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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 16 -
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03My little chef.
00:00:05Oh, babe.
00:00:09I'm a pregnancy Caribbean.
00:00:11Even though we started using protection
00:00:13since we left San Pedro, we had plenty of sex
00:00:16without a condom the first few days I got here.
00:00:20Do you want to take a test?
00:00:22I think we should.
00:00:26The annual income for petitioners for K-1 visa
00:00:30is $26,500 USD.
00:00:34And, you know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:00:38It's easier for me to stay here, got the Filipino visa.
00:00:42I don't know if I can leave my family.
00:00:45But I don't want to be apart from you that long.
00:01:09Where is the honesty of up to 20-something years
00:01:12with your fellow woman?
00:01:14This is an abomination.
00:01:18Is there a way we can solve this?
00:01:24Maybe I go and seek advice from the elders, chief priests.
00:01:30Tell me, sir.
00:01:34You got that final warning at work,
00:01:37and if Nat's helping you out,
00:01:39these question marks make me feel like it's super unstable.
00:01:42I'm just sick of the peppering and peppering, peppering.
00:01:44You're flogging the same hole, it's like...
00:01:45Because when I get a warning like that when you send me...
00:01:49It happened, but now I still have a job.
00:01:51Okay, but it makes me worried that you could be using me.
00:01:54If you think that, then I would not expect anything less
00:01:58than you wanting to go.
00:01:59So, please, please let me know.
00:02:09Are you kidding me?
00:02:11He said he has a fiancé.
00:02:16How dares he had dumped me
00:02:18and leave me alone in the desert?
00:02:19Mohammed standing me up.
00:02:21Like, I'm just so over it.
00:02:23this ring, and everything that it represented.
00:02:27Now a fine lab somewhere else.
00:02:46I'm just feeling hangry.
00:02:48You know that I like that.
00:02:51You know that I like that.
00:02:53Give you what you want, you want, you want.
00:02:56I'm just feeling hangry.
00:02:59Hungry, hangry bear.
00:03:01When I'm hangry, I'm moody.
00:03:03You might see that.
00:03:04You want some nuts?
00:03:07This one nut.
00:03:10I feel like a chipmunk.
00:03:12Yep, I'm a chipmunk Sheen.
00:03:22I just want to stay here like this.
00:03:26Yesterday, Sheena and I met up with an immigration attorney,
00:03:29and we learned some disappointing news.
00:03:31Turns out, I don't make the necessary income
00:03:33to bring Sheena over on a K-1 visa,
00:03:36and that could take years to build up.
00:03:39So the only option for us to be together right now
00:03:42really is for me to stay here
00:03:43so I can get my Filipino visa instead.
00:03:48But I'm not sure I'm ready to just pick up
00:03:50and move to another country.
00:03:55Sheena, we have some real big decisions we have to make.
00:03:59But I'm looking forward to tonight,
00:04:02and I really just want to put that down for tomorrow.
00:04:06I understand my love.
00:04:09I can't wait to, you know, visit the beaches.
00:04:12At least no one's going to disturb us.
00:04:17I'm bringing forth the Batangas,
00:04:19the province along the south area.
00:04:21It's quite popular for beautiful sandy beaches.
00:04:25Since talking to the immigration lawyer,
00:04:28it causes a lot of emotional stress.
00:04:30I'm hoping that some alone time will be relaxing,
00:04:33and that it will give me the opportunity
00:04:36to get him to really consider living here with me.
00:04:43Also looking outside here.
00:04:45Mm-hmm.
00:04:46Nice and peaceful here.
00:04:46One thing I don't like about the beaches.
00:04:49Jailfish.
00:04:51Well, let's hope that we don't get stoned by jellyfish.
00:04:53But it turns out I didn't bring the jelly.
00:04:57Maybe if we have a kind of a special night tonight.
00:05:00Oh, that would be great.
00:05:05I'm going to have to ask you if mom approves about this.
00:05:11Mm-hmm.
00:05:12Mom's going to be there watching and cheering
00:05:13the entire time.
00:05:15You're craving me now.
00:05:18All right.
00:05:19I think this is it.
00:05:21Nice.
00:05:21It's a very tight fit.
00:05:24Oh, that's tight fit?
00:05:26Oh, my gosh.
00:05:29Sheena and I talked about it.
00:05:31And now, not having anybody to kind of hold us back,
00:05:36I think now is the perfect time to kind of let
00:05:39our sexual tensions go.
00:05:41Lead away, honey.
00:05:42Yeah.
00:05:45Oh, look.
00:05:46There's a hammock, honey.
00:05:47Wow.
00:05:48This is such a beautiful place.
00:05:50Oh.
00:05:51Oh, wow.
00:05:53Wow.
00:05:53Wow.
00:05:55Did you prepare this?
00:05:57I mean, this is so sweet.
00:05:58I did.
00:06:00To be honest, I am quite nervous to lose my virginity.
00:06:04And I'm quite excited as well.
00:06:06I was like, oh, wow.
00:06:09Hey, baby.
00:06:11Boom.
00:06:13I'm quite happy because I wanted to give this
00:06:16to the person that who had loved me for the longest years.
00:06:21And I think Forrest deserved that kind of love more
00:06:25than anyone else.
00:06:28Oh, wait.
00:06:29You know what?
00:06:30I had to freshen myself.
00:06:31I'm going to get some sexy lingerie.
00:06:35Okay.
00:06:37It's see-through.
00:06:39I don't know, but you are happy.
00:06:42When I was younger, I always thought, you know, my first time
00:06:46would be great and extravagant and amazing.
00:06:48And I got older and it wasn't happening.
00:06:52I did worry that that's just one of those life experiences that
00:06:56other people just get to have, but not me.
00:06:59So, going into this love nest that I have made for Sheena and I,
00:07:05I am extremely nervous on what to do or how to do things,
00:07:10but I have no doubts that I'm doing it with the right person.
00:07:22I can't stop the feeling I've got you.
00:07:27You're looking so sexy.
00:07:29You love my dress.
00:07:30What do you think about me?
00:07:31Oh, yeah.
00:07:31You look so handsome, I know.
00:07:32I got it all ready for you.
00:07:34You're so making me love her.
00:07:39I'm finally getting to be with the woman of my dreams,
00:07:44the vixen of the internet.
00:07:47I'm glad that I'm getting to give you my virginity.
00:07:52And I wouldn't want to give it to anybody else but you.
00:07:55You're going to have to help me get the song, by the way.
00:07:57Oh, really?
00:07:58Yeah.
00:07:58Oh, my God.
00:08:00Oh, there it is.
00:08:00Oh, what?
00:08:01It's not amazing.
00:08:03You ready to go, honey?
00:08:04Ready.
00:08:05Oh, yeah?
00:08:08We'll wait.
00:08:13You're going to have to keep me waiting.
00:08:15Here I come, baby.
00:08:17Oh, you're super macho.
00:08:20Here I come, baby.
00:08:24The sweetest honey girl I have?
00:08:26All right.
00:08:26Yes, ma'am.
00:08:28Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:08:29Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:08:31Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:08:32Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:08:44Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
00:08:47no, no, no, no.
00:08:57Kind of lost my appetite.
00:09:01I'm really nervous.
00:09:02It's not something I would do every day in my world.
00:09:07So, yeah, it's, it's, it's scary.
00:09:17You're okay, son.
00:09:28Oh, oh.
00:09:31Is this where we're going?
00:09:33Um, this, this is a big market.
00:09:41Okay, we'll get our goat.
00:09:45Last night, Daniel's uncle was able to talk to the elders, and he talked to the chief priest.
00:09:51And the chief priest says, we have to do a cleansing.
00:09:54But first, I have to buy a goat, two yams, and bring money.
00:10:02We are going to the Makoko market to get the items.
00:10:05And then we'll go to see the chief priest in his shrine.
00:10:09And that's where the ceremony will take place.
00:10:12You're overly dressed.
00:10:15This whole thing is crazy.
00:10:17But I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
00:10:22What are they washing?
00:10:23What is that?
00:10:25Cowell skin.
00:10:26Come on, this is what I put in this suit.
00:10:34My shoes are going to be a mess.
00:10:36My feet are going to be a mess.
00:10:37It's my case.
