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00:04so my family we grew up very very sheltered very wholesome very simple but then things
00:11really changed I really don't like change you've told me you can't accept how our values don't
00:16align then I don't see the future with us together you know my older brother my parents
00:22we are moving forward with a divorce no family's perfect we've all just changed
00:29one way or another for better or worse it's the first serious relationship I've had since Olivia
00:33I most definitely am in love with Tegan he's it he's the one how can you explain falling in love
00:39with someone you know what I mean my name is Zach great to meet you I can't wait to just
00:46be hopefully
00:47engaged by the end of the day will you marry me please say no yes my whole family feels uncomfortable
00:56nobody is really happy other than my dad I got the memo be the dad that Lydia wants you to
01:03be I feel
01:04like Barry wants everybody to like him I think that's why he signed off on the marriage so quickly
01:09what was going on with Veronica and Micah that was really not good you're not emotionally intelligent
01:19grow a pair you're talking so far down to me Veronica sees a headline and she says your brother's
01:25girlfriend has an OnlyFans he wants to see it I was concerned about the wedding itself and then Veronica
01:32just kind of pushed him over the edge nobody really knows the full extent of how crazy it was I
01:40think we
01:40need to leave go back to Boca yeah we are done Ethan couldn't get over the fact that he thinks
01:48Zach is
01:49gay talk about lack of any respect for someone's wedding especially your sisters and we need to have a
01:56conversation with with him at some point we just felt very very disrespected
02:17growing up as an only child I always wanted a large family healthy fresh air lots of music and lots
02:24of
02:24love and I wanted to share that with people it was beautiful the farm was the perfect place for all
02:35of
02:36those things to come together and the farm has always been the place we all come back to
02:52which is why after years away I've finally returned
02:58Peter's feeling playful I've moved back here with the girls we have two dogs three kittens and we're
03:04finally settled I didn't want to live at the farm during the divorce because it was hard to be so
03:11close to
03:11Barry knowing that if I had to go run errands I might see him but now the divorce is done
03:18and I'm back
03:19home and I'm reclaiming my life have you ever seen anything cuter than this he's so cute I'm here with
03:33the girls half the time and the other half the time they're with Barry and somebody else lives here with
03:39us too
03:41who is that
03:45Ken
03:49for the first couple years after Barry and I separated
03:52I just wasn't sure exactly what I wanted
03:57and I couldn't be serious about somebody when I was legally still married to somebody else
04:02so Ken and I broke up a few months before Lydia's wedding
04:06but then when the divorce was finalized like we
04:10realized that we did want to be with each other
04:17when Ken moved in we wanted it to feel like it's his home
04:20too and so we let him decorate it however he wanted and he even brought a jukebox
04:28mercy has learned the synthesizer part to jump by Van Halen from listening to the jukebox
04:36and it's definitely different than when we lived at the farm years ago we didn't have a jukebox playing
04:42in 80s classic rock
04:45come here Lexi
04:46I'm definitely happy I'm back
04:49it isn't perfect and I've made lots of mistakes but lucky me I've got lots of people willing to tell
04:55me
04:55when I mess something up
05:07what did you think of church this morning?
05:09oh it was so good
05:12just a little laundry to do
05:14I think the rest of the house is pretty much in order
05:16okay
05:17sides for this stuff
05:18okay
05:21what was that?
05:22it was just a fun case
05:25so we've known each other over a year now
05:29we made it
05:31these are just all your shirts right?
05:33I think you have a few gears in there
05:36oh that one's mine
05:37that someone's different here what's going on?
05:40yeah so I have decided to go with contacts because
05:45because after he got married I just kept smudging them up so he had to smudge up his glasses
05:50how did you smudge up his glasses?
05:53I wonder
05:55anyway
05:58this is our apartment
06:01it's everything we need
06:02we're able to host people
06:04play games and hang out
06:06because that's what we've always wanted to do
06:08just have people over and have a good time
06:12now what is it like for you going from living in a bachelor pad to with a wife?
06:17it's nice to come home to a home that has been created by my wife
06:22I love having a reason to clean the home
06:24moving in together was so much easier than people made it out to be
06:29I don't think there are any things that like he does that annoys me
06:33he knows not to leave the toilet seat up
06:35he knows not to crowd the counter space because that's for me to do
06:40I'm truly surprised how well we adjusted to living together and just building a home together
06:47so be honest
06:48Ryan
06:49what is life like living with me as your wife?
