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00:08Time is kind of winding down here.
00:10You guys are either going to leave together
00:11or you're going to leave separate.
00:13I think it's incredibly important
00:15you discussed with your partner
00:17what you're feeling.
00:18I love you as a person.
00:20I think you are, you've got a great heart.
00:22I am totally in to keep moving forward.
00:28I want to open my heart.
00:31She's getting a lot more comfortable.
00:33She's getting closer to me.
00:34Those are little things I'm seeing
00:36that are building up.
00:37When I'm with you, all my troubles go away.
00:40You're all I wanted, what I ask for when I pray.
00:44It was just really flattering
00:46to see him get up there in front of all those people
00:48and tell me how he feels about me in a different way.
00:54I'm so astounded.
00:55I mean, I've loved him for 45 years.
00:58Wow.
00:59The marriage would involve someone moving.
01:02It ain't going to be me.
01:05We all have that gut feeling, right?
01:07Listen to your gut, listen to your gut.
01:09Like, what is your gut telling you?
01:11It sounds like for me, you know,
01:13we'll be leaving as friends.
01:14We're friends.
01:16And I don't want to ruin that for anything.
01:18I decided to get you a book
01:20so you can write your affirmations down with a pen.
01:22Come on, thank you.
01:23Yeah, I know.
01:23You know me so well.
01:25That's so sweet.
01:26I want us to continue to work through this
01:28and talk through this,
01:30and hopefully this leads to growth.
01:45Yesterday, Shakira tells me how me just leaving so abruptly
01:49and giving this information last minute,
01:51she doesn't feel like I took her feelings into consideration.
01:55I understand where she's coming from.
02:00And now, we're going to move forward
02:03and get better from it.
02:08Buongiorno, buongiorno.
02:10Buongiorno, come state?
02:12Busy jump with me now.
02:13Benvenuti nella mia casa.
02:15Come state?
02:16I feel Mateen and I are in a better place,
02:19just, you know, working through things together
02:21and getting out my head.
02:23Prego.
02:24I'm sorry in this.
02:25I'm sorry.
02:28But we could use some sound advice
02:30because in a few days,
02:31we will either be leaving together or leaving separate.
02:35In this island, Sardinia Island,
02:36we have a lot of people more than 100 here.
02:40Wow.
02:40And we have Paolo.
02:42Finiti, quasi 89.
02:4389.
02:45And Giacomina.
02:4681 a September.
02:4881.
02:49Sardinia is known for being a blue zone,
02:52areas where people tend to live longer.
02:54Today we have the opportunity to actually meet a blue zone couple.
02:57So how did, how did you guys meet?
03:01Come vi siete incontrati?
03:03Nel 1960,
03:05mi hanno invitato a uno sposalizio di mio cugino per venire a suonare.
03:11He come in Sardinia for a play, for a marriage.
03:15Mentre suonavo allo sposalizio,
03:19questa è venuta a cantare.
03:21When he start to play,
03:23she come to sing.
03:24And the first time, meet.
03:26Oh, okay.
03:27You know?
03:28Ci siamo innamorati.
03:30Siamo sempre così.
03:31After playing this music,
03:34I've been in love with her.
03:37Wow.
03:37That's beautiful.
03:38It's definitely inspiring to see a couple
03:41that's been together so long.
03:45Is that their wedding picture over there?
03:48Yeah.
03:48They have such a warm aura.
03:53Check.
03:55It works, no, it is love.
03:58It is love.
03:58Right.
03:59Even though we do not speak the same language,
04:01you can just feel the love and positivity in their home.
04:05What is the secret to being married and having a long marriage?
04:10No, it's more than 50 years.
04:13A question of reserve.
04:15No, this one is difficult.
04:17Ah, okay.
04:18If the two do not speak,
04:19they are dead.
04:21So, they are speak.
04:22One thinks in one way,
04:24one in the other.
04:26So, but then we get in agreement,
04:28we get clear things and we go on.
04:32Be quiet.
04:33You don't have to hate.
04:35You speak.
04:36But immediately...
04:37Instantly.
04:38Instantly.
04:43If we don't have a fight,
04:45it's not possible love.
04:48That's beautiful.
04:50I feel like that's real.
04:51I feel like that is the truth.
04:55Love, amore, up, down, up, down, up.
04:59When the days are bad,
05:01marriage isn't perfect.
05:03But when it's bad,
05:06how do you get through it?
05:07You have to fight,
05:09know how to fight,
05:10and know how to love.
05:12Otherwise, there's no love.
05:14Right.
05:14And we're 64 years old,
05:16and there's no love.
05:17You're a good man, good man, good man.
05:19You understand?
05:20I know where he come, I can feel him.
05:24One of my favorite pieces of advice from the couple is having direct communication soon as a conflict or a
05:33disagreement arrives.
05:34Like, in that moment, no matter what's going on, sit down and talk about it.
05:38You learn each other, and you go through that conflict revolution together.
