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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02You guys remember B, right?
00:04Wait, wait.
00:06I'm going to them.
00:06Ah!
00:07People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:10Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:12But I'm like, hello, come to Kim.
00:15Oh my gosh, it's got massage on it.
00:18Torture me, baby.
00:19All right, you asked for it.
00:20I thought Natalie and I were going
00:21to have this romantic, sexy weekend together.
00:25What the hell?
00:26But you just showed me how the bed works.
00:28That's my bed.
00:28Yeah.
00:29This is your bed.
00:30So I'm really disappointed.
00:32Good night, Gino.
00:33Sweet dreams.
00:34I feel like we're having such an awesome time.
00:38But I just, I'm a little confused.
00:41We had a kiss.
00:42Does that mean that we're more than friends?
00:44There's a lot at stake here, because once we have
00:47this conversation, there is no going back.
00:49Our friendship will be changed forever.
00:51I can't say right now that I can fully commit to being
00:56exclusive and can't say yes to us right now.
01:01Sophie's been talking about a minute.
01:02You're thinking that she really want this?
01:05She's in the beginning stages of trying to discover where she's at.
01:09She's still killing.
01:11This made me think that Sophie's not ready for a legend shit.
01:14That made me feel like a freaking idiot.
01:15I was talking to Liz.
01:17She told me, like, maybe you have another guy in your mind.
01:21How to say, like, be careful.
01:24I invited Liz to the Dominican Republic.
01:26Like, I thought we was friends, and then to go behind my back,
01:29she knows it's up.
01:31That's breaking girl code.
01:33Like, you don't do that.
01:35I'm really pissed.
01:51What do you think of my toes?
01:53I mean, their toes, their feet.
01:55So if I asked you, I mean, would you ever suck my toes?
02:03No.
02:04One by one?
02:05No.
02:06No.
02:16Did you sleep well?
02:18Oh my god, I slept like a baby.
02:19You got some big, big balls coming into this bed last night.
02:23I will give you that.
02:24Last night, you know, Natalie put me to sleep in the living room,
02:30but I felt a little lonely.
02:32So I thought it would be a kind of romantic gesture to sneak
02:36into Natalie's bedroom.
02:38We did cuddle, and we enjoyed each other.
02:41It was actually intimate without even having sex.
02:45So, if you don't mind, my skin overall is a little dry sometimes.
02:49Okay.
02:50And I was wondering if you could put some lotion on my back.
02:54I have some dry skin lotion.
02:56Absolutely.
02:57I'll do it.
02:58You'll do it for me?
02:59Yes, of course.
03:00That's great.
03:01So, um, I'm going to have to take my head off and shirt off quick.
03:08And...
03:09All right.
03:09Here.
03:11Turn your back towards me.
03:13Wow.
03:13Is this okay?
03:14Yep.
03:15It's going to be cold.
03:16I tried to warm...
03:16Oh my gosh, warming your hands.
03:18Stop.
03:19Warming your hands.
03:20Stop.
03:22Waking up next to Gino is a little awkward, and honestly, I really don't know how I'm
03:26feeling about it.
03:28If he wants to have a relationship with me, it's not going to happen overnight.
03:32He has to earn back my trust, you know, earn back his place in my heart, in my bed.
03:40Oh my God, that feels good.
03:41But he's got this kind of swag to him that, I don't know, for some reason I can't resist
03:46it.
03:47So, uh, what would you like to do today?
03:49Well, I actually already have plans today.
03:51I have a potluck set up with the girls at work and some of their husbands.
03:55We do that about once a month.
03:58So if you want to come, you can.
04:00All you got to do is bring a dish.
04:02I came here to see you.
04:04Of course I want to go.
04:05Okay.
04:07The fact that Natalie is introducing me to her friends so quickly could be either good
04:13or bad.
04:14Either we're jumping back into it and didn't miss a beat, or it could be a bad thing where
04:21she wants to introduce me to her friends to kind of get like a second opinion.
04:26So tonight is really important and it can decide a lot for us.
04:30I got to get ready, so.
04:31You're kicking me out of the room.
04:34Bye.
04:39How long have we been going round the same old ups and downs and downs?
04:46Going to the big party.
04:48Are you nervous?
04:49Yeah, a little bit.
04:50I mean, like, I don't know what your friends are going to be asking me.
04:53Is it going to be positive, negative?
04:55After everything that happened in Michigan, which kind of was out of my control, but,
05:01I don't know.
05:01Well, I mean, not all of it.
05:03I'm worried Natalie's friends are going to have this preconceived notion about me.
05:10And they might not even give me a chance.
05:13I'm not wasting my time figuring out what I am to you.
05:19Hi.
05:20Hello.
05:21How are you guys?
05:22How are you?
05:23So beautiful.
05:23Oh, thank you.
05:26How are you?
05:27Hello.
05:28Nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:30What's your name?
05:30Carla.
05:31Nice to meet you, Carla.
05:32Hi, Gina.
05:33Honey, nice to meet you.
05:34Nice to meet you.
05:34They're twins.
05:35I'm hoping my friends can see what I see in Gino.
05:39I think we should take these over to Melanie.
