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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02Girls trip! Woo!
00:04I've recently filed for divorce,
00:06so what better way to celebrate them with a girls trip?
00:09Sophie B, all here because of you,
00:11and we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:14I've been talking to this guy. His name is Pedro.
00:18And, yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantel and Pedro.
00:23But I don't want to rush it the same way I rushed my marriage.
00:26You're separated right now. Are you still married?
00:28Are you married? I'm still technically married.
00:30Any hookups with him? Yeah.
00:32They've been hookups,
00:34and she never told me they did hookups before.
00:36What the we doing here?
00:40I want to look good for Natalie,
00:42so I bought a couple of new shirts.
00:44My first attempt at dating Natalie, it didn't go very well.
00:47But I asked her if I could visit her, and she said yes.
00:51I have some nervousness. It's a little nerve-wracking.
00:55I know it's my last shot,
00:56and I cannot mess it up.
00:59I have two roommates.
01:01Oh, two.
01:02I used to date one of them.
01:04Sadly, I cheated on her.
01:06It is hard as to find a good man in your 50s.
01:11Maybe dating isn't something
01:13you should be stressing too hard about.
01:14You have a lot of other things going on.
01:17I've been carrying a really big secret
01:19for about 30 years.
01:21Jamal has an older brother named Larry
01:22that I put up for adoption.
01:24You think you're going to have, like, a deep talk with him?
01:26I have to have a deep talk with him.
01:28About what?
01:29About the other one.
01:31Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:34I also had a daughter.
01:36And I didn't know her.
01:38And I couldn't believe in the 90s.
01:43I'm an Oscar.
01:56I don't know.
01:58Alright, baby.
01:59I don't know if you get up for it.
02:01I can't see her.
02:03There's no cards in the 90s.
02:05I have to have to sit at the 90s.
02:05Yo pello la panorama
02:08Es más de lo que nos lleva a hacer la panorama
02:14Yo sé que ella le sube pareja, no la trató como la tiene que tratar
02:18Y tú eres experto en eso
02:20As I said that Sophie is here and they are with her friends
02:23I really, really want a relationship with Sophie
02:25But she has sex with the ex a couple of months ago
02:29So I don't know if she's ready to let her go to pass
02:33Le gusta estar como una princesa, una reina
02:35Todo lo que ella quiera
02:37Tú sabes, voy a tratar de hacerlo
02:40Pero todo depende de todo lo que ella quiera
02:43I don't like this situation
02:45But I want to let her go because I like her
02:48And I want to do whatever it is to win Sophie over
02:51How did your conversation go?
02:53We're getting to know each other
02:54But that's the extent that I'm ready for
02:57If he just lets me open up myself
03:00It will be better for me
03:02You need to take a step back
03:03Yes
03:04And you will take a step forward
03:05Go forward, yeah, yeah
03:07Pedro's coming on very strong
03:09You know what Pedro asked me?
03:10He asked me if I Rob
03:12And what do you say?
03:13I said truth?
03:14Yeah, I said the truth
03:15Why am I going to lie?
03:16And what did he say?
03:17He was not happy
03:18Oh
03:19Like I feel like he kind of was judging me
03:21Even if you say yes, I sleep with him yesterday
03:24Before I came to DR
03:27It's nothing because you have a relationship
03:29You are dating
03:30Come with me, I need a pill
03:35Hi, Sophie
03:36Oh, hi
03:37Bella
03:38What's up, bro?
03:39Hi
03:39How you doing?
03:41I'm having a great time
03:42Sophie been talking about me?
03:45So Sophie's definitely been like
03:47Like he's the first guy to buy me flowers
03:49And she said that you're so like respectful
03:53Like very sweet
03:55You're very sweet and romantic
03:57Are we serious about her?
03:58I am
03:59Are y'all?
04:01I am
04:02Yeah, hi
04:02You thinking that she really want this?
04:05That she being a little decent these days, you know?
04:07I see
04:08You know she just recently is just getting out of this marriage and relationship
04:13And it seems like you've been kind of separated and divorced for a while
04:16She's in the beginning stages of trying to like discover like where she's at
04:21That's really scary, like she want to discover more that side
04:25No, no, no, not discover more
04:27She needs to
04:28She's still healing
04:30She's still healing?
04:31Healing, yeah
04:32Yeah
04:34I didn't feel that Lisa's holding back and she's not telling me the whole story
04:38She didn't say directly
04:40But this made me think that Sophie's not ready for a relationship
04:44Like what the ? I've been doing all those things for you
04:47And right now maybe you're not ready for a relationship?
04:50That made me feel like a freaking idiot
04:52What are we interrupting right now?
04:55Nothing absolutely nothing
04:56What are we doing?
04:57I think in VR
04:59Tyrants
05:00No
05:00And we have to go back to the resort
05:02I'm ready for bed
05:04Let's bring you to the band ladies, okay?
