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First Dates (2016) Season 11 Episode 9- Episode 9
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00:02this romance is the first state's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:15is possible but you pique my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it
00:30a match made in heaven I'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:41none of these data's know what to expect I have this forever irreconable
00:49what happens next
00:58would you like to see each other again romantically who goes first
01:07a romance comes in different shapes pretty little baby little gestures which make that person see you
01:18I think we all need to take a leaf out Mateo's book you know go back to the old school
01:21he's such an old
01:22school romantic okay your date for the night he's a bundle of love in the room just like heart emojis
01:29just going out of it radiating we do love Mateo we do love him he's just a cupid just going
01:38around
01:38just making the matches happen take care of each other all right guys I would consider myself old
01:43school full stop plus romantic yeah back to work busy influencer Cloda lives for attention some of which she could
02:03live without
02:07I'm recording every moment of my life I have done for ten and a half years yeah keep it rolling
02:15click that helps
02:16sometimes with dating I don't say I but it definitely attracts the wrong kind as well sometimes but this
02:23was that's what I signed up for it it's actually really exciting for me that like I have no idea
02:38who's
02:38going to walk through that door I was just at a festival for three days yes hence the horse voice
02:42how was it oh so gosh I'm a festival girl if you want a festival then you go to Amsterdam
02:48any festival you
02:49choose it's like oh man yeah all people are right no kids I'm probably a little too young then am
02:55I
02:56yeah yeah yeah I'd ruin the crack I'd ruin the party I give up on the date naps this year
03:02I just
03:02decided they are not for me I just much prefer to meet people out in the wild well welcome to
03:09the
03:09first dates restaurant thank you very much
03:18as a dater Mons brings a lot to the table as a chef not so much have you ever cooked
03:27for a date I tried it
03:28once I didn't go well she didn't like it actually made it very clear we ended up just ordering food
03:35after
03:39it was like yeah but like I just never cooked again hi how are you very good nice to meet
03:47you
03:47you're a good-looking chap thank you very much thank you I'm fantastic I'm looking forward to this I feel
03:53like I'm a fun person to be around well I hope I am anyways I just like someone to get
03:58along with
03:58like hopefully to match my energy yeah nice to meet you how are you nice to meet you what's your
04:03name
04:04one what are you months you don't know how are you fine I'm going to go yourself good good are
04:10you
04:10from I'm from Warford oh nice I from tip our table oh dear monster that's very close sorry my eyes
04:18actually tearing off because the wind it's okay I know people do get quite emotional
04:21hearing me is there anyone out there yes Elaine and thankfully she's come along I talk to spirits who's
04:42passed I just have them wake me up in the middle of the night and all you know the spirits
04:51very
04:51funny as well you know didn't be cracking jokes can you hear spirits in the room right now no I
04:59blocked myself before I came in just in case they were you should protect yourself by blocking your
05:03yeah what doesn't always work intense I love it
05:22hi hello Mateo your name please Elaine nice to meet you too you look lovely thank you some people
05:29they probably think I'm a bit crazy when they first meet me like hello hi but I think a good
05:35kind of
05:35crazy but I don't know I just want a someone who even if they're not into the same shit I'm
05:41into it
05:42just be like there's my crazy bitch you know what I mean like and support me being a crazy bitch
05:47you
05:47know that way I loved it moon bed it's literally I'm sitting out my back of my pajamas with blankets
05:53on me and I'm watching I'm under the moon you know instead of the Sun I love and sea swims
06:00and
06:00hiking I love and I do a bit volunteer work with adults that live alone with special needs and
06:05intellectual disability so I help them like clean and organize their houses I do bring them to get
06:10their haircuts do the shop now and all that's beautiful like oh yeah she's very fun to you
06:15me of one of my guys really yeah he fancied you really I'm flattered you have to get a picture
06:21with me later absolutely let's do it now yeah come on let's go okay there you go good for geez
06:29you're stunning on the camera wow thank you yeah let's hear that yeah yeah my mom be happy with this
06:37definitely for mama mama look at me mama look at me are you a fix a picture of the food
06:48kind of
06:48laughter puts it on a story not on my story I just take it from memories and stuff like or
06:52sometimes
06:52memories yeah but like oh that was some mistake I know it's because it was like that was the steak
06:58I
06:59ate when I met it's the memory of the time describe your ideal woman people are gonna kill me for
07:07this
07:07but Kim Kardashian I'm sorry when I was like 15 16 I had a huge crush on her like you
