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00:00:01Do you see me as the mother-father of your children? Yes, I do see you as a
00:00:04father of my children. After seven weeks of marriage, Feedback Week brought some
00:00:10couples closer together. Only the best for my wife. Thank you for setting tasks that
00:00:16really understand Stephen and I and what we needed. But for others... Sure, I'll take
00:00:22that on board. Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive. I'm not getting defensive
00:00:25having a conversation. Tensions were at an all-time high. I'm not doing it. No
00:00:31thanks. It was just... As Scott avoided any critical feedback, opting to keep the
00:00:40peace in his marriage. I knew if I went too deep, I'd be over the balcony. You're
00:00:47absolutely pissing me off. Danny struggled to give Beck a straight answer. Do you
00:00:52think you will fall in love with me and why? At the dinner party, after weeks of
00:00:59being caught in the crossfire, Alyssa tried to put a full stop to the feud
00:01:05between Gia and Beck. Stop using me! Stop using me as a pawn. And Beck and Danny
00:01:12spiralled. I want you to be wary about what you text people. Two months ago, Daniel.
00:01:17Okay, that was ten years ago. I want out now. I'm wasting my time at a dinner party talking
00:01:23about abusive text messages. I'm here for a wife and a relationship. I'm not here for
00:01:27drama. Do not sit there in front of everyone and not show solidarity to me. Just pretend
00:01:32for two minutes. Tonight, it's the second last commitment ceremony. You ask the question
00:01:41of like, alright, if we go outside the experiment, how quick would you expect, like, a proposal?
00:01:46I say the sooner the better. Wow. And some are already locking in plans for married life
00:01:52outside of the experiment. The man is leaving and he is actually starting to show me what
00:01:57my life here in Sydney could look like. And then... So last week you said that the noise from
00:02:03the group and around Gia doesn't affect your relationship. Do you still believe that?
00:02:10Will Scott speak up and confess how he feels in front of Gia? I will admit, like...
00:02:20The question, what was it? Like, it was a bit... Could you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:02:24Why is Danny dodging the question?
00:02:29Um...
00:02:30Cool.
00:02:34In one of the most confronting couch sessions ever seen.
00:02:38It's a pretty black and white question.
00:02:44Before the blind side...
00:02:49That will leave the room speechless.
00:02:52I just can't believe it.
00:03:08It's the morning of the second-last commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:03:13And despite a tense ending to last night's dinner party,
00:03:17one couple continued to shine bright.
00:03:22Good morning.
00:03:24Good morning.
00:03:26Good morning.
00:03:27Good morning.
00:03:27Hopefully you don't burn the roof of your mouth.
00:03:29No, she'll be fine.
00:03:30You know?
00:03:31Last night for Stella and I, yeah, it was great.
00:03:34We were just sitting there, united, chilling out, smooching whilst the drama's happening.
00:03:39We tend to do that when people are kicking off, we're just kissing each other.
00:03:43And then, yeah, we're staying out of it for the most part.
00:03:45I think we are out of the trenches with the drama.
00:03:49I doubt it, but I'm very, very hopeful.
00:03:52I'm very hopeful.
00:03:52Some people cannot help themselves.
00:03:54I see the blokes like Danny and Scott, and they're just ready to not talk about high school shit.
00:04:02Like, Scott is not his usual self.
00:04:05He was just...
00:04:06His light was dimmed.
00:04:08He was just not there.
00:04:09He's dimmed.
00:04:09Yeah, he's dimmed at the moment.
00:04:11He's just not there.
00:04:12Danny as well, definitely.
00:04:13Yeah.
00:04:14I always look at him and he's just so withdrawn and just...
00:04:16They dissociate.
00:04:17They just dissociate and they just go to another realm.
00:04:20They just leave the place.
00:04:21They're just like this.
00:04:22Yeah.
00:04:25I just wish that people like Becca and Gia can stop saying sorry and just don't do it from now
00:04:32on.
00:04:33Don't be sorry and go, I take accountability and just don't do it.
00:04:37How about we try that and then we don't have to keep talking about this BS.
00:04:46While our couples are putting on the final touches for tonight's commitment ceremony,
00:04:52one participant who is not looking forward to seeing the experts is Gia.
00:04:57Last one, I walked out.
00:05:00I don't like commitment ceremonies one bit because I hate being vulnerable and talking
00:05:04about my feelings and commitment ceremonies don't go great for me all the time.
00:05:09Last week, I feel like I was getting in so much trouble for the screenshots.
00:05:12They didn't at all question back.
00:05:15It was just me for sending them.
00:05:16I just felt like I was just attacked and it was unfair last week.
00:05:19It's not fair that I'm always taking the heat for that sort of stuff.
00:05:23I admit I was wrong for sending them,
00:05:25but I'm not the one who said the vulgar things in those screenshots back was.
00:05:29I think it's just going to be more of a rehash of like what you're saying.
00:05:32Feedback week.
00:05:33Feedback week.
00:05:33Also, why'd you walk out?
00:05:34Which it'll just be a discussion of that.
00:05:37Yeah.
00:05:38I adore and I really am falling for Gia, but like this whole experiment has been very
00:05:45tough in regards to the drama side of things.
00:05:47There was so many days where there was just so much heat and heaviness.
00:05:52Tonight, like I'm nervous seeing the experts because this is something that I find a problem
00:05:57and I'm going to address it.
00:05:59I'm not looking forward to how she's going to feel about it, but I can only be honest.
00:06:09One couple that everyone will have their eyes on tonight is Beck and Danny,
00:06:13who had a tense argument at the end of last night's dinner party.
00:06:18Don't sit here and say, I want us to have a good relationship,
00:06:23but we don't because of drama at dinner parties.
00:06:26I just want you to be wary about what you say.
00:06:30I'm very wary.
00:06:31I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:06:35I'm done.
00:06:36I'm not going back in.
00:06:37I'm done.
00:06:38He says, oh, we're ride or die.
00:06:40We're ride or die.
00:06:41We're not.
00:06:42Just pretend for two minutes.
00:06:44And this morning, there has been yet another unexpected development in their relationship.
00:06:51How are things with you and Danny after last night's dinner party?
00:06:55Really good.
00:06:58There's so much love and adoration within this relationship.
00:07:03We had like a tiny little bit of crosswords last night.
00:07:06Danny sort of had a little wibble wobble.
00:07:08He was like, I'm sure of the drama.
00:07:10And at the end of the day, we've actually come out on top, you know, even though it's kind
00:07:14of crappy for a little while, we always come back together, talk about it and end up with
00:07:23a better understanding of each other and in a stronger place in our relationship.
00:07:27Do you agree?
00:07:28Hmm.
00:07:29I became a girlfriend as well.
00:07:31Still happy with that decision, boo?
00:07:33Still happy with the decision.
00:07:35I feel great.
00:07:35I feel absolutely fantastic.
