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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 12
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03God will give you people happy home.
00:00:06I bless you in a marriage.
00:00:08I say you shall be well with two people in a case.
00:00:11I have done everything Daniel has asked of me
00:00:15so that we can get married.
00:00:16But technically, I'm still married to a woman.
00:00:20And I have to tell him soon.
00:00:24Josh is kind. He's super sweet.
00:00:26So I'm going to Australia.
00:00:28Yeah, hold on. Where are you staying?
00:00:30He lives with his parents.
00:00:32But when I come, he's going to get a rental
00:00:35and split it with a roommate.
00:00:37No!
00:00:39In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia
00:00:42to meet Josh for the first time.
00:00:44But he sent me a text last night
00:00:47that was super alarming.
00:00:49I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
00:00:53So yeah, I actually came with quote-unquote proof
00:00:57of me not being fearful to you.
00:01:00Apparently, the girl is like,
00:01:01oh, she's messing with me.
00:01:03I don't even know who the f*** that is.
00:01:05I need to see the photos
00:01:07and I need to see the text messages
00:01:08and make a decision.
00:01:11Sheena, will you please marry me?
00:01:15No, girl.
00:01:17I asked you to hold off and wait
00:01:20so she could prove herself.
00:01:21And then you just go walk up
00:01:23and pull this little sneaky f***.
00:01:24What the f*** am I doing
00:01:27sitting over here in this country then, Forrest?
00:01:32You weren't talking to me yet.
00:01:34I started talking to my ex.
00:01:37Did you have sex with her?
00:01:40Yes.
00:01:43Please.
00:01:44I want you to forgive me.
00:01:46I have nothing to say, Rick.
00:01:51I'd rather he told me
00:01:52for coming here.
00:01:55Please.
00:01:56Don't touch me.
00:01:58Don't touch me, please.
00:01:59I don't know.
00:02:33I feel like crap.
00:02:35My God.
00:02:45Last night was awful.
00:02:49I didn't sleep.
00:02:52This has never happened before in my whole entire life.
00:02:56No matter how sick I've gotten, I've never f***ed the bed.
00:02:59I'm thinking maybe the spicy food you've been eating.
00:03:03I like spice though.
00:03:06You know, I drink spices and yours are not different.
00:03:10I don't know, but you know how embarrassing it is to wake up in the middle of the night
00:03:14and there's s*** all over your sheets and it's just...
00:03:19I feel bad that I did that.
00:03:22Baby.
00:03:26I accepted it with all my hats.
00:03:28I told you that I love you.
00:03:30You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:33She woke me up and the stuff stained my clothes.
00:03:41So she pooped on you?
00:03:43She pooped on me, yes.
00:03:45She pooped on me.
00:03:48It was everywhere.
00:03:50I had to change the sheets with his help and I didn't know what to do because I couldn't
00:03:55stop going to the bathroom.
00:03:56It kept coming out of me.
00:03:59I'm so f***ing mortified.
00:04:02Are you going to call the housekeeping to come and clean everything?
00:04:05I will take care of them.
00:04:06Maybe I will call them when we are going to the cooking class.
00:04:09My stomach is still so upset.
00:04:11And today, of all days, Daniel has organized to take me out to no other but a cooking class.
00:04:18A cooking class!
00:04:19Do you need my hat?
00:04:21No.
00:04:22Are you sure?
00:04:22Yes.
00:04:23Okay.
00:04:26I'm so worried I'm going to have more explosive diarrhea, but I'm going to cook for him.
00:04:32I'm going to try.
00:04:33I mean, if a man can love me covered in b***h and himself covered in my b***h, then he must
00:04:39love me for real.
00:04:51Thank you so much.
00:04:53It's wonderful.
00:04:56Look how pretty this is.
00:04:58The table, Daniel.
00:05:00Look how sweet that is.
00:05:02Oh, this is going to be fun.
00:05:05It's so cute in here.
00:05:08Hello, madam.
00:05:10Hello.
00:05:10I'm Chef Rukaiat.
