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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35Sure, pretty much, yeah.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:05Yeah.
00:01:06You should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's the real camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me.
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:09I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:04I'm hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on
00:03:19with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him.
00:03:53And then about 11.08 PM, I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:14Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:22what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days,
00:04:37and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this,
00:04:42when I've already made plans to take him somewhere special,
00:04:45and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So, what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:52telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for,
00:04:55and hopefully he'll come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because I watched her sweat.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room.
00:05:18So I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like, on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way,
00:05:47shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:49and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:54and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um...
00:07:14You have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:39Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she had not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:22I love mountains.
00:10:24I do too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:30I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs bounced.
00:10:53I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:00I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:13It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir after our romantic getaway in Cheshme.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael, I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:19Play, revisit, emphasis.
00:12:22We have obsession with marble.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from Texas Central DC.
00:12:41Great.
00:12:41Yeah.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is like carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:29There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:49You know?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:14:04I hope you know that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah, that makes two of us.
00:14:16But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So the other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:31Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns?
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45About our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns, and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:50I have concerns because you are still communicating with Michael and talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well, he wants to come here.
00:15:13Perfect.
00:15:17No, there is no point.
00:15:22He already bought a flight.
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:34Yeah.
00:15:38Yeah.
00:15:39Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:15:45This is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, you know, I'm glad you came because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was to go, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So, you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So, what else do you want?
00:16:26Seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:27Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me so, like, I can get in the car because I'm
00:16:51really full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the bag.
00:16:53I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you.
00:17:03Two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me your heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me your horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing, so I'm not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose, Presage Nocturne, Middle Earth, Maidan, Al Riffa, Buckaroo.
00:17:44I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know, kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:18:03So we're taking her out on the town to see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:08But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31At least 200 metres to our ride is the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:36Oh, f***, you guys work in feet.
00:18:38F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down a thousand.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:11I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17Think about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for no.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:23Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:34Like the games are very bullshit.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that out of the way.
00:19:53We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05This is much needed.
00:20:07No.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheesies, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah, yeah.
00:20:16But, you know, I'm glad you came because you're one of my best friends.
00:20:24And, you know, as soon as you come, I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57Okay.
00:20:58Let's start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've traveled, what you've given up, and, you know, what it's taken to
00:21:03get here.
00:21:04So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:08So, this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:13Well, thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realize it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:24I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know, seven, eight months, I've slowed
00:21:34down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night, but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um, I could party a bit, yeah.
00:21:49Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats, and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:22:15But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with
00:22:19me and my cat and snuggling.
00:22:21And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:33Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:45To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not choosing to that.
00:23:12How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:23:31Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom, but my cat, Mito, got sick, so we
00:23:44had to run him to the vet.
00:23:46I look at you and your comb.
00:23:48You don't like the comb.
00:23:50Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream comb.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:00And so, today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast and finally get to know Javon more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:13Javon!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:24What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:36I don't want to see it.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay, my bad, then.
00:24:48Here's the thing.
00:24:48The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:57I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this, and then I just...
00:25:14Yes, that's the point of the water.
00:25:17Water was created to clean your butt.
00:25:22I'm going to go wash off mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh, ma, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47That's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Oh, okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:57Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:25:59And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:05Okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig it.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great, and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in
00:26:23-law.
00:26:25Jibon.
00:26:26Hmm.
00:26:27Mosta naman yung tulag mokigabi.
00:26:29My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:32My sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:41Ang daming nangyayari.
00:26:43Tapit bahay.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45Pero saya na ako na nandito ka na.
00:26:48She's happy that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52Kailan hanggang kailan ka dito?
00:26:55Till when you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here, like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02Ang bilis naman, ano?
00:27:04She said it's too fast.
00:27:05Hindi bang one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12Kailan ka pa rin kasi umuwi.
00:27:14I don't want to.
00:27:15Kailan naman tong anak ko.
00:27:16It was about my daughter.
00:27:19Sama mo na to.
00:27:24Saya ako na nakarating na si Dubon dito, sa Pilipinas, sa bahay namin.
00:27:31Pero ang nararamdaman ko, simpre,
00:27:35ang tagal niyang dumating dito sa Pilipinas,
00:27:41na ang iniisip ko kasi kung paano na yung anak ko.
00:27:47Sa six years na paghihintay ng anak ko,
00:27:51alalang-alala ako para sa kanya.
00:27:53She said for six years that my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:58I was so worried about her.
00:28:00Kasi parang nawawala na rin siyang pag-asa at ako.
00:28:03Because she was sometimes, I could see she was losing hope.
00:28:06And also me.
00:28:09I'm sorry it took so long, though.
00:28:11But I'm gonna make it up.
00:28:13I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:28:14I promise, okay?
00:28:16Alright?
00:28:17Na-intindihan mo?
00:28:18Uh-uh.
00:28:20Maraming nakasing ka nangyari.
00:28:22Na ano?
00:28:23Na, pangakong nakapako.
00:28:28Kung nasasakta ng anak, mas masakit sa ina.
00:28:33I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:28:36I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:28:41And we've been married for three years.
00:28:43And we still don't have a definite plan for the future.
00:28:49He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:53What does that mean?
00:28:57We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship for the rest of our lives.
00:29:02I don't want to.