07:14just haven't grown
07:15out of that yet no I don't think I ever will either like I think she's fantastic I'm having things
07:18like
07:18late 2020 how about yourself I've been single for like two and a half ish years like I've been in
07:25a
07:25few situationships now oh we've all been there unfortunately how do you find being single it's
07:32rough out there it is a rough out there traveling blond hair hair yeah oh nice it looks good I
07:38like that
07:38thank you I just got it done thank you for noticing you're welcome can I have a trip of course
07:43you can't
07:44oh my god there was a lad a couple of weeks ago I was on a night out he comes
07:48over and he just does this
07:50he like tops my arm and says follow me what type of stuff you what type of stuff you into
07:56like what
07:57like that's crazy question to ask so early on no no no no no no no no no no no
08:02I don't mean like that
08:13how long are you single eight years and I do feel like only now I'm ready for something do you
08:20know
08:20what I mean yeah you know it's time to go back out there I'm searching for my twin flame we
08:26complete
08:26each other I believe my angels are gonna hook me up Darren has his sights set on the perfect woman
08:37and he's aiming high
08:44bruna nice eyes nice friendly smile good personality good conversation
08:54like a latino goddess something like that we may as well shoot for the stars we might land on the
09:02moon
09:02like
09:09now welcome
09:10over the bridge over the bridge of previous time I'm a crossy dobro sound we go spotty now
09:15I've been to croatia a few times I did you have all of this picked up a little few more
09:19of this yeah
09:21he's here always easy hop you got swag he's just like he's got swag do your date is at the
09:26bar
09:27don't enjoy it my minute here we go no
09:32nice to meet you
09:33nice to meet you nice to meet you Darren nice to meet you
09:36how are you good good good all good all good
09:40so where'd you come from today uh Donabay oh yeah myself
09:43how long are you single jesus straight in there yeah
09:50it's only because he just asked me so i was it's just in my mind two years two years yeah
09:55and come here have you any kids i do yeah two two yeah boy and a girl jamie 24 and
10:0119.
10:02ah no minding them yeah yourself just one door she's 12.
10:07i haven't had many dates like most dates have been on like now a girl for a while before i
10:13initiated any sort of romantic gesture
10:17what do you do yourself i'm an energy here like a reiki and all that sort of stuff yeah
10:23what do you get off my energy i got a nice calm energy off you yeah yeah i'll take that
10:29i can be quiet at first i like to absorb everything that's going on around me but
10:35once you get to know me i'm i'm not quiet and you're going to do starters or desserts or
10:40desserts perfect yeah you can get the hearts if you want to have to have it don't you have to
10:46have it
10:46iconic i have to get one of them they smash it yeah and then see if you can heal it
10:58as she navigates the sea of love sarah is wary of ships that pass in the night
11:09i swear to god the heartbreak of a situation ship is nearly worse than an actual relationship it's so
11:14bad and shaking me up so you feel like you're in a relationship you're committed to that person
11:20but i just don't think the lads see it that way nobody wants to settle down like everyone just
11:26wants to mess around and i'm just not here for it how are you how are you i'm kind of
11:34hoping you
11:35might be able to find me a decent lad at least i am having my comfort zone but sure look
11:39it is what it is
11:41they get you to the bar yeah that would be great i'm from a very small village in wicklow it's
11:49kind
11:49of the back arse nowhere to be honest i would kind of like a bit of a culture maybe i
11:54agree spec kind
11:55of man i wouldn't mind a farmer now i'm a fan of a man in wellies just someone that's sound
12:00out like
12:00yeah i kind of like taking the piss out of people so i'd like them to take the piss out
12:05of me yeah yeah
12:06yeah yeah definitely like a ga lad as well i'd love to be a little like wag supporting on the
12:12sidelines looks the cows during the day and then plays guys oh yeah yeah
12:23one day maybe even today peter will find a match to match the match of all matches 2012
12:32i must have been seven or eight father was almost in tears whenever he was watching
12:36it means so much to donagal people
12:42they say in claire brian lohan is their god jim mcginnis is our messiah
12:47bringing somebody to donagal again
12:55well how's things good man yourself what's your name peter nice to meet you peter where you coming
13:01from donagal the best thing about donagal obviously the running all team the people the firemen
13:10the seeds let's do some dating huh why not let's get started football special oh my god football
13:17special too i i forget that ah how are you how's things how are you how's things how are you
13:24how's
13:24things what's your name peter nice to meet you peter ah it's lovely to meet you too where are you
13:29from
13:29donagal oh yeah that's kind of unfortunate for you too isn't it football ways oh don't get me started
13:48so
13:52what are you in the mood for
13:54hmm
13:57cocktail go on it's like a negroni surprise me why not what even is a negroni it's strong now
