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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 32
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00:00:00It's with great sadness and heavy heart that today the Maffs family lost a colleague and a dear friend, Mel
00:00:09Schilling.
00:00:10She was someone that could light up a room.
00:00:13She was full of joy, had a huge smile.
00:00:16And whenever she was on set, everyone lifted.
00:00:21She bought fun and joy, humour.
00:00:24But she also bought an authenticity, which we all loved to be around.
00:00:32It was such a delight to watch her shine.
00:00:37She was a fighter.
00:00:38She was a leader.
00:00:40She was an inspiration.
00:00:42Never complained, just rolled her sleeves up and got on with things.
00:00:47Someone that has meant so much to all of us, and it's not fair.
00:00:53Married at first sight won't be the same without her.
00:00:58I would like to send all thoughts and prayers to Gareth, her husband and Maddie, her wonderful daughter.
00:01:07And also, take a moment now and remember, Mel, we love you.
00:01:46I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:01:49I've got my reassurances.
00:01:50We are coming out stronger.
00:01:53Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:01:57What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:02:03After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:02:09I can't see this working.
00:02:11It's all good.
00:02:11It is what it is.
00:02:13It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:02:15I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:02:18You want to have a family.
00:02:20You don't want to keep putting it off.
00:02:23Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:02:27Just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here and what I could potentially be walking away from.
00:02:33Leaving David disheartened.
00:02:35The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:02:40Tonight.
00:02:40Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:02:43But when you're dealing with the mum, the family, friends, they all said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:02:49And she still sees negatives.
00:02:51There's nothing else I can do.
00:02:53Has David reached his limit?
00:02:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:02:58You never say space.
00:03:01It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:03:05I can see we can do life together.
00:03:07But I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:03:11Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:03:15Who would have thought?
00:03:16Who would have thought?
00:03:18The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:03:22But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:03:25Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:03:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey.
00:03:32But I've never been aggressive to you.
00:03:35And then...
00:03:36I think, like, for me, as a man, I feel like...
00:03:40Oh, God.
00:03:41Oh, my God.
00:03:43What are you on about?
00:03:45It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:03:49That was not what I was getting at.
00:03:51Are we serious for this?
00:04:07Our couples have returned from their homestay
00:04:10and our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness
00:04:14after stepping into the life that could be waiting for them
00:04:19outside the experiment.
00:04:20Hi.
00:04:22Hey.
00:04:22Bonjour.
00:04:23Bonjour.
00:04:24Recharged and hopeful,
00:04:26the couples now turn their attention
00:04:28to the second last dinner party of the experiment,
00:04:32eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:04:35Are you excited?
00:04:36I am excited because it's been a very long time
00:04:40since we caught up with everyone.
00:04:43We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:04:46It's going to be exciting.
00:04:47A lot of gossip come up.
00:04:49I'll be straight up with you.
00:04:50This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:04:54Yeah.
00:04:55Really?
00:04:55How come?
00:04:55We went through...
00:04:57The ups and downs.
00:04:58We went through the ups and downs.
00:04:59The trenches.
00:05:00But coming out at the end of it, good.
00:05:02Yeah.
00:05:02Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:05:05For Rachel and Stephen,
00:05:08Homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage,
00:05:11unlocking a new confidence in their relationship.
00:05:14Hello, hello.
00:05:15Hello, sexy.
00:05:17Looking good.
00:05:17I appreciate that.
00:05:18I like the red.
00:05:19Right now, we've just come off the back of Homestays
00:05:21and it was amazing.
00:05:23Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:05:25It was that this could work.
00:05:28I think that's really what it is.
00:05:30I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again
00:05:32and get straight back up to the Central Coast
00:05:34and just, you know, start hanging out.
00:05:37And, yeah, so it was really good.
00:05:40We had such a great homestay
00:05:42and I'm actually just really excited
00:05:44to share that with everyone.
00:05:46And that's it.
00:05:47And I'm glad you had a good time
00:05:48and you could see, you know,
00:05:49a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:05:54After Homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:05:55I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:05:59Like I said to Rachel,
00:06:00can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:06:03Yes, I can.
00:06:04And I mean that.
00:06:06And Homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:06:09I think we're really lucky.
00:06:12You know, other couples may not have had a good Homestay,
00:06:14so we're really lucky to have had
00:06:16the good experience that we did.
00:06:19While Homestays brought some closer...
00:06:23..for Scott, welcoming Gia into his home
00:06:26presented new challenges.
00:06:28What's that?
00:06:29It's a neck brace.
00:06:31Why is it pink?
00:06:32Why is it pink? Why not?
00:06:34You're trying to find a problem.
00:06:36Is it your exes or something?
00:06:37Do you trust me?
00:06:38Like, do you trust my words?
00:06:40Do you trust me as a person?
00:06:41Yeah, I trust you.
00:06:43Yeah, why?
00:06:45I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells
00:06:47because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
00:06:49I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:06:52I know I trust you,
00:06:53but can I commit to moving and everything
00:06:55if you never feel like, you know, that you love me?
00:06:59But back at the apartments,
00:07:01eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset
00:07:04and look on the bright side.
00:07:06I feel great.
00:07:08I just feel good walking into this dinner party,
00:07:10being able to share, like, good moments that we've had.
00:07:13I feel like it'll be good.
00:07:14Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night
00:07:17to share what we've done for Homestays.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:21At the end of Homestays, we had a bit of a discussion,
00:07:24but we hashed it out.
00:07:27Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude.
00:07:30We're great. We're in a really good place.
00:07:31I want to keep it like that.
00:07:34Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:07:38Coming to the end now.
00:07:39This is the last or second last one.
00:07:41Mm.
00:07:42So, yeah.
00:07:44Do you think it would cause problems
00:07:46if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:07:51Oh...
00:07:54Pretty much.
00:07:55Let's just do it. Get it done.
00:07:58I'm excited.
00:07:59You look good, we feel good,
00:08:00and I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:08:04Yep, me too.
00:08:07For Bec and Danny,
00:08:09what began as a promising homestay
00:08:11took a dramatic turn.
00:08:14If my family felt the need
00:08:15to have hard conversations with you,
00:08:19they would.
00:08:20I think, obviously,
00:08:21because Danielle fancied me,
00:08:22she didn't want to, like...
00:08:27I'm joking.
00:08:28I'm joking.
00:08:29It's like a serious moment.
00:08:33These moments make me feel like shit.
00:08:36It's serious for me.
00:08:37You should be able to say something nice
00:08:39and be genuine about it
00:08:40and then not say,
00:08:41oh, your cousin wants to me.
00:08:43Like...
00:08:44I never said that.
00:08:45Yeah, I'm done.
00:08:46F***ing morning.
00:08:48F***ing me.
00:08:50F***ing...
00:08:52And now back at the apartment,
00:08:54an even bigger shock awaits.
00:09:00So, since we got back to Sydney
00:09:03from homestays,
00:09:04things look great.
00:09:05Like...
00:09:06Cheers, baby.
00:09:07Cheers, girl.
00:09:08The last night, like...
00:09:09Since we've been back,
00:09:11like, there's not really any need
00:09:12to talk about it.
00:09:12Like, he made a joke.
00:09:14It frustrated me.
00:09:16He got frustrated with me.
00:09:18And then we wake up the next morning,
00:09:19we give each other a cuddle,
00:09:21we have a shag,
00:09:22and we move on.
00:09:23Cheers.
00:09:24It's all blown over.
00:09:26Like...
00:09:27Shocking.
00:09:28Oh, stop it!
