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00:00:00Previously, feedback from their peers...
00:00:03Steve-O needs to put on his captain's hat.
00:00:05...allowed some couples to deepen their connections.
00:00:08There's two ways to a woman's heart.
00:00:11Chocolate or cheese.
00:00:13Only the best for my wife.
00:00:15I'm excited by you taking the lead.
00:00:18It reminds you are appreciated.
00:00:22Want a nacho kiss?
00:00:23Thank you for sending tasks that really understand the dynamic of Stephen and I
00:00:28and what we needed.
00:00:30Probing questions reinforced some were on the same page.
00:00:34Yes, I do see as a father of my children.
00:00:36Once again, Danny avoided direct questions from Beck.
00:00:40Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:00:43I want to be very careful I'll answer this question.
00:00:49Um...
00:00:49Chris and Sam were caught in a tense stalemate.
00:00:52Not getting defensive at all.
00:00:54Even like a little sorry it felt like that way for you, Sam.
00:00:56I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:57Yeah, cool.
00:00:57Yeah, I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:58Lead with that.
00:01:00And despite Scott's willingness to get fresh perspective...
00:01:04I'm definitely going to take it on board and I hope Gia does too.
00:01:07No thanks.
00:01:08Gia was less than impressed.
00:01:10Hi.
00:01:12We're just going through this.
00:01:13Oh, I want to get out.
00:01:14I love you.
00:01:15As her and Scott pulled off a disappearing act.
00:01:19Tonight.
00:01:20I feel like I have been caught up in the Gia room, Beck.
00:01:24What?
00:01:24It's been toxic from the start.
00:01:26I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:01:29Alissa's reached her limit and is standing her ground.
00:01:33I've had enough.
00:01:34And it's the first time she'll come face to face with Beck after those text messages.
00:01:41The vibe with Alissa was icy cold.
00:01:43It was vile and vicious.
00:01:45Very different vibe tonight, Alissa, doesn't she?
00:01:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:01:48Hang on, hang on.
00:01:49Oh, God.
00:01:50Stop using me!
00:01:52Why are you laughing?
00:01:54What bombshell has Sam dropped on Chris right before the dinner party?
00:01:58I'm fuming.
00:01:59I feel uncomfortable.
00:02:00I feel betrayed.
00:02:02I've never had someone do this to me.
00:02:05And then...
00:02:05That needs to stop.
00:02:07That needs to stop.
00:02:08Has Danny reached his breaking point?
00:02:10I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:02:13Two months ago, Danny.
00:02:14Two months ago.
00:02:15I can't believe it was ten years ago.
00:02:27After a week of honest feedback about their relationships,
00:02:31tonight our couples are coming together
00:02:34to reflect and unpack at the sixth dinner party.
00:02:39And after feedback week,
00:02:41Stella and Phillip's relationship is going from strength to strength.
00:02:45Would you like a coffee?
00:02:47Just peppermint tea.
00:02:48Just peppermint tea.
00:02:49Please.
00:02:49A bit of honey.
00:02:50A bit of honey.
00:02:51Yeah, why not?
00:02:51Just spice it up a little bit.
00:02:54Feedback week was amazing, to be honest.
00:02:56Trying to understand each other,
00:02:57and that's definitely deepened our connection.
00:03:00I think feedback week was one of the best weeks.
00:03:03Yeah, it was good.
00:03:03It still really was.
00:03:04It was a good week.
00:03:05Yeah, everything's going great.
00:03:07Ready to rumble?
00:03:09I thoroughly enjoyed it, so hopefully everyone else got much out of it like we did.
00:03:16For Rachel and Stephen, feedback week brought plenty to smile about.
00:03:22I'm actually excited to share with the group, like, what a good week we've had.
00:03:26It was fun.
00:03:27It was flirty.
00:03:28We were really lucky.
00:03:30Yeah.
00:03:31I feel like we've really leant into feedback.
00:03:33Like, Stephen's definitely stepped up.
00:03:35It's time to let Steve-O put his captain hat on and lead for the day.
00:03:41Are you making me a microwave meal?
00:03:43Only the best for my wife.
00:03:47No one makes nachos like me, though, do they?
00:03:51No.
00:03:52And maybe they shouldn't.
00:03:59I like that task.
00:04:01I'd love to do it for more than one day, actually.
00:04:03You know, you'd be waking up, and I'll have my sailor's hat on,
00:04:05and you'd be like, oh, what's this guy up to?
00:04:09Oh, that was exactly what you're up to.
00:04:20After a bizarre disappearing act over the weekend...
00:04:26..Gia and Scott have returned to their apartment.
00:04:33I hated feedback week.
00:04:35I don't know, I just think everything got to me.
00:04:36..and I just wasn't feeling really good, and I wanted to leave.
00:04:40I can see the difference in you with, um,
00:04:43being away from the experiment, like...
00:04:45Yeah, I know.
00:04:46I don't think Gia's good at, um, you know,
00:04:48taking feedback from anyone.
00:04:50So I planned ourselves a nice little weekend getaway,
00:04:53and I feel like it was the best thing we've ever done.
00:04:55I think the weekend away did really well for Scott and I.
00:04:59I feel much better today after our weekend.
00:05:01Yeah.
00:05:02Everything's been reset.
00:05:03I feel like we had a factory reset.
00:05:05And I guess the topics of tonight will probably be...
00:05:08Feedback week.
00:05:10The only issues that Scott and I have in our relationship
00:05:12are that we're in this experiment with people that we don't like.
00:05:15And also, uh, I don't take advice from people doing worse than me either.
00:05:21So, that's the only drama.
00:05:23Whenever these setbacks happen for me and Scott,
00:05:25I think it makes us stronger.
00:05:27Going into this dinner party with a smile on a doll
00:05:30and a spring in our step.
00:05:32Yeah.
00:05:33Moving forward, I just want to focus on Scott and I
00:05:35and have fun with a few people that are here now.
00:05:38Are you ready to hit the road, hit this dinner party, or what?
00:05:41Let's do it.
00:05:44Gia and Scott weren't the only couple
00:05:46who had a difficult feedback week.
00:05:51I...
00:05:52I've been anxious all weekend.
00:05:54Um, you know, I've been holding in some stuff with Chris
00:05:57that I'm not really happy with how, uh, feedback week ended.
00:06:01At the last commitment ceremony,
00:06:03Chris's plan for Sam to move to Sydney took him by surprise.
00:06:08Are you starting to think about life outside the experiment?
00:06:12I think what it would probably look like is he'd go to Sydney.
00:06:14I would stay primarily at the farm
00:06:16and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit
00:06:18from Sydney to the farm.
00:06:20But when Sam raised the issue with Chris...
