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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:04Sophie is acting like a little girl.
00:07Being honest, I think you're going to ruin your life again.
00:11I feel that I have to listen to Nicole, but at the same time,
00:15I want Sophie to see that we can be great together.
00:19The beauty is perfect.
00:20Yeah, stunning.
00:21Stunning, like you.
00:22This is the side of Pedro that I like,
00:24and I feel like this is the real him.
00:26You wanna see my book?
00:27Go. I wanna see it.
00:28You wanna see my book?
00:30If he just puts the seriousness of wanting a relationship all that aside,
00:34this is how I build attraction.
00:39Will you be communicating with other women?
00:44Um...
00:46I asked him point blank if he was talking to other women.
00:49Where are you going?
00:52He didn't have the balls to tell me the truth.
00:54I just don't wanna waste time.
00:56I'm flying back to Michigan tonight, and I have no idea where we stand.
01:01I just wanna go home, please.
01:04I wish I would've just handled this whole situation better, but now...
01:08I wish you did, too.
01:11Jamal is an older brother named Larry that I put up for adoption.
01:14But I also had a daughter.
01:17Larry wants to come visit us, and I have to go into this being completely 100% transparent.
01:23How do you think he's gonna react?
01:24I think he's gonna be really upset with me.
01:26By the way, you have a sister.
01:28Oh, no, no.
01:32Oh, no.
01:34Oh, no.
01:35Come on and dance with me, darling.
01:36I know you want it.
01:38With the rhythm of your body, I wanna go.
01:42You know you're driving me crazy.
01:45Anticipating...
01:46Hey, good morning.
01:47Good morning, cover guides.
01:49Give me this, give me this, can't help it with this.
01:51And...
01:54You're also rucking si...
01:55Or what?
02:03I got some delicious coconut for you ladies.
02:06Take this, and I got it.
02:09Oh, my gosh.
02:12Me and Julie are going with Pedro tonight
02:14to his sister's birthday party in Santo Domingo.
02:16It's a bit of a drive, so we're going
02:18to be staying overnight in a different hotel.
02:20Coconut cheers.
02:21Coconut cheers.
02:22OK, let's make this day the best day here.
02:24You want us on phone, OK?
02:25Yes.
02:27Ever since Pedro and I hit the reset button,
02:29he's just being himself.
02:30He's being funny, sweet, and silly.
02:32Take care for that, OK?
02:33OK.
02:34It just feels like whatever serious pressure
02:37he had in the beginning is gone.
02:38So now I'm like, OK, now we can enjoy ourselves.
02:42Let's go.
02:42Let's drive crazy.
02:46I haven't really spoken to Liz since our fallout,
02:48but Julie left her a message that would be gone
02:51for a couple of days.
02:52I'm napping.
02:53I'm already feeling super nervous
02:55about meeting Pedro's mom and his sister,
02:57so I just feel like having Liz here as well
02:59would just make things even more awkward.
03:12We're here, ladies.
03:13Yay!
03:15Things with me and Sophie are getting really good right now.
03:18Welcome to Santa Domingo, ladies.
03:21We had an amazing day in the Mexicans last night.
03:25And now I'm super happy that she's coming to my sister's birthday party.
03:30OK, this is mine.
03:31I get ready.
03:32We are like an hour.
03:33OK, OK.
03:33We have a little paradise.
03:36Yeah, baby, baby, baby.
03:38Why don't we go?
03:40Es paradiso.
03:42Yeah.
03:45This is the most conservative outfit that I've bought.
03:48I mean, OK, it shows some cleave, but honestly, I'm fully covered.
03:52I think it's pretty traditional.
03:54It's still giving party because I'm not going to show up with like a sack,
03:57you know, like I still want something cute.
03:58But yeah, I think this is pretty respectful.
04:09Let's go.
04:10We're going to do a lot of fun tonight.
04:14How many people is going to be?
04:16We're going to be like 20 people at this point.
04:18This is my city friend, you know?
04:19Oh my God, I'm scared.
04:21Look, we're only talking, OK?
04:23It's not pressure.
04:23Yeah, exactly, yes.
04:24What if they're like, we don't like Sophie, you're like, see you later.
04:28You're going to hang out with me anymore?
04:29See you later.
04:30Really?
04:32It's my family, you know?
04:33Oh.
04:33No pressure, though.
04:35Eh?
04:35You're not kidding.
04:36You're not kidding?
04:37I'm kidding.
04:38You're not kidding.
04:40My mom, my sister, they are very savage.
04:44So, I had to be in Hitler tonight.
04:49The last thing that I want is for my mom and my sister,
04:53it scares Sophie away.
04:55I think we're stressing it.
04:57It's my sister.
04:58She's crazy.
04:58That's the problem.
