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00:00:00Previously, welcome to your hen's night.
00:00:04The married at first sight experiment launched.
00:00:07This is your last night of being single.
00:00:09With the traditional bucks.
00:00:12And hen's night.
00:00:14Let's take a walk around a little bit, honey.
00:00:15You might have a little bit of fun along the way.
00:00:18Before Lyndall's story of survival.
00:00:21I have cystic fibrosis, but a lot of the doom and gloom is just gone now.
00:00:26Turned into her love story.
00:00:28I've got you.
00:00:30Oh my God.
00:00:31I got you.
00:00:33And?
00:00:34You literally took my breath away.
00:00:36Oh, stop it.
00:00:36He just made me feel super calm straight away.
00:00:38It's amazing.
00:00:40Bronte's world came crashing down.
00:00:43I have a friend who's like saying to her how he wants to be with her.
00:00:46When he finishes his experiment, I'm with Harrison.
00:00:52Tonight, can Bronte forgive and forget?
00:00:55I want you to know that I've left that behind.
00:00:57Or is the honeymoon over before it's even started?
00:01:02Look, it's going to be tough to come back from.
00:01:05And?
00:01:05Is he going to accept me the way I'm looking and what I'm wearing?
00:01:08Because there's a lot on the line for me.
00:01:10We meet a brave new bride, risking it all.
00:01:15I'm always making decisions based on what my parents want or what the community want.
00:01:19In her inspiring journey to find true love.
00:01:24With everything that I've put on the line to be here, I need this to work.
00:01:28And?
00:01:29It feels like I've just like strapped into a roller coaster.
00:01:32He's the unforgettable groom.
00:01:34Oh, hello.
00:01:36With a lot of deal breakers.
00:01:39I actually brought a list.
00:01:41But will he get the ick?
00:01:43Hello.
00:01:44I'm ready.
00:01:45Over his feisty new bride.
00:01:48Oh, man.
00:02:01After a magical wedding day, Lyndall and Cameron are waking up to a brand new and brighter
00:02:09future.
00:02:11It's still weird waking up married.
00:02:15A little, but I'm very happy.
00:02:19Perfect.
00:02:22I can't believe that we're married now.
00:02:25It's felt actually a lot more comfortable than I was expecting it to.
00:02:31I'm excited to do this together now, like rather than doing everything on my own.
00:02:36In him having known someone that had cystic fibrosis, he understands the weight of the situation.
00:02:41I think there's a lot of mutual respect that comes from that.
00:02:44But yeah, it's nice that it's natural already.
00:02:47So I'm pretty excited for the honeymoon with Cam.
00:02:52Congratulations, newlyweds.
00:02:53It's time to dive headfirst, not only into married life, but also into a warm, crystal
00:02:57clear water of Fraser Island.
00:03:01Perfect.
00:03:03But while Lyndall and Cameron excitedly get packing.
00:03:07I've got my budgie smuggles with it.
00:03:09That's amazing.
00:03:12Bronte and Harrison have spent their first night sleeping separately, after Bronte's friend
00:03:20Jess made a revelation at their reception.
00:03:23I have a friend from Sydney.
00:03:25She told me about this guy that is going on to maths that she's been dating for the last
00:03:30month and a half.
00:03:32Babe, it's Harrison.
00:03:34She told me that he was saying to her how he wants to be with her when he finishes this
00:03:39experiment.
00:03:41Who's the 20-year-old that you have on the outside?
00:03:45Look, I was seeing a number of girls before I came into this, but I'm not in a relationship
00:03:50with anyone.
00:03:51They're just people that I was seeing.
00:03:53I think parts of who I was before this experience has kind of like followed me into it.
00:04:00And I had a little bit of explaining to do.
00:04:02It's just a shame that it got brought to light in such a negative way on my wedding day.
00:04:08Because even though I was seeing someone before coming into this, I have 100% made this perfectly
00:04:20clear to that person that things are over.
00:04:22So how are you feeling after last night?
00:04:25Yeah, good.
00:04:25Good.
00:04:26Like, a few things had to get addressed.
00:04:29You know, I know you would come up eventually, but you have a life before this, right?
00:04:35And it's always going to follow you in.
00:04:37Yeah, it's going to follow you everywhere.
00:04:38Good and bad.
00:04:39Yeah.
00:04:40But that being my biggest fear is that I'm going to come into this and I'm just going to
00:04:45be replaced and disposable.
00:04:50So I was like, well, has he come into this thinking, oh, if it doesn't work out with this
00:04:55girl, I've got a line of girls, like, just waiting.
00:04:59I want you to know that I've left that behind to be here for this process because we're married
00:05:04now and I take that seriously and I want you to be part of my life.
00:05:09Look, it's going to be tough to come back from.
00:05:11Especially with me, I've had my heart broken so many times.
00:05:16Obviously, I want to learn how to trust again and actions speak louder than words.
00:05:22So we took the work on that every day.
00:05:27He's owned up to it.
00:05:28And he says that this girl has got the wrong idea.
00:05:33Oh, I'm so glad that I got to pack this bag.
00:05:36So I've just got to trust that he's here to find the right person.
00:05:41And I just hope that he's true to his word.
00:05:48While Lyndall and Cameron make their honeymoon departure for Fraser Island.
00:05:52Let's do it.
00:05:53Honeymoon.
00:05:54And Bronte and Harrison for the Hunter Valley.
00:05:58Two more couples have been matched and are about to start their own unique journey in the experiment.
00:06:14Both my parents are Indian Punjabi.
00:06:17So I'm a first generation Australian.
00:06:20I'm very much Australian.
00:06:21But in saying that, I've grown up at home.
00:06:24Very rooted in culture.
00:06:25I speak two Indian languages.
00:06:27And I love all of it.
00:06:28And I respect all of it.
00:06:30But being very much Indian but also Australian, the hardest thing is meshing those two together.
00:06:37There's a certain expectation with Indian girls that they have to be a certain way.
00:06:43And talking to boys, having male friends, even just going to a party, being around males was not the norm.
00:06:51So for me, honestly, I think doing something like this, I'm going to have to go up against culture, tradition,
00:06:56my parents.
00:06:57That's huge for me.
00:06:59Especially as a woman in my culture.
00:07:03I've never had a relationship.
00:07:04I've never had a boyfriend, never lived with someone.
00:07:07Because I've grown up in a society or community where I'm always making decisions based on what my parents want,
00:07:14or what the community want, or what's expected of me.
00:07:18But I shouldn't have to worry about what other people think.
00:07:21I need to make decisions for me.
00:07:23Where do you stand in terms of dating?
00:07:26It's all new.
00:07:28Because even though I'm 36, I feel like a 20-year-old in the dating world.
