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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...
00:00:02No, just don't talk to me.
00:00:03My last two years have just been
00:00:06one dating disaster after another.
00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.
00:00:11I should be jaded at this point,
00:00:13but I'm still here, ready for love.
00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.
00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.
00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your f***ing face?
00:00:25I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.
00:00:28I was like living in hell.
00:00:31After everything that I've been through,
00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:00:37Woo!
00:00:39What are you doing?
00:00:40We're just not good together.
00:00:43I think that's pretty much it.
00:00:44I don't know.
00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,
00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.
00:00:51Girl strip!
00:00:52Girl strip!
00:00:52Woo!
00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?
00:00:57The men.
00:00:58What happened in the Dominican Republic?
00:01:01Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.
00:01:08You guys remember B, right?
00:01:10I have plans to hook up right now.
00:01:13A booty call.
00:01:14A booty call.
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:16Oh?
00:01:17Sexy.
00:01:17Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.
00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.
00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
00:01:29Using her?
00:01:30Yes.
00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.
00:01:35His name is Pedro.
00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santel and Pedro.
00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.
00:01:44I want my wife.
00:01:45I want the house.
00:01:46I want the kid.
00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be softened.
00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.
00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
00:02:04But now I have to be safe.
00:02:05I wish you did too.
00:02:06I've been living a lie.
00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.
00:02:11A guy starts out one way, then it turns out that we're just hiding their real personalities.
00:02:15So is this who you are?
00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love life?
00:02:20I am just here, go stare about him, and ask you about it.
00:02:24Okay, you can be concerned.
00:02:24But don't call me hostile because I don't know you can.
00:02:28I don't know you can.
00:02:29You guys have a great relationship.
00:02:31Okay, bye.
00:02:32Yeah, yeah.
00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.
00:02:34Yeah, yeah.
00:02:35Okay, whatever.
00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.
00:02:39Damn.
00:02:57Hola.
00:02:58Hola, hola.
00:02:59¿Es posible en pina pelada?
00:03:00SÃ, claro.
00:03:01Gracias.
00:03:24Hey, bitches!
00:03:30I'm here.
00:03:32Look at that.
00:03:34Boom.
00:03:34Check, check, pick, check, pick it out.
00:03:36Snap, check, check, look at that.
00:03:37Girl strip.
00:03:38Girl strip.
00:03:39Woo!
00:03:39Do I have your attention?
00:03:41Woo!
00:03:42Woo!
00:03:43I'm Sophie.
00:03:44I'm 26 years old.
00:03:45I'm from London, and I live in Texas.
00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.
00:03:48It's so hot.
00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.
00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years, and that marriage didn't go very well.
00:03:56Jers!
00:03:56Oh!
00:03:57So I've recently filed for divorce, and what better way to celebrate than with a girl's trip?
00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like, you're going to have to take the will on this.
00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks, and just have a good time, and not stress, and just actually
00:04:10have some fun.
00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?
00:04:13The men.
00:04:15Me too, and the guys here are fine.
00:04:18Even the workers are cute.
00:04:20The hotel people are cute.
00:04:21People on the beach, everyone's just cute here.
00:04:24How do you think it's an upgrade for me, ladies?
00:04:26I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.
00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.
00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected, and we kind of became a support for each other
00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.
00:04:38And yeah, now we've actually become friends.
00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?
00:04:42I still like the older man.
00:04:44Older?
00:04:45How old?
00:04:4693 is fine?
00:04:47Let's stick with it.
00:04:4997.
00:04:4994.
00:04:52I'm Liz.
00:04:53I'm 33 years old, and I'm from San Diego, California.
00:04:56But I currently live in Seattle, Washington.
00:04:59I've never actually really dated.
00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.
00:05:05But I'm single, and it feels really good to be single for once.
00:05:11Sophia, I know you're, like, a Latinian guy, right?
00:05:15Latinian?
00:05:17Latinian.
00:05:18Latinian.
00:05:18I would say Caribbean and Latino.
00:05:20Oh, no, yeah.
00:05:21I like that.
00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.
00:05:22Yeah.
00:05:23So, you like them.
00:05:24Okay.
00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time.
00:05:29And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.
00:05:33When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just, like, hit it off.
00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends, and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.
00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.
00:05:46Annoying bitch.
00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?
00:05:51He's fine.
00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, so be the single, not you.
00:05:56I'm Julia, I'm 31 years old.
00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:06:04My husband, Brandon, is very protective, but he has a reason because we have secrets.
00:06:10I'm pregnant.
00:06:12I don't tell anybody yet because I believe in superstition.
00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mock tells.
00:06:21So, let's have fun.
00:06:22Yeah.
00:06:23Let's have Jink and Mock tells.
00:06:26After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.
00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard
00:06:36for me to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.
00:06:44Hi, thank you.
00:06:46I miss you so much.
00:06:48Give me a kiss.
00:06:48I miss you.
00:06:49Six years ago, when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't
00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.
00:06:59But even though he was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating site.
00:07:05I found this.
00:07:12I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women 10 times.
00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve, and I had to walk away.
00:07:38I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob.
00:07:41And there's definitely something scary about getting back out there, because I've only known my life as an adult, really,
00:07:47with Rob.
00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob.
00:07:50But it's also very exciting.
00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you.
00:07:54And we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:07:59For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy, and it's been going really great.
00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.
00:08:10He's tall, he works out.
00:08:12He's very funny.
00:08:14If you could write on paper, the perfect guy, it's literally him.
00:08:20His name is Pedro, and, yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantelle and Pedro.
00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?
00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media, and then I saw this really cute guy.
00:08:36And I was like, okay, like, I followed him.
00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, like, it's Pedro.
00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?
00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between him and Chantelle.
00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation.
00:08:52But I know better than to judge someone based on other people's opinions.
00:08:57We have been talking a lot, and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.
00:09:02And he basically was like, oh, like, what's your ideal date?
00:09:05Like, and I told him, like, what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I want.
00:09:09And he just, like, did all of it.
00:09:10And I was like, oh.
00:09:11So what was the gift?
00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store, and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace.
00:09:17And that was the first time we met in person.
00:09:20Oh, my God.
00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?
00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic.
00:09:25And I like that he's, like, trying to win me over, kind of, because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers,
00:09:29like, once.
00:09:30It's like every week I get new flowers at my door.
00:09:32Then he leaves, like, this little, like, love note in the flowers.
00:09:34You see that smile?
00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.
00:09:41We've only hung out, like, a couple times.
00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's birthday.
00:09:46And I wanted to do this girl's trip for a while now.
00:09:48So it kind of made perfect sense to just combine the two.
00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time you're spending with him.
00:09:54Yeah, but also, I'm not trying to jump into, like, something super serious immediately,
00:09:58because I only met him, like, a couple times.
00:10:00You just finished your relationship.
00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.
00:10:02Like, my end goal is a relationship again, but right now, I also want to be single,
00:10:07and I want to make sure I know what I want this time.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro, but at the same time,
00:10:14I've been through hell with my own marriage, and his marriage was a train wreck, obviously.
00:10:19So I want to make sure I don't rush things.
00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time and giving myself the time I need to figure it out.
00:10:25We're all going to see him tonight, which will be fun.
00:10:27All the way, have fun.
00:10:28Is he bringing friends?
00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.
00:10:31Friends, yeah.
00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.
00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him.
00:10:38But I feel like he's catching very strong feelings very early on,
00:10:42and I really just want to make sure that I don't let someone force me into something
00:10:47that I'm just really not ready for yet.
00:10:50So, let's have fun!
00:10:52Yay!
00:10:53Ladies, what happened in the Dominican Republic?
00:10:55Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:11:17All right, cadets.
00:11:18Your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.
00:11:21It's full of enemies.
00:11:22They're going to be on all sides and surrounding you.
00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.
00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.
00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!
00:11:29Woo!
00:11:33I'm going to get you.
00:11:36Ooh, I like this.
00:11:47Get around to the left.
00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.
00:11:49Star Wars sign.
00:11:50Not Star Wars.
00:11:51We're not in the Navy.
00:11:54My name is Kim.
00:11:55I'm 55 years old.
00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.
00:11:58And for the past probably 10, 20 years, I've just been feeling really down about myself.
00:12:04And now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.
00:12:14For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey, and I've lost 57 pounds to dates.
00:12:19And it's been life-changing.
00:12:22I have more energy, and it's like I'm just tapping into this young, more adventurous Kim again.
00:12:30When I was 19 years old, I went into the military, and I was a sharpshooter, and I jumped out
00:12:37of planes.
