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00:00MUSIC
00:07I've handcuffed nine pairs of total strangers.
00:13A barmaid and a multimillionaire.
00:17A proud feminist and an alpha male.
00:21Call me baby one more time.
00:23And we ain't got to be winning this money.
00:26The last pair standing wins £100,000.
00:30F*** me, what a f*** do in my own car.
00:32One pair has quit.
00:34I did my bit.
00:35Eight pairs remain.
00:37In a divided Britain, can walking a mile in each other's shoes bring us a little closer together?
00:43Even though I annoy the f*** out of her, I won't leave her.
00:48This is a survival show where you have to survive someone else.
00:52Welcome to Handcuffed.
01:00The pairs I've handcuffed together all have different lifestyles, beliefs and views.
01:06But each of them has something I think they can learn from their opposite.
01:10If only they can get along.
01:22The thing that I'm finding the toughest being handcuffed to Sarah is that she doesn't stop.
01:27She's hard work.
01:29Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right.
01:33Here I am stuck in the middle with you.
01:42Shall we meet our next pair?
01:45Why don't we? Let's get our next contestant on.
01:49Meet Nina, a hairdresser from London's East End.
01:53When I first meet somebody, I'm polite.
01:56Initially.
01:59Until...
02:00Until I'm not.
02:01What is your reason for coming in here? What are you hoping to achieve?
02:04I want to know how tolerant I can be, how understanding I can be, how kind and patient I can
02:09be.
02:10I'm a Christian.
02:11Have I lived a Christian, stain-free life?
02:16No.
02:18I haven't.
02:18Hopefully I'll be paired with somebody that is going to teach me patience, I think.
02:22It's going to teach me understanding.
02:24Well, do I have the perfect partner for her.
02:27Meet Sarah, a proudly outspoken mother of seven.
02:31How would you describe yourself when someone meets you the first time?
02:33Oh, they don't like me, but I grow on them like mould.
02:36And then they're like, oh, she's actually really nice when she's not talking.
02:40I'm very opinionated.
02:42I am the female Nigel Farage.
02:45He says what he means and he owns it.
02:48I will say what I want.
02:50Sometimes I offend people really quickly, but I don't mean it.
03:10I love her.
03:12Oh, bless.
03:14Feelings mutual.
03:15It is Nina and Sarah.
03:17Good luck.
03:18Good luck.
03:19Good luck.
03:22Good luck.
03:22I was just, oh gosh, I've got another daughter.
03:25And I'm really happy with this beautiful lady that I've got.
03:29The first thing she did was link my finger and it kind of made me feel all warm and fuzzy.
03:33She looks like a bit of a talker.
03:35I can have my moments of being a talker and then I can have my moments of not.
03:38So it's how well she'll cope when I'm not in the mood to talk.
03:42We'll see.
03:45So a Christian looking to be more tolerant with a woman who loves speaking her mind.
03:51Sorry, sweetie.
03:52Don't mean to squeeze your hands.
03:53No.
03:54Do anything you like.
03:54I don't care.
03:56I'm 100% here for you.
03:57And I mean that.
03:58And we're going to respect each other and we might even have a little moan at each other.
04:03But then we'll look at each other the next day and go, love you all.
04:05I can't guarantee that.
04:06Oh.
04:09All the pairs must begin the competition by spending time in each other's homes.
04:13And these two are off to Nina's East London flat.
04:18Sarah wastes not a second getting Nina up to speed.
04:21I have seven kids, four husbands, two long-term relationships.
04:25How did you fit all that in in 55 years? Four husbands?
04:29Yeah, easy. Easy.
04:30When I was 20.
04:32The second one was 23.
04:33The next one I didn't marry but I had two kids with him.
04:37But I didn't know I had ADHD at the time.
04:40Wow.
04:40And when ADHD people are bored of something, they'll walk away.
04:43So you were bored of your marriage in the school?
04:45Yeah.
04:45It was the same shit every day.
04:47I have ADHD and I'm proud.
04:50It's not a bad thing at all, you know, to be expressive.
04:54It's my superpower and I'm sticking with it.
04:58The pair have been handcuffed for less than an hour and Nina's search for tolerance is well underway.
05:04I said to them, I said, what if you have an accident and me or Nina gets trapped behind the
05:07seat?
05:08I said, I'm not in the mood to be gnawing off my wrist.
05:10They said, bring a swimming costume. I went, you know I don't like water.
05:12You've got the sciatic nerve, but under that is a piriformis.
05:16And for two years of perimenopause, my hip was on fire, I couldn't walk.
05:20What does silence look like to you?
05:22I don't have silence.
05:23Even now, in my head, I've got three voices, four songs playing.
05:27So what do you do?
05:28Get up, pop around the house, do the house, go and sort my friends out.
05:30I never sit still.
05:32And then sometimes, my kids, they don't ring me because I don't shut up.
05:38Sorry. Sorry.
05:40Don't laugh and cry all the time.