00:09:29Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:09:31For most couples,
00:09:33homestays brought them together.
00:09:35But for one couple,
00:09:36it marked the end of the road.
00:09:39Going to the dinner party tonight,
00:09:41yeah, I'm going alone.
00:09:43And obviously,
00:09:43Chris and I left each other
00:09:44at homestays.
00:09:46I wrote some questions down,
00:09:48and maybe we could just be, like,
00:09:50really raw and honest with each other
00:09:52about all the answers.
00:09:55First question is...
00:09:57Do you accept full responsibility
00:09:58for your defensiveness
00:09:59and the aggression I felt
00:10:00from you last week?
00:10:04Yeah.
00:10:06You don't have to agree.
00:10:07Yeah, no, I agree.
00:10:08Yeah.
00:10:08I just feel like we've...
00:10:09I've already suffered enough from this.
00:10:12I honestly felt like I was, um,
00:10:1415, getting in trouble
00:10:15by a teacher or something.
00:10:16Do you have feelings for me?
00:10:20Um...
00:10:21Okay, okay.
00:10:22Um...
00:10:24In the beginning,
00:10:25uh, yes.
00:10:26But I just think, um,
00:10:29yeah, we also have some, um,
00:10:31differences as well.
00:10:32And I just wanted to put my dad hat on
00:10:35and, like, live my best life.
00:10:38Homestays was my last plea
00:10:41to see if he was going to fight for me at all.
00:10:43But Chris just kind of gave up.
00:10:47So, I did break up with Chris on the farm.
00:10:50But I'm going to the dinner party
00:10:52because I want that last chance
00:10:54to sort of just, like,
00:10:56find out why Chris
00:10:57actually didn't want this relationship.
00:11:01I just want clarity
00:11:02on what the hell happened.
00:11:04But Sam isn't the only one
00:11:06struggling with the fallout
00:11:08of their homestay.
00:11:10During their trip to Adelaide,
00:11:12Alyssa received a wake-up call.
00:11:14Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide,
00:11:16but what are your thoughts
00:11:19about me moving to Sydney
00:11:20just for a couple of years?
00:11:22I would hate that.
00:11:26Um, you know,
00:11:27you want to have a family
00:11:28and you don't want to
00:11:31keep putting it off.
00:11:33People sometimes take 10 years
00:11:35to fall pregnant.
00:11:36That's the truth.
00:11:37Yeah, I know, but, well,
00:11:38I don't know that yet.
00:11:38I've never tried.
00:11:39That's right.
00:11:40But you don't know that.
00:11:42A couple of years?
00:11:44A couple of years.
00:11:45I don't think you've got
00:11:45a couple of years to wait.
00:11:49It's really stressful now.
00:11:51I'm feeling a lot online.
00:11:52And after a confronting
00:11:54conversation with her mum,
00:11:56Alyssa unraveled
00:11:57and David was left
00:11:58wondering where he fits.
00:12:00I will be honest with you.
00:12:04I started to spiral.
00:12:06Like, I want to have a family
00:12:07in the next few years.
00:12:10Don't want to miss out
00:12:11on being a mum.
00:12:11And if we're going to
00:12:13make this thing work,
00:12:14David might have to
00:12:15move to Adelaide.
00:12:16Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe.
00:12:18I have to ask this to you.
00:12:20You've sat here
00:12:20and you've talked a lot
00:12:21about what your wants
00:12:22and needs are.
00:12:24Mm.
00:12:27What about...
00:12:27Yeah, David.
00:12:30Now back at the apartments,
00:12:32David has had a wake-up call
00:12:34of his own.
00:12:38Oh, man, I'm feeling
00:12:40at my limit
00:12:41post-homestays.
00:12:46Can I see myself
00:12:48living in Adelaide?
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:50But, you know,
00:12:51after having, you know,
00:12:52come back to Sydney
00:12:53and having time to just
00:12:55come down
00:12:56from the high of homestays,
00:12:57I am feeling a bit low.
00:12:59And that is because
00:13:00there were a couple things
00:13:01that have still, like,
00:13:04trinkled in the back
00:13:05of my mind.
00:13:06Could you see yourself
00:13:07living here?
00:13:10To be honest, yeah.
00:13:13I know that you're willing
00:13:14to move here,
00:13:16which is great,
00:13:17but I don't know,
00:13:18I feel like I'm getting
00:13:19overwhelmed with it
00:13:20because you're, like,
00:13:21literally on the high
00:13:22spiral.
00:13:23I am, I am, I am,
00:13:24because it's, like,
00:13:25a lot.
00:13:27David actually is
00:13:28everything that you've
00:13:29asked for.
00:13:30I know.
00:13:30Right now,
00:13:31this is too good
00:13:31to be true.
00:13:32Like, and that is
00:13:33also another reason
00:13:34why I'm scared, too.
00:13:36Throughout this
00:13:37experiment,
00:13:38I have been patient
00:13:39because I know
00:13:40there is something
00:13:41in this relationship
00:13:42to fight for,
00:13:43but when you get
00:13:44to that point
00:13:46where, like,
00:13:46you're dealing with,
00:13:47like, the mum,
00:13:48the family,
00:13:49friends,
00:13:49they all said
00:13:50that I'm a great
00:13:51guy for her
00:13:52and she still
00:13:53sees negatives,
00:13:54there's nothing
00:13:55else I can do.
00:13:57I've hit my limit
00:13:58and I'm not going
00:13:59to push any further.
00:14:01It's getting very
00:14:02real that I could
00:14:03potentially be
00:14:05putting everything
00:14:06on the line
00:14:06for someone
00:14:07who doesn't want
00:14:08to meet me
00:14:09halfway.
00:14:10So, today I know
00:14:11I need to be honest.
00:14:13For me,
00:14:13I think it's important
00:14:14to just express
00:14:15how I feel.
00:14:17Looking handsome.
00:14:18Thanks, babe.
00:14:19You're looking gorgeous.
00:14:20I love the dress.
00:14:21Well, we're kind of
00:14:22almost matching.
00:14:25How are you feeling
00:14:26going to the dinner
00:14:27party after homestays?
00:14:31Homestays was a massive,
00:14:32massive week.
00:14:35So, I'm at the point
00:14:36where, like I said,
00:14:38you know,
00:14:38I'm happy to give
00:14:39all the space you need.
00:14:42I'll take the space
00:14:43I need
00:14:43because I definitely
00:14:44need space.
00:14:45Yeah, like I feel like
00:14:46I've just gone
00:14:47and put it all
00:14:47on the line
00:14:50and, you know,
00:14:50at the end
00:14:51I'm not going
00:14:51to force anything.
00:14:55That's the first time
00:14:56I've ever heard you
00:14:57say that you need space.
00:14:59I know, but I do.
00:15:00You never say space.
00:15:01You're always like,
00:15:02you're more like,
00:15:03let's, like,
00:15:03whatever.
00:15:04This is the first time
00:15:05you've ever said space.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:08That kind of, like,
00:15:10rattled me a little bit.
00:15:11Normally I'm the one
00:15:12that needs space.
00:15:13So, you know what,
00:15:14if he needs space,
00:15:15gladly,
00:15:16because I need space
00:15:17right now
00:15:18just from my head
00:15:19and I don't need
00:15:19any of this pressure
00:15:20right now.
00:15:21I feel like I'm
00:15:22at my tether.
00:15:23I feel like he's
00:15:24at his tether.
00:15:24We're both tired
00:15:26and he's been snoring
00:15:27louder than usual
00:15:28like it's just been
00:15:29a bit of an emotional
00:15:31rollercoaster.
