90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 14

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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.

00:00:03Wow.

00:00:05This is your room.

00:00:06Oh, wait, wait, wait, what?

00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.

00:00:11Didn't have one.

00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.

00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.

00:00:18Good night.

00:00:19Good night.

00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.

00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life

00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.

00:00:28You keep talking about your ex.

00:00:30You keep bringing him up.

00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.

00:00:34I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want

00:00:37to be introduced to your family.

00:00:39I told you, yes.

00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.

00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,

00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.

00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.

00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.

00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .

00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?

00:01:05Sheena and I are going to move forward.

00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but.

00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest.

00:01:11I'm so disappointed.

00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.

00:01:16that's tearing me apart.

00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.

00:01:23You see, it's like a power.

00:01:25I don't have any, because when I tell you to do something,

00:01:28you don't listen to me.

00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.

00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.

00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.

00:01:38You don't want a bitchy wife.

00:01:42Don't be a asshole.

00:01:45Don't come home, ever.

00:01:48I love you so much.

00:01:50What?

00:01:50Stop telling me lies.

00:01:52There is more to tell him, and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.

00:01:57So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.

00:02:00I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.

00:02:02You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.

00:02:07It's not, it's not as bad as.

00:02:10Don't come close to me.

00:02:38Good morning.

00:02:39Hi.

00:02:40How are you?

00:02:41Okay.

00:02:42Thank you for taking care of me last night.

00:02:45That's all right.

00:02:46I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here.

00:02:48Yeah.

00:02:49You're taking chances.

00:02:51It's busy, good, since I want you more.

00:02:56Yeah.

00:02:58I feel so bad.

00:02:59Like, every hour I was making you, get up and get me water.

00:03:02And so, I had a nice sleep.

00:03:03You were a very big caretaker.

00:03:06Yeah, well, long flight, and you weren't feeling this, so, you know.

00:03:11You were such a good boy.

00:03:14I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend Joshua for the first time face-to-face.

00:03:21The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night, but I was up every hour of the

00:03:26night.

00:03:27I was coughing, I was shivering, and he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of

00:03:32me all night.

00:03:33It just feels like it's, like, a sinus infection almost.

00:03:36Like, it's just, like, swollen here.

00:03:38Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray.

00:03:42Yeah.

00:03:44I am a needy bitch, especially when I'm sick.

00:03:47I need my man to attend to me like a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball.

00:03:53Joshua does that.

00:03:55I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink, and I took my

00:04:00medicine.

00:04:01That's good.

00:04:01It's probably a good start.

00:04:04What is it?

00:04:05It's Vegemite.

00:04:06What's that?

00:04:07You have to try it.

00:04:08It's a big thing in Australia.

00:04:09It smells like sardines.

00:04:13There's no fish in it.

00:04:16Just take a big bite.

00:04:21Suck!

00:04:22Is it good?

00:04:24It's not bad.

00:04:26No, I don't like it.

00:04:27I don't like it.

00:04:29Ew, ew, ew!

00:04:30Joshua, what is that?

00:04:32Is that fish?

00:04:33It's not fish.

00:04:36Do you want a tissue?

00:04:38It's a condiment.

00:04:40I don't know how to explain it.

00:04:41And you love it?

00:04:42Yeah, I do love it on toast.

00:04:44You're not Australian.

00:04:45If you're not eating Vegemite.

00:04:46It tastes like .

00:04:48I hated it.

00:04:53All right, take this Vegemite away from me.

00:04:55All right.

00:04:56There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.

00:05:00Yes.

00:05:01And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you want to go wander up to the beach and see

00:05:06Bondi.

00:05:07Yeah.

00:05:07Well, don't make me sick.

00:05:11I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.

00:05:15Well, we might get Toms too then.

00:05:23Wow, so this is your beach.

00:05:25This is it.

00:05:26Oh, my God.

00:05:27All the guys that wear the what's the Speedo thing.

00:05:30I can't.

00:05:31I can't.

00:05:32I can't.

00:05:36Wow, the sand feels so nice.

00:05:38Very different than Miami.

00:05:39It's like really soft.

00:05:43Do you want to go in?

00:05:44Yep.

00:05:45Wait.

00:05:45I have to change.

00:05:47Towel's in my bag.

00:05:48Oh.

00:05:49So let's figure this out.

00:05:51So here's to cover me.

00:05:53Okay.

00:05:55How do I do that?

00:05:56About this?

00:05:57Well, this one, I can just go like this.

00:05:59Yeah.

00:06:02My top is up.

00:06:05Hold me.

00:06:06Hold me.

00:06:06How do you do this part?

00:06:08All right.

00:06:08So now we're going to go down.

00:06:09Yeah.

00:06:10So.

00:06:11How are you going to do that now?

00:06:15Hold it tight.

00:06:18I'm losing it.

00:06:20A little bit.

00:06:23Voila.

00:06:24Well done.

00:06:28That was pretty impressive.

00:06:31Are you going to protect me if they're sharks?

00:06:34Yeah, I'll do my best.

00:06:35You ready?

00:06:36Okay.

00:06:49It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours and it's so natural.

00:06:56There's a lot of sexual chemistry there.

00:06:59We're so touchy-feely, but he seems a little reserved.

00:07:04So I'm just trying to feel him out.

00:07:09I mean, I do have three weeks here,

00:07:11and I came here to find my potential husband.

00:07:14So getting to be alone with Joshua,

00:07:16it's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff, for sure.

00:07:23Holy camoly, I'm cold.

00:07:25It's funny, you see adults in there freezing,

00:07:28and then you see, like, little kids,

00:07:29and they're just, like, following around for hours.

00:07:32I think when I was a kid, I spent every day at the beach.

00:07:36We'd be swimming in the pool every morning.

00:07:38Okay.

00:07:39But then in the afternoons,

00:07:40we'd be, like, doing the board training every single afternoon.

00:07:45I love learning about you.

00:07:46I want to get to know everything about you.

00:07:48Yeah, good.

00:07:49I want to know the heart.

00:07:50Like, I want you to open up.

00:07:51I feel like you're reserved.

00:07:55Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?

00:07:58Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship.

00:08:00I was, yeah.

00:08:02One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up,

00:08:04and then having it use, like, against me.

00:08:10You know.

00:08:13My previous relationship, we dated for seven years.

00:08:17But I never felt secure.

00:08:19I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her.

00:08:22She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful.

00:08:26And I was constantly being told if I wasn't, she would walk away.

00:08:32So I was always living in fear, I guess.

00:08:35She could just end it at any time.

00:08:38Ultimately, I had my heart broken,

00:08:39and I'm closed off because of that.

00:08:44Like, are you constantly thinking, like,

00:08:46it's something on your mind, or, like, it's just...

00:08:48Yeah, I'm always thinking.

00:08:49Always, always thinking.

00:08:51What's your top thought right now?

00:08:53This is...

00:08:55I like that you're sort of asking these questions,

00:08:57but, you know, it's scary at the same time.

