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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03God will give you people happy home.
00:00:05I bless you in a marriage.
00:00:07I say you shall be well with two people in a case.
00:00:11I have done everything Daniel has asked of me
00:00:14so that we can get married.
00:00:16But technically, I'm still married to a woman.
00:00:20And I have to tell him soon.
00:00:24Josh is kind. He's super sweet.
00:00:26So I'm going to Australia.
00:00:28Yeah, hold on. Where are you staying?
00:00:30He lives with his parents.
00:00:32But when I come, he's going to get a rental
00:00:35and split it with a roommate.
00:00:37No!
00:00:39In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia
00:00:42to meet Josh for the first time.
00:00:44But he sent me a text last night
00:00:46that was super alarming.
00:00:49I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
00:00:53So yeah, it actually came with quote-unquote proof
00:00:57of me not being fearful to you.
00:01:00Apparently, the girl is like,
00:01:01oh, she's messing with me.
00:01:03I don't even know who the f*** that is.
00:01:05I need to see the photos
00:01:06and I need to see the text messages
00:01:08and make a decision.
00:01:12Sheena, will you please marry me?
00:01:15No, girl.
00:01:17I asked you to hold off and wait
00:01:19so she could prove herself.
00:01:21And then you just go buck up
00:01:23and pull this little sneaky.
00:01:25What the f*** am I doing
00:01:27sitting over here in this country then, Forrest?
00:01:32You weren't talking to me yet.
00:01:34I started talking to my ex.
00:01:37Did you have sex with her?
00:01:40Yes.
00:01:43Please.
00:01:44I want you to forgive me.
00:01:46I have nothing to say, Rick.
00:01:50I'd rather he told me before coming here.
00:01:56Don't touch me.
00:01:58Don't touch me, please.
00:02:22Don't touch me.
00:02:26So how do you feel now?
00:02:33I feel like crap.
00:02:35My God.
00:02:45Last night was awful.
00:02:48Next time, huh?
00:02:49I didn't sleep.
00:02:52This has never happened before
00:02:54in my whole entire life.
00:02:55No matter how sick I've gotten,
00:02:57I've never f***ed the bed.
00:02:59I'm thinking maybe
00:03:01the spicy food you have been eating.
00:03:03I like spice, though.
00:03:06You know, I drink spices
00:03:07and yours are not different.
00:03:10I don't know,
00:03:10but you know how embarrassing it is
00:03:12to wake up in the middle of the night
00:03:14and there's f***ed all over your sheets
00:03:16and it's just...
00:03:19I feel bad that I did that.
00:03:22Baby.
00:03:26I accepted it with all my hats.
00:03:28I told her that I love you.
00:03:30You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:33She woke me up
00:03:36and, um...
00:03:37the stuff, um, um...
00:03:39stained my clothes.
00:03:41So she pooped on you?
00:03:43She pooped on me, yes.
00:03:45She pooped on me.
00:03:48It was everywhere.
00:03:50I had to change the sheets
00:03:52with his help
00:03:52and I didn't know what to do
00:03:54because I couldn't stop
00:03:55going to the bathroom.
00:03:56It kept coming out of me.
00:03:59I'm so f***ing mortified.
00:04:01Are you gonna call
00:04:02the housekeeper
00:04:03to come and clean everything?
00:04:05I will take care of them.
00:04:06Maybe I will call them
00:04:07when we are going
00:04:07to the cooking class.
00:04:09My stomach is still so upset.
00:04:11And today,
00:04:12out of all days,
00:04:13Daniel has organized
00:04:15to take me out
00:04:15to no other
00:04:16but a cooking class.
00:04:18A cooking class!
00:04:19Do you need my help?
00:04:20No.
00:04:21Are you sure?
00:04:22Yes.
00:04:23Okay.
00:04:25I'm so worried
00:04:26I'm gonna have
00:04:27more explosive diarrhea,
00:04:29but I'm gonna cook for him.
00:04:31I'm gonna try.
00:04:33I mean,
00:04:34if a man can love me
00:04:35covered in f***
00:04:36and himself covered
00:04:37in my f***,
00:04:38then he must love me for real.
00:04:51Thank you so much.
00:04:53It's wonderful.
00:04:56Look how pretty this is.
00:04:58The table, Daniel.
00:05:00Look how sweet that is.
00:05:01Oh, this is gonna be fun.
00:05:05It's so cute in here.
00:05:08Hello, madam.
00:05:10Hello.
00:05:10I'm Chef Rukaiat.
00:05:12There's lots of ingredients.
00:05:14Oh, my goodness.
00:05:15So we're making oha soup.
00:05:17Oha soup?
00:05:19Yes.
00:05:19Oh, you're happy.
00:05:20So oha soup
00:05:21is traditionally an Igbo meal.
00:05:23First of all,
00:05:24I have oha leaf.
00:05:25That's the star ingredient
00:05:26for oha soup.
00:05:28Then I have my proteins.
00:05:31I have stock fish.
00:05:32Then I have fermented locust beans.
00:05:36It's very medicinal as well.
00:05:38Shall we start?
00:05:41The raw meat
00:05:42and the things
00:05:43that we are gonna be cooking with,
00:05:45it's making me a little queasy.
00:05:48Especially the fermented beans.
00:05:52My stomach is hurting so bad,
00:05:54but it's okay.
00:05:56I can do this.
00:05:58Do I open it from here,
00:06:00like this?
00:06:01Yes.
00:06:02This is beautiful.
00:06:04I'm very slow.
00:06:05I'm slow, honey,
00:06:06but I'm doing it.
00:06:07I'm happy.
00:06:08I'm just educating you.
00:06:11You're just happy
00:06:12I'm learning how to cook for you.
00:06:15It's very important
00:06:16to learn how to cook
00:06:17as an Igbo woman.
00:06:19I will cook as an Igbo woman.
00:06:21Try it.
00:06:21Try our best, eh?
00:06:22I am.
00:06:24In my hometown,
00:06:25if your wife
00:06:25doesn't know how to cook,
00:06:27it will make you
00:06:27to be going outside to eat.
00:06:30She can even get attracted
00:06:31by other women.
00:06:32I don't want to hear about that.
00:06:33I'm going to cook.
00:06:34Just leave me alone.
00:06:35I'm gonna cook.
00:06:36Fine.
00:06:37This is stock fish.
00:06:38Stock fish.
00:06:39I'm also gonna be adding
00:06:41the dry fish.
00:06:43The dry fish.
00:06:44Which, what kind of fish
00:06:44is that again?
00:06:45Catfish.
00:06:46Catfish.
00:06:46It is catfish.
00:06:47Oh, my God.
00:06:48You're happy?
00:06:49You're smelling the smells
00:06:50of what your woman
00:06:51is cooking?
00:06:52I can't wait
00:06:53to test the food.
00:06:55I'm very appreciative
00:06:57that Daniel is showing me
00:06:58his traditions
00:06:59and his culture.
00:07:00It means the world to me.
00:07:02It smells delicious.
00:07:06Daniel is doing
00:07:07so many wonderful things
00:07:09and making our relationship
00:07:11concrete towards a marriage.
00:07:14And I'm so happy about that.
00:07:17But at the same time,
00:07:19I feel extremely guilty
00:07:22for not telling him
00:07:23my secret shit.
00:07:29Wow, it looks delicious.
00:07:32You're welcome.
00:07:34I've already gotten blessings
00:07:36from his uncle,
00:07:37from the king.
00:07:39I hope you lack the food
00:07:41that I cooked.
00:07:42Oh, my God.
00:07:44I'm only one step away
00:07:45from getting married
00:07:46to Daniel.
00:07:49I have to start being honest
00:07:50with him as soon as possible.
00:07:53I did good?
00:08:01This is so sweet.
00:08:03You're wonderful.
00:08:07Mmm.
00:08:10This is really tasty.
00:08:15Tasty, Saima.
00:08:16I'm not having any right now, honey.
00:08:18I'm not eating.
00:08:19I was very sick last night.
00:08:21But I have to be very careful.
00:08:31I want to talk to you
00:08:32about something.
00:08:37Well, you haven't been
00:08:38talking to me, so...
00:08:39No, about something different.
00:08:44You know how, um...
00:08:47I've told you
00:08:47I've been married
00:08:48a couple of times?
00:08:50Yes, you have made mention
00:08:51of that.
00:08:54You told me about
00:08:55faith, Dad,
00:08:57but I've never discussed it
00:08:58with you, you know, deeply.
00:09:12I've been married
00:09:13five times.
00:09:17Five times?
00:09:20You would be
00:09:21my sixth husband.
00:09:25Dad.
00:09:26Dad.
00:09:28Dad.
00:09:37We talk about this.
00:09:39This is our decision.
00:09:41Don't answer for him.
00:09:42I am an adult
00:09:43and I would decide
00:09:44for what we want to do.
00:09:59The point is
00:10:01I worry about you.
00:10:03I worry about Sheena.
00:10:06I felt this was
00:10:07the appropriate thing
00:10:08to do
00:10:08for our relationship
00:10:10to work in continuing.
00:10:13We talked privately.
00:10:16She explained herself
00:10:17to me and I came...
00:10:18Yeah, I'm sure she didn't.