14:04do you like your strong cocktails he'll have a strong one all right yeah see there you go
14:08you got a strong woman in the strong cocktail yeah we need to catch up here you know
14:17and so last year i spent a whole year dating to date i wasn't dating for an outcome i wasn't
14:23dating
14:23to find the husband to find a boyfriend to do any of this i think when you put that pressure
14:27on yourself
14:28yourself and the universe it's a lot of pressure to put on someone you just start talking for the
14:31first time in my opinion it's a stranger i just love to know that somebody has their own life because
14:35i am a busy girl the nine to five has never worked for me i'm more of a like i'll
14:40work on a saturday
14:40and a sunday and a monday and i might take tuesday off for myself my work we start on wednesday
14:44because
14:44i work nice so tomorrow morning i'm gonna go gym i want to chill out i'm gonna go sleep before
14:49work
14:50next morning i'm going with you after you know like you just i like i just like routine like i
14:53know
14:53what i'm gonna do for the week like you kind of have to yeah so where do you have time
14:57in your life
14:58for a woman then i can make time if they're if it's the right woman i can make time
15:05have you ever dated anyone with kids or anything like that no do you have kids no do you don't
15:13have
15:14three wow two girls and one boy what age are they ten seven she's gonna be eaten actually oh my
15:24little
15:24my little boy he's only five oh yeah so do you co-parent oh yeah yeah like we get on
15:30really
15:31well like she's such a good mother like so obviously i have a lot to live off they're like they
15:35are very
15:35good their mom does a very good job with them that's it's great like except for maybe like when
15:41you have to shower them their hair i don't do a really good job with their hair when a mom
15:44does it
15:45just perfect and i just i just can't get it like and i've tried my i always try my best
15:49i've been singing
15:50like what four years now i'm going five years like no one's ever met my kids like i don't i
15:54wouldn't feel comfortable interested in my kids to anyone unless like unless they were so right yeah
15:59but they know obviously dating can be difficult like for example if i see like i'm into someone
16:02and stuff obviously i let them know like because kids are like a big part of my life i'm not
16:06gonna
16:06you were quite young how many kids i was like 20 21 21 my first year in college so i
16:12had my
16:13yeah we moved out when i was 16. oh you had you had the baby and all so you had
16:18to like you've got
16:19your own place did you just yeah just an apartment yeah yeah i'd say that was a shock to the
16:23system
16:24two 16 year old i don't know it all just walked out that way to know what i mean the
16:28day jamie's
16:29born and he got handed to me yeah something just switched like so i literally became a man at 16.
16:41yeah yeah i don't like it involved too much for me do you mind cleaning up no i have ocd's
16:48though
16:49yeah i have ocd adhd i have autism i have ecolia i only got diagnosed in 22. i thought it
16:59would be
17:00life-changing but it kind of made my whole life make sense you like that like big crowds and stuff
17:06you need to beat you it was a bit yeah yeah yeah just a pub full of people i can
17:10hear like every
17:11conversation going on yeah some people say why don't you go and i'm like so it's just kind of
17:15over anymore it's too overwhelmingly yeah i very rarely go out though it's very hard to meet someone
17:21have you ever been on a blind date like this same i was at a blind deb's huh my friend
17:28rob rang and he
17:28was like my friends boys after breaking up on the deb's tonight will you come and i was like all
17:32right
17:33okay okay well it's actually it's that he spent the whole night crying trying to come back with his ex
17:36that's kind of lovely yeah but i still had a great night
17:47get down to me now will you don't you rush me on us
17:51my house was like mad this morning just for everyone trying to help me like
17:56figure out what to wear oh it was so bad how many is in your family six six children yeah
18:02wow what are you the oldest oh you're the youngest oh my siblings would be like jesus like when you
18:09want to find a fella and like i just to be honest i don't know when is a fella going
18:13to find me really
18:14like that thing i'm not so bad i'm an only child so are you to get the farm all to
18:20yourself that's
18:21stressful though twice the work yeah we have to do all the chores all the farm work you're at the
18:27hard labor see her so is it just sheep you do or is it like she's back sheep on a
18:32kettle and like
18:33are you in a like town or a village i'm in a village called called
18:44called what muff m-u-f-f
18:51muff muff muff muff muff muff muff what how is that like real like how is that
19:02i i was i was just kind of cutting him many times you would say muff five times
19:08how did you actually count it
19:18david is all set to be the life and soul of the party he just loves a big dude
19:28most of my teenage life has been spent in the pursuit of hair volume
19:33oh oh look at my hair i used to bag my mom to let me start my hair on my
19:38own
19:39i used to fry my hair used to watch it sizzle
19:41i got my hairspray and radio