00:12:39I was the bad bitch back then.
00:12:43I got you.
00:12:44You said, ugh.
00:12:45And now, 30 years later, I'm trying to get my groove back.
00:12:49Especially in my dating life.
00:12:51Boo!
00:12:52You're shot.
00:12:52Oh, crap.
00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?
00:12:57Just call a truce, and we'll work together.
00:12:59You know how I use a gun?
00:12:59I do.
00:13:00So I'm on a date, and this is Javier.
00:13:03I'm excited to be here.
00:13:06I like women when they take charge.
00:13:07Oh, do you?
00:13:08Si.
00:13:09Okay.
00:13:09You got the right kind of woman then.
00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah, that kind of set us up, right?
00:13:15Like a little blind date.
00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman, too.
00:13:19Try to.
00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time, I was like, well, he's kind of handsome.
00:13:24A little bit.
00:13:25No, I'm just joking.
00:13:26He's so handsome.
00:13:27Gracias.
00:13:28De nada.
00:13:30Oh, no, Javier!
00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months, but it is hard as to find a good man
00:13:40in your 50s.
00:13:42Okay.
00:13:43We're done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.
00:13:45I feel like I can see through all your games, and let's just be honest.
00:13:49I was with the biggest game player ever in the world.
00:14:00I met Usman on social media about five years ago.
00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria, and after 11 months of talking on the phone, my ass was
00:14:11on a plane to Africa to go meet Usman in person.
00:14:14Oh, my God.
00:14:19From the beginning, Usman and I went through a lot.
00:14:21We had a lot of challenges, a lot of disagreements.
00:14:24Why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman?
00:14:28Oh, my God.
00:14:30This is funny.
00:14:31Is this funny, too?
00:14:32you.
00:14:33But eventually, we worked it out, and he put a ring on it.
00:14:37Will you remind me, babe?
00:14:38Yes!
00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids, and my baby-making days were over, but
00:14:44I loved Usman so much that I was willing to let him take a second wife to have a baby.
00:14:49And it's crazy when I think about that.
00:14:52When I get married to the second wife, I should take her child to you in this state.
00:14:57No, sir.
00:14:58Listen to me.
00:14:58That will bring you guys more closer.
00:15:00No.
00:15:01And you love each other, like close friends.
00:15:03No.
00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife to, like, coexist and, like, make biscuits or something.
00:15:09I don't know.
00:15:09And, like, raise this baby together.
00:15:11What the ?
00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses before this became a whole sister-wise kind of thing.
00:15:19You're a asshole.
00:15:20You are a asshole.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:25We tried.
00:15:26We tried.
00:15:26We tried, right?
00:15:27Woo!
00:15:28We did.
00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.
00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything, but I miss having a man.
00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.
00:15:37I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.
00:15:41Safe is, like, my biggest thing.
00:15:44So how did you like it?
00:15:45It was so much fun.
00:15:46Oh, my gosh.
00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.
00:15:49You were in the military?
00:15:49Yes.
00:15:50I wore the little uniform.
00:15:52I wore the little beret.
00:15:53I jumped out of planes.
00:15:54I've done a lot.
00:15:55It must have been very sexy.
00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?
00:15:58Do you have your uniform?
00:15:59No, but I'll get one.
00:16:03So.
00:16:03Where do you live?
00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.
00:16:06Okay.
00:16:06Do you, like, live by yourself?
00:16:08I have two roommates.
00:16:09Oh, .
00:16:09Two.
00:16:10So it's like a big bachelor pad.
00:16:13No, no, not really.
00:16:15I live with two young women.
00:16:19So, like, how did you end up with two girl roommates?
00:16:23I used to date one of them.
00:16:25You used to date one of your roommates?
00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.
00:16:27Okay.
00:16:28What happened?
00:16:29If you don't mind me asking.
00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.
00:16:33Javier.
00:16:33She dumped me.
00:16:35Well, I would have, too, if you would have cheated on me.
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:39Javier is really cute, but there's a lot of red flags here.
00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.
00:16:47And, like, what is the situation with his ex, right?
00:16:49He lives with her.
00:16:50He cheated on her.
00:16:52They're still banging.
00:16:53There's something going on there.
00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.
00:16:56It's like an ambulance siren going, Kim, get out of here.
00:16:58Kim, get out of here.
00:17:00Thank you so much.
00:17:02It was fun.
00:17:03It was fun.
00:17:04Yeah, you too.
00:17:05In my past relationships, I let so much slide, and I'm just not going to do it now.
00:17:10I'm not going to do it.
00:17:12I'll text you.
00:17:13Okay.
00:17:13Or text me.
00:17:14Okay, got it.
00:17:15Thank you for taking me out of here.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:17So, I'm not going to see Javier again, but some woman is going to snatch him up.
00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.
00:17:23Sorry.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:41Hello.
00:17:42What are you doing?
00:17:43I ran out of groceries at my house.
00:17:44Oh.
00:17:45So, is my house the grocery store now?
00:17:47I actually need to take a few things.
00:17:48Oh, you do?
00:17:49Mm-hmm.
00:17:50Oh.
00:17:50Jamal.
00:17:51Jamal is my son.
00:17:52He's 30 years old.
00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son than I am of Jamal.
00:17:59He is everything to me.
00:18:05You have ranch?
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.
00:18:09I use that.
00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.
00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.
00:18:14That's not true.
00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.
00:18:17It's like a two-for-one.
00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?
00:18:22No.
00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?
00:18:23I'll take one.
00:18:24Yeah.
00:18:24I'll leave you one.
00:18:25Thanks.
00:18:27So, yeah, I went on like a little laser tag date.
00:18:30Oh, yeah?
00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.
00:18:34Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:18:38I just feel like I still need-
00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.
00:18:45Indeed.
00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense and, like, really difficult between Jamal and I right now.
00:18:54Can you tell me what's been going on with him?
00:18:57I mean, there's no easy way to say what I have to say, you know, or discuss what I've done.
00:19:07All right.
00:19:08Love you.
00:19:09Love you, too.
00:19:09I'm going to go head out.
00:19:12I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me.
00:19:16Text me later or something.
00:19:17Got you.
00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will-
00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.
00:19:23All righty.
00:19:23See you later.
00:19:24I preach authenticity.
00:19:26I preach being genuine.
00:19:28And I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:19:30And when the truth comes out, these things that I'm hiding are going to hurt other people.
00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.
00:19:38Never forgive myself.
00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.
00:19:48The first time I see something online, you know, I say, oh my God, like, she looks fine, like.
00:19:54The hair, the eyes, the lips, the f***, the ass, the leg.
00:19:58Maybe, if we love it, we get some.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:03I'm Gino.
00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.
00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:20:09Oh.
00:20:12I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in
00:20:18such a disaster?
00:20:29Step down.
00:20:31Let's go.
00:20:32What you drinking?
00:20:33What you want?
00:20:33Two cats right here.
00:20:36Let's go.
00:20:41Come on, Gino.
00:20:43You got this.
00:20:45Every time.
00:20:48Every time.
00:20:49Every time.
00:20:50Be a little good, a little bad.
00:20:52I'm like, ooh, you're so divine.
00:20:56All right.
00:20:57Last 10 seconds before the end.
00:21:00I'm Gino.
00:21:01I'm 56 years young, and I'm from Camp Michigan.
00:21:04One.
00:21:04Let it all go.
00:21:06Nice job.
00:21:08I'm newly single, and I'm looking for the love of my life.
00:21:12I'm way out of here.
00:21:15I'm working out again, getting myself in shape.
00:21:19I mean, after everything that I've been through, I want some young, beautiful, single ladies,
00:21:25baby.
00:21:26Woo!
00:21:27Would you mind taking a couple selfies for me?
00:21:30Of course.
00:21:31If you don't mind, could you try to get my calves in it a little bit?
00:21:34Sure.
00:21:35Give me a big smile.
00:21:37I really want to find a woman that has a good heart, who's very much into me just how I
00:21:43am.
00:21:43Nice job.
00:21:44I just have to do a better job at choosing women, because I have failed miserably in the last,
00:21:53well, last four years, anyway.
00:21:59Oh, my God.
00:22:00Is it?
00:22:01Jasmine?
00:22:02Is it you?
00:22:03Oh, my God.
00:22:05I met my soon-to-be ex-wife, Jasmine, online about four years ago, and went to Panama to meet
00:22:13her.
00:22:13We're still here forever.
00:22:15Yeah.