05:41And I'm hoping that Gino can also prove to them that he deserves another chance.
05:47This is Melanie.
05:48Okay.
05:49I'm Gina.
05:50Nice to meet you, Gina.
05:51Nice to meet you.
05:52Melanie's one of my really good friends.
05:54We work together.
05:55I trust her opinion.
05:57She looks out for me.
05:58She has my back.
05:59So, he brought some sandwiches that he has to cook.
06:03Who wants a sandwich?
06:04There you go.
06:05I'm cooking the ham and cheese sandwiches.
06:07Hey, Dave, Jay, lady, would y'all like one?
06:10What's up?
06:11What's up?
06:11What's up?
06:12What's up?
06:14What's up?
06:14I don't think the pan is on the heat.
06:17He's got this.
06:18There we go.
06:20When I was a short order cook back in the day, I would cook simple things like a ham and
06:25cheese sandwich.
06:26And man, I can cook a really good one, I'll tell you.
06:30Oh my God, my cheese is sticking to the, oh no.
06:34That's not good.
06:35The cheese is sticking to the ham.
06:37But for some reason, after assembling these sandwiches and traveling over to the party,
06:44the freaking cheese and the ham was stuck together.
06:48Oh.
06:48That screws me.
06:50I can't cook like that, man.
06:53Is that cheese soup?
06:55The cheese is dripping.
06:57I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing.
06:59It's dripping, but it's going to be great dressing when you taste it.
07:02Do you have a clean plate?
07:04I really want the first one to look good.
07:05Sure, of course.
07:06Yeah, it's all about that first serving.
07:08What's the single?
07:09Your first.
07:10I need to do it.
07:11Let's see how it goes.
07:16Is there any condiments in here, Gino?
07:18Any condiments at all?
07:20Cheese and meat.
07:21That's what we going with.
07:25It's pretty obvious that Gino doesn't go to many potlucks,
07:29because ham and cheese sandwiches is not a normal option by any means.
07:36Yeah.
07:37How embarrassing.
07:38It's getting hot in here.
07:39I'm going to go outside.
07:41I hope that's melted enough.
07:44Yeah.
07:45Is there any plate?
07:45Yes, up there.
07:49So how long have you been friends with Natalie?
07:53So far, about a couple of years.
07:54A couple of years?
07:55Yeah, a couple of years.
07:56She has talked about you a little bit, so...
07:59Only a little bit.
08:01Just a little bit.
08:03Okay.
08:04Oh, my gosh.
08:05Well, I understand, because we kind of stopped talking for a bit
08:09after all this stuff went down to Michigan.
08:11She did tell me that.
08:12The fact that she brought you here, I mean, that's a big plus.
08:18She doesn't just bring anybody here, so...
08:20Oh, really?
08:21Yeah.
08:21I mean, she's talked about guys, but not...
08:24Oh, she has?
08:24I've never met.
08:25Yes.
08:26But you're saying she's dating other guys?
08:28No, she's not dating other guys.
08:30Are you talking to other women, or are you...
08:33Well, there are some girls that are writing me because they know my marriage is over.
08:43And are you writing back to them?
08:45Are you entertaining that?
08:46Well, I talk to them, but I don't...
08:49I haven't met anyone.
08:51And does Natalie know that?
08:54Uh...
08:55I don't know.
08:56I am not feeling a good vibe right now with Melanie.
09:01I understand she's trying to protect Natalie, but this is feeling like an interrogation.
09:07And I'm very worried that I could have just blown the whole thing.
09:11Now I'm having a second thought about you.
09:39Let's go.
09:47I'm very sad because I have a strong feeling for Sophie, but she told me she want to date
09:53another people.
09:55And now she's been testing me not to stop.
09:57Like, how you doing?
09:58Are you okay?
10:00Are you mad?
10:01Why you care?
10:03I am so confused.
10:06I need some advice.
10:18Why are you here alone?
10:22Eh?
10:23Take a drink.
10:24Oh, my God.
10:25You look great.
10:27You look so beautiful.
10:29This is soul.
10:30Soul?
10:30You look great.
10:32My sister Nicole, she's very protected.
10:35Because when I dating a girl, she told me all the time, you are a little dumb.
10:42Ah, you want to take her for a walk?
10:44She doesn't like to walk enough.
10:45She doesn't like to walk enough.
10:46She likes to walk?
10:47She hates it.
10:48But it turned out my sister was all the time right about my ex-wife, Chantel.
10:53What's your problem with me?
10:56Oh, no.
10:58Estoy termina.
10:59Adios.
11:00Oh, okay.
11:00After my divorce, I promise to myself that I'm not going to be with somebody else, you
11:06know?
11:07That it's not getting along with my family.
11:10How you doing?
11:11How you been?
11:11I'm good.
11:12And you?
11:13There's a lot of things going on here right now.
11:16What is the girl?
11:18Huh?
11:18Sophie?
11:19Yeah, Sophie.
11:21She's been, like, kind of off.
11:24You know, she's with her friends right now.
11:28Like, she's been a little decent right now.
11:30And, you know, that's making me a little worried.
11:33Like, yesterday, we got a little conversation regardless, you know, what we're here for.
