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00:10It's supposed to be bedtime we're back and we've brought some new teen mum friends along
00:18it's like a roller coaster that is cheeky which means new babies
00:26lots of new babies
00:35and some not so new what do you say thank you no no thank you you need to say sorry
00:43shall we all have a family cuddle we're still finding our feet i've just squeezed out my
00:51heart you can fight this bomb i'm sometimes losing our minds
00:56oh it's just one thing after another walk away i don't know you anymore i was crying my eyes out
01:06all night we're gonna use the toilet oh my god he's locked himself in there do you not think we've
01:11lost our connection a little bit i'm not doing this but our lives are never boring oh that's good news
01:21oh god high five it's your big day today i baptize you he's just perfect i love you so much
01:33that was good my life's just changed my hormones are all over the place
01:38all i wanna do is lose my heart in the groove oh oh oh
01:56Cos it's a good night to get up out the wall
02:00Give me the beat cos that's exactly what I need
02:03I'm Leone, I'm 16 years old and I'm 35 weeks pregnant.
02:10It seems crazy that in a few weeks I'll be a mum to a baby boy, Carter James.
02:15I am very nervous becoming a mum.
02:17Am I going to hear him crying at night?
02:19Am I going to be able to make his balls?
02:21When am I going to know he needs feeding?
02:23When am I going to know when he's napping, he's changing?
02:25Is he going to love me?
02:28Just everything goes through your mind when you're going to become a mum.
02:31Carter James' dad is called Tyler and we met nine months ago.
02:37So I actually met Tyler on a bus.
02:42And they just looked at me and I said, what are you looking at?
02:45I thought, what are you looking at? Don't look at me like that.
02:48And then we just started talking.
02:50And then things just went from there really, it kind of happened all so fast.
02:55But not everyone was pleased to find out about my pregnancy.
03:00When I found out she was pregnant, I was ready for killing them both.
03:07In the end, we've come round to it.
03:11I've done the crying, I've done all that.
03:13Oh, you've ruined your life and all this.
03:15And now, I think it's the best thing, what could ever happen to Leone.
03:20Me and Tyler live at home with my parents.
03:23You missed a bit over there.
03:24You want to do it yourself?
03:26No, I'll watch you.
03:27My mum is literally like my best friend.
03:32We argue like mad.
03:34It's definitely not right, it's falling down.
03:36Well, I do, I love my mum to bits.
03:47I can't wait till you become a mum.
03:49But I'm really nervous.
04:01And it looks like I won't have to wait long, because I think I'm in labour.
04:05I feel somewhat up here and all.
04:07What kind of pain is it?
04:09I don't know.
04:11I've started feeling pains from last night, about 12 o'clock, and they just keep getting stronger and stronger at
04:19night.
04:24Right, it's OK.
04:29We've spoken to the hospital now at triage, and they've given her a numbering and everything.
04:34They've said, go up.
04:35So, we're going to get up to the hospital and, well, see when he's born.
04:39I don't know.
04:42Do you want me to ring Tyler?
04:44No, not yet.
04:45Well, I've run up merging him, I'll do it.
04:47You're going to want to know, though, love.
04:48I won't pass me before.
04:50It's up to you.
04:56Where are you?
05:01Tyler, she's starting off in labour, love.
05:05She is?
05:06Yeah, yeah.
05:07Oh, why are you so happy?
05:08You're having a baby.
05:11Right, I'll give you a bell from hospital.
05:14All right.
05:14Yeah, all right, love.
05:15All right, see you in a bit.
05:16Why is he not that polite to me?
05:19Oh.
05:21Please don't touch my back.
05:23Okey-dokey.
05:32You're never going through this pain again.
05:36Oh, you said you were on a football team?
05:38No.
05:39Not anymore.
05:39OK.
05:41No.
05:41It's in.
05:42Oh.
05:43No, I'm getting the care.
05:44The heated seat's not on.
05:46Right, I'll put it on.
05:47I can't believe I'm about to give birth.
05:51Ah.
05:52Well, I'm not expecting this today, will I?
06:02I just want to tell you that I'm going crazy.
06:09All I think about is you.
06:13I've been a mum of two for eight months, and I love it.
06:18Hey, Kevin.
06:22Jesse is now crawling around and finding his feet.
06:26He is growing so much.
06:32And Teddy is four years old and finally sleeping in his own room.
06:37Teddy is growing up so fast.
06:41It's crazy to think he's done four.