00:09:00Because it's opening up and being vulnerable.

00:09:02No, I get it.

00:09:04Like, opening up can be scary.

00:09:07But, you know what?

00:09:09You made me feel safe already.

00:09:11Really?

00:09:12That's, like, an early call.

00:09:14So, hopefully I'll do the same thing.

00:09:17Yeah, I feel safe with you, too.

00:09:21Hi.

00:09:27I've never really had a guy say that to me, actually.

00:09:30Like, guys have said a lot of things to me,

00:09:32but feeling safe is not one I've heard.

00:09:35It feels good.

00:09:37I don't think there's anything sexier

00:09:39than a man being vulnerable.

00:09:42So, yeah, the plan was to wait.

00:09:44But, like, he's so sweet to me.

00:09:46He's so attentive to me.

00:09:48He's letting his guard down.

00:09:49Like, it's hard to resist a sexy man

00:09:51that's treating you well.

00:09:52So, we'll see.

00:09:53Yeah.

00:10:07It's not, it's not as bad as...

00:10:10Don't come close to me.

00:10:12Daniel.

00:10:15You're telling me you have been a lesbian?

00:10:19Listen.

00:10:20Don't, don't, don't try it.

00:10:21Listen to...

00:10:22Don't even come...

00:10:23Don't, don't, don't try it.

00:10:24Listen.

00:10:25I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle.

00:10:30I want it all out.

00:10:31That's why I said I needed another day.

00:10:33I wanted you to know everything.

00:10:39Daniel.

00:10:41Daniel.

00:10:42Don't come close to me.

00:10:43Please try to understand.

00:10:46I, I, I, you don't know how hard it was to...

00:10:49You have a lot of secrets.

00:10:50I have no more secrets.

00:10:52Just listen, please.

00:10:54I'm trying to tell you who I am.

00:10:57Jesus Christ.

00:10:58I'm not a lesbian.

00:11:00I'm not straight.

00:11:01I'm not bisexual.

00:11:03I just believe that people should love people.

00:11:06People should love people by their soul.

00:11:08And people should love people for who they are on the inside.

00:11:11Not on what is on the outside.

00:11:15I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

00:11:18You told me you have had serious of, you know, relationship.

00:11:21I didn't know it's, it's your fellow women.

00:11:23Same sex.

00:11:26Yes.

00:11:28And you have been lying to me.

00:11:31I'm sorry.

00:11:34You are evil.

00:11:37I'm not evil.

00:11:38You know me.

00:11:39I take care of people.

00:11:40And I've even taken care of you.

00:11:42I'm not evil.

00:11:43I have a good heart.

00:11:45And I'm a good person.

00:11:46What makes, what makes you a good person?

00:11:49Sleeping with your fellow women?

00:11:50That doesn't make me evil.

00:11:53I'm still the same person you fell in love with.

00:11:56The same person who tell lies and keep secrets.

00:12:00I love you.

00:12:02I don't want to hear that from your mouth again.

00:12:04I love you.

00:12:05Don't, don't, don't say that again.

00:12:07And you can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it.

00:12:10I am in love with you, Daniel.

00:12:12That's why I'm coming clean to you.

00:12:14I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you.

00:12:17But I'm telling you.

00:12:18Shut your mouth.

00:12:19You have been touched by a woman.

00:12:21Not even woman.

00:12:22Women.

00:12:25You are a liar.

00:12:28I'm just a person who has been lost.

00:12:36Don't.

00:12:37Can you hold this ring?

00:12:38No.

00:12:40Hold the ring.

00:12:43I've seen that from your head to toe is full of secrets and lies.

00:12:48So you're full of evil.

00:12:51I'm not full of evil, Daniel.

00:12:55I'm staying in my room tonight.

00:12:58Please.

00:13:08I thought I've seen it all.

00:13:11Or she keep on vomiting secrets.

00:13:15No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:13:20I didn't think he'd call me evil.

00:13:23I'm not evil.

00:13:26I just believe a person loves a person.

00:13:28And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

00:13:35Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.

00:13:38You know what?

00:13:40F**k him.

00:13:41F**k him.

00:13:45Jesus.

00:13:53You're officially on the jeepney.

00:13:56I only have a week left here in the Philippines.

00:13:58And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America.

00:14:02So I have to be very clear here.

00:14:05If you file today for the K1 visa, it will be denied.

00:14:17We are like me.

00:14:23That's not serious.

00:14:31This one is right after we can see.

00:14:35We are here.

00:14:37I'm tired.

00:14:38Let's get our rest.

00:14:40I will.

00:14:57So this is like a, it's going to be like a village environment, right?

00:15:01Yeah.

00:15:02Yesterday, we traveled from Nusibet to Fort Dauphin, my hometown.

00:15:09We arrived late, so we stay in a hotel.

00:15:12And now we are going to my family's village for a few days.

00:15:18Can't forget my baby wipes.

00:15:20I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.

00:15:22We use water.

00:15:26F**k.

00:15:27We had a big fight last night.

00:15:29I still love him, and I want him to meet my family.

00:15:34But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.

00:15:42I don't want to run this vacation, but the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like.

00:15:53I went a little overboard.

00:15:55I'm sorry for that.

00:15:58I'm sorry for raising my voice to you.

00:16:02It's just, I was so frustrated, you know, hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly.

00:16:08And, I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back.

00:16:18Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.

00:16:25Okay.

00:16:26We are going to see my family, and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.

00:16:32I want them to accept you, because I want this relationship to work.

00:16:39I do, too.

00:16:42I overreacted yesterday.

00:16:45It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.

00:16:51Then it just totally set me off.

00:16:53I want to be here, and, um, I want to really give this a chance.

00:17:00Yeah.

00:17:01There's definitely a strong connection between her and I, and I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.

00:17:12So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.

00:17:16What?

00:17:18No!

00:17:23Let's go now.

00:17:29Nice tuk-tuk right here.

00:17:31Yeah, it's nice.

00:17:45It's quiet, you see?

00:17:47Not much people.

00:17:49Not what I expect.

00:17:51Ooh.

00:17:53This is rough roads.

00:17:57The roots are made of aluminum.

00:17:59Let's get noisy when it rains, huh?

00:18:02Yeah.

00:18:03Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.

00:18:08I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.

00:18:13Everything is just simple.

00:18:16There is no running water, no fancy toilet.

00:18:21But everybody are kind in my village, and it's beautiful.

00:18:27Do you think they'll be happy to see?

00:18:29Yeah, to see me.

00:18:31What about me?

00:18:34They going to be happy to see me, baby?

00:18:36I don't know.

00:18:37Meet me.

00:18:43Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.

00:19:00My family won't accept Rick.

00:19:05Men in my tribe is very strong.

00:19:09When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.

00:19:14Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.

00:19:19I'm worried he doesn't know what he's in for.

00:19:26Is it right here?

00:19:28Yeah, it's here.

00:19:29There's no turning back.

