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00:28...posteriormente...
00:31porque tenemos que llevarlo a la vuelta.
00:33Bueno, ¿qué tal si nos vamos a hacer?
00:39Tú eres el manager, ¿verdad?
00:40Sí, pero tú no tienes que ir a la línea.
00:41¿No?
00:42¿No?
00:42¿Tenía que ir a la fiesta?
00:44¿Qué?
00:48¿Qué?
00:50¿Qué?
00:58¿Qué?
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05:41¡No, no, no, no!
05:44¡No, no, no!
05:49I did invite him to stop by Taste, and after the event is over, he and I will go to
05:56dinner.
05:56Come on down.
05:57Hello.
05:58Hi.
05:59Hi.
06:00How y'all doing?
06:03Come on down.
06:05Once that car pulls off, you just pull up and get your box, okay?
06:07How you doing?
06:08How are you?
06:10The back seat open.
06:11We're going to drive it up.
06:12We're going to put it on the back.
06:13How's your dad doing now that a few days have passed since the initial phone call where
06:18you found out?
06:18Yeah.
06:19I'm responsive.
06:20Yeah.
06:22My dad is doing much better.
06:26Latrice has called every single day, multiple times a day.
06:33Latrice has definitely been here for me, and I am here for her today.
06:39You have a great weekend.
06:41Bye, baby.
06:43Bye.
06:44I think that's it.
06:54This event went absolutely amazing.
06:57I feel like it hit every goal that I was trying to achieve when it comes to the community.
07:06Hey, ladies!
07:08Look, we're going to get you the last, we're going to get you the last circuit away.
07:11Don't y'all do me.
07:14I'm coming to drop food off.
07:15I'll pick up food.
07:17All my sweet grandboys had their first basketball games.
07:22I'm late.
07:23But rather late than never, I'm here.
07:26Latrice, are you here at the taste?
07:29You're here at the taste, because I told you, girl.
07:31What did I miss?
07:33Me and Latrice, actually, she took me out to eat.
07:36What?
07:37We're grateful, y'all.
07:38And this is an example of Tambra, and I hate Carrie.
07:42Carrie's not here.
07:43She texted me and said that she had to go to Atlanta for, I forgot what it was for.
07:47Okay, so like I said, you stay out of people's business, because people make up.
07:53Well, of course, it's bigger than us.
07:54It's bigger than me and Latrice had going on.
07:58It's for the collective.
07:59We're going to do something.
08:00We'll tell you guys later the details.
08:02Me and Latrice are going to put something together.
08:04But at the end of the day, we have to bring this back and remember why we started.
08:08So it's really a real-life reset.
08:10And we're burying our differences, so dress like it's a funeral.
08:16What?
08:17I done been to enough funerals in my life, and I am not trying to go to another one here
08:23in the collective.
08:24Who are we burying?
08:25I damn sure hope they're not trying to bury me.
08:36I have to go.
08:37I got to get back.
08:39Thank you.
08:42Thank you.
08:43We appreciate you all there.
08:44No, thank you.
08:45Absolutely.
08:45When you need those, you'll let us know whoop.
08:48Thank you.
08:48Bye, baby.
08:49Bye, baby.
08:50I love y'all.
08:54I love y'all.
09:08I'm glad you came today.
09:10Thank you for inviting me.
09:11I appreciate it.
09:12What's up?
09:13Hey.
09:15How you doing?
09:16Hey, hey, hey.
09:17I'm good.
09:17How you doing?
09:20It's feel weird, but what up, what up?
09:23What's up, man?
09:24You all right?
09:24Yeah, I'm good, baby.
09:25I'm good.
09:25All right.
09:27Sorry, Oli.
09:31Here we are.
09:35Coming up on Bell Collective.
09:38I want to know what's going on between you and Cedric.
09:42I'm not going back this time.
09:44Are you for real?
09:46You said that last time.
09:47You went right on back.
09:49Why are you stuck, Tisha?
09:51There's no need for you to be stuck.
09:52Because I'm not thinking about you.
09:53Because you shouldn't have came.
09:56I'm like, oh, my gosh.
09:57You're thinking about your brain.
09:57I have a huge opportunity coming down with a clown.
10:00I understand, but you see how your mind immediately
10:02went to what you love.
10:04I'm not a rumor person, but somebody
10:07had said something about a baby in life.
10:14Here we are.
10:16We finally got here.
10:18I mean, yeah.
10:23I want them to talk one-on-one.