00:10:19Did she ask for your
00:10:20big and humble forgiveness?
00:10:23No, she actually
00:10:24gave me a real explanation
00:10:25and told me
00:10:26what was really up.
00:10:28Then how about
00:10:29you enlighten me
00:10:29or is that going
00:10:30to be private too, Forrest?
00:10:34You know, we talked
00:10:36about, you know,
00:10:37her struggles
00:10:38and how
00:10:38when she starts
00:10:40to, you know,
00:10:41lie
00:10:41it's because she has
00:10:45a traumatic...
00:10:46She's had
00:10:47traumatic experiences
00:10:50and it causes her
00:10:53to...
00:10:57So who says
00:10:59she's not going
00:11:00to do it again
00:11:01and again
00:11:01and again?
00:11:02You put that...
00:11:02Rum was not built
00:11:03in a day
00:11:03but she has to put
00:11:04in the work
00:11:04and prove herself
00:11:05and she is going
00:11:06to prove it.
00:11:06Then why didn't you
00:11:06make her prove herself
00:11:07before you proposed?
00:11:12Forrest,
00:11:13you're more
00:11:13bull of s***
00:11:14than a Christmas goose.
00:11:15No.
00:11:16Yes, you are.
00:11:17Everybody's got
00:11:18stress in their life
00:11:19and then to say
00:11:20I'm under stress
00:11:21so I'm going to lie
00:11:22and you're going
00:11:23to accept her
00:11:24just keep lying,
00:11:25lying, lying, lying, lying.
00:11:27That's no stability.
00:11:28You don't have
00:11:29any foundation.
00:11:31I will...
00:11:32Don't.
00:11:32Mom,
00:11:34I admit for everything
00:11:36that I did was wrong.
00:11:37Oh, God.
00:11:38Here we go again.
00:11:38I have to open...
00:11:39Oh, you couldn't say
00:11:40because you don't know
00:11:41how I experienced
00:11:42in my past life,
00:11:43you know.
00:11:44I'm suffering
00:11:44from trust with people.
00:11:47Well, guess what?
00:11:48We can't trust you.
00:11:48You can't...
00:11:49I know you can easily
00:11:50trust me
00:11:51but I'm trying to do
00:11:52my best
00:11:52to get things over,
00:11:54you know?
00:11:55Yeah, you're getting
00:11:56them over, all right?
00:11:56I'm trying to...
00:12:03We've heard this
00:12:04for seven years
00:12:07and even up until
00:12:09three days ago
00:12:10it was yet another lie.
00:12:12She's a...
00:12:13It's a...
00:12:13Pathological liar,
00:12:14I'm thinking.
00:12:17I bet you'd stay
00:12:18with her if she...
00:12:19if she diddled
00:12:20and somebody else do.
00:12:27Wouldn't you?
00:12:32Mom?
00:12:33At the end of the day,
00:12:35Sheen and I...
00:12:36You can't answer my question,
00:12:37so that's all
00:12:38you're going to say.
00:12:39Oh, God.
00:12:39That's because
00:12:40your question is ridiculous.
00:12:44I'm so disappointed
00:12:45in my mom's reaction
00:12:46to all this.
00:12:48It's the whole reason
00:12:49why we're here
00:12:49is to figure out
00:12:51how to bring Sheena
00:12:52to the United States
00:12:53and getting engaged.
00:12:55There's a next big step
00:12:58and her being angry
00:13:00and mad
00:13:00and saying nasty things,
00:13:02that's not how
00:13:03a mother should act.
00:13:05Mom?
00:13:07I'm going to...
00:13:08I'm going to take the dive.
00:13:10I'm going to go in.
00:13:12And if there's rocks,
00:13:14I'm willing to take it.
00:13:16But that is my choice.
00:13:21And you're going to have
00:13:22to be watching her
00:13:2424 hours a day
00:13:25and be paranoid
00:13:25and concerned
00:13:26and wondering.
00:13:27And you have such a trust thing,
00:13:29which means
00:13:30it's going to have to be meek.
00:13:31Here you are,
00:13:32a future teller.
00:13:32No, Forrest,
00:13:33it's not a future teller.
00:13:34It's what we have lived
00:13:36through the last
00:13:37seven years.
00:13:39You think this is appropriate,
00:13:40how she's acting?
00:13:42This conversation
00:13:42about Molly,
00:13:43it's about you two.
00:13:44Yeah, but she's making it
00:13:45about her
00:13:46with all her yelling around.
00:13:47How the hell am I supposed
00:13:49to get a conversation done
00:13:49with...
00:13:51all the time?
00:13:54We're going to make
00:13:55things easy for you, okay?
00:13:57Are you going to be
00:13:58part of our lives or not?
00:14:01Excuse me?
00:14:02You're going to give me
00:14:03the ultimate...
00:14:04Forrest?
00:14:05Mom,
00:14:06accept this proposal
00:14:07or you're not
00:14:07a part of our lives.
00:14:13I cannot believe
00:14:15that I'm about to get
00:14:15on my flight
00:14:17to Sydney, Australia
00:14:18for the first time
00:14:19to meet Joshua in person.
00:14:21I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:14:23I know, I know.
00:14:24I want to, like,
00:14:25get questions answered.
00:14:26Yeah.
00:14:28After Girls' Night Out
00:14:29the other night,
00:14:30I ended up calling
00:14:30Yulia about the text
00:14:31I got from Josh
00:14:32because it was really
00:14:33bothering me.
00:14:34It seems like his life
00:14:35is falling apart
00:14:36as I'm coming.
00:14:37I don't know what to do.
00:14:39This sounds like
00:14:40like a disaster.
00:14:56Appreciate you bringing it.
00:15:17What can we do now
00:15:19to make this right?
00:15:24I don't know.
00:15:28We just got back
00:15:30from Nusikomba
00:15:32and after what he told me,
00:15:34I'm so hurt.
00:15:35I don't know what to do.
00:15:41I'm really angry
00:15:43that he lied to me.
00:15:45I thought it was
00:15:47something serious
00:15:48between us
00:15:48and I still cannot believe.
00:15:51He was in Colombia
00:15:53with that girl.
00:15:56It's really crazy
00:15:58because he bothers me
00:16:00a lot with,
00:16:01oh, you're still
00:16:02talking to your ex
00:16:04and accusing me
00:16:05of cheating on him
00:16:06with my ex.
00:16:08Yet, he's the one
00:16:10messing up
00:16:10this relationship,
00:16:11not me.
00:16:15I didn't want
00:16:16to hurt you.
00:16:17No, you did.
00:16:20Just ruined
00:16:21our vacation.
00:16:23It doesn't have
00:16:24to be ruined.
00:16:25It doesn't have
00:16:25to be over.
00:16:26We still have time.
00:16:30I don't know, Ray.
00:16:34I trust you a lot.
00:16:37And I didn't expect
00:16:39this coming.
00:16:42I didn't.
00:16:43How can I trust you
00:16:45when you go back
00:16:45to your country?
00:16:46What if...
00:16:47She's not in my country.
00:16:48She can't go.
00:16:49I know she's not
00:16:50in your country,
00:16:50but you could go
00:16:52in Colombia,
00:16:54meet her.
00:16:55And I'm not
00:16:56going to do that.
00:16:57Oh.
00:16:58I have no intentions
00:16:59on ever being
00:17:00with her.
00:17:02I'm promised
00:17:03that I'm going
00:17:04to be faithful
00:17:05to you.
00:17:07Oh.
00:17:09I just hope
00:17:10that you can
00:17:12forgive me.
00:17:32I'm sorry.
00:17:40I'm sorry.
00:17:43Baby, I didn't
00:17:44want to add to that.
00:17:46Yes, you did.
00:17:47Baby, I didn't
00:17:48want to add to that.
00:17:49I'm sorry.
00:17:49Please.
00:17:52I promise.
00:17:55Don't promise me
00:17:57because you did
00:17:57promise me,
00:17:59but...
00:18:00See?
00:18:01She was happy.
00:18:01Baby, I'm looking
00:18:02at you in your face
00:18:03and I'm telling you
00:18:05that I'm not
00:18:06going to cheat on you.
00:18:08If you look at me,
00:18:09I'm not going
00:18:10to cheat on you,
00:18:10baby.
00:18:11Okay?
00:18:14I'm not.
00:18:16I'm going to do
00:18:17my best to make
00:18:17it up to you,
00:18:18okay?
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:29Thank you, baby.
00:18:33I could have
00:18:34lost her
00:18:35for what I did,
00:18:36so I feel
00:18:38grateful
00:18:38that she
00:18:40is giving me
00:18:41the second chance.
00:18:44You two
00:18:45in the shower?
00:18:48You can go.
00:18:56I think that
00:18:57we still have
00:18:58time to
00:18:58turn things
00:18:59around,
00:19:00but it's
00:19:01going to take
00:19:02some work.
00:19:02for me
00:19:03to prove
00:19:04that I'm
00:19:06sincere
00:19:07and to show
00:19:08her,
00:19:08you know,
00:19:09that I really
00:19:10do care
00:19:11and want
00:19:12this to work.