00:29:04Right now, I don't feel secure about the future.
00:29:13Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:29:18Don't be mad.
00:29:21But don't be mad.
00:29:26Who is it?
00:29:27Mohammed.
00:29:28Oh, my God.
00:29:55Oh, my God.
00:30:06It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with Ziyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:30:22Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:30:26I'm looking for a Riyadh.
00:30:28And I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:30:35Just one person.
00:30:37I just got dumped.
00:30:42Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:54And somehow, I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:31:03But now, I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:31:19Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi!
00:31:22I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:31:27Thank you so much.
00:31:30What's up?
00:31:31What's wrong?
00:31:32What, can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:31:36No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to...
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already.
00:31:40Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:47Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Ziyad everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally, Maddie, went to s**t.
00:31:59Like, we got into a huge fight.
00:32:00And it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me and leaving me alone in the desert by
00:32:08myself.
00:32:09This is odd.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:15There is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert, in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously doesn't care about you.
00:32:27And he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts.
00:32:33Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar.
00:32:38And, like, this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:48You know, it's like I did all this, like, again.
00:32:52And, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of s**t.
00:32:57Like, what?
00:32:57Like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch.
00:33:00And for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:33:04Why is he?
00:33:05I mean, like, he's just, like, Ryan Gosling as, like, Morocco.
00:33:11Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad.
00:33:22But don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma.
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:36Maybe.
00:33:46Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know.
00:33:50I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:56Because.
00:33:56That was terrible.
00:33:57Because he was just as bad.
00:34:00Yeah.
00:34:01But, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when I
00:34:06was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:15Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:18What are your intentions I've seen him?
00:34:20I mean, is your, are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean, I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:40No, I just don't want you to get hurt again.
00:34:43Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:34:45Stop.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Mohammed hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:56It's, like, I just, I just want you to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:01Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:35:05Yeah, I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:20Emma, interview, I'll take money.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Mohammed?
00:35:26Mohammed.
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm going to answer it just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:44I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why?
00:35:46You want to see me?
00:35:49So do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something.
00:35:56All right.
00:35:56Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:36:01Two.
00:36:01Bye.
00:36:04Bye.
00:36:05Bye.
00:36:06Bye.
00:36:07Bye.
00:36:07Bye.
00:36:08Bye.
00:36:09Bye.
00:36:12Bye.
00:36:12So Mohammed just asked me.
00:36:14Oh, my God.
00:36:15Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know because I haven't talked to him in a while.
00:36:20So it's, like, um...
00:36:23His voice sounded like...
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27he asked me if I was with a guy I told him no he asked if I have a boyfriend
00:36:33I said no
00:36:36he wants to see me he told me to text him a place that we could meet
00:36:42I don't know it's just like a lot of old feelings are are coming back
00:36:48me and Muhammad have been through a lot and we were madly in love for a lot of years
00:36:54so that's something that doesn't just go away and I think if I don't see him I'm
00:37:01always gonna regret it I mean you you keep talking about you keep talking about
00:37:11your ex you keep bringing him up after I thought that was you know the past I feel
00:37:17like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me because of what I did so
00:37:23it seems to me that you want to be with him
00:37:43so you're ready to meet my family I think I'm ready I'm nervous but I'm excited
00:37:51just relax you have to show them that you are a good guy
00:37:58sounds like you were not happy are you sure you want to go
00:38:03are you sure you want me to go yeah I just want to make sure that I'm the man that
00:38:08you want
00:38:09to be introduced to your family I told you yes so what else do you want
00:38:25it's like you were hesitating just tell me make things clear Rick please
00:38:33I mean you you you keep talking about you keep talking about your ex you keep bringing him up
00:38:38after I thought that was you know the past
00:38:45tonight we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay to go to Trish's hometown to meet her family
00:38:51but after the merengue fight we were walking around and she gets to talking about this great place that her
00:38:59ex took her to when they were here that upset me I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex
00:39:05just to get back at me you know because of what I did
00:39:11all you're trying to do is just make me jealous and it's and it's a game for you
00:39:18shut up no see that's exactly what you told me when when when I responded to you
00:39:24yeah because you said like oh this is place that your ex took you and this is cheap I like
00:39:31it
00:39:31I like the place why do you keep bringing it up because I like it I love it I enjoy
00:39:39but do you think I want to hear that where's the problem with that that means you appreciate
00:39:44what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what I've done that's what it is
00:39:50so it seems to me that you want to be with him
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex
00:40:00I don't believe that's what would happen I don't know that's what would happen
00:40:04because that's what you did I'm not like you I'm not I will never be back to that ex
00:40:12I'd rather then leave him alone then stop talking about it I don't want to hear it
00:40:17because you hide your ex no I don't want to talk about my ex and I don't want to hear
00:40:21about your ex
00:40:24I just don't feel like it should be brought up I'm trying to work on us
00:40:32I want a relationship with you that's the goal
00:40:40you're getting far away from the from the finish line you're running backwards when we should be
00:40:46running forwards this is so ridiculous I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place to this
00:40:58place and it was nice that's it it's not like something oh I'm I'm talking with him or I'm still
00:41:07with my ex I didn't cheat on him that's his action not me
00:41:16so if you want to go just let's go if you want to stay stay here
00:41:23I want to go if if you're going to be committed to the to this relationship
00:41:30if I know that you're committed I'm 100% on board with going to meet them
00:41:41okay
00:41:46I love Trish so much and I want this relationship to work more than anything
00:41:53but I think all of this is just hitting me all at once maybe I'm you know in my head
00:42:01but I'm afraid
00:42:02that Trish won't be able to fully trust me after what I did and the fact that her family might
00:42:11ultimately not approve of me it's just all too much I'm feeling pressure massive pressure this meeting with
00:42:22her family is like make or break
00:42:30I am miserable
00:42:33okay do you want to talk about this
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now she didn't care what I think or what I say
00:42:43you don't respect me that's not true at all
00:42:46and now I have doubts this us could be mistake
00:42:58Michael he's coming yeah without asking without telling anything nothing
00:43:17he cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision I told him you
00:43:28know that
00:43:29I would think about him coming but I woke up this morning to a bunch of texts from him saying
00:43:35that he
00:43:35already booked a flight
00:43:41the other night in Cheshme Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:43:48relationship with beer con I had planned to talk to beer con about it but before I even had a
00:43:55chance to
00:43:55Michael texted me and said he booked his flight
00:44:00given beer cons very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael I am concerned that this
00:44:07will complicate the progress that beer con and I have made but on the other hand Michael is always the
00:44:15person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice if beer con and I are really going to
00:44:20move forward I
00:44:21need my best friend's opinion this is not normal something is wrong with him is he out of his mind
00:44:31is he out of his mind yeah no he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation or
00:44:38or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have his am I right Michael and I have only
00:44:49ever been friends
00:44:51he's very logical he's very insightful and I value his opinion your your friends have scoped me out so why
00:45:02don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends meet you and have you get along with
00:45:08them
00:45:08my friends doesn't want to me
00:45:13he made that move it's over he has no chance
00:45:20before she came here Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael and he said that I am
00:45:28the
00:45:28obstacle those two having a relationship I took it as a move she said that it was meaning just friends
00:45:37but I don't trust Michael this is his opportunity to break us up while she is confused about our relationship
00:45:47this is a strategy
00:45:51look I want this relationship to work with you
00:45:59I would never let a third party come between me and you
00:46:07maybe you should try to like calm down and just meet him
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now
00:46:36I feel like I have no choice
00:46:39he's already coming she didn't care what I think or what I say
00:46:44I just hope that Michael doesn't up my entire future and my relationship
00:46:54let's go we have a reservation
00:46:58okay
00:47:07you can speak Turkish
00:47:11maybe I can speak English
00:47:13okay thank you
00:47:14you know the Turkish say cheers
00:47:16how
00:47:17cheers
00:47:18I'm just
00:47:18cheers
00:47:18I don't know how it is
00:47:19cheers
00:47:20cheers
00:47:23cheers
00:47:24cheers
00:47:24cheers
00:47:24cheers
00:47:26cheers
00:47:32oh did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35yeah
00:47:36after today I can drink everything inside
00:47:41we had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruin
00:47:48but beer con's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward
00:47:57you don't seem like you want to taste wine you're like pounding it like a shot
00:48:01yeah
00:48:02that's not a wine tasting
00:48:05yeah
00:48:05I am miserable
00:48:07you're miserable
00:48:08I'm waiting for my best friend
00:48:10Michael
00:48:16this is 13.5% alcohol
00:48:19this one is that three different to Turkish grape
00:48:24okay
00:48:25let's try
00:48:25cheers
00:48:26thank you
00:48:26you're welcome
00:48:27okay do you want to talk about this?
00:48:32okay
00:48:33okay
00:48:34there was no heads up
00:48:37you declined my existence in this relationship
00:48:43you just decide whatever you want
00:48:46you are not respecting the person in your life
00:48:52you don't respect me
00:48:54that's not true at all
00:48:55and now I have doubts
00:48:59when we get married it will only get worse
00:49:04that could be my worst mistake
00:49:07I don't know
00:49:09what could be your worst mistake?
00:49:11this
00:49:13us
00:49:17here we are
00:49:19it's a nice place I hope
00:49:22I have booked a resort
00:49:23the pictures online looked really nice
00:49:26so I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:49:29and can help us reconnect
00:49:31what is it?
00:49:32it's moving
00:49:34kill it
00:49:35step on it
00:49:36get rid of it
00:49:37take it outside
00:49:38no
00:49:39ah
00:49:41Daniel
00:49:53guys
00:49:54guys where are we going?
00:49:55left here and we're just up here on the left
00:49:59here we are
00:50:00well it looks super cute
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys' plays
00:50:13we'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you
00:50:18cute
00:50:19wow
00:50:20oh
00:50:23at this point
00:50:24it's been 40 hours that I've been up
00:50:26and I am completely delirious
00:50:28completely foggy
00:50:29I put a game face on
00:50:31I went to the mother bar
00:50:32and now I am beyond thankful we're at the rental
00:50:35and I'm going to be getting some rest soon
00:50:36guys I really have to pee
00:50:38where's the bathroom?