00:07:37Like, I'm not only a wife, I'm a girlfriend.
00:07:39And I know that everything's hunky dory.
00:07:42Me telling you at the commitment ceremony that I love you.
00:07:46And obviously, I'm in my own head as well, because it's like, shit, like, that's a lot for me
00:07:52to do.
00:07:53Ever.
00:07:54Like, you're the first man I've ever told that I love first.
00:07:57Ever.
00:07:58Feedback week, Danny.
00:07:59How's it been?
00:08:01Been an alright week, to be honest.
00:08:03Like, alright is how I'd describe it.
00:08:04Not amazing.
00:08:06Just alright.
00:08:07Obviously, the question to ask, Bec was just overreacting a little bit there.
00:08:12We know that.
00:08:13That's a fact.
00:08:14Do you think you will fall in love with me?
00:08:17And why?
00:08:18Probably.
00:08:20I'd assume I will, yeah.
00:08:22Am I there yet?
00:08:23No.
00:08:27So, it has sort of scared me that she's got stronger feelings to me than I have to her.
00:08:34Um, up until last week, when she told me she loved me, I didn't realise she was feeling
00:08:37that strongly towards me.
00:08:39She'd never even told me, like, little soft things to, like, soften it.
00:08:43It was just like, that come out of nowhere.
00:08:46That's why when she told me on the sofa, on the couch, I was a bit, like, shocked.
00:08:50My feelings are extremely, extremely strong for Daniel.
00:09:01I love you.
00:09:02Yay!
00:09:06Yay!
00:09:09Woo!
00:09:09Woo!
00:09:12Do you think that you will get there, or are you still not sure?
00:09:15It's hard to tell, to be honest.
00:09:17It's very hard to tell.
00:09:19In regards to intimacy, it's not like I don't want to do it, but it's not like I'm, like,
00:09:27craving to do it as well.
00:09:29Like, I'm United, I mean.
00:09:31Because of constant drama with Beck.
00:09:34Um, so, yeah, that's probably one of the things, the main reason that's holding me back.
00:09:37You have to tell me about, I think.
00:09:54You have to tell me about Gladys.
00:09:57That's great.
00:09:57Yeah, I think it's true.
00:09:59It's good, um.
00:09:59Thank you, guys.
00:10:01And now let's see you in the next video.
00:10:03You have to see you in the next video.
00:10:03You're saying you have to find the kind of tips for me,
00:10:03You're going to see you all.
00:10:04You're going to see you in the next video.
00:10:05Good evening.
00:10:06Hi, guys.
00:10:20Hi.
00:10:21Hello.
00:10:22Welcome.
00:10:25Settling.
00:10:30Well, greetings, everyone, to the second last commitment ceremony.
00:10:35We are very much nearing the pointy end where you have to size up your relationship and
00:10:43really drill down on whether or not you can see a future outside of this experiment with
00:10:50the person that you've been matched with.
00:10:53Now it gets real.
00:10:55Now, in saying that, next week, it is homestays.
00:11:00This is done so that all of you can have a look at your partner's life as it exists outside
00:11:06of the experiment.
00:11:08And it gives you an understanding, a glimpse of whether you can fit into it.
00:11:14This is really a reality check.
00:11:17In fact, it is absolutely pivotal for you when it comes to your final decision.
00:11:25Take it very seriously.
00:11:27Now, the past week, of course, has been Feedback Week.
00:11:31It's been a real test of how each and every one of you responds to feedback, but also how
00:11:37each of you gives feedback.
00:11:39So we'll be really interested to drill down into how that's gone for each of you and to
00:11:43see what's been the impact on your relationships.
00:11:47And, of course, we saw some of that last night at the dinner party.
00:11:51It was actually quite shocking to see some of the behaviours that occurred at last night's
00:11:56dinner party.
00:11:58And we certainly want to get into all of that.
00:12:03Well, let's get our first couple up.
00:12:06Jira and Scott.
00:12:09Mmm.
00:12:10Good to see you both.
00:12:12Yes, John.
00:12:12I'm still here.
00:12:13Are you happy about it?
00:12:15I'm very happy.
00:12:16Oh, I thought you wouldn't be.
00:12:18Yeah, particularly because last time you actually walked off.
00:12:22I did.
00:12:25So let's go back to what actually happened there, because we didn't get a chance to talk
00:12:32to you about that.
00:12:33Because we were talking about your relationship and where you're at and what a good place you're
00:12:38in.
00:12:38And it was positive.
00:12:40But then something happened.
00:12:42What was it?
00:12:47I was getting in trouble for the screenshots involving Alyssa, but the other person wasn't
00:12:52getting in trouble for what was written in the screenshots.
00:12:55It felt very against me.
00:12:59And I just felt like attacked.
00:13:05And I just felt like it was a bit unfair, to be honest.
00:13:09I just felt like, oh, what about the screen?
00:13:11What was she was saying?
00:13:12Like, just me, me, me.
00:13:13I just cannot.
00:13:16So I had to remove myself.
00:13:17I didn't want to have another argument.
00:13:19I didn't want any more volatile situations.
00:13:22I just, I had to remove myself.
00:13:26All right, so let's break it down.
00:13:28There are two parts to this.
00:13:31One part is what was said in the text, which came out at the dinner party last night, the
00:13:39specifics of it.
00:13:42And there's no getting around that.
00:13:45It's abhorrent.
00:13:47Those words, those phrases, towards another member in this experiment, was appalling.
00:13:59I mean, Bec, the hits keep coming.
00:14:16What was said in the texts, which came out at the dinner party last night, the specifics
00:14:22of it.
00:14:26And there's no getting around that.
00:14:28It's abhorrent.
00:14:30Those words, those phrases, towards another member in this experiment, was appalling.
00:14:42I mean, Bec, the hits keep coming.
00:14:51Regardless of what bad place you were in, the way in which you did that was malicious and
00:14:58extremely hurtful.
00:15:00And we don't condone it.
00:15:06That's the first part.
00:15:08The second issue is how they were used.
00:15:13And that's where you come into this, Gia.
00:15:15Yep.
00:15:17It was very high school, trying to really get at somebody while hurting another person in
00:15:26the process.
00:15:30It's about choices.
00:15:32It's about choices in terms of what you write in the text.
00:15:36Then it's choices about what you want to do with that in terms of sending it on or not.
00:15:42I know I was wrong.
00:15:45Looking back now, I wish I never sent the screenshots to Juliet.
00:15:48I was doing the wrong thing.
00:15:50I mean, it was like something happened to me, like that affected me.
00:15:55And to defend myself, I was like, well, let me send some screenshots to do something to
00:15:59that person.
00:16:00And it was just like childish behavior, to be honest.
00:16:02So it was an eye for an eye.
00:16:03Yeah.
00:16:04Yeah.
00:16:05Okay.
