First Dates Ireland Season 11 Episode 10

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00:02this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything

00:15is possible but you piqued my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing their cool

00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven

00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses

00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village hall

00:48what happens next is up to them

00:55would you like to see each other again romantically

01:10hello my love again

01:15yes it's doyle bringing so much sexy back it's a potential fire hazard

01:24this is going to sound like it's very self-absorbed but i'm hot

01:30i believe in miracles

01:34way from you sexy

01:38you drop to hot people in a place the temperature is going to increase so it's basically science

01:46so i'm going to align my energies my chakras

01:50you know to make sure that i like embody the kind of person i want to be and i want

01:57to meet

02:02we call it the humble doors

02:05mister you look familiar

02:07do i yeah well you do yeah thank you do i look familiar to you very familiar here we go

02:12now

02:43hi there's good to see you again

02:43we try we try we try nice to see you the family's back

02:46the family is back

02:48how are you feeling

02:49really scared actually really more than the last time more than the last time which is really weird

02:53lewis beautiful boy beautiful skin love that really funny

02:59looked like a great match last time

03:01you know he got a boyfriend

03:02oh did he he did yeah

03:05harder than you i find that hard to find

03:07i wish we love a happy ending but i am still single

03:13maybe someone slightly older

03:17not too old

03:22behold benizio an absolute stunner if you catch him on a good day

03:27some days i'm five sometimes some days i'm going i'm going to be ten

03:31i'll give myself a ten because if i don't give myself a ten who give me a ten and i

03:35need a ten

03:35up so that i'm feeling ten

03:44nobody thinks that i'm an affection person because i look very tough

03:49i look like a big mountain but inside like i'm just like a dedicated flower so

03:55mister and easier nice to meet you

03:58nice to meet you judging by the name brazilian

04:01yes sao paulo sao paulo just yeah look a fella

04:06it doesn't matter how you look if you look amazing if you don't have the confidence you don't look

04:11attractive and i think that's the most attractive thing

04:13no

04:15hello

04:17nice to meet you

04:19how are you

04:19hi i'm all right

04:21an easy

04:21yeah where are you from brazil

04:23doyle where are you from

04:25nigeria nigeria i'm 25% nigerian

04:28the name is very nigerian

04:30do you think

04:31and how important is that initial sexual attraction

04:34a hundred percent

04:36because if you don't if you don't have the sexual chemistry you just get a friend

04:40and you're very pretty

04:42i think you're you're gorgeous too

04:43thank you

04:44when someone is talking and i love what they're saying

04:47i just kind of move around like this

04:49i'm in a flow state

04:50i'm just enjoying what they're saying

04:52hi how are you

04:53i'm good thinking yourself

04:54you look well

04:55oh god you're matching

04:56dang tops galore here

05:00i love a bit of romance

05:01i'm a bit of a sop like

05:03do you know flowers

05:04oh

05:08my time will come on

05:12whatever happens next won't surprise bria

05:16she's already considered every possible outcome

05:21my physical comedy is going to peak

05:23i can see it already like

05:25oh there she comes

05:27i would have thought about it but i can't don't fall

05:29don't walk past the door

05:31that'll all go out my brain

05:33and i'll walk up

05:34oh it's heavy

05:36i definitely overthunk the situation already

05:39i'm so sorry i made so much noise there a second ago

05:42i didn't hear nothing

05:43what's your name lovely

05:44ria

05:44look lovely

05:45thank you likewise

05:46a bit of leopard

05:47oppa

05:48feisty

05:49the animal in me is coming out

05:52i'm thinking like if i wear heels

05:55am i kind of limiting myself then because i'm tall

05:58and like what if i make it awkward then with the whole

06:00the fears in my eyes

06:01i won't let it get into my spirit

06:03you're good looking girl you had your dates before

06:05no you had your dates before so you know how to do this

06:08i'm good looking to me

06:09i think that's the main thing

06:11like i find myself attractive

06:15to myself

06:16i went and i did the camino last week to try and find myself right

06:19oh you did that whole walk thing is it how was it

06:22i did the whole walk and i didn't find myself anywhere

06:23oh yeah

06:25i mean it's hard to find yourself walking i find

06:28i got the tattoo though

06:29oh did you show me

06:30i got the tattoo look

06:33ah jesus

06:33it's tiny

06:34it's tiny

06:35i know

06:35i went with 50 women right

06:37yeah

06:3850 women

06:3815 of us can't imagine tattoos

06:41oh wow

06:45everyone's type is tall dark and handsome like that's the easy answer to give but like

06:49there's always a bit of leeway there

06:50you'd like the height you'd like the handsome

06:52you'd also like the dark hair but like you'd take a ginger if you had to

06:59back home elliot struggles to express himself

07:02up here he's unleashed

07:06i think i was just always doing other things people wanted me to do so

07:10i want to find who i am i know it sounds a bit cringy but yeah

07:13i actually can't go

07:15i can't deal i can't breathe

07:18hello

07:18nice to meet you

07:19what's your name is

07:20elliot

07:21a little bit nervous

07:21a bit nervous

07:22yeah well you should be

07:24i hope not

07:25i hope not

07:26hi jacket you dress nicely

07:28thanks very much

07:28yeah

07:30i wouldn't like to dress like everyone else like john

07:32i mean like

07:32i suppose but then i'm like come up here and like you wouldn't stand out but you go

07:35home

07:36what least you think you're the king

07:39nice to meet you i'm bria

07:42bria nice to meet you

07:43lovely to meet you are you nervous

07:44i'm so scared i'm so scared i'm here and

07:48eddie i think eddie is his name he brought me a porn star martini now i have to say they're

