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90 DayFiance Before the 90 Days 2026 Season 8 Episode 17
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00:00:00Previous season, before 90 days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:07I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:47Here we have sex.
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:09Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:17Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:25If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You're blowing.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:35This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:42My trust is broken right now.
00:01:45I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:52I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:07I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:11Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:19It's my guy.
00:02:20Good luck.
00:02:22You all right?
00:02:23Yeah.
00:02:24Are you okay?
00:02:25So cute.
00:02:26You run to her after this, right?
00:02:28Asshole.
00:02:30I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:32But that I'm done.
00:02:55Go to the gym?
00:02:56No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:58Rough night.
00:02:59Another one?
00:03:01Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:03She went off yelling, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:06How many people were there?
00:03:08Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:09Oh, f*** off.
00:03:10She stands up and she's like,
00:03:12how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:17I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:19Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:22I just don't know what to do.
00:03:24I'm confused.
00:03:30It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:32It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:33Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:38This morning, I'm really deflated.
00:03:40There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:45I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:47Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:52That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:03:57I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:03:59It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:01So, it's a lot to think about.
00:04:17I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:26I couldn't sleep and I, I just am embarrassed.
00:04:29I should not have acted that way.
00:04:38Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:41I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:43I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:44Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:49Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:53I don't like embarrassment or personal coming up.
00:04:56I acted cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:00I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:04The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her.
00:05:06That just brought up a ton of emotions for me.
00:05:08And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:12And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:22That should never happen once.
00:05:26There's going to be a common occurrence.
00:05:29That.
00:05:31You know, I'm out.
00:05:38Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:46Are we still going to go to the zoo?
00:05:53Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:55I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:02I would understand if you don't want to take me.
00:06:04I, I.
00:06:05Whatever.
00:06:06We can go to the zoo.
00:06:10I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:12For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:16But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me
00:06:20or he really likes it, but I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:24Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:26And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:32I'm going to get ready.
00:06:34Can I have a hug?
00:06:36Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:43I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:48I'm sorry.
00:06:50Yeah.
00:06:53But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:58My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:03Well, good luck with that.
00:07:06My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:08And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:12really am,
00:07:13I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:22Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:25Mm, they're cute.
00:07:27Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:29Uh, yes.
00:07:29I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:32Scent, yeah.
00:07:33Hi!
00:07:35Her name is Kamira.
00:07:36Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:38She is very cute.
00:07:40Can I touch her?
00:07:40We can't touch her here.
00:07:41We are completely hands off.
00:07:43She does like people a lot.
00:07:45Hi!
00:07:46Oh, really?
00:07:48Hi!
00:07:49She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:51She is like a little teddy.
00:07:52Most people probably think we're animals in Australia.
00:07:54They think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:07:58We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:00Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:02Fun fact.
00:08:03I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:07Really?
00:08:08Yes.
00:08:10Thank you so much.
00:08:12Thank you so much.
00:08:12It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:13Anytime.
00:08:14Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:15See ya.
00:08:17Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:19We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:22We can.
00:08:25I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you
00:08:29know, everything that went on last night.
00:08:40So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:44Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay, or, like, I'm trying to just,
00:08:51I don't know how, like.
00:08:53To interact right now.
00:08:54I don't know what to do.
00:08:58I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me.
00:09:03And then, what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:09That was completely wrong, and I will own that.
00:09:12And I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last night was, like, that's
00:09:17not, that's not cool.
00:09:19And I'm sorry.
00:09:49All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:50Tate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:57I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:03and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions, and I think just the...
00:10:07You've got answers.
00:10:09You've got answers.
00:10:12You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:20I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:22I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:24It will not happen again.
00:10:31No, I appreciate that.
00:10:34Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:40I'm not very confident.
00:10:42See how convincing you are.
00:10:45I'm sorry.
00:10:47When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing,
00:10:53and it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:58Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:59Can we feed them?
00:11:00We can, yeah.
00:11:02I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh,
00:11:06and that's not fair to him.
00:11:08You are so cute.
00:11:11I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance
00:11:14and not throw this all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:21But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:37Come on, I'm a train reader.
00:11:39I'm a train instructor.
00:11:41I've got my train reader.
00:11:42I'm a train instructor.
00:12:26I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:30She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move,
00:12:34and she made the move.
00:12:39I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one
00:12:47who wanted to be more than friends.
00:12:51How do I know if she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:12:55Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:01Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:05Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:08Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:10Maybe it's a solo lie.
00:13:16Hey, baby.
00:13:18Hey.
00:13:19How was your day?
00:13:21Perfect.
00:13:22Was it okay?
00:13:23Yeah.
00:13:23I'm curious.
00:13:24I enjoyed it.
00:13:27Did you really?
00:13:29Yeah.
00:13:29He's a good guy.
00:13:33I've been saying that.
00:13:34That's a relief to hear.
00:13:36He's a good guy, but it turns out you were not so good.
00:13:46Why, what did I do?
00:13:51He told me that you made a move on.
00:14:02There is one person I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:09That one person was your best friend.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:13That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:17I didn't say anything because it was like literally nothing to tell.
00:14:26I didn't make you think that. You thought that all on your own.
00:14:33It was almost a year ago.
00:14:36I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:40It is a little thing.