00:19:41So we're going to have to call a GP.

00:19:44I'm super duper nervous about riding one.

00:19:46Ah, you're going to have to.

00:19:47How's that work?

00:19:49Well, you can see those signboards.

00:19:51Uh-huh.

00:19:51Just have to find the right location.

00:19:53Then we just have to go para.

00:19:56Para is the south.

00:19:57Oh.

00:20:02It's right here.

00:20:03Oh, here?

00:20:04Yes!

00:20:05There.

00:20:06Alright.

00:20:07We're officially on the Jeepney.

00:20:13There it is.

00:20:14The big fort.

00:20:16Ah!

00:20:17Woo, woo!

00:20:19I'm surprisingly not tapping the top two hardcore.

00:20:23Yeah.

00:20:24It's hot.

00:20:25It smells like diesel.

00:20:29It's been a couple days since I proposed to Sheena,

00:20:31and we are just over the moon in love with each other.

00:20:36But not everyone's happy.

00:20:38Oh!

00:20:39My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena against her guidance.

00:20:46And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward.

00:20:52So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.

00:20:54Oh, my gosh.

00:20:55So this is the ball, dear.

00:20:58All right, here we go.

00:20:59We're getting off.

00:21:00Yeah, we are.

00:21:00Thanks a lot, Mom.

00:21:02While it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself,

00:21:05right now is not the time to put the brakes on things.

00:21:07I only have a week left here in the Philippines,

00:21:09and I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.

00:21:15Good morning.

00:21:16Do you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?

00:21:20Now that we're finally engaged,

00:21:22I called an immigration lawyer in Manila

00:21:24just so we can get a consultation.

00:21:27Oh, hi, sir.

00:21:28Hi, good morning.

00:21:30My name is Sheena.

00:21:31Hi, her.

00:21:32How are you?

00:21:32Nice to meet you.

00:21:33Nice to meet you.

00:21:34Nice to meet you.

00:21:35There you are.

00:21:36Good afternoon.

00:21:37Good afternoon, mister.

00:21:38Welcome to our office, and welcome to the Philippines.

00:21:42I've been enjoying my stay.

00:21:43Okay.

00:21:43So, for this consultation,

00:21:46I would like to, you know, make an assessment.

00:21:49Of course.

00:21:50If you are eligible for the K-1 visa.

00:21:53Yeah.

00:21:53Now, how long have you been in this relationship?

00:21:57Seven years.

00:21:58Seven years.

00:21:59And you have never been convicted of any crime in the U.S.?

00:22:03No.

00:22:04Okay.

00:22:04Speak clean.

00:22:05That's great.

00:22:07Yeah.

00:22:07When I watch, you can hear.

00:22:08Yeah, so, are you working right now?

00:22:13Currently, I'm not working.

00:22:16But I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly.

00:22:20Okay.

00:22:20I'm receiving disability benefits, which is, it's a good enough amount to have me, you know,

00:22:27live my basic life and, you know, get an apartment, get food, all that good stuff.

00:22:35I see.

00:22:36So, I have to be very clear here.

00:22:41You know, disability benefits is not an income.

00:22:46You know, you cannot consider it as an income.

00:22:48The annual income for a petitioner for a K-1 visa is more or less $26,500 USD.

00:22:57Now, is that shared between the both?

00:22:59No, it's only the petitioner.

00:23:00Only the petitioner.

00:23:01Okay, that's for the petitioner.

00:23:02Okay.

00:23:04So, if you will file today, for example, it will be denied.

00:23:13My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find gainful employment,

00:23:19then you can proceed.

00:23:24I'm in complete shock right now.

00:23:27I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count towards

00:23:34the amount that I need to bring shame into the United States.

00:23:38To be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job.

00:23:47In the past, I've had jobs that ended awfully because I didn't understand or I messed up.

00:23:56But my back is at a wall right now that if I don't get a job, our entire dream of

00:24:04bringing

00:24:04shame into the United States is done.

00:24:08So, let's say, you know, I go back home and I instantly start working.

00:24:12Yeah.

00:24:13How long is enough to have the stable form of income, you know, before the K-1 is actually granted?

00:24:19So, yeah, you need probably a year employment history.

00:24:26And then you will meet another year, at least, to have the petition approved and bring your

00:24:34fiance to the U.S.

00:24:36Yeah.

00:24:40It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working.

00:24:45If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner.

00:24:53I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability, it will be quite difficult for him to get and

00:25:00hold a job long term.

00:25:03Is there any other options?

00:25:06So, depending on your goal, here in the Philippine immigration, we have a straightforward process.

00:25:12If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here, there is no requirement

00:25:17of financial capacity.

00:25:18Okay.

00:25:19Okay?

00:25:19So, there will be a 100% chance that the petition will be approved.

00:25:25Okay.

00:25:26Okay.

00:25:27So, these options will depend on your goal.

00:25:34At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.

00:25:40I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options.

00:25:55I don't know, I'm just real pissed off.

00:25:58And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.

00:26:01I don't know how to move forward.

00:26:12Can I at least have my wallet?

00:26:14No.

00:26:15Okay.

00:26:17Don't talk to me.

00:26:17Don't come to me.

00:26:25You think you can just treat me this way?

00:26:27You relate me all the time.

00:26:29All right.

00:26:30I'm going to just give you space, all right?

00:27:01I know.

00:27:05I'll just update your spouse.

00:27:08Okay.

00:27:09Okay.

00:27:10Okay.

00:27:13Like, you know.

00:27:32I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street but just to be clear I'm very

00:27:39pissed at him he promised a really good day but of course he needs to ruin the

00:27:47moment because it's not your bond if he doesn't am I allowed to come in

00:28:18we're just gonna leave him for now just give her space man so she can just come

00:28:25we'll talk about it when she's ready

00:28:30I just feel really hopeless with Anna because I'm putting in massive effort to show Anna that I can

00:28:38be romantic and you know she storms out of the the nail salon place and it's just I don't know

00:28:45I'm

00:28:46just real pissed off that she would make a scene in public like this and at this moment I'm at

00:28:53a

00:28:53crossroads I don't know how to move forward mama your day good it's okay every time he we're having

00:29:04a good time he would do this to me right in front in public it's so humiliating I don't think

00:29:13it's

00:29:13powerless the fact that he could upset me this much definitely has our opposite relationship

00:29:24hello

00:29:27kumusta yung baby ni Nana

00:29:32nainisa ko kay John

00:29:34bakit?

00:29:35makakabad trip kasi

00:29:37bakit?

00:29:38kasi gusto niya yung relasyon na amin dahil alaki siya siya dumi workforce

00:29:42ganito ganyan ganyan

00:29:44hindi ko nang ginaganyan ako

00:29:45No, I didn't want to see that.

00:29:51You're already dead.

00:29:56Talk to me.

00:29:57Talk to me.

00:29:58I don't want to talk to you.

00:30:00Because it's a good one.

00:30:00It's a good one.