05:44God forgive me, God forgive me.
05:46I'm so sorry, I did not mean to laugh.
05:49No, you can, because it's made me laugh.
05:53Do you know what I'm going to do with you?
05:54What?
05:55I'm going to play the let's be quiet game.
05:57Yeah, all right.
05:58Can you see that car?
05:59All right.
06:00You're not going to say nothing until we get to that car.
06:02Not a word.
06:03Yeah?
06:04OK, cool.
06:04Got that.
06:07You can't even whistle, nothing.
06:09No noise.
06:10OK.
06:11Just, just, just breathe.
06:13And don't, yeah, just don't make a, just nothing.
06:16OK?
06:17Just until we get to the car.
06:24Oh my God, it's great.
06:27To remain in the running for the hundred grand prize, all the couples need to do is keep their
06:33handcuffs on.
06:36While some pairs seem to be getting along, for others, living together isn't easy.
06:51How did you sleep?
06:54With your eyes closed.
06:55Yeah?
06:56Yeah.
06:57Did you sleep?
06:58I don't think so.
06:59It's sad when your brain just can't switch off.
07:03In Manchester, it's been a sleepless night for feminist Jo.
07:09Since being handcuffed to alpha male Ruben, they've been struggling to find common ground.
07:14Ruben's quite rigid in how he sees things.
07:17So I thought I'd tell him about my sexuality.
07:20Maybe help him see me a little bit differently.
07:23Exactly.
07:24So I know we've not really touched on this, but I've got a pretty good idea.
07:28But like, what is your sexual preference?
07:30It's right, women only.
07:32I'm also attracted to women.
07:35Well, you've got more in common than you think.
07:37Although I identify as a lesbian, I have been with men.
07:42However, a big thing was, was that they always wanted me in like secret.
07:48You find, as a fat girl, some men do want to like sleep with you and that.
07:53But it's kind of always very private.
07:55There's a saying in the manners field is, if you go for a girl who's a little bit bigger,
08:00she'll be a bit more grateful.
08:01She'll put her back into it.
08:07The comments that he was making is so invalidating.
08:11Just show a bit of compassion.
08:13Do you know what I mean?
08:14I just don't think I want to do this.
08:20It's up we get.
08:21Hands off a cocks and hands on socks.
08:24For fuck's sake.
08:25Shower.
08:28The enormity of the challenge is beginning to dawn on Jo.
08:35I don't think I can.
08:39I was hoping to use the shower to decompress,
08:43reset myself ready to carry on with the challenge.
08:46Jo asks for a call with the producers.
08:50Not on the side before you end.
08:52Hi Jo, how are you?
08:53I'm just a bit stressed now about this bath literary.
08:57No, no, no.
08:57We're going to get this sorted.
08:58The pairs can request a longer chain for number twos,
09:02but must shower using the regular handcuffs.
09:05It's about you to try to work together.
09:08I'm not comfortable doing that.
09:11No, I don't.
09:11I want to go and get the key.
09:14100%.
09:14Hang on.
09:15One second.
09:16I want to go and get the key.
09:20We can work out a solution.
09:21There's no solution.
09:23Do we not remember why we're doing this though, Jo?
09:25I don't care.
09:26It's not worth it to me.
09:28I don't care about the money.
09:30Can you please come with me and get the key?
09:34I'm not doing this.
09:35No, I'm not doing this.
09:36Give me the fucking key.
09:39Right now.
09:40I'm not doing it.
09:44She's here.
09:44She's here.
09:45She's uncoughing.
09:46It's done.
09:51Yeah, 100%.
09:57All that.
10:03How are you feeling?
10:04Sorry.
10:05Sorry.
10:05I can't.
10:06I can't say much.
10:07I'm fucking fuming.
10:08No, no.
10:08I understand it.
10:09I understand it.
10:09We signed up this challenge.
10:11We knew it was going to be hard.
10:12It didn't change my opinion that fat people lack accountability.
10:15They lack discipline and they lack motivation.
10:18She's a nice person, but she was never cut out for this competition.
10:23It was like nothing I've ever, ever encountered in my life.
10:28Every single thing that comes out of his mouth is to impress somebody.
10:33But he really needs to learn to show a bit of compassion.
10:40There's a positive I can take for this.
10:43I've stopped him from winning.
10:44And that is worth 500 grand, let alone 50 grand.
10:49I'm actually quite proud of you for breaking the handcuff just to piss him off.
10:58It's not a lot of people.
11:03It's worth it now.
11:12It's not a lot of people.
11:15It's not a lot of people.
11:19I've stopped him from winning.
11:22learning to live with each other for that £100,000 prize.
11:26I'm really hoping that, despite their obvious differences,
11:30for some, this might just be the start of some beautiful friendships.
11:37In Enfield, millionaire classic car collector Anthony
11:40is waking up a long way from home.
11:44The pair have travelled to the house barmaid Tilly shares with her mum.