00:16:06We do not want to revisit this ever again.
00:16:10And I'm sure Alyssa doesn't want to either.
00:16:13It is being put to bed as of right now.
00:16:20But Gia, one of the things I wanted to ask you was, when you left last week, Scott was
00:16:26sitting here, kind of not really knowing what was going on.
00:16:30And I just wondered whether he was featured in your thinking in that moment.
00:16:37I told him before I ran out, I said, I feel sick.
00:16:40I'm going to leave.
00:16:41Scott, how did you feel when you realized Gia had left?
00:16:49Well, at the time, I was sitting there and going to myself, she's not left me.
00:16:54I just, because I know how close we are.
00:16:56So I'm like, there's no excuse for her to just bail.
00:16:57But then obviously, the only thing I was just a little bit annoyed was just not being told
00:17:01what was going on.
00:17:03Just communication, that's all.
00:17:08But deep down, I knew she didn't run away from me.
00:17:10So, yeah.
00:17:14So last week, you said that the noise around your relationship from the group and around
00:17:20Gia doesn't affect your relationship.
00:17:23Do you still believe that?
00:17:28Last week was probably one of the most heaviest weeks we've had in this whole experiment.
00:17:32More so for Gia.
00:17:33She's had a lot to take on herself, not wanting to be here for a few reasons.
00:17:40There's only so much, you know, I'm here to protect her and cater for her and make sure
00:17:44she's okay and give her reassurance.
00:17:46But there was a lot that happened pretty much every day.
00:17:48And I will admit, like, it does make me not be myself.
00:17:58What do you mean?
00:18:00My energy dropped.
00:18:01And I just...
00:18:03So I'm just trying to be positive.
00:18:05And it's hard sometimes.
00:18:09But feedback week, yeah, it was pretty hard.
00:18:11What was hard about feedback week?
00:18:13Obviously, the commitment ceremony was, you know, I walked out and I wasn't good.
00:18:17You know, that...
00:18:18And I just...
00:18:19I was just feeling off, right?
00:18:21So then I get told I have a feedback date.
00:18:24And I'm like, oh, my God, I can't do this.
00:18:27I cannot put myself in a situation like this again, where I'm arguing with somebody.
00:18:32And I'm like, you know what?
00:18:33I don't want to go on the date.
00:18:35So what did you choose to do?
00:18:36I didn't go on the date.
00:18:40With these challenges that we set, you are certainly taken out of your comfort zone,
00:18:47but they're done for a reason.
00:18:49Here we go.
00:18:50It's all right.
00:18:51It's not.
00:18:52It's always about everything but our relationship.
00:18:57God, like, how many more times am I going to get, like, attacked?
00:19:02It's not.
00:19:02It's not.
00:19:03That's what the vibe I'm getting.
00:19:04It's not.
00:19:06I've been apologising.
00:19:07I've been accountable.
00:19:08I've been changing my behaviour.
00:19:10I just feel like the feedback letter, I felt like it was an attack on me.
00:19:16The tasks that we received to do, I just found were just, like, not nice.
00:19:23Number one is, Gia, remove yourself from any group chats that you're in.
00:19:28Number two, detox from all social media till final vows.
00:19:34Number three, no physical touch for ten days.
00:19:37And I was like...
00:19:38That's the thing, I think...
00:19:39I took it.
00:19:40This is how I took it.
00:19:41He took it different.
00:19:41I took it as an attack of, like, oh, my God, like, another thing against me.
00:19:50Why do you feel like people are attacking you?
00:19:52I don't know.
00:19:54You have no idea.
00:19:55Well, that was Stella and Phillip, so I'm not sure why.
00:20:00There's just one thing I like to outlay is, like, whether something's negative or bad or, like, something you don't
00:20:07want to hear or see, we don't need to hold on to it.
00:20:10Because sometimes I feel it does hurt you in a way deep down where it's got to be said out
00:20:16loud or people need to know I hate it or, like, sometimes I feel like you hold on to it
00:20:20with a bit of power behind you and you want to deliver it back to someone.
00:20:25And I feel if we can let go of things a lot easier, we can move past that and then
00:20:30just focus on the other stuff.
00:20:33Because I see the light in everything all the time.
00:20:35Like, these things that are said, that is, it doesn't matter how bad it is.
00:20:38It's not like we're bad people.
00:20:40People just see what they have an opinion for.
00:20:42Right, this is your perception, though.
00:20:43For me, for my own personal reasons and what I've been through in life, I felt attacked.
00:20:56I walked into this experiment, I said even my audition, I don't like negative stuff, I don't like drama, I
00:21:01don't like any of that, I don't want it in my life.
00:21:02And I know Gia's been involved in some of it and we had an agreement.
00:21:06Can you make a promise to me not involve yourself in drama for the rest of this experiment?
00:21:11There's been a few difficult things inside the experiment and I have to know whether it's the pressure in here
00:21:17or whether this is outside as well.
00:21:21Nothing's really affected me in this experiment, the only thing is just the drama stuff, I just, I don't like
00:21:25it.
00:21:26And I just want to make sure and be reassured there's not going to be that shit outside of this
00:21:29because I won't tolerate it, that's it.
00:21:32For me, I don't want someone who's going to retaliate in really bad behaviour, that's what I mean.
00:21:37It's about how you carry yourself.
00:21:38It's just common knowledge, I would never do that.
00:21:40That's what I'm saying, from the stuff that's happening in the experiment, I don't want to see that outside the
00:21:43experiment.
00:21:44That's all it is, I'm not saying anything bad, it's just what I've seen.
00:21:46Yep, just, you don't know me well enough then.
00:21:49Babe, I'm only helping.
00:21:50It's just not who I am, I just do not do that in life.
00:21:54I do nursing, like, I'm a kind person, I would never, but anyway.
00:21:58I'm not saying you're like that, I'm trying to just say what I'm feeling.
00:22:06She's not going to be happy with him saying that, I guarantee you.
00:22:12Scott's just talking about his experience with you, what he's seen.
00:22:17He can only work with what he's seen, and he has seen you rise to the drama.
00:22:22So he's not saying he knows that that's what you're going to do on the outside, he's saying
00:22:28he knows that that's what you have done within the experiment.
00:22:31So surely that's reasonable.
00:22:33Yep.
00:22:38Oh, no, we're getting slammed, Chris.
00:22:40Yeah.
00:22:41You're not getting slammed, babe, it's nothing.
00:22:45No, I'm all good.
00:22:46I'm sorry, I'm all good, all good.
00:22:47I don't like to cry, you know, just, I'm fine.
00:22:51Let's just finish this, please, yep.
00:22:54Mm-hmm.
00:23:10Gia, do you feel secure in this relationship?
00:23:14Yeah.
00:23:16What makes you say that?
00:23:18Um, because even when I say I'm going to leave, he's like, no, you can't leave.