05:06I'm wearing a bachata
05:09I came to the DR to be single and mingle
05:13And first night crushed it
05:15I'll see you tomorrow, okay?
05:17Make sure he gets home safe
05:18Make sure he gets home safe
05:19I'll go ahead and give you a text so you have my number, okay?
05:20Thank you
05:20All right
05:21Have a good night
05:22I even got a number
05:23Via is so sexy and so sweet
05:26I'm so excited to see him again
05:28Are you still tomorrow?
05:29Yes
05:30Yes, for sure?
05:31Yeah, let me know what you're gonna do
05:33Okay
05:33A little to the beach maybe
05:35Do something like that
05:35Yeah, I wanna go to the beach
05:36Honestly for me the night has just been very overwhelming
05:39And Pedro definitely came on a lot stronger tonight than I anticipated
05:44Him pushing me forward or trying to pressure me to something is only gonna make me step back
05:48And things between us are just gonna end before they've even started
05:52Pedro just needs to take things a little bit slower
05:55Yeah
05:56You look beautiful
05:56Thank you
05:57Thank you
05:58And then tomorrow we see you, okay?
06:00Okay, see tomorrow
06:01I see you
06:02I want a relationship with Sophie
06:03I feel like she's like a true diamond
06:05And I know that we can be really good together
06:09Bye, princess
06:10Bye
06:10Take care
06:11But if she's not serious about me, what's she doing the hard with me?
06:16I don't know what's going on
06:18It's freaking up
06:34As much as I want to sit here and like talk about how like I feel bad for you and
06:39stuff
06:39I don't expect you to feel bad for me
06:41I've never asked you to
06:42I know I don't
06:52Like I know it's like a lot for you
06:55But I caused it
06:56Yeah, it's your fault
07:00So I just don't have Jamal as a son
07:03I have Larry who I put up for adoption when I was 21 years old
07:10Last year when I told Jamal of all of this and all of this opened
07:16It hurt worse because I had hid it for so long
07:22It just sucks dude
07:23Like me thinking I was the only child
07:25But then finding out
07:26Not only am I not only child, I have like multiple siblings
07:34Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption
07:37I also had a daughter a year later
07:39My relationship with Jamal's dad at that point was not good
07:42And I had to do what was best for me at the time
07:48I don't regret what I did
07:49But I'm not happy with what I did either
07:55Because you're bringing these beautiful beings into this world
08:02And you feel that motherly love and you feel that maternal thing
08:05And knowing what you're doing and knowing that you're giving them up for adoption
08:11It's probably one of the hardest thing I think any birth mother has to go through
08:17I knew about my sister when I was 12 and then I found out about Larry
08:21Because he found you
08:23A year ago
08:24It's like
08:25Why in that gap you didn't just tell me about him?
08:29I just didn't know how
08:30I really just did not know how
08:33When Jamal was 12, he overheard me and my mother talking about his sister
08:39And that's how Jamal found out
08:41I think I only told Jamal about one because I just thought to me like one would make sense
08:46But to do it twice, I didn't want to him up
08:52Did I handle it well? No, not at all
08:56I don't know, I really feel for Larry not telling him about our full blood sister
09:03I feel like every time I talk to him, it's like I'm like
09:06Hiding a truth from him and I feel like about it
09:11Do you not think I feel like too?
09:16I didn't tell Larry about his sister when he first found me
09:19Because I was like trying to get to know him
09:21He was trying to get to know me and I just couldn't figure out a way to tell him
09:27But now Larry wants to come visit us
09:29And I have to go into this being completely 100% transparent
09:35We can't build a strong, honest relationship if I'm keeping secrets from him
09:43So I'm going to tell him about his sister
09:45But I feel like I don't want you to be there when I tell him
09:48So don't worry about that, I'll take care of myself
09:49Why would I not be there?
09:51I feel like I do want to be there
09:52Because like
09:54And I don't want to sound like a dick
09:56But I don't know what you're going to tell him
09:58I'm going to tell him the truth
10:00I don't know
10:01I don't know
10:05I feel really protective of Larry because I don't want my mom to lie to him
10:11Like she lied to me
10:15I'm hoping me and my mom can get back to how we used to be
10:20But it's going to take a lot of rebuilding of trust
10:24Like her actually being transparent with Larry
10:27Because right now I just don't trust her anymore
10:35Anyway, let me know when Larry's coming
10:47All right, I'm out
10:48All right, love you
10:49Bye
10:56Telling Larry about his sister is going to be really difficult
10:59But I know I have to do this because it's killing me
11:02It is literally killing me
11:05And it's like I feel like I'm like drowning sometimes
11:08And I have to like swim just to get to the top
11:14You know, the way I handled it was terrible
11:16It was awful
11:17Do you think this was easy for me to live with my whole life?
