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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Every time I go to the bathroom, it's like dribble, dribble, dribble.
00:05It's annoying.
00:06Well, I done told you you couldn't handle pregnancy.
00:09I'm Isabella.
00:10Me and Bryce have been dating for a year.
00:11We're fixing to have a baby.
00:13We're not fixing to do nothing.
00:14It's fixing to be me pushing out a baby.
00:17So how has the job search been going?
00:19Not too successful.
00:21Buddy, Bryce assured me that he was going to take care of the baby,
00:25and he's not even trying.
00:27Are we together or not?
00:29I don't know.
00:30I'm asking for the bare minimum.
00:31I'm not asking for the freaking moon.
00:33Leave.
00:34I don't care.
00:35All right, that's fine.
00:36Text me whenever your little attitude is over with.
00:40No, I'm scared.
00:42I'm scared.
00:43I'm Amaya.
00:44I'm 16 years old, and I'm having a baby, literally.
00:48You're just going to look at me and focus, okay?
00:50She just doesn't know what she's about to go through.
00:54There is going to be a moment where you steal everything that that girl won't cover.
00:58We call that the ring of fire.
01:00You know, there goes that worrying about your kid part.
01:02It's time to push.
01:04I can't.
01:05I'm scared, Mom.
01:14No.
01:16You okay?
01:16I can't.
01:18I can't.
01:19I can't.
01:20I can't.
01:21I'm so.
01:21No.
01:23It's time to push.
01:24You got to push.
01:25If I can be more ready, then you won't have the strength to push.
01:27Hold on.
01:28It's time.
01:29I can't.
01:30Woo.
01:31Let's go.
01:36Oh, I'm scared, Mom.
01:38No, no, no.
01:39There's no point in being scared.
01:41Hold on.
01:41No, no, no.
01:41Hold on.
01:42I'm coming.
01:42It's okay.
01:43No, you have to do it.
01:45Oh, my.
01:45You have to do it.
01:46My poo.
01:47It's okay.
01:48It hurts.
01:49What the is going on?
01:52It's the vapor you're going to vapor.
01:55We've been in the hospital about 23 hours at this point, and here goes Amaya.
02:02I got it.
02:03No, I don't know if that's what she's saying.
02:05There's pressure in her butthole, and I'm like, that's the baby.
02:09That means it's time to push.
02:10No, it doesn't.
02:11I have to go to the bathroom.
02:13No, it is time to push.
02:15We're about to have as a baby.
02:25Star realized, oh, this is not a joke, and she had to push throughout the pain.
02:30Even though she did get the epidural, she's still feeling pain.
02:34Just freeze my hand.
02:36Just freeze my hand.
02:37No, it hurts.
02:38It's okay.
02:39No, it's not.
02:42I just felt bad.
02:43I couldn't do anything to help her.
02:45I was thinking, like, a hundred things all at once.
02:49A hundred things?
02:50What are those hundred things you were thinking?
02:52If something happened to the baby, if something happened to her, something happened to both of them.
02:59Come on.
03:00Come on.
03:01You don't need help?
03:02Come on.
03:17Come on.
03:19And my heart dropped with it.
03:25I knew at that point, like, it was serious.
03:43Nurse said, if that happens again,
03:45there's no other conversation being had.
03:47We're going straight to the emergency room, you know,
03:50for an emergency C-section.
03:52And that's it.
03:54You can do this.
03:55You're made to do this.
03:58You're Sammy's mama.
03:59You got this.
04:04My worst fear is she'll have to have a C-section,
04:07and the baby won't make it.
04:15And I just don't want her to go through that.
04:22Or have to experience that,
04:24because it's not easy.
04:25At all.
04:46What's wrong?
04:47What?
04:50What?
04:51Okay.
04:56So last night, me and Bryce was talking about
04:58how he should get a job,
05:00and he had the audacity to tell me
05:02that I should be working.
05:04It's common sense.
05:05You got to get a job.
05:06And why don't you get a job, too?
05:08I cannot believe you just said this.
05:10Be real.
05:10Who's going to keep our kid?
05:12You.
05:13I don't really know where me and Bryce are at right now,
05:18because he's not trying for anything.
05:20And I don't know if it's a maturity level.
05:21I don't know.
05:22But I'm worried that he'll never understand
05:25what he needs to do in order to fix
05:28the problems in our relationship.
05:35I guess we'll talk more about
05:36how our conversation went
05:39after we do this.
05:45Because I don't want to get mad again
05:48and be in a bad mood.
05:49You seem to get mad no matter what.
05:51Now you're going to make me mad.
05:53What?
05:54I don't get mad for no reason.
05:56I get mad because I have logical things
05:58to get mad about.
05:59You're mad about a lot of things
06:00that aren't logical.
