00:05Do you know mom about love and love?
00:11What? Sorry?
00:12Have you had a girlfriend?
00:13Oh, yes.
00:16Is your mom the type who asks a lot of questions?
00:20Is your mom the type who says,
00:22Nick, I want to meet her.
00:25No.
00:26I'm the one who says, I want you to meet them.
00:28I've had boyfriends and whatever, girlfriends, both bisexual.
00:35And I'm non-binary, whatever.
00:38Is that how you identify yourself?
00:40Yeah, I identify as bisexual.
00:42Okay, up to this very moment.
00:44I mean, I might change, I don't know.
00:46No, that's okay. You're non-binary.
00:49But you say you're a trans man.
00:50I'm not non-binary.
00:52I'm not non-binary.
00:53Okay.
00:54I am a trans man.
00:56But I like boys and girls.
00:58Okay. I understand that.
01:00And, you know, whatever.
01:02It really depends on my relationship with people.
01:04Okay.
01:06Wait, that's pansexual. Crap.
01:08You know what? It doesn't matter.
01:09No, but that's pansexual.
01:10No, but that's pansexual.
01:10Never mind.
01:10But that's pansexual.
01:11But that's pansexual.
01:13Let's try.
01:13You understand this.
01:15Because I'm familiar with...
01:17You're right.
01:18It's not non-binary.
01:20But yes, you're a trans man and you are...
01:24Because you can be trans man and pan.
01:26Yes.
01:27You can.
01:28Sexuality and gender have nothing to do with each other.
01:30Nothing to do with each other.
01:30A man can like women and another man of the same gender can like men.
01:35Okay.
01:35It doesn't make him less of a man.
01:36And while we're talking about this,
01:38What?
01:39When you identified yourself very clearly to your mom,
01:43how did it happen?
01:44You were telling mom?
01:46How was that?
01:47I was telling mom.
01:49Take me to that moment when you told mom.
01:52The morning of 20...
01:57Maybe...
01:57What was this?
01:582021 or so.
02:00It was a...
02:00Pandemic.
02:02Yes.
02:03But she was on a tour in the States.
02:06The night before I had realized that I was trans.
02:09And I had told...
02:11I went up to her in the morning,
02:12Mama, I think I'm transgender.
02:15I'm a trans...
02:16And then she was like,
02:18Okay.
02:19Let's take a step back.
02:23You're very young.
02:25Let's not put any immediate labels right now.
02:28Okay.
02:29Because you never know, right?
02:32You could be non-binary.
02:33You could be whatever.
02:34And I was like,
02:35Okay, yeah.
02:35Whatever.
02:36Okay.
02:37And I ended up going on this journey from non-binary,
02:41gender fluid.
02:42So...
02:42You know.
02:44And then to gender fluid.
02:46But I prefer my trans.
02:47Okay.
02:48To just trans.
02:49To just trans.
02:50So it really like, full circle talaga.
02:52Like I think, no matter how much you try to deny who you are,
02:55you're gonna have to come back to it at some point.
02:57If I understand correctly,
02:58if you identify yourself as a trans man,
03:00Yes.
03:01And then you're pan-romantic.
03:02Yes.
03:03Ito po yung mga taong hindi sila pumapasok sa isang relasyon na walang romance, na walang emosyon.
03:09Okay.
03:09But that's for, that's for another interview that you should do with Tito Boy.
03:13Wait.
03:13Wait.
03:13English.
03:14What did you say?
03:17What did you say?
03:17So this is a conversation that you and Tito Boy should be doing because we would need more time to
03:23actually talk about it.
03:24Oh yeah.
03:24Yeah.
03:24I'm so sorry for derailing.
03:26Yes.
03:27That's okay.
03:29It was just interesting to find out how you and mom actually talked about it.
03:36And now it's clear, you know.
03:38Yeah.
03:39Take it easy.
03:40Take it slow.
03:41Take a few steps backward and let's see what happens.
03:58Yeah.
04:04Yeah.
04:21But it's not good.
04:21That was good.
04:21Yeah.
04:22Yeah.
04:23Yeah.
04:24Yeah.
04:24Yeah.
04:25Yeah.
04:25Yeah.
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