11:21For 30, 35 years? 34 years?
11:24It was awful
11:25All of this has affected my self-esteem, my self-worth
11:29But I feel like now I have to like gain Jamal's trust back
11:33I want to build a bigger relationship with Larry
11:37And I feel like I want to find love
11:39I want somebody to accept me for all this craziness that's going on
11:44I think having Larry out here and just talking to him and being real
11:47And then, you know, just having transparent conversations
11:49It's going to help a lot
11:50That's what I'm hopeful for
11:55Morning, family
11:57Morning
11:58Morning
12:00Courtney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat in Mexico
12:03Things got romantic
12:05So she invited me to live with her in Florida
12:07At her parents' house
12:11There it is, there it is
12:12Ooh, nice one
12:13Do you think they have sex more than we do?
12:16I think it's more than what we're doing, so
12:20I was talking to Liz
12:21She told me like, oh yeah, you do amazing thing for Sophie
12:26But are you sure that she wanna be with you?
12:30She made me feel like, how to say, be careful
12:33Wait, what did she exactly say?
12:36To go behind my back, that's breaking girl code
12:39Like, you don't do that
12:40I'm really pissed
12:58Is there anyone golfing with us today?
13:00No, just us
13:01Okay, okay
13:04Joe at the club the other day told me a funny joke
13:07How come most golfers bring two pairs of pants with them?
13:11I don't know, why?
13:13In case they get a hole in one
13:15I like that
13:16So I gotta bring three pair with me
13:19Get some more pants here
13:26You guys are being so loud
13:28So slow
13:28What are you guys doing?
13:31We're getting ready to go golf
13:33Good morning sunshine
13:43Well I'm glad you're up Courtney
13:49Because this morning I woke up at 4 o'clock
13:52Because I was freezing
13:52And I looked at the thermostat
13:54And it was set on 67 degrees
13:59What does that say right now?
14:01If somebody's sick
14:02Yeah, and that's where it's gonna stay
14:03Because we pay the bills
14:05I'm Courtney, I'm 34
14:07I live with my parents in Orlando, Florida
14:10So hot last night, I couldn't sleep
14:12Courtney, when you own your own house
14:14You can freeze all you want
14:16I live with my parents because
14:18They're better than any roommate I've had
14:20Sorry
14:21Yeah, sorry, that don't pay the bills
14:24And also, when I've lived with roommates
14:26It's so much drama
14:28It's almost like being in the jungle or something
14:30I think I'm just like prancing around like a little
14:32Just gazelle, whatever they're called
14:34And people are just like
14:35I don't need that in my life
14:37I just want peace, quiet
14:40Like, live a nice retirement lifestyle
14:43When we were your age
14:44We were almost on our second home by then
14:46With two little kids and mouse to feed
14:51I've been telling my parents for years
14:53I don't want to move out until I get married
14:55But my love life has been all drama
15:03One of my biggest heartbreaks was Antonio
15:06We met online, I flew to Spain to meet him
15:08We got along great
15:10Like, I thought he was the one
15:13But there were too many trust issues
15:15Like, I picked up your phone for like five seconds
15:17And you're like texting like
15:19Angel, Paulina, Maria
15:22What's the problem? I got friends
15:24Okay
15:25Since Antonio, I've dated a bunch
15:28But it seems like things always end with me in tears
15:31It makes me sad how much you've changed
15:34People do change for her
15:36I don't like it
15:37And I think my parents are starting to worry
15:40That I might be living with them forever
15:45I love living with you guys
15:46I think you're the best roommates I've had
15:49Well, yeah, because mom does your laundry for you
15:51And cooks for you and gets your groceries
15:53What is this?
15:55Oh my god
15:57Sorry, mom
16:00What's that all about?
16:02I have no idea
16:05You put your underwear in my mom's laundry
16:07Again
16:09This is like the third time you've done it
16:11Oh
16:13Good morning
16:15No, I'm not delusional
16:19I'm just unusual
16:22So my God, you're so obsessed with me
16:27I just woke up and my dad's already mad at me for messing with the thermostat
16:31It keeps it a little too high
16:33I'm Colt, I'm 39 years old and I live in Orlando, Florida
16:37With my girlfriend Courtney
16:39And her parents
16:40I know it's one of his number one rules
16:44Now shall not change the thermostat
16:45Yeah, and put your dirty underwear in the laundry
16:48I did put it in the laundry, I put it in the basket
16:52Courtney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat in Mexico
16:56I was there because, unfortunately, I have not been lucky in love
17:04Larissa was my first wife, a fiery Brazilian
17:07Coach, you're a fat loser that lives with your mother
17:10But unfortunately, things got toxic really fast
17:13F*** you asshole
17:16I met Jess after my divorce from Larissa
17:20What?