00:14:42It is not a little thing.
00:14:43It's 100% a little thing. It was one tiny little thing.
00:14:46We got drunk. We were on the couch. I tried to kiss him. Big deal.
00:14:53One night, almost a full year into our friendship and before I met BeerCon.
00:14:59Michael and I were watching TV and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:04Pretty soon we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch.
00:15:09And I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:12He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:16Although it was really hurtful in the moment.
00:15:18Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:20It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:23And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:27Because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:36I don't trust you.
00:15:40This is your obligation to tell me your past.
00:15:45You tried to kiss him, okay?
00:15:48Yeah, I did.
00:15:49That means you had feelings for him.
00:15:52You wanted something.
00:15:54They couldn't have it.
00:15:56Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:15:59He is still in your life.
00:16:01And you kept this from a secret.
00:16:04Nothing happened.
00:16:06And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:09It doesn't matter.
00:16:10You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:15What would you like me to say?
00:16:18Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:21I was drunk.
00:16:23I tried to kiss him.
00:16:24But he refused me.
00:16:25But we are still friends.
00:16:30That was hard?
00:16:31No.
00:16:32You didn't want it to say.
00:16:37I'm trying to change my country.
00:16:39I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:16:44Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:16:50This is so ridiculous.
00:16:56I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:02I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:06I mean, let's be real.
00:17:08He's kept a lot of secrets from me.
00:17:10And I'm still here.
00:17:12That pisses me off.
00:17:16You're missing all the points.
00:17:18I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:23Nothing is going-
00:17:23Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:25Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:31I-
00:17:32No.
00:17:33Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:17:37Or just don't talk.
00:17:38Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:17:43You wanted a young husband.
00:17:44Deal with it.
00:17:46You know what?
00:17:48I wish we never met.
00:17:51I don't have to go through all of this-
00:17:52I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
00:17:54You meant- you wish that who never met?
00:17:57Us.
00:17:58You and me?
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:01I can trust you.
00:18:03That's fine.
00:18:04I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:09Mm-hmm.
00:18:14If you care this much-
00:18:15No, it's fine. No, I don't.
00:18:16You cross the line.
00:18:18If you're gonna tell me that you wish we never met,
00:18:22I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:24Okay.
00:18:37I'm sorry.
00:18:38I miss you.
00:18:39There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:42What is that?
00:18:44Oral sex.
00:18:47Her fellow women have been giving her oral sex.
00:18:50I am not a woman.
00:18:52I have my d***.
00:18:55There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:01My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning,
00:19:05sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:07Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:13We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:17But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
00:19:25Not just following her orders around.
00:19:29When you know, you know.
00:19:32That's how the story goes.
00:19:34I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:19:36Then you came and made it so easy.
00:19:39I got this in a globe.
00:19:41It looks like we're gonna get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:44Woo!
00:19:45Banana.
00:19:46You gonna put me at the plate?
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:56Hello.
00:19:58Hello, everyone.
00:19:59Hello.
00:20:00Hello.
00:20:01Welcome.
00:20:03Good afternoon, pa.
00:20:04Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:06This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:20:09Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:11We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:13All right.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:16Should I really need to wrap up?
00:20:17Remove my tops or something?
00:20:19No.
00:20:19If you want, ma'am.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:21It's okay.
00:20:22Last night, Sheena and I, having the night away with each other, getting a chance to be
00:20:27with each other intimately, that was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:32And I'm hoping the spa treatment is gonna help us de-stress.
00:20:35Light down, man.
00:20:36Light down.
00:20:37Okay.
00:20:38Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines.
00:20:41And I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:47And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:20:51Very great.
00:20:52Oh, wow.
00:20:53I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:57I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:01This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment.
00:21:04And it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food.
00:21:08Which is, most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:13It's kind of funny.
00:21:16How's things looking up there, ladies?
00:21:17Pretty good?
00:21:19It's okay, sir.
00:21:20Yeah.
00:21:21I feel like a giant wrapped tamale here.
00:21:24Tamale, bro.
00:21:25They're gonna throw me in the oven next.
00:21:27I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:29They're gonna steam you.
00:21:31This is so strange.
00:21:32Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:36Oh, my goodness.
00:21:38But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move as the sun blasts
00:21:47me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:21:52It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:55Hello, honey.
00:21:56This is quite relaxing.
00:21:59Yeah.
00:21:59I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:01And it's starting to rain.
00:22:03Oh, yeah.
00:22:04I love the rain.
00:22:05Yeah.
00:22:06Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:09Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:13Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:17Yeah.
00:22:19I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:21And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:26And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:33Wow.
00:22:34I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:22:37I love you, baby bear.
00:22:39I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:43I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:45If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:49I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:52Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:22:59But at this point, living in the Philippines is, I feel, the best option.
00:23:04It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:08I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:14are way out of my bounds.
00:23:17It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears
00:23:23out my soul.
00:23:24I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:23:31You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:36And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:23:44us only.
00:23:47Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:53Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena, I felt like
00:24:00I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:06That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:13My mom has always been a very controlling person, and I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm planning
00:24:19on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:23I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:26Babe, mom would strangle everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship, even though I happen to
00:24:35try to do many things for her.
00:24:37It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:24:42do some things that you wanted to do, not just following her orders around.
