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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 30
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00:00:00With the experiment in its final stages...
00:00:03I really want to thank Mel for her advice.
00:00:05To focus on the emotional safety.
00:00:07That was just like a penny drop moment for me.
00:00:10Guidance from the experts helped Stella and Phillip
00:00:13get their relationship back on track.
00:00:15I wrote stare.
00:00:18And last night saw some continue to celebrate
00:00:21their love for one another.
00:00:23I feel really connected to Rachel, we're getting closer.
00:00:25I would like to leave.
00:00:29Chris blindsided Sam.
00:00:31Stay.
00:00:32In this experiment, one person says stay
00:00:34and the other person says leave.
00:00:36The couple stays.
00:00:37He asked me to be his girlfriend.
00:00:39What inspired you to ask Beck that question?
00:00:42And when it was time to open up and reveal his true feelings...
00:00:46It was important to Beck.
00:00:48Why was it important to you?
00:00:50Danny squirmed his way through an uncomfortable couch session.
00:00:54The question, what was it like?
00:00:55Could you see yourself falling in love with him?
00:00:58It's a pretty black and white question.
00:01:00I don't think you can promise that before you're in love with someone.
00:01:03Salesman answer.
00:01:07Tonight, the experiment goes across the country.
00:01:12Welcome home.
00:01:13Hello.
00:01:15Homestays week has arrived.
00:01:17Over two big nights, our couples get a glimpse of what married life will look like...
00:01:22Today.
00:01:23...beyond the experiment.
00:01:25Woo!
00:01:26Passenger princess!
00:01:28Steven sets sail on an exciting new future with Rachel.
00:01:32This is such a special place for him.
00:01:34How lucky am I for him to have welcomed me into this?
00:01:37I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed.
00:01:40Oh, hang on.
00:01:43My vibes on the wedding day weren't really positive.
00:01:46And I'm here to protect her.
00:01:48Stella's outspoken guests from her wedding day are back.
00:01:52So, like, I've...
00:01:53I'm getting...
00:01:54Sorry to interrupt you.
00:01:55I'm getting some not-so-confident vibes from over here.
00:01:59And then...
00:02:00Welcome.
00:02:01Scott shows off to Gia his waterside home.
00:02:05Oh, it's a bit messy.
00:02:06So random.
00:02:08Weird.
00:02:09This wouldn't be big enough.
00:02:10It'd be better if that wasn't there.
00:02:11Is Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen?
00:02:16Um, my house is way cleaner.
00:02:18Ugh.
00:02:19Yeah, I couldn't...I couldn't live here.
00:02:20If the roles were reversed and I was at Gia's house, I wouldn't say anything but nice things.
00:02:33It's the beginning of one of the most exciting phases of the experiment.
00:02:38Homestays.
00:02:39Can't believe I'm actually going to Adelaide.
00:02:41I know.
00:02:42I think you're gonna love it.
00:02:44And this year, each of our couples will be going to the destination where they plan to live beyond the
00:02:50experiment.
00:02:52Ready to go?
00:02:53What do you pack?
00:02:54Ready to go to Adelaide.
00:02:57Radelite.
00:02:58The homestays have always been an essential part of the Married at First Sight experiment,
00:03:03as it allows our participants valuable insight into their partner's world.
00:03:08They'll have to blindfold you on the way to the fishing spot.
00:03:11But once we get there, I can take the blindfold off and catch a few, uh, flatties.
00:03:17Yeah.
00:03:17And, oh, there might be a blindfold in the bedroom too.
00:03:20Oh, no, babes.
00:03:22Not at your parents' house.
00:03:23Sorry.
00:03:25This week is also the perfect opportunity for our couples to put into practice all that they've learned from the
00:03:31experiment so far,
00:03:33and apply it to the outside world.
00:03:35As most of our couples are packed and ready to embark on their individual journeys,
00:03:41Phillip is feeling the pressure as homestays could make or break his future with Stella.
00:03:48He is the one expected to make the move from Melbourne to Sydney.
00:03:52All you need to have is some board shorts.
00:03:55Some boardies, some shorts.
00:03:56That's it.
00:03:57Shorts.
00:03:58Anything else?
00:03:59Like toothbrush?
00:04:01We don't brush teeth out in Cronulla, do we?
00:04:03Yeah.
00:04:03I just want to see Stella kind of, you know, natural environment outside the experiment.
00:04:08I'm obviously from Melbourne.
00:04:09I love it there.
00:04:10The pressure's going to be on my decision to move to Sydney.
00:04:14Since we first got together, we're always talking about it and, you know, kind of spending some time out there.
00:04:20Particularly, um, even after the experiment.
00:04:22So it feels like it's come around in like two seconds.
00:04:24We obviously work in this experiment.
00:04:26And this is just the further validation that our relationship will work on the outside.
00:04:32If I can see myself there.
00:04:35Super keen to get out of this concrete jungle.
00:04:38Yeah, I know.
00:04:38And we're gonna switcheroo for some beach action.
00:04:42Yeah.
00:04:44Done.
00:04:46Across the hall, however, Gia and Scott are still recovering from last night's tense couch session.
00:04:57I don't like drama.
00:04:58I don't like any of that.
00:04:59I don't want it in my life.
00:05:00And I know Gia's been involved in some inside the experiment.
00:05:05And I have to know whether it's the pressure in here or whether this is outside as well.
00:05:10It's about how you carry yourself.
00:05:11It's common knowledge.
00:05:12I would never do that.
00:05:13That's what I'm saying.
00:05:14From the stuff that's in the experiment.
00:05:16I don't want to see that outside the experiment.
00:05:18That's all it is.
00:05:19I'm not saying anything bad.
00:05:19It's just what I've seen.
00:05:20Yeah, just, you don't know me well enough then.
00:05:23Babe, I'm only helping.
00:05:24It's just not who I am.
00:05:25I just do not do that in life.
00:05:27Okay.
00:05:28I do nursing.
00:05:29Like, I'm a kind person.
00:05:31I would never.
00:05:32But anyway.
00:05:32I'm not saying you're like that.
00:05:33I'm trying to just say what I'm feeling.
00:05:38It was very hurtful last night.
00:05:40We've never had this conversation.
00:05:42He's never said, hey, I'm concerned of drama in the outside world.
00:05:44He's never.
00:05:45So, yeah, I just felt like it was just unnecessary last night.
00:05:50I was already copying it.
00:05:51And it was just another fuel to the fire moment from Scott.
00:05:55So, yeah, that is a blind side to me.
00:06:00How was last night for you?
00:06:04It was a tough session.
00:06:07You were telling me that you felt like I threw you under the bus, which I apologise to make you
00:06:11feel that way.
00:06:12It wasn't my intention.
00:06:14Well, yeah, you apologise for how I felt.
00:06:16You didn't apologise for what you did.
00:06:20I felt attacked and I feel really hurt by what happened last night.
00:06:27I do think he's empathetic, but I think there's a limit to his empathetic-ness, if that makes sense.
00:06:33I just want him to know that, like, I can't just get over this in five minutes,
00:06:37because I don't want to be put in a position like this again.
00:06:41Everyone is entitled to feel how they want to feel and work things out how they want to.
00:06:46I'm not saying that you are right now.
00:06:47I'm not controlling your feelings, Gia.
00:06:48I let you do yourself.
00:06:50I'm just saying right now.
00:06:50I'm just saying right now.
00:06:51It was brought up last night.
00:06:52I didn't feel like I heard and that you understood where I was coming from.
00:06:59So, throughout this whole experiment, do you feel like I haven't been listening to any tough problems?
00:07:02I'm just saying I would like it if you look at it at a different person's point of view and
00:07:07not your own.
00:07:09Yeah.
00:07:10If I'm going to say anything that I'm struggling in a relationship,
00:07:13it's because I want to fix it to make us better.
00:07:19I'm not here to try and make my partner look bad.
00:07:22I'm trying to help us.
00:07:25But she immediately gets into defensive mode.
00:07:28I'm at the point where I don't know what to do and I feel like I can't speak.
00:07:31Okay.
00:07:32I apologize.
00:07:34It's obviously been a lot.
00:07:36That's why at the start of the week...
00:07:37So, I didn't need a grilling last night from my husband on the couch either.
00:07:40Okay.
00:07:40Well, I apologize that you feel like that I gave you a grilling.
00:07:42I'm just trying to help you.
00:07:43Right.
00:07:44Because I care about our relationship.
00:07:46I genuinely care about us.
00:07:47That's why I'm still here.
00:07:53And I'm getting frustrated.
00:07:54I'm just...
00:07:55I don't know what to do anymore.
00:07:56What else am I supposed to do?
00:07:58This is why I can't fall in love right now, because there's constant pressure.
00:08:02There's constant arguments.
00:08:04Okay.
00:08:04Should we go pack, get the hell out of here?
00:08:08Yeah.
00:08:09Cool.
00:08:12They're going to argue and debate about something so bloody simple.
00:08:15What's it going to be like outside this when we face a little hurdle?
00:08:21Down the hall, Bec and Danny are busy packing the essentials.
00:08:27All packed.
00:08:28I went to Chemist Warehouse quickly and got some bits.
00:08:31It'll be so fresh.
00:08:32Yay.
00:08:34As a Melbourne-based Danny prepares to head to Bec's home in Adelaide for the first time.
00:08:39I'm also excited to, like, go for a big walk with you and so you can actually see, like, the
00:08:44surrounds of where I live.
00:08:46During last night's commitment ceremony, Danny made a reluctant revelation about the official status of their relationship.
00:08:55And he asked me to be his girlfriend.
00:08:59That's quite a move.
00:09:01What inspired you to ask Bec that question?