05:00My sister's not really making me feel very, like, comforted.
05:03Like, oh no, my sister's sweet.
05:04He's literally like, no, she's insane.
05:07I'm so scared.
05:08It's OK.
05:08What did I get myself into?
05:18Blackies!
05:19Hey!
05:20Hey!
05:23So, mommy?
05:23Hi!
05:23How are you?
05:25Oh my God, nice to meet you.
05:27Nice to meet you.
05:28Nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you for my birthday.
05:30Thank you for inviting us.
05:32Nice to meet you.
05:33Famous Sophie.
05:34How are you?
05:35How are you?
05:36How are you?
05:38How are you?
05:40She's famous because my brother has talked to me about her.
05:44No, she's famous for me.
05:45You're making my brother suffering.
05:49Aw, yeah Sophie, you're making my brother suffering right now.
05:55Every day, all the same.
05:57People talk and never listen.
05:59When they say, give me fame, but can't make their own decision.
06:02In my mind, so fuck on.
06:03But my heart is on a mission, a vision.
06:05and I'm drivin' to put the key in my ignition.
06:09Hello.
06:09What's up?
06:10How are you?
06:12All right.
06:13I'm like, shaking.
06:29Go, go, go.
06:31You can make it.
06:35I'm excited to see them, you know?
06:37I'm anxious to see the kids.
06:39Yeah, me too.
06:40I'm excited to see Bean.
06:42He's speaking now.
06:43He's saying words.
06:43I know.
06:44He calls me BMK.
06:45Baby Mama Kim.
06:49Today's the day that Larry and his family arrive in San Diego,
06:52and Jamal and I are on the way to go meet them.
06:56We've only seen them once before in North Carolina,
06:58but we talk or we'll video chat or text once a week.
07:03And the video chats with his son are probably my favorite thing.
07:07He's obsessed with my cats.
07:11And it's really become, like, a special part of my life.
07:16Did you get any sleep last night?
07:18No.
07:19No.
07:20Don't start crying.
07:21Hence the best.
07:23I'll be fine.
07:23Well, just try to stay strong when you're talking to him, you know?
07:26Yeah.
07:26I just really need to do this, you know?
07:29Yeah.
07:30Yeah.
07:31But I'm scared.
07:33Leading up to today, I've been feeling super anxious.
07:36I've had a couple panic attacks.
07:39I've cried a lot of tears because I'm, like, how am I going to tell this guy
07:43that now he has not just Jamal, but he's got a sister, too,
07:47that I also place for adoption?
07:50I hope he's understanding and that he doesn't hate me.
07:53It's a lot.
07:56I really don't have that much information to give Larry about his sister
07:59because it was a closed adoption.
08:01So I don't know who adopted her.
08:04I don't know where she lives now.
08:05And I don't even know her name.
08:07But it's not fair to him that I've been holding all of this in.
08:11And now I just have to release it.
08:13I have to let it go.
08:15I can't live like this anymore.
08:17I just can't do it.
08:26Can you grab the slip of the other back?
08:29Oh.
08:31It's hot today.
08:33I'm so nervous.
08:34I feel like I'm going to throw up.
08:40All right, lead the way.
08:43I've been waiting for my mom to tell Larry about my sister
08:47because I want to, like, get closer with my brother.
08:52Like this.
08:53But I've been distant from him.
08:55Just because this secret was eating at me,
08:57I just felt bad getting closer to him while hiding something from him.
09:05It's going to be fine.
09:06It's like one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, you know?
09:10Yeah, but...
09:11It's hard when you've lied all the time to, like, open up like that, you know?
09:17If you can tell me the truth about him, then you can tell him the truth about her.
09:23I just don't know what Larry is going to think about me once I tell him this news.
09:28I'm scared that he's going to judge me.
09:31He's going to be ashamed of me.
09:35Okay.
09:37What if he just turns around and leaves?
09:39What if he never speaks to me again?
09:41Screw it over.
09:42I just keep thinking.
09:43I'm going to lose him again.
09:47Ooh.
09:49I can feel my heartbeat.
09:51Ooh.
09:52No, everything's fine.
09:53You're freaking me out, Jamal.
09:54You're freaking me out now.
09:55Everything's fine.
10:00Oh, here they come.
10:03I'm going.
10:10Hi, guys.
10:12Who is that?
10:14Come here.
10:15Hi, baby.
10:16Hello.
10:17Hello.
10:18Hello.
10:19Oh, look at this.
10:20Wow, look at you.
10:21You got your hair?
10:22Yeah.
10:23You know?
10:24Hello.
10:25What's up?
10:27Oh, you're so good.
10:29Oh, boy.
10:30Now you got two.
10:31Good to see you.
10:32Hi, Natalie.
10:33You're so pretty.
10:35That's Natalie.
