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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Every time I go to the bathroom, it's like dribble, dribble, dribble.
00:05It's annoying.
00:06Well, I done told you you couldn't handle pregnancy.
00:09I'm Isabella.
00:10Me and Bryce have been dating for a year.
00:11We're fixing to have a baby.
00:13We're not fixing to do nothing.
00:14It's fixing to be me pushing out a baby.
00:17So how has the job search been going?
00:19Not too successful.
00:21Buddy, Bryce assured me that he was going to take care of the baby,
00:25and he's not even trying.
00:27Are we together or not?
00:29I don't know.
00:30I'm asking for the bare minimum.
00:31I'm not asking for the freaking moon.
00:33Leave.
00:34I don't care.
00:35All right, that's fine.
00:36Text me whenever your little attitude is over with.
00:40No, I'm scared.
00:42I'm scared.
00:43I'm Amaya.
00:44I'm 16 years old, and I'm having a baby, literally.
00:48You're just going to look at me and focus, okay?
00:50She just doesn't know what she's about to go through.
00:54There is going to be a moment where you steal everything that that girl won't cover.
00:58We call that the ring of fire.
01:00You know, there goes that worrying about your kid part.
01:02It's time to push.
01:04I can't.
01:05I'm scared, Mom.
01:14No.
01:16You okay?
01:16I can't.
01:18I can't.
01:19I can't.
01:20I can't.
01:21I'm so.
01:21No.
01:23It's time to push.
01:24You got to push.
01:25If I can be more ready, then you won't have the strength to push.
01:27Hold on.
01:28It's time.
01:29I can't.
01:31Let's go.
01:36Let's go.
01:38No, no, no.
01:39There's no point in being scared.
01:41Hold on.
01:41No, no, no.
01:41Hold on.
01:42I'm coming.
01:42It's okay.
01:43No, you have to do it.
01:45You have to do it.
01:46My butthole.
01:47It's okay.
01:48It hurts.
01:49What the is going on?
01:52It's the baby you're going to wait through.
01:55We've been in the hospital about 23 hours at this point, and here goes Amaya.
02:02I got a .
02:03No, I don't know if that's what she's saying.
02:06There's pressure in her butthole, and I'm like, that's the baby.
02:09That means it's time to push.
02:10No, it doesn't.
02:11I have to go to the bathroom.
02:13No, it is time to push.
02:16We're about to have us a baby.
02:21I don't want to do it.
02:24No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
02:25I started to realize, oh, this is not a joke, and she had to push through out the pain.
02:30Even though she did get the epidural, she's still feeling pain.
02:34Just squeeze my hand.
02:36Oh, my God.
02:36Just squeeze my hand.
02:37Oh, it hurts.
02:38Okay.
02:39No, it's not.
02:42I just felt bad.
02:43I couldn't do anything to help her.
02:45I was thinking, like, a hundred things all at once.
02:49A hundred things?
02:50What are those hundred things you were thinking?
02:52If something happened to the baby, if something happened to her, something happened to both
02:56of them.
03:01You guys need help?
03:11So they come in to reposition Amaya, and the baby's heart rate just drops.
03:18And there wasn't a little drop.
03:20And my heart dropped with it.
03:25I knew at that point, like, it was serious.
03:28So baby's heart rate didn't look down, but baby's heart rate went up again.
03:33If the baby's heart rate was down again, that means we have to go for an emergency C-section.
03:39Okay?
03:39I'm going to go call the doctor, okay?
03:41I'll be right down.
03:43Nurse said, if that happens again, there's no other conversation being had.
03:47We're going straight to the emergency room, you know, for an emergency C-section, and that's
03:53it.
03:53You can do this.
03:55You're made to do this.
03:58You're Sammy's mama.
03:59You got this.
04:02This is not okay.
04:05My worst fear is she'll have to have a C-section, and the baby won't make it.
04:15And I just don't want her to go through that or have to experience that because it's not
04:25easy at all.
04:45What's wrong?
04:47What?
04:50What?
04:51I'm done.
04:56So, last night, me and Bryce was talking about how he should get a job, and he had
05:00the audacity to tell me that I should be working.
05:04It's common sense.
05:05You got to get a job.
05:06Why don't you get a job, too?
05:08I cannot believe you just said this.
05:10Be real.
05:10Who's going to keep our kid?
05:12You.
05:13I don't really know where me and Bryce are at right now because he's not trying for anything.
05:20I don't know if it's a maturity level.
05:21Well, I don't know, but I'm worried that he'll never understand what he needs to do in order
05:27to fix the problems in our relationship.