17:22No! What the f***?
17:23You lie!
17:24What are you talking about?
17:25Vanessa talking with two friends, you talk every day!
17:28I cheated on Jess
17:29With a woman named Vanessa
17:32Who would literally become my second wife
17:35After being married for three years
17:37She told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore
17:39She wasn't in love with me
17:40And it broke my f***ing heart
17:42I just f***ing had it
17:46I always go into relationships with the best of intentions
17:49I want things to work out
17:50But somehow or another, I mess things up
17:53I hope things can be different with Courtney
17:57Morning, family!
17:59Morning!
18:00Sorry about the laundry, guys
18:02I really appreciate everything you guys have been doing
18:05How is your leg?
18:06You know, I still feel a lot of pain most days
18:09But I think everything happens for a reason
18:12Like, we're together because of it
18:14Oh my God!
18:16Are you okay, Will?
18:18The leg I broke
18:20Can't move it
18:21While I was at the singles retreat in Mexico
18:23I was leaving Courtney's room
18:25And I slipped and fell
18:27And I broke my leg
18:28I have five fractures in my knee
18:31Colt was in the hospital for about three weeks
18:34I was there with him almost 24-7
18:37So that's when we really started bonding
18:40So now you're here
18:42Aw
18:44Things got romantic
18:46So when I was discharged
18:47She invited me to live with her in Florida
18:50She knew I didn't have anywhere to go
18:52I had a long road to recovery
18:54And she wanted to help me as much as possible
18:57I'm glad you're here
18:58I'm glad I'm here too
19:00I know you're in a lot of pain
19:02But why don't you guys come golf with us?
19:04You can ride in the golf cart
19:06Get some fresh air
19:07Do you wanna go?
19:08Yeah, that'd be great
19:09Okay, if you're gonna go, let's go
19:11Let's go get ready, I'll help you
19:12Okay
19:19Do you want your titties shaved?
19:21I guess
19:23Oh, look at that
19:25I brought him to Florida
19:27To help him go through physical therapy
19:30Take care of him
19:31And I really hoped he'd be further along in his recovery by now
19:35But basically, I'm his full-time nurse
19:38Do you wanna wear the green or the tan?
19:40I'll leave the tan
19:41Okay
19:43He could barely even wipe his ass by himself
19:46They're tight
19:47They're tight
19:49I feel some things should probably be left unseen
19:52Especially so early on in a relationship
19:58So
19:59Push
19:59Oh my God, you're gonna knock me out
20:06Off-road driving
20:09Here
20:11Okay
20:13Straight ahead, I believe
20:14You got this
20:15I have confidence in you
20:18Your turn, Courtney
20:20Good luck
20:22Oh
20:22You got this
20:23You went up too steep
20:26There you go
20:26Yay, Courtney
20:28I see it
20:33There it is, there it is
20:34Ooh, nice one
20:36They're so cute
20:37You think they have sex more than we do?
20:39Oh my God
20:40Like, ew, why are you thinking that?
20:43But anything is more than what we're doing, so
20:47Yeah
20:49We haven't had sex
20:50Full-on sex yet
20:52Right now, the plumbing doesn't work so well
20:56Oh my God
20:57We'll get there
20:59It's a grower, you know
21:01But it's very majestic when it's fully, you know
21:04Realized
21:06It makes me feel, like, insecure
21:09Like, am I your type?
21:11You're definitely my type
21:11I mean, you know, we've had some success
21:15But it's just when we transition into penetration
21:20Then I kind of
21:23Go down
21:24But why?
21:25I don't know, it hurts
21:26I'm moving my body around
21:27There's a lot of expectation
21:28I'm still on medicine
21:32Colt is, like, known for being, like, a horny bunny
21:35Like, he wants to do it hourly
21:37He wants it all the time
21:38So, the fact he can't get it up from me
21:41It's making me wonder, like, is Colt here because he's into me?
21:46Or is he here out of convenience?
21:47Because he basically has everything provided for him
21:50He's not paying rents, he's not paying bills
21:52He has it pretty good
21:54We're in this weird situation
21:57Because I feel like I've known you forever
21:59We get along, we don't argue
22:01But then it's like, okay, I don't really know you
22:04I've only known you, like, a month or two
22:06Yeah
22:07Let's be honest, like, your exes are constantly online
22:09Like, oh, you're a liar, you're a cheater
22:11Like, they're not saying anything good about you
22:14Why were they with me then?