19:47man you're on the mission huh i am i feel like i've been fired out for canon
19:50you brought the vibe with you cool man
19:52good morning balsamore
19:56you look good thank you it's very 80s i love it yeah funky this isn't a love this is a
20:01moment
20:02once i have a good hair day that's just you know i can i feel like i can take on
20:05the world
20:07and what are you looking for mostly a good time okay yeah good and if they like me that's only
20:12a bonus
20:13well they'll have to like i mean how can you not like this this is class some people do find
20:16my
20:17personality but intimidating well then they're not for you that's the thing you know i'm not
20:21willing to tame myself for anybody and nobody ever should like
20:29hi carl has learned how to make quality connections by transmitting on his own unique frequency
20:38i grew up with being labeled oh you're the weird kids
20:43but then i found more people who were like on my wavelength
20:49as we got older we realized a lot of people might not like you but that's okay
20:57find friends who do and stick with them instead
21:03oh
21:06i know it's i knew i'd overthink the door it doesn't matter perfection is boring you know
21:11i usually do like someone that's like really goofy and laid back and has kind of a more
21:15unique vibe this walk here it's like what's happening i was just walking down being like okay all i have
21:22to do is just open the door and then i pulled the wrong door and you know what i've already
21:26made that
21:26mistake so now if anything else happens it's fine it is worst comes to worst this is like a great
21:32tinder bio
21:34as featured on hi how are you davis nice to meet you nice to meet you how are you doing
21:41i'm well sure yeah listen i don't buy it so
21:45you're safe thank you very much hi how are you hiya oh look at this
21:52i mean your hair's gorgeous to be fair
21:58i think you have to be very happy in yourself and satisfying yourself before you get involved
22:01with other people it's true how to set boundaries with people as well
22:04she said boundaries yeah you have to set boundaries you love the boundaries that in king
22:08they definitely did in like past relationships allow someone to overstep my boundaries a lot and i
22:13became like this little insecure shell of myself that wasn't me i'll never let myself go back to
22:20being that girl again i've done loads of therapy i've done loads of like so i was going to talk
22:25to
22:25someone though it's really important to talk to somebody i've never had a therapy session in my life
22:28really never i think absolutely everybody can benefit from therapy i think your mental health
22:33is like the most important thing i was never brought up to like deal with emotion and things
22:37like that like i remember my dad he he actually passed away in 2020 i didn't tell my ex in
22:43time
22:43when he passed away i didn't tell her for a couple of weeks he used to live in england so
22:48we had to
22:48bring the body back so by the time everything was sorted obviously i said it to her then like but
22:53i do believe a man does have to be strong but i should be able to open up at the
22:57same time
22:57but yeah i'm a little yeah i'm a little more in touch with my emotions now anyway i feel like
23:01i need
23:02someone to bring to like take me out my comfort zone i love people who are just very out there
23:06chatty but just to bring they're bringing out another side of you as well as much as i am secure
23:12and happy single there's other times where you're just like when am i gonna meet my person i'm ready like
23:19draw my chips i don't want to finish your chips of course you can you can have it bro it's
23:24a chat it's
23:25i'm good did you call me bro no no no i said you can have it though oh that you're
23:32like you have
23:32bro maybe i did am i your bro maybe i did no no but it's just it's that's such a
23:39way i talk to
23:40literally everyone uh it's just rolls out my tongue all the time but no you're not my bro you're
23:50um you're a nice person you're a nice girl thank you nice girl you're nice too thank you i appreciate
23:56that i was very pleased when i saw you like and honestly if you're a very chatty person like yeah
24:01that's been actually great like no honestly i've had a good time cheers
24:10should be my type yeah she's pretty she's a good energy about her cool we're off to a flyer then
24:15so
24:16it's a love to hear so far so good yeah fingers crossed for your mind he's a really nice guy
24:21and he's
24:21really hot like the conversation has flown yeah it's flown but i don't know i feel like i am kind
24:30of
24:30initiating the conversation a lot more like it's early days it's early days oh do you listen he goes
24:36what you do when i said an energy healer he goes we'll get the heart and we'll smash it and
24:40see if
24:41you can put it back together because you're a healer what will you do if the spirits try to contact
24:46you
24:47during the date i will chat with them before i go in and i'll say this and no to chat
24:52but if i go to
24:53the toilet you can pass on a message then i could get messages for someone sitting three tables away so
24:58if
24:58i hear someone saying their name if i go in and someone says oh hi sir and i'd be like
25:04this
25:05the server the message is for so i'll say here listen by the way i was in the toilet and
25:08mary says