05:35I guess we'll talk more about how our conversation went after we do this.
05:43That's fine.
05:45Because I don't want to get mad again and be in a bad mood.
05:49You seem to get mad no matter what.
05:51Now you're going to make me mad.
05:53What?
05:54I don't get mad for no reason.
05:56I get mad because I have logical things to get mad about.
05:59You're mad about a lot of things that aren't logical.
06:01My feelings are valid, and you're trying to discourage my feelings.
06:05It's like, they don't matter.
06:08I never said that.
06:10It's how you act.
06:11I don't care.
06:13Can you pull over for a second?
06:15Yeah.
06:16So I agreed to go to Bryce's nan and papa's house, but I don't know how it's going to go
06:20because me and him still haven't figured anything out.
06:24You think the world revolves around you.
06:26If it's not on your timing and what you want to do.
06:28If it's not on your way, it's not right.
06:30It's an argument.
06:31You're not doing s***.
06:33What are you doing?
06:34I do my school.
06:35I clean my mom's house for her because that's my job, you know?
06:40Because my mom pays for everything for me.
06:42So that's what she expects from me.
06:43So that's what I do.
06:44I watch Truly.
06:46What the s*** are you talking about?
06:47You don't even watch her half the time.
06:49She just comes in your room and you make her food when she asks.
06:55Like I do stuff with her.
06:56We color.
06:57My neck's hurting.
06:58We paint.
06:59I'm over with this conversation.
07:00My neck's hurting.
07:01Okay.
07:02Because you're a s*** cry baby.
07:04Yeah.
07:05You are.
07:05Yeah.
07:06Glad you finally admitted it.
07:07Yeah.
07:08Keep saying yeah.
07:09What about it?
07:10I know I'm a s*** brat, but don't make me a brat.
07:13Like there's a reason I act like a brat.
07:15I'm not just a brat for no reason.
07:17Bryce expects me to just sit there and take like whatever.
07:21Probably because that's how his Nancy is and she just takes everybody's bull s*** and she
07:27don't stick up for herself.
07:29It's learned behavior.
07:31Whatever, Bryce.
07:33You've changed ever since I got pregnant.
07:38I see.
07:39You have?
07:40No, I have not.
07:41Yes, you have.
07:42Yeah.
07:42You should have.
07:43Yeah.
07:44What do you mean how?
07:45No.
07:46Because we never fought this much.
07:49At this point, I'm like, all right, what are we arguing over?
07:52It's like just stupid things.
07:54And I'm not saying anything that she has to do is easy.
07:57Like taking care of a kid and doing schoolwork is definitely hard.
08:00I will give it to her.
08:01And I'll make sure no matter what that I'll find a way to make money.
08:05But I want her to understand that I need to do things my own way without her harping on
08:12me.
08:13But it's like talking to a brick wall.
08:14When have you ever said it was your fault?
08:16Ever.
08:17Ever.
08:18What is my fault?
08:19Now you're saying it's ever.
08:20Like, what do I do that's my fault?
08:21That's my fault.
08:21I get mad over.
08:22What have you changed for me then?
08:23I get.
08:24What have you changed for me?
08:25I don't know.
08:25How do you expect us to sit here and talk if you can't even?
08:28Because you can't let me talk ever.
08:29You never see myself.
08:32I never see your side of what?
08:33No, never.
08:34Of what?
08:35Of anything.
08:36It's always my fault.
08:36My fault.
08:37My fault.
08:37My fault.
08:40My fault.
08:42Okay, that's the problem.
08:44Bryce doesn't seem like he even listens to when I talk.
08:47It's going through one ear and right out the other.
08:50Like, I just can't get through to him.
08:52You know, I feel like Bryce is this way because there's nobody telling him what he's doing is
08:56wrong except Isabella.
08:58Because his dad died and his mom, she's worthless.
09:02So his grandparents are the only people he has to hold him accountable and to tell him you're
09:07wrong.
09:08And if they can't understand and get it through his head, then I'm done.
09:10Whatever, Bryce.
09:15I see your belly.
09:17I'm Mia.
09:18I'm 16.
09:18I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
09:20They're headbands.
09:21Oh, my goodness.
09:22Oh, that's cute.
09:23Today, me and my friends are going to pop for the baby shower.
09:26Oh, Lord.
09:28And hopefully, my dad doesn't flip out.
09:30How much you spend on all this?
09:32800 and...
09:33800?
09:34What?
09:36Hard, hard.
09:37Four.
09:39Six, seven.
09:40With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did, I mean, it's a heart, it can stop at
09:44any moment, you know?
09:45And go.