00:07:32Because I'm not experienced in relationships, when I first meet men, firstly I put up a front, because I'm trying
00:07:37to protect myself.
00:07:40So, and I feel like I don't give an opportunity to show men who I really am, because my walls
00:07:44come up.
00:07:45They see a side of me that isn't truly me.
00:07:48So I think through the experiment, it gives me that experience of spending time with someone long term, where they
00:07:54can maybe help me break down those barriers, and get to know who I am underneath, and appreciate that person.
00:08:00That's what I'm looking for from this.
00:08:04As extreme as this is, honestly, I feel empowered to think that I'm making this decision just for me.
00:08:11Like, it's purely for me.
00:08:13And it's only reinforced even more how much I want to meet the right person for me.
00:08:21How have your friends inspired you?
00:08:22My friends, I've actually had friends say this to me, but it's probably not a nice thing.
00:08:27It is a nice thing, but it doesn't sound nice.
00:08:29They'll be like, girl, you have big dick energy.
00:08:32Like, you're the kind of person, like, you're kind, you're sweet, but you don't mess with you.
00:08:37I'm driven, I'm ambitious, I look after myself, I've got my own business.
00:08:41I'm going to start with your lower teeth first.
00:08:44You know, I've got my shit together.
00:08:45And now I want to meet someone with the same values, someone I can trust, who's driven and ambitious.
00:08:53They have goals, they want something out of life.
00:08:55They're always, they're striving for more.
00:08:57That's important because if it is the right person, this decision will be worth it.
00:09:03I'm a very driven person, and I've worked so hard, always striving to get to that next step, you know.
00:09:09So I've accomplished quite a bit in life.
00:09:12I own a digital marketing agency, and I've owned the company for 20 years, and it just continues to grow
00:09:18from strength to strength.
00:09:20But my biggest success is definitely my daughter, Keely.
00:09:25I hope she's genuine, because you are very genuine, and I hope she's driven too, just like you.
00:09:33Tell me about what you find attractive in a woman.
00:09:35Someone that is strong and independent, is sure about herself, that lives a life of purpose, guided by her own
00:09:44strong values.
00:09:45That's a really important thing for me, because I like supporting them in their own growth and their own path.
00:09:53Dan brings a lot to the table in terms of stability.
00:09:57And I think for Sandy, who has been brought up in a very strict household, he could be the guy
00:10:02to guide her through this whole experience.
00:10:06The onus is going to be on Dan to establish that.
00:10:09This is a safe space. Step into a space with me.
00:10:12I know for a fact Sandy feels very afraid of being judged for her lack of experience.
00:10:19But he does, I think, have that sensitivity to really take things slow and really get to know her.
00:10:25With Sandy and Dan matched and ready to enter the experiment, it's time to meet a groom with the potential
00:10:34to be the most polarising the experiment has ever seen.
00:10:41Do you get the ick quite easily?
00:10:43Ah, yes I do. And it's funny you ask that, because I actually brought a list to remind me of
00:10:53just how much icks me about dating.
00:10:59Are we ready?
00:11:01I think the best place to start is girls who are addicted to their phones, social media, motivational quotes, hustle
00:11:07and grinding.
00:11:08Who do you think you are? Any girl who calls me honey, sweetie.
00:11:11You're not my auntie. Chicks who are always talking, who always interrupt you.
00:11:18Any girl who starts a sentence with, oh my god, babe.
00:11:22Star sign chicks. Oh my god, that's such a Libra thing to do.
00:11:25I'm not Libra. Now you're getting agitated. That's such a Leo thing.
00:11:29Not a Leo either. What are you then? My birthday's in July.
00:11:31That makes total sense now. Shut up.
00:11:34Mirror selfies, dirt on the mirror, gym photos, butt, boob, bikini.
00:11:39Chicks who pout.
00:11:43Moving on.
00:11:44Are you ready to have these two marriage say yes?
00:11:47I became a marriage celebrant because I went to a wedding and it was like, boring.
00:11:55Listen, I used to play in a metal band.
00:11:58And I knew that if I was in the driver's seat, it would be fun, loud, entertaining.
00:12:10And as a marriage celebrant, I have married 625 couples exactly.
00:12:16But I've been single now for seven years.
00:12:20And I know I'm very picky and perhaps I just need a wake-up call because the worst part of
00:12:26being single for so long and working as a marriage celebrant is when I'm driving home from a wedding.
00:12:34And I just want to debrief with someone and tell them about how great the wedding was and how much
00:12:39love was in the air and how much fun we had.
00:12:41And I've got no one to call, you know, that's the worst.
00:12:47That's the worst, that's the worst fear.
00:12:49Yeah.
00:12:50I think it's about time it's my turn to fall in love.
00:12:56I pride myself on being an individual and knowing that I don't just blend in.
00:13:01So the perfect partner would be someone who's a bit out there, you know, who's a bit edgy.
00:13:06Someone who's not afraid to be different, you know, someone kind of like me.
00:13:14And tattoos is like the green flag.
00:13:22I actually have a tattoo of a HQ Kingswood.
00:13:26And if I was a muscle car, I would be full of grunts.
00:13:30I would be fast.
00:13:31I would be sexy.
00:13:32I'd be sleek.
00:13:34Give me the oldest, loudest, most petrol-smelling car.
00:13:39I just love them.
00:13:43Growing up in a Greek family, I am unapologetically myself all the time.
00:13:49Does anyone ever say to you, hey, you know, Claire, you're too loud?
00:13:54Oh, absolutely.
00:13:55Too loud, too much, too energetic.
00:13:57Sit down, be quiet.
00:13:58That's enough.
00:14:00All right, calm down.
00:14:02Well, that doesn't stop you, doesn't it?
00:14:04That doesn't stop you?
00:14:05No.
00:14:06Makes you want to be louder.
00:14:08Good.
00:14:09Good.
00:14:09Because that's the real you, isn't it?
00:14:11Yeah, absolutely.
00:14:12I show this brave, confident, beaming, strong energy.
00:14:17But I am soft and I am romantic and I am sensitive.
00:14:21And I think it's a big part of why I do the job that I do.
00:14:26I'm a kindergarten assistant and it gives me so much joy and fulfilment to work with kids
00:14:32and experience their pure energy, their love.
00:14:35And it makes me realise that I have a lot of love to give.
00:14:40I think I need someone who sees me for who I am.
00:14:42Someone who is funny, is honest, knows themself, can express themself, who's like,
00:14:52Yay, I love you, look, that's my girl.
00:14:56Claire is very sure of herself, very well connected, very empathic.
00:15:01I think she's really going to get a kick out of the particularities of Jessie.
00:15:05Yes, he's quirky.
00:15:07That's going to take a little bit of time for her to adjust to.
00:15:10But I love what they bring.