00:05:12There's lots of ingredients.
00:05:14Oh, my goodness.
00:05:16So we're making oha soup.
00:05:18Oha soup?
00:05:19Yes.
00:05:19Oh, you're happy.
00:05:20So oha soup is traditionally an ego meal.
00:05:23First of all, I have oha leaves as a star ingredient for oha soup.
00:05:28Then I have my fruit and I have stock fish.
00:05:33Then I have fermented locus beans.
00:05:36It's very medicinal as well.
00:05:39Shall we start?
00:05:41The raw meat and the things that we are going to be cooking with, it's making me a little
00:05:47queasy, especially the fermented beans.
00:05:52My stomach is hurting so bad.
00:05:54My stomach is hurting so bad, but it's okay.
00:05:56I can do this.
00:05:59Do I open it from here like this?
00:06:01Yes.
00:06:01This is beautiful.
00:06:02This is beautiful.
00:06:04This is beautiful.
00:06:04I'm very slow.
00:06:05I'm slow, honey, but I'm doing it.
00:06:07I'm happy.
00:06:08I'm just educating you.
00:06:11You're just happy I'm learning how to cook for you.
00:06:15It's very important to learn how to cook as an evil woman.
00:06:19I will cook as an evil woman.
00:06:21Fine.
00:06:21Try our best, eh?
00:06:22I am.
00:06:24In my hometown, if your wife doesn't know how to cook, it will make you to be going outside
00:06:29to eat.
00:06:30She can even get attracted by other women.
00:06:33I don't want to hear about that.
00:06:34I'm going to cook.
00:06:35Just leave me alone.
00:06:35I'm going to cook.
00:06:37This is stock fish.
00:06:40I'm also going to be adding the dry fish.
00:06:43The dry fish.
00:06:44Which, what kind of fish is that again?
00:06:45Catfish.
00:06:46Catfish.
00:06:46It is catfish.
00:06:47Oh, my God.
00:06:48You're happy?
00:06:49You're smelling the smells of what your woman is cooking?
00:06:52I can't wait to test the food.
00:06:56I'm very appreciative that Daniel is showing me his traditions and his culture.
00:07:00It means the world to me.
00:07:02It smells delicious.
00:07:06Daniel is doing so many wonderful things and making our relationship concrete towards
00:07:13a marriage.
00:07:14And I'm so happy about that.
00:07:17But, at the same time, I feel extremely guilty for not telling him my secret shit.
00:07:24Can I get love just a little from you?
00:07:30Wow.
00:07:30It looks delicious.
00:07:32You're welcome.
00:07:35I've already gotten blessings from his uncle.
00:07:38From the king.
00:07:39I hope you like the food that I cooked.
00:07:42Oh, my God.
00:07:43I'm only one step away from getting married to Daniel.
00:07:49I have to start being honest with him as soon as possible.
00:07:53I did good?
00:07:56Hmm.
00:07:59Hmm.
00:07:59Hmm.
00:08:01This is so sweet.
00:08:03You're wonderful.
00:08:07Hmm.
00:08:10This is really tasty.
00:08:14Hmm.
00:08:15Tasty, Simon.
00:08:17I'm not having any right now, honey.
00:08:18I'm not eating.
00:08:19I was very sick last night.
00:08:22I have to be very careful.
00:08:31I want to talk to you about something.
00:08:38Well, you've been talking to me, so...
00:08:40No, about something different.
00:08:44You know how, um...
00:08:47I've told you I've been married a couple of times?
00:08:50Yes, you have made mention of that.
00:08:54You told me about faiths, Dad,
00:08:57but I've never discussed it with you, you know, deeply.
00:09:09Um...
00:09:13I've been married five times.
00:09:18Five times?
00:09:21You would be my sixth husband.
00:09:25Dad.
00:09:38We talk about this.
00:09:40This is our decision.
00:09:41Don't answer for him.
00:09:42I am an adult, and I would decide for what we want to do.
00:09:59The point is, I worry about you.
00:10:03I worry about Sheena.
