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Welcome to Plathville Season 8 Episode 1
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00:04so my family we grew up very very sheltered very wholesome very simple but then things really
00:11changed i really don't like change you've told me you can't accept how our values don't align
00:17then i don't see the future with us together you know my older brother my parents we are moving
00:23forward with a divorce no family's perfect we've all just changed one way or another for better or
00:30worse it's the first serious relationship i've had since olivia i most definitely am in love with tegan
00:36he's it he's the one how can you explain falling in love with someone you know what i mean
00:41my name is zach great to meet you i can't wait to just be hopefully engaged by the end of
00:48the day
00:48will you marry me please say no yes my whole family feels uncomfortable nobody is really happy
00:58other than my dad i got the memo be the dad that lydia wants you to be i feel like
01:04barry wants
01:05everybody to like him i think that's why he signed off on the marriage so quickly what was going on
01:14with veronica and micah that was really not good you're not emotionally intelligent grow a pair
01:19you're talking so far down to me veronica sees a headline and she says your brother's girlfriend
01:26has an only fancy he wants to see it i was concerned about the wedding itself and then veronica just
01:32kind of pushed me over the edge nobody really is the full extent of how crazy it was i think
01:40we need
01:40to leave go back to boca and i i we are done ethan couldn't get over the fact that he
01:48thinks zach is
01:49gay talk about lack of any respect for someone's wedding especially your sisters and we need to
01:55have a conversation with with him at some point we just felt very very disrespected
02:17growing up as an only child i always wanted a large family
02:22healthy fresh air lots of music and lots of love and i wanted to share that with people
02:27it was beautiful
02:33the farm was the perfect place for all of those things to come together
02:39and the farm has always been the place we all come back to
02:52which is why after years away i've finally returned
02:58peter is feeling playful i've moved back here with the girls we have two dogs three kittens and we're
03:04finally settled i didn't want to live at the farm during the divorce because it was hard to be so
03:11close to barry knowing that if i had to go run errands i might see him but now the divorce
03:17is done
03:18and i'm back home and i'm reclaiming my life have you ever seen anything cuter than this
03:24yes this he's so cute look at this one he's cuter
03:32i'm here with the girls half the time and the other half the time they're with barry
03:36and somebody else lives here with us too okay who's that
03:45ken
03:45for the first couple years after barry and i separated i just wasn't sure exactly what i wanted
03:57and i couldn't be serious about somebody when i was legally still married to somebody else
04:02so ken and i broke up a few months before lydia's wedding but then when the divorce was finalized
04:09like we realized that we did once to be with each other
04:17when ken moved in we wanted it to feel like it's his home too and so we let him decorate
04:23it however
04:23he wanted and he even brought a jukebox mercy has learned the synthesizer part to jump by van halen
04:34from listening to the jukebox and it's definitely different than when we lived at the farm years ago
04:40we didn't have a jukebox playing 80s classic rock come here lexi i'm definitely happy i'm back
04:48it isn't perfect and i've made lots of mistakes but lucky me i've got lots of people willing to tell
04:55me when i mess something up
05:01anywhere we go there we go there we go yeah it feels like feels like home
05:07what did you think of church this morning oh it was so good yeah
05:10feels like just a little laundry to do i think the rest of the house is pretty much in order
05:16okay
05:17sides for this stuff okay
05:21what was that it was just the phone case
05:25so we've known each other over a year now
05:29we made it these are just all your shirts right i think you have a few
05:35a few of yours oh that one's mine that someone's different here what's going on yeah so i i have
05:43decided to go with contacts because because after he got married i just kept smudging them up so he
05:49smudged up his glasses how did you smudge up his glasses i wonder
05:55anyway
05:58this is our apartment it's everything we need we're able to host people play games and hang out
06:06because that's what we've always wanted to do just have people over and have a good time
06:12now what is it like for you going from living in a bachelor pad to with a wife it's nice
06:17to
06:18come home to a home that has been created by my wife i love having a reason to clean the
