines
00:04:51cheering him on.
00:04:54Well, lists are endless.
00:04:55If it's a six-hour train ride,
00:04:57I can feel the time
00:04:58of why you'd be
00:04:58a good wife.
00:04:59Okay.
00:05:00Stop it.
00:05:03Well, let me just, like,
00:05:04talk about
00:05:05why the reasons
00:05:06I love Connor.
00:05:07Okay.
00:05:07I have heard my friends
00:05:09talk about dating.
00:05:09I've heard them
00:05:10talk about marriages
00:05:11and, like,
00:05:12all these things.
00:05:13And everybody kept saying,
00:05:14like,
00:05:15when you know,
00:05:15you know.
00:05:16Talking to you.
00:05:17Like, and I literally
00:05:18had butterflies,
00:05:20heart palpitations,
00:05:21everything in between.
00:05:22Like, it was just, like,
00:05:24I physically was, like,
00:05:25unwell.
00:05:26Like, I was like,
00:05:27oh, my God,
00:05:28this is the feeling
00:05:29they're talking about.
00:05:29Like, I'm insane.
00:05:30Like, this is crazy.
00:05:31Yeah, I was, like,
00:05:32done.
00:05:33She's getting married,
00:05:34put it all on Connor.
00:05:35I fell in love with you.
00:05:37If it wasn't you,
00:05:37it was nobody.
00:05:38And what's crazy
00:05:40is I know
00:05:41what it's like
00:05:43to feel loved now.
00:05:45Like, you
00:05:46fucking love me.
00:05:49I know you do.
00:05:51You love me.
00:05:53Like, you bring me flowers
00:05:55every day.
00:05:56You run down to the garage
00:06:00to greet me
00:06:01on my way home from work.
00:06:03You sometimes
00:06:04are my punching bag
00:06:05and you're, like,
00:06:06you're so cute
00:06:06when you do that.
00:06:07Like, I'm being a bitch.
00:06:10Like, you love me.
00:06:13I'm a psycho.
00:06:16I'm crazy.
00:06:18You even called me.
00:06:19You're like,
00:06:19you're a lunatic.
00:06:20I was like,
00:06:20I know,
00:06:20and you love me.
00:06:21You're my lunatic.
00:06:23I don't have to be
00:06:24anybody who I'm not.
00:06:25Never.
00:06:26I can be me.
00:06:27You loving me
00:06:28has opened up my eyes
00:06:30to be like,
00:06:31I am deserving of this.
00:06:33I should have somebody
00:06:34that loves every bit of me,
00:06:36every piece of me,
00:06:37and to find somebody
00:06:38like that is insane.
00:06:39You really taught me,
00:06:41like, what love is.
00:06:45To our last date
00:06:48in this experiment.
00:06:50It's crazy.
00:06:51Finding my favorite
00:06:52person ever.
00:07:07Well, Africa events.
00:07:08I gotta go play
00:07:09with the monkey.
00:07:09I gotta go play
00:07:10with the monkey.
00:07:12I'm returning you
00:07:13to sender.
00:07:15Bringing me home.
00:07:16Bringing you home.
00:07:22Hi.
00:07:24How are you?
00:07:25Oh, my gosh.
00:07:26Good.
00:07:26Hello.
00:07:27Oh, my gosh.
00:07:27Fun.
00:07:28Anything you don't want
00:07:29slobber on,
00:07:30remove now.
00:07:31Okay.
00:07:32So, here at the Columbus
00:07:34Sioux, we have 17 giraffes.
00:07:36We have quite a few.
00:07:37This is Bobby.
00:07:38Hi, handsome.
00:07:39He is actually
00:07:40our breeding bull
00:07:41of the herd.
00:07:42Oh.
00:07:42All right, Bobby.
00:07:43He's got four lovely
00:07:44ladies in the house.
00:07:45Look at you.
00:07:47And here she comes.
00:07:48One of them right now
00:07:49is Zuri.
00:07:50As you can see,
00:07:51they don't think
00:07:52they get fed at all.
00:07:53You are a lot of people.
00:07:56You are a,
00:07:57you know, you are.
00:07:59Emma, you gotta
00:07:59control your man.
00:08:01You gotta control
00:08:02your man.
00:08:04I just wanna stay.
00:08:08There you go, buddy.
00:08:10You're my best friend.
00:08:12Wow.
00:08:13Another head of lettuce, please.
00:08:15He's like,
00:08:15give me that.
00:08:17Just give it all.
00:08:22All gone.
00:08:26Hey, this is so cool.
00:08:27This is nice.
00:08:28It's so cute.
00:08:29That was really cool.
00:08:31I've never done
00:08:31anything like that, so.
00:08:32Oh, shit.
00:08:33Oh.
00:08:33Oh.
00:08:34Is that my boy?
00:08:35Probably.
00:08:36So cool.
00:08:37This is so cool.
00:08:38This is a great
00:08:39finale date
00:08:40before our wedding.
00:08:42It is.
00:08:42Smell like giraffe.
00:08:45Do you?
00:08:45A little bit.
00:08:46What does that smell like?
00:08:47Do you want to?
00:08:48Come on over.
00:08:50Feeding girass.
00:08:51For our anniversary,
00:08:52every year we, like,
00:08:53pick something on our
00:08:54bucket list and, like,
00:08:56do something super, like,
00:08:57cool and wacky.
00:08:58And whether the cool shit
00:08:59is, like, literally
00:09:01walking around the zoo
00:09:02together and, like,
00:09:03getting culvers
00:09:04and a sweet treat.
00:09:07I want to be able
00:09:08to, like, have
00:09:09shared experiences
00:09:10before we start a family
00:09:13and then, like,
00:09:13when that family comes,
00:09:14like, then it's, like,
00:09:16you get to do
00:09:18cool experiences
00:09:19with them.
00:09:20It's like Disney World
00:09:20and just, like,
00:09:21all of that stuff.
00:09:21But it's, like,
00:09:22I want to do things
00:09:23with us that
00:09:24we can do
00:09:25while we're young.
00:09:26Right.
00:09:27Then do stuff
00:09:29post-
00:09:29Right.
00:09:30I mean, I, that's,
00:09:31I couldn't agree more.
00:09:32Like, is that,
00:09:35I don't know,
00:09:35you said with family
00:09:36and stuff, like,
00:09:37you've been thinking
00:09:38more on that?
00:09:38Yeah, I have been
00:09:39thinking about it
00:09:40and, like,
00:09:46I, like,
00:09:47I 100% think
00:09:49you are the right partner.
00:09:50Like, I don't,
00:09:54like, I don't think,
00:09:55like, I just,
00:09:56I picture, like,
00:09:57what I was thinking.
00:09:58No, you're laughing,
00:09:59so I'm sorry.
00:10:00No, no, I, um,
00:10:01and, but, like,
00:10:02the way, like,
00:10:02I feel with you,
00:10:03like, safe and stable
00:10:04and, like, confident,
00:10:06like, it's one in a million.
00:10:07Like, I,
00:10:11I am continuing
00:10:12to be open-minded.
00:10:13Yeah, that's all.
00:10:14You just brought it up
00:10:15this way.
00:10:15No, no.
00:10:16Like, you're thinking about it.
00:10:17But I, but I am thinking about it.
00:10:18I want to show you
00:10:18I'm thinking about it
00:10:19because, like, I,
00:10:20I am, like,
00:10:21and I see,
00:10:23I see it.
00:10:24Like, I do see
00:10:25a family with you
00:10:25and I see,
00:10:27um,
00:10:29sorry, I was like,
00:10:29what is that?
00:10:30Um,
00:10:31the drops are talking.
00:10:36Go on.
00:10:37I see.
00:10:38It's like in Cabo
00:10:39and I can't stop laughing.
00:10:40Um,
00:10:42no, I, like,
00:10:42I see that with you.
00:10:43But I,
00:10:46I think that will, like,
00:10:48also continue
00:10:48just to grow with time.