00:06:23Oh, that's the first time I heard that plan
00:06:25and it was kind of like you've just, like, made a decision
00:06:27on how this is going.
00:06:28Well, no, actually, no.
00:06:30That's not true.
00:06:31I feel like you're getting really, like, defensive with me now.
00:06:34I'm not getting defensive at all.
00:06:35Well, even, like, a little sorry it felt like that way.
00:06:37I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:06:38OK, cool.
00:06:41That comment was maybe misconstrued or whatever.
00:06:45I'm happy to, like, just, like, move forward from it.
00:06:47Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:06:49I'm not getting defensive.
00:06:50I'm having a conversation.
00:06:51Leaving things unresolved.
00:06:55I just feel like Chris isn't understanding me.
00:06:58Like, he basically told the experts a plan
00:07:01of how it's going to work after the experiment
00:07:03without consulting me at all.
00:07:04And that just made me feel like I didn't really have a voice
00:07:06and I wasn't being heard
00:07:07and I didn't have much empathy around
00:07:08how this was all going to end.
00:07:10The next day, he tried to turn the whole thing around on me
00:07:13and gaslight me.
00:07:15And the only reason I've held it in
00:07:17is because I just can't feel like I can get through to him by myself.
00:07:21Yeah, going into tonight,
00:07:23I'm feeling really anxious about bringing this up.
00:07:25And the anxiety comes from I don't think
00:07:26it's going to be received well from Chris.
00:07:29I can see Chris cutting me off tonight
00:07:31if I try to talk about it.
00:07:32So I just need that group dynamic to bring it up.
00:07:35But hopefully, with the support of the group,
00:07:37maybe we can get there.
00:07:41Over the weekend,
00:07:43Feedback Week has prompted a change
00:07:45in Bec and Danny's relationship status.
00:07:48What about the fact that I'm not only a wife,
00:07:51but I'm a girlfriend now?
00:07:54Like, it still doesn't make too much sense to me,
00:07:57but whatever we roll with it.
00:08:01Danny and I talked about, you know,
00:08:04are we going to call each other husband and wife after this?
00:08:06And he was like, well, yeah, you're my wife.
00:08:08And I was like,
00:08:09what about the security of actually being your girlfriend?
00:08:12And he was like, will you be my girlfriend?
00:08:14And I was like, do you want me to be?
00:08:16And he said, absolutely.
00:08:18So I'm a girlfriend and a wife.
00:08:21Double parked.
00:08:23I think it's the security of, like,
00:08:25when we leave,
00:08:26we'll still be husband and wife, right?
00:08:29Well, yeah, of course.
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:31So, but...
00:08:32If I just kind of whip the ring off and be like,
00:08:34right,
00:08:36we're mates.
00:08:38But, um...
00:08:38It's just the security of it, I think.
00:08:40It's nice.
00:08:42Interesting, isn't it?
00:08:43Tonight, I'm walking to a dinner party,
00:08:44not only as a wife in the experiment,
00:08:46but as a girlfriend overall,
00:08:49it proves that, you know,
00:08:50he's got my back.
00:08:51We're ride or die.
00:08:52And this is really serious.
00:08:54It's never been done before.
00:08:56No.
00:08:56There's not a wife who's a girlfriend.
00:08:58Yeah.
00:08:59Well, except from you now.
00:09:01But, yeah.
00:09:02I like it.
00:09:05Well, when a woman's your wife,
00:09:09to go back to being a girlfriend
00:09:10almost seems like you're downgrading.
00:09:13You know, men, a lot of the time,
00:09:14we do things we don't want to do
00:09:16or...
00:09:17Not that I didn't want to do it,
00:09:18I'm not saying that,
00:09:18but we just do things
00:09:20to make these women feel good.
00:09:22So, that's what it was.
00:09:25How are we feeling
00:09:26about going to the dinner party, boo?
00:09:28Feel good.
00:09:28Feel relaxed.
00:09:29I actually feel pretty good as well.
00:09:31Going into this dinner party
00:09:33is probably the least stressed I've been,
00:09:35but then again,
00:09:35that could be a really bad omen.
00:09:37Obviously, like,
00:09:38I've been on apology tours.
00:09:41Like...
00:09:42You've apologised more than OJ Sims.
00:09:44I know I have.
00:09:45It's a...
00:09:46And I'm still apologising now
00:09:48for messages that were wrote
00:09:49two and a half months ago.
00:09:50It's a disaster.
00:09:51Suck it up, champ.
00:09:53If Alyssa, you know,
00:09:54brings it up tonight,
00:09:55then I'm just going to sit
00:09:56as quiet as a field mouse.
00:09:58I'm not going to defend someone
00:09:59who's in the wrong.
00:10:00Yeah, I don't condone bad behaviour,
00:10:03even if it's from my wife,
00:10:04I don't condone it.
00:10:05But this should be the last time,
00:10:07I'd assume.
00:10:08It can't keep coming up.
00:10:09It has to.
00:10:10Yeah, I hope we can get
00:10:12to the end of the sorries.
00:10:13Do you know what I mean?
00:10:14Let's get to the end of them sorries
00:10:16because I didn't come
00:10:17on this experiment
00:10:19to just hear sorry.
00:10:25While Beck and Danny
00:10:26are hoping to move on,
00:10:28little do they know,
00:10:30the texts have since been circulated
00:10:33to the entire group.
00:10:49Yeah, the text messages
00:10:50are pretty bleak.
00:10:54Very descriptive, polarising.
00:10:57It was so long ago.
00:10:58It was two months ago
00:10:59that I wrote this message
00:11:00when I was furious
00:11:01after I'd gotten off the phone
00:11:03to Gia and Scott,
00:11:04being told that Alyssa and David
00:11:07were saying that Daniel's not into you,
00:11:10you're in a fake relationship,
00:11:12you're this, that and the other,
00:11:12and I was like,
00:11:13f*** you, you know?
00:11:14Regardless if it was six,
00:11:16eight, ten weeks ago.
00:11:17A month ago, two months ago.
00:11:19You still sent it,
00:11:21you still said it,
00:11:22and what you said
00:11:23was really, really horrible.
00:11:27Gia did this on purpose.
00:11:29She's taken the worst of me,
00:11:32right?
00:11:33And left the worst of her out of it.
00:11:38Gia's sitting there scot-free,
00:11:39but actually...
00:11:44..she's venomous.
00:11:46I wrote that message, right?
00:11:48I was angry.
00:11:49I did it.
00:11:49At the end of the day,
00:11:51she's hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:53Gia, you're hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:58Oh, here we go again.
00:12:00Obviously, I'm feeling pretty hurt still
00:12:02from reading the messages
00:12:03that were sent to me.