10:26Oh, OK.
10:27We'll just step down.
10:28Just like how me and Tisha talked one-on-one.
10:30Is that cool?
10:30Yeah.
10:31So y'all had a conversation.
10:32I'm sure y'all will enjoy this moment.
10:34Oh, wait.
10:34You didn't tell him about the conversation.
10:37To be honest, I'm looking forward
10:38to having this conversation with Glenn tonight.
10:41I need Glenn to understand that my brand is my brand
10:44and my marriage is my marriage.
10:46But I'm also dreading it because I know
10:48how Glenn can be when it's time to have serious conversations.
10:52I've been wanting to have this conversation for a minute.
10:54I just didn't know how to present it because I had a lot of mixed emotions going on.
11:00I'm not going to lie.
11:00I looked up to you, and I still do.
11:02The only thing I was really wanting from you was you to be vocal like you always are.
11:07Like, you're usually a very outspoken person.
11:09When that situation happened with Amanda, you said me and my wife were trying to break up your marriage.
11:17Do you blame Latrice and Cliff for this?
11:19Um, to an extent.
11:22Glendale.
11:23That hurt me.
11:24You know what I'm saying?
11:24Yeah.
11:25Yeah, we were tight.
11:26Like, you called me, I leave your nephew.
11:28But when you did that, it took a lot from me.
11:30Like, I told her why she didn't want me to talk to you, period.
11:32I got to get some rest and sleep.
11:34I get it.
11:35I'm not trying to cause any commotion.
11:36I brought you guys something to drink.
11:39What?
11:39That's nice.
11:40Let's switch drinks.
11:44You can give it back.
11:45You can give it back.
11:47Yeah, I'm trying to s*** to retreat.
11:49Yeah.
11:51Just want to make sure.
11:52You know what I mean?
11:53Never could be too careful.
11:56Your husband talking about some, um, let's switch drinks.
11:59Like, I don't pour up to him.
12:00That's what he's saying.
12:01Yes.
12:02I can't die with Glendale.
12:03What's the energy like with them?
12:05Well, they are laughing.
12:07Oh, they laughing?
12:09I can bet you anything.
12:11They had two minutes of just serious conversation.
12:14Yeah.
12:14And the rest was laughter, back to normal, like nothing happened.
12:19And you had to give him permission, like, to even talk to Glendale.
12:22Yes, I did.
12:24You know, of course, that goes back to everything that went on.
12:27Yeah.
12:27And, you know, so it's like, I mean, since you're not talking to you.
12:30You ain't him, okay.
12:31You ain't not talking to Glendale.
12:32But what?
12:33What is that conversation going to be like?
12:35Yeah, what are y'all talking about?
12:36Exactly.
12:36Yeah, so we can't talk about what they talking about.
12:38Exactly.
12:39So just don't talk.
12:39So no, don't talk at all.
12:41Yeah.
12:44So I need your honest opinion, like, for real, like, about this meeting we're going to have
12:50with the collective.
12:51Like, what do you think?
12:53So, like, for me, I think trust needs to be built.
12:58Okay.
12:59Because I want me and you going in with, like, the same page.
13:02This event can be beneficial to the collective because, for one, it's bringing us all together
13:08to discuss any issues, any problems that we may have with one another.
13:13I feel like if you put anything out on the table, let's put it out there and get past it.
13:18I'm way in Colonia, 2,000 miles away.
13:21I get a crazy phone call.
13:23She going the hell off about the shit that happened at that other.
13:27Selena and Mike party.
13:31Hey, don't walk up on my wife, dude.
13:34We good.
13:35Yo, I was pissed about that.
13:37But I was saying...
13:37You pissed at me?
13:38She said that you got all up in her face.
13:40I don't know if it's true or not.
13:41What I done, I protected my wife.
13:43You do this, T.
13:45You have a brand.
13:46Look at me, calm down.
13:48They were surrounded by my wife, man.
13:49I'm just out there making sure that she's good.
13:52You know what I mean?
13:53I understand you got to protect your wife.
13:55Right.
13:55As far as me getting on the tree's face, no, I never got on the tree's face.
13:59I wouldn't do that.
14:00I'm not that type of guy.
14:02Glenn is on a better term now.
14:04Glenn knew I was a true friend to him.
14:06I think he understand.
14:08Glenn got to take responsibility with what Glenn do and quit putting it on with friends.
14:11You won't have no friends.
14:12Lately, man, everywhere I show up, it's chaos.