10:36I got presents for you.
10:38I just love you.
10:39I just love seeing Larry and the family.
10:41And Bean is just so cute.
10:43What's my name?
10:44BK.
10:44BK, right?
10:45Yeah.
10:46I'm BK.
10:47Who's that?
10:49That's Uncle Mal.
10:50What's up, boy?
10:52I'm just looking at him like, wow, these kids are a part of me.
10:55Like, they have my blood in them.
10:57And I really want for us to build a family together.
11:00Come on.
11:01So if this doesn't go well today, I have a lot to lose.
11:05I can lose my relationship with my grandkids.
11:07I can lose the relationship with his wife.
11:10And I can lose the relationship with Jamal and Larry.
11:13I just feel like I can lose everything.
11:16Bean, do you want your gift?
11:17Yeah.
11:18Here.
11:20Ooh.
11:21There he is.
11:22There you go.
11:24Ooh.
11:25Yeah.
11:26Ooh.
11:27We got this car.
11:29He loved his firetruck race car.
11:32Anyway, I got y'all's water, some fruit, just little stuff, so.
11:35Oh, thank y'all.
11:36Look at it.
11:37Did you say thank you for the picnic?
11:39Thank Uncle Marl and BK for the picnic?
11:42Thank you, BK.
11:42You're welcome.
11:44You're welcome.
11:45You're welcome.
11:48I always knew I was adopted, and I wanted to find my birth mother.
11:53Two years ago, my family did a DNA test.
11:56When I got my results back, I found my first cousins.
12:00Did some digging, and we ended up finding Kim.
12:03So what's going on with y'all in the NC?
12:07Nothing.
12:07Trying to make it.
12:08Same thing every day.
12:10Working, taking care of the babies.
12:12Baby.
12:13And loving on them.
12:14It's been real cool getting to know them.
12:17I definitely want them to be a part of my life.
12:20I want to be a part of theirs, and I just want to move forward.
12:25Let me give her a strawberry.
12:26She's so cute.
12:29Oh, man.
12:32I'm sitting here looking at Larry, and I feel like I'm having a full-on panic attack.
12:41I do got to talk to y'all.
12:45Is it bad?
12:46Yes.
12:47Really?
12:48I have to talk to y'all.
12:50I just need to get this out, okay?
12:52Wait.
12:53No.
12:53I got to get it out.
12:56Larry, come here.
12:56First, come on this side, please.
13:01I wanted to see you face to face before I tell you.
13:06Heart attack.
13:07Just take a breath there.
13:09Don't have a heart attack, please.
13:10It's okay.
13:19I realized I made a huge mistake with Natalie.
13:22So I invited her to Michigan, and after some persuading, she agreed.
13:26There's something important I actually want to tell you today.
13:30Okay.
13:32So I decided that...
13:39You know...
13:42Wait, amigos.
13:44Yo!
13:50Pedro's mom is...
13:51Yeah, she's crazy.
13:52That's weird!
13:53What was she saying?
13:54I heard banana.
13:55She say, maybe, you know, you know that I'm interested, but you don't have a taste in me yet.
14:00If this family just keeps on disrespecting me the whole night, there's only so much I can take before I'm
14:07gonna lose my cool.
14:19I'm so excited I get to pick Natalie up.
14:21She's here in Michigan.
14:23It's gonna be a good day.
14:35Natalie and I, we had such a good time in DC overall last time.
14:39Good vibes.
14:40A little concerning at the end, but this time is gonna be better.
14:46I wasn't even back on the plane to Michigan before I realized I made a huge mistake with Natalie.
14:53I don't want to be talking to a bunch of girls.
14:56And, you know, I really want to find someone that I can settle down with.
15:01I truly believe Natalie might be the one.
15:04So I invited her to visit me in Michigan, and after some persuading, she agreed.
15:10I need to go all in with Natalie and see how it goes.
15:24Gino!
15:25Oh, Natalie!
15:26How are you?
15:27I'm good.
15:28How are you?
15:28Oh my God.
15:29So good to see you again.
15:31So good to see you.
15:34What's that?
15:35These are for you.
15:37Awesome.
15:38I really thought I was done with Gino.
15:40But the reality is that Gino and I are not in a committed relationship.
15:46And I think I may have overreacted.
15:49What's that on your face?
15:51Is there something on my face?
15:52I think you've got some.
15:54Oh, you know what?
15:55It could be for the flowers.
15:57I was so well with a flower.
15:59Did you stick the flowers in your face?
16:03Since DC, he's opened up.
16:06He's been apologetic.
16:07He's been more transparent.
16:09And I want to see if he's changed.
16:12Do you like my makeup?
16:13I do.
16:14There's just something about Gino.
16:16You can't stay mad at him very long.