06:54amazing of course
06:55but after 10 p.m. you are on a different level
07:04is the honeymoon phase over yet?
07:08nope
07:10Zach sees a sign of me that no one else will ever see ever know about
07:14that's that
07:14I think I've not only introduced her but also
07:20watered the seed of curiosity for her in this realm
07:24and so I think it's fun to see her and me just like interact in those ways
07:34Lydia's act just said you're naughty
07:38that's true
07:44dear lord thank you for this food
07:45thank you for this time together
07:47a wonderful day at church
07:49in your name
07:49amen
07:55so good
07:56the best part of marriage has just been being fully known and fully loved
08:02the best part of married life is definitely learning
08:05whether it's learning about Lydia or learning about myself
08:11take your time
08:13and be who she needs
08:16in times of need so
08:20we have two empty chairs
08:22I am excited to
08:24have
08:24start a family
08:25and everything with you
08:28I
08:29like feel like I'm ready
08:30to be a mother
08:32I can agree
08:34yeah
08:35traveling's really fun with you though
08:37we still have a lot of places we want to go
08:40it's not that we're going to stop traveling when we have kids
08:42it'll just be fewer and far between
08:44and more special
08:46because there'll be more people to share with
08:48yeah
08:49so we got married in February
08:51it's been eight months
08:52and so we're planning to wait a year
08:54before we start a family
08:56four months left
08:57four months left
08:58who's counting?
09:00apparently you
09:02I love the idea of starting a family with you
09:05I'm ready
09:06we're just preparing our lives for another human being
09:10we don't want to you
09:11and we don't want to me
09:25I know Mariah and Micah are only in town for a limited time
09:30but we were hoping to have that conversation for the whole family and everything
09:36it's been eight months of Zach and I praying
09:39sorting through everything and what happened leading up to the wedding
09:44I feel like you've been mistreated and lied about
09:48and that first year has been hard
09:52we just want to have one conversation with the whole family in one place
09:55there are so many assumptions made about both of us
09:58it did some damage and we've had to deal with that for the months that we've been married
10:03you're saving your first kiss for your wedding
10:05yeah
10:05how do you do that?
10:08I gotta ask you
10:09yeah
10:10are you gay?
10:14I know I'm straight
10:15but we had to iron out those assumptions
10:19and then show each other that we actually cared for each other
10:22more than anything that anyone said about us
10:26I gotta learn how to move forward in that
10:28so obviously I want to be there to support you
10:30if you gotta teach your some stuff out in that
10:33I don't think I have to figure anything out
10:36I think I just need to say a few things
10:38okay
10:40let's go
10:40let's go
10:47out of the kitchen
10:55I was living up in Minnesota
10:57and then I moved down here to Georgia in July
11:02I just wanted to have a change of scenery and be a cluster of family and everything
11:07so I've been down here
11:08getting the farm in shape
11:10building this barn
11:12and you know lots of land work
11:13cutting down trees
11:14mowing
11:16staying at the farm or at my dad's house
11:18depending on what I'm doing
11:20just seeing what it's like to live back down here
11:25are you divorced yet?
11:27no Olivia will not
11:29call or respond
11:31do anything
11:32she's purposely trying to hold me up
11:34trying to make my life hell
11:38I believe Olivia won't let me go
11:43because she doesn't want to let me move on to anybody else
11:48I think that's her motive
11:52what's going on with Teagan?