00:12:06I don't even want to use the words
00:12:08and the language
00:12:08because it's completely foul.
00:12:11And, yeah, I feel like
00:12:13it really needs to be addressed.
00:12:17Bec, I read the receipts.
00:12:19You said those things
00:12:21about David and I.
00:12:23Why?
00:12:24Like, what sparked that fuel
00:12:26and how does something so hatred
00:12:28come out of your mouth?
00:12:29I'm going to call it out.
00:12:31100%, and you should...
00:12:32You don't deserve to be treated
00:12:33the way they've treated you.
00:12:35Since the beginning of the experiment,
00:12:38Alyssa and David have been the target
00:12:40of unwanted scrutiny.
00:12:42Because I will say,
00:12:43I think it's a fake showmance.
00:12:45100% agree.
00:12:46I'm sorry, got to agree.
00:12:48Alyssa came under fire
00:12:50at every opportunity.
00:12:53Excuse me, that's not nice.
00:12:55Alyssa, shut up.
00:12:57Shut up, Alyssa,
00:12:59you ratchet idiot.
00:13:01So, ultimately, girls...
00:13:03But ultimately, I wanted to be fake
00:13:05as usual.
00:13:07And nowhere was safe.
00:13:10We've literally been staying up
00:13:11for late hours just talking.
00:13:13Sounds like an infomercial.
00:13:15Selling hair products.
00:13:17Desperately 3am on your TV.
00:13:20Even when it got too much
00:13:22for Alyssa...
00:13:23I care about what people think.
00:13:25I care about people's feelings.
00:13:27You know?
00:13:28I don't want to have
00:13:29this conflict.
00:13:31The blows kept coming.
00:13:35There's a bit of chatter
00:13:36around Adelaide
00:13:39about Beck trying to actually
00:13:41dig shit up on Alyssa.
00:13:45Are you talking to people
00:13:46in Adelaide, like,
00:13:48about Alyssa?
00:13:49No.
00:13:51You're not digging up information?
00:13:53No.
00:13:53Not at all.
00:13:55With the texting drama
00:13:56being the latest
00:13:57in a long line of attacks.
00:13:59Why do you think
00:14:01people are coming after you?
00:14:03Ask them.
00:14:05I don't know.
00:14:07I don't know.
00:14:12I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:14:14You know?
00:14:15And be that
00:14:15horn in the middle.
00:14:17I don't care what's
00:14:18going to happen
00:14:19between Beck and Gia.
00:14:20You have to speak your truth
00:14:22and I know you will.
00:14:23Going into tonight,
00:14:25we've got each other's backs.
00:14:26Boys.
00:14:27I have never said
00:14:28a bad word
00:14:29about anyone.
00:14:31So,
00:14:32I'm not going to
00:14:33tolerate it anymore.
00:14:34Enough is enough.
00:14:35The behaviour
00:14:36needs to be addressed.
00:14:39Tonight,
00:14:40I am done.
00:14:42I just
00:14:43had enough.
00:14:44Had enough.
00:14:57Today is a good day.
00:14:58Walking to a dinner party.
00:15:00We're reset.
00:15:01We're refreshed.
00:15:03Vibes are high.
00:15:05And...
00:15:07Hold for sorry.
00:15:07Don't know about that.
00:15:10You told me.
00:15:20Dinner party number six.
00:15:21Now,
00:15:22they're coming off
00:15:22feedback week,
00:15:23which is always
00:15:23a pivotal part
00:15:24of the experiment.
00:15:25How does that make you feel
00:15:26knowing that someone loves you?
00:15:28It's good.
00:15:30It's some giggling.
00:15:33They all have
00:15:34pretty much
00:15:35a front row seat
00:15:36to each other's relationships.
00:15:38They're so intertwined by now.
00:15:39So,
00:15:39it'll be really interesting
00:15:40to see
00:15:41how they've
00:15:42taken on the feedback
00:15:43from the other people
00:15:44in the experiment.
00:15:48I think everyone's
00:15:49going to kind of discuss
00:15:50what letters they got,
00:15:51how their date went.
00:15:52Danny,
00:15:52it might be like,
00:15:53why didn't you turn up
00:15:54to the date?
00:15:54And I'll be like,
00:15:54because you're a wanker.
00:15:57Give me your hands.
00:16:02Oh,
00:16:02that was so smelly.
00:16:04It was so cute.
00:16:05Couples are starting
00:16:06to talk about
00:16:07beyond the experiment,
00:16:08which brings up
00:16:09even more.
00:16:10And I think
00:16:10it's a good time
00:16:11to be having
00:16:12those conversations
00:16:13before they go
00:16:13into home states
00:16:14so they can really
00:16:15prepare themselves
00:16:16to ask that question.
00:16:17Is this relationship
00:16:19going to survive
00:16:19outside the experiment?
00:16:20You look like
00:16:21an absolute queen today.
00:16:23And that's the highlight
00:16:24of my night already.
00:16:26And we haven't even
00:16:26started the dinner party.
00:16:29Hopefully,
00:16:30I can get a,
00:16:31you know,
00:16:32a couple bites
00:16:33of food down before
00:16:35someone raises
00:16:35their glass
00:16:36and ding,
00:16:37ding, ding, ding.
00:16:38I've got something
00:16:39to say.
00:16:43Let's go, babe.
00:16:44Oh, it's busy in here.
00:16:46Vic and Danny.
00:16:48How good does my wife look?
00:16:50Give everyone a 12.
00:16:52Not that there's
00:16:53no one in it, ever.
00:16:54Looking fancy
00:16:54and looking very together
00:16:55and very comfortable.
00:16:57Yes.
00:17:00Thanks, baby.
00:17:02I'll have a little one
00:17:03with you.
00:17:03Okay.
00:17:04That's cute.
00:17:04Not the tension
00:17:05that we saw
00:17:06from these two last week
00:17:07walking into that
00:17:08cocktail party.
00:17:09At least we're coming
00:17:10into this dinner party
00:17:12in such a good spot.
00:17:13Hmm.
00:17:14You didn't run away?
00:17:15I didn't run away.
00:17:15I always show up.
00:17:16You always show up, babe.
00:17:18Unlike Gia.
00:17:19I mean...
00:17:21Big news this week is
00:17:22you're now my wife
00:17:24and my girlfriend.
00:17:27Any wonder
00:17:28Bec's looking so happy
00:17:29and relaxed.
00:17:30She got a whole lot
00:17:32of validation.
00:17:34Danny asking me
00:17:35to be his girlfriend
00:17:35definitely gives me
00:17:36reassurance.
00:17:37It just feels like
00:17:39it's not just the experiment,
00:17:40but it's real life
00:17:41and it's really important.