09:46To the count of ten.
09:47Go.
09:47Come on.
09:48I killed my breath for that long.
09:50I killed.
09:51I was very scared.
09:53She may have to have a C-section.
09:55Come on, push.
09:56Go.
09:57Push.
09:57Push.
09:58Hard.
10:00Give me a reason to be with you.
10:02I'll be there when I'm hurting.
10:10What you making?
10:11You got okay.
10:12I think we need more butter.
10:13I mean, more milk.
10:14Okay.
10:15Let's see.
10:16I'm Mia.
10:17I'm 16.
10:18I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
10:19It's still so crazy to me.
10:21Like, even I think, like, oh, this baby's about to call me mom.
10:24I mean, I'm 16 years old.
10:25Like, I'm, like, I still call my mom mom, you know?
10:28It's just so crazy.
10:29Like, this little baby, like, it's depending on me.
10:34Let me move.
10:34Okay.
10:36I guess your belly's going to hit the cupcake.
10:40I work at a bakery in Baton Rouge.
10:41I make $13 an hour.
10:44I start it at $9.50.
10:46So I'm earning a little over $500 per week before taxes.
10:50I think I counted you made 70 pretzel sticks.
10:54Which, they are so beautiful.
10:55They are so cute.
10:56Every time I get paid, I put half in my savings,
10:58and then I put the other half in my account
11:01just for me to be able to spend.
11:03Because I'm not going to work all this
11:05and just put it all in my savings and get nothing from it.
11:08Because that's stupid.
11:14Hi, Mrs. Joe.
11:17Hello, my beautiful ladies.
11:19Hello, Mia.
11:20Hello, hello.
11:22I see your belly.
11:24Oh, my gosh.
11:26My pregnancy has been going very well.
11:29I don't think a lot has changed since I got pregnant,
11:31besides, like, my belly got a lot bigger.
11:35Yeah.
11:36And then my face has gotten better.
11:37And my fingers have gotten better.
11:39Because if you see and you look where my ring's at,
11:42you see that?
11:43That wasn't, that didn't happen before I got pregnant.
11:46Like, there wasn't a big old mark there.
11:48And, like, an indention in my finger.
11:51And now it's hard to push my ring back on.
11:53Who's that ring from, Jessie?
11:57Wait, what?
11:59Where's that ring from?
12:01Oh, because I promised to marry her one day.
12:06I'm Jessie.
12:07I'm her boyfriend.
12:08And I'm also the dad.
12:10Me and Jessie have been dating for a year and four months.
12:13But we've known each other for, like, two and a half years.
12:21I was the first person to say, I love you.
12:23Like, I kissed her and it was just, like,
12:26our whole future played in my mind.
12:27I see, like, us being together
12:30probably till death do its part.
12:36So what do you plan on getting?
12:38I want to do, like, the pink and brown count.
12:41Do you have, like, an inspo pic?
12:43No.
12:44No? Okay.
12:44It's just in my brain.
12:45Today, me and my friends are going to go
12:48and shop for the baby shower,
12:49which is in a few days.
12:51We are having around 50 people at my house.
12:56And I'm going to try to stick to a budget of around $300.
13:02So where do you want to start?
13:04We got to find...
13:05We got to find the Western part.
13:07Western.
13:07Western.
13:08Okay.
13:08Oh, I see cow prints.
13:11Oh.
13:11Perfect.
13:12May have found it.
13:13Three, four...
13:15They're headbands.
13:16Oh, my goodness.
13:17Oh, that's cute.
13:18So cute.
13:18One, two, three, four, five, six.
13:21Yeah, and then get these.
13:23I'd say five.
13:24And then get, like, the pink.
13:25Like we were saying, like, get the pink and go in the middle.
13:27Okay.
13:28When I first found out I was pregnant, I freaked out and I cried and cried for, like, weeks and
13:35weeks.
13:36And then I found out I'm having a girl and I'm super excited I'm having a girl because me and
13:41my mom, we never had a very good relationship.
13:43And I want a relationship, like, I want it with my mom, I want with her.
13:48You can't be a 100% perfect mother, you know.
13:51But I think I'm going to be a pretty good mom.
13:54Okay.
13:55We can put Jesse in some chaps.
13:57Look, something like this.
13:58Did you see him in that?
14:00That is terrible.
14:01I think it'll go with the thing.
14:02After I found out she was pregnant, I was sad and worried and frustrated.
14:06But after the first few days, it was like, okay, I can actually do this because I've always wanted to
14:10be a father because I never really had one, but I've always wanted to be one.
