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00:00Previously on Unexpected
00:02They're probably going to co-parent
00:03They're going to have to have counseling to do that
00:05Right, but Frize needs anger management
00:08It's been a constant character assassination
00:11They're attacking my son
00:13Isabella's a provoker
00:15And apparently her own mother
00:17Has not explained that to her own daughter
00:20Is he going to like go to anger management?
00:22He doesn't want to go
00:23He said that he would do couples therapy
00:26Is that the first time he got the holiday?
00:29I did not think I would be finishing 8th grade
00:31And becoming a dad at the same time
00:33I didn't think at 15 years old I'd be pregnant
00:36He wants his dad to see the baby
00:37But his dad is to come here
00:38He's not going to
00:40Hunter sent a text to his dad
00:43Hoping that he would come up and see the baby
00:46But it doesn't seem like he's going to come and meet his grandson
00:49Alright, I'm going to bed
00:52Graduation day
00:53I didn't even want all this
00:55Stop arguing with me, dude
00:56What's the deal, man?
00:58Her father has made them think that it's okay for them to disrespect me
01:01Today's about Mia, not about you
01:04I hate him
01:06Where's Nicole?
01:07I don't know
01:08I think it's just really pathetic that she did not show up at the graduation
01:11Nicole should have been here
01:13And I'm going to tell her something right now
01:29Mother, I told you just to go to my appointment
01:33I told you
01:34I'm bringing you to your appointment
01:36This is probably your last one
01:38No, you're going to follow us
01:39No, I'm not
01:40You're not getting in the car for nobody else
01:42Okay
01:43Don't meet
01:43Mama
01:44You're not
01:45What's going on in there?
01:46What's going on in there?
01:46I don't know the fight
01:47That my daughter is not riding with me
01:48It's not happening
01:49It's not happening
01:50For what?
01:51Because she wants to bring me into her appointment
01:53You know what?
01:53You are my daughter
01:55And it's not going to be a discussion
01:56It's not
01:57This morning is my 39 week checkup
02:00And me and Jessie had asked AK to bring us to this doctor's appointment
02:05Because I haven't seen or heard from my mom since my graduation
02:09Mia, are you being rude to me?
02:10Mama, I'm not being rude
02:12Stop hollering at me and stop being loud
02:14I'm not being rude
02:15I am trying to talk to you
02:16And my mom did not like that
02:22I mean, it's not going to hurt for me to bring her
02:26Frankly, I'm surprised Nicole's here
02:27It's been a week since Mia's graduation
02:29And no one has heard from that woman
02:31So I was wondering if she was even still alive
02:33Are you getting ready?
02:38She's coming with me
02:40It is okay for her to go with me when I haven't been
02:43No, not today it's not
02:43No, because she's
02:44Nicole
02:45This isn't a discussion
02:47This is not going to be a discussion
02:48First off, I walked in and you were in her face
02:51She's pregnant
02:52Because I was kissing her
02:53Don't come in here and tell me anything about what I do with my daughter
02:56I'm hollering now because you upset me
02:58In fact, I need to not holler because God told me
03:01Yeah, because we're not going to argue
03:02You're right
03:03So you need to go on out of the house because
03:05First off, this ain't your house
03:06Let me tell you something
03:07You're not going to get in my face
03:08First off, I haven't
03:09I'm not in your face
03:10First off, this is my son
03:11And this is my daughter
03:12His girlfriend
03:13Honestly
03:17I'm pissed off because
03:18I don't think Nicole realized
03:20I worked three jobs
03:21And I got six kids
03:22And I had to make things happen
03:23In order for me to
03:26Go to this appointment
03:27For Mia's sake
03:28I did not want to argue
03:30But at the same time
03:31I just couldn't hold myself back anymore
03:33I haven't had the chance to go
03:36So yes, I'm going to bring her
03:37Because I would like to be there too
03:39It's my granddaughter too
03:40Then you can follow
03:41It's not just your grandbaby
03:43You're not bringing her
03:44You're not bringing her
03:44Why can't I bring her to one appointment?
03:46Because I gave birth to her
03:47And she is my daughter
03:49My mom acts like she was there for me
03:51Like every single step of the way
03:53And like all kinds of things
03:55Like oh, I do this for my daughter
03:57I do this for my daughter
03:58But really?
03:59Not really any of that happens
04:01So you know
04:02It gets a little frustrating
04:03You should have asked
04:04This should have been something
04:05That you asked me
04:06A long time ago
04:07I shouldn't have asked you
04:08Because she's the one
04:09That's carrying the grandbaby
04:10And going to doctors
04:11Yeah, you should have asked me
04:12Because I'm her mother
04:13And I'm the one who says
04:13She's not going with you
04:14And she's a minor
04:16And I'm her mother
04:17You may think that
04:19But you know what?