00:30:05Don't waste your relationship with your relationship.

00:30:09I am so, so, so tired of it, Chobo.

00:30:12I have to be this timid.

00:30:14Anna, I'm not trying to get you to change.

00:30:16Self-spoken woman.

00:30:18It's like I've, like, sacrificed a lot of my life

00:30:23so you can be happy.

00:30:24And even when I do the things you want me to do,

00:30:27it's something else you want me to do.

00:30:31So I'm like, look, I just give up.

00:30:34There's nothing else that I can do to make you, you know, happy.

00:30:40I feel exactly the same sometimes.

00:30:52I'm so cold.

00:30:53Can you have a shower with me?

00:30:55Okay.

00:30:56I mean, are things moving a little fast?

00:30:59Maybe.

00:31:01But, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.

00:31:04I'm a big environmentalist, you know?

00:31:06Ha, ha, ha!

00:31:27It's so cold.

00:31:35Come have a shower with me.

00:32:02I mean, are things moving a little fast?

00:32:05Maybe.

00:32:07But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean.

00:32:11And I mean, like, I wanted to save water.

00:32:14I'm a big environmentalist, you know?

00:32:19I'm trying to control myself.

00:32:21But Josh is just, like, so hot.

00:32:23And we've been making out all day.

00:32:26You know, in the back of my mind, I do have some questions.

00:32:28And I do want to see more of him and more of his life.

00:32:32But, like, at this point, like, it feels right.

00:32:35So I bought some massage oil and then I think there's some wine.

00:32:39Maybe we can have a glass and relax.

00:32:41I love it.

00:32:42Okay.

00:32:43Perfect.

00:32:45Perfect.

00:32:52Perfect.

00:32:54Okay, Joey?

00:32:55Yeah.

00:32:59Everything feels really natural.

00:33:01Everything feels like it's progressing between us.

00:33:04We just draw onto each other, which is, you know, really exciting.

00:33:08We had an amazing day together and I want to pamper Elise.

00:33:12Now's the time to pour some wine, you know, light a candle and, you know, show her that I've got

00:33:18skills.

00:33:24Wow.

00:33:25Look at this.

00:33:26Yeah.

00:33:30Welcome to Sydney, making you feel better and more relaxed.

00:33:36Cheers.

00:33:41You like a massage?

00:33:42Yeah, I would love one.

00:33:44I'd like to light it up.

00:33:45This doesn't mean you're necessarily sleeping in the bed tonight.

00:33:48That's okay.

00:33:48I didn't mistake it.

00:33:51Lay on your stomach.

00:33:52Okay.

00:34:00Is that a lot?

00:34:01That's okay.

00:34:05Wow, that's a lot of oil.

00:34:09you can go harder harder you should go lower you're like trying to be like a little

00:34:20respectful but come on don't be a little bitch give me like everything slap on the ass yeah slap

00:34:26on the ass like grab my hair with the oil in it i mean i don't have extensions for nothing

00:34:31ripped me around a little bit here wow it's a family show i thought you said

00:34:41are you nervous yeah shaking i can feel it you reckon

00:34:46uh-huh

00:34:54all right guys

00:34:59what the are you doing

00:35:02oh my god

00:35:05the timing on me

00:35:08hi chris yeah hi nice now it's a party now it's a party i'm gonna stop on my car i'll

00:35:15get a wine glass

00:35:19i did not see that coming i did i'm naked right now

00:35:24you know there's better places to give a naked massage in the house than the communal area

00:35:29half naked massage whatever it was you know what you're absolutely right yeah but um you know

00:35:33i think i was just blind with lust ew

00:35:37you have to say it's so weird for bro

00:35:43all right well i'm gonna go to my room

00:35:48well that just ruined the moment

00:35:50this is exactly why i don't want a guy with roommate

00:35:55can you button me back up

00:35:58i'm like literally in my bra and underwear

00:36:02showing your skin to other people

00:36:04who is that not me

00:36:06no i'm not embarrassed like i'll get naked in front of everyone we know that

00:36:09but like chris walks in as your hands are groping my body and it's like such a sexual nice night

00:36:16and like

00:36:16yeah i probably should have done it in the bedroom

00:36:18not my finest hour

00:36:20sorry baby

00:36:21well that killed the mood

00:36:23for now

00:36:27okay

00:36:28okay

00:36:36okay

00:36:37and this is the shower

00:36:39yeah

00:36:40yeah

00:36:40autumn toilet

00:36:43oh hell no

00:36:44yeah

00:36:45i'm a little bit

00:36:47i'm the rest of his reaction in front of my father

00:36:51prepare for the

00:36:53this is paper to write on

00:36:55you wipe this

00:36:56yes

00:36:58stop it

00:37:19wow babe this is where you grew up

00:37:21yeah it's here

00:37:34hey

00:37:35yeah

00:37:36that your rooster

00:37:37no not mine

00:37:39but my neighbors

00:37:40oh okay

00:37:41we just got to the area of trish's family home

00:37:45i've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road

00:37:51oh this is a journey

00:37:53don't complain

00:37:56but i'm happy to be here with trish because i want a future with her and if i can get

00:38:04her family's approval

00:38:05i think that she would be able to see that i'm a good person and maybe it would make up

00:38:11for what i did in the past

00:38:14oh this is

00:38:15oh this is it

00:38:15yeah this is my house

00:38:18oh that's my sister

00:38:20oh this is your sister

00:38:22yeah

00:38:23i didn't get to meet her

00:38:26she does look like you she's very beautiful

00:38:29yeah

00:38:29nice to meet you

00:38:33and who is this

00:38:34my brother

00:38:35oh this is your brother

00:38:36yeah

00:38:37hello brother

00:38:37yes

00:38:38hello brother

00:38:40yes

00:38:41hello sir

00:38:42hello sir

00:38:43hello sir

00:38:44hello sir

00:38:45hello

00:38:48trisha's told me that she has a huge family and they all live on this compound together

00:38:53yeah

00:38:54hi i'm rick

00:38:55nice to meet you

00:38:56oh this is your brother okay

00:38:58hello

00:39:00okay

00:39:00hi

00:39:02oh how are you

00:39:03my sister

00:39:05this is your sister

00:39:06it's so nice to meet you you look like my grandmother

00:39:10i wasn't expecting that many people

00:39:13you know i keep seeing people pouring in one by one

00:39:18just when i'm thinking that should be everybody there there's more people coming

00:39:23like how am i gonna remember all these people's names and who they are

00:39:28bye bye

00:39:43my dad say you sleep down

00:39:46oh

00:39:47oh

00:39:48oh

00:39:50okay

00:39:52and this bunk beds remind me of when i was a kid and me and my sister i never imagined

00:39:59myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age but i respect her dad and and and and in their

00:40:11What is this in the shower?

00:40:15Yeah.

00:40:16We just put water in the container and bring it here.

00:40:20There's no running water coming up to wrench you off.

00:40:24No.

00:40:25And where does this water come from?