00:22:17Yeah.
00:22:20But looking back, I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the U.S.
00:22:25There were some huge, serious red flags.
00:22:28You trash.
00:22:30I don't want to see you anymore.
00:22:31That's your choice.
00:22:33You .
00:22:34Guys?
00:22:36I'm gonna kill this.
00:22:38Oh, God damn, the president.
00:22:39Stop.
00:22:40Jasmine, I love you.
00:22:41Stop it, liar.
00:22:43I .
00:22:43Okay.
00:22:45During our relationship, Jasmine always found a way to beat me down.
00:22:49And then last year, I found out that Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down the
00:22:56street two months after we separated.
00:23:00I want you to know that I am pregnant.
00:23:05And Matt and I agree that we wanna have the baby and that's what we're gonna do.
00:23:12Well, I thought she loved me.
00:23:19I thought she wanted to have a child with me.
00:23:26She's such a liar.
00:23:36I was knocked down, but I got back up on my feet and now I just wanna look forward to
00:23:42living my best life.
00:23:56Today I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media.
00:24:03Oh, Peachy.
00:24:14Oh, Peachy.
00:24:16Hi.
00:24:17I'm Melissa.
00:24:18Gino.
00:24:19Gino, nice to meet you.
00:24:20Is this your first event?
00:24:21Yeah, this is my first event.
00:24:22So, let's get you into there and meet some of our people, okay?
00:24:26Okay, sounds good.
00:24:27I have never been to a singles event before.
00:24:30In fact, I haven't met a woman in person
00:24:33and asked her out on a date in probably a good 30 years.
00:24:39Hi.
00:24:40Got Michelle over there and Rachel here.
00:24:43What's up?
00:24:44Before the internet, I used classified ads.
00:24:47It was scary because I didn't really know
00:24:51what they look like.
00:24:53In hindsight, it's probably not the safest thing to do
00:24:57and I'm lucky I never got scammed.
00:25:00So, this is Amy.
00:25:01Hi.
00:25:02Hello.
00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.
00:25:03Nice to meet you.
00:25:04Nice to meet you.
00:25:05I'm Gino.
00:25:05But even now, I prefer to meet women online.
00:25:10Being rejected in person is the worst, right?
00:25:13You feel so small and it's hard to take.
00:25:16So, I am way out of my comfort zone being here.
00:25:20I think we need to go play some kickball.
00:25:23Yeah, let's do it.
00:25:24Let's do it.
00:25:25Let's do it.
00:25:26Let's do it.
00:25:28Let's do it.
00:25:28Let's do it.
00:25:29Let's do it.
00:25:30Let's do it.
00:25:31Let's do it.
00:25:31Let's do it.
00:25:31Can we get Gino up here?
00:25:33Let's go.
00:25:34My bat?
00:25:37Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino.
00:25:55What's your name?
00:25:57Gino.
00:25:58I'm Erin.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:26:00Nice to meet you.
00:26:01I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.
00:26:05Awesome.
00:26:05Good job.
00:26:06Good job.
00:26:07I think this is a very good first step for me because it got me out of my comfort zone.
00:26:12But now that I have to have conversations with them, I hope I don't mess it up.
00:26:16We're so excited to have you here.
00:26:18Every time a guy joins, we're like, oh my God, another normal guy.
00:26:21Oh, that's good.
00:26:21We're so excited.
00:26:22It's 70% women.
00:26:2470%?
00:26:25I like that.
00:26:25I know, right?
00:26:26That's why I get excited.
00:26:28I'm like, a guy?
00:26:32So tell us.
00:26:34What brought you here?
00:26:35What brought me here?
00:26:36No.
00:26:37Well, I mean, I'm single now.
00:26:38When did you get divorced?
00:26:40When did I get divorced?
00:26:43Well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:26:46Okay.
00:26:48Well, I'm married but separated.
00:26:50We don't live together.
00:26:53I don't do well with someone who's still technically married.
00:26:57What if they're not done?
00:26:59What chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if he's not ready?
00:27:05I'm with you on that.
00:27:06He seems so nervous.
00:27:08He's shaking.
00:27:09His voice is cracking.
00:27:10What the hell is going on here?
00:27:11What is he hiding?
00:27:13So tell us what happened.
00:27:15So basically what happened is five months after our marriage,
00:27:19she met a guy, a random guy at the gym, and cheated on me with him.
00:27:24What?
00:27:24And then while she was married to me, she got pregnant.
00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?
00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract them to me,
00:27:36not telling them about my nightmarish, miserable relationship that I just went through.
00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.
00:27:47But anyway, the changes suck a little.
00:27:50What are you guys looking for in a man?
00:28:09I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in such a
00:28:16disaster?
00:28:17Ha ha ha ha ha!
00:28:20All lies out mean what you looking at.
00:28:31Ya, I'm stinking my teeth like a big cat.
00:28:32Oh, me give you un poquitico, un poquitico lo que esta bien rico.
00:28:36Flying so high, yeah i'm on in the night.
00:28:39I'ma show you what I like.
00:28:42Pedro es ba, baby.
00:28:43Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:28:45Muy mala.
00:28:47Mala, mala, mala, mala.
00:28:49Muy mala.
00:28:50You bad, honey.
00:28:51Got mad money.
00:28:52You bad, honey.
00:28:53Mala.
00:28:54Muy mala.
00:28:56Hello, fam.
00:28:57Hello, fam.
00:28:58Hello, fam.
00:28:59How are you?
00:29:00How are you?
00:29:01This is cool, too.
00:29:02Good.
00:29:03My name is Pedro.
00:29:04I'm 33 years old.
00:29:05Originally, I'm from Dominican Republic.
00:29:07But right now, I live in Atlanta, Georgia.
00:29:09Trae la van.
00:29:10Si.
00:29:10Ya estamos aquÃ.
00:29:11Si.
00:29:12Since my divorce with Chantel, I've been keeping a love profile.
00:29:16I need a time to myself.
00:29:17Dale, dale, dale.
00:29:20Eso, papá.
00:29:22But now, I put everything behind me,
00:29:25and I am ready for the next shot of my life.
00:29:28Bam.
00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there.
00:29:31Asà mismo.
00:29:32Asà mismo.
00:29:33¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?
00:29:34Vamos a agrar la van, ponerla bien bonita.
00:29:36Para Sophie.
00:29:37Tú siempre estás dispuesto a darlo todo por una mujer.
00:29:40Yo soy un tipo romántico.
00:29:41So, I'm putting my best effort in this, okay?
00:29:46Si, claro.
00:29:47I'm so excited.
00:29:49I'm very happy.
00:29:50Because Sophie arrived in the art with her friends,
00:29:52and they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight.
00:29:55I really want to impress Sophie when she is in my own country.
00:29:58That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the van.
00:30:01They're going to drive Sophie and her friends around the art.
00:30:05Pedro, ¿a la verdad es que te gusta esa mujer?
00:30:08No me gusta, papá.
00:30:10Me encanta.
00:30:11Óyeme.
00:30:13But the first time she sat online, you know, I'd say,
00:30:16oh my God, like, she looks fine.
00:30:19Like, she have everything that I was looking for.
00:30:22The hair, the eyes, the lip, the s***, the abs, the leg,
00:30:26and she got, you know, the ways.
00:30:28You know, like it's going to be here, going to be down,
00:30:31you know, like a guitar kind of style, you know.
00:30:33That's made me a little crazy.
00:30:42I have a strong feeling for Sophie
00:30:45and I really, really want a relationship with her.
00:30:48She has very calm heart.
00:30:49She has the full package.
00:31:03When I met Chantelle, I told her my life was set for forever.
00:31:07And then, you know, everything went to the drain.
00:31:13Ah!
00:31:15Baby!
00:31:18Baby!
00:31:21Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard
00:31:24and moved to the United States for love.
00:31:26Hello, son, my baby.
00:31:28Mwah!
00:31:29Mwah!
00:31:31But Chantelle's family caused so much drama.
00:31:33They were freaking crazy.
00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:31:35What'd you say, ?
00:31:36I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect.
00:31:39And nobody else.
00:31:40Let's go!
00:31:41Hey!
00:31:42Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:44Hey!
00:31:44Hey!
00:31:45Chantelle never stand up for me with her family
00:31:48without dropping a wedge between us
00:31:51to the point our marriage couldn't survive.
00:31:55I feel that we go different ways in life.
00:31:58I want my divorce.
00:32:02I can.
00:32:05I can continue with this.
00:32:07I learned a lot of things from my marriage.