00:24:48You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:52My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:00I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:06from my mother.
00:25:08Hello, mom, sir. Excuse voice. Time's up.
00:25:10Okay, thank you.
00:25:11But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:19I'm scared.
00:25:23I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start life together.
00:25:26It's your time to shine, honey. I'm there for you.
00:25:41You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:55You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:04Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:09You have to decide it, because you are not given this time to take care of a baby with me
00:26:24or not.
00:26:27If no one of them died, your motherIslie would like to take care of a baby.
00:26:35You just want the answer to this and that your mother is not given to her.
00:26:38You want to have a baby or not.
00:26:54My uncle said,
00:26:56we are strict about having children
00:26:58because they represent our family line continuing.
00:27:04That's what we believe.
00:27:06And it's not going to change.
00:27:08So we only wait for you, and you know that.
00:27:13In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:19I understand that, and I would hate for Trish
00:27:22not to be respected by her community over this.
00:27:26If Trish didn't have a baby,
00:27:28I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:27:32I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:27:46But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:27:54I don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:07I know how important it is to the family, and I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:17If we're going to be together and get married, then I want to make you happy.
00:28:24I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:28:32So I have to say yes.
00:28:37So you're saying yes now?
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Why do you change your mind like that?
00:28:44I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:29:05I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly, because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:13Maybe because of my uncle's pressure, but I'm really excited.
00:29:20And also my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:29:29So when are we going to have the baby?
00:29:38I will file for the visa.
00:29:41It's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:29:44And then once she's approved, after we get married, then that's when we're going to start planning our family together.
00:29:53And then it's going to be like 21 years later.
00:29:58I've been in the house to get married.
00:30:00So they've got to get married.
00:30:05The city is going to get married.
00:30:08At the beginning of the year, they get a married life.
00:30:28So what if it's after 20 years, you start?
00:30:32By the end of August, in about three months,
00:30:36then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:40So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:30:45and you will start the process?
00:30:48If everything goes in the direction
00:30:50that it's been going in the last few days, then yes.
00:30:54That's what's going to happen.
00:31:12They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:31:18This is great news.
00:31:21I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:26Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision,
00:31:29because I really wanted to be with Trish.
00:31:33And the only way that I would be able to is to agree
00:31:37to have a baby with her.
00:31:40But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is,
00:31:46it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:51I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities
00:31:55of having this family with Trish.
00:31:58Trish, she would be a great mother.
00:32:02And I'm actually starting to envision it,
00:32:06and things are looking really good.
00:32:09Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:21When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry
00:32:24how I will get to America, right?
00:32:26I'm going to do that, right?
00:32:27You do know I can't keep sending as much money
00:32:30as I have been.
00:32:34Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:32:37I can't even spend money anymore.
00:32:39I'm done.
00:32:50I want to snuggle before we get up.
00:32:53One last snuggle.
00:33:02Now I have more sex with you before you go.
00:33:05Are you happy for you?
00:33:07I hope so.
00:33:11Baby.
00:33:12Baby.
00:33:13Here's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:33:16One promise.
00:33:18What is that?
00:33:18World sex.
00:33:19Oh.
00:33:22Why are you putting it off?
00:33:25I know you like it.
00:33:26And you've been talking.
00:33:27You've been hammering on that you've been.
00:33:28There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:33:31And that's a major one right there for me.
00:33:34It's major for me.
00:33:37I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:33:40Because I've never tried it before.
00:33:42I don't know how to do it.
00:33:45Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex
00:33:47she wants.
00:33:48And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:33:51I am not a woman.
00:33:53I have my , yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:00When we get married, I'll make it up to you, OK?
00:34:04Promise.
00:34:05I promise you.
00:34:06You better keep this promise, because I've done so much.
00:34:09I'm sorry, OK?
00:34:11I will make it up to you.
00:34:16I wish it's possible for us to stay, like, spend,
00:34:18like, one more week.
00:34:21It's not possible.
00:34:23You've got to start getting ready.
00:34:27OK.
00:34:28I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:34:32And more than half my trip was fighting
00:34:36with Daniel about my lies.
00:34:38And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:34:43And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:34:45Everything is done.
00:34:46I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:34:49I don't want to go home.
00:34:53Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you
00:34:56before you left.
00:34:59I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:03So that means when you get back to America,
00:35:06you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America, right?
00:35:09I'm going to do that, babe.
00:35:11My first step is to get back to work.
00:35:13And then I am going to get in touch
00:35:16with an immigration lawyer.
00:35:17OK.
00:35:18We are going to find out which is better,
00:35:20the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:35:24Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:35:27That would be nice.
00:35:28OK?
00:35:28So that's what we'll do.
00:35:29That's OK.
00:35:33But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money
00:35:36as I have been.
00:35:40At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer,
00:35:45getting you to America, doing what we need to do.
00:35:48I cannot send any more money.
00:35:50I can't even spend money anymore.
00:35:52I'm done.
00:35:57That's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is, OK?
00:36:01So maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance.
00:36:07Thanks.
00:36:10You have to try not to, because I have to save for us
00:36:12to get you to America.
00:36:15Um, babe, there's no problem about that.
00:36:20I have you.