11:48We have got a very fun day today.
11:50No. A very busy day.
11:53We're going to do some cleaning on a fairly large scale, by the look of it.
11:58Now that Anthony's in my world, I'll put him to it, actual hard graft.
12:03Hopefully, he won't throw a robbery.
12:07I want to win.
12:08I actually need £50,000.
12:11Obviously, usually, I'm a little more organised on this.
12:15I've worked since I was 13. My first job was in a dry cleaners.
12:18I got paid £15 a day. I was shit at it.
12:21Mind your head.
12:22Here. Ow.
12:24Now, I work three jobs, you know.
12:26I've got it.
12:26No, no, no.
12:27If I won a share of £100,000,
12:30I would pay a year's rent up front on a one-bedroom flat.
12:37Not that I thought about it or anything.
12:41I'm a great long sock fan in the sun.
12:43It's terribly stylish, I think.
12:45But, so, this is it.
12:48I grew up in a family who were extremely wealthy.
12:51We had staff.
12:53I had a nanny.
12:54I had maids.
12:55Without wishing to be conceited or pompous,
12:57having the life I have,
12:59it's incredible.
13:01I consider it a challenge
13:02to do what I'm about to do.
13:04It won't be easy,
13:05but it'll be attested to me more than anything.
13:09How are you looking forward
13:10to getting your hands dirty?
13:12I don't think anybody looks forced
13:14to getting their hands dirty,
13:15but I'm certainly not afraid of work.
13:16No.
13:17There was a quote once from Sir Henry Royce.
13:20Whatever is done in life,
13:22no matter how humble,
13:24if it is done well,
13:25it is noble.
13:26You do something, do it properly.
13:28That's what I say.
13:29Same thing?
13:29Yeah.
13:30It's highly different wording.
13:33Let me just spray this first.
13:40I've never experienced this.
13:42It's just not in my vision.
13:46Push that.
13:48Oh, Christ.
13:49And it is alien to me.
13:51Yes, it is.
13:52I'm not ridiculously house proud,
13:54but everything has to be absolutely pristine
13:58and in the right place.
13:59If there's a party
14:00and everybody uses it, great,
14:01but it has to go back
14:02into that regimentation.
14:04It doesn't mean to say
14:04there can't be a mess,
14:05it's just we've got to be,
14:06you know,
14:07look what happened at the house
14:08while you were there.
14:09It was absolute mess everywhere.
14:10But miraculously,
14:11in the morning,
14:12it was all back to normal,
14:13wasn't it?
14:15Yeah, but that's because you had people
14:18to do that, though.
14:21When he comes home
14:23or he goes to bed
14:24and he wakes up in the morning,
14:25everything is done.
14:27When was the last time
14:28you reckon you cleaned the toilet?
14:321975, I think it was.
14:34Been a while then, yeah?
14:35This is probably knackering for him.
14:38He must be exhausted.
14:40I find it really difficult
14:42keeping up with Tilly
14:43because she goes at everything
14:44at 1,000 miles an hour
14:45and I certainly couldn't do that.
14:47Day in, day out, no.
14:50It wouldn't be for me.
14:56In East London,
14:58mum of seven, Sawa,
14:59is still testing
15:00Christian Nina's tolerance.
15:02Have you got a partner?
15:04Do I have a partner?
15:06No.
15:06I didn't think you did.
15:08I'm sorry?
15:09I didn't think you did.
15:10Not because you're not
15:11beautiful and attractive,
15:12it's because it's your way
15:14or the highway.
15:15With men.
15:16Not really.
15:18Being handcuffed to somebody
15:19is going to be
15:21a test.
15:22I work in a salon
15:24that does afro hair,
15:25I work with black people,
15:26I'm surrounded by people
15:27that get me
15:28and understand me.
15:30Dealing with a stranger
15:31is going to teach me
15:32about myself.
15:33I'd have to give
15:34that person a chance.
15:38So,
15:39now I'm going to ask you
15:40a question.
15:40You aren't trans,
15:42are you?
15:47You said you had
15:48size 80, I thought.
15:49You thought that I was trans.
15:53for the first two minutes
15:55and you do have
15:56quite a
15:58sort of,
15:59I can't,
15:59what words,
16:00what am I looking for?
16:00Help me explain.
16:01Masculine,
16:02manly.
16:04You're very,
16:06not very dainty.
16:10were you born a woman?
16:11Yes.
16:12Okay.
16:15The thing I'm finding
16:16the toughest,
16:17being handcuffed to Sarah,
16:18is that she doesn't stop.
16:19But hopefully,
16:20once she starts to feel
16:22a little bit more comfortable,
16:23she'll
16:24shut up.
16:29let's see.
16:32It's very important.
16:33I go to the toilet,
16:35I won't say the word,
16:36once every morning,
16:38once I've had my cough and...
16:39Why is that relevant now?
16:41Why do you feel you have to say it?