00:17:44Is it important to you
00:17:45or not?
00:17:46I'm not going to lie.
00:17:46Not that important
00:17:47because, like,
00:17:48I take this experiment
00:17:49seriously anyway.
00:17:50Yeah.
00:17:50So, like,
00:17:51when we got married,
00:17:53getting married on national TV
00:17:54is about as serious
00:17:54as it gets.
00:17:55Do you know what you mean?
00:17:56So, I was just like...
00:17:57But, yeah.
00:17:58If it's important to you,
00:17:59it's important to me.
00:17:59That's right.
00:18:00It's one of them ones.
00:18:01That's right.
00:18:02I'm just not looking forward
00:18:03to having to, um...
00:18:06deal with the text messages.
00:18:08Well, one text message
00:18:09that I sent from two months ago
00:18:11to a group of women
00:18:12that I thought were my friends
00:18:13that I've obviously seen
00:18:14that aren't.
00:18:16Bec shouldn't have
00:18:16sent the messages.
00:18:17I've said that to her.
00:18:19It's hard for me
00:18:20to defend her.
00:18:21As a husband,
00:18:22it puts me in a bad situation
00:18:24because I feel like
00:18:25I'm letting her down
00:18:26when I don't defend her,
00:18:27but it's also
00:18:28I don't condone that behaviour
00:18:29so I don't want to defend her.
00:18:31I have all these text messages
00:18:33that Gia's written
00:18:33about these people,
00:18:34but I wouldn't stoop
00:18:35to that level
00:18:35of sending them out to people
00:18:37because as much as Gia annoys me,
00:18:40I don't want to hurt
00:18:40all these other people
00:18:41that she's talked about.
00:18:43Gia's come to war with me.
00:18:45Like, she just needs to stop.
00:18:48I'm sick of it.
00:18:50Hey!
00:18:52Hey!
00:18:53Oh, look at you!
00:18:55Oh, Stella and Phillip.
00:18:57Here we go.
00:18:58Another happy, confident entrant.
00:19:00Yes.
00:19:01Great to see.
00:19:03You guys had a good week?
00:19:04Yes, we did.
00:19:05Yeah, we had a good week.
00:19:06It was probably
00:19:06one of the best weeks,
00:19:07to be fair.
00:19:08They've seen.
00:19:10Oh!
00:19:11Hey!
00:19:12Hello.
00:19:14Rachel and Steve.
00:19:16Keeping out of trouble?
00:19:17Trying to.
00:19:18Nah, I'm keeping out of trouble.
00:19:20Oh, you're good.
00:19:20Nah, I'm screwing with you guys.
00:19:21Nah, it's been good.
00:19:22Hold the chat.
00:19:25I didn't just become a wife.
00:19:27I'm now a girlfriend.
00:19:28Oh!
00:19:31Okay.
00:19:32Okay.
00:19:34Cheers, God.
00:19:35Oh, and it's empty class.
00:19:36But, like, cheers.
00:19:37Okay.
00:19:37Cheers to that.
00:19:38Congratulations.
00:19:39That's cute AF.
00:19:41Excuse me.
00:19:41You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:43I did.
00:19:44You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:45Yes, yes, I did.
00:19:45And what did you tell me?
00:19:46What?
00:19:47Well, we're not going backwards.
00:19:48Okay, yeah.
00:19:49Okay.
00:19:49Hey, yeah?
00:19:50Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:52Yeah?
00:20:00We're proud of you showing up tonight.
00:20:02We're just there to show that you are a strong person,
00:20:05and not because you need to tear other people down.
00:20:09I've never done that.
00:20:10We've always been kind, and I don't understand the why.
00:20:15I just want some clarity.
00:20:17Yeah.
00:20:17I think we all deserve that clarity.
00:20:19We just need some clarity, and just to put it to bed for once and for all.
00:20:32Oh, she is.
00:20:35Hi.
00:20:35Oh, Alyssa and David.
00:20:37All smiles.
00:20:39They're very cute.
00:20:40Always so affectionate.
00:20:42Love the blue liner on your eyes.
00:20:44They're so sexy.
00:20:50I saw Bec, and I'm always kind.
00:20:53I'm going to say hello.
00:20:54I'm going to give her a hug.
00:20:57You look like J-Lo.
00:20:58Yeah.
00:20:59Oh, I see too much of the blue.
00:21:01But inside, I'm like, oh, this person has stabbed me so hard in the back.
00:21:09I've seen the messages.
00:21:13How vicious and how hurtful they were.
00:21:17I don't know what's going on here, but I'm not playing a game anymore.
00:21:23So, I feel like there is a lot to be said.
00:21:27How was your week?
00:21:31It was...
00:21:33It was an interesting week.
00:21:35I feel like it was a big one.
00:21:36It was a big one.
00:21:37Yeah.
00:21:39She has a very different vibe tonight, Alyssa, doesn't she?
00:21:42Yes, it's quiet.
00:21:42She seems inside her head.
00:21:44Yes.
00:21:46I don't know.
00:21:47Unless she has an issue with Bec because of the texts that have gone on in the past.
00:21:51True.
00:21:53So, do you feel like...
00:21:55I don't want to talk about it right now.
00:21:58We'll give it about it at the dinner table.
00:22:01The vibe with Alyssa is icy.
00:22:03It's icy cold.
00:22:05She's been quite cold in a sense.
00:22:08She didn't even want to speak to me.
00:22:09Can I tell you guys something?
00:22:11My husband didn't get to do the task where he met with someone.
00:22:15I met with David.
00:22:16He didn't get to do it.
00:22:18Gia refused to.
00:22:19And he was quite upset about it.
00:22:21Bec had a lot to say about Gia.
00:22:24And I'm thinking, do I pull out the screenshots?
00:22:28She's probably going to say, Alyssa, that was like four, five weeks ago.
00:22:32It doesn't matter.
00:22:35Regardless of if it was four weeks ago or yesterday, it doesn't matter.
00:22:40Take some accountability for your bad behaviour.
00:22:45We're not friends, girl.
00:22:46We're not friends, girl.
00:23:44We're not friends, girl.