05:42So, we recently had a disagreement and some disappointment in our journey.
05:49Oh, if that's what you want to call it?
05:51I really appreciate you guys talking about, you know, going through those valleys and those fights together.
05:57I do believe that every person has someone who is perfect for them.
06:02I believe that we have layers, and sometimes we go through processes and we grow.
06:08But that true, true soulmate, I believe, like, they grow with you,
06:11and they will understand your different layers and your growth.
06:15How do you keep a love in a marriage?
06:19Allora, se uno è sano, perché io non prendo medicini, a parte la gamba che ho avuto.
06:25Eh, non sono sano, ma...
06:27Comunque, è inutile, qui ci siete tutti.
06:30Io ho la mia età , siamo ancora attivi.
06:36Ah!
06:38Eh!
06:38Lo chiudiamo.
06:39Ecco.
06:40Ok, ok, ok, hold on, hold on, wait a minute.
06:42Hold on, wait a minute.
06:43It's real, man.
06:45Ah?
06:45Yeah.
06:46Right, G?
06:47Va.
06:49It's inspirational to know that love can last so long,
06:53and you can grow with somebody and see different stages of your life
06:58and still have that level of love, comfort, and peace.
07:05How about a red wine?
07:07Si!
07:09I could see ourselves being in this place
07:11as long as we keep certain things at the forefront
07:14and continue to want to grow and be there for one another.
07:19Chin-ching.
07:20Chin-ching.
07:21Una giornata come oggi,
07:23che sia sempre così.
07:25Grazie.
07:26Grazie.
07:26Buona giornata.
07:28Grazie tante.
07:29Amore.
07:30Amore.
07:31I love.
07:34Thank you guys so much.
07:36Grazie.
07:37Ciao.
07:37Mi ringrazio.
07:38Ciao.
07:40I'm coming back.
07:41I'm coming back.
07:41Chi viene il nostro uomo.
07:44At this moment, I believe Mateen and I's relationship is hopeful.
07:51I do believe that Mateen and I can move forward.
07:55Goodbye, guys. Thank you.
08:00I was having so much fun.
08:01I know.
08:06I was on a boat when I first came here. It was amazing.
08:10Was it like a huge boat or like a...
08:12It was like, it was like normal-ish size.
08:15I am feeling a bit pressured.
08:17The fact that our time is coming to an end.
08:20I do wish I had a bit more time to explore these feelings,
08:25but I have to make a decision.
08:28Wow.
08:29What's up, guys?
08:30Hello.
08:31Hello.
08:33Are these the business class seats?
08:35Yeah.
08:36Well, how's everybody?
08:37Very good.
08:38Very good.
08:40It's time for the final dinner, and I'm pretty sad.
08:42I don't really want to go home yet.
08:44I love the group of people that we're with.
08:46I've been getting to know people that are going to be lifelong friends.
08:49Oh, wow.
08:50Look at this.
08:50You know, we've created this family, and to leave it, it's going to be hard.
08:59Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for bringing all of us together for one heck of an adventure
09:05to find love again.
09:06Thank you for just all of the fun this past couple weeks,
09:10and bless our lives for the future and all that is to come.
09:15In your name, amen.
09:17Amen.
09:19I know how you do that, Blake.
09:22Okay, so I got to ask.
09:24I got to go around and see, you know, what have you learned about each other
09:28and also what you've learned about love on this trip?
09:32Well, I always recommend ladies first.
09:35Honestly, I mean, you guys know, I mean, it was really hard for me to open my heart
09:41and just be vulnerable, and you have given me so much patience.
09:51You know, that's just the biggest thing.
09:55It's, um, it's just these little magical moments with you that, you know,
10:03you see in the movies and, like, ah, that won't ever happen to me,
10:08and then, you know, here we are, like, again, you know, like, 15 years later.
10:14Not as long as Paul and Leslie, respectfully.
10:19But our anchor is that, is the music.
10:22And just being able to, like, harmonize with you and write these original songs
10:28and just being able to, like, bond on that, you know, moment
10:32and just have such a fun time.
10:33And Cam, ah, it's, it's, it's good to see you again.
10:43During this whole process for Camille,
10:46you just saw her completely, like, start to relax,
10:48like, just a little bit at a time,
10:50and I think their relationship is going really well.
10:53But you can tell she's still, like, a little scared.
10:57Well, Leslie.
10:59Well, I've learned that, that Paul is very much the same person,
11:02yet he's grown so much.
11:04And I, I think I'm very much the same person.
11:06But mostly I've learned that his roughness,
11:09he's really just a softie, and that that's just something he does.
11:13That is...
11:13Ah, it's a big teddy bear.
11:16So it took me a moment to, to get used to that.
11:19That, that's his, it's him showing affection.
11:22That's how he does it.
11:23We all do it in different ways.
11:25Paul clearly knows that I want to pursue this relationship
11:28and, and make it, make it everything.
11:31I want him to be my everything.