16:42Because I need one right now
16:43and that's not me.
16:45Right,
16:46come on in.
16:47I'll have rejection
16:47seven certificate as well.
16:50The pairs
16:50must remain handcuffed
16:5224-7
16:53but can request
16:54a longer chain
16:55when they need
16:56a number two.
16:58Hang on.
16:59Let me get me skirt up.
17:01Right.
17:01You got...
17:02Are you missing me?
17:02Absolutely.
17:03You're not?
17:04No.
17:04Don't make faces
17:05because my kids do that.
17:06I'm not making...
17:06She is.
17:07She's going to roll her eyes.
17:08Going to roll your eyes.
17:09Well, I shall roll her right back.
17:11Right.
17:12Always put paper down first.
17:15I know.
17:16Too much information.
17:19Why are you not talking?
17:21Just sing something.
17:22Sing anything.
17:24I'll sing for you.
17:29Come to the cabaret.
17:33Oh.
17:35Won't be long.
17:39Won't be long.
17:40I'm trying to work out
17:41whether or not
17:44if sorrow is annoying
17:45or if I've got low tolerance.
17:48I don't know which it is.
17:54Hey, Macarena.
17:56I think it's the former.
17:58Oh.
18:03Just a few short miles away,
18:09millionaire Anthony is off with Tilly
18:11for their second shift of the day
18:13at the Fishmonger's Arms.
18:15My normal day would start
18:17from like 6 o'clock in the morning
18:19where I do my cleaning
18:21and then I'll start here
18:226 o'clock in the evening
18:24until about 12, 1 o'clock.
18:26Are we here until 12 or 1 o'clock?
18:28Yeah.
18:28Dear.
18:29I'm pretty weary, actually.
18:33Right.
18:34Let's do this.
18:35Hello.
18:35How are you?
18:36Good evening.
18:36May I ask what you like to drink?
18:37Two pints of briti.
18:39One with a tiny splash of lime.
18:41There's an after this.
18:42Oh.
18:44May I ask you to tap on here, please?
18:47Here, you take it off.
18:48Take it off.
18:50People think that I've been lucky
18:53and I'm privileged to be in that position
18:55but it has needed to be created.
18:58By taking the right decisions in life,
19:01it can happen to anyone
19:02regardless of your class.
19:06You're not afraid of hard work.
19:07You've proved that today.
19:09But then again, you are younger than me.
19:11But I'll probably be working like that
19:13for the rest of my life.
19:14I doubt it.
19:15You can change it
19:17but for some reason,
19:18you're putting yourself in a cul-de-sac all the time
19:21and you're not allowing yourself out of it.
19:23It's a reality for me
19:24that no matter how hard I work,
19:26I will not get a property.
19:28I don't accept that.
19:30The energy that you've got
19:31must be channeled into the same thing.
19:33Energy don't pay bills.
19:35People that are working hard,
19:38two, three jobs,
19:40cannot afford to live.
19:41Well, where are they all?
19:43Huh?
19:43They're here.
19:44It's me.
19:44It's me.
19:45I live at my mum's house.
19:47I live at my mum's house.
19:49You think I want to be living at my mum's house?
19:51Because you're being a little bit close-minded to it.
19:54You know, where are these people?
19:56They're here.
19:57It's me.
19:57With respect, my love,
19:59I don't think I'm being patronising,
20:01but there are a lot of people
20:02who are very busy fools.
20:06I'm actually lost for words.
20:09He doesn't realise his privilege.
20:14It's not about, you know,
20:15having the right mentality all the time.
20:19Sometimes that isn't enough.
20:20He thinks he understands it.
20:23I think sometimes ignorance is bliss.
20:28If she just shut up and listened,
20:30she might just be able to think about how the world could change
20:35for people who genuinely like her want to get on in life
20:38but can't seem to do it.
20:39I think it's an education thing more than anything.
20:47Travelling home,
20:48Tilly spots a local homeless man she knows
20:51wandering the streets.
20:52This is me, darling.
20:54I've been worried sick about you.
20:56This is my mate, Anthony.
20:58Hello.
20:58Anthony, this is my mate, Chris.
20:59Hi, how are you?
21:00Hello.
21:01Nice to see you.
21:01Yeah, nice to see you.
21:03Come on, we have to go.
21:04Lovely to meet you.
21:05Can we go in?
21:06Yeah, it's five minutes.
21:07One minute.
21:08Let me just say hello.
21:09Listen, I was worried sick about you.
21:12Now, on Thursday,
21:13make sure you go and get that dinner.
21:16Yeah, certainly.
21:17You're in the town tomorrow?
21:19Yes.
21:19Yeah?
21:20I'll see you.
21:21All right?
21:22Thank you, Tilly.
21:24I love you.
21:25I love you too, darling.
21:26I love you.
21:27I'm glad you're all right.
21:29I'm really glad that I've seen you.
21:31All right?
21:32Yeah, I love you.