00:40:27From the river?

00:40:29Like something under the ground.

00:40:31A well?

00:40:32Yeah.

00:40:35He's going to show you the bathroom.

00:40:37Okay.

00:40:39I smell something already.

00:40:43Oh, hell no!

00:40:46All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it.

00:40:55Wait, wait, wait.

00:40:57This is paper to write on.

00:40:59You wipe this with this?

00:41:01Rick, stop it.

00:41:03That's how I...

00:41:04Sit, sit, sit.

00:41:05Finish.

00:41:06Oh, good.

00:41:07Oh.

00:41:07That's it.

00:41:09I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.

00:41:14But I'm not surprised.

00:41:18Ever since Rick came to Madagascar, he complains about everything.

00:41:24I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.

00:41:27And they just leave the mood out like this without refrigeration?

00:41:32These are tight quarters right here.

00:41:34They're getting kind of squished.

00:41:36It's hot.

00:41:37I hope it's not going to be this hot in those days.

00:41:40Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?

00:41:42No, we don't need the long tongs.

00:41:44You are the only bougie here, afraid of something.

00:41:47Oh, my God.

00:41:48Terrible.

00:41:52This is the living room?

00:41:54Yeah.

00:41:55Yeah, this is the living room.

00:42:17So they approve that you are here, and he's going to give us a blessing.

00:42:25This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.

00:42:30Okay.

00:42:33In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there without your parents'

00:42:39acceptation.

00:42:41But it's not a blessing to get engaged.

00:42:44No.

00:42:45It's just he's giving an authorization to having relationship.

00:42:52This morning blessing.

00:42:54That's it, babe.

00:42:55It is a silver.

00:42:57Yeah, a bracelet.

00:42:57That's right.

00:43:01Okay.

00:43:24It's okay.

00:43:42I'm sorry.

00:43:46Thank you for this.

00:43:56Oh, is that his?

00:43:58Yeah, he's Chris.

00:43:59Oh, okay.

00:44:24Until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.

00:44:29I'm still deeply in love with Daniel.

00:44:32I believe that if he just gives me a chance, he will see that we are meant to be together.

00:44:39Same-sex is a disgrace.

00:44:40This is something that you and I cannot settle.

00:44:43Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us, or is there no chance for us, Daniel?

00:45:24I feel miserable.

00:45:28Numb.

00:45:31Really sad.

00:45:35But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders, because I just don't know what happens from

00:45:40here.

00:45:44Last night, I came clean to Daniel.

00:45:47I told him everything.

00:45:48There are no more secrets.

00:45:51And he didn't react good.

00:45:53He called me evil.

00:45:55He didn't talk to me.

00:45:57He looked at me with disgust.

00:45:58He's not accepting who I am.

00:46:01So he slept on the sofa, I slept in the bedroom.

00:46:05I'm mad, and I'm angry, and I'm hurt.

00:46:09But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.

00:46:15My plan is to go back to Lagos today.

00:46:18I'm cutting the trip short.

00:46:20There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again, and that he's going to leave me.

00:46:23But until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving up

00:46:28hope.

00:46:31Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.

00:46:35I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore about me lying about still being married.

00:46:41But I believe that if he just gives me a chance, looks at me as Lisa, sees me as a

00:46:47person he fell in love with those months ago,

00:46:49that he will see that we are meant to be together.

00:46:53I still want to be with Daniel.

00:46:55But now it's up to him.

00:47:02How do you feel?

00:47:04Lisa is full of lies.

00:47:06I don't think her lies is over.

00:47:08Because she keeps on cooking new ones every day.

00:47:12Why did you call her evil?

00:47:14Because she's evil.

00:47:16Keeping all these secrets.

00:47:18I've been thinking away of how to talk to my uncle about the one she told me already.

00:47:24That she has not been divorced.

00:47:26Not knowing that she has been in a relationship with her fellow women.

00:47:30She's been practicing same sex.

00:47:34So I don't know how I'm going to face him.

00:47:37It's against our tradition.

00:47:47Daniel, can I ask you a question?

00:47:52Just allow me to be.

00:47:53Like we have to talk.

00:47:55Like we have to talk.

00:47:55You can't ignore me forever.

00:47:58Please.

00:48:00You need to give me time.

00:48:02I have to think.

00:48:06Can you grab your bags?

00:48:08I can't carry everything to the car.

00:48:12I'm not happy that the person I loved have engaged in this act of same sex.

00:48:18I'm not happy.

00:48:20Another love gone bad again.

00:48:23Bad again.

00:48:24Bad again.

00:48:25Bad again.

00:48:26But what obsesses me the most is the lies.

00:48:29I love Nisa.

00:48:31I want to forgive her.

00:48:33But after what she did, I don't trust her anymore.

00:48:36I don't know if I can continue this relationship.

00:48:38You're on your own.

00:48:40Hope you feel the pain.

00:48:41Of your thoughts inside driving you insane.

00:48:52And I will love past my shoulder.

00:48:56Cause it can't hurt anymore.

00:49:00Hurt anymore.

00:49:01Hurt anymore.

00:49:02Hurt anymore.

00:49:07Hurt anymore.

00:49:10Hurt anymore.

00:49:13So, are you ever going to talk to me?

00:49:17I am totally confused.

00:49:20We dated for six months.

00:49:22You have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me.

00:49:25But you never did.

00:49:27I was scared.

00:49:28Why didn't you tell my uncle?

00:49:30Because this is between me and you.

00:49:33Why does he need to know anything?

00:49:35Anything.

00:49:36Yeah.

00:49:37You call this anything.

00:49:38Yeah.

00:49:39Same sex is a disgrace to any family that is involved in it.

00:49:45It's against our tradition.

00:49:47But it's not against American tradition.

00:49:50But you are in my country.

00:49:51You are in my tribe.

00:49:52This is something that you and I cannot settle.

00:49:56My uncle has to be involved.

00:49:59Are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same sex?

00:50:03Daniel, if we're married, I plan on marrying you for the rest of my life.

00:50:07There's not going to be another woman.

00:50:09If I'm with you, I'm with you.

00:50:12Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us?

00:50:15Or is there no chance for us, Daniel?

00:50:17I don't know.

00:50:19I don't think I will continue with this relationship until my uncle comes.

00:50:24I should have told you.

00:50:26I should have told you before I came.

00:50:28And then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be with me.

00:50:32And there wouldn't be all these emotions involved.

00:50:34And there wouldn't be all this struggle.

00:50:36I should have just told you.

00:50:37I was scared to tell you.

00:50:39And I was scared to lose you.

00:50:43I'm scared of losing you.

00:50:46This all comes down to his uncle.

00:50:48When he finds out that I lied about me being with women for 21 years, I'm worried that his uncle

00:50:54will never forgive me and never accept me.

00:50:57And this relationship will be over.

00:51:02I don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes.

00:51:05Please.

00:51:22Help that out.

00:51:24That does not hurt.

00:51:25That really hurts?