00:19:19I decided
00:19:20to stay
00:19:20because
00:19:21I'm already
00:19:22in love
00:19:23with him,
00:19:25but I didn't
00:19:27know
00:19:27he has
00:19:29different
00:19:31personality
00:19:32that he
00:19:32can cheat,
00:19:33he can
00:19:35lie.
00:19:36I didn't
00:19:36know.
00:19:40And the
00:19:41way he
00:19:42acts,
00:19:42the way
00:19:42he solved
00:19:43problems,
00:19:44it scares me
00:19:44a lot.
00:19:45I don't know
00:19:45if I could
00:19:46trust him
00:19:46again in the
00:19:47future
00:19:47or after
00:19:48this.
00:19:50I don't know.
00:19:56I heard
00:19:57that you
00:19:57you were
00:19:58talking
00:19:58about
00:19:59me
00:19:59running
00:20:00your mouth
00:20:00so said
00:20:01a little
00:20:01birdie
00:20:02all over
00:20:03town
00:20:03wish you'd
00:20:04come looking
00:20:05to me
00:20:13Oh my God.
00:20:16You think
00:20:16he's going
00:20:17to think
00:20:17it's sexy
00:20:17when I
00:20:19go to bed
00:20:19in my
00:20:19red light
00:20:20sleep mask?
00:20:20screw my mouth
00:20:21Oh
00:20:22somebody
00:20:23tell the
00:20:24truth
00:20:24Come on.
00:20:26I heard it last
00:20:27it's without
00:20:28it for so long
00:20:29we're traveling
00:20:30fast
00:20:30but it's
00:20:31already
00:20:31long
00:20:32gone
00:20:32Six
00:20:34seven
00:20:36eight
00:20:39I need
00:20:40another
00:20:40suitcase.
00:20:41Somebody
00:20:41tell the
00:20:42truth
00:20:42The day
00:20:44is fucking
00:20:44here.
00:20:45I cannot
00:20:46believe that I'm
00:20:46about to get on
00:20:47my fucking
00:20:48flight to
00:20:48Sydney Australia
00:20:49for the first
00:20:50time to meet
00:20:50Joshua in
00:20:51person.
00:20:51I feel like
00:20:52I'm in a
00:20:52dream like
00:20:53is this
00:20:53actually
00:20:54happening?
00:20:55I'm so
00:20:56excited to
00:20:57see him in
00:20:57person like
00:20:58like is he
00:20:59going to be
00:20:59affectionate
00:21:00and like
00:21:00touchy-feely
00:21:00is he gonna
00:21:02like run up
00:21:03to me at
00:21:03the airport
00:21:04like am I
00:21:05going to
00:21:05meet his
00:21:05family?
00:21:06Like I'm
00:21:06not just
00:21:06going there
00:21:07for like a
00:21:08vacation like
00:21:09I'm going
00:21:09there to see
00:21:10if he can
00:21:10be my
00:21:10future husband.
00:21:19Oh my
00:21:20God.
00:21:22So these
00:21:22are like
00:21:23half of my
00:21:23bikinis.
00:21:24Okay.
00:21:26This is like
00:21:27granny style.
00:21:30This is like
00:21:31okay like I'm
00:21:32not having
00:21:32sex with
00:21:33you but
00:21:34like maybe
00:21:35we'll go to
00:21:35like second
00:21:35or third
00:21:36base.
00:21:39This is
00:21:39like okay
00:21:40game on
00:21:41bikini.
00:21:44It's been
00:21:44six months
00:21:45since I've
00:21:45had sex
00:21:46which is
00:21:46the longest
00:21:47time I've
00:21:48gone without
00:21:48sex since
00:21:49I've been
00:21:49a freshman
00:21:49in high
00:21:50school.
00:21:51I'm literally
00:21:52a born
00:21:52again virgin.
00:21:55I want
00:21:56to try
00:21:57and take
00:21:57a slow
00:21:57with Joshua.
00:21:58I definitely
00:21:58want to have
00:21:59more of an
00:21:59emotional connection
00:22:00before having
00:22:01a physical
00:22:01connection.
00:22:02But even
00:22:03if we do
00:22:04his roommate
00:22:05is going
00:22:05to be there
00:22:06the whole
00:22:06time which
00:22:07is like
00:22:08so awkward.
00:22:11I feel
00:22:12very strange
00:22:12that I'm
00:22:13going to be
00:22:13staying with
00:22:14Joshua
00:22:14and also
00:22:15a roommate.
00:22:16We have
00:22:17chatted
00:22:17on the phone
00:22:18a few
00:22:18times.
00:22:18He's
00:22:19like a
00:22:19chatterbox
00:22:19and he
00:22:20tells me
00:22:20all the
00:22:20cool places
00:22:21in Australia
00:22:22but it's
00:22:22a little
00:22:23weird.
00:22:23Why is he
00:22:24bringing a
00:22:24roommate to
00:22:25the rental
00:22:25at 40
00:22:26years old?
00:22:26It seems
00:22:27like I'm
00:22:27going in a
00:22:27thruckle
00:22:28here.
00:22:28Like
00:22:30Josh wants
00:22:31a nice place
00:22:31for us to
00:22:32stay when
00:22:33I'm there
00:22:33so he's
00:22:34temporarily
00:22:34renting an
00:22:36apartment with
00:22:36his friend
00:22:36Chris because
00:22:37he can't
00:22:38afford it alone
00:22:38so Chris
00:22:39is splitting
00:22:40it with
00:22:40him.
00:22:41If Joshua
00:22:42was honest
00:22:43with me
00:22:43about his
00:22:43living situation
00:22:44up front
00:22:44I definitely
00:22:45would have
00:22:46split half
00:22:46and half
00:22:47with him
00:22:47but I guess
00:22:48he was just
00:22:49trying to be
00:22:49nice and I
00:22:50don't want to
00:22:50offend him
00:22:50so whatever
00:22:51I'm just
00:22:51going to roll
00:22:52with it.
00:22:56Oh!
00:22:57Yulia's here!
00:23:00Elyse!
00:23:01Hi!
00:23:02Are you
00:23:02ready?
00:23:03Yes!
00:23:04Really?
00:23:04Hi!
00:23:05How are you?
00:23:06Oh!
00:23:07My friend
00:23:08Yulia is
00:23:08taking me to
00:23:09the airport
00:23:09today because
00:23:10I'm freaking
00:23:11out and I
00:23:12need all the
00:23:13emotional support
00:23:14I can get.
00:23:15Should we do
00:23:16one at a
00:23:16time together?
00:23:17Yeah.
00:23:18Okay.
00:23:20You think
00:23:21you got it
00:23:21or should I
00:23:22how do we
00:23:22do this?
00:23:23Oh my god.
00:23:24It's 50
00:23:25pounds.
00:23:25I didn't
00:23:26sign up for
00:23:26this.
00:23:26You take
00:23:27this one.
00:23:28Okay.
00:23:30Go, go, go!
00:23:32Okay, okay.
00:23:33Before my
00:23:33hand falls off.
00:23:35Okay, put it
00:23:35down.
00:23:36She says.
00:23:37One down.
00:23:38Wait, wait.
00:23:41Okay.
00:23:46My goodness,
00:23:47Elyse.
00:23:49All right,
00:23:49let's head
00:23:50the road.
00:23:51Sydney,
00:23:51Australia,
00:23:52I'm coming
00:23:53for you!
00:23:59So, are you
00:24:00excited?
00:24:01Yeah, I know.
00:24:03Like, I really
00:24:03am excited.
00:24:04I've never felt
00:24:05this way about
00:24:06someone before.
00:24:09I'm just a little
00:24:10bit concerned.
00:24:11I know, I know.
00:24:12I want to, like,
00:24:13get questions
00:24:14answered.
00:24:15Yeah.
00:24:16I mean, I don't
00:24:17even think you can
00:24:17drive a boat
00:24:18anymore because of
00:24:19the work incident.
00:24:20That's so stressful
00:24:21to be happening
00:24:21right before your
00:24:22freaking trip.
00:24:25After Girls' Night
00:24:26Out, the other
00:24:26night, I ended up
00:24:27calling Yulia about
00:24:28the text I got
00:24:29from Josh because
00:24:30what he told me
00:24:31was very concerning.
00:24:32I don't know
00:24:33what to do.
00:24:34This sounds like
00:24:35a disaster.
00:24:38He sells boats
00:24:39for a living.
00:24:39He's a yacht
00:24:40broker.
00:24:40And a few weeks
00:24:42ago, Joshua took
00:24:43a boat that his
00:24:45company was selling
00:24:46for a joyride with
00:24:48some of his friends
00:24:49and ended up
00:24:50crashing the boat
00:24:51into rocks.
00:24:52And he has a
00:24:53final warning at
00:24:54work.
00:24:54I think that it's
00:24:55absolutely irresponsible
00:24:57of him.
00:24:57The man's almost
00:24:5840 at.
00:24:59I know.
00:25:00Oh, my God.
00:25:01We're close to the
00:25:02airport.
00:25:02I see it.
00:25:04So, he might
00:25:05lose his job.
00:25:06I just found out
00:25:07that he lives
00:25:08with his parents.
00:25:10It's crazy.
00:25:11Like, it seems like
00:25:12his life is falling
00:25:13apart as I'm coming.
00:25:14But I really like him
00:25:16and I'm starting
00:25:17to fall for him.
