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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:30No, no, no.
00:00:30You remembered last night when I brought it up.
00:00:32Now all of a sudden, you're pretending you don't know her?
00:00:35I can't remember.
00:00:36I am being caught.
00:00:38I lied to her.
00:00:40Yes, I know this lady.
00:00:43But it's been a long time I've won't talk to her.
00:00:46I'm sorry, OK?
00:00:48I'm still hurting inside.
00:00:50But at the same time, all my secrets
00:00:53are so much more than his one lie.
00:00:55If I can let this go, maybe he'll forgive me
00:00:58when I tell him everything.
00:01:00Sorry.
00:01:02We decided that both of our finances
00:01:05would be put into a shared account.
00:01:09No, actually, he doesn't have the access.
00:01:13You're not married.
00:01:15I'm really surprised that Sheena's dad would tell me
00:01:18we don't get to share a bank account.
00:01:20And Sheena is going along with it.
00:01:23I don't know if I can propose to Sheena if I can't trust her.
00:01:28There's some things that I do have questions about.
00:01:32We probably have to have a private conversation.
00:01:35I do understand why Aviva has fallen for stick.
00:01:39But now this all changes because I am here.
00:01:42This is you, isn't it?
00:01:47The last time I was here in Morocco,
00:01:50I was coming to visit the guy that I was dating.
00:01:54And there's, like, something else.
00:01:59We got engaged.
00:02:27Have you seen this?
00:02:28Have you seen this cap before?
00:02:32No.
00:02:33This to tell that I'm from Igbo tribe.
00:02:36You look like Santa Claus.
00:02:39Really?
00:02:40Yeah.
00:02:50How are you feeling since everything yesterday?
00:02:54The woman from social media?
00:02:56Yes.
00:02:57Are you still remembering that?
00:02:59I am still remembering it.
00:03:01Oh.
00:03:02It bothers me a little bit.
00:03:03So I tried to talk to her again to see if she would send those screenshots one more time.
00:03:09Okay.
00:03:09And she blocked me on social media.
00:03:13I thought she was a friend.
00:03:14Why did she block you?
00:03:16I don't know.
00:03:18But my thought is, I guess she's jealous of us.
00:03:22So I think I'm feeling better about it, thinking about it that way.
00:03:27I can't believe she blocked me.
00:03:30It's making me believe that she's the one who was lying about Daniel.
00:03:36Maybe she wanted to be with Daniel.
00:03:38So she reached out to me to call him a scammer to deter me away from Daniel.
00:03:43I think she's mad that Daniel chose me over her.
00:03:47I think everything has been resolved.
00:03:50I'm trying to believe that.
00:03:54Baby, can you dress up?
00:03:56We are going to the king, okay?
00:03:59I want us to go there with one mind, okay?
00:04:03For now, I just want to put this whole thing behind me.
00:04:07Because today, Daniel's taking me to meet the king in Lagos.
00:04:12Apparently, there are several kings of the Igbo tribe, and this is a real king.
00:04:17I am going to meet a real king.
00:04:19I am so scared and I'm so nervous I may pee my pants.
00:04:23We'll go see the king, but I need you to help me with my hair top.
00:04:28Perfect right there.
00:04:30When you're talking about marriage, everyone don't have to go and see the king.
00:04:34But getting his blessing, it means a lot.
00:04:38You look so handsome.
00:04:40Taking her to the king is the highest honor to our culture.
00:04:43This will be the way to prove to Lisa I respect her a lot, and I am committed to her.
00:04:56I am very nervous.
00:04:57Is it a big palace?
00:04:59Um...
00:05:00Or is it more like a mansion?
00:05:03Just a camber.
00:05:04I am allowed to be nervous about meeting a king.
00:05:09It's exciting.
00:05:10I am picturing a huge castle.
00:05:11It's going to be bigger than Disneyland.
00:05:13It's going to have towers and that is going to have a moat.
00:05:17Marble floors and this grand entrance.
00:05:20I don't know what I'm thinking.
00:05:22I'm thinking I'm in England.
00:05:26How do I greet him again?
00:05:27You have to know that I'll say.
00:05:31May you live long, my king.
00:05:32May you live long, my king.
00:05:34Good.
00:05:38Oh my God, I'm so nervous.
00:05:41I am so afraid that I'm going to say something wrong, that I'm going to kneel at the wrong
00:05:46time, that I will accidentally reveal my secrets.
00:05:50I mean, this is the ultimate blessing.
00:05:52I can't mess up.
00:05:56Oh, we're turning here.
00:05:58Where are we?
00:06:01Are we here?
00:06:02Yes.
00:06:18During my last trip when we were in Marrakesh, we got engaged.
00:06:35So that's why you are so fast, you wanted just to be engaged.
00:06:39No, I don't just want to be engaged, but that's just what happened on my last trip.
00:06:44Mm-hmm.
00:06:49In social media, when we speak, why you didn't say that you make a story for...
00:06:56It's not a story.
00:06:57Just be real.
00:06:59I am being real.
00:07:00Sometimes you have to say it without to be scared.
00:07:02For example...
00:07:03That's what I'm doing right now.
00:07:05But you take a lot of time.
00:07:06It's like...
00:07:07Well, exactly.
00:07:08I didn't want you to be mad, so I didn't say anything about it.
00:07:14It's like, I don't know you, and I wouldn't trust anything you say.
00:07:22It's like, I feel like you are not good.
00:07:31She told me I was there in Morocco just to visit Marrakesh with my girlfriend.
00:07:35This is the first lie.
00:07:37The second one, when we are together in cooking clothes, she told me I was healing.
00:07:44And right now, she told me another story.
00:07:47I was with a Moroccan man in Marrakesh because we are just ready to be engaged.
00:08:03Why not really?
00:08:04I don't have...
00:08:06What?
00:08:09It's like...
00:08:10I can't.
00:08:12You can't what?
00:08:13I can't be engaged with you, and I can't propose you.
00:08:20I can't move on with you.
00:08:22It's like...
00:08:22What do you mean you can't move on?
00:08:23What do you mean?
00:08:26You're breaking up with me?
00:08:29Yep.
00:08:33I accept what you did.
00:08:34So you're breaking up with me because I was with a guy before you.
00:08:39Because you're lying to me.
00:08:41That's the problem.
00:08:44I need a minute, so.
00:08:58How is this something to break up with me over?
00:09:00What do you mean?
00:09:01How is this something for you to just leave and break up with me?
00:09:04Did I break up with you when you were talking to other girls and I had proof of you messaging
00:09:08girls, telling them to come visit you, telling them you want to get to know them?
00:09:12No.
00:09:15I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt.
00:09:17I tried to see the best in you, and then you find out one little thing, and you're ready
00:09:21to just break up with me and go home.
00:09:22So why not I want to go to my home?
00:09:25Why?
00:09:26Zia, were we in a relationship?
00:09:27If you don't want to meet me.
00:09:30Were we in a relationship?
00:09:31Were we in a relationship?
00:09:33Why can't you talk to me?
00:09:35Like, I came all the way here, and you're just walking away because of one thing that
00:09:38you're mad about?
00:09:39Can you leave me walk away?
00:09:40No.
00:09:41I want to like it by myself.
00:09:41No.
00:09:42Just go.
00:09:42No.
00:09:43Just go.
00:09:43No.
00:09:46Don't touch me.
00:09:47I'm not touching you.
00:09:48So just let me go.
00:09:49I want to go right now.
00:09:50Okay, bye.
00:09:50Yeah.
00:09:51Goodbye.
00:09:56I did all of this for us to be together.
00:09:59He's an asshole.
00:10:00He's literally an asshole.
00:10:12Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:10:14I am King Forrest.
00:10:16Dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess.
00:10:21My dreams have come to fruition.
00:10:25Welcome, conquistador.
00:10:26Let's go, man.
00:10:27Onward!
00:10:30Corrine, can you come here for a minute?
00:10:32Coming.
00:10:33The girl in the photo is Corrine's friend.
00:10:36She has no reason to lie to her.
00:10:38February 7th, where were you?
00:10:41I don't know.
00:10:41I think Hopkins did a wedding.
00:10:43That picture was in the Hopkins.
00:10:44You were here in Plasencia with her.
00:10:56I mean, this is you, isn't it?
00:11:01Oh, yeah, that's you.
00:11:11This is from like two months ago.
00:11:17What is this?
00:11:18Is this something that you...
00:11:18That's a fan.
00:11:19That's somebody that's a fan.
00:11:21This is a fan.
00:11:23So you didn't tell her that you loved her?
00:11:25No, I didn't.
00:11:26So why is there a text right here saying, I'ma love you forever?
00:11:35And when my niece, Corrine, asked, why does that look like Stig?
00:11:39They say, that's my man.
00:11:41Is there some reason that there's text of you telling this girl you love her and her claiming
00:11:45that you're her man?
00:11:47Because these girls are super fans.
00:11:49And that's okay.
00:11:50And I appreciate that.
00:11:51So I asked you, no, this is more than super fan.
