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00:03I know we talk about this wall, it seems like I have built up.
00:07I personally, man, I can't keep getting
00:08beat over the head for some I ain't doing.
00:12I can't go another six months going through this if there's
00:16no action that's taking place, it's not going to change.
00:19What did y'all think y'all doing here?
00:23Gang up on me?
00:24I dumped your ass in that pool you keep
00:26calling at me, you won't dump me, dump me, dump me, dump me, dump me, dump me, dump me.
00:32Next question.
00:33I asked you a question, you got smart with me, so that's the energy that we're going to have.
00:36Who got smart with you?
00:36You did.
00:37I don't have a reason to give shade.
00:38I'm trying to have a good, amicable trip and I don't understand the energy.
00:41That's all.
00:42Y'all, for no reason.
00:45You said before we even went to therapy, you want me to be happy even if we're not together.
00:52Is that what this comment you don't want to spill out is about?
00:56I'm not going to say it.
00:58Well, you shouldn't have said it then.
01:08You know what's going on with Chris, right?
01:10I don't know, but I know that them mothers are transparent about everybody else's business
01:14but theirs.
01:17We're all in real estate.
01:19There's no way in the world that they assumed we would never hear about it.
01:23Nobody wants to lose their livelihood or a portion of it.
01:27I hear the word revoke.
01:29That's me though.
01:33It don't take but one client who felt like maybe you didn't do something the way they
01:37wanted it done.
01:38You're thinking about doing business with him.
01:40That affects you.
01:41That affects me.
01:42If we're talking about business, we're not just volunteering information.
01:45You're getting all up in my stuff and you're acting like you got it all together.
01:48You know, innocent or guilty, misunderstanding, whatever the situation may be, these are questions
01:52that need answers.
01:54Had you communicated with me, your wife, as you should, then you wouldn't be in this
01:59situation.
02:01How are you not seeing that this impacts me?
02:03Who the are you?
02:05Apparently we're you.
02:06Who for me to have to call you?
02:07It's going to be tough to be back on this one.
02:13We keep it moving, all day, all night, there ain't no stopping us, drop that, stop it,
02:22yeah.
02:24You know, you know, we keep it moving, all day, all night, yeah, yeah.
02:37All day, all night, yeah, ain't no stopping us, yeah.
02:44So C'mon.
03:07Hey girl.
03:08Can't you put your hot girl shorts on?
03:11I'm excited to meet with Tisha to catch up and see how she's been doing haven't
03:16seen her in a while so I can't wait to see how life's been treating her and
03:20just have a little girl talk and see what's going on
03:22you know I spoke to Kimmy and she told me that your son was in the car wreck I had
03:27no idea
03:27girl yes went over to that parkway then the nurses and doctors about pissed me off
03:35because they was like oh my gosh did you see the car it's a worse pair I'm like look I
03:39don't I do
03:40you might give two about the car tell me what I'm looking tell me what I'm gonna walk into
03:46so he's doing better um good yeah a lot of bruises but yes almost tore my nerves up well I'm
03:55happy
03:55that he's he's he's better Jesus Christ I can only imagine we we make it through things and we share
04:02because we have to be in a support system for each other I agree you spoke to Neil lately I
04:07have not
04:08really like at the 80s party I felt like Nell and I was like sort of kind of moving along
04:16in a
04:16better direction like as opposed to the wonery that energy was all off the wonery was a lot for
04:25me yeah it was a lot because not only with Nell also with Destiny how was your ride it was
04:32great
04:32very peaceful oh was it peaceful after you switched cars yep I think that was some shade it was shade
04:40and I'm taking it I think Destiny and I we probably do need to have a conversation I don't know
04:45if we
04:46really resolve the whole um Destiny at the wineries I felt like Destiny was defending Nell and it hurt my
04:54feelings I've been missing you at black you've been missing karaoke I have yes I'm gonna have a lot of
05:00stuff going on Ken and I still working on things we've been it's been rocky it's been very rocky
05:06actually I thought y'all was on the up and up no with social media it's like they be trying
05:12to
05:13point us out to be the bad people like what like like somebody told him they saw me out with
05:19somebody
05:19I'm like where when do I be out did it where okay so it's what people are telling him about
05:27you like
05:27like he said they said he was out with a dude of course that's going to you know yeah some
05:33issues
05:33because I'm like where who no what do you say oh well I don't really care well no I don't
05:38know
05:38don't you brought it up to you I don't know who tell them to give you a description it was
05:44a
05:44swore guy like him that's what they said well tell Ken don't be listening to everything on social
05:49media because they be saying stuff about him on social media too like one of the ladies came back
05:53to me and she was like you need to go tell Trish that Ken being these girls DM um okay
05:59I said how
06:00you know he'd be the girls DM you gotta stop that like if they saying they see you out with
06:05somebody like do bye well he went to stay with Will oh yeah how you and Ken gonna offense that
06:14though
06:16when you're married like if we get in so bad argument you can't leave for a couple of days
06:20that's not okay y'all still talking marriage though you and Ken I haven't damn
06:48yes where are you I'm in the kitchen making us some coffee oh okay we have been dealing with a
06:56lot
06:57the daycare program director it's no longer with us two new beautiful granddaughters I've been
07:03spending a lot of time at the house my dad he's in household with us now so it could be
07:09challenging
07:10I mean you know no it is challenging how was work today thank you sure what about Lance has he
07:16been
07:16by this the center Lance is too busy why it always seemed like when you need help he too damn
07:22busy