11:39Mm-hmm.
11:40She's telling me that she's not ready dating, that she won't want talking because there's
11:45been a lot going on in her life, her past relationship, that she's not been healed.
11:50If you've not been healed before, why you try to approach to me?
11:54Because I try to be a good man, you know.
11:57I know, I know.
11:58Send a flower two times a month, you know.
12:01Yeah, you know.
12:02No.
12:03No.
12:03You're really in love.
12:05You are really in love.
12:07So...
12:08Don't say that because that makes me like stupid.
12:10No, no, no, no, no, no.
12:11You are not stupid.
12:13It's not your fault.
12:14You are doing anything you can do to make her happy, and she doesn't appreciate that.
12:21It's the first time after Pedro's divorce in French Intel, he's in love with someone else.
12:27And I feel so, so frustrated right now because I love my brother, and I know how, how good
12:35guy he is, but Sophie cannot say that.
12:38I need to protect him because I want to see him living his best life with a woman who really
12:45loves him and have commitment.
12:48And I don't feel like appreciate enough.
12:51Exactly.
12:52I don't appreciate enough.
12:53I don't feel like she's taking me for for granted, or she's taking me like I'm playing.
12:57I'm not playing.
12:58I was seriously from the beginning, like...
12:59It's frustrated.
13:00Yeah, that's a little frustrating.
13:01It's frustrated.
13:03Yeah.
13:03Let's go.
13:04You are too good.
13:05Let's walk.
13:06Let's...
13:06I need to walk.
13:08I don't know.
13:09Come on.
13:10You got her?
13:11Come on, babe.
13:12Being honest.
13:12Being honest, Pedro.
13:15I don't like this.
13:16She is so immature.
13:18Yeah.
13:19How old is she?
13:20She's 26 at the moment.
13:2126.
13:23She is not a woman.
13:25She is acting like a little girl.
13:28Like, I don't know what I want.
13:31Believe me.
13:32When a woman is really interested in a man, she is going to do anything she can do to impress
13:40this man and be with that man.
13:44You know?
13:45Yeah.
13:46Yesterday.
13:47I said, okay.
13:48If you were someone, and you want to entertain other people, how you entertain me.
13:52Exactly.
13:53Oh, yes.
13:53Of course.
13:54I said, what the ?
13:55Maybe she's confused.
13:57Confused people per people.
13:59It's the most dangerous people in the world.
14:02You are going to suffer, and you are going to be...
14:05You're going to be, like, a collateral damage.
14:10I feel that I have to listen to Nicole, because she always write about my relationship with
14:15Chantal in the past.
14:16But at the same time, I really, really want a Sophie.
14:18She has part of my heart already.
14:22But I don't know if I can not be exclusive with her, and that's going to make me, like,
14:27sad.
14:28She wants to date another guy.
14:30Maybe I have to walk away.
14:34Anything to decide about Sophie?
14:36I will be there for you, okay?
14:39Because I want to see you happy.
14:41You are my only brother.
14:43Oh.
14:43And I love you.
14:44Oh.
14:45But being honest, I think you are going to ruin your life again.
14:53This is Kimberly.
14:54Oh, hi.
14:55How are you?
14:56My friends have been trying to set me up with Joe for a while, and it's been a long time
15:00since I've even met anybody that's, like, relationship material.
15:04You're a beautiful woman.
15:04You're charming.
15:06I like you.
15:08Why would you tell Pedro that he should be careful with me?
15:11He told me you were just dead.
15:12He said, I had a conversation with Liz, and Liz said, you're doing all this for Sophie,
15:17and she doesn't appreciate it.
15:18You were scared because you're scared you've never had it.
15:21You're trying to tell me that I'm trying to sabotage you and Pedro?
15:24Like, yeah, this is bull .
15:41I'm in a stage of my life where I see what I want and I go after it because I
15:47don't want
15:47those confusing blurry lines.
15:49But I just can't say yes to us right now.
15:53I've already seen the world.
15:56I'm not just a little girl.
16:05I can't say right now that I can fully commit to being exclusive, and I feel overwhelmed
16:12with just making a decision on the spot.
16:17This is super disappointing.
16:20You know, I've put myself out there.
16:22I let him know how I feel, and he's essentially saying no.
16:26I thought we were kind of on the same page.
16:28Maybe I misread the signs that you were giving me.
16:33It's very disheartening because what I see in Tony is something very, very special.
16:38Our life goals are the same.
16:40We have the trust.
16:41We have the closeness.
16:42We have the bond.
16:43Like, seriously, what more can this guy want?
16:48You mean so much to me, and I've dated so many other guys who I feel like they totally
16:55destroyed my sense of trust and things like that, and I feel like I have that with you.
17:00And this makes sense.
17:03For me, it's a title.
17:05Putting a title to it, to me, is kind of very restrictive because it just, you have these expectations then.
17:11This is what's so confusing to me is I feel like you're giving me such mixed messages.
17:16So what is even today?
17:18Is this we're just hanging out?
17:20Or is this a date?
17:22I mean, did you have fun still today if I called it a date?
17:24Or if I called it a hangout?
17:26But I want to know what you look at it as.