00:10:50Sure.
00:10:52Sure.
00:10:53I get it.
00:10:53Yeah.
00:10:54You're not good.
00:10:57You're very cute.
00:11:11It doesn't feel like it's only been
00:11:13a month and a half.
00:11:14Like, I feel like I've known you
00:11:15for way longer than that.
00:11:17Yeah.
00:11:18That feels like so long ago.
00:11:20to see how far we've come.
00:11:21It's just crazy.
00:11:23Mm-hmm.
00:11:24How much, like,
00:11:25has happened
00:11:25in a matter of six weeks.
00:11:28A lot of country
00:11:29in six weeks.
00:11:30Mm-hmm.
00:11:31You had 16 girlfriends
00:11:33and I had 16 boyfriends.
00:11:34Oh, that was nice.
00:11:36Shut up.
00:11:37It's the only time
00:11:38I'll be able to do that.
00:11:40Ever.
00:11:41Take me back, honestly.
00:11:43That was when life was good.
00:11:46I can't stand you.
00:11:49Oh, man.
00:11:50What a ride.
00:11:52What a ride.
00:11:53You may get married
00:11:54in a week.
00:11:57It's crazy
00:11:58when you say it like that.
00:12:00Yeah.
00:12:02Oh, well.
00:12:04Let's go sit by the fire.
00:12:06I guess I haven't had
00:12:07this pressure before
00:12:09of, like, the marriage
00:12:10is more been in a relationship
00:12:11where it's like,
00:12:12you can just kind of
00:12:13drag things out.
00:12:14What we have, like,
00:12:15foundation-wise
00:12:16can last a lifetime.
00:12:18Yeah.
00:12:19You are the first person
00:12:20I've met
00:12:21that I felt like
00:12:23it's worth giving up
00:12:25my independence.
00:12:26Yeah.
00:12:27Well, that's good.
00:12:28I would say I'm definitely,
00:12:29like, worried about it.
00:12:30You were snoring last night
00:12:32legitimately.
00:12:33Stop it.
00:12:35Sound like a lumberjack.
00:12:36I'm a cute sleeper.
00:12:38To each their own.
00:12:42You say you're still
00:12:43going to choose me
00:12:43even though I snored like you?
00:12:46I don't know.
00:12:46You kind of sounded like
00:12:47Godzilla last night.
00:12:48Stop it.
00:12:50Did I really?
00:12:52Oh, yeah.
00:12:53Paul Bunyan.
00:12:54That's your nickname.
00:12:55Stop talking.
00:12:59My mind, like,
00:13:00at night has been racing.
00:13:01I haven't been able to, like,
00:13:02sleep.
00:13:03Of course we could say yes,
00:13:04but it's just, like,
00:13:06it's a lot.
00:13:08And it's definitely
00:13:09been weighing on me.
00:13:10Yeah.
00:13:11I need to, like, get away.
00:13:13Everything is, like,
00:13:13great and amazing
00:13:14but I'm just trying to, like,
00:13:16really, like, process it.
00:13:17I need, like, time
00:13:19to just, like, really sit
00:13:19because it's, like,
00:13:20it is a big decision.
00:13:21I feel like it's starting
00:13:22to, like, weigh on me,
00:13:24like, in a good way
00:13:24but it's, like,
00:13:25I've got to really sit
00:13:26with my thoughts
00:13:27and kind of, like,
00:13:28literally go ghost.
00:13:29Mm-hmm.
00:13:30I'll probably do, like,
00:13:31a day where I'm just, like,
00:13:33I'm unreachable, so
00:13:34completely off the grid.
00:13:36It's, like,
00:13:37completely, like,
00:13:38complete dark day.
00:13:39Like, phone probably
00:13:40won't even be on.
00:13:41Do you feel like
00:13:42you're not certain
00:13:43if you're going to say yes?
00:13:47Like, I'm, like,
00:13:49obviously, I would say,
00:13:50like, I'm 98% there.
00:13:52I told you my biggest fear
00:13:53is getting to the aisle
00:13:55and it being, like, a no.
00:13:57Yeah.
00:13:58I can see myself saying yes.
00:14:00Yeah.
00:14:00I wouldn't have my family
00:14:01come here if I didn't,
00:14:03if I wasn't going to say yes.
00:14:05Even though I already
00:14:05had a wedding dress,
00:14:06like, trying on
00:14:08wedding dresses again,
00:14:09when I tried it on this time,
00:14:11it was, like, exciting
00:14:13because I'm, like,
00:14:15I can see myself
00:14:16marrying you.
00:14:18I can be a wife
00:14:19and, like,
00:14:21have a husband.
00:14:22It does kind of feel
00:14:23like we're just
00:14:23in this fairy tale.
00:14:25Trust me, I get it.
00:14:28We were saying yes
00:14:29at the altar.
00:14:30Wow.
00:14:31There is one thing
00:14:32that I want to talk about.
00:14:35Someone told me
00:14:37that, like,
00:14:38the dress fitting day,
00:14:39they heard that
00:14:41I don't, like,
00:14:42kiss you enough
00:14:42or tell you you're pretty enough
00:14:43and to, like,
00:14:44remind me to do that.
00:14:46I was pissed
00:14:47because I was like,
00:14:48oh, I'm being talked about again
00:14:50in a negative way.
00:14:51They asked what
00:14:52Devante is going to say
00:14:53when he sees you
00:14:55in this dress
00:14:55and he said,
00:14:56well, he's a man
00:14:56of few words.
00:14:58I don't know
00:14:58what he's going to say.
00:14:59Yeah.
00:15:00I think everybody
00:15:02knows, like,
00:15:03how I feel about you
00:15:04and it's very obvious.
00:15:05Yeah.
00:15:06But I know
00:15:07you're not somebody
00:15:08that's ever going to be,
00:15:08like, gushing over me.
00:15:10Yeah.
00:15:10It's, like,
00:15:10not your personality
00:15:11and that's something
00:15:12that, like,
00:15:13I've had to come to terms with
00:15:14of, like, accepting
00:15:15that, like,
00:15:17that's not...
00:15:18Yeah.
00:15:19...like,
00:15:19how you show me
00:15:20that you think
00:15:21that I'm pretty.
00:15:22That makes sense.
00:15:23Obviously,
00:15:24I would like for you
00:15:25to tell me
00:15:25that you think
00:15:26that I'm pretty.
00:15:27Right.
00:15:27But I also know
00:15:29that that's not
00:15:30how you are.
00:15:32There's one more thing.
00:15:34I know the sacrifices
00:15:36that I've made
00:15:36to get to where I'm at.
00:15:38I don't ever want
00:15:39to lose that.
00:15:40Lose half
00:15:41of that
00:15:41or a lot of that
00:15:42and, like,
00:15:43I don't know.
00:15:44So,
00:15:45prenups,
00:15:47and I don't think
00:15:47that was, like,
00:15:48something we even
00:15:48talk about in the pods.
00:15:50So, I'm not saying
00:15:51that's directed
00:15:52towards you.
00:15:53That is more
00:15:53for, like,
00:15:54where I feel
00:15:56good
00:15:56in my own space.
00:16:00You're entitled
00:16:00to feel how you feel.
00:16:01Like, obviously,
00:16:02you have worked
00:16:03very hard
00:16:03to get where you are
00:16:05to build the life
00:16:06that you have.
00:16:07But,
00:16:08I don't know.
00:16:12I don't want
00:16:13to be married
00:16:14to somebody
00:16:14that feels like
00:16:14they have to
00:16:15protect themselves
00:16:16from me.
00:16:17I don't think
00:16:17people intend
00:16:18to be spiteful
00:16:19until they have
00:16:20the opportunity
00:16:20to do it.
00:16:21I'm not spiteful.
00:16:23Like, that's not
00:16:23who I am.
00:16:24That's never
00:16:24going to be who I am.
00:16:25I don't know.