00:23:24Um, like, when I, like, lose my mind and, like, spiral, he's always there to, like, be positive
00:23:31and try and turn my mood around, and I feel like he's got me.
00:23:35Yeah.
00:23:36And I can feel like, yeah, I feel secure in this relationship.
00:23:39What about you, Scott?
00:23:43Well, the thing is, like, yes, we face these hard things, and we're not perfect people,
00:23:49but I see so many good things about you, and that's why I'm here.
00:23:54Like, you're such a beautiful person.
00:23:55Like, we've had a rough week, but we always come back to each other.
00:23:58So you feel secure in this relationship?
00:24:00100%, yeah, I feel secure.
00:24:03We just have these little hurdles to get through, understand one another, you know,
00:24:06and keep pursuing our life together.
00:24:12All right, well, let's go to the decision.
00:24:14Uh, let's go with you first, Scott.
00:24:18I'm grateful that we're still here together, and then we got through, and we're still smiling,
00:24:21and I cannot wait for home stays.
00:24:24It's all right to stay, and happy two months to my beautiful wife.
00:24:27Aw.
00:24:27That's cute.
00:24:29Gia, stay or leave?
00:24:30Um, I know I need to work on some things, and I'm committed to doing that because, like,
00:24:35he's worth it, and I need to, like, grow as a person.
00:24:38I can't keep doing these behaviours that I've been doing, and I know I'm wrong for that.
00:24:42So, um, I'm just going to be positive this week and move forward, and we're going to be
00:24:46in our swimsuits at the beach on the Gold Coast.
00:24:50Little boys.
00:24:52I've got square boobs.
00:24:53I don't know why, but that's a bikini.
00:24:55That's a bikini.
00:24:56OK, well, I know that that was a very intense session, and it's so important for you guys
00:25:02to not brush things under the carpet.
00:25:06I know, Scott, you've mentioned that you like to look on the bright side of life, move forward
00:25:12as fast as you can, leave the past behind.
00:25:14Problem is, if you do that all the time, you don't address the issues that are there.
00:25:20And rather than saying, it's just going to be OK, forget about it, actually instead go,
00:25:25well, tell me more.
00:25:27And for you, Gia, what's really important is that if there's an issue that comes up from
00:25:31Scott, that you stay with it, rather than look at it as a personal attack.
00:25:36This is just feedback about a behaviour.
00:25:40And I can sit here and talk about that behaviour, and then as a team, we can do something different
00:25:45moving forward.
00:25:47That'll help us a lot, to be honest, because sometimes I want to bring things up, and then
00:25:52I get a bit scared, because I don't want you to get the wrong ideas if I'm trying to attack
00:25:56you, because it's because I genuinely care, and I just want to fix a few little things that
00:26:01will help both of us.
00:26:02Yep.
00:26:02So I really love what you just said.
00:26:04Now with that, have a great week, and we'll see you next time.
00:26:07Thanks, guys.
00:26:08Well done, guys.
00:26:09Cheers.
00:26:10Have a great week.
00:26:33I think I misinterpreted the question.
00:26:44Because it's a pretty black-and-white question.
00:27:02Next up, Rachel and Stephen.
00:27:10Hello.
00:27:11Welcome.
00:27:12Hi.
00:27:12Welcome, welcome.
00:27:13It's nice to see you.
00:27:15Oh, yeah.
00:27:16Feedback week.
00:27:17Tell us about feedback week.
00:27:19Um, I actually think feedback week was great for Stephen and I.
00:27:24We started off with the first tasks of questions.
00:27:27The question of, you know, saying, can you see yourself all in love with me at some point?
00:27:33We both had a big, resounding yes.
00:27:36And so that was really nice.
00:27:38Because in terms of the way we view our lives in the future, they very much align.
00:27:46And so, yeah, it was really good.
00:27:49It was just a really great task.
00:27:52Feedback week has been, you know, amazing.
00:27:56I got some really good, um, advice from, uh, Alyssa, um, of trying to be a bit more of a
00:28:01leader.
00:28:01Which we saw.
00:28:03We saw.
00:28:03We were very impressed.
00:28:05Oh, you saw that?
00:28:06At the dinner party.
00:28:08You did have a moment at the dinner party where you stood up to the group.
00:28:12Mm.
00:28:12And you spoke on behalf of the relationship in such a mature, such a take charge, such a masculine, such
00:28:20a...
00:28:20all there, kind of wave.
00:28:23Mm-hmm.
00:28:25We were very impressed and we were literally cheering that on.
00:28:29It was a really, really good moment to see Rachel beaming.
00:28:34Because you were beaming.
00:28:35You were so proud of your man speaking up to the group.
00:28:41Setting those boundaries for the group and for the two of you.
00:28:45Well, I'm going to implement that, not just for one day.
00:28:47It's going to be just in the relationship.
00:28:49I've got to put my captain's socks, undies and hat on.
00:28:51Um, and, yeah, take a bit of charge and leadership.
00:28:57Captain.
00:28:58I like it.
00:28:59Captain Steve-O.
00:29:01I'm going to get a hat for him.
00:29:05How did it feel in the moment to speak to the group the way that you did
00:29:09and to ascertain those boundaries and make yourself be heard so clearly?
00:29:15I know I'm pretty quiet in the dinner parties and I sort of like to keep things to myself
00:29:19because I feel like it's just a little bit easier to keep your mouth closed.
00:29:24In some situations, uh, yeah, I guess it was good to, you know, finally be heard.
00:29:31I can imagine so.
00:29:34You guys have really been a bit of a slow burn, but every week we start to see something emerge.
00:29:43The intimacy, the speaking up.
00:29:45There's a lot of change in the two of you that I see, and it's on a week-by-week
00:29:49basis.
00:29:51What's it doing to you, Steve-O, in terms of how you're feeling about this lovely woman?
00:29:59I feel really connected to Rachel.
00:30:01We're getting closer.
00:30:03I feel like, as well, saying to Rachel, I feel like I've come such a long way from the wedding
00:30:07and the ups and downs that we've had.
00:30:09So, feeling, yeah, really good.
00:30:12Rachel, for you towards him, what's going on inside of you?
00:30:17So, I really like Stephen.
00:30:20I've been very clear about that.
00:30:21I'm very connected with Stephen.
00:30:24It's just so comfortable to be ourselves and have fun and, you know, it's just amazing.
00:30:30And so, I'm at the point now where my man is leading,
00:30:34and he is actually starting to show me what my life here in Sydney could look like.
00:30:42That really shows through your body language is just how close and comfortable you are with one another
00:30:51and loving, dare I say it.
00:30:55Are we reading this correctly?
00:30:57Does it feel comfortable to be sitting like that?
00:31:00This is common, you know, in the apartment.
00:31:03Now you're showing off.
00:31:06Mate.
00:31:10So, with that in mind, we're going to go to a decision.
00:31:12Yeah.