22:16I mean, I'm sure they liked you in the beginning
22:18Until you cheated on them
22:21I mean, sure, I have a past
22:23But, you know, it doesn't mean I'm always gonna do that
22:25It doesn't mean I can't be a good guy for you
22:29Trust is everything in a relationship
22:31But I do struggle to trust men in general
22:34Because a lot of them do lie and cheat
22:36I want to believe that Colt has changed
22:39Maybe he's matured, maybe he's grown up
22:41Like, I know that we have a lot to figure out
22:44But I want to do it with you
22:46I want to figure out all these problems with you everyday
22:49As we grow old together
22:50I mean, I've always wanted to get married, have kids, have a family
22:55Like, I feel me and Colt are aligned
22:58We have a lot of the same goals
23:00So I'm hoping it works
23:02It has to work
23:04We'll get there
23:08I didn't like the way it ended for us
23:10I understand that you didn't create the havoc
23:14But there's a lot I didn't, I felt I didn't know
23:17I haven't seen Gino in almost a year
23:19I want to believe that he truly made a mistake
23:22But I don't know if I can trust Gino
23:24I don't know if I can trust anything he says
23:39It's a little nerve wracking
23:40Because I haven't seen Natalie in a long time
23:42This is my chance
23:44One, two, three, turn around
23:46Don't you watch me now
23:48Just turn around
23:49Touch your knees, don't look
23:51Just turn around
23:52Do it now, you'll make me comfortable
23:56Hey!
23:57Gino!
23:58How are you?
24:00I'm good, how are you?
24:02Doing good!
24:03Long time on the sea, how are you?
24:05Yeah, how are you?
24:06I'm good, I'm good
24:07You look thinner
24:08You look thinner
24:10After all the drama that happened
24:13I did not expect Natalie to give me a second chance
24:17I'm on your home turf this time
24:18I know, this time you're in D.C.
24:21I am absolutely super excited to have this opportunity to reconnect with her
24:27And make things right
24:29Oh my gosh, it's so cool here
24:31Yeah
24:32You have some beautiful trees and hills and parks
24:39You seem a little nervous, are you okay?
24:43Well I am nervous, I do have a little nerves coming here
24:46Because last time we were together, you know, it didn't end very well
24:50No, it didn't
24:51You stormed out of the hotel and you were upset with me
24:55Well yeah, I mean, that was a disaster
25:01So I haven't seen Gino in almost a year in person
25:04And I really don't know how I feel about it right now
25:07Because Gino has a lot of explaining to do
25:10When I met Gino, one of my first questions that I asked him is
25:14Are you single?
25:15He said he was separated, about to get a divorce
25:19But then he invited me to come to Michigan and meet his family
25:24And I was kind of surprised by some of his cousin Michelle's comments
25:31What's the deal with you and Jasmine?
25:33I mean, you guys just actually went out and had dinner
25:39Was there hope for progress when you went?
25:42I mean, slight, slight
25:46You know, he basically lied to me
25:49So I just wanted to get out of there
25:52And before I could, Jasmine walked in the door
25:56And attacked me
25:57Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
26:01Don't get close to me
26:03Don't you
26:04Relax, relax
26:06No, no
26:07Don't you
26:07Listen
26:09Get off me
26:13I totally understand why you're upset after all that chaos at the party
26:18I understand that you wouldn't
26:19You didn't create the havoc
26:22But you kind of did create the havoc
26:24Because I, there was a lot I didn't, I felt I didn't know
26:30I shouldn't have been there in the first place
26:33You know, that's how I felt
26:34Okay, that makes a little more sense
26:37Because I didn't like the way it ended for us
26:39Neither did I
26:40And I'm a little bit more recovered, I guess
26:44Well, that's good
26:45Knowing, knowing
26:46It's taken some time
26:48It doesn't happen right away
26:49I know that
26:50I knew that
26:51I wasn't fully recovered
26:53No, and I could tell
26:55But anyway, it's all over
26:56It's all over, it's done with
26:57Like, you're here now
26:59Like, what do you want?
27:04Well, obviously
27:06I want to like, just hang out
27:08Like we did in Vegas
27:09We had fun together
27:11And it was, you know, a good vibe, you know
27:14I mean, I like that idea, you know
27:17I like putting the past in the past
27:18And, you know, starting new
27:20Yeah
27:24You know, as much as I like Gino
27:25I'm approaching this weekend with a lot of caution
27:28I'm not going to deny that he's hurt me
27:30But, you know, I understand what it's like to go through
27:33A destructive marriage and things happen
27:35I want to believe that he truly made a mistake
27:39The weather's pretty
27:40But we can go back to my place
27:44Ooh, you're inviting me to your place
27:45Oh my gosh, I'm scared
27:48But, I don't know if I can trust Gino
27:51I don't know if I can trust anything he says
27:53Let's go, let's do it
27:54I got an umbrella too
27:57If Gino wants something romantic with me, more than friends
28:01He's got to prove that he's going to be honest
28:03He's got to prove that he really wants this
28:06So we'll see if he can
28:08I can roll
28:13I like things clear, you know
28:15I've been clear to you
28:17If you find somebody that doesn't want to sit down
28:19They're going to have some fun, you open to that with somebody else
28:22I am single, so I'm allowed to do whatever
28:25I thought that we were exclusive with each other
28:27If you die with the game to the begin, that you are single, and I am single
28:32What the I do all of this for you?