00:50:40and then you can show me around
00:50:41I'm really excited
00:50:42someone didn't make their bed
00:50:43Joshua
00:50:44someone else
00:50:46oh
00:50:47her
00:50:47oh my god this is the bathroom we're sharing
00:50:49oh no
00:50:51yes
00:50:51this is too small
00:50:55I'm going to die here
00:50:56you will not die
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward and like be positive
00:51:01and show him that like I'm not a complainer
00:51:03it's small as
00:51:06sounds positive
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of like Josh getting the apartment in a nice location
00:51:12maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial
00:51:15and like I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate
00:51:19like no offence love you Chris
00:51:21this is your room
00:51:22oh
00:51:25wait wait wait what
00:51:27it's the Moaning Lisa we call it
00:51:29you wanted this picture
00:51:30Chris thought it was hilarious
00:51:31I put it up
00:51:33yeah
00:51:36why would you let him do that
00:51:38I didn't let him do that
00:51:40but I thought it was quite hilarious
00:51:42so like what when we're having sex we have to look at Chris
00:51:44that's weird
00:51:46when we have sex
00:51:47it's pretty as sumptuous of you
00:51:51yeah
00:51:51yeah
00:51:55excuse me
00:51:56so I'm really confused
00:51:57like you could have put a picture of me
00:51:59didn't have one
00:52:01in such high depth
00:52:02all of my social media
00:52:04yeah
00:52:05it feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person
00:52:08she's just been a voice on the other end of the phone
00:52:11so it'll be interesting to see how
00:52:13you know we both react to living together
00:52:17where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer did you get a steamer?
00:52:24steamer?
00:52:25yeah
00:52:26do you think we should get like a closet organizer here?
00:52:30do you not
00:52:31do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36um
00:52:37it looks like it could be an adjustment
00:52:39there's like literally only one towel in here
00:52:44I'm gonna need more pillows
00:52:47uh
00:52:48we can organize that
00:52:49pillows
00:52:51steamer in the morning
00:52:52we should maybe make a list so you don't forget
00:52:54I'll write it down
00:52:55set yourself up for success
00:52:56I'll write it down
00:52:57promise
00:52:57okay
00:52:58let's go to bed
00:52:59okay
00:52:59come on
00:53:00alright guys
00:53:02goodnight
00:53:03alright
00:53:05this is your bed
00:53:06okay
00:53:07I just want to get comfy clothes on
00:53:09yep
00:53:09and go to bed
00:53:10okay perfect
00:53:11I'm on the couch
00:53:13okay
00:53:14before I got here
00:53:16I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow
00:53:18so he's gonna sleep on the couch
00:53:20that way we're both avoiding temptation
00:53:22okay
00:53:25Joshua gives me butterflies
00:53:27like he's hot
00:53:28like sending him away
00:53:29it's hard
00:53:30but like I came here wanting to do things differently
00:53:33like not leading with sex
00:53:34but at the same time
00:53:36I wanted to make him you know
00:53:37see a little glimpse of what he might be getting
00:53:46Josh
00:53:53are you gonna come say goodnight?
00:53:55absolutely
00:53:57why such a serious look?
00:53:59because it's uh
00:54:02you know what?
00:54:03you look like someone killed you
00:54:05yeah I'm getting killed inside
00:54:07painful
00:54:07alright well come take a night to me
00:54:22goodnight
00:54:23goodnight
00:54:24goodnight
00:54:26it's gonna be a hard sleep on the couch
00:54:27but yeah
00:54:28it's good to try and connect more on that emotional level
00:54:31than the sexual level
00:54:32off the bat
00:54:33I think that probably
00:54:34you know that helps us
00:54:36but would you want to have sex?
00:54:39in an ideal world of course I would
00:54:40as soon as I saw her I would
00:54:41rolled on the airport floor
00:54:43but um you know
00:54:46I'm really happy
00:54:47that we have a really strong connection
00:54:49straight away from the moment we met
00:54:52but um
00:54:52I haven't shared my whole life with um Elise yet
00:54:55I'm a bit worried that she might
00:54:57you know find out some things
00:54:58you know parts of my life
00:54:59that she's not exactly happy with
00:55:01I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person
00:55:03you know with flaws but a good person
00:55:05and hopefully she falls in love with me
00:55:24okay we have to pack
00:55:37Daniel are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:55:40um yeah
00:55:42yeah sure
00:55:45things are now settled with Lisa
00:55:47I'm still really hurt with all the offence she have committed
00:55:51by telling lies
00:55:54but I decided to go on this trip with her
00:55:57I hope we didn't forget anything
00:55:59I don't know I don't think so
00:56:01I think we're good
00:56:02this is going to be difficult
00:56:04but
00:56:05I will try my best
00:56:07to have a good time
00:56:08I never wanted to hurt you
00:56:17Long Rod
00:56:19we'll get there pretty late so
00:56:21what is the place like?
00:56:23it's a lake
00:56:24yeah there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at
00:56:28and lots of activities to do
00:56:30so
00:56:31I thought it would be enjoyable for us
00:56:34thank you
00:56:36you're welcome
00:56:48you're thinking where the hell is she taking me?
00:56:51you know what we call these in America?
00:56:53the boonies
00:56:54what is she?
00:56:55the boondocks
00:56:56where there's no real civilization
00:56:59it's just
00:57:00just woods
00:57:04here we are
00:57:06it's a nice place
00:57:07I hope
00:57:10I have booked a resort
00:57:12in Bagari, Nigeria
00:57:15it's the western part of Lagos
00:57:17the pictures online looked really nice
00:57:20and it's in my price range
00:57:22so
00:57:23I'm hoping this place is fun
00:57:25and romantic
00:57:26and can help us reconnect
00:57:29oh wow
00:57:30I like it
00:57:31what do you think?