00:23:46up i'm not super happy with how things ended last week and the only reason i haven't spoken
00:23:51about it because i didn't feel like i was getting through to you just by myself and i feel like
00:23:55i
00:23:55need some people around to give us both an outside perspective on the situation
00:24:00is this in relation to the comment that i said to mel that that's what i brought up but it's
00:24:05the whole defensiveness from that i just don't feel like you're hearing me and i don't feel
00:24:14like you're genuine with your apology i don't feel like you really understand what you've done wrong
00:24:18um and i've tried to explain it but we're just i'm fuming
00:24:28i'm angry because my husband and my partner has just dropped a bombshell on me five minutes before
00:24:36entering a social gathering make it seem like i don't leave a space that's safe for you to come
00:24:42up with feedback for me and that's basically like the definition of gaslighting is turning
00:24:47the situation around to me i feel uncomfortable i feel betrayed i'm anxious and nauseous because
00:24:55i hate standing up for myself like this i thought this was all over so this is all new to
00:25:01me i had
00:25:03no idea what was going on and i could feel the awkwardness yesterday when i got home and
00:25:07i'm afraid now we're walking to a dinner party and getting everyone involved
00:25:11i just got called a gaslighter and got told that my apologies weren't genuine i've never had someone
00:25:46do this to me
00:25:48chris and sam very separate why are they not holding hands i've never seen this from them
00:25:55hello my man
00:25:57sam and chris were still like two mates walking in to be honest or not even good mates
00:26:03that was frosty it looked disconnected disinterested was shocking to be honest
00:26:12this is new something's happened oh babe yucky yeah what's going on babe um where do i start um
00:26:22sure he wants to do it in this forum so you'll hear all about it i just got told five
00:26:27minutes
00:26:27before entering the dinner party by sam that he will be bringing up in front of the whole group that
00:26:32my four apologies weren't genuine enough uh on the back end of calling me a gaslighter so i've just
00:26:37walked into the dinner party hoping to have some drinks with my friends and catch up with everyone
00:26:41and he has um just dropped a bomb on me in the car like five minutes before walking in the
00:26:45door
00:26:46like amazing how you been man been a rough week man you look flat as a pancake what's up um
00:26:57so basically sitting on the couch commitment ceremony mel asked like what's the plan after the
00:27:01experiment and chris like said well sam's gonna move to sydney and then you can do this move there
00:27:05move that like this is how it's all gonna work we had never discussed a plan oh really never
00:27:10discussed by watching it i just assumed you'd had them conversations so we hadn't and at the
00:27:16other day it's fine like he might have been excited whatever but then in feedback week i like
00:27:20just wanted to say i just wanted to say to him like hey man like when you made the plan
00:27:27of like
00:27:27how it's already made and he just goes that's not what i said what i said was like dismissing shutting
00:27:32me down do you get quite aggressive that conversation went awfully then basically i was
00:27:37like he's like what do you want me to do i was like can you just say sorry like the
00:27:41apology just
00:27:42comes with defensiveness like he apologized in the same voice that he was defensive yeah like it's like
00:27:46it's not genuine i don't feel it yet and he's just so defensive with me today as well and i'm
00:27:51like
00:27:51all i'm trying to do is be heard and like he's upset that i've spoken up yeah that's not okay
00:27:58yeah yeah
00:28:03lucky loss ah and here's gia and scott we didn't know if we wanted to come you know
00:28:10nice for gia to show up tonight do you know what you mean she's got one of them them robes
00:28:15what harry
00:28:17it's a time how are you how are you mate good to see you how you going yeah how you
00:28:22going surprising
00:28:23to see gia and scott actually hugging beck and danny particularly scott who made it very clear that
00:28:30he didn't want to have anything to do with beck oh thank you look nice how are you thank you
00:28:36oh look
00:28:37at your man you guys look duffer danny how are you good to see you hello hello my eyes are
00:28:44very very
00:28:44very much open with cheer you've shared personal messages between you myself and a few other ladies
00:28:51right to try and take me down you are vicious stay away from me stay away hi babe love you
00:29:03we got
00:29:03separated yeah hold it it's on it's on do you want to grab a drink yeah i was so happy
00:29:09to see chris i
00:29:10knew he'd been stressing the way he ran it was like he needs to talk to his girl we were
00:29:15in the
00:29:15car on the way over and we have not spoken all day it's been awkward as and then in the
00:29:19car he called
00:29:20me a gas lighter i never really liked sam from the minute i saw him sam doesn't play his cards
00:29:29how his
00:29:30cards really are he's waited until tonight to do this this is a like this will happen last week
00:29:37yeah very calculated very super calculated and cruel but i'm gonna back myself i'm not apologizing
00:29:43again i've apologized four times how much more can you do yeah yeah yeah childish you want to play
00:29:51games like a little boy sorry no you're not doing that to chris obviously he's going to have like
00:29:57back on his side so well yeah yeah yeah so us first that that's right
00:30:06dinner is served
00:30:13all right bon appetit oh the table's compressed
00:30:18i think tonight we're going to see some of the consequences of that feedback week playing out
00:30:25with a small amount of couples left in the experiment the dinner parties become much more
00:30:29intimate yes you're very much a part of all of the drama that unfolds it's a lot easier to have
00:30:37one
00:30:38conversation in the group rather than a variety of them going on at the same time
00:30:42it puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about
00:31:00wow the red one is you on that step is so good
00:31:15oh there's a tension in there isn't there there is tension
00:31:24it was very awkward at the southern dinner party
00:31:30there were crickets i could hear them i was sitting cutting my steak and i could hear
00:31:36i'm looking at beck and i already know what she said about me and my husband behind my back
00:31:42obviously jia's hurt me too but nothing can top the screenshots of the messages that beck
00:31:49said about david and i
00:31:54have you been elisa are you okay i i've had enough of this yaya these individual
00:32:00conversations and sweeping under the rug i feel like it all needs to be brought to light
00:32:04and i feel like the other couples need to know as well so if everybody wants to listen in so
00:32:10there
00:32:10were obviously some receipts from the last commitment ceremony
00:32:18that juliet received from jia
00:32:24and
00:32:27after that commitment ceremony juliet was like elisa i really need you to see these messages
00:32:31um and i guess reading those messages brought up a lot of hurt
00:32:37because you know this happened weeks ago this happened like four or five months ago
00:32:44five weeks ago i've got some dates on them two months ago
00:32:50yeah but it doesn't matter babe like it doesn't matter because they were the most vicious
00:32:57vulgar yeah i would never say that to someone yeah in real life let alone in a message
00:33:04like people at this table don't even know that i was called a rap
00:33:11oh my husband's a rap
00:33:17my head is so far up my ass and how much of a i am
00:33:28um and we're clicking oh no
00:33:56like people at this table don't even know that i was called a rap
00:34:02my husband's a rap