16:19I love it.
16:21Woo!
16:21You're good.
16:22All right.
16:23Let's go.
16:24Let's get out of here.
16:29Today, we are going to the riverfront.
16:32Okay.
16:32It's a beautiful place on the water.
16:35And I think it'd give us like a fresh start, you know, compared to the last time you were here.
16:41I like that.
16:42I think we both deserve a fresh start.
16:53Let's feel the water here.
16:56Oh, it's nice.
16:58I want to put my feet in the water.
17:00It'll cool us off.
17:06How is it?
17:07Oh, my God.
17:07Are you really going to get up on there?
17:08Yes.
17:09Come on.
17:11Holy cow.
17:12I probably got to roll my pants a little.
17:14Feel it.
17:16Oh, my God.
17:16Doesn't that feel good?
17:17That is cold.
17:19Were you like, that girl's crazy?
17:21No.
17:22Okay.
17:24Holy .
17:25Don't you dare.
17:27I love the fact that you really seem to bring out the playful side of me.
17:32For sure.
17:32And you're okay with it.
17:34Yeah.
17:35I'm not used to that.
17:36Oh, my God.
17:37I'm all wet now.
17:41I mean, this is so beautiful.
17:43I mean, boom, there's Canada right there in your face.
17:48I know.
17:48And the weather is perfect.
17:50I know.
17:50It's gorgeous.
17:51Perfect weather.
17:52Yes.
17:53Yeah.
17:54But, you know, there's something important I actually want to tell you today.
18:00Okay.
18:01Yeah.
18:05So, I decided that, well, what I want to do is I'm not, I don't want to speak to any
18:13other
18:13women anymore.
18:15Like, and I want to focus on you and our relationship and building our relationship.
18:19You know, I don't want to risk losing you.
18:22I think if I continue to talk to a bunch of women, that that's probably going to happen.
18:28I'm shocked.
18:29I'm surprised.
18:31But I'm happy that you made this decision because you wanted to make this decision.
18:39I did not think that this was going to come out of his mouth.
18:42It's only been two weeks since we last talked about it, so I am skeptical.
18:47You know, he can say a lot of things, but he needs to show me by his actions that he
18:51truly
18:52means this.
18:53But I am excited because we deserve a chance.
18:57There is one more very important thing that I need to ask you.
19:01Stop.
19:02What I want to ask you is if you're hungry, because I know a really good place that's not
19:09far from here.
19:10Yes, I'm hungry.
19:14Natalie seems very happy that I want to focus all my energy just on her.
19:20Ready?
19:20Yeah.
19:23We still have a lot of things to figure out.
19:26We haven't even had sex yet, but I'm hoping while she's in Michigan, we'll really be stepping
19:31up to the next level.
19:32Ready?
19:33Here we go.
19:34It's beautiful.
19:35And then, I mean, who knows?
19:38Say Canada.
19:39Canada.
19:41All right.
19:42Have you ever seen me?
19:47What was the first time?
19:52Watch our shots we met at her as we wanted.
19:53See the famous selfie.
19:54You are making my brother suffering.
19:58Oh, yeah, Sophie.
20:00You're making my brother suffering right now.
20:10Do you want a shot?
20:12Yeah?
20:13Yeah, yeah, yeah.
20:15Por favor, please.
20:17Please, por favor, please.
20:20Alicia just got here, and Nicole already seems a little bit unhinged.
20:26I'm already seeing what Peja was talking about.
20:29Sophie, let me introduce you to my mom.
20:31You talk to my mom already?
20:32Yeah, that's it, yeah.
20:33Yeah.
20:34Mami, she speaks Spanish.
20:36She speaks Spanish?
20:37Yeah?
20:37Yeah, it's not perfect, but I can speak a little bit, yeah.
20:40Okay.
20:40Hello.
20:41I'm Sophie.
20:42I'm going to go to the family club.
20:44We're talking, but it's nothing like, you know?
20:47We're friends.
20:48Yeah?
20:49Friends, right?
20:49Friends.
20:50Okay, friends.
20:51No pressure.
20:53No pressure.
20:54No pressure?
20:57I could see Sophie, and then...
21:24She said the eggs.
21:25She said the eggs.
21:29It's so quick.
21:29It's so quick.
21:30Oh, the egg.
21:31It's so plain.
21:32It's so plain.
21:32It's so plain.
21:34I can't wait.
21:35Come on.
21:36Plata-no.
21:38What the hell?
21:39That's weird.
21:40What was she saying?
21:42What was she saying?
21:44I heard banana, and I heard eggs.
21:48She said we don't have anything intimate yet, you know what I mean?
21:52Okay. Okay.
21:52And then she said, it's stupid.
21:54No, say, finish. I won.