25:10your chain is under your pillow do you know what i mean
25:13yeah we have two wine oh yeah perfect thank you so much one for the lady oh you're very good
25:20thank you
25:23thank you thank you very much thank you you look lovely in the yellow thank you you're welcome
25:28i actually do yeah thank you well i know if you fancy your date if i'm kind of i'd go
25:33and
25:34smiling say it could be a bit awkward as well that's that's definitely another one now
25:47that's why you have to hold it like this to you no just hold it like that like if i
25:52was trying to
25:52flirt like i'm just going up and taking the piss out with someone really my hands are that delicate
25:57you know like they're not that big like you don't need to grasp the glass my friends say my hands
26:02are
26:02like sandpaper like the feel of it just sandpaper your hands aren't even that big like are they like
26:07sandpaper like that like they're not that bad i'm doing that thing i like to stop it right now
26:19i'm shit awkward i'm locked as intolerance so fair ibs girlies rise up but i'm not allergic i think
26:26i'm just such a picky or chicken nuggets chips maybe beans my family's polish and i go there polish food
26:31is
26:31so like oh it's just it's like cold chicken inside like gelatin like it's all like communist era 1980s
26:38like i like the 80s but that was like poland was not good so i'm blessed if somebody doesn't get
26:44my
26:44sense of humor which can be very dry very sarcastic we are dead in the water i love bantering with
26:48people
26:49that's like my love language oh i'm a yapper pro yapper oh you're listening by the way where are you
26:53from
26:53uh baliwan really yeah where are you from from lukin oh fair enough opposite ends of the tourtine rest in
26:59peace the
26:5914. i'm proud of where i'm from i hate when people kind of have like a lesser down mentality
27:06went to college at tc when people were like oh i live in a student accommodation while i'm on it's
27:10such a dive and i'm like oh i'm from there like oh oh you went to college good for you
27:14and i'm like
27:14okay wow so i worked in a student union for a year that's fun though that was so fun my
27:19favorite thing
27:19was planning freshers and booking jedward jedward did you get to meet them they're so nice yeah in the
27:25first five minutes of being on stage doesn't one of them just like do a bit of a jump across
27:29the
27:29stage and land on his ankle oh they said grand and got back up anyways i used to be a
27:35competitive
27:35dancer and i did that same mistake i landed like i sprained my ankle on stage and i set out
27:40for a
27:40month covid came around by the time i healed and i just never went back to it oh go back
27:44to it i hate
27:45dancing well i'm a theater kid but i don't like dancing i am quite outgoing and quite loud even like
27:51i very
27:51much fit to build my friends of being like annoying theater kids what's your opinion on dinosaurs i
27:55went to a dinosaur phase i used to pretend i was a dinosaur and like bite my friends i feel
28:00like i
28:00need to see you do your best impression of the dinosaur i'd be like i want someone that if i
28:05was
28:05like on an iowa on the way to the bus stop we will start a really annoying sing song down
28:09the road
28:09my friend in scotland got a noise complaint because i was screaming like a version of my madonna while
28:15walking down the street to her apartment after a night out that's just that's how i roll i can't sing
28:19for
28:19the life for me to be fair it seems like you're the dancer and i'm the singer so we make
28:22one good
28:23tier of performance i think so yeah we can do this he's lovely he's from waterford go on monster
28:33and are you finished eating yeah i'm done i think she's someone to chip so i'm not 100 sure
28:37i'll leave it in case i'll just leave that there for her a few months yeah yeah and i'll come
28:40back in a bit
28:40just in case thank you very much not at all
28:48i don't want to have it like you can have it though i don't mind that was really sweet that
28:53you
28:53did that when i was gone i'm not gonna wait thanks yay
29:03you going away this year or have you been away i haven't been away this year no i was away
29:10last year
29:11i was in morocco oh so was i i actually went in october i went on my own first time
29:15going away on my
29:16own ever i've been away on my own a couple of times yeah enjoy what's most important to you in
29:22a
29:22partner i suppose someone who doesn't mind talking about their feelings and communicating have everything
29:27on the table basically what's your work and i work in my supermarket all right but uh studying acting
29:34in gaiety now i'm doing a part time okay for the last year i've been focusing on myself and building
29:42myself up kind of had a big life event last year that kind of just put everything into perspective
29:47your father passed away heart attack
29:50massive heart attack 65 oh very unexpected for you yeah totally unexpected yeah
29:58it was hard to digest for a while i thought it was kind of going to derail me but it
30:04just drove me
30:05to pursue things that i've wanted to pursue i remember doing speech and drama at school yeah i've
30:11always wanted to try the acting never had the confidence to go for it done a bit of soul searching
30:16and went back and it was just like something just clicked in my head it was like he left all