14:15She had a photo shoot, and I popped up supporting her, right?
14:21And her boundary got sideways with me.
14:23You know, started talking crazy.
14:25Me and him had words, and my wife, she didn't come to my defense.
14:30Is the manager gay?
14:31Nah.
14:32I don't know.
14:33He called me sexual with chocolate.
14:34I'm not worried about her working with him.
14:36You need a picture, man?
14:37You can take it with you.
14:39It's something.
14:40Sex and chocolate.
14:42Keep playing with me.
14:45He did call me sexual with chocolate.
14:47It's weird.
14:48I've never been called sexual with chocolate in the middle of an argument.
14:50Why would he call you sexual with chocolate?
14:52That's some of the weirdest I've ever seen.
14:54Clip, I don't know.
14:55Your pants must be too tight.
14:56Hell, nah, my pants ain't tight.
14:58Yeah, you been to leave that alone.
14:59Right?
14:59I don't know.
15:03Coming up on Bell Collective.
15:05I'm so sorry that I want to elevate.
15:09I'm so sorry that I don't bow down to your ass no more.
15:12I'm so sorry for wanting to become what God wants me to be.
15:17I want, want, want what I want in this you cute, cute that I want.
15:23I want, want, want what I want in this you cute, cute that I want.
15:28I want another cute.
15:28I want, want, want what I want in this you cute, cute that I want.
15:34I want, want, want what I want in this you cute, cute that I want.
15:39I want another cute.
15:41Gracias.
15:42Gracias.
15:43Amber is my bonus daughter.
15:45She's been in my life since she was 11 months old.
15:49Hey.
15:50Hi, Hope.
15:50How are you?
15:51Oh.
15:52It's good to see you again.
15:55Amber is home for the holidays.
15:57She enjoys drawing and painting.
16:00So Hope Studio is the perfect place to spend time with Amber
16:04and catch up.
16:05Right.
16:06Y'all ready to get started?
16:07Yes, ma'am.
16:08Amber is a huge part of my life.
16:11When Cedric and I split up, she continued to come and visit,
16:15talk to her often.
16:16So nothing changed.
16:18So how's everything been?
16:21So where do I start?
16:23I want to know what's going on between you and Cedric,
16:27Mr. Cedric.
16:28Your father.
16:30My father.
16:31I'm not talking to him.
16:32I'm not dealing with him.
16:33I feel betrayed.
16:35Like, I didn't see it coming.
16:37I did.
16:38You did?
16:39Man, I saw that.
16:40Man, look.
16:41It's a pattern with you and my dad.
16:44He'll lure you in some type of way.
16:46He'll get you back.
16:48And then y'all be back.
16:49Y'all be together for a little cool minute.
16:51Y'all love.
16:52I think my dad is a good father.
16:55But I feel like y'all just better apart.
16:58Y'all need to be separated.
16:59That's true.
17:01I am not surprised because when I left Cedric before,
17:07Amber inspired me to do so.
17:09She was like, Mama Marie, like, you gotta leave my dad.
17:12Like, you deserve so much better.
17:14So I've heard those words before.
17:16She's right.
17:16We are better off apart.
17:19He's not capable of loving me the way that I deserve.
17:23Why do you keep going back?
17:25Because it's familiar.
17:27I keep going back to what's familiar.
17:30So I'm, you know, I'm not going back this time.
17:35Are you for real?
17:37Because you said that last time.
17:40You said that last time.
17:41You went right on back.
17:43I know, Amber.
17:44I know.
17:45But I mean it this time.
17:46I am not getting back with your father.
17:49She's a straight shooter.
17:50You know, she don't sugarcoat.
17:53So are you thinking about dating somebody else?
17:55I'm outside.
17:56I'm ready for the next catch.
17:58I'm ready for my person.
17:59You ready for the next catch?
18:00I'm ready for my person.
18:02Look, in this season of my life, I'm not putting my life on hold.
18:05Right.
18:06I'm living my life unapologetically.
18:08So are you talking to somebody right now?
18:11Not yet.
18:12But I am on the dating apps.
18:16On a dating app, you getting the leftovers.
18:18You getting the men.
18:19Yeah, you getting the leftovers.
18:21You getting the men that don't want to go outside and meet a quality woman.
18:26Go to the country club.
18:27Go golfing.
18:28Go to charity events.
18:30Like that's where the high quality men are, baby.
18:32If you on a dating app, you just going to meet a man that's playing his video games
18:35and eating chips all day.