00:16:26I guess it's just
00:16:27how I feel.
00:16:29Sometimes you don't
00:16:30know why you feel
00:16:31the way you feel.
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:37So is this you
00:16:38saying you want one?
00:16:42I think it would
00:16:42make me
00:16:45feel comfortable.
00:16:48I wish you would've
00:16:48brought this up sooner.
00:16:50Well,
00:16:51the reason I didn't
00:16:52is because I was, like,
00:16:53I'm not going to jump
00:16:54right into this
00:16:55when it's, like,
00:16:55we don't even know
00:16:56what everything else
00:16:57looks like.
00:17:00So if I didn't feel
00:17:01comfortable with the
00:17:02prenup, is that?
00:17:04Hmm.
00:17:08I don't know.
00:17:11I guess it's just
00:17:12something I'll have
00:17:12to decide.
00:17:13If I sign that paper,
00:17:16will I be able to
00:17:17not think about the fact
00:17:19that there's that
00:17:21in the background?
00:17:22Yeah.
00:17:23It just feels like
00:17:27you have a plan
00:17:29to not always
00:17:31fight for it.
00:17:33Well,
00:17:33I can tell you one
00:17:34thing,
00:17:35that I'm still here
00:17:36for a reason.
00:17:37You know that I'm
00:17:38not a quitter.
00:17:39I'm not asking you
00:17:40to make a decision
00:17:41right this second.
00:17:42Sleep on it.
00:17:44But we're going to
00:17:45be life partners.
00:17:46We've got to have
00:17:46everything out on
00:17:47the table.
00:17:48I've stayed because
00:17:49you actually, like,
00:17:50want to be here.
00:17:52Mm-hmm.
00:17:53You know, you said
00:17:54actions speak louder
00:17:55than words, and your
00:17:55actions, your actions
00:17:57have definitely shown
00:17:58me that it's worth
00:18:01staying.
00:18:03I didn't come this
00:18:04far to come this far.
00:18:05Were you planning on
00:18:05having this conversation
00:18:06tonight?
00:18:07Yeah.
00:18:07Oh.
00:18:08Yeah, tonight.
00:18:10Save the best for
00:18:11past.
00:18:13Because you knew
00:18:13that I wouldn't take
00:18:14it well.
00:18:15That's why.
00:18:16See, I know you.
00:18:20I think we should pray.
00:18:21When in doubt.
00:18:22What we need.
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:26Dear Heavenly Father,
00:18:27I thank you for this
00:18:28day.
00:18:28I thank you for
00:18:30Devontae.
00:18:31We trust you, and,
00:18:34you know, if we do
00:18:35choose to get married,
00:18:36God, I pray blessings
00:18:37over our marriage,
00:18:38over our future,
00:18:40over our kids,
00:18:40over our finances.
00:18:42I just thank you for
00:18:44Devontae.
00:18:44I thank you for
00:18:47everything that you've
00:18:47brought us through,
00:18:48and that you'll continue
00:18:49to bring us through.
00:18:50Thank you that we're
00:18:51going to be able to
00:18:52celebrate with our
00:18:52family next week,
00:18:54and I just thank you
00:18:56for the journey.
00:18:57Amen.
00:18:58Amen.
00:19:01Were you going for a
00:19:02high five there?
00:19:03I don't know how I was
00:19:04going for it.
00:19:07Oh.
00:19:10It's going to be okay.
00:19:12The sun will rise
00:19:13again tomorrow.
00:19:14Mm-hmm.
00:19:15Oh, not here.
00:19:17Not in a while.
00:19:20The clouds will rise
00:19:21again tomorrow.
00:19:30There you go.
00:19:38We're here.
00:19:40Yay!
00:19:40All right.
00:19:41I'm excited.
00:19:42Me too.
00:19:43Otherworld is Emma and I's favorite place to go.
00:19:46When I told Emma I was coming here with Jordan,
00:19:49which she has not met him yet, she's going to meet him Saturday,
00:19:51she was like, I want to go, I want to go.
00:19:53And I was like, we will definitely come back here with him.
00:19:56Emma was playing with my ring,
00:19:58and she has this little stuffed animal,
00:20:00and she had put it, like, literally right there.
00:20:04I found it in her toy box, and I was like,
00:20:06yeah, let's just not do that again.
00:20:09Any of you never do that again?
00:20:10Ever.
00:20:18Ready?
00:20:19Yeah, what do you got?
00:20:20What do you got?
00:20:24Oh, yeah.
00:20:25This one's tripping.
00:20:26Oh, man, I'm going to ram into a mirror in here.
00:20:28I know.
00:20:29Isn't this great?
00:20:30It's so fun.
00:20:31Yeah.
00:20:33This is so pretty.
00:20:34Yeah.
00:20:35Thanks for bringing me.
00:20:39All you need.
00:20:40They'll hear about us on device.
00:20:45So don't make me tell you why.
00:20:50Oh, let me on.
00:20:52Oh, let me on.
00:20:53Let me on.
00:20:54How do you want?
00:20:55Cheers.
00:20:56Cheers.
00:20:57Good games.
00:20:58Yes.
00:20:58Yes.
00:21:00Oh.
00:21:01Yes.
00:21:01So we have a little goodie bag.
00:21:04Oh, my gosh.
00:21:04But the grand prize is for you.
00:21:08Oh, my God.
00:21:09We will ever see this.
00:21:13Somebody's going to love that.
00:21:13Getting to meet Emma's finally.
00:21:15Yeah.
00:21:16That would be awesome.
00:21:16Saturday, yeah.
00:21:17I finally have a plan to meet Emma, which is going to be cool.
00:21:20So I wouldn't say that I have any reservations about the wedding,
00:21:24because I know Amber and I are on the same page.
00:21:26We're just looking forward to planning a life together.
00:21:29Can't wait to see what Emma has to say about that.
00:21:32Actually, you know what?
00:21:34Maybe I'll have you bring it to her Saturday.
00:21:37Hmm.
00:21:39I have another little thing for her.
00:21:41So maybe you can bring both.
00:21:42Okay.
00:21:43That'd be really cute.
00:21:44Okay.
00:21:44That's a good plan.
00:21:45We could fall in love.
00:21:48I'm excited.
00:21:50Me too.
00:22:02Ready?
00:22:03Is this where I get murdered?
00:22:05No.
00:22:06Are you proposing?
00:22:07Again?
00:22:08You know I get surprises.
00:22:10Trust me.
00:22:10Okay, okay.
00:22:11All right.
00:22:12So that's kind of what we got going on tonight.
00:22:14Oh, my gosh.
00:22:15Pretty cool, yeah.
00:22:16This is so cute.
00:22:17I'm obsessed.
00:22:18Yeah?
00:22:18Oh, my God.
00:22:19Yeah.
00:22:19Can I go sit?
00:22:20Absolutely.
00:22:21This is so beautiful.
00:22:23Did you plan this?
00:22:24All of it.
00:22:25Yes.
00:22:25It's like the most romantic thing.
00:22:27I love it.
00:22:29Want some champagne?
00:22:30Sure.
00:22:37Cheers.
00:22:38Cheers.
00:22:39Cheers.
00:22:39Cheers, Dad.
00:22:39Dad's expert.
00:22:40Seven years.
00:22:42I don't want that.
00:22:43I don't need that.
00:22:45Mm-mm.
00:22:45What are you most excited for on the wedding day?
00:22:47You running?
00:22:49No.
00:22:50No.
00:22:51Just spending time with you.
00:22:52Like, obviously.
00:22:53Wedding day?
00:22:53Yeah.
00:22:55You're gonna fall asleep.
00:22:56No, I'm not.
00:22:57What are we doing for our first Christmas?
00:22:59Be here before we know it.
00:23:00The globe right there?
00:23:01Yeah?
00:23:01You know that, like, bottom tip?
00:23:04It's called Antarctica.
00:23:05No.
00:23:05We're gonna go there for our first Christmas.