06:01My feelings are valid,
06:02and you're trying to discourage my feelings.
06:05Like, they don't matter.
06:08I never said that.
06:10It's how you act.
06:13Can you pull over for a second?
06:16Yeah.
06:16So I agreed to go to Bryce's
06:18Nan and Papaw's house,
06:19but I don't know how it's going to go
06:20because me and him still haven't met me
06:23and I haven't figured anything out.
06:24You think the world revolves around you?
06:26If it's not on your timing
06:28and what you want to do?
06:28If it's not on your way,
06:29it's not right.
06:30It's an argument.
06:31You're not doing .
06:33What are you doing?
06:34I do my school.
06:35I clean my mom's house for her
06:37because that's my job, you know?
06:40Because my mom pays for everything for me.
06:41Yeah.
06:42So that's what she expects from me,
06:43so that's what I do.
06:44Yeah.
06:45I watch Truly.
06:46What are you talking about?
06:47You don't even watch her have to talk.
06:49She just comes in your room
06:49and you make her food when she asks.
06:55Like, I do stuff with her.
06:56We color.
06:57My neck's hurting.
06:58We paint.
06:59I'm over with this conversation.
07:00My neck's hurting.
07:01Okay.
07:02Because you're a cry baby.
07:04Yeah.
07:05You are.
07:06Yeah.
07:06Glad you finally admitted it.
07:07Yeah.
07:08Keep saying yeah.
07:09What about it?
07:10I know I'm a brat,
07:12but don't make me a brat.
07:13Like, there's a reason I act like a brat.
07:15I'm not just a brat for no reason.
07:17Bryce expects me to just sit there
07:18and take, like, whatever.
07:21Probably because that's how his Nansu is
07:24and she just takes everybody's bull
07:26and she don't stick up for herself.
07:29It's learned behavior.
07:31Whatever, Bryce.
07:33You've changed ever since I got pregnant.
07:38Okay.
07:39I see.
07:39You have?
07:40No, I haven't.
07:41Yes, you have.
07:42Yes, you have.
07:43No.
07:44What do you mean, how?
07:45No.
07:46Because we never fought this much.
07:49At this point, I'm like,
07:51all right, what are we arguing over?
07:52It's like just stupid things.
07:54And I'm not saying anything that she has to do is easy.
07:57Like, taking care of a kid and doing schoolwork
07:59is definitely hard.
08:00I will give it to her.
08:01And I'll make sure, no matter what,
08:04that I'll find a way to make money.
08:05But I want her to understand that I need to do things my own way
08:10without her harping on me.
08:13But it's like talking to a brick wall.
08:15When have you ever said it was your fault?
08:16Ever.
08:17Ever.
08:18What is my fault?
08:19Like, what do I do that's my fault?
08:21Okay, that's my fault.
08:22I get mad over...
08:22What have you changed for me then?
08:23I get...
08:24What have you changed for me?
08:24I don't know.
08:25How do you expect us to sit here and talk if you can't even...
08:28Because you can't let me talk ever.
08:29You never see myself.
08:32I never see your side of what?
08:33No, never.
08:34Of what?
08:35Of anything.
08:36It's always my fault, my fault, my fault, my fault.
08:38My fault, my fault.
08:38I don't do nothing but sit in my bed.
08:40How is it ever my fault?
08:42Okay, that's the problem.
08:44Bryce doesn't seem like he even listens to when I talk.
08:47It's going through one ear and right out the other.
08:50Like, I just can't get through to him.
08:52You know, I feel like Bryce is this way because there's nobody telling him what he's doing
08:56is wrong except Isabella.
08:58Because his dad died and his mom, she's worthless.
09:02So his grandparents are the only people he has to hold him accountable and to tell him,
09:07you're wrong.
09:08And if they can't understand and get it through his head, then I'm done.
09:10Whatever, Bryce.
09:15I see your belly.
09:17Hi, Mia.
09:18I'm 16.
09:18I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
09:20They're headbands.
09:21Oh, my goodness.
09:22Oh, that's cute.
09:23Today, me and my friends are going to pop for the baby shower.
09:26Oh, Lord.
09:28And hopefully, my dad doesn't flip out.
09:30How much you spend on all this?
09:32800 and...
09:33800?
09:34What?
09:36Hard, hard.
09:37Four.
09:38Six.
09:39Seven.
09:39With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did, I mean, it's a heart.
09:44It can stop at any moment, you know?
09:45And go.
09:46To the count of 10.
09:47Go.
09:47Come on.
09:48I killed my breath for that long.
09:50I killed.
09:51I was very scared.
09:52She may have to have a C-section.
09:55Oh.
09:56Come on.
09:56Push.
09:57Push.