14:14Well, yeah, but he wants to play good cop, bad cop, and he wants me to be the bad cop,
14:17and he wants to be the good cop all the time.
14:21He's a sucker.
14:25What are you texting on your phone?
14:27I'm texting Jesse.
14:29Well, we're having a fun time.
14:31What's he doing?
14:31He's supposed to come to the house when we're done, and he's stressed out because he don't have a ride
14:35to the house and all that, and he keeps texting me.
14:39Well, he's putting that stress on me.
14:41Whatever.
14:43I'm practically planning this baby shower and doing this baby shower by myself because my mom hasn't really helped during
14:50my pregnancy.
14:50And even though me and my dad are a lot closer than me and my mom, he just don't understand
14:55because he's a guy.
14:56And then Jesse's mom has bought a few things to help me decorate and everything, but my mom.
15:01Can get kind of jealous.
15:03It would just aggravate her a little bit if Jesse's mom helped out.
15:09Yep.
15:10It was a lot.
15:12Good morning.
15:13Or afternoon.
15:14How are y'all?
15:15How are you?
15:23I'm going to grab another cell.
15:25Two of these?
15:26Yes.
15:29Is this in budget mail?
15:31As I'm checking out, the numbers are steadily going up, and we do exceed $300 by a bit.
15:41$871.91.
15:43That's over your budget.
15:47Oh, Lord.
15:49I might have went a little overboard with spending for the baby shower, but it's my money.
15:53I do what I want with it.
15:54I just hope I didn't spend all that money for it to be a day filled with drama.
16:00Only because our moms haven't met yet, and the first time they're supposed to meet is at the baby shower.
16:05I don't know how I feel about that.
16:07Me either.
16:07Because when you put my family and Jesse's family together, who knows what's going to happen.
16:12I don't know how to do it.
16:14I don't know how to do it.
16:16I don't know how to do it.
16:18Oh, my God!
16:20Come on.
16:22Come on, push.
16:22Go!
16:23Push hard, hard.
16:24So it has been 24 hours since me, Maya, and Mama G
16:30have been in that labor room.
16:32Amaya's just in that constant pain, just trying to push.
16:35That's it.
16:35Hard, hard.
16:36Four, six, seven.
16:39With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did,
16:42I mean, it can, the heart, it can stop at any moment, you know?
16:46And so she may have to have a C-section,
16:51and then that's my biggest worry.
16:54And go, to the count of ten, go.
16:55Come on.
16:56Thank you, I've read for that one.
17:01No, no, no.
17:02Just like that.
17:03All right, congrats.
17:04Okay, Maya, so here's what we're going to do.
17:06Okay.
17:07Okay, no more shouting.
17:09Don't get to talking, it's going to be you and me.
17:11Okay.
17:11Okay?
17:12Listen to me.
17:14Nice, quiet delivery.
17:15It's better for you and better for baby.
17:17Okay?
17:18Okay.
17:18All you have to focus on is holding that breath
17:21and bearing down and pushing as hard as you can
17:23for that ten seconds.
17:25Okay.
17:25Okay.
17:26Very good.
17:28Oh, man.
17:29The doctor had to tell everyone to shut up.
17:33I mean, I get it.
17:34We are a very loud family.
17:37You know, he puts his foot down, to be honest,
17:39and just tells us we need to all be quiet
17:41and let him do his job.
17:43But Lord knows I'm praying and just hoping
17:46Amaya's going to be able to push
17:48and can deliver this baby vaginally.
17:51Oh, my God.
17:53Feel that pressure?
17:54Yes.
17:55Good.
17:56Take a deep breath.
17:57Come on.
17:58I am.
17:59Yes, you can.
17:59Deep breath.
18:00You're doing it.
18:01Push.
18:01Two, three, four, five, six,
18:05seven, eight, nine, three.
18:09Good job.
18:11I was scared.
18:13I was scared, too.
18:14I was very scared
18:15because it's been a long 24 hours for all of us.
18:20And Amaya was like,
18:22you got to do this.
18:24It's go time.
18:25And you got to put your all into it.
18:28The nurse told her it could be three hours of push
18:30and she was like, oh, hell no.
18:32At that point, it kind of put a little fire under her
18:35and, you know.
18:36Yeah.
18:37One, two, three.
18:38One, two, four, six.
18:42One, two, three.
18:46Oh, my God.
18:46I'm quiet.
18:47I'm quiet.
18:49OK.
18:50Four.
18:54You've got your hair, Pomma.
18:56Oh, my God.
18:57Oh, my God.
18:57Oh, my God.
18:58Oh, my God.
18:59Oh, my God.
19:01Oh, my God.