11:33And I think that he is definitely coming around
11:36and that he's feeling it.
11:38But he's holding back ever so slightly,
11:40and he needs to say it to me.
11:41I need to hear it.
11:51I think he'd be absolutely stunning
11:54walking down the aisle.
11:56That's where I'd like to go with this.
11:59You know, we're talking about good old days and...
12:02I love that.
12:03You know, but...
12:17What have you learned about yourselves,
12:20as well as the other person,
12:21and just about love in general?
12:23Um, certain things I learned,
12:26like how important communication is
12:28and affirmations, everything like that,
12:31was something I definitely learned.
12:33And I'm so happy that I got a chance
12:34to, like, be with you on this experience
12:36and learn those things about you.
12:38Okay.
12:39And grow together with you.
12:40Okay.
12:40And there's a little bit of time,
12:42so I appreciate it.
12:44I definitely think Mateen brought it all home.
12:48Sometimes he's a man of few words,
12:50but when he gets it, he gets it.
12:51I have to, like, meet him halfway,
12:53because, you know,
12:53he definitely puts in the great effort
12:55to, like, meet me further than halfway
12:59and see me for who I am.
13:00So I definitely have to learn to, like,
13:02you know, let that happen
13:03and be with him in the moment.
13:05And I definitely appreciate you
13:07for being here with me.
13:15This is what this whole thing was about.
13:18Now that they've gone through so much,
13:20I know that they can work through anything,
13:22and I hope they end up leaving together.
13:26Yeah, we'll give you a chance.
13:28Yeah, we all want to reach across the table.
13:30Yeah, respect.
13:32What's that?
13:33So, listen, Mike.
13:34Okay.
13:35Ooh!
13:36Ooh!
13:37I'm sorry.
13:37Oh, my gosh, my nails.
13:38That's close enough.
13:39You'll get it.
13:40You'll get it.
13:40I like it.
13:42Y'all did a great job.
13:43That's good.
13:44That's what I'm talking about.
13:47Calvin?
13:50No, I got it.
13:51I got it.
13:53Like I said before,
13:54when I saw her,
13:54everything came back.
13:56That poem came from deep.
13:59It was exactly how I felt.
14:01I want to, you know,
14:02leave,
14:02and I don't want to have any regrets.
14:05Yeah, that's right.
14:06Telling her exactly how I felt
14:07was the perfect thing to do.
14:09Dude, you left it all out there, man.
14:11That's what you're supposed to do.
14:11That's what you got to do.
14:14How did she feel about that?
14:15I liked it a lot.
14:17I wasn't expecting it,
14:19and one of his love languages
14:20was the words of affirmation,
14:22and I personally don't like that,
14:25so that's something I had to, like,
14:27think to, like, do for someone else
14:29because receiving it isn't something
14:31that I wouldn't say not want,
14:34but not to the same extent that he does.
14:38It's amazing how different we all are,
14:41but yet the same in so many ways, you know?
14:44Yeah.
14:45So, um, I learned Alan's middle name.
14:50I learned, Alan,
14:52it's important for you to have, like,
14:54the physical touch and affection
14:58and learn that our connection
15:00is always going to be there.
15:03Mm-hmm.
15:04Love doesn't always have to be, like,
15:06a romantic love, you know?
15:07It's a friendship love as well.
15:10Yeah.
15:13We haven't had a chance
15:14to spend a lot of time together
15:15since we were young,
15:16so for me, one question that I've had is, like,
15:20is it romantic, you know?
15:21Is it something that you should pursue?
15:24And, um, I think one thing that I've learned
15:28is it doesn't always have to be pursued,
15:31and, um, I really appreciate, you know,
15:34having the opportunity to kind of, like,
15:36spend time with you and get to know you more
15:38and, and for the most part,
15:40it's just been incredible
15:41leveling up our, our friendship.
15:43I feel really happy and grateful that,
15:45you know, we have this opportunity.
15:48Mm-hmm.
15:49Yeah.
15:50Yeah.
15:51No, it, it has been, yeah, incredible.
15:53Dream come true.
15:55Agree.
15:55All right.
15:57Alan and Razmi,
15:59I thought that they would 100% endure
16:02because their temperaments are just so similar,
16:05but there's just something more,
16:07just deeper going on
16:08that it ultimately didn't work out.
16:14How about you guys?
16:17We want it back to you.
16:20Well, I can give you a little anecdote
16:21just even today
16:22that, uh,
16:24I think is really special that we have.
16:25When you're talking about that conflict resolution,
16:27we like temperatures a little different.
16:29Yes.
16:30Well, there's a temperature of the room
16:31or I'm hot.
16:34Cheese might be cold.
16:36And literally,
16:37I go up to my room to cool off for a second.
16:39I just crank the A.C.
16:41because I'm like,
16:41like, just absolutely baking.
16:43And it's not that hot.
16:44I don't keep it hot.
16:46I just keep it normal.
16:47It's normal.