00:15:32The reason I need space
00:15:33because, yeah,
00:15:34I am a calm person
00:15:35but I'd get into my limit
00:15:37where I just need
00:15:38to take some space
00:15:39for my own brain
00:15:40because I feel like
00:15:41I put my cards
00:15:42on the table
00:15:44but it almost felt
00:15:45like you were just
00:15:45looking for the negatives
00:15:46and when someone's
00:15:48looking for the negatives
00:15:48too much
00:15:49of why things can't work,
00:15:50like, I'm not gonna
00:15:51force that.
00:15:52I'm not gonna force
00:15:52a connection
00:15:53if it's just me
00:15:54looking for the positives
00:15:55and someone else
00:15:56is looking for anything
00:15:57to be like,
00:15:58why this can't work.
00:16:01I would be
00:16:03lying to you
00:16:04if I said I wasn't
00:16:05questioning things
00:16:06right now
00:16:06and questioning
00:16:07our relationship.
00:16:08I am in that headspace.
00:16:11So I'm not
00:16:12going into the dinner
00:16:13party with Alyssa
00:16:14feeling my best self.
00:16:16I'm sure you're
00:16:17in a similar boat.
00:16:18Babe, I'm just
00:16:19as tired as you.
00:16:20Yeah, exactly.
00:16:21I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:22Exactly, yeah.
00:16:23I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:26I get it.
00:16:35It'll be the honour
00:16:36of getting up.
00:16:37Let's get out of here.
00:16:37Yep.
00:16:38Let's go.
00:16:42Up to you.
00:16:43After me, thanks.
00:16:45Off to the gallows we go.
00:16:50I don't want to do this.
00:16:53I don't want to do this.
00:17:05Well, dinner party number seven,
00:17:07the second last one
00:17:09before we wind this all up.
00:17:12And it is a very important one
00:17:13because they've come back
00:17:15from the homestays
00:17:17as they start to get a glimpse
00:17:19of what their life
00:17:20will be like
00:17:20with this person
00:17:21in the real world.
00:17:24This is a really crucial part
00:17:25of the experiment for them
00:17:27because some of them
00:17:27will bond closer together
00:17:30through the homestays.
00:17:31I think it's going to be really good.
00:17:33What about you?
00:17:34Are you excited?
00:17:35I'm excited.
00:17:36Whereas others will start
00:17:37to really fall apart
00:17:38and question their overall compatibility
00:17:40with their matches.
00:17:45It's noisy.
00:17:47They'll hear that
00:17:48in the mics.
00:17:48They'll hear that.
00:17:49And you do that all the time.
00:17:50You don't even realise.
00:17:56Well, the homestays throws up
00:17:58the ultimate question.
00:17:59Could this relationship last
00:18:01in the outside world?
00:18:03We're going to see you tonight.
00:18:09Aw, first in.
00:18:11First one's in.
00:18:15Rachel and Steve-o.
00:18:16No one to talk to you
00:18:17but ourselves.
00:18:19Are you sick of talking to me yet?
00:18:22Straight to the bar.
00:18:23Straight to the bar, babes.
00:18:24I don't think I've seen Stephen
00:18:26look so relaxed
00:18:27and so really walking in
00:18:29with Rachel as we are today.
00:18:32Very unified.
00:18:33Tell me when.
00:18:35That's good.
00:18:36Oh, my gosh.
00:18:37Thank you so much.
00:18:39Got to look after you.
00:18:40Aw, I appreciate it.
00:18:43Me and Rachel, we're good.
00:18:44We've walked into the cocktail party.
00:18:46We're first in there.
00:18:46We're pouring drinks.
00:18:47We're cracking jokes.
00:18:48I'll just take this with me.
00:18:49Oh, you're going to take that?
00:18:50Okay.
00:18:52It's probably the most relaxed
00:18:53I've ever been in a cocktail party.
00:18:54We're in a good place.
00:18:56Mm.
00:18:57Do you want me to...
00:19:00Do you want me to open it?
00:19:01Is there a real opener?
00:19:01No, definitely.
00:19:04Got it?
00:19:05There you go.
00:19:05We're both so keen to get out of this experiment.
00:19:09See where life takes us.
00:19:11Especially after the homestays.
00:19:13All righty.
00:19:14Oh, my gosh, babes.
00:19:15Here we are.
00:19:16Cheers.
00:19:18Hopefully, you know, it's just us.
00:19:20We can have all the food and the drink.
00:19:22I mean, I wouldn't be mad about it, babes.
00:19:26I mean, I'm just...
00:19:28I think I'm just really, really excited
00:19:29to share how much fun we had
00:19:31and, like, and how good it was.
00:19:35Isn't that nice that a couple
00:19:37is sitting here talking about themselves,
00:19:39not everybody else?
00:19:40Yes.
00:19:41This is great.
00:19:42Check it out, babe.
00:19:44You're going to make me blush.
00:19:46And the enthusiasm...
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:48..in Rachel's voice and face
00:19:50as she is just excited to tell people the good news
00:19:52they had a good week.
00:20:04Stop rubbing your knee.
00:20:05Oh, me.
00:20:09I'm trying to understand you
00:20:10because I don't understand you.
00:20:11You're confusing the out me.
00:20:13Well...
00:20:28This whole, I'm at my limit.
00:20:30I need space.
00:20:33It sounds really bad.
00:20:35Does it?
00:20:36Yes.
00:20:38So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:20:40It's not taking space from each other.
00:20:43It's just taking space to process everything.
00:21:00It's just taking space to process everything.
00:21:04It's not taking space,
00:21:11it's just taking space to process everything.
00:21:15OK.
00:21:18Oh, look who it is!
00:21:19Oh, my God!
00:21:21Oh, my God!
00:21:22Oh, my God!
00:21:23Oh, my God!
00:21:24Oh, my God!
00:21:24Oh, Alyssa and David.
00:21:25Party football!
00:21:27Oh, my God!
00:21:30Dude, that's all I can do.
00:21:32Handshake.
00:21:33Oh, you're fine.
00:21:33Good to see you, bro.
00:21:34Likewise, man.
00:21:34Looking good.
00:21:36That's some energy there, isn't it?
00:21:38Oh, at first!
00:21:39Yeah, at first.
00:21:40You guys are first.
00:21:41We've got so much done.
00:21:42Oh, yeah, we've got a lot to evaluate.
00:21:44Let's just get some...
00:21:46Wait!
00:21:46Evaluate?
00:21:47OK, OK.
00:21:55So, are you prepared for everyone to find out
00:21:57that I'm a better fisherman than you, or...?
00:21:59Oh, hang on.
00:22:00Whoa!
00:22:05Walking into the cocktail party tonight, you know, I was...
00:22:09Obviously, I've been on a load post the homestays.
00:22:13I've sort of just been feeling deflated.
00:22:16Ooh.
00:22:17Crying in my face.
00:22:18And I did make it known to Alyssa that, you know,
00:22:21I am sort of one in my own space, you know, in my head,
00:22:24just to sort of figure things out.
00:22:26So, I did walk in on a load.
00:22:32Oh!
00:22:34Here we go!
00:22:34Hello there!
00:22:35What's up?
00:22:36Scott and G up.
00:22:38Do I spin?
00:22:38A little...
00:22:39I'm not going to spin in.
00:22:41How pretty are you both?
00:22:43Hi!
00:22:44Hi!
00:22:44I'm going to give you some love.
00:22:45Gorgeous!
00:22:46Hi!
00:22:49Walking into the cocktail party tonight with GR,
00:22:51like, you know, we're not perfect.