00:31:13Let's kick it off with you, Rachel.
00:31:17This is a huge shock, I know, but I've written stay,
00:31:21and I put, like, the sun and, like, that's water from our little beach days.
00:31:27Cute.
00:31:28And Steve-O.
00:31:29I like where this is going, so why would I do anything else besides stay?
00:31:38Good on you guys, thank you so much.
00:31:41Well done.
00:31:42Great, thank you.
00:31:42Thank you so much.
00:31:43Thank you so much.
00:31:51High fives.
00:31:52That was a nice one.
00:32:08Our next couple on the couch.
00:32:12Chris and Sam.
00:32:18Hello, you two.
00:32:19Howdy.
00:32:20Hi.
00:32:20Hello, guys.
00:32:22How we doing?
00:32:24Well, I've got to say, this is a very different energy from the two of you,
00:32:29not what we're used to at all.
00:32:32You're like a very different couple right now.
00:32:35Yeah.
00:32:37Do you want to let us in?
00:32:42Chris, you don't look very happy.
00:32:43No, I'm just like, um...
00:32:45Like, first of all, you asked me a question last week.
00:32:49Are you starting to envision a life outside of the experiment?
00:32:52I thought it was admirable that I was actually thinking after the experiment,
00:32:55and I said, perhaps, potentially, Sam will base himself in Sydney.
00:32:58It came from a really good place.
00:33:01But Sam was upset that I didn't consult him before answering the question that you asked me.
00:33:06And then he said to me, ten minutes prior to the dinner party, your three apologies weren't genuine enough.
00:33:11I'm going to bring it up in front of the group.
00:33:14We could have facilitated that in the apartment in a more private, controlled environment.
00:33:20I feel like I've, um, you know, been dragged through the coals.
00:33:23All right, I'm just going to go to Sam, because there's something I just want to clarify here.
00:33:27Why was it that you felt the need to bring this up in that group context?
00:33:33I wanted feedback from the group.
00:33:34I can go talk to my friends, you can go talk to your friends,
00:33:37and we can try and, like, see if we can move past this.
00:33:41Because I just couldn't see getting to a conclusion with just the two of us,
00:33:44because I was just getting shut down.
00:33:47That's why.
00:33:50There are some pretty big lifestyle changes ahead of the two of you.
00:33:56Chris has got children coming.
00:33:57Yeah.
00:33:57You know, Chris has the farm.
00:33:59Yeah.
00:34:00And, you know, clearly, life's going to be very much rooted around Chris's existing world.
00:34:06Yeah.
00:34:07And a lot of movement and compromise on your part, Sam.
00:34:11Is this the elephant in the room here for the two of you?
00:34:17Does it feel like it'll be you making all of the sacrifice?
00:34:23I'll be making big moves.
00:34:25Yeah, so 90% of the sacrifice would be on me to, like, fit into Chris's life,
00:34:29which is fine.
00:34:30Like, I know that.
00:34:32I'm prepared to do that if we fall for each other.
00:34:35But I just didn't want to feel like I had no say in even how that would look.
00:34:41I just feel like there could be a bit more empathy around the fact that there's a lot that I
00:34:44have to change,
00:34:45and I would have really liked if you discussed that with me before.
00:34:50How does that sit with you, Chris?
00:34:52Yeah.
00:34:55My answer to you was coming from a good place.
00:34:59That question that you asked me, are you thinking about life outside of this experiment,
00:35:03which I thought was such a cute question.
00:35:05That question has now, like, spiraled into something so much bigger than what we had anticipated,
00:35:11and it's put a huge rift between us, obviously, and, yeah.
00:35:16Sam, I've been watching you and you look a bit withdrawn.
00:35:23What has all this, do you feel, Sam, done to your relationship?
00:35:28To be honest, like, it's really sad, because you guys saw me at the last commitment ceremony,
00:35:33and I even wrote in my journal afterwards that a life with Chris could be magical and amazing,
00:35:39and it's just, like, taken the feet out from underneath me.
00:35:43Yeah.
00:35:45It sucks.
00:35:48Chris, one of the things I said to you, very curious,
00:35:51because, essentially, you were in a great place a week ago,
00:35:56and then Sam has brought something up gently to just say, you know, I felt a little bit excluded.
00:36:02I thought that would have brought you closer,
00:36:05but, in fact, the reaction he got pushes him away rather than brings him close.
00:36:12Yeah.
00:36:14And one of the things I went to is,
00:36:17did you take Sam's reaction as something of a rejection?
00:36:25Because what I'm thinking is that your anger was coming from hurt and fear,
00:36:31and it often does.
00:36:33You've taken it very personally, and I want to put that to you.
00:36:37If that's the case, what might that be about?
00:36:42Maybe just unsuccessful relationships in the past, you know,
00:36:48like, yeah, and I have been hurt a lot.
00:36:52Here's the thing.
00:36:54He's bringing this conversation up in front of the group.
00:36:59Not because he wants to throw you under the bus,
00:37:01but because he wants to be able to talk to you,
00:37:03and he feels like he can't.
00:37:05To the point where he's too scared to bring up a conversation with you,
00:37:09and he needs to take it to a larger group.
00:37:12That has got to get you starting to look at yourself and how you're talking.
00:37:19This is a real moment of truth for you,
00:37:23because a communication style has contributed to the real crisis that you're in now.
00:37:33That doesn't mean that you can't recover,
00:37:35and tonight is one of those absolute key crossroads for you, Chris.
00:37:40Mm-hmm.
00:37:41Yep.
00:37:46All right, let's go to the decision.
00:37:49Let's go with you first, Chris.
00:37:50Stay or leave?
00:37:52I've been going back and forth the last couple of days,
00:37:55and I've actually decided that I need and I want to go put my dad hat on,
00:38:00and I would like to leave.
00:38:18All right, let's go to the decision.
00:38:19Let's go with you first, Chris.
00:38:21Stay or leave?
00:38:22I've been going back and forth the last couple of days,
00:38:26and I've actually decided that I need and I want to go put my dad hat on,
00:38:30and I would like to leave.
00:38:45Baby, no.
00:38:46Baby, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:38:53It's a huge turnaround from last week.
00:38:57Yep.
00:39:00I just think that I need to concentrate on this next thing that's coming,
00:39:04and he's an amazing guy, and he'll be amazing for someone.
00:39:08I just don't think it's me for the moment.
00:39:23Sam, what's going on for you right now?
00:39:31I just didn't see that coming.
00:39:33I thought, I thought, you know, this is the first hiccup we've had and we'd both come into
00:39:41this ready to take on feedback, and then try and implement that and see if that could help.
00:39:50And it just hurts to be like, you've just given up because it got tough for a few days.
00:40:01So, yeah, I just can't believe it.
00:40:06Let's go to your decision then, Sam.
00:40:08What have you got?