18:38I didn't look at it like that.
18:39Mm-hmm.
18:40That's the leftovers.
18:41That's what's left.
18:44Amber, you know what?
18:45You're right.
18:46Most men on there just got a divorce.
18:50Or they could potentially still be married.
18:52Hell, I don't know.
18:53I need to come off the dating app.
18:55Off of it.
18:56Throw that stuff away.
18:57Go to the country club in Madison.
19:00If you put on that red lipstick and put on that little bodysuit or your little dress,
19:04oh, you going to meet you a man.
19:05I promise you that.
19:06My baby to school me.
19:08Mm-hmm.
19:10Hey.
19:11Yeah.
19:12Yeah.
19:13Yeah.
19:14Hey.
19:14Yeah.
19:15I've been balling, balling, second grade.
19:17Always been a boss, throwing money, money like Renee.
19:19We never needed a man to hold me down, bro.
19:22Self-made.
19:23I'm party for two, please.
19:25Can we have a patio?
19:26I'm meeting Glenn at Zia Restaurant.
19:29And even though we were at Taste Together at the community event, we did not drive together.
19:36I'm super happy that him and Cliff had their, you know, their little private conversation.
19:40But we still have things to talk about and everything that transpired at my photo shoot.
19:45You gon' tell me that you love men.
19:48Uh.
19:48Turn around and stick a knife in men.
19:55Thank you.
19:56Hi.
19:57Hey.
19:58How are you?
20:00I'm happy that I'm having dinner with my wife.
20:03But at the same time, I'm kind of dreading what she's going to say.
20:06Especially after what happened with her manager and I.
20:09So let's just see where this goes.
20:12I'm hoping for the best.
20:13How you we been?
20:14It's been, it's been interesting.
20:17Of course, coming off of the photo shoot.
20:20You need to go take a seat and take the video out there.
20:22I ain't taking a seat.
20:24Come on.
20:25Go sit your big ass down.
20:27Like, that was a whole lot.
20:29And.
20:30You need to learn how to control your people.
20:32I need to learn?
20:33No, what I'm saying, speaking of that, we just gotta help.
20:36You need to fire him immediately.
20:38Now you see why I said that it's important to keep stuff separate.
20:42I will say this.
20:45First was absolutely wrong.
20:47Like, wrong for antagonizing you.
20:50So I decided he don't have to take a leave of absence.
20:54Because regardless.
20:55No, I'm being for real.
20:56A leave of absence.
20:59First being on a leave of absence to me is a paid vacation.
21:02Because he's a manager.
21:03He's still getting a percent.
21:04And he ain't even working for it.
21:05So he should be fired.
21:07If anybody disrespected my wife like that, they would have been fired immediately.
21:11It seems like everybody in your camp want to label me the bad guy so bad.
21:15They want me to be so wrong.
21:17Even Shantae.
21:19When I'm not the one that initiated anything, nobody had my back.
21:25Nobody defends, Glenn.
21:26And everybody wonder why I'm on the defense.
21:29I'm not looking for you to have my back.
21:31But a damn show would have been nice for somebody to say, damn, first you wrong for that girl.
21:35And I'm saying that.
21:36You should have put Shantae in her place.
21:38Glenn, I'm stuck.
21:39First in her.
21:40Why are you stuck, Tisha?
21:41There's no need for you to be stuck.
21:43Because I'm not thinking about you.
21:44I'm not thinking about Shantae.
21:45I'm thinking about first.
21:45You're thinking about your business.
21:46I'm like, oh my God.
21:47You're thinking about your brand.
21:48I have a huge opportunity coming down with a big brand manager.
21:53And I'm like, oh Lord, I don't want you to think that I can't.
21:56Because I got these damn clowns.
21:58But you see how your mind immediately went to what you love.
22:02Because you shouldn't have came.
22:04Oh my God.
22:04You shouldn't have came without talking to me.
22:06You shouldn't have said to me.
22:07He shouldn't have.
22:08He shouldn't have.
22:10That's why I don't put you in positions like that.
22:12But you still want to pop up.
22:13All right, man.
22:14He shouldn't have said anything to you.
22:15Like ain't nobody going to disrespect you.
22:17If that's the case, first to still be here with me.
22:22You put that man on a paid vacation.
22:24That's not having my bad.
22:25You see how condescending you are?
22:27That's why I can't have no conversation with you.
22:28Right.
22:29That's why I'm the bad guy.