06:45Hey, big brother.
06:47I'm not.
06:48But having two kids isn't easy.
06:52Especially when Teddy has a tantrum.
06:55Hey, Mummy, love me.
06:56He's always had a temper on him,
06:58and he's always had that lashing out.
07:00You're not listening.
07:03But he's getting bigger now,
07:05and he knows how to use his hands and his teeth.
07:09I do worry about Teddy's behaviour rubbing off on Jesse.
07:12And their dad's behaviour hasn't been great this last year either.
07:19Matt left me about four times in the space of two months.
07:24He's just up and left and didn't want to be with me anymore.
07:27And we had an incident when he was on a night out.
07:32He kissed somebody else.
07:41It's just trying to get over that now and trying to move forward.
07:46We are putting the past behind us and focusing on our future together as a family of four.
07:54But it's not easy to work on a relationship when one of you is never there.
08:02You've just got Mummy, Jesse and Teddy tonight.
08:06What?
08:07Because Daddy's working, remember?
08:09Oh, dear.
08:11Matt's got a new job, but he's working all the time.
08:15I don't really see Matt very often.
08:18I maybe see him one day on the weekend, on a Sunday,
08:20and maybe once in the weekend evening, that that's probably about it.
08:25It makes me feel quite lonely at times.
08:29I've got a cold, but with two kids to entertain,
08:33I don't have any time to rest.
08:35We don't...
08:36Look, Jesse, we don't bite.
08:40No!
08:41That's not a nice hand.
08:42Are you all right, Ted?
08:44I hurt Teddy.
08:45You don't hurt Teddy.
08:46Because he hurt my hand.
08:48Should we have it better?
08:50Oh, Jesse, no bite.
08:53Oh, I don't want to be touched.
08:56No, Jesse!
08:59No!
09:02Hello?
09:04Say hi.
09:05Say hi.
09:07Say hi.
09:10Do you think you'll be late home tonight?
09:13You know what I'm saying.
09:14It could be ten o'clock, it could be six in the morning.
09:17Late if it'll be...
09:18Six in the morning?
09:20No, that'll be...
09:21I need to start at six in the morning.
09:22All right, well, I love you.
09:24I love you too, bye.
09:25Bye.
09:27Bye.
09:28Bye, bye.
09:34It's so hard managing everything on my own.
09:36I feel like a single parent sometimes.
09:40Mom!
09:42Mom!
09:43Mom!
09:55My baby boy, Khalil, isn't a baby anymore.
09:59Look, you need to hold mommy's hand.
10:01Khalil!
10:02Khalil!
10:02I've now got a toddler, and the terrible twos are real.
10:08I feel like toddler life is so much harder than newborn life.
10:17As much as I complain about his toddler stage, he's like the most perfect toddler you could ask for.
10:21He's funny, he listens.
10:23He's actually quite helpful when he wants to be.
10:28And I'm growing up too.
10:30I'm in my final year of college.
10:33So I've got six exams coming up in about 60 days to go.
10:39I've got them all on my countdown app, because those are things I keep on top of.
10:43They're important stuff.
10:4460 days is not a lot, so I'm getting quite worried.
10:48The pressure's really getting on.
10:51And I couldn't do it without my mum's help.
10:55I couldn't imagine my life without the support my mum does give me.
10:58But she's no longer the only shoulder I lean on.
11:02You never felt so good.
11:04A year ago, me, uh, hate men.
11:06They're all horrible, nasty, don't want anything to do with them, don't care for them.
11:10And now I'm in a very loving relationship.
11:14I met Josh three months ago, but he lives in Leeds and I live in Portsmouth.
11:20I hate the long distance aspect of the relationship.
11:23Why are you that far away?
11:25And then whenever I have to go up to see him when he's up there, it's a six hour journey
11:29and I don't drive.
11:30I don't know if I've ever found you.
11:36What's that number?
11:37That's yours.
11:38It's your sandwich.
11:39You know what you call Josh?
11:40Yeah.
11:41Yeah?
11:42Josh has met Khalil and they get on really well.
11:46The fact he has taken to Khalil so well, even though he's not got a kid of himself, that was
11:51such a green flag for me.
11:54Hey, hi.
11:54Hi.
11:55Hi, Josh.
11:56Look.
11:57Hey, Khalil, you all right?
11:58Mm-hmm.
11:59So I'm good.
12:01I'm good.
12:02Do you know what he did this morning?