00:11:54This girl definitely says that you guys were together there.
00:11:58Cup.
00:11:59Corrine, can you come in here for a second?
00:12:01Yes, honey.
00:12:02Coming.
00:12:06So he claims he doesn't know who she is.
00:12:08That literally that she's just a fan.
00:12:12So, okay, so I know her.
00:12:14She's a close friend of mine.
00:12:16I don't think my friend, a girl with fan smile, would have lied to me about something like that.
00:12:21She mentioned when she goes to the city, she sees you.
00:12:28The first one, probably.
00:12:29No.
00:12:30No.
00:12:31So, okay, February 7th, where were you?
00:12:39Hopkins, I don't know, I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:12:44No, that picture was in the Hopkins.
00:12:47You were here in Placentia with her.
00:12:58I can see something's going on through the window.
00:13:01I have no idea what's being said, but I just hear a lot of commotion, and I'm freaking out.
00:13:09It is frustrating to be left out of this conversation.
00:13:13It seems very important, but I trust my aunt, and she must have a reason for wanting to keep me
00:13:20out of the loop.
00:13:20I just wish I knew what the was going on.
00:13:23You guys were definitely together, like, more than one instances, different dates.
00:13:29No, on the real one, I don't know what the is like that.
00:13:32If I was with a girl, I might tell her the truth.
00:13:34I might tell her Aviva the truth.
00:13:36I ain't not lying.
00:13:38I don't want to hurt Aviva's feelings, because I know, like, she truly and genuinely loves Stig.
00:13:45Even to bring this information forward to Auntie Spring has been, like, so traumatic to me.
00:13:52But I know that my friends and Stig have been hooking up.
00:13:58Stig bulls**t a lot.
00:13:59But if he knows that he doesn't want the relationship, he should leave.
00:14:05I mean, we want this girl, that girl.
00:14:09Pictures.
00:14:11Messages don't lie.
00:14:15Up, daddy.
00:14:17Thank you, Nisi.
00:14:18I appreciate you.
00:14:19You're welcome.
00:14:19Fuck.
00:14:21Yeah.
00:14:22All of that is exactly, getting extra about it is exactly what my husband would do, too.
00:14:27This is all the things that I worry about between you guys.
00:14:33The girl in the photo is Corinne's friend.
00:14:36They've known each other since they were diapers.
00:14:38She doesn't know anything about him dating Aviva.
00:14:41She has no reason to lie to her about what she's doing.
00:14:44And if this is just a fan, then he needs to explain that to her.
00:14:48Because this is overly friendly with the fan.
00:14:52Aviva actually cares a lot about you and, you know, loves you.
00:14:57And I don't want her to end up, you know, you living two different lives.
00:15:02And I still don't believe anything that you're saying right now.
00:15:08So do you want to explain this to Aviva later?
00:15:12You're either going to tell her or I'm telling her.
00:15:19I have nothing to hide.
00:15:23Ann Springer's trying to put her on me because of her past relationship, which is unfair.
00:15:29So now I can't believe I have to tell Aviva what a picture of a fan that might ruin my
00:15:37entire relationship.
00:15:39We'll see, I guess.
00:15:41I don't even know.
00:16:04That's weird.
00:16:05So what?
00:16:06It's a cotton texture.
00:16:07Yeah, that's why it's called cotton.
00:16:08Cotton fruit.
00:16:09Yeah.
00:16:14It's sour, right?
00:16:16Woo!
00:16:17I don't...
00:16:18Oh, Lordy.
00:16:21I was a guinea pig for everybody.
00:16:24Yeah.
00:16:30The other one is we call pastillas.
00:16:33Pastillas is like soft milk candy.
00:16:36Hey, Mom.
00:16:37We're going to be heading out to Venice Mall today.
00:16:39And I know you guys aren't, you know, the big mall walkers like we are.
00:16:43So...
00:16:44No, we're not mall people.
00:16:48We're thinking about going today to see a bamboo organ at church.
00:16:54Yes, Mom.
00:16:55I'm interested in learning all about that type stuff, so...
00:16:58Yeah.
00:16:59Okay.
00:17:00I'm glad you love my mangoes recommendation.
00:17:02I told you, I love to handle stuff.
00:17:04Yes.
00:17:05Any others?
00:17:06I could try them.
00:17:08Just grab the steed, suck it out.
00:17:10I don't need to swallow the seed up.
00:17:12I told you.
00:17:14Slurp that seed right now.
00:17:16All right.
00:17:16Let's go, baby.
00:17:18I think I'm going to tackle this baby next right here.
00:17:25Our chariot.
00:17:31Honey, are you excited?
00:17:33Heck, yeah, I am.
00:17:35I've just been really wanting to go to this place, you know, ever since I got here to the Philippines.
00:17:40Right here, it's just beautiful there.
00:17:44Yeah.
00:17:44I've known about the place, but I haven't visited there.
00:17:48Oh, we can come to it.
00:17:49I'm so excited, honey.
00:17:50Yeah, me too, baby.
00:17:53Hello, we're here.
00:17:55Oh, my God.
00:17:57I learned about this place from searches online for pop romantic places in the Philippines.
00:18:04Wow, look at that.
00:18:06It's a mall that looks like Venice, and Sheena loves Italian food and everything like Italian.
00:18:13Boom.
00:18:15I've been thinking a lot about what's been happening the last few days, and we really
00:18:19need to have a hard discussion about her lying.
00:18:22Now, finally being able to be alone with Sheena without my mom behind me, I can talk to her
00:18:28and help her understand that all these lies that she's been spreading have left a scar.
00:18:35And I'm hoping to hear from Sheena that she won't lie anymore.
00:18:41Wow, look at this place.
00:18:43What do you think?
00:18:44Awesome.
00:18:45Oh, my gosh.
00:18:46Is that water?
00:18:48Yeah, it looks nice.
00:18:49Wow.
00:18:50Oh, my gosh.
00:18:53You first walk in, you see these beautiful buildings, and you look down, and then there's
00:18:58this giant swimming pool.
00:19:00And you got some, like, little Italian guys just chilling out on these little boats.
00:19:05It's beautiful.
00:19:07Oh, my God.
00:19:08God.
00:19:09It took years for them to build Rome and everything.
00:19:12Yeah.
00:19:12But now we are in it.
00:19:15The architectural stuff is amazing.
00:19:17I really feel like we're in Italy.
00:19:19Yeah, this is the most romantic place.
00:19:21Oh, wow, they got a chicken restaurant up there.
00:19:24I have barely traveled internationally, but I definitely believe this is what Italy would
00:19:28look like.
00:19:29Little clowns everywhere, dancing people.
00:19:34Can we do the same?
00:19:39I'm super grateful to have this time alone with Sheena.
00:19:42Oh, my gosh.
00:19:43Look at that.
00:19:44Oh, wow.
00:19:45They have dresses and everything.
00:19:46Yeah, that's cool.
00:19:47Do you think you want to dress up a little bit and get some photos?
00:19:50Yeah, why not?
00:19:51We could try.
00:19:52Go check it out here.
00:19:53I just hope that some dresses would fit me, though.
00:19:56Do you want the right answer?
00:19:57I love it, too.
00:19:58Yeah, that would be great.
00:19:59Yeah, that's a good one.
00:19:59I've always told Sheena that I would come over to the Philippines as her knight in shining
00:20:04armor.
00:20:05Oh.
00:20:07This looks nice.
00:20:08Yeah, you can do this.
00:20:09Yeah.
00:20:10Sorry.
00:20:12So, dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess, it just
00:20:18feels like my dreams have come to fruition.
00:20:24Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:20:26Yes.
00:20:27I am King Forrest.
00:20:31The graceful.
00:20:33I wonder how Sheena's going to look, though.
00:20:36Where's she hiding?
00:20:43Oh, my Sheena.
00:20:47I look like a princess in a red ribbon.
00:20:49You are a princess.
00:20:56You look amazing, baby.
00:20:57Don't have a red ribbon.
00:20:59Oh, that would be great.
00:21:02A parasol.
00:21:05Seeing Sheena dressed up in that red dress, I found myself completely and totally speechless.
00:21:12Well, Conquistador, let's go, man.
00:21:15Onward!
00:21:16She is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
00:21:19Do I look regal to you?
00:21:20You look like a perfect king of mine.
00:21:23I love you, my lover.
00:21:24I love you, my Sheena, so much.
00:21:29And I want to be your rock.
00:21:35But just I don't like how it ended up, you know, with the lies and whatever.
00:21:42And I need to know that you will always come to me truthfully and honestly.
00:21:51I understand, my love.
00:21:53I felt so hopeless for what I did, for not telling the truth to you.
00:21:59And I'm trying to open up everything for you, every single problem that you need to learn.
00:22:06But, it's hard for me.
00:22:13And you know what?
00:22:14I have been waiting to tell you something.
00:22:20I think Forrest would appreciate if I would tell him the truth.
00:22:25He needs to know.
00:22:27Yeah.
00:22:38My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:22:42that.
00:22:42I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:22:45Oh, my God.