00:32:09Put more time, more effort, listen more,
00:32:13be more flexible, you know,
00:32:15and that's helped me right now to mature.
00:32:20Hey!
00:32:20It's a plan of life.
00:32:21All right.
00:32:21Papá, ya tu sabes.
00:32:22OK.
00:32:23OK.
00:32:23All right.
00:32:23Don't go with the woman.
00:32:24Yeah.
00:32:24All right.
00:32:27Don't go with us.
00:32:41Let's see.
00:32:44Let's go, little puppy.
00:32:47It's been a long time.
00:32:49I never thought that this is going to be my life.
00:32:51The fact that I'm three years old, not a kid, not married,
00:32:55made me feel a little devastated.
00:32:58We have to be nice and clean.
00:33:01What you never know.
00:33:03I want the type of life that everyone's dreaming about.
00:33:06I want my wife.
00:33:07I want the house.
00:33:08I want the kid.
00:33:10Maybe, if we love it, we get some.
00:33:13If not, we try again.
00:33:17I want to show Sophie the time of her life in the yard.
00:33:20And I hope, at the end of the street,
00:33:22we can be in a relationship forever.
00:33:25Okay.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:28We're ready.
00:33:31What the is a picture print?
00:33:33We are going to have some of San Diego's finest
00:33:36lead men and lead women pitching their wonderful single friend.
00:33:40Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:33:43She has the biggest heart, and she loves Cass.
00:33:47Yes.
00:33:52Who's that beauty?
00:33:54Who's that beast?
00:33:55Dirty mouth, the conscience clean.
00:33:57All in one, a king and queen.
00:33:59Who's she?
00:34:00I must admit, that's me.
00:34:04I know what I bring to the table.
00:34:06I got my plate.
00:34:08I'm willing and able to make my arm better than eat it all alone.
00:34:12That's me.
00:34:13Hi.
00:34:13How was everything?
00:34:14It was great.
00:34:15Thank you so much.
00:34:16But I'm going to go ahead and get you checked out.
00:34:18Have a great day.
00:34:19Okay?
00:34:19Bye.
00:34:21For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor
00:34:24in a hotel casino.
00:34:27Whew.
00:34:27It's closing time.
00:34:28I really like it.
00:34:30I like scheduling.
00:34:31I like keeping things organized.
00:34:33And I think I get that from my military training
00:34:36because you have to be organized when you're in the military.
00:34:40Are you almost done?
00:34:41We got to go.
00:34:41It's girls' night.
00:34:43Yeah, I just got to clean up this stuff and then fold the towels and put them away.
00:34:47Lily's my closest work friend.
00:34:48And I love the fact that, like, I can confide in her about things.
00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.
00:34:54I haven't been out in a while, so I think it'll do me a lot of good.
00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are going to meet some of our other friends.
00:35:00And we're just going to have a little ladies' night.
00:35:03I really wasn't a part of the planning, but I'm just down for whatever at this point.
00:35:07So if you see any guys tonight, you want to try to talk to them?
00:35:09Okay.
00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.
00:35:13Really?
00:35:14Yeah.
00:35:14How'd that go?
00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.
00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?
00:35:22No.
00:35:24But that's a different story.
00:35:27I don't know.
00:35:28I just feel like I'm not going to just settle for anything less than I deserve.
00:35:32You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.
00:35:40No more 18 years younger than me.
00:35:42No.
00:35:42Yeah, you're going to need someone to match your vibe.
00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.
00:35:46Like, I've never had that.
00:35:48And I really need to feel that love, like, once before I die.
00:35:53Kim says that she's never experienced love.
00:35:57It hurts me as a friend because, you know, she's been through so much in her life that she does
00:36:02deserve to find love.
00:36:04Not someone who's going to try to take advantage or use her.
00:36:08She's a beautiful person, so I believe she should find someone who is going to cherish her and treat her
00:36:12like a queen.
00:36:14All right, let's go.
00:36:15Let's go.
00:36:16Let's go.
00:36:17Pretty girls around the world.
00:36:18They're waking up.
00:36:19They serving up.
00:36:19You couldn't catch.
00:36:20Just one if you tried.
00:36:21Oh, we serve.
00:36:21We serve spicy.
00:36:23Yeah, we know it's a lot.
00:36:25We're all right up here.
00:36:27What is this?
00:36:28Let's see where we get inside.
00:36:34Hi.
00:36:34Hello.
00:36:36Hi.
00:36:36We love you.
00:36:37We love you.
00:36:38Hello, baby.
00:36:40Mwah.
00:36:41I love you.
00:36:42What are we doing?
00:36:44What are we doing?
00:36:44What are we doing?
00:36:44What the is?
00:36:46Pitch a friend.
00:36:46Just chill out.
00:36:48What is this?
00:36:49We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.
00:36:57The group chat was not talking about this.
00:37:00Just calm down.
00:37:02We got you.
00:37:03You knew about that.
00:37:05I did.
00:37:05I knew.
00:37:06She's in on it.
00:37:07I hate you.
00:37:08Uh-oh.
00:37:09Uh-oh.
00:37:10Oh, no.
00:37:11Here we go.
00:37:12Here we go.
00:37:13Here we go.
00:37:13You can hear me.
00:37:17Welcome.
00:37:18Welcome to Pitch Up, friend.
00:37:20All right.
00:37:21So we are going to have some of San Diego's finest wingmen and wingwomen on this very stage
00:37:27pitching their wonderful single friends with a PowerPoint presentation so that you know
00:37:33who is available and looking for love in this room tonight.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:41Give it up.
00:37:44Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.
00:37:48However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.
00:37:52And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.
00:37:56We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes, bullet points about different things that
00:38:04we love about her.
00:38:05And who knows?
00:38:06Magic could happen.
00:38:08All right.
00:38:09Let's get started in Prince and Friends starting with Rachel pitching.
00:38:14Alex!
00:38:17So I am introducing my friend Alex.
00:38:19He just celebrated his 42nd birthday.
00:38:23Oh, it's 42.
00:38:25And he went for us to 42.
00:38:28What do you think?
00:38:29To y'all.
00:38:30Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?
00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?
00:38:34Do you have a strong line?
00:38:36Standards.
00:38:39Boundaries.
00:38:41Alex, come on up here.
00:38:45Questions for Alex.
00:38:47Yes.
00:38:47Question.
00:38:49Alex.
00:38:50Yes.
00:38:51Do you like older women?
00:38:55I don't discriminate whatsoever at 19 days.
00:38:58Okay.
00:38:59Give it up for Alex!
00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.
00:39:06We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!
00:39:11I don't know what they're going to say.
00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad.
00:39:15But all these little 20-somethings.
00:39:18And my 55-year-old ass is going to be on this damn screen.
00:39:21Why the am I here?
00:39:23I'm so nervous now.
00:39:25I'm sweating.
00:39:25Are you ready to meet Kimberly, the most authentic, funny military vet, yo?
00:39:38She has the biggest heart and she loves her son, Jamal.
00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world.
00:39:49Cats.
00:39:51Her cats.
00:39:52You have to love cats.
00:39:54If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no.
00:39:59You cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:00Cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:01They sleep.
00:40:03Okay, could we have picked better pictures of Kim?
00:40:06First of all, could we have said not so much about the cats?
00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.
00:40:12Kind of true.
00:40:13But, you know.
00:40:15Questions for Kimberly.
00:40:16Raise your hand.
00:40:18Well, hello.
00:40:20Unfortunately, I'm under 45.
00:40:22Damn it.
00:40:23I just want to say thank you for your service.
00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.
00:40:26Thank you so much.
00:40:29So embarrassing.
00:40:30More questions for Kimberly.
00:40:33Um, hey, why if my dad was in New York, would you date a man that was far away?
00:40:40I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria, so why would I not go to New York?
00:40:45Why the not?
00:40:48This girl wants me to date her dad, and all the other guys here are like 20.
00:40:54I know my friends want me to find a man, and I know they have the best intentions,
00:40:59but this crowd is just making me feel hella old.
00:41:03Next up, we've got the Isabel vision moment!
00:41:08Okay, so where are we going?
00:41:10I don't like you. I'm done. I'm done.
00:41:12Are you?
00:41:12But I love you guys.
00:41:13I appreciate you.
00:41:14I do appreciate you.
00:41:15That was amazing, right?
00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.
00:41:20Oh!
00:41:21Yep, I gotta go.
00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.
00:41:23What?
00:41:25What?
00:41:25What?
00:41:27I have plans to hook up right now.
00:41:31Oh!
00:41:32Wait, wait, what?