07:23that that part I don't I don't get it's like well mom have dad why dad ain't doing it that's
07:30the way
07:30I feel is he saying because my real estate license is revoked at the moment I mean is he trying
07:37to use
07:37that I don't know I mean I know you know your real estate license is revoked yeah obviously there's
07:43been a lot of speculation and talk and rumors about my license status but it's under investigation
07:49right now I do have my lawyers working on it I know it will have a positive outcome but they
07:55have
07:55advised me not to discuss the situation until we get to a resolution maybe that's a big chunk of money
08:02out of our household you know of course you know I have the attorney working on it you know it
08:08could
08:08be 12 months a maximum of 24 months but you don't see it taking that long for me to be
08:14able to get
08:14my real estate license back in order now well I ain't got that long I need you back in real
08:20estate
08:20because now that now you affected me I just feel like I'm taking on everybody whether it's the kids
08:29the grandkids my dad your license is revoked I'm just in overload and I do not think no one sees
08:41that
08:43you're always so calm and acting like nothing's bothering you do you even have a care
08:51of course I have any of this all this bothers me just like it bothers you it's a big deal
08:57that it
08:58happened but no I'm not gonna sit and sob and stress and cry over it I can't let this hold
09:06me down
09:07I'm Chris Fletcher when I'm stressed I can't show a sign of weakness I can't cry in front of you
09:13know
09:13the family or what have you because it's almost like oh damn if dad goes down then you know what
09:19are we gonna do what are we supposed to do we are human so you know we do make mistakes
09:23I just have
09:24to own it correct it and move on how you plan on supplementing the income where we don't have to
09:30take from the daycare that's not a plan for that yeah some money is gonna have to come from the
09:39daycare
09:40until I'm back on track that's part of us being married and the businesses being developed in case
09:48something happens here then we always have a backup here yes it's a big chunk of money that I'd usually
09:56bring in but I mean I don't know we have the cleaning company you're about to open posh and
10:03pritzy about the daycare you ever thought about partnering with someone I mean you're my partner in
10:10life but it's just like with your brokerage I have no ownership in your brokerage right that's
10:16different what makes it different you don't possess a real estate license either but you don't have
10:23all the accolades and certifications that I have you can't just have an ownership of a brokerage if
10:29you're not a real estate agent okay it doesn't matter you do not have all the experience that I have
10:34as a daycare owner I started out a daycare at the age of 19 you are nowhere to be thought
10:39of for as
10:40a daycare I could run the damn daycare with my eyes closed you and everybody in Huntsville know that
10:49coming up on loving marriage Huntsville when you said I want you to be happy whether it's with or
10:56without me I shouldn't make a statement you should be able to think through what you're about to say
11:03especially when it pertains to your wife we've we've been up and down I feel like the peace in the
11:10house went away we definitely in a space now to where it got bad because I ended up going and
11:14getting a whole nother apartment you do not have all the experience that I have as a daycare owner
11:23I could run the damn daycare with my eyes closed you and everybody in Huntsville know that
11:29nobody's so hard to say for me to say now about my business okay we have the daycare even though
11:38I'm the sole owner you're the sole owner of welcome home realty and we have the cleaning company together
11:45and we have properties together we have other homes together I don't talk about that I don't talk about
11:52nothing I'm never really talking about it here so why are you talking about it now because I ain't
11:55say no you said a lot no I did not I didn't say anything you know what I don't all
12:00you said was my
12:01name ain't owning the real estate and I'm telling you by law you sit there and you do all this
12:06and
12:06like you're just gonna sit there and discredit me move I'm sitting up there talking to you you don't
12:10have to move your persona I don't need a partner I'm a hundred percent owner I'm not discrediting you
12:16that you don't help me you do you help a lot I don't even try to break it up but
12:20you're on my
12:20payroll like you even tell Martell half of our love Martell I see you running the sounds you're
12:27doing this you're doing that Kelly didn't pay for it didn't I say yeah we're partners you're my husband
12:33but you still possess income okay I think you know my wife is carrying so much um there's so
12:46much stress and pressure there seems like every time I turn around she's crying about something
12:51she's um upset you know she's down you know about one or the other I mean you're handling it you're
13:00doing a good job everything's still running fine I'm hailing everybody but me
13:09what can we do just tell me I need a nurse I need a nanny and I need a program
13:16director that's what
13:17I need if you want to help me help me figure out a nanny a nurse and a program director
13:25I can get back into my life
13:29can't take back the words I've spoken can't fix all the trust I've broken
13:36rewind, rewind, rewind
13:38rewind, rewind
13:57just kind of wanted some extra little downtime before everything kind of gets popping off with
14:05summer and school and getting monster situated
14:07you getting excited?
14:10about monster going to college?
14:11we about to be here all by ourselves so we're gonna have to really see if we like each other
14:17I think we're gonna benefit
14:19from alone time
14:21using some of the tools
14:23some of the stuff that the therapists
14:25have given us to work
14:27over time
14:28therapy is definitely working
14:30and we're still in it
14:31and we're still in it
14:32and we're gonna be in it for a while
14:34until I'm fixed
14:38I've had time to process our conversation
14:43what conversation?