00:22:47In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet my boyfriend, Joshua, who's super sexy.
00:22:54But my parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened a few years
00:23:00ago with my ex.
00:23:01Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler.
00:23:05For the love of God, I'm begging you, run.
00:23:17We'll begin just by coming to a comfortable position.
00:23:22No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:26No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:31My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:34My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:39I am doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:44I'm doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:58Ew, can I, like, touch up a second?
00:24:01Look at this.
00:24:01This is disgusting.
00:24:02Yeah, do it right now.
00:24:04Okay.
00:24:05Do I have lip hair?
00:24:07Like, would you tell me?
00:24:09How would you describe yourself?
00:24:11As a very outgoing, loving, kind-hearted person with great boobs, great nipples, great.
00:24:21I would show you if I could, but I would get in trouble.
00:24:24I would show you if I could, but I would show you if I could, but I would show you
00:24:51if I could.
00:24:54Because I'm going to go see my parents.
00:24:57I'm really excited to see my family, but it's hard because I'm kind of like the odd sheep in the
00:25:03family.
00:25:04My parents have this picture-perfect marriage.
00:25:07Met on a blind date, and now been married for over 40 years.
00:25:11My brother, who's 16 months older than me, has been married with two kids.
00:25:16Been with the same girl for eight years.
00:25:18And then here I am at age 32, and I've never been married, and I don't have kids.
00:25:23And I've made some poor choices with men.
00:25:27I want to find the one more than anything in this world.
00:25:30But, like, my track record is bad.
00:25:34Like, horrible.
00:25:37I've been proposed to five times, and three of them I said yes to.
00:25:42And I've still never walked down that aisle.
00:25:46Recently, I decided to do something completely out of the box, and I went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
00:25:54There we go!
00:25:56I had some fun in Mexico.
00:25:58I thought I found the one, but he showed his true colors, and he turned out to be another failed
00:26:03relationship.
00:26:04I went to Tiffany to ask for her back.
00:26:12You literally told me you could see a life outside here with me and not her.
00:26:17Carlo and I tried to make it work after the singles retreat, but it didn't work out.
00:26:22It f***ing hurt, and that was a hard one to move on from.
00:26:27So I took that time to work on myself, and I think that's what I needed.
00:26:33Because now I have a new man in my life who's super f***ing sexy.
00:26:36I just don't know what my parents think about all this.
00:26:41Definitely scared that my parents are sitting in the house currently saying,
00:26:46Oh my God, what is our daughter doing again?
00:26:49My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:26:53that.
00:26:54I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:26:57Oh my God.
00:27:00How are you doing?
00:27:01I'm good.
00:27:02Do you want any meds?
00:27:04No, but you can't just cover.
00:27:06Oh, cover your feet.
00:27:07Cover the feet, Cease.
00:27:09Yeah.
00:27:12Hi, Mom!
00:27:13Hi!
00:27:14Hi, Dad!
00:27:16What's that?
00:27:16Come here, come here!
00:27:17Come here, come here!
00:27:20Oh, I missed you.
00:27:22I love you.
00:27:22Hey, we got a gimp over here.
00:27:24Hi, Daddy!
00:27:25We have a gimp.
00:27:26My dad just had two knee surgeries.
00:27:28He's just literally been sitting in a chair, and that's very hard for him because he's always
00:27:33out and about and a big workaholic.
00:27:37Okay, you want to see?
00:27:38You want to see?
00:27:39I don't know.
00:27:40You want to see?
00:27:41All right, all right.
00:27:41Ready?
00:27:43My dad's a venture capitalist.
00:27:45He gives money to companies in order for them to go public, or he takes an equi-
00:27:52Oh, God.
00:27:53I should probably know what my dad does, but, like, I don't know.
00:27:57You know what I found, Elise?
00:27:59Your bin.
00:28:00But I want you to take this.
00:28:01I want whatever you want in here to take it.
00:28:03Because we're renovating the house, and I need room.
00:28:06Show us all the report cards with A's.
00:28:09Oh, there are none.
00:28:10What do you mean I got straight A's?
00:28:12Oh, let's see.
00:28:13Okay.
00:28:14This is wild.
00:28:15Oh, summer 2006, when you were 13 years old, third summer.
00:28:20Oh, it was the letters from camp?
00:28:21Letters from camp.
00:28:22Oh, let me just say.
00:28:22I was camper of the year.
00:28:24No, no, no.
00:28:24This is when she went to overnight camp.
00:28:27Oh, remember that?
00:28:28Oh, my God.
00:28:32Remember you smuggled your phone in?
00:28:34Yep.
00:28:36We're very close family.
00:28:38The four of us have always stuck together, and it hasn't always been the easiest.
00:28:44Elise was always wild.
00:28:46We bailed Elise out of a lot of things.
00:28:50Maybe too many.
00:28:52So, what's up?
00:28:54Where are you going?
00:28:55New Zealand?
00:28:57Australia?
00:28:58Yeah.
00:29:00It might be silly to me, but, like, I really like him, and I want to go.
00:29:04Well, you don't know him.
00:29:05No, I've never met him.
00:29:08So, why this now?
00:29:12I'm getting older.
00:29:13I'm 32.
00:29:13I've done a lot of self-reflection.
00:29:15Well, the way I look at it is, Joshua, he has a really nice way about him.
00:29:21He's kind of the opposite of me.
00:29:23Like, he's very calm temperament, and I like that.
00:29:26I haven't found love in Miami.
00:29:29No.
00:29:29I feel like I've exhausted every option in Miami.
00:29:33Haven't found love in Miami?
00:29:34Hello, Australia.
00:29:35Yeah, right.
00:29:36I mean, yeah, right.
00:29:38Welcome to What the F***.
00:29:41I know it sounds ridiculous to my parents,
00:29:44but I wouldn't be flying around the world to Australia to meet just any guy.
00:29:53My boyfriend, Joshua, is a sexy 39-year-old from Sydney, Australia.
00:29:59He is so caring, attentive.
00:30:03He's just like a happy-go-lucky guy, like, that everyone wants to be around.
00:30:06He's just like an overall, like, a golden retriever puppy.
00:30:12I met him on social media.
00:30:14He slid in my DMs, and we've been talking ever since.
00:30:19When we first started messaging, I did not think it was going to be serious at all.
00:30:23But he totally caught me off guard.
00:30:26There's something about him that's so genuine and so different from what I am used to.
00:30:32Josh has a 12-year-old son who lives with his mom, and his son's the most important person to
00:30:37him.
00:30:38Seeing Joshua as a father makes me fantasize that one day maybe we could have a family.
00:30:45Recently, it's gotten very serious.
00:30:47So in a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet Joshua for the first time.
00:30:52And, like, oh, my God.
00:30:55I just want to get there and see him and be in his arms already.
00:31:00You know, Elise, I'm glad you're getting out of Miami, but I'm really concerned about your choices and who you
00:31:07pick, you know?
00:31:08Well, I'm not going to stand for bullsh** anymore.
00:31:10You know, I'm not going to stand for it.
00:31:13For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:31:15But if you think, like, there's any, like, you know, what do they call him, gold digger in there, then
00:31:20run.
00:31:21Yeah.
00:31:23Run.
00:31:25Because no mouse, no mouse, no mouse.
00:31:30My parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened a few years ago
00:31:36with my ex.
00:31:37I thought he was in love with me, and I was really in love with him.
00:31:41But after being with him for a few years, he ended up stealing my identity and got a credit card
00:31:47out in my name and racked it up $500,000.
00:31:52He conned me and completely broke my heart, and I felt so foolish that I let a guy completely embarrass
00:31:59and demolish me.
00:32:01And the worst part is, who had to get me out of this trouble?
00:32:05My dad.
00:32:08Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler, another guy that's going to take
00:32:13advantage of you.
00:32:14My question is, how do you pull the ripcord if this is going south?
00:32:18What's the evacuation plan if, like, you know, this is...
00:32:21Hello, mom and dad.
00:32:23Like, no, I'm not, I can't do that anymore.
00:32:28I really want the love that my parents have.
00:32:32They genuinely love each other, and they're each other's best friends.
00:32:36But, like, I'm scared that, like, I'm about to go all this way, and I could have my heart broken
00:32:41again, and I don't want that.
00:32:44My dream for you is I want to see you happy.
00:32:48And I think a big part of that is being able to smell out bull****.
00:32:53I'm going to try my damn best to not disappoint you, to not disappoint me, you know, and I'm going
00:32:59to see where it goes.
00:33:03Hey.
00:33:04Hi.
00:33:05Michael has always given me really great advice, and I feel like I need that now.
00:33:12You're emotionally compromised.
00:33:14But if you truly want to move forward with this man, I would really appreciate it if you would let
00:33:19me come out there.
00:33:21May I come out there?
00:33:22May I meet him?
00:33:34Are we here?
00:33:36Yes.
00:33:38Oh, my gosh, baby.
00:33:42I don't see a palace.
00:33:45I thought I'd see a palace, baby.
00:34:03Hi, uncle.