00:10:39Oh, God.
00:10:40This place is so crowded, baby.
00:10:42How are we going to find goats?
00:10:45The uncle has said in the olden days they slaughtered the goat.
00:10:47Now they don't do that anymore.
00:10:48So now what it's done, it must be a female goat because I'm female.
00:10:52But the goat gives milk.
00:10:54So he will feed the tribe with the goat milk.
00:10:57But what are the yams for?
00:10:59The two yams is what the ancestors demanded.
00:11:04We don't know why.
00:11:08This is what we're looking for.
00:11:10They're huge.
00:11:11These are the biggest yams I've ever seen in my whole entire life.
00:11:14Have you seen it before?
00:11:15No.
00:11:15We have big yams in Nigeria here.
00:11:18Oh, my God.
00:11:18This one is as big as me, right?
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:24All right, Tom.
00:11:25I think this is the biggest.
00:11:26This one we need.
00:11:27How much is this, sir?
00:11:28Five, five.
00:11:30Five thousand five hundred.
00:11:31For one or?
00:11:33One.
00:11:33One.
00:11:34Two.
00:11:34Ah.
00:11:35It's too expensive.
00:11:37But, baby, we need it for the cleansing.
00:11:39Negotiate.
00:11:40We are giving 10,000.
00:11:42This two.
00:11:43Yes.
00:11:43Okay.
00:11:44How much?
00:11:4510,000.
00:11:4610,000?
00:11:47Yes.
00:11:47So you're giving him full price.
00:11:49You're not negotiating.
00:11:50You need to negotiate better once we get to the goats.
00:11:54Daniel is spending my money like it's water.
00:11:57He spent 10,000 on two yams, and I still have to buy a goat.
00:12:01I feel like we were ripped off.
00:12:03I don't think Daniel is a good negotiator.
00:12:04Look, look, look, look.
00:12:07Is this where we buy goats?
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:09Yes.
00:12:10Yeah.
00:12:11Which ones are females and which ones are males?
00:12:13This is female.
00:12:14This is female.
00:12:16This one is female.
00:12:17Yeah.
00:12:19Is she going to be good enough to cleanse me, though?
00:12:21What?
00:12:23What's the price?
00:12:24200,000.
00:12:26What?
00:12:26200,000 for a goat?
00:12:28No.
00:12:30No, no.
00:12:31How much do you want to pay?
00:12:32A lot less than that.
00:12:34How low would you go?
00:12:36How low would you go?
00:12:37I'm not paying 200 for her.
00:12:38I'm not.
00:12:39Baby, hold on.
00:12:40No, you're letting me.
00:12:41How much?
00:12:41Not 200, no.
00:12:43Give me 100.
00:12:43A hundred.
00:12:44Yeah.
00:12:45We are not paying.
00:12:46Hold on.
00:12:46Oh, God, we are not paying 100.
00:12:48We are paying 70,000, Naila.
00:12:50Please.
00:12:52I'm too pretty.
00:12:53Oh, my God.
00:12:54We just bought a freaking goat.
00:12:57I have enough money for this, but we still have to pay the priest.
00:13:04Poor goat.
00:13:14Everything comes down to this priest and this cleansing.
00:13:18He can say that I can't be cleansed, and that will be the end of everything.
00:13:23I will lose Daniel forever.
00:13:33Where are you taking me, baby?
00:13:35No, just to be careful.
00:13:36I am.
00:13:38This one right here?
00:13:39Yes.
00:13:40Go in.
00:13:41Oh, my God.
00:13:43Oh, my God.
00:13:44Oh, my God.
00:13:47Hold on.
00:13:49He's yelling at me, Daniel.
00:13:50Leave your shoe, please.
00:13:52I will.
00:13:53Hold on.
00:13:59May I come in?
00:14:02Go in.
00:14:03Go in.
00:14:03Go in.
00:14:09I have to be dreaming.
00:14:11This can't be real.
00:14:14Damn bitch, I want to run.
00:14:26I'm about to take this pregnancy test.
00:14:29All right, should we get it over with?
00:14:32Aviva is really hoping that she's pregnant, but if she's not, I'd be a little relief.
00:14:38Okay.
00:14:41Babe.
00:14:41Oh, my God.
00:14:44Oh, my God.
00:14:46Oh, my God.
00:15:06things are still like tense between josh and i he came back to the apartment but he's barely
00:15:11speaking to me and after talking to my parents i am just so confused my parents think that i'm
00:15:20judging josh too harshly and like i don't know i am the queen at self-sabotaging but i'm just trying
00:15:25to protect myself and my family and it sucks because my heart wants one thing my mind's telling
00:15:30me another right now and um it's scary you're all right yeah are you yeah i'm gonna get out of
00:15:54the
00:15:56apartment okay cool i'm still feeling hurt by elise i'm starting to have a little bit of doubt
00:16:05creeping i know i've fallen for her but i don't want to be in a relationship where i have to
00:16:10explain myself 400 times she thinks that i'm using that then i could use her and that's not the case
00:16:16and i would never want to use someone it feels like she's attacking my integrity
00:16:25so like
00:16:29plus i sucked and i know you've got these worries right but like i don't want you to think that
00:16:36you know i would use you you know or i'd be like your past relationships i'd take advantage of you
00:16:42but that's what angered me you know because it's the last thing i want to do okay just i really
00:16:49like
00:16:50yeah you know i feel when you sort of say you know that i'm i'm dependent on other people and
00:16:56i
00:16:56might be dependent on you you know and that you know she gave me a place to me that's that
00:17:03that's weird it's not weird you're weird you know you've said it you've made your point i have
00:17:09nothing to hide with her have you let me ask you a question have you given me a reason for
00:17:14me to trust
00:17:15you do you not trust me not right now no i want to i do but let me earn that
00:17:21trust in by showing you
00:17:23that you know i can look after myself i can spend for myself i can be a partner for you
00:17:26without having
00:17:27to lean on you know friends or you know please i'm telling you right now please if you can't let
00:17:35me prove it to you then you just don't trust me that's not going to work okay i am sorry
00:17:49i do
00:17:50sometimes poke and prod yep that's just a character defect i just don't want this to be words like
00:17:58words are great to me and that's that's that's made me settle in my entire life with every
00:18:02relationship i fell for words and like i don't want to fall back into that like i've been engaged
00:18:0730 times like i'm 32 i want to get married and i want to have kids and it scares me
00:18:11because i do like
00:18:12you and i didn't expect to like you so much so soon it's good to hear because i didn't plan
00:18:21on like
00:18:22falling for you as hard as i've fallen for you so quickly i don't want you to feel like you've
00:18:27um
00:18:28you know you've settled and i've i've roped you in i've made you fall in love and then i'm
00:18:32some you know i'm useless you know i wouldn't let you feel like you've made the wrong decision i won't
00:18:43like i'm i'm crazy about you to be honest
00:18:48i'm glad that elise is having a little more faith in me
00:18:52the relationship needs to be built on mutual respect and not this sort of toxic
00:18:56taped down mentality that i can see that she's doing
00:18:59i'm hoping that things get better and we just keep building because i do see a future with elise
00:19:04so i think we get that out of the way and then we can just get stronger and stronger
00:19:11well you know what isn't really sexy when the wind almost blows your top off i hope it gets a
00:19:16bit windier
00:19:20so
00:19:42Moment of truth.
00:19:44Moment of truth.
00:19:47Okay.
00:19:48How are you feeling, babe?
00:19:51I'm freaking out.
00:19:53I am too, actually.
00:20:01All right, should we get it over with?
00:20:04I'm going to go in there alone.
00:20:07Why?
00:20:08Because I just want to do it on my own.
00:20:11How long does it take?
00:20:13I don't know. It's in Spanish.
00:20:15Oh, my.
00:20:18It just feels so surreal thinking about how far Stick and I have come over the past few weeks.
00:20:23Come on, let me get a good little kiss.
00:20:26A few days ago, I was convinced we were breaking up.
00:20:30Now I'm taking a pregnancy test.
00:20:32So much has happened, but I'm leaving in less than two days and I have a lot of mixed emotions.
00:20:39I would love to find out that I'm pregnant and get this incredible news, but leaving Stick is going to
00:20:46be really difficult.