00:36:21So we have a game plan now.
00:36:23Yes.
00:36:24Hmm.
00:36:26Hmm.
00:36:28Hmm.
00:36:28All right, I have to get dressed.
00:36:30You have to get dressed.
00:36:30We have to get going.
00:36:33She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:36:35Fine, because I'm not getting married to her
00:36:38because of the money she's giving me.
00:36:39No.
00:36:40I'm getting married to her because she's
00:36:43the one I want to settle down with.
00:36:45She has good plans for me.
00:36:47She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:36:50She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:36:54Babes, this is so funny.
00:36:56You going to wear it today?
00:36:58Do you know what women will say to me?
00:37:00What?
00:37:00They will say your wife is weak.
00:37:03Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:05Oh, my God.
00:37:07So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:37:09She's, she deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:37:12That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:37:21All I want is love, and she has been giving it to me.
00:37:24I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:37:28I will miss everything about her.
00:37:31Even the sky is crying.
00:37:33It's raining.
00:37:35You're my husband.
00:37:36I love you.
00:37:37I love you.
00:37:51You're my husband.
00:37:55I love you.
00:38:00I love you.
00:38:06meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:38:08I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:38:13I didn't imagine any of this.
00:38:14I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:38:16I mean, none of this I never could have experienced
00:38:20without coming here.
00:38:27I don't want to go.
00:38:30But I have to go.
00:38:34I don't know what you're doing with you.
00:38:36It'll happen soon.
00:38:38When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:38:57It's OK.
00:39:00It's OK, baby.
00:39:01It's OK, baby.
00:39:05I love you so much.
00:39:07I love you so, so much.
00:39:10We'll be together soon.
00:39:16Why, baby?
00:39:21I feel that I will not see her again because anything can happen.
00:39:27She might go back to her country and she might change her mind on most of the promises, like
00:39:33bringing me to her country, you know, the visa.
00:39:37I am hoping she will do it, but we are not married legally yet.
00:39:42So it's very hard for me to say goodbye.
00:39:46I miss you so much.
00:39:50I love you, baby.
00:39:51I love you, baby.
00:39:51I can't do it.
00:39:51You have to walk away from me.
00:39:53I can't do it.
00:39:53I don't know.
00:39:56I don't know.
00:39:58I don't know.
00:40:07I'll, I'll go.
00:40:12it's very hard i feel like i'm not gonna see him again even though i know i'm going to
00:40:16i'm making these plans but i'm thinking what if they fall through
00:40:22what if it's more than six months what if it's more than a year what if what if what if
00:40:28it's
00:40:28two years what happens between daniel and i i don't know
00:40:49it's nice it's a big house we can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:40:54i was really upset with elise and how she acted at the bar the other night but she's trying to
00:41:00make it up to me you know i've never used the kitchen in my house so the fact that i'm
00:41:03doing
00:41:04this must mean i really like you
00:41:28okay we have everything you think yep okay to a trip just us
00:41:33chris gets the place to himself now
00:41:36silence is coming soon it's finally peaceful
00:41:42on the moon
00:41:46blue mountains
00:41:49what's this uh it's called deodorant
00:41:57i was really upset with elise and how she acted at the bar the other night but elise has realized
00:42:01she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me and she's organized a two-night
00:42:06stay at the
00:42:07blue mountains take me away the blue mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls and it's a
00:42:13different part of nature besides the beaches that sydney has so i'm excited you know i've never even been
00:42:20i wouldn't say all is forgiven but she's trying and this is a good start
00:42:34oh my god are we here we are here
00:42:38this is nice it's a big house we can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:42:44yes we can
00:42:48i knew absolutely nothing about the blue mountains but josh has always spoken about it and how much he
00:42:53wanted to go so i decided to book us a trip
00:42:56and there's hot tubs there so i was like love that
00:43:00look baby look what i got us
00:43:02whoa
00:43:03oh wow
00:43:04a lot of space for a lot of activity
00:43:08you're the best
00:43:09i know
00:43:10i thought it was a great idea to get out of bondi away from nat away from chris away from
00:43:16boats
00:43:16i just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more
00:43:23get out of the kitchen i was cooking for you
00:43:27so
00:43:28you know i've never used the kitchen in my house
00:43:30so the fact that i'm doing this for you must mean i really like you
00:43:33that does mean a lot
00:43:35this should be fun
00:43:37oh
00:43:42baby
00:43:43what have you done
00:43:44baby
00:43:46this is not the first step i thought was going to be in my mouth
00:43:50oh no
00:43:52baby
00:43:54trying
00:43:56this
00:43:56you
00:43:57you
00:43:58oh
00:44:00that was
00:44:02half of it went in my mouth my face my boobs
00:44:05maybe
00:44:06should i take out
00:44:09why isn't this coming to a boil
00:44:11i don't know how to turn on the soap
00:44:13oh
00:44:15which pasta do you want
00:44:17that's so embarrassing what packer was that in i'm making you two types of pasta
00:44:28nope not ready oh god this feels really good
00:44:39i read somewhere i heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall so like
00:44:45if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall then you know it's ready like yeah but i
00:44:49don't
00:44:49think that's the same with penne pasta let's throw in the pasta oh my god there's water in you
00:45:01i think i just ruined the sauce baby the kitchen is definitely not her element but i love seeing
00:45:09the side of elise is doing something that she's not used to doing all right at least she keeps me
00:45:16on my toes i don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale and i know it's not
00:45:22going to be
00:45:22dull with her let's see here we go is it good it's actually not that bad
00:45:33it's horrible be honest i'm not picky it was the most fun i've had making dinner
00:45:41i laughed my head off and i needed that me too you know what's so cute about josh is like
00:45:48when i