22:30Glenn, you were wrong.
22:31Glenn, I'm so sorry that I didn't make my moment about y'all asses.
22:36I'm so sorry that I want to elevate.
22:39I'm so sorry that I don't bow down to your ass no more.
22:43I'm so sorry for wanting to become what God wants me to be.
22:47I'm sorry.
22:48Here are your flowers.
22:50Here's your...
22:51What you want?
22:51Some green beans?
22:52You want the rest of my rotisserie?
22:55I don't know what else you want from me.
22:57All I ask you to do is be my husband!
23:00Coming up on Bell Collective.
23:02Every time I open up my heart to you,
23:04what the same person that I'm out here trying to please
23:06are the same person that's out here hurting me constantly.
23:09You want to have your hand in it so that you can control me
23:11and keep me under that storm that you didn't always have me under.
23:18I'm so sorry for wanting to become what God wants me to be.
23:22I'm sorry.
23:23Here are your flowers.
23:25Here's your...
23:26What you want?
23:27Some green beans?
23:28You want the rest of my rotisserie?
23:30I don't know what else you want from me.
23:32All I ask you to do is be my husband!
23:35You see what I'm saying?
23:37I'm so stunned to hear Tisha talk this way.
23:40I've never seen her push back like this in our whole marriage.
23:43Not like this.
23:44Not to this degree.
23:46Every time I open up my heart to you,
23:48every time I put everything that I want to do,
23:50second, third, fourth, fifth, what the same person
23:53that I'm out here trying to please are the same person
23:55that's out here hurting me constantly.
23:56Something should click in your damn head.
23:58This girl should have been to divorce me 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 times.
24:02This girl should have been left my ass,
24:04but she's still here.
24:05If the only thing she asking me right now is to respect her,
24:08the only thing she's asking me is like,
24:09this girl growing her brand.
24:11You don't want to have your hand in it
24:12because you want to help me and be an asset.
24:14You want to have your hand in it so that you can control me
24:16and keep me under that storm that you didn't always have me under.
24:20I am super proud of myself.
24:22For the first time, I am really setting these boundaries.
24:25I am done being the woman, the wife who just rolls over for her husband
24:30and do whatever he wants.
24:32That has expired.
24:34You got to respect my boundaries right now.
24:36I'm not that girl anymore.
24:38Period.
24:39She is gone.
24:40I never want to see her again in my life.
24:43I miss her dearly.
24:44I know you do because that was comfort for you,
24:47but it was misery for me.
24:48It wasn't comfort, it was love.
24:49The only thing I need you for,
24:50I don't need you to protect me from my brand.
24:52I need you to protect my heart.
24:56I feel like Tisha and I, we're not on the same page anymore.
25:00Hell, we ain't in the same book.
25:02I know I can be headstrong and I got to figure it out.
25:06I got to come to realize that maybe that person gone.
25:10And it's time for me to focus more on me.
25:13I've held my family together for, what, 25 years, 30 years?
25:18I don't see a problem.
25:20I am planning my future and Glenn,
25:23I would love for him to get on board with me,
25:26but if you're not going to be supported,
25:32you may just have to get left behind.
25:34You just let me shoot my shot for myself one time.
25:37Shoot your shot, child.
25:39Shoot that mother to the moon and get it.
25:45I've been doing this a long time.
25:47I've been in it for a long ride.
25:49No time to be second guessing myself
25:51when I know that I did that all for myself.
25:55Today I'm at Mike's house.
25:56I have my own home.
25:59And Mike has his.
26:01But Mike is always in my house.
26:04I rarely ever come here.
26:06And so I just want to surprise Mike.
26:08Just straighten up a little bit around here.
26:23Did I hear a front door?
26:24Oh, you way back here.
26:26What you doing back here?
26:27Folding your clothes.
26:28I see what you doing.
26:28Well, I'm so glad you did this.
26:30Mm-hmm.
26:31Hey, hey.
26:32Meeting up with Marie, she's talking about
26:34make sure Mike do not keep that home as a bachelor pad.
26:40His bachelor pad, his house.
26:42Y'all gonna move in together, he gonna get rid of that.
26:44That's not good for him to keep his face.
26:47Mike and I, we've been talking about moving in together
26:50in a new home together.
26:52But Mike is trying to backtrack.
26:55And he wants me to move into his house.
26:57Cheers to being home.
26:59I don't want to move into his house.
27:01I want us to have something new and fresh of our own.