00:20:48After this, there might be no drinking, no partying, none of that.
00:20:52For you, too?
00:20:54No, no, no, no.
00:20:55Hmm.
00:20:56If it's positive, I've got to celebrate later on.
00:21:02I would be excited about all this.
00:21:04We would make, like, beautiful kids.
00:21:06They would.
00:21:07And I would love to have a son.
00:21:08And by the grace of God, he just, like, he wants to sing.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:13I'm not saying he has to be an artist because that's, you know, what I did.
00:21:16No, I agree.
00:21:16Nothing like that.
00:21:17Mm-hmm.
00:21:18I'm scared.
00:21:21All right.
00:21:22We'll do your thing.
00:21:23Okay.
00:21:25I just like boys because I know they're, like, mama's boys and they...
00:21:30It's going to be daddy's boys.
00:21:31What are you talking about?
00:21:32No.
00:21:32No, the girls always favor the dad.
00:21:34That's what I heard.
00:21:35The boys always favor the mom.
00:21:36I've seen it.
00:21:37Not to sound bad, but I don't want the sins of my past to fall on me, so I'm scared
00:21:41to
00:21:41have a daughter.
00:21:42I don't want to have to kill anybody.
00:21:45Whatever.
00:21:46Gives me baby fever.
00:21:53Okay.
00:21:57I really want to know now, before I leave, I don't want to find out when I'm back in
00:22:01Arizona without him, because that would suck for him and me.
00:22:09Even though we only had unprotected sex for, I don't know, four to five days, I still
00:22:17just feel like I might be pregnant.
00:22:20I just have that feeling.
00:22:25Babe.
00:22:26Mm-hmm.
00:22:27How's it going?
00:22:28Are you done?
00:22:29Not yet.
00:22:31Be patient.
00:22:34Here goes nothing.
00:22:36Moment of truth.
00:22:42I'm talking.
00:22:54Bruh, my palms are sweaty.
00:22:57I can tell that she's really hoping that she's pregnant.
00:23:00If she is, I'm going to be right by her side.
00:23:04But, honestly, if she's not pregnant, I'd be a little relief.
00:23:10Babe.
00:23:11Oh, my God.
00:23:16Okay.
00:23:19Una y cinco minutos.
00:23:22So you've got to wait one to five minutes.
00:23:24Right now, I don't think we're ready.
00:23:27So, it's a little scary.
00:23:30If there's one line, it's negative.
00:23:32Two, it's positive.
00:23:35Well.
00:23:44I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:23:47I think this has shown me I just want something different.
00:23:50I'll just be a few minutes.
00:23:53Before I leave Morocco, there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:24:21Oh, thank you.
00:24:22Sorry, I have a lot of stuff.
00:24:27Thank you so much.
00:24:28Thank you so much.
00:24:45Yesterday was another emotional day for me.
00:24:48I got stood up by Mohammed.
00:24:52I am single.
00:24:53I have no reason to be in Morocco anymore.
00:24:55And I'm ready to go home.
00:24:59I just know that this wasn't meant for me.
00:25:04I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:25:07And I think the best thing to do in this moment is to just get back home as soon as
00:25:12possible.
00:25:13So, I am flying back to the U.S. today.
00:25:20Last night, when I got back to my hotel, I received a text from Mohammed.
00:25:27And he said, are you serious?
00:25:30You came to Morocco for someone else, not for me.
00:25:33I'm not your plan B.
00:25:36I think this was his plan all along.
00:25:38To bail on me and humiliate me one last time.
00:25:43He knew I came here for someone else.
00:25:45And he was really mad about it.
00:25:47So, he just had me running around Morocco and jumping through hoops for him like I always used to do
00:25:53in the past.
00:25:54And I fell for it.
00:25:57I feel kind of dumb getting ditched by Mohammed.
00:26:01But at least now, I don't have to wonder about any more what ifs.
00:26:05That door is closed forever.
00:26:13I'll just be a few minutes.
00:26:16But before I leave Morocco, there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:26:34Hi.
00:26:38I really want to leave Morocco in peace after both of these failed relationships.
00:26:43So, when I changed my flight, I decided to let Ziad know.
00:26:48And he actually agreed to meet me to say goodbye.
00:26:56Good morning.
00:26:58How are you?
00:27:00Okay, how are you?
00:27:02Fine.
00:27:04This day you're going to travel to your country.
00:27:07Yeah.
00:27:10So, I wish you a good word.
00:27:14And that's all what I have to say, so.
00:27:17You don't want to say sorry for anything?
00:27:19Me?
00:27:20Mm-hmm.
00:27:21To me, we should say sorry.
00:27:23I mean, I think we both have things to apologize for.
00:27:27Come on.
00:27:28What do you want to find out?
00:27:32I'm hurt with what happened.
00:27:35I came here because I loved you.
00:27:37And because I wanted to be with you.
00:27:40Did you ever love me?
00:27:44Before you come here, I was in love with you, really, yeah.
00:27:47But when you come here, we see each other in the reality how we are.
00:27:51Everything about us, it's not work.
00:27:56I'm really sorry.
00:27:59It's fine.
00:28:01Yeah.
00:28:04Okay, well, thanks for everything.
00:28:07Thanks for you, too.
00:28:09So, yeah.
00:28:12That's all.
00:28:14Okay.
00:28:19Bye.
00:28:21Goodbye.
00:28:23I tried to ride on love again
00:28:25But it took me down the dead end streets
00:28:29I thought I struck the gold mine
00:28:32I can't turn back the clock rewind
00:28:35Because it's too late, you know it's too late
00:28:39Shame about the land we left behind
00:28:41Cause we were so great, and we were so great
00:28:45Talking to him didn't make me feel better.
00:28:47It's almost like it doesn't matter to him.
00:28:50I was just expecting him to care a little bit more.
00:28:53Too late
00:28:56This has definitely been a learning experience.
00:28:58I think this has shown me and taught me what I don't want in a relationship.
00:29:09Thank you so much.
00:29:16Have a nice night.
00:29:18Have a nice night.
00:29:19Thank you very much.
00:29:20Hello.
00:29:23I want to go home and focus on becoming the best version of me.
00:29:31How many bags?
00:29:32Three.
00:29:33A lot of makeup.
00:29:34Here you go.
00:29:35Thank you so much.
00:29:40But, I'm not giving up on my search for love.
00:29:43I'm a hopeless romantic.
00:29:44I love love.
00:29:46And, no matter how many times people have left me or dumped me, that's never going to stop me.
00:29:52Because, I know true love is real.
00:29:55And, I know somewhere in the world, my person does exist, who's happy to be with me.
00:30:03And, I know that I'm going to find it.
00:30:06I know I'm going to find it.
00:30:08And, I'm not going to stop until I do find it, because I know it's out there.
00:30:16And, this isn't the end of my journey.
00:30:20And, you never know.
00:30:21It could happen tomorrow.
00:30:25Or, on the plane.
00:30:30Morocco, it's been real.
00:30:31A lot of ups and downs.
00:30:33But, I'm ready to go home.
00:30:37I'm ready.
00:30:38So, goodbye, Morocco.
00:30:45This is the water.
00:30:47Yeah.
00:30:48Let's do this.
00:30:50I'm making a real effort here, to fit in.
00:30:56You never had a washing machine?
00:30:59Remember, you called me boozy.
00:31:01I'm not boozy.
00:31:02I think I got to take that back.
00:31:06My wife-to-be had an affair with her fellow woman.
00:31:13Woman, is it true what your husband said?
00:31:17Yes.
00:31:19This is totally sacrilege.
00:31:22Listen, it's over.
00:31:24Where is she going, girl?
00:31:26I'll go, girl.
00:31:27One, two, three.
00:31:29You're in Malaya, Africa.
00:31:31Wow, wow, wow.
00:31:33Souma, Africa.
00:31:53Yeah, yes, that's it.
00:31:56I'm going to do some squats with this.
00:32:12All right.
00:32:16It's my second day with Trisha's family,
00:32:19and I've been trying to make myself useful today,
00:32:23helping around the house.
00:32:25This is the water.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:29All right, let's see.
00:32:30Let's do this.
00:32:33How often do you do this?
00:32:35Every day, or?
00:32:36Yeah.