00:51:26It's not happening.

00:51:27That's how you know I'm so sexually attracted to you because I love popping your pimples.

00:51:31I'm good.

00:51:41Did you sleep well?

00:51:43I'm pretty tired.

00:51:45I can't believe after six months I had sex.

00:51:48I feel like I'm not a virgin anymore.

00:51:51Like I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer, but it felt right.

00:51:57It was a lot of fun.

00:52:00Do you think Chris hurt us?

00:52:04Uh, possibly.

00:52:06How many times did you have sex last night?

00:52:09Twice.

00:52:11It was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like it flowed.

00:52:15It was like missionary.

00:52:17It was great.

00:52:18And then like to the side was the other one.

00:52:22Did you get a glimpse of the picture of Chris above?

00:52:24I forgot that painting was in the room.

00:52:26Well, you didn't even me doggy style.

00:52:28So I couldn't even see the painting yesterday, last night.

00:52:31Yeah.

00:52:33I feel like we're an old married couple.

00:52:36Yeah.

00:52:36Like I'm so comfortable with you.

00:52:38Like usually like at home, like if I like sleep with a guy, like I just want to like go

00:52:43leave the next day.

00:52:44But like I'm stuck with you and I'm here with you.

00:52:47And then like, I'm happy that I'm here.

00:52:49And like, I came.

00:52:51Yeah.

00:52:52Did you?

00:52:53I did.

00:52:55Chris walking in when I'm on the couch getting massage.

00:52:58That definitely brought the mood down.

00:53:00He had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it

00:53:04up.

00:53:04It was everything I could have dreamed of and more.

00:53:07Everything about this man is so sexy except the uncircumcised.

00:53:13Those are first uncircumcised.

00:53:18It's a little weird.

00:53:19It's like, you know, but also there's not like a dictionary on like how to use the extra skin.

00:53:27But like, like I'm not complaining about it.

00:53:32I can deal with that.

00:53:35I'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly.

00:53:42I did.

00:53:43I'm like, one part of me is like super happy, but the other part of me is like,

00:53:47I should have, I should, I want to know more than, and then, but whatever.

00:53:50Like, I shouldn't be so hard on myself.

00:53:52Just ask anything you want.

00:53:54Do anything you want.

00:53:55Say anything you want.

00:53:56Yeah.

00:53:56Okay, I'll start asking.

00:53:58Don't hate me.

00:53:59Okay, go.

00:54:01So I'm confused about this rental situation.

00:54:04Like a little annoying that Chris like walked in during that.

00:54:07Like, why is he even here with you renting it in the first place?

00:54:11Because last I knew is you lived with your parents.

00:54:17Um, I mean, look, we were living together and then we sort of had to get out.

00:54:21After we moved out, I dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week.

00:54:25But then, you know, I, um, I've been living with Nat.

00:54:33I've been staying at hers because, you know, she lives a lot closer to work.

00:54:37So why, I feel like I'm a detective and I'm trying to, like, navigate this, like, detective puzzle because you've

00:54:44confused me so much.

00:54:46I know Nat, we've talked on the phone a few times, but living together?

00:54:51I think their relationship's a little weird.

00:54:54If it's so platonic and you're just friends, why would you have to lie to me about it and tell

00:54:58me you're living with your parents?

00:55:00This just smells fishy to me.

00:55:04Um, I just, I mean, to me, it's a little weird that you're living with a girl.

00:55:11And, like, you talk about her a lot, too.

00:55:14And, like, I just, I don't know, like.

00:55:18She's my friend.

00:55:19You're here, you're my, you're my girlfriend.

00:55:21So it's exactly the same as Chris.

00:55:23I would treat her exactly the same as I do Chris, you know?

00:55:26Like, do you guys, like, share a bathroom?

00:55:28Like, does she see you naked?

00:55:29Like, like, how does that work?

00:55:31Why is that funny?

00:55:32No, it's funny because, you know, I get it.

00:55:35That's, you know, I get why you would ask those questions.

00:55:37Um, yeah, of course we share a bathroom, right?

00:55:39But, um, she hasn't seen me naked.

00:55:42Her and I are just friends.

00:55:43She's, like, you know, just a really good friend.

00:55:45But, you know, she knows about you and that you're my partner.

00:55:48And, you know, um, I really want you guys to get along because it's important for me.

00:55:52Well, you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her.

00:56:00Maybe it was a part of me, you know, not wanting you to get, you know, jealous and back out

00:56:04of this before you got here.

00:56:05So, you know, when you...

00:56:06How do I know you're telling me the truth?

00:56:08Well, that's your job to believe me and it's my job to prove it to you.

00:56:14I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight, including Nat.

00:56:18So I need to take advantage and get the whole picture of him.

00:56:21I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her, see what she says to me.

00:56:24If there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me that I'm going to find out.

00:56:29It's, like, what else do I not know that I should know?

00:56:33I want to give Joshua the benefit of the doubt, but I don't fully trust him after this.

00:56:38At the end of the day, like, you know, you're, you know, you're mine and you're my number one priority,

00:56:43so...

00:56:51Oh, I'm 52.

00:56:5652.

00:57:02They want babies.

00:57:27You can help.

00:57:29You can help.

00:57:29Okay.

00:57:31That's a goat.

00:57:33We call it awus.

00:57:35That's enough.

00:57:37It's swollen up there.

00:57:50Oh, thank you.

00:57:53Oh, thank you.

00:57:55Oh, fucking cold.

00:57:59I don't know if I can hold my legs like this.

00:58:02I'm going to sit like your aunt.

00:58:04I'm going to try that.

00:58:14She's not going to sit like this till the end, just serving the food.

00:58:20So far, everything is seem pretty good with Rick and my family, even though he's acting like an old man.

00:58:31My father said you have to use to do it.

00:58:36But I know my family is going to be asking him a lot of questions and I don't know how

00:58:42Rick is going to respond.

00:58:51Like, what is the intention to me?

00:58:58I look at her as being a prospective wife to me.

00:59:10I love her very much and I'm hoping that she could possibly love me the same.

00:59:17I love you.

00:59:35How old are you?

00:59:38Oh, I'm 52.

00:59:4752.

00:59:54You have the same age as him.

01:00:24You have married.

01:00:28Yes, I've been married twice.

01:00:33But now I'm not married.

01:00:37Do you have a child?

01:00:41Yes.

01:00:42I have two babies and then I have three adults.

01:00:52Five years.

01:01:10They want babies.

01:01:19Trish and I have been talking about whether or not we're going to have kids and I'm just not ready

01:01:27to make that decision yet.

01:01:49They want respect.

01:01:55They want respect and as a mother, we get married.

01:01:58I have a child and I have a child.

01:02:04I have a child.

01:02:29I understand that.

01:02:30And now that I see how important this is,

01:02:33it's going to be the forefront of my mind.

01:02:47When are you going to decide it?

01:02:52Before, you know, I come to your father

01:02:55and ask for your hand in marriage,

01:02:58I will make a decision.