00:22:53We still have a couple of things to work on.
00:22:55Get a drink and get in here, brother.
00:22:56I always look at the bright side.
00:22:58If there's something that's really bad,
00:22:59I just see the more good in someone.
00:23:01Can we carry that?
00:23:02Thanks.
00:23:03Yeah.
00:23:06All right, Chris, why don't you tell me
00:23:07what's running through your head and going into this?
00:23:10One saving grace for me is that last time I was in this car
00:23:13with Sam, it was just so yucky and awkward.
00:23:16So, I'm grateful not to have that, you know, at the moment.
00:23:21Well, it was so awkward you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:23:24And I could not wait to get out of the car.
00:23:27I just hope this, you know, situation with Sam and I
00:23:31can get squashed pretty quickly
00:23:33so I can have a couple of shams and try and enjoy my night.
00:23:38Yeah, no, this is definitely not how I expected
00:23:40to be going to a dinner party in the experiment.
00:23:42I think Chris and I started off really strong
00:23:44and everything was going good,
00:23:45and then at some point he just flipped
00:23:46and it all just sort of fell apart
00:23:48and I didn't really know what that flip was into him.
00:23:54Do you know if Sam's coming tonight?
00:23:56Oh, I definitely know he'll be going.
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:58He wants to go to get the whole group's opinion
00:24:01and two cents on our dirty laundry.
00:24:06But you know what?
00:24:07There's two sides to this story
00:24:08and coming to the dinner party to back myself
00:24:11and say my side of the story.
00:24:19Yeah, that's what we're going to do.
00:24:20Oh!
00:24:21Oh!
00:24:24Oh!
00:24:25Oh!
00:24:26Oh!
00:24:26Oh!
00:24:26Chris is alone.
00:24:27Ew, how you going?
00:24:28Oh!
00:24:29Okay, that's a surprise.
00:24:30Hi.
00:24:31Hey, Barton.
00:24:32So Chris walks in solo.
00:24:35Well, shit.
00:24:37That's not my prediction.
00:24:39Drink, drink, drink, drink, drink, drink.
00:24:41I mean, they were very bad at the commitment ceremony.
00:24:44Chris had written leave.
00:24:45Sam was absolutely in tears about it all.
00:24:48There was a hope at the homestay, they might be able to turn it around.
00:24:51But this looks like it's actually not been salvaged.
00:24:56Yeah, I'm all right.
00:24:57You look very tanned.
00:24:58Thanks, babe.
00:24:59The fit's good.
00:25:00The fit's good.
00:25:01If my life's not, I would love one, babe.
00:25:02Your life is okay.
00:25:04Yeah, thanks, babe.
00:25:04You've got this shit, babe.
00:25:05You've got this shit.
00:25:06Yeah, thank you.
00:25:07Yeah, thank you.
00:25:07Yes, obviously it didn't work out.
00:25:08Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:25:11I feel like maybe Sam and I can unpack it together.
00:25:13Okay, alright.
00:25:14You don't want to talk about that?
00:25:15No, I'll give you a little rundown.
00:25:18It's really hard seeing them not walking together because I genuinely had hope that they would
00:25:23get past this.
00:25:25Seeing Chris walking in by himself, like, it was genuinely, like, pretty heartbreaks.
00:25:32Basically, yeah, Sam ended it with me two days into homestays.
00:25:36He ended it with you?
00:25:37The second day.
00:25:38He ended it?
00:25:39Yeah.
00:25:40He ended it with you?
00:25:41Yeah.
00:25:42Oh, Sam ended it.
00:25:44I wonder why.
00:25:45Yes.
00:25:45I wonder why.
00:25:47Obviously, we had, like, a, you know, pretty bad couch session.
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51I took accountability.
00:25:52I decided that I wanted to learn and grow from the feedback that I got.
00:25:56Yeah, you said that.
00:25:56So I went into homestays, trying to turn it around.
00:25:59Gia knows.
00:25:59I spoke with you about it.
00:26:01Boarding flowers, meeting dinner.
00:26:02I tried everything that I could to turn it around, but unfortunately, yeah, it didn't
00:26:06work for us.
00:26:07And it was really, it was a real shock because I thought we were actually doing quite well.
00:26:10Like, you know, I started to get those feelings back for him again, so.
00:26:14Oh, okay.
00:26:14So Chris was saying he started getting feelings for Sam again.
00:26:17Okay.
00:26:18So he was shocked by it.
00:26:20Wow.
00:26:20Blindsided.
00:26:22So it's pretty, it's pretty sad, but I respect Sam's decision to exit.
00:26:27Um, and we actually weren't even going to come tonight.
00:26:29Like, they, we, he left the farm, we were just going to leave it at that because we unpacked
00:26:33a lot of it.
00:26:34Um, but I've decided to give Sam the respect of coming tonight so we can both.
00:26:37Amazing.
00:26:38Talk to you guys about it and, um, let you know what's happened and then sit in front
00:26:42of the experts and get their advice.
00:26:44But like, no ill feelings towards Sam.
00:26:46I respect his decision.
00:26:47But yeah.
00:26:48She's single again.
00:26:50Oh, yeah.
00:26:52I love you.
00:26:53Yeah.
00:26:55Alyssa.
00:26:56How was yours?
00:26:57Uh.
00:27:01I feel like I'm still processing everything.
00:27:03Yup.
00:27:04It's crunch time, right?
00:27:05It's crunch time.
00:27:05For you guys.
00:27:06Yeah.
00:27:09Um, but we'll talk about it later at the dinner party.
00:27:13Okay.
00:27:18Hey!
00:27:20Hey!
00:27:21Hey!
00:27:23Hey!
00:27:23Hey!
00:27:27Hey!
00:27:28Hey!
00:27:30For the best part, we had a really good homestay.
00:27:34You know?
00:27:34I've got clarity.
00:27:35So.
00:27:36It's been decided.
00:27:37Uh, I will be making that move happen sooner rather than later.
00:27:40He looks tanned.
00:27:41Do you get a spray tan?
00:27:43Huh?
00:27:43Do you get a spray tan?
00:27:44No, no, we went to the beach.
00:27:45What the hell?
00:27:46And I just thought, you know what, like, it's time to go for an adventure.
00:27:52Hey!
00:27:53Hey!
00:27:54How the strizier is going to win marathon?
00:27:57Ah, he's Beck and Danny.
00:27:59Beck and Danny.
00:28:01Hello.
00:28:03I'm feeling phenomenal walking into this cocktail party tonight.
00:28:06Danny and I are in a great spot.
00:28:09We are planning our future together.
00:28:13We had great homestays and I've got no beef with anyone.
00:28:16Oh my God, pigs fly.
00:28:17What the hell?
00:28:18I'm not arguing with anyone.
00:28:21Hello, how was homestays?
00:28:23Cheers.
00:28:24How'd you go?
00:28:25How was it, Alan?
00:28:27Oh, good, yeah.
00:28:28We had a break, aren't we?
00:28:30He's going to move.
00:28:32Like, I got back and I was a bit drained, to tell you the truth.
00:28:35It was, it's a lot.
00:28:37Like, I felt a bit uncomfortable in our house and I felt a bit out of place.
00:28:40And it made me think about, like, the logistics of the move more.
00:28:44Like, how it's going to work.
00:28:46Because I'm not just going to move in with her and live, like,
00:28:50put my feet up, this is rent-free.
00:28:52That doesn't sit well with me.
00:28:53So, it just solidified there's more things we need to talk about.
00:28:57Of course.
00:29:01So, we're going to do it, I think.