00:23:06No.
00:23:07If anything, we would, first of all, go to the North Pole for Christmas.
00:23:10It makes no sense.
00:23:11That's where Santa lives.
00:23:12You do make good arguments.
00:23:14Obviously.
00:23:15Okay, so, for real, what are we doing for Christmas?
00:23:17Switzerland.
00:23:19Um, St. Moritz.
00:23:20I don't know.
00:23:21We gotta go somewhere warm.
00:23:22A beach would be nice.
00:23:24Make that work.
00:23:25What's one thing you want to do in our first year of marriage?
00:23:27What's a goal we should have?
00:23:31We have to travel out of the country at least once.
00:23:33Yeah.
00:23:34I guess I would just love for us to, like, obviously know where, like, our home is.
00:23:39Oh, for sure.
00:23:39Like, at least where we want to be for a while.
00:23:41Whether it's Florida, Arizona, wherever, starting to have those roots.
00:23:46And, like, I don't want to, like, scare you when I say these things, like, you know, planting roots and,
00:23:50like, staying grounded.
00:23:50That doesn't throw me, like, as much as I feel like you think it might, but I do want it
00:23:54to be in a place where I'm not thinking about other places.
00:24:02How do you want to celebrate your first birthday as a married man?
00:24:05Ooh.
00:24:06I don't know.
00:24:07What about you?
00:24:08I normally like to go, like, on a trip somewhere, to be honest.
00:24:11It's gotta be warm, though.
00:24:12Mmm.
00:24:15No promises.
00:24:16You don't want me to be happy.
00:24:19What other questions you got for me?
00:24:22Hmm.
00:24:23Hmm?
00:24:25Um.
00:24:29I just asked one.
00:24:31What'd you ask?
00:24:33Uh, I thought I just asked one.
00:24:36No.
00:24:36Did I not?
00:24:37No.
00:24:37No, is that you?
00:24:38We were talking about birthdays.
00:24:39Oh, that's right.
00:24:40That is right.
00:24:41Um.
00:24:46I'm trying to think.
00:24:47What about your new dress?
00:24:49You have to be excited about it.
00:24:50I got emotional putting on the dress.
00:24:52Did you?
00:24:52Mm-hmm.
00:24:53I know.
00:24:53It's shocking.
00:24:54Um.
00:24:55No, it was, like, a very real moment.
00:24:57Yeah?
00:24:59Yeah.
00:25:01Thinking about what you were gonna think or say when you saw me.
00:25:04For sure.
00:25:04All the girls were there, and my friends were there, and just think how pretty I was.
00:25:09Stop it.
00:25:10But go on.
00:25:11My job.
00:25:11My job.
00:25:12Stop it.
00:25:12But go on.
00:25:14That's funny.
00:25:14No, but it was sweet.
00:25:16They asked, like, what's your dad gonna think when he sees you?
00:25:19And I just started crying.
00:25:20I was like, he's not invited.
00:25:21Like, he's no longer invited anymore.
00:25:23No, I'm sure he'll support you.
00:25:26We'll see.
00:25:31What's your mom gonna think?
00:25:33I think she'll be excited.
00:25:34Like, she's probably pushing more for grandkids at this point.
00:25:37Oh, my God.
00:25:37Really?
00:25:38I think so.
00:25:39Oh, my God.
00:25:40No, she's excited, though.
00:25:41What do you say, like, when someone asks you, like, tell me about Ashley?
00:25:44What do you say?
00:25:45Oh, I love her authenticity.
00:25:46The confidence and the competitive spirit that she shows is huge.
00:25:49I do love the fact that you're willing to put yourself out there.
00:25:53Um, try new things.
00:25:55What do you tell your friends?
00:25:57My friends hate you.
00:25:58I know.
00:26:00Ridiculous.
00:26:01I'm just kidding.
00:26:02I tell them that your golf swing needs a lot of work.
00:26:05It's true.
00:26:07No.
00:26:07That's just what you tell your dad.
00:26:09I did tell him that he needs some work.
00:26:10I'm just kidding.
00:26:12No, I tell them that you're very well-traveled.
00:26:15You're very passionate about soccer and day trading.
00:26:18It seems like your friends and family have nothing but good things to say about you.
00:26:23I think you'll be, like, a good husband, a good father, just based off of, like, your experiences.
00:26:30I love that.
00:26:31I love that.
00:26:32I love that.
00:26:32And I think when you, like, have something in your mind, you put everything you have into it.
00:26:37So that's why I think you've been successful in this experiment.
00:26:40Mm-hmm.
00:26:41You know, not tooting my own horn or anything, but, like, you got really lucky.
00:26:44I did.
00:26:44I did.
00:26:45With who you chose.
00:26:46So you know how to make a really good decision.
00:26:48I do.
00:26:51How are you feeling about having to make a decision?
00:26:54How confident, I guess, are you?
00:26:56I feel good about it.
00:26:57Yeah.
00:26:58I feel kind of like we're where we should be.
00:27:02Obviously, like, we're crushing it.
00:27:04Like, we've done.
00:27:04Crushing it.
00:27:05We've done very well.
00:27:06We've been on the same page for a long time, it seems like.
00:27:08So there's excitement there for sure.
00:27:10I know it's a big, big day.
00:27:12It's obviously, like, a life-changing decision.
00:27:16But everything for me goes back to soccer.
00:27:18Like, you can't plan out how the game's going to go.
00:27:20You just play it.
00:27:21Like, you're in that game and you're a part of it.
00:27:24And obviously doing your best.
00:27:26But you don't necessarily control the outcome.
00:27:29And this is one of those things that I control part of it.
00:27:32But it's an outcome that is going to happen how it was meant to happen,
00:27:37is the way I look at it.
00:27:38Stoicism helps out as well in the sense of, like,
00:27:41keep the emotions in check.
00:27:42I feel confident in the end product as well.
00:27:47Yeah.
00:27:48The fear of the unknown always gets me.
00:27:50You know that.
00:27:51I'm sure you got the vibe.
00:27:52I was, like, attracted to you.
00:27:53Because you were so confident in, like, your decision to choose me.
00:27:56Like, I've been second best so many times.
00:28:00Mm-hmm.
00:28:00And when you were like, I want it to be you.
00:28:03Yeah.
00:28:03That is when I was like, this guy's got it.
00:28:06That was it for me.
00:28:07I love that.
00:28:08I love that.
00:28:10Choose me and finish this?
00:28:11Finish?
00:28:12My God.
00:28:12Mm-hmm.
00:28:13You didn't make eye contact.
00:28:15Mm-hmm.
00:28:16I did in my head.
00:28:17So you're having bad sex for seven years.
00:28:19Oh, you're having it with me then.
00:28:21I will be having good sex.
00:28:21I've looked in your eyes.
00:28:23Did you?
00:28:23Anyways.
00:28:24We have a wedding, people.
00:28:26I'm excited for it.
00:28:27For you, I'd steal the sun so I could light your sun.
00:28:35For you, I'd stop the world from spinning just so we could have some time.
00:28:45Oh.
00:28:47Oh.
00:28:47Oh.
00:28:47Oh.
00:28:48How cute.
00:28:49How's this morning?
00:28:50Pretty.
00:28:52I can't wait for wedding day.
00:28:54Like, I'm on countdown in my head, but I'm just trying to remind myself to slow down
00:28:59and to take in every last moment that I get with Vic.
00:29:02Toast to many more memories, our future, and love.
00:29:08Yeah.
00:29:09Into one chapter and all the books to write to come.
00:29:13I like that one.
00:29:14Salud.
00:29:16Mm.
00:29:18Every phase of this has felt like an eternity in the best way.
00:29:24Yeah.
00:29:25You know it all.
00:29:26And you accept me for who I am.
00:29:28You love me for who I am.
00:29:29I don't think I've ever felt as confident about anything in my life, especially something
00:29:34so serious as this.
00:29:35And I know it's not even just, like, my decision, right?