16:48The point of it is,
16:50is it within five seconds,
16:52I get a text going,
16:54hey, you know,
16:55this is what it is,
16:56this, I love you,
16:56and nothing would have changed that.
16:57And it's like,
16:58instantly my heart melts and goes,
16:59of course.
17:00Of course.
17:00These are the small things.
17:01If this is what we have to deal with,
17:03I'm set.
17:04I am ready.
17:04This is awesome.
17:06No problem at all.
17:07That's what goes.
17:08Right.
17:08You know,
17:09life couldn't really get much,
17:10much better.
17:12Look at her.
17:13Yeah.
17:14Yeah.
17:17That's what I'm talking about.
17:21Well,
17:21we hope that you guys have enjoyed your stay here
17:23in beautiful Sardinia, Italy.
17:26You've created memories,
17:28share some laughs,
17:29and those things you can keep with you for a lifetime.
17:32But tonight is your last night together.
17:36Your journey here at the lovely hotel sporting
17:39has come to an end.
17:40Now,
17:41over the past few weeks,
17:41the goal was pretty clear,
17:42to see if that spark could be reignited
17:45if the one that got away
17:47is the one that could possibly stay.
17:50And tomorrow,
17:50each of you will face a choice,
17:52a decision that could change everything.
17:56Will you leave together,
17:57giving love a second chance,
17:59or will you go your separate ways
18:02and close this chapter in your life for good?
18:04Yeah.
18:04Now,
18:05with that said,
18:06cherish these last few moments.
18:08Yep.
18:08And tomorrow,
18:09you're going to have to make that decision.
18:11Just trust your gut and follow your heart.
18:13Absolutely.
18:20I honestly don't know what's going to happen.
18:24You just never know with these things.
18:26Fingers crossed.
18:28Wow.
18:29Let's toast, y'all.
18:31To love second chances
18:33and just love itself.
18:35Cheers!
18:38Cheers!
18:57What a church.
18:59Isn't this neat?
19:00This is beautiful.
19:02Everything's coming to an end.
19:04This has been one heck of an adventure.
19:06And we both have come to this fork in the road
19:11of what do we want to do after all this.
19:15This has just been such a fun time,
19:19you know,
19:20with you and everything.
19:21And I wouldn't have traded it for the world.
19:23So thank you for inviting me.
19:26Um,
19:27I'm ready for that next step.
19:29And she's perfect in my eyes.
19:31And,
19:32um,
19:34we'll see.
19:37I'm just so thankful
19:38that you came on this journey with me.
19:43Hi!
19:45What's up?
19:46How are you?
19:48I am so happy to see you.
19:53What are we thinking?
19:55You look so cute.
19:57You look great too.
19:58Boop.
19:59What do you like,
20:00like,
20:01in a woman?
20:03Stop.
20:05I definitely want to be like a dad someday.
20:07And I definitely want to have like a family.
20:08And I want to do all that stuff.
20:10What are you thinking?
20:13I just want to be,
20:14I want to go slow with you.
20:18When I date someone,
20:19it's like,
20:20because I want to see you as the missus.
20:24And I think she could be that person.
20:28There's so many qualities
20:30that I see in him
20:32that I want in a husband.
20:34I'm so glad,
20:35everything you're saying I love.
20:37Can I kiss him?
20:38Yeah.
20:52It's the butterflies.
20:55I never thought that I would like,
20:56feel that again,
20:57you know,
20:58with anybody.
20:59It's just really nice being here with you.
21:01I'm with you too.
21:02You know,
21:03it's,
21:03um,
21:04I want to come back.
21:05I know.
21:06I do too.
21:07I think he'd be absolutely stunning
21:10walking down the aisle.
21:13That's,
21:13that's where,
21:14you know,
21:15I'd like to go
21:17with this.
21:19It's crazy.
21:23I mean,
21:24that's what I want
21:25for my future.
21:28I know,
21:29again,
21:29it's like,
21:30then just a couple weeks,
21:32but,
21:32um,
21:33maybe someday.
21:34I want to be married.
21:36I,
21:36I want kids.
21:38I do too.
21:39I do too.
21:40I don't want to do it
21:42with anyone else,
21:42you know?
21:43Yeah.
21:46In this moment,
21:48I can see it all with him.
21:50I can see
21:51a whole future,
21:53you know,
21:53our future.
21:54Blake makes me happy,
21:56and
21:56he is
21:58the one for me.
21:59I'm thankful
22:00that you are in my life,
22:02honestly.
22:03Thanks, Kim.
22:05Thanks for my body.
22:06It was just fun.
22:07I've been loving you
22:08It feels so true
22:11It feels so true
22:13This has been,
22:14like,
22:14the highlight
22:16of my life
22:16with her.
22:19Woo!
22:23I feel like
22:24I'm on top of the world.
22:27Same.
22:37So right now,
22:38we have to decide
22:39if we're going to go together
22:40or if we're going to part.