00:29:03Yeah, awesome.
00:29:04Crazy.
00:29:05How about?
00:29:06I think Danny and I are probably the strongest in the experiment, if I'm honest with you.
00:29:11And, like, it feels like it can only go up from here.
00:29:18Coming up...
00:29:19I would never just move in.
00:29:22Danny's jaw-dropping confession...
00:29:24From my point of view, anyway, I suppose everyone looks at it different, but it makes you feel like a
00:29:28f***er.
00:29:28Has the whole table talking.
00:29:30What are you on about?
00:29:32Let me be honest.
00:29:34Oh, my God.
00:29:36Oh, my God.
00:29:37Oh, my God.
00:29:48Here we go.
00:29:54When did you talk to him last?
00:29:55Um, the last time he spoke to me was, um, the Friday after he left, and all he said was
00:30:02that he wanted to come to the dinner party at Sam Raimi.
00:30:06Yeah, I don't know what the energy is going to be like with Sam.
00:30:08I hope he comes in, like, nice.
00:30:12I just, yeah, I just can't deal with any more, you know?
00:30:14I don't know what the energy is going to be like with Sam Raimi.
00:30:22Hello, everyone.
00:30:26Oh, here's Sam.
00:30:27Oh, here he is.
00:30:28How are you going?
00:30:29Good, how are you?
00:30:30You look nice.
00:30:31Yeah, how are you?
00:30:32Not too bad.
00:30:33Hello.
00:30:36Sam.
00:30:37How are you, Matt?
00:30:38I'm hugging, like, chest height, but I've got a vertical problem.
00:30:43Hey, look at Schmeck, brother.
00:30:45Thanks, thanks, thanks.
00:30:45You want to get a drink?
00:30:46Come on, let's get your drink.
00:30:46Let's get a drink.
00:30:48I hope he doesn't come at me, like.
00:30:50Why are you worried?
00:30:50Oh, I just, just...
00:30:51Don't worry.
00:30:52No, I just can't deal with it, like.
00:30:55Alright.
00:30:57No, you're okay.
00:30:59How are you?
00:31:00Are you okay?
00:31:02Uh...
00:31:02I just feel a bit like there was no real effort while we were away.
00:31:06But we'll get into it at the table, yeah.
00:31:08No, no, he's given us a bit of a brief.
00:31:12What was he says?
00:31:14Just...
00:31:14Um...
00:31:14You guys, you know, went to homestays.
00:31:16Like, he cooked dinner one night, or you guys have dinner together one night.
00:31:19And he thought the first night was going okay.
00:31:22Um...
00:31:22And then, obviously, you guys both had a chat and decided that it wasn't right.
00:31:26Yeah.
00:31:28Dude, he didn't drive.
00:31:31You're eating up his bullshit.
00:31:34Don't eat up his bullshit.
00:31:39Dinner is served.
00:31:41Okay.
00:31:42Let's go eat.
00:31:42Let's go, babes.
00:31:43You got it.
00:31:44Let's go, mate.
00:31:47Alrighty.
00:31:49Well, let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin, we will get to the bottom of what actually happened
00:31:54at the homestay between Sam and Chris.
00:31:56Yes.
00:31:57We need to understand what actually went on there.
00:32:00Cheers, guys.
00:32:01Cheers.
00:32:09You got the, um, you got the tits out again?
00:32:12Oh, yeah.
00:32:14Tits out for the boys.
00:32:15I love you.
00:32:16I love this for you.
00:32:18Dough.
00:32:19Yes.
00:32:19Yeah.
00:32:21Bust it, man.
00:32:22Yeah.
00:32:31Wow.
00:32:32It's very tints, isn't it?
00:32:34Chris, Sam.
00:32:44I really want to talk about, from our perspective, what led me to the decision to end things.
00:32:49Yeah.
00:32:49And how I felt the whole homestay, so.
00:32:52Yeah.
00:32:55Tonight is going to be shit.
00:33:00I...
00:33:01Sam and I have already hashed this out at the farm.
00:33:04Um, we're revisiting it in front of the group.
00:33:06So, for me, this is not comfortable.
00:33:09Um, I'm hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly.
00:33:11And I just want to get this over and done with.
00:33:13I hope Sam gets the closure that he needs and we can, um, yeah, move on.
00:33:21I feel like we both just need to say everything that got us to this point.
00:33:25Um, especially with meeting the experts tomorrow, I want to get as much as I can out of this experience.
00:33:31Um, yeah, we've mentioned it at the cocktail party that we, you know, well, you decided to, um, end it.
00:33:38So, um, yeah, like, I didn't...
00:33:40You didn't really fight that at all.
00:33:42You were like, also just like, okay.
00:33:44Because I...I hadn't given so much to try and make it work.
00:33:48I don't want to come...
00:33:52Oh, my God.
00:33:53Here we go again.
00:33:57If Chris thinks that's loads of effort, I feel sorry for anybody he ends up with in the future.
00:34:04Like...
00:34:04Yeah.
00:34:08Can I ask a question?
00:34:11How did Sam end the relationship and where and how did it happen?
00:34:14Could I tell the whole story?
00:34:15I want you guys both to say it.
00:34:19Yeah, so, homestays, obviously, you all saw the last commitment ceremony.
00:34:23Um, I wrote, stay and Christopher leave.
00:34:25And that was really hard for me to battle with personally because I did have feelings for Chris.
00:34:30So, like, obviously now I'm very nervous going into homestays.
00:34:34And we get to the car to drive down and I'm, like, just sitting in the car and it's so
00:34:39uncomfortable.
00:34:40And I'm, I, like, literally just, like, shut my eyes and kind of pretend that I'm sleeping.
00:34:44And then I get to the farm and then I do try to have fun and have a good time.
00:34:49I wake up the next morning and Chris is nowhere to be seen.
00:34:55No message, no note.
00:34:58I'm just there sitting for an hour in his house at his place with no car, just by myself.
00:35:04And then he rocks up.
00:35:05He's, oh, I just went to the gym this morning.
00:35:06It was really windy last night.
00:35:07And I'm, like, okay, cool.
00:35:09And, like, this is when I'm starting to feel, like, are you, do you really want me here?
00:35:12Do you, like, really want to show me how much you want this relationship to work?
00:35:20Look, for me, it was letting him sleep a little bit longer.
00:35:22Yes.
00:35:23Yes.
00:35:25We're not interrupting each other tonight, right?
00:35:29Oh, God.
00:35:30Okay.
00:35:31Can I keep going with my story then?
00:35:34Yeah.
00:35:35So then, um, we come to the fire the next night and this is when I'm, like, this is my
00:35:40last plea here.
00:35:41Like, I'm gonna try and see if he really wants to fight for this, if he really wants this relationship
00:35:46to work.
00:35:46And I had written down questions that were all just about what the experts said.
00:35:52Going through all these questions and then he starts to get a bit shorter with him because he's sick of
00:35:55talking about it.
00:35:56And then I'm, like, Chris, do you even have feelings for me?
00:36:00And he goes, oh, you know, with what's happened over the last couple of weeks, I feel like my feelings
00:36:04are pretty damaged and, like, I don't really know if I do anymore.
00:36:12And I'm, like, well, then what am I doing here?
00:36:17Then I was just, like, well, then do we just end it here?
00:36:19And you were just, like, yeah, I think that's probably, like, right to do.
00:36:23And what I don't understand is where I hurt your feelings and where you lost your feelings for me.
00:36:33What I honestly feel like happened is that you just, like, did the bare minimum.
