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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 29 ,
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00:00:01Do you see me as the mother-father of your children? Yes I do see as a father
00:00:04of my children. After seven weeks of marriage, Feedback Week brought some
00:00:10couples closer together. I know you're the best for my wife. Thank you for
00:00:15sending to us that really understand Stephen and I and what we needed. But for
00:00:20others... Sure I'll take that on board. Stephen now I feel like you're getting
00:00:24defensive. I'm not getting defensive of having a conversation. Tensions were at an
00:00:27all-time high. I'm not doing it. No thanks.
00:00:33It was just... As Scott avoided any critical feedback opting to keep the peace in his
00:00:41marriage. I knew if I went too deep I'd be over the balcony. You're absolutely
00:00:48pissing me off. Danny struggled to give Beck a straight answer. Do you think you
00:00:53will fall in love with me? And why? Um... At the dinner party, after weeks of being
00:00:59caught in the crossfire... Oh God. Alyssa tried to put a full stop to the
00:01:05feud between Gia and Beck. Stop using me! Stop using me as a pawn. And Beck and Danny
00:01:12spiralled. I want you to be wary about what you text people. Two months ago Daniel.
00:01:17Ken, that was ten years ago. Come on out. Now. I'm wasting my time at a dinner party talking about
00:01:23abusive text messages. I'm here for a wife and a relationship. I'm not here for drama.
00:01:28Do not sit there in front of everyone and not show solidarity to me. Just pretend for two minutes.
00:01:37Tonight, it's the second last commitment ceremony. You ask a question of like, alright, if we go outside the
00:01:43experiment, how quick would you expect like a proposal? I say the sooner the better. Wow.
00:01:48And some are already locking in plans for married life outside of the experiment.
00:01:53The man is leaving. And he is actually starting to show me what my life here in Sydney could look
00:01:59like.
00:02:00And then... So last week you said that the noise from the group and around Gia doesn't affect your relationship.
00:02:07Do you still believe that? Will Scott speak up and confess how he feels in front of Gia?
00:02:15I will admit like...
00:02:20The question, what was it like? It was a bit... Could you see yourself falling in love with me? Yeah.
00:02:25Why is Danny dodging the question?
00:02:30Um...
00:02:34In one of the most confronting couch sessions ever seen.
00:02:39It's a pretty black and white question.
00:02:44Before the blind side.
00:02:49That will leave the room speechless.
00:02:52I just can't believe it.
00:03:08It's the morning of the second last commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:03:13And despite a tense ending to last night's dinner party, one couple continued to shine bright.
00:03:23Good morning.
00:03:24Morning.
00:03:25It's the long black.
00:03:28Hopefully you don't burn the roof of your mouth.
00:03:29No, she'll be fine.
00:03:30You know?
00:03:31Last night for Stella and I, yeah, it was great.
00:03:34We were just sitting there, united, chilling out, smooching whilst the drama's happening.
00:03:39We tend to do that when people are kicking off, we're just kissing each other.
00:03:43And then, yeah, we're staying out of it for the most part.
00:03:45I think we are out of the trenches with the drama.
00:03:49I doubt it, but I'm very, very hopeful.
00:03:52I'm very hopeful.
00:03:52Some people cannot help themselves.
00:03:55I've seen the blokes like Danny and Scott and they're just ready to not talk about high
00:04:01school shit.
00:04:02Like, Scott is not his usual self.
00:04:05He was just...
00:04:06His light was dimmed.
00:04:08He was just not there.
00:04:09He's dimmed.
00:04:09He's dimmed at the moment.
00:04:11He's just not there.
00:04:12Danny as well.
00:04:13Definitely.
00:04:13Yeah.
00:04:14I always look at him and he's just so withdrawn.
00:04:16They dissociate.
00:04:17They just dissociate and they just go to another realm.
00:04:20They just leave the place.
00:04:21They're just like this.
00:04:22Yeah.
00:04:25I just wish that people like Becca and Gia can stop saying sorry and just don't do it
00:04:32from now on.
00:04:33Don't be sorry and go, I take accountability and just don't do it.
00:04:36How about we try that and then we don't have to keep talking about this BS.
00:04:47While our couples are putting on the final touches for tonight's commitment ceremony,
00:04:52one participant who is not looking forward to seeing the experts is Gia.
00:04:58Last one I walked out, I don't like commitment ceremonies one bit because I hate being vulnerable
00:05:03and talking about my feelings and commitment ceremonies don't go great for me all the time.
00:05:09Last week, I feel like I was getting in so much trouble for the screenshots.
00:05:13They didn't at all question back.
00:05:15It was just me for sending them.
00:05:16I just felt like I was just attacked and it was unfair last week.
00:05:19It's not fair that I'm always taking the heat for that sort of stuff.
00:05:23I admit I was wrong for sending them, but I'm not the one who said the vulgar things
00:05:27in those screenshots.
00:05:29I think it's just going to be more of a rehash of like what you're saying.
00:05:32Feedback week.
00:05:33Feedback week.
00:05:33Also, why'd you walk out, which it'll just be a discussion of that.
00:05:37Yeah.
00:05:38I adore and I really am falling for Gia, but like this whole experiment has been very tough
00:05:45in regards to the drama side of things.
00:05:47There was so many days where there was just so much heat and heaviness.
00:05:52Tonight, like I'm nervous seeing the experts because this is something that I find a problem
00:05:57and I'm going to address it.
00:05:59I'm not looking forward to how she's going to feel about it, but I can only be honest.
00:06:09One couple that everyone will have their eyes on tonight is Beck and Danny, who had a tense
00:06:14argument at the end of last night's dinner party.
00:06:18Don't sit here and say, I want us to have a good relationship, but we don't because of
00:06:24drama at dinner parties.
00:06:26I just want you to be wary about what you say.
00:06:30I'm very wary.
00:06:31I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:06:35I'm done.
00:06:36I'm not going back in.
00:06:37I'm done.
00:06:38He says, oh, we're right or die.
00:06:40We're right or die.
00:06:41We're not.
00:06:42Just pretend for two minutes.
00:06:44And this morning, there has been yet another unexpected development in their relationship.
00:06:51How are things with you and Danny after last night's dinner party?
00:06:55Really good.
00:06:58There's so much love and adoration within this relationship.
00:07:03We had like a tiny little bit of crosswords last night.
00:07:06Danny sort of had a little wibble wobble.
00:07:08He was like, I'm so good at the drama.
00:07:10And at the end of the day, we've actually come out on top, you know?
00:07:13Even though it's kind of crappy for a little while, we always come back together, talk about
00:07:21it, and end up with a better understanding of each other and in a stronger place in our
00:07:27relationship.
00:07:28Do you agree?
00:07:28Hmm.
00:07:29I became a girlfriend as well.
00:07:31Still happy with that decision, boo?
00:07:33Still happy with the decision.
00:07:35I feel great.
00:07:35I feel absolutely fantastic.
00:07:37Like, I'm not only a wife, I'm a girlfriend, and I know that everything's hunky-dory.