00:09:04But, like, it was important to Bec, you know, because, like, obviously...
00:09:08Why was it important to you?
00:09:12Well, because it gives Bec security.
00:09:16Why was it important to you to ask her that?
00:09:21Because I know it would be special to Bec.
00:09:23But why was it important to you?
00:09:31Well, because I wanted to be my girlfriend, like...
00:09:34You know?
00:09:37Obviously, as we know, like, I told him I love him and...
00:09:40He's not quite there yet, but...
00:09:42I just hope that when he sees me in my natural habitat, that he's, like...
00:09:47You know, everything I've told him about my life, he can see and envisage and, you know, maybe gets him
00:09:52that one step closer to loving me, too.
00:09:57You will see why I say it's the perfect place to raise kids.
00:10:01Because it's...
00:10:02It's pretty, it's safe, you've got a lot of space, you know.
00:10:07Um...
00:10:08Good schools, but everywhere's 20 minutes to get to, it's the best.
00:10:11It's good, yeah.
00:10:12It's really good.
00:10:13I'm excited to see it.
00:10:15I've known Bec inside the experiment, where, obviously, there's a different side to Bec, which is when she's at home.
00:10:22You don't know a gorilla until you see the gorilla in its natural habitat, is what they say.
00:10:27So, um, not comparing Bec to a gorilla.
00:10:30But, yeah, it would be nice to see her in a natural habitat.
00:10:34Should we shoot off?
00:10:35Let's go.
00:10:36Yay! How exciting!
00:10:40Shall we?
00:10:41Shall we?
00:10:42Oui, oui.
00:10:43We shall.
00:10:44While most of our couples are packed and ready to leave...
00:10:48Adelaide, here we come.
00:10:50Adelaide, here we come.
00:10:53One couple is yet to depart, having just woken up in separate apartments,
00:10:59after Chris wrote leave at last night's commitment ceremony, leaving Sam blindsided.
00:11:06I've been going back and forth the last couple of days, um, and I've actually decided that I need, and
00:11:13I want to go put my dad hat on, and I would like to leave.
00:11:20I just think that I need to concentrate on this next thing that's coming, and he's an amazing guy, and
00:11:27he'll be amazing for someone. I just don't think it's me for the moment.
00:11:35It sucks to see him write leave.
00:11:39And it's just really disappointing, because a week ago, we were in such a good spot.
00:11:44I can see a magical, amazing life with Chris.
00:11:47I would hate for our last interaction to be that couch session.
00:11:52One person says stay, one person says leave, you're meant to stay for another week and just see.
00:11:56And like, going out to Chris's farm, this is something Chris and I have been looking forward to through the
00:12:01whole experiment, so I'm trying to stay open and lean in.
00:12:08There's always a glimmer of hope.
00:12:12Next door, Chris has also spent the morning reflecting.
00:12:17Obviously, last night's couch session was brutal.
00:12:21I got defensive, but this is part of the experiment.
00:12:24They do hold a mirror up to you, and maybe there were some behavioural issues that I was doing that
00:12:29I wasn't aware of.
00:12:31I've realised that I not only came on this experiment to find love in a husband, but, um, you know,
00:12:35I do want to grow as a person,
00:12:37and I've realised that I, um, so I need to work on a few things on myself.
00:12:42So I'm going to move forward and give this another crack to see if Sam and I can turn it
00:12:47around at homestays,
00:12:49have some fun at the farm, and see where I'm going to be raising the children,
00:12:54and see if we can rekindle what we had in the beginning.
00:13:07Here we go. Central Coast homestays. Please go.
00:13:12Our couples are now en route to their respective homestays.
00:13:17We're going to Barney-Doo.
00:13:20And while most make a beeline for their destination...
00:13:25Hey, babe, can we stop at KFC to get some food for the road trip?
00:13:29Sounds like a plan to me. Let's pull in.
00:13:31Hi there, what can I get for you today?
00:13:33Two go buckets, please.
00:13:35Do you want a chip before we turn out?
00:13:37Yeah, why not? Get in here.
00:13:40The first to touch down are Gia and Scott,
00:13:43where Melbourne-based Gia already has plans in place to move to the Gold Coast immediately after the experiment.
00:13:51This is where we can play tennis at night or whenever you play tennis in your bikini.
00:13:57Get a tan while I'm playing.
00:14:00This morning was, yeah, really tense.
00:14:03But since we've been off the plane, I'm feeling really good.
00:14:05I'm really happy. I'm just happy to be home.
00:14:07We're in Scotty's place on the Gold Coast.
00:14:09That's where we are right now.
00:14:10And I am bloody excited to introduce my wife to my place, my couch, my bedroom, the whole lot.
00:14:18And you can't be angry around the Gold Coast. It's bloody sunny.
00:14:22It's hot. That's what we want.
00:14:24I'll just show you around.
00:14:28Welcome.
00:14:33Should I take my shoes off?
00:14:35Yes, please.
00:14:35Because I know you don't like shoes in the house.
00:14:38Good.
00:14:39Oh, it's a bit messy.
00:14:41Messy?
00:14:44Is there stuff over there?
00:14:46That's just my bike helmets.
00:14:48OK.
00:14:49I'd be lying if I didn't say I'm coming in here looking for a problem
00:14:53or looking for something to not be happy about.
00:14:55Like, that's just what women do.
00:14:56Why are you walking around like you're just sussing or something?
00:14:59I'm looking for problems.
00:15:01Why do you put rug on a rug?
00:15:02Put your feet on it.
00:15:03Yeah, like, yeah, nice.
00:15:05But it looks strange.
00:15:06It's like a pee pad or something, like, on a rug.
00:15:08It's like, why is it there?
00:15:10Ugh.
00:15:10And this is upstairs.
00:15:13So random.
00:15:15You can look at the water when you're in the spot.
00:15:17OK.
00:15:18Do you game?
00:15:19I work.
00:15:21It's so picky.
00:15:22What are they?
00:15:23It's more of an ornament.
00:15:25I don't know why that's there.
00:15:26I didn't know where I was going to put it.
00:15:28It'd be better if that wasn't there.
00:15:29Oh, my gosh.
00:15:30Weird.
00:15:31God.
00:15:32Yeah, you'd have to move that.
00:15:34My tree's dead.
00:15:35No, my uncle gave that to me before he died.
00:15:38Shit.
00:15:38He died and the plant.
00:15:40That's not nice.
00:15:42If the roles were reversed and I was at Gia's house, I wouldn't say anything but nice things.
00:15:46It's definitely not as clean as I thought.
00:15:48Um, my house is way cleaner.
00:15:51End of story.
00:15:53I could spend a couple of hours, like, just fixing a few things.
00:15:55That's all right, you can do that.
00:15:56Yeah.
00:15:57I would make Gia feel happy and comfortable knowing that I'm in her home and she's proud
00:16:02of what she's done and what she's made.
00:16:04I wouldn't go, oh, yuck.
00:16:06This is shit.
00:16:06That's shit.
00:16:07I'd be like, wow, you've done such a good job.
00:16:09Like, if the house is a mess, yes, I would say something.
00:16:11But I know she's like me.
00:16:12She's a clean person.
00:16:14But I wouldn't go nitpicking, no.
00:16:17This is the walking robe.
00:16:20You coming?
00:16:24What's that?
00:16:26It's a neck brace.
00:16:27Why is it pink?
00:16:29Why is it pink? Why not?
00:16:31Look at you trying to find a problem.
00:16:33Well, I'm just wondering why it's pink.
00:16:37Is it your exes or something?
00:16:39Oh, yeah, sure.
00:16:40Gab and Maria bought it.
00:16:42Yeah.
00:16:42If I had, where's mine then, if I had another one?
00:16:44No, I'm asking why it's pink.
00:16:46I don't know.
00:16:47That was weird.
00:16:48That was a bit of a red flag to me
00:16:49because he told me he's never had a girl at this house.
00:16:53So, why is that there?
00:16:56OK, so what we're going to do is we're going to call Gab and Maria
00:16:59and we're going to call them and I'm going to say,
00:17:01did you guys buy me this neck brace?
00:17:02And they're going to say yes.
00:17:04It just doesn't make sense.
00:17:06The math isn't mathing for me.
00:17:12What the hell?
00:17:17Are you OK?
00:17:19No, I'm not OK.
00:17:20Because I want to know more about that thing in here.
00:17:22Let's go have a look.
00:17:23So, a pillow.
00:17:26It's like I need to give reason for everything I have.
00:17:30I've not done anything to make Gia not trust me.
00:17:33I'm trying to find problems.
00:17:34You're trying to find a problem.
00:17:35So you look at a bloody neck brace for a plane.
00:17:38But it's pink.
00:17:39A normal thing to think.
00:17:40I don't think there's not one thing I could say
00:17:42that I've made her feel like she shouldn't trust me.
00:17:45I've been very honest and vulnerable
00:17:46this whole relationship and experiment.
00:17:49Imagine if you came to my house and you saw some dude stuff.
00:17:51I wouldn't judge you because I know you were single.
00:17:54Can I put up with this every day of the week?
00:17:56I'm trying to find a problem.
00:17:58You shouldn't need to find someone if you trust a person.
00:18:01So if you don't trust me, tell me.
00:18:09Further north, Rachel and Stephen are arriving
00:18:12at Stephen's parents' holiday home
00:18:14on the central coast of New South Wales,
00:18:17where Stephen plans to introduce Melbourne-based wife Rachel
00:18:21to the coastal lifestyle.
00:18:23Am I getting on first?
00:18:24You get on first.
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:26Hold my hand if you want.
00:18:28Thank you.
00:18:28As you get in.
00:18:29Is this little seat for me?