21:33Love you, sweetheart.
21:34All right?
21:35You be good.
21:36Try and get a good night's sleep
21:37and I'll see you tomorrow, yeah?
21:39All right?
21:39Love you straight up.
21:40Keep your chin up.
21:41Take it easy.
21:43I can love you back.
21:44Sorry, I've been so bothered sick about him.
21:46Is he homeless?
21:47Yeah.
21:48Oh, dear.
21:49He's been homeless for a long time.
21:50Oh, for God's sake.
21:52He needs a good haircut.
21:53He, you know.
21:54He probably can't afford one, can he?
21:55Don't be ridiculous.
21:56Of course he can get a haircut if he wants one.
21:58He might not want one.
22:00Where is he going to get a haircut?
22:01I could take him somewhere straight away to get a haircut.
22:04Yeah, but you could take him somewhere straight away,
22:07but he couldn't walk into a barber's and get a haircut.
22:11Oh, don't start all that again.
22:13I haven't the energy.
22:14No, but it's correct.
22:16Of course he can get a haircut.
22:17Everything costs money, Anthony.
22:19People don't do things for free, sadly.
22:23The fucking audacity of this homeless man looking shabby.
22:28I think that just kind of showed, but he's just so oblivious to everything, you know.
22:33And I know I've always got a choice, but I need money.
22:47In the rolling hills of West Sussex, another pair, hoping to win the £100,000.
22:54Now, they say you should never judge a book by its cover.
22:58What were your first impressions?
23:00You look very posh.
23:01Prim and proper.
23:03You know, like Princess Anne.
23:07What do you do, Rob?
23:09You want to know?
23:10Or maybe I'll tell you every dinner tonight.
23:19My husband just sent me a few lovely texts this morning.
23:22He said, darling, we're all rooting for you.
23:25I'm just so lovely.
23:27Meet traditional homemaker Charlie.
23:29I'm very, very old-fashioned.
23:32I have really strong morals.
23:33I'm a massive prude.
23:35I really hope that doing this experience will be a good thing for me.
23:39Maybe I will lose some of my inhibitions.
23:43If she wants to lose her prudishness, then I think I have the perfect partner.
23:48Six foot eight, fridge of a man, Rob.
23:50I'm a straight man, but I make gay porn for the gay industry.
23:56Just because I look like a thug and I look like I belong on Crimewatch, don't judge her but by
24:01the discoverer.
24:13Charlie, meet Rob.
24:15Rob, meet Charlie.
24:16Nice to meet you.
24:16Are you ready to win?
24:18Yeah, let's do it.
24:19Let's do it, man.
24:19Let's do it.
24:20So, first impressions?
24:22It's like a big bear.
24:23Yes.
24:25I don't know many people that are as big as Rob with a beard and lots of tattoos.
24:29I mean, look at him.
24:31He's huge.
24:33Charlie does look very posh.
24:35Because I'm an OnlyFans creator, I definitely think she might frown upon my lifestyle choices.
24:40We'll see.
24:43So, a porn star seeking acceptance with a self-confessed prude looking to be more open-minded.
24:49I think these two have more to learn from each other than they realise.
24:53Oh, boy.
24:55This is going to be interesting.
24:58They'll begin their time together at Charlie's Country Cottage in West Sussex.
25:03So, this is yours, yeah?
25:05Yeah.
25:05Look at the size of it.
25:07Where she lives with three children, five chickens, two horses and husband, Simon.
25:13Oh, that's not him.
25:14Hello.
25:15How are you?
25:16Good to meet you.
25:17You've got the right hand.
25:19Hi there.
25:20How are you doing?
25:22What have you let yourselves in for?
25:24What's she like sleeping?
25:25Because this is probably the worrying thing for me now is how are we going to sleep?
25:28Does she fidget?
25:29To be perfectly honest, she could sleep standing up.
25:31And if she gets a bit tired, I've got every confidence of you being able to carry her.
25:35Because she's very precious to me.
25:37Yes, yes.
25:37I'll look after her, don't worry.
25:39Okay?
25:39I love you.
25:41I'm like the third wheeler on the date.
25:45Oh, yes, I love you.
25:46I love you, darling.
25:47Oh, yeah.
25:50In case it gets too much, I've given them a way out.
25:53I've placed a key to the cuffs in all the couple's homes.
25:57I need a wee to be honest.
25:59You can go first.
26:01Oh, done.
26:02Well, you need to come.
26:04I need to come further in.
26:07You can take my hand with you to do what you need to do.
26:11It's just weird.
26:13I don't even like my husband seeing me with nothing on.
26:16I barely even took my pants off to give birth to the children.
26:19Hold on.
26:20I can't piss.
26:21I think, you know what I might do?
26:22Put the tap on.
26:24When you hear water, you're more likely to go for a pissing, isn't it?
26:27Not going to lie, I'm quite apprehensive.
26:30Oh, there you go.
26:31It's coming out.