14:44the conversation that we had at AC
14:46when you said
14:49I want you to be happy whether it's with or without me
14:53and that's kind of sat with me for a little while
14:56it looks like we're gonna
14:57we're gonna what?
14:59I don't know
15:01you said before we even went to therapy
15:04you want me to be happy
15:05even if we're not together
15:06mhm
15:07so is that what this comment
15:10you don't want to spill out is about?
15:12some stuff just comes out
15:14or it shouldn't
15:15you're saying it shouldn't
15:17but it's
15:17it
15:18I shouldn't make a statement?
15:20you should be able to
15:22think through what you're about to say
15:24especially when it pertains
15:26to your wife
15:27I think that
15:30you in general
15:31deserve to be happy
15:33like of all people
15:36you're probably the best
15:37human
15:38I've met
15:40I want you to do what
15:41makes you feel good
15:43I said babe
15:43I want you to quit your job
15:44you love real estate
15:45let's get into real estate
15:46let's do other stuff
15:48because I want you to be happy
15:49what wife wants to hear you say
15:52I hope you're happy
15:53with somebody else
15:57coming up on
15:58Love at Mary's Hospital
15:59there has to be
16:00a measure of
16:01being mindful
16:03of your words
16:04when it comes to our relationship
16:05I feel like sometimes
16:06it's pulling teeth
16:07to help you
16:09learn thoughtfulness
16:12I know I've been on this journey
16:13looking for my brothers and sisters
16:14right
16:15I found them
16:1827 years
16:19I've never even seen
16:20these kids before
16:20I said babe
16:21I want you to quit your job
16:22you love real estate
16:23let's get into real estate
16:24let's do other stuff
16:26because I want you to be happy
16:28what wife wants to hear you say
16:30I hope you're happy
16:31with somebody else
16:32as opposed to
16:33I didn't say
16:34I hope you're happy
16:34with somebody else
16:35as opposed to
16:37I'm gonna do better babe
16:39I'm in love with you
16:40I love our life
16:42and our relationship
16:42yeah you say some
16:44stuff sometime
16:45absolutely
16:45you say some stuff
16:47you kinda don't think through
16:48absolutely
16:49do I
16:50absolutely
16:51that doesn't mean
16:52I don't wanna be
16:53in the relationship with you
16:55I want us to be better
16:56for each other
16:57sweetheart
16:58it seems like
17:00you're caught up
17:01on something different
17:02than what I said
17:04this whole thing
17:04is about
17:05you being happy
17:06I'm not unhappy
17:07what I'm sharing with you
17:09are comments
17:10and things that you've said
17:12that quite frankly
17:14don't need to be
17:15said again
17:16I'm not gonna say it again
17:18uh
17:19I'm not gonna try
17:20to say it again
17:21I may say it again
17:22but I'm gonna get over
17:24saying it again
17:27there has to be
17:28a measure of
17:29being mindful
17:31of your words
17:32when it comes
17:32to our relationship
17:33like
17:34your interview
17:35your conversation
17:36with Carlos
17:37all of that
17:37kind of stuff
17:38I'm on chemo
17:39and how many times
17:40a day you want sex
17:41all that kind of stuff
17:42to me
17:43is
17:43not thoughtful
17:45of your wife
17:47nor in respect
17:48of your relationship
17:50there's a difference
17:51between wants and needs
17:52I'm a person
17:53who actually needs sex
17:55Kimmy is
17:56doing as admirable
17:58as a spouse
18:00to roll over
18:01and suffer through it
18:03I look at it
18:03as her standing by me
18:05while I'm standing by her
18:07I feel like sometimes
18:09it's pulling teeth
18:10to help you
18:11learn thoughtfulness
18:13mmhmm
18:14you acknowledge
18:16that you're not thoughtful
18:17but when I try
18:18to give you
18:18measures of thoughtfulness
18:20because I think
18:21I'm pretty thoughtful
18:22you are
18:23you give me pushback
18:24so it's like
18:25you don't really
18:26have the intent
18:27to be thoughtful
18:28opposites attract
18:31that's not funny
18:32that I throw this drink
18:34on you
18:36that's not funny
18:36we've had enough drinks
18:37in this backyard throne
18:39and that's your problem
18:40you be trying to be funny
18:42and it's not funny
18:43it was a little
18:44no it wasn't
18:45why did you crack a smile
18:46because I'm trying
18:48not to punch you
18:49in your jaw
18:49when I'm trying
18:51to have a for real
18:52conversation with you
18:53that's half of the dilemma
18:54you think you say
18:55funny stuff
18:56and it's really
18:57it's not funny
18:58when we're talking
18:59about something serious
19:00this is like
19:01serious time
19:02you gotta know
19:03when it's time to joke
19:04and when it's not
19:05time to joke
19:05ask call feedback
19:07and I'm listening
19:07the conversation
19:09for me is just
19:12tenderness
19:13and being intentional
19:14okay
19:15simple and direct
19:17Kimmy you don't ask
19:18a lot from me
19:19right
19:19we make a really good team
19:21until I say dumb
19:21and then
19:24it bothers you
19:26not for a day
19:27not for a couple
19:28hours
19:28but it wears on
19:29your spirit