00:18:31Front seat's for you.
00:18:32Woo!
00:18:33Passenger princess!
00:18:35And Stephen has wasted no time taking Rachel out
00:18:38to enjoy his favourite pastime.
00:18:41Do I look cute?
00:18:43Yep.
00:18:44Do you shoot me my fives?
00:18:50Yeah.
00:18:52The last time I was on the boat was definitely well over a decade ago.
00:18:57Um, and I was extremely seasick.
00:19:01We are off.
00:19:04Where'd she get married?
00:19:06Oh my God.
00:19:07Lol.
00:19:09So the last time I was on the boat was when I got married.
00:19:13Ah!
00:19:15Alrighty.
00:19:16So, tell me Rachel, where's the fish at?
00:19:19Where's the captain?
00:19:19I don't know.
00:19:21You're the captain.
00:19:22You lead me.
00:19:24I'm very nervous about this.
00:19:26I'm very nervous about this.
00:19:27Yeah, I'm nervous.
00:19:28So much is falling on homestays because me and Rachel have discussed locations outside
00:19:33the experiment and I've bluntly put it too Rachel.
00:19:36Look, I probably can't compromise on anyone else at the moment besides Sydney.
00:19:41Oh man, this is all about seeing if Rachel can fit into my life.
00:19:47And if this doesn't work out for this small snippet, what's it going to look like, you know, in the
00:19:53real world?
00:19:54We're here.
00:19:55Alright, the secret flatty hole.
00:19:57And, you know, romance happens in all different sorts of ways.
00:20:01It doesn't have to be candle lights and drinks.
00:20:03You just sit there and be pretty for a sec.
00:20:06Alright, I've got your weapon right here.
00:20:08I may not express my feelings to her and go,
00:20:11Hey Rachel, I like you this much today or I like you this much.
00:20:15But, I sort of show it in gestures.
00:20:18There's your passenger princess.
00:20:20I'll even put the bait on for you so you don't have to get your hands all dirty.
00:20:24Taking her out in the boat and showing her my fishing spot things.
00:20:28That's how I show my love towards someone.
00:20:31And let me know when you get a nice little tug on it.
00:20:34Because I'll be very excited.
00:20:38Oh, I'm on!
00:20:41We're definitely floating and cheeky today.
00:20:46And, it's really nice to see Steven in his element as well.
00:20:50Alright, and this is fishing.
00:20:51You sit here, like this.
00:20:54What, no wine and snacks for the passenger princess?
00:20:57Fire, I am a bad husband, aren't I?
00:21:00I know, I'm glad you...
00:21:01But I'm responsible as well, no alcohol on the boat.
00:21:03I'm not driving.
00:21:07Hang on, what, wait, whoa.
00:21:09Is that a thing?
00:21:10No.
00:21:10You tell me?
00:21:11I don't know, babe.
00:21:14I can see Steven and I together.
00:21:16That's simple.
00:21:17That's easy.
00:21:17We do that every day.
00:21:18But can I see myself a part of his broader life?
00:21:22Oh, oh.
00:21:24You know, we've come so far since our wedding and our honeymoon and all of that.
00:21:29You know, so I'm really grateful to be here and also grateful to be here.
00:21:33You might need to do a rebate and would have baited you.
00:21:36This is such a special place for him and his family.
00:21:39So how lucky am I for him to have welcomed me into this?
00:21:43Oh, she's on.
00:21:45I got one!
00:21:46I got one!
00:21:47Oh, no, I did.
00:21:48I really did.
00:21:49I really got one.
00:21:51Oh, my God, Steven.
00:21:53Steven, I got a fit!
00:21:55Okay, I don't know what to do now.
00:21:56You're going to have to come and help me.
00:21:58Okay.
00:21:59Okay.
00:22:00Hi.
00:22:00Bring him in.
00:22:01Bring him in.
00:22:02Yep.
00:22:06I think, yes, me going out there and showing that I know how to handle a rod was absolutely
00:22:11an aphrodisiac for him.
00:22:14Here you go.
00:22:16Why would you put him in there to flick?
00:22:19I'm not going to hand him to you.
00:22:20Steven!
00:22:22Alright, hang on.
00:22:23I'm so scared.
00:22:23Because if he flicks, you can drop him back in the bucket.
00:22:25I'm so scared.
00:22:27Come here, babe.
00:22:28They are spiky.
00:22:30Yay!
00:22:31There you go.
00:22:35Giant!
00:22:38Bye, baby.
00:22:39Thank you.
00:22:43Yeah, it is impressive.
00:22:44It's not every day you meet a woman that's willing to do that.
00:22:48Appreciate it.
00:22:49Pulling in the fish and touching the prawns.
00:22:52I didn't have to babysit her.
00:22:56Yeah, it's sexy.
00:22:58Must admit, I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed.
00:23:02Oh, hang on.
00:23:03Hang on.
00:23:12Having settled into Scott's home on the Gold Coast, Melbourne-based Gia has made another
00:23:18shocking discovery.
00:23:20I just don't even know, like, my stuff wouldn't even fit in that closet.
00:23:23You won't need to.
00:23:25What do you mean?
00:23:25Like, for now, until we find another place, do you know what I mean?
00:23:29For now, this will do for whatever until we sort our stuff out.
00:23:34But, like, for me to move in...
00:23:36100%.
00:23:37Like, just the closet and stuff, like, just be too stressful.
00:23:40For me, personally, I don't want to be, like, a princess or, like, annoying, but, like, his closet is big,
00:23:46but I'd have to share that closet with him, and it's like, just all my stuff would be crammed in
00:23:51one, like, shelf in one area.
00:23:52It's just like, that's not comfortable for me to live.
00:23:55Yeah, like, I just have a lot of stuff, like, I have two closets for myself and a whole beauty
00:24:00room with shelves of more stuff.
00:24:03We've already discussed it in time that we'll get a house, because we have your daughter and stuff, so...
00:24:08This wouldn't be big enough.
00:24:09Like, my, the other room for her, like, like, where would my mum stay if my mum visited?
00:24:14Because my mum lives in Melbourne.
00:24:16So, yeah, like, it just, like, wouldn't logistically work.
00:24:19I'm saying temporarily.
00:24:21Apparently there's no positives.
00:24:23And this is the problem.
00:24:25It's my house.
00:24:25I'm proud of it.
00:24:26I've done everything here.
00:24:27I've built everything myself.
00:24:28Yeah.
00:24:28For a guy before I met you by himself...
00:24:30No, this is great for a guy for himself.
00:24:32100%.
00:24:32Like, it's great.
00:24:33But I don't want to cram all my shit in one little section of your closet.
00:24:36Like, that's...
00:24:37Like, I can't do that.
00:24:39Raises a few questions, like, is she like that with anything that's around me or that I introduce her to?
00:24:44It's just probably not big enough for what I'm used to.
00:24:48But for you it's good.
00:24:50Hmm.
00:24:51It is a bit scary thinking that, like, what is life going to be like outside the experiment?
00:24:56Great.
00:24:57Already feel better.
00:24:58These are little things that I can see may be a bit of an impact on us.
00:25:05Cute.
00:25:06So cute.
00:25:12South of Sydney, Stella and Philip are meeting with Stella's chosen family, Joe and Layla.
00:25:19Hi!
00:25:22Hey!
00:25:22How are you?
00:25:23Hi!
00:25:25Hello!
00:25:26It's really nice to see you.
00:25:27You're good?
00:25:28You're good?
00:25:29You're well?
00:25:30Thanks for having us.
00:25:31Woo!
00:25:32We're really excited to see how Stella's going with Philip.
00:25:35We've given him their space, their time.
00:25:38I'm hoping that he is the right guy.
00:25:42What is happening?
00:25:43I love you!
00:25:46My vibes on the wedding day weren't really positive.
00:25:52At Stella and Philip's wedding, Joe had his doubts about Stella's new groom.
00:25:56Who in their vows talks about their YouTube channel and this and that? Impressive and private.
00:26:06And your vows is really your, what's your vow to your partner?
00:26:09Your vow is this, is this. That's like a red flag.
00:26:14And after expressing these concerns to Stella and bridesmaid Layla.
00:26:19However, and I'm going to be completely transparent, I'm getting a red flag.
00:26:25Absolutely.
00:26:27I'm telling you now, I don't think he has entered on the right foot.
00:26:34I agree.
00:26:36Layla confronted Philip.
00:26:38Stella didn't come here and talk to you about her business.
00:26:40It just adds to my story as how I changed my life.
00:26:43I don't care.
00:26:44I don't care.
00:26:46I'm telling you right.
00:26:47I'm going to stop you just for a second.
00:26:48You're irritated.
00:26:49Okay.
00:26:49It's okay.
00:26:50I'm just listening to what you're saying.
00:26:52No, no, no.
00:26:53It's okay.
00:26:53Breathe.
00:26:54No, I'm relaxed.
00:26:55I'm breathing.
00:26:56No, you're getting really worked up.
00:26:57I can feel it.
00:26:58I can feel it.
00:26:58I can feel it.
00:26:59You don't have to tell me.
00:27:00I feel your energy.
00:27:01You are agitated.
00:27:05Generously.
00:27:06All right.
00:27:06Let's go.
00:27:07Let's go.
00:27:07Let's go.
00:27:07That's just being the protective friend.
00:27:10Yeah.
00:27:11I hope they enjoy the food.
00:27:13Thank you.
00:27:13Are you taking it?
00:27:15No, no.
00:27:15You pretty much did it.
00:27:17And it's going to be a good way of catching him in his sort of off guard, you know?
00:27:23I haven't really been in touch with Salat.
00:27:25Thank you.
00:27:26I've been trying to keep up with everything.