06:24home
06:24moving in together was so much easier than people made it out to be i don't think there are any
06:30things that like he does that annoys me he knows not to leave the toilet seat up he knows not
06:36to
06:37crowd the counter space because that's for me to do i'm truly surprised how well we adjusted to
06:44living together and just building a home together so be honest right what is life like living with
06:52me as your wife amazing of course but after 10 p.m you um are on a different level
07:04is the honeymoon phase over yet nope
07:10zach sees a sign of me that no one else will ever see ever know about
07:14that's that i think i've uh not only introduced her but also
07:20watered the seed of of curiosity for her in this realm and so i think uh
07:27it's fun to see her and and me just like interact in those ways
07:34lydia zach just said you're naughty
07:38that's true
07:44dear lord thank you for this food thank you for this time together a wonderful day at church in your
07:49name
07:49amen amen amen all right mm-hmm so good the best part of marriage has just been
07:58being fully known and fully loved
08:02the best part of married life is definitely learning uh whether it's learning about lydia
08:07or learning about myself take your time and be who she needs and in times of need so
08:20we have two empty chairs i am excited to have start a family and everything with you and
08:28i like feel like i'm ready to be a mother i can agree yeah traveling's really fun with you though
08:37we still have a lot of places we want to go it's not that we're going to stop traveling when
08:42we
08:42have kids it'll just be fewer and far between and more special because there'll be more people to
08:47share with yeah so we got married in february it's been eight months and so we're planning to wait a
08:54year before we start a family four months left four months who's counting apparently you
09:02i love the idea of starting a family with you i'm ready we're just preparing our lives for another
09:09human being we don't want to you and we don't want to me
09:24um i know mariah and micah are only in town for a limited time but we were hoping to have
09:33that
09:33conversation for the whole family and everything it's been eight months of zach and i praying sorting
09:40through everything and what happened leading up to the wedding i feel like you've been mistreated
09:47and lied about and that first year has been hard we just want to have one conversation with the whole
09:54family in one place there are so many assumptions made about both of us it did some damage and we've
10:00had to deal with that for the months that we've been married you're saving your first kiss for your
10:05wedding yeah how do you do that i gotta ask you yeah are you gay
10:14yeah i know i'm i'm straight but we had to iron out those assumptions
10:18and then show each other that we actually cared for each other more than anything that anyone said
10:24about us i gotta learn what how to move forward in that so obviously want to be there to support
10:30you if
10:30you gotta figure some stuff out in that so i don't think i have to figure anything out i think
10:36i just
10:36need to say a few things okay let's go let's go
10:47out of the kitchen
10:55i was living up in minnesota and then i moved down here to georgia in july
11:02i just wanted to have a change of scenery and be closer to family and everything
11:07so i've been down here getting the farm in shape building this barn and you know lots of land work
11:13you're cutting down trees mowing staying at the farm or at my dad's house depending on what i'm
11:19doing just seeing what it's like to live back down here are you divorced yet no she olivia will not
11:29call or respond do anything she's purposely trying to hold me up trying to make my life hell
11:38i believe olivia won't let me go um because she doesn't want to let me move on to anybody else
11:48i think that's her motive
11:52what's going on with tegan
11:57oh me and tegan uh broke up and i don't know
12:08i knew that she was tired a long distance and i kept telling her that i would move to wisconsin
12:16and
12:16i never did
12:20and you know you can only tell someone so many times i'm going to do this and you don't
12:24and it just doesn't mean anything
12:29me not being divorced yet still that's been extremely frustrating for me over the last year
12:36and definitely has affected me and tegan
12:41i've had an attorney for over a year now and alivia has ignored him said you know i'm out of
12:50the
12:50country i'll get back to you when i'm home and then weeks later when she comes back she never does
12:55anything so he has to start over get him trying to do nothing ever has happened
13:06sometimes in life you're lucky enough to meet somebody that you actually truly connect with
13:14like not just on a physical level but like a spiritual emotional level and that was very much