17:28I want to know what do I mean to you.
17:31Is this all coming from the kiss that we had last week?
17:35Is that why?
17:35I mean, that helped kind of spark my thoughts about everything because you're not making a move.
17:41So I was the one that instigated the kiss.
17:44And now I'm wondering if I didn't, would it have ever even happened?
17:48I can't answer your question.
17:50If you didn't kiss me what I've kissed you, I could have, you know?
17:52But you didn't.
17:56Sometimes I think Vanya, she just jumps right in.
17:59She throws all her emotions into everything.
18:00She wants to commit right away.
18:02I like to take a lot of time when I date.
18:05I want to be sure a thousand percent that she's the one.
18:09Obviously, there's no rush for anything.
18:11But I just want to make sure that we're aligning.
18:14And I know that you make me happy.
18:16And I think I make you happy.
18:18I feel the same way.
18:20And I want to have more dates and I want to get to know you better.
18:24I'm not trying to rush in.
18:25I'm not trying to...
18:26Yeah, me too.
18:27I want to know everything about you before I make that final step.
18:30And if that's something you're on board with, I think that's something I can commit to.
18:32I mean, I would like a little bit more of a defined situation.
18:37But I guess it's a step in the right direction.
18:43It's definitely better than a now.
18:45Right.
18:46But I thought that Tony has had feelings for me this entire time.
18:50And I thought that once I laid out for him that, hey, I'm interested too,
18:54that he would just sweep me into his arms and we would ride off into the sunset together.
18:59And that's not what happened.
19:02So, till our next date?
19:03Yes.
19:08I've already wasted so much time in my life on men in the past who have commitment issues,
19:14who don't know what they want out of life.
19:17So, if Tony is not ready to make a commitment, then I'm done.
19:21Done with that.
19:22I don't know the treasure in my back.
19:25Marks the spots in my heart.
19:26You got to start.
19:32I'm a little bit salty and I'm not a bit sweet.
19:35If you come to my table, you better know what I mean.
19:38I know what you mean.
19:41I'm gonna be a snack on the floor, of course for you.
19:44Yeah.
19:46Not bad, Kim.
19:47Not bad for 55.
19:48All right.
19:49Let's go partay.
20:00Thank you so much.
20:01I'm meeting some single men tonight.
20:09Hi.
20:10Oh my God, here we go.
20:11Kimberly.
20:12Kimberly?
20:12Kimberly in a skirt.
20:14What is this?
20:14Kimberly in a skirt.
20:15You look beautiful.
20:17Are you excited?
20:18I am excited, yeah.
20:18I love seeing you in a skirt.
20:19What are we doing?
20:20So, my friends Jody and Laura, they throw these fabulous parties like every couple months.
20:25So, I decide to get up off the couch, leave my cats at home and forget about the family stuff
20:30for one night.
20:31So, how'd it go with Bea?
20:34Last time you saw him.
20:35I mean, I got my needs met.
20:37Right?
20:38But, you know, I've always had feelings for Bea.
20:40You know what I mean?
20:41You're a long time guy, kind of.
20:42Yeah.
20:43So, like, even, like, since the last time I saw him, I've just really been thinking about what I want.
20:47You know what I mean?
20:48And I think he's just always going to be this bachelor guy that, you know, and I just need more
20:53than that now.
20:55Bea's always going to have a special place in my heart.
20:57Like, always.
20:59But, with everything that's going on in my life, the adoptions and everything coming to light,
21:03I really need somebody who is, like, emotionally stable enough to deal with all of my ****.
21:11Jodie, come here, because I know this is the first lay you've had in a while.
21:14Yeah.
21:15You've been, like, seven years.
21:16Oh, I want to get laid!
21:18I don't know when last time you got laid.
21:20You're a crazy lady.
21:22I don't even know.
21:22Yeah.
21:23Let's get this party started.
21:25Let's get this party started.
21:27Woo!
21:28Oh, oh, oh.
21:29Here comes the party!
21:31Yay!
21:32Hi, guys!
21:33I'm Kim.
21:34How are you?
21:34Nice to meet you.
21:35What's up?
21:36Oh, you need to get laid.
21:37Oh, my God.
21:38You need to get laid.
21:38I remember you from the parties.
21:40Hi, Neil.
21:41I haven't seen you in a long time.
21:46I just lost, like, 50 pounds, so I just started wearing skirts with little slits.
21:51With a slit?
21:51You!
21:52I really like your slit.
21:53Okay.
21:54Cheers to that.
21:55Okay.
21:56Don't say.
21:57Hi, Jodi.
21:58Hi.
21:59How are you?
22:00Good, how are you?
22:01I'm doing good.
22:02Hello.
22:02Hi, Joe.
22:03How are you?
22:04Nice to see you as well.
22:06Oh, this is Kimberly.
22:07Hi, how are you?
22:09Nice to meet you.
22:09Nice to meet you as well.
22:10Joe, let's get you laid first.
22:12Let's do it.
22:12Let's do it, guys.
22:13Take care of business first.
22:15I feel so much better now.
22:16You just got laid.
22:18You should feel so much better.
22:19Hey, guys.