12:04No, what?
12:04He did a poo in my shower.
12:07I respect it.
12:08At least he didn't want a bath this time.
12:10It was in the bath?
12:11Yeah, but not only is he getting a bath.
12:13Yeah, it was.
12:14How's college?
12:15It's not bad, but I've got coursework due on Friday, so I'm stressing out.
12:20Because Khalil's not been going to bed until like 8, 9, because you know what Khalil's like.
12:23So I don't know how I'm going to get that done.
12:26Do you want to help me with it?
12:27Do you want to do it for me?
12:28No, I'm going to be at work.
12:30All right.
12:31The girl can dream.
12:32Yeah.
12:33How was your week, Ben?
12:34It's all right.
12:35Just busy.
12:36Have you missed me?
12:37Have you been heartbroken thinking you haven't seen me?
12:39Yeah.
12:40Yeah, correct answer.
12:41Correct answer.
12:42Yeah.
12:46All right.
12:47I'm about to get this one done.
12:48You say bye-bye, Josh.
12:50Bye-bye.
12:50See you all right for now.
12:52See you soon.
12:53Bye.
12:54I mean, this is the part where you tell me you love me.
12:56Yeah, I didn't say bye to you yet.
12:58Oh, okay.
12:59Sorry.
12:59Okay, we can redo that.
13:00Go.
13:00We can say it now.
13:01Bye-bye.
13:02Love you.
13:02Love me too.
13:03Bye.
13:08What's that?
13:10It's a smile.
13:12Yeah.
13:13I'm going to see Josh soon.
13:15I feel so lucky to have found someone who cares for my son.
13:18I just wish he lived closer.
13:35I'm Amelia, I'm 19 years old, and I have an almost one-year-old, Valentino.
13:43Being a mum has definitely changed my life.
13:45We're taking over.
13:48What's the tone you went out?
13:50Valentino is exactly like me.
13:52He is just as fiery, just as dramatic as I am.
13:58We are both probably the loudest people in every single room.
14:04I love him so much.
14:05Like, I don't know what I'd do without him now.
14:07Like, he is literally my best friend.
14:10And if he wasn't enough of a handful, I'm 16 weeks pregnant.
14:17It is crazy that I'm going to have two under two very, very soon.
14:21It's definitely going to be hard.
14:26I'm not doing it alone, though.
14:28I live with my boyfriend, Aaron, who I adore.
14:31He also has a son from a previous relationship,
14:33and with another on the way, we're going to have our hands full.
14:38So, I really need him to step up.
14:45I feel like he's gotten very comfortable with me doing a lot for him,
14:49because I know he's more than capable of, like,
14:51tidying up after himself, looking after himself,
14:54doing things for himself.
14:55I mean, he's a chef, but what, can never cook,
14:58and I have to always cook?
14:59That doesn't make any sense, does it?
15:00Is that too much to ask for?
15:03Sometimes, I do feel like he behaves a little bit like a child,
15:06and I can't hope for that.
15:09Being a dad is obviously great.
15:11I love my kids.
15:12I wouldn't change my world.
15:13Trying to find a balance, obviously, with home life
15:16and, obviously, work life.
15:18It can be quite hard.
15:20Working long hours is tiring,
15:22and, obviously, I do want to come home and just relax
15:24every now and then.
15:27I know he's more than capable of looking after Valentina,
15:29and he does an amazing job when he's doing stuff with him.
15:32But it would be nice not to have to say,
15:34oh, can you help me out with this?
15:35Because you're not helping out your dad.
15:37That's your dog.
15:38That's what you're doing.
15:40Give me that back!
15:42Give me that back!
15:45Give me that back!
15:46Should we go get Daddy up in a minute?
15:48Yeah?
15:52I am stressing out.
15:54Today is our gender reveal,
15:56and Aaron promised to be up early to help,
15:59but he's still fast asleep in bed.
16:01Mum, mum!
16:03Is he dead there?
16:06Come on, then.
16:08Yeah, should we get Daddy up?
16:10Yay!
16:13Aaron?
16:14You want to try?
16:16You try first.
16:19You make me feel like you...
16:21You need to get up.
16:24Yeah.
16:25You need to get ready.
16:28All right, I'll give you five minutes, then.
16:30Get up.
16:31Up, up.
16:32Yeah?
16:33And get dressed.
16:37He doesn't listen.
16:38You will be telling him,
16:39get up, get up, Aaron,
16:40and he'll just close his eyes again.