00:07:41Me telling you at the commitment ceremony that I love you, and obviously, I'm in my own
00:07:48head as well, because it's like, shit, like, that's a lot for me to do, ever.
00:07:54Like, you're the first man I've ever told that I love first.
00:07:57Ever.
00:07:58Feedback week, Danny.
00:07:59How's it been?
00:08:01Been an alright week, to be honest.
00:08:03Like, alright is how I'd describe it.
00:08:04Not amazing.
00:08:05Just alright.
00:08:07Obviously, the question to ask, Bec was just overreacting a little bit there.
00:08:12We know that.
00:08:13That's a fact.
00:08:14Do you think you will fall in love with me, and why?
00:08:18Probably.
00:08:20I'd assume I will, yeah.
00:08:22Am I there yet?
00:08:23No.
00:08:27So, it has sort of scared me that she's got stronger feelings to me than I have to her.
00:08:34Up until last week, when she told me she loved me, I didn't realise she was feeling that strongly
00:08:38towards me.
00:08:39She'd never even told me, like, little soft things to, like, soften it.
00:08:43It was just like, that come out of nowhere.
00:08:45That's why when she told me on the sofa on the couch, I was a bit, like, shocked.
00:08:50My feelings are extremely, extremely strong for Daniel.
00:09:00F*** it.
00:09:01F*** it.
00:09:02I love you.
00:09:05F*** it.
00:09:06F*** it.
00:09:09F*** it.
00:09:09F*** it.
00:09:12F*** it.
00:09:12F*** it.
00:09:12Do you think that you will get there, or are you still not sure?
00:09:15It's hard to tell, to be honest.
00:09:17It's very hard to tell.
00:09:19In regards to intimacy, it's not like I don't want to do it, but it's not like I'm, like,
00:09:27craving to do it as well, like I'm United Mean.
00:09:31Because of constant drama with Bec.
00:09:34So, yeah, that's probably one of the things, the main reason that's holding me back.
00:09:43F*** it.
00:09:59Greetings, gents.
00:10:01Hello.
00:10:02Come on in.
00:10:03Good to see you all.
00:10:04Good evening.
00:10:05Good evening.
00:10:06Hi.
00:10:07Hi, guys.
00:10:20Hi.
00:10:21Hello.
00:10:22Welcome.
00:10:25Settling.
00:10:30Well, greetings everyone, to the second last commitment ceremony.
00:10:35We are very much nearing the pointy end where you have to size up your relationship and really drill down
00:10:44on whether or not you can see a future outside of this experiment with the person that you've been matched
00:10:52with.
00:10:52Now it gets real.
00:10:55Now it gets real.
00:10:56Now in saying that, next week, it is homestays.
00:11:17Now in saying that, next week, it is homestays.
00:11:22It is homestays for you when it comes to your final decision.
00:11:25Take it very seriously.
00:11:27Now the past week, of course, has been feedback week.
00:11:31It's been a real test of how each and every one of you responds to feedback, but also how each
00:11:37of you gives feedback.
00:11:38So we'll be really interested to drill down into how that's gone for each of you and to see what's
00:11:44been the impact on your relationships.
00:11:47And of course, we saw some of that last night at the dinner party.
00:11:51It was actually quite shocking to see some of the behaviours that occurred at last night's dinner party.
00:11:58And we certainly want to get into all of that.
00:12:03Well, let's get our first couple up.
00:12:06Jira and Scott.
00:12:10Good to see you both.
00:12:12Yes, John, I'm still here. Are you happy about it?
00:12:15I'm very happy.
00:12:16Oh, I thought you wouldn't be.
00:12:18Yeah, particularly because last time, you actually walked off.
00:12:22I did.
00:12:25So, let's go back to what actually happened there.
00:12:29Because we didn't get a chance to talk to you about that.
00:12:33Because we were talking about your relationship and where you're at and what a good place you're in.
00:12:38And it was positive.
00:12:40But then something happened.
00:12:42What was it?
00:12:47I was getting in trouble for the screenshots involving Alyssa.
00:12:51But the other person wasn't getting in trouble for what was written in the screenshots.
00:12:55It felt very against me.
00:12:59And I just felt like attacked.
00:13:05And I just felt like it was a bit unfair, to be honest.
00:13:09I just felt like, what about the screen? What was she saying?
00:13:12Like, just me, me, me.
00:13:13I just cannot.
00:13:16So, I had to remove myself.
00:13:17I didn't want to have another argument.
00:13:19I didn't want any more volatile situations.
00:13:22I just, I had to remove myself.
00:13:26All right, so let's break it down.
00:13:28There are two parts to this.
00:13:31One part is what was said in the text.
00:13:36Which came out at the dinner party last night.
00:13:39The specifics of it.
00:13:43And there's no getting around that.
00:13:44It's abhorrent.
00:13:47Those words.
00:13:49Those phrases.
00:13:52Towards another member in this experiment.
00:13:57Was appalling.
00:13:59I mean, Bec, the hits keep coming.
00:14:16I mean, the hits keep coming.
00:14:17What was said in the texts.
00:14:19Which came out at the dinner party last night.
00:14:22The specifics of it.
00:14:25I mean, you know, the title was appalling.
00:14:39was appalling.
00:14:42I mean, Bec, the hits keep coming.
00:14:51Regardless of what bad place you were in,
00:14:53the way in which you did that
00:14:56was malicious and extremely hurtful.
00:15:00And we don't condone it.
00:15:06That's the first part.
00:15:08The second issue is how they were used.
00:15:13And that's where you come into this, Gia.
00:15:15Yep.
00:15:17It was very high school,
00:15:21trying to really get at somebody
00:15:24while hurting another person in the process.
00:15:30It's about choices.
00:15:32It's about choices in terms of what you write in the text.
00:15:36Then it's choices about what you want to do with that
00:15:39in terms of sending it on or not.
00:15:42I know I was wrong.
00:15:45Looking back now, I wish I never sent the screenshots to Juliet.
00:15:48I was doing the wrong thing.
00:15:50I mean, it was like something happened to me
00:15:54that affected me and to defend myself.
00:15:56I was like, well, let me send some screenshots
00:15:58to do something to that person.
00:16:00And it was just like childish behaviour, to be honest.
00:16:02So it was an eye for an eye.
00:16:03Yeah, yeah.
00:16:05OK, we do not want to revisit this ever again.
00:16:10And I'm sure Alyssa doesn't want to either.
00:16:13It is being put to bed as of right now.
00:16:20But, Gia, one of the things I wanted to ask you was
00:16:23when you left last week, Scott was sitting here
00:16:27kind of not really knowing what was going on.
00:16:30And I just wondered whether he was featured
00:16:34in your thinking in that moment.
00:16:37I told him before I ran out,
00:16:39I said, I feel sick, I'm going to leave.
00:16:41Scott, how did you feel
00:16:45when you realised Gia had left?
00:16:50Well, at the time, I was sitting there and going to myself,
00:16:53she's not left me.
00:16:54I just, because I know how close we are.
00:16:56So I'm like, there's no excuse for her to just bail.