00:36:38Got me flowers so that you could come here tonight and say, I did this for Sam, I tried.
00:36:43But, like, I know that you were checked out of this relationship already.
00:36:46I know you didn't want to give it a go.
00:36:53If I'm honest, and I have to be honest, it seems like you're putting a lot on Chris.
00:37:00Yep.
00:37:01And just because we have expectations to fill our cup fully doesn't mean this other person is not trying.
00:37:07Hold on, hold on, hold on a second.
00:37:10Let's not forget that, like, the week before, Sam was in a world of pain, alone, being correct.
00:37:19Yep, of course.
00:37:20But hang on a second, hang on a minute, hang on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold
00:37:22on, hold on.
00:37:23We can't be clinging on.
00:37:23Sorry, I've got to say something here.
00:37:26Bec needs to mind her business.
00:37:28I don't know how her homestays went, but that should be her focus.
00:37:31We're a couple of weeks out of final bowels.
00:37:33Don't worry about your man, doll.
00:37:36I'm not going to let anyone sit here and say, your expectations are too high, when Sam sat there in
00:37:42tears, by himself, not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a whole week, because the
00:37:48person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:37:51Like, let's all just take a step back.
00:37:53But, babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:37:58You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey, so just pipe it down a little
00:38:03bit.
00:38:04Don't worry.
00:38:11Sam sat there in tears, by himself, not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a
00:38:17whole week, because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:38:23Like, let's all just take a step back.
00:38:24But, babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties?
00:38:27is you're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior honey so just pipe
00:38:33it down a little bit and i've never been aggressive to you can i speak now first of all
00:38:42like hand on heart i tried my hardest to turn it around i got the feedback from the experts i
00:38:49took
00:38:49it on board i took accountability i realized that i wanted to grow and learn as a person
00:38:54and i wanted to come out the other end and i'm sorry but i was doing that and i thought
00:38:58we had a
00:38:59good day and like you pulled the notepad out and then asked me the questions and i just for me
00:39:04i felt like you know like can we just live in the moment can we just have a bit of
00:39:08fun and
00:39:09but do you understand with the questions they're things that were burning inside
00:39:12of course yeah yeah of course yeah cool i'll keep talking babes
00:39:18so i i i felt uncomfortable but i stayed calm and i answered the question i answered the questions
00:39:23as best as i could but you ended it with me you said like yeah no yeah can i just
00:39:29say something
00:39:29the reason i ended it is because i asked chris do you still have feelings for me if if you
00:39:37were
00:39:37trying so hard and you thought that everything was what you're saying then at that point you should
00:39:42have said sam yes i had feelings for you
00:39:48can i ask a question do you feel like when chris said leave the other week at the last commitment
00:39:55so i know it really hurt you like you were really upset we could see that do you think that
00:39:59that
00:40:00really hurt you to a point where had you already made up your mind i hadn't made my mind that
00:40:05just
00:40:05hurt me to the point where this is why i think i needed so much from chris because i was
00:40:10really hurt
00:40:10that he said he wanted to leave that he had already given up so i'm like i need to see
00:40:13from
00:40:14you that you haven't given up completely and i get maybe for you what you did was enough but for
00:40:18me
00:40:19it wasn't and then i decided that based on the fact that what you did wasn't enough my expectations to
00:40:23call it happened i i ended things because i wasn't getting what i wanted from chris and if that's not
00:40:28what he can give because he's got kids and he's got fun he's got everything else then you're not
00:40:31ultimately a good match
00:40:39it's really upsetting that it hasn't worked out between sam and chris because i care for both
00:40:45boys but listening to both sides of the story i'm like they're not speaking the same language and
00:40:52they're seeing different things and i don't think they're gonna align tonight just unfortunately
00:41:00it hasn't worked i don't want this to be yucky i just want to be amicable i don't want it
00:41:04to be
00:41:04yucky either it's not yucky though is it it's not yucky don't mistake passion for anger i think you're
00:41:09both passionate it's not yucky in my opinion you're both just ironing it out we do love you both
00:41:15we love you a lot yeah 100 kings i think it's really sad what's happened with sam and chris i
00:41:23love
00:41:23them as people and i love them together and i'm getting this feeling of like chris did try
00:41:29the way he knew how and it wasn't enough for sam it's it's it's a hard one
00:41:44so beck and danny how about you guys you're next how was your homestays we had such a good
00:41:52homestays didn't we if my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you they would i
00:42:01think obviously because danielle fancied me i'm joking you should be able to say something nice
00:42:09and be genuine about it and then not say oh your cousin wants to me i never said that there's
00:42:13a
00:42:14camera in my face and you're abusing me over a joke dude there's a camera in my face and you're
00:42:18making a joke of what i'm saying yeah i'm done me well we have like a like two perfect things
00:42:28and
00:42:28then like the top we had a little argument at the end we had a tiny little ding dong at
00:42:35the end
00:42:37it lasted about 15 minutes i think like for me i don't know for anyone else who experienced like
00:42:44going into your partner's home in that moment i felt like a bit out of place in the house like
00:42:50up
00:42:51until that point i felt so comfortable like so welcome not that i was ever like unwelcome but
00:42:58in that moment arguing like hardly an argument a ding dong but yeah or whatever you want to call it
00:43:06whilst danny did call it an argument beck called it a ding dong so she's wanting to really contain
00:43:11it yes when we had the disagreement at the house i felt really uncomfortable because it's not my space
00:43:16it's your space yeah do you know i don't know if anyone else can like yeah so that was sort
00:43:22of
00:43:22something that stuck with me in in the sense of like moving forward it made me look at it things
00:43:28in a different way in the sense that i'd probably want to i don't know how i'd want to navigate
00:43:36if i was to move to adelaide how the logistics of it would look as a man
00:43:47i feel like like do you know what you mean like it's more beck's house than it is moving into
00:43:51her
00:43:52house yeah correct like like i'd want to sit down and speak to beck on a deeper level about that
00:43:59because like i feel like if you move in with a woman and like i would never just move in
00:44:07like we'd have to talk about that on a deeper level in the sense that like i'm not moving out
00:44:13of
00:44:13my house no i'm not asking you to but what i'm saying is like it's how he fits into it
00:44:21like yeah
00:44:22how i fit into it that's that's more and to you right now you're probably like that that like that's
00:44:28easy i know like it's just but like i get from danny's perspective he's like yeah i move in so
00:44:33like
00:44:33he's got to get his stuff out where does he put his stuff and like and we would make space
00:44:37100
00:44:37for that from my point of view anyway i suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes you
00:44:43feel like a bit of a moving in with a woman what are you on about
00:45:01from my point of view anyway i suppose everyone looks at it different but
00:45:04it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman
00:45:11what are you on about oh no that's not what i was getting at oh god oh my god he's
00:45:19talking about
00:45:19feeling emasculated if she was the one who owned the house and let's not use the term
00:45:25bitch in that way either daddy not cool we're on 800 square meters five minutes from the city
00:45:32with a 97 000 mortgage and a three million dollar house hey
00:45:40whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa like firstly you've never said that to me women have worked really really hard
00:45:49to make sure that we've got this multi-million dollar home in the most affluent suburb of south
00:45:55australia so yeah you're not going to be a moving into my house that was not what i was getting
00:46:01at
00:46:02are we serious for this we're in the 2020s emasculated by moving into a home with your woman