19:30and your soul
19:31and I'm learning
19:33through this maze
19:33of mirrors
19:34how to
19:35make sure
19:36I don't say
19:37stuff
19:37that
19:39you know
19:40will wear on you
19:41for a long period
19:42of time
19:43I'm gonna work
19:44on it
19:44and I'm gonna be
19:46better
19:48some of the things
19:49that we've learned
19:50over time
19:51is
19:51you know
19:52most things
19:53take time
19:54most things
19:55take time
19:55we're here
19:56seven years
19:57married
19:57seven years
19:57dating
19:58because of
19:59the resiliency
19:59of what we can do
20:00what we've gotten
20:01over in the past
20:02I love you
20:03kiddo
20:04you know that
20:05I need you
20:08to know
20:09that I love you
20:11well I know
20:13I know
20:15at your core
20:17there's nothing
20:18that you wouldn't
20:19do for me
20:19I don't have
20:20any doubt
20:23coming up
20:23on Love and Marriage
20:24Huntsville
20:25the winery
20:26the winery
20:26just a random
20:28rah
20:31I felt like
20:31he was defending
20:32Neil
20:33you're gonna have
20:33to fight
20:34either stay
20:34in the middle
20:35or pick us out
20:36I don't know
20:36I don't know
20:37I don't know
20:37I don't know
20:42why can't we get closer
20:44why can't we get closer
20:47raise our glasses up
20:50hit them high enough
20:51till it all spills over
20:53why can't we get closer
20:56why can't we get closer
20:59we don't open up
21:02thank you so very much
21:04you're very welcome
21:06hello
21:07look at you girls
21:08trying to dress like me
21:09same color
21:11hi daddy
21:13so I'm meeting my dad
21:15at the bingo hall
21:15one of his hangout spots
21:17and my godmother is here
21:19Pauline
21:21my dad and Pauline
21:22have been best friends
21:23for over 40 years
21:26and when I was
21:30transitioning to live
21:31with my dad
21:31I met her when I was
21:33six or seven years old
21:34and from that moment
21:36I became her daughter
21:37what long?
21:40he's with the nanny
21:41oh okay
21:41yeah they went to church
21:43oh I love my grandson
21:44he love his grandpa
21:45so
21:46well you been up
21:48nothing just working
21:49I know I've been on this journey
21:53looking for my brothers
21:53and sisters right
21:55I found him
21:56yeah
21:57so guess what I'm doing
21:58going to Detroit
22:01you're going to meet him
22:02yeah
22:02all of them
22:03all six of them
22:04and me being the oldest
22:05I'm like bringing
22:06everybody together
22:07is it six or seven?
22:10it's eight of us
22:11eight
22:11but Terrell
22:13deceased
22:14so
22:15Rhonda Jo
22:16is my birth mother
22:17she did raise me
22:19until I was about five
22:25I remember
22:26leaving the neighborhood
22:28and I saw my mom
22:29come out of a building
22:30like I'm yelling
22:31like that's our mom
22:32right there
22:32me and my brother Terrell
22:33were in the car
22:38I remember just crying
22:40and like them trying
22:42to bribe me
22:43me and my brother apart
22:48my big brother Terrell
22:50who taught me
22:51how to tie my shoes
22:53who was my best friend
22:55who was always my protector
22:56and my dad wanted
22:58to get custody of him
22:59but my grandmother
23:02was like no
23:03I told Pauline
23:04I said
23:05I said
23:06I'm getting cussed
23:07with my child
23:07I said it's okay
23:09you know
23:10for her to stay here
23:11until you know
23:12I get myself together
23:13she said no
23:14not a problem
23:15I remember the day
23:16you walked in
23:17like a little lady
23:20I remember coming in there
23:22with some stuffed animals
23:23and I felt like
23:24everything was so big
23:26that's what I remember
23:27yeah you were just
23:27looking around
23:28you said come on
23:29show me the house
23:32it was a little rough
23:33at first
23:34yeah it was
23:35even it took me a while
23:36to call you mama
23:38I used to call you Pauline
23:39remember that
23:40you know I love you
23:42like just like you were
23:43my real daughter
23:44and you never treated me
23:46any different
23:47I love you
23:48I love you too
23:52I'm kind of like
23:53emotional a little bit
23:54about meeting my siblings
23:55because I don't
23:56I don't know
23:5827 years
23:59I've never even seen
24:00these kids before
24:01I was sending them
24:02pictures in our
24:03little group chat
24:03they had never seen
24:04my mama
24:05they had never seen
24:06Rhonda
24:06they don't know
24:06what she looked like
24:08and so I'm having
24:09these conversations
24:09and I'm having to
24:10adjust because I'm
24:11realizing Tarell and
24:12and me were the only
24:14two kids she ever had
24:15the rest of them
24:17went immediately
24:18into foster care
24:18and then got adopted
24:20and these last three
24:22like I never thought
24:23I never thought
24:25I'd find them
24:25it's nerve wrecking
24:26I'm a little nervous
24:27about it
24:28I ain't gonna lie
24:29the moment y'all get
24:30together and see each other
24:31all that'll change
24:34I hope so
24:34they will
24:35you should come
24:36not this time
24:39Rhonda gonna be there too
24:43oh my goodness
24:46you sure you don't
24:47want to go?