26:32It's not so bad, is it?
26:36I think we're getting on quite well so far.
26:38We've survived our first wee, but I'm a little bit nervous.
26:42Charlie's very innocent.
26:44I don't know how she's going to react when I reveal to her what I actually do for a living.
27:02In East London, Nina is growing increasingly keen to stop Sawa talking.
27:12Sorry, I've got to pick up your town.
27:14Yes, I was going to, but I couldn't turn myself around.
27:17It was my criticism.
27:18Oh, my gosh.
27:20This is terrible.
27:21Sawa, please, just, please, just stop talking.
27:25Just five minutes.
27:25Okay.
27:26Please.
27:26Yes.
27:30I've never met anybody that talks as much as Sawa, never.
27:33I'm a hairdresser, so I listen to people all the time.
27:35Never in all of my 53 years have I ever been around anyone that talks as much as this woman.
27:40Why have you told her, do I?
27:43Like a super king duvet on a single bed.
27:44Remember what we said before?
27:45You started.
27:46Remember what we said?
27:47No.
27:47Don't you remember?
27:48I'll tell you what we said.
27:49We said that you're not going to talk.
27:50That's what we said.
27:51No, you said five minutes.
27:52You were being bossy.
27:53That was 12 minutes ago.
27:54Let's do a new one.
27:55No, let's not.
27:56Ah!
27:57I just need to not have your voice in my head.
28:01All right, then, but you keep changing the rules, because I'm sat there quiet, and then
28:05you start going, and being all loud, and I'm like, oh, okay, two ways to three.
28:10What the actual fuck are you talking about?
28:13My mum is from Sierra Leone.
28:16My dad was from Nigeria.
28:17With an African household, you just have to have respect.
28:22To me, manners and respect is very important.
28:25I'm not going to put up with anyone that pushes my buttons intentionally, and in return, I'll
28:32offer you the same courtesy, but you're not going to take the piss.
28:36Seeking some relief, Nina's taking Sara to see her friends, but they've got to get there
28:42first.
28:43Do you like being on the tube?
28:46No, you're not going to do that.
28:48Do you really like it, though?
28:49Just answer the question.
28:52I'm not asking me a question.
28:53Don't be rude.
28:57Go on, give me your worst bitch face.
28:59Go on.
29:00Do you want me to carry the wine for a little while?
29:02Are you going to break the bottle?
29:03No.
29:04Okay.
29:04As if.
29:05I can't wait for you to have a drink.
29:07I used to carry me mum's whiskey home every night from the offline since back in the day.
29:12I never drop one.
29:13Yes.
29:14Yes.
29:15Yes.
29:15Yes.
29:16Yes.
29:16Yes.
29:16Yes.
29:17Yes.
29:17assa, you're nearly one.
29:18I'm not joking.
29:22Who's the donkey?
29:24Who's the donkey?
29:25Who's the two.
29:25You got the fucking wine.
29:26Ready?
29:27Off we go.
29:30Would I like a share of £100,000?
29:33Absolutely.
29:34I would but there's limits do you get what I mean so it could be 50 grand a little more
29:40if this woman continues I'm uncuffing there's nothing that's going to stop me no amount of money
29:55sorry nothing oh I don't know if you're talking to me or not I'm not I'm not
30:03I'm in your hometown and you're being rude I would not do this to you if you were mine I'm
30:09really
30:10a very tolerant person and I know you're going through a lot but you're sat there with a face
30:15like a slap dance raise your voice at me again mate I've been through all my hormones love and
30:21you know you're taking this is not hormones what is it then it's you it's you what have I done
30:27you
30:27don't stop I haven't stopped I haven't talked all the way I think it's going to be saying for it
30:32to me I don't want to talk don't shut up then I'm just trying to be polite my girl don't
30:40make
30:40me security please take them off take them off because if I do this time it's not going to be
30:49funny are you saying you want to run a car I'm saying I want her to stop talking to me
30:54just leave me
31:17alone
31:18in west sussex after some initial awkwardness
31:21can you hang that up there this one the middle one
31:26traditional homemaker charlie and pawn style rob seem to be hitting it off
31:31though charlie is still clueless about rob's profession
31:35we can time this and see how quick we can be ready go easy easy work man this is easy
31:41here we go I'm getting dizzy now slow down
31:44rob can you get the demerara sugar from up there it's always a tricky one
31:51not for a giant it's not
31:54we are making good spoon elderflower crumble oh nice you like to cook don't you i love to cook
32:03did your mom like to cook rob did she cook when you were growing up yeah we couldn't be really
32:07picky
32:08we would just have what was give to us oh yeah it's like my mom and dad divorced my mom
32:13was a nurse
32:14she was a hairdresser and um she was running like three jobs just to provide for me and my brother
32:19my mom blessed her she she did the best i had a bit of a difficult um childhood and a
32:26hugely hugely
32:28privileged my father was a very successful businessman
32:31oh okay um but then it all went wrong and we couldn't live with him anymore oh really so we
32:36actually we well we escaped i my dad hid the car keys and trapped us in the house and locked
32:45my
32:45brother out of the house said he was never allowed back in and um i gave mom the car keys
32:51and i said let's
32:51go yeah and i never went back my childhood really affected my confidence for many years
33:03it's taken quite a long time to find self-worth self-respect and i think i get that today because