13:25true with me and tegan it's hard to move on
13:30i feel like i can't walk away and spend the rest of my life wondering
13:34and if i could have saved it i really truly feel like there's
13:43unfinished business
14:14i think you'll save me
14:15desires i wanted for the wedding let's go know your daughter before you make accusations like
14:22that hug your brother i'm a little bit concerned about ethan because he can be pretty hot-headed
14:30and i could tell with zach lydia's found something really good let me just polish my halo you know
14:37i want you all to know the night before our wedding it's actually the hardest night of my life
14:47day
15:00how you been oh pretty good
15:03good to see you
15:07how have you been pretty good I'm coming up here to see all my family I haven't seen them in
15:13a while
15:13been really busy oh I got a new go-kart you got it running no not yet I'm also coming
15:20to take a
15:21whole bunch of my stuff back down to Florida because I finally have my own place your spare
15:25doesn't look any good Ethan I'm gonna drive to Mexico in this do you want to push me no after
15:31I broke up with Veronica I knew I needed to make a change I met a pretty incredible girl and
15:37we are
15:39doing great and we are happy keeping things somewhat private you know kind of evaluating
15:47everything that's happened over the last couple years um I don't think I was on the path for what
15:53I wanted and I'm gonna switch things up a little bit and just chase a peaceful life
16:01looks like Isaac made it
16:09yeah thanks for dropping me off
16:12Kaelin dropped me off today everything's good between us still we've been together for just
16:17over a year now all right well I'll see you soon it's been a while since the wedding there were
16:23a
16:23few factors that led to things just being tense part of it was them rushing the wedding and us
16:29not really knowing Zach well enough I didn't want to sit around and just let somebody walk into my
16:36family that wasn't gonna treat my sister right because I've seen that happen before with my
16:41brother's ancestors and I've had it and I wasn't gonna have it again
16:53I was gonna do mercy mercy Lord have mercy long time amazing Montana has been treating me very well
17:07very peaceful very happy you guys I'm so happy to be home you see what I've done this looks great
17:16isn't it crazy oh my gosh I love that it's open it feels really good to be back here for
17:25a while
17:25the farm just kind of felt like not abandoned but there was nothing really you know going on it was
17:32a
17:33rental property and it just had a different vibe to it now having mom living there it's it feels a
17:42lot more like home it's just a
17:45difference kind of special being able to come home now oh Ethan hmm do you like it I like it
17:55yeah looks good on you yeah thank you well it like this compliments the shape of your head nicely
18:00thank you
18:08oh I'm wearing a wig right now um I have alopecia an autoimmune condition that causes hair loss it started
18:18when I was little when it's really bad I have no eyebrows eyelashes no hair on my head that's what
18:27I'm
18:27dealing with right now these are just stickers no they're not yeah they're they're they're just literally cheap stickers
18:35I got online and then I have four wigs that I kind of can play around with I'm working on
18:42making a collection of a lot of them
18:45let me see your nose pretty good isn't it yeah yeah did you actually get plastic surgery no oh okay
18:53I
18:53just got I literally I went to the emergency room that one night got the stitches I pulled the stitches
18:58out myself and I'm fine my gosh that was quite a night lord yeah so what are we doing I'm
19:06on three
19:06hours of sleep I drove overnight Lydia and Zach are coming up here yeah Lydia and Zach who want to
19:11have a
19:11meeting with us about their feelings or maybe I don't know yeah Lydia and Zach want to sit down and
19:21talk to
19:21everybody but I have a lot on my heart and my mind me and Tegan are broken up it's very
19:30hard to shake my
19:30focus off of that for anything I just feel like there was way too many emotions people got carried away
19:39yes to see the least
19:52how long has it been since we've been to the farm it's been a minute yeah I think it'll be
19:56good to
19:56have the whole family there to talk with everyone we're going to the farm we figured it was a good
20:06time
20:06because the whole family's in town pretty last minute but we just wanted to address stuff around
20:12our wedding we had some pretty surprising things come our way when Ethan asked if I was gay it was
20:20just very it didn't make sense I had proposed and you're asking if I'm even attracted to her like
20:26this is ridiculous I wanted to bring it to their attention that you know what they did did hurt us
20:35and
20:37you know they could have gone about it quite differently