22:42How do you feel?
22:59You good?
23:01Going into this
23:03last conversation
23:03with Autumn,
23:04I just got to go ahead
23:05and see where she's at.
23:07I don't know if they want me to come back.
23:09Are you okay?
23:10Yeah.
23:11You know,
23:11I recited my poem,
23:12and I told her how I felt.
23:15So,
23:15at this point,
23:16I just got to be bold
23:17and just go ahead and ask.
23:19Yeah.
23:23So,
23:27these past couple weeks
23:29has, you know,
23:30been a journey.
23:32I love that you asked me
23:34to come
23:35and do this with you.
23:36That you even thought
23:37to ask me
23:37and that I got to have
23:38this experience with you.
23:41Hi!
23:44I'm so happy
23:45to see open mind.
23:47Is it, like,
23:48open heart?
23:49Both.
23:50Definitely both.
23:53When I'm with you,
23:54all my troubles go away.
23:56You're all I wanted.
23:57What I ask for when I pray.
23:59Let's not rewrite the past.
24:00Let's re-find the future
24:02on this second chance.
24:03Yeah, Calvin!
24:05Yeah!
24:05Yeah!
24:08I appreciate, you know,
24:09being so, you know,
24:11brave to come out here.
24:13And, you know,
24:14I'm proud of you.
24:15I actually did have
24:16an amazing time.
24:18Like, never in my life
24:19would I have picked
24:19to do something like this
24:20for me.
24:21But I'm glad I did it.
24:25What about you?
24:27Um, I kind of,
24:28the talent show,
24:29I kind of laid it all out.
24:30It was exactly, you know,
24:32how I felt.
24:33I mean, I wasn't expecting
24:36you to do
24:36or say all that
24:38at all.
24:42Like,
24:45I wanted to make sure
24:46that I told you, like,
24:46everything on that poem
24:47was, like, real.
24:48When I'm with you,
24:49I feel like everything
24:50goes away,
24:50all my troubles go away.
24:51I feel at home.
24:53You seem perfect to me.
24:54It's like,
24:55you make no mistakes.
24:55Like, I'm blinded by you.
24:56So,
24:58just know that.
24:58Just know that I feel
25:00that way about you,
25:01you know?
25:03And you know
25:03I'm big on honesty
25:04and
25:07you saying it.
25:08I'm glad.
25:11I don't know.
25:11Tell me,
25:12how you feeling?
25:14I mean,
25:15I've had a lot of fun.
25:17But I've kind of,
25:19for me,
25:19I just want to
25:23build a friendship
25:24up first.
25:30I know that he likes me
25:31a little bit more
25:32than how I'm feeling
25:33at the moment.
25:35And I think
25:36we just have to be
25:37open and honest
25:38with each other
25:39about where we're at.
25:41I don't want it
25:42to end up
25:43in a situation
25:43where either of us
25:44gets hurt.
25:45He's someone
25:46that I can see
25:46us staying friends,
25:47but I don't see us
25:49leaving here
25:49in a relationship.
25:52Would you,
25:53would you be okay
25:53with like
25:55staying connected
25:56after this?
25:56I can go to you,
25:58you come to me.
25:59Yeah,
25:59I want to
26:00stay friends.
26:03That's what's
26:04going to be best for us.
26:04That's what's
26:05going to work.
26:06I've been in love,
26:08you know,
26:08so I know
26:09what it feels like,
26:10but I also know
26:11what it feels like
26:13when you're still
26:14in love
26:14and the other
26:15person isn't.
26:17But love comes
26:18in different
26:19shapes and forms.
26:21The love that
26:21me and Autumn
26:22have is definitely
26:23there as friends
26:25for sure.
26:28Here on out,
26:29we're going to
26:30stay connected.
26:30We need to get home,
26:31get settled,
26:32and then we should
26:33set up a time
26:34that we can go
26:35visit each other.
26:36You're coming
26:36to Texas first,
26:37though.
26:37I'm down.
26:39Perfect,
26:40perfect.
26:52So, like,
26:53we had a great time,
26:54and I loved
26:56every moment of it.
26:58It's really, like,
27:00a surreal moment.
27:02Knowing that
27:02this is going to
27:03end so abruptly
27:04and so soon,
27:05it kind of sucks.
27:07I do appreciate you,
27:09you know,
27:09coming here.
27:10We've had a journey.
27:13We'll be strong.
27:15We'll be strong.
27:17We'll hold on.
27:19Hey.
27:20Hey!
27:29I decided to get you
27:31something.
27:32You know me so well.
27:34That's so sweet.
27:36You know,
27:37I told you,
27:37my daughter has
27:38her first dance
27:38recital coming up.
27:40Tonight,
27:40I'll be leaving
27:41to go back home
27:42to see her recital.
27:44I definitely
27:45will wish you
27:45would have told me
27:46sooner.
27:47hopefully this
27:48leaves the growth.
27:50Quindi si bisticcia
27:51e se c'è l'amore
27:53si supera tutto.
