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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 02: The Act of Tinseling
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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02Girls' trip, woo!
00:05I've recently filed for divorce.
00:06So what better way to celebrate them with a girls' trip?
00:09Sophie B, all here because of you.
00:11And we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:14I've been talking to this guy.
00:15His name is Pedro.
00:18And yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantelle and Pedro.
00:23But I don't want to rush it the same way I rushed my marriage.
00:26You're separated right now.
00:27Are you still married?
00:28I'm still technically married.
00:30Any hookups with him?
00:31Yeah.
00:32They've been hookups.
00:34And she never told me they did hookups before.
00:36What the we doing here?
00:40I want to look good for Natalie, so I bought a couple of new shirts.
00:44My first attempt at dating Natalie, it didn't go very well.
00:47But I asked her if I could visit her, and she said yes.
00:51I have some nervousness.
00:53It's a little nerve-wracking.
00:55I know it's my last shot, and I cannot message her.
00:58She messed it up.
00:59I have two roommates.
01:01Oh, two.
01:02I used to date one of them.
01:04Sadly, I cheated on her.
01:07It is hard as to find a good man in your 50s.
01:11Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
01:14You have a lot of other things going on.
01:17I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:21Jamal has an older brother named Larry that I put up for adoption.
01:24You think you're going to have, like, a deep talk with him?
01:26I have to have a deep talk with him.
01:28About what?
01:29About the other one.
01:31Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:34I also had a daughter.
01:36Pfft.
01:38Pfft.
01:39Pfft.
01:39Pfft.
01:53Pfft.
01:54Pfft.
01:55Pfft.
01:55She liked me.
01:57I don't know, man.
01:59La cosa es que ella se está divorciando ahora.
02:01¿Tú me entiendes?
02:02SÃ.
02:03Y ese es el problema.
02:05Yo veo la panorama.
02:08Es más de lo que nos lleva.
02:11Es la panorama.
02:14Pfft.
02:16Pfft.
02:16Pfft.
02:16Pfft.
02:18Pfft.
02:19Pfft.
02:20Pfft.
02:20Pfft.
02:21I sensate that Sophie is here and they are with her friends.
02:23I really, really want a relationship with Sophie.
02:26But she has sex with the ex a couple of months ago.
02:29So I don't know if she's ready to let her go to pass.
02:43I don't like this situation, but I want to let her go because I like her.
02:48And I want to do whatever day to win Sophie over.
02:51How did your conversation go?
02:53We're getting to know each other but that's the extent that I'm ready for.
02:57If he just lets me open up myself, it will be better for me.
03:02So can you take a step back?
03:04Yes.
03:04And you take a step forward.
03:06No, forward.
03:06Yeah, yeah.
03:07Pedro's coming on very strong.
03:09You know what Pedro asked me?
03:10He asked me if I rub.
03:12And what do you say?
03:13I said...
03:14Truth?
03:14Yeah, I said the truth.
03:15Why am I going to lie?
03:16And what did he say?
03:18He was not happy.
03:19Oh!
03:20Like I feel like he kind of was like judging me.
03:22Even if you say yes, I sleep with him yesterday before I came to DR.
03:27It's nothing because you're not in a relationship.
03:29You are dating.
03:31Come with me.
03:31I need a pig.
03:35Hi.
03:36Oh, hi.
03:37Bella.
03:38What's up, bro?
03:39Hi.
03:40How you doing?
03:41I'm having a great time.
03:42Sofie's been talking about me?
03:46Sofie's definitely been like, he's the first guy to buy me flowers.
03:49And she said that you're so, like, respectful.
03:54Like, very sweet.
03:56You're very sweet and romantic.
03:57Are we serious about her?
03:59I am.
04:00Are y'all?
04:01I am.
04:02Yeah, hi.
04:03You thinking that she really want this?
04:05That she's been a little distant these days, you know?
04:07I think, you know, she just recently is just getting out of this marriage and relationship.
04:14And it seems like you've been kind of separated and divorced for a while.
04:16She's in the beginning stages of trying to, like, discover, like, where she's at.
04:22That's really scary.
04:23Like, she want to discover more of that side.
04:25No, no, no.
04:25Not discover more.
04:27She needs to...
04:28She's still healing.
04:30She's still healing?
04:31Killing, yeah.
04:33Yeah.
04:34I didn't feel that Liz is holding back and she not telling me the whole story.