10:00Give me a reason to be with you.
10:02I'll be there when I'm hurry.
10:10She's making.
10:11You got...
10:11Okay.
10:12I think we need more butter.
10:13I mean, more milk.
10:14Okay.
10:15Let's see.
10:16I'm Mia.
10:17I'm 16.
10:18I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
10:19It's still so crazy to me.
10:21Like, even I think, like, oh, this baby's about to call me mom.
10:24And I'm 16 years old.
10:25Like, I'm...
10:26Like, I still call my mom mom, you know?
10:28It's just so crazy.
10:29Like, this little baby, like, it's depending on me.
10:33Let me move.
10:34Okay.
10:36I guess your belly's gonna hit the cupcake.
10:40I work at a bakery in Baton Rouge.
10:41I make $13 an hour.
10:44I start it at 950.
10:46So I'm earning a little over $500 per week before taxes.
10:50I think I counted you made 70 pretzel sticks, which they are so beautiful.
10:55They are so cute.
10:56Every time I get paid, I put half in my savings, and then I put the other half in my
11:01account just for me to be able to spend.
11:03Because I'm not gonna work all this and just put it all in my savings and get nothing from it.
11:08Because that's stupid.
11:14Hi, Ms. Jo.
11:17Hello, my beautiful ladies.
11:18Hello, Mia.
11:20Hello, hello.
11:22I can see your belly.
11:24Oh, my gosh.
11:26My pregnancy has been going very well.
11:29Um, I don't think a lot has changed since I got pregnant.
11:31Besides, like, my belly got a lot bigger.
11:35Yeah.
11:36And then my face has gotten better.
11:37And my fingers have gotten better.
11:39Because if you see and you look where my ring's at.
11:42See that?
11:43That wasn't, that didn't happen before I got pregnant.
11:46Like, there wasn't a big old mark there.
11:48And, like, an indention in my finger.
11:51And now it's hard to push my ring back on.
11:53Who's that ring from?
11:54Jessie?
11:58Wait, what?
11:59Where's that ring from?
12:01Oh, because I promised to marry her one day.
12:03Jessie?
12:06I'm Jessie.
12:07I'm her boyfriend.
12:08And I'm also the dad.
12:10Me and Jessie have been dating for a year and four months.
12:14But we've known each other for, like, two and a half years.
12:21I was the first person to say, I love you.
12:23Like, I kissed her and it was just, like, our whole future played in my mind.
12:28I see, like, us being together probably till death do its part.
12:36So what do you plan on getting?
12:38I want to do, like, the pink and brown counter print.
12:41Do you have, like, an inspo pic?
12:43No.
12:44No? Okay.
12:44It's just in my brain.
12:46Today me and my friends are going to go and shop for the baby shower, which is in a few
12:50days.
12:51We are having around 50 people at my house.
12:56And I'm going to try to stick to a budget of around $300.
13:02So, where do you want to start?
13:04We've got to find Western.
13:05We've got to find the Western.
13:07Western.
13:08Okay.
13:09Oh.
13:09I see cow prints.
13:11Oh.
13:11Perfect.
13:12You may have found it.
13:13Three, four, eight.
13:15There are headbands.
13:16Oh, my goodness.
13:17Oh, that's cute.
13:18Cute.
13:18One, two, three, four, five, six.
13:21Yeah, and then get these.
13:23I'd say five.
13:23And then get, like, the pink, like we were saying, like, get the pink and go in the middle.
13:27Okay?
13:28When I first found out I was pregnant, I freaked out.
13:31And I cried and cried for, like, weeks and weeks.
13:35And then I found out I'm having a girl, and I'm super excited I'm having a girl because
13:41me and my mom, we never had a very good relationship.
13:44And I want a relationship, like, I want it with my mom.
13:47I want it with her.
13:48You can't be a 100% perfect mother, you know?
13:51But I think I'm going to be a pretty good mom.
13:54Okay.
13:55We can put Jesse in some chaps.
13:57Look, something like this.
13:58Did you see him in that?
14:00That is terrible.
14:01I think he'll go with the thing.
14:02After I found out she was pregnant, I was sad and worried and frustrated.
14:06But after the first few days, it was like, okay, I can actually do this.
14:09Because I've always wanted to be a father.
14:11Because I never really had one, but I've always wanted to be one.
14:14Well, yeah, but he wants to play good cut back off, and he wants me to be the back cop,
14:17and he wants to be the good cop all the time.
14:21He's a sucker.
14:25What are you texting on your phone?
14:27I'm texting Jesse.
14:29Well, we're having a fun time.
14:31What's he doing?
14:31He's supposed to come to the house when we're done.
14:33And he's stressed out because he don't have a ride to the house and all that.