11:57me and Teagan broke up
12:01and I don't know
12:08I knew that she was tired of long distance
12:12and I kept telling her that I would move
12:14to Wisconsin
12:16and I never did
12:19and
12:20you know you can only tell someone so many times
12:22I'm going to do this
12:23and you don't
12:24and it just doesn't mean anything
12:29me not being divorced yet still
12:31that's been extremely frustrating for me
12:34over the last year
12:36and definitely has affected
12:38me and Teagan
12:41I've had an attorney for over a year now
12:44and
12:45Olivia has
12:47ignored him
12:48said
12:49you know
12:50I'm out of the country
12:50I'll get back to you when I'm home
12:52and then weeks later
12:54when she comes back
12:55she never does anything
12:56so he has to start over
12:57get him trying
12:57and nothing ever has happened
13:06sometimes in life
13:07you're lucky enough
13:09to meet somebody
13:10that you
13:12actually truly connect with
13:14like not just on a physical level
13:16but like a spiritual
13:19emotional level
13:21and
13:23that was very much
13:25true with me and Teagan
13:27it's hard to move on
13:30I feel like I can't walk away
13:33and spend the rest of my life
13:34wondering
13:35if I could have
13:36saved it
13:37I really
13:38truly feel like there's
13:43unfinished business
13:45I think you'll save me
13:49no one's gonna hit my car
13:52if I go crazy
14:04I feel like they're coming here
14:10wanting an apology
14:11mom pretty much
14:12accused Zach
14:13of being controlling
14:14and taking over
14:15desires I wanted
14:16for the wedding
14:16let's go
14:18know your daughter
14:19before you
14:20make accusations
14:21like that
14:23hug your brother
14:25I'm a little bit
14:26concerned
14:26about Ethan
14:27because
14:29he can be pretty
14:30hot-headed
14:30I can tell with Zach
14:32Lydia's found
14:32something really good
14:34let me just polish
14:35my halo
14:36you know
14:37I want you all to know
14:39the night before our wedding
14:40it was actually
14:41the hardest night
14:42of my life
15:02how you been
15:03oh I'm pretty good
15:05good to see you
15:09how have you been
15:10pretty good
15:11I'm coming up here
15:12to see all my family
15:14I haven't seen them
15:14in a while
15:15been really busy
15:16oh I got a new go-kart
15:18you got it running
15:19no not yet
15:20I'm also coming
15:21to take a whole bunch
15:22of my stuff
15:23back down to Florida
15:24because I finally
15:25have my own place
15:25your spare doesn't
15:27look any good Ethan
15:28I'm gonna drive
15:28to Mexico in this
15:30do you wanna push me
15:31no
15:32after I broke up
15:33with Veronica
15:33I knew I needed
15:34to make a change
15:36I met a pretty
15:37incredible girl
15:38and we are
15:41doing great
15:42and we are
15:43happy
15:44keeping things
15:45somewhat private
15:47you know
15:48kind of evaluating
15:48everything that's
15:49happened over the
15:50last couple years
15:52I don't think
15:53I was on the path
15:54for what I wanted
15:55and I'm gonna
15:56switch things up
15:56a little bit
15:57and just chase
15:58a peaceful life
16:03looks like Isaac
16:03made it
16:07have fun
16:08yeah I will
16:11thanks for dropping
16:12me off
16:14Kaelin dropped me
16:15off today
16:16everything's good
16:16between us still
16:17we've been together
16:18for just over a year
16:19now
16:20alright well I'll see you
16:21soon
16:22it's been a while
16:23since the wedding
16:24there were a few
16:25factors that led to
16:26things just being
16:27tense
16:28part of it was
16:29them rushing the
16:30wedding and us not
16:31really knowing
16:32Zach well enough
16:34I didn't want
16:35to sit around
16:36and just let
16:36somebody walk
16:37into my family
16:37that wasn't
16:38gonna treat
16:38my sister right
16:39because I've
16:40seen that happen
16:41before with my
16:42brother's ancestors
16:43and I've had it
16:45and I wasn't
16:46gonna have it again
16:55I almost called you
16:56mercy
16:57mercy
16:58mercy
16:58lord have mercy
17:00long time
17:04amazing
17:06montana has been
17:07treating me very
17:08well
17:08very peaceful
17:10very happy
17:11you guys I'm so
17:14happy to be home
17:15you see what I've
17:16done
17:16this looks great
17:18isn't it crazy
17:20oh my gosh I love
17:22that it's open
17:23it feels really good
17:25to be back here
17:25for a while the farm
17:27just kind of felt like
17:28not abandoned but
17:30there was nothing
17:31really you know
17:32going on
17:33it was a rental
17:34property and it
17:36just had a different
17:37vibe to it
17:40now having mom
17:42living there it's
17:43it feels a lot more
17:44like home
17:45it's just a
17:46different kind of
17:48special being able
17:50to come home
17:51now
17:51oh
17:52Ethan
17:54do you like it?