27:55Mmm.
27:57The moments
27:58of uncertainty
27:59that we had
28:00to work through,
28:01like,
28:02it was definitely
28:03peaks and valleys,
28:04and we came out
28:06better people
28:07individually,
28:08I think.
28:09We definitely
28:10had to go
28:10through those things.
28:11I definitely value
28:12our most recent date
28:13with the older couple.
28:15Oh, yeah.
28:16I feel like
28:17this time together
28:18has really showed
28:19us different layers
28:20of each other
28:21and just deepened
28:22the connection
28:23that we already had.
28:25So right now,
28:25we have to decide
28:26if we're going
28:27to go together
28:28or if we're going
28:28to part.
28:31How do you feel?
28:34Hopefully,
28:34like,
28:36as a unit.
28:37You know what I mean?
28:39This is just
28:40another chapter
28:40in our book.
28:43And I look forward
28:44to expanding
28:45on that relationship.
28:48Hopefully,
28:48we'll figure out
28:49the logistics
28:50of everything
28:51as far as, like,
28:53our families back home
28:54and us being
28:55not too far.
28:57Right.
28:57Meet each other halfway.
28:59I'm here for it
29:01if you are.
29:06Yeah?
29:09You've been killing
29:10these words of affirmations.
29:13You went on a road.
29:15Okay, guys.
29:15You take that.
29:16All right.
29:17Okay.
29:18You take that energy.
29:19I'm here to support you.
29:21I'm here for you, too.
29:23I'm definitely glad
29:23we were able
29:25to finish this together.
29:28I'm excited
29:29to explore
29:30these next chapters
29:31with Mateen
29:32and really
29:33to figure out
29:34how this will look
29:34when we get home
29:35and work out
29:37the logistics.
29:38I would love
29:39to kiss you,
29:39but I promise
29:40my daughter
29:41and my son
29:42no kisses.
29:44So,
29:45until we run it
29:46by them,
29:48no kisses.
29:50No smoochies.
29:51Yeah.
29:51Great job.
29:54Are you blushing?
29:56Is that what's happening?
29:56Come on.
30:01Goodbye, Paradise.
30:03Goodbye, Paradise.
30:04I'm a little nervous.
30:06When Paul broke up
30:07with me 45 years ago,
30:09it was abrupt
30:10and there wasn't
30:11a whole lot of explanation.
30:12Come on, Leslie.
30:14Where are you?
30:26It's been fun, gentlemen.
30:27I should have
30:28you teach me
30:29a little guitar playing.
30:30I got you, dude.
30:31I learned how to swim
30:32and play a little bit of guitar.
30:35I'm back.
30:36I'm going to hunt y'all down
30:37in a few months.
30:38That's what they're right.
30:39We're going to hang out.
30:40Kind of sad.
30:41Yeah, I know.
30:43Let me have to buy
30:43a mozzarella
30:44and then I want to go
30:45to the grocery store.
30:46Okay, well,
30:48I'm still waiting
30:48for Leslie to finish.
30:50I'm going to miss
30:51everybody so much.
30:53I'm anxious.
30:54I love it, too.
30:55I'm anxious to get home.
30:57I'm a little nervous.
30:59When Paul broke up
31:00with me 45 years ago,
31:02it was abrupt
31:03and there wasn't
31:04a whole lot of explanation.
31:06And unless we're
31:08an absolute couple,
31:10then I understand
31:11that he's not going
31:11to do that to me again,
31:12but we have to be
31:13an absolute couple.
31:14I have to be his person
31:15and he has to be my person.
31:17So, yeah,
31:18we need that conversation.
31:20I mean,
31:20this is an experience
31:21of a lifetime.
31:23I learned about
31:24not only Alan,
31:25but myself.
31:27This trip
31:27has been epic for me.
31:30I didn't really know
31:31what I was walking into.
31:33I've never done
31:33anything like this
31:34and y'all were all great.
31:35Now I have lifelong friends.
31:37Same, same, same, same, same.
31:40Having this experience,
31:41I've definitely come
31:42out of my shell a lot
31:43and I'm glad
31:44that Calvin asked me.
31:45I've became
31:46a lot more confident.
31:47I've been able to speak
31:47in front of the other couples
31:49and open up
31:50and trust people
31:51that I haven't known
31:52for a super long time
31:53and I'm so thankful
31:54that I've gotten
31:54the chance to
31:55have this experience
31:56and have it with
31:58the people
31:58that I had it with.
31:59Goodbye, paradise.
32:01Goodbye, paradise.
32:03Come on, Leslie.
32:05Where are you?
32:06Okay.
32:07I'm ready.
32:11Hey, guys.
32:13Come on, gather around.
32:14Come over here.
32:16There they are.
32:17I'm gonna miss you guys.
32:18Yeah.
32:19Oh, we're gonna miss you.
32:21We've gotten attached to you.
32:23Not only to you,
32:24but your journey.