21:56Maybe, you know, you know that I'm interested,
21:58but you don't have a taste in me yet.
22:02That's embarrassing, bro. We're in front of everybody.
22:05She said, oh, my God.
22:06The reason why Sophie is not commenting to you
22:09because, you know, Gabby give you some platinum.
22:14Jesus Christ.
22:16You know, it's just awkward.
22:18Why are you not my son? I'm like, what?
22:20Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
22:21That's what she was saying. That's what she said.
22:24Mom, you don't do those things.
22:26Nobody's mom can do those things.
22:28Can I just chill with you for one second?
22:30Yes.
22:30And then I'll go back.
22:32Yeah, yeah.
22:32And I need one drink, and I'm done.
22:34Okay.
22:34I just, like, seriously, my nerves, I'm, like, I'm just, like,
22:38it was super a lot, you know?
22:41Pedro's mom is, yeah, she's crazy.
22:43Like, I don't even need to talk to her much longer to realize that.
22:47If this family just keeps on disrespecting me the whole night,
22:52there's only so much I can take before I'm going to lose my cool.
22:56I just, I have, like, anxiety sometimes,
22:58so it's just acting up a little bit, but I'm okay.
23:00I'm not going to tell you about yourself, okay? Never.
23:02Remember that.
23:03Okay.
23:06I made some bad decisions, you know?
23:09And there's so many times we went on the phone,
23:11and I wanted to say something, but I just couldn't say it.
23:14Mm-hmm.
23:14And I feel like all I've done is lie.
23:17Holding the information from me, I wish you wouldn't have done it.
23:21Please don't hate me.
23:33I wanted to see you face-to-face before I tell you.
23:37I feel like a heart attack.
23:56I have another daughter.
24:02That I put up for adoption.
24:04You do.
24:06Mm.
24:07It's your sister.
24:09Mm.
24:11Please don't hate me.
24:13Please, this is so hard, and I don't think anybody can understand.
24:21I wanted to talk to you face-to-face,
24:22and there's so many times we went on the phone,
24:24and I wanted to say something.
24:26But I couldn't say it.
24:27I just couldn't say it.
24:29Mm-hmm.
24:29And I feel like all I've done is lie, you know?
24:39What was the situation at the time?
24:42Your birthday and I were back together, and things were fine,
24:46and then I got pregnant.
24:49And then, um, same thing.
24:52I had her by myself.
24:54I had her in a different hospital by myself.
24:57He didn't give me one, one iota of,
24:59I love you, though, let's try.
25:01Not one.
25:03Yeah, yeah.
25:03I did everything.
25:05Everything's been by myself, you know?
25:11Calm down.
25:13Just talk to him.
25:15Yeah.
25:16I'm not gonna hate you.
25:17I'm not gonna hate you.
25:18I'm not gonna hate you.
25:18You're not a bad person.
25:21It's all right.
25:22It's all right.
25:22It's all right.
25:23It's all right.
25:24It's all right.
25:25Aw, see?
25:26Aw.
25:27It's all right.
25:28Bean Bean, go give her a hug.
25:29Don't give me a hug, okay?
25:31I just made some...
25:32You know, I was not the smartest back then.
25:35I made some bad decisions, you know?
25:42And Bean tell you it's gonna be all right.
25:44It's gonna be all right.
25:45It's all right.
25:47I love you, too.
25:50I don't know where she's at.
25:51Okay.
25:52I don't know.
25:52I know she was born a year after you.
25:55Oh, she's after me.
25:56Yeah.
25:57It's just crazy.
25:59I have a sister.
26:01It's a lot.
26:03Just knowing, like, now I have two biological siblings,
26:07and I'm the oldest of both of them.
26:10Just don't hate me.
26:11Please don't.
26:11I don't know what to say.
26:13I'm, like, ashamed that I didn't tell you.
26:15Holding the information from me, I mean, it's shocking.
26:18Don't get me wrong.
26:19I wish you wouldn't have done it, but, I mean,
26:21how mad could I be that she's my birth mother,
26:24and she gave me a life, gave me an opportunity
26:26to have a beautiful wife, two beautiful kids, you know?
26:30And I will never take that for granted.
26:34When it comes to, like, the telling part of it, yeah,
26:37you could handle some stuff better.
26:39I'm sorry.
26:39I'm so sorry.
26:40And I'm so sorry to him, too, you know?
26:42It's really, like, this has messed our relationship up so bad.
26:46Because this has been eating me up because I knew this secret,
26:50and I was just like, I don't want to start this relationship with you.
26:53And then this day happens.
26:55Yeah.
26:55Like, why don't you tell me?
26:57We've been talking all the time.
26:58Mm-hmm.
26:59Because I'm so glad you all found us.
27:01And, like, I have this family.
27:02I'm going to be honest.