27:05I don't think that I could live here and feel like I'm at home.
27:12I don't want it to be my forever home.
27:14I want our forever home to be ours.
27:18Tell me what the deal is.
27:19You, your ex was here.
27:24This home holds so many memories of you two.
27:28Because I got the picture.
27:29You got the picture.
27:30You got the picture.
27:30So we on the same page.
27:32No, you need to start seeing eye-to-eye with me,
27:34because all that stuff you ain't telling me.
27:35You ain't telling me nothing about this house thing.
27:38Mike and I, communication is a lot better,
27:40but it's still not where it needs to be,
27:42because he is clearly not hearing me.
27:45Do I need to say it another way?
27:47Like, Michael, open your ears, baby.
27:50Still want to get married.
27:51What they got to do with what we talking about?
27:53I'm just asking questions.
27:54I just want to make sure.
28:00Coming up on Bell Collective.
28:02Like you said, the collective.
28:04Look, I believe it's about the book, as well.
28:07And the chapters are always going to be different.
28:09It is about the book.
28:10Your book, to me, has always been the same.
28:13If I have to fight through my hurt,
28:16and I still have to show up,
28:18what makes y'all any different?
28:32I know that people will grow the same way.
28:36I know that people come Elas.
28:36He's a meteringoh.
28:41And his microphones will welche people from dabbing,
28:41And he will make the same way.
28:42It will do not belong.
28:42The way of oppression is crafted.
28:45Asked Let us 12-18-2022 in such aSomething verse
28:51Oh, yeah, I'm a winner, you know that
28:55May have lost in the past, I ain't going back
29:01See, she's going to get a benediction
29:03Okay, so who we best?
29:05Lord, her mercy
29:08She came for the after party
29:09Here's the memorial
29:11Here's the after party
29:13Today is the day of the funeral
29:16that I am co-hosting with Latrice
29:18And today is all about getting the bells together
29:22Burying the old
29:24and rebirthing a new collective
29:26But Kara, are you trying to entice the pastor?
29:30Like you want to get the offering
29:33Kara, we're going to have to put you in the background
29:35Girl, the pastor cannot see you
29:36She needs her little cloth over her
29:41I'm trying to match y'all vibes
29:42I'm trying to match y'all sexy vibes
29:46Leticia and Latrice asked us to show up for a funeral
29:49And Kara came in here showing up like she going to the club
29:52I guess Kara said, y'all ain't going to bed with me
29:54I'm coming to party
29:56So we just want to first say thank you ladies for coming
30:00This look amazing
30:01And we want to lead in love
30:03Good energy
30:04Good vibes, okay?
30:06We're just here having an adult conversation
30:09A real conversation
30:10A real conversation
30:11That's it
30:12So nothing else
30:13And anytime someone feels
30:15What we're going to do
30:16Ring the bell
30:17If you feel like, hey, going too far
30:20Let's just have some type of
30:22You know, we'll just
30:24And let's not over talk each other
30:28And let's not talk for a long time
30:31Short and sweet
30:33Yeah, short and sweet
30:35Tambra, you have a heart out of him
30:36How many minutes?
30:37Girl
30:40I have to leave early
30:43This is my baby's very first program ever
30:47And I have to be there
30:50The bells are just going to have to understand
30:53Here it is, the obituary
30:55The bell collector was born from vision, sisterhood, and ambition
30:58A platform created to spotlight women building businesses
31:02Breaking barriers and becoming their highest self
31:04Over time, misalignment, mistrust, and silence crept in
31:09Transparency faded and stories went untold
31:13All I have to think about is what the she did to me
31:16I ain't forgot this
31:17Today we lay to rest the old ways of performative participation
31:21And caring what no longer serves the collective
31:24A renewed bell collective rooted in trust, truth, accountability, and purpose
31:31May the bell collective be reborn stronger, clearer, and united
31:37I'm confident in the rebirth of the collective
31:39And in order for it to work, everybody will have to be committed
31:44Basically, today is for the rebuild
31:47And how can we move forward
31:49And how can we start over
31:50We'll start with you, Tambra
31:52When we started out, it was a good time
31:54Right now, we're the hoods
31:56There's no sister in it
31:57And that's just the truth
31:58That's why we're here, right?
31:59Because one thing all of us have in common
32:01You've heard me say that I feel like it wasn't a safe space
32:06I've heard you say it
32:07I've heard Latrice say it
32:08I've heard Marie say it
32:10So I just want to know
32:11Are you willing to be a little more transparent?