24:47I'm thinking about it
24:48but I don't think so
24:49I just want to
24:50just remember Rhonda
24:51not the conditions
24:52she's in now
24:55well it's bad
24:56I never would think
24:57she would you know
24:58go that route
24:58where she used to
24:59pull my whiskey
25:01and beer down
25:01the toilet
25:04you never thought
25:04that she would
25:05have done drugs
25:05no I never would
25:06have
25:09I haven't seen her
25:10in probably four years
25:13since my grandfather
25:14died
25:14and that wasn't
25:16a good meeting
25:16it was a little
25:18it was a little rough
25:19Rhonda Jo really
25:20struggled with her
25:21addiction
25:22she just really
25:23couldn't bring herself
25:24back from losing
25:26her children
25:26life has made her
25:28tougher
25:29because she had
25:29to survive
25:31and she's definitely
25:32hard to get close to
25:33when I first told her
25:35that I found
25:37my siblings
25:38she actually checked
25:39in the rehab
25:40oh she did
25:41she did
25:42I'm nervous about
25:43meeting
25:44the siblings
25:45and then telling her
25:46that they don't
25:47want to meet her
25:48right
25:48so she not going
25:50to take that well
25:51because um
25:53she kind of has
25:53a sense of entitlement
25:55because she got
25:56the title of mama
25:57mother
25:59you know
26:00I'm nervous about
26:00meeting with her again
26:02and sometimes
26:03it's good
26:04sometimes it's bad
26:08coming up
26:08on love and marriage
26:09Huntsville
26:10I feel like
26:11this is not going
26:11to go anywhere
26:12because I feel like
26:12once we're done here
26:14you're going to go
26:14back and be like
26:14oh they gave up on me
26:15so I feel like
26:16you're going to run
26:18to nobody
26:18and say nobody
26:19I feel like
26:19that's what you're
26:20going to do
26:20but I don't need
26:20to go back
26:21and say that
26:21I'm a grown woman
26:23I can put my
26:24big girl panties up
26:25and have a conversation
26:25with y'all
26:26like I've always done
26:54I can put my
26:57how you doing
26:57man
26:57I'm good
26:58how you doing
26:58today man
26:59I'm good
26:59I'm good
26:59what we're going
27:00to do for you
27:00in and out
27:01outside
27:01yeah
27:02I'm going to do
27:02in and out
27:03in and out
27:03okay
27:05life has been good
27:06you know
27:06trying to juggle
27:07you know
27:07new business
27:08venture
27:08children
27:10new relationship
27:12so I just thought
27:12maybe the car wash
27:13should be a good
27:14place for me
27:15Ken and Chris
27:16to get together
27:17and debrief a little bit
27:18man how y'all been
27:20working
27:21life down top
27:22how about that
27:23life
27:23no I know how that go
27:24people say life
27:25that means some tough
27:26going on
27:28I learned that
27:29when I just
27:29life
27:30let me talk to
27:31Destiny
27:32oh so after I got
27:33through talking to you
27:35about the listing
27:35or whatever
27:36I called her ass
27:37I told her about
27:38the listing
27:39and I said Chris
27:40you know I gave it to
27:41Chris but Chris said
27:42you know he wanted to
27:42look out for you
27:43or whatever
27:44and you know
27:44when I called her
27:45she was more like
27:47I'm doing a podcast
27:47at this time
27:48so I'm like
27:49alright well
27:50guess what
27:51she ain't hit me back
27:52she ain't
27:52I'm like girl
27:53that's $15-$20,000
27:55in your pocket
27:55you know what I'm saying
27:56right right
27:57to this day
27:58and that's been
27:59this has been about
27:59a week of
28:00yeah a little longer
28:02yeah she ain't
28:03like girl
28:04I wish I wasn't
28:05in the damn situation
28:06I don't know
28:07you know
28:08my license got suspended
28:10real estate license
28:14what
28:16he danced too much
28:17me
28:18me trying to look out
28:19for someone
28:20and I feel like
28:21I really got set up
28:22in the situation
28:23and they went to
28:24the commission
28:25and that's where
28:27we stand at the moment
28:28but you know
28:28I got my legal people
28:31working on it
28:31my attorneys working
28:32on it
28:32trying to get the
28:33changed
28:34but right now
28:36can't do no
28:38how you gonna feed
28:38your family
28:39oh well
28:40first of all
28:41that ain't the only
28:41thing I do
28:43you know
28:44I mean
28:44I got a business
28:45right here
28:45across the street
28:46too
28:46what Nell say
28:47she mad
28:48you know what I'm
28:49saying
28:49she ain't liking
28:50this
28:50yeah
28:50she feel like
28:51it's an embarrassment
28:52but she
28:55she got enough
28:56on her plate
28:57I'm not gonna say
28:58that my wife
28:59discredits
29:00my efforts
29:01she has so much
29:02that's overbearing
29:03her
29:04that she doesn't
29:05see what it is
29:06or all the things
29:07that I actually do
29:08but I am a pillar
29:10of the community
29:11so not being able
29:12to
29:14sell a home
29:15that's an issue
29:15for the family
29:16how you and Trish
29:17doing
29:17everything going
29:18your way
29:20it's going
29:21currently right now
29:22with me and Trish
29:23situation