00:27:27Coming in here, yeah, I'm excited, nervously excited.
00:27:32Yeah.
00:27:33And I'm definitely not going to be disrespectful.
00:27:35I'm going to listen and absorb.
00:27:38Because, you know, you don't mess with someone who's making your food, you know?
00:27:41No dietries, right?
00:27:42Yeah.
00:27:43Or the person that does your tax, you know?
00:27:47So, yeah.
00:27:48Oh, yeah.
00:27:48How's it going?
00:27:49Look, I haven't seen you since the wedding day.
00:27:51Wedding, yeah.
00:27:52How are the living arrangements going?
00:27:54How are you...
00:27:55Are you...
00:27:56Is there a connection there?
00:27:58Like, with the whole...
00:27:59Yeah, of course.
00:28:00But that's it.
00:28:01There is, of course.
00:28:02Amazing.
00:28:02It was from, like, the get-go.
00:28:05Get-go?
00:28:05Yeah.
00:28:05That's right.
00:28:06Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:28:07Because I'm not going to lie to you.
00:28:08I did have...
00:28:10I wanted to ask about the wedding.
00:28:12This is what I wanted to ask about the wedding, but you asked another question.
00:28:15Okay, okay.
00:28:15Let's talk about the wedding.
00:28:16Let's go.
00:28:19My concern for her is she's given up so much.
00:28:25She's come out to Australia.
00:28:26You're not selling me here, guys.
00:28:28But I am selling you here.
00:28:30She's...
00:28:31She's given up a lot of her life, you know?
00:28:34She's given up her family, her friends, and everything.
00:28:38And my only concern is I know what she's looking for.
00:28:43She's looking for longevity.
00:28:47And I'm here to protect her.
00:28:51Phil got a grill by Joe.
00:28:54He put his really, like, protective, you know, father figure hat on.
00:28:59I don't want to be putting pressure on Philip to move to Sydney.
00:29:02I want him to make this decision on his own, in his own mind.
00:29:06And that's where, you know, I'm reserving myself from asking hard questions.
00:29:13So hard questions that came from Joe's mouth, it's almost like he's asking what I'm feeling.
00:29:21Yeah.
00:29:22So he was doing, you know, I guess, the screening for me.
00:29:28Dun-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da
00:29:33-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da
00:29:34-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da
00:29:34-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da
00:29:37-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da
00:29:38-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da
00:29:57¿Cómo significa esto?
00:29:58Bueno, este es la cosa.
00:30:00La necesidad de los dÃas.
00:30:04SÃ, la necesidad de más información.
00:30:06No tengo un interpontamiento.
00:30:06tengo un no sé confidentale vibes desde ahora.
00:30:10SÃ.
00:30:12No estoy convencido, Stella,
00:30:16que con todo confianza.
00:30:18No estoy en el final de la mañana.
00:30:22And unfortunately at this given stage
00:30:24You know we do have the wishy-washy
00:30:27Situation and
00:30:28Like I don't want to ask and impose
00:30:31Myself too much I don't want
00:30:33To put more pressure on
00:30:35Him because you know
00:30:36He did mention a couple of times you know
00:30:38It's also a lot of pressure on him and
00:30:40Yeah I like I don't want
00:30:43To pressure him into giving me any answers
00:30:45Okay
00:30:46Love is not enough like I don't think like
00:30:48Leila does
00:30:52They're a beautiful
00:30:53Couple like he's a good looking
00:30:55Guy she's an incredibly good looking
00:30:57Woman I know
00:30:59Stella she's a she's a great rock
00:31:02I know that
00:31:03She's quite serious about it
00:31:05I think he is as well
00:31:09But I think their
00:31:11Foundations is unstable at the moment
00:31:15So out of a hundred
00:31:16Yep
00:31:17Joe
00:31:20We're getting into like
00:31:21No no no no
00:31:22Well
00:31:23They both came into this experiment for a reason
00:31:26Yeah we did
00:31:27Yeah
00:31:28Stella
00:31:30Where do you see yourself out of a hundred?
00:31:32Um
00:31:32If he would be here in
00:31:33No no
00:31:34You need to give me a number
00:31:35Just a number
00:31:38It would be a hundred
00:31:39Wow
00:31:40If I know
00:31:40Wow
00:31:41Wow
00:31:42Well let me let me bow to you
00:31:44That is incredible
00:31:45That's a good man
00:31:45That is a huge call
00:31:47I do see growth with him
00:31:48I do see stability with him
00:31:50He gives me uh reassurance
00:31:51Emotional safety
00:31:53I do see him as a father of the children
00:31:55Well
00:31:57You've just reassured me
00:31:58And reassured us
00:31:59Yeah
00:32:00You know
00:32:01So
00:32:01Philip
00:32:03Where do you see yourself
00:32:05Out of a hundred right now
00:32:06As a couple
00:32:07And be completely honest
00:32:08I will not judge you
00:32:10In this current
00:32:11In this current
00:32:12Form
00:32:13Like right now
00:32:14Where we're at
00:32:15So like
00:32:17Out of a hundred
00:32:18Like
00:32:18I'm
00:32:19Honestly
00:32:2075 out of a hundred
00:32:32In Queensland
00:32:33Melbourne based Gia
00:32:35Is settling into the Gold Coast lifestyle
00:32:41Do you want to help me with the bed?
00:32:47I'm here temporarily
00:32:48Till we find a bigger place
00:32:50Like I just don't know
00:32:51Where all my stuff would go
00:32:52I have a four bedroom
00:32:53Worth of house
00:32:54Like stuff
00:32:55Like I have so much stuff
00:32:57Like what am I going to do with it?
00:32:59Can you grab that?
00:33:02No
00:33:03Take them off
00:33:03Completely
00:33:06I don't want to live out of a suitcase
00:33:08Like
00:33:08I'd rather just go from my house
00:33:11To another house
00:33:11Of that size
00:33:12Or bigger
00:33:13Like
00:33:14That's just what I'm used to
00:33:16My bed has like
00:33:18Two sets of these
00:33:19Another big euro
00:33:21And like three other ones across here
00:33:23I have like a big thick
00:33:25Like furry mink
00:33:26That I fold
00:33:26And have on a certain way
00:33:27I have like
00:33:28Heated blanket underneath
00:33:30Because I'm always cold
00:33:31Jeez Louise
00:33:32Yeah I have so many things
00:33:33I have like three mattress toppers
00:33:34Because I want it like
00:33:35Cloud
00:33:35It's not going to be full of pink though
00:33:37Is it?
00:33:37It's all white
00:33:38Okay that's alright
00:33:39It's all white and cream
00:33:40No I don't
00:33:41Like my beauty room
00:33:42Is like pink and purple
00:33:44Everything else in my house
00:33:45Is white and beige
00:33:47Everything is white and beige
00:33:47So we're not allowed
00:33:48Any of my sheets
00:33:48Yeah for the spare room
00:33:50Yeah
00:33:50For the guest room
00:33:51So I'm the type of guy
00:33:53Where like
00:33:53I look at
00:33:54Why someone's upset
00:33:56Is this something
00:33:57That's going to be carrying on
00:33:58Every single day
00:33:59Gia's not
00:34:00Girl with the flow
00:34:00Kind of girl
00:34:01No
00:34:01But everyone has their opinion
00:34:03Gia's very picky
00:34:04We all know that
00:34:04That's alright
00:34:10Yeah I couldn't
00:34:11I couldn't live here
00:34:14South of Sydney
00:34:15Stella and Philip
00:34:17Are facing some harsh truths
00:34:18In front of Joe
00:34:20And Layla
00:34:21So
00:34:23Philip
00:34:24Where do you see yourself
00:34:26Out of a hundred
00:34:26Right now
00:34:27As a couple
00:34:28And be completely honest
00:34:29And I will not
00:34:30And I will not judge you
00:34:31In this current
00:34:32In this current
00:34:33Form
00:34:34Like right now
00:34:35Where we're at
00:34:36So like
00:34:38Out of a hundred
00:34:38Like
00:34:39I
00:34:41Honestly
00:34:4175 out of a hundred
00:34:46What was said
00:34:47By me
00:34:48On the couch
00:34:49When experts asked
00:34:50Oh but he's giving you reassurance
00:34:51He's telling you
00:34:52He's telling you
00:34:53That he's going to move to Sydney
00:34:54And I'm like
00:34:55It is telling
00:34:56It's words
00:34:57It's not actions
00:34:58Right
00:34:59What he said today
00:35:00Like you know
00:35:01I'm 75% sure
00:35:02And like
00:35:03He's not yet there
00:35:05Yeah
00:35:06It's just
00:35:07You're putting yourself
00:35:08On the line
00:35:08Again
00:35:09And again
00:35:10And again
00:35:14I'll tell you what
00:35:14And I'll tell you what
00:35:16Like I've always had
00:35:17This over my head
00:35:18Coming into this relationship
00:35:19Going
00:35:20If I don't move to Sydney
00:35:21This is not going to work
00:35:22If I don't move to Sydney
00:35:23This is not going to work
00:35:23You know what I mean
00:35:24That's pressure
00:35:26I need to know
00:35:27Where I fit
00:35:28In her
00:35:30Lifestyle
00:35:31Just saying
00:35:31I need to know
00:35:32Where I fit in
00:35:32Because if I'm moving
00:35:34And I'm moving
00:35:34My whole social
00:35:35I leave everyone behind
00:35:36She is the priority
00:35:38I need to see that back
00:35:39As well
00:35:40Which I am
00:35:40Like I'm just saying
00:35:41I need to see more of that
00:35:42It's not
00:35:43We don't do it on promises
00:35:44We just need to
00:35:45We just need the time
00:35:46Aspect to happen
00:35:48I don't want to say something
00:35:49That I don't feel
00:35:50Which would be
00:35:51Disingenuous to Stella
00:35:53If I was 100
00:35:54Out of 100
00:35:54I'd be literally
00:35:55Moving in all my stuff already
00:35:57You know
00:35:57That's where I think we're at
00:36:00A lot of things
00:36:01You were saying before
00:36:02That Stella's given up
00:36:03Heaps to be here
00:36:04I would argue
00:36:05That I've given up
00:36:06A lot
00:36:07And I'm willing to give up more
00:36:09To make this happen
00:36:11Moving forward
00:36:12Like post experiment
00:36:14I just need to be sure
00:36:16Do you know what I'm saying
00:36:19Like I need you to
00:36:20Like as much as I'm showing up
00:36:21For you
00:36:21I need you to show up for me
00:36:23You've got to give me
00:36:23The reassurance
00:36:24As much as I am
00:36:25Like I'm happy to be a rock
00:36:25Like I've been doing it
00:36:26Patience and stuff like that
00:36:27But I need you to kind of
00:36:29Meet me there as well
00:36:31So
00:36:34I am
00:36:34I don't have a 100% guarantee
00:36:35I wish I had a guarantee
00:36:38But I just wanted to be truthful
00:36:39And just no BS
00:36:43Look he's very convincing
00:36:45Um
00:36:46Has he told me what I want to hear
00:36:48Yes he has
00:36:50Is that enough for Stella
00:36:52I'm hoping I'm wrong
00:36:54And I'm hoping the experiment
00:36:56Has got everything right
00:36:59Hey
00:36:59I hope I'm wrong
00:37:03I appreciate you showing up for me
00:37:05Because
00:37:05Yeah
00:37:06We're glad to be here
00:37:09Still to come
00:37:12Rachel and Stephen's homestay
00:37:15Continues to progress
00:37:16I mentioned the affection
00:37:17Last time we met
00:37:18Yes
00:37:18Has improved
00:37:19Like
00:37:20Has improved a lot
00:37:21Where our focus is
00:37:23Sort of heading towards now
00:37:24Is outside the experiment
00:37:25And you've come a long way
00:37:27And will Scott be able to voice
00:37:29His concerns with Gia
00:37:31Oh like
00:37:32Yeah
00:37:33Just
00:37:33Like
00:37:34Okay
00:37:35Something I would do
00:37:36Trust me 100%
00:37:48What's it like living with Stephen?