00:45:48up or i do something stupid or i feel really awkward like he makes so light of it i don't
00:45:53know it's like it's the little moments like like then that i'm like you know what like i feel like
00:45:59he could be my forever but there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on and it's been
00:46:04constantly playing in the back of my mind i don't know if i can go back to florida not having
00:46:11met your
00:46:12son to see how you are as a father you would have you would have met him already i would
00:46:17want you to
00:46:17but he's moved away so for now like can we face time will that work yeah i'm not trying to
00:46:26harp on
00:46:26him again after everything that we've went through but i'm leaving soon and i haven't met anyone in his
00:46:31family i haven't met his son and this is a huge part of his life that i'm completely missing out
00:46:37on
00:46:38so i really really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip pretty full me too
00:46:48i'm looking for wedding bands i like classic stuff
00:46:54it is really important for me to have the wedding ring 268 dollar
00:47:00i think he's not sure they don't want some men mistaken me as you know still available single woman
00:47:09they can have you sure why not we have a wiener yeah you really wanted that don't you
00:48:05that was fun yeah that was so fun
00:48:09oh look at those jobs that's where you can find very nice wedding gowns and dresses like really
00:48:16pretty nice can't wait for the anniversary party yeah
00:48:25things with javon and i are really good and now in a couple of days we're having our anniversary party
00:48:32where we're going to renew our vows
00:48:36since we never had a wedding in person basically it's just like a second wedding to me you know
00:48:45because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face i've been dreaming about this and now
00:48:53it's
00:48:53happening and i just can't wait okay boo are you ready yeah i guess so
00:49:06now that we're going to bring you our vows good afternoon we decided to look at rings
00:49:15we've been married almost three years and sometimes i still can't believe that jubon hasn't put a ring
00:49:23on it yet i feel like i'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band
00:49:32hi hello what are you looking for uh we're looking for wedding bands we have different style okay what are
00:49:40you prepared for well i'm okay with a simple plain wedding band i want it more classic i like classic
00:49:48stuff
00:49:53this one
00:49:57it is really important for me to have the wedding ring my symbol of love you need a ring to
00:50:04symbolize
00:50:05that i assume you don't want some men mistaken me as you know still available single woman they can have
00:50:12you okay okay she's on the market i'll go i'll go i'm playing you relax
00:50:19when is your wedding well we're actually married already but we don't have an official wedding rings
00:50:27yet we did our marriage online that's why you know to be fair you know i did get you a
00:50:36ring okay you send
00:50:38me your money and i bought a ring that's under 100 dollars that's turned my finger green but that's what
00:50:47i thought no i thought it's just a substitute drink how about poor sir what do you think when it
00:50:56come to bands like i prefer like like like this silver in the middle kind of sporty but they don't
00:51:04sell that
00:51:04here i already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married and i like it a lot
00:51:15i'm not a jewelry person and i really don't want to spend money on something i don't need or want
00:51:23like i'm not a jewelry person and i don't want to spend money on something i don't want to spend
00:51:24money on
00:51:24this one is good it's just that it's too uh what skinny like do you have something that's a little
00:51:31bit
00:51:31wider wider i have different kind of this time okay this one this one is good i like this one
00:51:42more simple but really looks like i'm married you know what i mean how much is this
00:51:50per gram no yes 15 510 in peso 15 510 how much is that that's 268 in dollar 268 yeah
00:52:00do you have
00:52:01anything budget no we didn't really have a budget but he's not sure are we gonna buy this
00:52:13what do you mean today yeah i gotta come back
00:52:18you can come back
00:52:29yeah because i gotta sort out my bank stuff okay
00:52:35why would you bring me ring shopping if we're not gonna buy anything anyway
00:52:41what's the point of going out just to get an idea of what you want
00:52:54thank you so much bye-bye
00:52:59i feel so humiliated that i can't even have the cheapest ring it's not just a jewelry
00:53:08it's a symbol of our marriage i waited six years to be together in person
00:53:15he never applied for a spousal visa and now i still don't have a ring
00:53:23once again he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship
00:53:44i don't know why he insists that i'm in love with him i really don't i mean you did jump
00:53:51on a plane and
00:53:52come to my rescue i don't think he's the only person that thinks that
00:53:59there's a lot of layers there and i mean
00:54:20hey hey
00:54:22what concern from that phone call you gave me yeah me too
00:54:36i'm assuming you've talked to mirror con yeah i did it was super great thanks for that
00:54:42i kind of partly blame you okay
00:54:48i don't know he's you don't know i don't know what was said between you and him
00:54:53i only know my end of the story okay so we have to come together okay super curious what was
00:55:01going
00:55:01through your head telling him that i hit on you like i don't understand what how that even came
00:55:08up we never did anything and he's pissed off about it because i didn't tell him told me that he
00:55:15wishes
00:55:16he never met me and i kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring that up
00:55:22okay okay and i'd like to know why you did okay i brought it up because beer con was under
00:55:30the
00:55:30impression that i was in love with you that man kept pushing and pushing and pushing and at some
00:55:37point i need him to understand that i said no to us having a relationship but you were the one
00:55:46that asked
00:55:46and from that he got very upset and i tried to reassure him it was a year ago it didn't
00:55:51i mean
00:55:52it was before you met him i feel like honestly it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage
00:55:59it
00:56:00how long have you been here with him how long have you been here with him two and a half
00:56:06weeks
00:56:06and in two and a half weeks you cannot convince him that was not a threat