07:52divine if you want to get a drink

07:54i actually was going to get porn star martini

07:55honestly you're unreal

07:57where are you from

07:57ellis

07:58what part of ellis

07:59uh vickerson

08:00no i don't know that

08:01it's near strabley

08:02oh jesus we're very midlands people aren't we

08:05jesus do you know uh durba scully

08:09oh my god she's my cousin

08:10first cousin she's actually my first cousin

08:12i went and i did the camino with her there last week

08:17that's good like

08:18it's a very fucking small world

08:19that's a very small world

08:20and do you live in vickerson then

08:21yeah yeah yeah

08:22the chances of being related to someone from offely is so high

08:26i live in dublin

08:27so i don't live in oh yeah no i don't live in offely anymore jesus

08:31oh too good for offely then

08:33no i don't think i'm too good for offely do you know what i think it's just like

08:35there's nothing to do

08:36yeah i was so bored

08:38release is the exact same

08:39as soon as i lock eyes with someone like my brain and my mouth just disconnect and i'm

08:44just like blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

08:47what do you think my name is

08:49eddie

08:49eddie oh you're spot on

08:51well it was eddie

08:52no it's not an eddie at all it's neil

08:55do you remember his name

08:56elliot

08:58well you can't forget that

08:59it's close to eddie

09:00i'm sorry

09:04so that's your second time in the show

09:05yeah it is yeah

09:06okay so and you're looking for love

09:08i i i i feel so bad now that you know i've been on the show before

09:13i'm glad that you're black because i love black people

09:16hey

09:16seriously like if i have to choose between

09:1910 white guys and one black guy

09:21i would go for one black guy because

09:23i love black

09:24growing up in brazil

09:26brazil is like so racist

09:28and i always wanted to be white that was my dream

09:31growing up as a black person and a queer person in brazil was very hard

09:37all i knew was as like as a gay man was sex because we never experienced love

09:44like i've never seen like a couple when i was a kid now it's different because we have

09:49like people that represent ourselves like you know but like love was my mom and my dad

09:55when was all of this like process happening mentally was it happening in brazil or when you were here

10:01it took me 34 years to love myself

10:03it was like only like two and a half years ago

10:06i was actually getting prepared to go to the gym and i stopped to look at the mural

10:12and i felt something that i never felt before

10:16i just loved myself for the very first time

10:19after so many years of you know therapy and you know analysis i am very confident and i love myself

10:25that is so beautiful

10:27yeah but it's beautiful and sad at the same time 34 years to love myself is too much

10:32yeah i get that

10:33moving on to the latter topics

10:35yeah what do you want to eat today

10:37okay so you have been here before so you tell me

10:40um no don't put me on the spot like that

10:42i'm in my clothes legs era

10:46so i'm very much more into like get to know me let's go to church together you know

10:52i want to be quoted and i also want to court you know i also want people to feel special

10:56as you make me special

10:57the prime iris beef

10:59strip loin

11:00yeah

11:01yeah because you're very beefy

11:03i'm obsessed with your the most i don't know what they are here

11:07uh shoulder muscles

11:08yeah i'm trying to grow my

11:09yeah no i was in a cruise last two weeks ago and i haven't gone to the gym

11:14in a gay cruise yeah

11:15where

11:16it took us from uh athens

11:19how long

11:20seven days

11:22seven is a lot of days in gay world

11:24and before that i was in madrid for the gay pride

11:27oh

11:28so it's almost a month that i don't go to the gym and i'm eating like a pig

11:31so

11:35where am i going

11:37feeling a little lost james

11:39not to worry

11:40every journey has to start somewhere

11:44i got the door right

11:45yeah that's a good start

11:47nice to meet you

11:48mr james james nice to meet you

11:50how are you keeping james

11:51not too bad

11:52i like barbara man i have the same one at home

11:54yeah yeah it's a cool jacket

11:55yeah

11:56second hand i couldn't afford the full thing

11:57but it was a job

11:58it was a job

11:58i made new year's resolution to put myself out there more

12:01because i've never been on a date apart from last year

12:03and by god i did hate

12:05so uh

12:06that's when i started like realizing what i liked and what i didn't like and

12:09hi how are you

12:10oh yeah no i'm james james james just very quickly there's not no room for two mustaches at the bar

12:15one of us has to go

12:17this bar is making up for two of us

12:18okay i don't know i don't know how are you feeling

12:21not too bad

12:21not too shabby alonso

12:24that's a new one i like that i like that

12:28okay you're set for the fire buddy

12:29all right shabby alonso see you soon

12:31the thing to be all and then all would be is that i'm a bit mad in the sense that

12:35i'm just a bit

12:37he's a bit of crack and all this one

12:38i'm act like i am but i'm also like i can be really serious all the same like if i

12:42need to be

12:43where are you from

12:44uh we play us called fahart just beside dundalk

12:48fart

12:48fahart

12:49not far say that again

12:51fahart

12:52fahart

12:53fahart

12:53fahart okay

12:54fahart okay so you're what you're in norty are you

12:56no i'm on the south side

13:01i'm northern to you south to me

13:02i know you sound norty your accent is amazing

13:04thank you very much

13:05really nice

13:06appreciate that

13:06so what are you hoping for this evening

13:09sabrina carf

13:13my mom's delighted that i'm single

13:16well she did tell me to go on first date

13:19emma's ideal date long before she meets him she'll hear him

13:26i usually go for the loudest person in the room someone who's smiley outgoing