29:23we've been up
29:25and down
29:25I feel like
29:26the peace
29:27in the house
29:27went away
29:28like you know
29:29and for me
29:30it's like
29:31if I can't come
29:32home and feel
29:32peace
29:33like I
29:34I can't be there
29:35we definitely
29:36in a space now
29:37to where
29:37it got bad
29:38because I ended up
29:39going and getting
29:39a whole other apartment
29:45I decided
29:45to take the next
29:46step and move
29:47out
29:47I feel like
29:48the energy
29:48in the house
29:49was a little off
29:50so much has
29:51transpired over
29:52the last few weeks
29:52so I want to
29:53kind of you know
29:54go somewhere
29:54where I can
29:55clear my head
29:55and you know
29:56try to really
29:58figure this thing
29:59out
29:59it sucks
30:00because I done
30:00said a million
30:01times I was done
30:02but when real life
30:04hits you
30:04it's like
30:04man I love her
30:06so it's hard
30:07for me
30:07sometimes
30:08when I
30:08when I
30:09when I
30:09cut that switch
30:10off
30:10it's hard
30:10for me
30:10to cut it
30:11back on
30:11you know
30:12what I mean
30:13Kim moving out
30:13getting his own
30:14apartment
30:14I commend that
30:15I think that's
30:16I think that's
30:16good
30:16for any man
30:17I think Kim
30:18I need to go
30:19and get a woman
30:19without a husband
30:22possibly without
30:23kids
30:23because if I was
30:24in this situation
30:25and he don't
30:25have no kids
30:26I'd be with a woman
30:27with no kids
30:28you can get you
30:29a 27 year old
30:29no I don't want
30:30that either
30:30anything under
30:3130 years old
30:32they act slow
30:33you make good money
30:34you smooth
30:35you're cool
30:35why so you can
30:36control us
30:37yeah that's what
30:38I know
30:38I ain't got no time
30:39they want a dream
30:41if you control
30:42them they gonna
30:42control you
30:43you ain't seen that
30:44Trish trying to
30:45control him
30:45and he do everything
30:49Martell's biggest
30:49thing is
30:51control
30:52and you just
30:54it just doesn't
30:55work
30:55trying to control
30:56another person
30:57because
30:58they're their own
30:59human being
31:00stop trying to
31:01control them
31:02one thing I'm
31:03learning as I
31:03get older
31:04is like
31:05man times are
31:06changing
31:06it's like
31:07at the first
31:08sign of
31:09resistance
31:09people quit
31:10yeah
31:11there's no
31:13that's y'all
31:13yeah it's our
31:14generation
31:15but it's like
31:16for me
31:17I got a lot
31:18of fight
31:18you know
31:19people call it
31:20naive
31:20people call it
31:21you know
31:22being stupid
31:23and all that
31:24but it's like
31:25for me
31:25like when you
31:26love somebody
31:26like you just
31:27don't give up
31:28the reason people
31:28giving up these
31:29days so easily
31:30man because
31:30they got so
31:30many options
31:31well they think
31:32they got options
31:32no no no
31:33no no no
31:34so like I guess
31:35you got options
31:36and you got
31:38actual good ops
31:39like something
31:40that's actually
31:40valuable
31:41something that's
31:41actually
31:42most of these
31:43women misinterpret
31:43it
31:43they think
31:44oh all these
31:45guys liking
31:45my stuff
31:46they in my DMs
31:46they just want to
31:47I get married
31:50I'm gonna have
31:50to lock you
31:51all the way down
31:53you can't even
31:53go nowhere without
31:54me
31:57you know how many
31:58women want to be
31:58taken care of
31:59bills paid
32:00right
32:03I don't know
32:04what Ken over there
32:05doing
32:06well you know
32:07what I don't
32:07doing either
32:08live by the same
32:09mother boat
32:10I tell you
32:11I'm back
32:26hey girl
32:28hey Nisha
32:29guess what it is
32:30your favorite
32:30holiday
32:31it's taco
32:31I get some
32:32taco Tuesday
32:33with you
32:34oh my god
32:36taco Tuesday
32:37is like my
32:38thing
32:39see this is my
32:40whole little
32:40taco Tuesday
32:41get up
32:41so I invited
32:42Destiny and Tisha
32:43to come and
32:43join me
32:44Tisha says
32:44I never invite
32:45her so here
32:46you go girl
32:46welcome to my
32:47world
32:48I'm gonna be
32:48humble
32:49yes
32:49we'll have
32:51over these
32:52see the margarita
32:53right
32:53are you good
32:55been working
32:56she's been busy
32:56yes we've been
32:58trying to get
32:58all of those
32:59little properties
32:59together
33:00how is the
33:01restaurant for
33:01Joanne Lane
33:02coming along
33:02it's just like
33:03you know
33:05the process
33:05of the steps
33:06yeah
33:07Scott Realty
33:07is slow
33:09as well
33:09and Marceau
33:10was like
33:11his focus
33:11has been
33:11on Whitehall
33:12the Whitehall
33:13project is
33:14almost completed
33:15it's sleek
33:16it's modern
33:17it is a luxury
33:18feel
33:18and it's new
33:19for the Huntsville
33:20market
33:20so I'm super
33:21excited about this
33:22and what the future
33:23holds for Scott
33:24development
33:25I'm actually about to do
33:26like some marketing
33:27marketing photo shoot
33:28for it
33:29I'm collaborating
33:29with some ladies
33:30that's in real estate