32:26But this is it.
32:27This is the end.
32:28Yeah.
32:28It's time to say goodbye.
32:30So the first couple,
32:32Calvin, Autumn.
32:35Time to say your goodbyes.
32:37All right, bro.
32:40Great meeting you.
32:41Bye.
32:42Bye, everybody.
32:44Bye.
32:47Leaving here,
32:48you know,
32:49and separating from Autumn
32:50is bittersweet.
32:52I'm very sure
32:53we're gonna stay connected
32:54and I'm leaving here
32:56with a lot of questions answered.
32:58I feel like
32:59there's so much
33:00to learn about love
33:02and it's something
33:03that you're gonna
33:04just always keep learning about.
33:06I really enjoyed this experience
33:08and I'm glad that
33:10you were super understanding
33:11about me wanting
33:11to stay friends
33:13and this was still
33:14a great time
33:15and we gotta stay in touch.
33:17Absolutely.
33:19Bye.
33:21Going forward,
33:22I hope that I find someone
33:24that has a lot of the same qualities
33:26as Calvin.
33:26I want someone
33:27that is so confident
33:28that they bring that confidence
33:29out in me
33:30and for him,
33:31I hope he finds
33:32exactly what he's looking for.
33:34I know that he's ready
33:35for a real relationship.
33:36He's ready to settle down
33:38and get married
33:39and start a family
33:39and I really hope
33:40that he finds that for himself.
33:44Love brings a lot of joy
33:46so I'm not gonna
33:48give up on it.
33:52Shakira,
33:52Mateen,
33:53no.
33:54Time for you guys
33:55to say your goodbyes.
33:57Guys.
33:58Having Matthew
33:59and Chili here
34:00was definitely needed.
34:02They had great perspectives
34:03and it's interesting
34:05that a lot of us
34:06have different upbringings
34:08and come from
34:08different walks of life
34:09but we all have
34:11the one common goal
34:12of love
34:13and second chances.
34:15I think I'm gonna miss
34:16all of this.
34:17I am too.
34:19So sad
34:19it got to end
34:21way too early.
34:22Can't wait to see
34:23explore new possibilities
34:24at home
34:25and see what happens.
34:26Let's go home.
34:28Next chapter
34:29for me and Shakira
34:30is an open book.
34:32I look forward
34:33to getting
34:34to learn her
34:35every day.
34:36Looking forward
34:37to her getting
34:38to learn me
34:39every day
34:39and I look forward
34:41to seeing the person
34:42she will be
34:43in 30 years
34:44as well as the man
34:44I'll be in 30 years.
34:46Wow.
34:49Came here
34:50for one thing
34:50and one thing
34:51home.
34:51Can't wait.
34:52No.
34:53And Pete's.
34:53Oh gosh.
34:55I love Pete's.
34:56Oh gosh.
34:58Alan and Razmi,
35:00it's time for you guys
35:01to say your goodbyes.
35:02Kim.
35:03I'll be seeing you.
35:05You too.
35:06Aw.
35:07That's sweet.
35:08See you in the bay dude.
35:10This experience
35:11has taught me
35:12a little bit more
35:13about myself.
35:15I got a lot
35:17of courage
35:17out of me.
35:18I laughed more.
35:20I do believe
35:21that there is
35:22somebody out there
35:23for me
35:23that's waiting
35:24for me
35:24so I'm waiting
35:25to meet him
35:26wherever he is.
35:28Until next time.
35:29Bye guys.
35:29Bye.
35:30Bye.
35:31It's going to be
35:32the last time
35:33that we're going
35:34to walk this way.
35:35Alan is kindhearted.
35:37He's caring.
35:38I really wish
35:40and hope
35:40for Alan
35:41to find happiness,
35:43to find the love
35:44of his life
35:45that will love him
35:47fully
35:47and will give him
35:48all the happiness
35:49in the world.
35:50Thank you for coming.
35:51I mean,
35:52I definitely feel
35:52like I know
35:53you a lot better.
35:57I'm disappointed
35:58that things
35:58didn't work out
35:59with us
35:59but at the same time
36:00you know,
36:01I'm in the era
36:02of you know,
36:03I only want
36:04what wants me.
36:05I've learned
36:06to love myself
36:07and I think
36:09that I could
36:10find love out there
36:12but right now
36:13I'm focused
36:13on taking care
36:14of myself.
36:19Okay guys,
36:21Blake,
36:21Camille,
36:23it's time to go.
36:24Oh my gosh.
36:25Paul.
36:26It's been a slice, buddy.
36:27Yeah, man.
36:28My song burns.
36:29You too.
36:30I'm going to their wedding.
36:32I'm a bridesmaid.
36:34I miss you, gorgeous.
36:37I am so thankful
36:39that I got to go
36:41through this experience.
36:43I have learned
36:44a lot about myself.
36:46I've been able
36:47to let down
36:47these walls.