16:41So then you end up realising
16:43you're literally shouting
16:44to get someone out of bed
16:45like you're their mum.
16:46Are you up?
16:48Yeah, I'm up.
16:50I do get really angry
16:51with the way Aaron behaves sometimes.
16:53I know I need to be understanding
16:55in the fact that obviously
16:56he's at work and I'm not,
16:57but at the same time,
16:59he definitely could help me out more.
17:02I've put so much work into this gender reveal,
17:05and he doesn't seem to care
17:06if it happens or not.
17:28Elizabeth Hope is already three years old,
17:31and she's definitely finding a voice.
17:37She's a little bit cheeky,
17:38a lot bit cheeky,
17:40and she's just so intelligent
17:42and really inquisitive about the world,
17:45and her favourite word is why.
17:47You've seen a unicorn?
17:49What?
17:50It's just the best thing
17:51that's ever happened to me.
17:58You've become a bit of a nightmare,
18:00and I don't stand for it
18:02because I've got her in the house.
18:03All right, all right.
18:05Last time you saw me,
18:07I was still living at home with my mum,
18:09but that's all changed.
18:14Because Jack and I have bought our own place.
18:18I love living with Jack.
18:20It is literally the best thing ever.
18:22I love that I've got my independence,
18:24my own life, my own space.
18:28But there are some times that I do wish
18:30I could have a cuddle from my mum.
18:39And an even bigger life change
18:41was getting my endometriosis surgery.
18:43I came out of it quite heartbroken.
18:46My ovaries were affected.
18:48That was always my biggest fear.
18:51The surgeon basically said to us
18:53that we had 12 to 18 months
18:55if we wanted a baby.
18:58Now's, like, the best time to try.
19:02And now I have the biggest news of all.
19:07Our little family of three
19:09is about to become a family of four
19:11because me, Jack and Elizabeth
19:12are expecting a little baby.
19:16I'm 20 weeks along
19:18and we found out the gender the other day.
19:22We're having a little boy,
19:24which is just absolutely incredible.
19:26One of each and I just can't wait
19:29to have a little mini Jack.
19:33Make a ball, make a ball, make a ball.
19:35Please.
19:37How many is that?
19:39One.
19:40Two.
19:43Up until now,
19:45this pregnancy has been really tough.
19:47Yeah.
19:47But I'm finally feeling like myself again.
19:50I feel like I've not had a break.
19:52I literally had my surgery
19:53and just as I felt like
19:54I was getting over the surgery,
19:56I felt pregnant.
19:58It's been hard when you've been sick a lot.
20:03I don't feel like we've had hardly any us time
20:06in the past four, five months.
20:10You can't ask these, my dog.
20:12Not really, no.
20:14But it'll be worth it in the end.
20:16It will.
20:17We've gone past
20:18the danger bit now.
20:21There's no safe zone in pregnancy, though.
20:23It's just scary.
20:26I want to show you
20:28all the things I've seen.
20:31With my health conditions
20:33and my anxiety,
20:34I spent all of my first pregnancy terrified
20:36and Jack wasn't around to see that.
20:39And I don't think he fully understands it.
20:42All the way through Elizabeth Hope's pregnancy,
20:44I did not think I'd get a healthy baby
20:46at the end of it.
20:46And I'm just really trying to push them thoughts
20:48to the back of my head, like,
20:50I know baby's happy, baby's healthy.
20:54And that's just what I keep trying to tell myself.
20:58Sometimes I feel we're all in a dream.
21:11There's nothing like our love
21:13You and I
21:14Do you have a good night's sleep?
21:16Sleep well?
21:19Daddy go to work in a minute.
21:20You're going to be a good boyfriend, Mum, is there?
21:23Yeah?
21:25Mum's not feeling very well,
21:26so you've got to be a good boyfriend.
21:30I'm so poorly
21:31and I barely slept last night,
21:34but Matt thinks it's just a little cold
21:36and I'm not that ill.
21:40Dad's got to go to work.
21:46I love you.
21:48Mum, I love you.
21:49I have to go up, then.
21:51It's OK.
21:52I need the door open for you.
21:54OK, Luke, why can't you just have the day off?
21:57Because it's too late, Mum.
21:58I asked you last night.
22:00At 12 o'clock at night.
22:02Yeah?
22:03You all right, Mum?
22:04No.
22:06You're going to have to be, isn't you?