00:41:34So, like, a booty call.
00:41:36A booty call, yeah.
00:41:39People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:41:43But I like to have sex.
00:41:46I like to lay in bed with somebody.
00:41:47I like to have orgasms.
00:41:50Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.
00:41:52I'm like, hello?
00:41:53Come to Kim.
00:41:54You guys remember B, right?
00:41:58I'm going to them.
00:42:00Oh-ho!
00:42:01Whoa!
00:42:16This is a great deal.
00:42:18Two for five, how can you beat that?
00:42:19Yeah.
00:42:19I mean, I am budget-conscious, and some girls will hate it and say,
00:42:23why are you being so cheap?
00:42:25Well, if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman that is all about value,
00:42:29we're going to get along at the grocery store.
00:42:31And I'm just open, it's all under the ocean.
00:42:35The sky's so wide and open, it might turn the bread away.
00:42:42Hi.
00:42:42Excuse me.
00:42:43Hi.
00:42:43Do you know where the package meat is at?
00:42:48Like, hamburger?
00:42:49Yeah.
00:42:49It's going to be down here on the left, all the way down?
00:42:52All the way down?
00:42:52Uh-huh.
00:42:53I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife was vegan.
00:42:57Oh.
00:42:59And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store and buy meat because she's vegan.
00:43:04Yeah.
00:43:04You know?
00:43:04But now that I'm single, I mean, it's no problem.
00:43:09I feel so happy.
00:43:10You know what I'm saying.
00:43:11Yeah.
00:43:12We'll ball and chain.
00:43:14Ball and chain, right.
00:43:15Yeah.
00:43:15But thanks a lot.
00:43:16Nice talking to you.
00:43:18Sure.
00:43:18Enjoy your meat.
00:43:19Things are really looking positive nowadays.
00:43:22I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.
00:43:24I have the freedom to do anything I want and be who I really am.
00:43:29Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge,
00:43:35I have the freedom to do that now.
00:43:38I think this will work.
00:43:42Take that, Chad.
00:43:44The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.
00:43:48I had a lot of fun at the singles event playing kickball, but maybe not the best situation, like, to
00:43:56find a date.
00:43:58In person, you know, I might be a little bit too anxious.
00:44:02So I've been posting more things on my social media nowadays.
00:44:07It lets me curate the image I want women to have in me.
00:44:11It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone if I know this person is already interested in
00:44:19me.
00:44:20Check this out.
00:44:22I posted a picture today of me working out.
00:44:25This woman says, sexy man, I definitely would not be able to go with you because I'll be looking at
00:44:33you instead of the trainer while I'm drawing.
00:44:41I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately, and I love it. I freaking love it.
00:44:49Oh, someone's messaging me.
00:44:54Who is it?
00:44:56Natalie's replying to my workout post, and she says, great job.
00:45:01She's proud of me.
00:45:03Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.
00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.
00:45:13Thank you. So are you.
00:45:14And you're just so adorable, too.
00:45:17Look at your smile. It's so cute.
00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.
00:45:23I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.
00:45:26But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.
00:45:31Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
00:45:35Oh, really?
00:45:36You should watch your mouth.
00:45:38Don't touch her.
00:45:40Relax, relax.
00:45:41No, no.
00:45:42Listen.
00:45:44Get off me.
00:45:46We didn't talk for almost a year, and then Natalie and I, we reconnected at the Happily Ever After Tello.
00:45:54And we've been texting each other ever since.
00:45:57Yeah, I responded to her.
00:45:59But I added some emojis to it, like the heart emoji and the heart head with the three hearts around
00:46:06the head.
00:46:07You know, I want to get her attention, like, hey, you know, I'm still interested in you.
00:46:12I still like Natalie a lot, so I asked her if I could visit her next week, and she said
00:46:19yes.
00:46:20You know, this is soft.
00:46:22I mean, exactly how I like my women, soft.
00:46:26This is my chance to build a relationship with her.
00:46:30But after everything that's happened, it's going to take a lot of work.
00:46:34I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie, like, with actions, not just words.
00:46:39I know it's my last shot, and I cannot mess it up.
00:46:44Now, that I could post on my Instagram, that big-ass cucumber.
00:46:52Hello?
00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with.
00:46:56Oh!
00:46:58Candle in the car!
00:46:59The van alone, cute.
00:47:01But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.
00:47:04He's coming on very strong.
00:47:05Ah!
00:47:06It's Pedro!
00:47:07He has an ink in his hands!
00:47:16They call me fuego, they call me fire, they call me all that you desire.
00:47:20They call me fuego, they call me fire, they call me all that you desire.
00:47:25They call me fuego!
00:47:28This is my first night in the VR, and I am going out with Sophie and Juliam.
00:47:34And we are actually going to go meet Pedro.
00:47:38I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends, so I'm super excited right now.
00:47:50I need to get a spark back in my life.
00:47:54I live in Washington.
00:47:56It's always gloomy.
00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine, and it can be very depressing at times.
00:48:03So when Sophie planned a girls trip, I was all about it.
00:48:08I need sun kisses from head to toe.
00:48:11I am really excited, I want to get dressed up, I want to go out, I want to meet people,
00:48:15I want to mingle, I want to flirt, and I want to feel sexy.
00:48:19I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship, and looking back, I've never picked the right guy, and I've
00:48:26given the wrong guy way too many chances.
00:48:30Um, I think you're amazing, and I want to ask you out on a date.
00:48:35One of my last relationships was Ed.
00:48:39It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face, but um...
00:48:42It took me a while to get used to you.
00:48:45Burn!
00:48:46We were kind of always a hot mess.
00:48:48Go f*** yourself. Bye.
00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz. You are out of control, you drunk.
00:48:54Shut the f*** up! You don't give a f***, Ed.
00:48:58But, despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed, and always wanted to make it work.
00:49:05Will you marry me?
00:49:10But then Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.
00:49:14You're going to be the best version of yourself, and it's not going to be with me.
00:49:19Liz, rest assured, I'm always going to be an asshole.
00:49:25Then came Jason.
00:49:27You're in the past. We're going to move forward.
00:49:29Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.
00:49:32Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.
00:49:34Four months into dating Jason, I found out that he had another girlfriend that he was dating for a year.
00:49:41And then, the time that I needed him to step up and be there for me the most, like, he
00:49:46didn't. He couldn't.
00:49:48A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason, I didn't get the best news.
00:49:55I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.
00:49:59It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer, which I actually found out through a miscarriage that Jason
00:50:07and I had.
00:50:09And I'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch me being sick.
00:50:14But I think I need tissue.
00:50:25Being sick took a huge toll on me, but I also know that I'm going to overcome it.
00:50:31I'm really hopeful about my future.
00:50:34I don't want to waste any moment.
00:50:38I want to live my life.
00:50:41And I really do want to find love again.
00:50:45Girls night!
00:50:47I deserve the best.
00:50:49And I've definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else.
00:50:53I bet you're missing me now.
00:51:01You are my soul!
00:51:04I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.
00:51:06Really? Yeah.
00:51:08Mine was, like, two days before this trailer.
00:51:10It's my first night in the DR and I have my girls with me, but I'm also really looking forward
00:51:15to just spending some time with Pedro.
00:51:16Hello?
00:51:17Oh my gosh.
00:51:19Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the DR and get around with, which
00:51:24I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.
00:51:25Bye.
00:51:27Hello!
00:51:33Oh my god!
00:51:35Oh my goodness!
00:51:37Oh my goodness!
00:51:38Okay, should I hop in the back?
00:51:39I'm sorry, that is like candle in the car.
00:51:45Candle in the car!
00:51:47The van alone, cute.
00:51:49But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed and I just feel like he's coming on very strong.
00:51:55I feel like that's just welcome to his country.
00:51:58I don't think that's too much.
00:52:00Candle in the car, okay.
00:52:02Candle in the car is blowing my mind.
00:52:05Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?
00:52:09No, it's really cute.
00:52:11It's cute.
00:52:11It is cute.
00:52:12It is cute.
00:52:14Okay, I'm back.
00:52:15Did he do the bowl as well?
00:52:16No!
00:52:19Pedro put this in more sexy vibe, but he forgot we will be there too.
00:52:23It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.
00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.
00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.
00:52:30I speak Julia language.
00:52:32Yeah.
00:52:32This translator.
00:52:34Yeah.
00:52:35Do you wanna kiss him?
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:37If he goes in for like a psst.
00:52:39Well, yeah, we haven't done anything yet, you know?