17:56I like it
17:56looks good on you
17:57yeah
17:57thank you
17:58it complements the
18:00shape of your head
18:01nicely
18:02thank you
18:03unlike yours
18:05what's going on
18:06here
18:06I don't know
18:10I'm wearing a wig
18:11right now
18:13I have alopecia
18:15an autoimmune
18:16condition that
18:17causes hair loss
18:19it started when I
18:20was little
18:20when it's really
18:22bad
18:22I have no
18:24eyebrows
18:25eyelashes
18:25no hair on my
18:26head
18:27that's what I'm
18:29dealing with right
18:29now
18:31these are just
18:32stickers
18:32no they're not
18:33yeah
18:33they're just
18:34literally cheap
18:36stickers that I
18:37got online
18:39and then I have
18:40four wigs that I
18:42kind of can play
18:43around with
18:43I'm working on
18:44making a collection
18:45of a lot of
18:46them
18:46let me see your
18:47nose
18:48pretty good isn't
18:49it
18:49yeah
18:51did you actually
18:52get plastic surgery
18:53no
18:54oh okay
18:55I literally
18:56I went to the
18:57emergency room
18:58that one night
18:58got the stitches
18:59I pulled the
18:59stitches out
19:00myself
19:00and I'm fine
19:01my gosh
19:02that was quite
19:02a night
19:03lord
19:05yeah
19:06so what are we
19:07doing
19:07I'm on three
19:08hours of sleep
19:08I drove overnight
19:10Lydia and Zach
19:10are coming up
19:11here
19:11yeah Lydia and Zach
19:12want to have a
19:13meeting
19:14with us
19:15about their
19:16feelings
19:16or maybe
19:17I don't know
19:18yeah
19:20Lydia and Zach
19:21want to sit down
19:22and talk to
19:23everybody
19:25but
19:25I have a lot
19:26on my heart
19:27and my mind
19:28me and Tegan
19:29are broken up
19:30it's very hard
19:31to shake my focus
19:32off of that
19:33for anything
19:35I just feel like
19:36there was way
19:36too many emotions
19:38people got carried
19:39away
19:40yes
19:41to say the least
19:53how long has it been
19:54since we've been to the farm
19:55it's been a minute
19:56yeah
19:57I think it'll be good
19:58to have the whole family
19:58there to
20:00talk with everyone
20:03we're going to
20:05the farm
20:06we figured it was a good
20:07time because
20:08the whole family's in town
20:09pretty last minute
20:10but we just wanted to
20:11address
20:13stuff around our wedding
20:15we had some
20:17pretty surprising things
20:18come our way
20:20when Ethan asked
20:21if I was gay
20:21it was just very
20:22it didn't make sense
20:23I had proposed
20:24and you're asking
20:25if I'm even attracted
20:26to her
20:27like this is
20:28ridiculous
20:30I wanted to bring it
20:31to their attention
20:32that you know
20:33what they did
20:36did hurt us
20:38and you know
20:39they could have gone
20:40about it
20:41quite differently
20:42no
20:43when we were engaged
20:44I know there was
20:45a lot of people
20:46talking about
20:47Zach and I
20:48and their concerns
20:49about us
20:50they said they were
20:52doing everything
20:52because they care
20:54in that care
20:55all I felt was hurt
20:57well I want you to know
20:58I want you to be happy
20:59and I'm very happy
21:00to see that you're happy
21:01but I just have to say it
21:03you've only known
21:04him for three months
21:04and you get married
21:05in two months
21:06so you're sure
21:06you're good with that
21:07well four months
21:08if that matters
21:10it's too fast
21:11it's too much
21:13I feel like
21:14they're rushing into it
21:15we all feel pressured
21:16into having to accept
21:17somebody that we don't know
21:18how can Lydia
21:20really know
21:20like how much
21:21of a provider
21:22you could be
21:22or if he's
21:23going to be able
21:23to take care of Lydia
21:24I can't take
21:25like much more
21:26I'm just going to lose it
21:27yeah that guy
21:29really does pop in blue
21:33it's like hey
21:34this is something you did
21:35that affected us
21:36we want to move forward
21:38and this is
21:38this is something
21:39that is
21:40we feel is holding us back
21:42in our relationship
21:44with you
21:44because of how it hurt
21:51Zach and Lydia
21:52are coming
21:54I'm a little bit
21:55dreading it
21:55because I know
21:57that
21:59things were crazy
22:00at their wedding
22:01and I feel like
22:02they're coming here
22:03wanting an apology
22:05and
22:06I have mixed feelings
22:07about that
22:08because
22:08I am sorry
22:10that a lot of things
22:11happened
22:12the way they did
22:14at the same time
22:16I'm not sorry