04:38She didn't say directly, but this made me think that Sophie's not ready for a legend shit.
04:45Like, what the ****?
04:46I've been doing all those things for you, and right now maybe you're not ready for a relationship?
04:50That made me feel like a freaking idiot.
04:54What are we interrupting right now?
04:55Nothing, absolutely nothing.
04:56What are we doing?
04:57Nothing?
04:57I think in VR, Tyra, and we have to go back to the resort.
05:03I'm ready for bed.
05:04Let's bring you to the band, ladies, okay?
05:06I'm going to bed, Tyra.
05:10I came to the DR to be single and mingle, and first night, crushed it.
05:16I'll see you tomorrow, okay?
05:17Make sure you get home safe.
05:18Make sure you get home safe.
05:18I'll go ahead and give you a text.
05:19You have my number, okay?
05:21All right.
05:21Have a good night.
05:22I even got a number.
05:24Via is so sexy and so sweet.
05:26I'm so excited to see him again.
05:28I see you tomorrow?
05:29Yes.
05:30Yes, for sure?
05:32Yeah, let me know what you want to do.
05:33Okay.
05:34A little to the beach, maybe.
05:35Do something.
05:36Yeah, I want to go to the beach.
05:37Honestly, for me, the night has just been very overwhelming, and Pedro definitely came
05:41on a lot stronger tonight than I anticipated.
05:45Him pushing me forward or trying to pressure me to something is only going to make me step
05:48back, and things between us are just going to end before they've even started.
05:52Pedro just needs to take things a little bit slower.
05:56You look beautiful.
05:58And then, tomorrow, we see you, okay?
06:00Okay, I'll see you tomorrow.
06:02I want a relationship with Sophie.
06:04I feel like she's like a true diamond.
06:06And I know that we can be really good together.
06:09Bye, princess.
06:10Bye.
06:10Take care.
06:11But if she's not serious about me, what's she doing in the heart with me?
06:16I don't know what's going on.
06:19It's freaking up.
06:35I don't know what's going on.
06:35As much as I want to sit here and, like, talk about how, like, I feel bad for you and
06:40stuff.
06:40I don't expect you to feel bad for me.
06:41I've never asked you to.
06:42Yeah, well, I know I don't.
06:52like I know it's like a lot for you but I caused it yeah it's your fault
07:00so I just don't have Jamal as a son I have Larry who I put up for adoption when I
07:07was 21 years old
07:10last year when I told Jamal of all of this and all of this opened
07:16it hurt worse because I'd hit it for so long
07:22it sucks dude like me thinking I was the only child but then finding out not only my non-only
07:28child have like multiple siblings
07:34Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption I also had a daughter a year later
07:39my relationship with Jamal's dad at that point was not good and I had to do what was best for
07:45me at
07:45the time I don't regret what I did but I'm not happy with what I did either um because you're
07:56bringing these beautiful beings into this world and you feel that motherly love and you feel that
08:05maternal thing and knowing what you're doing and knowing that you're giving them up for adoption
08:11it's probably one of the hardest thing I think any birth mother has to go through I knew about my
08:19sister when I was 12 and then I found out about Larry because he found you a year ago it's
08:25like
08:26why in that gap you didn't just tell me about him I just didn't know how I really just did
08:32not
08:32know how when Jamal was 12 he overheard me and my mother talking about his sister and that's how Jamal
08:40found out I think I only told Jamal about one because it just thought to me like one would make
08:46sense but to do it twice I didn't want to him up did I handle it well no not at
08:56all I don't know I
08:58really feel for Larry not telling him about our full-blood sister feel like every time I talk to him
09:05it's like I'm like hiding a truth from from him and I feel like about it do you not think
09:12I feel
09:13like too I didn't tell Larry about his sister when he first found me because I was like trying to
09:21get
09:21to know him he was trying to get to know me and I just couldn't figure out a way to
09:25tell him but now
09:28Larry wants to come visit us and I have to go into this being completely 100% transparent we can't
09:36build a strong honest relationship if I'm keeping secrets from him so I'm gonna tell him about his
09:46sister but I feel like I don't want you to be there when I tell them so don't worry about
09:49that
09:50I'll why would I not be there I feel like I do want to be there because like and I
09:55don't want to
09:55sound like a dick but I don't know what you're gonna tell him let me tell him the truth I
10:01don't
10:01know I don't know I feel really protective of Larry because I don't want my mom to lie to him
10:12like she
10:13lied to me I'm hoping me and my mom can get back to how we used to be but it's
10:22gonna take a lot of
10:24rebuilding of trust like her actually being transparent with Larry because right now I
10:30just I just don't trust her anymore anyway let me know when Larry's coming