04:20She is a minor
04:20And I am her mother
04:21Okay
04:22And where you been?
04:25It ain't any of your business
04:27I don't like that she acted like
04:29She is over my daughter
04:30When it's my daughter
04:31She don't even know my daughter
04:33She just met her
04:34You know, a year ago
04:35So
04:36Two years
04:36I don't think that she should
04:38Have tried to make the decisions
04:40That she made
04:40As far as
04:41What she was going to do
04:43And what she wasn't going to do
04:44When it came to
04:45To Mia
04:46You know nothing about my life
04:48You don't know anything about me
04:49You don't even know my daughter
04:50She don't even like you
04:52Do you remember when your mom told AK
04:54My daughter doesn't even like you
04:55And doesn't want to be around you
04:56Listen, I never said that
04:58My mom just likes to make up things
05:00To make other people mad
05:01I love AK
05:03Okay
05:03It's not gonna happen
05:04Mia, who would you like to bring?
05:05It doesn't matter what she would like
05:06It doesn't matter
05:07I'm her mother
05:07And I said she ain't going with you
05:10Well, I don't think she needs to be riding with you
05:12I don't care what you think
05:13Okay
05:15I don't care who takes me
05:16I just want to go and have people
05:21So go on
05:24Or you make things worse
05:27There is no point whatsoever
05:31That that was needed
05:32Don't make up this big
05:34Hoo-ha about
05:35Oh, I'm taking my daughter to my appointment
05:36Taking her, I'm taking her, I'm taking her
05:38When it doesn't matter
05:39We're driving
05:40Driving to the hospital
05:41It is 16 minutes away from my house
05:45Like, if you want to be
05:47Be my support
05:48Be at my doctor's appointment
05:49Like you said
05:49Than be at my doctor's appointment
05:51Okay, so we're all just gonna go to my appointment, okay?
05:54Yeah
05:55I'm leaving
05:56I'll meet y'all there
05:57I can see how stressed Mia is
05:59And I feel bad for my part in that
06:01So I'm gonna take a step back
06:02And just let Nicole take them
06:05And hopefully
06:07We don't have no drama
06:08Up at the hospital
06:11Because at this point
06:12I'm at my limit with her
06:21So you're okay with Hunter going home with your dad
06:23And coming back tomorrow?
06:25And me staying here?
06:27Yeah, okay
06:28Hunter's pretty much been asleep
06:30Since his dad texted and said
06:31He wasn't coming to the hospital to meet with
06:33And honestly, I would rather him not be here
06:36Than be locked in a closet
06:41Are you about ready to go yet?
06:43Mm-hmm
06:45Oh my god
06:47Hunter
06:48You literally look like a...
06:51Well, I don't even know
06:56So what are we doing out here?
06:58We're going home
07:00When we come back?
07:02Tomorrow
07:02After school
07:04After school?
07:06School is going...
07:08Better
07:10Wait, what was that grade?
07:1263
07:13It's passing
07:14It is passing
07:16Everything's passing
07:16My grades are good
07:18I was worried he wasn't gonna finish the 8th grade
07:20Big Doug's got it
07:22You're not there yet
07:23I'm there
07:23Don't use it
07:24I'm there
07:25Hunter
07:26What?
07:27For band, why is there nothing there?
07:30Oh, that's the one I missed that one time
07:32I play trumpet in band
07:36It was my mom's fault
07:37She put me in there
07:38And yeah, I don't like band
07:41Chris said I don't need to go to school
07:43Oh, you're going to school
07:45Even though I just became a dad
07:47The school still don't give me
07:49Excuse absences for being at the hospital
07:51So it sucks having to leave Wes behind
07:54Hunter has to go to school every day they're open
07:57Because we need all the odds we can get for him to pass
08:07I am glad Hunter decided to go to school instead of staying at the hospital
08:11Because finishing 8th grade is more important right now
08:18But he wouldn't have been much help anyway
08:20Mom was definitely more help than he would have been
08:23I mean, I want him to be here but
08:26It'll be nice just
08:27Because he can't focus, he can't concentrate, he's not serious
08:32Now that Hunter is a dad, I feel like it is very important for him to go on and finish
08:38his education
08:39He will not be a high school dropout
08:42So just because you had a kid doesn't mean you can't finish school
08:45I'm not going to be at the high school dropout
08:47Wes deserves better than that
08:49So do I
09:02I look like a fat pig
09:05Yeah
09:05You gained like 20 pounds all in your belly
09:09I'm 36 weeks today and this morning I went to the bathroom
09:12And my mucus plug came out
09:15And I was like what the freak
09:16I didn't know what it was at first
09:18It's bloody and it looks like booger
09:21Like snot
09:24It's weird
09:25Just means the baby's getting ready
09:28She pushes on my vagina like down
09:30And it like feels weird
09:33Like it feels like she's going to come out
09:36It's just stressful
09:37Because the baby's fixing to be here
09:39And Isabella and Bryce has not resolved anything
09:47Isabella, I'm taking you to this couples therapy thing
09:50But I think it's a waste of time
09:53It's like so useless
09:57You want me to like give up and not try?