00:29:38I mean, you're great in love, but...
00:29:42I've been praying for you for a lot longer than I've known you.
00:29:45Same.
00:29:47I can see and I can feel how much you love your family, how much you love your friends,
00:29:53how much you love your job, how much you love what you get to do and the change you get
00:29:57to be a part of, how much you love God, how much you love me.
00:30:03You just pour yourself out in, like, the best way.
00:30:06And it's a way that, like, fills you.
00:30:08And it's like, that's the part that I love.
00:30:10Mm-hmm.
00:30:11How, like, filling it is for you to love so much.
00:30:14Mm-hmm.
00:30:15You're an amazing woman and you know that.
00:30:17I don't even have to tell you everything about you.
00:30:21Your selflessness, the love you have in you.
00:30:23You're smart.
00:30:25Like, I think you're brilliant.
00:30:27I love hearing your stories.
00:30:29And I mean, I know you'll make an excellent partner.
00:30:33Sometimes I get speechless around you because of, it's just like, I get this, this, like,
00:30:41this wow feeling that happens.
00:30:44You're gonna make me cry already.
00:30:46Yeah, I love you.
00:30:47I love you too.
00:30:58You're somebody that I'd be and I am very, very, very proud to know and to love and to
00:31:10call you my husband and for you to be the father of my kids someday.
00:31:16Yeah.
00:31:18I love you very, very much.
00:31:20I love you deeply, baby.
00:31:22Deeply.
00:31:24Deeply, deeply, deeply, deeply.
00:31:26And you're just everything that I could want in so many ways.
00:31:30I mean, even just down to your hobbies and snacking on your cashews and just like,
00:31:34the little habits that you have and I think we're gonna complement each other.
00:31:38Mm-hmm.
00:31:39And push each other, push me to be better and...
00:31:42Vice versa.
00:31:43Yeah.
00:31:43You're gonna push me too, I know that.
00:31:44Yeah.
00:31:45I've never felt like this in my life.
00:31:47Mm-hmm.
00:31:48Yeah.
00:31:49Me too.
00:31:50And it just makes so much sense, you know?
00:31:52You look back at every single little stepping stone of your life.
00:31:56Even the hard times, you know?
00:31:57I'm just like, I would do those things a million times over if it got me here.
00:32:02Mm-hmm.
00:32:03Yeah.
00:32:04I'm saying.
00:32:05You're an answer prayer.
00:32:06And so are you.
00:32:07Mm-hmm.
00:32:09So are you, baby.
00:32:10And I love it, I love you.
00:32:11I love you too.
00:32:12I love you too.
00:32:13I love you too.
00:32:14I love you too.
00:32:15I'm so excited, so happy, so grateful.
00:32:18So, so grateful.
00:32:20You too.
00:32:24I had a great day with you, huh?
00:32:26I do.
00:32:27You a great day.
00:32:29Last Thursday.
00:32:30The last Thursday.
00:32:32Uh-huh.
00:32:35I love you too.
00:32:36I love you too.
00:32:37I love you too.
00:32:39I love you too.
00:32:48I love you too.
00:32:53I love you too.
00:32:54without you and I wouldn't have done it without you like there's no chance I
00:32:59mean we fell in love not even looking at each other I know it's crazy but you're
00:33:05not getting the best of me right now because I have just been grinding what's
00:33:12really sad is like I know I can give so much more when I see my friends and
00:33:18family tell you that you're not getting the best version of me and this isn't
00:33:21me right now it really hurts that's really tough to say out loud
00:33:27that's really means powerful it's a testament to you so even in maybe your
00:33:32worst version still obsessed with you
00:33:38you really do love me for the good bad the ugly
00:33:44even as we're seeing each other every single day when you text me at like 505
00:33:49like can I call you I get so happy
00:33:54I'm gonna start getting emotional like I just can't wait to like we've had so many
00:34:01nights where after the longest day we still just sit in bed and talk for like
00:34:04two hours yeah those are my favorite moments with you if this is who you are
00:34:10right now that's how much I'm obsessed with you stop I think once you get back into what
00:34:16you call your normal stay it's like I think you're gonna be able to give more love too so I'm
00:34:22excited for not only me how much more I even might love you which is I don't know if it's
00:34:26possible yeah but like you also to give off that love and accept it more too like I'm so excited
00:34:31to see that kind of transition I know you too
00:34:34do you think you're ready for marriage I am ready for it I think I'll be a good husband
00:34:40good father transparently when I came into your house I see your car and I'm like this guy doesn't
00:34:45give a like he doesn't give a shit about anything what does this mean about like how he's gonna show
00:34:50up for like a presentation of like our house and our family and like his job and is he proud
00:34:55of it like
00:34:55like I know like it's such a silly thing about a house and a car but like what clothes you
00:35:00wear and
00:35:00like how you present yourself it doesn't have to be like high-end crazy things but just like have pride
00:35:07and like that's a reflection of you it just makes me feel like it's lazy like there's no pride there's
00:35:12no like hustle there's no grit there's no like pride to this and like it just made me feel like
00:35:18who is this
00:35:18guy is he just gonna be a liability like I don't know I'm just so used to someone that's out
00:35:27alpha'd
00:35:27me like he's been the leader it's not like you're coming in and being like I'm gonna make like five
00:35:33times more money than you I live in a nicer house than you I do this like it wasn't like
00:35:38this extravagant
00:35:39like in your face like out alpha me you don't have the big energy where you're talking over me or
00:35:46ordering at the restaurant or like the confidence to be like she'll take this like you're kind of
00:35:51looking at me like what should we order like what and it was just like this weird energy that I'm
00:35:55not
00:35:55used to and it's actually interesting because we talk about challenge and challenge shows up so
00:36:00differently like is it challenging me to get up at six o'clock and go to the gym and like
00:36:04be
00:36:05disciplined about that maybe that's something that I would love for someone to encourage me to do
00:36:10but like also is the challenge of like being able to accept just being love for who I am
00:36:16some people think I don't care about a lot of things because there's not like a lot of I guess
00:36:20material things that like yeah I would love a nice car yeah I'd love a nice house and I can't
00:36:25wait for
00:36:26those things someday but that's why I do work and support you and a family someday but a lot of
00:36:31people sometimes just see like the keg on the outside or something or that I haven't cleaned up and
00:36:38uh I just don't love talking about myself I just like listening more is kind of who I've been
00:36:44you've actually seen more of me and I'm just very glad that you took the time because not everybody
00:36:51does my dad and I have had conversations he's like maybe that's you've been chasing the wrong thing and
00:36:56you need to shift into something like that where like you can still lead but you find somebody that's
00:37:01complimentary and leads you in other ways I just feel like I've been so critical and so analytical
00:37:08and like trying to figure out if this is my husband that I've like lost sight of like
00:37:13literally the whole concept of it is love blind because had I seen all those things
00:37:20I may be a past judgment on things that weren't true and I did yeah I like that's like the
00:37:27whole
00:37:27point of this experiment right I know you hustle and I know that you're proud of what you've built
00:37:32for yourself and I know you take pride in that and I hated that I watered that down because I
00:37:37do
00:37:37like it is incredible you own a house you have an established career I know you've worked your ass off
00:37:42to get where you're at and like you are thinking about the future and like what you could do with
00:37:47your career to support a family and do all those things like you have absolutely shown up for me in
00:37:53ways I have never been I've never experienced before I know that you love every piece of me
00:37:59the way that you make me feel loved is insane even on my darkest days or even when I'm like
00:38:04literally feeling the most disgusting like you think I'm the most beautiful person in the world
00:38:08however I show up to you is enough I'm trying to decide are you the total package or are you
00:38:16in my life to teach me how to be loved is this my person for the rest of my life
00:38:21is that true love
00:38:25I can't go up to the to the altar and be like yeah question mark am I ready to walk
00:38:33down the aisle
00:38:35no
00:38:42if I were to go down the aisle today it would be no for me
00:38:46but that makes me question like why why is it no because if it is the right person I'm like
00:38:54so deeply in love and it's like my person for life like would it matter
00:39:01I think I would have said yes to you you would have gone to the altar and said yes
00:39:05so had I been in a different space we would be at our wedding day
00:39:10yeah I would have on Monday said yes and I've been open about that I've
00:39:15no issue saying that um and I'm not gonna be ashamed of that
00:39:19and I know you don't think anything less of me because I wanted to marry you
00:39:23so
00:39:27what the fuck am I doing
00:39:33if we can get through this like I hope that it's not a no forever
00:39:37so do you see yourself marrying me someday I hope
00:39:41hold me up until the morning
00:39:47yeah
00:39:48break me down into the dust
00:39:54what a ride
00:39:57what an absolute craziest month of my life
00:39:59month it's been like years
00:40:02that's true
00:40:03let me sit on the couch or something
00:40:05is that okay I can't say with certainty that he's not my person like that's the hard part
00:40:10I hate that I have to say no I'm not ready
00:40:12I hate to be saying things like are you a lesson to learn or are you the love of my
00:40:18life
00:40:19it's really hard to understand why I'm going backwards I don't know why
00:40:22sucks that we aren't getting married Monday
00:40:23so it's just the way I feel
00:40:26and uh did I want to come here and just teach you how to be loved more
00:40:32no but I think any time before this if somebody had said that they aren't ready to marry me
00:40:39and I'm ready to marry them is I would have freaked out
00:40:41why do you think that's different?