00:25:17So, I just want
00:25:19to give this a chance.
00:25:22Are you ready?
00:25:23No.
00:25:24Kind of, yes.
00:25:25I'm ready as I'll
00:25:25ever be.
00:25:26Listen, if I didn't
00:25:27take this trip, I would
00:25:28always think in the
00:25:29back of my mind,
00:25:30what if?
00:25:30What if?
00:25:31What if?
00:25:31But at the same
00:25:32time, like, just,
00:25:33you know, don't carry
00:25:34your heart on your
00:25:35sleeve like you
00:25:36usually do.
00:25:37I love you with
00:25:38all my heart and
00:25:39soul.
00:25:40You got this.
00:25:42Thank you so much
00:25:42for taking me.
00:25:43I'll text you,
00:25:44okay?
00:25:44Bye.
00:25:54Am I getting
00:25:55pranked?
00:25:56What is going on?
00:25:59I applied for the
00:26:01tourist visa once I
00:26:02got my ticket to go
00:26:03see Joshua, and it
00:26:04got instantly accepted,
00:26:05and I was like,
00:26:06great, perfect.
00:26:07But I get to the
00:26:09airport, and they're
00:26:10like, your visa is
00:26:11denied.
00:26:13Oh, my God.
00:26:15I'm literally
00:26:16f***ing my pants.
00:26:17This guy keeps
00:26:18refreshing the system,
00:26:19and he keeps saying
00:26:20I'm denied.
00:26:21I've literally put my
00:26:22heart and my soul
00:26:23into Joshua.
00:26:23I just want to go
00:26:24into this with, like,
00:26:26ease and calmness
00:26:27and excitement.
00:26:28Why is this f***ing
00:26:29happening to me at
00:26:30the airport?
00:26:31Did it work?
00:26:34No.
00:26:34No?
00:26:36I got denied again.
00:26:37I got denied again.
00:26:40I'm telling you,
00:26:41I'm gonna get back.
00:26:45The girl in the
00:26:46photo, she's my
00:26:47friend.
00:26:48And do we know if
00:26:49this is still going on
00:26:51currently?
00:26:54Are we actually
00:26:55calling?
00:26:56Oh, you're gonna...
00:26:57Oh, f***.
00:26:58Get your questions
00:26:59ready.
00:27:13Babe, what are you doing?
00:27:15Are you going somewhere?
00:27:17Yeah, I'm gonna go meet
00:27:19up with Anne Spring.
00:27:20Really?
00:27:20You're just gonna leave
00:27:21me here by myself?
00:27:22There's a nice weather
00:27:23right now, the beach,
00:27:25the pool.
00:27:26You're just gonna leave
00:27:27me all day?
00:27:28I'm not sure how long
00:27:29it's gonna take.
00:27:30Aye, aye.
00:27:32Don't forget, right?
00:27:33My dad is coming
00:27:34later.
00:27:34Okay.
00:27:45I'm a little nervous
00:27:47because I don't know what
00:27:49is going to hear
00:27:49from Anne Spring.
00:27:51Probably more lies, but I
00:27:52don't want that to affect
00:27:53us.
00:27:53I don't want her to hear
00:27:54something really bad and
00:27:56want to end things.
00:27:58I don't want to lose
00:27:59Aviva, especially over
00:28:00this.
00:28:01Like, she would be
00:28:03stupid to have us break
00:28:05up for this.
00:28:07But I have a bad feeling
00:28:08about it.
00:28:17Hello.
00:28:18Hi.
00:28:19Would you like
00:28:19something to drink?
00:28:20Do you have a mojito?
00:28:22Yes, we do.
00:28:22Okay, make it extra
00:28:23strong.
00:28:24I will.
00:28:25And then I'm waiting
00:28:25for two more people.
00:28:26Okay.
00:28:27Okay, thank you.
00:28:28You're welcome.
00:28:30Hello.
00:28:31Hi.
00:28:35Good to see you.
00:28:36Good to see you.
00:28:38Oh, I already ordered
00:28:39a strong drink.
00:28:40Oh, is that the timing
00:28:42we're on?
00:28:43Sure are.
00:28:44Okay.
00:28:47Oh, looks so good.
00:28:49You're welcome.
00:28:50Um, could we order
00:28:51something?
00:28:51Can I get a strawberry
00:28:52daiquiri?
00:28:53Strawberry mojito.
00:28:55Strawberry mojito?
00:28:56Yes.
00:28:57Okay, thank you.
00:29:01So, mojito o'clock
00:29:03here.
00:29:04Yep.
00:29:06Last night was pretty
00:29:08intense.
00:29:08I saw you and Stig talking
00:29:10and it seemed a little
00:29:12heated.
00:29:13You want to give me
00:29:14your side of the story?
00:29:17Did he give you his
00:29:19side of the story?
00:29:20He did.
00:29:21He told me that he took a
00:29:24picture with a fan and that
00:29:27it was all just a fan
00:29:29interaction.
00:29:33It's a friend of Corinne's
00:29:35and the girl has no reason
00:29:36to lie.
00:29:38So, I got your frozen
00:29:39coconut strawberry mojito
00:29:41and strawberry.
00:29:43You ladies enjoy.
00:29:46Hmm.
00:29:48So, maybe I should let
00:29:48Corinne explain.
00:29:52So, here is this
00:29:54picture and if you
00:29:56can see like his...
00:29:58Yeah.
00:29:59Hmm.
00:30:01That's a little bit more
00:30:02than a fan.
00:30:04The girl in the photo,
00:30:05we have known each other
00:30:06since we were really
00:30:07young.
00:30:08She has been telling me
00:30:10about her and him for a
00:30:12while that they have been
00:30:14having relations off and
00:30:16on.
00:30:18So, when Spring had
00:30:20told me that you guys
00:30:21were starting to dating,
00:30:22it was kind of weird to me
00:30:24because I know that they
00:30:26have a low-key relationship
00:30:28but they do have a
00:30:29relationship.
00:30:31Sexual, everything.
00:30:36Wow.
00:30:38And do we know if this is
00:30:39still going on currently?
00:30:42What do we know before I
00:30:44lose my mind on him?
00:30:45I can like see if I can
00:30:47call her and see if she
00:30:48would...
00:30:49I would love to.
00:30:56Are we actually calling?
00:30:58Oh.
00:30:59You're gonna...
00:31:00Oh, ****.
00:31:01Get your questions ready.
00:31:06Can you hear me?
00:31:10So, Aviva, like, what would
00:31:12you want me to ask my
00:31:14friend?
00:31:15When was the last time
00:31:17they slept together?
00:31:18Like, when was the last time
00:31:20you and Sting ever, like,
00:31:22****, ****, whatever?
00:31:28She said last month when they
00:31:31were here in Placentia.
00:31:34Have they talked after that?
00:31:37Like, are you and Sting, like,
00:31:38still communicating?
00:31:40Do you guys still talk?
00:31:43Like, he ever tell you he's in a
00:31:47relationship?
00:31:49So, he tell you he's single?
00:31:52He says he's single.
00:31:55So, he never mentioned Aviva?
00:31:58Mm.
00:31:59Okay.
00:32:01I'm sorry, friend.
00:32:02I owe you a night out.
00:32:04Bye.
00:32:08Do you still believe him
00:32:09when he's saying he doesn't
00:32:10know her and that she's just
00:32:11a fan?
00:32:13This girl has no reason to
00:32:15lie to Corinne.
00:32:16She has no reason to lie.
00:32:17She didn't even know about
00:32:18you.
00:32:24So, I have a real
00:32:25shocking text here.
00:32:31We do have an upcoming
00:32:33trip.
00:32:34We do have them together.
00:32:36So, this trip is in San Pedro,
00:32:40end of the month, Friday to
00:32:41Sunday.
00:32:46Exactly when you leave.
00:32:52Sounds like this girl has kind
00:32:54of a casual relationship with
00:32:55Stig.
00:32:56Not, like, a serious girlfriend.
00:32:58But still, if she's telling the
00:33:00truth, they were hooking up a
00:33:02month ago when we were supposed
00:33:04to be exclusive, that's just
00:33:06crazy to me.
00:33:08I feel like I don't even know
00:33:09Stig at this point, and that's
00:33:12devastating.
00:33:17I wanted to tell you before you
00:33:19asked me to marry you.
00:33:20But I was scared.
00:33:22In my culture, it's a sin.
00:33:24They will banish you.
00:33:26I'm sorry that it took me so long
00:33:27to tell me.
00:33:28I think if sharks skip by this.
00:33:34I think if sharks skip by this.
00:33:38Um.
00:33:42I've been married five times.
00:33:47Five times?
00:33:50You would be my sixth husband.
00:33:55Don't.
00:34:03Don't.
00:34:14So why didn't you mention them
00:34:16to me?
00:34:16Why didn't you discuss with me?
00:34:17You only told me of two.
00:34:19Well, you never really asked, and
00:34:22so I just never mentioned it.
00:34:24But there's.
00:34:27Yeah.
00:34:32I don't feel bad.
00:34:34You can get married to 100 men
00:34:37and divorce.
00:34:39But when you meet your God-given
00:34:42husband, it lasts forever.