00:32:36Macaron sanan, every day.
00:32:38You watch every day, huh?
00:32:39Yeah, you cook every day.
00:32:41Oh, cook every day?
00:32:42Yeah.
00:32:43You got to get the water for laundry,
00:32:45for cooking everything.
00:32:47Yeah.
00:32:48I'm making a real effort here to fit in,
00:32:51to do some of the chores that they do.
00:32:55Here's my shoulder.
00:32:56Oh.
00:32:56Oh.
00:32:57Oh.
00:32:58Oh.
00:32:59Oh.
00:33:00Oh.
00:33:01Oh.
00:33:03Hey, babe.
00:33:04Oh.
00:33:06Check out your man, baby.
00:33:08Oh.
00:33:10Oh.
00:33:11You good?
00:33:11Not easy.
00:33:13Put it there.
00:33:13Bring the water here.
00:33:14Oh.
00:33:14OK.
00:33:15Thank you for showing me where the water was.
00:33:18Let me show Chetik.
00:33:19Show her.
00:33:20Ah.
00:33:24That's it.
00:33:26Yeah, this is not my soap here?
00:33:28Yeah.
00:33:29You have to.
00:33:33It's going to take forever.
00:33:36I think this is easier.
00:33:39I have never washed my clothes to the machine.
00:33:43Hey, are you serious?
00:33:44You never had a washing machine?
00:33:46We never had one.
00:33:48You even do this in Tana, huh?
00:33:50Yeah, even in Tana.
00:33:51Yeah.
00:33:52I'm doing this.
00:33:55Remember you call me boozy?
00:33:57I'm not boozy.
00:33:58Hey, I think I got to take that back now.
00:34:01I know you be doing this .
00:34:05Man.
00:34:08So how was with my dad?
00:34:11Did you understand each other?
00:34:12Oh, yeah.
00:34:14But we didn't talk about anything serious.
00:34:18He didn't talk about babies or I don't know.
00:34:22Nah.
00:34:23I thought it was best just to leave that subject alone for now.
00:34:29He's not going to leave the subject alone.
00:34:32He's really, really worried about the baby more than I thought.
00:34:41So you should not take a long time.
00:34:46He wants that you should have decided before.
00:34:49Here you go.
00:34:53What do you think your dad would do if I don't come up with an answer
00:34:57about it in the next couple of days?
00:35:02I don't know, Rick, but it's not just my dad.
00:35:07To me, having a baby means a lot.
00:35:13I want the mother-child relationship that I didn't get to have.
00:35:17You know, my mom, she left for another person.
00:35:29When I was one years old, my parents break up and my mom found another man.
00:35:40In my culture, when two people broke up and they have child together and the girl decided
00:35:52to marry it with another man, she cannot touch the baby.
00:35:59She cannot see the baby unless her husband buy animals and she has to cut the throat.
00:36:10The blood, they put it here on the babies.
00:36:14My mom didn't do it after she left us because her husband didn't accept for doing it.
00:36:23So she left me with my dad.
00:36:29She just followed the guy.
00:36:32But she didn't care.
00:36:40Wash your clothes.
00:36:45I know.
00:36:48I'm not used to talk about my mom because she makes me a little bit upset.
00:36:54Like, how?
00:36:55How she could not love a baby?
00:36:59It's cute, though.
00:37:02She left.
00:37:03I was just one years old.
00:37:05I know you're precious.
00:37:07Yeah.
00:37:09You had a daddy that loves you more than...
00:37:15That's why I want to make them happy.
00:37:19They want grandchild.
00:37:22I think that Trish is trying to fill a void.
00:37:26And I want her to heal and have the life that she's envisioning.
00:37:31She deserves to be a mom, and I don't ever want to take that away from her.
00:37:36But at the same time, I'm not even financially prepared right now to have another child.
00:37:45My worst fear is to lose Trish.
00:37:48And it hurts me to think that I might have to let her go.
00:38:04Hi!
00:38:05You look sexy driving that boat!
00:38:08Today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:38:11But he got a final warning because he took out a boat for a joyride and crashed it.
00:38:17I have so many questions.
00:38:18This whole boat thing is just super confusing to me.
00:38:21It's squared away, so you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:38:25Joshua.
00:38:26It was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:38:28How did you pay for that?
00:38:45Chris?
00:38:46Yes?
00:38:47I think I have to poop.
00:38:49Could you leave?
00:38:50Just pretend I'm not even here.
00:38:51No, you have to leave!
00:38:53I haven't gone in seven days.
00:38:57You look like a serial killer.
00:38:58Ah!
00:39:18I feel so much better.
00:39:20I'm going to finish shaving now.
00:39:21I sprayed. Don't worry. It doesn't smell.
00:39:24Yeah.
00:39:26I like Chris. I do.
00:39:28He's a great roommate, really fun,
00:39:30and he's like a brother.
00:39:33That's hot.
00:39:34Whatever.
00:39:36But I'm not dating Chris.
00:39:38I'm dating Josh.
00:39:39Woo!
00:39:40And things have been a little rocky
00:39:42with Josh and I the past few days.
00:39:45Hopefully this red light mask did wonders.
00:39:47I need to get cute to go on this boat.
00:39:49We had an intense conversation at the beach the other day,
00:39:52but ever since then,
00:39:54things are starting to move in a better direction.
00:39:57And today, Josh is taking me out
00:39:59on one of his company's boats.
00:40:01You'll have a fun day out there.
00:40:02It'll be awesome.
00:40:03It's a fun job.
00:40:04Well, I know it's fun.
00:40:05A little too much fun.
00:40:08Please, focus on the positives for today.
00:40:09Positive.
00:40:10Let's have a positive day.
00:40:11Period.
00:40:12I like that.
00:40:12I'll give you a report card tonight.
00:40:14Okay.
00:40:14I get along well with Elise.
00:40:16I like Elise.
00:40:17But she's definitely looking for problems.
00:40:19Since she's been here,
00:40:20I've seen them go up and down
00:40:21very quick and very fast.
00:40:23Almost like a perfect little toxic relationship.
00:40:26So, short term, I think it's going to be fine.
00:40:29But long term, I don't know.
00:40:31I don't know.
00:40:44Have a good day.
00:40:51Hi.
00:40:54Does, do you guys know if Josh is here?
00:40:56He's not here right now, no.
00:40:58But he's on his way.
00:40:58He does here, right?
00:40:59Yeah, he does, yeah.
00:40:59Oh, okay.
00:41:00Yeah, that's it.
00:41:00That's actually his desk.
00:41:01This one?
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:03Should I sit at his desk?
00:41:03Yeah, go for it.
00:41:04Go for it.
00:41:05That's his desk.
00:41:06That is where the magic happens.
00:41:08Hi, I'm Joshua.
00:41:11You just go down here, turn right.
00:41:13Straight down to the right.
00:41:14Yep.
00:41:24Hi.
00:41:25You look sexy driving that boat.
00:41:29Hi.
00:41:30Hi.
00:41:34Hey, baby.
00:41:34Hello.
00:41:37I know Alyssa's been a bit worried about my position at work because of some of the mistakes
00:41:41I made.
00:41:42Of course, the main part of my job is selling boats.
00:41:44But I wanted to see with her own eyes that I've still got a job and, you know, she's got
00:41:49nothing to worry about.
00:41:50Are you ready?
00:41:51I'm ready, baby.
00:41:54It's so pretty around here.
00:41:56Wow.
00:41:57Yeah.
00:41:58It's a beautiful day and it's a beautiful boat with a beautiful man.
00:42:02So, when I walked in looking for you today, I went into your office and I met someone
00:42:08and I sat at your desk.
00:42:09Did you?
00:42:10Yeah.
00:42:11Did you get some work done?
00:42:13No, not at all.
00:42:15It was fun to show off a little bit.
00:42:17I do like being out on the water any chance I get.
00:42:20That was my first impression of you when I saw you on social media.
00:42:23She's on the front of a boat looking fabulous.
00:42:25I think it was on the back, actually.
00:42:28You're on the front.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:30He would know boats better than me.
00:42:32Yes.
00:42:34Can I see outside?
00:42:36Yeah.
00:42:36I got some champagne.
00:42:38Smart boy.