00:10:06I felt this was the appropriate thing to do for our relationship,
00:10:10to work in continuum.
00:10:14We talked privately.
00:10:16She explained herself to me, and I came...
00:10:18Yeah, I'm sure she didn't.
00:10:19Did she ask for your big and humble forgiveness?
00:10:23No, she actually gave me a real explanation and told me what was really up.
00:10:28Then how about you and like me, or is that going to be private too, Forrest?
00:10:34Uh, you know, we talked about, you know, her struggles and how, when she starts to, you know, lie, it's
00:10:42because she has, um, a traumatic...
00:10:47She's had traumatic experiences...
00:10:51And it causes her to...
00:10:58So, she does, it's...
00:10:59She's not gonna do it again and again and again.
00:11:02You put that...
00:11:02Rome was not built in a day, but she has to put in the work and prove herself, and she
00:11:06is going to prove it.
00:11:06Then why didn't you make her prove herself before you proposed?
00:11:12Forrest, you're more full of s*** than a Christmas goose.
00:11:15No.
00:11:16Yes, you are.
00:11:17Everybody's got stress in their life, and then to say, I'm under stress, so I'm going to lie.
00:11:23And you're gonna accept her, just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying?
00:11:27That's no stability.
00:11:29You don't have any foundation.
00:11:31I'll n- I will n-
00:11:32Don't!
00:11:32Mom, I admit for everything that I did was wrong.
00:11:38Oh, God, here we go again.
00:11:39I have to open...
00:11:39Oh, you couldn't say it because you don't know how I experienced it in my past life, you know?
00:11:44I'm suffering from trust with people.
00:11:47Well, guess what? We can't trust you.
00:11:49Well, you can't...
00:11:50I know you can easily trust me, but I'm trying to do my best to get things over, you know?
00:11:55Yeah, you're getting them over all right.
00:11:56I'm trying to...
00:12:03We've heard this for seven years.
00:12:07And even up until three days ago, it was yet another lie.
00:12:12She...
00:12:13She's a...
00:12:13It's a...
00:12:14Pathological liar, I'm thinking.
00:12:17I bet you'd stay with her if she...
00:12:19If she diddled and somebody else do.
00:12:22Hey, Mom...
00:12:27Wouldn't you?
00:12:32Mom?
00:12:33At the end of the day, Sheena and I...
00:12:36Yeah, you can't...
00:12:36You can't answer my question, so that's all you're gonna say.
00:12:40That's because your question is ridiculous.
00:12:44I'm so disappointed in my mom's reaction to all this.
00:12:48It's the whole reason why we're here is to figure out how to bring Sheena to the United States.
00:12:54And getting engaged is a next big step.
00:12:58And her being angry and mad and saying nasty things, that's not how a mother should act.
00:13:05Mom?
00:13:07I'm going to...
00:13:08I'm going to take the dive.
00:13:10I'm gonna go in.
00:13:12And if there's rocks, I'm willing to take it.
00:13:16But that is my choice.
00:13:21And you're gonna have to be watching her 24 hours a day and be paranoid and concerned and wondering.
00:13:28And you have such a trust thing, which means it's gonna have to be meek.
00:13:31Here you are, a future teller.
00:13:31Here you are, a future teller.
00:13:33Yeah.
00:13:33No, Forrest, it's not a future telling.
00:13:35It's what we have lived through the last seven years.
00:13:39Do you think this is appropriate, how she's acting?
00:13:42This conversation about Molly, it's about you two.
00:13:44Yeah, but she's making it about her with all her yelling around.
00:13:48How the hell am I supposed to get a conversation done with...
00:13:50All the time.
00:13:54We're gonna make things easy for you, okay?
00:13:58Are you gonna be part of our lives or not?
00:14:02Excuse me?
00:14:03You're gonna give me the ultimate...
00:14:04Forrest?
00:14:05Mom?
00:14:06Accept this proposal or you're not a part of our lives.
00:14:13I cannot believe that I'm about to get on my flight to Sydney, Australia for the first time to meet
00:14:19Joshua in person.