33:31like you know
33:32residential is not
33:32my focus
33:33so I need to partner
33:34with someone
33:35that's in residential
33:36so we can work
33:36together to get
33:37this house sold
33:38who you're working
33:39with
33:40what do you mean
33:42how you gonna
33:43say something like that
33:44Tisha's going
33:45to find another
33:46residential broker
33:47instead of me
33:49boy that 1.0
33:50something else
33:51ain't it
33:51just the simple fact
33:52that you said
33:53another residential
33:54real estate agent
33:55they're not listing
33:57the properties
33:57I'm gonna be the
33:58company that's gonna
33:59list it
34:00they're more
34:00available to show
34:01because at the end
34:02of the day
34:03I don't have the time
34:04to do all this stuff
34:05but you know
34:06we can make some magic
34:07happen together
34:08so that's what
34:09it really was all about
34:12then that works
34:13out perfectly
34:14cause I'll be calling you
34:17Kimmy hey
34:17can you go show
34:18this house
34:18and I'm gonna say
34:19no ma'am
34:19you can go Tisha
34:20he'll show your house
34:21and I'll be like
34:22okay gotcha
34:23that
34:31hello hello
34:32hello hello
34:34hi boo
34:35look at you
34:36it's been a minute
34:37since I've seen the ladies
34:38but it's taco Tuesday
34:40and I'm excited
34:41to see Kimmy and Tisha
34:43how y'all been
34:44we've been good
34:45I haven't seen your
34:47shining face
34:47since the 80's party
34:4880's party was
34:49something interesting
34:50why you said
34:51it was something
34:52interesting
34:52what's that
34:53that's cause
34:54y'all had a little
34:55tiff
34:55that's what it was
34:57you had a little
34:58tiff
34:58at the winery
34:59and then when we
35:01got to the 80's party
35:02I'm glad y'all let it go
35:03we just haven't had a chance
35:04to talk about it
35:05what are we talking about
35:06the winery
35:07was just a random
35:12brah
35:12alright
35:14there we go
35:16that's the blue
35:17for y'all
35:17thank you
35:18do you want any margarita
35:19I'm not sure if I want
35:21a margarita
35:21but I will take
35:22a nice little shot
35:23to get the edge off
35:24because
35:27we're gonna leave that
35:29energy at the bottom
35:29of the shot
35:30I hope so
35:31with all of us
35:32I don't think
35:33she would have had
35:34that moment
35:35at the winery
35:36if
35:37what happened
35:38in the car
35:39had been resolved
35:40that's all
35:40I'm trying to say
35:42I had a conversation
35:43with Nell about
35:44just coming in
35:45and having fun
35:46does she feel like
35:47she offering an apology
35:48I mean
35:48I don't know
35:49and I said already
35:50that she's taking
35:52accountability
35:52and she's trying
35:53to be in a good place
35:54and have a good time
35:54and you said
35:55the same thing
35:55but then you're like
35:56well she need to say
35:57that to my face
35:57which one is it
36:00you know what
36:00I'm done with
36:01talking about her
36:02okay
36:02you know what
36:03I think we should
36:04pull over
36:04and I'm gonna go
36:05check on that
36:06what you mean
36:06pull over
36:06no
36:08no
36:08the answer's no
36:09okay perfect
36:10I felt like
36:11you was defending
36:12Nell
36:13and I'm like
36:14you can't be
36:15like in the middle
36:16but also take a side
36:17you're gonna have
36:18to like either
36:18stay in the middle
36:19or pick a side
36:20but what did I defend
36:21I need a concrete
36:23statement that supports
36:25the fact that
36:25I support her
36:26I can't remember verbatim
36:26what you said
36:27Destiny
36:27I'm not gonna remember
36:28word for word
36:28what you said
36:29but what I'm saying to you
36:30if you're gonna hold me
36:31to the fire
36:32then you need to remember
36:33what I said
36:33no baby
36:34I don't have to remember
36:34what you said
36:35well how you gonna hold me
36:36to a fire
36:36or something you can't even remember
36:38because I know what you need to be here
36:39I think that Tisha
36:40has so many feelings
36:41and I have learned
36:44that I just can't keep apologizing
36:45for people's feelings
36:46especially Tisha's
36:47because she got a lot of feelings
36:48about a lot of people
36:49as a friend
36:50you have to be like
36:51okay I can receive
36:53how I made you feel
36:54did I not do that
36:55on a winery trip
36:56so why are we talking
36:57about something
36:58that I've already acknowledged
36:59and said
36:59if that made you feel that way
37:01that wasn't my intent
37:02because obviously
37:04it didn't go anywhere there
37:06because we have this bad
37:07energy right now
37:08I came here to have
37:09some nachos
37:10and drinks
37:10and I didn't have no energy
37:13okay
37:14you feel like
37:14you have it now
37:15a little bit
37:19I feel like
37:20this is not gonna go anywhere
37:21because I feel like
37:22once we're done here
37:23you're gonna go back
37:23and be like
37:24oh they came up on me
37:25so I feel like
37:25this went up with a one-on-one
37:26I don't need to run to nobody
37:27and say nobody