00:52:40So it's like, I'm gonna hug him.
00:52:42Do we keep the tequila out of your hands or do we put it in your hands?
00:52:45Put it in my hands.
00:52:47In my hands.
00:52:56Let's go.
00:52:57Thank you so much.
00:52:59Honey, I don't know if I can make it long.
00:53:03Cause I'll be watching you while the DJ plays your song.
00:53:07It's been two and a half months the last time I saw Sophie.
00:53:11I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.
00:53:14Maybe you could show me.
00:53:16Cause I've been waiting so long.
00:53:22Ah, it's Pedro!
00:53:23Where is he?
00:53:24He got a ring on his hands.
00:53:26Shut up.
00:53:27He got a ring on his hands.
00:53:27He got a ring of flowers and the red carpet.
00:53:30He got a giant microphone.
00:53:35You got the smile.
00:53:39Wow.
00:53:42You look good.
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:45How you been?
00:53:45I'm good. How are you?
00:53:46How was the flying?
00:53:47As long as okay.
00:53:50She looked like stunning.
00:53:53She looked stunning.
00:53:55The hug that she gave me was very awkward.
00:53:58Hug like a brother.
00:53:59She hug me like a, like a, like a, like a, like a side hug.
00:54:05Like even the baseball, they give you a little spanky.
00:54:07Oh, good job, boy.
00:54:09Oh, bam.
00:54:12Introducing this to you.
00:54:13Oh yeah.
00:54:14That's.
00:54:15Oh yeah.
00:54:18How's it going?
00:54:19How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20That was the first time I met Julia.
00:54:22And then she hugged me with so much sight.
00:54:24Like, God damn it.
00:54:25Like, Sophie, come on.
00:54:27Get Julia's energy, please.
00:54:29I'm ready to be here.
00:54:31Nice to meet you.
00:54:31Nice to meet you.
00:54:32Liz.
00:54:33Okay, ladies.
00:54:34Uh, we're going to go out there to the rooftop.
00:54:37You're going to meet my friends.
00:54:38Enjoy the night.
00:54:40Follow me, ladies.
00:54:41Okay, which way should we go?
00:54:41How you doing?
00:54:43Very good, how are you?
00:54:44Good, good, good.
00:54:45Do this one?
00:54:46Yeah, please.
00:54:56Good.
00:54:57Good.
00:54:57Good, really?
00:54:58Good.
00:54:59Uh, guys, let me introduce you.
00:55:02That's my friend Villas.
00:55:04darling and this is rafael okay she's sophie julia and liz nice to meet you
00:55:14question how was the band was good yeah yeah good job guys they helped me
00:55:23i can tell pedro is very excited for all his friends to meet me which it's nice but it feels
00:55:31like i'm like walking into like a job interview or like i'm supposed to give a speech or something
00:55:35because they were just sat there like this at me okay i already feel like there's expectation
00:55:47of me and i'm kind of brought here as pedro's girlfriend it's just kind of freaking me out a
00:55:56bit one let's just go please okay we're just gonna go to the bottom real quick okay go to the
00:56:01bottom
00:56:02you know where this bottom at we'll find it huh we'll find it
00:56:13that's that energy bro i don't know what's like i don't know i don't know i don't know
00:56:21what's very awkward i'm excited that sophie's here but right now it's it's feel cold indifference
00:56:30weird you know like awkward sophie entirely different person than i met before
00:56:40sexually he is he's good he's great with me and his is big so there you go
00:56:45oh even though i'm in my 50s i still have urges i still have needs
00:57:06i have plans to hook up right now
00:57:23so like a booty call a booty call yeah so a booty call is when you're not in a relationship
00:57:31and you
00:57:31just meet up with one of your little friends and you know you have some drinky drinks and then do
00:57:37the deed and then you just go home even though i'm in my 50s i still have urges i still
00:57:43have needs and
00:57:45it like gets the needs met you know what it's a step in the right direction why not i'm meeting
00:57:52up with benjamin or as everybody calls him b he's a really good friend of mine and i dated him
00:57:57for
00:57:57about six months before i met usman once usman and i broke up and he knew it he just slid
00:58:04right in the
00:58:04dms and we've been banging it out ever since it's it's tricky with me and b because the connection is
00:58:13there like you can feel it you know but he's just a friend with benefits like i i just don't
00:58:18feel like
00:58:18we're at that point to make it a relationship when b and i tried to date like five six years
00:58:24ago
00:58:25we were doing pretty good we have a lot of things in common and then about six months in b
00:58:30hit me up
00:58:31with he wanted to be like in a thropple he wanted me to have sex with the woman and i
00:58:36was just like
00:58:37are you high no i'm not doing that he was very free-spirited back then and kim was not sexually
00:58:44he is he's good he's great with me and his is big so there you go you had that with
00:58:50usman though it
00:58:51was the same thing you had the connection but there was all these other red flags that's how i feel
00:58:55and i don't
00:58:55want the red flag being a woman of a certain age that we all are it is refreshing for me
00:59:07to see her
00:59:09having a little bit of a hoe phase you know what i'm all for that are you for that yeah
00:59:15i think she
00:59:15i mean get it out of her system for a little bit until she finds the right one friends with
00:59:19benefits
00:59:20them whatever they have is is a good connection i'm down for it yeah okay love you all right bye
00:59:25love you love you too but we want her to find somebody that is truly special and truly right
00:59:31that she can fall in love with and that loves her true he ain't the one no for tonight he
00:59:37is the one
00:59:45b and i have been hooking up every couple weeks in some really nice hotels because he has
00:59:49roommates and with my house i never know if jamal's gonna show up or not
00:59:59at first it was a little inconvenient but i have to tell you like hotel sex is kind of hot
01:00:03nice hotel sex
01:00:12oh
01:00:22oh
01:00:23i know so much i know yeah come on in come on in this is nice i know right so
01:00:29much nicer than those
01:00:31old hotels we used to get
01:00:32you know
01:00:32oh man back in the day look at us now you look beautiful as usual i try
01:00:40my name is benjamin but everybody calls me b because i'm like the bumblebee i'll always be
01:00:47buzzing around and you never know where i'll land at this is a good bit this is nice look at
01:00:52the big
01:00:53bed this is the big bed the reason why me and kim keep coming back to each other is definitely
01:00:58because
01:00:59of the friendship that we have together she's somebody i'd definitely like i rock with so i
01:01:06went to this like dating event thing you know what i'm saying yeah see this is why i love you
01:01:10because
01:01:10we can talk about this stuff right of course of course of course so it was laura and jody and
01:01:15my
01:01:15friend lily right and they pitched me so it was called pitch a friend it was a slideshow
01:01:20presentation like a real slideshow like with pictures yeah of me and then like my likes and
01:01:26dislikes and all this stuff so it was cool it was very touching but it just was not my thing
01:01:31sometimes i tell b about me like meeting other guys or like this whole pitch a friend thing because
01:01:37i want to see what he's going to say like don't do that let me try to be your man
01:01:41b and i are good
01:01:42together and i know he sees it and i was kind of hoping that with age that b would like
01:01:47you know
01:01:47calm it down a little bit with the sexcapades and want to be in a monogamous relationship
01:01:52we've known each other forever yeah i miss you so much i miss you too like we're cool like we're
01:01:57friends with benefits now and i love that but like i'd like maybe to see it grow to see what
01:02:01else it could
01:02:02be we've always talked about it you know and the only way we're gonna find that out is with more
01:02:09time
01:02:09mm-hmm we should plan like once every two weeks when we can so you haven't even been to my
01:02:18house
01:02:18yet no but it's so crazy i'm coming
01:02:27yeah okay i am tired and i just want to go take a shower is that okay yeah of course
01:02:32okay i'll give
01:02:33you a massage once i get out of the shower so i'm just i'm just baby baby please baby baby
01:02:40baby
01:02:41please what can can you show me like what that what my dad yeah that might feel like yes let's
01:02:47go let
01:02:47me see let me see let me see i have good him i love b to death and i would
01:02:54love to be in a relationship
01:02:55with him and i'm putting out the vibe but he is not picking up what kim is putting down so
01:02:59i mean where
01:03:01do we go from here oh dang all right i'm gonna go take a shower i don't want to be
01:03:06shuffling with
01:03:07my walker up to a hotel room when i'm 80 years old i just want more for myself so if
01:03:13he doesn't
01:03:13step up soon i mean this whole relationship is going to have an expiration date i'm not going to keep
01:03:18waiting traveling today to see natalie again god aren't these sexy i mean holy cow i hope she gives me
01:03:29a second chance and more importantly i hope i don't mess it up
01:03:51why are you packing up shampoo well i gotta wash the hair right the little hair that i have the
01:03:56patch of