00:14:21I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:14:23I know, I know.
00:14:24I want to like, get questions answered.
00:14:27Yeah.
00:14:28After Girls Night Out the other night, I ended up calling Yulia about the text I got from Josh because
00:14:33it was really bothering me.
00:14:34It seems like his life is falling apart as I'm coming.
00:14:37I don't know what to do.
00:14:39This sounds like a disaster.
00:14:40No way, no way.
00:14:50This should be!
00:14:56This should be no mother of me who made waves like the dragons...
00:14:58I can't hold it but be so much food technical uniform, there.
00:14:58You should be hosting this here Ñ‚.
00:14:59Bro, by your hand.
00:15:01I just need to let her know what to help me that song.
00:15:04Where are you there.
00:15:06Who are so you better from there?
00:15:17What can we do now to make this right?
00:15:24No, I don't know.
00:15:29We just got back from Nusikomba, and after what he told me,
00:15:34I'm so hurt.
00:15:36I don't know what to do.
00:15:41I'm really angry that he lied to me.
00:15:45I thought it was something serious between us,
00:15:49and I still cannot believe.
00:15:51He was in Colombia with that girl.
00:15:56It's really crazy because he bothers me a lot with,
00:16:02oh, you're still talking to your ex,
00:16:04and accusing me of cheating on him with my ex.
00:16:07Yet, he's the one messing up this relationship,
00:16:12not me.
00:16:15I didn't want to hurt you.
00:16:18No, you did.
00:16:20Just ruin our vacation.
00:16:23It doesn't have to be ruined.
00:16:25It doesn't have to be over.
00:16:26We still have time.
00:16:30I don't know, Ray.
00:16:34I trust you a lot.
00:16:37And I didn't expect this coming.
00:16:42I didn't.
00:16:43How can I trust you when you go back to your country?
00:16:46What if...
00:16:47She's not in my country.
00:16:49I know she's not in your country,
00:16:51but you could go in Colombia, meet her.
00:16:55But I'm not going to do that.
00:16:57Oh.
00:16:58I have no intentions on ever being with her.
00:17:02I promise that I'm going to be faithful to you.
00:17:07Oh.
00:17:09I just hope that you can forgive me.
00:17:24Oh, baby.
00:17:34I'm sorry.
00:17:39It's just a heart, so there's...
00:17:41I know, baby.
00:17:42I know you've been hurt in the past, baby.
00:17:43I'm...
00:17:44I didn't want to add to that.
00:17:46Yes, you did.
00:17:47Baby, I didn't want to add to that.
00:17:49I'm sorry.
00:17:50Please.
00:17:52I promise.
00:17:56Don't promise me.
00:17:57Because you did promise me, but...
00:18:00See?
00:18:01See what's happening?
00:18:02Baby, I'm looking at you in your face,
00:18:03and I'm telling you...
00:18:05Still, I'm not going to cheat on you.
00:18:08If you look at me, I'm not going to cheat on you, baby.
00:18:11Okay?
00:18:15I'm not.
00:18:16I'm going to do my best to make it up to you, okay?
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:29Thank you, baby.
00:18:33I could have lost her for what I did,
00:18:36so I feel grateful that she has given me the second chance.
00:18:56I think that we still have time to turn things around,
00:19:01but it's going to take some work for me to prove that...
00:19:06that I'm sincere, and to show her, you know,
00:19:10that I really do care and want this to work.
00:19:19I decided to stay because I'm already in love with him.
00:19:26But I didn't know he has different personality that he can cheat,
00:19:33he can lie.
00:19:41And the way he acts, the way he solves the problem,
00:19:44it scares me a lot.
00:19:45I don't know if I could trust him again in the future,
00:19:48or after this.
00:19:50I don't know.
00:20:16You think he's going to think it's sexy when I go to bed
00:20:19in my red light sleep mask?
00:20:22Oh, somebody tell the truth.
00:20:25Come on.
00:20:26I heard it last, it's the guy that's been so long.
00:20:30We're traveling fast, but it's already long gone.