00:16:57But then obviously, the only thing I was just a little bit annoyed
00:17:01was just not being told what was going on.
00:17:04Just communication, that's all.
00:17:07But deep down, I knew she didn't run away from me.
00:17:11So, yeah.
00:17:14So last week, you said that the noise around your relationship
00:17:18from the group and around Gia
00:17:20doesn't affect your relationship.
00:17:23Do you still believe that?
00:17:28Last week was probably one of the most heaviest weeks
00:17:30we've had in this whole experiment.
00:17:32More so for Gia.
00:17:33She's had a lot to take on herself,
00:17:35not wanting to be here
00:17:38for a few reasons.
00:17:41There's only so much, you know,
00:17:43I'm here to protect her and cater for her,
00:17:44make sure she's okay and give her reassurance,
00:17:46but there was a lot that happened pretty much every day
00:17:48and I will admit, like,
00:17:50and I will admit, like, it does make me not be myself.
00:17:58What do you mean?
00:18:00My energy dropped and I just...
00:18:03So I'm just trying to be positive.
00:18:06And it's hard sometimes.
00:18:08But feedback week, yeah, it was pretty hard.
00:18:11What was hard about feedback week?
00:18:13Obviously, the commitment ceremony was, you know,
00:18:15I walked out and I wasn't good.
00:18:17You know, that...
00:18:18And I just...
00:18:19I was just feeling off, right?
00:18:20So then I get told I have a feedback date
00:18:24and I'm like, oh, my God, I can't do this.
00:18:27I cannot put myself in a situation like this again
00:18:30where I'm arguing with somebody
00:18:32and I'm like, you know what?
00:18:33I don't want to go on the date.
00:18:35So what did you choose to do?
00:18:36I didn't go on the date.
00:18:40With these challenges that we set,
00:18:44you are certainly taken out of your comfort zone,
00:18:47but they're done for a reason.
00:18:49Here we go.
00:18:50It's all right. It's not...
00:18:52It's always about everything but our relationship.
00:18:57God, like, how many more times am I going to get, like, attacked?
00:19:02It's not. It's not.
00:19:03That's what the vibe I'm getting.
00:19:04It's not.
00:19:06I've been apologising.
00:19:07I've been accountable.
00:19:08I've been changing my behaviour.
00:19:10I just feel like the feedback letter...
00:19:14..that felt like it was an attack on me.
00:19:16The tasks that we received to do,
00:19:19I just found were just, like...
00:19:21..like, not nice.
00:19:24Number one is, Gia, remove yourself
00:19:25from any group chats that you're in.
00:19:29Number two, detox from all social media till final vows.
00:19:34Number three, no physical touch for 10 days.
00:19:37And I was like...
00:19:38That's the thing, I think.
00:19:39I took it...
00:19:40This is how I took it.
00:19:41He took it different.
00:19:41I took it as an attack of, like,
00:19:44oh, my God, like, another thing against me.
00:19:50Why do you feel like people are attacking you?
00:19:52I don't know.
00:19:54You have no idea.
00:19:55Well, that was Stella and Phillip,
00:19:57so I'm not sure why.
00:20:00There's just one thing I like to outlay is, like...
00:20:03..whether something's negative or bad
00:20:05or, like, something you don't want to hear or see,
00:20:07we don't need to hold on to it.
00:20:10Because sometimes I feel it does hurt you
00:20:13in a way, deep down,
00:20:14where it's got to be said out loud
00:20:16or people need to know I hate it or, like...
00:20:18Sometimes I feel like you hold on to it
00:20:20with a bit of power behind you
00:20:21and you want to deliver it back to someone.
00:20:25And I feel if we can let go of things a lot easier,
00:20:28we can move past that
00:20:29and then just focus on the other stuff.
00:20:33Because I see the light in everything, all the time.
00:20:35Like, these things that are said, letters,
00:20:37it doesn't matter how bad it is.
00:20:38It's not like we're bad people.
00:20:40People just see what...
00:20:41Right, this is your perception, though.
00:20:43For me, for my own personal reasons
00:20:47and what I've been through in life,
00:20:48I felt attacked.
00:20:56I walked into this experiment.
00:20:57I said, even my audition,
00:20:58I don't like negative stuff.
00:21:00I don't like drama.
00:21:01I don't like any of that.
00:21:01I don't want it in my life.
00:21:02And I know Gia's been involved in some of it
00:21:05and we had an agreement.
00:21:06Can you make a promise to me
00:21:07not involve yourself in drama
00:21:09for the rest of this experiment?
00:21:11There's been a few difficult things
00:21:13inside the experiment
00:21:14and I have to know
00:21:16whether it's the pressure in here
00:21:17or whether this is outside as well.
00:21:21Nothing has really affected me in this experiment.
00:21:23The only thing is just the drama stuff.
00:21:24I just...I don't like it.
00:21:26And I just want to make sure
00:21:27and be reassured
00:21:28there's not going to be that shit outside this
00:21:29because I won't tolerate it.
00:21:30That's it.
00:21:32For me, I don't want someone
00:21:33who's going to retaliate in really bad behaviour.
00:21:35That's what I mean.
00:21:37It's about how you carry yourself...
00:21:38It's just common knowledge.
00:21:39I would never do that.
00:21:40That's what I'm saying.
00:21:40From the stuff that's in the experiment,
00:21:41I don't want to see that outside the experiment.
00:21:44That's all it is.
00:21:44I'm not saying anything bad.
00:21:45It's just what I've seen.
00:21:46Yeah, just...you don't know me well enough then.
00:21:49Babe, I'm only helping.
00:21:50It's just not who I am.
00:21:51I just do not do that in life.
00:21:53I'm just helping.
00:21:53Like...
00:21:54I do nursing.
00:21:55Like, I'm a kind person.
00:21:57I would never, but anyway.
00:21:58I'm not saying you're like that.
00:21:59I'm trying to just say
00:22:00what I'm feeling.
00:22:06She's not going to be happy
00:22:08with him saying that,
00:22:09I guarantee you.
00:22:12Scott's just talking about
00:22:14his experience with you.
00:22:16What he's seen.
00:22:17He can only work with what he's seen.
00:22:20And he has seen you rise to the drama.
00:22:22So he's not saying
00:22:24he knows that that's what you're going to do
00:22:26on the outside.
00:22:27He's saying he knows that
00:22:28that's what you have done
00:22:30within the experiment.
00:22:31So surely that's reasonable.
00:22:33Yep.
00:22:38Oh, no, we're getting slammed, Chris.
00:22:40Yeah.
00:22:41You're not getting slammed, babe.
00:22:42It's nothing.
00:22:45No, I'm all good.
00:22:46I'm sorry.
00:22:47I'm all good.
00:22:47All good.
00:22:47I don't like to cry, you know.
00:22:49Just, I'm fine.
00:22:51Let's just finish this, please.
00:22:53Yep.
00:22:54Mm-hmm.
00:23:08You're all right?
00:23:09Sorry, I'm all good.
00:23:11Gia, do you feel secure
00:23:12in this relationship?
00:23:14Yeah.
00:23:16What makes you say that?