00:56:16but that's not on me i did everything i could to diffuse that situation
00:56:22i don't know why he insists that i'm in love with you i really don't i mean you did jump
00:56:28on a plane and
00:56:29come to my rescue i don't think he's the only person that thinks that
00:56:37there's a lot of layers there but no that's not something i want to happen anyhow
00:56:45more friends i don't want to anymore
00:56:50at the end of the day i want you to be happy all i ever heard was little stories here
00:56:55and there about
00:56:55him from you you said all these bad things and just why does she keep talking to this guy
00:57:02so i came to meet him to see all the other good stuff and you don't have to worry about
00:57:07him and i
00:57:07anymore you just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you before you make a commitment
00:57:13i don't even know what to do right now like there's part of me that just wants to like go
00:57:17have another
00:57:17conversation with him but i don't even know what to say because he just told me he wishes he never
00:57:21met me okay but the opposite of love is not anger it's apathy so angry means he still loves you
00:57:30i don't believe michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically but i
00:57:37think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind and i think he does care about the future
00:57:42of my relationship with beer con beer con is the person i need in my life and i want to
00:57:49fix this
00:57:50i just don't really know how to go about it so what do i do i feel like he never
00:57:57could understand
00:57:58that i didn't feel like that was that big of a deal do you acknowledge that he felt the way
00:58:03he did
00:58:03it didn't matter it didn't matter whether he was right or not no i never said that at the end
00:58:08of the
00:58:09day the relationship is more important than the argument which means somebody has to say i'm sorry
00:58:19it's amazing how the words i'm sorry when said truly can diffuse a situation okay i see your point
00:58:28i guess i'll go give him a call and see if i can fix that thank you i'll let you
00:58:38know how it goes thank you
00:58:58yeah how are you i'm good okay how are you i'm okay um i was just wondering if we could
00:59:10talk
00:59:13uh-uh not today i'm sorry did you say not today yeah
00:59:23am i not supposed to come back to the apartment i'm sorry just give me the space
00:59:32okay i guess i will get a room somewhere okay we both need time yeah we both need to think
00:59:43about
00:59:43what's going on okay okay bye bye
00:59:59i don't want to force you but like am i ever going to meet your son when elise asked to
01:00:05meet my son
01:00:06i can see that she really really cares but honestly after all the fighting with elise i've had my doubts
01:00:11about trying to let her into the most important part of my life
01:00:22oh my god oh that's hot oh that's nice right oh it's really hot
01:00:28that's burning me oh you found the champagne i got it it did so good i think we should open
01:00:36it
01:00:40wow cheers to that
01:00:49what a perfect ending to a perfect little guy what a drive good cooking
01:00:58it's so funny huh so funny okay i tried so am i making it up to you am i doing
01:01:05a good job so far
01:01:07yeah absolutely well have i made it up to you enough that like you can let me in your own
01:01:14world
01:01:18yeah well i want to be with you and i'm scared that i've came literally around the world and all
01:01:26i've met is like a few friends and i don't want to force you but like am i ever going
01:01:32to meet your son
01:01:38when elise asked to meet my son or you know talk to my son i find that endearing but honestly
01:01:44the
01:01:44last couple of days after all the fighting with elise i've had my doubts about whether i'll introduce
01:01:49him or not obviously i'm very protective of my son so i want to be confident that this relationship is
01:01:55going to work i understand he's young and it's like a video call and it's probably like a lot to
01:02:03explain to him yeah i do want to prove how much you mean to me but um that's been playing
01:02:12on me heavily
01:02:14what's been playing on you heavily explain that it's just been a tough year i didn't i didn't move
01:02:22him away but you know he's an hour and a half plane ride and i don't see him as much
01:02:28as i want
01:02:30i still feel like he thinks i can get up there a lot more than i can so it's just
01:02:37a guilty feeling for me at the moment i miss him you know especially when you're here you know
01:02:45really well yeah well because when you're here i think you know if if he was here as well it'll
01:02:49be like i'd love you two to get along and then it'd be like perfect little world
01:02:57i guess it's just painful to to think about it
01:03:02it's okay to have feelings it's okay to be upset if you weren't emotional about your son
01:03:08and you didn't feel this way i would be worried i'd be very very worried
01:03:13it means you're a good dad and it means you care
01:03:20you know it's like having a son's a responsibility and like excitement and you do things with him and
01:03:25then when something like that gets taken away from you you're like i feel like i lost myself
01:03:31yeah i feel like i've sort of lost a bit of myself
01:03:36my relationship with my son we're really tight i've been there since he was born he's my little
01:03:42partner in crime um we go camping we go fishing surfing you know we kick footballs we go and play
01:03:48golf
01:03:48it's such a good part of my life so it really did hurt this year when i didn't have that
01:03:57i want to help make you feel like you're back together
01:04:03i want to be that rock for you
01:04:07i want to be there for you support you in any way i can but you have to let me
01:04:14into your life
01:04:15i can't do that without getting brought into your life
01:04:20this is very emotional because being away from my son affected me you know more than i thought
01:04:26but i don't want that to hold me back from bringing elise fully into my life
01:04:30i can see that she really really cares she's shown that she's worthy of you know getting to know my
01:04:36son but at the same time it is scary to let her in the most important part of my life
01:04:42what if things don't work out you know that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us
01:05:09i mean after getting her family's approval
01:05:43i don't want anything
01:05:51My family is happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:06:04Hello, man.