33:09my family are the most important thing to me i love looking after them i just love taking care of
33:15people to be honest what age was it i was 16 16 at the time yeah but um it wasn't
33:23a very happy home
33:25um so yeah so i get it yeah you get where i come from i get it
33:34i was feeling really anxious earlier but i'm i'm chilling out a bit rob is a really nice guy
33:41and he's very sensitive which i wouldn't have got from first impressions so he's making it much
33:49easier than i thought it was going to be hello hey beautiful aren't you you should never judge her
33:55but by its color you know i thought she was really privileged but she's not she's just down to earth
34:00human just like the rest of us but i'm a little bit nervous because until revealed to her what i
34:06actually
34:06do we don't know that might really freak her out and i want her to stay to my wrist as
34:11long as
34:12possible do you know what i mean
34:19oh ow
34:21i bloody hurt that clonked in that wide on my leg
34:25sarah and nina have made it to her friend's house
34:30but after an intense journey their relationship and their shot at the 100 000 pound prize is hanging
34:37by a thread
34:38are you all right help me jesus oh would you guys like a drink yes please like anything
34:46i came into this experience hoping that i'd become more patient and more tolerant however
34:51enough is enough and i don't know if i can stay handcuffed to sarah so how have you found it
34:59so
34:59far very very challenging very i've got aghd and i don't shut up and it drives enough so i'm really
35:06trying by your own admission yeah you are can i be honest yeah but that when that you see can
35:15i can
35:15i just say you see that i'm trying to be tolerant of it like you because i can't get a
35:22word in what
35:22i want to do is be able to finish one sentence today sarah does not come up for air she's
35:32like
35:32a petulant child she goes on i am and on and on people remember i don't see many people but
35:38do you
35:38know what and i'm saying this to be really fucking honest i wish i could get away from me
35:45growing up i was an only child really and i used to get very lonely
35:52i ended up going to boarding school when i was 12. i was a little gal and i got sent
35:56away
35:57so when i was little i think i'm gonna have loads of kids and i'm never gonna feel lonely
36:01and that's what i did but now i don't see my children every day because they've all got busy
36:07lives they're always jetting off all around the country so i spend a lot of time at home
36:12alone i'm a very solitary person i just want it all to come back i just want how it used
36:18to be
36:19you know and just have a laugh but there's not much laughing going on at the minute you know but
36:25there might be when i'm on this show one thing i can tell you i might come across a chatty
36:31patty
36:32but when it's important stuff i will listen and i will take that in you seem like a really um
36:38zara you seem very caring very nice i'm sorry okay can we start again
36:46yeah can you leave me i don't care i'll super glue them on them
36:52i will i'm not the most tolerant of people and to be fair i'm a little bit
37:05like sarah so i do get easily excited i can talk a lot if i'm in the right company nothing
37:12that she
37:13does she does with any ill intent i don't think she can help it
37:19i don't want to unhandcuff i don't rather than get short-tempered with you i need to be a bit
37:26more
37:27understanding and tolerant but it's a lot i know
37:34i'm sorry and i'm going to be more patient with you i'm going to try to be more patient with
37:38you
37:38and i'm going to try to be quiet and listen i'm really going to try i promise
37:45it's so challenging it's really really difficult but i don't want to quit
37:52so i have to change myself in order to be able to tolerate her if i want to continue with
37:57the
37:57experience that's what i'm going to have to do these cushions are going to stay in the middle
38:01there's a little wall yeah no worries she might not like donald trump but she's built a wall
38:12i know i'm not easy to get on with i don't get on with myself most of the time but
38:18you know what
38:19i'll give it a good try she don't get rid of me that easily
38:30in west sussex we're currently now 12 hours in with the house to themselves
38:37porn star rob is preparing to broach his profession with self-confessed prude charlie
38:44people look down on my job and make assumptions about what i do as an adult content creator
38:48i've lost a few friends from it i did have a best friend of like 12 13 years and we
38:53did everything
38:54together do you know what i mean and it was just like one day just never spoke to me ever
38:57again so
38:58that's why my walls are always up with my heart trying not to get too close to people or too
39:02attached
39:03now because i always get let down
39:08so i've had many jobs in the past i worked in mcdonald i was a personal trainer fitness coach
39:14a structural engineer for eight years foreman working so many hours 50 60 hours a week and
39:20then it was just like this isn't making me money like what what can i do so there was this
39:26website
39:26called only fans okay and um i make gay porn for the gay industry
39:37good god i basically film content with men for a subscription site of ten dollars a month
39:45i'm a straight guy but i've got a very big gay fan base just to love me for my size
39:52my tattoos all
39:53that kind of stuff okay so yeah okay yeah a bit of a shock it's a bit of a shock