00:34:05How are you?
00:34:05I'm good.
00:34:06How are you?
00:34:07I'm fine.
00:34:08Daniel is taking me to meet the king today, and I am thinking I'm going to this palace.
00:34:15But what the f***?
00:34:18This is not a palace.
00:34:19Where are we?
00:34:20This is nothing like I expected.
00:34:25Ah.
00:34:34This is not a palace.
00:34:38Oh.
00:34:42Oh, yes, I've got to.
00:34:44Oh, yeah, I've got to.
00:34:49Oh, yeah.
00:34:50Oh, yes.
00:34:50Oh, yes, I've got to.
00:34:51Oh, yes, I've got to.
00:34:55Oh, my God, this is a king.
00:34:57He looks like a king.
00:35:00He's wearing lion head and this headdress.
00:35:05And I feel like I'm going to myself.
00:35:07I don't know what to do.
00:35:50The Lord of Koppu comes to me because I'm his royal majesty.
00:35:55I'm like, I'm an Aura Koppu, a prophet.
00:36:00And I say, Lord your father, your blessings is enormous.
00:36:03It's not like every other blessing.
00:36:06If this thing, if it's going to work well,
00:36:12I will ask our ancestors.
00:36:15If you're a king, you're a king.
00:36:19If you're a king, you're a king.
00:36:20If you're a king, you're a king, you're a king.
00:36:34I'm getting more nervous because this is so not what I expected.
00:36:39What if the ancestors don't give us the blessing?
00:36:43Does it erase the uncle's blessing?
00:36:45Does it erase how Daniel feels about me?
00:36:47I have no idea he's the king.
00:36:54I'm showing signs that I'm falling for you.
00:36:57You're in my mind when you're crying.
00:37:01Now is the time you know what I'm going to do.
00:37:13Hey.
00:37:15Hey.
00:37:16How's it going?
00:37:16I just found a hater.
00:37:21Sounds good.
00:37:22Yay.
00:37:22I have a mix of emotions after me.
00:37:25I was checking in with some people at home
00:37:28and was wondering if I could have, like, I don't know,
00:37:3230 minutes or so to make a phone call.
00:37:35No, you don't need that long time?
00:37:35Yeah.
00:37:36Is that cool?
00:37:37Yeah.
00:37:38You know, what am I going to do?
00:37:40Probably go find some she-she.
00:37:43Yay.
00:37:44All right.
00:37:45Have fun.
00:37:46See ya.
00:37:48I have a mix of emotions after the boat ride today.
00:37:55Birkon opening up to me was really sweet,
00:37:58but I definitely still have some hesitations
00:38:02when it comes to Birkon's gambling and his debt.
00:38:07And I feel like I need to talk to someone
00:38:10who can ground me, help me understand and process
00:38:14all of the things that are going on.
00:38:19Hey.
00:38:21Hi.
00:38:22Long time no see, stranger.
00:38:25I'm saying the same thing to you.
00:38:26How's it going?
00:38:28Uh, I'm doing well-ish.
00:38:30Well-ish?
00:38:31Why well-ish?
00:38:33That's not your help for when you're not here.
00:38:35Aw.
00:38:37I know you missed me.
00:38:38I know.
00:38:39It's been a while.
00:38:39I am sure you missed me.
00:38:43Nope, Meryl.
00:38:44Liar.
00:38:44You missed me.
00:38:46Liar.
00:38:47I missed you, too.
00:38:49I have been messaging Michael a little bit
00:38:52since I've been in Turkey,
00:38:53but he definitely doesn't have all the details.
00:38:57I trust and respect him,
00:38:58and he has always given me really great,
00:39:02really sage advice,
00:39:03and I feel like I need that now.
00:39:06You're coming home?
00:39:11You know, I've thought about it a few times, honestly.
00:39:15I mean, he's super sweet,
00:39:18and he's really, really putting in effort
00:39:21to make me feel special.
00:39:23Okay.
00:39:23But it's like he's given me some information
00:39:27that's, like, straight up a lot to think about.
00:39:31You have me all ears, girl.
00:39:32I mean, he has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount of debt.
00:39:41What's substantial in Turkish terms?
00:39:44Well, in U.S. dollars, it's $50,000.
00:39:51Yeah, so, I mean, that's not good,
00:39:54but I think probably the thing that, like, concerned me the most,
00:39:59he talks a lot about gambling.
00:40:02Like, he'll take money,
00:40:03and instead of putting it towards his debt,
00:40:06he'll gamble it to try to win more.
00:40:10I'm just so concerned.
00:40:12What's he going to do in the States?
00:40:14Like, burn through my money gambling?
00:40:16I don't know what to do.
00:40:18But at the same time,
00:40:22he's ridiculously thoughtful
00:40:24and, like, so intentional and sweet.
00:40:29No one has ever put this much thought and care
00:40:32into things that they planned for me.
00:40:35Like, today, he took me out
00:40:37on this amazing boat cruise,
00:40:40and he told me because of me,
00:40:44he's started to feel alive again,
00:40:46and, like, he's starting to be like himself.
00:40:48And I don't get people very often in my life
00:40:52who make me feel cared for.
00:40:55So that is a huge, huge win for me
00:40:59in the pro category.
00:41:03I would feel missed if you came home, honestly.
00:41:08You'd feel best if I came home?
00:41:10Yeah, because you're emotionally compromised.
00:41:16I can tell you he's running
00:41:17an incredible con game right now.
00:41:20His job is to woo you,
00:41:22to make you feel like the love of his life,
00:41:25to make you feel incredibly special,
00:41:26and you've been deprived of these experiences
00:41:29for so damn long
00:41:30that a guy like him,
00:41:33that's all he has to do,
00:41:34and you're falling head over heels for him,
00:41:36when there are far, far, far higher quality men
00:41:40that can do the same thing
00:41:41and don't come with that baggage.
00:41:51You're willing to sacrifice common sense
00:41:56because a vote rhyme was enough to win your heart.
00:42:02I know that the red flags sound crazy,
00:42:07but I also think it's easier
00:42:13to hear about red flags than it is green flags.
00:42:15The green flags are harder to see
00:42:17unless you see them with your own eyes.
00:42:22I mean, if you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:42:27I would really appreciate it
00:42:29if you would let me come out there
00:42:32and see him for myself
00:42:34before you make that level of commitment,
00:42:37that level of decision about your life.
00:42:40May I come out there?
00:42:42May I meet him?
00:42:46I don't know.
00:42:48I don't know.
00:42:50That's a really big deal.
00:42:52I feel like that could really push him away
00:42:55and create some big problems for me
00:42:58as I do move forward in this relationship.
00:43:07I really don't know what to do here.
00:43:10On the one hand,
00:43:11it might be nice to have a third party
00:43:13to give me their perspective.
00:43:16But on the other hand,
00:43:18BeerCon already doesn't like my friendship with Michael,
00:43:21and I feel like Michael showing up here,
00:43:23that would piss him off.
00:43:27And honestly, I've always thought
00:43:29that he had some sort of underlying feelings for me.
00:43:32And the fact that he's willing to just fly out here
00:43:36and rescue me from myself
00:43:38really does kind of concern me
00:43:41about what his intentions are.
00:43:44I want to talk to him about it first
00:43:48before we decide for sure.
00:43:51Okay, I can respect that.
00:43:53And I will let you know how it goes.
00:43:55Okay, thank you for considering it.
00:44:02So your aunt actually came with a screenshot
00:44:05of some message from me saying,
00:44:08I'm going to love you forever.
00:44:12I can't be with somebody
00:44:13who's been lying and cheating on me this whole time.
00:44:16I don't know who the that is.
00:44:26You know what?
00:44:27I have been waiting to tell you something.
00:44:34To be honest,
00:44:35it's really hard for me
00:44:37to talk about this.
00:44:47The truth is that most of the people that I love
00:44:50happen not to be serious with me.
00:44:54They just wanted to play with my feelings.
00:44:56And my previous partner
00:44:58that I was expecting that guy to love me,
00:45:02but he never loved me.
00:45:05He already had someone with him.
00:45:08He had been cheating me for the longest three years.
00:45:12And it fears me that
00:45:14I would suffer the same fate
00:45:17like leaving behind.
00:45:20I did that lie
00:45:21because I'm afraid
00:45:23that I would lose you.
00:45:26My previous partner,
00:45:28I finally discovered
00:45:29after the longest years
00:45:31that this guy
00:45:32already had a partner
00:45:33while dating with me.
00:45:35I just felt unwanted.
00:45:40And I really blame myself
00:45:42for not being a perfect woman.
00:45:46Like I had done something
00:45:48to drive him away.
00:45:51If I was ever to do anything
00:45:53to push force away,
00:45:55I would feel so much in pain.
00:45:59It's an indescribable pain.
00:46:08Sheena,
00:46:09that guy did not deserve you at all.
00:46:13I'm not like him.
00:46:14I won't be like him.
00:46:16I would never leave you
00:46:19for having issues.