14:38And he keeps texting me.
14:39Well, he's putting that stress on me.
14:41Whatever.
14:43I'm practically planning this baby shower and doing this baby shower by myself,
14:47because my mom hasn't really helped during my pregnancy.
14:51And even though me and my dad are a lot closer than me and my mom,
14:53he just don't understand because he's a guy.
14:56And then Jesse's mom has bought a few things to help me decorate and everything,
15:00but my mom can get kind of jealous.
15:03It would just aggravate her a little bit if Jesse's mom helped out.
15:09Yep.
15:10It was a lot.
15:12Good morning.
15:13Or afternoon.
15:14How are y'all?
15:15Good.
15:15How are you?
15:25Two of these?
15:26Yes.
15:29Is this in budget mail?
15:31As I'm checking out, the numbers are steadily going up.
15:33And we do exceed $300 by a bit.
15:41$871.91.
15:44That's over your budget.
15:47Oh, Lord.
15:49I might have went a little overboard with spending for the baby shower, but it's my money.
15:53I do what I want with it.
15:54I just hope I didn't spend all that money for it to be a day filled with drama.
16:00Only because our moms haven't met yet.
16:02And the first time they're supposed to meet is at the baby shower.
16:05I don't know how I feel about that.
16:07Me either.
16:08Because when you put my family and Jesse's family together, who knows what's going to happen.
16:19Come on.
16:20Come on.
16:21Come on, push.
16:22Go!
16:23Push.
16:23Hard.
16:24Hard.
16:24So it has been 24 hours since me, Maia, and Mama G have been in that labor room.
16:32Maia is just in that constant pain, just trying to push.
16:35That's it.
16:35Hard.
16:35Hard.
16:36Four.
16:36Six.
16:38Seven.
16:39With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did, I mean, it can, the heart, it can
16:44stop at any moment, you know?
16:46And so she may have to have a C-section, and that's my biggest worry.
16:54And go.
16:54To the count of ten.
16:55Go.
16:55Come on.
16:57I've run for that.
17:01Just like that.
17:03All right.
17:03Congrats.
17:04OK, Maia.
17:05So here's what we're going to do.
17:06OK.
17:07OK, no more shouting.
17:08OK.
17:09Don't get to talking.
17:10They're going to be you and me.
17:10OK.
17:11OK.
17:12Listen to me.
17:14Nice, quiet delivery.
17:15It's better for you and better for babies.
17:17OK?
17:18OK.
17:18All you have to focus on is holding that breath and bearing down and pushing as hard
17:23as you can for that ten seconds.
17:24OK.
17:25OK.
17:26Very good.
17:28Oh, man.
17:29The doctor had to tell everyone to shut up.
17:33I mean, I get it.
17:34We are a very loud family.
17:37You know, he puts his foot down, to be honest, and just tells us we need to all be quiet
17:41and
17:41let him do his job.
17:43But Lord knows I'm praying and just hoping Amaya's going to be able to push and can deliver
17:49this baby vaginally.
17:51Oh, my God.
17:53Feel that pressure?
17:54Yes.
17:55Good.
17:56Take a deep breath.
17:57Come on.
17:58I am.
17:59Take a deep breath.
18:00You're doing it.
18:01One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, three.
18:09Good job.
18:11I was scared.
18:13I was scared, too.
18:14I was very scared.
18:15Because it's been a long 24 hours for all of us.
18:20And Amaya was like, come on, you got to do this.
18:24It's go time.
18:25And you got to put your all into it.
18:27The nurse told her it could be three hours of pushing.
18:30She was like, oh, hell no.
18:33At that point, they kind of put a little fire under her.
18:35You know?
18:36Yeah.
18:37One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, nine, nine, ten, ten.
18:42One, two, three, five, six, five, six, seven, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten,
18:54ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten.
18:54He's got his hair, mama.
18:55Oh, my God!
19:11Oh, my God!
19:13Okay.
19:14Poor.
19:18He's got his hair, Mama.
19:20Oh, my God!
19:26Oh, my God!
19:27Happy birthday!
19:35You did it!
19:37Alright, this is going to be snowing my skin out of bed.
19:44You want to cut the floor again?
19:49Yes, please.
19:50Just put your scissors like that.
19:51There you go.
19:52What is that?
19:55Cutting the umbellic cord was weird.
19:58It was, like, full of, like, blood.
20:00It's the thing where you don't cut it just one and done.
20:03You have to keep going.
20:04And it was, like, ugh.
20:12Oh, my God!
20:14You did it!
20:17Oh, my God!
20:18Oh, my God!
20:22Good job, Mama!
20:23Maya pushes Sammy out.
20:25In 40 minutes, doctor gave him a pat on his back.
20:29He started crying, and I was happy.