00:46:10um just grow up you like to be a provider correct correct yeah i'll be honest i couldn't go to
00:46:19hers
00:46:20i want to i'm going to buy the house i'm going to pay for everything like that's just a manly
00:46:23thing
00:46:25dan's a bit like me he likes to feel like the man the boss the alpha male so i understand
00:46:31where
00:46:31danny's coming from he just wants to feel more vasculated in the relationship we're more traditional
00:46:36in that way too no but like i get it like i have it my house is bigger than yours
00:46:40but it's like
00:46:41yeah like different vibe i do agree with danny i think for a man to feel masculine and his masculine
00:46:49energy they want to have the house and the woman move into it i know that's not like the norm
00:46:53these
00:46:54days but like i like that and that's what me and scott are doing so i do agree with danny
00:46:59on that i think
00:47:00he wants to feel like the man and he has every right to feel like that i feel like it's
00:47:04emasculating
00:47:05like i get what you're saying like yeah yeah you want your place to be like here babe like come
00:47:09to
00:47:09me like i'm i'm the man like i think that's like where you're coming from yeah that's what i'm saying
00:47:16i felt uncomfortable when we argued and it sort of it made me feel demasculated to like be in her
00:47:21house yeah like a bit of a i've had that discussion with beck two or three times
00:47:26i'm not as hit hit 1990s song on r&b radio what keeps repeating itself jenny me i didn't feel
00:47:33uneasy
00:47:33until we had the disagreement i was just like no i don't know what you mean danny i do wonder
00:47:40if
00:47:40danny's showing a little insecurity there you know i think some men would not see a barrier to moving
00:47:47into a house owned by the woman it wouldn't feel emasculating he's really dropped the ball here
00:47:54and i'm old school too i'm exactly the same i can proudly say it as well that
00:47:57if me and rachel do something i would feel i would feel more comfortable if rachel moved into
00:48:02my place feel like a provider well i don't think that's very fair because at the end of the day
00:48:08it's the difference is is that i've got a massive house with a lot of space five minutes out of
00:48:13the
00:48:13city with a mortgage of 97 grand i feel like you're a team i feel like you're a team 100
00:48:18100 i was brought up on those values that's just the way i think if i moved badly i'd be
00:48:22getting
00:48:22money yeah but i think that's how somebody like i guess really i wouldn't like you get to work
00:48:31together yeah i know we work together but as a man it's just something i do as a man maybe
00:48:38i'm old
00:48:38school like that but i believe like the man should be the man of the house and take care of
00:48:42the big
00:48:43bills it's nice to have your own thing but ultimately you work together right exactly yeah
00:48:48ultimately it's about how can we work together how can we make this work what are your needs you
00:48:53know vice versa it doesn't have to be a demasculating thing it just has to be teamwork like you're a
00:49:00team
00:49:00no you're a team for some reason it's just a mental thing uh it's just it just works like that
00:49:07uh females feel more secure when that it is like that it's just how is unfortunately it's a double
00:49:13set it's just how it is guys don't have that problem yeah i understand where danny's coming
00:49:20from don't agree with it but i understand where um danny's coming from beck and danny's homestay i
00:49:26don't think was as great as they made it out to be there's something there's something not right
00:49:32there this is a serious conversation you guys need to know uh yeah i know for a dinner party
00:49:39don't like shut up great excellent so glad we're talking about it with everyone
00:49:46oh goodness no i said it to you already that not to that level babes i have a hundred percent
00:49:52no still to come i did spiral a little bit dave what's going through your head bro david finally
00:50:09finds his voice i've hit my wall i've been calm throughout this whole thing but i'm at my limit
00:50:16i think this is really a relationship in peril yeah before beck confronts danny i would have
00:50:24appreciated it having been that open it's a lot of relations it's just a whole table of people
00:50:30experiment now before hindsight how about you alissa how was yours um
00:50:47do you know what alissa and david really have not spoken about themselves at all no
00:50:53usual for them david looks quite uncomfortable actually yeah
00:51:01i feel like we had highs and lows i did spiral a little bit like i did get in my
00:51:07head
00:51:08because you know as soon as we touched down in adelaide i felt like this weight
00:51:16i felt like oh my goodness i you know i said i was going to move to sydney and like
00:51:21we're going to make
00:51:21this thing work in sydney and we'll meet halfway but i have a lot of responsibilities in adelaide
00:51:27i have contracts in place i have my business i have a house i have a cat but i'm almost
00:51:3234 and
00:51:33in the next few years i want to start a family so i kind of put pressure on myself and
00:51:38that's
00:51:38where i started to spiral on homestays because i was like this is not going to work
00:51:44like i don't think i'm going to be able to stretch myself out of adelaide um like in the next
00:51:48three
00:51:49months it might look like six to 12 months if we're going to make this work in the real world
00:51:58beforehand you were saying potentially you'd give it three months to move to sydney
00:52:02is it the move to adelaide now well that's what it would probably be
00:52:09it would be adelaide yeah oh we haven't heard that from her before a lot came out of homestays
00:52:16but it's just like how do we move like forward but i feel like the way that we process things
00:52:22are
00:52:22very different and i'm wondering why am i spiraling you know we're all under pressure but some people
00:52:27also deal with pressure differently when i need to just process my mind's going bing bing bing bing
00:52:33i retract things have kind of turned on its head a little bit elissa's now saying i can't move david's
00:52:41going like i'm willing to sacrifice everything and move down to adelaide to give this relationship the
00:52:46best chance but her retracting and pulling away from dave freaking dave out you know i sort of felt
00:52:52for dave a little bit if anything all the risk is on david and there was one other thing i
00:53:00know that
00:53:00i can be a bit full-on and like he does ground me but maybe i'm finding a little bit
00:53:07sometimes too much
00:53:08where i feel like i'm not myself like it's really shifting my my energy and that's not something i'm
00:53:15used to my husband also snores so i've had like lack of sleep the last three months like it's just
00:53:21it's
00:53:21a compiling thing i feel like right now elissa is trying to look for any little thing she can pull
00:53:31from the sky to question things in the relationship and that is pushing me away she says she doesn't
00:53:38want to push me away but her throwing all these doubts there's only so much i can take before i
00:53:44start
00:53:44feeling like an idiot you know i think i was fine with just continuing to be that emotional
00:53:53shoulder to lean on until home stays we've been on this experiment for two months
00:53:58and it's been long enough for her to like be a bit more certain you know if this ultimately isn't
00:54:05going to work i'm not going to force anything like it's up to her to come from her head into
00:54:09her heart
00:54:11for this to work long term dave what's going through your head bro
00:54:22i've hit my wall i've been calm throughout this whole thing but i'm at my limit
00:54:28you know and i sort of need that mental space as well just as much as she probably needs it
00:54:32from
00:54:33coming back from home stage and it's something we both need but it's at the point emotionally i don't
00:54:38have much to give i'm invested in this relationship i am prepared to move for this relationship but for
00:54:44me i bonded with her mom and her two best friends and i've got her mom saying this is all
00:54:50good for
00:54:50you her friend saying this is good for you they really love david a lot so i'm just like what
00:54:57other
00:54:57green checks do you need ticked off like you know well this is david being really raw isn't it i
00:55:07mean
00:55:07he's saying that he's exhausted and also he's hit his limit and i know that they talk about it in
00:55:15relation to the experiment but actually you know the experiment for some people it brings them closer
00:55:21right now and i i get some real worries that he's started to step back we got cracks man we've
00:55:28got
00:55:29cracks like everyone but that's something that you know we will talk to the experts about we actually
00:55:36haven't seen them in this state before have we no i'd say absolutely more questions than answers we