13:31well look at you huh

13:34you look lovely

13:35thanks

13:36damn girl you look lovely

13:37thanks

13:39your name is emma

13:40beautiful emma

13:41so are you mateo

13:42well it's not about me it's about you today

13:44she's got a microphone in her hand covered in diamonds

13:47she has an espresso martini

13:49i mean what are the chances it's happened

13:51he's gonna be nervous when he sees you

13:54yes this is where he's gonna be

13:56is he already over there

13:57yeah

13:57okay

13:58yeah

13:58well like going on a date in general is going outside your comfort zone never mind a blind

14:02date

14:03that's even scarier

14:05hello

14:06nice to meet you

14:07nice to meet you too

14:08i'm james

14:09emma

14:09emma nice to meet you

14:10nice to meet you

14:11emma you look stunning

14:11thank you

14:12wow

14:12you look like a classy lady

14:14well you said dress to impress

14:16yeah

14:17well i didn't of course

14:18i did

14:19you did

14:20yeah yeah

14:21i do love a moustache

14:22but only if you can rock it

14:24i think it shows that you're confident i guess

14:29what do you do anyway

14:30i'm in college

14:31yeah

14:32yeah

14:32i'm doing international commerce in ucd

14:34very good

14:35is that a language as well

14:36yeah french

14:36no that's class

14:37what are you doing

14:38social care

14:39oh okay

14:40social care worker

14:41so i work with children in care at the moment

14:42lovely

14:42where are you from

14:44eh

14:46don't talk

14:46okay

14:47just a wee bit outside

14:47first thing i'd look at is actually what they're wearing

14:50you can look at what someone's wearing and you can get a good depiction of them

14:53so i look at that and then you subconsciously make away this person's about x y or z

14:58you're nervous

15:00no

15:01not really not really no

15:02oh

15:03all right

15:03he was absolutely crapping it here

15:05i was actually crying just

15:06okay

15:07oh it is right so you know how i'm going with us

15:09oh right fine

15:10yeah here we go

15:11okay

15:12all right

15:12you guys do a great day folks

15:14yeah

15:14best of luck

15:19lovely

15:20thank you very much

15:21so what do you do

15:21what's your job

15:22oh i'm a social worker

15:24um

15:24making kids like

15:25really

15:26yeah

15:26that's so cool

15:27i think so

15:28that's so fucking cool

15:29cook them dinner

15:30clean the house like

15:31uh

15:32look after them

15:33it's the funniest job i've ever had like

15:34um

15:34i love working with the kids like so

15:36what do you want to end up doing like

15:37uh

15:38i want to be an educational psychologist like

15:41that's so cool

15:42the looks only get them so far

15:43it does

15:45until they open their mouth

15:46and then you're like oh

15:48how is camino actually

15:49the camino oh my god yeah sorry i just already told you

15:51yeah

15:51i just come up with that myself

15:53i know it's like i actually pre-stalked your instagram

15:55that'd be so weird

15:57that'd be so weird

15:57i was like i actually believed you i was like i don't even have instagram so i'm like what

16:01do you don't have instagram

16:01no no no no

16:03that's a green flag

16:04oh is it yeah

16:04yeah that's a green flag

16:05oh yeah

16:06it'll be so obvious that i can't see them

16:08like i'll be awkward

16:09like i won't make sense my sentences will not make sense

16:12on the camino

16:15we're gonna go

16:16we're walking

16:16i love the vitamins

16:17right 5k

16:19into the cafe

16:21coffee

16:22takeaway sangria

16:23dervla

16:24yeah she's my joke

16:25she is yeah

16:26that's so i can't believe she's your cousin

16:28i know first cousin

16:29honestly like it's like you proper know each other

16:32she lives literally across the road

16:34oh really yeah

16:35so if you get pissed

16:36i'll text her and be like

16:37by the way dervla

16:38i'm leaving your cousin

16:39at the door

16:40oh that's very much so

16:41okay

16:50i was so afraid so like i was on tiktok this morning and like someone a gentleman in his

16:5840s came up and he was like prepping for a flying date and i literally was like what if that's

17:05it

17:06and that you know like not in a bad way but i was kind of like right i need to

17:09prepare you're an ageist

17:11no i'm not an ageist

17:12if i do when you said when they were asking you like who are you looking for you like open

17:16anyone

17:17kind of yeah not really

17:19i did say that as well

17:20i did say i wanted uh someone who could talk

17:22i'm glad

17:23sorry

17:24no i'm happy

17:25yeah i i actually like i i do stop

17:27only when there's food in my mouth but in fairness

17:29a couple like they're best friends i always think like if you can spend all time together like

17:35um it's pretty nice like

17:37one guy literally tried to enlist me into the army

17:39oh

17:41what

17:42he basically was like jesus you have a good bit of fitness on you now you'll be great in the

17:45army

17:45i was like huh and he started asking how much money i made and compared it to how much money

17:49he made and he had no accommodation to pay for no food to pay for no gym to pay for

17:53i was saying like he was going to go to lebanon or something he was like and you have great

17:56travel opportunities i was like yeah in the lebanon yeah i was like pass hard pass

18:02will i get you another drink uh yeah i want to be fancy now because of that cocktail in front

18:08of me

18:08uh mojito no can i get an old-fashioned old-fashioned you can't do it great choice

18:13thank you perfect no bother on the way for you i've actually never had one i just want to act

18:17fancy

18:18i've never had one in my life i just know whiskey's in it yeah

18:22can i have a sip of that is it nice yeah is it spinach in it

18:26mint all right i'll just get my spinach in my drink

18:31it's nice hey it's elderflower and mint not spinach once again just to clarify