19:04Oh, my God.
19:04Oh, my God.
19:18He's got his hair, mama.
19:20Oh my god!
19:34He did it.
19:36All right, this is going to be slow.
19:47You want to cut the cord again?
19:49Yes, please.
19:50Just put your scissors like that.
19:51There you go.
19:55Cutting the umbellic cord was weird.
19:58It was, like, full of, like, blood.
20:00It's the thing where you don't cut it just one and done.
20:03You have to keep going.
20:04And it was like, ugh.
20:06Don't throw it for y'all a shirt right here.
20:08That's a cover.
20:09Keep my hands right there, OK?
20:10I'm holding that.
20:11I appreciate that.
20:11That's OK.
20:13Oh, my god!
20:15You did it!
20:18Oh, my god.
20:20Oh, my god.
20:22Good job, mama.
20:23Maya pushes Sammy out.
20:25And 40 minutes, doctor gave him a pat on his back.
20:29He started crying, and I was happy.
20:30At 8, 10 a.m., Sammy comes into the world.
20:35He was born, finally.
20:38Oh, my god.
20:40It takes me 24 hours and 10 minutes of labor to have Sam Sam.
20:46And he was 7 pounds and...
20:5114 ounces.
20:52Oh, my god.
20:537 pounds.
20:53I know how big my baby was.
20:55I can't believe I just forgot that.
20:56It's OK.
20:57I got it.
20:5714.
20:587 pounds and 14 ounces.
21:00I thought he was 13.
21:00Almost 8 pounds.
21:02This is why I'm the mom, because...
21:04I have pictures.
21:05Clearly, they don't even...
21:05You want to bet?
21:07He's a big boy.
21:07I don't want to bet, but...
21:08Oh, you're not a betting man?
21:09You got pictures, but you don't know how big he was.
21:12I'm not trying to lose that money.
21:14He was 7 pounds and 14 ounces, OK?
21:16Thank you, guys.
21:20Oh, look at him!
21:21Beautiful!
21:25We're meeting a very special person.
21:28We're meeting Samuel, Sammy.
21:31The little king of our...
21:34The little pride of our joy.
21:37His name is Samuel Maximino Georgiev Socaris.
21:44He's so tiny.
21:45He's so tiny.
21:45Say hi.
21:46Oh.
21:47Oh.
21:49Oh, look.
21:49He's saying hi himself.
21:51Oh, no.
21:52He's going back to sleep.
21:54All he does is sleep.
21:55Can I hold him up?
21:56Yeah, I'll hold him.
21:57Let me see.
22:02Sammy is named after both me and Jose's grandfathers,
22:07and he has both of our last names.
22:11And this is our little creation.
22:15Our little creation.
22:20Little Sammy.
22:28That feeling of holding him for the first time
22:31was, like, the most rewarding part.
22:33Like, he's really there, and I really did that,
22:36like, by myself.
22:38It was like...
22:39I don't know.
22:40There's no better feeling than that.
22:45You did it, baby.
22:47I'm so proud of you.
22:49You're going to be an amazing mother.
22:51Hopefully a better mother than I am.
22:53Oh, my gosh.
22:54Don't say that.
22:56She's already an amazing mom.
23:00I'm the best mom I could have, literally.
23:02I'm your only mom.
23:03That's all you do.
23:04Exactly.
23:04I'm sorry.
23:05The best one, too.
23:06I got lucky.
23:08You did so good.
23:11So good.
23:12You, mama.
23:15I'm so proud of you.
23:17Look at my grandmother.
23:17Baby.
23:19I feel like a big weight has been lifted off,
23:22and my prayers have been answered.
23:25Because that's all I hoped for,
23:27was that her and the baby make it through,
23:29and everyone be healthy.
23:32Aw.
23:34But now that the baby's here,
23:36the real work starts.
23:39We're...
23:40It's not a game anymore.
23:42Let's see if you guys can handle it.
23:48What do you think your nan and papa are going to want to talk about?
23:52Hello?
23:53Hello?
23:59Okay, now you're not going to talk.
24:08Let's go.
24:10Put your seatbelt on.
24:11Let's go.
24:20Does it look good?
24:22Yeah, it looks good.
24:23You know, I'm making their favorite,
24:24so I'll hopefully choose them with the crab legs.
24:27There you go.
24:28She's going to love that.
24:29Okay, yeah.
24:29You'll be like, what's going on?
24:31Okay, crab legs?
24:32Crab coma.
24:34I'm Kevin.
24:35This is Sue.
24:37We're Bryce's grandparents,
24:38and we're fixing to be great-grandparents.