28:38I'm craving something wild
28:43Look at my ears with my eyes
28:46Okay, I have this yellow dress
28:48Okay, oh I like it, I like this one
28:50It's pretty cute
28:52Yeah, I need to be bitching
28:54Why you put this dress there?
28:57Because I'm going to wear this one
28:58Seriously?
29:00Okay, let me look at your boobs
29:06I'm going to get ready
29:12Okay, clear up a good look
29:13Give me a hug
29:14Thank you
29:14I'll let you know how it goes
29:16Last night with Prejo and his friends was just very awkward for me
29:21Prejo was just coming on a lot stronger than he has in the past
29:25It's not even that I don't appreciate the effort that he's making
29:28It's not that, it's more so I can just feel he's putting too much pressure on it
29:35You look amazing
29:36Hello, thank you, how are you?
29:38Good, how are you?
29:39I'm good
29:40I do like Prejo, like I want to get to know him
29:43I want to go on dates and see where things go
29:46Thank you
29:47You're welcome
29:48But I just finished with my marriage and I'm healing from it
29:51You feel good?
29:52Yeah
29:53He just needs to chill
29:54That's all he needs to do is just chill
29:55And let us get to know each other naturally
29:57And like people usually do when they just meet
30:04How do you feel today?
30:07I feel like I'm kind of tired
30:09Your hair look amazing
30:11Thank you
30:11Do you prefer a straight or curly?
30:13I love both
30:14You look amazing in every way
30:17Oh
30:18Oh wow
30:20That's look nice
30:22Did you have a good time yesterday?
30:23Yeah
30:24I had a good time, you know
30:26A little awkward
30:27But
30:27It was really awkward
30:29This made me a little worried about
30:31You know, because yesterday
30:32I was talking to Liz
30:34And then she told me like
30:36Oh yeah
30:37You do amazing thing for Sophie
30:40You give you flowers
30:41You give you this
30:42You give you that
30:42But
30:43Are you sure that she wanna be with you?
30:51That's made me a little bit like
30:53What's going on here?
30:54Like
30:55What did she exactly say?
30:57She made me feel
30:58Like
30:58A little bit like
31:00Insecure
31:00About
31:01All the things I've been doing
31:04Maybe
31:04Are you hiring another guy in your mind?
31:06She made me feel a bit like
31:09How to say
31:10Like be careful
31:12I invited Liz
31:13To the Dominican Republic
31:14I thought we were friends
31:15And then
31:16To go behind my back
31:17She knows this
31:18Up
31:18She just met Pedro
31:20That's not even her friend
31:21That's breaking girl code
31:23Like
31:23You don't do that
31:25I'm really pissed
31:29I was in a relationship
31:30When I was 20 years old
31:32Pretty much
31:32My whole adult life
31:33I wanna figure out
31:34What I want
31:35I don't know what it is
31:36I'm 33 years old
31:37You know
31:38Looking for
31:39A serious relationship
31:40We're not
31:41At the same pace
31:43I don't want you to like
31:45Wait around for
31:46When I'm ready
31:47I just want us to like
31:48Get to know each other
31:48Like
31:49You want me to like
31:50Go
31:51Date other people
31:52If someone comes along
31:54And she's like
31:55Ready right now
31:56To settle down
31:57And have kids
31:58And everything you want
31:59I'm not gonna say to you
32:00No
32:01Be loyal to me
32:01When I'm not ready
32:02That's extremely selfish
32:03How about
32:04If you find somebody
32:05They don't wanna settle down
32:06They're gonna have some fun
32:07You open to that
32:08With somebody else
32:09I am single
32:10So I'm allowed to do whatever
32:14I thought that we were exclusive
32:16With each other
32:17I thought that we were exclusive
32:18And that we're going to come
32:18Into this trip
32:19To try
32:20To get everything settled
32:22To move to a relationship
32:24If that were the game
32:25To the beginning
32:26That you are single
32:27And I am single
32:28What the
32:29I do all of this for you
32:30I'm not going to spend my time
32:32My money
32:33My good intention
32:33With someone
32:34They're not really wanted
32:36I like things clear
32:37You know
32:38I've been clear to you
32:44No you didn't
32:44Yes I did
32:47The truth
32:49You told me
32:50You was already healed
32:51I have never once told you
32:53I have healed
32:53And I'm ready for relationship
32:54I have never told you that
32:55Sophie
32:55No, never told you that
32:56Never told you that
33:00I'm really not understanding
33:01Why he's acting like this is
33:02Like brand new information
33:03I know I've said this
33:05Because I've made a point
33:05Because it's so important to me
33:07And I've told him that
33:08So for him to then say
33:09Oh, you've never told me that
33:10It's like
33:11It's frustrating
33:14Don't act like
33:14I've said something
33:15I haven't said
33:17Sophie
33:18Are you telling the truth?