00:34:49So what transpired?
00:34:52Well, they haven't all been faithful.
00:34:54Really?
00:34:54Yeah.
00:34:55Did they teach?
00:34:55The men?
00:34:57One did.
00:34:57Okay, one did.
00:34:58The fifth one.
00:35:00So tell me.
00:35:02Tell me about these 50 men.
00:35:03What happened?
00:35:05Um.
00:35:07Yeah.
00:35:09Um.
00:35:12The fifth one was really bad.
00:35:14Um, we were married a few months
00:35:17and then they ran off
00:35:19to be with somebody else
00:35:21and I couldn't locate them
00:35:22for quite a while
00:35:23and I recently located them.
00:35:26Okay.
00:35:28And I filled out the divorce papers
00:35:30but I'm, um, still married.
00:35:35You are still married to the fifth one?
00:35:38I am still married.
00:35:44I wanted to tell you
00:35:45before you asked me to marry you
00:35:47but you asked me to marry you
00:35:49in the middle of the airport
00:35:50with everybody there
00:35:51and I couldn't say no
00:35:52and I couldn't tell you that.
00:35:56So I have been sleeping
00:35:57with another man's wife.
00:36:01We are legally separated.
00:36:14You don't know what you have cost me.
00:36:17Sleeping with another man's wife
00:36:18in my culture is a sin.
00:36:19They will banish you.
00:36:20I'm sorry.
00:36:28Daniel, listen.
00:36:29I have not been with this person
00:36:30for nine years.
00:36:32Nine years.
00:36:33We've been married
00:36:34but we have not lived
00:36:34in the same state.
00:36:36We have not lived,
00:36:37shared the same bed
00:36:38for nine years.
00:36:39We have been separated
00:36:40for nine years.
00:36:41I call you on phone every day.
00:36:43Yeah.
00:36:44After a conversation
00:36:45I will tell you I love you
00:36:46and you will respond.
00:36:47Because I love you.
00:36:49You love me
00:36:50and you have not told me about it.
00:36:51Can you, can you keep,
00:36:52shut, keep quiet.
00:36:57This is a monster
00:36:58you have been dating.
00:37:00You never told me.
00:37:01No.
00:37:03I was scared to tell you.
00:37:06It took me a long time
00:37:08to get the divorce
00:37:09but the divorce is almost here.
00:37:20I've told you all the things
00:37:21you want me to know about me.
00:37:24I never hide anything.
00:37:28You told me you love me.
00:37:30I do love you.
00:37:33Sleeping with another man's wife
00:37:35I don't think is love.
00:37:38I'm sorry.
00:37:42You're sorry?
00:37:43I'm sorry.
00:37:46My uncle came all the way
00:37:47from Goware to Lagos
00:37:48because of you and I.
00:37:52my friends came.
00:37:54But I never know you have
00:37:56you know, hidden stuff.
00:37:58So I lied to them.
00:38:00You didn't lie to them.
00:38:01I did this.
00:38:04I'm sorry that it took me
00:38:06so long to tell you.
00:38:10This is unbelievable.
00:38:13I don't know how to fix this.
00:38:16I'm sorry.
00:38:17Do you want your ring back?
00:38:20I'll give you your ring back
00:38:21and I'll leave.
00:38:40Oh my goodness.
00:38:51I've been sleeping with her.
00:38:52Sleeping with another man's wife.
00:38:57No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:39:01I don't know what to do.
00:39:03Oh my God.
00:39:04Oh my God.
00:39:17How are you feeling?
00:39:19Are you nervous?
00:39:20I'm nervous.
00:39:21But like it's an excited nervousness.
00:39:23I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, Elise.
00:39:25I'm obsessed with her.
00:39:27So I'm hoping she will like me
00:39:29as much as I like her.
00:39:31It is definitely sick.
00:39:32What is it, a couple of hours?
00:39:33Yep, yep.
00:39:33You're f***ing yourself, aren't you?
00:39:35I'm joking.
00:39:37The guy keeps calling
00:39:39the border control in Australia.
00:39:40My visa's been denied eight times.
00:39:43Why don't you take a look?
00:40:00I love you.
00:40:01I love you.
00:40:02I love you.
00:40:02I love you.
00:40:03I love you.
00:40:03I love you.
00:40:05I love you.
00:40:17You're having fun, baby?
00:40:23Last night, Trish was very cold
00:40:27and I felt like she needed her space.
00:40:30And I've been trying to make the most of our last day here at Nosy Bay.
00:40:34Trying to remind Trish of how fun things can be between us.
00:40:39I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
00:40:43I don't know for sure.
00:40:48Why was the round so short?
00:40:51Like, they was only into it for like 20 seconds.
00:40:54I don't know.
00:40:57I thought you knew something about this.
00:41:01How are we going to...
00:41:02I don't know their rules.
00:41:06Moringa fight started in Madagascar, and you don't use something on your hand.
00:41:11You just fight directly.
00:41:15It's scary, but that's the culture.
00:41:18Because before, we didn't have anything to protect.
00:41:22This is why.
00:41:23And we keep the culture till now.
00:41:28We should solve our problem.
00:41:30I will win.
00:41:31Oh, you will?
00:41:33I'll give you one free shot.
00:41:38We could watch them, you know, fight in here, and then we could do some wrestling at home.
00:41:46I can't forget all the things he has done, but it makes me feel a little bit happy and smile.
00:41:55I want this relationship to work.
00:41:59That's why I'm trying to give him a chance.
00:42:03Okay, this is the deal.
00:42:05You have to pick one, and if the one you pick win, we do have sex tonight.
00:42:12If the one I pick win, we don't have sex tonight.
00:42:18I might put my sex life on the lawn in some other man's head.
00:42:23No, that's my rule, so pick the good one.
00:42:28I mean, dude over there is much taller, so I'm going to have to go with him.
00:42:33Okay, I'm going to take the blue shirt off.
00:42:35Okay, okay, okay.
00:42:37You got to get him for me, man.
00:42:38My sex life depends on it.
00:42:42Hey, keep your distance, man.
00:42:52I don't know the rules to this thing.
00:42:55I don't know how points are scored.
00:42:57Come on, my man, get him.
00:42:58But after everything we've been through,
00:43:00I'm just happy that she's even considering having sex with me.
00:43:05Give him, keep that distance.
00:43:07I hate seeing people fighting.
00:43:09Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:43:10Oh, yeah, get him.
00:43:11Yeah, oh, you open it up more.
00:43:13You open it up more.
00:43:14It's over, it's over, it's over.
00:43:22Come on, come on, ref.
00:43:24Do the right thing, ref.
00:43:26Yeah!
00:43:29I'm the super guy.
00:43:32I'm getting some, baby.
00:43:33Get ready, get ready.
00:43:35We had a really good day,
00:43:38but there is no way.
00:43:40We are going to have sex tonight.
00:43:43I don't want him to touch me at all.
00:43:46It's too soon for that.
00:43:50Oh, look at the...
00:43:52That's what they used to use in the Jesus days right there.
00:43:55Yeah, we use it to carry everything.
00:43:57You'll see a lot of it now in town.
00:44:02Yeah.
00:44:05So, um, what do you think, baby?
00:44:07Do you still want me to leave your dad?
00:44:13I already told my dad that we were here
00:44:16and we are coming to visit them,
00:44:18so I cannot go back.
00:44:28You're not going to tell him
00:44:29about what happened, are you?
00:44:32No, I'm not.
00:44:35My dad is really protected.
00:44:37Like, all my daughter is in a good
00:44:40and in right hands.
00:44:42That's what he wants.
00:44:44That's what I want from you, too, baby.
00:44:46I want your happiness.
00:44:49And hopefully he'll be able to see, you know,
00:44:50how much did I love his daughter.
00:44:58I'm feeling more nervous and anxious
00:45:00than I was before about this meeting with her family.
00:45:05I'm worried about going there
00:45:08and dealing with their expectations
00:45:10when we're not even in a good place.
00:45:14They want a younger guy that's, you know,
00:45:16never been married
00:45:17and that is excited about having children.
00:45:22And then that's something that I'm not.
00:45:25I love Trish so much
00:45:27and I really want to be with her
00:45:29and make this work.
00:45:31But right now,
00:45:32it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:45:56This is a fourth time system repression.
00:45:59I'm supposed to be boarding my flight
00:46:01to Australia right now, but I'm stuck here
00:46:04because my visa's been denied eight times.
00:46:07The guy keeps calling the Board of Control in Australia.
00:46:10I am panicking and I'm freaking out.
00:46:14It worked.
00:46:16What?
00:46:17It's worked?
00:46:19We got it?
00:46:20Give me a high five.
00:46:22Let's get the guys going.
00:46:23Come on.
00:46:24Thank God.
00:46:25They got it.
00:46:26Thank you so much.
00:46:27If I wasn't about to go meet the love of my life,
00:46:30I would ask you for your number.
00:46:31My guy told me that I put my first name as my last name
00:46:36when applying for the visa,
00:46:38so it didn't match my passport.
00:46:41What a sire relief because, like,
00:46:44I'm so excited to go see Josh.
00:46:47Always do this ritual before applying.
00:46:53I'm going to have to do it.
00:46:55I cannot believe that I am traveling the world
00:46:59for someone I've never met in person.