00:15:11She's someone who's very confident in her own skin.
00:15:15She's full of empathy and sensitivity.
00:15:17And so if anyone is going to come to the party with Jessie's quirkiness, it's Claire.
00:15:23Our next two couples, Sandy and Dan, and Claire and Jessie, are ready to get married.
00:15:34With the weddings fast approaching, in Melbourne, Sandy has yet to tell her conservative,
00:15:41Indian parents about her decision to wed via the experiment.
00:15:47Telling my parents about this today is honestly the biggest thing I've ever had to do.
00:15:55I love my parents and I want the acceptance, but I know a part of them is going to really
00:16:01struggle with this decision that I've made.
00:16:03As an Indian girl, you are expected to be a little more subservient.
00:16:07You know, especially if your mother or father tells you to do something, you just do it.
00:16:11But the biggest issue for them will be, what's the community going to say?
00:16:14What are people going to say?
00:16:15It's almost like in Indian culture, the word privacy doesn't exist.
00:16:19Everyone has an opinion about everyone else and what they're doing.
00:16:22So every time we want to do something for ourselves that doesn't seem culturally appropriate,
00:16:29the community, they make us feel that we're doing something wrong.
00:16:34But that's the narrative I'm trying to change.
00:16:37So I think for me the most important thing would be that my parents understand that I made this decision
00:16:42for me.
00:16:42For my happiness, to find love, to basically find everything that they actually want from me anyway.
00:16:50If they can just understand that, that's the key.
00:16:56But Sandy's parents are unwilling to allow cameras inside the house.
00:17:02So the crew must wait outside for Sandy to return.
00:17:29It doesn't need a second.
00:17:36How'd it go?
00:17:40It's not good.
00:17:42You know, the initial gut reaction, as I expected, was just like, what are you doing?
00:17:48My dad was saying, like, he just can't accept this decision.
00:17:51Mum's like, why is she doing this to us?
00:17:57Like, I just felt so bad when mum was like, oh.
00:18:01If she's going to do this, we don't want anything to do with her.
00:18:07I don't know.
00:18:09They kept saying, like, what if, you know, they make fun of you or what are people going to say?
00:18:14But they need to stop caring about what other people think and just let me make my decisions and live
00:18:19my life based on what's good for me.
00:18:23And ultimately, that's all that should matter.
00:18:28But despite her parents' lack of support, Sandy is drawing strength and fortitude from her friends.
00:18:36I actually have a beautiful text from my best friend.
00:18:40Can I read the text from my best friend?
00:18:42It was, it's literally what turned everything around for me last night.
00:18:46And I just went, f*** it.
00:18:48I'm doing the right thing.
00:18:50So, Rumi sent me this text.
00:18:52I called her last night when I was at the airport crying, saying my parents aren't on board.
00:18:57I don't know what to do.
00:18:58As per usual, I'm starting to have doubts now.
00:19:01And she said, I just wanted to let you know what a queen you are.
00:19:05Taking control of your life, pushing yourself away out of your comfort zone and setting new boundaries.
00:19:10I have always admired your confidence and selflessness.
00:19:13And now so many other women will too.
00:19:15You're going to be a voice for so many girls.
00:19:17The one that is stuck under her parents' roof, too scared to pursue her dreams.
00:19:21The girl stuck in a loveless marriage, unable to leave because she fears community judgment.
00:19:26The girl that has never dated and doesn't know how to put herself out there.
00:19:30The Korea girl who wants a Korean TV but has never seen an Indian figure on screen whom she can
00:19:34relate to.
00:19:35Above and beyond everything, you are shattering the stigma of an Indian girl being raised to just be obedient daughters.
00:19:42And then obedient wives and daughters-in-law.
00:19:49People are going to see that you can be a loving daughter and an astute businesswoman.
00:19:53A selfless friend.
00:19:55A humble and grounded role model.
00:19:57Who was having a strong voice for those who cannot.
00:20:00I want you to remember you are always supported.
00:20:02I got you.
00:20:03I am so proud to call you my best friend.
00:20:05Love you.
00:20:11It's because of reasons like that I'm like, I'm making the right decision.
00:20:27As two brave couples ready themselves for their wedding day, Sandy's sisters arrive to ensure that preparations are in hand.
00:20:42It's gone darker.
00:20:42Oh wow, it turned out really dark.
00:20:45Do you know what that means?
00:20:46Your mother-in-law is going to love you.
00:20:47And, no, they also say that that means that your husband is going to love you, right?
00:20:51Well, he better.
00:20:54I haven't spoken to my parents since I told them, but my siblings are everything to me.
00:21:00I'm the oldest of four.
00:21:05I mean, my parents won't be here, but it's a big day for, not just for me, but my family.
00:21:12Because I'm the first one to get married out of all the siblings.
00:21:15So, yeah, yeah, it just makes me feel like I've got family here and I've got support.
00:21:22You knew you always wanted to be like a traditional bride.
00:21:25Definitely.
00:21:25You know, with the henna and all the jewellery and the red.
00:21:29I think ever since you were young, remember when you used to dress up as a young kid?
00:21:33The photo we've got of you in the red is like dressed up as a bride.
00:21:38You know, I've dreamt my whole life dressing up as a bride and what I'm going to look like.
00:21:42And it is the biggest day of my life.
00:21:44And now you're doing it in real life.
00:21:46Dreams do come true.
00:21:52Marriage is extremely important in Indian culture.
00:21:56And I've always dreamt that my wedding would be Indian.
00:21:59I would be wearing an Indian bridal outfit.
00:22:02It'd be bright red.
00:22:03I'd have all my jewellery on.
00:22:05I'd have all those elements that you don't do unless you're the bride.
00:22:19Look at you.
00:22:20So beautiful.
00:22:22As a child, this is what I dreamt.
00:22:24This is what I look like on my wedding day.
00:22:25It's actually all come together.
00:22:26Yeah.
00:22:30It's kind of weird though.
00:22:31Like the fact that mum's not here.
00:22:33I would love for my mum to see me as a bride.
00:22:35But I mean, to think that most of my love for like Indian clothes and jewellery, it comes
00:22:40from my mum.
00:22:41So it's really hard for me that she's not going to get to see that.
00:22:45So I really hope that with my new partner, his family are on board and they're supportive
00:22:50of this decision.
00:22:52Good morning.
00:22:53Morning.
00:22:54Today's the big day.
00:22:56I know.
00:22:56That's so exciting.
00:22:57My daughter, Keely, she can't be here unfortunately, but her and I have such a close relationship
00:23:03and a close bond.
00:23:04I just want to make sure that you have your support.
00:23:07Yeah, you do 100%.
00:23:09That means the world to me.
00:23:10She's wanted me to find a new partner for a while now and to have her support means everything.