40:00yeah a shock um and
40:02not a world i know anything about yeah um yeah i've heard that but i've never looked at it like
40:09i don't
40:10know what happens yeah i can use my imagination yeah oh man
40:30what are you looking for my fans are roasting you want to use this one
40:36in east london it's the morning after the night before christy and nina is hoping that today
40:42she and sarah can find some understanding to deal with sorry you need to have the patience of a saint
40:49but really and truly i'm supposed to have the patience of a saint do you get i mean so it's
40:54like it's a test
40:58my faith is important but i'm not a bible basher i'm not gonna be quoting scriptures like dot cotton
41:06every minute that's just not who i am but do i try to adhere to what i think god wants
41:11me to do and who
41:11he wants me to be absolutely i do all right and probably just as annoying as you are however today
41:19i'm gonna try and be better for you but you need to just listen when somebody tells me can you
41:29just
41:29be quiet it's almost a trigger i get louder and i don't mean it you told me to tell you
41:35to be quiet
41:36yeah but it's how oh it's my tone that you don't like okay my children are very close
41:44very close i'm just mum you kind of get excluded they're not the kids that come round and say oh
41:51we'll do this we'll do that they ignore me on the phone even though something really important they
41:55ignore me you know i do feel lonely oh god doesn't put everyone else first okay why do you why
42:05is it
42:05everything that you do has to be for other people why can't it be for you do you think for
42:09everyone else
42:10first because you don't like you you don't like yourself that's sad that that's something that
42:20you're gonna have to work on sometimes i shout out sarah shut the up to myself
42:26it's a sad place to be sarah i know but i've been there for 50 odd years so
42:34even though i annoy the fucking shit out of her
42:39i won't leave her i get her she's lovely
42:46just have a little time to think it over just have a little room to work it out and that's
42:56what we're
42:57gonna do yeah over in west sussex you can go first i'll go first there's a towel there for self
43:08-confessed
43:09prude charlie showering with porn style rob is the least of her worries i am so knackered it's been so
43:17much to kind of take in it's quite tough when i discovered what rob does because that is just really
43:25foreign and alien for me so good because i got malcro and it's weird having him here
43:34in my home like with my family around
43:36i am very old-fashioned and i am quite prudent
43:45but my mind is certainly being opened and tested
43:50i'm telling charlie about what i do for work it was a bit daunting she didn't really know a lot
43:56about it which is a good thing to be honest i know she's got to tell her husband and stuff
44:00and that's
44:01probably going to be a tricky situation i'm not sure what words i have right now no no i feel
44:07really
44:07really anxious and totally totally totally out of my comfort zones so much that i just don't know how
44:15to get myself back to a place where i feel comfortable charlie with rob in tow decides to
44:23tell husband simon what rob does away from the cameras
44:29that's disgusting grim hideous just not comfortable with none of this you know i mean rob i didn't know
44:40you come out of the gate i'm sure you're a nice guy you're in the pool movie business and that's
44:45what we do how do you think i feel i fucking i didn't think i can cope with it he's
44:50given me
44:50palpitations i'm feeling fucking sick with it sorry i'll do what i do to provide for my family what
45:03you do it's unusual for us as a family you know i'd like you to stay in the competition if
45:11you need
45:11to put your family first i have to put them first they've always been my priority it's
45:16fucking shit because i wanted to win this competition yeah it's the most enormous head
45:20fuck and i feel like the pressure's all on me to be perfectly honest i choose to do what i
45:25do you
45:26choose to do what you do you choose to do anything that you want to do at the moment rob
45:29do you mind can
45:30we just have a moment of just silence yeah because i just um need to just show yeah i just
45:37need to
45:37process
45:55well i don't know you but you come from that that sort of world that you're in you know to
46:01be
46:01frank it's probably what one would call probably a bit sleazy yeah it doesn't matter like i don't care
46:07what people think about what i do i couldn't give a fuck to you it's what people think about what
46:10i do as a job do you know what i mean and so to bring that into our family home
46:16is is
46:19it's a challenge yeah and that's part of the show isn't it that's the whole premises of the show
46:25and you know the side of me which is absolutely furious i'm anxious about the fallout of this for you
46:34and the family that's a big area of anxiety for me um and yeah it's getting me pretty stressed out
46:43i'm
46:43feeling really really anxious and really sick and i've got a dry mouth and this is like the most
46:50most uncomfortable scenario i've ever been in and i'm just feeling
46:57really uncomfortable yeah
47:01you're all right
47:07you're all right
47:13it's all right mike
47:16i don't think i can do this
47:35it's all right
47:41it's all right
47:43yeah
47:43yeah
47:43yeah
47:43yeah
47:43yeah
47:49yeah
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