27:03I don't know where we go from here.
27:04But, like, I just want my family.
27:06You know what I mean?
27:07As the one you're, you know, you're coming to telling,
27:11you don't have to beat yourself up about it.
27:14Every day.
27:15Don't.
27:16Stop.
27:16Well, it's out now.
27:17It's out.
27:18We just move on.
27:19We go from here.
27:19You know what I'm saying?
27:22I need a hug.
27:23Brittany, come here and give me a hug.
27:24Because you, Brittany always gives me a hug.
27:27I know.
27:27I get the best hugs.
27:29You too.
27:30I got a kid.
27:35I'm sorry I didn't tell you very much.
27:37It's OK.
27:40I had closed that part of my life, you know?
27:42I had closed my heart to that.
27:45Because when I put Larry up for adoption,
27:48it was so painful that you have to.
27:52You have to, like, lock it.
27:53You have to treat it kind of like a death in a way.
27:55Come here, Larry.
27:56I'm sorry.
27:58No.
27:58I'm sorry.
27:58I'm sorry.
27:59I'm sorry.
28:00I'm sorry.
28:01I'm sorry.
28:01It's going to be all right.
28:02You're going to be right from here, OK?
28:04But once I told him, it was like all the maternal feelings
28:08came back.
28:10You did good.
28:11You did good.
28:12You did good.
28:13I didn't realize, like, how much I really loved him until that moment.
28:18Until this one moment.
28:21I know I'll never be his mom, because he has a mom that raised him.
28:25But I can be something in his life.
28:27And that just means everything to me.
28:39I'm really proud of my mom.
28:41I wanted to see her tell him.
28:43And she did.
28:44And they took it well.
28:47Keep feeling like I want to cry when I think about it.
28:50It's just, like, everything I wanted, you know?
28:54Oh, great.
28:59Let me get everybody in here.
29:01Oh.
29:02Bean, look at the camera.
29:02Hey, home.
29:03Good morning.
29:03Say cheese.
29:04Oh, there we go.
29:06Cute.
29:07I love you, too.
29:09Aw.
29:10You know, I've been holding these secrets for 34 years.
29:14And it just feels like I'm finally free.
29:18One, two, three.
29:20Ew.
29:21Ew.
29:22I'm finally free.
29:24Woo.
29:26Go, BK.
29:27Go, BK.
29:27Go.
29:28Now the only thing left to do is find my daughter.
29:31I don't know who she is.
29:34I don't know where she is.
29:36But you better believe I'm going to try.
29:38I owe it to her.
29:39And I owe it to myself.
29:41And I owe it to Larry and Jamal.
29:46Cheers.
29:48My Uncle Marco is one of the most important people in my life.
29:51Getting his blessing is very important to me.
29:54He's a good kid.
29:55Yeah.
29:55I mean, he's got a lot of heart.
29:57Yeah.
29:57Look at what he's been through.
29:59How well did you know Jasmine?
30:01Do you think that Gino's still in love with her?
30:08Sure.
30:09Sure.
30:15So, isn't it nice to be in the city and see the whole city?
30:18It is a really nice city.
30:20This is...
30:21Oh.
30:22A great stickies, but you need stickies on your hat.
30:38Hey!
30:39Hey!
30:41That's my uncle here.
30:43Uncle Marco!
30:44Who's this beautiful lady?
30:46Aw, thank you.
30:47This is Natalie.
30:48My pleasure.
30:49Nice to meet you.
30:50That's the way we do it.
30:53My uncle Marco is one of the most important people in my life,
30:56especially now that my dad has passed.
30:59He's like my father figure now.
31:01And I value his judgment more than anyone when it comes to my relationships.
31:06You guys ready to order it?
31:07Yeah, let me have two Conies.
31:09I think I'm just gonna get two Coney Island hot dogs.
31:12Actually, make it three.
31:13Okay.
31:14I'm gonna go by your recommendation because I've never been here.
31:16Couple chili dogs.
31:17Looks like all chili dogs.
31:18Thanks.
31:19Well, Natalie, where are you from?
31:22I'm from Las Vegas.
31:23Really?
31:24But I live in D.C. right now.
31:26So, do you have children?
31:29Yeah, I have two.
31:29No kidding.
31:31I have a daughter.
31:32She's 23.
31:33And a son.
31:33He's 21.
31:34What?
31:35You look like you're 21 yourself.
31:39Holy smokes.
31:41You guys enjoy?
31:43You're welcome.
31:43Maybe we can have a Coney Cheers.
31:45Okay, let's do it.
31:47Okay.
31:47Coney Cheers.
31:48Cheers.
31:49Coney Cheers.
31:51Cheers.
31:58I like the onion.
31:59Is it the best one you've ever eaten?
32:01Or no?