00:46:21If you just tell me up front
00:46:23what the situation is,
00:46:24I'll be there to support you.
00:46:30I hope you have the courage
00:46:32to come to me from now on
00:46:35because I can't,
00:46:37I can't have you lying to me.
00:46:41I will do my best
00:46:43and I will put up
00:46:45my negative feelings aside.
00:46:48But I cannot promise you
00:46:50in words,
00:46:51but in actions.
00:46:53Open up and trusting more with you
00:46:55is the best way.
00:46:58I knew that Sheena
00:46:59was in a relationship before,
00:47:00but I didn't know
00:47:01that it affected her
00:47:02to this extent.
00:47:05Things are not perfect,
00:47:06but I feel that
00:47:08Sheena and I
00:47:09were able to talk things out
00:47:10and I'm glad that
00:47:11she's willing to work with me.
00:47:12It's making me feel better.
00:47:14I'm falling more and more
00:47:16in love with her
00:47:16every single day.
00:47:19I just really wish
00:47:20that I could feel
00:47:21more confident
00:47:22that this won't happen again.
00:47:32Bye, auntie.
00:47:33Bye, I love you.
00:47:35Love you.
00:47:39Is everything okay?
00:47:41It's pretty good.
00:47:42Okay.
00:47:51Tonight was a total disaster
00:47:54I wanted my aunt
00:47:55to grill him
00:47:57and get the answers.
00:47:59However,
00:47:59I was hoping deep down
00:48:00they would like each other
00:48:02and she would end up
00:48:04having good things
00:48:05to say about him.
00:48:07Clearly,
00:48:08that's not what happened.
00:48:10And at this point,
00:48:11I don't know
00:48:13what's actually going on.
00:48:17Are you going to tell me
00:48:18what happened?
00:48:19Um, yeah.
00:48:21A lot.
00:48:23Okay.
00:48:27So your aunt
00:48:28actually came with
00:48:29quote-unquote
00:48:31proof.
00:48:33Proof in her mind.
00:48:36Proof of what?
00:48:37Proof of me
00:48:39not being faithful to you.
00:48:42Okay.
00:48:45And
00:48:46continue.
00:48:48She gave me
00:48:49an ultimatum.
00:48:49If I don't tell you
00:48:51who she's going to tell you
00:48:53it's going to be worse
00:48:54and all that.
00:48:55So I'm like,
00:48:55well, anyways.
00:48:57Go ahead.
00:49:01She pulled up
00:49:01with a picture
00:49:02of me
00:49:03hugging a girl
00:49:04and with a kiss
00:49:05on her cheek.
00:49:09from when?
00:49:11Probably recently,
00:49:12like maybe
00:49:13a couple weeks ago.
00:49:18But that's what I do, though.
00:49:20I take pictures with fans
00:49:21and sometimes I do that.
00:49:22Nothing bad.
00:49:24So this was just
00:49:26a random girl?
00:49:29Yeah,
00:49:30probably just a fan.
00:49:32Apparently,
00:49:32Corinne,
00:49:34she's like,
00:49:34that's her friend
00:49:35and the girl is like,
00:49:36oh, she's messing with me
00:49:37and she was with me
00:49:38in this city
00:49:39or whatever.
00:49:40I'm like,
00:49:40girl,
00:49:40I don't even know
00:49:41who the f*** that is.
00:49:46Oh, no,
00:49:47and apparently
00:49:47some,
00:49:49I think they asked
00:49:50the girl about the picture
00:49:51and she
00:49:53sent a screenshot
00:49:54of some message
00:49:54from me
00:49:55of saying,
00:49:57I'm going to love you
00:49:58forever, bruh.
00:50:00From him.
00:50:01Who the hell is in me?
00:50:03Apparently, I'm him.
00:50:04Not him
00:50:05in that message.
00:50:07Uh, okay.
00:50:09So there's photos
00:50:10and text messages?
00:50:11Apparently,
00:50:12but not real
00:50:13text messages.
00:50:17Do you have the photo?
00:50:19I don't have it.
00:50:21I don't know
00:50:22who the f*** that is.
00:50:24I don't know
00:50:24how else can I say it.
00:50:25I don't want to curse.
00:50:26Not even like that.
00:50:28I could show you
00:50:29like a million
00:50:31more pictures like that.
00:50:32Corinne is saying
00:50:32it's her friend
00:50:33and that she knows
00:50:35that you guys
00:50:35are hooking up.
00:50:36That's what is
00:50:37concerning to me.
00:50:40Bloody Karen,
00:50:41I'm crazy.
00:50:42If you're messing with her,
00:50:43then you're messing with her.
00:50:44Why would they lie about that?
00:50:45If I was messing with her,
00:50:46I would tell you the truth.
00:50:48Then I would have been like,
00:50:51let's have a tree.
00:50:53But I'm joking.
00:50:54I'm joking.
00:50:54Babe, I'm joking
00:50:55because I have no reason
00:50:56to lie.
00:51:01I just don't know
00:51:02what to believe
00:51:03at this point.
00:51:06I need to see the photos
00:51:07and I need to see
00:51:08the text messages
00:51:09and from there
00:51:10I can make a decision.
00:51:13Make a decision about what?
00:51:15If I can trust you,
00:51:18if I can believe you,
00:51:19if I want to continue,
00:51:21that's all I can say right now.
00:51:25This is going to ruin our night.
00:51:28I'm tired.
00:51:29I'm not going to get mad
00:51:32at you tonight.
00:51:33I just need to sleep.
00:51:34I'm just cuddling.
00:51:35Okay.
00:51:36Don't do all that now.
00:51:39It's not going to be
00:51:40like that tonight?
00:51:41I mean, I'm just,
00:51:42I'm not feeling it tonight.
00:51:46I came all the way
00:51:47to Belize
00:51:48and I was ready
00:51:48to start a family with him.
00:51:50And then he pulls back
00:51:52on the babies.
00:51:53He won't say he loves me.
00:51:55And hearing that he's
00:51:56possibly in another relationship,
00:51:58it's just crazy
00:51:59after everything
00:52:00I've put into
00:52:01this relationship.
00:52:03Don't forget today
00:52:04even happened,
00:52:05to be honest with you.
00:52:12Hey, we're here.
00:52:15I really hope
00:52:16that he's telling me
00:52:17the truth
00:52:17because I can't be
00:52:19with somebody
00:52:20who's been lying
00:52:21and cheating on me
00:52:21this whole time.
00:52:23This could really be
00:52:24the end
00:52:25for me and Stig.
00:52:34I'm going to Australia.
00:52:36Everything's great
00:52:37between Joshua and I,
00:52:39but I do have
00:52:39some worries about him.
00:52:41When you get there,
00:52:42are you guys staying
00:52:43in the same room?
00:52:43Yeah, hold on.
00:52:44Where are you staying?
00:52:45Okay, so he admitted to me
00:52:47that he lives
00:52:48with his parents.
00:52:50No!
00:52:56So, baby.
00:52:57Yes?
00:52:58There's some things
00:52:59I kind of want
00:53:00to talk to you about.
00:53:02Today, spending time alone
00:53:03with Sheena,
00:53:04it's been great.
00:53:09Okay.
00:53:10But it's been one
00:53:11heck of a curvy road
00:53:13being here
00:53:13in the Philippines.
00:53:15I love you, baby, man.
00:53:22time falls as moonshine
00:53:25lights our way
00:53:26and the beat of the waves.
00:53:29Sun-kissed skin
00:53:31still born from
00:53:32other day
00:53:33and the beat of the waves.
00:53:35Stella!
00:53:37Stella, where are you?
00:53:39Stella, do you want a treat?
00:53:41Come here.
00:53:43Treats?
00:53:44Come on.
00:53:45Treats?
00:53:45Come on.
00:53:46Come on.
00:53:53Stella, your mummy
00:53:54just got home
00:53:54from Grammy and Grampy's.
00:53:57It feels so good
00:53:58to be home.
00:53:58I'm happy
00:53:59I'm with my little kitty.
00:54:01You want some catnip?
00:54:03Come here, Stella.
00:54:04Come here.
00:54:05Stella, look.
00:54:07So, I was considered
00:54:09a crazy catwoman
00:54:10because I literally
00:54:10had three cats
00:54:11and a dog
00:54:12and then
00:54:13I don't know
00:54:14if I'm a crazy catwoman
00:54:15anymore
00:54:16because I only
00:54:17have two cats now.
00:54:19But Stella
00:54:20is pretty much
00:54:22my life.
00:54:24I hated cats.
00:54:26Cats were actually
00:54:27pretty disgusting to me.
00:54:28And when I was
00:54:29a young kid
00:54:29I got told
00:54:30I was really allergic
00:54:31to cats.
00:54:31Right, Stella?
00:54:33And then
00:54:33once I got Stella
00:54:35I became obsessed
00:54:36with cats.
00:54:41I love your breath.
00:54:44And if I kiss you
00:54:45too much
00:54:45you're going to
00:54:46yap at me.
00:54:50Yeah.
00:54:52You want another treat?