00:23:18Um, because even when I say
00:23:21I'm going to leave,
00:23:21he's like, no, you can't leave.
00:23:24Um, like, when I, like,
00:23:26lose my mind and, like, spiral,
00:23:28he's always there to, like,
00:23:30be positive and try and turn my mood around.
00:23:33And I feel like he's got me.
00:23:35Yeah.
00:23:36And I can feel like, yeah,
00:23:37I feel secure in this relationship.
00:23:39What about you, Scott?
00:23:43Well, the thing is, like,
00:23:45yes, we face these hard things
00:23:46and we're not perfect people,
00:23:49but I see so many good things about you
00:23:53and that's why I'm here.
00:23:54Like, you're such a beautiful person.
00:23:56Like, we've had a rough week,
00:23:57but we always come back to each other.
00:23:58So you feel secure in this relationship?
00:24:00100%, yeah, I feel secure.
00:24:03We just have these little hurdles to get through,
00:24:05understand one another, you know,
00:24:07and keep pursuing our life together.
00:24:12All right, well, let's go to the decision.
00:24:14Let's go with you first, Scott.
00:24:18I'm grateful that we're still here together
00:24:20and then we got through and we're still smiling
00:24:21and I cannot wait for homestays.
00:24:24It's all right to stay
00:24:25and happy two months to my beautiful wife.
00:24:27Aw, that's cute.
00:24:29Gia, stay or leave?
00:24:30Um, I know I need to work on some things
00:24:33and I'm committed to doing that
00:24:35because, like, he's worth it
00:24:36and I need to, like, grow as a person.
00:24:38I can't keep doing these behaviours
00:24:40that I've been doing
00:24:41and I know I'm wrong for that.
00:24:42So, um, I'm just going to be positive this week
00:24:45and move forward
00:24:45and we're going to be in our swimsuits
00:24:47at the beach on the Gold Coast.
00:24:50So, we're going to stay.
00:24:51Oh, 40s.
00:24:52I've got square boobs, I don't know why,
00:24:53but that's a bikini.
00:24:55That's a bikini.
00:24:56OK, well, I know that that was a very intense session
00:25:00and it's so important for you guys
00:25:02to not brush things under the carpet.
00:25:06I know, Scott, you've mentioned
00:25:07that you like to look on the bright side of life,
00:25:11move forward as fast as you can,
00:25:13leave the past behind.
00:25:14Problem is, if you do that all the time,
00:25:17you don't address the issues that are there.
00:25:20And rather than saying,
00:25:21it's just going to be OK, forget about it,
00:25:24actually instead go, well, tell me more.
00:25:27And for you, Gia, what's really important
00:25:29is that if there's an issue that comes up from Scott,
00:25:33that you stay with it,
00:25:34rather than look at it as a personal attack.
00:25:37This is just feedback about a behaviour.
00:25:40And I can sit here and talk about that behaviour
00:25:43and then as a team,
00:25:44we can do something different moving forward.
00:25:47That'll help us a lot, to be honest.
00:25:49Because, like, sometimes I want to bring things up
00:25:52and then I get a bit scared
00:25:53because I don't want you to get the wrong ideas
00:25:55if I'm trying to attack you.
00:25:57It's because I genuinely care
00:25:59and I just want to fix a few little things
00:26:01that'll help both of us.
00:26:02Yep.
00:26:02So I really love what you just said.
00:26:04Now with that, have a great week
00:26:06and we'll see you next time.
00:26:07Thanks, guys.
00:26:08Well done, guys.
00:26:09Cheers.
00:26:10Have a great week.
00:26:27Still to come...
00:26:30What has Sam in tears?
00:26:35And later...
00:26:36Could you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:26:39Danny is put in the hot seat.
00:26:42I think I misinterpreted the question.
00:26:45Because it's a pretty black and white question.
00:27:02Next up...
00:27:04Rachel and Stephen.
00:27:09Hello.
00:27:10Welcome.
00:27:11Hi.
00:27:11Welcome, welcome.
00:27:12It's nice to see you.
00:27:14Oh, yeah.
00:27:16Feedback week.
00:27:17Tell us about feedback week.
00:27:19Um, I actually think feedback week
00:27:21was great for Stephen and I.
00:27:23We started off with the first tasks of questions.
00:27:26The question of, you know, saying,
00:27:29can you see yourself falling in love with me at some point?
00:27:33We both had a big, resounding yes.
00:27:36And so that was really nice.
00:27:38Because in terms of the way we view our lives in the future,
00:27:43they very much align.
00:27:45And so, yeah, it was really good.
00:27:48It was just a really great task.
00:27:51Feedback week has been, you know, amazing.
00:27:55I got some really good advice from Alyssa
00:27:58of trying to be a bit more of a leader.
00:28:01Which we saw.
00:28:02We saw.
00:28:03We were very impressed.
00:28:04Oh, you saw that?
00:28:05Yes.
00:28:05At the dinner party.
00:28:07You did have a moment at the dinner party
00:28:10where you stood up to the group
00:28:11and you spoke on behalf of the relationship
00:28:14in such a mature, such a take charge,
00:28:18such a masculine,
00:28:19such a all there kind of way.
00:28:25We were very impressed
00:28:26and we were literally cheering that on.
00:28:29It was a really, really good moment
00:28:31to see Rachel beaming
00:28:33because you were beaming.
00:28:35You were so proud of your man speaking up to the group.
00:28:41Setting those boundaries for the group
00:28:43and for the two of you.
00:28:44Well, I'm going to implement that
00:28:45not just for one day.
00:28:46It's going to be just in the relationship.
00:28:48I've got to put my captain's socks, undies and hat on
00:28:52and, yeah, take a bit of charge and leadership.
00:28:57Captain, I like it.
00:28:58Captain Steve-o.
00:29:00I'm going to get a hat for him.
00:29:04How did it feel in the moment
00:29:06to speak to the group the way that you did
00:29:08and to ascertain those boundaries
00:29:10and make yourself be heard so clearly?
00:29:14I know I'm pretty quiet in the dinner parties
00:29:16and I sort of like to keep things to myself
00:29:19because I feel like it's just a little bit easier
00:29:21to keep your mouth closed.
00:29:23In some situations,
00:29:25I guess it was good to, you know,
00:29:27finally be heard.
00:29:30I can imagine so.
00:29:34You guys have really been a bit of a slow burn
00:29:37but every week we start to see something emerge,
00:29:42the intimacy, the speaking up.
00:29:44There's a lot of change in the two of you that I see
00:29:47and it's on a week-by-week basis.
00:29:51What's it doing to you, Steve-o,
00:29:53in terms of how you're feeling about this lovely woman?
00:29:59I feel really connected to Rachel.
00:30:01We're getting closer.
00:30:02I feel like, as well, saying to Rachel,
00:30:04I feel like I've come such a long way
00:30:06from the wedding
00:30:07and the ups and downs that we've had.
00:30:09So, feeling, yeah, really good.
00:30:12Rachel, for you towards him,
00:30:14what's going on inside of you?
00:30:16So, I really like Stephen.