01:03:57hair on the back of my head i shampoo it i condition it i take very good care of it
01:04:03that's the only hair i got left on my head
01:04:17i want to look good for natalie you know so i um bought a couple of new shirts
01:04:23hopefully she'll like them i can't wait to hop on a plane and go see natalie they're colorful
01:04:31that's for sure definitely colorful i visited natalie in vegas previously because that's where
01:04:38her home's at this time i'm going to travel to dc because she's currently working remotely there god
01:04:46aren't these sexy i mean holy cow that's some sexy ass underwear right here a lot of our talks through
01:04:53text and such has been a lot of small talk to be honest and hasn't been very deep so i
01:05:00really really
01:05:01don't know how natalie feels about me but i don't think she would invite me to her apartment if she
01:05:09didn't have any feelings for me i don't need my little blue pills and i'm not packing any
01:05:16um because the little blue pills i need for someone that is ugly on the inside and a constant
01:05:23bitch then i need something to pump me up but natalie is a different story because just the her
01:05:30personality and attitude the way she is i'm gonna get it up man all right i think we got it
01:05:50time to board i'll see you soon natalie i've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the
01:05:58last two years so trying to put myself out there again it's not easy but there's not many times that
01:06:10you can get a second chance and especially with a woman that's high quality like natalie is
01:06:23good morning good morning how are you doing great doing great my first time in washington dc
01:06:30i'm excited excited i hope you enjoy your stay thank you i'm so excited to be here to see um
01:06:36who i'm meeting today on top of her having a great personality and caring and fun and kind she is
01:06:44a hot
01:06:44sexy passionate latina let me tell you she's on fire baby oh is this it yeah this is it thank
01:06:56you
01:06:57i'm meeting natalie at a tea shop near her office the plan is to catch up a little and then
01:07:03go check out
01:07:04her apartment
01:07:14oh my gosh how are you feeling well i'm super excited to see her and hang out with her and
01:07:24but i i have some nervousness it's a little nerve-wracking
01:07:32my heart's racing a bit that's what natalie does to me
01:07:48i hope that natalie gives me a second chance but more importantly i hope i don't mess it up
01:07:59hey what was your name again via via yeah it's nice to meet you oh you don't do the kiss
01:08:03thing
01:08:05no there you go there you go via is very good looking and he smells expensive
01:08:14honestly if i never wanted to get divorced like he would still be mad and the hookers with him
01:08:20i don't want to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants what the are we doing
01:08:25here
01:08:36how do you feel right now i don't know why his energy just gives me like i just feel like
01:08:42in his head we're in a relationship like if you ask him i feel like he's like yeah that's my
01:08:46girl
01:08:55i don't know what they're doing
01:09:00nobody's telling you can have fun just have fun and i feel like he won't let me have fun now
01:09:05like
01:09:06now he's gonna feel like she's in my country she's meeting my friends like i feel like maybe it's giving
01:09:12off the wrong vibe usually loosen up a little bit with a couple drinks and you will be good
01:09:18let's just think of girls it'll be a good night yeah you know what help me meet my man
01:09:25kitty's thirsty
01:09:28me the girls just arrived at the club to meet pedro and his friends and it's a very overwhelming
01:09:33environment sorry uh you can sit down um you can see over here sophie i already started to feel
01:09:41overwhelmed in the van and now i just feel like he's thinking this is my girlfriend she's meeting all
01:09:45my friends and it's not the vibe that i've been in with him before which that's what i loved before
01:09:51it was so easy going and this feels a little bit a little bit pressure lisa going to listen to
01:09:56my
01:09:56friend via is very good looking he's very well groomed like his haircut's on point and he smells
01:10:16really good he smells expensive chairs thank you for inviting us
01:10:28oh my gosh that's when i feel like one one two
01:10:46hey you got it
01:11:13hey hey hey so you've never danced much out there before i was trying to try never
01:11:17for a bunch of lessons while i'm out here well it's so easy i can teach you that okay
01:11:24we can start here right so it's one two three
01:11:29oh you do know
01:11:33one two one two one two and bam bam bam bam bam
01:11:42one two two and bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bam
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01:11:56bam
01:11:56just left. That's okay. They needed that alone time. You look beautiful. You look gorgeous. Thank you. Thank you. I'm
01:12:06super happy that you're here. That you take the invitation to come in here, to spend a little time with
01:12:11me. I know you're going to have the best time. I woke up and I had a pina colada for
01:12:17breakfast because I'm in the DR. Wow, that's a lot. You don't need classes. No class? No.
01:12:27I think Liz likes your friend. Yeah, look. Yeah. So are you from here? I was born in Atlanta. When's
01:12:38your birthday? September. September? I'm May, baby. I'm a Gemini. You're a Gemini? Yeah, what is your size? I'm a
01:12:45Libra. Okay. I feel like us Libras are pretty well balanced, which is... Is this your only tattoo? Oh, yeah.
01:12:54Wow. It's a whole sleeve. It's a Libra.
01:12:56So a woman with the blindfold and the scale. What's this? Oh, it's my son's name. I have a kid.
01:13:08Riley Leanne. You have a kid? Yeah. Really? She's going to be 12. You have a 12-year-old? Yeah.
01:13:15My baby means everything to me. Same. Yeah. Same. He is my reason for everything. Definitely.
01:13:21Oh. I'm feeling butterflies talking to Viya. He'll be eight in July. He's sweet. He loves his kid. He's making
01:13:31eye contact with me. We're having great conversation.
01:13:35I think we need a drink to that. I think we need a shot.
01:13:37I think we need a shot. Is your friend a hoe? He's...
01:13:43He is a hoe. It's okay. This isn't her single era. So this is her time to just, like, live
01:13:49her life a little bit. Same with me. I'm not in a toxic relationship.
01:13:53You're separated right now. Are you still married? Are you divorced? How...how...how that goes?
01:14:01Like, I'm still technically married, but I'm, like, starting the process of divorce. But we're still...
01:14:06How far you are now? Like...just now. So it's very new. It never really felt like it was the end,
01:14:15because he would still call me. He still called you? He called me two days ago. Four in the morning.
01:14:20For what?
01:14:20It was an unknown number, because I have me blocked. And he was like, why do you have me blocked?
01:14:25I'm like, we're getting divorced.
01:14:28Why...why are you so upset with you? Like, why are you not going to move on?
01:14:31Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, he would still be mad.
01:14:35I thought that Sophie and her husband, the divorce, was more fight alone, because she tell me he was the
01:14:43worst husband, that he...he made her, like, miserable all the time.
01:14:47If that guy threw you that bad, why you get the phone calls and answer the phone?
01:14:53Any hookers with him?
01:15:00Yeah.
01:15:03We, like, hooked up after a few months, because as much as the guy was horrible to me, I still
01:15:08had love for him.
01:15:09When he was being nice to me, I forgot about all the bad memories. And so we slept together.
01:15:17They've been hookups. And she never told me they did hookup before. I am speechless.
01:15:23It's hard when you love someone. I can't just be like, I you. Bye, you know?
01:15:27Look, if you want to be with Rob, okay, be with Rob, or be with every guy that you want
01:15:31to be.
01:15:32But I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody that don't know what it wants.
01:15:37What the are we doing here?
01:15:42I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better, you know, but now I have to just...
01:15:48I wish you did, too.
01:15:48I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad. I don't know. I don't know what else. I up, you know?
01:16:06You can't deny it. I'm the queen of the scene. I'm a lion.
01:16:10I'm just getting home from my night with Bea. Even at 55, I'm still doing the walk of shame.
01:16:17Hey, I'm not gonna fall in your line. Hey, I'm a hard-working woman and I do what I like.
01:16:25Hey.
01:16:25Come on, let me get you some treats.
01:16:29Hey, my baby. Here.
01:16:31Let me do what I like.
01:16:33Last night was pretty amazing. Bea's really good in bed, I have to say.
01:16:39And usually after a night like that, I'm feeling all zen and woosah and, you know, calm.
01:16:44But right now, I'm feeling a little anxious and nervous because Jamal's coming over.
01:16:48So good to be out of those clothes.
01:16:51My God.
01:16:51He thinks he's coming over here to help me build a dresser.
01:16:54But really, I have some things I need to talk to him about.
01:17:03Super good pipes.
01:17:04Ding dong.
01:17:04Hey.
01:17:05What's up?