10:47all right I'm out all right love you bye
10:57telling Larry about his sister is going to be really difficult but I know I have to do this
11:02because it's killing me it is literally killing me and it's like I feel like I'm like drowning
11:08sometimes and I have to like swim just to get to the top you know the way I handled it
11:16was terrible
11:16it was awful you do think this is easy for me to live with my whole life for 30 35
11:23years 34 years
11:24it's awful all of this has affected my self-esteem my self-worth but I feel like now I have
11:32to like
11:32gain Jamal's trust back I want to build a bigger relationship with Larry and I feel like I want to
11:39find love I want somebody to accept me for all this craziness that's going on I think having Larry out
11:46here
11:46and just talking to him and being real and then you know just having transparent conversations it's
11:51going to help a lot that's what I'm hopeful for morning family well morning Courtney and I met two
12:02months ago at a singles retreat in Mexico things got romantic so she invited me to live with her in
12:08Florida at her parents house there it is there it is oh nice one do you think they have sex
12:15more than we
12:16do anything is more than what we're doing so I was talking to Liz she told me like oh yeah
12:24you do
12:25amazing team for Sophie but are you sure that she wanna be with you she made me feel a little
12:32like how
12:33to say I be careful what did she exactly say to go behind my back that's breaking girl code like
12:40you
12:40don't do that I'm really pissed
13:00is there anyone golfing with us today no just us okay okay Joe at the club the other day told
13:08me a
13:08funny joke how come most golfers bring two two pairs of pants with them I don't know why then in
13:15case they get a hole in one so I gotta bring three a pair with me get some more pants
13:23here
13:28you guys are being so loud what are you guys doing we're getting ready to go golfing good morning sunshine
13:49well I'm glad you're up Courtney because uh this morning I woke up at four o'clock because I was
13:54freezing and I looked at the thermostat and it was set on 67 degrees what does that say right now
14:03you're 76 yeah and that's where it's gonna stay because we pay the bills I'm Courtney I'm 34 I live
14:09with my parents in Orlando Florida so hot last night I couldn't sleep Courtney when you own your
14:15own house you can freeze all you want I live with my parents because they're better than any roommate
14:22I've had sorry yeah sorry that don't pay the bills and also when I've lived with roommates it's so much
14:29drama it's almost like being in the jungle or something I think I'm just like prancing around
14:34like a little just gazelle whatever they're called and be gorgeous like I don't need that in my life I
14:40just want peace quiet like live a nice retirement lifestyle when we were your age we were almost on
14:47our second home by then with two little kids and mouse to feed I've been telling my parents for years
14:55I don't want to move out until I get married but my love life has been all drama
15:05one of my biggest heartbreaks was Antonio we met online I flew to Spain to meet him we got along
15:12great
15:13like I thought he was the one but there are too many trust issues like I picked up your phone
15:19for like
15:19five seconds and you're like texting like Angel Paulina Maria okay since Antonio I've dated a bunch
15:30but it seems like things always end with me in tears it makes me sad how much you've changed
15:36like people do change I don't like it and I think my parents are starting to worry that I might
15:45be living
15:45with them forever I love living with you guys I think you're the best roommates I've had
15:51oh yeah because mom does your laundry for you and cooks for you and get your groceries and
15:56what is this oh my god oh sorry mom
16:03what's that all about I have no idea you put your underwear in my mom's laundry again
16:12this is like the third time you've done it oh good morning
16:29I just woke up and my dad's already mad at me for messing with the thermostat it keeps a little
16:34too
16:34lie I'm Colt I'm 39 years old and I live in Orlando Florida with my girlfriend Courtney and her parents
16:42I know it's one of his number one rules now shall not change the thermostat yeah and put your dirty
16:49underwear in the laundry I did put it in laundry I put it in the basket Courtney and I met
16:56two months
16:56ago at a singles retreat in Mexico I was there because unfortunately I have not been lucky in love
17:06Larissa was my first wife a fiery Brazilian coach you a fat loser that live with your mother but
17:13unfortunately things got toxic really fast you at home I met Jess after my divorce from Larissa
17:30I cheated on Jess with a woman named Vanessa who would literally become my second wife
17:38but after being married for three years she told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore and
17:42she
17:42was in love with me and broke my heart I just had it I always go into relationships the best
17:50of