09:59Is that what you want me to do?
10:00When do you give up?
10:02When do you throw in the towel?
10:04When there's no other resort
10:06Okay, so
10:07After this
10:08But you also have to understand where I'm coming from
10:11There's still parenting classes
10:13And anger management
10:14And if he hasn't at least signed up
10:17And started doing them before Haisley's born
10:19It's no contact
10:21Really the couples therapy I could care less about
10:23Because I don't want them to be together anyway
10:26But if he's going to be involved in a little baby
10:30With an explosive temper
10:32I think he needs to do anger management
10:35And parenting classes
10:38I'm going to tell you right now
10:41I don't know how this is going to work
10:43Or how this is going to play out
10:45But if those things are not completed
10:48I am on the same page
10:50Why do you keep giving me the
10:51Like why are you telling me this?
10:53I know
10:55So I don't really know where me and Bryce are at right now
10:59Because we haven't seen each other since that awful crap dinner two weeks ago
11:03But we've been texting a bit
11:05And Bryce agreed to go to counseling with me
11:07I think that's a good start
11:08Even though he won't get a job
11:10And he won't go to anger management
11:11Let me get this straight
11:13The tools you can use to help y'all's relationship for this baby
11:18He's not willing to do
11:19I don't know what you want me to do about it
11:21I don't want you to do anything
11:22Leave him alone
11:24That's hard
11:26What you need to do is love yourself and your baby enough
11:29To give him an ultimatum
11:32I've tried
11:32And stand by it
11:34You've got to stand up for yourself
11:37I don't even think I need counseling with him
11:39I think we need counseling
11:43I want my daughter to have one happy family
11:46I don't want her growing up in a broken home
11:48So it's frustrating when my mom has like no hope in me and Bryce
11:53But I mean she has five daughters
11:56How many baby daddies does she have?
11:58Three I think
12:00So she just thinks that giving up would be better than just trying
12:03For your family I guess
12:05I don't know
12:08If it's so important that y'all communicate
12:10And y'all are together
12:12Nobody is
12:13Mom I'm talking about communicating when she is here
12:15We cannot talk to each other without cussing each other out
12:20I would be cussing him out too if he left me pregnant
12:22They couldn't buy nothing for my kid but left me pregnant
12:26Yeah he'd be cussed out real good
12:37I don't even know why you're crying
12:38Okay
12:41You've got to be real Belle
12:43It's real not what you want it to be
12:45It's what it really is
12:46Stop screaming at me please
12:48Good grief
12:52I love you with all my heart
12:55But I'm tired of being the bad guy
12:57I'm not making you the bad guy
12:58No I'm tired of being the bad guy in this situation
13:01This is your bull
13:13I want to say that I'm sorry
13:15You need to get away from my vehicle
13:17Right now
13:17Okay but I
13:18You need to get away from
13:18You're not taking her anywhere
13:20Come on Jessie let's go
13:21Come on
13:22I rearranged my schedule to bring Mia to her doctor's appointment
13:25I ain't going anywhere
13:26I will call the law for holding my child hostage
13:31You want to change yourself?
13:33No
13:33I was about to throw up
13:35It makes me gag
13:36You've got to be teachable daddy
13:38Or you're not ever going to learn
13:39Yeah
13:40No
13:52Hey guys
13:55How was the last night?
13:57Good
13:57He slept so good I had to wake him up to feed him
14:02Did I get any sleep?
14:04A little bit
14:06At the hospital overnight mom stayed with me
14:09Because Hunter had school today
14:11And I think him going to school is more important
14:13Than him staying at the hospital
14:16He needs to pass and finish 8th grade
14:18So he can move on and show his son that he did it
14:22You don't want him to finish high school before you
14:25He won't
14:26He won't
14:30Was that him?