32:02Because the only one I've ever eaten.
32:03The only one.
32:06So, yeah, it's the best one.
32:10She's too funny.
32:11We vibe good together.
32:14We have a good connection.
32:15We have that.
32:15Yeah.
32:16You know, on his own accord, he came to me and said that he didn't want to talk to anybody
32:22else and he wanted to focus on us.
32:25Let's celebrate.
32:26Let's celebrate.
32:28Let's celebrate.
32:29Cheers.
32:29Hey.
32:30Cheers to that.
32:31Cheers.
32:32I like this girl.
32:34I think she's intelligent, smart, and I think the best sign I've seen out of the two
32:40of them tonight is when he talks, she smiles, and when she talks, he smiles.
32:46I didn't see that with you-know-who.
32:50Do you want to have a baby with her?
32:54Well, I mean, like, I always wanted to have a child of my own.
33:00Yeah.
33:00Right?
33:01And I guess the question is, would you be open to it, you think?
33:08I mean, honestly, that's an insane thing to even think about because we just established
33:14today that you're not talking to other women.
33:16Right.
33:16And now we're talking about babies.
33:18We've got to progress a little bit more.
33:20Okay, I'm going to get the room.
33:22I'm going to get the room.
33:25Uncle Marco is very interesting.
33:28I don't think he realizes how old I am.
33:30I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
33:34I don't know about completely sailed because there's always options.
33:38I'm going to have to excuse myself.
33:40I have to hit the bathroom real quick.
33:42All right.
33:42All right.
33:44I bet you we'd have really cute babies.
33:46Well, I know we'd have cute babies.
33:48The first thing I'm going to do, I'm going to snap a hat on his head.
33:51Oh, my God.
33:52And it's going to be a fedora, tiny little baby hat.
33:55Okay, Gino, I guess.
34:01You know, I'm hoping to mind if I ask you a couple questions.
34:03No, I don't mind at all.
34:04You know, just to know.
34:06Um, you know, I just want to make sure that, um, is he capable of not talking to other women?
34:13If he finds the right lady, I believe that man will be faithful.
34:18Right.
34:19To the end.
34:21Okay.
34:21Well, that's good to know.
34:23You know, Gino can be a little quirky.
34:26I like that about him.
34:28I find that endearing.
34:30Really?
34:30We all have little quirks.
34:31Yeah.
34:32He's a good kid.
34:33He's one of the best.
34:34I got 30 nieces and nephews.
34:37Aw.
34:37And he's one of the best.
34:38Here.
34:39He is.
34:40Here you go.
34:41I don't need it.
34:43He is.
34:43He's a good kid.
34:44Yeah.
34:46He is.
34:47I mean, he's got a lot of heart.
34:49Yeah.
34:49Look at what he's been through.
34:56How well did you know Jasmine?
34:58Do you think that Gino's still in love with her?
35:00No.
35:01Not at all.
35:02Okay.
35:03Not at all.
35:07Hearing from Uncle Marco that Gino has no feelings for Jasmine, and that he wants to be in a committed
35:12relationship, gives me a lot of hope because he's seen the drama between him and Jasmine, has seen his first
35:19marriage, has seen everything.
35:21So it makes me feel like, yeah, the tides have turned.
35:25Gino's changed.
35:26But I'm still very cautious.
35:29You don't want to lose this one, buddy.
35:32Lock it up.
35:36Get that divorce and lock it up.
35:43I'm just here.
35:45I'm asking you about it.
35:46Okay, you can be concerned.
35:47But don't call out your house.
35:48No, no, you can't talk to me like that.
35:50No, no, you can't talk to me like that.
35:50I don't know you.
35:50I don't know you.
35:51I don't know you.
35:52Not to everything Pedro's been through, you would think his family want him to be happy and find someone.
35:57But it feels like they're just trying to sabotage any chance he has.
36:00I've been so nice to you and your mom and you guys.
36:03I'm the mother mother.
36:05You want to go, my mother.
36:06You're the mother mother.
36:10You're the mother mother.
36:15I have anxiety sometimes, so it's just acting up a little bit.
36:18But I'm okay.
36:19I'm not going to tell you about yourself.
36:20Gay never.
36:21Remember that.
36:29Okay.
36:31Sophie.
36:48I've only been at Pedro's sister's birthday party for literally an hour.
36:53And already this is just the weirdest party I've ever been to in my life.
36:57First, as soon as I walk in, Pedro's sister's making me uncomfortable.
37:01And then I have his mom just saying I should have sex with Pedro.
37:05Like, what's the goal here?
37:08I don't understand what's going on.
37:11It's just so uncomfortable.
37:13You like the country?
37:15It's very beautiful.
37:16It's my first time here.
37:18Well, I hope you can continue to come here.