30:21his strength
30:22with me so and go over to him to just put myself out there now and go for things so
30:27you must have
30:28been real already coming on this if you're used to kind of acting no no it's different like when you
30:32have a slick you have a script and stuff you know what i do yeah yeah it's just different because
30:35this
30:36is real yeah yeah yeah you just have to wing it yeah so far so good yeah so what did
30:42you ask for yeah
30:43brown eyes brown hair nice teeth good personality but for a bit of crack yeah the crack has the mustard
30:52isn't it mm-hmm can you drink this no do you want something no i'm really i'm really liking this
30:59oh okay plus i ate all your chips i don't mind you can have how well you are easy now
31:08i had a really good time where tosh was really good looking so you didn't stop that challenge
31:13literally the whole way till the day it was really nice like that's way too much strawberry for me bro
31:16you don't like sweet things i do like sweet things i'm here with you look i like sweet things
31:23damn it you took my line right from under me
31:27would you like to see each other again yeah he's lovely for sure i think we have a lot more
31:33to
31:34talk about oh thank you i do i think oh that's good well i don't i'm joking i'm joking i'm
31:40joking no
31:41i definitely would like to see you again yeah thank you thank you that was great fun he's so so
31:50sweet i really like his mindset i think like he's very mature and super kind person conversation's
31:58yeah you're an interesting conversationalist which you can't say about all men
32:10oh well that's great i've just made oh cute
32:22will you keep her again yes
32:47this man you are going to love and we are going to bring to the george how's it going so
32:51far
32:51god really good we actually have a lot in common oh that's great i've been single basically my
32:57entire life i would like to go out there a bit more but just i struggle kind of doing that
33:02and
33:02would you have a typical type just kind of somebody who can handle me honestly and do you think he
33:07could i think he could oh yeah sometimes when i have interest in somebody or somebody shows interest
33:11in me i kind of freak out and i'm like oh my god oh my god like i can't do
33:14this i can't do this and
33:15it's gonna like shut the door off completely we have been having good chats um i did ask him to
33:20do an
33:20impression of a dinosaur and he did it i've actually never been in a relationship i definitely do have
33:28like weird commitmenty issues there's been times where like i've really got on with someone but like
33:32i start thinking like long term and start like listing off the variables and like if i can see
33:37in the next like two years an issue forming i'm just gonna avoid it i'm definitely getting more of like
33:44friendship vibes because i don't think we're flirting yet i am going to go in and try flirt a bit
33:48i think i need to just kind of get into that mentality of i'm just gonna go for it
33:52i want the experiences and i want to have someone to just do dumb shit with
33:57oh thank you sure did you even come to the restaurant if you didn't have chocolate heart
34:02you know thank you you're very welcome enjoy it oh so cute crack it and then she got on the
34:08heel
34:08and then it looks so cute ah it's not hard it's soft
34:24it's okay thank you now i am very upset
34:31but then my head just tasted just different comparisons to pay for joy
34:42what's that supposed to be what is that
34:48oh i think it's a sweet potato one i don't like sweet potato and me working with potatoes at my
34:54job too
34:54i'm doing it you call potatoes as well
34:58specializing yeah jesus you're flat out then aren't you
35:01i'm more or less busy 24 7. between firemen playing my football playing my hurling
35:07and a lot of fatigue kind of kicks in with that as well like i did struggle with mental health
35:14you can imagine the stress the anxiety everything that goes on your head
35:20i did take a step back and like having an outside life and kind of lose friendships
35:25can help with mental health that's what i kind of learned from that experience
35:34oh what's that is strong i'll have to say is that do not make it
35:39no you don't i do no you don't because you would have had it gone by now if you did
35:44if i had that gone i wouldn't have finished my meat is it really strong test it
35:55i don't think i like what is happening i'll take it you don't like that you don't want
36:11you should have brought it to the bathroom with you and just poured it into time
36:20i think this place is too fancy for me we should be in a dive bar realistically
36:24any rockets at the most highly rockets my beloved although i am i have beef with the milkshakes
36:28they've gotten smaller as the years went on i wouldn't know that i'm not about that like
36:33i'm so sorry i feel like if i ate that i would have like something's exploding yeah something i have
36:41more volume in my hair than ever it would just stand straight up like jedwards
36:45i probably would take that anyway to the average person sure i don't think i'm too far off to be
36:49honest as well it's good to have individuality i feel like when you look a bit out of the ordinary
36:53people kind of give you like oh i'm used to stairs i spent a lot of time trying to fit