00:20:33Six, seven, eight.
00:20:39I need another suit, kiddies.
00:20:43The day is here.
00:20:45I cannot believe that I'm about to get on my flight
00:20:48to Sydney, Australia for the first time
00:20:50to meet Joshua in person.
00:20:51I feel like I'm in a dream.
00:20:53Like, is this actually happening?
00:20:56I'm so excited to see him in person.
00:20:58Like, like, is he going to be affectionate
00:21:00and, like, touchy-feely?
00:21:01Is he going to, like, run up to me at the airport?
00:21:04Like, am I going to meet his family?
00:21:06Like, I'm not just going there for, like, a vacation.
00:21:09Like, I'm going there to see if he can be my future husband.
00:21:20Oh, my God.
00:21:22So these are, like, half of my bikinis.
00:21:25Okay.
00:21:26This is, like, granny style.
00:21:30This is, like, okay, like, I'm not having sex with you,
00:21:33but, like, maybe we'll go to, like, second or third base.
00:21:39This is, like, okay, game on, bikini.
00:21:44It's been six months since I've had sex,
00:21:46which is the longest time I've gone without sex
00:21:49since I've been a freshman in high school.
00:21:51I'm literally a born-again virgin.
00:21:56I want to try and take a slow with Joshua.
00:21:58I definitely want to have more of an emotional connection
00:22:00before having a physical connection.
00:22:02But even if we do, his roommate is going to be there
00:22:06the whole time, which is, like, so awkward.
00:22:11I feel very strange that I'm going to be staying
00:22:13with Joshua and also a roommate.
00:22:16We have chatted on the phone a few times.
00:22:19He's like a chatterbox,
00:22:20and he tells me all the cool places in Australia.
00:22:22But it's a little weird.
00:22:23Why is he bringing a roommate to the rental at 40 years old?
00:22:26It seems like I'm going in a throuple here.
00:22:29Like, Josh wants a nice place for us to stay when I'm there,
00:22:34so he's temporarily renting an apartment with his friend Chris
00:22:37because he can't afford it alone,
00:22:38so Chris is splitting it with him.
00:22:42If Joshua was honest with me about his living situation up front,
00:22:45like, I definitely would have split half and half with him.
00:22:48But I guess he was just trying to be nice,
00:22:50and I don't want to offend him.
00:22:51So whatever.
00:22:51I'm just going to roll with it.
00:22:56Oh, Yulia's here!
00:23:00Elise!
00:23:01Hi!
00:23:02Are you ready?
00:23:03Yes!
00:23:04Really?
00:23:05Hi!
00:23:05How are you?
00:23:06Oh.
00:23:07My friend Yulia is taking me to the airport today
00:23:10because I'm freaking out,
00:23:12and I need all the emotional support I can get.
00:23:15Should we do one at a time together?
00:23:17Yeah.
00:23:18Okay.
00:23:21You think you got it, or should I...
00:23:22How do we do this?
00:23:23Oh, my God.
00:23:24It's 50 pounds.
00:23:26I didn't sign up for this.
00:23:27You take this one.
00:23:28Okay.
00:23:29Oh!
00:23:29Okay.
00:23:30Oh, my God.
00:23:31Go, go, go!
00:23:32Okay, okay.
00:23:33Before my hand falls off.
00:23:35Okay, put it down.
00:23:36She says...
00:23:37One down.
00:23:39Wait, wait.
00:23:41Okay.
00:23:45Ow!
00:23:46My goodness, Elise.
00:23:49All right, let's hit the road.
00:23:51Sydney, Australia, I'm coming for you!
00:23:59So, are you excited?
00:24:01Yeah, I know.
00:24:03Like, I really am excited.
00:24:05I've never felt this way about someone before.
00:24:09I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:24:11I know.
00:24:12I know.
00:24:12I want to, like, get questions answered.
00:24:15Yeah.
00:24:16I mean, I don't even think he can drive a boat anymore because of the work incident.
00:24:20That's so stressful to be happening right before your freaking trip.
