00:02and we'll decide if you are the a-hole right big al we're very honest and open i'm sorry i
00:08was
00:08bopping to the beat you love a good beat uh go ahead loren what is this uh today's am i
00:15the a-hole
00:15all right so um this am i the a-hole would like to stay anonymous i although i'm not sure
00:21why
00:21because i feel like the cat's out of the bag already anyway okay but she says um hey guys
00:27i work at a small marketing company and everyone there knows that raises are pretty much impossible
00:33unless you're one of the boss's favorites my boss is married mid-40s and definitely the type who
00:39enjoys attention from younger employees oh boy over the past few months i realized he seemed to be going
00:47out of his way to help me he would compliment my outfits laugh at my jokes and stop on my
00:51desk just
00:52to chat i started leaning into it a little bit nothing physical or inappropriate but definitely
00:59more flirty i'd tease him compliment him back and make sure i was always extra nice when he was around
01:05but nothing physical nothing physical uh when salary review time came around i asked for a raise he ended
01:14up giving me a pretty big one way more than anybody else on my team got here's the problem a
01:22co-worker
01:22told me that in the office they think that the only reason i got the raise is because i quote
01:29unquote
01:29worked him one hold on hold on one person even said how messed up it is because of him being
01:38married and
01:39i knew what i was doing my argument is that i never crossed the line i didn't touch him i
01:44didn't
01:44promise anything and at the end of the day uh he's the only one who made the decision i just
01:50used a
01:50little charm to my advantage now the office has a weird vibe and people are talking so am i the
01:57a-hole
01:58for flirting with my married boss in hopes to get a raise
02:01you
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