20:31At 8, 10 a.m., Sammy comes into the world.
20:35He was born.
20:37Finally.
20:39Oh, my God!
20:40It takes me 24 hours and 10 minutes of labor to have Sam Sam.
20:46He was 7 pounds and...
20:5114 ounces.
20:52Oh, my God.
20:537 pounds?
20:53I know how big my baby was.
20:55I can't believe I just forgot that.
20:56It's okay.
20:57I got it.
20:57He was 7 pounds and 14 ounces.
20:59I thought he was 13.
21:00Almost 8 pounds.
21:02This is why I'm the mom, because clearly they don't even...
21:05I have pictures.
21:06You want to bet?
21:07He's a big boy.
21:08Oh, you're not a betting man?
21:09I know.
21:09You got pictures, but you don't know how big he was.
21:12I'm not trying to lose that money.
21:14He was 7 pounds and 14 ounces, okay?
21:16Thank you, guys.
21:20Oh, look at him!
21:22Beautiful!
21:26We're meeting a very special person.
21:28We're meeting Samuel, Sammy.
21:32The little king of our...
21:34The little pride of our joy.
21:37His name is Samuel Maximino Georgiev Socares.
21:44He's so tired.
21:45Say hi.
21:46Oh.
21:47Oh.
21:49Oh, look.
21:49He's saying hi himself.
21:51Oh, no.
21:52He's going back to sleep.
21:54All he does is sleep.
21:55Can I hold him up?
21:56Yeah, I'll hold him.
21:57Let me see.
22:02Sammy is named after both me and Jose's grandfathers, and he has both of our last names.
22:09And this is our little creation.
22:15Our little creation.
22:19Little Sammy.
22:28That feeling of holding him for the first time was, like, the most rewarding part.
22:33Like, he's really there, and I really did that, like, by myself.
22:38It was like...
22:39I don't know.
22:40There's no better feeling than that.
22:45You did it, baby.
22:47I'm so proud of you.
22:49You're gonna be an amazing mother.
22:51Hopefully a better mother than I am.
22:53Oh, my gosh.
22:54Don't say that.
22:55She's already an amazing mom.
23:00I'm the best mom I could have, literally.
23:02I'm your only mom.
23:03That's all you do.
23:04Exactly.
23:04Sorry.
23:04The best one, too.
23:06I got lucky.
23:08You did so good.
23:11So good.
23:12You, mama.
23:15I'm so proud of you.
23:17Look at my grandbaby.
23:19I feel like a big weight has been lifted off, and my prayers have been answered.
23:25Because that's all I hoped for, was that her and the baby make it through.
23:29And everyone be healthy.
23:32Aww.
23:34But now that the baby's here, the real work starts.
23:39We're...
23:40It's not a game anymore.
23:42Let's see if you guys can handle it.
23:48What do you think your nan and papa are gonna wanna talk about?
23:52Hello?
23:59Okay, now you're not gonna talk.
24:08Let's go.
24:10Put your seatbelt on.
24:20Does it look good?
24:22Yeah, it looks good.
24:23You know, I'm making their favorite, so I'll hopefully choose them with the crab legs.
24:27There you go.
24:28She's gonna love that.
24:29Okay, yeah.
24:29You'll be like, what's going on?
24:31Okay, crab legs?
24:32Crab coma.
24:34I'm Kevin.
24:35This is Sue.
24:37We're Bryce's grandparents, and we're fixing to be great-grandparents.
24:40My nan and papa are pretty much parents and grandparents.
24:43I don't know.
24:44They play both the rules, so...
24:46We started raising Bryce when he turned about three years old, I guess.
24:51His mother was just partying a lot and, you know, not real responsible.
24:57And Bryce's dad, he went to jail.
24:59And then a few years later, sadly, his father passed away.
25:03It's a sad situation, and I just thought it would be better if Bryce permanently stayed
25:10with us.
25:12We've tried to give him the best life we could give him.
25:15I've always felt like we had to overcompensate, you know, to make up for hard times in his
25:21life when he was little.
25:22Did we spoil him some?
25:24Yeah, of course we did.
25:25But he's been a joy for us.
25:29He's so special.
25:31All righty.
25:36Bryce is just so closed off these days, it doesn't really talk about anything.
25:40So...
25:41I know he looks like he's in shock, doesn't he?
25:44Nice.
25:45Yeah.
25:45That's it.
25:47Deer in the headlight look?
25:49Yeah!
25:50We're very excited that a new baby's coming.
25:53It's a little surreal that we're going to be great-grandparents.
25:58Are you going to be a great-grandmother dead or alive?
26:01What does that mean?
26:03Do you want to be dead before you have one or no?
26:05Oh, of course not.
26:05All right.