00:42:39Boy, this is like an ideal day for me.
00:42:41I'm glad.
00:42:46Well, I'm happy you took me on the boat.
00:42:48Did you ask your boss or?
00:42:51I did, yeah.
00:42:52And he gave you permission?
00:42:53Yep.
00:42:55Before I got to Australia, Josh had sent me a text saying he got a final warning from
00:43:00work because he took out a company boat that they were selling for a joyride with friends
00:43:06and crashed it.
00:43:08He has to pay back the damages.
00:43:10He owes $20,000.
00:43:11So, yeah, I'm happy he still has a job, but I feel like what he did was 100% irresponsible.
00:43:17I have so many questions, and I still haven't had a proper conversation about it yet.
00:43:22Listen, it's like I'm not here to make you feel any worse, but this whole boat thing is
00:43:29just super confusing to me.
00:43:31So, what happened that night?
00:43:39Nat and a few other, Nat and another few friends, they have friends who were going to become
00:43:45clients of mine.
00:43:46And those clients who I'm trying to network with and get closer to are then going to come
00:43:52to me when they want to buy a boat.
00:43:54So, I took them out on one of our company boats and on our way back here.
00:44:01So, I got a bit too shallow and flipped through a rock, then I was f***ing bricks.
00:44:05But, you know, it could have been way worse.
00:44:11It got fixed straight away.
00:44:13Joshua.
00:44:16You told me it was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:44:19Well, look, when I first did the damage, I thought that it was, you know, going to be
00:44:24a little bit more damage because I didn't know exactly.
00:44:27I couldn't swim under the boat and see what happened.
00:44:29But, no, it was like, it was a couple of grand.
00:44:32Thank God, you know.
00:44:33And is that paid off?
00:44:35Yeah, it is paid off.
00:44:36How did you pay for that?
00:44:38Well, before you got here, I sold a boat.
00:44:40I sold a share in a boat.
00:44:41So, that commission did not go to me.
00:44:43The money that you sold, you didn't get that money.
00:44:46It went to that damages.
00:44:47So, that's squared away.
00:44:49So, you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:44:52I'm still working.
00:44:53I'm still got a job.
00:44:54I'm responsible.
00:44:55I can get, I'm trusted.
00:44:57I know you got worried about it, but all in all, you know, I have my shit together.
00:45:03Yeah.
00:45:05Okay.
00:45:08Well, I understand that.
00:45:10And I'm really happy I came on the boat, but I guess the only thing that's, like, really
00:45:15on my mind and, like, putting a damper on this is the gnat situation.
00:45:20Okay.
00:45:21Why can't I drop the gnat, then?
00:45:24I didn't realize she was on the boat with you that night.
00:45:27And, like, this emotional connection you have with her, the financial hold she has on you.
00:45:33I don't want to have to keep ten times having to tell you something and you not believe it.
00:45:38You're not letting things go.
00:45:39No, I'm letting it go.
00:45:40I just didn't.
00:45:41It doesn't seem like you are.
00:45:42I'm trying to get down to the bottom of this.
00:45:44Okay.
00:45:45Let's go and see her.
00:45:46Let's us three hang out so it's just us three.
00:45:48And, you know, hopefully I can put your mind at ease.
00:45:52We'll do it tonight.
00:45:55Okay.
00:45:57Of course she was on the boat.
00:45:59Did she pay for the damages?
00:46:01Should have been my first question.
00:46:03I mean, Josh clearly still has a job, but he depends on that financially.
00:46:08I'm just still really confused.
00:46:10So I'm really glad that I'm going to see Nat tonight so I can get some answers and just
00:46:14finally put this to rest.
00:46:30I swear to God, I am about to be cursed.
00:46:33I am scared.
00:46:35This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:46:38They will come after you.
00:46:50So you've got to wait one to five minutes.
00:47:07So two lines is pregnant.
00:47:09One line is not.
00:47:30Two means pregnant.
00:47:34Two means pregnant.
00:47:36You think it's going to just stay negative?
00:47:39I think so.
00:47:43I actually feel really disappointed.
00:47:46Stig and I have had so much fun the past few weeks.
00:47:48We've gotten closer.
00:47:50I've gotten to see a side of him I didn't know before.
00:47:52And I was really excited to think about having our baby and starting a little family.
00:47:58I'm really sad.
00:47:59I'm really bummed.
00:48:02Don't worry.
00:48:03I feel more let down than I expected.
00:48:06I don't know.
00:48:07I thought it would be a perfect end to our trip.
00:48:11I don't know.
00:48:12If we could, you know.
00:48:14I just don't know when I'm going to see you next.
00:48:16No.
00:48:17Why are you saying that?
00:48:18Like you're acting like we're going to break up when you leave or something?
00:48:20That would just, I feel like, make things happen quicker.
00:48:25Like I would have motivation to hurry up, move, instead of go home.
00:48:31Don't stress yourself out.
00:48:33Don't think about it so deep.
00:48:37It's really hitting me that I'm going home and I just have no idea what to expect.
00:48:42Without a baby, it's hard to know how serious he is about our future.
00:48:50I'm worried that after I leave Belize, he's not going to be around me anymore.
00:48:55And Stig is going to go just right back into his old partying ways.
00:49:00I just feel a little unsure about what the future holds.
00:49:04And it's giving me a lot of anxiety.
00:49:14No!
00:49:43This is so not what I expected.
00:49:45This is a small, tiny cubbyhole.
00:49:47It is hot.
00:49:49The priest is yelling and screaming at me, and I don't know what he's saying.
00:49:56I know this is supposed to cleanse me from my lies, but I swear to God, I am about to
00:50:02be cursed.
00:50:02I am scared.
00:50:04This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:50:09Tell me why they are here.
00:50:13This is not what I am.
00:50:22This is not what I am.
00:50:25This is what I am.
00:50:46Somehow he knows when he throws these shells and they land in a certain way, I'm there for a cleansing.
00:50:52This is craziness.
00:50:56What is this man?
00:50:58He's to be my husband.
00:51:00Why are you here?
00:51:03My wife too big.
00:51:05I have an affair with her fellow woman.
00:51:12Woman?
00:51:14Yes, sir.
00:51:16Is it true what your husband said?
00:51:19Yes.
00:51:22There's more though.
00:51:23I also lied to everybody.
00:51:27I wasn't married twice like I had told Daniel.
00:51:30I was married five times.
00:51:32And we're waiting on the divorce of the fifth one.
00:51:37This is totally sacrilege.
00:51:42In Africa, any woman that committed a promenation, there is something we call sacrilege.
00:51:49It requires I clean them up by the ghost directing us.
00:51:54We are just the mouthpiece to the ghost.
00:51:58And if they mess up the cleansing, the ghost will say no.
00:52:19Give him all of what you have in your pocket that I gave you.
00:52:22Give him all of it, Daniel.
00:52:23Put it there.
00:52:24Don't tell.
00:52:25Put it there.
00:52:33What is your response?
00:52:36What is your response?
00:52:37Keep it there right away.
00:52:45You are bringing gold.
00:52:46You are bringing gold.
00:52:47You are bringing gold.
00:52:47There is another thing you need to do.
00:52:52This is what they also say.
00:53:02Goodys.
00:53:04This is your husband.