18:35no not no spinach in there no popeyes in there no spinach in there unfortunately

18:40everyone in my family is like jesus you know what it's james let him out of the day my parents

18:45are going to see me flirt and i don't flirt whatever way i do flirt they're going to see

18:50it my sister was like don't put on too big of an accent when you're going to sleep oh what

18:54don't say hey and don't say bye and don't say aye and hey bye yeah you can't say it

18:58water your accent's your accent i know you can't hide that i know i probably don't it probably

19:03does amplify a wee bit when i'm a wee bit nervous oh nervous i'm not nervous nervous i'd say my

19:10accent is amplified if i'm like passionate about something it's very like you're passionate about

19:14so i don't know if i was like in an argument or like if i was getting like really into

19:18something

19:19i'm like that is spinach that is spinach that's not spinach it's not it's not you see if we're

19:26having a laugh that would be how you know that i'm having a good time showing a lot of interest

19:31in the things that they say or things that they're interested in but yeah i get a lot

19:34in the coffee shop people being like where are you from i've uh i've actually never drank coffee

19:42what i'm a hot chocolate and tea man okay tea yeah coffee never why what's the reasoning

19:51uh any reasoning just hasn't happened i just don't like the thought of it i have enough energy

19:54as it is i don't need coffee right you could have decaf no i just don't want it there's just

19:59something about it i okay i've said to multiple people i'll do everything i will do everything

20:04in life apart from two things let's take meth and drink coffee what you're that passionate

20:11about it i'm not passionate about it i will not drink coffee really no not a chance oh okay

20:16good for you yeah thank you stand by that thank you don't let people tell you what to do

20:21coffee's great though if you can have a laugh and like take the piss out of someone and they

20:26can they can give it back and they can take it i think that's great yeah okay hot chocolate

20:31this friend with all the shavings marshmallows and cream for myself yeah i deserve it yeah i

20:41like the people they're very nice like the brazilians you know they love party they like drinks

20:47they're very loud being here in ireland it was life-changing event because when i came here i

20:56couldn't speak english i didn't know anyone here so i had to start a new life and being in an

21:03environment that you cannot speak the language you don't feel the culture it's so hard and that makes

21:08me the person that i'm today did my irish citizenship in december i remember thinking i

21:15wasn't gonna cry but then i was at the ceremony she said something about how like oh we thank you

21:22for choosing ireland and then i said to myself oh my god i actually chose this country like i chose

21:27here to move actually ireland chose me it happened because i went to a fortune teller

21:33then she said to me an issue you're gonna live abroad you're gonna live in a in a country that

21:38you've never been before and because i was very poor there was something that was like impossible for

21:43me and then at some point someone in the same company that i was working said they were coming to

21:51dublin and i said i want to go as well and before i never heard about ireland before ireland wasn't

21:58like

21:58nowhere in the map and everything happened so to be here i i always felt harm here always always and

22:06if you write my name back words and take e is all sing it's all or sing i'm meant to

22:14be here i meant

22:15literally destiny destiny yeah definitely child i'm the old state

22:23is it taking you ages to eat this or is it just me also taking ages no i'm just taking

22:27ages because

22:28like i feel like conversation is flowing like we have way too much to talk about you see it's

22:32probably not the worst thing to complain about life it's like cue the 15 minutes of silence and it's

22:37just me going the worst thing ever like i didn't have a girlfriend until i was like 21 and i

22:47was in

22:47that relationship until the start of this year i've never been quite young i don't remember a girl

22:53older than me like so no i i just can't do it no i feel like there's something there stopping

22:57me as

22:57well like yeah like i'd be like a mommy do you know what i mean

23:05oh my god you would be like oh my god do you want me to butter your bread for your

23:08ham sandwiches

23:09even if like a month older like it's all in my little brain like yeah yeah oh no i'd be

23:14the same

23:14i wouldn't go with a girl older me though because of that like because she'd be like mommy i wouldn't

23:19be like that all right pick me up like mommy milkers it's all so my apologies interrupting uh chicken it's

23:35for

23:44me i'm gonna be really weird and put them to the opposite sides yeah i just did that oh did

23:49you

23:50yeah did you didn't cop it no i'm not left-handed though you're left-handed no this is classic you're

23:55the only person i've ever met that does that you're the only man yeah oh my god what the hell

24:01so why

24:01do you do that screw up like that i suppose same but i'm like mad at my parents that they

24:06never

24:06corrected me because like it's seen as like not correct like it's not the right way to eat yeah

24:13can i pick up an extra where did i get this extra knife from oh that's probably for the steak

24:18i'd like to cut the steak oh wow it is yeah just thought i was a magician yeah you're like

24:24great magic trick

24:28when was your last relationship uh relationship relationship relationship you say situationship

24:34because uh situationship was a year ago it just broke my heart what do you do it's very complicated

24:41it's gonna take three days to explain to you it was a year ago a year ago he's not in

24:46ireland anymore

24:46now okay okay that's fair so no competition no competition i don't have many requests like you

24:53know it's just like free confident lovable funny beautiful inside and outside i think for me i like

25:04older guys i don't discriminate we love a good you know chiquita and the younger guy but i'm more into

25:12older guys i want to make sure at least we have chemistry and we have a good laugh and get

25:18chat

25:19and everything else would be a plus my family is everything for me i love my family have you met

25:25any of your exes yes my ex-husband oh yeah i've been married i was married uh since 2016 until

25:352021

25:37i was i'm separate for him like four years interesting concept how vulnerable does dating

25:44make you feel it's very vulnerable actually because you're opening yourself to someone that you don't