22:07I know you're poorly,
22:08and you're not really well,
22:09but I need to go to work, don't I?
22:11All right?
22:13All right, then, Mum.
22:14I really don't feel well.
22:16Ted's all right.
22:16He's had breakfast, sat in the sofa,
22:18ready for the telly.
22:19He'll leave the door open so you can hear him.
22:22You're just chilling.
22:22My mum won't be here in a minute.
22:24Where's your mum coming?
22:25To have the kids,
22:27so I can lie down.
22:29I'm going to shoot, all right?
22:30Normal shit?
22:31Yeah, it should be,
22:32but you never know.
22:33I think it's next round.
22:38I want to take my family on holidays,
22:40and I want to buy a house.
22:41I want to provide the best things for them.
22:43You know, the only way you're going to get them things
22:44is by working.
22:46I can't look after myself right now,
22:48let alone two children.
22:49I'm so grateful Mum's coming round to help.
22:54Hey, Ted!
22:55You all right, Ainge?
22:56Mm, no.
22:59You're still not very well.
23:00I feel like I'm dying.
23:02Is Matt going to work now?
23:03Mm.
23:04I asked him to take the day off.
23:07Oh, yeah, that would have been good to help with the kids,
23:08wouldn't it?
23:09Well, no.
23:10I've got to deal with it.
23:12He's literally taken days off work for two think.
23:15Yeah, yeah, I know, love.
23:17I feel bad because you wanted to take Teddy out.
23:20I know, but if you don't feel well,
23:22maybe I can take the kids somewhere.
23:25Hey, Jessie!
23:27Morning!
23:28Give me a baby.
23:30You've been a good boy for my mate.
23:32Hey.
23:32Good God.
23:33Give me a kiss.
23:34Oh.
23:37Well, I'll leave you.
23:38I'll go get you some water or something,
23:39take your tablets.
23:46I honestly don't know what I'll do if Mum wasn't here.
23:49She's had to take the day off work.
23:51It should have been Matt doing it.
24:06Ready?
24:08TV diss.
24:09My mum does the make-up.
24:14Now Aaron's finally up,
24:16I can get myself ready for our gender reveal party.
24:20Have you finished getting this bag ready, Aaron?
24:23Yeah, the green one's ready.
24:24I think it's just the green one we've got to check on.
24:26Why don't you do that now?
24:28I'm feeling so stressed this morning
24:31because I need to get ready.
24:33We need to get going.
24:35I've got to get all my stuff sorted.
24:37I don't really know what I'm going to do if we're running late.
24:39I mean, he can be the one to tell everyone
24:41that we're not having a gender reveal
24:42if we can't get there on time.
24:44Are you less stressed now?
24:45All good?
24:47Well, yeah, I feel a bit better now
24:48as long as I manage to get out the door on time
24:50and this all goes correct.
24:51Well, we're only waiting for you, realistically.
24:53Me and him are ready.
24:55Yeah, but why are we waiting for me, Aaron?
24:57Because you've got to do make-up.
24:58It takes, like, half an hour.
24:59No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
25:00Yeah, but why am I doing my make-up now?
25:02I don't know.
25:03Because you weren't up.
25:06I know you've gone and said you're waiting for me.
25:08This is what I mean.
25:10You've just got an answer for everything, haven't you?
25:15You could just, I don't know, do better.
25:20No?
25:21Yeah, really.
25:24Because if you were up,
25:25this would all be done by now, wouldn't it?
25:26We'd be ready to walk out the door, mate.
25:30Yeah, oh.
25:32Bloody stressful, isn't it, Dino?
25:33Oh.
25:34How can I love myself
25:39When I need somebody
25:41To feel like I am somebody
25:44What's the time?
25:46It is 5 to 11.
25:48Right, 5 to 11?
25:49Yeah, you're pushing time.
25:50We crank it up
25:53You've got all the toys,
25:54you've got the car mats,
25:55you've got everything, guess?
25:56Car mat, that's the one.
25:58Bingo.
25:58Should we go and get the car mat?
26:00Yeah?
26:02Let's go.
26:03Yeah, I'm sick of the leap of the sea before
26:06I be looking nice cold
26:07When I walk in the door
26:08If we're late
26:09because Aaron didn't get out of bed on time
26:11I'm going to kick off.
26:14Come on, then.