00:30:19I've been very clear about that.
00:30:21I'm very connected with Stephen.
00:30:23It's just so comfortable to be ourselves
00:30:26and have fun and, you know,
00:30:28it's just amazing.
00:30:29And so, I'm at the point now
00:30:32where my man is leaving
00:30:33and he is actually starting to show me
00:30:35what my life here in Sydney could look like.
00:30:41That really shows,
00:30:43through your body language,
00:30:44which is just how close
00:30:47and comfortable you are
00:30:49with one another
00:30:50and loving, dare I say it.
00:30:55Are we reading this correctly?
00:30:57Does it feel comfortable
00:30:58to be sitting like that?
00:30:59This is common, you know,
00:31:01in the apartment.
00:31:03Now you're showing off.
00:31:06Mate.
00:31:09So, with that in mind,
00:31:10we're going to go to a decision.
00:31:11Yeah.
00:31:12Let's kick it off with you, Rachel.
00:31:17This is a huge shock, I know,
00:31:19but I've written stay
00:31:20and I put, like, the sun
00:31:22and, like, that's water
00:31:23from our little beach days.
00:31:26Cute.
00:31:27And Steve-O.
00:31:28I like where this is going,
00:31:30so why would I do anything else
00:31:32besides stay?
00:31:38Good on you guys.
00:31:39Thank you so much.
00:31:40Well done.
00:31:41Great.
00:31:42Thank you so much.
00:31:43You did it.
00:31:43You did it.
00:31:45Thank you so much.
00:31:50High fives.
00:31:51That was a nice one.
00:32:07Our next couple on the couch.
00:32:11Chris and Sam.
00:32:17Hello, you two.
00:32:18Howdy.
00:32:19Hi.
00:32:19Hello, guys.
00:32:20How we doing?
00:32:23Well, I've got to say,
00:32:25this is a very different energy
00:32:27from the two of you,
00:32:28not what we're used to at all.
00:32:31You're like a very different couple right now.
00:32:33Yeah.
00:32:36Do you want to let us in?
00:32:40Chris, you don't look very happy.
00:32:42No, I'm just like, um...
00:32:44Like, first of all,
00:32:46you asked me a question last week.
00:32:48Are you starting to envision a life
00:32:49outside of the experiment?
00:32:50I thought it was admirable
00:32:52that I was actually thinking
00:32:53after the experiment,
00:32:54and I said, perhaps, potentially,
00:32:55Sam based himself in Sydney.
00:32:57It came from a really good place.
00:33:00But Sam was upset
00:33:01that I didn't consult him
00:33:02before answering the question
00:33:03that you asked me.
00:33:05And then he said to me,
00:33:0610 minutes prior to the dinner party,
00:33:08your three apologies weren't genuine enough.
00:33:10I'm going to bring it up
00:33:11in front of the group.
00:33:12We could have facilitated that
00:33:14in the apartment
00:33:15in a more private,
00:33:17controlled environment.
00:33:19I feel like I've, um,
00:33:21you know,
00:33:21been dragged through the coals.
00:33:22All right, I'm just going to go to Sam
00:33:24because there's something
00:33:24I just want to clarify here.
00:33:26Why was it that you felt
00:33:27the need to bring this up
00:33:29in that group context?
00:33:31I wanted feedback from the group.
00:33:33I can go talk to my friends,
00:33:34you can go talk to your friends,
00:33:36and we can try and, like,
00:33:37see if we can move past this
00:33:40because I just couldn't see
00:33:41getting to a conclusion
00:33:42with just the two of us
00:33:43because I was just getting shut down.
00:33:46That's why.
00:33:49There are some pretty big lifestyle changes
00:33:52ahead of the two of you.
00:33:54Chris has got children coming.
00:33:56Yeah.
00:33:56You know, Chris has the farm.
00:33:58Yeah.
00:33:59And, you know,
00:34:00clearly life's going to be
00:34:02very much rooted
00:34:03around Chris's existing world.
00:34:05Yeah.
00:34:05And a lot of movement
00:34:07and compromise on your part, Sam.
00:34:10Is this the elephant
00:34:12in the room here
00:34:13for the two of you?
00:34:16Does it feel like
00:34:18it'll be you making
00:34:19all of the sacrifice?
00:34:22I'll be making big moves.
00:34:24Yeah, so 90% of the sacrifice
00:34:25would be on me
00:34:26to, like, fit into Chris's life,
00:34:28which is fine.
00:34:29Like, I know that.
00:34:31I'm prepared to do that
00:34:32if we fall for each other,
00:34:33but I just
00:34:35didn't want to feel like
00:34:36I had no say
00:34:37in even how that would look.
00:34:39I just feel like
00:34:40there could be
00:34:40a bit more empathy
00:34:41around the fact
00:34:42that there's a lot
00:34:43that I have to change
00:34:43and I would have really liked
00:34:44if you discussed that
00:34:45with me before.
00:34:49How does that sit with you, Chris?
00:34:51Yeah.
00:34:54My answer to you
00:34:55was coming from a good place.
00:34:58That question that you asked me,
00:34:59are you thinking about life
00:35:00outside of this experiment,
00:35:01which I thought
00:35:02was such a cute question.
00:35:04That question
00:35:05has now, like, spiraled
00:35:06into something
00:35:08so much bigger
00:35:09than what we had anticipated
00:35:10and it's put a huge rift
00:35:12between us, obviously,
00:35:13and, um, yeah.
00:35:15Sam,
00:35:17I've been watching you
00:35:18and you look a bit withdrawn.
00:35:22What has all this,
00:35:23do you feel, Sam,
00:35:24done to your relationship?
00:35:27To be honest, like,
00:35:28it's really sad
00:35:30because you guys saw me
00:35:31at the last commitment ceremony
00:35:32and I even wrote
00:35:33in my journal afterwards
00:35:34that a life with Chris
00:35:35could be magical and amazing
00:35:37and it's just, like,
00:35:39taking the feet out
00:35:39from underneath me.
00:35:41Um, yeah.
00:35:44It sucks.
00:35:47Chris, one of the things
00:35:49I said to you,
00:35:49very curious,
00:35:50because essentially
00:35:52you were in a great place
00:35:53a week ago
00:35:54and then Sam
00:35:56has brought something up
00:35:57gently to just say,
00:35:58you know,
00:35:59I felt a little bit excluded.
00:36:00I thought
00:36:02that would have
00:36:03brought you closer
00:36:04but, in fact,
00:36:05the reaction he got
00:36:07pushes him away
00:36:09rather than brings him close.
00:36:11Yeah.
00:36:13And one of the things
00:36:14I went to is,
00:36:16did you take Sam's reaction
00:36:18as some,
00:36:19something of a rejection?
00:36:24Because what I'm thinking
00:36:26is that your anger
00:36:28was coming from hurt
00:36:29and fear
00:36:30and it often does.
00:36:32You've taken it
00:36:33very personally
00:36:34and I want to put that to you.
00:36:36If that's the case,
00:36:37what might that be about?