26:06That's one good thing about it.
26:07At least we'll get to see the baby, huh?
26:09Yeah, and...
26:10Yeah, to see it grow up.
26:11And see the baby grow up, you know, before we're too old to even enjoy it.
26:19So, what's up?
26:24I mean, it's just going to be a real change, and I don't know, it's a very emotional thing.
26:35Yesterday, he was a little boy, and now he's like this man who's going to have a baby.
26:40When Isabella found out she was pregnant, me and Nan welcomed her, and, you know, we did everything we could.
26:46But it is a shock.
26:47I mean, it was just a little bit too soon for me.
26:55See what you did.
26:57I didn't do nothing.
26:58The old woman did it to herself.
27:02All good?
27:03You good?
27:03Yeah.
27:04Just nervous.
27:05You are? Why?
27:06Well, I know we need to talk about stuff.
27:09All we know is there might be some tension between Isabella and Bryce tonight.
27:15This pump up, ah, he hears him coming.
27:17With Bryce, we always say, you know, how's everything going?
27:20Everything's fine.
27:21Everything's fine.
27:22Everything's fine.
27:23There he is.
27:24Yeah.
27:24So, we have our concerns and a lot of questions.
27:28He's not real open about, like, his relationships and stuff.
27:32He doesn't talk to us about it.
27:33You know, he likes to keep that private.
27:35It can be easier communicating with Isabella.
27:39So, we're hoping to get, ah, some answers tonight.
27:43Here we go.
27:44Gonna find out now, huh?
27:49Hopefully, this is not gonna happen anytime soon again.
27:53I'm Mia's dad.
27:54And, yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
27:58How would you prevent that, Mia?
28:01To have protection.
28:03And to purposely take it off.
28:06Y'all are stupid.
28:26Hey, babe.
28:27What you got going on right there?
28:28All the stuff I got for the baby shower.
28:31It's not a lot.
28:33Looks like a lot to me.
28:34Okay, well, just a little bit.
28:41I'm gonna show you everything I got, but I gotta pee.
28:43Be right back.
28:45I'm Keith.
28:46I'm 47.
28:47I'm Mia's dad.
28:48And I'm about to be a grandfather.
28:50When I first found out I was pregnant, I was afraid to tell my dad because I was scared.
28:54I don't know.
28:54Because I knew he was going to be disappointed in me.
28:57Yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
29:01Going through my head when I found out was everything.
29:06It's like, kind of like, I guess, her life passing in front of my eyes in a blink, you know?
29:13Seeing her little bitty growing up, and then all of a sudden, out of left field, 100% this.
29:21But I do feel some type of way responsible.
29:25Because I dropped the ball, I feel like, and I should have went and got her on birth control.
29:29And I mean, that's on me.
29:31I mean, you know.
29:33But she wasn't knocking down my door, either, saying, hey, Dad, hey, did you forget?
29:37Because I forget stuff, you know?
29:38And I mean, unfortunately, this was one of them things I forgot.
29:44Okay.
29:45Hi.
29:45All right.
29:47So these are the centerpieces of the table.
29:50They're little hats.
29:51No, that's kind of cute.
29:52So what else you got?
29:53These are going to be hanging from, like, above the tables.
29:57Jesus Christ, $4 for some freaking balloons.
30:01How much you spend on all this?
30:05800 and...
30:06800?
30:07What?
30:08$75.
30:10$900.
30:12It's like the $900 she spent on the baby shower is a prime example.
30:16How she's not ready to have a baby and she's clueless about life.
30:20That's just money down the drain.
30:24I do everything I'm supposed to do.
30:26I have good grades in school.
30:27I'm about to finish school.
30:28I work.
30:30It's...
30:31It's going to be hard, man.
30:33It sucks.
30:34Struggling is hard.
30:36And I didn't want that.
30:37I don't want that on anybody.
30:39Definitely don't want that for my kid.
30:42Who's all supposed to be coming over to help?
30:44Caitlin and Jessie and all of them are going to be here.
30:46And then...
30:48Mom...
30:49She said she was going to be here, but...
30:51I don't know.
30:54Well, that's just how it is, babe.
30:57I just don't talk to my mom a lot.
30:59She's just...
31:00She's more absent.
31:03Um...
31:04We don't have a good relationship and she, um...
31:07We don't live together.
31:08Yeah.
31:10Well, at least you got people to help you.
31:12Yeah.
31:13But, I mean, it's...
31:15That...
31:15She's not.
31:17Yeah.
31:19My mom and dad, they officially, like, split up, split up, like, two and a half years ago.
31:23And that's when I started living with my dad.
31:25Yeah.
31:26Um...
31:26My mom isn't stable.
31:29She, uh...
31:29She doesn't have a stable...