33:19I don't want to lie to you
33:20You are lying to me right now
33:22I don't lie to you
33:23Yes you are
33:26And even last night
33:27Like I wasn't acting like
33:29That's my man
33:30Like I wasn't
33:30You know
33:31Being all over him
33:32And touching him
33:33I'm literally making sure
33:34Like I'm not giving him
33:35Mixed signals
33:36At all
33:39I'm not going to fight with you
33:40Back and forth
33:40If you tell me
33:41You tell me
33:41What's my fault
33:42I don't like when people say
33:43I'm a liar
33:45When I ask you
33:46That's going to have time
33:56If she needs time to heal her marriage
33:59What's she doing deal with me?
34:01You ready?
34:02Whatever
34:04I'm not a healer
34:06I'm not a doctor
34:08I'm not a doctor
34:09I'm not a doctor
34:10I don't want Sophie
34:12To play games with me
34:13I'm not interested in that
34:16Miss?
34:17No
34:17No
34:18Hell no
34:19Not with me
34:23He's having issues right now
34:25He's not able to get
34:26Like up
34:27Oh
34:28It's like blowing up a balloon
34:30It's like
34:31It's getting there
34:32Getting there
34:33And I was like
34:36There is a girl
34:37That
34:38I was talking to
34:39Before I
34:40Even went to the resort
34:42Where does she live?
34:43She's in Brazil
34:44Oh
34:44Yeah
34:45Here we go again
34:46Diana and I met
34:48A year ago
34:49Online
34:50Are you still in contact
34:51With Diana?
34:53Do the right thing
35:07Let's get wet and juicy
35:10That doesn't sound right
35:12I think it sounds delicious
35:21How was your trip?
35:22I heard you got a boy now
35:24Yeah
35:24How was your trip?
35:24You don't miss being single?
35:28She'll be single in like a month
35:29Oh my god
35:33As much as I love Colts
35:35It's a little like dragging down my vibe
35:37Being a full-time caregiver
35:39I feel like a caged animal
35:41Like I'm a cat
35:43Stuck inside the house
35:44When really I want to be out roaming the streets
35:46So I'm so excited for Girls Day
35:49For cocktails
35:50To have a good time
35:51Turn up
35:51Woohoo
35:53So what do you like about him?
35:55I feel like we connect on a deep level
35:57Like I feel comfortable with him
35:59I could be myself with him
36:01But he's having issues right now
36:04Like he's not able to get like up
36:07He's not able to get what?
36:10Up
36:10Like
36:11His thing doesn't work?
36:13Yeah
36:13Oh
36:14Oh
36:17Well cuddle or kiss
36:19So like he's done stuff to me
36:21But I haven't done stuff to him
36:22But it's like okay
36:23What am I supposed to do?
36:24Like play with your
36:24The whole night?
36:26Like I don't know what you want me to do
36:27That's never fun
36:29It's like blowing up a balloon
36:31It's like
36:32It's getting there, getting there
36:34And then it's like
36:49How you doing Mark?
36:51What's going on dude?
36:52Been a while man
36:54Well a lot has happened
36:55I broke my leg in Mexico
36:59Dude we gotta get you like a bubble wrap outfit or something
37:02Mark has been a really good friend for the past few years
37:06He's been there with me through several relationships
37:09And he's definitely aware of my dating mishaps
37:12And he's not afraid to call out my bull
37:14And right now I really need an honest perspective
37:17So when I was at the retreat I met somebody
37:20So
37:20Alright let's hear it
37:21Her name's Courtney
37:22We connected on a lot of different levels
37:24And we kind of got this like relationship going while we're there
37:28And then she asked me if I wanted to come back with her
37:31And live with her in Florida
37:32Wait stop it
37:34You're in her house right now?
37:35I'm in her house right now
37:36You guys live together?
37:37We live together
37:38Been here for over a month now
37:39Holy crap
37:40Congratulations dude
37:41Wow
37:42Yeah
37:43But Courtney lives with her parents
37:45So I live with Courtney and her mom and dad
37:49Here we go
37:50Here we go
37:51Alright how's that going?
37:53What's that look like?
37:54Uh it's been pretty good
37:55They're very patient
37:56They're very sweet people
37:57But the energy is weird
38:00Courtney is very shy
38:01And our intimacy isn't exactly where I want it to be
38:05My past relationships have been very spicy
38:10I've dated a few Brazilian women
38:12And they like to
38:16Mmm
38:17Code make me want sex all the time
38:24On the other hand
38:25Courtney is like watching Little House on the Prairie
38:27It's quality
38:28But after a while it gets a little bored
38:32I don't know
38:33You have a girl that just
38:34It gets so energetic
38:35That just
38:35On your d***
38:37That like her life depends upon it
38:40That type of energy you know
38:41And then you go to somebody that's just like
38:43Yeah do whatever you want
38:44You know what I mean?