00:34:05my head is so far up my ass and how much of a i am
00:34:12we're licking
00:34:16oh no
00:34:18why why why would you do that
00:34:21why would you do that
00:34:24really vile language
00:34:26that's really destructive
00:34:29incredibly disappointing
00:34:32gear played a part in them as well but what came out of your mouth i'm telling you i was
00:34:36in tears
00:34:37like it was vile and vicious babe i've seen repetitive behavior not just with me but with
00:34:42other people at this table where you've come at them and i'm just like wait wait wait wait
00:34:46like there's been hang on hang on hang on hang on hang on alissa i don't think you can say
00:34:50that the people at this dinner table i know but everybody's been affected by your behavior
00:34:53i'm sorry everyone at this table at some point has been trying to speak by your behavior
00:35:01i get it and i know that you're saying sorry and i know that you've said sorry but i'm saying
00:35:05right now listen to me for one second
00:35:11i feel like alissa was really trying to hold her own but beck keeps talking over the top of her
00:35:17we saw it at retreat with me it's just really frustrating i understand what you're saying i'm
00:35:24just trying to have one like just let me have a piece i understand what you're saying right i i
00:35:29agree that the messages that i wrote were unacceptable they were disgusting disgusting yeah
00:35:36the reality of the situation is is that you've seen snippets right snippets well then what else
00:35:41is there i'm not but i'm not gonna do that there is no excuse for what i wrote i am
00:35:46sorry to you
00:35:48for what i wrote about you would i ever say that to your face never did i do i think
00:35:52that no definitely
00:35:54not that controls conversation that controls narrative i could just feel this beside me being
00:36:01like accept some accountability and stop deflecting to everyone else is it okay no but i'm not going
00:36:11to send you the messages everyone else has said about you to hurt you to get to her because that
00:36:17makes
00:36:17me just as bad she isn't able to take on any sort of accountability for her actions
00:36:29this is what beck does yeah she is wrong and tries to think of anyone else who's involved that she
00:36:36can
00:36:37then blame for her actions we have a war right but gia sent them to juliet and juliet's gonna
00:36:43shit on everyone and what that's done is hurt you two when you guys don't deserve to be hurt
00:36:50you don't have to trust me you don't have to believe me but i am apologetic to both of you
00:36:57sincerely
00:37:00beck wanted to do what she always does which is sweep things under the carpet
00:37:06but the important thing is alissa stood up for herself in the real world if you read messages
00:37:12like that you'd never go back you'd never trust that person you cut them off obviously because of this
00:37:17experiment we're faced with the fact we have to still be cordial but but you understand how like
00:37:22in the real world there's no coming back there's no you can't trust someone and be friends with
00:37:27those text messages were vile and i don't think anyone would ever accommodate for people in their lives
00:37:36that talk about them like that at any any period of time
00:37:41i know that you've said sorry but this shit is i just want to stay out of it this could
00:37:51have
00:37:51exploded escalated and got very hostile it's interesting that alissa she's essentially
00:37:58stayed at a conversational tone and this has not escalated at all yeah it's very mature of her
00:38:06it's just noise i've heard this before beck and i've tried to work on our relationship
00:38:14and i'm sorry but i think i've given her way too many chances
00:38:20i'm here for my husband you know i'm i'm so lucky that i have david
00:38:26ultimately like i'm just gonna put her to bed i'm pretty disgusted in the behavior and i'm not here
00:38:33for mean girl shit
00:38:40coming up i have to change my whole life to fit into your life do i get any say in
00:38:47how this is
00:38:48gonna work at all and beck's behavior takes its toll on danny
00:38:56i just want you to be wary about what you say i'm very wary of i want you to be
00:39:01wary about what you
00:39:12text people
00:39:17look at stella and philip so much love
00:39:24so just in sync
00:39:32so relaxed a lot of swag yes and so together
00:39:38philip and stella we haven't heard about like your feedback week like what's very good
00:39:45we had we just come up for a really good week and it was awesome we had uh good probing
00:39:50questions
00:39:51and um yeah we were just going back and forth it was almost like the honeymoon box it was a
00:39:55really
00:39:55good probing questions but yeah it was good it's great week
00:40:02clearly some couples have actually embraced the feedback and have got closer together but for others
00:40:10it's just absolutely unraveled them
00:40:17can i just say something
00:40:20chris and i are going through something that's actually internal
00:40:24i can't get to a conclusion with just the two of us and that's why i kind of wanted to
00:40:28bring that
00:40:28up tonight so if we could get that sort of yeah let's do it yeah yeah um if you don't
00:40:33mind i'm
00:40:34going to kick it off obviously my energy is not great tonight um this is not my usual vibe you
00:40:38know
00:40:38that um i'm going to just give you a bit of background on what happened sam and i had an
00:40:42issue mid last week um which i thought we had squashed on the drive over here uh sam mentioned to
00:40:50me that he wanted to bring this issue up in front of the whole group and then on the back
00:40:54end of
00:40:54that why why did i want to can i just please talk um on the back end of that insinuated
00:41:01that i was a
00:41:05gaslighter a gaslighter a gaslighter is a very strong word to throw throw around so obviously my
00:41:09energy is off i feel like i've been thrown under the bus so i'm gonna let sam speak and i'll
00:41:16hear
00:41:16him um and then you can get my version of the events um um basically when mel asked us on
00:41:28the
00:41:28couch last week like what's the plan after this she said what what does life look outside the experiment
00:41:34okay can i talk sure um and chris said well the best way that could work is like sam can
00:41:44move to
00:41:45sydney but the thing is there's like chris and i had never ever discussed a plan of how it was
00:41:53going
00:41:53to work outside the experiment so then to hear him say to mel like this is how the plan was
00:42:01going to work
00:42:01i'm like do i get any say in how this is going to work at all feedback week i thought
00:42:08would be a
00:42:08really good time for me to bring this up so we're sitting on the couch and i say chris when
00:42:14you said
00:42:14this to mel i just felt like i didn't have a voice and he cut me off and he goes
00:42:17i didn't say that you
00:42:19could have spoken up you had every opportunity to speak just as much as i did and then i said
00:42:23i wish
00:42:23there was just more empathy around the fact that i have to change my whole life to fit into your
00:42:29life
00:42:30i was like could you say you're sorry and he goes i'm sorry i'm sorry i hate your feelings i'm
00:42:34sorry
00:42:34like i'm sorry i hate your feelings
00:42:39i haven't had a genuine apology and when i try and bring it up i'm just met with defensiveness and
00:42:44i feel like right now my feelings have been shut down about it there's no recognition no
00:42:49acknowledgement of the other's experience and unfortunately like this wasn't the first
00:42:56time i've witnessed you shutting me down but it's the first time that i've spoken up
00:42:59about it and that me speaking up about it has just caused you to like hate me and just be
00:43:06like
00:43:07off me and i just don't understand what i've done wrong hate see they're in a terrible way aren't they