14:31Was that you?
14:33That was him
14:35It stinks
14:36Help
14:40Give me a buddy
14:47Look, it's so natural
14:50He's growing a beard already
14:53Are you jealous?
14:55It's so cute how excited Hunter is to come see Wes
14:59Can he crawl yet?
15:01But he still has a lot of learning when it comes to taking care of him
15:06You want to change his butt?
15:08No
15:08Hunter, change his butt
15:11Depends on what it is
15:12Hunter, change his butt
15:13I opened the diaper
15:16Hunter
15:17It was black tar
15:18I don't do black tar
15:21No
15:22I got the binky
15:23You can get his
15:25Typically when it comes to dirty diapers
15:27They do push them off on me
15:29Cause you've been a mom since V.C.
15:31It's okay
15:32You know what you're doing
15:34Ew
15:34Oh my god
15:38He made me jump
15:42Do you want me to take him and change him?
15:45Take him
15:47I can't
15:49Aw, poor Wes
15:50Your daddy can't handle it
15:52No
15:52No!
15:54Oh my gosh
15:56Um
15:56Shot out
15:58Yeah, now
16:13I was about to throw up
16:15It makes me gag
16:18I'm good
16:21He's gonna have to get over it cause
16:23Mama's not changing all the poop diapers so
16:27Get over here
16:28You don't tell me what to do though
16:30Sit down
16:31Be teachable
16:33So you gotta be teachable daddy or I'm
16:35You're not ever gonna learn
16:38I can't blame Hunter for
16:41Not knowing you know what to do
16:44Cause I mean he is only 13 years old
16:46And he hasn't had a dad to show him how to be one
16:50So put him up here
16:51Yeah, yeah
16:52Easy
16:52Watch this
16:55You gotta support his head though
16:57It's nice to see that he wants to be around
16:59It will be nicer when he's more helpful
17:02I'm not supposed to support his head long doing this
17:04Are you just doing this?
17:06Mhm
17:07At least Hunter's trying
17:08Even though he has a
17:10Really
17:11Long way to go
17:12Yeah
17:13Yeah
17:21You know I don't want you to cry Belle
17:23And I don't want you to be upset
17:24But you know
17:26Something's gotta give somewhere
17:28You know Isabella
17:29Grew up and her dad was in prison
17:32On drugs
17:36And I think that's what she don't want for Haisley
17:39Like to be without a dad
17:41Is couples therapy the answer?
17:44I don't think so
17:46But she'll have to find out on her own
17:53After counseling Bryce wants to hang out
17:57Okay
18:04I don't think you should go
18:06But I'm gonna let you go
18:08Because I'm tired of fighting
18:10About the same old things
18:12But if I have to come back and get you
18:14It'll be the last time
18:22Even though my mom thinks it's stupid
18:25That we're going to couples counseling
18:26I'm still willing to try
18:29Because Bryce is making an effort
18:31And showing that he actually wants to be with me
18:33He texted me at like 2 this morning
18:35It says
18:37I love you
18:38Look I'm sorry I know I'm not a great person
18:40And I admit that I do a lot wrong without
18:42Thinking before I do it
18:44I need to do better
18:45But I just want to be better for you and her
18:48If I just don't realize what I have at some times
18:51I'm sorry it's getting along and I don't want to cry any more than I am
18:55But I love you and I hope you sleep amazing
18:57The sweet dreams I hope you dream of me maybe if I'm lucky
19:11Thank you
19:11You're welcome
19:13Can you put him in your truck until we get back?
19:16I get it
19:18I'm hoping that counseling just helps me to be better at like communicating for us
19:23And just to be, I don't know, like to be more patient with her and just hear her out better
19:30We're about to have a kid, so
19:32I don't know
19:33Just best for us to try to fix everything
19:37Come on in
19:41Are you gonna go to anger management?
19:43No
19:45I don't need it
19:47I'm far from need it
19:50So tell me
19:51What do you guys fight about?
19:54Um
19:55This is gonna make you mad
19:59I just wanna apologize to you
20:00Get away from my vehicle because you are making me mad
20:03I'm sure it's a little bit of both jealousy and them trying to be right at the same time
20:07Which causes them to collide
20:10Crash
20:12Fail
20:13I'll call the law if she doesn't let you out because you're a minor
20:17So play with me
20:28They're right there
20:30I think I need to go apologize to them
20:33Like I'm not trying to argue
20:38Look, I wanna say that I'm sorry
20:40If you say anything that's rude
20:41Can you please listen?