00:23:15I just want to know who she is and what she looks like.
00:23:18Well, hopefully you get to meet her soon.
00:23:19All of the big decisions that I make in my life, I have her in the back of my mind
00:23:26considering
00:23:27whether or not I would be doing her proud.
00:23:30But I'm certainly not looking for another mother or stepmother to Keely.
00:23:35She's 16 years old now.
00:23:36She's carving out her own path in life.
00:23:38I'm looking for a friend and a teammate.
00:23:42Someone that Keely can look up to, be inspired by.
00:23:48I'm putting my whole life out there.
00:23:52So it's the cultural sensitivities too.
00:23:58Okay, okay, okay.
00:23:59My parents don't want me to be on a screen with a man, being affectionate, because that's
00:24:06usually something that's not seen as a positive for an Indian girl.
00:24:10It's all about like the whole, what are people going to think?
00:24:13What are people going to say thing?
00:24:15It's kind of like ingrained as well.
00:24:17Yeah, that's what I'm trying to change.
00:24:21Not worrying about that and focusing on what I want.
00:24:25I'm the one who decides to find love based on what I'm looking for, what my criteria is.
00:24:32That was the whole point of doing this, having faith in the fact that they will find me someone
00:24:35that's meant to be my person.
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:37Perfect for me.
00:24:49Oh, my God.
00:24:54This is not what I expected.
00:24:58Not what I expected.
00:25:00Wow, this is a bit over top.
00:25:02Has Dan seen this?
00:25:05I'm going into this with an open heart and an open mind, but my friends are very protective
00:25:10of me and they just want the best for me.
00:25:13They want me to be happy and I really value their opinions.
00:25:17Wow.
00:25:17Oh, my goodness.
00:25:20This is not at all what I expected.
00:25:25It's got to be, like, time, like Indian or something.
00:25:34Oh, my God.
00:25:35I told you.
00:25:37I've dated women that are from all different walks of life, but my type's definitely someone
00:25:43that's very genuine, very driven and lives her own authentic life.
00:25:47And my friends have a great read on what is right for me, so I can't wait to have a
00:25:52chat
00:25:52with them all about, you know, what they think.
00:25:54Dan doesn't know what he's in for.
00:25:57I don't know if this is what he signed up for either.
00:26:01I think my biggest concern is him accepting me because I'm expecting someone who's not
00:26:07Indian.
00:26:14And sometimes people judge a book by its cover.
00:26:17Given that, you know, I'm going to be walking down the aisle looking a little different to
00:26:20what most people are used to, what a bride looks like in a white dress.
00:26:25If it was reversed and I didn't know what to expect.
00:26:29I'd probably be a little bit shocked initially as well.
00:26:31Kind of like, oh, what's going on?
00:26:33Like, hopefully he doesn't make any snap judgments based on that.
00:26:37And he's a very accepting person.
00:26:42I hope he likes Julie.
00:26:45It's killing.
00:26:47Yeah, wow.
00:26:50Oh, God.
00:26:51This is way outside my comfort zone because I'm uncomfortable being around men.
00:26:57I haven't been in those situations a lot.
00:27:00So I have built up these walls.
00:27:03And I know I can be a little bit standoffish.
00:27:06So as I'm walking down the aisle, that's when I'm going to start really stressing out about
00:27:11saying my vows and looking at him.
00:27:13And yeah, just all that stuff's going to freak me out.
00:27:16All right, let's bring it, Rena, I reckon.
00:27:18Yeah, I know, right?
00:27:21I'm ready.
00:27:23But I need someone that's just going to push through that bit and still be there.
00:27:28Because with everything that I've put on the line to be here, I need this to work.
00:27:41Wow.
00:27:43Oh, my God.
00:27:44Oh, my God.
00:27:50Thank you, bro.
00:27:54Hello.
00:27:56Hi, how are you?
00:27:58I'm Dan.
00:27:59Nice to meet you, Dan.
00:27:59I'm Sandy.
00:28:00Sandy, nice to meet you.
00:28:02She's not what I expected.
00:28:04Not at all.
00:28:06I'm shocked.
00:28:13I'm shocked.
00:28:26You know, I definitely wasn't expecting this, that's for sure.
00:28:53Yeah, no, I definitely wasn't expecting this, that's for sure.
00:28:57Just a tonne of emotions just hit me at once.
00:29:00I feel really exposed.
00:29:02And I feel vulnerable because coming in with my culture and, you know, not being what would be expected.
00:29:09It's quite unusual.
00:29:12I felt this, like, all of a sudden, this overwhelming pressure of, oh, what are people going to think?
00:29:16What are they going to say?
00:29:18Is he going to accept me, the way I'm looking and what I'm wearing?
00:29:22Because, yeah.
00:29:24There's a lot on the line for me.
00:29:28Wow.
00:29:29You look beautiful.
00:29:32You know this?
00:29:33Yeah.
00:29:33Yeah, me too.
00:29:34Thanks.
00:29:36I can see Sandy's nose.
00:29:42But the whole outfit and all of the jewellery is absolutely incredible.
00:29:47I'm sure that that's all part of her culture and her heritage, which really excites me.
00:29:53Jesus.
00:29:54While we're in it together.
00:29:55Yeah.
00:29:56That's what we'll get through.
00:29:56It's very good.
00:29:57Yeah.
00:29:57I do feel a little spark.
00:30:00Yeah.
00:30:02Looking forward to this, Jamie.
00:30:04It'll be fun.
00:30:05It's going to be good.
00:30:06It'll be fun.
00:30:07Yeah.
00:30:09Welcome, family and friends, as we gather here to witness and celebrate the marriage
00:30:14of Sandy and Dan.
00:30:18We will now hear Sandy and Dan state their personal commitments to each other.
00:30:25Oh, I have to go first, isn't it?
00:30:26Okay.
00:30:27That'd be good.
00:30:28Okay.
00:30:36So you're probably wondering what's with the get up, but please don't take this as a giant
00:30:41red flag.
00:30:45That's good.
00:30:46I'm cute.
00:30:48She's cool.
00:30:49In India, which is my heritage, in case you're still wondering, red signifies auspiciousness,
00:30:54prosperity, good luck and new beginnings.
00:30:57So this is how I want to start our journey.
00:31:01That's beautiful.
00:31:04I may come across as a strong, fearless woman, but growing up as a first generation Indian
00:31:08in the 90s has been challenging.
00:31:11Being different, accepting myself for who I am, conforming to and meeting the expectations
00:31:16of my parents and the community, whilst finding my identity as an Australian woman.
00:31:21I have taken strides in building my career and becoming fiercely independent.
00:31:25You go, girl.
00:31:26My fear of rejection has held me back from becoming vulnerable and pursuing my happily ever after.