25:49know even though you're not going to tell your whole life you're just exposing some parts of your life

25:55that you wouldn't but it's exchange thing you know if you give you receive you know how the situation

26:02should for six years situation for six years is too long it should be a relationship it's called love baby

26:09is it i know right it's not it's not it's not so yeah six years i've five years are not

26:15defining what

26:15you have is too much it's not love growing up game can be an extremely lonely experience he was black

26:27was in the closet i i i really found myself respect last year and i was like this has to

26:33end yeah i

26:34remember like when i met him i was what like 24 or 23 and now i was 30 and we

26:41couldn't even say like

26:42i love you i could say i was saying it but whatever i would say he just look away i

26:49know i know

26:52yeah i do feel lonely quite a lot actually romantically yeah but like having some relationship

27:01or situation sick with someone in the closet it's never gonna work i thought i would be the one

27:08you know you cannot change people yeah that's why i love when people are like themselves because

27:14that's so much power being new it's power

27:29anyone looking to get guard and nicky's motor running will need to obey the rules of the road

27:36my motor break yeah that's very much my space my nobody can get through to me on the phone

27:46i'm very very independent i do find it hard probably to let people do stuff for me

27:52you know just because i don't need somebody to do it doesn't mean i don't want somebody to look after

27:56me a little bit hey hi there how are you welcome welcome your name please nicky nicky where you come

28:01from cork oh cork lady just a bit nervous a little bit you don't you don't you don't show them

28:07you don't

28:08no no no you're okay till you make it yeah yeah i probably come across as more confident than i

28:14actually am

28:19yeah what would you like to know everything let's start from childhood let's go the whole

28:24oh jesus how long have you got yeah start with your hobbies what you like to do in your free

28:29time

28:30walk dogs uh ride my motorbike oh wow is that how you say it motorcycling or motor riding

28:37right right yeah yeah because we all think that we like a bad boy don't we um i think i

28:46just somebody

28:47who groans me how old are you do you want me asking you are not just in february well jesus

28:53you look

28:53amazing i would never have said that in a million years oh my god wow jesus fair pleasure must be

28:59the

28:59motorbike you can take years off emmet's hoping the girl of his dreams will take him to a magical

29:08place wonderland he's smiling like a cheshire cat too hi that's face your name please emmet emmet

29:19pleasure to have you emmet thank you you're a little bit nervous are you yeah little pleasure come on

29:23you're a good-looking fella there is no problem with you come on man confidence that's all what you

29:28mean just bring me there you know i know and within a couple of minutes like whether you're

29:35attracted to the person or there's some sort of connection kind of would you want someone that's

29:40from cork well i'd want someone that's not in donegal because i'm definitely not

29:47do you believe in love at first sight

29:51tell you later hi how are you how are things good thanks nickley it's nice to meet you emmet how

29:57are you

29:57oh yeah how are you good would you like a drink bottle heineken bottle heineken absolutely

30:03where's raxley from mullingar mullingar okay we're on the right side of the track no where are

30:10you from all right just discussing like if i was set up with somebody up north like it's a bit

30:15of a

30:15trek yeah a bit of a check well the guys not far no and you're probably dying to leave it

30:20as well so

30:21most people are you know i think as i get older i get that i'm not everybody's cup of tea

30:30you know

30:32so i do um hsc care assistance oh very good intellectual disability yeah lord yeah what do you do

30:41look at it oh lovely not the usual reaction lovely i do think some men are probably a little bit

30:50intimidated it's not funny anymore that the first question they ask is did you bring your handcuffs

30:54do you bring them everywhere so here we are i was planning to come in with a different outfit totally

31:11different from how did you choose this last minute i schedule outfits three months in advance

31:18i did a little you know check back when he was walking in because i just wanted to know

31:25and when i saw his arms i was like why is that me like i i felt like i was

31:29i was in back in time

31:30like watching myself walk walk into the restaurant everyone is so scared about turning 30 but i kid

31:37you not best thing to ever happen to me yes because now i think much happier on my 30th than

31:43when i was

31:44interested yeah because i know who i am he's quite chaotic like he's like chaos but it's a nice way

31:52i

31:52love that he's very confident the other dates that you had was better than this i think there's a clear

31:58difference i think obviously you're older and he's younger so our date was more comical more humorous

32:04yeah i think with you our date is so much more revealing i think it's more deep good

32:12would you like to see each other again yes yes of course yeah we can definitely see each other again

32:19definitely that's a nice quick answer guys i like that i like that you're black first of all i like

32:27that you dress well have good sense of fashion i love that you're loyal to friends i also love that

32:34he

32:34loves being gay yes a lot of gay guys actually don't really no i love being me he just loves

32:43me

32:43all right so if you're happy to follow me yeah and you can take your blanks off

32:48what do you think you would do for a second date i'd say something active actually

32:55i know not like that i meant like you have no rush i feel like us being like older we

33:06know that you

33:07don't rush things like that you let it kind of build naturally yeah oh i'm so excited let me open

33:14the

33:14no free um thank you see you guys you guys you guys see this

33:27did you go up in Mullingar yeah just outside it working with my dad at windows and doors

33:33nine or ten years okay i had a bike accident that kind of put me out of service for a

33:38while

33:40This is perfect.

33:42Go into the juicy stuff, Pete.

33:43What kind of bikes are we talking?

33:46How about I move you to a table,

33:48then we'll get into the really juicy stuff.

33:51Before Neil starts spilling these secrets.

33:53I know, yeah, yeah.

33:54Watch out for this one.

33:57Ideally, if he was into bikes,

33:59that would be involved.

34:00There would be a motorbike ride.