17:51intentions I want things to work out but somehow or another I miss things up I hope things can be
17:57different with Courtney morning family well morning sorry about the laundry guys I really appreciate
18:06everything you guys have been doing how is your leg you know I still feel a lot of pain most
18:11days
18:12but I think everything happens for a reason like we're together because of it oh my god are you
18:19okay well no that's the leg I broke can't move it while I was at the singles retreat in Mexico
18:26I was
18:26leaving Courtney's room and I slipped and fell and I broke my leg I have five fractures in my knee
18:33Colt was in the hospital for about three weeks I was there with him almost 24 7 so that's when
18:41we
18:41really started bonding things got romantic so when I was discharged she invited me to live
18:51with her in Florida she knew I didn't have anywhere to go I had a long road to recovery and
18:57she wanted
18:57to help me as much as possible I'm glad you're here I'm glad I'm here too I know you're in
19:03a lot
19:04of pain but why don't you guys come golf with us you can ride in the golf cart get some
19:09fresh air do
19:10you want to go yeah that'd be great okay if you're gonna go let's go let's go let's go get
19:14ready I'll
19:21help you okay I brought him to Florida to help him go through physical therapy take care of him and
19:34I
19:35really hoped he'd be further along in his recovery by now but basically I'm his full-time nurse do you
19:42them wear the green or the tan I leave a tan okay he could barely even wipe his ass by
19:48himself
19:49they're tight they're tight I feel something should probably be left unseen especially so early on in a
20:01relationship push oh my god you're gonna knock me off off-road driving
20:13okay okay straight ahead I believe you got this I have confidence in you
20:20your turn Courtney good luck you got this you went up too steep
20:28there you go yay Courtney I see it
20:36there it is there it is oh nice one
20:38it's so cute you think they have sex more than we do
20:51yeah we haven't had sex full-on sex yet right now the plumbing doesn't work so well
20:59oh my god we'll get there it's a grower you know but it's very majestic when it's fully you know
21:06realized
21:09it makes me feel like insecure like am I your type you're definitely my type I mean you know
21:15we've had some success but it's just when we transition into penetration then I kind of
21:25go down but why I don't know it hurts I'm moving my body around there's a lot of expectation I'm
21:31still on
21:34medicine Colts is like known for being like a horny bunny like he wants to do it hourly he wants
21:40it all
21:40the time so the fact he can't get it up for me it's making me wonder like it's cool here
21:47because he's
21:48into me or is he here out of convenience because he basically has everything provided for him he's not
21:53paying rents he's not paying bills he has a pretty good we're in this weird situation because I feel like
22:00I've known you forever we get along we don't argue but then it's like okay I don't really know
22:06you I've only known you like a month or two yeah let's be honest like your exes are constantly online
22:12like oh you're a liar you're a cheater like they're not saying anything good about you why were they
22:17with me then I mean I'm sure they liked you in the beginning until you cheated on them I mean
22:24sure I
22:25have a past but yeah it doesn't mean I'm always going to do that it doesn't mean I can't be
22:29a good
22:30guy for you trust is everything in a relationship but I do struggle to trust men in general because a
22:37lot of them do lie and cheat I want to believe that Colt has changed maybe he's matured maybe he's
22:43grown up
22:44like I know that we have a lot to to figure out but I want to do it with you
22:48I want to figure out
22:50all these problems with you every day as we grow old together I mean I've always wanted to get married
22:57have kids have a family like I feel me and Colt are aligned we have a lot of the same
23:02goals
23:03so I'm hoping it works it has to work we'll get there
23:11I didn't like the way it ended for us
23:13I understand that you didn't create the havoc but there's a lot I didn't I felt I didn't know
23:20I haven't seen Gino in almost a year I want to believe that he truly made a mistake
23:25but I don't know if I can trust Gino I don't know if I can trust anything he says
23:43it's a little nerve-wracking because I haven't seen Natalie in a long time this is my chance
23:48one two three turn around don't you watch me now just turn around touch your knees don't look
23:55just turn around do it now you'll make me count
23:59hey Gino how are you I'm good how are you doing good long time on the scene how are you
24:09how are you
24:10good I'm good you look thinner you look thinner after all the drama that happened I did not expect
24:19Natalie to give me a second chance I'm on your home turf I know this time you're in DC I
24:26am absolutely
24:26super excited to have this opportunity to reconnect with her and make things right oh my gosh it's so