00:40:09As much as Chris gave up a lot to be here, I gave up a lot, and I wanted to
00:40:13leave here
00:40:13with absolutely no regrets either way, like 100% knowing if Chris was the guy for me.
00:40:20Right now, I feel like I would have regrets, and I wouldn't know completely if we could have made it
00:40:24work.
00:40:26Like, I was prepared to take on anything you guys had to say and try and put it into work.
00:40:39Well, as you know, in this experiment, the rules are if one person says stay and the other person says
00:40:44leave,
00:40:45the couple stays for another week, and they work on the relationship.
00:40:51It might seem like a lost cause, but frankly, we see couples absolutely turn things around in one week.
00:41:02But it will require some heavy lifting from the both of you.
00:41:11I mean, the one thing about you two right now is that it's not friendly.
00:41:15So when you think about how you're going to take on this week,
00:41:19to start talking to one another in a respectful way and acting in a considerate way,
00:41:24and from there, you can start to see how it changes your relationship.
00:41:31Let me remind you, it was only a week ago that you were loved up on that couch, excited about
00:41:36the future.
00:41:41But with a weenus can come change.
00:41:46And all you've got to do is treat each other in a friendly way.
00:41:53All right.
00:41:54Thank you both.
00:41:56Good work tonight.
00:41:57Well done.
00:41:57That was hard.
00:42:06Well done, darlings.
00:42:11Well done, guys.
00:42:16I'll just be a guy.
00:42:22Okay, our next couple on the couch, Alyssa and David.
00:42:26Oh.
00:42:30Hello, you two.
00:42:31Hello.
00:42:31Hello.
00:42:32Welcome.
00:42:35How was Feedback Week for you guys?
00:42:38So, obviously, Feedback Week started with some receipts from Juliette.
00:42:43From last couch session that we had.
00:42:45That was the start of our Feedback Week, which was kind of negative.
00:42:50You hear about, oh, just some messages, but they were actually really vicious.
00:42:55Yeah, it wasn't okay.
00:42:57It definitely was fresh hurt for David and I.
00:43:01Yeah, look, seeing those text messages just reopened wounds that were obviously closing
00:43:08over.
00:43:09Obviously, it was a negative vibe to Feedback Week.
00:43:12We didn't want to see that, but it came to us.
00:43:14So, yeah, moving on from that.
00:43:19Feedback Week actually went really well because we managed to talk about some things.
00:43:25Yeah, we talked about a plan for when we left the experiment, what that was going to look
00:43:28like, you know, a bit of long distance maybe, and then figure out, like, if we're moving
00:43:34to maybe Adelaide.
00:43:37So, obviously, you know, getting to an age, in the next couple of years, I want to have
00:43:42a family.
00:43:42Yeah.
00:43:43And I want to be in Adelaide for that.
00:43:46And that was something that I hadn't talked to David about, but he was amazing.
00:43:50He was like, I understand if you need to be with your family and you need extra support,
00:43:54then we're going to move to Adelaide.
00:43:55And I understand raising kids is not an easy task, so, you know, she's obviously got her
00:44:00family there, her mom, and her mom's a legend.
00:44:04Alyssa would be a fantastic mother.
00:44:06She notices everything about me, you know what I'm saying?
00:44:08Like, she helps me a lot.
00:44:11I did say, though, I did say...
00:44:13You did say something.
00:44:14I did say, though, she reminds me of my mother.
00:44:17She might be like, don't wear that shirt.
00:44:19It doesn't, like...
00:44:20It doesn't look good on you.
00:44:21Like, just straight to the point and direct.
00:44:23That's what my mother would do.
00:44:25So, that's what makes me know that she's got deep feelings and she cares, because, like,
00:44:29she tells me things that challenge me, you know?
00:44:31And she doesn't just settle.
00:44:33Like, she's always looking to grow.
00:44:35She brings out the best in me as well.
00:44:37And I think that's someone I need in my life, someone who's always going to push me to
00:44:40be better.
00:44:41Hmm.
00:44:42So, you're in a good place, guys.
00:44:44I feel like we're the strongest we've ever been.
00:44:48Yeah.
00:44:48I would agree.
00:44:49Like, right now.
00:44:49We are.
00:44:50We definitely are.
00:44:51It's great.
00:44:52Yeah.
00:44:52Brilliant.
00:44:53Let's go to the decision.
00:44:55Alyssa, what'll it be?
00:44:56Well, obviously, got an exciting week coming up.
00:45:00Homestay.
00:45:00Homestay.
00:45:01I'm about to convince you that you might like Adelaide, so...
00:45:06Stay.
00:45:06What was that?
00:45:07Fabulous.
00:45:08Show you around.
00:45:09Excited.
00:45:12So, I wrote, stay.
00:45:14I go to Lil Plains.
00:45:15Oh!
00:45:16Flying Adelaide.
00:45:17Oh, you're getting adventurous.
00:45:18Take me home, baby.
00:45:19Yep.
00:45:20I love it.
00:45:21Ready to go.
00:45:21Yeah.
00:45:22There has been some really tough times for you guys.
00:45:27And you've just turned toward each other, backed each other, and supported each other
00:45:31like a real team.
00:45:33Thanks, guys.
00:45:35Well done.
00:45:45Coming up...
00:45:46Frankly, when I watch you on the couch, you seem uncomfortable.
00:45:50The experts apply the pressure to Danny.
00:45:53If you could do it over again, how would you answer it?
00:45:57I'd just say yes.
00:45:59Yes what?
00:46:00I could see myself all in the love of you.
00:46:02Yeah.
00:46:02That's as simple as that.
00:46:04And would that be the truth?
00:46:19Our next couple up on the couch, Philip and Stella.
00:46:29Hello.
00:46:30Hello.
00:46:31Hello, hello.
00:46:31Hi.
00:46:32Welcome.
00:46:34Last week was a little bit tough for you two on the couch.
00:46:38I see such a different energy just walking up to the couch.
00:46:45I really want to thank Mel for her advice to focus on the emotional safety that he's providing
00:46:50and giving me and giving me, and it's such a simple thing when you think, but I didn't think about
00:46:56it, and that was just like a penny drop moment for me.
00:46:59I really, I really want to thank you guys because I think if not the confinements of the experiment, probably
00:47:05would be a different story at the end of the day.
00:47:07So, yeah, thank you.
00:47:09It's these uncomfortable chats that need to happen.
00:47:11It's not you having a go.
00:47:13It's just...
00:47:13Yeah.
00:47:14Yeah.
00:47:14It helps.
00:47:15It helped us this week tremendously.
00:47:17Yeah.
00:47:18Great to hear.
00:47:19We ended up having a good week.
00:47:20Like, she was a lot more gentler, like, you know, coming and leading with kindness.
00:47:24She's just been a little bit more gentle just with her delivery.