34:02Right, so back to the bike accident.

34:04Yeah.

34:05Going out the road one day,

34:06and just carpooled out,

34:08and that was it.

34:09Lights out.

34:11Oh, fuck off.

34:11So, I came two on the road,

34:13but I don't remember anything,

34:14bar waking up next day.

34:16So broke my femur, pelvis,

34:19right wrist, left shoulder.

34:21So I was wheelchair.

34:22Wow.

34:22So I had to move home then,

34:23so I landed myself in a wheelchair

34:26for about four months.

34:27Had a lot of time to think about life

34:30and what I wanted to do.

34:32It was a while before I kind of got up on one,

34:35but, yeah, I have two now.

34:38What?

34:39I have two now.

34:40So I'm back into them, like.

34:42Are you?

34:42Yeah, oh God, yeah.

34:44Well, I suppose it's like,

34:46there's no kind of in between with them.

34:49Yeah, yeah, they're like to be at home.

34:51Yeah.

34:51I'm not kind of a...

34:52Yeah.

34:55What's your opinion on motorbikes?

34:58Yeah, so I bought my first bike,

35:00um, last October.

35:02Yeah, yeah.

35:03Yeah.

35:03I was telling Neil,

35:04I went to, um, the TT last June.

35:07Yeah.

35:07With a group of friends and my ex,

35:09and when we came back from there,

35:10I was like,

35:10nah, fuck, I'm buying a bike.

35:12I'm buying a bike, you know.

35:14Yeah.

35:14It's different, alright,

35:15when you're over there,

35:16like, you understand the bravery of them.

35:20Yeah.

35:21And going to the Isle of Man in two weeks' time.

35:23Yeah.

35:23For the Manx, yeah, yeah.

35:24Ah, class.

35:25Yeah.

35:26I think relationships probably flourish on trust,

35:32I suppose,

35:33obviously spending time together.

35:34What sort of a bike did you buy?

35:36I bought a Honda Transel.

35:38Oh, lovely.

35:40Yeah.

35:41Yeah.

35:42Very good.

35:42Yeah.

35:42There's no comparison to, like,

35:44driving a bike and just having the wind.

35:47Yeah, that kind of sense of freedom, yeah.

35:49Yeah.

35:50It's lovely.

35:51Yeah.

35:51It really is.

35:53But, yeah, no, I like the coffee shop,

35:55but, yeah, after college,

35:56I don't know what I'm going to do.

35:57I find it really, really cool that you can speak Irish.

36:00Yeah, do you?

36:01Really cool.

36:01No.

36:02I did my leaving certain Irish.

36:03That is...

36:04Yeah, I went to Irish secondary school.

36:05That's so cool.

36:06Well, I'm going to kneecap in December.

36:08Oh, really?

36:09So, I might have a...

36:09Hopefully, I'll keep it fucking loud as well.

36:11Yeah, but I don't understand the word of Irish they speak.

36:14Ah, different...

36:14Their accents, like, I actually...

36:16That's like...

36:17Whoa.

36:17So, you should be asking questions,

36:21and not just talking about yourself.

36:23Don't start showing me your camera roll.

36:28This is me at the Mary Wolfe.

36:29Always put it.

36:30Is that you?

36:30Aye.

36:31Is that you?

36:32Aye.

36:32Oh, that doesn't look like you at all.

36:37Oh, this is an SSE arena in Belfast.

36:39Wow.

36:41And then EP last year.

36:46There's the Mary Wolfe.

36:47Is that you?

36:48Yeah.

36:50I love a crowd surfing.

36:51What the hell?

36:52How do you get up there?

36:53Two big fellas, and you'd be like, lads, get me off.

36:56And they're like, on our shoulders, like, no.

36:57No.

36:58Oh, Bob.

36:58So, you go to the lads beside you, catch me.

37:00And you just have to trust in the people, and you just go, pssh, you go, get me back.

37:03I love it.

37:04There's a few jacks to me throughout.

37:06You know, I keep it close to my chest.

37:07When I need it come out, they'll come out, like.

37:09They're fake flowers.

37:10They're fake flowers.

37:10Smell it.

37:12Actually, do you know what?

37:13I do a bit of gardening at home as well.

37:14Do you actually do a bit of gardening?

37:15Yeah, I do vegetables and flowers and stuff like that.

37:17What have you got?

37:18I've got, like, you know, it's basically growing cabbage and carrots and loads of stuff.

37:22I actually don't know how you do inside it, yeah.

37:24Loads of stuff, like, obviously, it's down my farm.

37:26I've got a little greenhouse, like, down there.

37:28And do you, like, cook them and all?

37:29Yeah, I love it.

37:30I'd make, like, stews and stuff.

37:31I'd love to be able to do that, but, like, like I said.

37:34We're not going to do it over here, I suppose.

37:36That does.

37:37Smells like shite.

37:39I live with three guys, which definitely doesn't help with looking for a partner, because,

37:45well, they do everything but make me attracted to men, to be honest.

37:49Or, like, our garden at home was a shithole, right?

37:53So I was like, right, lads, we're having a house party.

37:55Middle of July.

37:57I'm inviting my friends.

37:58You can invite your friends.

38:00Leave it with them to do the garden.

38:02Put in four days.

38:04They didn't stop drinking every evening.

38:06I saw on a TikTok there the other day, and it's kind of like, um, these men in my generation

38:11have been handed everything their whole life.

38:13That they don't know what it's like to actually settle.

38:18Obviously.

38:18Are you starters or...

38:20You think mains and desserts?

38:22Yeah.

38:22Just because my daughter told me I have to get the heart.