01:03:00Okay.

01:03:10Trish, she warned me about how strongly her family felt about having kids.

01:03:16But now the heat is on and I'm starting to feel the pressure.

01:03:21My feelings have grown so much for Trish

01:03:25that I couldn't picture a life without her at this point.

01:03:29But I really don't want to have more kids.

01:03:34I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.

01:03:41Today, I found out that he was living with you.

01:03:43Yeah.

01:03:44I thought you knew that.

01:03:44I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.

01:03:48I've tried that.

01:03:48It's never succeeded.

01:03:49Oh, no.

01:03:49I have so many guy friends.

01:03:51Let's put two and two together.

01:03:53Josh lied to me about living there.

01:03:56Something's fishy.

01:03:56Something's shady.

01:03:58So are you jealous of me?

01:04:28You're jealous of me.

01:04:33I'm so frustrated with Jovon.

01:04:35But it makes me feel good when I look good.

01:04:38So I'm just going to do my own thing.

01:04:43And we talk.

01:04:54That's all we do, talk.

01:04:56So frustrating.

01:05:02I'm really starting to feel hopeless that we're never going to resolve this problem.

01:05:09Really can't do this submissive thing.

01:05:14I'm afraid that it's trying to change me.

01:05:18But I mean, this is not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where you can just back out.

01:05:27We're married, so I just can't ignore him forever, especially now that he's in my house.

01:05:38Hey.

01:05:41Hey.

01:05:46I like your outfit.

01:05:50Thanks.

01:05:51I mean, do you want to talk any about yesterday?

01:06:00Sometimes I just can't take your arrogance, Jovon.

01:06:09I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard.

01:06:12You know, I know you want to come off like, you know, I'm not going to be pushed around.

01:06:16You're going to hear me.

01:06:20It causes more fights than it solves.

01:06:23I get what you're coming from, but this is what you married.

01:06:30I am not the type of woman who would just say yes just to have peace.

01:06:35Because ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.

01:06:40And I saw my mom, you know, she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.

01:06:46The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.

01:06:53And I promised myself that's not going to happen to me.

01:06:58Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes,

01:07:05I mean, we argue, my initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.

01:07:14I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father.

01:07:18I don't raise my voice at you, and I'm not this person that's trying to, like, dominate you.

01:07:23I know you're not my dad.

01:07:25The point is, you're hard on me.

01:07:28I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it, you know?

01:07:32I know I've married a strong woman, but you're a little bit too strong.

01:07:36And that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.

01:07:42I grew up with an abusive father.

01:07:47He died a long time ago.

01:07:50But from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad,

01:07:54I learned from a very young age when to speak up.

01:07:58If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.

01:08:05But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.

01:08:22And I'll do my best to, you know, I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant, okay?

01:08:36All right?

01:08:37Deal?

01:08:38All right.

01:08:39Come on.

01:08:40You all right.

01:08:43I'll work it out, okay?

01:08:45Mm-mm!

01:08:46I'm sweaty.

01:08:47Oh, let's go to the room.

01:08:48Where's school, man?

01:08:49You want to?

01:08:50Yeah.

01:08:51All right.

01:08:53I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had, I'm very proud to be worried.

01:09:01Thank you so much, Boo-Boo.

01:09:05I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.

01:09:12Oh, yeah?

01:09:15Yeah.

01:09:16Yeah, take me a minute.

01:09:19It's ketchup.

01:09:39Baby, do I look okay?

01:09:42Absolutely perfect.

01:09:44But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a top or something.

01:09:50And guess what?

01:09:51What?

01:09:51I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.

01:09:54So I have to carry it?

01:09:55Yeah.

01:09:56That's not great.

01:10:04Oh, God, it's a little nipply out.

01:10:06A little nipply.

01:10:14Okay, so where do you want to sit?

01:10:16Um, is there upstairs?

01:10:19The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends to get her out in the city

01:10:23in

01:10:23the harbour.

01:10:24I am excited, but nervous, more so.

01:10:27I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat, and she was not happy about it.

01:10:32But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.

01:10:40Are you falling?

01:10:41Yeah.

01:10:42Falling for you.

01:10:43Oh.

01:10:44That was cool.

01:10:46Wow.

01:10:50This is, like, stunning.

01:10:52Like, not what I expected.

01:10:54It's nice, huh?

01:10:55It's beautiful.

01:10:57Thank you, babe.

01:10:58I love how you hold my purse.

01:11:03Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.

01:11:04Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?

01:11:08I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.

01:11:10Is he going to be attentive?

01:11:11Is he going to make me feel comfortable?

01:11:13It's really important to be accepted into the friend group.

01:11:15But on the same time, like, I came here for answers.

01:11:17I want answers, and I want to figure out his life.

01:11:19And, like, I don't want to be lied to.

01:11:23I want to make you feel comfortable.

01:11:50I don't know, but I don't know where we're sitting, I guess.

01:11:52We'll get attacked by Sagals, but...

01:11:53Hopefully no one can look up my skirt.

01:11:57Just everyone, man.

01:11:58Yeah, sorry.

01:11:59This is great.

01:12:01Oh, my favorite people.

01:12:04I need this.

01:12:06Thank you so much.

01:12:07To my girlfriend, Elise.

01:12:09I don't know why that's so funny.

01:12:11Like, why are you saying it with a smile?

01:12:14Okay.

01:12:14To my girlfriend, Elise.

01:12:18Bye, guys.

01:12:22I've spoken to Elise before, and she comes across lovely,

01:12:27but she comes across very Miami.

01:12:29Like, a lot of skimpy clothes, right?

01:12:31Very skimpy, but gorgeous.

01:12:32Like, this is skimpy for us.

01:12:34Yeah, well, very skimpy for Sydney, right?

01:12:36But she was skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.

01:12:38Are you joking?

01:12:3916 hours.

01:12:41I'm so jet-lagged.

01:12:42I don't mean this way.

01:12:43You guys, I don't like this.

01:12:45It's too far away, so...

01:12:46Yeah, I know.

01:12:46Wrap up to this other bar?

01:12:47Yes, let's do it.

01:12:48Okay, let's do it.

01:12:52Are we going to go in here?

01:12:54Yeah, yeah, we're going to go in here.

01:12:54Oh, this place looks so cute.

01:12:56Yeah.

01:12:57My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.

01:13:03But when I see Nat and I think my boyfriend lives with her,

01:13:06I'm like, is there something, like, I'm not understanding?

01:13:10Because I don't think there's a sexual connection,

01:13:12but, like, I think it's weird.

01:13:13I think it's so weird.

01:13:16Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.

01:13:20Okay.

01:13:20So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.

01:13:24I can make you love Sydney.

01:13:25I would love that.

01:13:27Are you staying in Sydney?

01:13:29Bondi, bitch.

01:13:31I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.

01:13:35Yep.

01:13:37Because today I found out that he was living with you.

01:13:39Yeah.

01:13:40I thought you knew that.