22:18that we
22:20really
22:21cared
22:23last night Lydia
22:23called us
22:24we asked her
22:25if she was okay
22:26with me and Mercy
22:26being in on the conversation
22:28and she said
22:28she didn't really see
22:29a need for us
22:29to be there
22:30I think they don't
22:31want us to hear
22:32what they have to say
22:32obviously
22:34I guess I am
22:35a little bit nervous
22:36about Zach and Lydia's
22:37expectations
22:38anything
22:39that was said
22:40or done
22:40before the wedding
22:41was coming from
22:42a place of love
22:43and concern
22:44about Lydia
22:44we were concerned
22:45about her
22:45because there are
22:46crazy people out there
22:47and it's sad
22:47that you have to
22:48question everything
22:49but you really do
22:50yeah
22:51and with that timeline
22:53it's completely normal
22:55for us to have questions
22:57I mean just
22:58you know
22:59all of us
23:00have moved on
23:02moved forward
23:02and accepted Zach
23:04as a brother-in-law
23:06a son-in-law
23:07whatever
23:07as part of the family
23:08including Ethan
23:09and Isaac
23:10and Micah
23:11but I feel like
23:12Zach and Lydia
23:13haven't been able
23:14to move on
23:19I've been angry
23:20I've been really upset
23:22at my family
23:22for what they did
23:24there were nights on end
23:26that I would fall asleep
23:27crying
23:27and Zach was just there
23:28to come for me
23:29because I was just hurt
23:30and I was just upset
23:32it took us a while
23:33to kind of approach
23:35this conversation
23:36we were frustrated
23:37we were scared
23:40of maybe not being
23:41accepted
23:42or loved
23:44dealing with all of that
23:45at once
23:46took a long time
23:48I also wanted to be able
23:49to talk
23:51knowing what I wanted to say
23:53and not just getting all emotional
23:54and not having a direction
23:57it took eight months
23:59I'm not ashamed of that
24:03I've really been wrestling
24:05with it
24:06a lot
24:08what I would say
24:09how
24:09how I would say it
24:13I think some of the things
24:14they said
24:15just made me realize
24:16like
24:17they don't really
24:18know me
24:20and that hurts
24:21because
24:22you want to be known
24:23by your family
24:26I don't know
24:27if it's just me
24:27or if
24:29most of the family
24:30feels this way
24:30if it's just the middle child
24:31but I've always felt
24:32like
24:34overlooked
24:35second thought
24:36and I just felt that
24:37on my wedding day
24:38and that's just
24:40not what it's supposed to be
24:43I know
24:43I need this
24:44to move forward
24:45and
24:46whatever happens from it
24:48I need to be okay with that
24:49I just know
24:51this is the step
24:51I need to take
25:03what are some things
25:04that you might want to address
25:05with your mom
25:06I mean definitely
25:07with what she had said
25:09about you being controlling
25:11I have no idea
25:12how this family meeting
25:13is going to go
25:14I need to address
25:15with mom
25:20just how she went
25:21about a few things
25:22like
25:22she pretty much
25:23accused Zach
25:23of being controlling
25:25and taking over
25:26desires I wanted
25:27for the wedding
25:28yet she didn't even know
25:30what I had thought of
25:31I've seen
25:32a usurping
25:34of
25:35Lydia's desires
25:36where Lydia
25:37wants something
25:37for the wedding
25:38and he just shoots it down
25:39because he has another
25:40plan in mind
25:41she said I wanted
25:42hunter green for my wedding
25:43which is a color
25:43I would never think of
25:44blue has always been
25:46both our favorite colors
25:47it's blue
25:49that's not
25:50and I gave my opinion
25:52but then
25:52said after
25:54I was like
25:54you know
25:55I think blue looks best
25:57but I want you
25:58to make the decision
25:58because you're the bride
26:00and
26:00you know
26:01I think
26:02you know
26:02you have a better
26:04eye for those
26:05sorts of things
26:06and so
26:06if anything
26:07I was
26:08completely
26:09letting her
26:10make the decision
26:11it was just
26:12yeah
26:13it's like
26:14know your daughter
26:15before you
26:16make accusations
26:17like that
26:33king of the world
26:36I'm king of the world
26:46what are you doing
26:47oh
26:48hello
26:49I'm just envisioning
26:51myself out on the golf
26:52clipping at 20 knots
26:54nothing but the
26:56the wind in my hair
26:57and the spray
26:58on my skin
27:02okay
27:03no I mean
27:05so yeah
27:06I was just