38:25Oh, yeah.

38:26Definitely.

38:31How many kids have you?

38:32Two.

38:33Oh, great.

38:33Two.

38:34Yeah, yeah.

38:35So my daughter's 14 and my son is 12.

38:37Oh, lovely.

38:38Yeah.

38:39I have a son.

38:40He is 11, going on 12, so...

38:43They're teenagers and pre-teenagers, so they don't really want to spend that much time

38:47with me anymore.

38:48It's important, if possible, like, to have, not a relationship, but, like, to communicate,

38:55or to be able to communicate, I would say.

38:57Yeah.

38:57You know...

38:58It's heartbreaking, because the only people we've talked for are absolutely kids.

39:00Oh, the kids, yeah.

39:01100%.

39:01And like that, like, we didn't, you know, it was amicable, it wasn't as if anybody did

39:05anything to...

39:07I think I was probably very young getting into that, um, and I sort of matured out of it.

39:13So, how do you find being a Garte?

39:16Erm, I love it.

39:18Hell yeah.

39:19Yeah, I do.

39:20I actually do.

39:21Like, it's never boring.

39:23No, I don't think so.

39:23There's no two days the same, you know.

39:26Yeah, and it's what I always wanted to do.

39:29Oh, correct.

39:30Yeah.

39:32How did you get into what you're doing now?

39:34In the mix of, you know, different types of relationships, I guess I did have one,

39:38pretty crappy one, going back a few years ago, yeah.

39:42Erm, yeah, think of some of the worst things, yeah, yeah.

39:46Erm, but I don't regret any of it.

39:49Erm, I learned so much about myself from it.

39:51I'm really, I suppose, geared towards growth at the moment, and I'd like to meet somebody

39:56who also has that kind of mindset.

39:58One of the lads at work that we mined didn't have a passport and was never on a holiday,

40:03never out of the country.

40:04We flew to the Iron Islands from Connemara Airport.

40:07Yeah.

40:08So, kind of took pictures and sent them.

40:09This is like an eight person playing or something, isn't it?

40:14Erm, so that worked well.

40:17Them are like, right, next stop is Swain.

40:20And they had a ball, they loved it.

40:22Aww.

40:23It's a bit of culture.

40:24Yeah, exactly.

40:25It's a bit of culture, like, isn't it?

40:27Yeah.

40:32I literally, I'll go 50-50.

40:34Not a chance, like.

40:35Oh, yeah.

40:36Not a fucking chance.

40:37Joined by the whole thing.

40:38No.

40:39Aye, no.

40:40Oh my god, another bogger, but like, not another bogger, but like, another bogger, like.

40:45He was a looker, wasn't he?

40:47Thank you very much.

40:48No worries.

40:48Gentleman.

40:49No, no, no.

40:49Gentleman.

40:50Of course I bet.

40:51I think I'm basing my stuff on like, oh, if she likes me, if she likes me, I'm like,

40:57oh.

40:58Do you have jackets or coats or anything?

40:59Oh, he had a jacket.

41:01Yes.

41:05Thanks very much.

41:06Thanks very much.

41:07Bye.

41:08See you now.

41:09See you.

41:12Would you like to see each other again?

41:15Romantically?

41:17I would.

41:18I would.

41:19I would.

41:20But yeah, I'd love to see her again.

41:21Yeah.

41:23There's no point in doing it.

41:24Oh my God.

41:27I'd literally get sick.

41:28I'd be like, oh no, because then it leaves too much anticipation.

41:32Yeah.

41:33No, I would.

41:34No, no, no, no.

41:36When I saw you first, I was like, oh my God, he's cool and he's really good style.

41:40Right?

41:40You started talking.

41:41I was like, oh, he's a bogger as well.

41:43I was like, okay, right.

41:44I'm comfortable.

41:45Like, I was like, I don't need to like, stop doubling and find myself.

41:48Not that I do, but I do.

41:52Well, obviously, she's a pretty good looking leg.

41:56Actually, I never even thought about that.

41:58Did you not?

41:59I thought about it.

42:08And is there bikes in the family?

42:10No.

42:11No.

42:12No.

42:13No, no, no.

42:14Her father would be disgusted if I buy her a bike next year.

42:17Yeah, I have a big family.

42:19Okay.

42:20I lost my mum when I was very young.

42:21Oh, she's seven.

42:23When I was 12, so obviously, yeah.

42:26So my sister looked after us.

42:28And my dad, he just wasn't around from when I was very young.

42:34Jeez.

42:35My 19-year-old sister had to step up and take us on.

42:38My dad had been gone since I was a baby, and he just, yeah, he didn't step up, I guess.

42:49And I suppose, look, if she wasn't there, you know, we'd have just been separated and put into care homes.

42:55And who knows?

42:57But look, I suppose that's probably why I chose the job I chose.

43:03You know, there wasn't too many people that we could have looked up to in that time, you know.

43:08Maybe who you are today.

43:10100%, yeah.

43:11And that's the way I look at it.

43:12You know what?

43:12There's nothing we can't do anything about.

43:15No.

43:15Where we come from, like?

43:18100%, definitely.

43:19No.

43:20So there was two girls, three boys, and then me.

43:23So I suppose that's where my masculine energy comes from, Jenny.

43:27It's funny because, like, last week, I went off on the bike and I went down to one of my

43:32favourite beaches in West Cork,

43:33and I sent my sister a picture, and she was like, oh, it's fabulous.

43:36I'd have gone, and I sent back a picture of the bike, and I was like, no, you wouldn't.

43:38She was like, no, I wouldn't.

43:40Happy days to see you, grand.