00:55:42got tonight so that's where we got to go tomorrow night we are going to need to ask about the
00:55:49homestays
00:55:50and particularly where they see themselves in the future this is really a relationship in peril yeah
00:56:02it sounds like you've been approached by some producers to do another show is that right other
00:56:06producers from aussie shore um reach out and see would i do the season three with them gotcha all right
00:56:13i had one of the female cast members slide into my dms like four or five days ago and i
00:56:18think it's
00:56:18coming from there yeah is that something you want me to go and do or my job is not to
00:56:23advise you on
00:56:24what to do or what not to do but documenting your life on flex if this is where your life
00:56:29goes you
00:56:29know it's entirely up to you if you decide that you want to pursue it further i can talk to
00:56:34them and
00:56:35see whether we can capture some of the journey
00:56:37oh gosh mate i've already so i also have blocked my parents in now on social media so they didn't
00:56:45see my escorting videos and then it took two days and they've seen them because a friend had gone
00:56:52and seen them and been like you see what marcus is doing in australia now they obviously had no idea
00:56:55so i'm just dealing with that at the moment and i think to drop the the bombshell that yes i'm
00:56:59an
00:56:59escort and i'm also going to go on ozzy show all right you're on flex you're an escort and then
00:57:06you're going to go on ozzy show it's a big wait marcus i've had a busy three days this week
00:57:10mate yeah
00:57:11it's it's uh i don't know if it's going downhill or uphill i can't quite decide
00:57:30how are your homestays guys i went out on his harley like i grew up there so i'm i'm like
00:57:36i went to
00:57:36school there i had my first kiss there i did this there and it's like it's not like a foreign
00:57:40place
00:57:40for me yeah it's just easy the fact that she's lived there before so it's pretty big for us that's
00:57:45amazing yeah it's really good the taste of the outside world you know what i mean like we know yeah
00:57:50so what's your plan i'll reflect guys after the experiment i do like crinola yeah yeah i could see
00:57:58myself there that was very important that's that's the whole point of the home visit it's like can i
00:58:03see myself there yes i can let's just do it just give it a go like and um that was
00:58:09a realization i
00:58:10had and you have a plan moving forward and like you guys are great yeah rachel and steven homestays
00:58:18hey guys who's talking who's talking you can talk captain steve-o i reckon rachel go first and i'll
00:58:25i reckon steve-o go first please i agree i think steve-o can go first thank you i always
00:58:29talk yeah
00:58:31can you hear me down there yeah yeah boy loud and clear all right so look i'm happy to say
00:58:37that
00:58:38rachel and my family did get along everyone loves each other a lot the drinks were flowing everything was
00:58:43fantastic and yeah we had a really good time and took rachel out on the uh the boat and she
00:58:49got to
00:58:50experience a little you know a little snapshot of what my life is um about and what i'm passionate
00:58:56about so i took her out fishing and you're definitely so very impressive impressed with
00:59:00rachel she full-on full-on leaned in she's a catch i am the cat she's a guy that's right
00:59:08the catch of the
00:59:08day right yeah and um and look i was very impressed with the fishing skills she kissed a couple fish
00:59:16but i'm looking at this woman going look it's not just that she's leaning into fishing
00:59:20it's more the fact that i'm seeing a woman there that is having a crack and i can see that
00:59:27outside fishing rachel will have my back in things
00:59:35i can see we can do life together but i feel a lot more confident now that the foundation has
00:59:40been laid on my side anyway with rachel that we can take this out onto the um outside
00:59:48and have somewhere to start because it's been been done and dusted i'm still going to meet her side
00:59:53but i feel more confident on my side that rachel and my family and my lifestyle will match now so
00:59:58we had a good time who would have thought he would have thought hearing stephen talk about our
01:00:12homestay and like the beautiful things he was saying yeah you sound emotional i am emotional i'm so
01:00:20emotional about it because i've got this guy that i truly truly care about
01:00:27and i'm developing such strong feelings for and every time he talks about us with the group and
01:00:34everything it's beautiful it's just so nice and what what an amazing journey and opportunity we've had
01:00:44and the fact that we get to be with each other is just even better
01:00:50some guys are gonna buy girls flowers my guy bought me a fishing rod
01:00:54i know i'm just saying i was happy your girl's got her first fishing rod
01:01:01oh rachel looks so happy look at steven's smile we've never seen him smile like this we've never
01:01:09seen him as relaxed and as confident as he has been tonight that was a full-bodied smile he's really
01:01:16transformed but watching him now is just such a joy and he's so comfortable in her space
01:01:23look we went through hard times at the start of our relationship you all saw it and you know what
01:01:29we we've just saw it and you know we're now hitting weeks where it should test us and
01:01:35instead it's strengthening us and it's really nice i love it yay well done
01:01:55at the dinner table tonight danny we said that he
01:02:02would feel like a bitch moving into a girl's house i hadn't heard that yet
01:02:09and like i would hope that my husband knows that he can talk to me like we talk about everything
01:02:15so
01:02:17yeah
01:02:20i feel blindsided by him
01:02:25i feel completely utterly betrayed by my husband
01:02:32i feel like i'm so happy to be here
01:02:33they got dragged back into the drama and we've got them
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01:02:49after the dinner party tonight
01:02:57If I was to move to Adelaide, as a man, it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch
01:03:03moving
01:03:04them on the wall and here I am with a slow burn and like I said, we went through hard
01:03:21yards
01:03:22earlier and now we're so strong because of that and so yeah but not to that level I think I
01:03:29would have
01:03:30appreciated having been that open. Frankly Danny time and time again has not stepped up and made
01:03:43the commitment that she wants and craves. She's been transparent, he hasn't said that he loves her
01:03:49back, he's now saying I don't want to live in your house. So there's a number of things that are
01:03:54now
01:03:54adding up. Yeah. That Bec's starting to worry about when it comes to Danny's level of commitment. Yes.
01:04:00And rightly so. I mean the idea of like that it like that you like you basically just said
01:04:12if I was to move to Adelaide I don't know if I'd want to move into my house. I don't
01:04:18want to say I
01:04:20would have rather you said that to me before announcing it to a table of people. I didn't say
01:04:25that. I was saying we have to like I'd put money into a house and we'd renovate it or I'd
01:04:31pick up
01:04:31the mortgage because we're just moving and how it is would make me feel demasculating. Yeah.
01:04:35Well I'm excited because I was like you said just then I'm like but only 50% of us are
01:04:39not still good
01:04:40than me. I think Bec revealed how hard that conversation was for her you know when she
01:04:54said oh here we are having this conversation in front of everyone. She felt really uncomfortable
01:04:58and I think after the dinner tonight they'll be going home for quite a big conversation.
01:05:21Okay so the purpose of this conversation is to talk about what's been happening within
01:05:26the group of women. Hello ladies. Welcome to your hens night. Not to make comparisons between men and
01:05:35women and who does it better. Wow. I just hope that there's some insight here with with the ladies
01:05:40that yes in the future you are going to be in contact with other women who have strong personalities
01:05:46have strong judgments about you or opinions about you.
01:05:53But that doesn't mean that you have to play dirty. As a woman I think it's important that we support
01:05:59each
01:05:59other. Love that. That we empower each other. I'm so excited this is amazing.
01:06:12That we don't compete with each other.
01:06:17That we give other women an opportunity to shine. Jules, were you married?
01:06:28Yes. Just like we do. I'm falling in love with you. And that does not take away any of our
01:06:34power.
01:06:34That's the last dinner party.
01:06:36That's the last dinner party.
01:06:41Ha ha.
01:06:44You
01:06:46You
01:06:47You
01:06:48You
01:06:48You
01:06:48You
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