24:35cool here yeah you have some beautiful trees and hills and parks um you seem a little nervous
24:47okay uh well I am nervous I am I do have a little nerves coming here because last time we
24:52were
24:52together you know it didn't end very well no you stormed out of the hotel and you were upset with
24:59me
24:59well yeah I mean that was a disaster so I haven't seen Gino in almost a year in person and
25:09I really
25:09don't know how I feel about it right now because Gino has a lot of explaining to do when I
25:15met Gino
25:16one of my first questions that I asked him is are you single he said he was separated about to
25:23get a
25:23divorce but then he invited me to come to Michigan and meet his family and I was kind of surprised
25:31by
25:31some of his cousin Michelle's comments what's the deal with you and Jasmine I mean you guys just
25:38actually went out and had dinner was there hope for progress when you went I mean slight slight you know
25:51it basically lied to me so I just wanted to get out of there and before I could Jasmine walked
25:59in the
26:00door and attacked me why are we bringing the horse from Vegas
26:17I totally understand why you're upset after all that chaos at the party I understand that you
26:23wasn't you didn't create the havoc but you kind of did create the habit because I there's a lot I
26:31didn't I felt I didn't know I shouldn't have been there in the first place you know that's how I
26:39felt
26:39okay that makes a little more sense because I didn't like the way it ended for us neither did I
26:45and I'm a little bit more recovered I guess well that's good now I know it's taken some time it
26:53doesn't
26:53happen right away I know that um I knew that I wasn't fully recovered no and I could tell but
27:00anyway it's all over it's all over it's done with like you're here now like what do you want
27:08well obviously I want to like just hang out like we did in Vegas we had fun together and it
27:16was you
27:17know a goodbye you know I mean I like that idea you know I like putting the past in the
27:23past and
27:23you know starting new yeah you know as much as I like Gino I'm approaching this weekend with a lot
27:32of caution I'm not going to deny that he's hurt me but you know I understand what it's like to
27:36go
27:37through a destructive marriage and things happen I want to believe that he truly made a mistake
27:44the weather's pretty but we can go back to my place oh you're inviting me to your place oh my
27:50gosh but I don't know if I can trust Gino I don't know if I can trust anything he says
27:57let's go let's
27:59do it I got an umbrella too if Gino wants something romantic with me more than friends he's got to
28:06prove
28:06that he's gonna be honest he's got to prove that he really wants this so we'll see if he can
28:13I can roll
28:18I like things clear you know I've been clear to you if you find somebody they don't want to set
28:23it down they're going to have some fun you open to that with somebody else I am single so I'm
28:28allowed
28:29to do whatever I thought that we were exclusive with each other if you die with the games to the
28:34begin that you are single and I am single what the can I do all of this for you
28:52okay I have this yellow dress okay oh I like it I like this one it's pretty cute bitchy yeah
28:59I
28:59need to be bitchy why you put this dress there because I'm gonna wear this one seriously okay here
29:06let me look with your boobs
29:16I'm gonna get ready okay have a good laugh give me a hug thank you I'll let you know how
29:21it goes
29:21last night with pleasure and his friends was just very awkward for me Pedro was just coming on a lot
29:29stronger than he has in the past it's not even that I don't appreciate the effort that he's making
29:34it's not that it's more so I can just feel he's putting too much pressure on it you look amazing
29:42hello thank you how are you good how are you I'm good I do like Pedro like I want to
29:48get to know him I
29:49want to go on dates and see where things go thank you you're welcome but I just finished with my
29:56marriage and I'm healing from it you feel good yeah he just needs to chill that's all he needs to
30:01do
30:01is just chill and let us get to know each other naturally and like people usually do when they just
30:06meet
30:10how do you feel today I feel like I'm kind of tired your hair look amazing thank you do you
30:18prefer a straight or curly I love oh you look amazing everywhere oh wow that's nice did you have a
30:29good
30:29time yesterday yeah I had a good time you know a little awkward but it was really awkward this made
30:36me
30:36me a little a little worried about you know because yesterday I was talking police and then she
30:42told me like oh yeah you do amazing thing for Sophie you give you flowers you give you this you
30:48give you
30:48that but are you sure that she wanna be with you that's made me a little bit like what's going
30:59on
31:00here like what did she exactly say she made me feel like a little bit like insecure about all the