00:40:43because of how much we do love each other
00:40:48I am optimistic and I know you're not going to run
00:40:52you've consistently proven that you're going to be there for me
00:40:55you are never, never alone
00:40:58you're never, never alone
00:41:01I would have said yes
00:41:03but
00:41:07that's life
00:41:08you've told me you're wise this whole time
00:41:09you've directly communicated where you were at
00:41:12I've never had that in my entire life
00:41:15and that's why I'm more excited to
00:41:19continue to grow, continue to prove
00:41:21that I'm going to be there for you
00:41:22I mean there's a reason
00:41:24that we fell in love sight unseen
00:41:27that's something I'll remember forever in my entire life
00:41:29and hopefully it's a connection that brings us
00:41:34even to the altar someday
00:41:36I love her with all my heart
00:41:37and I knew that before even seeing her
00:41:40so
00:41:41yeah
00:41:43I think love is blind
00:41:51this has been
00:41:52the ride of a lifetime
00:41:54so thank you
00:41:55no matter where you go
00:41:59you're never, never alone
00:42:03you're never, never alone
00:42:05you're never, never alone
00:42:09you're never, never alone
00:42:18yeah
00:42:19monster dance
00:42:21oh yeah
00:42:22this is going to be so fun
00:42:35it's monster jam
00:42:38it's bachelor night
00:42:40monster trucks
00:42:41good vibes
00:42:42good friends
00:42:43damn near family at this point man
00:42:45feeling good
00:42:48very Ohio
00:42:49kudos to whoever set that up
00:42:54let's go
00:42:57come on, come on, come on
00:42:58yeah, yeah, yeah
00:43:03today's the bachelet party
00:43:04and I'm feeling really excited
00:43:07fire me down
00:43:08and hit the bachelorette
00:43:11turn down for what
00:43:13oh my god
00:43:16turn down for what
00:43:18oh my god
00:43:19that is the cutest
00:43:20this is so funny
00:43:23we are at the casino
00:43:24celebrating our last night
00:43:26of single life
00:43:27hopefully win some money
00:43:28help me for the weddings
00:43:29no, just kidding
00:43:30turn down for what
00:43:32I'm going to be Alex
00:43:33Henderson's wife
00:43:34in a couple days
00:43:35and that is a crazy thing to say
00:43:37I'm going to be a wife
00:43:38turn down for what
00:43:39you're betting on love
00:43:40I'm all in
00:43:41first bachelorette party
00:43:50this is how I'm practicing
00:43:51walking down the aisle
00:43:52I'm just standing there
00:43:55with Alex
00:43:55I do
00:43:57Jordan, he's the best man
00:43:58I've ever met
00:43:59what I'm hopeful for
00:44:01is like tomorrow
00:44:02when he meets Emma
00:44:02that he'll realize
00:44:03it's not that scary
00:44:04and I think that would
00:44:05fulfill his life
00:44:07so much
00:44:07in ways that
00:44:08like he can't
00:44:09even understand yet
00:44:11I feel very goofy
00:44:12trying to walk sexy
00:44:17Amber's got the legs
00:44:21all right, let's hit it, baby
00:44:23damn
00:44:28there's no way
00:44:29the girls are having
00:44:30as much fun
00:44:30they just can't be
00:44:32Amber texted me
00:44:33a little bit ago
00:44:34and asked if I wanted pizza
00:44:35I said we're not done
00:44:36I wish she didn't get pizza
00:44:37though
00:44:38I'll eat the rest
00:44:39later
00:44:39she's probably asleep
00:44:41I hope she takes my dog out
00:44:45ooh, 40
00:44:47Jesus Christ, man
00:44:49now you're getting me killed
00:44:51as a quarterback
00:44:51I am excited to get to the altar
00:44:54and to see her in her dress
00:44:55we do have question marks
00:44:57in terms of children
00:44:58it does sound like she's coming around
00:44:59but I don't know what she's going to say
00:45:01excited?
00:45:02yeah
00:45:02excited, nervous
00:45:03it's a good night
00:45:06I love sports
00:45:08woo, woo, woo, woo
00:45:10oh, give me that
00:45:13oh my daisy
00:45:14can't let's serve
00:45:155-0
00:45:16oh my god
00:45:18I think Ashley's a phenomenal person
00:45:20so when I close my eyes
00:45:21and picture my wife
00:45:22in 5 years
00:45:23I see myself living in Florida
00:45:24with a phenomenal house
00:45:25potential trust in Dubai
00:45:27and a safe house
00:45:27in Queenstown, New Zealand
00:45:28I see myself very happy
00:45:30with a wife and kids
00:45:31or kids on the way
00:45:32at that point
00:45:33game point
00:45:33it's a good girl
00:45:35oh my daisy
00:45:36here's a toast
00:45:37to everybody fighting a husband
00:45:38woo
00:45:41it's a good girl
00:45:42toast to love
00:45:43come here y'all
00:45:44come here
00:45:44happiness
00:45:44toast to marriage
00:45:46goddammit
00:45:46marriage goddammit
00:45:48hold them all
00:45:48man
00:45:51it's so good again
00:45:54I've been waiting on my life
00:45:57just to get it right
00:46:00and we made it to the good life
00:46:04I've been waiting on my life
00:46:07today's my wedding day
00:46:08and I'm so excited
00:46:12big days
00:46:13I'm like really in my head
00:46:16right now
00:46:17really
00:46:18yeah
00:46:21children and like all the thoughts
00:46:22and like
00:46:23it's a big decision
00:46:24yeah
00:46:24I just don't want to make the wrong
00:46:27yeah
00:46:27have you talked to Mike at all today?
00:46:30no
00:46:30I texted him
00:46:31it's our motherfucking wedding
00:46:32and he goes
00:46:33like he thumbs it
00:46:34and he's like
00:46:34I'm very late
00:46:35I was like
00:46:35I am too
00:46:37we just had like fun last night too
00:46:39you know
00:46:39it's like we never talked about
00:46:40anything
00:46:41did you guys end up staying together last night
00:46:43or did you?
00:46:44no I like we went to our hotels
00:46:46I love him for you
00:46:47yeah
00:46:48mom loves him
00:46:50I've never felt this way about
00:46:52someone before
00:46:54yeah he's very comfortable
00:46:56he fits in really well
00:46:58he
00:47:01makes me feel so happy
00:47:03and so comfortable
00:47:04I just really haven't felt
00:47:07this
00:47:09light and free
00:47:13with someone before
00:47:32today's the big day
00:47:33getting married
00:47:33it's wild
00:47:34we're in this forever
00:47:36you know
00:47:36until death do us part
00:47:38how you feeling man?