00:36:42Maybe just
00:36:42unsuccessful relationships,
00:36:45in the past,
00:36:46you know,
00:36:47like, yeah,
00:36:47and I have been hurt a lot.
00:36:51Here's the thing.
00:36:53He's bringing this conversation
00:36:55up in front of the group
00:36:57not because he wants
00:36:58to throw you under the bus
00:37:00but because he wants
00:37:01to be able to talk to you
00:37:02and he feels like he can't
00:37:04to the point
00:37:05where he's too scared
00:37:06to bring up
00:37:07a conversation with you
00:37:08and he needs to take it
00:37:09to a larger group.
00:37:11That has got to get you
00:37:13starting to look
00:37:14at yourself
00:37:15and how
00:37:16you're talking.
00:37:18This is a real
00:37:19moment
00:37:20of truth for you
00:37:21because
00:37:22a communication style
00:37:24has contributed
00:37:25to the real crisis
00:37:28that you're in now.
00:37:31That doesn't mean
00:37:32that you can't recover
00:37:33and tonight
00:37:35is one of those
00:37:35absolute key crossroads
00:37:37for you, Chris.
00:37:39Mm-hmm.
00:37:40Yeah.
00:37:45All right,
00:37:45let's go to the decision.
00:37:48Let's go with you first,
00:37:49Chris.
00:37:49Stay or leave?
00:37:51I've been going
00:37:52back and forth
00:37:52the last couple of days
00:37:54and I've actually decided
00:37:56that I need
00:37:57and I want to go
00:37:58put my dad hat on
00:37:59and I would like to leave.
00:38:16and I would like to leave.
00:38:17All right,
00:38:17let's go to the decision.
00:38:18Let's go with you first,
00:38:19Chris.
00:38:20Stay or leave?
00:38:21I've been going back and forth
00:38:22the last couple of days
00:38:24and I've actually decided
00:38:26that I need
00:38:27and I want to go
00:38:28put my dad hat on
00:38:29and I would like to leave.
00:38:44Maybe no.
00:38:45No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:38:52It's a huge turnaround from last week.
00:38:56Yep.
00:38:59I just think that I need to concentrate on this next thing that's coming and he's an
00:39:04amazing guy and he'll be amazing for someone.
00:39:07I just don't think it's me for the moment.
00:39:22Sam, what's going on for you right now?
00:39:30I just didn't see that coming.
00:39:32I thought...
00:39:37I thought, you know, this is the first hiccup we've had and we'd both come into this ready
00:39:42to take on feedback and then try and implement that and see if that could help.
00:39:49And it just hurts to be like, you've just given up because it got tough for a few days.
00:40:00So yeah, I just can't believe it.
00:40:05Let's go to your decision then, Sam.
00:40:07What have you got?
00:40:08As much as Chris gave up a lot to be here, I gave up a lot and I was...
00:40:11I wanted to leave here with absolutely no regrets either way.
00:40:15Like, 100% knowing if Chris was the guy for me.
00:40:18Right now, I feel like I would have regrets and I wouldn't know completely if we could've
00:40:22made it work.
00:40:24Like, I was prepared to take on anything you guys had to say and try and put it into work.
00:40:38Well, as you know, in this experiment, the rules are if one person says stay and the other
00:40:42person says leave, the couple stays for another week and they work on the relationship.
00:40:49It might seem like a lost cause, but frankly, we see couples absolutely turn things around
00:40:56in one week.
00:41:01But it will require some heavy lifting from the both of you.
00:41:10I mean, the one thing about you two right now is that it's not friendly.
00:41:14So, when you think about how you're going to take on this week to start talking to one
00:41:19another in a respectful way and acting in a considerate way.
00:41:23And from there, you can start to see how it changes your relationship.
00:41:30Let me remind you, it was only a week ago that you were loved up on that couch, excited
00:41:35about the future, but with a weenus can come change.
00:41:45And all you've got to do is treat each other in a friendly way.
00:41:52All right.
00:41:53Thank you both.
00:41:55Good work tonight.
00:41:56Well done.
00:41:56That was hard.
00:42:00Let it go.
00:42:09Bye!
00:42:10Well done, guys.
00:42:15I'll just be a guy.
00:42:21Okay, our next couple on the couch, Alissa and David.
00:42:25Oh.
00:42:26Beth.
00:42:26I'll just be a guy.
00:42:29Hello you two. Hello. Hello. Welcome. How was feedback week for you guys? So obviously feedback
00:42:38week started with some receipts from Juliet from last couch session that we had. That
00:42:45was the start of our feedback week which was kind of negative. You hear about oh just some
00:42:50messages but they were actually really vicious. Yeah it wasn't okay it was it definitely was
00:42:57a fresh it was fresh hurt for David and I. Yeah look seeing those text messages just
00:43:04reopened wounds that were obviously closing over. Obviously it was a negative
00:43:09vibe to feedback week we didn't want to see that but it came to us so yeah yeah
00:43:15moving on from that. Feedback week actually went really well because we
00:43:21managed to talk about something. A plan. Yeah we talked about a plan for when we
00:43:25left the experiment what that was gonna look like you know a bit of long
00:43:29distance maybe and then figure out like if we're moving to maybe Adelaide. So
00:43:36obviously you know I'm getting to an age and the next couple of years I want to
00:43:40have a family and I want to be in Adelaide for that and that was something
00:43:46that I hadn't talked to David about but he was amazing he was like I understand
00:43:50if you need to be with your family and you need extra support then we're gonna
00:43:53move to Adelaide. And I understand raising kids is not an easy task so you know
00:43:57she's obviously got her family there her mom and her mom's a legend. Alyssa would be a
00:44:04fantastic mother she notices everything about me you know I'm saying like she she
00:44:08helps me a lot. I did say though she reminds me of my mother she might be
00:44:16like don't wear that shirt it doesn't like it doesn't look good on you like
00:44:20just straight direct that's what my mother would do so that's what makes me
00:44:25know that she's got deep feelings and she cares because like she tells me
00:44:28things that challenge me you know and she doesn't just settle like she's always
00:44:33looking to grow she brings out the best in me as well and I think that's
00:44:36something someone I need in my life someone who's always going to push me to
00:44:39be better hmm so you're in a good place guys I feel like we're we're the
00:44:46strongest we've ever been yeah right now yeah yeah it's great brilliant let's go
00:44:53to the decision Alyssa what'll it be well obviously got exciting week coming up
00:44:58homestay homestay I'm about to convince you that you might like Adelaide so stay
00:45:06fabulous show you around so I wrote stay I go to a little plane
00:45:17baby yeah I love it ready to go there has been some really tough times for you guys
00:45:25and you've just turned toward each other back to each other and supported each
00:45:30other like a real team thanks guys coming up frankly when I watch you on the
00:45:46couch do you seem uncomfortable the experts apply the pressure to Danny if
00:45:52you could do it over again how would you answer it I just say yes yes what I could
00:45:59see myself falling in love with you yeah that's as simple as that and would
00:46:03that be the truth
00:46:18our next couple up on the couch Philip and Stella
00:46:33last week was a little bit tough for you two on the couch I see such a
00:46:39different energy just walking up to the couch um I really want to thank Mel for
00:46:46her advice focus on the emotional safety that he's providing and giving me and it's