37:21I want to know Pedro more.
37:24That's a beginning, right?
37:28Pedro is a very good man.
37:32He knows how to treat a woman.
37:34I'm like, well, she goes in his life, but it's also, I don't want to...
37:39I don't want to have a relationship with Pedro, but I don't want to be healed as my ex.
37:44I'm married?
37:45Divorciada?
37:46How is it?
37:49I'm in a divorce process.
37:52But you're married legally?
37:54Legal, at this time, yes.
38:11Pedro's mom is just way too much and I'm trying so hard to be respectful like I'm not gonna start
38:18an argument with Pedro's mother like I'm just not but I don't understand why she's like talking to
38:23me this way it's crazy hello hello mommy I can talk to Sophie are you okay she just asked me
38:37about
38:37like my eggs but now I feel awkward because I feel like she's judging me I was trying to be
38:41real with
38:42her sorry now so everything Pedro's been through and his failed marriage and everything you would
38:51think his family want him to be happy and find someone but it feels like they're just trying
38:56to sabotage any chance he has
39:21where's the girl come on go with me
39:42oh
39:46oh
39:48oh
39:49oh
39:49oh
39:49oh
39:49oh
39:49oh
39:49oh
39:50thank you
39:53oh
39:53oh
39:54oh
39:54oh
39:54oh
39:54oh
39:54oh
39:54oh
40:00oh
40:01oh
40:02oh
40:02oh
40:02oh
40:02the out of me i'm trying to play cool to pedro but i've never been girl like this in my
40:06life
40:06it's very full on she's like so why are you choosing my son how did you find my son it
40:11feels
40:11like she doesn't want him to be happy with anyone this is any girl right they're very a lot
40:20hello hey how did you enjoy here i'm gonna leave you we're good did you eat yeah the cake is
40:28so
40:28good ah thank you so much ah sophie excuse me i just want to talk to you um i promise
40:38him no
40:39interfere in his life but i know pedro is totally enough with you he's not in love with me he
40:47likes
40:47me no yeah but i can see on him in his eye the spark on anything i know my brother
40:55enough like i can tell
40:57pedro's like ready to like have a family get married again all that stuff you know and i haven't even
41:03like fully divorced yet which he knows that is something that i feel really concern about about
41:08something but they told me like a day you are cold a day you are hot
41:17a woman when is really interested in a man she's trying to be around here trying to approach him
41:25not keep he away why do you need to be so involved like that's his relationship like it doesn't really
41:31have anything respectfully doesn't have anything to do with you i don't want to see he's suffering his
41:39sister and his mom shouldn't have anything to do with his relationship it is kind of weird like
41:44i'm close to my mom look i get it she wouldn't scare away a guy like you guys are gonna
41:48scare me away
41:49when that's the least thing person wants i just need to know what is happening here because he's
41:57calling me and telling me everything you are doing because he's not okay but why are you trying to go
42:03with your brother's love wife what does that have anything to do with you respectfully what does
42:08have anything to do with you i am just here i've been so nice to you and his mom and
42:25you guys i've
42:26another month okay my mom doesn't love me my mom doesn't love me my mom doesn't love me
42:39my mom doesn't love me you wanna go there you guys have a paid relationship okay bye you and your
42:45family are weird weirdos weirdos what kind of relationship is that weird
42:56Next time on The Single Life.
42:58When I'm at the rock bottom of my life, there's only one person I can call.
43:03There you go.
43:04My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada to save the day.
43:09You and Courtney need to figure this all out.
43:12You can't just keep doing it.
43:13Courtney's not going to take me back, dude.
43:16I think I can talk to Courtney, woman to woman, and convince her to try it again.
43:22Cole wants to apologize.
43:24He knows he made a big-ass mistake.
43:27I'm like, what the f***?
43:30Now that it's all out, I'm ready to find her.
43:34And I want you guys on this journey with me, but there is the possibility she might not want to
43:39see me.
43:41If something traumatic has happened to my daughter, or she needed me for something, I won't be able to live
43:46with myself.
43:49Is there a tension for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
43:53Or is it something just full of fun?
43:56I know that Sanela wants to grill Tony, but I'm worried that maybe Sanela has gone a little too far.
44:03She just, like, full-out assaulted me out there.
44:08I said, you called my f***ing mom.
44:10That's what you said.
44:10What did I call it?
44:11I called your mom?
44:12Yeah, you said your f***ing mom.
44:14You say that.
44:16Pedro's mom and sister are just absolutely insane.
44:20And Pedro is not even, like, standing up for me.
44:23It's kind of a turn-off.
44:25Trust me, I was very respectful to your mom.
44:27Okay, whatever.
44:28We'll see you tomorrow.
44:30And this is why he will be single forever.
44:34F***.
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