32:14I do talk more all day, every day to Latrice
32:17I talk more to Selena
32:19So I am more transparent with them
32:21As they have made me comfortable
32:24In other words, it's a two-way street
32:25When you've been hurt by other bells
32:29Or when you feel like the bells do something to you
32:33It makes you protect your peace
32:36Because emotionally, my peace was a priority
32:40The only time that I actually shied away
32:43Was when I was pregnant
32:44Because I do feel like at that time
32:46I was attacked when I was in a vulnerable place
32:48At that time, I was fighting postpartum depression
32:52I did not want it
32:53But I wanted to make sure I showed up for everyone
32:55After my pregnancy
32:58I heard from Latrice all the time
33:02Selena, she is another that always checked on me
33:06I actually did expect more support
33:12From some of the bells
33:14Especially the ones who are mothers
33:17No matter what we had going on
33:20I mean, you just having a baby
33:22That's a very vulnerable spot to be in
33:24Very
33:24But I guess my standpoint is
33:27If I have to fight through my hurt
33:30And I still have to show up
33:32What makes y'all any different?
33:35We keep having these restarts
33:37Rebirth, fresh starts
33:39Like, Tamra wants the prestige
33:43But she's not interested in really getting to know us
33:46Beyond surface level
33:50Look, I believe it's about the book as well
33:53Like you said, the collective
33:55The chapters, we make up the chapters
33:57And the chapters are always going to be different
34:00I like the way you put that
34:01It is about the book
34:03And I love that
34:04Your book, to me, has always been the same
34:07I feel bad about Tamra
34:09Going through postpartum after her baby
34:11But I stand firm on my opinion
34:14Like, that's an example
34:16How are we supposed to know that?
34:18So if you want support
34:21Honey, you gotta show up
34:22And tell us what's going on
34:24And that's okay
34:25If you wanna still be here
34:26We gonna adapt
34:28It's just crazy
34:31That they look at Tamra
34:33And feels like she doesn't bring a lot
34:35Because she does
34:37Tamra is the true definition of a bail
34:39And she has every right to be here
34:42And that brings me to Selena
34:44So Selena, what do you think?
34:45Well, I understand what she said
34:47Like, she don't feel comfortable
34:49Because it's not a safe space for her
34:51And if we do what we're saying on this paper
34:53Then we can make it a safe space
34:55For her to share more
34:56That's fair
34:58So Tamra, in this moment
35:00Do you still want to be a part of the collective?
35:13So Tamra, in this moment
35:15Do you still want to be a part of the collective?
35:21I believe the collective has purpose
35:24We all want to have a purpose
35:26You want to be a part of something that has a purpose
35:28That's in your relationships
35:30Business
35:31I can relate that to Marie
35:33She always talks business
35:34Business, professional
35:35Everything has to have a purpose
35:38I definitely consider myself
35:40Purpose driven, for sure
35:43Family is very important to me
35:44And even with Tisha
35:47She talks about protecting her piece
35:49Don't be mad when I protect mine
35:53Y'all, I'm sorry
35:54Like, can't we just rip the band-aid off
35:56Like, y'all asking Tamra to step away
35:57Because that's what it feels like to me
35:58And I'm not trying to make put you on the spot
36:00But I feel like, is that what it is
36:02Or is that not what it is?
36:03No, not stepping away
36:05I'm asking Tamra to step up
36:06I think a lot of people are afraid
36:08To share and be vulnerable
36:09Because they're afraid
36:10That he can be weaponized
36:11What I'm saying
36:12While the collective started
36:14To begin with, right
36:15It was a vision
36:17If we can't feel safe in doing that
36:21It's time to step away
36:24Don't be selfish
36:25If either one of us
36:27If we're not comfortable
36:29Or willing to share life experiences
36:33That we all can learn and grow from
36:35This group is not for you
36:38I really wish I could stay for this
36:40I know
36:41My baby has her first program
36:44They put the babies on line first
36:48I do not feel bad about leaving
36:51London Simone comes first
36:54However, if we are really moving forward
36:58I'll make it up to the Bills later
37:01Okay, so you guys feel like
37:03Tamra shouldn't be in the collective
37:05Because she's not as transparent
37:06As the other Bills, correct?