00:47:04But I'm doing this because I truly believe
00:47:06that Joshua is my partner.
00:47:09And I've never felt more ready in my life.
00:47:14Oh, my God.
00:47:16I'm going to Australia.
00:47:30I'm going to have to do it.
00:47:31I'm going to have to do it.
00:48:07Oi, dickhead.
00:48:09Oi.
00:48:10How are ya?
00:48:12Hey.
00:48:15My name is Joshua.
00:48:17I'm 39 years old and I live in Sydney, Australia.
00:48:20I'm sort of in between places at the moment.
00:48:24How are ya?
00:48:25Elise is .
00:48:26It is.
00:48:27It is.
00:48:29Nougat, veggies.
00:48:31But my girlfriend Elise is coming and I want a nice place for her.
00:48:35So my friend and I, Chris, have a rental that we have organised for when she gets here.
00:48:39Did she request all of, literally every bit of this?
00:48:42She requested a lot more.
00:48:44And how are you feeling?
00:48:45Are you nervous?
00:48:46I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness.
00:48:48So it is definitely.
00:48:50Was it a couple of hours?
00:48:50Yep.
00:48:51Yep.
00:48:51Until I have to pick her up from the airport.
00:48:53You're .
00:48:54You're .
00:48:55You're .
00:48:55You're .
00:48:58Come check this out.
00:48:59What is it?
00:49:03I thought I'd establish a hierarchy really quickly.
00:49:06Are you kidding?
00:49:09It's in my bedroom.
00:49:12Wow.
00:49:13Elise is going to .
00:49:14I like it.
00:49:18Tell me about this photo that Chris puts above your bed.
00:49:22It's typical Chris, you know.
00:49:24Jesus.
00:49:25You don't have to take me right now.
00:49:27You can build up to it.
00:49:28She gets here tonight, so we'll see if it stays up or not.
00:49:33I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, you know, after talking for six months.
00:49:39Elise makes me feel excitement because she could be the one.
00:49:44Elise is beautiful.
00:49:46But what I love about Elise is that she's an unbelievable listener and you can tell she
00:49:50cares.
00:49:52Elise is very fiery, but I think that's an attractive quality.
00:49:56I know when she gets here that I will be obsessed with her.
00:50:00So I'm hoping that she will like me as much as I know I like her.
00:50:13What are you going to wear?
00:50:15Oh, blue pants, cream jacket.
00:50:16Wait, so we're wearing the same thing.
00:50:18How's she going to know who's who?
00:50:20No, I'm just joking.
00:50:22Today's the Melbourne Cup race, so it's a horse race.
00:50:25All of Australia watches it.
00:50:27This is something that Chris and I would typically celebrate together.
00:50:31Ready, Princess?
00:50:32Princess is almost ready.
00:50:35It's an excuse to dress up and have a few drinks.
00:50:38We're going to whisk her straight off the plane and straight to watch the race.
00:50:41She says she's spontaneous, so I think she'll be okay with it.
00:50:44So we can go straight from the airport and the Melbourne Cup off a 25-hour flight.
00:50:55I'm now starting to be like, oh, it's actually happening.
00:50:59Yeah.
00:51:00Big day.
00:51:02I'm jumping into a relationship with someone that I've never met, like in person.
00:51:05It's so different.
00:51:08So being a Miami chick, how do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
00:51:13I don't know.
00:51:14If she has a problem, it'll be with Nat, not me, I reckon.
00:51:17Yeah, if she has a problem, it'll definitely be with Nat, not you.
00:51:20Do you think American girls are more jealous?
00:51:23Do you think it's weird for them?
00:51:24Do you think it's different?
00:51:25Like male and female friends?
00:51:26What do they think?
00:51:27You make a good point.
00:51:28I didn't think about that.
00:51:32My friend, there's a girl, Nat.
00:51:34She's just a special person that looks after everyone.
00:51:37Like she's let me stay with her while I've been looking for a place.
00:51:42So I've been living with her for three months.
00:51:46Wait, let me step back for one second.
00:51:48Because Elise said that you told her you were living with your parents.
00:51:51Oh.
00:51:54No.
00:51:58We're here.
00:52:00Wow.
00:52:02I'm nervous.
00:52:03Very nervous.
00:52:04Jesus.
00:52:07Hold my hand.
00:52:10I got you, boy.
00:52:13It is really important for me that this works out.
00:52:16You know, I dragged her halfway across the world.
00:52:18I wouldn't do that on a whim or just for fun.
00:52:24You know, I feel a bit embarrassed because I don't have a lot of stability in my life at the
00:52:29moment.
00:52:29And I know that's important to a girlfriend.
00:52:33But I hope she can see that I'm ready to get really serious and, you know, settle down.
00:52:40She's already, is she already here?
00:52:42Yeah, she just touched down, so.
00:52:44Okay.
00:52:45Yeah.
00:52:47I literally just landed in Australia.
00:52:49I am tired.
00:52:51I am overwhelmed.
00:52:52But I am about to meet Josh for the first time.
00:52:56Oh, my God.
00:52:58I cannot believe I'm here.
00:52:59My adrenaline is pumping.
00:53:01Oh, my God.
00:53:02I'm gonna go do it.
00:53:03Beautiful lady.
00:53:04Hopefully my husband thinks I'm beautiful, too.
00:53:06I'm about to meet him for the first time.
00:53:10You want me to maybe stand a little back or should I be right here next to you?
00:53:13It was always the case.
00:53:14You weren't coming right up with me, right?
00:53:15Okay, right.
00:53:16Well, okay.
00:53:17Does she know I'm here, though?
00:53:19Um, I don't know.
00:53:20No.
00:53:21I didn't say anything, no.
00:53:22Okay.
00:53:24I have so many f***ing emotions right now.
00:53:27Like, I literally just saw on Chris' social media that Chris and Josh are, like, in, like,
00:53:34straight suits and ties.
00:53:36First of all, weird that Chris is coming to pick me up.
00:53:39I have so much anxiety already, how it is.
00:53:41Like, so much anxiety.
00:53:46Do you want a light massage?
00:53:48Take the nerves away.
00:53:50I've been envisioning this moment for so long.
00:53:53And I've already had a f***ing travel day from hell.
00:53:56So the fact that he has to bring his friend to the airport,
00:54:00is he not comfortable enough to meet me on his own?
00:54:02Like, what the f***?
00:54:05I just traveled 30 hours.
00:54:07So I have all this time to think.
00:54:09And I'm starting to spiral out of control.
00:54:12This guy is 39 and has a roommate.
00:54:15And on top of that, he has his job incident.
00:54:19And I'm thinking about all the things my parents said to me
00:54:22and the overwhelming pressure of, like, not trying to let them down.
00:54:26Good luck. Don't let them.
00:54:32I've been wrong so many times.
00:54:33And I've done not only damage to me, but damage to my family.
00:54:37I don't have another wrong in me.
00:54:46Hello.
00:54:47Hi.
00:54:48This is my dad.
00:54:50Hi.
00:54:50When it comes to dating, my son is always drama.
00:54:54Talking to a bunch of girls.
00:54:55When he said that he's serious as Elviva, I have to question it.
00:54:59That girl said you guys actually hooked up before about a month ago.
00:55:05So is any of this true?
00:55:22Oh, look, there they are.
00:55:23That must be his dad.
00:55:31Hi.
00:55:32Hi.
00:55:32How are you?
00:55:33Good evening.
00:55:34Hello.
00:55:35Spring.
00:55:36Nice to meet you.
00:55:37This is my dad.
00:55:37Hi.
00:55:38Nice to meet you.
00:55:39I'm Elviva.
00:55:40Nice to see you.
00:55:42Can I offer you guys a drink?
00:55:43Or what are you drinking?
00:55:45I would love a drink.
00:55:46I don't know.
00:55:47Did you try Panty Ripper yet?
00:55:49You might do one of those.
00:55:50To Panty Ripper, please.
00:55:52Yes, please.
00:55:53I had plans to meet up with Stig's dad tonight.
00:55:57And I'm really, really nervous.
00:56:01I don't want to come off as just this crazy girl meeting his dad for the first time.
00:56:07But after talking to Corinne's friend, I learned so much today.
00:56:12And I definitely want to bring this up to stick.
00:56:15I wanted Aunt Spring to be here because she can ask all the hard questions
00:56:20and basically play a bad cop.
00:56:22And she doesn't have to worry about the repercussions.
00:56:27You took her away from me all day, Aunt Spring.
00:56:29It's definitely been an interesting day.
00:56:33Yeah.
00:56:33Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
00:56:35Hmm.
00:56:36There's a lot to talk about.
00:56:37Oh, really?
00:56:40Aviva has been gone since morning with her aunt.
00:56:44Right now, the vibes are off.
00:56:46Aviva has basically been, like, ignoring my texts all of today.
00:56:52I'm pretty sure Aunt Spring is there putting stuff in her head.
00:56:55So I'm...
00:56:57I'm...
00:56:58I don't know.
00:56:59I'm anxious.
00:57:01My dad came to the hotel earlier.
00:57:03I gave him a quick summary of what went down with Aunt Spring.
00:57:07Last night, Aunt Spring pull up swinging.