24:40My nan and papa are pretty much parents and grandparents.
24:43Like, I don't know.
24:44They play both the roles, so...
24:45We started raising Bryce
24:48when he turned about three years old, I guess.
24:51His mother was just partying a lot
24:54and, you know, not real responsible.
24:57And Bryce's dad, he went to jail.
25:00And then a few years later, sadly,
25:02his father passed away.
25:04It's a sad situation,
25:05and I just thought it would be better
25:07if Bryce permanently stayed with us.
25:12We've tried to give him the best life we could give him.
25:15I've always felt like we had to overcompensate,
25:18you know, to make up for hard times in his life
25:21when he was little.
25:22Did we spoil him some?
25:24Yeah, of course we did,
25:25but he's been a joy for us.
25:29He's so special.
25:30Oh.
25:31All righty.
25:35You know, Bryce is just so closed off these days
25:39that he doesn't really talk about anything, so...
25:41I know he looks like he's in shock, doesn't he?
25:44Yeah.
25:45Yeah.
25:45That's it.
25:46Deer in the headlight look?
25:48Yeah!
25:50We're very excited that a new baby's coming.
25:53It's a little surreal that we're going to be great-grandparents.
25:58Are you going to be a great-grandmother dead or alive?
26:01What does that mean?
26:03Do you want to be dead before you have one or no?
26:05Oh, of course not.
26:06That's one good thing about it.
26:07At least we'll get to see the baby, huh?
26:09And, uh...
26:10Get to see it grow up.
26:11And see the baby grow up, you know,
26:12before we're too old to even enjoy it.
26:19So, what's up?
26:22Uh...
26:24I mean, it's just going to be a real change, and...
26:31I don't know.
26:32It's a very emotional thing.
26:35Yesterday, he was a little boy,
26:36and now he's like this man who's going to have a baby.
26:40When Isabella found out she was pregnant,
26:43me and Nan welcomed her, and, you know,
26:45we did everything we could, but it is a shock.
26:47I mean, it was just a little bit too soon for me.
26:55See what you did?
26:57I didn't do nothing.
26:58The old woman did it to herself.
27:02All good? You good?
27:03Yeah.
27:04Just nervous.
27:05You are? Why?
27:06Well, I know we need to talk about stuff.
27:09All we know is there might be some tension
27:11between Isabella and Bryce tonight.
27:15This pup-up, ah, he hears him coming.
27:17With Bryce, we always say, you know, how's everything going?
27:20Everything's fine.
27:21Everything's fine.
27:22Everything's fine.
27:23There he is, yeah.
27:24So, we have our concerns and a lot of questions.
27:28He's not real open about, like, his relationships and stuff.
27:32He doesn't talk to us about it.
27:33You know, he likes to keep that private.
27:35It can be easier communicating with Isabella.
27:39So, we're hoping to get some answers tonight.
27:43Here we go.
27:44You gonna find out now, huh?
27:49Hopefully, this is not gonna happen anytime soon again.
27:53I'm Mia's dad.
27:54And, yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
27:58How would you prevent that, Mia?
28:01To have protection and to purposely take it off.
28:06Y'all are stupid.
28:13Cause I don't know is all I said.
28:19Run around the time so I can change it.
28:23Whoa.
28:26Hey, babe.
28:26What you got going on right there?
28:29All the stuff I got for the baby shower.
28:31It's not a lot.
28:33Looks like a lot to me.
28:34Okay, well, just a little bit.
28:41I'm gonna show you everything I got, but I gotta pee.
28:43Be right back.
28:45I'm Keith.
28:46I'm 47.
28:47I'm Mia's dad.
28:47And I'm about to be a grandfather.
28:50When I first found out I was pregnant, I was afraid to tell my dad because I was scared.
28:54I don't know.
28:55Cause I knew he was gonna be disappointed in me.
28:57Yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
29:01Going through my head when I found out was everything.
29:06It's like kind of like I guess her life passing in front of my eyes in a blink, you know?
29:14Seeing her little bitty growing up and then all of a sudden out of left field 100% this.
29:21But I do feel some type of way responsible.
29:25Cause I dropped the ball I feel like and I should have went and got her on birth control.
29:29And I mean, that's on me.
29:31I mean, you know.
29:32But she wasn't knocking down my door either saying,
29:36Hey, Dad.
29:36Hey, did you forget?
29:37Cause I forget stuff, you know?
29:38And I mean, unfortunately, this was one of them things I forgot.
29:44Okay.
29:45Hi.
29:47So these are the centerpieces of the table.
29:50They're little hats.
29:51No, that's kind of cute.