00:57:35nice little space, right?
00:57:37it's nice
00:57:37it's fine, it's nice, huh?
00:57:39oh my god
00:57:42what is it?
00:57:45yes, it's a spider
00:57:46no
00:57:47that could be poisonous
00:57:48I've not seen someone bitten by a spider before
00:57:54I have
00:57:55I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider
00:57:57I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is
00:58:01this thing is in Africa
00:58:03this could be dangerous
00:58:04don't you dare fling it towards me
00:58:11is it dead?
00:58:12just smushed
00:58:13it's moving
00:58:16kill it
00:58:17step on it
00:58:18get rid of it
00:58:19take it outside
00:58:20no
00:58:23Daniel
00:58:25all right stop
00:58:26leave it
00:58:26I will kill it myself
00:58:29no
00:58:29don't kick it again
00:58:30stop
00:58:32stop kicking it
00:58:36where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel get it off my shoe
00:58:40okay
00:58:41don't kick it at me
00:58:43I have a phobia of spiders
00:58:46it's just spider?
00:58:47no
00:58:48no
00:58:48it's not just a spider
00:58:50it was huge
00:58:51it was like tarantula sized spider
00:58:53you are so rude
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders
00:58:58I told you to kill spiders
00:59:00why didn't you kill the spider?
00:59:02is that bad?
00:59:02is that bad?
00:59:03just spider
00:59:03ordinary spider
00:59:04it's not an ordinary spider
00:59:05it's a vicious spider
00:59:07this is the room you paid for
00:59:08and you bring in here
00:59:09you know where the spider's coming from
00:59:10kill the spider, kill it
00:59:11no, you kill it
00:59:14we're here now, right?
00:59:18so, what are we here for?
00:59:21it's a romantic getaway
00:59:23romantic?
00:59:24yes
00:59:25yes
00:59:30she wants us to have a romantic trip
00:59:33but it's very hard for me
00:59:36I am feeling tense
00:59:40because I don't know what my uncle is going to do
00:59:43whether he will cancel this marriage
00:59:46I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him
00:59:49you should enjoy it
00:59:51you came
00:59:52why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:59:55honest
00:59:55you know why I'm here, right?
00:59:57no, I have no idea why you decided to come
00:59:59you don't have idea?
00:59:59no
01:00:01I don't
01:00:01I'm here because, um
01:00:02I don't want the money you paid to be, um
01:00:05to be a waste
01:00:08that's the only reason why you came
01:00:13so
01:00:14no, um
01:00:15no sex
01:00:17no kissing
01:00:19until I call my uncle
01:00:20and I want him to consult
01:00:22you know, the oracle, the ancestors
01:00:25why don't you just wait a couple days?
01:00:27just a couple days
01:00:29we can, we can make this work for a couple days
01:00:32Daniel, I need a couple days
01:00:33to do what?
01:00:35just to get my head together
01:00:37and then we call your uncle
01:00:42I need a couple days because I have to come clean to Daniel
01:00:45about the rest of everything before he goes to his uncle
01:00:49but he's already so angry with me
01:00:52how am I going to get through it?
01:00:55I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever
01:00:58once he finds out
01:01:00I need a day or two
01:01:02that's all I'm asking for
01:01:04I want to have a day or two with you
01:01:07fine
01:01:13this, this one never ends
01:01:15why do you do this?
01:01:17is your mom always just bossy?
01:01:19you want traditional roles when it applies to you
01:01:23ah, I'm just done with this conversation
01:01:26you know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter
01:01:29you don't want a bitchy wife
01:01:31don't be a asshole
01:02:01I'm just an asshole
01:02:16what's wrong?
01:02:18really?
01:02:19yeah, really
01:02:21you don't help me with anything
01:02:23like this, laundry, and this
01:02:26this one never ends
01:02:28why do you do this?
01:02:31what the ****?
01:02:35it's been nice having Javon in my house
01:02:37but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern about our long distance relationship
01:02:44on top of that
01:02:46now that Javon and I are living together in one house
01:02:51slowly, a baby
01:02:53I get to see how he is
01:02:58he's very messy and
01:03:00he just puts
01:03:01the clothes and the towels everywhere
01:03:05I feel like I have a toddler
01:03:07and I always have to pick up stuff
01:03:10from male to male
01:03:11is your mom always just bossy?
01:03:15what?
01:03:16I heard that
01:03:17we just haven't got time
01:03:18I heard that
01:03:21no, me too loves me
01:03:23yeah, well I love you too, Anna
01:03:25I mean, it doesn't mean that
01:03:26you're not bossy
01:03:28what's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks?
01:03:31there's nothing wrong with that, Anna
01:03:33it's how you're delivering, Anna
01:03:35what do you want from me?
01:03:37instead of coming in the room and saying
01:03:39Javon, pick up your stuff!
01:03:40you know, you can just say
01:03:43boo, if you don't mind, could you just pick up your stuff?
01:03:48Javon
01:03:48yeah?