00:37:52In New South Wales
00:37:53On the Central Coast
00:37:55Stephen's parents
00:37:56Brother
00:37:57And sister-in-law
00:37:58Bianca
00:37:59Are getting up to speed
00:38:00On their relationship
00:38:01So Rach
00:38:02Yes
00:38:04Please enlighten us
00:38:07We've come into a good
00:38:08Like
00:38:08I don't know
00:38:09What would you call
00:38:10Rhythm
00:38:10You know
00:38:11I know that
00:38:12Stephen has cracks
00:38:13And I've just
00:38:14Showed them patience
00:38:15And learned to live with them
00:38:17The last time
00:38:19Rachel met
00:38:20With Stephen's family
00:38:22Brother Dylan
00:38:23Highlighted Stephen's
00:38:25Struggles with
00:38:26Intimate affection
00:38:26And connection
00:38:27Do you think
00:38:29Stephen is
00:38:30Affectionate enough?
00:38:36No
00:38:37No
00:38:37No
00:38:39Obviously
00:38:40I mentioned the affection
00:38:42Last time we met
00:38:43Yes
00:38:43Has that improved?
00:38:44It has improved
00:38:45A lot
00:38:46I'm a very affectionate person
00:38:48But now
00:38:49I've noticed
00:38:50His hand will come
00:38:52Wandering for mine
00:38:53Yeah
00:38:53You know
00:38:54He'll come to me
00:38:55For a hug
00:38:55And all these little things
00:38:57It's nice
00:38:58As far as the experiment goes
00:38:59Yeah
00:39:00We've had our highs
00:39:00And lows
00:39:01And our highs
00:39:03Are a lot higher
00:39:04Than our lows
00:39:05So it's going
00:39:06In the right direction
00:39:07I think you've come
00:39:08A long way
00:39:09Since family stay
00:39:10Or whatever it's called
00:39:11Yeah look at this
00:39:12Rachel's the same
00:39:13Oh my gosh
00:39:14That's right
00:39:16It feels really natural
00:39:18Welcoming Rachel and Stephen
00:39:22As a mum
00:39:24Seeing Stephen
00:39:24In a relationship
00:39:25I feel fantastic
00:39:27Because that's what
00:39:28I've always wanted
00:39:29For him
00:39:30We're great
00:39:31Inside the experiment
00:39:33Sort of where our focus
00:39:34Is sort of heading
00:39:35Towards now
00:39:35Is outside the experiment
00:39:38Okay
00:39:39Different states
00:39:40So
00:39:41What are we thinking
00:39:41Do you want me to tell the plan
00:39:43I've got the plan
00:39:43We're thinking Sydney
00:39:44You've got the plan
00:39:44I've got the plan
00:39:45Tell us the plan
00:39:46You Steve
00:39:46Let's Steve tell me the plan
00:39:48Go with Steve
00:39:49Because I want to hear
00:39:50Your plan
00:39:52So
00:39:53To start with
00:39:54We're sort of going to
00:39:55Just do long distance
00:39:57We're going to give it
00:39:58A time limit of roughly
00:39:59Around six months
00:40:01And see where we go
00:40:02From there
00:40:02Yeah so
00:40:03I need six more months
00:40:05With the love of my life
00:40:06Which is Melbourne
00:40:07You know
00:40:07I built that life
00:40:08For myself
00:40:09I made all my friends
00:40:11Built my career
00:40:12Everything in Melbourne
00:40:13Yeah I get that
00:40:15I know that it's going
00:40:16To come from me
00:40:16Because
00:40:18Stephen's business
00:40:18Isn't as flexible
00:40:19Yeah
00:40:20And at the end of the day
00:40:22Like
00:40:22I want this to work
00:40:24And I want our relationship
00:40:25To like
00:40:25Grow and go forward
00:40:26So
00:40:27That's fine
00:40:28That's all good
00:40:30At the moment
00:40:31It looks like
00:40:32Rach pushes
00:40:33The relationship along
00:40:34I don't want Stephen
00:40:36To feel like
00:40:36Well
00:40:37I've got to sacrifice
00:40:38Everything that I've worked for
00:40:39Everything that I've built
00:40:41I felt like Stephen
00:40:42Never really said
00:40:44I'm going to sacrifice
00:40:46Anything
00:40:46How does that make you feel
00:40:48Steve
00:40:49She's basically saying
00:40:50She's going to move
00:40:51Her whole life
00:40:56Makes you feel
00:40:56Lucky
00:40:57And you know
00:40:58Very happy about it
00:40:59You know
00:41:00And
00:41:02This feels amazing
00:41:03But also at the same time
00:41:05It actually sort of
00:41:06Makes me feel a little bit
00:41:07Bad that I'm
00:41:08Having compromised
00:41:09That much as well
00:41:11I feel like the butthole
00:41:12In the relationship
00:41:13I'm like
00:41:13I'm just going to chill
00:41:14Here in Sydney
00:41:15And Rachel's going to
00:41:16Come to me
00:41:17Yeah it's a massive
00:41:18It's a massive thing
00:41:20You don't put too much
00:41:21Pressure on each other
00:41:22Six months transition time
00:41:24Stephen might realise
00:41:25Oh maybe I'll give Melbourne
00:41:27A go
00:41:27I've never said never
00:41:29He's never said never
00:41:30I've never said never
00:41:31He's never said never
00:41:32Yeah I get that
00:41:33But look
00:41:34I'm really happy for you guys
00:41:35So to be honest
00:41:36Cheers
00:41:36Cheers
00:41:41Family dinner with Rachel
00:41:42And Stephen was great
00:41:44We just got to learn a lot
00:41:45Which for us as a family
00:41:47Was very reassuring
00:41:48That things are heading
00:41:49In the right direction
00:41:49They compliment each other
00:41:51They bring different things
00:41:52To the table
00:41:53And I definitely think
00:41:55Rachel's had a positive effect
00:41:56On Stephen's life
00:42:09Excited
00:42:09Gia
00:42:10On the Gold Coast
00:42:12Gia and Scott
00:42:13Are spending the day
00:42:14On the water
00:42:16Nice boat eh
00:42:17Yeah it's nice
00:42:18Nice boat
00:42:20Joining them today
00:42:21Are Scott's best friends
00:42:23Matt, Paige, Jackson
00:42:24And Bianca
00:42:27I'm feeling nervous
00:42:29Last time with Matt and Paige
00:42:30Was family friends
00:42:31At the apartment
00:42:33Matt put his foot in his mouth
00:42:34And was saying some things
00:42:36It was just a bit
00:42:37You know
00:42:38Disrespectful
00:42:39Inappropriate
00:42:40Is Gia a better version
00:42:42Of your ex
00:42:44Don't compare me
00:42:45To his ex-girlfriend
00:42:46If you want to be controversial
00:42:48I'll give it back
00:42:49Because that's what I'm like
00:42:51I don't think you can compare
00:42:53Because I would never
00:42:53Start an OnlyFans
00:42:56Good to see you
00:42:57I mean the last
00:43:00Commendment ceremony
00:43:01Alessandra did say
00:43:02How do you think
00:43:04It's going to go
00:43:04Gia with your friends
00:43:05In real life
00:43:05Do you think
00:43:06She's going to
00:43:07Maybe have drama
00:43:08Because obviously
00:43:09I have in the experiment
00:43:12So yeah
00:43:13I mean
00:43:13I'm probably going to
00:43:14Prove myself today
00:43:15Cheers to the
00:43:16Good life
00:43:17And Gia and Scotty
00:43:18Cheers
00:43:19I hope everyone's
00:43:20On their best behaviour today
00:43:22I reckon
00:43:23We'll hit the water
00:43:24Go for a cruise
00:43:25Done
00:43:25Cool
00:43:41It's going to ask me questions
00:43:42Are you
00:43:44That's the name of the game
00:43:45That's the whole name of the game
00:43:46I get to the bottom
00:43:47Of everything mate
00:43:50I'm not quite sure
00:43:51If they're the right fit
00:43:52I want to see
00:43:53Where they're at
00:43:54That for the past week
00:43:57Scotty went a bit
00:43:57Quiet on me
00:43:58So I know something's up
00:43:59Yeah
00:44:02Have you
00:44:02Anyone dropped
00:44:03The L word yet
00:44:06Not yet
00:44:07Yeah
00:44:08I've had arguments
00:44:09Over it to be honest
00:44:09Oh like
00:44:10You love me first
00:44:11No
00:44:11It's like
00:44:12It's waiting for me
00:44:13To say it
00:44:15But
00:44:15I don't want to
00:44:16Feel like I need to say it
00:44:18Just to
00:44:18Yeah
00:44:18Make sure
00:44:19You'll feel comfortable
00:44:20You know
00:44:21And you want it to be real
00:44:22You don't want it to be forced
00:44:23Yeah
00:44:23It's
00:44:25So what's the
00:44:26What's the next step
00:44:27Plug
00:44:27You know
00:44:29Oh 100% moving
00:44:30Yeah
00:44:31Like
00:44:32So I'm going to come with him
00:44:33To the Gold Coast
00:44:34Like bring all our stuff
00:44:35As soon as we leave
00:44:36Look for a place
00:44:37And then move
00:44:39Yeah we started looking at
00:44:41Like bigger places
00:44:42Because obviously like
00:44:43Yeah