22:20It's limbo time.
22:24Thanks, Joe.
22:25You know we celebrate.
22:26You're so shy.
22:27Come on, kid.
22:28Yeah.
22:29My friends have been trying to set me up with Joe for a while, but he's a little bit on
22:33the short side, so I've been a little leery.
22:36Come on, Kim.
22:36You know you can talk.
22:37I'm doing that.
22:37I'll go.
22:38I'll go.
22:39I'll go.
22:39I'll go.
22:40Oh, damn it.
22:40Let me make this clear.
22:41I am five foot nine.
22:43Your girl is tall, okay?
22:45And I'm not saying you have to be six foot seven or anything, but at least be my height.
22:48I don't want to feel like an Amazon.
22:50Come on, little one.
22:52Come on, let's go.
22:53If my hip pops out in this bitch, I'm telling you right now.
22:56Ready?
22:57One, two, three.
22:58Oh.
22:59Hey!
23:02Hey!
23:02But now that I'm seeing him in person, he's kind of cute.
23:04Not really at eye level, but he's cute.
23:07Kim, are you from here?
23:09I'm from San Diego, yeah.
23:10Okay.
23:11I'm originally from Philadelphia.
23:12Are you?
23:13I know.
23:13Can't tell, right?
23:14No.
23:14I've gotten soft since I've been here in California.
23:16Is that what happened?
23:17Yeah.
23:18I lived in Virginia for like 25 years.
23:20I moved back home when my mom started having health problems and stuff.
23:23Oh.
23:23So I moved back home 10 years ago.
23:25So then, yeah, I've been here ever since.
23:27Do you have any kids?
23:28I have a daughter.
23:29We're best of friends.
23:30It's like, we're very cool.
23:31That's how I am with my son.
23:32I have a son named Jamal.
23:33He works for this, like, modeling agency with his friends.
23:35Oh.
23:36He's so good looking.
23:37I mean, this is a job for him.
23:38So he takes after his mom, huh?
23:40You're a charmer.
23:41I like you.
23:42I'm saying, you're a beautiful woman.
23:43You're charming.
23:44I am charming.
23:46I get told that all the time.
23:47It's so funny.
23:48My first impression of Kim is that she's a breath of fresh air.
23:52She's a woman that's full of life.
23:54You feel her energy, you know?
23:55And it seems like we had known each other for years.
23:57So what do you do on your free time?
23:59I write music.
24:01I produce music.
24:02Wow.
24:02I love music.
24:03I have to ask you something.
24:04I have to interrupt.
24:04Are you a Michael Jackson fan?
24:06Yes, absolutely.
24:06From the time I was a little kid, the very first album I ever bought was ABC by the Jackson
24:10Five.
24:10So crazy.
24:10I have a tattoo of him on my arm.
24:12Do you really?
24:12I do.
24:13It's the hat.
24:14It's the hat and the glove.
24:15Wow.
24:16That is so cool.
24:18You know there's a movie coming out, right?
24:19Honey, I know all about this.
24:21I'm sorry.
24:22I should know.
24:23So my short king loves the king of pop.
24:26Okay, Joe.
24:27I see you.
24:28He gets major points for that.
24:30Should we mingle?
24:31Honey, otherwise we'd just stay here all night.
24:33I know.
24:33Let's just go.
24:34All right.
24:34Let's still mingle.
24:35I'll talk to you soon and we'll exchange numbers.
24:37Yeah, I'll hook up people for you.
24:38Okay?
24:39I like him.
24:40He's so nice.
24:41He was like, you're so pretty.
24:42Blah, blah, blah.
24:43Oh.
24:43Did he have a connection to you?
24:45I felt it.
24:45I felt it.
24:46And I was really surprised, you know?
24:47But I just, I felt like really, like, safe.
24:50Oh, my.
24:51You know?
24:51I love that feeling.
24:52Oh, my God.
24:53That's the best feeling.
24:54Yeah.
24:54Joe said all the right things.
24:56Like, complimenting me on my outfit.
24:58Complimenting me on how pretty I am.
25:00And he made me feel really beautiful.
25:03You know, it's like, when you first meet people,
25:06you just don't hear that.
25:07It's always, they pick out the flaws in me
25:09before they see the beautiful Kim.
25:11Ready?
25:11One, two, three.
25:14Ah!
25:18I think that's like a game changer for me, you know?
25:20It's like, green flag, green flag, green flag, green flag.
25:23So, yeah.
25:24I like them.
25:25How are you getting home?
25:26I'm taking an Uber because I live in the boondocks.
25:29Okay.
25:30You mind if I walk you out as you go?
25:32No, I would love that.
25:33Okay.
25:33Are you ready to go?
25:34Yes.
25:35Okay.
25:35Thank you for walking me out.
25:36Of course.
25:38Don't have too much fun tonight.
25:40Huh?
25:41Don't have too much fun tonight.
25:42Shut up.
25:43I'm going home.
25:45I don't want to put like any unrealistic expectations
25:48onto Joe, you know?
25:50But he seems like such a good, like a genuine soul.
25:54Do you mind if I give you a hug?
25:55No, of course not.
25:57It's so nice to meet you.