26:16We crank it up
26:32Get me back from her
26:36After a big panic
26:37that I was in labour at 35 weeks
26:39we rushed to the hospital
26:41Oh well, back at home
26:43But it turns out
26:44it was false contractions
26:47I'm angry, mate
26:48You're always hungry
26:50It was the most nerve-wracking thing ever
26:53Like, the pain you go through
26:55It's not nice, it's not easy
26:58It's definitely not what I thought it was
27:00I thought it was going to be three pushes
27:01and it'll be out
27:02And I definitely know for a fact
27:03it's not going to be that now
27:04It felt like I was getting some ripped out inside me
27:12I don't want to go through that again
27:15Unfortunately, there's no other way now
27:16There's only one way out
27:17It just felt weird, like, the way he was, like
27:20Oh, it was nasty
27:21It's labour, and I'm not lying to you
27:24Some people have said, oh, you'll be all right with you
27:26And truthfully, I said it hurts
27:28And it does
27:29After that, I'm only having one
27:31One and one only
27:32Tyler won't say more
27:33I won't find another woman
27:36I'm being serious, it was awful, Mum
27:40Do you remember that midwife?
27:42Like, she was a bit judgmental, like
27:44I didn't like that
27:45Just because of my age and that
27:46You don't look at me indifferent
27:47Yeah, they did
27:47I noticed she pointed out, oh, you're 16
27:50I'm 16, but no-one's ever ready to be a mum
27:52I don't think any age you're ready
27:54No, you're not
27:55It's the biggest thing that's ever going to happen to you
27:58You have a baby
28:00That's it
28:01You're a mum, you're a chef
28:02You're everything
28:03You don't get a day off
28:05There's no, like, oh, I'll just have an extra hour in bed and things like that
28:09It can't happen, you know what I mean?
28:11And it is sad
28:12I'm not going to dispute it, it's not
28:15But I think you're going to be a brilliant mum, truthfully
28:18I really do
28:19I'll mint me
28:22I'm ready to be a mum
28:24I am worried because obviously it's a big step up, it's a very big step up
28:29But I will give him the best side if he wants, anything he wants, he'll have, he'll be a sweet
28:34little boy
28:39Yeah, it's a good day
28:43Yeah, it's a good day
28:46Yeah, it's a good day
28:49They're getting in water with me like my mum did
28:52There were all sorts in that water
28:53I would have done before Chloe explained what goes in the water
28:57We know we're having a boy, but we haven't told anyone else yet
29:05We originally wasn't going to find out the gender
29:07But Elizabeth Hay really wanted a boy
29:10So if it's going to be a girl
29:12Then we want to be able to, like, bring her around to the idea before baby's here
29:19We're telling mum and Jack's parents tonight
29:22Because I can't keep the secret any longer
29:25Hey
29:26Hi
29:27We've just been talking about the baby
29:29Placing bets if Jack will faint
29:32Oh, I bet, I bet, yeah
29:36When Chloe was pregnant with Elizabeth Hay
29:38I was there through every scan, every appointment
29:40We did everything hand in hand, we did it together
29:42Obviously things are a lot different this time
29:45We've got a little surprise for you all
29:47While we're all here together as little family
29:50You're going to tell us you're having triplets
29:54Don't look like that, you're actually not, are you?
29:58Welcome, I'll come back
29:59Oh my God, what?
30:06I think my mum's going to potentially cry
30:08She is a big baby
30:10If you've put two in her
30:14Jack, do you want to come and help me?
30:16And I think Debbie's going to go
30:17Oh my God!
30:19Prince would be cool
30:21Debbie
30:23And Wes would be like, oh, so can we call it Wes?
30:26So, you know, I said that we wasn't going to find out the gender
30:29Yes
30:30Well, we changed our mind and we've got a little surprise for you both
30:37So, there's a box each for you to open to find out gender of baby number two
30:43And if they're different
30:44And then you have got a confetti cannon
30:47Oh, I feel sick
30:50We already know
30:52Right
30:53How long have you known?
30:55A long time
30:55Are you joking?
30:58Three, two, one, go
31:03Oh my God!
31:10Congrats, John!
31:12We got a boy!
31:14Congratulations!
31:15I knew it'd be a boy!
31:16I just had a feeling!
31:23Chloe, we're going to have Tickle Tackle to deal with
31:26I know
31:27He's the boy!
31:30Oh, I am so pleased it's the boy
31:32I'm absolutely flabbergasted that Chloe could keep this secret all to herself
31:36I can't believe it's the boy
31:40And Jack as well
31:42Yeah, I'm absolutely, like, blown away that they've done this for me and Debbie
31:47It's just so, so special
31:49He looks like a boy!