00:31:31As I've gotten older and wiser, I've learned that putting up barriers is my defence mechanism.
00:31:36So I ask that you are patient with me, because I promise you that beyond that,
00:31:40you will find a version of me that is compassionate, caring and loves unconditionally.
00:31:44Oh, I love you.
00:31:45She's amazing.
00:31:47So, dear husband, why am I doing this?
00:31:51Because I've learnt that a life lived in fear is a life half-lived.
00:31:56I'm done with just dipping my toes in.
00:31:58I'm putting my complete trust in the process and jumping in with both feet.
00:32:02Have your luck.
00:32:05Sandy seems like just a beautiful, beautiful woman, a beautiful soul.
00:32:10She's just got this beautiful, big smile on her face, these big, beautiful eyes.
00:32:15You look amazing.
00:32:16You look stunning.
00:32:17You do, too.
00:32:18You look good.
00:32:19You look stunning.
00:32:20You look so beautiful.
00:32:21Oh, thank you.
00:32:21You really do.
00:32:22I tried.
00:32:26She's got a great personality and an awesome sense of humour, so right now I feel really
00:32:31good.
00:32:32I feel like I'm in the right place.
00:32:35Sandy, hi.
00:32:38I stand before you today as a man that has lived and continues to live an extraordinary
00:32:43life.
00:32:45I'm a dad to a beautiful 16-year-old daughter who I adore.
00:32:51She's my absolute world.
00:32:57But now I'm ready to share my world with someone new.
00:33:01I promise to be patient while our feelings grow and take the time to get to know you whilst
00:33:06we've built a solid foundation of trust and friendship.
00:33:11So with all that being said, I look forward to creating some amazing memories with you
00:33:15and go on this extraordinary, fun, crazy and beautiful journey together.
00:33:39Just like exchanging of rings represents commitment and eternity, Sandy has asked that we include
00:33:46the Indian tradition where garlands are exchanged as a symbol of love.
00:33:49love and respect.
00:33:52So.
00:33:54That looks good on you.
00:33:57I'm really glad that with the whole cultural side, like my outfit, he was so embracing.
00:34:03And the interest from his side just tells me that he's an open-minded individual.
00:34:09This is the fun bit.
00:34:16And he seems really fun.
00:34:18Like, he just seems like a nice guy.
00:34:20Like, yeah, I don't know.
00:34:21I've got a good feeling.
00:34:23We're going to get along just fine.
00:34:25Sandy and Dan, it is now my absolute pleasure to pronounce you as husband and wife.
00:34:44I was hoping for an initial connection, and I certainly feel that we've got that.
00:34:49But also, I feel like I've got a lot that I'm going to learn from Sandy.
00:34:57It's the best possible outcome that I could ask for, and I have this huge feeling that this is going
00:35:05to be the first day in the rest of my life.
00:35:07Wow.
00:35:08Oh, my God, what?
00:35:10Oh, my God, what?
00:35:17On Claire and Jessie's wedding day, eager and optimistic bride Claire is putting her full faith in the experiment.
00:35:25And I feel a sense of calm knowing that fate has brought us here today.
00:35:32I'm ready to find my forever person, and I just feel like this is how it's meant to be.
00:35:40The universe has given me someone who is just so suited to my personality, who has this fun energy about
00:35:49him.
00:35:51I believe that the universe gave me this opportunity, said, I've got you, here's your person, you're going to marry
00:35:59this person.
00:36:00And I just wish nothing more than I'll happily ever after.
00:36:06All right, boys.
00:36:08Hey.
00:36:09What do you think?
00:36:11Yeah.
00:36:13It's out there.
00:36:17If you didn't know me, and you'd see this loud, bright pink suit, this hair, you'd go, sum it up
00:36:26with that guy.
00:36:27So, in an ideal world, she's high energy.
00:36:32We both try to find fun in moments.
00:36:35Hello.
00:36:36I'm ready.
00:36:38This is so amazing.
00:36:40I feel so beautiful.
00:36:41I feel so excited.
00:36:45I'm about to get married.
00:36:49I wonder if I'll go red.
00:36:52I wonder if she'll be so hot, and I'm just like, oh, my God.
00:36:57The closer we get, the more excited I'm getting.
00:36:59And I can feel the magnitude of this experiment swelling up in me.
00:37:06And, of course, the...
00:37:09In my chest.
00:37:17But you know what?
00:37:19I'm ready as I'll ever be.
00:37:23It feels like I've just, like, strapped into a roller coaster.
00:37:28And that anticipation of, like, you've got no idea what this ride has in store for you.
00:37:34You know, you just accept your fate.
00:37:53This may very well be the craziest thing I've ever done.
00:37:57It's so good to see you guys.
00:38:00Hello, everyone.
00:38:03But I'm ready to do it.
00:38:04Let's go.
00:38:07Oh, my God.
00:38:11Who do we have in the front row?
00:38:13Family?
00:38:14I'm Jackie.
00:38:15I'm the bridesmaid.
00:38:16Forget that.
00:38:17Forget that.
00:38:18I'm Dad.
00:38:22Your dad.
00:38:23That's it.
00:38:25Hello, sir.
00:38:31Right now, I'm super excited.
00:38:34Stand up.
00:38:35Shake it out.
00:38:38You know.
00:38:39Crack my neck.
00:38:41Did you hear that?
00:38:43Oh, God.
00:38:46Yeah.
00:38:47I'm definitely ready to meet her.
00:38:49I'm coming for you, baby.
00:38:51We are getting married.
00:38:55When I walk down that aisle, I want to see this big smile.
00:39:00Somebody who is as excited as I am.
00:39:03And I hope that he sees this confident, beaming, positive, happy woman walking towards him.
00:39:10And because I really believe that this is just the beginning of our little love story.
00:39:16It starts right here.
00:39:18Right now.
00:39:32Oh, my God.
00:39:36Her eyes.
00:39:39Her hair.
00:39:41Hi.
00:39:42Just the whole body language.
00:39:45She's ungodly hot.
00:39:49Hi.
00:39:52Hello.
00:39:53Hi.
00:39:53Hi.
00:39:54I'm Claire.
00:39:56Jessie.
00:39:58Love your suit.
00:40:03Yes.
00:40:05I'm so happy.
00:40:10I love a man that is not afraid to wear pink.
00:40:13And he's really good looking.
00:40:15He's so cute.
00:40:18I didn't know I loved a man bun until I loved a man bun.
00:40:23Oh, my God.
00:40:26Oh, my God.
00:40:27He looks so cool.
00:40:29So you.
00:40:30I don't even know what to say.
00:40:33What's this?
00:40:36It's a love heart hanging in a noose.
00:40:39Cream.