25:58It's nice to meet you.
25:59So nice to meet you.
25:59I look forward to talking to you.
26:01I know me too.
26:02Are you going to text me?
26:03I will talk to you.
26:04Absolutely.
26:05I really want to find love.
26:06And it's been a long time since I've even met anybody
26:09that's like relationship material.
26:11But at the same time, it's like terrifying to think
26:14that I could get close with someone,
26:16tell them all about my past,
26:18and that could make somebody walk away from me.
26:22All right, bye Joe.
26:23Bye-bye.
26:24Nice to meet you.
26:25You too.
26:27It was really nice.
26:30Are you normally one who kind of takes charge?
26:33Yeah, definitely chivalrous guy.
26:36He is definitely the type of person I want in my life.
26:40But I haven't told him yet about my cancer.
26:42I'm afraid that it might make him just want to run.
26:45Are you making me nervous?
26:47Why?
26:47Bye.
26:48Bye.
26:59If you want to take it slow, girl you gotta let me know.
27:05I'm into you and that's for sure.
27:08I don't want to let this feeling go.
27:09Right now I'm texting via and I'm letting him know that I am on my way to meet him at
27:17kayaking
27:18the DR is beautiful the rain has let up and
27:23Day two
27:24I want you to take me, take me, take me to make-go
27:29With every kiss you got me sometimes
27:33Every kiss you got me upside down
27:39How are you?
27:40I'm good, how are you?
27:41Good, good, good.
27:42I bought you some shoes.
27:46Wait, I didn't even know we need shoes.
27:47Okay, well, I kind of figured that so that's why I got them for you.
27:51I'm the master kayaker here.
27:53I had a great first date with Via.
27:55We went surfing and
27:57Now we're going kayaking and I love that he wants to go out and do these things with me
28:07You know what you're doing
28:08Oh
28:10No, you don't
28:12I don't
28:12You know you don't
28:14In all my past relationships the focus was never really on anything I wanted to do
28:19When I was with Ed, he was such a princess. It was always fine dining, bottles of wine, cappuccino, steak,
28:28and then a nightcap at home. We never got out. We were never active with each other.
28:33How about we like hit it hard right now?
28:39It's all slow down.
28:40And when I was with Jason, he just was a homebody.
28:43The most exciting thing we did was every Wednesday we went to go get chicken wings and then we came
28:47home and went to bed.
28:50This is fun. I'm actually really enjoying this.
28:54You've been single for a year and a half?
28:56Yeah, about a year and a half.
28:58I tend to jump from like serious relationship to another one.
29:02Like I don't regret any of my past relationships, but they definitely weren't easy.
29:07Yeah.
29:08I've always been one to kind of end up being like the dominant in the relationship and never been able
29:13to like really be feminine in a relationship.
29:17Are you normally one who kind of takes charge?
29:20Yeah, definitely, definitely a chivalrous guy.
29:26Like all your chivalry is like so new to me.
29:29It's a big culture thing.
29:30Yeah.
29:30Because my dad was very traditional and very macho.
29:38Via is very chivalrous.
29:40This is exciting for me. It's something different.
29:43I've always felt like the man in the relationship.
29:46Like there's times when I would open Ed's door or help him into the car.
29:50You gonna jump in though?
29:50I'm jumping in.
29:54But Via is very attentive.
29:56I feel safe. I feel comfortable.
29:58And I realize, especially since I've gotten sick, that Via is definitely the type of person I want in my
30:03life.
30:05I'm enjoying my time here, for sure.
30:08I'm glad I met you.
30:11Like I said, so unexpected.
30:17It makes me nervous.
30:18Why?
30:20You're smiling a lot right now.
30:21Who?
30:38Okay.
30:40I didn't expect that.
30:43I think I'm really falling for Via.
30:45It's like almost this like fairytale dream come true.
30:49Well, that was nice.
30:52Okay.
30:54But I haven't told him yet about my cancer.
30:57I'm afraid that it might make him just want to run.
31:01Well, I think I have girls night around two tonight.
31:05Okay.
31:06I don't know what I'm doing, but I'll definitely let you know.
31:10It's kind of like, am I even worthy to date?
31:13Am I worth someone taking a chance on me?
31:15Because, I mean, I wouldn't even know if I'd want to date someone knowing that they're sick right now.
31:22It's such a complicated, hard experience.
31:24I never thought I'd have to be sharing this.
31:27This is supposed to be my getaway.
31:33Are you taking her seriously?
31:36I'm not a player or anything like that.
31:38That's just saying.
31:39Are you sure?
31:40If Natalie's friends don't like me, this can destroy our relationship.
31:45He seems like he does like you, but I think he's hiding something.
32:10Are you talking to other women or are you?
32:14I talk to them, but I haven't met anyone.
32:19And does Natalie know that?
32:22I don't know.
32:24I told Mel that I'm speaking with other girls because I wanted to be honest with her.
32:30But I'm realizing that I up.
32:34Now I'm Gino the player instead of being this really good guy.
32:39If Natalie's friends don't like me, this can destroy our relationship.
32:45Now I'm having a second thought about you.
32:48Are you taking her seriously though?