20:41no
20:42when we were engaged I know there was a lot of people talking about Zach and I and their concerns
20:48about us
20:49they said they were doing everything because they care
20:53in that care all I felt was hurt
20:55well I want you to know I want you to be happy and I'm very happy to see that you're
20:59happy
21:00but I just have to say it
21:01you've only known him for three months and you get married in two months you sure you're good with that
21:05well four months if that matters
21:09it's too fast it's too much
21:11I feel like they're rushing into it we all feel pressured into having to accept somebody that we don't know
21:17how can Lydia really know like how much of a provider you could be or if he's gonna be able
21:21to take care of Lydia
21:22just I can't take like much more I'm just gonna lose it
21:25yeah that guy really does pop in blue
21:31it's like hey this is something you did that affected us
21:35we want to move forward and this is this is something that is we feel is holding us back in
21:41our relationship with you because of how it hurt
21:49Zach and Lydia are coming
21:52I'm a little bit dreading it because I know that things were crazy at their wedding and I feel like
22:00they're coming here wanting an apology
22:04and I have mixed feelings about that because I am sorry that a lot of things happened the way they
22:11did
22:12at the same time I'm not sorry that we really cared
22:21last night Lydia called us we asked her if she was okay with me and Mercy being in on the
22:26conversation and she said she didn't really see a need for us to be there
22:29I think they don't want us to hear what they have to say
22:31obviously
22:32I guess I am a little bit nervous about Zach and Lydia's expectations
22:37anything that was said or done before the wedding was coming from a place of love and concern about Lydia
22:43we were concerned about her because there are crazy people out there and it's sad that you have to question
22:47everything but you really do
22:49yeah
22:50and with that timeline it's completely normal for us to have questions
22:56I mean just you know
22:58all of us have moved on moved forward and accepted Zach as a brother-in-law a son-in-law
23:05whatever as part of the family
23:07including Ethan and Isaac and Micah
23:10but I feel like Zach and Lydia haven't been able to move on
23:18I've been angry I've been really upset at my family for what they did
23:23there were nights on end that I would fall asleep crying and Zach was just there to come for me
23:27because I was just hurt and I was just upset
23:30it took us a while to kind of approach this conversation
23:34we were frustrated we were scared of maybe not being accepted or loved
23:42dealing with all of that at once
23:45took a long time
23:46I also wanted to be able to talk knowing what I wanted to say
23:51and not just getting all emotional and not having a direction
23:55it took eight months
23:58I'm not ashamed of that
24:02I've really been wrestling with it a lot
24:06what I would say how I would say it
24:11I think some of the things they said just made me realize like
24:16they don't really know me and that hurts because you want to be known by your family
24:25I don't know if it's just me or if most of the family feels this way if it's just the
24:29middle child
24:30but I've always felt like overlooked second thought
24:34and I just felt that on my wedding day and that's just not what it's supposed to be
24:41I know I need this to move forward and whatever happens from it
24:46I need to be okay with that
24:48I just know this is the step I need to take
25:00what are some things that you might want to address with your mom?
25:04I mean definitely with what she had said about you being controlling
25:08I have no idea how this family meeting is going to go
25:12I need to address with mom
25:17just how she went about a few things
25:19like she pretty much accused Zach of being controlling
25:22and taking over desires I wanted for the wedding
25:25yet she didn't even know what I had thought of
25:28I've seen a usurping of Lydia's desires
25:33where Lydia wants something for the wedding
25:35and he just shoots it down because he has another plan in mind
25:38she said I wanted a hunter green for my wedding
25:40which is a color I would never think of
25:42blue has always been both our favorite colors
25:45it's blue, imagine that
25:47and I gave my opinion
25:49but then said after I was like
25:51you know I think blue looks best
25:54but I want you to make the decision
25:55because you're the bride
25:57and you know I think
25:59you know you have a better eye for those sorts of things
26:03and so if anything I was completely letting her make the decision
26:08it was just yeah
26:10it's like know your daughter
26:12before you make accusations like that
26:30oh
26:31king of the world
26:33I'm king of the world
26:43what are you doing?