36:49I've gotten
36:50to be very vulnerable
36:51and I've learned
36:54that I'm able
36:55to find love again.
36:58After you.
36:59Alrighty.
37:01I just can't wait
37:02to do this with her
37:03and see where it goes
37:05when we're back home
37:06and here we go.
37:07Doing our normal
37:08day-to-day lives.
37:09I still have to cook
37:10for you though.
37:11Hey.
37:12We know how
37:12to make master now.
37:16The last couple.
37:18We're going to miss
37:19y'all so much.
37:20Before we say goodbye,
37:22may I have a private
37:22moment with Leslie?
37:24Oh, sure.
37:25Yeah, of course.
37:26Follow me.
37:27Okay.
37:48This is Pat and Seth.
37:51It's going to take long.
37:53It's going to take long.
37:54Just a moment.
37:55Anyway,
37:57when we were reminiscing
37:58last night,
37:59you know,
37:59we were talking about
38:00good old days.
38:02I love that.
38:03You know,
38:03you really hit the nail
38:04on the head
38:04where we have grown,
38:08matured,
38:08but we didn't, like,
38:09grow apart
38:10personality-wise.
38:11We just picked up
38:13where we left it.
38:13Isn't that funny?
38:14I know.
38:15Nothing I've imagined
38:17Oh, my God.
38:19You're here.
38:20That's why I'm here.
38:21Oh, my God.
38:24Oh, look at it.
38:25Yeah, I made an
38:26engagement ring.
38:27Will you marry me?
38:28You asked me if I
38:29snore at night?
38:30Yes.
38:31Well, one day,
38:32if you're lucky,
38:33you'll find me.
38:33I have.
38:34I play my cards, right?
38:35I don't know if I told you
38:36how profoundly sorry
38:39I am.
38:47I don't want to have
38:48any more regrets in life.
38:49I had that big one
38:5145 years ago.
38:52I really don't want
38:53to relive that.
38:54Okay?
38:56So, I guess
38:58my question is
39:00can I be your boyfriend
39:01until the end of time?
39:02You want me to be
39:03your girlfriend?
39:04I want you to be
39:04my girlfriend.
39:05Yeah, unless you've
39:06got somebody else in mind.
39:07Okay, good.
39:08I have a boyfriend.
39:09It's so weird.
39:10It's funny.
39:11At my age,
39:12to say boyfriend,
39:13but I like it.
39:14I like the way that sounds.
39:16I have a boyfriend.
39:18So, kiss me, you fool.
39:20Oh, my God.
39:22The 60 and over crowd
39:23in Seattle is
39:24going to have to
39:25look elsewhere.
39:35Come over here, guys.
39:37So, we came to a decision.
39:39Do you want to guess?
39:41Oh, oh, oh.
39:42Sign this forever
39:43girlfriend.
39:44Oh, I'm so happy.
39:46Bring it in, guys.
39:47I know.
39:48I know.
39:49Oh, my God.
39:50If I've learned
39:51anything new about love,
39:53jump in with both feet.
39:55I'm so happy.
39:56Oh, this is what
39:57this whole thing
39:57is all about.
39:58You guys really
39:59embodied that.
40:00I love it.
40:01We needed your push
40:02a little bit.
40:02We didn't mind pushing a little.
40:03We give you a little credit.
40:07Can we go now?
40:09Yes, you can.
40:09Yes.
40:10Absolutely.
40:11We're going together.
40:12Yes, indeed.
40:13Yes.
40:13Oh, that's your man, girl.
40:15I'm too happy to actually cry
40:17if you can believe it.
40:18At the end,
40:19I got everything that I wanted.
40:21We're back together,
40:21and I think that he is,
40:24you know,
40:24determined to never hurt me again
40:27and to just love me.
40:28He's my girl.
40:30Right.
40:3045 years later.
40:31Going back to the life I had,
40:33I'll be happy as ever
40:35knowing that, you know,
40:36Leslie is back in my life.
40:38I'm looking forward to it.
40:39I think I'll probably
40:40wake up in the morning
40:41with a little extra
40:42bounce on my step.
40:43You know,
40:44as far as this old body
40:45can bounce.
40:46I got practically
40:47a couple of kids.
40:48I know.
40:48I know.
40:49I'm 70 years old
40:50for crying out loud.
40:50I like it.
40:52I've learned that love
40:53can be at any age.
40:55We all need love.
40:56We all want love,
40:57and we all deserve love.
40:59Thank you, boyfriend.
41:03Okay.
41:05Hello.
41:06This is my boyfriend.
41:10So,
41:11are you
41:12coming with me,
41:13or are we leaving separately?
41:15Oh, please.
41:15We're definitely leaving together.
41:17Come on.
41:20Let's go.
41:25Here we come.
41:33I find her.
41:37We'll find her.
41:38Oh, wait.
41:38Bye.
41:40Love you.
41:41Bye.
41:42Bye.
41:43Bye.
41:43Bye.
41:47Bye.
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