01:13:41Yeah, he was staying with me for a little bit.

01:13:46So, how did he ask to live with you?

01:13:48Like, how did this happen?

01:13:49He was kind of between places, and I was like,

01:13:52why don't you just come and stay with me?

01:13:53Because it was much closer for his work.

01:13:56And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.

01:14:00And I needed comfort.

01:14:03I needed someone there to...

01:14:04It's a lot.

01:14:05Yeah, shoulder to cry on.

01:14:06So, it worked out well.

01:14:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.

01:14:14There's a lot to unfold.

01:14:15I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.

01:14:18I've tried that.

01:14:19It's never succeeded for me.

01:14:20I have so many guy friends.

01:14:21Oh, yay!

01:14:22I have so many guy friends.

01:14:24And this is probably Australia.

01:14:26There's probably a little bit of a culture.

01:14:27It's a culture.

01:14:27It's a culture thing, yeah.

01:14:29It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.

01:14:30It's a rip or a leg back.

01:14:30We're a bit more easier than it.

01:14:32Yeah.

01:14:32And we trust more, I think.

01:14:34Yeah.

01:14:34We trust.

01:14:35Yeah.

01:14:37I think men and women can be friends.

01:14:39I have a lot of male friends.

01:14:40I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.

01:14:42He's my brother to me.

01:14:44So, I find it very weird.

01:14:46I think about lies around insecurities.

01:14:48And hopefully, they'll grow together and grow through that.

01:14:51Yeah.

01:14:51And that's how trust is built.

01:14:56I think that he's going to have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have

01:15:01to be completely honest.

01:15:07So, are you jealous of me and our relationship?

01:15:10I feel uneasy about it.

01:15:14Well, look, I get it.

01:15:15And hopefully, that can change, you know.

01:15:17I think it's more of the fact that we are living with her.

01:15:19I guess the question I have, are you paying?

01:15:22Like, are you letting them lay there for free?

01:15:24I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?

01:15:28Right, but...

01:15:29You have been generous.

01:15:30I'm being generous.

01:15:31I'm a generous person.

01:15:32And I love doing that for my friends.

01:15:34Yeah, I know.

01:15:34Well, I think that she's helping you financially.

01:15:37I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way.

01:15:41No, no, no, no, no, no.

01:15:42No, I don't.

01:15:43No, that's...

01:15:44No.

01:15:45That's...

01:15:45See, that...

01:15:45That offends me.

01:15:51She took me in and, like, like, helped me out.

01:15:54So, yeah, you could say financially, help me there.

01:15:56But in saying that, like, it's temporary.

01:15:58Everyone knows it's temporary.

01:16:00I should have been more clearer and I should have been more transparent.

01:16:04Let's put two and two together.

01:16:06Joshua's struggling financially.

01:16:08He's lied to me about living there.

01:16:11Something's fishy.

01:16:12Something's shady.

01:16:13I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.

01:16:17That's disgusting and weird.

01:16:19Like, that's not what I signed up for.

01:16:26Why do we have to live in your country?

01:16:28If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.

01:16:31I don't know if I can leave my family.

01:16:34I have been waiting here for the last seven years.

01:16:37If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.

01:16:43Sorry.

01:16:44I'm so sorry, Aksheen.

01:16:57So, that was eye-opening.

01:17:00Yeah, I know.

01:17:10It's just so much information all at once.

01:17:14Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.

01:17:17She and I just met with an immigration lawyer.

01:17:19And everything kind of blew up in my face.

01:17:25I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheena to the United States

01:17:30and everything figured out.

01:17:31But now, after hearing that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count, and it's going to take

01:17:38years.

01:17:39This is the biggest setback ever.

01:17:44There's just so many things going on in my head right now.

01:17:47I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.

01:17:51Well, for me, it's like I wanted to move in the U.S.

01:17:56But the thing is, it's been like seven years.

01:18:00Plus, you're going to add another two or three years while you find a job and save enough money for

01:18:05the K-1 visa.

01:18:35But, uh, I don't know.

01:18:36I think that's the best option for us.

01:18:42I still have my worries about that, though.

01:18:45With my autism, it makes things hard.

01:18:49And I know I am fighting with my mom and mom, but I don't know if I can leave my

01:18:54family.

01:18:58What makes me upset is, like, he loves his mom, his family.

01:19:02I understand that.

01:19:04But what about me?

01:19:05I have been waiting here for the last seven years.

01:19:09If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.

01:19:14So I will be the one who's stranded, and I will be hurt as well.

01:19:29I just really felt sad, disappointed.

01:19:33I was expecting you that I could be with my partner for the last seven years.

01:19:44I don't know.

01:19:51I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to...

01:19:57I don't want to give up my mom.

01:20:04Sorry.

01:20:05I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.

01:20:14Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day,

01:20:20I feel kind of stuck.

01:20:22Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love or my mother.

01:20:31This, this is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.

01:20:35She's my second half.

01:20:37I know she's the one for me.

01:20:40And just being with her, being able to talk, joke, have everything, I don't want to lose that.

01:20:46I won't give it away, I won't keep trying.

01:20:54Oh, no.

01:20:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.

01:21:01Teamwork makes the dream work, babe.

01:21:03Ah, you're going to play.

01:21:04Oh, I'm sorry.

01:21:05This is kind of turning me on, babe.

01:21:08I did not know.

01:21:09Rolling some pantheritya, could be sexy.

01:21:12I'm so hungry.

01:21:14You have pregnancy clearance?

01:21:17I haven't gotten my period yet.

01:21:19How would you feel if I was?

01:21:25Tell me you love her.

01:21:27If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.

01:21:30Dude, you made a move, you blow it.

01:21:32No, no, no, no, no, no.

01:21:34Laura made a move on me.

01:21:36I am thinking about sharing my life, and you are keeping secret from me?

01:21:41This is betrayal.

01:21:49Say, this water is cold.

01:21:52Ha, you can survive.

01:21:54I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying, and that I am a good partner for Trish.

01:22:10Going to Casablanca right now to see Mohamed, it's kind of surreal.

01:22:14I mean, I have my engagement ring Mohamed gave to me when he proposed.

01:22:19Putting this ring back on is actually bringing up old feelings.

01:22:23But I don't know how this meeting is going to go.

01:22:27My heart's racing.

01:22:34Why did you just leave?

01:22:37You're upset.

01:22:37So you don't care that I'm upset?

01:22:41So you just walk away from me?

01:22:43After what I found out about Nat, my mind is just in so many directions, and I'm freaking out.

01:22:51I don't know what the f*** is going on right now.

01:22:55I want to go home.

01:23:00She has gotten married five times, and from 21 years, she has been in a relationship with several women.

01:23:09Why am I hearing this one now?

01:23:12This is an abomination.

01:23:14No.

01:23:14I can't help what my past is like.

01:23:16I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.

01:23:20I can't believe you.

01:23:22Because of this, the marriage will be over.

01:23:26I can't breathe.

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