29:52So what else you got?
29:53These are gonna be hanging from like above the tables.
29:57Jesus Christ.
29:59Four dollars for some freaking balloons.
30:00How much you spend on all this?
30:05Eight hundred and...
30:06Eight hundred?
30:07What?
30:08Seventy-five dollars.
30:10Nine hundred dollars.
30:12It's like the nine hundred dollars she spent on the baby shower is a prime example.
30:16How she's not ready to have a baby and she's clueless about life.
30:20That's just money down the drain.
30:24I do everything I'm supposed to do.
30:26I have good grades in school.
30:27I'm about to finish school.
30:28I work.
30:30It's...
30:31It's gonna be hard, man.
30:33It sucks.
30:34Struggling is hard.
30:36And I didn't want that.
30:37I don't want that on anybody.
30:39Definitely don't want that for my kid.
30:42Who's all supposed to be coming over here to help?
30:44Caitlin and Jessie and all of them are gonna be here.
30:46And then...
30:48Mom...
30:49She said she was gonna be here, but...
30:51I don't know.
30:54Well, that's just how it is, babe.
30:57I just don't talk to my mom a lot.
30:59She just...
31:00She's more absent.
31:03Um...
31:04We don't have a good relationship and she, um...
31:07We don't live together.
31:08Yeah.
31:10Well, at least you got people to help you.
31:12Yeah.
31:13But, I mean, it's that she's not.
31:17Yeah.
31:19My mom and dad, they officially, like, split up, split up, like, two and a half years ago.
31:23And that's when I started living with my dad.
31:25Yeah.
31:26My mom isn't stable.
31:29She, uh...
31:30She doesn't have a stable...
31:33Work environment.
31:34She doesn't have a stable place to live.
31:36She...
31:36Um...
31:37She has a lot to figure out.
31:39And I just knew, like, with my dad, I'd be in a stable...
31:43Stable house.
31:44That's my daughter.
31:44That's my baby girl.
31:45I mean...
31:46You know?
31:47I love him.
31:48I'm a dad's girl.
31:50I just...
31:51I don't know.
31:52I just wish things would be better.
31:54You know?
31:55That's a sore subject.
31:59Well, what else you got?
32:01So, we're gonna put the banner up.
32:04Let's look at it.
32:05And then...
32:06We're gonna put, like, the balloon arch around the banner.
32:08Hopefully, this is, uh...
32:11Not gonna happen anytime soon again.
32:16How are you gonna prevent that from happening again?
32:19Don't look at me!
32:20She's talking to you!
32:23So, how would you prevent that, Mia?
32:27My plan for after having the baby, to have another baby, preventing it, is to be put on birth control.
32:33I wanna get an IED or some type of birth control in my arm so I know it's reliable.
32:37Because, like, we did use protection in the beginning.
32:40But...
32:41Jesse took off the condom.
32:45Wow.
32:49What?
32:50Why?
32:51I don't know.
32:53Hmm.
32:55Yeah.
32:56Well, I don't feel so guilty now.
33:03Y'all are stupid.
33:07To have protection and to purposely take it off in chances of creating a freaking other human being that you're
33:19responsible for for the rest of your life, baby.
33:23See?
33:23It dumbfounds of me.
33:25It really does.
33:26I mean, it really...
33:27It's ridiculous.
33:29You think I wanted to get pregnant, huh?
33:31No, I...
33:31Okay, then.
33:32I hope not.
33:33But you need to be...
33:34Hey, bruh.
33:35I mean, do what you gotta do.
33:37I don't wanna get into all that , but, I mean, golly.
33:40Kinda obvious.
33:42Just saying.
33:44Y'all still children.
33:45Whether you having a baby tomorrow or in a year.
33:52And it...
33:53Whatever.
33:55I'm sorry.
33:56I'm sorry it made you upset, but that's just how I feel.
34:09Hello.
34:11Hello.
34:12Hello.
34:13Is your dad still saying no to me coming over, or am I coming over?
34:16Come over.
34:16All right.
34:17I love you.
34:18Love you, too.
34:19Bye.
34:21How long is he staying?
34:24Until...
34:27He's not staying here.
34:28That's all I can say.
34:30No.
34:32I'm just telling you how I feel.
34:35It's awkward having Jesse around.
34:37Because I don't really care for him.
34:39I don't want him in my house.
34:41I'm just trying to get over the...
34:44That I just heard earlier.
34:47I don't know.
34:50I don't know.
34:51I don't know.
34:51I don't know.
35:16I don't know.
35:24I don't know.
35:30I don't know.
35:33I don't know.