00:46:51such a simple thing when you think but I I didn't think about it and that was just
00:46:56like a penny drop moment for me I really I really want to thank you guys because um I
00:47:01think if not the confinements of the experiment probably would be different story at the end
00:47:05of the day uh so yeah thank you it's these uncomfortable chats that need to happen it's
00:47:11not you having a go it's just yeah yeah it helps it helped us this week tremendously so yeah yeah
00:47:17great to hear we ended up having a good week like she was she was a lot more gentler like
00:47:21you know
00:47:21coming leading with kindness she's just been a little bit more gentle just with her delivery I
00:47:26can see sometimes she's just as she sometimes starts talking she'll just stop and then she'll
00:47:30just go a little bit softer just things like that you know I can just little subtle differences
00:47:34that you can tell like yeah don't get me wrong Stella's still Stella but you know but she's a
00:47:39little bit yeah moving on a little bit different energy and uh we actually had a really really good
00:47:44week go ask the question of like all right if we go outside the experiment how quick would you expect
00:47:49like a proposal or something like that just to like fully escalate things you know you're just
00:47:54asking randomly just throw it out there it's a free question I said six to twelve months and
00:47:59Stella was just like ASAP so it's just kind of like I said the sooner the better wow
00:48:07sometimes I thought that like I was fully over invested and I was showing too much because that's
00:48:11a general trade of mine I'll just go all in you know I show all my cards here they are
00:48:15you know
00:48:16I never really hold back that's kind of like a trade of mine uh but it was good to get
00:48:20the
00:48:20reassurance uh but yeah we point out something that that's quite stark for you Stella last week
00:48:28you were essentially pushing him away and creating that space and this week you're saying
00:48:34you want a real life proposal well let's put it that way I didn't say I would like a proposal
00:48:40that
00:48:40was a free question let's clarify and I got really shy I got really uncomfortable and I said
00:48:46the sooner the better you know sooner the better yeah so still the stark contrast I guess from last
00:48:50week how does that feel from your perspective it's good it's it shows that she's forward-thinking she
00:49:08sees me in her future and that she's like the real deal you know when you think about the future
00:49:13is
00:49:13this something that you can see for the two of you yeah yeah definitely most definitely so yeah
00:49:18uh pretty pretty confident
00:49:22it's just interesting tonight the first thing I noticed was the way you looked at him again
00:49:26oh yeah I'm in love again you're back into that sort of starry-eyed interaction where you
00:49:33gaze at him in extended ways oh you're gonna make me cry we just we lost that last week yeah
00:49:43I would say I just fell back into my feelings into my body into showing up for myself and then
00:49:48showing
00:49:49up for him because if I don't show up for myself I can't show up for him and that's the
00:49:53main difference
00:49:53and ultimately I think you had to get out of your head and into your heart which is ultimately what
00:50:00we
00:50:00were trying to get you to do all right well with that being the case let's go to the decision
00:50:06stay
00:50:07or leave the decision is very simple and being back into my heart another beautiful stay excellent
00:50:14look at that eh perfect love it and Philip it's uh it's a stay strong strong stay
00:50:22thank you we really I personally really appreciate the advices that you guys get
00:50:29good work thank you will do thank you thanks again
00:50:41and our final couple up on the couch
00:50:44beck and danny oh i'm scared
00:50:56right feedback week how was it do you want to you talk i'll talk it's been good it was challenging
00:51:02to begin with but it ended really really well why was it challenging
00:51:10so i obviously like i told danny that i'm in love with him the last commitment ceremony you certainly
00:51:17did it's how i feel so i'm gonna say it
00:51:24and i meant it but when we sort of did the questions there was one question that came up was
00:51:31can you see yourself falling in love with me and danny didn't say no but he sort of um denied
00:51:38a little
00:51:38bit and i just spiraled
00:51:43so what was his exact answer
00:51:47uh potentially yes i assume so
00:51:51so how did that feel um i was upset i was hurt and i was kind of embarrassed
00:52:01i thought that he would have said no i'm not there yet but yes
00:52:06i just thought that it that he would be a little bit further along than potentially yes i assume so
00:52:14but i need to allow daniel to
00:52:18be on his journey
00:52:20in this relationship and i'll be on mine and don't regret it be me
00:52:27i'm in love
00:52:29he's not there yet don't allow that fact to ruin how good it feels for me
00:52:44danny
00:52:48let's go to that discussion shall we and when the question got asked tell us again what you said
00:52:53and then why you said it
00:52:56well
00:52:58the the question's asked sometimes i struggle with to be honest
00:53:02i think i misinterpreted the the question
00:53:07but the question what was it like it was a bit you see yourself falling in love with me
00:53:13because it's a pretty black and white question
00:53:25if you want to know what i looked like 12 months ago this is it this is the last time
00:53:31i went surfing
00:53:31basically it was overhead height but i realized the surf's a bit beyond my level i tried pulling off the
00:53:37wave i could see a sandbank and i went straight down head first onto my fin
00:53:43i was surprised i came out alive to be honest
00:53:47surfing is a beautiful thing but honestly i've just been too scared to get back out there
00:53:51i remember you were walking up and i don't know if it was that you could see the blood or
00:53:56something but you started running
00:53:57well i got closer and the dude said to me i was like what'd she do and he's like dude
00:54:01she has the most gnarly fin chop i've ever seen
00:54:0419 stitches honestly i looked like harry potter the doctors in hospital said you cannot have a knock like this
00:54:10again
00:54:10the concussion you had next time it won't be okay
00:54:18fear for me in gymnastics actually ended up stopping me i would pull out of skills but you like think
00:54:23you're gonna commit you say to yourself like i can do this
00:54:27and in the middle you're like i'm too scared and you literally land on your head like you're actually hurting
00:54:32yourself
00:54:33but you're not trying to hurt yourself and i was getting severely injured daily i saw sports psychologists and no
00:54:39matter what they said i couldn't stop
00:54:41that was a mental challenge i couldn't overcome because i knew gymnastics was going to be taken away from me
00:54:47i learned to accept it in gymnastics but like i'm not accepting this in surf i have a background in
00:54:52fitness coaching and counselling
00:54:53i'm always trying to show to people you can do anything and so it's a little bit like your imposter
00:54:59because there's one part of you that you can't get past but you'd expect that from others
00:55:04i'm a go-getter i don't let anything stop me and this is the one thing that's stopping me
00:55:09so if i can do this today i can get back on that path but yeah i am a bit
00:55:15nervous
00:55:20i feel incredibly apprehensive the fluttering chest is not stopping and i'm just hoping that today's gonna be okay
00:55:29the worst thing that can happen is a redo of last year and that better not happen today