00:47:27I can see sometimes she's just, as she sometimes starts talking, she'll just stop and then she'll just go a
00:47:32little bit softer.
00:47:33Just things like that, you know.
00:47:34Just little subtle differences that you can tell.
00:47:37Like, yeah, don't get me wrong, Stella's still stellar, but, you know, but she's a little bit, yeah.
00:47:41Whatever, you know, moving on.
00:47:43A little bit different energy, and we actually had a really, really good week.
00:47:46Go ask the question of, like, all right, if we go outside the experiment, how quick would you expect, like,
00:47:51a proposal or something like that just to, like, fully escalate things?
00:47:54You know, you're just asking randomly.
00:47:55I mean, just throw it out there.
00:47:56It's a free question.
00:47:58I said six to 12 months and Stella was just, like, ASAP.
00:48:03So, it's just kind of like...
00:48:04I said the sooner the better.
00:48:05Wow.
00:48:08Sometimes I thought that, like, I was fully over-invested and I was showing too much, because that's a general
00:48:13trade of mine.
00:48:14I just go all in, you know, I show all my cards, like, here they are, you know.
00:48:17I never really hold back.
00:48:18That's kind of like a trade of mine.
00:48:20But it was good to get the reassurance.
00:48:22But, yeah, we...
00:48:23Can I just point out something that's quite stark for you, Stella?
00:48:28Last week, you were essentially pushing him away and creating that space.
00:48:33And this week, you're saying, you want a real-life proposal ASAP.
00:48:38Well, let's put it that way.
00:48:39I didn't say, I would like a proposal.
00:48:41That was a free question.
00:48:42Let's clarify.
00:48:43Uh-huh.
00:48:43And I got really shy, I got really uncomfortable, and I said, the sooner the better, you know.
00:48:48The sooner the better.
00:48:49Yeah, so...
00:48:49But still, the stark contrast, I guess, from last week.
00:48:52How does that feel from your perspective?
00:48:54Yeah, I'm trying to make sense of it.
00:48:57It's a bit confusing.
00:48:58No, it's not being crazy.
00:48:59But it's just, it's extreme.
00:49:00Can't really give up.
00:49:01It's extreme.
00:49:02And it has an emotional impact.
00:49:04Nah, it's good.
00:49:04So, I'm just wondering how that feels for you.
00:49:06Nah, it's good.
00:49:07It shows that she's forward-thinking, she sees me in her future, and that she's, like, the real deal, you
00:49:12know.
00:49:12When you think about the future, is this something that you can see for the two of you?
00:49:17Yeah, yeah.
00:49:18Definitely.
00:49:18Most definitely.
00:49:19So, yeah.
00:49:20Pretty, pretty confident.
00:49:23It's just interesting tonight that the first thing I noticed was the way you looked at him again.
00:49:28Oh.
00:49:29Yeah, I'm in love again.
00:49:31You were back into that sort of starry-eyed interaction where you gaze at him in extended ways.
00:49:38Oh, you're going to make me cry.
00:49:39Well, yeah.
00:49:41We just, no, but we just...
00:49:42We lost that last week.
00:49:43Yeah.
00:49:44I would say I just fell back into my feelings, into my body, into showing up for myself and then
00:49:50showing up for him.
00:49:50Because if I don't show up for myself, I can't show up for him.
00:49:53Yeah.
00:49:54And that's the main difference.
00:49:55And ultimately, I think you had to get out of your head...
00:49:58Yeah.
00:49:58...and into your heart.
00:50:00Yeah.
00:50:00...which is ultimately what we were trying to get you to do.
00:50:03Mm.
00:50:04All right.
00:50:05Well, with that being the case, let's go to the decision, stay or leave.
00:50:09The decision is very simple and being back into my heart.
00:50:13Ah-ha.
00:50:14Have a beautiful stay.
00:50:15Excellent.
00:50:16Look at that, eh?
00:50:17Perfect.
00:50:18And fill it.
00:50:19It's a stay.
00:50:21Strong.
00:50:22It's a strong stay.
00:50:23Strong stay.
00:50:24Strong stay.
00:50:25Strong stay.
00:50:26Well, thank you.
00:50:27I personally really appreciate the advices that you guys give.
00:50:31Good work.
00:50:32Will do.
00:50:33Thanks again.
00:50:34Ciao.
00:50:43And our final couple up on the couch, Bec and Danny.
00:50:47Ooh, I'm scared.
00:50:53Oh.
00:50:56Right.
00:50:57Feedback week.
00:50:58How was it?
00:51:00Do you want to, you talk?
00:51:01I'll talk.
00:51:02It's been good.
00:51:02It was challenging to begin with.
00:51:05But it ended really, really well.
00:51:07Why was it challenging?
00:51:12So, obviously, like, I told Danny that I'm in love with him.
00:51:16The last commitment ceremony.
00:51:18You certainly did.
00:51:20It's how I feel, so I'm going to say it.
00:51:25And I meant it.
00:51:27But when we sort of did the questions, there was one question that came up was, can you see yourself
00:51:33falling in love with me?
00:51:36And Danny didn't say no, but he sort of umdenied a little bit and I just spiralled.
00:51:43So, what was his exact answer?
00:51:47Uh, potentially, yes, I assume so.
00:51:52So, how did that feel?
00:51:54Um, I was upset.
00:51:55I was hurt and I was kind of embarrassed.
00:52:03I thought that he would have said, no, I'm not there yet.
00:52:07But, yes, I just thought that it, that he would be a little bit further along than potentially, yes, I
00:52:14assume so.
00:52:15But I need to allow Daniel to be on his journey in this relationship and I'll be on mine and
00:52:24don't regret it.
00:52:26Be me.
00:52:28I'm in love.
00:52:30I'm in love.
00:52:30He's not there yet.
00:52:32Don't allow that fact to ruin how good it feels for me.
00:52:48Danny, let's go to that discussion, shall we?
00:52:51And when the question got asked, tell us again what you said and then why you said it.
00:52:59Well, the questions asked sometimes I struggle with, to be honest.
00:53:03I think I misinterpreted the question.
00:53:09But the question, what was it, like, it was a bit.
00:53:11Could you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:53:14Because it's a pretty black and white question.
00:53:31I think I misinterpreted the question.
00:53:36But the question, what was it, like, it was a bit.
00:53:38Could you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:53:40Because it's a pretty black and white question.
00:53:51If, from my point of view, I don't feel, as a man, like, if I give back my word on
00:53:58something, I'm always going to stand to that.
00:54:02And I don't think saying, yes, I can 100% fall in love with you would be the right thing
00:54:08to say, because it's almost making a promise, which I don't think you can promise that before you're in love
00:54:13with someone.
00:54:16But let's just remind ourselves, the question wasn't, do you promise that you will fall in love with me?
00:54:23Yeah, I know, John, 100%.
00:54:24It was, can you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:54:30Yeah.
00:54:31And do you know what?