37:28I feel like that's what you're gonna do
37:29but I don't need to go back
37:30and say that
37:31I'm a grown woman
37:32I can put my big girl panties up
37:34and have a conversation
37:35with y'all
37:35like I've always done
37:36they both have this imaginary issue
37:38and they're trying to like
37:40make it land
37:41and make me
37:42feel a way about something
37:44that they can't even tell me
37:45or give me an example of
37:47give me something
37:48that I can actually
37:49maybe take and say
37:50okay I can own that
37:51or like
37:51get out of my face
37:52that's stupid
37:53whatever
37:53but I can't even get that
37:55besides your energy
37:56like
37:56well at the end of the day
37:58I don't remember exactly
37:59what Destiny said
38:01however I do remember
38:02that I didn't like the way
38:04she was handling the situation
38:05I felt like she was taking a side
38:07and I felt like
38:07she was taking Nell's side
38:10so the thing is
38:12is that I don't want it
38:13to continue to be a pattern
38:15you said that
38:17even when it was
38:18with the Martell situation
38:19like well I was knowing
38:20I've known Martell longer
38:21and I met you guys
38:22through Martell
38:23it just started making me
38:24question everything
38:25like okay well
38:26because you have known
38:27Martell longer
38:28and you met us through Martell
38:30does that mean
38:30your relationship with Martell
38:32is more important
38:32than our relationship
38:34and you've known Nell
38:36longer than you've known me
38:37does that mean
38:38that your loyalty
38:40is more towards
38:41Dill
38:41have I shown you that
38:42you have not
38:44okay so why are you
38:45questioning it
38:46but because
38:46when I felt like
38:48you was defending Nell
38:49to me
38:50and I acknowledge
38:51how you felt
38:52and I apologize
38:53and I don't know
38:55what more you want me to do
38:56and I'm not groveling
38:57and kissing ass
39:01I don't want you to grovel
39:02I don't want you to kiss my ass
39:03but I do want you to
39:05acknowledge how I feel about something
39:06I did
39:07how many more times
39:08do I need to do that
39:08but now
39:09you're trying to dismiss my feelings
39:11and I am not
39:11give me an example
39:12y'all don't remember
39:13y'all gaining up
39:14y'all doing this
39:15y'all doing that
39:16boy that Tisha boy
39:17that Tisha
39:18Tisha for them streets
39:19I be trying to tell y'all
39:20like what are we doing
39:22there's no way
39:23that's productive
39:24Tisha
39:24you said you want to be
39:26to acknowledge your feelings
39:27right
39:27yes
39:28have I done that
39:29I haven't acknowledged your feelings
39:31so I didn't
39:32I didn't
39:32I didn't apologize
39:33why are you getting there
39:35why are you talking there
39:36because I'm talking too
39:37I was speaking
39:38I asked you a question
39:39I asked you a question
39:40I asked you a question
39:42I'm not answering
39:43any more questions
39:43I feel like I'm being
39:44gaslit right now
39:45oh my god
39:45I asked you a question
39:46Jesus Christ
39:48gang up on gaslit
39:50yes
39:50what else girl
39:51you gonna be the victim too
39:57this season
39:58on Love and Marriage Huntsville
40:01Tisha tell Trish
40:02supposedly somebody
40:03came to her
40:04and I was in their DMs
40:05she told Trish that
40:06if there's anybody
40:07that shouldn't carry bones
40:09it's us
40:12it was Trish
40:13so Trish
40:13oh god damn
40:14oh hell no
40:15see heart eyes
40:16my picture that I post
40:18it was heart
40:18heart
40:19heart
40:20licky tongue
40:20I spent the block
40:22on someone
40:22I did
40:22I'm not gonna
40:23my tail
40:25let's not protect
40:26your best friend here
40:28now all of a sudden
40:29that my license revoked
40:30now you're trying
40:30to make a big deal
40:31out of this
40:32no I'm making a big deal
40:33out of your lack of disclosure
40:35I thought that we were
40:36gonna go into business together
40:37am I supposed to get
40:38on a bullhorn
40:39and alert everybody
40:40that my license revoked
40:41just me
40:42who the you
40:44real talk
40:44I need you to tell
40:45your brother
40:46that needs to get finished
40:48it's a small project
40:49I'd like for you to pick up
40:51and get out your soft hands
40:52here
40:53motivate me Reese
40:54I guarantee you're gonna be motivated
40:55a lawsuit
40:56your little slimy ass
40:58you Marceau
40:59horrible point
41:00what you said to me
41:00was that
41:01oh you don't defend me
41:02in room
41:02but I'm not in
41:03the only person
41:03that don't defend you
41:04is your husband
41:04oh my gosh
41:05wait if he was right
41:07you're right
41:08I think you're a husband
41:10for you
41:10no you're not
41:12I just tell them
41:14you're wrong
41:15if I'm talking about me
41:17behind my back
41:18you want me to fight
41:19with now
41:20don't walk out this door
41:21I'm leaving
41:21no I don't walk out the door
41:23I don't leave
41:24who need to stop
41:24with the
41:26victimization
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