27:07checking it out
27:07that's all
27:09so
27:11have you found
27:11any
27:12prospective buyers
27:13Micah bought it
27:15Micah bought this
27:16yes
27:16I made him
27:17quite a deal on it
27:18I think he's gonna
27:19fix it up
27:19and sell it
27:21wow
27:22he sometimes
27:23pops up in random places
27:24like on the boat
27:25in the middle of the field
27:26I was giving myself
27:27a self-guided tour
27:29since you know
27:30years past
27:31I missed out
27:32on the tour
27:33that you've given others
27:35okay
27:35we're generally
27:37on good terms
27:38but I like him
27:39to call first
27:40before he shows up
27:41I mean that's
27:42something that I've
27:43kind of asked him to do
27:44I don't want to be
27:45in the house
27:46and look out the window
27:47and just see him
27:48there
27:49I want to know
27:50if I look out
27:51I'm gonna see
27:52woods
27:52and birds
27:53maybe a deer
27:54I'm not gonna see
27:56Barry
27:57and he might see
27:58something he doesn't
27:59want to see
28:03I think
28:04Lydia and Zach
28:04are gonna be here soon
28:05so
28:06do you want them
28:07to find you
28:08on the boat
28:08or do you want to
28:09come up
28:09closer to the house
28:10I'll get down
28:11and I'll be over
28:12in a little bit
28:14okay
28:15well I'm gonna go
28:15see the kids
28:18this is the first time
28:19all the family
28:20are gonna be able
28:20to be together
28:21since the wedding
28:23I became aware
28:24of Zach and Lydia's
28:25challenges
28:26once they got back
28:27from Europe
28:27how they were feeling
28:29during the wedding
28:29the night before
28:31the rehearsal
28:32all that
28:33I began to understand
28:34you know
28:35just how deeply
28:36Lydia was
28:36feeling the hurt
28:38and the pain
28:39my role as father
28:40is to be
28:40Lydia's validation
28:43and I know
28:43that I did that
28:44more so than
28:46any of the boys
28:47or Kim
28:49all right
28:50main event
28:56all right
28:56here we are
29:17we got this
29:18we got this
29:21let's go
29:34we got this
29:35we got this
29:38let's go
29:45hi guys
29:49I haven't seen you
29:51in forever
29:51no Mariah first
29:52sorry
29:58you look so good
30:00although I've heard
30:01they see you
30:01today
30:02we're gonna talk
30:04about some of the
30:05things that happened
30:05around the wedding
30:06and kind of
30:08Lydia and Zach's
30:09feelings about
30:10all of the wedding
30:11drama
30:12and
30:16Ken is inside
30:17working on his
30:18jukebox
30:20he asked me
30:21do you want me
30:22to sit in on this
30:22and I said
30:23well I think
30:23this is just
30:24gonna be family
30:30I'm more of a quiet
30:32person
30:32I've heard both
30:33sides of the story
30:35I would rather be in
30:36the house
30:37watching the dogs
30:39I try to avoid
30:40drama
30:41as much as possible
30:48it is weird
30:50that
30:52you know
30:52Ken's now at the
30:53house
30:54that I used to
30:55be
30:56head of the
30:57household over
30:57but you know
30:58it's like
30:59what do you say
30:59weird is the
31:01new norm
31:01so
31:02I'm just
31:03what do you do
31:04I'm used to weird
31:27wow everybody's here
31:28this is a big
31:29conversation
31:30going into it
31:31I'm like
31:33you know
31:34Lydia knows
31:34exactly what she's
31:35going to say
31:35how we felt
31:37about things
31:37we're going to
31:38control what we
31:40can control
31:40and whatever
31:41their reactions
31:42are
31:43we can't control
31:46Lydia and Zach
31:48have been upset
31:49with me
31:50and Ethan
31:51and really
31:52everyone
31:52because of
31:53everyone except
31:54Barry
31:54because of how
31:55things played out
31:56at their wedding
32:00I mean
32:01I think they're
32:02wanting apologies
32:03do I think it's fair
32:05I mean
32:05are you going to
32:07apologize
32:07I don't know
32:11I'm a little bit
32:12concerned about
32:13Ethan
32:14because
32:15he can be
32:16pretty hot headed
32:17and I'm hoping
32:19that that will be
32:21calm and
32:22under control
32:23today
32:30so
32:32thank you guys
32:33for making
32:34this happen
32:35been wanting
32:36to have this
32:36conversation
32:37for a while
32:37and I'm glad
32:38you guys could
32:38all make it
32:39I guess I'll
32:40start with owning
32:41whatever I can
32:42I know
32:43it was quick
32:44when we got
32:45married
32:46and
32:48I know
32:48that did
32:49kind of pressure
32:50you guys
32:50to
32:51you have to
32:52get to know
32:52Zach