26:45oh hello
26:47I'm just envisioning myself out on the golf
26:50clipping at 20 knots
26:52nothing but the wind in my hair and the spray on my skin
27:00okay
27:01no I mean
27:02so yeah I was just checking it out
27:04that's all
27:07so uh
27:08have you found any uh prospective buyers?
27:11Micah bought it
27:12Micah bought this?
27:13yes
27:14I made him quite a deal on it
27:15I think he's gonna fix it up and sell it
27:18wow
27:19he sometimes pops up in random places
27:21like on the boat in the middle of the field
27:23he's giving myself a self-guided tour
27:26since you know years past I missed out on the tour that you've given others
27:32okay
27:32we're generally on good terms
27:35but I like him to call first before he shows up
27:38I mean that's something that I've kinda asked him to do
27:41I don't wanna be in the house and look out the window and just see him there
27:46I wanna know if I look out
27:48I'm gonna see woods and birds
27:50maybe a deer
27:52I'm not gonna see Barry
27:55and he might see something he doesn't wanna see
28:00I think Lydia and Zach are gonna be here soon so
28:03do you want them to find you on the boat or do you wanna come up closer to the house?
28:08no I'm done
28:08I'll get down and I'll be over in a little bit
28:11okay well I'm gonna go see the kids
28:15this is the first time all the family are gonna be able to be together since the wedding
28:20I became aware of Zach and Lydia's challenges once they got back from Europe
28:25how they were feeling during the wedding the night before the rehearsal all that
28:30I began to understand you know just how deeply Lydia was feeling the hurt and the pain
28:36my role as father is to be Lydia's validation and I know that I did that more so than
28:43any of the boys or Kim
28:47alright main event
28:53alright here we are
29:14we got this
29:15we got this
29:18let's go
29:30we got this
29:31we got this
29:34let's go
29:41hi guys
29:41oh my goodness Mariah
29:43oh my gosh
29:44hi
29:44hi everyone too
29:45I haven't seen you in forever
29:47no Mariah first
29:48sorry
29:49hi Mariah
29:50hi Mariah
29:52hi Mariah
29:53hi Mariah
29:54how are you
29:55you look so good
29:56although I've hardly seen you
29:57thank you
29:57hi Sarah
29:58today we're gonna talk about some of the things that happened around the wedding and
30:02um kind of Lydia and Zach's feelings about all of the wedding drama and
30:12Ken is inside working on his jukebox
30:16he asked me do you want me to sit in on this and I said well I think this is
30:20just gonna be family
30:26I'm more of a quiet person I've heard both sides of the story
30:30I would rather be in the house
30:33watching the dogs
30:35I try to avoid drama as much as possible
30:39hey
30:40it is weird
30:46that
30:47you know
30:48Ken's now at the house
30:50that I used to
30:51be
30:52head of the household over
30:53but you know
30:54it's like what do you say
30:55weird is the new norm
30:57so
30:58I'm just
30:59what do you do
31:00I'm used to weird
31:09go hug your brother-in-law
31:13hey
31:14how's it going?
31:15doing good
31:16how are you doing?
31:17good to see you
31:18I think we're all here
31:19this is the first time we've all
31:20this is all the siblings
31:21I know
31:23wow everybody's here
31:24this is a big conversation
31:25going into it
31:27I'm like
31:29you know
31:29Lydia knows exactly what she's gonna say
31:31how we felt about things
31:33we're gonna control what we can control
31:36and whatever their reactions are
31:38we can't control
31:41you've been traveling?
31:42yeah
31:43Lydia and Zach have been upset with me and Ethan
31:47and really everyone because of everyone except Barry
31:50because of how things played out at their wedding
31:56I mean I think they're wanting apologies
31:59do I think it's fair?
32:01I mean
32:01are you gonna apologize?