00:55:37my confidence can't my confidence can't handle it i can't have another crash like that like
00:55:44it really really impacted my confidence and that's not like me like i'm known as a person that's a go
00:55:52-getter
00:55:52and doesn't stop and doesn't let fear stop them so i can't have a knock like that again
00:55:58i'm really scared i just don't want to be near people because people see me as this confident person
00:56:05they don't get i am petrified
00:56:19i think i misinterpreted the the question
00:56:24but the question what was it like it was a bit you see yourself falling in love with me
00:56:28because it's a pretty black and white question
00:56:39it from my point of view i don't feel as a man
00:56:44like if i if i give back my word on something i'm always going to stand to that
00:56:50and i don't think saying yes i can 100 fall in love with you would be the right thing to
00:56:57say
00:56:57because it's almost making a promise which i don't think you can promise that before you're in love with someone
00:57:04but let's just remind ourselves the question wasn't do you promise that you will fall in love with me
00:57:11yeah i know john 100 it was can you see yourself falling in love with me
00:57:18yeah and you know what like i can't sit here and make excuses i just answered the question shockingly
00:57:24shockingly you know what i mean
00:57:28it was a mistake i made a mistake i'm only human
00:57:32like i didn't i didn't mean to make beck feel like that it wasn't my intention
00:57:38when when we revisited it i um
00:57:41we talked about it
00:57:43we talked about it
00:57:45and we patched up you know
00:57:50um
00:57:50um
00:57:51yeah i just
00:57:52i made a mistake
00:57:54it's alright baby
00:57:58Danny i've got a question because i'm curious
00:58:02frankly when i watch you on the couch
00:58:06you seem uncomfortable
00:58:09i do find this uncomfortable to be honest it's not something i'm good at
00:58:12what's uncomfortable about it
00:58:14just sitting here talking about your feelings
00:58:17i turn up and do it
00:58:19because obviously it's more for beck
00:58:21if i had it my way i wouldn't be here no chance
00:58:24but we need this baby
00:58:25but is it more for beck
00:58:29a hundred percent
00:58:33like a lot of blokes do things they don't want to do because of their
00:58:36hold on a second dar
00:58:37one second babe
00:58:39adore you
00:58:41so much i love you actually
00:58:42but
00:58:44this is not all for me dar
00:58:46no i know that they're like
00:58:47you're being you're they're helping you too
00:58:48trust me
00:58:52these couch sessions are not just for beck
00:58:54you signed up to the experiment on your own
00:58:58saying that you wanted to break some patterns
00:59:00so this is the chance for you to do that
00:59:03and that's your part where you have to rise to the occasion
00:59:06and choose to do that
00:59:08with enthusiasm
00:59:10enthusiasm thank you
00:59:11thanks alessandra
00:59:12no but it's true
00:59:14you want your partner to want to
00:59:17and that's the game changer
00:59:18when somebody really wants to be there for you
00:59:21and chooses to make your priority day in and day out
00:59:24wow that's the game changer
00:59:26it would be for you
00:59:27it certainly will be for beck
00:59:33and what you know now is when you're particularly talking about commitment
00:59:37future
00:59:39feelings
00:59:41you do have to choose your words very carefully
00:59:46you do indeed
00:59:48if you could do it over again how would you answer it
00:59:52i'd just say yes
00:59:56yes what
00:59:57i could see myself wanting in love with you
00:59:59yeah
00:59:59that's as simple as that
01:00:02and would that be the truth
01:00:07of course i wouldn't say if it wasn't the truth so yeah
01:00:11i just answered it wrong
01:00:16i think the best thing with daniel and i and i've learned is that you know we always come out
01:00:22better and stronger because now moving forward we're in this together and that makes me feel like i'm not gonna
01:00:30get hurt
01:00:32it means so much
01:00:34and like for example
01:00:37he planned this date and i walked into our apartment and there was candles lit everywhere
01:00:42and all over the apartment was post-it notes telling me how he felt about me
01:00:50so he's learning guys
01:00:52i'm not all bad am i
01:00:54and then we went up and he asked me to be his girlfriend
01:01:02i know you're married but what inspired you to ask beck that question
01:01:06uh i'm trying to think
01:01:10like
01:01:11it was it was important to beck you know because like obviously
01:01:14why was it important to you
01:01:19um
01:01:22well because it because it gives back security
01:01:26but why is it important to you danny
01:01:31well i'm married to beck
01:01:32do you know what you mean
01:01:33so it's like but but like i think it it was more
01:01:41um yeah i think beck just wanted that added security that like to you
01:01:45but why was it important to you to ask her that
01:02:06um
01:02:07um
01:02:08yeah i think beck just wanted that added security that like to you
01:02:11but why was it important to you to ask her that
01:02:19um
01:02:23because i know it'd be special to back
01:02:27but why was it important to you
01:02:35um
01:02:38well
01:02:41because i wanted to be my girlfriend like
01:02:44you know
01:02:45um
01:02:46yeah that's that's why i've done it
01:02:49cute
01:02:56how did it feel?
01:02:58so good
01:03:03it's really special to me
01:03:08all right
01:03:08all right well on that note we're going to go to a decision
01:03:10beck
01:03:12i wrote stay and then i wrote boyfriend he he
01:03:15oh
01:03:18cheer
01:03:19boyfriend
01:03:21danny
01:03:23leave can you imagine
01:03:25yeah
01:03:26so i've just done a cheeky stay
01:03:30that's lovely
01:03:30where's the love part this week
01:03:32i was in a rush
01:03:33oh okay
01:03:36this week i think
01:03:38for you danny
01:03:40clearly and plainly
01:03:43let her know how you feel about her
01:03:46everything that you wrote on those post-it notes
01:03:49translate that into your verbal communication with her this week
01:03:52because it worked
01:03:53should be the best week of my life
01:03:58you got a big thumbs up for that so do more of that make her that priority
01:04:08thank you both
01:04:09thank you so much appreciate you
01:04:11thank you
01:04:31tomorrow night
01:04:32the experiment goes across the country
01:04:36welcome home
01:04:37oh
01:04:39homestays week has arrived
01:04:41over two big nights our couples get a glimpse of what married life will look like
01:04:46yeah
01:04:47beyond the experiment
01:04:49whoa passenger princess
01:04:51steven sets sail on an exciting new future with rachel
01:04:56this is such a special place for him
01:04:57how lucky am i for him to have welcomed me into this
01:05:01i kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed
01:05:04oh hang on
01:05:07my vibes on the wedding day weren't really positive
01:05:10and i'm here to protect her
01:05:12stella's outspoken guests from her wedding day are back
01:05:15so like i've
01:05:17i'm getting sorry to interrupt you
01:05:19i'm getting some not so confident vibes from over here
01:05:23and then
01:05:25welcome
01:05:25scott shows off to gia
01:05:27his waterside home
01:05:29oh it's a bit messy
01:05:30so random
01:05:32weird
01:05:33this wouldn't be big enough
01:05:34it would be better if that wasn't there
01:05:35is gia the most high maintenance house guest scott's ever seen
01:05:39um my house is way cleaner
01:05:41ugh
01:05:43yeah i couldn't i couldn't live here
01:05:44if the roles were reversed and i was at gia's house i wouldn't say anything but nice things
01:05:51ooh
01:05:52ooh
01:05:53yeah
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