00:53:07this is you
00:53:08repeat after me
00:53:10me and my husband is one
00:53:12me and my husband are one
00:53:14forever and ever
00:53:16no man no woman
00:53:19put us under
00:53:20that is what I promise
00:53:22that is what I promise
00:53:23you are crying
00:54:02yes
00:54:04I wish I knew what
00:54:05was going on
00:54:06this is terrifying
00:54:08I'm telling you
00:54:09this is voodoo magic
00:54:13after this
00:54:14cleansing today
00:54:15will you mess up
00:54:17again
00:54:18now
00:54:19it's an agreement
00:54:20between you and
00:54:21Oracle
00:54:22films we have
00:54:23they will come after you
00:54:31you need to remove the rubber
00:54:34you are presented
00:54:35you are presented
00:54:37remove the rubber
00:54:49taking off the rubber
00:54:50from the goat
00:54:51signifies that
00:54:52she has been cleansed
00:54:54that is our tradition
00:54:56embrace your husband
00:55:03am I clean
00:55:05you are cleansed from today
00:55:13thank you
00:55:14thank you
00:55:16peace
00:55:17the cleansing is over
00:55:20thank you
00:55:29I don't know what
00:55:30just happened
00:55:31I know I'm cleansed
00:55:33I don't care about
00:55:34anything else
00:55:34point is
00:55:36if it's enough
00:55:37for us to be accepted
00:55:38as husband and wife
00:55:39then that's all I wanted
00:55:41well done
00:55:44maybe I love you
00:55:45I love you too
00:55:54I am extremely happy
00:55:56that we are
00:55:56we are cleansed
00:55:58we can go ahead
00:55:59and get married
00:55:59I really appreciate
00:56:10can we have sex
00:56:15why not
00:56:16come on
00:56:16when you share it
00:56:19share it
00:56:22share it happy
00:56:32last night was more
00:56:33sloppy
00:56:36than what I thought
00:56:37it would be
00:56:38I am not a virgin
00:56:40anymore
00:56:41it's way better
00:56:41than what I thought
00:56:42me and my hand
00:56:43I'm sorry
00:56:44we're gonna have
00:56:44to break up
00:56:45I'm just glad
00:56:46that we didn't
00:56:46break the bed
00:57:05sheena
00:57:06I feel
00:57:06lots of weight
00:57:07off my mind
00:57:08yeah
00:57:10last night
00:57:11just being able
00:57:12to touch you
00:57:13and feel you
00:57:14just
00:57:15makes me so
00:57:16so happy
00:57:20it was the
00:57:21most special
00:57:22moment
00:57:22that I've ever
00:57:23had with you
00:57:27I'm just glad
00:57:27you didn't break
00:57:28the bed
00:57:55me and my hand
00:57:57I'm sorry
00:57:57we're gonna have
00:57:58we're gonna have to
00:57:58break up
00:58:01I really enjoyed
00:58:02it last night
00:58:03with you
00:58:03and I'm so
00:58:04so happy
00:58:05and I'm so glad
00:58:06that we've been
00:58:07come to this
00:58:08stage
00:58:10yeah
00:58:10I was thinking
00:58:11about how it'd be
00:58:13before sleeping
00:58:14with you
00:58:14and I thought
00:58:15it'd be like
00:58:16this magical thing
00:58:17like there was
00:58:18gonna be like
00:58:18sparks and fireworks
00:58:19and last night
00:58:21was exactly
00:58:21kind of what
00:58:22I thought
00:58:24well
00:58:25more
00:58:26sloppy
00:58:28than what I
00:58:29thought it would
00:58:30be
00:58:31when you got on top
00:58:33and started going
00:58:35my legs were so
00:58:37I felt like I needed
00:58:38a life preserver
00:58:39to make sure
00:58:41I don't drown
00:58:42it was the best
00:58:4335 seconds
00:58:44of my life
00:58:45no okay
00:58:46I lasted a little
00:58:46bit longer than that
00:58:48but Sheena
00:58:48man
00:58:49she went
00:58:50and hopped
00:58:51on top of me
00:58:52and just
00:58:52showed me
00:58:53who was the boss
00:58:54I didn't do that
00:58:56oh yeah you did
00:58:56you took charge
00:59:01I'm happy
00:59:02because you're
00:59:02quite gentle
00:59:03you're quite the
00:59:03gentle one
00:59:04for me
00:59:04I mean
00:59:05so I felt
00:59:06the respect
00:59:06and the love
00:59:07from you
00:59:07I didn't want
00:59:08to hurt you
00:59:09so that's kind
00:59:10of why
00:59:10I kind of laid
00:59:11back and let you
00:59:11go
00:59:15I was
00:59:16to be honest
00:59:17I didn't know
00:59:18how to put
00:59:18a condom twist
00:59:19you know
00:59:21but
00:59:22I couldn't say
00:59:23the right
00:59:24there's a lot
00:59:25of learning
00:59:27but I think
00:59:28that we have
00:59:29it got it
00:59:29and giving
00:59:30all myself
00:59:31to Forrest
00:59:32I felt
00:59:32amazing
00:59:33it's hard
00:59:34to describe
00:59:36how would you
00:59:37rate me
00:59:37one to ten
00:59:39well let me
00:59:40say around
00:59:41one
00:59:41well just
00:59:42eleven perhaps
00:59:43for me
00:59:47sex is great
00:59:48yeah I know
00:59:49but the connection
00:59:50that we got
00:59:51afterwards
00:59:51after
00:59:52is definitely
00:59:53something I was
00:59:54not expecting
00:59:55I just feel
00:59:56like you know
00:59:59the world
00:59:59is revolving
01:00:02around us
01:00:02now
01:00:03yeah
01:00:04it's like
01:00:05a magnet
01:00:05mm-hmm
01:00:08and I really
01:00:09feel like
01:00:09even though
01:00:10we're not
01:00:11legally
01:00:12married
01:00:12we can work
01:00:13out the paperwork
01:00:14later
01:00:14but
01:00:16last night
01:00:17you became
01:00:17my wife
01:00:19you are
01:00:21my wife
01:00:22till the end
01:00:23of the earth
01:00:25and
01:00:28if I go
01:00:28back now
01:00:29then I won't
01:00:29have you
01:00:30and I won't
01:00:30have
01:00:32basically
01:00:32my wife
01:00:33with me
01:00:34so
01:00:35this has
01:00:36made me
01:00:36even more
01:00:37committed
01:00:37to
01:00:38you know
01:00:39do everything
01:00:39in my power
01:00:40to be with you
01:00:43having sex
01:00:44with Sheena
01:00:44definitely has
01:00:46changed a lot
01:00:47of things
01:00:48I feel like
01:00:49our heart
01:00:49and our souls
01:00:50are one
01:00:51and the same
01:00:53but I only have
01:00:54a few more days
01:00:54left here
01:00:55in the Philippines
01:00:55and I'm just
01:00:56extremely torn
01:00:57right now
01:00:58because you can
01:00:59go and you can
01:00:59be like
01:01:00oh I love you
01:01:00I love you
01:01:01on the phone
01:01:02but it's not
01:01:02the same as
01:01:03holding the person
01:01:04in your arms
01:01:07I'm starting
01:01:08to feel
01:01:08like maybe
01:01:09the right choice
01:01:09is to
01:01:10stay here
01:01:11in the Philippines
01:01:13but I know
01:01:14that my mother
01:01:15she's not
01:01:16going to have
01:01:16a good reaction
01:01:17to that
01:01:19it's going
01:01:19to be like
01:01:20a typhoon
01:01:20hitting a hurricane
01:01:21and kind of
01:01:22just blow
01:01:22everything up
01:01:28I love
01:01:29Trisha
01:01:29very
01:01:30very
01:01:30I need
01:01:32more time
01:01:35I'm not
01:01:36prepared
01:01:37to do so
01:01:50do you want to go
01:01:52see the
01:01:52Mayan
01:01:52verse today
01:01:53yeah
01:01:54what happened
01:01:55you still in a bad mood
01:01:56a little
01:01:59there's plenty of time
01:02:00gonna make babies
01:02:02start tripping
01:02:14I'm excited to see this
01:02:16yes it's amazing
01:02:17yeah
01:02:20this is our
01:02:20very last day
01:02:22together on this trip
01:02:23so I want to make it
01:02:24come
01:02:24I want it to be
01:02:25special
01:02:26so today
01:02:27I decided to take
01:02:28Aviva to the Mayan ruins
01:02:30one of Belize's
01:02:31main attraction
01:02:34you're gonna love this
01:02:35I'm gonna be
01:02:36your official tour guide
01:02:40I'm glad we're at this place
01:02:42this is very spiritual
01:02:44for me
01:02:44so I want to experience
01:02:46this with Aviva
01:02:59at one point
01:03:01this used to be just like
01:03:02imagine
01:03:02just mountains and hills
01:03:05and somebody
01:03:06some bright mind
01:03:07came and said
01:03:08yo maybe we should
01:03:08check it out