20:42Then I'm gonna raise up my window and close you out of my car
20:44I'm actually not even trying to say nothing, Ruth
20:46Okay, well
20:46I'm letting you know
20:48That I was coming to apologize like I told you
20:51Okay, well, then apologize
20:53I did
20:54You put the window down and I said, I just wanna apologize to you
20:57Today's my 39 week doctor's appointment
20:59And my mom and AK have been arguing all morning about who's gonna drive us
21:03It's just so ridiculous and dumb
21:05That's what I even told my mom
21:07And I was like, it's not even a big deal that AK brings me to my appointment
21:09I said, if you wanna be at my appointment, then be at my appointment
21:12But I ended up riding with my mom
21:14Just so I wouldn't hear her bicker the whole time
21:22I wanna say that I'm sorry
21:24That's not the type of person I am to argue and fight
21:26You need to get away from my vehicle right now
21:28Okay, but I
21:29You need to get away from my vehicle
21:29I don't get mad when Jesse comes to ride with you, do I?
21:32I don't get away from my vehicle because you are making me mad
21:35That is why I'm asking you to get away
21:36But I'm not trying to argue
21:37I'm telling you how this day goes and that's how today's gonna go today
21:40Because that's what we do on this day
21:42Nicole, I told these children
21:45Get out of my window
21:46I'm just saying Nicole
21:47Get out of my window
21:48It's not happening
21:49You're not taking her anywhere
21:50Whatever
21:50Come on, Jesse, let's go
21:53Come on
21:54I'm sure it's a little bit of both
21:56Jealousy and them trying to be right at the same time
21:59Which causes them to collide
22:02Crash
22:03Fail
22:05Tell her I'll call the law if she doesn't let you out
22:08Because you're a minor
22:10And I will call the law
22:11For holding my child hostage
22:14So play with me
22:17Now let's go
22:21And it's not like my mom when she does bring me, she sits in the car and we just go
22:25in there
22:26But she didn't sit in this car this time because AK wouldn't sit in the car
22:29So she had proved that she wanted to be up there too
22:31So they were both going to be sitting in the room for no reason
22:35No reason, sitting in the waiting room for no reason
22:41Thank you
22:41Thank you
22:44I rearranged my schedule to bring Mia to her doctor's appointment
22:48And here I am waiting in this waiting room with this dumb ass bitch sitting right across from me
22:52That ain't did for her daughter
22:53But even though it's super awkward, I ain't going anywhere
22:57Because I'm anxious to see what these doctors have to say
23:09It takes courage to come into counseling
23:12And so I'm glad you're here
23:13This is a first time thing for me, so
23:15Is it?
23:16Yeah
23:17I hope counseling works for me and Bryce
23:19Because there is a baby involved
23:22And I still have that hope that things will change
23:25And he will get a job
23:26And he will be the person that he promised to be
23:34So you have a baby coming?
23:36Yeah
23:36How do you feel about that?
23:38Well, I'm nervous
23:40Babies a lot
23:40Yeah, they are a lot
23:42But it's doable
23:44How about you Bryce?
23:46How do you feel about having a baby?
23:48The only thing I'm really nervous about is like
23:51Having financial stuff
23:53Are you graduating in May?
23:54Yes, May
23:55After you graduate, are you planning to work like full-time?
23:58I'm planning on getting a CDL and then going from there
24:01That's a new one, I didn't know you was doing that
24:04I did, I've said that
24:07I've been thinking I can get my commercial driver's license and use my truck to haul stuff
24:10I think it would be a better job because there's a lot more money, a lot more opportunities
24:14And working at a fast food place says you just flip burgers
24:20What do you guys fight about that we might be able to sort out?
24:24Um, his family feeling entitled and still being disrespectful
24:28Well, something between the two of you
24:29Yeah, but that's between us because he takes up for them
24:32I don't take up for nobody
24:33I sit there and stay quiet
24:34Okay, so that's the problem
24:36The disrespect was very loud and you just sat there and didn't do anything
24:39How did it make you feel when he sat there and didn't do anything?
24:42I was hurt
24:43Hurt?
24:44Like Bryce doesn't know how to divide like his family and the family he created
24:50How do you feel about that?
24:52I don't necessarily like it because that's where I live, that's where I stay
24:55It's not about that, it's not about that
24:58Hang on just a second Isabella, I'll come back to you, okay? Let's let him finish
25:02Bryce, what are you feeling in that point?
25:07Confusion, guilt and insecurity
25:09And then what do you do?
25:12Um, talk to her, I try to
25:14So you go after her?