31:33Work environment.
31:34She doesn't have a stable place to live.
31:36She...
31:36Um...
31:37She has a lot to figure out.
31:39And I just knew, like, with my dad, I'd be in a stable...
31:43Stable house.
31:44That's my daughter.
31:44That's my baby girl.
31:45I mean...
31:46You know?
31:47I love him.
31:48I'm a dad's girl.
31:50I just...
31:51I don't know.
31:52I just wish things would be better.
31:54You know?
31:55That's a sore subject.
31:59Well, what else you got?
32:01So we're gonna put the banner up.
32:04Let's look at it.
32:05And then...
32:06We're gonna put, like, the balloon arch around the banner.
32:08Hopefully this is, uh...
32:11Not gonna happen...
32:13Any time soon again.
32:16How are you gonna prevent that from happening again?
32:19Don't look at me!
32:20She's talking to you!
32:22She's talking to you!
32:23So how would you prevent that, Mia?
32:27My plan for after having the baby, to have another baby, preventing it, is to be put on birth control.
32:33I wanna get an IED or some type of birth control in my arm so I know it's reliable.
32:37Because, like, we did use protection in the beginning, but Jessie took off the condom.
32:45Wow.
32:50What?
32:50What?
32:51I don't know!
32:55Yeah, well, I don't feel so guilty now.
33:03Y'all are stupid.
33:07To have protection and to purposely take it off in chances of creating a freakin' another human being
33:18that you're responsible for for the rest of your life, baby.
33:23It dumbfounds of me.
33:25It really does.
33:26I mean, it really...
33:27It's ridiculous.
33:28You think I wanted to get pregnant, huh?
33:31No, I hope not.
33:33But you need to be...
33:34Hey, bruh.
33:35I mean, do what you gotta do.
33:37I don't wanna get into all that , but, I mean, golly.
33:39It's kinda obvious.
33:42It's kinda obvious.
33:43Just sayin'.
33:44Y'all still children.
33:45Whether you having a baby tomorrow or in a year.
33:51Or...
33:52And it...
33:54Whatever.
33:55I'm sorry.
33:56I'm sorry it made you upset, but that's just how I feel.
34:09Hello.
34:11Hello.
34:12Hello.
34:13Is your dad still saying no to me coming over, or am I coming over?
34:16Come over.
34:16All right.
34:17I love you.
34:18Love you, too.
34:19Bye.
34:21How long is he staying?
34:23Until...
34:24Tonight.
34:27He's not staying here, that's all I can say.
34:30Oh, no.
34:32I'm just telling you how I feel.
34:35It's awkward having Jesse around, because I don't really care for him.
34:39I don't want him in my house.
34:41I'm just trying to get over the...
34:44that I just heard earlier.
34:50Anyway.
34:56Bryce is gonna get a job.
34:58Yeah, but I ain't selling for $10 an hour.
35:00$10 won't do nothing.
35:02You would just make an effort.
35:03That is all my mom is asking.
35:04It's a waste of my time.
35:05Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
35:08I think her mother's sticking her nose in it.
35:10You know, that's not right.
35:11That's not the life he dreamed of.
35:13They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything,
35:15and he does because he helped make this kid.
35:33I don't really think Bryce understands that if he doesn't get his together, I'm done.
35:38Like, I've explained over and over again why he needs a job.
35:41I mean, I've tried, my mom's tried.
35:44There's fixing to be a baby here, so hopefully Bryce's grandparents can get through to him.
35:53Mmm.
35:55Oh, it's good, man.
35:57I'm really surprised.
36:00Kevin.
36:01What?
36:03You're blocking the sunlight.
36:04Mmm.
36:06How's your mom doing?
36:08Oh, she's doing fine.
36:10Working.
36:13Your little sister, you been looking after her or what?
36:16Yeah.
36:18You got a lot on your plate, don't you?
36:21Maybe more than most.
36:23At your age.
36:28Isabella seems a little standoffish previously.
36:32She was always nice and smiling, and tonight she just doesn't seem very inviting or...
36:42There's a wall there, I feel like, between us.
36:45She looked the same to me, like she's on the defensive or something's wrong.
36:52But I just shook it off as...
36:54We haven't seen her.
36:55I haven't seen her in a while, and she's nervous, and you know, we'll see what happens.
37:01Well, what's y'all's plans? What do you want to do?
37:04I got no clue.
37:05What do you mean?
37:07Plans for what?
37:07As far as where y'all are gonna live, are y'all gonna try to live together?
37:10No.
37:11You don't want to live with Bryce?
37:13No.
37:14Not at anybody's house.
37:16Well, no, I mean, like, when it's time for y'all to live together.
37:21Oh, yeah, but...