00:47:40feeling good
00:47:41feeling nervous
00:47:42feeling a little nervous
00:47:43what are you nervous about?
00:47:44I mean
00:47:45I don't know if she's going to say yes or no
00:47:46oh
00:47:47it's scary
00:47:47what's the rest of the family thinking?
00:47:50they're supportive
00:47:51nobody understands fully
00:47:52just kind of
00:47:52what we've talked about
00:47:53and what we've gone through
00:47:54either
00:47:54that's the thing
00:47:55you're getting married
00:47:56that's a lot
00:47:57but
00:47:57it feels like forever
00:47:59exactly
00:47:59the hearts of thousands of women
00:48:01are going to break today
00:48:03I'm in Jeff
00:48:15you guys look so beautiful
00:48:18thank you
00:48:19thank you
00:48:20this is my sister Hannah
00:48:21I'm Hannah
00:48:22hi Hannah
00:48:23nice to meet you
00:48:24and this is my best friend Kayla
00:48:25hi nice to meet you
00:48:27I'm Patty
00:48:28hello beauty
00:48:30are you nervous?
00:48:31I'm excited
00:48:31good
00:48:34I feel so happy and calm
00:48:36oh Emma
00:48:38stop Emma
00:48:39no
00:48:41don't
00:48:42she just did your makeup
00:48:42I know
00:48:43I was like
00:48:44I'm a blubbering mess
00:48:45but yeah
00:48:48I feel
00:48:49just
00:48:50excited
00:48:51good
00:48:52good
00:48:53everybody is
00:48:54how are you feeling?
00:48:55I'm good
00:48:56thank you
00:48:56happy birthday
00:48:57thank you
00:48:57first day of 28
00:48:58how's mom and dad?
00:49:00good
00:49:00they're also kind of emotional too
00:49:02but they're really good
00:49:03they love him so much too
00:49:06they like
00:49:07think he fits perfect in their family
00:49:09Hannah's like
00:49:11Hannah what's your verdict?
00:49:12100% yes
00:49:14that man makes me feel
00:49:16so safe
00:49:17and so secure
00:49:18and makes me feel comfortable
00:49:20like in my own skin
00:49:23but it's a big decision
00:49:24right
00:49:25so I don't take lightly
00:49:29oh
00:49:29look at this guy
00:49:32I gotta put the button
00:49:33and everything
00:49:33yep
00:49:34have you been working out?
00:49:35I hate you
00:49:36yeah
00:49:38look sick on me
00:49:39big
00:49:39uh-huh
00:49:39oh yeah
00:49:40oh yeah
00:49:40oh my heart
00:49:42falling apart
00:49:44in your arms
00:49:46best friends forever
00:49:48and you from the start
00:49:50bracelet?
00:49:51the bracelet might be too much
00:49:53but
00:49:53the bracelet's too much?
00:49:54I like the bracelet
00:49:55my sister has the same bracelet
00:49:56I like the bracelet a lot
00:49:57but
00:49:57Bill
00:49:59not Bill
00:50:00alright
00:50:00this guy
00:50:01exciting day
00:50:02you got good men by your side
00:50:04looking forward to the future
00:50:06cheers
00:50:06cheers
00:50:07cheers
00:50:07cheers
00:50:07thank you guys
00:50:13oh
00:50:14oh
00:50:15oh
00:50:15where's my boy?
00:50:17look how spiffy you look
00:50:19you look so beautiful ma
00:50:20thank you my son
00:50:21oh my god
00:50:23you look fantastic
00:50:24I love you
00:50:25you look beautiful
00:50:28oh you look good hon
00:50:29thank you
00:50:30sorry
00:50:31look at that
00:50:31looking sharp baby
00:50:32huh?
00:50:35how you feeling?
00:50:36good
00:50:36good
00:50:37you excited?
00:50:38excited
00:50:38nervous
00:50:39yeah
00:50:39they let mommy and Callie go by Emma
00:50:42oh you were over there?
00:50:43nice
00:50:44how was it?
00:50:45she was emotional
00:50:46she's crying already?
00:50:48she says she's gonna cry
00:50:49let's sit down
00:50:50sit down
00:50:51I'm just concerned about you
00:50:53okay
00:50:54I'm gonna make sure you're okay
00:50:54I know you're stressed out
00:50:56yeah
00:50:57I mean
00:50:57I talked to you maybe what
00:50:59three times
00:51:00every single time
00:51:01you had an attitude
00:51:01which is understandable
00:51:03yeah I'm sorry
00:51:04I shouldn't take it out on you
00:51:05it's just
00:51:06you always call it the worst time
00:51:07huh?
00:51:09so it's actually unreal
00:51:10it really is
00:51:12she's uncanny for that
00:51:13it really is
00:51:13are you happy?
00:51:15yeah
00:51:15I just want you to be happy
00:51:16so
00:51:17you're happy
00:51:18I'm happy
00:51:18yeah
00:51:19you're miserable
00:51:19I'm miserable
00:51:21okay
00:51:21which I was
00:51:23so
00:51:24there's only so much crying
00:51:25we can do in the house
00:51:26oh yeah
00:51:28I relaxed
00:51:29I relaxed on the crying
00:51:31I relaxed
00:51:32mainly
00:51:32I learned a lot more
00:51:33about this whole thing
00:51:35so
00:51:35you know like
00:51:36this is a
00:51:37it's like a whirlwind
00:51:39you don't know detail
00:51:41you know what I mean?
00:51:43and I
00:51:43you know
00:51:43me
00:51:44as parents
00:51:45and you'll
00:51:45you'll notice
00:51:46hopefully one day
00:51:49we love you
00:51:50and
00:51:52we just want
00:51:53the best for you
00:51:54and
00:51:55you know
00:51:56understanding now
00:51:57I'm understanding now
00:51:58that you make the decisions
00:52:00so
00:52:00right
00:52:01you're your own man
00:52:02as long as you're happy
00:52:03you instilled that in me
00:52:05so
00:52:05at the end of the day
00:52:06we just want you to be happy
00:52:08and
00:52:08yeah
00:52:10I want different experiences
00:52:11you know that
00:52:12me and mommy dated
00:52:13for five years
00:52:15before we got
00:52:15before I asked her to marry me
00:52:17you know
00:52:18so that's
00:52:19you know
00:52:20that's why we were
00:52:21taken off guard
00:52:22a little bit
00:52:22in the beginning right?