00:43:17okay let me let me talk my my turn hand on heart i apologized three times and i said i'm
00:43:23so i'm sorry
00:43:24i did not meant mean to make you feel that way i then apologized two more times he thinks it
00:43:29wasn't
00:43:29genuine i'm telling you it was why i'm so off sam is because he's chosen to do it in this
00:43:35forum in
00:43:36front of everybody this is throwing this at me 10 minutes prior to entering the dinner party on the
00:43:41back end of calling me a gas lighter sometimes yes i am fiery sometimes i do get defensive but
00:43:45there's got to be some point where i've got to back myself for him to throw me under the bus
00:43:50do you
00:43:51think he's throwing you under the bus though i feel like this could have been done in a different way
00:43:55i would have preferred to do it privately we tried that we speak to the experts in front of the
00:44:01whole
00:44:01group every week to help our relationships i think where sam was trying to speak to you was
00:44:06in front of the whole group because he felt like he wasn't getting nowhere
00:44:12so he i think he thought if he had the group involved he could get some opinions and it could
00:44:16help your relationship chris if you give a genuine apology i get that sam i am genuinely sorry that i
00:44:23hurt your feelings i did not want to put pressure on you why are you laughing
00:44:36sam was trying to speak to you in front of the whole group because he felt like
00:44:40he wasn't getting nowhere so he i think he thought if he had the group involved he could get some
00:44:44opinions and it could help your relationship chris if you give a genuine apology i get that sam i am
00:44:50genuinely sorry that i hurt your feelings i did not want to put pressure on you why are you laughing
00:44:58because i asked you to do this this morning i'm doing it again i'm doing it right now this is
00:45:02what
00:45:02you wanted you want it in front of the group and you won't even let me finish the apology
00:45:07watching sam and chris they're both valid in what they're saying they're both valid in their feelings
00:45:13they're both hurting so i was actually very surprised to hear how chris was talking about
00:45:21things how sam was talking about things to see them behaving in that manner it's a shame oh a week
00:45:27ago i was like sam and chris are super strong uh but now i think the boys are in real
00:45:31trouble
00:45:34i am genuinely sorry that i hurt your feelings and i put pressure on you that was not my intention
00:45:39i'm
00:45:39sorry that i was defensive i just feel like there's got to be a point where i apologize
00:45:44three times then again the next morning that's the first time you apologize for being defensive
00:45:51they're in real real dire straits in these
00:45:53but what it has done is it's opened up their issues in their relationship that we can actually target
00:46:03at the next commitment ceremony
00:46:06it just shows how powerful emotional tone is when couples are trying to deal with conflict and repair
00:46:15it's a like a dagger to the heart i feel like my heart's been stabbed i've done so much to
00:46:23be in
00:46:23this experiment to find love and a husband and to have this argument over the authenticity of my
00:46:29sorry's which were five um and then be laughed at the phrase it's a joke
00:46:36okay how about hey how about a positive break how was feedback week for you guys yeah look feedback
00:46:43week was really good for steven and i personally i feel that way um i hope steven feels the same
00:46:48way
00:46:50but yeah it's it's it's been good um elissa love the catch up we had a lot lots of fun
00:46:57and everything
00:46:58um a bit of advice from uh list that i really took on board was to be a little bit
00:47:02more masculine and
00:47:03bring some leadership and uh into the relationship which i'm definitely going to put my um captain's
00:47:11undies on and hat and you know bleed
00:47:17and what else did i tell you babe
00:47:24oh do i have to mention that no well do you know what no because i respect rachel as my
00:47:29bestie
00:47:30and we're not going down that road on on that on that on that topic i'm probably going to say
00:47:35this
00:47:35right now in front of everyone that i feel like me and rachel's sex life has been in the spotlight
00:47:41for
00:47:42way too bloody long now yeah we've had our troubles in it and we're getting closer
00:47:49um intimacy like intimately right however now it's gotten to the point when i get close to rachel of
00:47:57rachel one that gets close to me we've got this thought in the back of our mind now it's starting
00:48:02to get to the point now like are we doing this you know because we want to and it's a
00:48:07passionate
00:48:08moment or are we doing this because we're getting told to and there's pressure on it because i feel
00:48:13like there's so much pressure on can you two have sex already do you need to have sex already so
00:48:17uh on that note we've heard everyone loud and clear
00:48:21um when the moment comes you'll all know we'll set fireworks off from the balcony all right
00:48:29good on you steve-o this is the first time that i've seen him taking like a stance about the
00:48:34relationship kind of taking the lead you guys are taking steps forward hey yeah when it comes to our
00:48:41sex life they can say what they bloody want i'm not here for the drama not here for anything else
00:48:50besides rachel so and on the last night of a feedback week we had nachos and watched uh a fishing
00:48:58video on
00:48:59youtube oh my god can i could cheer can i ask you oh obviously we was meant to have a
00:49:10meeting or
00:49:11whatever you want to call it but what was the reason just out of interest why did you not show
00:49:16up
00:49:19because we had a really tough week in our relationship to be honest and i was packing
00:49:24my bags trying to leave up she tried to leave and it's the whole week so it's a snowball it
00:49:28was
00:49:28it was really hard like it was just really hard she felt like everything's been coming at her so
00:49:31she wanted to leave and she tried to leave and i didn't let him he was like no you can't
00:49:39in my mindset was to go into it and really talk positive
00:49:43i actually don't have no negative feedback between yours and scott's relationship i think
00:49:47scott's been really honorable how he's like took your daughter on board and stuff like that i think
00:49:51you guys have got a good relationship you back each other i've only got blokes in my life really
00:49:57yeah like my mom and everyone's back home so like it would have been nice to get some advice from
00:50:02a
00:50:02woman in the experiment for like a third party dunny is a liar he's full of it would
00:50:09have been probably a screaming match we would have been arguing do i need to be doing that right now
00:50:12no it was just a bad week and i think i couldn't personally take any more at that point because
00:50:17i was
00:50:18like like i'm damned if i do damned if i don't if i go and me and danny argue i'm
00:50:21going to look terrible
00:50:27maybe just next time like try and look at him more positively because i wouldn't have come at
00:50:31you with no disrespect and honestly it wasn't that it was like oh my god it's danny that it was
00:50:36like
00:50:36we had a really tough week in our relationship to be honest she didn't turn up to speak to danny
00:50:42because you know she lied about danny when you said that my husband wants to be with you i think
00:50:48jia cares about jia and taking people out you're the one sending screenshots to people and throwing
00:50:55people under the bus and being vicious and manipulative so we had the commitment ceremony juliet
00:51:00was yelling i don't know if you guys yeah we had we had i'm so over her and her fake
00:51:08two-facedness
00:51:11what was the reason for sending the messages to juliet because you don't know juliet you don't trust