38:45It's just
38:46It's just not the same
38:47It's hard to go back to that
38:49Oh
38:54I don't know if he's not attracted to me
38:56Or if it's just like
38:57He's not getting enough blood flow
38:59Because of his broken leg
39:01So I'm trying to be supportive
39:02I'm trying to be his rock I feel like
39:04But then yeah I do have like doubts or fears
39:07Like what's he doing behind my back?
39:08What do you mean?
39:09I was helping him upload something on social media
39:12And then it shows me all the women he's been messaging
39:15And I'm like
39:16All?
39:17I didn't even dig deep
39:18I just went to like a few messages down
39:20And he told a girl hey gorgeous
39:21I'm doing all this stuff for you
39:24And then you're like messaging other women
39:27Like are you kidding me?
39:28I know you want like to get married and stuff like that
39:31But something's fishy about this
39:34He definitely doesn't sound like Mr. Right
39:36He's talking to other girls behind her back
39:39And I've had that happen in relationships
39:40And it never works out
39:42He can't even get it up
39:44He can't provide anything
39:46Way too many red flags
39:47He is the red flag
39:50He needs to realize that
39:51He's actually lucky to have you
39:53Because he is
39:56Are you able to talk to her about like deep stuff?
39:59And the future and relationships?
40:02Yeah
40:02But she knows my reputation
40:04And she thinks like
40:05I'm just gonna leave or cheat or whatever one day
40:08So Courtney is worried that
40:09She'll be like another victim basically
40:11Are you still living that way dude?
40:13Be honest with me
40:17So
40:19Well there is a girl that I was talking to
40:22Before I even went to the resort
40:24Where does she live?
40:25She's in Brazil
40:26Oh
40:28Yeah
40:29Here we go kid
40:30Yeah
40:31Diana and I met a year ago online
40:35Originally I had plans to meet Diana in Brazil
40:38After the singles retreat ended
40:41But meeting Courtney and my injury ultimately changed those plans
40:46Are you still in contact with Diana?
40:49I still talk to Diana
40:52It's been hard to let her go
40:55Me and Courtney right now
40:56I'm taking it one day at a time
40:58But I don't want to hurt her
40:59I care about her
41:00There's definitely feelings there
41:01But I don't
41:02I really don't know what to do
41:04I mean this does sound a lot
41:06Like things you've been through in the past right?
41:09Yeah
41:11And there's a situation where you could hurt her
41:13And I know you don't want to do that
41:14You want to get out of these cycles
41:18Every relationship I've been in has ended
41:21Because I've cheated or lied
41:23Or a combination of both
41:25I love Courtney
41:26I never wanted to keep secrets from her
41:28But if I tell her about Diana
41:31She's never going to trust me again
41:33This might be an opportunity for you to sort of
41:36Take that next step in your personal growth
41:38And have some hard conversations
41:40Yeah
41:41You know do the right thing
41:42I don't know man
41:47Next time on The Single Life
41:49I am Vanya
41:51I have been single for about a year
41:53I'm starting to wonder if the guy for me
41:56Has been right in front of me this whole entire time
41:58His name is Tony
42:01Is that your friend Tony?
42:03Yeah
42:03I kissed him
42:04Oh my god girl
42:06We haven't made it clear if we're exclusive
42:08If we're dating
42:09You need to have a conversation with him
42:12If I have this conversation
42:14There is no going back
42:15Our friendship will be changed forever
42:18How are your day with Pedro?
42:20We definitely did not mesh well at the end
42:22It flipped so quick
42:23And he's ignored me since the day
42:26At this point I am starting to panic a bit
42:28Because what if Pedro just never takes me back?
42:30And we can give up
42:33You know I'm happy that you came here
42:36But I just keep seeing that you have this online battle
42:41Deal with Jasmine back and forth
42:44To me it's a red flag because there's a thin line
42:48Between love and hate
42:49Does he have these unresolved feelings for Jasmine?
42:55Yeah
42:56Oh
42:58Yes
42:59Sexy
42:59He looks sexy
43:02What are you doing?
43:04I really want this relationship to work with Colt
43:07But we have major issues
43:09His leg is broken
43:10Trust issues
43:11His erectile dysfunction
43:13We're not able to have sex
43:15So by now you're fully committed to Courtney
43:17At this point
43:18100%
43:19I'm sorry I feel like you're using her
43:21Using her?
43:22Yes
43:22Do you have like a gut feeling?
43:24Because like that's usually what we go by
43:26I don't know
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