00:54:32Like, I can't sit here and make excuses.
00:54:34I just answered the question shockingly.
00:54:37You know what I mean?
00:54:40It was a mistake.
00:54:41I made a mistake.
00:54:42I'm only human.
00:54:44Like, I didn't, I didn't mean to make Beck feel like that.
00:54:47It wasn't my intention.
00:54:50When, when we revisited it, I, um, yeah, we talked about it.
00:54:57And we patched it up, you know?
00:55:01Um, yeah, I just, I made a mistake.
00:55:05It's all right, baby.
00:55:10Danny, I've got a question, because I'm curious.
00:55:14Frankly, when I watch you on the couch, you seem uncomfortable.
00:55:21I do find this uncomfortable, to be honest.
00:55:23It's not something I'm good at.
00:55:24What's uncomfortable about it?
00:55:26Just sitting here talking about your feelings.
00:55:29I turn up and do it, because obviously it's more for Beck.
00:55:33If I had it my way, I wouldn't be here, no chance.
00:55:36But we need this, baby.
00:55:37Is it more for Beck?
00:55:41A hundred percent.
00:55:45Like, a lot of blokes do things they don't want to do, because of their...
00:55:48Hold on a second, doll.
00:55:49One second, babe.
00:55:51Adore you so much.
00:55:53I love you, actually.
00:55:55But this is not all for me, doll.
00:55:57No, I know that they're like...
00:55:59You're being, you're, they're helping you too.
00:56:01Trust me!
00:56:04These couch sessions are not just for Beck.
00:56:06You signed up to the experiment on your own.
00:56:10Saying that you wanted to break some patterns.
00:56:13So this is the chance for you to do that.
00:56:15And that's your part where you have to rise to the occasion and choose to do that with enthusiasm.
00:56:22Enthusiasm, thank you.
00:56:23Thanks, Alessandra.
00:56:24You're welcome.
00:56:25No, but it's true.
00:56:26You want your partner to want to.
00:56:29And that's the game changer.
00:56:30When somebody really wants to be there for you and chooses to make you a priority day in and day
00:56:36out, wow, that's the game changer.
00:56:37It would be for you, it certainly will be for Beck.
00:56:44And what you know now is when you're particularly talking about commitment, future, feelings, you do have to choose your
00:56:54words very carefully.
00:56:58You do indeed.
00:57:00If you could do it over again, how would you answer it?
00:57:04I'd just say yes.
00:57:08Yes, what?
00:57:09I could see myself wanting to love with you.
00:57:11Yeah, that's as simple as that.
00:57:14And would that be the truth?
00:57:18Of course, I wouldn't say it if it wasn't the truth.
00:57:21So, yeah.
00:57:23I just answered it wrong.
00:57:25That was a bad answer.
00:57:28I think the best thing with Daniel and I, and I've learned, is that, you know, we always come out
00:57:34better and stronger.
00:57:35Because now, moving forward, we're in this together, and it makes me feel like I'm not going to get hurt.
00:57:44It means so much.
00:57:47And, like, for example, he planned this date and I walked into our apartment and there was candles lit everywhere.
00:57:54And all over the apartment was post-it notes telling me how he felt about me.
00:58:02So, he's learning, guys.
00:58:04I'm not all bad, am I?
00:58:06And then we went up and he asked me to be his girlfriend.
00:58:14I know you're married, but what inspired you to ask Beck that question?
00:58:19Uh, I'm trying to think.
00:58:22Like, it was important to Beck, you know, because, like, obviously...
00:58:26Why was it important to you?
00:58:33Um...
00:58:34Well, because it gives Beck security.
00:58:38But why is it important to you, Danny?
00:58:43Well, I'm married to Beck.
00:58:44Do you know what you mean?
00:58:45So, it's like, but, but, like, I think it, it was more...
00:58:52Um, yeah, I think Beck just wanted that added security that, like, do you...
00:58:57But why was it important to you to ask her that?
00:59:02F***.
00:59:35Because I know it'd be special to Beck.
00:59:40But why was it important to you?
00:59:54Because I wanted to be my girlfriend, like, you know?
00:59:58Um, yeah, that's, that's why I'd done it.
01:00:02Cute.
01:00:09How did it feel?
01:00:10So good.
01:00:15It's really special to me.
01:00:20Alright, well, on that note, we're going to go to a decision.
01:00:23Beck.
01:00:24I wrote stay and then I wrote boyfriend hee hee.
01:00:28Oh.
01:00:30Yeah.
01:00:32Boyfriend.
01:00:33Danny.
01:00:35Leave.
01:00:36Can you imagine?
01:00:37Yeah.
01:00:39So I've just done a cheeky stay.
01:00:42That's lovely.
01:00:43Where's the love part this week?
01:00:45It was in a rush.
01:00:46Oh, okay.
01:00:49This week, I think, for you, Danny, clearly and plainly, let her know how you feel about
01:00:58her.
01:00:59Everything that you wrote on those post-it notes, translate that into your verbal communication
01:01:04with her this week, because it worked.
01:01:06It's been the best week of my life.
01:01:11You got a big thumbs up for that, so do more of that.
01:01:14Make her that priority.
01:01:21Thank you both.
01:01:22Thanks so much.
01:01:23I appreciate you.
01:01:43Tomorrow night.
01:01:45The experiment goes across the country.
01:01:48Welcome home.
01:01:50Wow.
01:01:51Home stays week has arrived.
01:01:54Over two big nights, our couples get a glimpse of what married life will look like.
01:01:59Yeah.
01:02:00Beyond the experiment.
01:02:02Woo, passenger princess.
01:02:04Steven sets sail on an exciting new future with Rachel.
01:02:08This is such a special place for him.
01:02:10How lucky am I for him to have welcomed me into this?
01:02:13I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed.
01:02:16Oh, hang on.
01:02:20My vibes on the wedding day weren't really positive, and I'm here to protect her.
01:02:25Stella's outspoken guests from her wedding day are back.
01:02:28So, like, I've bought information.
01:02:31Sorry to interrupt you.
01:02:32I'm getting some not-so-confident vibes from over here.
01:02:36And then...
01:02:37Welcome.
01:02:38Scott shows off to Gia his waterside home.
01:02:41Oh, it's a bit messy.
01:02:43So random.
01:02:45Weird.
01:02:45This wouldn't be big enough.
01:02:47It'd be better if that wasn't there.
01:02:48Is Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen?
01:02:52Um, my house is way cleaner.
01:02:55Ugh.
01:02:55Yeah, I couldn't live here.
01:02:57If the roles were reversed and I was at Gia's house, I wouldn't say anything but nice things.
01:03:05Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen at Gia's house.
01:03:08Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen at Gia's house.
01:03:08Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen at Gia's house.
01:03:09Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen at Gia's house.
01:03:09Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen at Gia's house.
01:03:09Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen at Gia's house.
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