00:44:43I need more
00:44:44A bigger home
00:44:45In other words
00:44:46She's saying Scotch places
00:44:47You know
00:44:47You need
00:44:48It's good for one man
00:44:50It's great for a bachelor
00:44:52Like as soon as the experiment ends
00:44:55She's going to move to Queensland
00:44:57You shouldn't just rush things too quickly
00:45:00They haven't even told each other
00:45:01That they love each other yet
00:45:03I feel like they
00:45:05Should be
00:45:06Knocking that off
00:45:08Before they make
00:45:09You know
00:45:09The big move in together
00:45:10But it's just more for us
00:45:11Now the timing
00:45:12Yeah
00:45:13I want to go back a few times
00:45:14And then look at places
00:45:16And decide
00:45:17Like what date we move
00:45:18But she wants to do it
00:45:19Before the end of the year
00:45:21It felt like a lot of pressure
00:45:24No she'll go somewhere like
00:45:25Hellsville
00:45:26Because her daughter needs to be enrolled
00:45:27To a school
00:45:28Yeah
00:45:28Well she's going on school holidays
00:45:30Yeah
00:45:30We'll have the time to like move
00:45:32And get a new school organised and all that
00:45:34Yeah
00:45:35Yeah
00:45:36I felt the pressure
00:45:37And I'm not even in the relationship
00:45:39I said like I wanted to have like
00:45:41One or two more kids
00:45:43Like have a big house
00:45:45Have this certain car
00:45:46Like
00:45:46He might be happy discussing it all
00:45:48But I think behind the scenes
00:45:49And when we question him one on one about this
00:45:52This is when we really
00:45:53We'll be getting the true colours
00:45:54Yeah
00:45:55Yeah
00:45:56So
00:46:00Next
00:46:01I feel like
00:46:03I see you being pressured
00:46:04I wasn't seeing 100% real out there
00:46:16Well how much longer does it go for?
00:46:18Three weeks I think
00:46:18On the Gold Coast
00:46:20Gia is getting to know
00:46:22Scott's childhood friend Jackson
00:46:24And partner Bianca
00:46:25After that
00:46:26We like separate
00:46:27And we deliberate our decision
00:46:29If we're going to like
00:46:30Stay together outside
00:46:31Downstairs
00:46:32Scott is debriefing
00:46:34With Matt and Paige
00:46:36Alright Scotty
00:46:37So
00:46:38Being your friend
00:46:39Knowing you so well
00:46:40I feel like
00:46:42I see you being pressured
00:46:44I feel like
00:46:45I wasn't seeing 100% real out there
00:46:49Well this is the thing
00:46:50When we have our really good moments
00:46:53That makes me feel like
00:46:55I'm falling in love with her
00:46:56But then
00:46:58When we have
00:47:00Tough situations or arguments
00:47:02That pulls me back
00:47:04There was nothing in my house
00:47:06But there was a pink neck pillow
00:47:07Yeah
00:47:08Travel pillow
00:47:09Yeah
00:47:10What's that?
00:47:10Who's that from?
00:47:12Pretty much saying
00:47:13Like who's this from?
00:47:14Like there's another girl
00:47:15That's giving it to me
00:47:16Has any other girl
00:47:17Worn it around their neck?
00:47:18No
00:47:22Little things like that
00:47:23Makes me feel like
00:47:24She doesn't trust me
00:47:25It's all these little hurdles
00:47:26Like it's just a pillow
00:47:27At the end of the day
00:47:28And if that's a little
00:47:29Small subject
00:47:30That could affect someone
00:47:31What else out there
00:47:32Could trigger her?
00:47:33So right now
00:47:34I feel so much for her
00:47:35Because we're so good
00:47:36And strong
00:47:37But then as soon as
00:47:38We hit a bump like that
00:47:39It retracts me
00:47:41I can't
00:47:42I just
00:47:42This is what's so bad about me
00:47:44Things happen probably
00:47:45Once a week
00:47:45And I'm like
00:47:46I forget about it
00:47:48Some of the behaviour
00:47:48Throughout this experiment
00:47:49The drama
00:47:50The fighting
00:47:51I don't like that stuff
00:47:52Yeah
00:47:53Did she get a little bit
00:47:55Into it?
00:47:56Oh 100%
00:47:58Don't gaslight me
00:47:59Watch your mouth girl
00:48:00I'm not
00:48:00Watch your mouth
00:48:01I'm being honest
00:48:01Watch your
00:48:02Don't lie about me
00:48:02Be accountable
00:48:05Absolutely not
00:48:05You're not going to
00:48:06Gaslight a woman right now
00:48:07You know what you said
00:48:09Why the hell would I
00:48:10Stop
00:48:11I'm talking
00:48:14Because you're a mean girl
00:48:15And all you do is
00:48:16Go around and talk to her
00:48:17About every picture
00:48:23I showed screenshots
00:48:24To a girlfriend
00:48:25Sue me
00:48:26Like
00:48:30So Alice and Andrea
00:48:31Said something on the lines
00:48:32Of you know Scott
00:48:33Do you think this is
00:48:33Something you've put up
00:48:34With outside the experiment
00:48:35I said no
00:48:35I wouldn't tolerate it
00:48:36Which is true
00:48:37Because she has been
00:48:38In a lot of drama
00:48:41Can I put up with this
00:48:42Outside the experiment
00:48:43Yeah
00:48:43Is she like this
00:48:44Outside the experiment
00:48:45I don't know
00:48:48Where I'm like
00:48:49Like is this normal
00:48:50Yeah
00:48:51I don't
00:48:51I get so confused
00:48:53Because I have so much hope
00:48:55Because I see so much good
00:48:56In her
00:48:57I want Scotty to
00:48:59Like really think about
00:49:00Is this going to
00:49:01Actually work for him
00:49:05Scotty doesn't get
00:49:06Involved in that kind of drama
00:49:08He doesn't
00:49:08You know
00:49:09His life is just so
00:49:10He's a crazy guy
00:49:13I feel like you're in two minds
00:49:14When it's good
00:49:15You're very happy
00:49:16But then when it's bad
00:49:17Like that is something
00:49:18That you would run away from
00:49:19In the real world
00:49:22That's my concern
00:49:23That's why
00:49:24I don't understand
00:49:25Why you need to rush
00:49:26When you get out
00:49:27Because
00:49:27I don't want to rush
00:49:29Yeah
00:49:31She wants to move
00:49:32Within the month
00:49:33And I don't want to do that
00:49:34But I'm trying to make her
00:49:35Feel secure
00:49:35Like
00:49:36Because if I say to her
00:49:37I want longer
00:49:37She thinks I'm leading her on
00:49:38But I'm not
00:49:39Yeah
00:49:39What I heard out there
00:49:40Is that she thinks
00:49:41That she's moving up
00:49:42Four bedroom house
00:49:44It's just
00:49:45You need to be more honest
00:49:46With yourself
00:49:47I can see it out there
00:49:48I see you being pressured
00:49:50If this
00:49:51Is everything right now
00:49:52Do I think
00:49:53They would work
00:49:54Outside the experiment
00:49:55No
00:49:56Because I know Scotty
00:49:57So well
00:49:58To know that he would
00:49:58Go running for the hills
00:50:03Gia's giving excuses
00:50:05That the experiment
00:50:06Is what's setting her off
00:50:07All the time
00:50:08And once we're
00:50:09In our four bedroom house
00:50:11And everything's
00:50:12All running perfect
00:50:12It's all going to be
00:50:13Happy ending
00:50:14But
00:50:14I still think
00:50:15There'll be external triggers
00:50:17That they'll have to navigate
00:50:19So you're scared to say
00:50:20Hey
00:50:20I don't want to move so quickly
00:50:22Like are you scared
00:50:23About her reaction
00:50:24Pretty much
00:50:27And that's when
00:50:27I feel like I want
00:50:28Eggshells
00:50:30Like you need to be able
00:50:31To voice your concerns
00:50:31How is a relationship
00:50:33Going to work
00:50:33On the outside
00:50:34If you're in an experiment
00:50:35Right now
00:50:36And you can't even
00:50:36Voice how you feel
00:50:38You know
00:50:39I have these doubts
00:50:39And concerns
00:50:40And right now
00:50:41I can't be 100% certain
00:50:44There's a lot of things
00:50:44I want to talk about
00:50:45With her privately
00:50:47I just wanted to be able
00:50:48To talk about anything
00:50:49Not feel uncomfortable
00:50:52And not
00:50:53GF feel like
00:50:54It's going to be
00:50:54An argument
00:50:56It's just a lot
00:50:57For me to process
00:50:59Like moving forward
00:51:00What do you guys
00:51:01Think I should
00:51:01Personally do
00:51:04Paige
00:51:04I just
00:51:05You're up there
00:51:06Telling me
00:51:07That you guys
00:51:07Great