25:15He blows my phone up, that's what he does
25:17So you pursue her hard
25:18Yeah, because I want to try to figure it out
25:20Because he's scared of losing me
25:23Oh
25:25After me and Isabella fight or whatever
25:27I mean I try to communicate with her
25:29But Isabella's like, she's
25:33She likes space and don't like to listen at all
25:35You're not getting anything out of her or making her listen to anything
25:39If she's mad
25:42I wonder where you guys put your hope
25:45My daughter, first of all
25:47She brings you hope?
25:47Yeah, definitely
25:49And then her
25:50Isabella brings you hope
25:52Yeah, like makes me want to be better and do better
25:55Babies can do that
25:56Stretch us in ways that we might not have volunteered for, right?
26:01Yeah, yeah
26:02This isn't the end of their story
26:04Babies are hard, but I saw them care about each other
26:08I think they do want to have something good between the two of them and for their baby
26:12And so with the supportive families and encouragement from others
26:15I think they can build a life together
26:17You can do this
26:18Yeah
26:19Yeah
26:20I like therapy, usually
26:22I don't really open up like that
26:25But I feel like it was a good thing that there was like a person that doesn't side with anybody
26:31And I let each one of us talk without being interrupted, so it's not so toxic and like hectic
26:37I'm glad you made it in
26:39Me too
26:40I think Bryce did good in therapy, I was actually super surprised
26:45I'm hopeful that we can change the things that we need to work on before the baby gets here
26:50Because I do want a family with Bryce
26:53But if he can't change, then I don't know where that leaves us
27:02We gotta come back up here for 12.30
27:04We gotta be here for 12
27:06Be here for 12
27:07The doctor came in, she's like, so you're getting induced tonight
27:11Have you decided on who's gonna be in delivery room?
27:14Don't even ask me that question right now
27:16I'm being induced because I have high blood pressure
27:20And you know what high blood pressure is called?
27:22Stress
27:25I just feel like I'm literally the only one fighting for anything to be better
27:29And you could give a less
27:31Had a great session with therapy and then goes right back into my fault again
27:35I'm not going to counseling if you can't go to anger management
27:39I think it's necessary
27:41If you constantly push, push and push and push, I'm gonna get upset
28:03You're probably getting induced today
28:04The doctor came in, she checks my cervix and everything and tells me that I'm still only a centimeter dilated
28:11And I tell her okay
28:13Thinking, going back home, just waiting, you know
28:16Give birth some other day
28:17But then she comes back in there and she's like, so you're getting induced tonight
28:22Yeah, so you know, I just
28:24I just freeze
28:25Jessie don't say nothing, I don't say nothing
28:27And then she said, be back here at 12 o'clock tonight
28:31And Jessie goes, oh my god, you're about to have a baby
28:34And I go, yeah, I sure, sure I am
28:37I'm gonna be able to hold my baby in like the next 24 hours, you know
28:40This thing that keeps taking me
28:41Is that when you call me?
28:42Yeah
28:42I was working and I was under the impression at first that it was happening then right that second
28:48So after they explained that it wasn't gonna happen right then
28:51I was still freaking out excited, but I wasn't like, I had to calm down a little bit, you know
29:02They want you to have your baby
29:03Because my blood pressure is high
29:06Oh, let me tell you
29:08I'm being induced because I have gestational hypertension
29:12And the cause of that, if you don't know, is high blood pressure
29:15And you know what high blood pressure is called from?
29:18Stress
29:19All because my mom and AK don't know how to keep their mouths shut
29:22And they wanna give me high blood pressure
29:27So
29:30We gotta come back up here for 12.30?
29:33We gotta be here for 12
29:34Be here for 12?
29:36Yeah, she told me to go take a shower, eat, and have a good meal before
29:40Wait, we're coming at 12.30 midnight?
29:42I mean, I feel bad
29:45That I could have been one of the reasons to make her blood pressure a little high
29:49But it's go time
29:51And Mia has a big decision to make
29:53So have you decided on who's gonna be in delivery room?
29:57Don't even ask me that question right now
30:00I, no, I don't even ask that question right now
30:03This is not the time, I gotta get my stuff together and prepare to have this baby
30:07I just can't believe after everything that went down today
30:09She's still worried about competing with my mom whether or not she's gonna be in the delivery room
30:14It kinda makes me mad
30:16Don't even, don't even, don't even
30:18Mia
30:18The last thing I wanna be thinking about is our crazy moms
30:21Yeah, I really don't need them stressing Mia out anymore
30:25Especially after putting Mia through hell
30:43After spending three days in the hospital, today's the day we get to take him home
30:47I'm so excited
30:49It's definitely not gonna be easy but
30:51Our families will help support us
30:53Our families will help support us
30:56Our families will
30:57Hunter
30:58Our families will help support us and keep us going so we don't feel like our life is over just
31:04cause we had a baby young
31:05But I'm still nervous how Hunter's gonna be as a 13 year old dub
31:13I'm ready for him to be home already
31:15Ready for him to be where?