01:06:05Now.
01:06:06Yo.
01:06:07You feel your bliss.
01:06:07Oh, my God, they're crying.
01:06:10Hello, man.
01:06:11Let me and real soon.
01:06:13I'm going to make it.
01:06:14Yeah.
01:06:16I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them, yes, that I'm willing to have a child.
01:06:21But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:06:25Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family, but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:06:33Now, Trisha and I, we can sleep together and, you know, take a nice, warm shower together and not have
01:06:39to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:06:44They were really happy.
01:06:46You see, all of them.
01:06:48Wasn't it?
01:06:48Wasn't it?
01:06:50I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off after I sent it out, after I agreed to
01:06:57have that baby.
01:06:58They're so sweet.
01:07:00Gonna miss them.
01:07:04I'm ready to have a baby.
01:07:06But what if you change your mind?
01:07:13Maybe.
01:07:14As long as we're going and moving in the right direction, I'm all on board with having a baby.
01:07:20Because I know that it'll make you happy and know that's what you really want.
01:07:28I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm financially ready to
01:07:35have another child.
01:07:37But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises, this could put Trish in a very bad
01:07:44situation with her family.
01:07:46I know how much her family means to her.
01:07:49So I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:07:54I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation to financially support another child.
01:08:01But, um, yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:08:07Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:08:11Our future.
01:08:17You're...
01:08:18Duval.
01:08:19Baby, I love you more than anything.
01:08:32You have to eat in the restroom or anything?
01:08:35No, I don't eat anything but just, um, I don't eat chicken.
01:08:45Well, damn.
01:08:47Our flight's been delayed.
01:08:49That's it.
01:08:50We wait for one hour.
01:08:52Hope this bad boy's going straight to Tanner.
01:08:57Couple of days in Tanner before...
01:09:00My baby, I'm going to go back.
01:09:07That's really sad.
01:09:09Sad story.
01:09:12It's just all beginning.
01:09:16I'll go.
01:09:23I'll go.
01:09:24I'll go.
01:09:24Why?
01:09:26Come on.
01:09:27Let me see.
01:09:28Let me see.
01:09:28Let me see.
01:09:29If you don't want this one, I will tell you.
01:09:31Yes.
01:09:31So let me see.
01:09:33No.
01:09:33No.
01:09:34No.
01:09:35No.
01:09:35No.
01:09:36No.
01:09:37No.
01:09:37No.
01:09:38No.
01:09:38No.
01:09:38No.
01:09:38No.
01:09:39No.
01:09:41No.
01:09:50No.
01:09:57No.
01:09:58No.
01:09:58No.
01:09:58No.
01:09:58No.
01:09:58No.
01:09:58No.
01:10:01No.