00:51:19juliet but you've sent messages to her about alissa and david but was the point to take me down like
00:51:28is
00:51:28that the point was that the point was that the point well you tried to take me down so i
00:51:35gave it
00:51:35back to you what was the reason for sending the messages to juliet because you don't know juliet you
00:51:55don't trust juliet but you've sent messages to her about alissa and david but was the point to take
00:52:03me down like is that the point was that the point well you tried to take me down so i
00:52:11gave it back to
00:52:13oh god i'm still feeding that dynamic that we've been trying to call out for weeks now
00:52:23how how how did i try and take
00:52:28stop using me stop using me as a pawn i don't know what the going on here but i'm not
00:52:35playing a game
00:52:37anymore jerry and beg they can just hate each other forever ultimately my main focus is david
00:52:43i want to give my husband my everything and i don't want to get caught up in the ah-yah
00:52:47anymore
00:52:49once again alissa is the collateral damage in other people's fights
00:52:56and it's so unfortunately because it really is generating distress in other couples yes i don't
00:53:02to engage anymore i'm actually done with this conversation thank you i can't do any more drama
00:53:06i can't do any more drama back it's going to go around and around and i'm not doing it thank
00:53:10you so
00:53:10much
00:53:18i just needed to know what whether or not the whole point was to take me down that's all i
00:53:23wanted to
00:53:24know yes it was because you girls ultimately throw each other under the bus every time and you use
00:53:31do you know what do you know that's even worse what's worse is your collateral damage for a war
00:53:39which is that needs to stop that needs to stop well but direct it that way
00:53:46more drama i don't know how to feel about it my feelings are strong for beck i care about beck
00:53:54a lot
00:53:55but sometimes i feel that more focused with drama than it is on our relationship
00:54:01i just wanted to know if the whole point was to throw me under the bus and you guys are
00:54:05collateral i just had to ask the question that was it that's all i needed to know
00:54:14i feel like beck and dear are out for like top dog spot and i'm sorry there is no top
00:54:18dog here
00:54:19um let's remember why we're here to meet a match to have the opportunity to find love so if you're
00:54:26more
00:54:26busy about like sending shitty messages about people sending out screenshots and like oh you said this
00:54:33and you said this then why are you here
00:54:52what's going on is this okay yeah you sure i just get i'm sick of the drama about it if
00:54:58i want to get
00:54:59i came here to focus on a relationship and stuff at a dinner party at this drama yeah obviously a
00:55:05bit
00:55:05ashamed of beck to be honest i'm not gonna lie i'm not gonna candy coat it um frustrated because i
00:55:12know
00:55:12that's not how beck is as a person how would you feel in the same situation if every week every
00:55:19single
00:55:19week you were coming to a dinner party and there was something else i don't care how long of that
00:55:24was
00:55:24or what the circumstances is i don't really care what would you expect how would you feel in the
00:55:29same situation please answer the question yeah of course it would be frustrating okay and that's all
00:55:34we're in an experiment babe with vicious vicious vipers around do you think that this is what like
00:55:40is outside of this experiment i didn't come here for drama i came here for love i want to talk
00:55:47about
00:55:47how can i how can i become a better partner and a better husband i feel like sometimes all i
00:55:52do is
00:55:52talk about drama i'm just saying from my point of view i need help as a man with our relationship
00:55:59i struggle with a lot of these things you know that that's why i came on this experiment because
00:56:03i've failed in the real world but i'd rather get these dinner parties towards positive things and not
00:56:07drama that's not where i'm coming from oh no this is a troubling sign isn't it that danny has started
00:56:18to
00:56:18second guess his commitment to beck and these text messages while he knew they were out there they've
00:56:26come up again and he's really now retreating yeah i don't know why you're getting upset you're just
00:56:33saying my peers i'm not throwing you under the bus i'm not throwing you under the bus i'm right or
00:56:42die
00:56:42you saw that the retreat you saw that the retreat back and danny's relationship has been so much
00:56:49stronger the past few weeks so to see this now at this point in the process is very discouraging
00:56:56because i want us to have a really good relationship we have a really good we don't
00:56:59don't do not sit here do not sit here i didn't say we just relax do not sit here don't
00:57:04be sassy don't
00:57:05don't sit here and say i want us to have a good relationship but we don't because of drama did
00:57:12i
00:57:12did i say we don't no i just want you to be worried about what you say i'm very worried
00:57:22i want you to be
00:57:23wary about what you text people sure two months ago daniel two months ago ten years ago
00:57:31i'm done i gotta go has no one ever up before we've been talking about this for nearly two months
00:57:40i can't
00:57:55don't sit here and say i want us to have a good relationship but we don't because
00:58:01of drama it didn't cut it did i say we don't i want to start a good relationship worry about
00:58:05what to say i'm very worried i want you to be wary about what you text people sure two months
00:58:12ago daniel two months ago it was ten years ago oh i'm done i gotta go
00:58:33i'm done i'm not going back in i'm done i want out now i'm done
00:58:44i'm done you can off i'm not going back into that dinner party i want some joint down here let's
00:58:50go to the couch for a sec i want out take me downstairs i want out get me out of
00:58:58here fuming
00:59:01how are you feeling i feel like i'm wasting my time at a dinner party talking about abusive
00:59:10text messages that are sent i came here to work on on my relationship and to try and be a
00:59:16good
00:59:16husband and stuff and it's like i can't voice my opinion because then she says i'm throwing her under
00:59:20the bus he says oh we're ride or die we're ride or die we're not we're not ride or die
00:59:29we're not ride or die this is not okay every single week i come to these dinner plates every single
00:59:37week
00:59:38and it's this has happened this has happened do you have said this to you or it's like i don't
00:59:43care
00:59:44no more i'm here for a wife and a relationship i'm not here for drama do not do not sit
00:59:53there in
00:59:53front of everyone and not show solidarity to me because i've had to apologize to someone
01:00:02pretend just pretend for the sake of me pretend for two minutes
01:00:12sunday night it's the second last commitment ceremony go ask question of like all right if we
01:00:19go outside the experiment how quick would you expect like a proposal i say the sooner the better wow and
01:00:25some are already locking in plans for married life outside of the experiment my man is leaving and
01:00:32he is actually starting to show me what my life here in sydney could look like and then so last
01:00:38week
01:00:38you said that the noise from the group and around gia doesn't affect your relationship do you still
01:00:45believe that will scott speak up and confess how he feels in front of gia i will admit like
01:00:56the question what was like it was a bit you see yourself falling in love with me why is danny
01:01:02dodging
01:01:03the question um in one of the most confronting couch sessions ever seen it's a pretty black and white
01:01:19question before the blind side that will leave the room speechless i just can't believe it
01:01:33and now the fallout after the dinner party only on stan