00:52:24mhm
00:52:24yeah
00:52:26yeah
00:52:26but if she's the one for you
00:52:28making sure you're doing
00:52:29the right thing
00:52:29and you feel that way
00:52:29deep in your heart
00:52:31then
00:52:31you know
00:52:32we're behind you
00:52:33like you know
00:52:35I love her
00:52:36I think she's great
00:52:37I appreciate it
00:52:38she's a good kid
00:52:39yeah
00:52:40I mean
00:52:40she definitely fits in
00:52:43yeah
00:52:46it's a lot to take in
00:52:47I'm gonna be honest with you
00:52:48like just to think about
00:52:49starting off on the pod
00:52:50then turns into
00:52:51the rest of my life
00:52:52the rest of our lives
00:52:53we raised you right
00:52:54I know that
00:52:56I'm happy for you
00:52:57if you're happy
00:52:58I'm happy for you
00:52:58it looks so good
00:53:00okay
00:53:01bye
00:53:03alright I love you
00:53:05alright
00:53:06alright baby
00:53:07alright
00:53:07see you guys there
00:53:08yeah
00:53:09yeah
00:53:11she has the question marks
00:53:13in terms of children
00:53:14and that's our biggest thing
00:53:16so I would love for her to go first
00:53:19to see what that answer is
00:53:20if she can overcome that
00:53:21and say yes
00:53:22that means she's really thought about it
00:53:23and she's like
00:53:24I can see a future
00:53:25with Mike
00:53:26with children
00:53:27so I would love
00:53:28to hear her say yes
00:53:30I'm like okay
00:53:30that's the biggest thing
00:53:31in my mind
00:53:32is children
00:53:32you just check that off
00:53:34like let's do it
00:53:35let's dive in
00:53:35I hope I'm the one
00:53:38who gets to stand
00:53:42beside you
00:53:44I'd never let you go
00:53:49wow
00:53:50I hope I'm the one
00:53:54you're like okay
00:53:55I mean I love you
00:53:58sweet girl
00:53:59oh you look amazing
00:54:01oh my god
00:54:02you're so beautiful
00:54:03now I'm gonna cry
00:54:04you're so beautiful
00:54:06just wait for the veil mom
00:54:07stop
00:54:08don't cry
00:54:10ah
00:54:11so
00:54:13my pearl earrings
00:54:17my dad gave them
00:54:18to me
00:54:18for my wedding
00:54:20oh my god
00:54:23oh my god
00:54:24oh my god
00:54:29oh my god
00:54:30oh my god
00:54:30oh my god
00:54:31oh my god
00:54:32oh my god
00:54:33oh my god
00:54:39oh my god
00:54:42oh my god
00:54:44oh my god
00:54:44oh my god
00:54:44oh my god
00:54:45oh my god
00:54:45oh my god
00:54:45oh my god
00:54:45oh my god
00:54:45oh my god
00:54:46oh my god
00:54:46oh my god
00:54:47oh my god
00:54:48oh my god
00:54:49oh my god
00:54:50oh my god
00:54:52oh my god
00:54:57oh my god
00:55:04We are here no matter what you decide just make yourself happy trick
00:55:09Okay
00:55:10Final Cheers now Cheers. Love you. Here's good decisions
00:55:30Don't cry. Oh, don't cry
00:55:38I'm behind you a hundred percent. Thank you. Okay. I love you
00:55:43More than you know
00:55:46Okay, I'm nervous
00:55:49It's a lot to take in, you know, we're all behind you
00:55:54No
00:56:10Seasons come and seasons go
00:56:14Something inside
00:56:18Something inside
00:56:36Oh God, here she comes
00:56:43You look beautiful
00:56:45I'm trying not to wrinkle you
00:56:46Are you ready?
00:56:52Okay
00:56:54Love you, sweetie
00:57:00This dress is beautiful
00:57:01Wow
00:57:02Oh my God, I'm gonna have a freaking faint
00:57:05I guess it's okay
00:57:06It's okay
00:57:34It's okay
00:57:35Holy fuck
00:57:37Holy fuck
00:57:38Holy fuck
00:57:57I love you
00:57:59I love you
00:58:04You look so gorgeous
00:58:08It's okay
00:58:10How do you look gorgeous?
00:58:11Great
00:58:13All right
00:58:16I know, is it straight?
00:58:19Please be seated
00:58:23Good evening
00:58:26Adios
00:58:27Good evening and welcome
00:58:29I'd like to thank everyone in this room for being here today as we celebrate Emma and Mike
00:58:34And the journey they've been on together so far
00:58:37Today, the two of you are taking the first step of your new chapter
00:58:41And in many ways, a whole new life
00:58:44Loving someone in marriage is a reason to stretch beyond our limits
00:58:47To become more for the sake of the other
00:58:51It is to look into the soul of your beloved and accept what you see
00:58:56Yet hold space for all that they're going to become
00:58:59As you join today, you're announcing to the world that you're welcoming that challenge
00:59:03And all the joys that come with it
00:59:10Emma, our journey has been amazing
00:59:13And it wasn't easy
00:59:15We have so many questions with the kids
00:59:17And throughout our whole experience
00:59:19You have been open and understanding to hearing my journey and my story
00:59:26But I really just, I want to know that you want to start a family with me
00:59:33I know you've been thinking about it
00:59:35And it's not fair for you to have to choose now
00:59:37But one of the biggest things that I love about you
00:59:40And I love about us
00:59:41Is that we're able to communicate
00:59:43And we'll always be genuine with one another
00:59:47And get to the bottom of anything
00:59:50So thank you for that
00:59:51And thank you for making it easy on me
00:59:54To love such an amazing person inside and out
00:59:56Because I can't wait to see what the future holds for us
01:00:05Mike?
01:00:07Yeah?
01:00:08I knew that I was doing this for a reason
01:00:12And being here
01:00:13My reason
01:00:15Is you
01:00:17You've made me feel safe and seen and comfortable
01:00:22We have
01:00:23Gone through a lot
01:00:25I know
01:00:25You have
01:00:27Made me feel
01:00:30So special
01:00:32And empowered me to
01:00:34March to the beat of my own drum
01:00:36And not sacrifice who I am in the process
01:00:39And I can't ask for a better partner
01:00:41Like
01:00:42Throughout my life
01:00:45Love that
01:00:50Emma and Mike
01:00:51You chose to get engaged
01:00:52And spend the rest of your lives together
01:00:54Based on a deep emotional connection
01:00:56Looks
01:00:58Age
01:00:58Finances
01:00:59And all the superficial things of the world
01:01:01Were not a factor for you two
01:01:03Now is the time
01:01:05To decide
01:01:06Love is blind
01:01:13Will you get married
01:01:14And commit to facing life together
01:01:15Whether as husband and wife
01:01:17Or will you walk away forever?
01:01:29Emma
01:01:30Do you take Mike
01:01:31To be your lawfully wedded husband
01:01:33To have and to hold
01:01:35From this day forward
01:01:37For better or for worse
01:01:39For richer or for poorer
01:01:41In sickness and in health
01:01:44To love and cherish
01:01:46Forsaking all others
01:01:48For all the days of your life
01:01:49If so, say
01:01:51I do
01:02:01I've been thinking
01:02:03A lot about this decision
01:02:12There's a lot of things
01:02:16Things that we still need to
01:02:19Go through
01:02:22Whether that's today
01:02:23Or whether that's two years from now
01:02:33I've been thinking about
01:02:34How you make me feel
01:02:38And I can't
01:02:45I can't
01:02:48See
01:02:49A future without you
01:02:51Yeah
01:02:52Yeah
01:02:56And I love you
01:02:59I really really do
01:03:01And if that was
01:03:02A yes
01:03:17Mike
01:03:18Do you take Emma
01:03:20To be your lawfully wedded wife
01:03:22To have and to hold
01:03:24From this day forward
01:03:25For better or for worse
01:03:27For richer or for poorer
01:03:29In sickness and in health
01:03:32To love and cherish
01:03:33Forsaking all others
01:03:35For all the days of your life
01:03:42If so, say
01:03:43I do
01:04:12Wedding day
01:04:14Everything is like great
01:04:15I can see my life
01:04:16Being with you
01:04:17I know Christine
01:04:18I know all the parts of her
01:04:21And she knows all the parts of me
01:04:22It's a lot of pressure
01:04:25How you think your sister's
01:04:26Going to take care of everything
01:04:26This is a strange
01:04:28Like meeting on the day of
01:04:29Really?
01:04:30What are you all doing?
01:04:31This is like the calm
01:04:32Before the storm
01:04:33I'm ready
01:04:34Now is the time to decide
01:04:36If love is blind
01:04:40She flat out calls him a liar
01:04:42You're so strong
01:04:47Every storm
01:04:49Will make a
01:04:50Fire
01:04:52Every heart
01:04:55Will feel
01:04:57Desire
01:04:59Every love
01:05:02Will lose me
01:05:04Higher
01:05:05Something inside
01:05:07You can't let go
01:05:28I know all the parts of my life
01:05:29I know all the parts of my life
01:05:29I know all the parts of my life
01:05:29I know all the parts of my life
01:05:29I know all the parts of my life
01:05:29I know all the parts of my life
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