31:16Home
31:18Why?
31:19I love him so much
31:20Oh yeah, look at Lil Chunk
31:25I love how Hunter is already obsessed with Wes
31:29So I do feel like Hunter is gonna step up and do what needs to be done
31:33It may take him a little longer than it would, you know, someone that is older
31:37But he did good this morning helping with Wes
31:40I think he changed a diaper while I was asleep
31:42Oh
31:43I pick him up and I'm like
31:45Is that a butt crack I feel?
31:48I pull his gown up
31:51The diaper was halfway down his butt
31:55He tried
31:56And there was poop in the diaper too
31:59So we're just lucky he didn't seep out
32:04Well, y'all glad that part's over?
32:07Yep
32:08Yep
32:08Me too
32:09Hunter said you can't kill him now cause he did good making your grandson
32:15Yeah
32:16If he don't help take care of that kid and take care of you then, you know, he could be
32:20on a milk carton, you never know
32:23What?
32:23She didn't do all this on her own and she's not gonna go through it all on her own
32:28I expect Hunter to help as much as he can because he's not gonna be able to help financially and
32:34support the baby
32:36I mean, we haven't really got him to change poopy diapers yet, we're still working on that
32:40You wanna change?
32:42How many did you change?
32:45How many not even poopy, how many diapers?
32:47I had a job when I started having kids and worked a lot
32:52I got a job, school
32:54You're gonna get through it, we're gonna make you
32:58Straight out of school, we're gonna send you right to work
33:01Yep
33:01Yeah, see I knew what was gonna happen when we had three girls
33:05Did you?
33:06They was gonna reproduce, we was gonna have to help raise that and see it's just
33:12There ain't gonna be no more kids for a while
33:15If there is, there ain't gonna be a baby daddy
33:19I'm gonna tell you that baby daddy don't do it by himself, so
33:22I swear, if this kid ends up pregnant
33:29I won't
33:30So, she thought I was joking when I told her that after you have the baby
33:35And they say you gotta wait six weeks, blah blah blah
33:37And I'm like, you might make it a week
33:39And then this morning, she was like, you weren't lying mom
33:43Like, I'm ready to have sex now
33:46I miss it
33:48And...
33:49Yeah, so
33:51They do have protection, but
33:55I can't be in there to be like
33:57Make sure it's on, you know
33:59So, be smart
34:01And make sure it's on
34:04Baby wish has arrived
34:07We definitely, I would say we have an active six life
34:10What's the longest you've gone and died by himself?
34:12Uh, the longest I've gone is probably
34:17When Bella was in the hospital
34:18Can you wait six weeks?
34:21Yeah, I can wait six weeks
34:23You're flying
34:25Yeah
34:25You don't even make it like two days
34:27And then you're trying to hunt me, so
34:29You're like a rabbit
34:35Hunter's gonna shower?
34:36Yeah
34:37With you? Okay
34:38All right
34:40Should be
34:44My parents definitely know what we do behind closed doors
34:50Stacy does too
34:51But my dad definitely doesn't want to hear about it
34:56I feel like it's gonna take me three hours just to get everything put up and situated
35:07Oh, I'm doing the most important job
35:12I'm guarding little man
35:15Don't get me wrong, I love my grandson
35:17But the one thing that would cause me to lose my mind
35:20And really get pissed off would be if there's another kid that pops up before
35:28These two get out of high school and get their life started
35:32Cause we're trying to do everything we can to help them
35:34Not let this hold them back
35:36But if they have a second whoops
35:40Then they're gonna be in trouble
35:44Are you coming or not?
35:45Can you shut the up?
35:50I'm done
35:51I'm not gonna let him be a part of his daughter's life
35:54He can take me to court
36:12Can you get up or do you need help?