00:51:07But then down here
00:51:08You're saying
00:51:08Well actually
00:51:09Like you know
00:51:10Once a week
00:51:10I'm having issues
00:51:12To be honest
00:51:14Don't worry
00:51:14About working
00:51:15On eggshells
00:51:17There's so many things
00:51:18I need to address
00:51:20Just overlook
00:51:21Our relationship
00:51:22In general
00:51:22And our behaviours
00:51:23How we interact
00:51:24How we communicate
00:51:26There's so many things
00:51:27We need to get through
00:51:28Before I can make
00:51:29A final decision
00:51:30Because I'm not
00:51:31100% there yet
00:51:32I feel like
00:51:33You do have feelings
00:51:35And there are good times
00:51:36And you do feel
00:51:38Like you're falling
00:51:38But then
00:51:40There's the other side
00:51:41And I
00:51:41I don't know
00:51:42I just feel like
00:51:43Yeah you're turning
00:51:44A blind eye
00:51:44To everything else
00:51:45Right now
00:51:53As the sun sets
00:51:55On another day
00:51:56Of homestays
00:51:57I'm happier than ever
00:51:58How does it feel
00:51:59Having a girl
00:51:59In your house
00:52:00It feels quite
00:52:01Juicy
00:52:02Juicy
00:52:03Our couples
00:52:04Are settling in
00:52:05For the night
00:52:16And on the central coast
00:52:17Of New South Wales
00:52:18Rachel and Stephen
00:52:20Tuck into bed
00:52:21You've got a sleepy face
00:52:23Sleepy face
00:52:23You've got a sleepy face
00:52:44Sleepy face
00:52:45All right
00:52:47All right
00:52:48All righty
00:52:49Not as big as our bed
00:52:50I know
00:52:51This is a lot smaller
00:52:52Than what we're used to
00:52:53But
00:52:56Close quarters
00:52:57Around here
00:52:57What's that touching me
00:53:06With homestays drawing
00:53:08To a close
00:53:09It's been
00:53:11It's been a whirlwind of emotions
00:53:12Stella and Philip
00:53:14Are heading to lunch
00:53:15After some difficult
00:53:16Conversations yesterday
00:53:18Where Philip expressed
00:53:19His 75% assurance
00:53:21In the relationship
00:53:23Jo asked
00:53:25Out of 100
00:53:26How do you
00:53:27Feel
00:53:28Philip said 75
00:53:29I said 100%
00:53:31And like for me
00:53:32I really need to stop
00:53:33My brain going
00:53:34Into the overdrive
00:53:35I really do
00:53:36But
00:53:37It doesn't feel
00:53:38Resolved
00:53:39If that makes sense
00:53:40Like
00:53:42Yeah
00:53:42Yeah
00:53:47Um
00:53:47Jo asked obviously
00:53:50You know
00:53:50A very
00:53:50Hard question
00:53:52You know
00:53:54Out of 100
00:53:56How certain you feel
00:53:57And you know
00:53:58I said yes
00:53:58I do see
00:53:59Future
00:54:00I'm very thankful
00:54:01For Joel
00:54:02That he asked that question
00:54:03Because I would have
00:54:03Never dared
00:54:04To ask it
00:54:05Directly
00:54:06Like that
00:54:08So these are the
00:54:09You know
00:54:10The difficult parts
00:54:11Not having
00:54:15Certainty
00:54:16Certainty
00:54:16Yeah
00:54:19It's not a rejection
00:54:20No of course
00:54:22Yeah
00:54:22It definitely
00:54:22Wasn't a rejection
00:54:24I'm feeling it
00:54:25As much as you are
00:54:27There's a few
00:54:27Moving parts
00:54:28That's all it is
00:54:31The big ticket items
00:54:33Are good
00:54:34Like we love each other
00:54:36Like we've got
00:54:36Good respect
00:54:37Like there's good
00:54:38Potential for a future
00:54:39You know
00:54:41So 100%
00:54:42100% committed
00:54:43Right
00:54:4475% sure
00:54:45How it's all
00:54:46Going to work
00:54:46The nuts and bolts
00:54:48Stella's definitely
00:54:48The right person
00:54:49For me
00:54:50I just hate it
00:54:51When I don't have
00:54:52Anything sorted
00:54:53How it's going to work
00:54:54And all that kind of stuff
00:54:55That's yet to be sorted
00:54:57Like I've got everything
00:54:59That I want in a partner
00:55:01I'm just a realist here
00:55:02And I just think through
00:55:06Logistics and stuff like that
00:55:08There's obviously
00:55:09Living arrangements
00:55:10How we're going to go
00:55:11Moving forward
00:55:12How I'm going to be working here
00:55:14What I'll do for work
00:55:15In the meantime
00:55:16All that kind of stuff
00:55:17That's kind of
00:55:18That was my all round
00:55:19Out of 100
00:55:20You've always told me
00:55:21Like
00:55:22Don't come here
00:55:23To Sydney for me
00:55:24And I'm just like
00:55:25Well
00:55:26Deal with it
00:55:30I'm
00:55:30I'm open to moving now
00:55:32Yes
00:55:33I can't see myself here
00:55:34She told me
00:55:35That she's already
00:55:36100 out of 100
00:55:37Like in this
00:55:38Like
00:55:38Ready to go
00:55:39So like
00:55:40She's ready to go
00:55:41So now it's just kind of
00:55:42I need to sort my shit out
00:55:44You as a person
00:55:45Yeah
00:55:46It's like
00:55:47Pretty much flawless
00:55:51I almost cried
00:55:53I got what I needed
00:55:55And I got my reassurances
00:55:57Just let me lead
00:55:58Sometimes
00:55:59Just let me lead
00:56:00You know
00:56:01Like I needed
00:56:02For him to put
00:56:04The plans in motion
00:56:05What he's going to do
00:56:06After the experiment
00:56:07This is
00:56:08This is it
00:56:09Like
00:56:10He's shown up
00:56:12For me
00:56:12Over and over again
00:56:14And it's a successful
00:56:16End of the homestays
00:56:20Yeah I can cry now
00:56:23We are coming out
00:56:25Stronger
00:56:25Than we came in
00:56:29Coming up
00:56:30Well do you even trust me
00:56:32Scott finds his voice
00:56:35Okay so but do you
00:56:36Put yourself in my shoes
00:56:39I feel like sometimes
00:56:40I'm walking on eggshells
00:56:41I feel like you might
00:56:42Get defensive
00:56:43And then I mean like
00:56:44No no what I'm saying
00:56:45Is like
00:56:45I didn't know you wanted
00:56:46To argue today
00:56:55On the central coast
00:56:57Of New South Wales
00:56:58For Stephen
00:56:59Homestays has helped him
00:57:01Envision a future
00:57:02With Rachel
00:57:03Outside the experiment
00:57:06And has decided to take her
00:57:08On a special date
00:57:10To share exactly
00:57:11How he feels
00:57:13Yeah that's good stuff
00:57:15So good
00:57:16So I thought I would
00:57:17Bring out Rachel
00:57:19To the local venue
00:57:20And would have
00:57:21A little bit of a lunch
00:57:22Bit of a drink
00:57:23And maybe verbalise
00:57:25My emotions
00:57:26Towards Rachel
00:57:27A little bit more
00:57:28Cheers
00:57:32It's pretty hard to speak
00:57:33About my feelings
00:57:34Hard for me to be
00:57:35Vulnerable
00:57:35It stresses me out
00:57:38I do adore
00:57:39I do adore Rachel
00:57:39I do want her to know that
00:57:41Can you believe it
00:57:43Last day of homestays
00:57:45It goes quick eh
00:57:46It really does
00:57:47It really does
00:57:48It's even crazier that
00:57:49You know
00:57:50It only felt like yesterday
00:57:51That we were getting married
00:57:53On that boat
00:57:54Literally felt like the floor
00:57:56Was moving
00:57:56And turned around
00:57:58And I met you
00:57:59For the first time
00:58:01Under the word
00:58:02I like you
00:58:03I've got so many reasons
00:58:03Why I like Rachel
00:58:05So today is a day
00:58:07To express those feelings
00:58:08To her
00:58:10I may not spell it out
00:58:13For you
00:58:13In verbally
00:58:14But just seeing you
00:58:16Yesterday on the boat
00:58:17Having a go
00:58:19Casting the rod
00:58:20For me what I see is
00:58:22A wife
00:58:23Outside the experiment
00:58:26Thank you
00:58:26And I'm really happy
00:58:27How homestays went
00:58:29And
00:58:29You too
00:58:30Speaking about feelings
00:58:32I like where this relationship
00:58:34Is going
00:58:35Yeah
00:58:35And I like you
00:58:37And if a kid's
00:58:37Going in the right direction
00:58:39Can see myself
00:58:41Falling in love with you
00:58:41One day
00:58:44Me being vulnerable here
00:58:47About to
00:58:48You're going to cry
00:58:49So
00:58:53I'm feeling so good
00:58:57What better than to have
00:58:59A man tell you
00:58:59That he likes you
00:59:00A couple of times
00:59:01And he's reassuring you
00:59:03About where his feelings are
00:59:05It was beautiful
00:59:07The way that we interact
00:59:09The way that we are together