31:07things I've been doing maybe I you hire another guy in your mind she made me feel a bit like
31:14how to
31:15say I be careful I invited Liz the Dominican Republic I thought we were friends and then to go behind
31:23my
31:23back she knows she just met Pedro that's not even her friend that's breaking girl code like you don't
31:30do that I'm really pissed I was in a relationship from when I was 20 years old pretty much my
31:39whole
31:39adult life I want to figure out what I want I don't know what it is I'm 33 years old
31:43you know looking
31:45for a certain relationship we're not in the same pace I don't want you to like wait around for when
31:53I'm ready I just want us to like get to know each other like you want to me like go
31:57the other people
31:59if someone comes along and she's like ready right now to settle down and have kids and everything you
32:05want I'm not gonna say to you no be loyal to me when I'm not ready that's extremely selfish how
32:10about if you find somebody they don't want to settle down they're gonna have some fun you open to
32:14that with somebody else I am single so I'm allowed to do whatever I thought that we were exclusive with
32:22each other and that we're going to come into this trip to try to get everything settled to move to
32:29relationship if that were the games to the beginning that you are single and I single what the I do
32:36all
32:36this for you I now want to spend my time my money my good intention with someone did not really
32:41want
32:41it I like this clear you know I've been close to you no you didn't yes I did the truth
32:54you told me
32:56you was already here I have never once told you I have feel that I'm ready for a relationship I've
33:01never told you that something no never knows what was that never told you that
33:06I'm really not understanding why he's acting like this is like brand new information I know I've
33:11said this because I've made a point because it's so important to me and I've told him that so for
33:15him to then say oh you've never told me that it's like it's frustrating now I act like I've said
33:21something I haven't said Sophie it's not the truth I don't want to lie to you you are I said
33:28to me right
33:28now yes you are and even last night like I wasn't acting like that's my man like I wasn't you
33:37know
33:37being all over him and touching him I'm literally making sure like I'm not giving him mixed signals
33:42at all I don't want to fight with you back and forth if you tell me you tell me what's
33:48my fault I don't like
34:03if she need time to he wear marriage what she doing deal with me yeah whatever I'm not healer I'm
34:13not a
34:14doctor I don't want Sophie to play game with me I'm not interesting that miss no no hell no no
34:25with me
34:30he's having issues right now he's not able to get like up oh it's like blowing up a balloon it's
34:37like it's getting there getting there and that's like there is a girl that I was talking to before
34:46I even went to the resort where she lives she's in Brazil oh yeah here we go again Diana and
34:54I met a
34:55a year ago online but are you still in contact with Diana do the right thing
35:15let's get wet and juicy no that doesn't sound right I think it sounds delicious
35:28how was your trip I heard you got a boy now yeah you don't miss being single
35:35she'll be single in like a month
35:40as much as I love colds it's a little like dragging down my vibe being a full-time caregiver
35:46I feel like a caged animal like I'm a cat stuck inside the house when really I want to be
35:52out
35:53roaming the streets so I'm so excited for girls day for cocktails I have a good time turn up so
36:01what do
36:02you like about him I feel like we connect on a deep level like I feel comfortable with him I
36:07could be
36:07myself with him but he's having issues right now like he's not able to get like up he's not able
36:17to
36:17get what uh like this thing doesn't work yeah oh oh well cuddle or kiss or like he's done stuff
36:28to me
36:29but I haven't done stuff to him but it's like okay what am I supposed to do like play with
36:32your the whole
36:33night like I don't know what you want me to do that's never fun it's like blowing up a balloon
36:39it's like it's getting there getting there and that's like
36:57how you doing Mark what's going on dude been a while man uh well a lot has happened
37:03I broke my leg in Mexico
37:06two we got to get you like a bubble wrap outfit or something
37:10Mark has been a really good friend for the past few years he's been there with me through
37:15several relationships and he's definitely aware of my dating mishaps and he's not afraid to call
37:21out my bull and right now I really need an honest perspective so when I was at the retreat I
37:27met
37:27somebody so right let's hear it her name's Courtney we connected on a lot of different levels and uh we
37:33kind of got this like relationship going while we're there and then she asked me if I wanted to
37:38come back with her and live with her in Florida wait stop it you're in her house right now I'm
37:43in