31:51I told you he looked like a bruiser!
31:53I told you that!
31:55He looks like a boy!
31:56He looks like a western man
32:00Are you okay?
32:01Yeah, I've just been excited for her
32:08Oh, I'm so pleased!
32:25While Khalil's at his dad's, I've been doing up his room
32:28He's always climbing in with me at night
32:30And it's really messing up my sleep
32:32Which then messes up my college work
32:34So I'm hoping he'll want to stay in this dinosaur room
32:38So good
32:40So good
32:41He's home tonight and I can't wait for him to see it
32:44Make me feel so good
32:47Ready, go!
32:51Whoa!
32:55Look!
32:56What's that?
32:58It's a dinosaur!
33:01It's Khalil's room!
33:04Do you like it?
33:06Wow!
33:08It's Khalil's bed!
33:10Khalil seems happy
33:12I just hope he sleeps in it.
33:24Take me out to the coldest sea.
33:26Where are you going?
33:28You put this one on, Khalil?
33:30Yeah.
33:31Khalil's been playing up a bit this evening.
33:34One more time, can Mummy put on your drummers?
33:36Yeah. Come here, then.
33:37I'm really hoping he goes to bed without a fuss.
33:42Are you going to help?
33:43Yeah, I do it. I do it!
33:45Can you sit down? Maybe you sit down?
33:47Yeah.
33:49No, no, no, no, no, no.
33:50Put your leg in there.
33:51I love it!
33:55I love that Khalil is finding his independence,
33:57but it does mean everything takes ten times as long.
34:01I do it.
34:02We need to take this one off.
34:04Let's take this one off and then we'll put this one on.
34:07OK, you want to do it or Mummy help?
34:09No.
34:10I have so much college work to do tonight.
34:13I need this bedtime to go smoothly.
34:16Now put this one in.
34:18There we go. We're done it!
34:20High five.
34:23You've got a book.
34:24Do you want me to read you that book?
34:25You can read it.
34:26OK, you take your book to bed.
34:27Come on, hold it.
34:30No!
34:31No!
34:32Ah!
34:34Khalil, you take your book into bed.
34:37No!
34:40No, it's not what you don't want.
34:42You need to go to bed now.
34:43It's Khalil's bedtime now.
34:44Khalil!
34:45Ah!
34:48Can you get me to bed and Mummy tuck you in?
34:50No!
34:52Mummy's going to go now then.
34:54Mm.
34:54OK, goodnight.
34:57Love you!
34:57I love you.
34:59You need to go to bed now.
35:01Mm.
35:02Mummy's here, OK?
35:04Mm.
35:06How did she get out?
35:08No!
35:09No, come on, baby.
35:10Let's go.
35:11Teddy!
35:11No, no, no.
35:12Teddy cannot come to bed if you've got plenty of time.
35:14Come on, come on, come on, come on.
35:16Come on, come on.
35:17No, come on.
35:22No.
35:24No.
35:25No.
35:26No.
35:26No.
35:27No.
35:28No.
35:28No.
35:29No.
35:29No.
35:30No.
35:31No.
35:32No.
35:33No.
35:33No.
35:33I love you.
35:34I love you.
35:34Nothing to do.
35:36No.
35:37No.
35:38No.
35:40No.
35:41No.
35:41You get in your blankies.
35:45Goodnight.
35:45I love you.
35:46Yeah, Mummy.
35:48No.
35:49No.
35:50No.
35:52No.
35:53This really isn't going to come.
35:56I don't think I'm going to be able to get any studying done.
35:59No.
36:01No.
36:02No.
36:03No.