32:53in a certain
32:53amount of time
32:53and I'm sorry
32:55if that pressured
32:56you in any way
32:57but with that
32:58like
32:58some people
32:59chose to
33:00get to know
33:01him
33:02and some people
33:04just made their
33:05judgments
33:05and
33:06and that was
33:07that
33:09I know you guys
33:09care
33:11it would be
33:12amazing
33:15if
33:17there was a way
33:18to show
33:18Zach care
33:19especially to Zach
33:21and some of you
33:22have done really
33:22well at that
33:23but if you do
33:24approve
33:25if you do
33:25see that it's good
33:27it would be nice
33:28to
33:29see that effort
33:31a little bit
33:34so
33:36if there are
33:37any concerns
33:38that still
33:38are lasting
33:39now
33:41or any questions
33:42that you guys
33:43have in general
33:44I'm also
33:45open to those
33:46conversations
33:47I don't have
33:48a lot of pain
33:49from what they
33:50did to me
33:51it's more
33:52that they would
33:53do it to me
33:53and that
33:54they're hurting
33:55her in the process
33:56that hurt me more
33:57I'm trying to lift
33:59Lydia up
34:00because I know
34:01what she's doing
34:01is right
34:02we want to figure
34:03it out
34:03we want to move
34:04forward
34:04and
34:05obviously
34:06like
34:07we're open books
34:08and we want to
34:08figure things out
34:09if there's anything
34:10that you guys
34:10don't see fit
34:12I'd love to be
34:13a part of this
34:13family
34:13in that
34:14and so
34:15yeah
34:15just kind of
34:16voicing what
34:16she was
34:22I want you all
34:23to know
34:23sorry
34:24I did not
34:25want to cry
34:33we were treated
34:34the night
34:34before our wedding
34:36supposed to be
34:37a joyful time
34:38celebrating
34:39the last night
34:40as a flap
34:41it was actually
34:42the hardest
34:42night of my life
34:46to be
34:47the only
35:04the
35:05the
35:16The way we were treated the night before our wedding
35:19was supposed to be a joyful time
35:22celebrating the last night as Blap.
35:25But it was actually the hardest night of my life.
35:36Lydia, I felt awful after...
35:42I don't know, hindsight.
35:47I guess I can't speak for everyone here,
35:49but I'm assuming most of what was done,
35:52even though it wasn't done in the right way
35:55or everything happened so fast or whatever the excuse is,
35:58it was looking out for your best interest
36:00because we all care about you a lot.
36:04There's been, obviously, tension.
36:06There was a lot of tension between my brothers, some me.
36:10We do need to make sure he's the one for Lydia.
36:12He needs a test to see his true colors.
36:15I say we just let it happen today,
36:17and now we just try to give him a .
36:20I was so wrapped up in a lot.
36:22It's not an excuse.
36:23I should have been there for you even more than I was.
36:29You still danced with me?
36:30I know I did.
36:32That means a lot.
36:35I can only imagine how difficult that was for Lydia and Zach.
36:39Zach especially.
36:41You know, hindsight, I'm like,
36:42Zach, you're a great guy.
36:44You two seem fit for each other.
36:46But when you're, you know,
36:49I meet you two hours before you propose to my sister,
36:53there's a lot of stuff that goes on.
36:55For sure.
36:57Yeah, I mean, you know,
36:58people do act different under pressure,
37:00and that's mainly what I was feeling.
37:02There was a lot of pressure with it being rushed
37:05and then seeing, you know, past relationships.
37:07People have come into the family really fast
37:09and just turned out bad,
37:11and that's the only thing that was stuck in my head.
37:14Looking back, I see that I,
37:17certain times I acted, you know, like an idiot.
37:22I'm going to apologize to both of you
37:23for certain things that I've done.
37:25It may have been good intentions or thought it was good,
37:28but just went about a completely wrong way.
37:31That's all I see from mine, so.
37:33Appreciate it.
37:34You know, you both were saying
37:36if we still have things or whatever.
37:39I don't have, I don't think any of us do.
37:41For me, from the time that you two said I do,
37:44it was done.
37:45And I'm 100% supportive of both of you,
37:48and I see you as a son, son-in-law,
37:51part of the family.
37:57So far, I'm seeing more healing with Micah and Isaac
38:00than there is with Kim.
38:01I think there's a conversation
38:03that just needs to happen between Lydia and Kim.
38:09There's a lot there to unpack.