00:40:40Love it.
00:40:43I've got a love heart on fire, so same thing.
00:40:46Cool.
00:40:46Cool, cool, cool, cool.
00:40:52Buongiorno to everyone.
00:40:55Claire and Jessie have written personal vows to one another.
00:41:11First of all, thank you for putting your life on hold at a chance of finding true love.
00:41:16The woman who walked herself down the aisle today is a strong, confident, independent go-getter, vivacious, and at times
00:41:26I will admit a little direct, but always meaning the best and never with malice.
00:41:32My nurturing and loving side means that your cup will never be empty and your belly will always be full.
00:41:41All I ask from you in return is that you communicate your emotions with me and you remain true to
00:41:49yourself.
00:41:55Claire.
00:41:57I thought in order to add some flavour to the vows, I'd rip the band-aid off and get some
00:42:02skeletons out of the closet straight away.
00:42:04Oh, God.
00:42:08Oh, no.
00:42:10They're not that bad.
00:42:15My favourite genre of music is the brutal slamming tech death metal.
00:42:24Um, I'm happy to listen to this by myself.
00:42:29My jaw clicks quite loudly when I eat.
00:42:35Are you kidding me?
00:42:37I'm not kidding you.
00:42:41Sorry.
00:42:43I'm sorry.
00:42:45Are you ready?
00:42:46I'm sorry.
00:42:48Oh, my God.
00:42:51We are so weird.
00:42:53That is crazy.
00:42:56But that's the bad stuff out of the way and, of course, it's not all bad.
00:43:05It's pretty weird that I'm standing in, um, sorry.
00:43:12It's totally fine.
00:43:16It's weird that I'm standing here in this position, because usually at weddings, I'm standing in that position.
00:43:22And that's funny.
00:43:24Yeah.
00:43:26Working as a marriage celebrant, I'm literally surrounded by marriage and love on most days of the week.
00:43:31And although I love what I do, it also shines a powerful spotlight on the lack of love in my
00:43:37own life.
00:43:43I don't know where love has been hiding all these years.
00:44:03And I don't know what more I can do to make my light any easier.
00:44:09If I love to find.
00:44:14Because I swear I'm shining so brightly.
00:44:20Yeah, you are.
00:44:26Thanks.
00:44:29He is beautiful.
00:44:33I love, I, like, love, love when a guy can express his emotions.
00:44:38Can I get a tissue?
00:44:40That is massive for me.
00:44:42He's digging all my boxes so far.
00:44:45To have Claire's support during that moment was sick.
00:44:50That felt awesome.
00:44:52And, you know, she's, she's so hot.
00:44:58Claire and Jessie, it is with heartfelt pleasure, and now pronounce your husband and wife.
00:45:16I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love
00:45:20you, I love you, I love you, I love you.
00:45:22There's a spark for sure.
00:45:26For sure.
00:45:33I am the LMA.
00:45:36What is the LMA?
00:45:38The luckiest man alive.
00:45:48At Claire and Jessie's photo shoot, they're proving to be the perfect pair.
00:45:54Oh, oh my God, yes!
00:45:58We look so cute.
00:46:00Best day ever, Bob.
00:46:02While Sandy and Dan's reception is kicking off with a bang.
00:46:25I feel so lucky to experience Sandy's culture and her background, and it's something that really interests me and excites
00:46:32me.
00:46:32Oh, right, seriously?
00:46:34Yeah.
00:46:35How cool.
00:46:35The drums?
00:46:36I did, yeah, the drums were cool.
00:46:38Yeah, so that's Punjabi.
00:46:39So, like, I'm Indian, but I'm Punjabi Indian, so that music you're listening to is Punjabi music.
00:46:43Yeah, okay, yeah, cool.
00:46:44Well, it's your heritage, right?
00:46:46Yeah, I'm proud of you.
00:46:46And it's something that you want to honour and carry forward.
00:46:48Yeah, I'm proud of you.
00:46:48I completely understand and get that.
00:46:50So, I wanted to ask you as well, I did notice your parents aren't here.
00:46:54Oh, okay.
00:46:56Can I ask?
00:46:57Um, just, I mean, yeah, I think they just don't really understand this whole concept.
00:47:03It's a very conservative culture where you don't really show your personal life to other people.
00:47:07Of course.
00:47:07You keep everything private.
00:47:08Yeah.
00:47:08So, it's just going to take them time to understand, yeah.
00:47:10I get it.
00:47:11They just want the best for you.
00:47:12Yeah, they do, and it comes from love.
00:47:14Of course.
00:47:14Yeah, and it also comes from a place of fear, because they're always fearful of, like, oh, what could go
00:47:18wrong?
00:47:19What could happen?
00:47:19And I get that.
00:47:20Yeah.
00:47:21But they've also got to let me make my decisions.
00:47:23They've raised me to be this independent woman.
00:47:25Yeah.
00:47:25And I'm 36 years old.
00:47:27I know who I am.
00:47:28I can make decisions for myself.
00:47:29Let me make those.
00:47:30Yeah.
00:47:31So.
00:47:31What I'm getting to know about Sandy is she's very much a trailblazer, which is something I really respect and
00:47:36admire.
00:47:36If you make a decision and there's fear, it's probably a good reason to make that decision, get out in
00:47:42your comfort zone, do something different, because you'll grow, you'll learn.
00:47:45Absolutely.
00:47:46I think she's got a very strong sense of self.
00:47:48I think that's really important, because that's what I try to teach my daughter.
00:47:53So, for her to be able to see that in another woman is exactly what I've been looking for.
00:48:05At Claire and Jessie's wedding, their strong initial attraction continues to grow at their reception.
00:48:11There is definitely some chemistry.
00:48:14It's like when you're trying to jumpstart a car and you put those two red and black things, like, bang,
00:48:21the spark is there.
00:48:24It's really weird if I feed you.
00:48:25Is it, like, way too soon as well?
00:48:28Um, no, I'm game.
00:48:31Meow.
00:48:36I'll tell you what, man.
00:48:38Someone that hot doing that is really good.
00:48:43Mm-hmm.
00:48:44Yum.
00:48:44It's just, like, Jesus.
00:48:48What a sick chick.
00:48:51It's the kindergarten teacher in me.
00:48:52I'm sorry.
00:48:54She's perfect.
00:48:57It's almost too much.
00:49:02When's your birthday again?
00:49:07July the 2nd.
00:49:10I'm no cancer.
00:49:15I hate the star sign cheeks.
00:49:19Okay.
00:49:21So, do you know about star signs?
00:49:28At all?
00:49:32I'll tell you one day.
00:49:33I'll tell you more about it.
00:49:37Oh, hell.
00:49:40She's a star sign chick.
00:49:51Say it how annoying I think they are.