32:03I don't know
32:07I'm a little bit concerned about Ethan
32:10because
32:11he can be pretty hot-headed
32:13and I'm hoping
32:15that
32:16that will be
32:17calm and
32:18under control
32:19today
32:26so
32:27um
32:28thank you guys for
32:30making this happen
32:31been wanting to have this conversation for a while
32:33and I'm glad you guys could all make it
32:35I guess I'll start with owning whatever I can
32:38I know
32:39it was quick
32:40when we got married
32:42and
32:43I know that did
32:44kind of pressure you guys to
32:47you have to get to know Zach in a certain amount of time
32:49and
32:50and I'm sorry if that pressured you in any way
32:53but with that
32:54like
32:54some people chose to
32:56get to know him
32:58and some people
33:00just made their judgments
33:01and
33:02and that was that
33:04I know you guys care
33:07it would be amazing
33:11if
33:13there was a way to show Zach care
33:15especially to Zach
33:16and some of you have done really well at that
33:18but if you do
33:20approve
33:21if you do
33:21see that it's good
33:23it would be nice to
33:25see that effort
33:27a little bit
33:29um
33:30so
33:32if there are any concerns that still are lasting now
33:36um
33:37or any questions that you guys have in general
33:40I'm
33:40I'm also open to those conversations
33:43I don't have a lot of pain from what they did to me
33:47it's more that they would do it to me
33:49and that they're hurting her in the process
33:51that hurt me more
33:53I'm trying to lift Lydia up because I know what she's doing is right
33:58we want to figure it out
33:59we want to move forward
34:00and
34:01obviously like
34:03we're open books
34:04and we want to
34:04figure things out
34:05if there's anything that you guys don't see fit
34:08I'd love to be a part of this family in that
34:10and so
34:11yeah
34:11just kind of voicing what she was
34:18I want you all to know
34:20sorry
34:20I did not want to cry
34:28the way we were treated the night before our wedding
34:32it was supposed to be
34:33a joyful time celebrating the last night as Blap
34:37but it was actually the hardest night of my life
34:57and
35:02and
35:03and
35:04and
35:05and
35:11we were treated
35:12the night before our wedding
35:14supposed to be
35:15a joyful time celebrating the last night as Blap
35:19it was actually the hardest night of my life
35:29Um, Lydia, I felt awful after, I, I don't know, hindsight, I guess I can't speak for
35:43everyone here, but I'm assuming most of what was done, even though it wasn't done in the
35:49right way, or everything happened so fast, or whatever the excuse is, it was out looking
35:53out for your best interest, because we all care about you a lot.
35:59There's been obviously tension, there was a lot of tension between my brothers,
36:03some me. We do need to make sure he's the one for Lydia.
36:06He needs a test to see his true colors.
36:09I say we just let it happen today, and now we just try to give him a
36:13I was so wrapped up in a lot, it's not an excuse, I should have
36:20been there for you even more than I was.
36:23You still dance with me?
36:25I know I did, and that means a lot.
36:29I can only imagine how difficult that was for Lydia and Zach, Zach especially.
36:35You know, hindsight, I'm like, Zach, you're a great guy.
36:39You two seem fit for each other, but when you're, you know, I meet you two hours before
36:45you propose to my sister, there's a lot of stuff that goes on.
36:49For sure.
36:51Yeah, I mean, you know, people do act different under pressure, and that's mainly
36:56what I was feeling, was a lot of pressure with it being rushed, and then seeing, you
37:00know, past relationships, people have come into the family really fast, and just turned
37:05out bad, and that's the only thing that was stuck in my head.
37:08And looking back, I see that I, certain times I acted, you know, like an idiot.
37:16I'm going to apologize to both of you for certain things that I've done.
37:19It may have been good intentions or thought it was good, but it just went about a completely
37:24wrong way.
37:25That's all I see from my end, so.
37:27Appreciate it.
37:29You know, you both were saying if we still have things or whatever.
37:33I don't have, I don't think any of us do.
37:36For me, from the time that you two said I do, it was done, and I'm 100% supportive of
37:42both of you, and I see you as a son, son-in-law, part of the family.
37:51So far, I'm seeing more healing with Micah and Isaac than there is with Kim.
37:56I think there's a conversation that just needs to happen between Lydia and Kim.
38:03There's a lot there to unpack.
38:05It goes deeper than the wedding.