01:03:09and dig and dig
01:03:10and
01:03:11imagine finding
01:03:12all this stuff
01:03:14where's your stage babe
01:03:16front and center
01:03:17go see
01:03:17this is one right
01:03:18back in the day
01:03:19I would be right here
01:03:21performing for
01:03:21and I would have been
01:03:22the groupie
01:03:23in the front row
01:03:23ah
01:03:26I'm gonna remember
01:03:27your daughter
01:03:32I hope you're seeing
01:03:32that babe
01:03:33that I do want kids
01:03:34with you
01:03:35I do want a family
01:03:36this is not
01:03:37something
01:03:38just regular for me
01:03:39not just a little
01:03:40vacay you visited me
01:03:41this is more than that
01:03:43for me
01:03:44alright
01:03:45it makes me happy
01:03:46babe
01:03:47I love you
01:03:47I love you too
01:03:52I was feeling
01:03:53pretty upset
01:03:54about the negative
01:03:55pregnancy test
01:03:56but now
01:03:57Stey and I
01:03:58are joking around
01:03:59having a good time
01:04:00and he's just
01:04:01making me feel
01:04:01so special
01:04:02look at the tree
01:04:04pretty right
01:04:05it's super cool
01:04:06walking around
01:04:07the Mayan ruins
01:04:08it's beautiful
01:04:09so much history
01:04:10and I just love
01:04:11spending this quality
01:04:12time with him
01:04:16wow
01:04:18that's huge
01:04:19right
01:04:21that is so cool
01:04:23I know
01:04:25people go
01:04:26all the way
01:04:27to the top
01:04:28that is beautiful
01:04:29we should
01:04:29for sure
01:04:30you wanna go to the top
01:04:30hell yeah
01:04:31me too
01:04:37I'm full of gratitude
01:04:38at this point
01:04:40we've been through
01:04:41so much
01:04:42and there were days
01:04:44when it looked dark
01:04:44when we thought that
01:04:46you know maybe this is it
01:04:48I'm gonna race you
01:04:48to the top now
01:04:50but look at us
01:04:52I think opposites attract
01:04:54like she's the missing
01:04:55piece of the puzzle
01:04:56I feel like we're
01:04:57a perfect balance
01:04:59and I can see
01:05:00the future clearly
01:05:02wanna go through that
01:05:03for real
01:05:03yes
01:05:04let's do it
01:05:05let's go
01:05:07way way up there
01:05:13babe
01:05:14maybe you should
01:05:15stop
01:05:17for real
01:05:18I wanna tell you
01:05:19something
01:05:22since the first time
01:05:23I met you babe
01:05:24at the airport
01:05:25something just made me
01:05:26feel like
01:05:27you're the one for real
01:05:28I knew I was gonna
01:05:29do this
01:05:29I know you were scared
01:05:31but
01:05:32I actually fell in love
01:05:33with you
01:05:35and I wanna be with you
01:05:37for the rest of my life
01:05:38that's so sweet
01:05:40will you marry me
01:05:48yes
01:05:49she said yes
01:05:54that's so sweet
01:06:04you got me shaking
01:06:08is this
01:06:10left
01:06:11left
01:06:11hopefully it fits
01:06:14yes
01:06:15what
01:06:22I'm engaged
01:06:25the artist
01:06:26like
01:06:27how cool is that
01:06:30you
01:06:31are full of surprises
01:06:32but this is definitely
01:06:33the best one
01:06:34this is the most nervous
01:06:35I've ever been
01:06:36for real
01:06:36for real
01:06:38I'm an engaged man now
01:06:41I've been carrying around
01:06:42this engagement ring
01:06:43for a while
01:06:43but at first
01:06:44I wasn't too sure
01:06:45because
01:06:46I felt like
01:06:47she was questioning me
01:06:48and who I am
01:06:48you know
01:06:49that made me a little sad
01:06:51but then closer
01:06:52leading up to today
01:06:53I felt sure
01:06:54in my heart
01:06:57you still wanna go to the top
01:06:58of course I do
01:06:59let's go
01:07:00let's go
01:07:02this is my fiance Aviva
01:07:03this is my fiance Sting
01:07:05thank you
01:07:09you're walking in sync
01:07:12you gotta call it
01:07:13spring
01:07:13I'm gonna
01:07:14oh
01:07:14I have to tell it's spring
01:07:16oh no
01:07:17I'm gonna marry your niece
01:07:23it's so cool
01:07:24I know right
01:07:25babe
01:07:26there's always gonna be people
01:07:27spreading rumors
01:07:28trying to get into your mind
01:07:31forget about all that right
01:07:32I got you
01:07:33we're a team now
01:07:34I'm not gonna lie to you
01:07:35okay
01:07:36promise you
01:07:37I definitely believe you now
01:07:47I love you dude
01:07:48I love you too
01:07:50you make me love you crazy
01:08:00bring the honey
01:08:01just one more
01:08:02the barola
01:08:11oh look baby
01:08:12that's some bananas
01:08:13let's get some for your family
01:08:14you want bananas
01:08:17I think your family likes bananas too
01:08:19don't they
01:08:27so the dark green one isn't better
01:08:30yeah this is better
01:08:32tonight
01:08:33Trish and I are flying back to Antananarivo
01:08:37yeah
01:08:41these past few days
01:08:43I've seen more sides to Trish
01:08:45I've fallen even deeper
01:08:47in love with her
01:08:48but
01:08:49I haven't made up my mind yet
01:08:51whether or not
01:08:52I want another child
01:08:54this is my grandma
01:08:56used to sell fruits before
01:08:59this was her stand right here
01:09:01did you sell stuff out here
01:09:03yeah
01:09:04like fruits
01:09:05oh my god
01:09:06I just cannot picture you doing that
01:09:09yeah
01:09:09I know how important it is
01:09:12to Trish
01:09:13and her family
01:09:14but
01:09:15I think the best solution
01:09:16to this
01:09:18is for Trish
01:09:19to ask her dad
01:09:20again
01:09:20for more time
01:09:22Trish's dad
01:09:23seems like
01:09:24a nice guy
01:09:25and
01:09:26maybe
01:09:26they could ease up
01:09:28a little bit
01:09:50thank you
01:09:53thank you
01:09:53thank you
01:09:54thank you
01:09:57ok
01:10:00No. Dad wants to talk with us.
01:10:03OK.
01:10:04No?
01:10:05No.
01:10:06OK.
01:10:11All right.
01:10:13No, Mandrus.
01:10:22It was the nightfall.
01:10:29That's the nightfall.
01:10:30Oh, thank God.
01:10:31I don't know what that knife was for.
01:10:33I didn't see anything to cut.
01:10:42What's going on?
01:10:47Oh!
01:10:48That's a wonderful run.
01:10:51Hey.
01:11:00You say, how was your vacation?
01:11:03Oh, it's been wonderful.
01:11:05I love your daughter very much.
01:11:08And each day that goes by, I'm loving her even more.
01:11:21Oh, that's good.
01:11:36That's good.
01:11:38Mm-hmm.
01:11:50Um.
01:11:52What about your answer?
01:11:57What about the kids?
01:12:04I want to respect your dad's demands for a decision now.
01:12:13Um.
01:12:15But I'm not prepared to do so.
01:12:30I love Patricia very, very much.
01:12:35My nose is well.
01:12:37I'm not that the problem.
01:12:40About the kids now.
01:12:41I need more time.
01:12:44I need more time.
01:12:46Your decision today, not yesterday, not what?
01:13:00You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, they have to hold me.
01:13:09Like, we cannot be together anymore.
01:13:18You guys are emotionally tied.
01:13:20Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:21So why the am I here?
01:13:22Is this just sexual?
01:13:24And she's helping me financially.
01:13:26No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:13:27If you said that one more time, I'm going to leave.
01:13:30I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
01:13:33You want me to go ask every single person here?
01:13:35No, no, no.
01:13:35Hey, guys.
01:13:36Let me ask you guys all the f***ing questions.
01:13:39This girl's a psycho.
01:13:52Should I have a quick shower?
01:13:53I didn't shower.
01:13:55Yeah, but you don't need a shower at home.
01:13:58I stink.
01:13:59Oh, maybe you do need a shower.
01:14:05Let me show you how.
01:14:07Well, you're not f***ing good.
01:14:14Is this okay for the bar or where we're going?
01:14:18I love it.
01:14:19Josh took me out on one of his company's boats today and it honestly was great.