01:03:49no matter how much I put it
01:03:50if you really would like to pick up that socks
01:03:53you would have
01:03:55see? you don't see that
01:03:56I do, actually
01:03:58you do, but you don't do it
01:04:03and like every time I talk to you, you leave the room
01:04:17all we do is talk
01:04:20that's all we do
01:04:21alright, I'm going to try a little action today
01:04:25would you like to go get like a manicure?
01:04:29like our feet done?
01:04:33well, you definitely need a pedicure
01:04:38okay
01:04:46I feel sorry for whoever's going to clean your feet
01:04:50dang, how bad do you think my feet is?
01:04:55Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough
01:04:59but it's hard to be romantic when you're being
01:05:03nagged a lot
01:05:05still, you thought it would be a good idea to do something nice for Anna
01:05:08to show her, you know what, I appreciate what you do
01:05:11hi, good afternoon
01:05:13hello, Paul
01:05:14I just hope that she sees that I'm making a real effort here
01:05:19mmm
01:05:19so?
01:05:20it's like Barbie threw up in here
01:05:24suits you so well, look at you
01:05:26yeah
01:05:27sitting like a queen
01:05:29it's all pink
01:05:31I like it
01:05:32I know you do
01:05:36there you go
01:05:37yeah
01:05:40yeah
01:05:41see, I told you
01:05:43it just feels weird
01:05:47oh, that's nice
01:05:49oh my god, boo, that's a lot
01:05:53you doing okay over there?
01:05:56I'm so tired
01:06:02I'm so tired
01:06:02is this being romantic?
01:06:05yeah
01:06:05did I pass the test today?
01:06:07kind of, yeah
01:06:08thank you, some cool points
01:06:10I like that
01:06:14you still have to be nicer to me though
01:06:16and I'll do more nice things
01:06:19like, if I leave like, some underwear or socks on the floor
01:06:24you know, will you be nice?
01:06:28no
01:06:28no?
01:06:30I mean, you can be nice to me but not, by not dropping them on the floor
01:06:38I know, but Anna, you know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and, you know, more patient
01:06:44with me
01:06:46you know what I think it is, it's just, I think that you knew I wasn't going anywhere and you
01:06:49got comfortable
01:06:53being too comfortable
01:06:55being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like, okay, well, I got this person
01:06:59I don't have to try anymore, you know, he's always going to be there no matter what
01:07:06don't ever get too comfortable, ever
01:07:13I don't understand where did this come from, do you get it from those videos that you've been watching?
01:07:21about masculinity and other things?
01:07:24no, that's my, that's, that's, that's all my idea, I take full credit for that
01:07:32it's just odd because I feel like over the couple of years watching all these videos you've changed and
01:07:40I love who you are
01:07:43but Anna, this is who I was when you first met me
01:07:46no, you're not
01:07:48you were not that prideful before
01:07:50I feel like your idea of being a husband changed
01:07:55you see it like a power
01:07:57I don't have any, that's the problem
01:07:59like, I feel like
01:08:00that's the problem, you need to be powerful
01:08:02no, I feel like I have all the responsibility with no authority
01:08:06because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me, so what are you talking about?
01:08:13you want traditional roles when it, when it applies to you
01:08:17I always have to take care of everything financially
01:08:21so, as your husband, I feel like having to say is nice
01:08:25you know, it just means you're just respectful
01:08:30I'm just done with this conversation
01:08:37why did you bring me here?
01:08:40well, I wanted you to have a good time
01:08:42yes!
01:08:43but if you were gonna
01:08:44do I look like I'm having a good time?
01:08:45but you set me up, you were asking me questions and I just answered them honestly
01:08:51you ever heard the term, you know, you don't want to hear the answers, so cease from asking dumbass questions
01:08:57you ever think about that?
01:08:58and you don't wanna bitch your wife, don't be a asshole
01:09:04I can just sit here and get my feet done, like, I don't have to
01:09:09then just stay here, okay, don't come home
01:09:12you need to calm down
01:09:18I don't wanna see you ever again
01:09:22don't come home, ever
01:09:26jerk
01:09:29you're disgusting
01:09:33hey, I will see you soon
01:09:35alright
01:09:36I cannot believe Michael is actually here in Turkey
01:09:41he said to tell you hi
01:09:43I'm not saying hi
01:09:47you wanna open it?
01:09:49hey!
01:09:51hi friend
01:09:51oh my god
01:10:13I have a phone call
01:10:20hello
01:10:23hey, good morning
01:10:25good morning, how are you?
01:10:28are you doing well?
01:10:30um
01:10:30my hotel won't be ready until, like, 2 o'clock
01:10:34uh, is there any chance I can point in my, say hello?
01:10:40it's totally fine with me, I mean
01:10:43see you
01:10:44I was just gonna say, I pin-drop you my location
01:10:47okay, I will, uh, I will see you soon
01:10:50I'm gonna start walking in your direction
01:10:51alright, be careful
01:10:55thanks, bye bye
01:10:56bye
01:10:56bye
01:11:06I'm a little bit worried that Michael's here
01:11:09now, now that this is real, and he actually
01:11:12showed up in Turkey
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself
01:11:19I'm incredibly nervous, and
01:11:22feel like I'm about to die
01:11:27hey
01:11:29hey
01:11:30that was Michael
01:11:33what is he saying?
01:11:35he said to tell you hi
01:11:37what?