43:42I brought the first one home.

43:44Okay.

43:45Ended with war.

43:47Father went out with a shotgun.

43:50I was going to do a shoot at the bike.

43:51Oh, I was, yeah, yeah.

43:52Oh, yeah.

43:53Now shoot the fella who's sold it to you, like, no.

43:56Oh, no, no.

44:02It's just the right time to say I don't like strawberries.

44:04Are you having a laugh?

44:06Are you messing?

44:07I really don't like it.

44:07Are you messing?

44:08No.

44:09You don't like strawberries?

44:10I really like it.

44:10You should have said that.

44:11I don't care.

44:12I'll eat it, man.

44:13I'll eat it.

44:14I think we're both chatterboxes.

44:18I think the time just flew, like, we were chatting away.

44:21Is a moustache a bad thing or a good thing?

44:22Good thing.

44:23Good thing?

44:24Yeah.

44:24Oh, yeah, okay.

44:25Oh, you said I liked moustache.

44:26Oh, yeah, okay.

44:28Yeah, she's gorgeous.

44:29Gorgeous girl.

44:31I'm not really a picky eater, but, like, I have notions.

44:34What are the notions?

44:35Cabbage, turnip, get them away from my face now.

44:38Okay.

44:38Don't even look.

44:39Fish and beans get them away from my face now.

44:41Fish?

44:41I was going to order fish if it wasn't steak.

44:42No fish and beans.

44:44No.

44:46Like baked beans?

44:47Or any beans?

44:48And the beans.

44:48Kidney beans?

44:48All the beans.

44:49Kidney beans and a chilli is nice, though.

44:51No.

44:52Would you ever spill them?

44:54Oh, yeah.

44:55I'd be spilling the beans.

44:56But I wouldn't be eating the beans.

45:02Neither of us knew each other.

45:03I don't think that's fair.

45:04It's different if someone's like, I'm going to take you out, but this was a clean fine date.

45:08I would really like to pay for this meal, and I'd appreciate it if you'd let me do so.

45:11Would you like to see each other again romantically?

45:15Ladies first.

45:17I think we got on really well.

45:19But I don't think it's there romantically.

45:21I agree, yeah.

45:22Really?

45:22Yeah.

45:23Okay, great.

45:24I was going to say, I got more drink later, but I didn't think.

45:27Okay.

45:27It was...

45:28Okay, I'm glad you feel the same.

45:31Yeah.

45:31Great.

45:32Grand.

45:33Man came prepared.

45:34He's insisting.

45:36He was super chatty, and I think he's a great guy, and I think really funny.

45:41And I loved all the things he was saying, but I don't think it was quite there for me.

45:45Don't look at our secret messages.

45:49Prick.

45:51Are you going to go crowd surfing with him?

45:54I don't know.

45:55I'll see you at Viagra Boys.

45:57Yeah, an electric picnic.

45:59See ya.

46:00See ya.

46:13Hello.

46:14Hi.

46:15Grand, how are you?

46:16How's it going?

46:17It's all chat anyway.

46:20My thoughts was, he's not my usual type.

46:23Yeah.

46:24Just going to drop this on the table there for you.

46:26I'll let you guys work it out.

46:27Not really my usual type.

46:29No.

46:30But, erm, yeah.

46:33They've done good work.

46:34He has a son who is, erm, 11.

46:39Erm, he has two motorbikes.

46:42Oh!

46:43Did he have much in common?

46:44Loads.

46:48I'll get this.

46:49Oh, for God's sake.

46:51No.

46:51Jesus.

46:52At least.

46:53Now that I've sat and chatted with him and relaxed a little bit.

46:57Yeah.

46:58Yeah.

46:59So, have you any plans for the rest of the evening?

47:01No.

47:02No.

47:03All this time to myself.

47:04Pity I didn't bring the bike.

47:06I give the whole evening for you.

47:08Would you guys like to see each other again romantically?

47:13I'm going to let the lady answer first.

47:15Oh, here we go.

47:18I'm going to say yeah.

47:20Yeah.

47:21Did you guys fancy each other?

47:24Yeah.

47:26Yeah, perfect.

47:26This man has spoken.

47:27Absolutely.

47:29Don't argue.

47:31Calm, seems genuine.

47:33It's just, yeah, easy to talk to.

47:36Guys, thank you so much.

47:37Thanks again.

47:37See you.

47:38Bye-bye.

47:39There was some sort of spark there, yeah.

47:42Do you think Nicky is girlfriend material?

47:46True, but yeah.

47:52I definitely think he could be boyfriend material.

47:54Yeah.

47:56Now don't you wait.

47:58What would day two look like?

48:00The good of that's what it looks.

48:01Yeah.

48:03Ow!

48:05All right now, baby, it's all right now.

48:10Do you have me continue?

48:11Possibly, yeah.

48:13All right now.

48:15Good job.

48:16Good job.

48:17Good job.

48:17All right now.

48:23So I'd say maybe a run on Phoenix Park.

48:25We can like run back and forth.

48:27Okay, yeah.

48:28And we talk.

48:29Yeah, that's nice.

48:30That would be so nice actually.

48:31Yeah, that's nice.

48:42Yeah.

48:43Yeah.

48:44Yeah.

48:45Yeah.

48:45Can I put on my runners?

48:45Of course.

48:46I need to put on my runners so badly.

49:03Tell me more about day two.

49:04So what are you thinking?

49:05Oh.

49:06What are you thinking?

49:07We could go over tonight first.

49:09Oh, yeah.

49:10All right now, baby, it's all right.

49:17Yeah.

49:18All right now.

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