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In The Empathizer, director Fred Le travels to Vietnam to explore why his mother refuses to return to the homeland she left. There, he interviews a number of Vietnamese expatriates who have made a living in Vietnam, including artists, athletes, business owners, and students. Each discusses the contradictions between what they learned about Vietnam during their own Western upbringings and their experiences in present-day Vietnam. It might appear, at first, that The Empathizer is leaning so heavily on the views of the young Viet kieu (the Vietnamese diaspora) who emigrated back to Vietnam, but Le eventually returns to the source of why this film exists. And when he does, The Empathizer finds its emotional and moral center. Aptly titled, The Empathizer pushes the audience to consider the diverse viewpoints and experiences of the various Vietnamese diaspora approaches to Vietnam. It blends humor and gravity in articulating the lasting effects of division, suspicion and animosity borne out of war, forced migration, and politics. The film speaks directly to the children of Vietnamese refugees who seek to empathize with the tribulations of their parents, but often cannot fully grasp the effects of displacement-induced trauma. Highlighting the rift between generations, The Empathizer pushes the audience to explore ways to build empathy and understanding.
Transcript
00:00We're comics and we're fucking Vietnamese. That is, the language is torture.
00:06Have you been in Vietnam?
00:07He's going back later.
00:08Yeah, there's a lot of people going back over there.
00:10Yeah, I'm going in October to meet with other DBQ people who also moved back.
00:16Nope!
00:16One thing we noticed there is that, you know, it's communist now.
00:20What do you think it was?
00:21I thought it was north and south.
00:23No, that's why we're all here.
00:25Please give him a warm welcome. He hasn't been around these parts for a very long time.
00:30Sometimes I feel kind of funny about the fact that, like, my parents had to literally escape this country.
00:36Like, my mom got crammed into a small boat.
00:39She lived through storms and literally seven pirate attacks.
00:42Only for her daughter to grow up, hop on a plane eating bread rolls and watching The Sopranos for 24
00:48hours and go right back.
00:51Did your mom date Burt Reynolds?
00:53Tom Selleck.
00:54Tom Selleck.
00:55Tom Selleck.
00:55My mom, when she came to the U.S., you know, not wanting us to speak Vietnamese.
01:01That just says a lot as to what she was trying to leave behind.
01:05Did she see some shit?
01:06Yeah.
01:06What's your dad's relationship with the country now?
01:09I remember a quote from him.
01:10I would rather clean the toilets in America than live as a slave in Vietnam.
01:17Whoa.
01:18I grew up thinking that this is, like, a forbidden country.
01:20The anger is very hard to let go of.
01:23Right?
01:23That resentment.
01:24Like, my dad was in prison.
01:25He was a soldier for the South.
01:27So he escaped to Thailand where he met my mother.
01:30He escaped prison?
01:31Like, under gunfire.
01:32He jumped on the back of a scooter.
01:34Like that.
01:34Holy shit.
01:35My parents really wanted to come back.
01:37But it's starting to look like it's not going to happen.
01:41Just because of this, like, hurt.
01:42And that's kind of a big reason why I decided to put together this film.
01:46To just kind of highlight the beauties of this country.
01:49I've struggled personally with trying to convince my own mother.
01:53Can you be doing it for your mom also?
01:55I guess.
01:56I mean, my sister's name is Huai Heung.
01:58Wow.
02:00Wow.
02:00Heung is like the home country, homeland.
02:02That's right.
02:03And Huai is like nostalgia.
02:06Just like missing the homeland.
02:08The homeland.
02:08Why is it so important for you that your mom loves Vietnam?
02:13I mean, in the end, it tells you something about yourself.
02:16The only way out of all of this is for each one of us to find out what our parents
02:23could not forgive.
02:24And forgiving them for not forgiving it.
02:28That's what my therapist told me to do.
02:31What is your move, by the way?
02:33Check.
02:34Oh shit.
02:47However, every seeing and then follow us.
02:48I help my family in collaboration.
02:48Mom speaking, it doesn't bite me.
02:48Why don't you get my side of the sky?
02:48Ready to teach you.
02:49Bye!
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