00:24:25After Girls' Night Out, the other night, I ended up calling Yulia about the text I got
00:24:29from Josh because what he told me was very concerning.
00:24:32I don't know what to do.
00:24:34I don't know what to do.
00:24:35This sounds like a disaster.
00:24:38He sells boats for a living.
00:24:40He's a yacht broker.
00:24:41And a few weeks ago, Joshua took a boat that his company was selling for a joyride with
00:24:48some of his friends and ended up crashing the boat into rocks.
00:24:52And he has a final warning at work.
00:24:54I think that it's absolutely irresponsible of him.
00:24:57The man's almost 40.
00:24:59I know.
00:25:00Oh, my God.
00:25:01We're close to the airport.
00:25:02I see it.
00:25:04So he might lose his job.
00:25:06I just found out that he lives with his parents.
00:25:10It's crazy.
00:25:12Like, it seems like his life is falling apart as I'm coming.
00:25:14But I really like him, and I'm starting to fall for him.
00:25:18So I just want to give this a chance.
00:25:22Are you ready?
00:25:23No.
00:25:24Kind of, yes.
00:25:25And ready as I'll ever be.
00:25:26Listen, if I didn't take this trip, I would always think in the back of my mind, what if?
00:25:30What if?
00:25:31What if?
00:25:31But at the same time, like, just, you know, don't carry your heart on your sleeve like
00:25:36you usually do.
00:25:37I love you with all my heart and soul.
00:25:41You got this.
00:25:42Thank you so much for taking me.
00:25:43I'll text you, okay?
00:25:44Bye.
00:25:54Am I getting pranked?
00:25:56What is going on?
00:26:00I applied for the tourist visa once I got my ticket to go see Joshua, and it got instantly
00:26:05accepted, and I was like, great, perfect.
00:26:08But I get to the airport, and they're like, your visa is denied.
00:26:13Oh, my God.
00:26:15I'm literally f***ing my pants.
00:26:17This guy keeps refreshing the system, and he keeps saying I'm denied.
00:26:21I've literally put my heart and my soul into Joshua.
00:26:24I just want to go into this with, like, ease and calmness and excitement.
00:26:28Why is this f***ing happening to me at the airport?
00:26:31Did it work?
00:26:34No.
00:26:36I got denied again.
00:26:37I got denied again.
00:26:40I'm telling panic attack.
00:26:46The girl in the photo, she's my friend.
00:26:48And do we know if this is still going on currently?
00:26:55Are we actually calling?
00:26:56Oh, you're going to go.
00:26:58Get your questions ready.
00:27:13Dave, what are you doing?
00:27:15Are you going somewhere?
00:27:17Yeah, I'm going to go meet up with Anne Spring.
00:27:20Really?
00:27:21You're just going to leave me here by myself?
00:27:22There's a nice weather right now, the beach, the pool.
00:27:26You're just going to leave me all day?
00:27:29I'm not sure how long it's going to take.
00:27:30Aye, aye.
00:27:32Don't forget, right?
00:27:33My dad is coming later.
00:27:35Okay.
00:27:46Feeling a little nervous, because I don't know what the people are going to hear from Anne Spring.
00:27:51Probably more lies, but I don't want that to affect us.
00:27:53I don't want her to hear something really bad and want to end things.
00:27:58I don't want to lose Aviva, especially over this.
00:28:02She would be stupid to have us break up for this, but I have a bad feeling about it.
00:28:18Hi.
00:28:19Would you like something to drink?
00:28:21Do you have a mojito?
00:28:22Yes, we do.
00:28:23Okay, make it extra strong.
00:28:24I will.
00:28:25And then I'm waiting for two more people.
00:28:27Okay.
00:28:27Okay, thank you.
00:28:28You're welcome.
00:28:30Hello.
00:28:31Hi.
00:28:33Hi.
00:28:34Hello.
00:28:35Good to see you.
00:28:37Good to see you.
00:28:38I already ordered a strong drink.
00:28:40Oh, is that the time you were on?
00:28:43Sure are.