00:54:53One more treat?
00:54:54Oh, God.
00:54:55Did you fart, Stella?
00:54:57Ugh.
00:54:58Stella smells.
00:54:59I feel like she
00:55:00licked her butt
00:55:01and I just put my
00:55:02mouth in her butt.
00:55:04She
00:55:05it's when she's
00:55:06really excited
00:55:07actually.
00:55:07Is Stella a girl?
00:55:09Stella is a boy.
00:55:11Stella is transgender.
00:55:13Stella's all the sexes.
00:55:15I got Stella.
00:55:17I went to go get
00:55:18her spade
00:55:19and they're like
00:55:20hey, just to let you know
00:55:21your cat
00:55:22what?
00:55:23Yeah, she's
00:55:23um, she's a male.
00:55:25And I said
00:55:25you know what?
00:55:26My ex and I
00:55:27named her
00:55:29Stella
00:55:29and I'm keeping it.
00:55:31Stella has a penis
00:55:32but I call her a girl.
00:55:34She's gender confused.
00:55:35It's 2025.
00:55:36It's acceptable.
00:55:38Come on.
00:55:38Come to me here.
00:55:39Come on, Stella.
00:55:40Right here.
00:55:41Try and get off
00:55:41me here.
00:55:42Oh.
00:55:43You're not doing
00:55:44my tricks.
00:55:45Come on.
00:55:45Jump up a little.
00:55:46Jump up for mommy.
00:55:47Oh, that's my kitty.
00:55:50Stella's my life.
00:55:52Like if Stella
00:55:53can be in a man's body
00:55:54I would, you know
00:55:56date her.
00:55:58Date her.
00:56:01I know.
00:56:02It's confusing.
00:56:03I don't like women.
00:56:05I like men.
00:56:05I like penis too much
00:56:06actually.
00:56:19Mommy's going to go
00:56:19see her friends.
00:56:20Yeah, I'll be right back
00:56:21okay?
00:56:23Bye, Stella.
00:56:26Sort me out.
00:56:29I'm a bitch, man.
00:56:31I need a clue.
00:56:33I'm happy to be back
00:56:35in Miami after a few
00:56:36days with my parents
00:56:37but every time
00:56:38I see them
00:56:39it reminds me
00:56:40of how much
00:56:40I want what they have.
00:56:42Like I may seem
00:56:43like the crazy
00:56:44wild girl
00:56:45that like doesn't
00:56:46give a f***
00:56:46but like deep down
00:56:47I want love
00:56:49and I want to get married
00:56:50and I want children
00:56:51and I want like
00:56:52my husband to be
00:56:53my best friend
00:56:54in my forever.
00:56:56And even though
00:56:57we have never met
00:56:57in person
00:56:58I know Josh
00:56:59is just so
00:56:59f***ing amazing.
00:57:01He's sexy
00:57:02and he's hot
00:57:03and he's adventurous
00:57:04and he's active.
00:57:05Like I'm so infatuated.
00:57:08And I would literally
00:57:09be the happiest girl
00:57:10in the world
00:57:11if he was the one.
00:57:13Oh my God
00:57:14Josh would have
00:57:15just texted me right now.
00:57:16Hi babe
00:57:16how are you?
00:57:17XL.
00:57:18He just sent me
00:57:19a picture.
00:57:22He looks big
00:57:22his hands look big.
00:57:24Love a good big hand.
00:57:28Even though
00:57:29everything's great
00:57:30between Joshua and I
00:57:31I do have
00:57:32some worries
00:57:33about him.
00:57:35I held back
00:57:36some information
00:57:36with my parents
00:57:37about Joshua
00:57:38because they have
00:57:38enough on their plate
00:57:39I don't want to worry
00:57:40them.
00:57:41So I think
00:57:42meeting up
00:57:42with my girlfriends
00:57:43and I can get
00:57:44a different point
00:57:44of view
00:57:45and perspective
00:57:45and like
00:57:46kind of dig
00:57:47into the worries
00:57:47that I have.
00:57:50Look what the cats
00:57:51brought in!
00:57:52Hi!
00:57:54Oh my God.
00:57:55Hey girls,
00:57:56it's so tight.
00:57:57I miss you.
00:57:59Blonde.
00:58:00Hi.
00:58:01Look how blonde she is.
00:58:02Oh my God.
00:58:02Wait, come here.
00:58:03Let me give you a hug.
00:58:05You look so cute.
00:58:09Wait, are we drinking?
00:58:11Of course.
00:58:12We already had
00:58:12espresso martinis
00:58:13when we got here.
00:58:14That's pre-game
00:58:15you're getting here.
00:58:15Oh my God.
00:58:16So what's going on?
00:58:19I'm going to Australia.
00:58:22Oh.
00:58:23I'm doing it.
00:58:24I'm going.
00:58:25I can't believe
00:58:25you're going.
00:58:26I mean, listen,
00:58:27it's like the Miami men
00:58:28suck, we know.
00:58:29Yeah.
00:58:30And Josh is kind.
00:58:31He's super sweet.
00:58:33He's someone I typically
00:58:34wouldn't go for.
00:58:35Okay.
00:58:35He, he's not
00:58:37a typical Miami guy.
00:58:39Elise is one of the
00:58:40funniest, kindest
00:58:42people I know.
00:58:43And I also feel like
00:58:44she is a hopeless
00:58:45romantic.
00:58:46Elise gives these guys
00:58:48her whole heart
00:58:49and she gets nothing
00:58:51in return for it.
00:58:52So when Elise told us
00:58:55she was going to
00:58:55meet some guy in
00:58:56Australia, I gently
00:58:57thought, what the F?
00:58:59I thought you're
00:59:00insane and you're
00:59:02crazy.
00:59:02Yeah.
00:59:03So when you get
00:59:05there, are you guys
00:59:05staying in the same
00:59:06room?
00:59:07Is he getting you
00:59:07your own room?
00:59:08Yeah, hold on.
00:59:09Where are you staying?
00:59:10Okay, so I asked
00:59:12him when I got
00:59:12my plane ticket
00:59:13to send me
00:59:14his apartment
00:59:15and like video it.
00:59:16Yeah.
00:59:16Okay.
00:59:17Every single day
00:59:18I was asking him
00:59:18for him to send
00:59:19me the video.
00:59:20And then he admitted
00:59:21he admitted to me
00:59:22that he lives
00:59:22with his parents.
00:59:24No!
00:59:26So I don't think
00:59:27he has much money.
00:59:29I was like, so Joshua,
00:59:31like I'm going to come
00:59:32and I'm going to live
00:59:32with your parents?
00:59:35He's like, no,
00:59:36I will get a rental
00:59:37and split it with a roommate
00:59:39because he can't afford
00:59:40a rental by himself.
00:59:42Okay.
00:59:43We...
00:59:46Listen,
00:59:47the money situation
00:59:48is not the big thing.
00:59:50I can work with a guy
00:59:51that doesn't have money.
00:59:53But here's the thing
00:59:54about Josh.
00:59:56He makes me feel special
00:59:57and he makes me
00:59:58feel important.
00:59:59I'd much rather a guy
01:00:01with not that much money
01:00:02that gives me
01:00:03emotional love
01:00:04than a guy that just spends.
01:00:06I've had every single man
01:00:08spend everything on me
01:00:09with no emotional love.
01:00:12I think it's a good thing
01:00:13that he is more caring,
01:00:15more kind
01:00:16because she's looking
01:00:17for something different.
01:00:18She's looking
01:00:18for a genuine connection.
01:00:21But no girl and man
01:00:22at 39 should be living
01:00:24with no roommate.
01:00:25That's crazy.
01:00:26Or with the parents.
01:00:27I mean, living with his parents
01:00:27is crazy.
01:00:29We sound like another
01:00:30Miami pack of girls,
01:00:32but finances are important.
01:00:33They provide safety.
01:00:34They provide stability.
01:00:35Food on the table.
01:00:36You have a house.
01:00:37You like,
01:00:38the bills are being paid.
01:00:39Exactly.
01:00:40I am concerned
01:00:42as your friend
01:00:44like I'm wearing red.
01:00:45Like I feel the red flags
01:00:46everywhere.
01:00:47Right.
01:00:48But every single time
01:00:49I talk to him on the phone,
01:00:50I get off feeling
01:00:51so energized
01:00:52and so cared about
01:00:54and so giddy.
01:00:56I am going to Australia
01:00:58because I truly believe
01:01:00that he could be
01:01:01my future husband.
01:01:02But Joshua sent me
01:01:04a text last night
01:01:05that was super alarming
01:01:07and it kind of threw me off.
01:01:10I'm almost embarrassed
01:01:11to even tell anyone about it.
01:01:12And if I tell my girlfriends
01:01:14about this,
01:01:15they would probably tell me
01:01:17not to go
01:01:17and that's the last thing
01:01:19I want.
01:01:20I'm hoping to get down there
01:01:21and figure this all out
01:01:22because I want this
01:01:24so badly to work out.