00:59:10Now versus the start line
00:59:13So different
00:59:17But I really appreciate
00:59:18You verbalising
00:59:20And reassuring me
00:59:21That you know
00:59:22Like yeah
00:59:22Maybe we are
00:59:24A little bit more on par
00:59:25Than what I think
00:59:26Yeah
00:59:27Makes me really happy
00:59:29And I've got to stress
00:59:30That one to you
00:59:31And I sort of need
00:59:32To reassure that
00:59:33And spell it out for you
00:59:34I do like you
00:59:35And I have caught up
00:59:37In my feelings for you
00:59:40Nice
00:59:44This is amazing
00:59:46Like I just
00:59:47It really reaffirms
00:59:49That I'm not out here
00:59:50By myself
00:59:50Like the feelings are real
00:59:52The feelings are neutral
00:59:57We're leaving here stronger
00:59:59It is making me really excited
01:00:01About moving to Sydney
01:00:03And being a part of this life
01:00:04And that's exactly where
01:00:07I wanted Stephen and I to be
01:00:11Homestays has been great
01:00:12She's big
01:00:13She is
01:00:16Holy shit
01:00:16This is real
01:00:28So last night of Homestays
01:00:30Do you think
01:00:32It was successful
01:00:33Did you think
01:00:34It would go this way
01:00:35Or are you surprised
01:00:38Armed with feedback
01:00:40From his friends
01:00:41Scott wants to address
01:00:43His concerns with Gia
01:00:44About life together
01:00:46After the experiment
01:00:49I need to be 100% certain
01:00:51Before final vows
01:00:52And I feel like
01:00:53I want to be able
01:00:54To communicate 100%
01:00:56Be open with my feelings
01:00:57Without feeling like
01:00:59I'm on eggshells
01:01:00I mean there's a couple
01:01:01Little things I think
01:01:02We still need to address
01:01:03And for me to think about
01:01:04Within this experiment
01:01:05And outside this experiment
01:01:06For us to be 100%
01:01:09Oh like
01:01:10Yeah just obviously
01:01:12We had a rough week
01:01:12And stuff
01:01:13So I didn't know
01:01:14How it was going to go
01:01:15I didn't know
01:01:16If you didn't want to be here
01:01:17But like
01:01:17Okay
01:01:19We all have our moments
01:01:20We all have our moments
01:01:20We're human beings
01:01:21Like
01:01:23I just want you to
01:01:24Like get that
01:01:25That's all
01:01:26Well sometimes
01:01:27It is difficult
01:01:27To have conversations
01:01:28With Gia
01:01:29Because I think
01:01:30Sometimes
01:01:31Gia can still repel
01:01:33And get defensive
01:01:34When I'm just trying
01:01:36To talk about a subject
01:01:38My biggest question to you
01:01:40Like I know we
01:01:40Like trust
01:01:41But sometimes
01:01:42I feel like
01:01:43Do you like
01:01:44Fully 100%
01:01:45Trust me
01:01:49With what
01:01:49In what way
01:01:52Every way
01:01:55With I don't understand
01:01:56Like
01:01:57Do you trust me
01:01:57Like do you trust
01:01:58My words
01:01:59Do you trust me
01:01:59As a person
01:02:01Do you trust me
01:02:02100%
01:02:04Say for example
01:02:05Say the neck pillow
01:02:08When I get the response
01:02:09Of like
01:02:09Whose is that
01:02:11The way you ask that
01:02:13It's like
01:02:13Well do you even trust me
01:02:16But then
01:02:17But do you put yourself
01:02:17In my shoes
01:02:18And see how it may look
01:02:19From an outsider
01:02:20Coming into your home
01:02:21When you said
01:02:22You've not had a woman
01:02:22In your house for years
01:02:23In this house ever
01:02:25And then I see a woman thing
01:02:27Do you see how
01:02:28From my point of view
01:02:29How it could look
01:02:30Yeah I know
01:02:31But
01:02:33Like I don't know
01:02:33I just
01:02:36Like it's not like
01:02:36Oh my god
01:02:37I went looking
01:02:37But it was just there
01:02:38When I turned the corner
01:02:39At the closet
01:02:39It's not like
01:02:40I opened a drawer
01:02:40And was like
01:02:41Oh my god
01:02:41What's in his house
01:02:43From my point of view
01:02:44Like
01:02:45It looked a certain way
01:02:51I feel like
01:02:52Sometimes I'm walking
01:02:52On eggshells
01:02:53Because I feel like
01:02:53If I want to bring up
01:02:54Something I feel like
01:02:55You might misinterpret
01:02:57It the wrong way
01:02:59Get defensive
01:03:00And then we mean
01:03:00Like
01:03:00No no
01:03:01What I'm saying
01:03:02Is like
01:03:02I didn't know
01:03:02You wanted to argue
01:03:31Today
01:03:33Walking a bit
01:03:34On eggshells
01:03:34I don't really know
01:03:36What that was about
01:03:39I wish you told me
01:03:40That you felt like
01:03:41You were on eggshells
01:03:41Because I had no idea
01:03:44I know you love to focus
01:03:45On the positives
01:03:45All the time
01:03:46And so do I
01:03:47But in life
01:03:48It's not always positive
01:03:49100%
01:03:49There's going to be moments
01:03:50Where I might lose my shit
01:03:52Like there's going to be moments
01:03:53Where I am
01:03:54A bit fiery about something
01:03:55Like
01:03:56Do you accept that
01:03:57That's me as a whole
01:03:58Like
01:04:00I'm very self aware
01:04:01I would have listened
01:04:01And I would have been apologetic
01:04:03If I needed to be
01:04:03I don't know why you feel
01:04:05No this is
01:04:06Safe to like
01:04:06Say what you want to say
01:04:08This is
01:04:10But even like
01:04:11Trusting me
01:04:12As a person
01:04:13And marking my word
01:04:14Like
01:04:15What I'm saying
01:04:15Like do you trust me
01:04:16100%
01:04:17That's all
01:04:19No I trust you
01:04:20But
01:04:20Can I commit to moving
01:04:22And everything
01:04:22If you never feel
01:04:23Like
01:04:24You know
01:04:25That you love me
01:04:29Where I'm at
01:04:30Emotionally moving forward
01:04:31Like I'm just
01:04:32Obviously I'm falling
01:04:33For you every day
01:04:34And I
01:04:35And I feel like
01:04:36We're on that path
01:04:38Yeah
01:04:38We've been on that path
01:04:39For a while
01:04:40So he's still falling
01:04:41When's he gonna hit the floor
01:04:42I don't know
01:04:43He's been falling for a while
01:04:44Like
01:04:45How far is the
01:04:46Sky
01:04:48The things that I've been
01:04:49Concerned
01:04:49The need to address
01:04:50Is the pressure
01:04:51The love
01:04:51The
01:04:52Yeah
01:04:52That's the stuff
01:04:53That I've just
01:04:54Been talking about
01:04:56This whole end
01:04:57Of this experiment
01:05:01You know me
01:05:02I don't like to push things
01:05:03I don't like to rush things
01:05:03I don't like pressure
01:05:04I like to go with the flow
01:05:06Like I don't like being pushed
01:05:08Or rushed
01:05:08Or setting a time
01:05:10But we do have our rough time
01:05:12Like when to do it all
01:05:16I need to feel safe
01:05:18And secure enough
01:05:18In this relationship
01:05:19And I need to feel
01:05:20That he is feeling the same way
01:05:22Or
01:05:23I don't think I could
01:05:25Continue this on
01:05:29That last step
01:05:30Of all in
01:05:32Being in love
01:05:35I'm not there yet
01:05:39I just want to let my own feelings
01:05:41Do its thing
01:05:42And my feelings aren't being heard
01:05:44Like
01:05:45That's what
01:05:46Affects me
01:05:47And pushes me back
01:05:58Tomorrow night
01:05:59Yay
01:06:00So good
01:06:01Homestays continues
01:06:02Welcome home
01:06:04You should be able to say something nice
01:06:06And be genuine about it
01:06:07Her abusing me over a joke
01:06:09Pieces me off
01:06:10What comment has Danny made
01:06:12That leaves Bec seeing red
01:06:14I'm done
01:06:15In Adelaide
01:06:17The biological clock is ticking
01:06:19You want to have a family
01:06:20And
01:06:21You don't want to
01:06:23Keep putting it off
01:06:24Alyssa's mum
01:06:25Shares words of wisdom
01:06:26From her own life experience
01:06:28It's really stressful now
01:06:30Blah blah
01:06:31All the time
01:06:31Alyssa is spiralling
01:06:37Could this be
01:06:39The most awkward homestay ever?
01:06:46As things for Chris and Sam
01:06:48Go from bad
01:06:49Do you accept full responsibility
01:06:51For your defensiveness
01:06:52And the aggression
01:06:53I felt from you last week?
01:06:54To worse
01:06:56Um
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