36:59in and have
37:00people being like oh you read books that's so wild why aren't you playing football and then i play
37:05football and they'd be like oh you're bad at football school was weird definitely it taught me that
37:11people can be very close-minded but it also taught me that finding finding your people is so important
37:19i was always raised to be a bit of a tough cookie i remember one time this is really nasty
37:24but somebody
37:25took their semen to put it bluntly and spread like put it all over my locker
37:34i found out who did it so what i did i went to the butcher's the next day i got
37:38a lamb's heart
37:39and i put it all over their locker and i was like if you're gonna do this i'm gonna do
37:42this so
37:43don't mess with me people in my school speculated for years whether or not i was trans i didn't
37:48deny it because i'm like would it be so bad if i was no it wouldn't but then again i
37:52don't want
37:52you an explanation i hate when people are so locked into the idea that they need to know something about
37:58you i know i played into it they're like what's going on underneath there and i'm like come and have
38:02a look at my vagina you know that was me in the changing room i just kind of laughed at
38:06all it isn't
38:07nice but that's you know that's how life is some people are not gonna be nice and you just have
38:10to learn how to deal with it like who cares what anybody else thinks yeah actually cheers i know
38:17this is like way too late but cheers it's launch it's launch up the vibes are vibing it's such a
38:23good
38:23yap when two yappers collide watch out
38:33you're not gonna eat your your flower it's not edible is it yeah i have hay fever you're not allergic
38:42if you eat them you're not gonna start sneezing you know my eyes swell up it's all your fault
38:47better heal me yeah what went through your mind when you saw your date
38:54it was a bit overwhelmed with the whole situation but it just everything just can't tell
39:02it's after flying in all the same isn't it it went first it feels like we're only sitting down
39:06for about 10 minutes didn't it that's good sign isn't it it is a good sign she had a nice
39:11energy
39:11about her we were vibing it's definitely more to explore thank you thank you i get it no can we
39:19not go dutch no please well thank you very much get me back one time maybe
39:29would you guys like to see each other romantically again
39:33you go first okay i'd usually say ladies first but i'll go first yeah i would yeah
39:39um for me i think you're a really lovely guy and your sound which was just no spark for me
39:50okay that's all right that's okay you're you're cool you're dead kill yeah i'll take that yeah
39:58see you later bye bye see ya
40:02you're hot and all like do you know don't get me wrong and your sound just the spark was missing
40:07that's cool i would love to see it again be mates and maybe to give you a healing yeah you
40:13can give me
40:14a healing if you want yeah yeah would thank you a long time i won't
40:21thanks a million is there anything you would have done differently maybe have hearts that smashed
40:35it's working there yeah yeah what if we just staged a really dramatic fight oh my god we showed
40:41like you drag my hair out right putting it across the room when the staff members comes over next
40:45you pretend they're just having a massive argument i think so too what's it what's the argument over
40:50though what are we fighting over chaplerone is overrated oh that had a string didn't it
40:58i'm sorry everything she did is what lady gaga did 16 years ago it's like art pop leftovers
41:03it's like chopper roan wow another glass of wine and a vodka white thank you so much
41:13we're currently having a mini argument over oh really he thinks that chopper roan is overrated
41:18lady gaga wannabe i don't think that she's lady gaga wannabe i'm suddenly you definitely can't settle
41:24this but um no no it's not going to sound no but it's fine well it's good that you can
41:28have it
41:29we're agreeing to disagree and that's good even though you're in the wrong we're agreeing to disagree
41:33do you think so
41:37in polish we have a little saying called tema which basically means
41:41it's a topic that flows like a river there is no end to it
41:44could i partake in stealing a small bit of course go ahead oh thanks darling should i just lift it
41:49across like
41:52oh it's nice it's very deep feeling it you can only share with um certain people so how would you
41:59die in a 80s horror film i'd flirt with the killer i would try to like get by them by
42:03flirting with them
42:05and they would just like probably chop my head off oh that's cute i've spent so long even growing up
42:11trying to like plan a future but the one variable you can plan for is love i guess if i
42:16have to choose
42:17a way to go shark attack i'd love a shark attack that'd be funny right now i can't plan for
42:23that part
42:24of my future if i find someone i can start to plan it i definitely have all of like the
42:29love to give
42:30i actually hope that when i'm dead somebody either stuffs me and puts me in their living room
42:34or chops my head off and mounts on a wall like a deer
42:38but i've always said it would be extremely funny if i get cremated and that's mixed into paint and it's
42:44a portrait of me but like not even like a nice like casual portrait like full creepy like me and