01:11:41why?
01:11:41because
01:11:42I'm not saying hi
01:11:44well
01:11:46he's gonna be here
01:11:48at this apartment
01:11:50this apartment
01:11:51and about
01:11:52ten minutes
01:12:01I
01:12:02I
01:12:02I
01:12:03cannot believe
01:12:04that Michael is actually
01:12:05here in Turkey
01:12:06he dropped everything
01:12:08to get on a plane for me
01:12:11I mean, it does feel pretty good
01:12:12that someone cares about me enough
01:12:14to do that
01:12:15but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated
01:12:22so
01:12:23you think this is normal?
01:12:27well
01:12:29I think he's just concerned about me
01:12:33yeah, sure
01:12:36that's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other
01:12:40yeah, I believe him
01:12:42he's such a good heart
01:12:50I'm not five years old
01:12:51I don't eat that
01:12:52your friend is trying to
01:12:57this connection
01:12:58and you're like
01:12:59yay
01:13:01okay
01:13:03it's like I don't get it
01:13:06I never wanted him to come
01:13:08and I still don't want him to come
01:13:11I think he's coming in Turkey
01:13:14to mix up Laura's mind
01:13:16maybe talk some
01:13:17about me
01:13:19give Laura more doubts
01:13:21but
01:13:23if
01:13:24our relationship is
01:13:25gonna end
01:13:26because of Michael
01:13:28I don't blame Michael
01:13:30I will blame Laura
01:13:37you wanna open it?
01:13:39yeah, I do actually
01:13:41thank you
01:13:47hey
01:13:48hi friend
01:13:49oh my god
01:13:50I cannot believe you're in Turkey
01:13:53is it safe to come in?
01:13:55yes, this is
01:13:56oh my god, wild
01:13:57oh my god
01:13:59they're making a palace here
01:14:07I can't believe you're in Turkey
01:14:09I know
01:14:09this is amazing
01:14:11it's crazy
01:14:11the most spontaneous thing
01:14:12I've ever done in my life
01:14:13I have no doubt
01:14:14and I do it for you
01:14:15I can do it for you
01:14:18so
01:14:19oh my god
01:14:21absolutely
01:14:22oh wow
01:14:23yeah, this is fantastic, right?
01:14:26I hope my hotel room looks like this
01:14:27holy cow
01:14:29hi, Michael
01:14:31nice to meet you finally
01:14:32I've heard so much about you
01:14:35yeah, you probably heard
01:14:38okay
01:14:45make yourself at home
01:14:46okay
01:14:47you want something to drink?
01:14:49tea? yeah, anything like that?
01:14:51okay
01:14:52just have a seat right here
01:14:53I don't know how it works
01:14:54yeah, that's my
01:14:55do the women make tea here
01:14:55or do the boys do it?
01:14:58boys?
01:14:58the boys make the tea?
01:15:01they call men
01:15:02if they are grown up
01:15:03oh, okay
01:15:07um
01:15:09would you like anything?
01:15:11nope
01:15:12I am perfect
01:15:14thank you
01:15:27so, Bunny, what you watching?
01:15:30Scarface
01:15:31you like American classic movies?
01:15:39no
01:15:43I like mob stuff
01:15:45I enjoy pretty much violence
01:15:54do you like?
01:15:56do you like?
01:15:56do I like this movie?
01:15:57or?
01:15:58violence
01:16:03uh
01:16:05golly
01:16:06I
01:16:07I'll be honest with you
01:16:08I don't know what to make of Mircon
01:16:09um
01:16:09I know I just kind of dropped it on him
01:16:11but
01:16:12he's talking about violence to me on the couch
01:16:15if that's truly who he is
01:16:16then
01:16:17I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura
01:16:20my first impression of Mircon
01:16:21is that Laura and I are more compatible than I think uh
01:16:24than Mircon and she are
01:16:25so
01:16:26I want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:16:35I love you so much
01:16:37but
01:16:37stop telling me that
01:16:39stop
01:16:39we're hurting some secrets
01:16:41all I can think about
01:16:43is how there's more to tell him
01:16:45and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
01:16:48it has to be tonight
01:16:50so I have more to tell you then
01:16:52more to tell me?
01:17:17good morning
01:17:20good morning
01:17:21good morning
01:17:21good morning
01:17:25you're going to sleep
01:17:26you're going to sleep or I
01:17:28you kept me awake all try tonight
01:17:30I know
01:17:30I didn't mean to keep you awake
01:17:32I couldn't help it
01:17:33I was sad
01:17:33you almost went to bed with tears
01:17:42why are you crying?
01:17:44I feel bad about everything that transpired
01:17:48but I feel better this morning
01:17:50but I feel better this morning
01:17:50yeah because I
01:17:52I cuddled you, right?
01:17:54and you were crying so loud
01:17:55so I have to
01:17:56I have to cuddled you, you know
01:18:01last night I cried myself to sleep
01:18:03and all I could think about
01:18:05is how I have to tell Daniel my secret
01:18:07and I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever
01:18:10but Daniel held me all night
01:18:12so I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful
01:18:16today is a new day
01:18:18and I'm hoping that we can explore
01:18:20and have some fun together
01:18:21yes hello, where are we breathing?