37:22Or get married or whatever.
37:23Here we go.
37:25Um, my nanopopo had felt like that we should get married because we're really religious.
37:31Well, my family's Christian too, but my mom didn't think that we should get married just because we was having
37:36a kid.
37:36If we can't financially support a baby, why would he get married?
37:40But it's not like, I'm gonna go to hell because I had a baby out of wedlock.
37:47So your plan isn't for y'all to get married anytime soon?
37:53Or ever?
37:55Not anytime soon.
37:57Gotta get a job first.
37:59Right now, we have two months until she comes and nothing's bought.
38:02I mean, she has a couple outfits that my mom's bought.
38:06You know, you're talking about y'all don't have anything.
38:09What about having a baby shower?
38:11Are you interested in that at all?
38:13No. I don't want a baby shower.
38:16People bring you and give you gifts.
38:18It's not about the gifts. It's just more about, like, support.
38:21It's crunch time. Like, this isn't gonna happen and there's just like...
38:25Hey, that baby's not gonna hurt for nothing, I can promise you.
38:29I'm very frustrated because it has nothing to do with them not buying anything.
38:34It has everything to do with...
38:37They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything and he does because he helped make this
38:42kid.
38:43We're willing to do whatever we can and Bryce is gonna get a job.
38:46Yeah, but I ain't selling for $10 an hour.
38:50No, you have to have a decent job.
38:52You have to crawl before you walk.
38:54Like my mom said, you don't have to work...
38:55$10 an hour won't do nothing.
38:56Okay.
38:57It won't.
38:58You would just make an effort. That is all my mom is asking.
39:00It's a waste of my time.
39:01Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
39:06I'm still her daughter and I'm not going to be in a relationship, me and him dating,
39:12but me feel like a single mom and my mom taking care of me and Haisley.
39:16That's just not... Like, it don't make any logical sense.
39:19I think her mother sticking her nose in and telling Bryce what to do, you know, that's not right.
39:24He needs to do what he thinks he needs to do to be able to raise a family, okay, not
39:30just anything.
39:34Bryce has a future, a bright future, okay?
39:37He's smart, he's very smart, but it takes a little time.
39:41You can't just get that overnight.
39:42And if you go settle for a, you know, minimum wage job, that's what you're doing is just settling for
39:48that.
39:48That's not the life he dreamed of.
39:50He wants to have a life, too, you know, and a good life.
39:54What I'm asking is they tell Bryce to get his head out of his ass and get a job.
40:00But, oh, well, who cares?
40:02Not them, because bringing a baby in this world doesn't fall on them.
40:06It falls on my family.
40:09It'll be all right. Relax a little bit.
40:11Well, I'm sorry I sit here and worry because...
40:13I understand. I understand.
40:15But it's Bryce's baby, too. Let's not forget that.
40:19Okay, well, let's make an effort.
40:23We had this crab dinner, you know, to reconnect with Isabella.
40:30And I feel like I have been under attack the whole time.
40:36It's getting dark out here. We need to get all this stuff and get it inside.
40:39So, I'm hopeful that if we just had some time to reflect, we can all come together and try to
40:50form a plan that works for everyone.
40:53Well, I hope so, but I'm not holding my breath.
41:03How's it going, bud?
41:04Next time on Unexpected.
41:06When I first met Jessie, I kind of didn't like him. Then this happened. I definitely don't like the kid
41:12now.
41:13Can Jessie stay the night?
41:14No.
41:15He's making it hard. He is making it harder than it has to be.
41:18I don't know why he don't let you sleep over. It ain't like she's going to get pregnant again.
41:24Let's go. He's ready. We lost the program.
41:26Okay.
41:28Jose, you going to help her over here?
41:30Taking Sammy home is really scary because it's like really setting in that this is my whole life now, you
41:36know?
41:37Can you get a band-aid?
41:38We don't have band-aid.
41:40Okay, can you call them and ask for a band-aid, please?
41:43I have to go back to work, and so you need to be able to do this.
41:48Have fun, Hunter.
41:49Thank you. We'll see y'all later.
41:51Today, Hunter's going to see his dad, but I am worried that he might not show up.
41:55When I was away there, it's going to be like 30 minutes.
42:02He's a piece of .
42:03When does the disappointment stop?
42:05I do think it's important for Hunter to have his dad in his lap.
42:08He's a 13-year-old boy about to have a child of his own, but his dad needs to be
42:12consistent.
42:13I don't want to hurt.
42:15I've done this stupid ass .
42:17What the hell, Scott? Wait!
42:18Dinner?
42:19It was miserable.
42:21I'm not going to sit in the room with a little crybaby because y'all enable his behavior.
42:28She's going to regret this.
42:30It's on now, okay? We can do it like that.
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