01:10:01my phone it kind of it kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at
01:10:08my phone and she probably saw that my ex had texted me this is the same ex you
01:10:18went to see in Colombia a few days ago I got a text message from my ex and she's
01:10:42telling me that you know she misses the times that we we had together and and
01:10:48I responded and I responded inappropriately
01:11:25he told me that he's not talking to his ex that is just completely over between Rick and that girl
01:11:34but they start talking what we are at my father's house
01:11:49he makes me sad
01:11:58like I love him we talk about the babies the future and I we took my dad just give him
01:12:10blessing
01:12:25I mean after getting her family's approval everything just felt it felt different it did the whole couple
01:12:33weeks prior how did I come so close to getting my what I wanted and then I just
01:12:46I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish and it feels like this is
01:12:53really the end in the final chapter
01:13:03are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States we are leaving tomorrow
01:13:11I know my mom is not going to accept it but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:13:17to ensure she and I are together
01:13:18I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines this is our choice
01:13:46man I'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today I know he feels relaxed when mom is
01:13:51sitting around in her bed and sorrowful
01:14:05so when I talked to Forrest he's like oh surprise mom I went and met with a lawyer and the
01:14:12lawyer says he has to have like a certain amount of income something like like that he didn't do anything
01:14:18right at all
01:14:20I'm upset right now Forrest is coming back and for the last few days Dev and I haven't heard anything
01:14:27from Forrest or Sheena and we've just felt like we're kind of been left in the dark you know I
01:14:33don't
01:14:33know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation I don't know what
01:14:42the conversation is gonna be we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow and we're not sure what
01:14:52they're thinking or planning at all
01:15:03hey mom how's things going it's going pretty good how are you guys
01:15:13well I think we need to have a talk
01:15:16yeah I think we need to figure things out a little bit yeah that's kind of why we're here
01:15:25today is supposed to be my last day in the Philippines but Sheena and I have made the decision for
01:15:31me to stay
01:15:31here and basically start a life here with her you ready yeah we're gonna go let's go all right guys
01:15:39I
01:15:40know that my mom is not going to accept it but she has to understand that I'm not the child
01:15:47that you
01:15:48know she's seen all these years I have changed a lot this trip and I'm ready to do what I
01:15:54need to do
01:15:54to ensure Sheena and I are together
01:16:01wow
01:16:15came from originally from a punishment during the Spanish era that people would have to put their feet and they
01:16:21have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet
01:16:27oh my goodness oh look at that yay oh thank you oh that's beautiful
01:16:35good job guys well you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo but you
01:16:43have to
01:16:43be in a rhythm with your partner too at the same time kind of like a life well I think
01:16:50Sheena and I
01:16:51will work moving in perfect rhythm yeah definitely so Sheena do we get menus or how does how does it
01:17:05work
01:17:06there's a set menu that's going to be prepared so you can try guys thank you so much so with
01:17:20the
01:17:20the um where where you guys went just fill me in what happened and give me all the details
01:17:28um yeah I feel like me and Sheena we really bonded
01:17:32in more ways than one
01:17:44you had sex didn't you
01:17:49you know what yeah we did
01:17:53now time
01:17:55I enjoyed it it was fun
01:17:58yeah
01:18:01you guys think that you have a good physical connection with each other
01:18:07yeah I feel like our souls really connected when now we can really understand each other
01:18:19I'm happy that you know my son finally lost his virginity finally you know
01:18:42it's a sad thing that we have to leave
01:18:52you and that forest has to leave you tomorrow but it must be very painful but are there plans
01:19:00being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get you over to the United States
01:19:10did you guys talk make any plans because this is we are leaving tomorrow
01:19:20yeah we we talked a lot yesterday um with the k-1 visa I found out that being on disability
01:19:29I don't make
01:19:30enough money so she and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines
01:19:41forrest
01:19:42I'm tired of being alone oh my god I did not expect to be staying here long term
01:19:50oh you didn't expect to fall I want my love with me my second half this is our choice
01:19:58what's that you just came out of your mouth
01:20:01mom where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out
01:20:05was that in between the
01:20:07excuse me you can say one thing something you want to say but for me I have him he had
01:20:12me
01:20:12I don't care if you're here for my son
01:20:14I want to be here for my son because I love your son and I've worked everything for heart for
01:20:19him for our future
01:20:20I want you to trust your son for once in a while
01:20:27I trust my son I don't trust you
01:20:34I'm sorry I just want to need space
01:20:38sorry
01:20:47next time on before the 90 days
01:20:49when do you plan on applying for the fiance visa
01:20:53so I can live in boonies
01:20:55I thought you were going to apply for me in the U.S.
01:20:59no
01:21:01Stig never mentioned wanting to move to the U.S.
01:21:04it's two hours before I'm leaving
01:21:06it's just really weird timing
01:21:08you won't be able to make any money
01:21:10I swear you're going to be my sugar mama
01:21:13I wish we could have talked it out last night
01:21:16you've been texting with him this morning what has he been saying
01:21:19I asked him if we could talk and he said sure
01:21:22so
01:21:23I want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how I ever felt about
01:21:30Michael
01:21:30why did you mislead me like Michael made the move
01:21:34I was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him
01:21:41can you do that
01:21:45are you excited about today
01:21:47I think I should ask you that question though
01:21:49I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows
01:21:53it's just going to be like the basics
01:21:56I just wanted today to be full of love
01:22:01but it just feels like any other day for him
01:22:04I don't know
01:22:06I can't pretend that everything is fine
01:22:12I love your son and I'll do anything my best for him
01:22:15love doesn't pay the bills
01:22:16Gina
01:22:17you know I'm like in panic mode
01:22:20that he's going to move to the Philippines
01:22:21it's not going to work
01:22:23it won't work
01:22:24how much do you think that you're going to make working here
01:22:28where are you going to live for us
01:22:30have you even factored how much it's going to cost
01:22:33I don't know what to do
01:22:37all the messages in the text
01:22:39why did you betray me
01:22:42why don't you block her
01:22:44if you want this relationship
01:22:46tell her that you don't want her anymore
01:22:48that I'm with you
01:22:51I love Trish
01:22:53but love isn't so black and white
01:22:57I need to be honest about my feelings
01:23:00I don't know what to do
01:23:05oh my god
01:23:06stunning
01:23:07I don't think Elise realized
01:23:09you know what she'd signed up for
01:23:15come on baby
01:23:18at first I'm just thinking
01:23:20she's being a drama queen
01:23:23I start to think
01:23:24oh is she okay
01:23:28don't Think
01:23:29help me
01:23:29love me
01:23:29help me
01:23:29help me
01:23:30help me
01:23:30help me
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