32:51Oh, am I taking it?
32:52Yeah, of course I am.
32:53OK.
32:54Of course.
32:54Yeah.
32:54It's not like I'm not a player or anything like that.
32:57That's just saying.
32:59Are you sure?
33:01All right.
33:02How you going, Aldo?
33:05Hey, how's it going, man?
33:06Good. How are you?
33:06Good chance to talk to you.
33:08Yeah.
33:08All right.
33:09Good.
33:09Good, good.
33:10So, I was talking to Gino.
33:13OK.
33:15Um, so how has it been since he's been in D.C.?
33:19I mean, it's been good.
33:21We get along really well.
33:23He's been very flirtatious.
33:25I mean, he was even in my bed last night.
33:27Oh?
33:27Yes.
33:28But I have my guard up with everything.
33:32He seems like he does like you.
33:36OK.
33:37But when he's talking to me, he's not really looking at me eye to eye.
33:42Right.
33:42And I think he's hiding something.
33:45He was telling me that there was a woman writing to him.
33:48OK.
33:49Is he talking to other women?
33:52He is.
33:54Yeah.
33:54To find out that he's talking to other women is disappointing.
33:59We're not in an exclusive relationship, but, like, this is exactly the problem that I had with him in the
34:03first place.
34:04He thinks if he, you know, omits something just because he didn't tell you, he doesn't think that's lying.
34:10Actually, we really haven't sat down and talked to each other about that.
34:13But what I do know is that I'm not going to put myself in a situation where I get hurt
34:24again.
34:25Absolutely not.
34:26I see.
34:27Yeah.
34:28Do you not like him?
34:29Be honest.
34:30Do you like him or not?
34:31Like, do you?
34:31I really don't.
34:32OK.
34:33I really don't.
34:34You don't like him.
34:37I'm looking at this whole weekend like it's a big test for Gino.
34:41I want to believe that he can be truthful.
34:43I want to believe that he can be honest and that all of this is because of his past trauma,
34:48his relationship, everything that he's gone through.
34:51I don't want to keep looking.
34:52I don't want to keep searching.
34:53I don't want to keep asking.
34:54I don't want to keep wondering.
34:56I want to believe him.
34:59How are you?
35:00How are you?
35:01Good.
35:02What were you all talking about out there?
35:04Nothing.
35:04Girl stuff.
35:05Girl stuff?
35:06Just work stuff.
35:08But if he thinks he's going to make a fool out of me again, I mean, he's crazy.
35:13That's not going to happen.
35:14All right.
35:19Like, I feel like Pedro, but for me, it's really important to enjoy my freedom.
35:24So I think tonight I'm going to focus on that.
35:26This trip is just not going how I hoped at all.
35:29Pedro is just ghosting me and not even replying to any of my messages.
35:32My name is Tao.
35:33Nice to meet you.
35:34But this hot guy has already come up to me trying to flirt with me.
35:37Yeah, I kind of like it.
35:38This is what I needed.
35:39Cheers.
36:12This trip is just not going how I hoped at all so far.
36:16Like, I feel like the first night was just awkward and weird.
36:19And then Liz, my friend, spoke negatively about me to the guy I'm talking to.
36:24So I'm still pissed off at her.
36:25And now Pedro's not even replying to any of my messages.
36:28Gracias.
36:29Salud.
36:32Salud.
36:33Gracias.
36:34Now I'm like, well, I guess he's just decided to ghost me and that's it then.
36:39But I'm not going to spend my night stressing about it.
36:41I just want to have fun.
36:44Arriba.
36:44Abajo.
36:45A centro.
36:47A centro.
36:48A centro.
36:48In your mouth.
36:52Do you see some good guys around?
36:54Oh, yeah.
36:54I've already seen two and I just got here.
36:56Already.
36:57Good.
36:58It's good.
36:59I'm excited.
37:00Like, I really like Pedro, but for me it's really important to also enjoy my freedom, you know?
37:06And so I think tonight I'm going to focus on that.
37:08Good.
37:09So maybe when today you go home not alone.
37:13I mean, I...
37:15Chill.
37:19Oh, my God.
37:19He's looking at me.
37:21Okay.
37:21If you end up with somebody tonight, you should take him to the my room.
37:26Because my room is messy.
37:29No, they need to know the real me.
37:31If I meet a guy...
37:32Not the first night.
37:32He needs to see my room.
37:33Not the first night.
37:34Hello.
37:35Hi.
37:35Okay.
37:35Sorry girls for coming like that.
37:38Okay.
37:38Julia.
37:39My name is Tao.
37:40Nice to meet you.
37:42I'm Sophie.
37:43You're here on vacation?
37:45Yeah.
37:45Okay.
37:45Where you come from?
37:47We both live in America.
37:48Oh, how long have you been here?
37:51Four days?
37:52And what are you doing that four days?
38:18This hot doctor guy has already come up to me, trying to flirt with me.
38:23He talks very slow and mysteriously, you know?
38:26So...
38:27Yeah.
38:27I kind of like it.
38:28This is what I need it.
38:30One more juice of piña, too.
38:33Oh, you're in Spain?
38:34Oh, yeah.