36:14I'm independent
36:15Okay
36:17Let's see if I can do it
36:19Wait, hold on
36:21Okay, I got it, I got it
36:26Therapy, I think it went well
36:28I enjoyed it
36:29I feel like the communication is already getting better
36:32And hopefully it will be the beginning of our relationship
36:35Getting back on the right path
36:42So, you know, like I do live with my mom
36:44Yeah
36:44And I still have to follow her rules and boundaries because I do live at her house
36:48Just because I'm 18 doesn't mean that
36:51Yeah
36:51Like I still depend on her
36:52Yeah
36:53Yeah
36:54So, you know, all she asks is you to do the anger management
36:58That's kind of big for her
36:59And I know it doesn't really matter to you what my mom thinks, but it matters to me
37:04And I don't want Haisley growing up in a broken home, but I also don't want her having angry parents
37:10either
37:14If you want this to work between me and you, then I think that you need to go
37:23I think it's necessary
37:26Had a great session with therapy and then goes right back into the I need to fix, so
37:33Right back into the my fault again
37:36Like there's things that I do gotta work on and fix, but I don't need anger management
37:42So I won't ever
37:45Do that
37:49So are you gonna go?
37:51No, man
37:51What do you mean you don't know?
37:53What I said
37:56Well, I'm not doing all this counseling and all this for you not to know
38:00Well, I'm not
38:02I'm taking a day at a time, I'm not worried
38:04So you're not worried. Okay, so
38:09If you decide that that's not what you want to do, then you made your decision
38:13You made your bed and you're gonna you're fixing to lay in it
38:15Like that's what's gonna happen
38:16So it's either you go to anger management
38:20And choose your family
38:22Which is me and Haisley
38:23Or you don't go
38:33I don't know
38:35I'm not too good at responding well to ultimatum. I don't like being pretty much held to a threat if
38:41I don't do something then I'm gonna get a punishment for it
38:46Crazy ultimatum, you know, Lord have mercy. He don't need that. Okay
38:51He's a happy guy. Yeah, so
38:54I just have buttons and if you constantly push push and push and push
38:58Then I'm gonna get upset
39:01It's like saying don't hit the red button and then just going to slap it. It's like exactly what it
39:06is
39:07So or if you see a wound on someone you keep touching it. It's gonna hurt and it's gonna piss
39:11them off
39:12So why keep doing it?
39:14I just feel like I'm literally the only one fighting for anything to be better
39:21And you could give a
39:23Per usual
39:25So much for this counseling, huh?
39:28I'm not doing it. It doesn't matter about counseling
39:32I'm not going to counseling if you can't go to anger management
39:37So are you willing to do that or like what?
39:41It's not happening dead there simple as that
39:44Literally asking one thing. I just told you I said no means no
39:48Oh my god
39:50I'm not doing that
39:52We was doing great and then he wants to like I
40:00I don't know
40:02I know it's never gonna be any different so I don't know why I keep trying for it
40:05Like it's exhausting and wasting my time
40:09Are you coming or not?
40:11Can you shut the up?
40:16If he leaves then he's gonna be so he better hope that he don't
40:20What do you mean?
40:21Because my mom can be pissed and he's gonna everything up
40:26He's not making this better on himself. He's never seen this side of my mom
40:30My family keeps telling me oh well this is what's gonna happen and then it happens
40:35And they're like oh well we told you so we told you that was gonna happen
40:39And I'm like no no it's not and I sit there and defend him
40:41And then at the end of it like he on me
40:48Like my mom said unless he can take accountability for his actions nothing's ever gonna change
40:58I'm done
41:00I'm not gonna let him be a part of his daughter's life. He can take me to court
41:04Oh, we'll get the best lawyer you can get
41:11Next time on unexpected
41:12Come on, where's the go-kart?
41:14I don't want to do it
41:15I'm looking at the go-kart and I don't think that I'm going to fit because I got big thighs
41:26The seatbelt won't reach. I'm like mortified right now
41:30It's not a big deal
41:32It's not a big deal to you
41:34Still find her the most beautiful girl in the world
41:36She doesn't really view herself the same way but it's true
41:39Why are you crying?
41:41I hate being fat
41:43I'm ready for this to all just be over
41:45Have you heard from Bryce?
41:47Bryce isn't coming to the delivery because
41:51Yeah, we broke up
41:52What if Bryce and them show up?
41:55I'll get him arrested
41:58I wonder how many people right now are going to the hospital to get induced
42:03That was not my plan
42:04The moms do promise that they are not gonna fight during my labor
42:08I believe them to an extent
42:10You ready? You wanted to go back there?
42:12No
42:12If Nicole had anything negative to say
42:16Would I want to beat the out of her? Absolutely
42:18But I'm going to stay as civil as I can
42:21I don't think this is normal and I'm getting a little worried
42:27And Nicole left, I don't know where she's at
42:30I just hope she gets here in time
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