42:49my dog in like a suit just like staring and like it needs to be left in an attic for
42:53at least 50 years
42:56i would like to be a ghost yeah
43:08my granddad he would have been a farmer now so like yeah and then my father never really like
43:14like he'd help them out but like he never really got into the farming yeah like i wouldn't live on
43:18a farm or anything i wouldn't mind it though farmer's wife i wouldn't mind it what's the biggest
43:27misconception peter do you think people have about you i suppose that i'm just kind of stuck with the
43:32one straight path in life i went to italy so did rome a couple weeks ago did you don't the
43:37trevi
43:38fountain too do you coin in what's that mean instruction is you throw one coin so you have
43:43to throw it from your right hand over your shoulder okay that means you'll come back to room two coins
43:48that means you'll find love really and the third one is you'll get married actually look maybe we'll go
43:56back together away definitely some people do leave the country and never come back that's what i kind
44:02of don't want i want to kind of go out and explore and definitely come back i probably want someone
44:07just to do those things with as well you know see we go over to scotland because my mom's scottish
44:13you
44:13see never been over in scotland come over you can come over experience the highlands oh it's a really
44:20nice place is it we'll go there i'll take you over i'll make it work cheers to us cheers now
44:30i'm just
44:35gonna pop this down okay let you know that uh we'll need the table back in about 10 minutes okay
44:40perfect
44:40thank you so what 10 minutes left what are we gonna do with it make them a strip what
44:49went through your head when you saw your date for the very first time i thought that he looked
44:54like somebody that i would get along with it's my friend's birthday today oh can we send her a
44:58voice note singing happy birthday of course as the date went on just jails perfectly i felt
45:04happy birthday hey happy birthday to you i love you we're having such a great chat it was like we
45:12were in
45:12a kebab shop at 4am you know the club bathroom chats yeah i feel like that's pretty much the vibe
45:18which i
45:18think is a very good vibe to have would you like to see each other again romantically yeah
45:29sadly i don't think romantically okay right now i would 110 percent love to see you again just like
45:35hang out like literally and then from then on obviously yeah i'd be happy to see where it goes
45:40a pleasure to have you thank you bye-bye thank you so much bye-bye i genuinely think there was
45:45a spark
45:45towards like a friendship that i'd like to explore i feel like there possibly could be real romantically
45:51so find your people find your tribe i think you know people come into your life for a reason
46:00if i just make a really good friend i make a really good friend
46:05i think we need to go on a night out and be the most insufferable people in the smoking
46:09area absolutely terrorize everyone i agree that doubles not ready i fear
46:25i don't know you know huh i don't well i wouldn't have finished that we'd be more of like a
46:31basic
46:31beach when it comes to those things so i'm quite basic as well well we just can't play to rock
46:36short side or like rock short side or like rock short side chat away i do it's like let's go
46:41somewhere for drinks before you have to get the bus back facts i thought he ticked all the boxes on
46:47you jesus lads he's couldn't have done any better to be a fizz i'll get it no you will not
46:52i will no
46:53don't let this turn into a father ted episode now mrs doyland our friend they might be up at
46:58donny gold shearing sheep yet you never know i'll revoluti later right would you like to see each
47:06other again romantically i'd say yes definitely i would too i would say yeah too yeah yeah
47:14i'll have to get your number so i can revolut you no that's not gonna be a problem that's not
47:18gonna be
47:18a problem do you fancy her love is like a butterfly yeah i do gentle as a side a multi
47:25-coloured
47:26once i came in her looks were just class her bubbly bubbly personality too like
47:32preparing a few trips too like scotland belfast donegal wicklow rome was another one too that's
47:38right oh there could be more added to the list really i'd take you up to a championship match
47:44i can imagine you on the sideline just cheering me on what are you doing keep on going
47:49love is like a butterfly see the wedding there'll be three balls of football special to m1
48:09we can crash a pub quiz crash a team that we don't know on the pub quiz and make sure
48:14they lose yeah yeah
48:25i had a good time a great time people who live in monster are great so you know that's actually
48:30very true
48:43i would love to give you a healing i'm down for that yeah
48:46i have to see a vote of that yeah
49:06he was able to take a bit of stick as well anyway i'm well used to it in the football
49:10and hardy fans so yeah
49:29if you'd like to take part in the next season of first dates
49:32first dates apply online at coco content dot ie forward slash first dates we'd love to hear from you
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50:10we'll see you
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