00:49:54And then he or she is super passionate about it.
00:49:56That is just so...
00:49:58So me.
00:50:02What about, like, crystals?
00:50:06Yeah, you know what, really?
00:50:09So if I was to, like, pull one out of my bra...
00:50:13Like, right now.
00:50:18It's about balancing between, um, self-love and mutual love, so.
00:50:26It was a bit like, oh, okay.
00:50:29And I hate to say it because it sounds so lame.
00:50:34But I'm concerned that we're moving into ick territory.
00:50:44I really believe in them.
00:50:47What makes you feel good, that's all that matters to me.
00:50:49Yeah, that's really nice.
00:50:53Alright.
00:50:54I need to be careful here.
00:50:58Sorry, I just have to reserve myself right now.
00:51:06If I get the ick, I can start to find everything unbelievably annoying.
00:51:21Favourite chubbies.
00:51:27Grain waves.
00:51:38Grain wave is, like, with a dip.
00:51:41No, like, Jats is with a dip.
00:51:46Oh, man.
00:51:59I think Dan is amazing.
00:52:02I'm having a great time.
00:52:03I'm myself.
00:52:04I see.
00:52:05But I just want to get that reassurance that he's willing to actually get to know me as a person.
00:52:10And be patient with me.
00:52:11I had a really fun night tonight.
00:52:13And I want you to know that no matter what you might be feeling with your parents not being here
00:52:17and being absent,
00:52:19that you've got me through this, okay?
00:52:21And there's no rush, either, from my perspective.
00:52:24Like, to me, it's all about growing this organically.
00:52:27So, being patient and building trust over time.
00:52:30And I want you to know that I've got your back.
00:52:33That's important.
00:52:34I was going to say, if you've got my back, we're good.
00:52:36Absolutely.
00:52:36Because I'm a very loyal person.
00:52:38I mean, for the long haul, it's not just, yeah.
00:52:41That makes two of us.
00:52:43Good.
00:52:43Yeah.
00:52:43Good.
00:52:44Dan makes me feel very safe.
00:52:46And not just comfortable, but, like, accepted.
00:52:51That's probably the best way to put it.
00:52:52Like, I feel accepted, and that's so important.
00:52:54Because all my life, that's what I've worked for, to be accepted.
00:52:59Oh, yeah.
00:53:00Woo!
00:53:01Woo!
00:53:03Let's go!
00:53:04Woo!
00:53:07Yeah, get it, buddy!
00:53:09Thank you!
00:53:10Thank you!
00:53:11Thank you!
00:53:19I've put a lot on the line to be here, but, I mean, I feel super empowered right now.
00:53:23Because I'm like, I've made this decision, I've followed through, I got to share my culture,
00:53:27all my friends were having fun, his family were having fun, they embraced the culture.
00:53:31It just makes me feel like, what I stepped out to do, I did.
00:53:36So, I'm really glad that I did this.
00:53:39Because it seems worth it.
00:53:40Woo!
00:53:41Woo!
00:53:41Woo!
00:53:41Woo!
00:53:42Woo!
00:53:42Woo!
00:53:44Woo!
00:53:48Woo!
00:53:48Woo!
00:53:49While Sandy and Dan end their day on a high, Jesse's infamous ick factor is looming,
00:53:59and threatening to jeopardise his initial electric connection with new wife, Claire.
00:54:06How's your day been?
00:54:09Was it what you, like, thought it was going to be?
00:54:12Like, when I first saw you, like, when I first saw you, I thought, he seems really little
00:54:17from here, but maybe it's because we're far away.
00:54:19And then, when I got closer and I saw you in this amazing look, I was just so happy.
00:54:27Yeah.
00:54:29Oh, man.
00:54:30Oh, man.
00:54:31The star signs?
00:54:33That's a turn off.
00:54:35And I'm just realising how, how, um, just how much she has started to tick me off.
00:54:44Can you relax a bit more?
00:54:46Oh, man.
00:54:46I mean, this dress is tight.
00:54:48Yeah.
00:54:49We're in ick territory.
00:54:55And it's, it's pretty bad, man.
00:54:57Okay, so, wait, I got you something.
00:55:00Oh.
00:55:03And, I already don't know how you're going to feel about it.
00:55:07Okay.
00:55:09So, you know, like, we were talking before about, like, spirituality and crystals and star signs
00:55:16and that sort of stuff.
00:55:17And, so, I got you a little crystal.
00:55:22For me, I liked how it looked.
00:55:26It is for moments of your life that are really transformative.
00:55:32And going from one stage of your life to another.
00:55:35So, like, huge changes.
00:55:36Which, you know, we've gone from, we've gone from single to married.
00:55:43Like, we just got married.
00:55:45Like, seriously.
00:55:49Would you say that you've got high standards?
00:55:52I would say that, yeah.
00:55:54All right.
00:55:54Well, hit me with some of those deal breakers for you, if you like.
00:55:58Things that give you the ick.
00:56:01Oh, man.
00:56:02There's, there's a lot.
00:56:03Well, I've got time.
00:56:05Um, like, CrossFit chicks and powerlifters.
00:56:10Like, great, that's great for them.
00:56:11Sure.
00:56:12That's not, not for me.
00:56:13Chicks who, the best thing they have to say about themselves is how much they love dogs.
00:56:17That is such a turnoff.
00:56:19Like, you can like dogs.
00:56:21That's great.
00:56:21But surely there's something better you can say about yourself.
00:56:26I'm enjoying this list.
00:56:27Is there anything else on it that I need to know about?
00:56:30Another one is the star sign, the star sign chicks.
00:56:35Like, yeah, that's not me.
00:56:37While it's good to have a list of specifics that you want in a woman, where it might get
00:56:43you into trouble is that it rules out almost everybody, which, of course, means you stay
00:56:49single.
00:56:52You know, because I think to myself, Jesse, now we're going to match this guy with someone
00:56:56who, you know, is going to be fantastic, but it doesn't matter who we put you with,
00:57:03they're not going to meet every single one of those wish lists.
00:57:07So what do you do then, Jesse, if you get a great person, but on one or two things, she
00:57:14doesn't quite measure up?
00:57:16Do you literally cut and run?
00:57:19Or do you say, you know what, I've got to be open here and I've got to learn and embrace
00:57:23this?
00:57:27Maths, you're committed to it for eight weeks.
00:57:29It will highlight where you're going wrong and then put the mirror in front of you and
00:57:34say, what are you going to do about it?
00:57:39You know, I've been single so long.
00:57:41There's a lot of, um, there's a lot of banked up love that is sitting in here that I'm ready
00:57:48to, to give.
00:57:50So this adventure in front of me, I'm in it.
00:57:55I'm in this now.