35:45He's just telling me if I could be a baby here.
35:46So hopefully Bryce's grandparents can get through to him.
35:53Mm.
35:55Oh, it's good, man.
35:57I'm really surprised.
36:01Kevin what you're blocking the sunlight hmm how's your mom doing oh she's done fine working
36:10a good little sister you've been looking after her or what yeah you got a lot on your plate
36:19don't you maybe more than most at your age Isabella seems a little standoffish previously she was always
36:33nice and smiling and tonight she just doesn't seem very inviting or there's a wall there I feel
36:44like between us she looked the same to me like she's on the defensive or something's wrong but I
36:53just shook it off as we haven't seen I haven't seen her in a while and she's nervous and you
36:58know we'll
36:59see what happens well what what y'all's plans what do you want to do all right no clue what
37:06do you
37:06mean plans for as where y'all are gonna live are y'all gonna try to live together no you
37:12don't
37:12want to live with Bryce no not at anybody's house well no I mean like when it's time for y
37:19'all to live
37:20together oh yeah or get married or whatever um my nanopopo had felt like that we should get married
37:28because we're really religious well my family's Christian too but my mom didn't think that we
37:34should get married just because we was having a kid if we can't financially support a baby why would
37:38you get married but it's not like I'm gonna go to hell because I had a baby out of wedlock
37:47so your plan isn't for y'all to get married anytime soon or ever not anytime soon gotta get a
37:57job first
37:59right now we have two months until she comes and nothing's bought I mean she has a couple outfits
38:04that my mom's bought you know you're talking about y'all don't have anything what about having a baby
38:11shower are you interested in that at all no I don't want a baby shower people bring you and give
38:17you
38:17gifts it's not about the gifts it's just more about like support it's crunch time like this isn't gonna
38:23happen and there's just like hey that baby's not gonna hurt for nothing I can promise you
38:29I'm very frustrated because it has nothing to do with them not buying anything it has everything
38:35to do with they're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything and he does because
38:40he helped make this kid we're willing to do whatever we can and Bryce is gonna get a job
38:46yeah but I ain't selling for $10 an hour no you have to have a decent job you have to
38:52crawl before
38:53you walk like my mom said you don't have to work you would just make an effort that is all
39:00my mom
39:00is asking my time well why is your mom asking Bryce what to do I'm still her daughter and I'm
39:08not going
39:08to be in a relationship me and him dating but me feel like a single mom and my mom taking
39:14care of me and
39:15Haisley that's just not like it don't make any logical sense I think her mother's sticking her
39:20nose in and telling Bryce what to do you know that's not right he needs to do what he thinks
39:26he needs to do to be able to raise a family okay not just anything Bryce has a future a
39:35bright future
39:36okay he's smart he's very smart but it takes a little time you can't just get that overnight and
39:42if you go settle for a you know minimum wage job that's what you're doing is just settling for
39:48that that's not the life he dreamed of he wants to have a life do you know in a good
39:52life what I'm
39:54asking is they tell Bryce get his head out of his ass and get a job but oh well who
40:01cares not then
40:02because bring a baby in this world doesn't fall on them it falls on my family it'll be all right
40:10relax a little bit well I'm sorry I sit here and worry because now I understand I understand but it's
40:16Bryce's baby too let's not forget that okay well let's make an effort we had this crab dinner you know
40:26to
40:26to reconnect with Isabella and I feel like I have been under attack the whole time it's getting
40:36dark out here we need to get all this stuff and get it inside so I'm hopeful that if we
40:45just had some
40:45time to reflect we can all come together and try to form a plan that works for everyone
40:53well I hope so but I'm not holding my breath
41:03what was it going about next time on unexpected when I first met Jesse I kind of didn't like him
41:09then this happened I definitely don't like the kid now can Jesse stay the night no he's making it
41:16hard he is making it harder than it has to be I don't know why he don't let you sleep
41:20over
41:20it ain't like she's gonna get pregnant again
41:29taking Sammy home is really scary because it's like really setting in that this is my whole life
41:35now you know I have to go back to work and see you need to be able to do this
41:46have fun Hunter we'll see
41:50y'all later today Hunter is going to see his dad and I am worried that he might not show
41:55up
42:02he's a piece of when does the disappointment stop I do think it's important for Hunter to have his dad
42:08in his lap he's a 13 year old boy about to have a child of his own but his dad
42:12needs to be consistent
42:18dinner it was miserable I'm not gonna sit in the room with a little crybaby because
42:24y'all enable his behavior
42:28she's gonna regret this it's all now okay we can do it like that
42:33you
42:34you
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