01:18:23I'd like to look at the lake
01:18:25and I'd like to walk around
01:18:26and see what else there is
01:18:28that's fine
01:18:29alright, let's get dressed
01:18:40come on, let's go down towards the water
01:18:46oh my gosh
01:18:49this is a whole resort
01:18:51and there's nobody here
01:18:59it's not like it's pictures
01:19:03it's pretty desolate actually
01:19:06and it's a bit run down
01:19:10you want to smile a little bit?
01:19:12no
01:19:13but maybe that it's desolate
01:19:15is going to help me with Daniel
01:19:20maybe it's a little bit more intimate
01:19:22for the two of us
01:19:25wow, the water is so big
01:19:28yeah, it's so big, the water
01:19:30oh, look at this, this is neat
01:19:35let's have one
01:19:37two please
01:19:41I feel that things are going back to normal
01:19:44like, Lisa is trying to rebuild our relationship
01:19:48oh wow
01:19:51delicious
01:19:52let's go for a bike ride
01:19:54can you ride a bike?
01:19:56I don't know, I will try
01:19:59to me, I welcomed it
01:20:01I want us to be together
01:20:02because I love her
01:20:07you know, it takes muscle to pull this
01:20:09yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling
01:20:11and I'm doing the steering
01:20:13look up the pace
01:20:14no, not that fast
01:20:16thank you baby, not that fast
01:20:20don't go so fast
01:20:24I feel so light
01:20:26and so good in this moment with Daniel
01:20:28he is having fun
01:20:30and seeing the smile on his face
01:20:31as he's doing it
01:20:33I really feel like we're reconnecting
01:20:36are you having fun?
01:20:38yes I am
01:20:38see, this is exactly what we needed
01:20:43I want to just enjoy myself
01:20:45but I can't because all I can think about
01:20:47is how there is more to tell him
01:20:49and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
01:20:52it has to be tonight
01:21:16it's a bonfire honey, we're dancers
01:21:20I'm enjoying the sun
01:21:23it's a bonfire honey, we're dancers
01:21:24this is beautiful
01:21:26this is beautiful
01:21:26have a seat
01:21:27let's watch him
01:21:28let's enjoy it
01:21:32it's beautiful, isn't it?
01:21:37thank you
01:21:39thank you
01:21:42this is nice
01:21:44are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:21:50I'm enjoying spending time with you
01:21:51I'm enjoying spending time with you
01:21:52this is what this few days is about
01:21:54do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit?
01:21:58yeah, I really want us to reconnect
01:22:01you know, I miss the way we used to be
01:22:05but I'm trying to respect our tradition
01:22:09we have to call my uncle
01:22:10when I call him
01:22:12I will beg on our behalf
01:22:14I love you
01:22:15I love you too
01:22:16I want to make you
01:22:19I want to, you know, love you forever
01:22:21but
01:22:22stop telling me lies
01:22:24stop with hurting some secrets
01:22:27okay?
01:22:29I understand
01:22:30okay
01:22:33so I have more to tell you then
01:22:36more to tell me?
01:22:40what do you mean?
01:22:44so, like, in Nigeria
01:22:46it's not legal for
01:22:49men to marry men
01:22:50or women to marry women, right?
01:22:52it's not legal?
01:22:53it's not, yeah
01:22:53in America it is
01:22:56yes, I've heard of that
01:23:01so
01:23:02my last marriage wasn't with a man
01:23:07I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel
01:23:12and I've been with more than one woman
01:23:16you're the first man that I've been with in 21 years
01:23:25cause I'm...
01:23:30it's not...
01:23:31don't...
01:23:32it's not as bad as...
01:23:33don't come close to me
01:23:39next time on Before the 90 Days
01:23:41next time on Before the 90 Days
01:23:42hey!
01:23:43hey!
01:23:47having female friends can be hard to juggle
01:23:49but I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about
01:23:52today I found out that he was living with you
01:23:54yeah
01:23:54yeah, I think that she has a financial hold on you
01:23:56that's making you feel some sort of...
01:23:59financial hold, big words
01:24:01are you jealous of me?
01:24:03in our relationship?
01:24:08we're officially on the GP
01:24:11I only have a week left here in the Philippines
01:24:14and I don't want to waste any time
01:24:16in bringing Sheena to America
01:24:18so I have to be very clear here
01:24:21if you file today for the K1 mission
01:24:25it will be denied
01:24:30I just feel really hopeless because
01:24:34I'm putting in massive effort
01:24:37and at this moment
01:24:38I'm at a crossroads
01:24:39I don't know how to move forward
01:24:47I'm excited to see my family
01:24:49you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:24:51yeah, to see me
01:24:52what about me?
01:24:53I don't know
01:24:55I don't know
01:24:57I feel scared
01:24:58my family won't accept Rick
01:25:01when they don't like something
01:25:03they are really aggressive
01:25:05Rick doesn't know what he's in for
01:25:14they want babies
01:25:20you have a lot of secrets
01:25:22I have no more secrets
01:25:24shut your mouth
01:25:25you don't have to
01:25:25you have been touched by a woman
01:25:27not even women
01:25:30where they range
01:25:34Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am
01:25:36you know what?
01:25:38him
01:25:39him
01:25:43Jesus
01:25:44him
01:25:45him
01:25:45he's
01:25:45and he's
01:25:46a
01:25:46a
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