37:44her house you guys live together we live together been here for over a month now holy crap congratulations
37:49dude wow yeah but uh Courtney lives with her parents so I live with Courtney and her mom and dad
37:57here we go here we go all right how's that going what's that look like uh it's been pretty good
38:03they're very patient they're very sweet people but the energy is is weird Courtney is very shy and our
38:10intimacy isn't exactly where I want it to be my past relationships have been very spicy I've dated a few
38:19Brazilian women and they like oh it make me want sex all the time on the other hand Courtney's like
38:34watching Little House on the Prairie it's quality but after a while it gets a little bored I don't
38:41know you have a girl that just it gets so energetic that just on your that like her life depends
38:46upon it
38:48that type of energy you know and then you go to somebody that's just like yeah do whatever you want
38:52you know what I mean it's just it's just not the same it's hard to go back to that
39:02I don't know if he's not attracted to me or if it's just like he's not getting enough blood flow
39:07because of his broken leg so I'm trying to be supportive I'm trying to be his rock I feel like
39:12but then yeah I do have like doubts or fears like what's he doing behind my back what do you
39:17mean
39:17I was helping him upload something on social media and then it shows me all the women he's been
39:23messaging and I'm like all I didn't even dig deep I just went to like a few message down and
39:28he told
39:28a girl hey gorgeous I'm doing all this stuff for you and then you're like messaging other women
39:35like are you kidding me yeah I know you want like to get married and stuff like that but something's
39:40fishy about this he definitely doesn't sound like mr. right he's talking to other girls behind her back
39:47and I've had that happen in relationships and it never works out you can't even get it up he can't
39:53provide anything way too many red flags he is the red flag he needs to realize that he's actually
40:00lucky to have you because he is are you able to talk to her about like deep stuff and yeah
40:08future
40:08and relationships yeah but she knows my reputation and she thinks like I'm just gonna leave or cheat
40:15or or whatever one day so Courtney's worried that she'll be like another victim basically
40:18are you still living that way dude be honest with me
40:25so um well there is a girl that I was talking to before I even went to the resort where
40:33she live
40:34she's in Brazil oh yeah here we go yeah Diana and I met a year ago online originally I had
40:44plans to
40:45meet Diana in Brazil after the singles retreat ended but meeting Courtney and my injury ultimately
40:52changed those plans what are you still in contact with Diana I still talk to Diana it's been hard to
41:01let her go me and Courtney right now I'm taking it one day at a time but I don't want
41:07to hurt her
41:07I care about her there's definitely feelings there but I don't I really don't know what to do
41:12I mean this does sound a lot like things you've been through in the past right yeah and there's
41:20a situation where you could hurt her and I know you don't want to do that you want to get
41:23out of
41:24these cycles every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or a combination of
41:32both I love Courtney I never wanted to keep secrets from her but if I tell her about Diana
41:40she's never gonna trust me again this might be a opportunity for you to sort of take that next
41:45step in your personal growth and have some hard conversations yeah you know do the right thing
41:51I don't know man
41:55next time on the single life I am Banya I have been single for about a year I'm starting to
42:02wonder if
42:03the guy for me has been right in front of me this whole entire time his name is Tony
42:09is that your friend Tony yeah I kissed him oh my god girl we haven't made it clear if we're
42:16exclusive
42:17if we're dating you need to have a conversation with him if I have this conversation there is no
42:23going back our friendship will be changed forever
42:26how are your day with Pedro we definitely did not mesh well at the end it flipped so quick and
42:32he's ignored me since since the day at this point I am starting to panic a bit because what if
42:37Pedro
42:37just never takes me back maybe can you love you know I'm I'm happy that you came here but um
42:45I just
42:47keep seeing that you have this online battle still with Jasmine back and forth to me it's a red flag
42:54because there's a thin line between love and hate does he have these unresolved feelings for Jasmine
43:04yeah oh yeah sexy
43:11I really want this relationship to work with Colt but we have major issues his leg is broken trust
43:19his issues his erectile dysfunction we're not able to have sex so but now you're fully committed to
43:25Courtney at this point 100% I'm sorry I feel like you're using her using her yes do you have
43:31like
43:32a gut feeling because like that's usually what we go by
43:35I don't know
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