38:11It goes deeper than the wedding.
38:12It goes into the realm of when the divorce happened
38:16and things like that.
38:18There's healing that's needed there, I think,
38:19relationally between those two.
38:22All the concerns that everyone voiced,
38:26whether to you or in private,
38:29whether you go about it in the proper way
38:30or the wrong way, there is a time for that,
38:33and that time has passed.
38:34You guys are both part of the family now,
38:36and I'm very happy to see you both doing well.
38:42And I'm sorry anything that I did, you know,
38:45hurt you, which I know it did,
38:47so I apologize for that.
38:48Yeah.
38:49Appreciate it.
38:50Thanks.
38:51Before their wedding, I was just saying what I saw
38:56and what I felt.
38:57Just like Isaac and Micah,
39:01we were just encouraging Lydia to not rush into something,
39:05especially with not knowing really
39:07what their physical attraction is.
39:09I think there's nothing wrong with checking yourself and being like,
39:12do you see what I see or am I just delusional, you know?
39:17But I certainly could have been nicer, you know,
39:21gone about things maybe in a better way.
39:24It's awesome to have you back here,
39:26being able to have more time with you,
39:29because it's a lot closer than Minnesota, so.
39:33It's encouraging to hear Ethan apologize.
39:35He definitely had quite a big piece in just the pain and hurt caused.
39:41I wouldn't call it water under the bridge.
39:44I would just call it free ofness of just him owning up to the things he did wrong.
39:52I mean, it's good to clear the end.
39:54And Dad, I don't know if I've said it enough,
39:56but thank you so much for all your support.
40:00I feel like it's almost like a little jab at me,
40:05like at least my dad was supportive, you know?
40:09My mom wasn't.
40:10But she was feeling all of that support
40:12because Barry just rubber-stamped the Zach relationship
40:16and didn't even ask questions about anything.
40:21When you're just getting to know somebody,
40:23you just, you can tell, you know?
40:27And I could tell with Zach, you know,
40:29Lydia's found something really good.
40:31I just wish I could have exported that to everyone.
40:38Well, I just had a piece from the beginning
40:40and I supported him the whole time.
40:43Let me just polish my halo, you know?
40:48He's gloating a little bit
40:49and I feel like I don't get any credit
40:52for really caring about who she spends the rest of her life with.
40:56In the process of getting to know him,
40:59seeing him for who he is gave me the peace that,
41:03yeah, they're meant for each other, right?
41:06Barry, from the beginning,
41:08was a very trusting person in me
41:10and I really appreciated that.
41:13But I just don't think Kim has really done that.
41:16I think there's a lot still to figure out
41:19and I think I've seen too many tears from Lydia
41:22to think that everything's okay.
41:31Today, we're trying to find Bigfoot.
41:40One of my favorite things in the world is being high.
41:44I'm high as a kite.
41:46You're on a dating app?
41:48Hello.
41:49I'm Barry.
41:50Hey!
41:50Barry has a nickname.
41:52He's called Plath Daddy.
41:53You know I got it like that.
41:56Me and Tegan,
41:57we haven't talked in a while.
41:58Really?
42:00So, you're running after her?
42:02Mm-hmm.
42:03The weight that I've put on in the last
42:05four and a half years,
42:06it's been hard,
42:07but I'm turning that around.
42:09I can tell that you're not attracted to me
42:12like I am.
42:14Tegan doesn't know that I'm here.
42:16The worst thing that can happen
42:18is she finds out.
42:21Ethan Plath!
42:23I'm starting to think that maybe,
42:25you know, it's going too fast.
42:26Was Kaelin putting pressure on you?
42:28She wants to get married soon.
42:30I never pressured you about really anything.
42:35That was her.
42:37Are you serious?
42:39I think he's here.
42:41Oh, my God.
42:43I heard you talk about Joshua,
42:45but the way that you called me out,
42:48that hurt.
42:49We lost a son in 2008.
42:53It was an accident.
42:55Mom has been the target
42:57with people in the past,
42:58but looking at it now
42:59from a different perspective,
43:00she was never in the wrong.
43:02I've heard things about
43:03the way you pursued Tegan
43:04and you giving a lot
43:06and her not giving in return.
43:07I wasn't looking for your opinion.
43:10If people don't want our opinions,
43:12we won't give our opinions.
43:14It actually makes me angry.
43:17I'm not perfect.
43:18I know I very well could have judged them wrongly.
43:22To all things.
43:26You will make him angry.
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