36:14ready there we go despite aaron's best efforts we've made it on time to the gender reveal
36:23and i'm really hoping for a girl team boy team girl i'm a very girly girl and i feel like
36:30i was
36:31more meant to be a girl mom because when it comes to boys i really don't know what i'm doing
36:35i've always pictured me with a girl how you feeling now best yeah i'm all right i'm just
36:42we're all set and ready to go i need to know but what did darren say about it anyway
36:48he's boy now he's changed his boy he's gonna stick a blue sticker on tino
36:53oh my god yeah we're meant to be manifesting we're meant to be manifesting a girl and he's
36:58i'm gonna stick a blue stick pink stickers pink stickers everywhere i need to find out now like
37:04right now i feel it in my fingers feel it in my soul it's time to start believing it's nearly
37:12time to find out what my little family of four is going to look like how are you going to
37:17react
37:18i don't know should we just be like really dramatic regardless yeah you promise yeah i don't want to
37:23look like i'm in like a relationship with someone that doesn't care you know you've got to like give
37:26it something of course it's fine just a bit like yay okay you ready
37:32five four three two one
37:44i knew it would be a girl i manifested her oh my god don't let me do
37:51are you gonna have a sister oh look yeah i'm literally still shaking like
38:01are you excited tino you don't care do you oh yeah a whole new clothes now isn't it
38:07everything brand new now we can't share another tino's stuff i actually can't believe it
38:16it is definitely a really good feeling knowing that obviously aaron's first girl was with me
38:20obviously considering he already had a baby before he met me having my first kind of didn't feel
38:28like as special i wanted it to because it felt like he had done all this before he knew what
38:32he
38:32was doing so things didn't really come as a shock to him whereas it was all learning news for me
38:36whereas having a girl and it's his first girl he's never done this before either
38:59you can do the mixing in a minute right you're gonna tip it in
39:04after five days of being in bed and a trip to hospital i'm finally feeling better in myself
39:12but i'm really not happy with the lack of support matt gave me
39:17me and matt had a big argument because i asked him to stay home to help me with the children
39:24right should we add a bit of water little tiny bit he was saying that i was faking it and
39:31it was
39:32just a cold and i was just being a little girl mix it boy mix it but when i was
39:37that ill he needed
39:38to be there for the children not even for me i could deal i i could be in bed on
39:43my own
39:43wow they look good move out the way then it was a really difficult time
39:52now i'm up and about again i'm meeting my sister for lunch
39:56hello hello right yeah you yeah oh jesse you're awake he's just woke up
40:03you woke up as well baby it's okay you're hungry you can say hi get a wave baby
40:20are you feeling better now yeah i've never been so ill yeah that was i was so poorly i bet
40:27that
40:27was hard with having children as well because all you want to do is just rest well yeah i was
40:32lucky mom took two days off work to have the kids with matt it was a bit of an issue
40:36they sent
40:37me to go be put in hospital to be on the drip and then matt was still saying i'm not
40:42taking a day
40:43off work and then he he was like i'll ring your mom to have the kids on the next day
40:48i was like
40:49mom's working yeah and i was like at least you have to go into hospital when you're still asking my
40:54mom to have the children he did take one day off in the end but he made me feel guilty
41:00for that
41:01it was really difficult and i think i just with matt like i'm struggling with all of it
41:05i don't feel like loved by matt ever when you just can't sleep but your head is full of dreams
41:16have you spoke to him about it yeah he just shuts me down i'm like do you love me anymore
41:20like i feel
41:21like you don't love me and then he's like this is why i don't show you i love you i
41:24want to be near you
41:24because all you ever do is ask me if i love you but i don't no but why can't he
41:28just be just reassure
41:30me and then you won't need to ask exactly every time i question him he just tells me to leave
41:36him
41:38he's like well if don't like it leave me and i'm like is that is he telling me that because
41:44he
41:44wants to leave me that's how i generally look at that i just feel like he's fed up of trying
41:53with
41:54me do you he doesn't come in doesn't say hello to me doesn't say he loves me anymore doesn't ever
41:59come to bed really doesn't really acknowledge me
42:08so it's 5 past 3 in the morning i am but i'm trapped tonight
42:14i'm not being funny it's my relationship at the end of the day not yours
42:17leave the room mum he's buying all his clothes he's buying his milk
42:21sorry i'm going to work i'm sorry you're just trying to use baby as a weapon
42:25should we go and use the toilet no don't do it yet don't the toilet oh my god he's locked
42:30himself in
42:30there if i don't start uni this year then there is a real possibility that i may just
42:34never go back contraception is never 100% touch wood there is no baby i just don't want another
42:41child right now like i want to finish my education you cannot remember what you did with the money
42:47little white lie little white lie yeah sure
42:58my son's not going to live off pasta and chicken like you he thinks that i'm being lazy or something
43:04honestly like winding me up that'll go away this is the ring
43:09i'm the best big speaker ever
43:11in your world
43:13is that all you're thinking about is work
43:15every time i try to like speak i just get shut down
43:18i don't feel like it's ever gonna work
43:20i just want to do right by the kids i want to do right by me
43:24there you go now
43:26yay
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