01:14:24It would be nice if he owned the boat, but like driving his company's boat, it's okay.
01:14:29I feel like I got some questions answered, but the Nat situation is not cleared up and that's like the
01:14:34one thing kind of lingering over us.
01:14:36So we set up tonight for us to just all get together and put everything on the table.
01:14:42We can be dirty together.
01:14:43We'll shower later.
01:14:44I feel salty.
01:14:45It'd be two seconds.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:47Got to make sure you shower for Nat.
01:14:52I don't want this affecting our relationship, but like Josh hasn't been transparent from the start.
01:14:57He lied about his living situation with Nat.
01:14:59Now I'm just finding out she was there the night he crashed the boat.
01:15:03And on top of that, they text throughout the day, throughout the night, at all hours of the night.
01:15:08Like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
01:15:12Not, not, not, not.
01:15:14It's like, dude.
01:15:16Like, I haven't like looked at the messages, but it's just shady and weird.
01:15:21I need to figure out once and for all what is going on because I am so confused.
01:15:37Just do me a favor, don't kick off.
01:15:40Can't promise you anything.
01:15:44Can't promise you anything.
01:15:46Hi.
01:15:49How are you, though?
01:15:49How are you?
01:15:50Good. Good to see you.
01:15:51It's good.
01:15:52Thanks for coming, guys.
01:15:54Don't mind me.
01:15:55I just brought some hand warmers.
01:15:56It's so cold.
01:15:57I'm freezing.
01:15:58It's not that cold.
01:15:59I'm freezing.
01:16:01How are you?
01:16:02I'm good.
01:16:03I'm good.
01:16:04Busy day today.
01:16:05Poured a couple of things.
01:16:06What'd you get?
01:16:07I got this nice dress.
01:16:10I feel like everyone in Australia wears black.
01:16:14Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:15I love black, so.
01:16:19I really want Elise to see that I'm taking her concern seriously and that I'm committed to building a relationship
01:16:25with her.
01:16:26But I know for that to happen, she needs to trust me, especially when it comes to Nat.
01:16:30What are we choosing, Gil?
01:16:32To you guys.
01:16:33We need to sort of get her to realize that we're just friends and that we can finally move on.
01:16:38We went on the boat tonight.
01:16:40Oh, DJ, how was it?
01:16:41Oh, pretty good.
01:16:42Yeah, it was beautiful.
01:16:43And what else is happening?
01:16:44Obviously, like, we've been talking a lot.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47And there's so much to digest, you know, everything.
01:16:50Yeah, of course.
01:16:53I mean, I do feel, like, uncomfortable.
01:16:55One of our problems in our relationship is not you necessarily, but, like, I just feel very uncomfortable about this
01:17:06connection.
01:17:08Every single time I see him on his phone, he's talking to you.
01:17:12You're together all the time.
01:17:14You were even on the boat together that night he damaged it.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:19So what's the problem?
01:17:21You guys are emotionally tied.
01:17:24Yeah, absolutely.
01:17:24I wouldn't want to be best friends with someone if I wouldn't emotionally talk with him.
01:17:28But it's not just an emotional aspect to it.
01:17:31I'm going to be honest, like, I'm scared he's so close financially with Gil.
01:17:37So I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
01:17:41Like, how does it work?
01:17:45What do you mean?
01:17:47Well, he lives there.
01:17:49He doesn't say right.
01:17:51You help him.
01:17:52Like, yeah, I've loaned money.
01:17:55He's paid me back.
01:17:57I don't know what you want me to say.
01:17:59When people talk about money, to me it's really icky.
01:18:02Like, that's, I just think it's gross.
01:18:06I just, I think it's weird.
01:18:08I don't want a guy I'm dating and a guy that's literally telling me he's falling for me to be
01:18:13supported by another girl.
01:18:15Like, so why the icky like her? Is it just, is this just sexual?
01:18:18Because you have an emotional relationship with a woman.
01:18:21And she's helping you financially.
01:18:23No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:18:25If you say that one more time, I'm going to leave you.
01:18:28We have both said that that's not the case.
01:18:33But then, what's your game plan?
01:18:36What?
01:18:36I want to know, when I leave, you are going to go look with Nat, yes or no?
01:18:44Well, I probably would go back to hers, but it is short term.
01:18:51I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
01:18:54Why can I not have a friend and a female?
01:18:58Do you want me to go ask every single person in there? Because I will.
01:19:00I wouldn't, and it would be massive to you.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:05Okay, let it be embarrassing for me. I don't give a .
01:19:09Hey guys, let me ask you guys all the question.
01:19:14Am I crazy?
01:19:16Or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
01:19:24No, she's lying to me.
01:19:28Yeah, that's pretty crazy.
01:19:30Thank you!
01:19:32We've been talking six months.
01:19:33They hadn't met until just recently though.
01:19:38You shouldn't be living with her and getting financially supported, right?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:41Thank you!
01:19:42He shouldn't be living with her and getting financially supported.
01:19:45Do you think that's crazy?
01:19:46Thank you!
01:19:50I mean, is this not crazy now?
01:19:52It could be!
01:19:52Is this not crazy now?
01:19:54Yeah, but I'm having two against one.
01:19:56What the f*** am I supposed to do?
01:19:57You're not telling half the story.
01:19:58But you're not yelling in a bar where I live.
01:20:01This girl's a psycho.
01:20:03She's toxic.
01:20:04Sorry.
01:20:05You don't know which one you're getting, is it?
01:20:07F*** you, bitch.
01:20:09Good luck.
01:20:13Like, honestly, I'm not doing this.
01:20:16She's a f*** psycho.
01:20:17What the f***?
01:20:18Who does that?
01:20:18Who yells at people in a bar?
01:20:20Like, she's creating all of these issues that aren't even there.
01:20:24Yeah, that's a big red flag.
01:20:26Huge red flag.
01:20:31Hey.
01:20:32Hey, Matt.
01:20:33You all right?
01:20:34Yeah.
01:20:35Are you okay?
01:20:36Dude, you guys are together.
01:20:37Cool.
01:20:38So f*** you.
01:20:39Give me my purse.
01:20:40So f*** you.
01:20:41So you run to her after this, right?
01:20:43She's both...
01:20:45Do you want to go?
01:20:46F*** you f***ing asshole.
01:20:51I'm just embarrassed.
01:20:52Like, I'm confused as well now.
01:20:54What do I do?
01:20:55I feel like I was falling in love though.
01:20:58But that f***...
01:20:59I'm done.
01:21:00Like.
01:21:07Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:12I miss you.
01:21:13There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
01:21:17What's that?
01:21:19Oral sex.
01:21:22My fellow women have been given her oral sex.
01:21:25I am not a woman.
01:21:26I have my d***.
01:21:29It's major for me.
01:21:34Ready, boo?
01:21:37In a couple of days, we're going to renew our vows.
01:21:40And I just can't wait.
01:21:42How are you looking for wedding bands?
01:21:45$268.
01:21:48I think he's not sure.
01:21:50I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
01:21:56Take it happy.
01:21:56Okay.
01:21:58Okay.
01:22:00She went off yelling from the whole bar.
01:22:03F*** that.
01:22:06I'm f***.
01:22:07Angry.
01:22:08Angry.
01:22:09This one might be a bit broken, my friend.
01:22:11I think it was a massive overreaction.
01:22:13For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, that would be the end.
01:22:19Hey.
01:22:22I'm worried I'm going to disappoint my mom.
01:22:25It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
01:22:27Not just following her orders around.
01:22:30My mother, she's always been my safety net.
01:22:32But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
01:22:37Did you guys make any plans?
01:22:39Because we are leaving tomorrow.
01:22:43Yeah.
01:22:44I have decided I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:22:50This is our choice.
01:22:53What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:58Was it okay?
01:22:58Yeah.
01:22:59He's a good guy.
01:23:01But turns out, we're not so good.
01:23:06Something is going on between you and Michael.
01:23:08Nothing is going on.
01:23:09Will you just shut up and listen?
01:23:11Don't tell me to shut up.
01:23:14I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I tried to kiss Michael.
01:23:19BeerCon's massive reaction, that pisses me off.
01:23:26Hey.
01:23:29.
01:23:30.
01:23:31In the mountains.
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