38:07It goes into the realm of when the divorce happened and things like that.
38:12There's healing that's needed there, I think, relationally between those two.
38:17All the concerns that everyone voiced, whether to you or in private, whether you go about it
38:24in the proper way or the wrong way, there is a time for that.
38:28That time has passed.
38:29You guys are both part of the family now, and I'm very happy to see you both doing well.
38:37I'm sorry anything that I did, you know, hurt you, which I know it did, so I apologize for that.
38:45Before their wedding, I was just saying what I saw and what I felt.
38:51Just like Isaac and Micah, we were just encouraging Lydia to not rush into something,
39:00especially with not knowing really what their physical attraction is.
39:04I think there's nothing wrong with checking yourself and being like,
39:06do you see what I see, or am I just delusional, you know?
39:12But I certainly could have been nicer, you know, gone about things maybe in a better way.
39:19It's awesome to have you back here, being able to have more time with you
39:24because it's a lot closer than Minnesota, so.
39:27It's encouraging to hear Ethan apologize.
39:29He definitely had quite a big piece in just the pain and hurt caused.
39:36I wouldn't call it water under the bridge.
39:38I would just call it forgiveness of just him owning up to the things he did wrong.
39:46I mean, this could have cleared the air.
39:48And Dad, I don't know if I've said it enough, but thank you so much for all your support.
39:54Please.
39:57I feel like it's almost like a little jab at me, like at least my dad was supportive, you know?
40:03My mom wasn't.
40:04But she was feeling all of that support because Barry just rubber-stamped the Zach relationship
40:11and didn't even ask questions about anything.
40:15When you're just getting to know somebody, you just, you can tell, you know?
40:21And I could tell with Zach, you know, Lydia's found something really good.
40:25I just wish I could have exported that to everyone.
40:32Well, I just had a piece from the beginning and I supported him the whole time.
40:38Let me just polish my halo, you know?
40:42He's gloating a little bit and I feel like I don't get any credit for really caring about
40:49who she spends the rest of her life with.
40:51In the process of getting to know him, seeing him for who he is gave me the peace that, yeah,
40:58they're meant for each other, right?
41:00Barry, from the beginning, was a very trusting person in me.
41:05And I really appreciated that.
41:08But I just don't think Kim has really done that.
41:11I think there's a lot still to figure out.
41:14And I think I've seen too many tears from Lydia to think that everything's okay.
41:26Today we're trying to find Bigfoot.
41:29Yeah!
41:35One of my favorite things in the world is being high.
41:39I'm high as a kite!
41:40You're on a dating app?
41:42Hello, I'm Barry.
41:44Barry has a nickname.
41:46He's called Plath Daddy.
41:50Me and Tegan, we haven't talked in a while.
41:53Really?
41:54So, you're running after her?
41:56Mm-hmm.
41:57The weight that I've put on in the last four and a half years, it's been hard.
42:02But I'm turning that around.
42:04I can tell that you're not attracted to me like I am.
42:09Tegan doesn't know that I'm here.
42:11The worst thing that can happen is she finds out.
42:15Ethan Plath!
42:18I'm starting to think that maybe, you know, it's going too fast.
42:21Was Kaelin putting pressure on you?
42:23She wants to get married soon.
42:24I never pressured you about really anything.
42:30That was her.
42:31Are you serious?
42:33I think he's here.
42:35Oh, my God.
42:37I heard you talk about Joshua, but the way that you called me out, that hurt.
42:43We lost a son in 2008.
42:47It was an accident.
42:50Mom has been the target with people in the past, but looking at it now from a different perspective, she
42:55was never in the wrong.
42:56I've heard things about the way you pursued Tegan and you giving a lot and her not giving in return.
43:01I wasn't looking for your opinion.
43:05If people don't want our opinions, we won't give our opinions.
43:08It actually makes me angry.
43:11I'm not perfect.
43:12I know I very well could have judged them wrongly.
43:17I'm not perfect.
43:19I'm not perfect.
43:19I'm not perfect.
43:19I'm not perfect.
43:20I'm perfect.
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