00:57:09Huh?
00:57:10Yes.
00:57:11Pull out the phone.
00:57:12And asked me, so what is this?
00:57:14So I got a picture of me and a girl.
00:57:17At the whole of my waist, and I did.
00:57:19Really?
00:57:21You sure you don't have done with this girl?
00:57:23No, no, no, no, no.
00:57:23I didn't even know this would be the father.
00:57:26Where do we start?
00:57:28What?
00:57:29Jump right into it?
00:57:30I don't know.
00:57:31I mean, you're meeting my dad for the first time.
00:57:33I know, I know.
00:57:34This is very uncomfortable.
00:57:36Sorry that you have to be here for this.
00:57:40Aviva, maybe you should be the one to explain to him what's going on today.
00:57:48I mean, I talked to that girl and...
00:57:51What girl?
00:57:52Corinne?
00:57:53No.
00:57:54Not to my niece.
00:57:55Yeah.
00:57:55To the girl in the photo.
00:57:57The random girl I took a picture with.
00:58:05What happened?
00:58:07She said that you guys actually had, you know, hooked up before.
00:58:15It was about a month ago.
00:58:17And that apparently you're going to San Pedro at the end of the month with her.
00:58:27So is any of this true?
00:58:29No.
00:58:31No.
00:58:32Dad, I swear.
00:58:33I swear, I swear.
00:58:36I can see where Anne Spring is coming from.
00:58:39When he said that he's as serious as Aviva, I have to question it.
00:58:43Because when it comes to dating, my son is always drama.
00:58:48He's always been talking to a bunch of girls.
00:58:51And I just never saw him just settling down now, especially with the work that he's doing.
00:58:57Show my dad the photo so he could tell.
00:59:01I don't know why a best friend would lie to a best friend.
00:59:03That's supposedly the text between them.
00:59:06What happened there?
00:59:07She said, my man happened.
00:59:09My man happened.
00:59:11So...
00:59:11I mean, I can see why you said...
00:59:12And so we called her to clear up that.
00:59:14And she spoke with Aviva.
00:59:15Probably not a good look, but...
00:59:16It's not a good look.
00:59:17But to me, it's not a definite...
00:59:19I would figure that if this girl really wants to prove that she's...
00:59:25This is going on, she'd say, here's a text.
00:59:28That was the last one she provided with him telling her that he loved it.
00:59:32But...
00:59:32Have you seen, like...
00:59:33Just the same one.
00:59:34Conversations, like...
00:59:35Not long conversations.
00:59:36Yeah, not long conversations.
00:59:37But the only texts that I saw were...
00:59:39Like saying, like, well, can I meet you?
00:59:40Can I see you?
00:59:41Anything like that that'll prove that...
00:59:44Yeah, I know.
00:59:45It's about it.
00:59:47Young lady probably didn't even have my number when we died.
00:59:49That's crazy.
00:59:51I have no reason to lie.
00:59:54She just completely made that up.
00:59:57Then what...
00:59:57What do you need from me?
01:00:00Call me everything.
01:00:01You want my location?
01:00:03I don't have nothing to hide.
01:00:06Hey, I'm here having you with my dad.
01:00:08Do you think I'm not serious about you?
01:00:13I'm not sure if he's just lying and making this stuff up.
01:00:17But he did bring up a point that the girl in the photo couldn't provide solid evidence.
01:00:25I don't even know if she actually has Sig's phone number.
01:00:29So all I have right now is his word against hers.
01:00:35Well...
01:00:36I'm gonna take your word for it.
01:00:37That maybe she's just trying to cause drama.
01:00:41Hmm.
01:00:45I don't know.
01:00:47I mean, I don't know.
01:00:51I do feel that Aviva is quick to trust Stig.
01:00:55Stig may be able to fool Aviva, but he's definitely not fooling me.
01:00:59But I have given her all the information, and it is her choice to make her future decisions.
01:01:08And if I do later, you know, find out that, you know, you weren't telling the truth,
01:01:12I obviously wouldn't want to continue, but I do still want to work things out.
01:01:17Like, I want to...
01:01:18I want to still work it out with you.
01:01:19Dave, for the millionth time, I don't mind it could be a billionth time.
01:01:26I'm gonna be as transparent as I can in this relationship.
01:01:29I live in a glass house, nothing to hide, all right? I got to.
01:01:34I'm glad all the drama is done.
01:01:37I have a clean slate right now, but I'm definitely worried about what else could come out in the future.
01:01:45A few months ago, when Aviva was hinting about being exclusive, I did take some steps and made some changes,
01:01:52but I wasn't 100%.
01:01:54I was still entertaining people.
01:01:56I wasn't sleeping around, but I was texting people, hanging around people.
01:02:01I'm not really proud of it now, but I was still unsure about Aviva because we haven't met in real
01:02:08life.
01:02:08But Aviva doesn't know this?
01:02:11Yeah, she doesn't know this.
01:02:13I didn't want to scare her away.
01:02:16And now that we've met in person, and it's what I thought it was, no other woman in the picture.
01:02:21I'm done with all that.
01:02:23Now I'm just hoping that she doesn't find out.
01:02:27We good?
01:02:28Mm-hmm.
01:02:29Let's move forward from it.
01:02:30Okay.
01:02:31Yeah?
01:02:31Yeah.
01:02:37She called me a liar.
01:02:39She called me a scammer.
01:02:41What?
01:02:41She's the real scammer.
01:02:42I'm sorry.
01:02:43I came here to tell you the truth in person.
01:02:46I came here to tell you everything.
01:02:50I want you to go home, please.
01:02:54He doesn't even know she's a she.
01:02:56Oh, my God.
01:03:11I feel like dying.
01:03:16I'm not okay.
01:03:18I'm not okay.
01:03:25I've done the worst.
01:03:28I've committed the worst sin.
01:03:29Sleeping with another man's wife.
01:03:31I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:03:34Someone...
01:03:35I should have never known him.
01:03:37I should have kept it a secret.
01:03:41In America, they have been legally separated.
01:03:43No, no, no.
01:03:44No, no, no.
01:03:44Don't tell me in America.
01:03:45You don't have to tell me that.
01:03:48I respect.
01:03:49I respect my culture.
01:03:53I'm engaged with another man's wife.
01:03:55In my culture, we don't do that.
01:03:57It's a very big offense if you should do it in our tribe.
01:04:02It's something that will bring shame not only to me,
01:04:04but to my family as well.
01:04:06I could be banished because of Lisa.
01:04:09Because of her lies.
01:04:12I want to go back to him, but I'm scared.
01:04:16This is forbidden.
01:04:17And I don't know how to talk to my God.
01:04:20I don't know how to talk to the ancestors.
01:04:23Because I have to ask for apology.
01:04:28Daniel.
01:04:29I'm sorry.
01:04:32Daniel.
01:04:33Daniel.
01:04:34No, listen to me.
01:04:36Can you stop? Stop.
01:04:37Please, listen to me.
01:04:39I'm sorry.
01:04:40I'm sorry I didn't tell you the truth.
01:04:43I'm sorry I didn't speak to you about this before now.
01:04:46I'm sorry.
01:04:47I came here to tell you the truth in person.
01:04:50I came here to tell you everything.
01:04:53I love you.
01:04:54And I want us to be together forever.
01:04:57I'm so sorry.
01:05:00Ali.
01:05:01Please forgive me.
01:05:03You're messed up.
01:05:05That's all I have to say.
01:05:19Can you stop? Stop.
01:05:24I feel empty.
01:05:29I don't think he's ever going to forgive me.
01:05:31And I haven't even told him everything.
01:05:35I should have told him in the beginning.
01:05:40I waited and I waited and I held off.
01:05:43And the worst case scenario happened.
01:05:46He doesn't want me near him.
01:05:48He doesn't want to hear me.
01:05:51I'm worried that I have lost Daniel.
01:05:54There's no coming back from this.
01:05:59I'm a f*** up person.
01:06:04F*** up.
01:06:05F***.
01:06:11She called me a liar.
01:06:13She called me a scammer.
01:06:19What is the risk, Kammer?
01:06:29And I told them, you know, white people tell us the truth.
01:06:37Yeah.
01:06:42I've given her my hat.
01:06:44I trusted her.
01:06:45I believed in her.
01:06:48What did I do to deserve all this?
01:06:52I mean, for God's sakes, I've been separated for nine years.
01:06:57Separated.
01:06:58For nine years.
01:07:00Didn't know where she lived.
01:07:02And he doesn't even know she's a she.
01:07:04Oh, my God.
01:07:06When he finds out she's a she, I don't know what he's gonna think.
01:07:11I haven't even been with a man for 21 years.
01:07:15I don't have any hope anymore.
01:07:22I want you to go home, please.
01:07:24I want you to go home, please.
01:07:44He's not gonna forgive me.
01:07:50He's not gonna forgive me.
01:08:07He's not gonna forgive me.
01:08:18Oh, oh, oh, oh, my God.
01:08:22So why are you so dressed up?
01:08:24It's Melbourne Cup day.
01:08:25Do you want to come and have a few drinks?
01:08:27The last thing I thought possible was, one,
01:08:31to bring Chris, and two, to take me to a bar
01:08:34the second I landed at the airport.