01:01:34I was wondering
01:01:35if you wanted
01:01:35to take a gondola ride
01:01:36with me.
01:01:37Oh, really?
01:01:37That's right here.
01:01:38It would be it.
01:01:40Ciao.
01:01:41Oh.
01:01:42Ciao, gracias.
01:01:43Ciao, senore.
01:01:44Buongiorno.
01:01:44Oh, thank you.
01:01:46Gracias.
01:01:46Gracias.
01:01:47Hiya.
01:01:48Oh, wow.
01:01:48Oh, my gosh.
01:01:53Here we go, baby.
01:01:54Woo!
01:01:56I wonder how much
01:01:57chlorine that takes.
01:01:58Okay.
01:02:05This is so beautiful, honey.
01:02:07Yeah.
01:02:08I miss being
01:02:09in my night outfit.
01:02:10Really?
01:02:11Yeah.
01:02:11I know what you're thinking, huh?
01:02:14Always.
01:02:15You're thinking
01:02:15of fun, sexy stuff.
01:02:17No, you're not
01:02:17doing that, not me.
01:02:19Oh, no.
01:02:20It sounds like
01:02:20you're thinking about that.
01:02:20No, you're the one
01:02:21doing that thing.
01:02:22I think I know
01:02:23some of your secrets
01:02:24are coming out.
01:02:25No, I know.
01:02:25I'm not.
01:02:28Today, spending time
01:02:29alone with Sheena,
01:02:30it's been great
01:02:32to just spend time
01:02:33together and finally
01:02:36get to talk to each other
01:02:37and really put
01:02:38everything out.
01:02:41I hope
01:02:42with my love
01:02:43and support,
01:02:44Sheena will come
01:02:45to understand
01:02:46that she doesn't
01:02:46need to lie
01:02:47anymore.
01:02:49She can
01:02:50move forward
01:02:51and tell me
01:02:52stuff from now
01:02:53on instead
01:02:55of just leaving
01:02:55me in the dark.
01:02:57That's a nice
01:02:58place to visit.
01:03:00I wish I knew
01:03:00some Italian songs
01:03:01so I could sing
01:03:02them to you.
01:03:09Come on, Jean,
01:03:10give me a...
01:03:25I love you,
01:03:28I love you,
01:03:29I love baby beer.
01:03:34that's so sweet you're so sweet you taste like toothpaste
01:03:41with a girl i didn't know it's been one heck of a curvy road being here in the philippines
01:03:47ever since i got here but one thing that's been consistent the entire time is how i feel with
01:03:52a machine of one-on-one okay guys grab me yeah thank you thank you when you take away all
01:04:01the
01:04:02distractions and everybody else's opinions what's left is a love that i've never ever felt before
01:04:10so that's so much fun it feels great to finally have someone who accepts my course and oddities
01:04:18100 and that's what i love about her look at the beautiful flowers oh that's cool there's a lot
01:04:29of busteria wow this place is so beautiful i love it oh actually it's like fast exciting but it's okay
01:04:40so baby yes there's some things i kind of want to talk to you about
01:04:47well over the last seven years i've been wanting to come here and be with you and
01:04:53get to you know see you and i know that we've had some ups and downs since i've gotten here
01:05:01but i think it's only going to make us stronger
01:05:14okay yeah but sheena thank you for being in my life let's continue to be in each other's lives from
01:05:24now on so here we are two kindred songs if you would do me the honor oh my god
01:05:32will you please marry me these are the moments that make up our lives
01:05:38oh my god i love you baby i love you baby i love you baby yes i do
01:05:53okay give me your finger is it right this is the right thing and six years now i had this
01:06:00ring
01:06:02thank you my love it's so beautiful
01:06:08i i want i wanted to be with you for the rest of my life thank you my love
01:06:35thank you for staying with me all this time i'm sorry i didn't come sooner
01:06:47i've never felt super happy in my life and this is the best day of life ever
01:06:55i can't even think straight you know to think that i finally got the woman of my dreams after seven
01:07:00years
01:07:02just keep following your dreams everybody and you will get what what you need you'll get there
01:07:11i love you baby
01:07:20i'm super happy and super satisfied with how everything went
01:07:25any nerves about telling your family for us
01:07:28sort of yeah but i'm gonna tell my mom that it's the right time it's the right time and i've
01:07:35been waiting
01:07:36for the show yeah and we've been waiting for this the entire time and
01:07:39it was our decision welcome to the tunnel of love that's amazing you know what's something
01:07:46funny about this tunnel of love wow it may be hot outside but after we entered here
01:07:51i think it got a little hotter
01:07:55i think it got a little hotter
01:07:57i love you my love i love you machine
01:08:03are you sure you are going to take good care of him
01:08:06yes my king
01:08:08i don't think so
01:08:09you don't think so
01:08:11no no no no no no no no why are you laughing do you see me laugh i get to
01:08:17go and sit down
01:08:20i can't spend that so now i'm worried because if the king would hold his blessing i don't know what
01:08:27i
01:08:35will do
01:08:36okay
01:08:38the ancestor has spoken
01:08:43lisa yes proceed forward
01:08:54this is a miracle
01:09:06uh-huh
01:09:13are you sure you are going to take good care of him
01:09:18yes my king
01:09:20are you sure yes
01:09:24i don't think so
01:09:27you don't think so
01:09:28no no no no no no
01:09:29why are you laughing
01:09:33do you see me laugh
01:09:37no my king
01:09:44i get to go and sit down
01:09:49i just spent that
01:09:53laughing in the in the presence of a king
01:09:55it means that you think the king is talking trash
01:09:58telling lies
01:10:00he's very disrespectful to the king
01:10:02and to his palace
01:10:04so now i'm worried because if the king would hold his blessing i don't know what i would do
01:10:12who are you laughing at you are laughing at me
01:10:18no my king
01:10:20i'm laughing because i'm nervous
01:10:22i have a nervous laugh
01:10:25you have a nervous laugh
01:10:30i'd either laugh or cry
01:10:32your husband did not tell you
01:10:37um
01:10:39may you leave my change
01:10:42she's the wife i want to marry
01:10:45and she has been nervous
01:10:48okay
01:10:49she has been trying to know most of our tradition
01:10:53she's trying her best
01:10:58good
01:11:00yes
01:11:00say that
01:11:01i have come
01:11:10come my daughter
01:11:13don't laugh again
01:11:14come my daughter
01:11:15uh-huh
01:11:20you don't laugh before a traditional majesty like me
01:11:25huh
01:11:25yes
01:11:26unless i laugh
01:11:27yes
01:11:28unless i laugh
01:11:30or you laugh now
01:11:36laugh laugh laugh
01:11:37yeah i tell you to laugh now
01:11:39okay
01:11:40okay
01:11:42come my brother
01:11:43come and hold your wife
01:11:48so
01:11:50our ancestors accept you
01:11:55it shall be well with you people
01:11:59god will bless you people
01:12:01god will make this union to be fruitful
01:12:04god will give you people happy home
01:12:06i bless you in a marriage
01:12:09i say it shall be well with you people in a case
01:12:12you look like
01:12:13you look like
01:12:13no
01:12:15i say this so you know
01:12:16it will work well
01:12:23enjoy your wife
01:12:24wife enjoy your husband
01:12:27uh-huh
01:12:28uh-huh
01:12:30i wasn't sure i was gonna get the blessing
01:12:32i was on pins and needles
01:12:33but when the king says we are blessed
01:12:37whew
01:12:38it's a relief
01:12:40lisa
01:12:42you are now one of us
01:12:44my final thought
01:12:45which is very very very important thing
01:12:50i want to see how our waifu dance
01:12:55dance
01:12:55dance anyhow you know how to dance
01:12:57you must dance with me
01:13:03i made it
01:13:04there's nothing more ultimate than a blessing from the king
01:13:07so that we can get married
01:13:11but at this moment
01:13:13i'm still married to a woman
01:13:17and he doesn't know
01:13:20i've held on to these secrets so long
01:13:22it's weighing on me heavily
01:13:25i have to tell him soon
01:13:26and i'm hoping that he can understand
01:13:29and accept me for who i am
01:13:31and what my past is
01:13:34i'm hoping we live happily ever after
01:13:36i want this so bad
01:13:38our waifu
01:13:39got him down
01:13:39the very way
01:13:47siad
01:13:47you gonna talk to me now
01:13:49you just waste your time
01:13:51siad you're an asshole
01:13:53you want to act like you're perfect
01:13:54you want to put on this whole front
01:13:56like you're this great guy
01:13:57but you're a liar
01:13:58do you want to tell everyone
01:13:59how we had sex
01:14:02goodbye guys
01:14:04it's the end
01:14:15i can't i can't
01:14:18i can't
01:14:20i can't
01:14:33i can't
01:14:46I'm really upset right now.
01:14:48I thought we'd at least be able to, like, talk about what happened.
01:14:55And I didn't think he was going to break up with me.
01:15:01I just feel like he took any excuse and any reason
01:15:04to just end all of this and walk away.
01:15:06And I think he was just waiting for a reason to walk away.