00:57:57I'm, yeah, I'm ready to commit, you know?
00:57:59Mm-hmm.
00:58:04There's a, there's a man who's happy.
00:58:07Yeah.
00:58:07You're content.
00:58:08Because, well, I've just, like, figured it out, right?
00:58:11Put the pieces together.
00:58:12That's what we do.
00:58:16It carries a lot of, um, abundance in love, self-love.
00:58:22Helps you through negative stages and coming into beautiful relationships.
00:58:29You know, the more I think about it, is the crystal stuff for me?
00:58:33Well, no, but I'm not going to, I'm not going to hate on someone else's passion.
00:58:40Especially my brand new wife.
00:58:43Yeah, well, I mean, if it, if it means something to you, then it means something to me.
00:58:51That's really nice.
00:58:53Honestly, I think the best way forward is for me to respect her passion and try to change
00:58:59my boundaries.
00:59:02It's not going to change in 24 hours.
00:59:06But when someone's that hot, I need to try as best I can.
00:59:11Let's have a smooch.
00:59:14Okay.
00:59:23Cute.
00:59:25Cute.
00:59:37following a successful day of celebrations and despite sandy's inexperience with men
00:59:43she chose to share a bed with new husband dan morning hey how'd you sleep yeah good the bedtime
00:59:54routine just felt comfortable like we just got into pajamas got into bed yeah the pillow went in
01:00:00the middle and stayed there fun day yesterday it was everything i hoped for i think he could
01:00:05sense my boundaries what i was comfortable with what i wasn't he didn't push anything
01:00:09take things away yes yeah yeah that's it i don't know i feel like i'm here with someone who's a
01:00:15good person all right congratulations newlyweds it's time to fast track married life and what
01:00:23better way than to honeymoon in singapore yes how good the honeymoons are a key phase in the
01:00:30experiment as after the busy wedding days the couples must now spend the time together one-on-one
01:00:36we're off to singapore great surprise huh yeah so good i can't wait it's all about relaxing and
01:00:42getting to know each other whilst also learning how they mesh as a couple and settling into a brand new
01:00:57dynamic
01:00:58i love all this ancient architecture hey so beautiful yeah now i feel like i'm in singapore
01:01:07beautiful it's like they say when you can travel with someone that's a good sign it's what traveling
01:01:12is all about getting out there experiencing things together i definitely love this i really want to
01:01:15get it yeah oh that's pretty yeah do you like that that's very nice yeah it's very me i think
01:01:20you
01:01:20know after yesterday it just feels natural yeah which is just nice yeah it's where we need to be
01:01:28back in sydney after jesse spent his wedding day fighting the ick about claire's passion for star
01:01:35signs and crystals they're about to find out what destiny has in store for their honeymoon
01:01:43congratulations newlyweds you're headed to an exclusive intimate resort in the whit sunday
01:01:49oh my goodness yes i'm so excited oh yeah okay let's rock right now i'm so excited yeah i don't
01:02:00know
01:02:00what to expect on this honeymoon oh my god i mean we're gonna spend more time together which i love
01:02:07and we dealt with the stars on stuff yesterday oh we're gonna have sunshine no rain yes but
01:02:19okay honestly i'm just like getting an idea of what i'm about to be walking into with claire
01:02:23um i'm just in cute to go to the airport fyi cute yeah cute okay i'm just in good right
01:02:31i'm still
01:02:33sensing that there's some things that are probably going to annoy me do you know how to whistle
01:02:38why don't you whistle me the tune of your favorite song um no honestly i thought i was a high
01:02:47energy
01:02:47guy myself but compare me to claire i always pack undies like i'm gonna poo my pants every day
01:02:59all right all right are we the same person um no i'm packed okay yes we're gonna leave sundays
01:03:36having arrived in the whitsundays jesse's nitpicking has already knocked the couple off course
01:03:45after an incident on route at sydney airport in which jesse told his new wife to shush
01:03:55all i can say is just like shushing
01:04:01jesse actually shushed me a couple of times today and i did not like being shushed
01:04:09all right come here now
01:04:16we're in the airport just getting a few things for our honeymoon
01:04:19and maybe i laugh loud maybe i'm a little bit loud when i speak
01:04:23and he was like you joined your voice
01:04:28like one day in if you're already shushing me you are gonna have a hard time ahead of you buddy
01:04:35boy
01:04:35i just feel like i want to know so much about you and i have like so many questions
01:04:41yeah and i'm definitely noticing that
01:04:43yeah from you
01:04:45do you think i talk too much
01:04:58after being shushed at the airport claire is questioning why husband jesse
01:05:04seems so reluctant to get to know her
01:05:07i just feel like i want to know so much about you do you think i talk too much
01:05:15um
01:05:18no i don't think it's a question of whether you talk too much
01:05:23maybe it's a question of
01:05:26perhaps you feel like you need to say something in
01:05:30in a lot of moments where
01:05:34i should just shut up
01:05:39what do you mean by that
01:05:40i know that i can be quiet at times
01:05:45i think the main thing from my end in response to that is
01:05:51maybe nothing needs to be said in those times
01:05:53and the silence can
01:05:57you know what i mean
01:05:58do i
01:06:01i like hey maybe you don't
01:06:03i think claire can sometimes become unaware of how loud she's speaking
01:06:10and it's just how much she talks and comments
01:06:13i prefer quality conversation over quantity of conversation
01:06:20so maybe i'm too like rushed to know everything and need to like
01:06:26or is this a moment where i shouldn't be speaking
01:06:30you should be taking this time to get to know me on a deeper level
01:06:34but now i'm finding myself second guess
01:06:37kind of like everything i'm saying
01:06:39like should i be talking should i be talking softer
01:06:41like am i being too loud
01:06:43i mean it's it sucks like
01:06:54like i don't want to be like the needy girl
01:07:00that just always is wanting more
01:07:02like
01:07:03and it like confuses me
01:07:05like am i literally asking for too much
01:07:07do i need to just
01:07:10shush
01:07:18i do think i am a catch
01:07:21i really do
01:07:21but no one else seems to
01:07:23two new brides
01:07:26i'm ready for love
01:07:28please give me a good husband
01:07:30but what
01:07:31i haven't lived a perfect life
01:07:33i've done things i've regretted
01:07:35and i've lost myself along the way
01:07:37as mr right
01:07:38why are you planting doubt in my mind
01:07:41done so wrong
01:07:42one thing he said rubbed me the wrong way
01:07:46his job
01:07:47do you know anything about that
01:07:49a night shrouded in mystery
01:07:52what the
01:07:55must see tomorrow
01:07:57on nine and nine now
01:07:59you
01:08:00you
01:08:01you
01:08:02you
01:08:02you
01:08:02you
01:08:02you
01:08:02you
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