01:08:37After a few tequilas, you won't even forget
01:08:39that you haven't had shower or put makeup on,
01:08:41or done your hair.
01:08:55Oh, man.
01:09:12Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God.
01:09:23Oh, come here, give me a hug.
01:09:25Come on.
01:09:26Oh, my God.
01:09:28Oh, God.
01:09:30Oh, God.
01:09:31Oh.
01:09:34I'm literally shaking.
01:09:36It's a lot.
01:09:37Uncle Haviy, I'm finally touching you.
01:09:39Yes, I'm not saying follow out.
01:09:42you're sexy so are you don't need my side
01:09:50oh my god I'm so happy to see you you're so sexy I think thank you all you think
01:09:55is you know I know I know I know feels really really good finally finally how
01:10:06good does it feel amazing how does she look she looks amazing do you feel like you look amazing
01:10:12no I feel like I look like absolute what are you talking about I didn't I did not want him
01:10:16to see
01:10:16me for the first time looking like this especially when he's dressed up like this like it's like an
01:10:21oxymoron right wait oxymoron means wait um I don't know but I just feel like like he looks really
01:10:30good and like I just look like slummy you look amazing I need reassurance every five minutes okay
01:10:36I'm happy to do that every three you actually look exactly what I thought perfect yeah so do you
01:10:42so do you I was so scared and I had so much anxiety but then seeing him standing there and
01:10:50seeing the
01:10:51look in his eyes I felt like I just have to follow my heart and like I have to give
01:10:55this a chance
01:10:55and then I hugged him and I felt like I've known him for years I really didn't expect to feel
01:11:01this
01:11:01comfortable this soon oh why are you so dressed up um because it's Melbourne Cup day this is the
01:11:08biggest day of the year okay so we were hoping that you might want to come and have a few
01:11:14drinks and
01:11:14let your hair down I know that you're probably jet-lagged I'm tired I feel like I look like I
01:11:20need a
01:11:21shower we don't have time so where are we gonna have time yeah we're going out yeah I know it's
01:11:34bad
01:11:34timing but after a few tequilas you won't even forget that you haven't had showered or put makeup on
01:11:40or done your hair yep and time is a factor so yeah it is so yeah yeah first race is
01:11:47in 13 minutes
01:11:50if it makes you happy I'll do it but I feel really uncomfortable you guys look very good
01:11:54and I look like a tree back so should we should we do it right here no I didn't think
01:12:02that far ahead
01:12:02and surely Josh do he's he's he's open up all my suitcases and we can have like a party of
01:12:06what
01:12:07Elise could wear I like when people pick out my outfit yeah let's start now each boy grab a
01:12:15suitcase and open it up I see dresses Joshua liked that on me I send him a picture I kind
01:12:29of want to
01:12:30dress sluttier just what sluttier no you dress how you want I don't mind I don't need a bra or
01:12:36underwear with this dress that saves time saves time all right I will go get ready in the bathroom
01:12:45yep we'll be outside just here right here okay I like that she's a trooper that is attractive for
01:12:52someone that's sort of like yep you know what you want to do it let's do it so what do
01:13:00you think
01:13:00about good that going well I think yeah yeah she's a firecracker yeah I just can't believe that I'm
01:13:09actually getting ready in a bathroom at the airport to go to a bar to watch an event I really
01:13:16just hope
01:13:17Josh sees how much like effort I'm putting into this relationship obviously this isn't the ideal
01:13:23first day with Josh the last thing I thought possible was one to bring Chris and two to take
01:13:31me to a bar the second I landed at the airport but I flew across the world to like get
01:13:38a glimpse of his
01:13:39life and figure out if he's a person I want to be with everything seems good right now our connection
01:13:44and our chemistry was like it's there so I'm really going to just try and make the best of it
01:13:52I am here hi there she is you look stunning I'm not even wearing underwear oh well just how it
01:14:02doesn't get too windy all right well now I'm dressed like you boys better I'd say it's the three musketeers
01:14:19are you going to be part of our lives or not you're going to give me the ultimate forrest
01:14:27I'm just a little bit excuse me you know excuse me you going on your little attack you I don't
01:14:32like
01:14:32the attitude you're having you made it perfectly clear that you mentally cannot handle my decisions
01:14:50you seem like you're way too stressed out we don't want to cause you any more stress
01:14:57well you're the big man now aren't you you're the big grown-up that can handle all and make all
01:15:02the
01:15:02decisions on his own right thank you yes yes I am
01:15:12I have always had to protect Forrest because of his autism and it's happened before where he's been
01:15:21taken advantage of and used and hurt deeply I'm absolutely positive that Sheena manipulated Forrest
01:15:31again just so that he would propose to her but in the grand scheme of things Forrest is going to
01:15:38do
01:15:38what Forrest wants to do and now I feel like I lost my son I really feel like I lost
01:15:46my son
01:15:48and it makes me really sad you know Forrest you have done this crap to me over and over again
01:16:00and I am tired I am so tired I am tired of the mess that you keep throwing me into
01:16:10and then when I
01:16:13crawl up to crawl up to grab you out again and crawl up to save you out of a situation
01:16:18or to help you
01:16:19you turn around and you give me the big bird well it's none of your effing business mom
01:16:26and do you think that the next time it crumbles and falls that when you go to pick up the
01:16:32phone to call
01:16:33me to save you that I'm gonna be there I promise I won't come to you Sheena and I are
01:16:41gonna move forward
01:16:44okay you're gonna be in our lives but you think I think you might be surprised Forrest oh
01:16:51well just might be surprised all right well
01:17:00have a good night I'm sorry by law thank you for standing for me
01:17:12it's okay baby it's hard to think that my mom would actually step away from my life rather than
01:17:21accept Sheena as my wife I never thought it would come to this and that my own mother would put
01:17:29me in
01:17:30this situation losing my mom is something I never expected to lose on this trip I lost my best friend
01:17:41the person the person who's been with me my entire life the person who gave birth to me
01:17:45and it's tearing me apart
01:17:49my god
01:17:51it is time that mommy just cut it
01:17:55mommy has to let him be the man and take the knocks and not bail him out
01:18:01Forrest is on his own now
01:18:02yep
01:18:10oh god I'm starting to be like Sheena
01:18:13oh my god
01:18:16I told him the truth and he won't even talk to me
01:18:19could you even tell him about the women
01:18:22no I haven't mentioned the women
01:18:24he's going to be destroyed by the women
01:18:28yes he is
01:18:29I can't tell him that
01:18:31I can't tell him
01:18:32you have to
01:18:33I can't
01:18:39I can't
01:19:14I can't tell him
01:19:34Hi, do you want to have a separate room, please?
01:19:55Hi, I just told Daniel how many times I was married and then I'm still married, he didn't
01:20:03take it very well, and I'm in a whole different room, I told him the truth and he won't even
01:20:09talk to me, no, I haven't mentioned the women, I've only told him about the marriages, you
01:20:21didn't just lie about the marriages, you lied about a whole part of your life, he's going
01:20:28to be destroyed by the women.
01:20:31Yes, he is, I can't tell him that, I can't tell him.
01:20:35You have to.
01:20:36I can't, he's never going to forgive this, I would be going to forgive that.
01:20:42I know I don't want to tell him so you can stay together, but you, he will find out eventually.
01:20:54I'm sorry, Daniel's the one forever, Faith, he's really the one.
01:21:01I want him, Faith, I want Daniel, I want Daniel, I don't want this to be over.
01:21:18We're here.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, not leading with sex.
01:21:28But at the same time, he's hot and I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of
01:21:33what he might be gonna end.
01:21:35Josh!
01:21:39We're packing up to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
01:21:43This is like make or break.
01:21:46I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
01:21:50I told you, yes.
01:21:52So what else do you want?
01:21:54Just tell me now.
01:21:59Emma!
01:22:00Maddie!
01:22:01You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
01:22:04What's wrong?
01:22:04It literally went to with him, leaving me alone in the desert.
01:22:08Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
01:22:12Don't be mad.
01:22:13What?
01:22:15What was that?
01:22:16Muhammad.
01:22:17Muhammad.
01:22:18Hello?
01:22:20The other night, I called my friend Michael, because I have concerns.
01:22:25And now Michael has the same concerns.
01:22:28He has no place in our relationship.
01:22:30Well, he wants to come here.
01:22:32He already bought a flight.
01:22:34What?
01:22:36Oh, my God.
01:22:37I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:22:39Oh, my God.
01:22:44I'm not giving up at walking away like I have every other relationship.
01:22:47I'm going to wipe the tears, and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
01:22:51I'm asking you to give me a chance.
01:22:53I planned a small romantic getaway.
01:22:57Is this a kind of a trap?
01:23:03Is this being romantic?
01:23:05Yeah.
01:23:05Did I pass the test today?
01:23:07Kind of.
01:23:07Okay.
01:23:08You still have to be nicer to yourself.
01:23:11I think that you got comfortable.
01:23:13Don't ever get too comfortable.
01:23:15Ever.
01:23:15You don't want to bitch your wife.
01:23:18Don't be a asshole.
01:23:20And like, I don't have to talk.
01:23:22I don't want to see you ever again.
01:23:25Don't come home.
01:23:26Ever.
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