37:10Because she's transparent with me
37:12We're not talking about personal relationships
37:14We're talking about the relationship
37:15Within the collective
37:17Well, help
37:18Let me keep you out, too
37:19Because I don't feel like
37:20You get your ass on
37:21Wait a minute, don't do that
37:22Don't y'all start
37:23Well, I can share everything
37:25Well, we still ain't heard about the breakup yet
37:27I'll be late
37:28Karen, look
37:29Listen, you are saying
37:31I'm my business
37:32Like, you gonna have to take baby
37:33Do you sell it or do you don't sell it?
37:35You know what?
37:36You really a bit my fan
37:37You a fan of mine
37:39I'm a fan of mine
37:40No, no, no, no, no
37:41I am a fan
37:42But that's okay
37:43Since you my fan
37:44Here you go
37:45I'm a, listen
37:46Dr. Marie, my girl
37:46You my biggest fan
37:48I'm a fan of everybody
37:49No, you're my fan, girl
37:51You my biggest fan, baby
37:52You my biggest fan
37:53I'm a fan, girl, everybody
37:55I love everybody
37:55She my biggest fan
37:57Listen
37:58Girl, you can go sit down somewhere
38:00Trying to have your moment off of me
38:01Okay?
38:02Because you know one thing about me and you
38:05We love to go back and forth
38:06And we love to spar
38:07Baby, I have not done you a darn thing
38:10But hype you up
38:12So in that regard, you're welcome
38:14Karen, what you got going on down there on the Gulf Coast?
38:17Oh, honey, I got a lot going on, girl
38:19These three restaurants killing me
38:21You know, Brittany and I think
38:22We're just gonna wave the magic wand
38:23Like we did with our other stories
38:24And it's gonna be great
38:25But it's not as great
38:27You know, we're thinking about selling
38:29Yeah
38:29So just to
38:30Just close it
38:31Sometimes you keep it open
38:33You're gonna lose even more
38:34That's true
38:35In business, sometimes you just have to know
38:38When to walk away
38:39And that goes hand in hand with success
38:42But me, I'm a person that I'm like
38:44You don't want to be a failure
38:46And that's not what it's about
38:48Because you're not a failure
38:49Every time I start thinking about my business
38:51It's like a weight gets put on my shoulders
38:55And I may just have to close the doors forever
38:58But, you know, it's good to be in a space
39:01With like-minded women
39:02Even though we have our differences
39:04They care about me
39:05And it just feels good to be in a space
39:07Where I can feel love and support from these women
39:09And let's keep it here
39:11If we share, let's just be like
39:13Hey, this what's going on with me here
39:14Right now
39:15Yes
39:15So is there anything else?
39:17Because we are sisters
39:19I've heard some little petty mess
39:21About Mike and Selena's relationship
39:24I would never say something
39:26To intentionally or unintentionally hurt Selena
39:28Because she's such a beautiful person
39:30But at the same time
39:32I feel the pressure
39:33To put everything out on the table
39:35So I hope Selena feels
39:36That she can answer honestly
39:38Typically, I would never bring something like this
39:40To a table
39:42Like this
39:44I'm not a lunar person
39:46And it
39:47I ain't even gonna lie
39:48But I feel
39:50I'm believing in what we wrote about in here
39:52And transparency
39:53And authenticity
39:53Yeah
39:54So
39:57Some of the guys were talking
39:58And you know how you have pillow talk
40:00You know
40:01With your husband and stuff
40:02And that has shared with me
40:03That somebody had said something
40:07That
40:08It's probably just some rumor
40:09Girl, people trying to attack
40:10And bring down
40:11But something about a baby
40:13And Mike
40:17Girl, this is so uncomfortable
40:18To leave me
40:19To say this
40:20I'm sorry
40:21I'm not taking care of an outside baby
40:23It would be over with
40:25If that was the case
40:26If Mike stepped out on me
40:28And fathered a child
40:30There's no wedding
40:31There's no us
40:32It's over
40:38Next time on Bell Collective
40:40I want to show loyalty
40:41So that's why I invited Shontay here
40:43Because I feel like
40:44We're gonna cut stuff off at the roof
40:46She shared some information with me
40:48Said that you got a whole boyfriend
40:50What's his name?
40:56What?
40:57Net up
40:57The Collective
40:58So we can just
40:59I guess squash everything
41:01And one of the things
41:02That came up
41:03Was you have a baby on the way
41:06I'm trying to see
41:07Who I can trust
41:07How could something
41:09Off of social media
41:11End up in the Collective
41:13About my fiance
41:14I just have one question
41:17Who brought it
41:19To the Collective?
41:23That's what I want to know
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