01:15:12What are you thinking about right now?
01:15:15Me, I'm not someone to be in a cage.
01:15:21I want just to go.
01:15:23That's all.
01:15:30I'm so mad because she lied for everything.
01:15:34So maybe tomorrow she's going to tell me another story.
01:15:37So I can't give her another chance.
01:15:41I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
01:15:50All what I want right now is to leave everything about her
01:15:53and forget her name, too.
01:16:16Where is he going?
01:16:20Are you going to talk to me now?
01:16:25I'm waiting for someone to pick me to go home, so...
01:16:30So you're not staying here tonight?
01:16:31No.
01:16:34You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
01:16:37You can't enjoy it with the view.
01:16:41So what about the two weeks that I'm here?
01:16:44You can't wait now, call the gay, and you can come.
01:16:49See, you're an asshole.
01:16:51And you're a liar.
01:16:52How about that?
01:16:53How about you're a liar?
01:16:54Do you want to tell everyone how we had sex?
01:16:56Do you want to tell them that?
01:16:59You want to act like you're perfect.
01:17:01You want to put on this whole front, like you're this great guy.
01:17:04But you're a liar.
01:17:05Okay, say anything you want.
01:17:07Okay, so did that not happen?
01:17:08Did we not have sex?
01:17:11Did we not have sex?
01:17:12Did we not have sex?
01:17:14Did we not have sex?
01:17:15Because we did.
01:17:16It's okay.
01:17:17For me, it's the end.
01:17:28All right, guys.
01:17:28Go.
01:17:40Like, when I didn't even do anything.
01:17:42Like, that was before we were in a relationship,
01:17:44and he's done so much to me since I've been his girlfriend.
01:17:48And I, like, accepted it because I loved him.
01:17:56I just feel like I wasted my time again,
01:17:59and I did all of this to try to be with someone,
01:18:02and, like, I get broken up with again.
01:18:09And now I'm single and alone, and he gets to just go home.
01:18:15Yeah, he left me in the desert in the middle of nowhere.
01:18:31I just don't understand.
01:18:32Like, it's like I try so hard to, like, find love
01:18:39and to, like, make it work, and it just never,
01:18:42it never happens for me.
01:18:43Like, it never does.
01:18:45And I always get laughed.
01:18:46I always get dumped.
01:18:47It's always me.
01:18:51And it's, like, that's the only thing I want.
01:18:53Like, all I want is to find love and, like, get married.
01:18:57And it just never, it never happens for me.
01:19:00Mm-hmm.
01:19:10Uh-huh.
01:19:14Huh?
01:19:19Uh-huh.
01:19:22Uh-huh.
01:19:24He!
01:19:26Uh-huh!
01:19:26Ah!
01:19:32I have a feeling that my mom's didn't have a lot of questions for us.
01:19:37It just felt right to kind of propose to Sheena.
01:19:43You guys happy?
01:19:45Oh, yeah, I'm ecstatic.
01:19:49What the f***, Forrest?
01:20:02What you do to me, I could write a book or a screen.
01:20:08Ripples run around your path, back to where you started.
01:20:19Hey, crazy, let's get in there.
01:20:22Go.
01:20:29Oh, yeah, I'm the happiest bear ever.
01:20:31Yeah, I'm the happiest bear.
01:20:32We're bears in love.
01:20:34Yeah, for life.
01:20:35For life.
01:20:40I just proposed to Sheena and she said yes.
01:20:43So now we're heading back to tell mom and Dev my world is just amazing, just filled with
01:20:53so much light and so much happiness.
01:20:56No, I can't be.
01:20:57I felt like I don't want to sleep after everything would happen.
01:21:00You're not going to sleep tonight, huh?
01:21:02No, I'm just happy.
01:21:03I hope I get some sleep tonight.
01:21:04Yeah.
01:21:06I'm going to be sitting there and you're going to attack me.
01:21:08Oh, no, I'm not going to attack you.
01:21:10You crazy.
01:21:13Sheena and I have been talking for a while about when would be the perfect time to have
01:21:18sex and now knowing that we are going to be committed to each other 100 percent, we're
01:21:23both afraid to let out that sexual tension and maybe even get a little bit freaky.
01:21:29Don't worry, I told you, I'm going to get you some dog chains, some dog collar and some
01:21:34dog balls you want.
01:21:36Well, you are a vet and I know that you're well supplied.
01:21:39Don't worry, this is free when I'm the vet around.
01:21:43You can borrow that from the candy.
01:21:44Oh, my gosh.
01:21:46I'm happy you said yes.
01:21:48Of course.
01:21:49Yeah.
01:21:50One in a million yes to the most wonderful bearded I ever had in my life.
01:21:55I feel a lot of weight off my shoulders.
01:21:57Me too.
01:21:59But I have a feeling that my mom's going to have a lot of questions for us.
01:22:06But I'm ready to take the jump with you.
01:22:10Even if she has doubts, I'm pretty sure my mom's going to be happy for us.
01:22:16At least I'm hoping she's going to be.
01:22:21I just got a text from my mom.
01:22:23She's down by the pool.
01:22:24Okay, my love.
01:22:25Let's go.
01:22:31Baby, just breathe.
01:22:32Yes.
01:22:33Everything's going to be at peace.
01:22:36Hey, guys.
01:22:38Hey, Mom.
01:22:40Did you have fun?
01:22:42Oh, yeah.
01:22:43We went to the Gondola Mall.
01:22:45We got there.
01:22:46Oh, really?
01:22:47Yeah.
01:22:47We walked around.
01:22:49Did you ride the little boat thingy-mabobber?
01:22:51No, of course we did.
01:22:52Oh, how nice.
01:22:53Yeah, I figured.
01:22:54Yeah, we got there and it was fun.
01:22:56It was pretty cool.
01:22:58All right.
01:22:59Yeah.
01:22:59Then we just walked around.
01:23:01We looked at a few stores.
01:23:02And then we came to a little point with tons of nice little flowers and lights and just a whole
01:23:10lot of people.
01:23:12And it just felt, you know, like the right place to, you know, kind of propose to Sheena.
01:23:27And she said yes.
01:23:40You guys happy?
01:23:45Oh, yeah.
01:23:46I'm ecstatic, Forrest.
01:23:51I asked you to hold off and wait so she could prove herself.
01:23:55And then you just go walk up and pull this little sneak.
01:23:59If you are not going to be willing to listen, what the am I doing sitting over here in this
01:24:06country then, Forrest?
01:24:10I think you're just being a stubborn ass and you just don't want to accept our happiness.
01:24:17Excuse me?
01:24:21Don't be shaking your head and agreeing when you weren't there.
01:24:24I agree because this is why we talk as couples.
01:24:26We work, we talk about this.
01:24:30And this is our decision.
01:24:31Then don't answer for him if you weren't in his head and you weren't there at the time when he
01:24:36decided to do it.
01:24:36And I would decide for what we want to do.
01:24:40Hey, Mom.
01:24:41Do you think maybe it would have been nice if he would have included us?
01:24:44Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
01:24:48Mmm.
01:24:50Oh, jeez, Forrest.
01:24:51Your life.
01:24:53It's over.
01:24:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:25:02I'll give you one free shot.
01:25:06Trish is very hard to read.
01:25:08I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
01:25:12If the one you pick win, we do have sex tonight.
01:25:16So pick the good one.
01:25:18Oh, no, no, no.
01:25:20Hey, referee.
01:25:21All right.
01:25:23Go, go, go.
01:25:25Senior Australian, coming for you.
01:25:29I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend after talking for six months.
01:25:33Elise is beautiful.
01:25:34But at the same time, she's very fiery.
01:25:37I'm nervous.
01:25:38Very nervous.
01:25:39How do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
01:25:42Do you think American girls are more jealous?
01:25:44I don't know.
01:25:44If she has a problem, then definitely not.
01:25:48The girl in the photo, she's my friend.
01:25:51And do we know if this is still going on currently?
01:25:57Are we actually calling?
01:25:59Oh, you're going to...
01:26:00Oh, ****.
01:26:01Get your question ready.
01:26:03Hello.
01:26:05Why didn't you make her prove herself before you proposed?
01:26:09When she starts to lie, it's because she has traumatic experiences.
01:26:15Everybody's got stress in their life.
01:26:17And then to say, I'm under stress, so I'm going to lie.
01:26:20And you're going to accept her?
01:26:22Just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying.
01:26:25Of course, you're more bull**** than a Christmas goose.
01:26:29I really want to tell you something.
01:26:34Um, I've been married five times.
01:26:37Five times?
01:26:38And I filled out the divorce papers.
01:26:41But I am still married.
01:26:45I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:26:48Someone...
01:26:48I'm sorry.
01:26:49I came here to tell you the truth.
01:26:52To tell you everything.
01:26:53I want you to go home, please.
01:26:56She called me a liar.
01:26:58She called me a scammer.
01:26:59What?
01:27:00She's the real scammer.
01:27:01She's the real scammer.
01:27:02To us...
01:27:02She's the real scammer.
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