38:36I used to live in Spain, in Spain.
38:38Not fluent.
38:39I'm going to go in the...
38:39A little piece.
38:41A little piece.
38:41Where is that?
38:43Hi.
38:45How are you?
38:45Hi.
38:49Ugh.
38:50That grows the vibe.
38:52Hi.
38:52Gustavo.
38:53Liz.
38:54Gustavo.
38:55Nice to meet you.
38:57What do you want to drink?
38:58Um, what are we drinking?
39:00Mojito.
39:01Should we go over to this side?
39:02Yes.
39:04I just arrived at the bar, and Sophie's not acknowledging my presence at all.
39:11She immediately takes off to the other side of the bar with this guy.
39:15She's being cold.
39:17Sophie.
39:17Please don't talk to me.
39:18Let's go into the girls' talk.
39:20We can go into, like, right here somewhere.
39:22It doesn't feel good.
39:24Yes.
39:27Okay, quick question.
39:28Do you like doctor?
39:29As soon as he said he's a doctor, I'm like, you saved people?
39:33I was like...
39:33Like, his personality is very kind.
39:37I like him.
39:38Okay, wow.
39:39I think I need a lot to be caught up on.
39:41What's been going on with Pedro?
39:45He texted you tonight?
39:47Let me check it.
39:50He hasn't texted me.
39:52That's an answer?
39:53Yes.
39:54So, the past, like, more than 24 hours, he's kind of been ghosting me.
39:59I don't...
39:59What happened?
40:04Yesterday, me and him had a conversation.
40:06And it didn't go well because he came into that, like, thinking I had a boyfriend or something.
40:12And I was like, why do you think that?
40:14And he told me, Liz made me feel like there's another guy.
40:18And he should be careful because he's gonna get his feelings hurt with me because I'm not ready.
40:25Well, Sophie, I was obviously drinking, but...
40:28If I do remember, he told me you would be different.
40:31But why would you tell him he should be careful with me?
40:33I was trying to make it known, okay, well, she's not used to this, so don't be, like, pushed away
40:40from it.
40:41But everything I told you, he knows.
40:44And I feel bad.
40:44Then why would you tell him that he should be careful with me?
40:47If I said be careful, I didn't mean it that way.
40:51I don't give a about Pedro.
40:52I'm worried about Sophie getting hurt.
40:55I want him to be careful with her heart.
40:57Take it slow.
40:58I'm not trying to sabotage you.
41:03Yeah, this is bull .
41:06So, technically, all of this conversation, because...
41:10Is she just...
41:10No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
41:11It's on this community's conceit said, I had a conversation with Liz, and Liz said, you're doing all this for
41:16Sophie, and she's not ready.
41:17She doesn't appreciate it.
41:19I said you were scared because you're scared.
41:20You've never had it.
41:20It's not your place.
41:21I haven't had it.
41:22You're correct.
41:23I just felt for your pain and everything.
41:25I'm sorry.
41:26You talk to my pain.
41:26You feel for Pedro's pain because I could tell you.
41:28I don't feel for Pedro's pain.
41:30You told me.
41:31She doesn't deserve it because she's not ready.
41:34I don't know what the is going on.
41:36I feel like Sophie's looking for someone to blame for her relationship problems with Pedro.
41:41But she's not going to put the blame on me.
41:43I'm glad you're here.
41:44I'm not a friend.
41:45At the end of the day, girl.
41:46You should have my back, not his back.
41:48You just won't.
41:52Next time on The Single Life.
41:54I really like this.
41:56I'm feeling so like...
41:57Can you look at her eyes?
41:58I'm trying to.
42:00That's how beautiful you look.
42:01They call them bun pillows.
42:02They don't even bounce them.
42:02I found the perfect outfit for my first date with Joe.
42:06But I have to say I'm a little nervous.
42:08I need you to do something goofy or sexy.
42:10I'm not doing anything sexy.
42:11I don't know you.
42:13Ready?
42:13Joe seems really, really, really great.
42:16Like a great guy.
42:17But they all started out sweet.
42:18Usman started out sweet.
42:20Got it.
42:21Okay.
42:21I should do love your dress.
42:25The fact that I haven't told Bia yet about my cancer makes me extremely anxious.
42:29Because I don't know how he'll react.
42:31But with the way I'm feeling with Bia, I know I have to.
42:34I don't share with a lot of people how I'm sick right now.
42:40A lot happened at once.
42:42And suddenly it's like not only are we dating, but it's like we're married or something.
42:46It's just a lot.
42:48Are you kidding me?
42:50After everything I've done for you, you piece of .
42:54You have erectile dysfunction.
42:56You can't walk.
42:56You're homeless.
42:57You're jobless.
42:58The level of disrespect is insane.
43:03You've never had my back.
43:04You've never had my back.
43:05You've never had my back.
43:05You've never had my back.
43:07Pedro's goes to me.
43:08Probably will never talk to me again.
43:10So at this point, I'm just done with Liz.
43:12And I'm just done with this whole trip.
43:14Bye, Liz.
43:15Go home.
43:16Bye.
43:17Adios.
43:18It is.
43:19She just it all up.
43:20She's a horrible person.
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