01:17:06How are you?
01:17:07Good.
01:17:08How are you?
01:17:09I'm good.
01:17:09I'm good.
01:17:11So this is a dresser I want to put in my guest room.
01:17:13See?
01:17:14Is it big?
01:17:15It's, look at the picture.
01:17:17Okay, here we go.
01:17:18So they go A and C, E.
01:17:20It goes like this.
01:17:22Yeah, this is E, see?
01:17:25This is so fun.
01:17:27So I went out for girls night last night with Laura, Jody, and Lily.
01:17:31You know my friend from work, Lily.
01:17:32So we went to Mavericks and they had this event called Pitch Me.
01:17:36Yeah.
01:17:36Oh, no way.
01:17:36So they did like a presentation of like what I'm looking for in a guy.
01:17:40And all the guys were like 12, Jamal.
01:17:42They weren't even like grown, you know?
01:17:44Well, I feel like your last couple of guys have been younger, so.
01:17:49My last one guy was younger.
01:17:53So, well, B's not really.
01:17:54B's 44.
01:17:56So, I mean, he's, you know.
01:17:57What's his real name?
01:17:57Benjamin.
01:17:58Oh, yeah.
01:17:59B sounds better.
01:18:00Yeah.
01:18:01But, um, so then he texts me and I went over to a hotel with him last night.
01:18:08Sure you don't want to know about that?
01:18:09Yeah, I don't need to hear that.
01:18:13Things have been tense between me and Jamal lately.
01:18:16I've hid things from him for so long that when I told him, it just devastated him.
01:18:24As long as we're not talking about these things, Jamal and I are fine.
01:18:28But it's like everything's hidden under this carpet and I have to pull that carpet away every now and then
01:18:32and talk about it.
01:18:33But Jamal will just hang up on me.
01:18:35He won't answer a text.
01:18:36He'll walk out the house.
01:18:38It's been very uncomfortable.
01:18:42Um, you know, Larry's coming out here.
01:18:46Why is he coming out here?
01:18:48Just to see, like, you know, where I grew up at and, you know, get a little more of my
01:18:52family history.
01:18:55I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better, you know, but now I have to just...
01:19:04You hid him for so long.
01:19:09I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:19:16I did what I thought.
01:19:18Yeah, but why did you hide him for so long?
01:19:25Just give me a second.
01:19:29Jamal is not my only child.
01:19:34This is really hard for me.
01:19:42Jamal's dad and I were never married.
01:19:44Um, we were together for seven and a half years.
01:19:47We were in the military together and he was just cheating all the time.
01:19:52It was just like, every day there was like a different girl.
01:19:58When I got pregnant with my first son, Larry, first thing his dad said was abort it.
01:20:04And I just couldn't do that.
01:20:06When I was only 21 years old, I couldn't imagine being a single mom.
01:20:09I was not mentally ready.
01:20:11I was starting my military career.
01:20:13I was just not ready.
01:20:14So I decided to put my son up for adoption.
01:20:17And I never told Jamal until last year, when Larry found us through an Ancestry website.
01:20:23I don't think you ever would have told me.
01:20:25I would have told you.
01:20:26I don't think so.
01:20:27And that's a huge thing for me is like...
01:20:31I don't think you ever would have told me.
01:20:34Because like there was no reason to not tell me.
01:20:37I just didn't know how to say it.
01:20:39You know?
01:20:40And it's always been like me and you, me and you, me and you.
01:20:42And I finally got our relationship to where like I've always wanted it to be, right?
01:20:47So it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret.
01:20:51I felt like in my head I was just like trying to protect myself and then trying to protect you
01:20:56too.
01:20:57Because I just didn't...
01:20:58Very protecting me.
01:20:58I don't know.
01:20:59I just didn't know how to handle it.
01:21:00I didn't...
01:21:01I...
01:21:01That's...
01:21:02That is the complete truth.
01:21:04I did not know how to handle this.
01:21:05At all.
01:21:06At all.
01:21:09Last year, I found out I had an older brother.
01:21:13Full blood.
01:21:14Mommy and dad.
01:21:15And my first thought was that she was lying.
01:21:19It was a joke or something.
01:21:22Because...
01:21:22Why would you hide this for so long when we're so close?
01:21:26And then when I found out it was true, I was just really pissed off.
01:21:29I have this whole other family and you knew about it.
01:21:32And I'm like, how could my own mom, like, look me in my eyes when she knows I have a
01:21:38whole brother.
01:21:41Dude.
01:21:42That's just not something I'm like, even thought about forgiving yet.
01:21:48Because I just don't know who would do that.
01:21:50So I'm like, damn.
01:21:58I don't know, I feel like your mom's the person you're supposed to trust, like, only.
01:22:01Like, if you can't trust anyone else, you can trust her.
01:22:04But now it's like, wow, I can't trust anyone in the world anymore.
01:22:09Oh, I'm like shaking.
01:22:14It's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this whole thing.
01:22:17You do make a lot of excuses.
01:22:20I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.
01:22:22I don't know.
01:22:22I don't know what else.
01:22:23I up, you know?
01:22:26Like, I don't know.
01:22:26I don't know what else to say to fix it.
01:22:30I know keeping Larry from Jamal was not the right thing to do.
01:22:34It ended up just hurting him worse.
01:22:37Jamal had every right to know that he had a brother out there.
01:22:40And now all I'm trying to do is just repair what I up.
01:22:45Last year, Jamal and I went to North Carolina to meet Larry, his wife, and his son.
01:22:52Meeting Larry for the first time was, like, crazy.
01:22:55Because I'm looking at him, I'm like, okay, this is my blood, this is my son, and he has my
01:23:00face.
01:23:00He looks just like me.
01:23:02But he's a total stranger to me.
01:23:05And technically, I'm a grandma.
01:23:09It's a surreal feeling.
01:23:12But I'm so relieved because he was such a good man.
01:23:17And I don't know how he would have turned out if I would have kept him.
01:23:20You know?
01:23:20It makes me feel certain that I did the right thing.
01:23:25Since then, Jamal and I have been talking with Larry.
01:23:28And I invited him to San Diego so I could get to know him more and he could see where
01:23:33I'm from.
01:23:36What do you think you even want to do with Larry once he comes out here?
01:23:39Like, what's next?
01:23:39You think you're going to have, like, a deep talk with him?
01:23:41I have to have a deep talk with him.
01:23:43About what?
01:23:48About the other one.
01:24:04How do you think he's going to react?
01:24:06I think he's going to be pissed.
01:24:07He's going to be really upset with me.
01:24:10Hey, by the way, you have a sister.
01:24:13Like the .
01:24:16Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:24:20I also had a daughter.
01:24:31This season on The Single Life.
01:24:37This is the kind of life that I want.
01:24:39Where I can have fun with my partner.
01:24:43You're getting me all hot.
01:24:44Oh, yeah?
01:24:45This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.
01:24:49Nice to meet you.
01:24:51I'll never see you again.
01:24:53I was helping him upload something on social media and it shows me all the women he's been messaging.
01:24:59Something's fishy about this.
01:25:00Courtney is worried that I'm just going to leave or cheat or whatever one day.
01:25:05Are you still living that way, dude?
01:25:06Be honest with me.
01:25:07Well, um...
01:25:10How are you?
01:25:12A wreck.
01:25:12I'm, like, shaking.
01:25:14I didn't tell my son, Larry, about his sister when he first found me.
01:25:18Here, sit.
01:25:19But I want to tell him now and I'm really scared.
01:25:22What if he just turns around and leaves?
01:25:23What if he never speaks to me again?
01:25:26It's a hard time.
01:25:30Do you mind if I have a dance?
01:25:32It's my girl.
01:25:33Are you serious?
01:25:35I do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else.
01:25:38I just don't see how that's respectful, the guy that you're with.
01:25:41So you're stopping me from being who I am?
01:25:43You don't see a problem here at all.
01:25:45What is the freaking problem?
01:25:46I think the problem is actually us.
01:25:48I'm done with this .
01:25:50Yesterday, I was talking police and she made me feel maybe I do hire another guy in your mind.
01:25:56But why does she tell you that?
01:25:56I don't want Sophie to play games with me.
01:26:00I'm not interested in that .
01:26:02Hell no.
01:26:03Not with me.
01:26:05Everything I told you, he knows.
01:26:08You've never had my back.
01:26:09Yes, I have.
01:26:10You've never had my .
01:26:11That's breaking girl code.
01:26:13Like, you don't do that.
01:26:14Go the homeless.
01:26:16Adios.
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