00:28:44OK.
00:28:44OK.
00:28:48Looks so good.
00:28:49You're welcome.
00:28:50Could we order something?
00:28:51Sure.
00:28:52Can I get a strawberry daiquiri?
00:28:53Strawberry mojito.
00:28:56Strawberry mojito?
00:28:56Yes.
00:28:57OK.
00:29:02So, mojito o'clock here.
00:29:05Yep.
00:29:06Last night was pretty intense.
00:29:09I saw you and Stig talking and it seemed a little heated.
00:29:13You want to give me your side of the story?
00:29:17Did he give you his side of the story?
00:29:20He did.
00:29:21He told me that he took a picture with a fan
00:29:26and that it was all just a fan interaction.
00:29:33It's a friend of Corinne's and the girl has no reason to lie.
00:29:38So, I got your frozen coconut strawberry mojito.
00:29:41And your strawberry.
00:29:43You ladies enjoy.
00:29:44Thank you so much.
00:29:47So, maybe I should let Corinne explain.
00:29:53So, here is this picture.
00:29:56And if you can see like his.
00:29:58Yeah.
00:30:01That's a little bit more than a fan.
00:30:04The girl in the photo, we have known each other since we were really young.
00:30:09She has been telling me about her and him for a while.
00:30:13That they have been having relations off and on.
00:30:18So, when Spring had told me that you guys were starting to date.
00:30:22It was kind of weird to me.
00:30:25Because I know that they have a low key relationship.
00:30:28But they do have a relationship.
00:30:31Sexual.
00:30:32Everything.
00:30:36Wow.
00:30:38And do we know if this is still going on currently?
00:30:43What do we know before I lose my mind on him?
00:30:46I can like see if I can call her and see if she will.
00:30:49I would love to.
00:30:56Are we actually calling?
00:30:58Oh.
00:30:59You're gonna.
00:31:00Oh .
00:31:00Get your questions ready.
00:31:03Hello.
00:31:05Oh .
00:31:06Can you hear me?
00:31:11So, Aviva, like what would you want me to ask my friend?
00:31:15When was the last time they slept together?
00:31:18Like when was the last time you and Sting ever like .
00:31:23Whatever.
00:31:28She said last month when they were here in Placentia.
00:31:34Have they talked after that?
00:31:37Like are you and Sting like still communicating?
00:31:40Do you guys still talk?
00:31:43They still communicate.
00:31:45Like he ever tell you he's in a relationship?
00:31:49So he tell you he's single.
00:31:52He says he's single.
00:31:55So he never mentioned Aviva.
00:31:58Hmm.
00:31:59Okay.
00:32:01I'm sorry friend.
00:32:02I owe you a night out.
00:32:04Hey.
00:32:08Do you still believe him when he's saying he doesn't know her and that she's just a fan?
00:32:13Not really.
00:32:14This girl has no reason to lie to Corinne.
00:32:17Yeah, she has no reason to lie.
00:32:17Like she didn't even know about you.
00:32:24So I have a real shocking text here.
00:32:31We do have an upcoming trip.
00:32:34Them together?
00:32:36So this trip is in San Pedro, end of the month, Friday to Sunday.
00:32:46Exactly when you leave.
00:32:52Sounds like this girl has kind of a casual relationship with Stig.
00:32:56Not like a serious girlfriend.
00:32:59But still, if she's telling the truth, they were hooking up a month ago when we were supposed to be
00:33:04exclusive.
00:33:06That's just crazy to me.
00:33:08I feel like I don't even know Stig at this point.
00:33:11And that's devastating.
00:33:17I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you.
00:33:20But I was scared.
00:33:22In my culture, it's a sin.
00:33:24They will banish you.
00:33:26I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell me.
00:33:29I need to give shots.
00:33:29Kick for this.
00:33:40Um...
00:33:43I've been married five times.
00:33:48Five times?
00:33:51You would be my sixth husband.
00:33:55God.
00:33:55Have a second.
00:33:56No.
00:33:58Not a second.
00:34:01Let's go.
00:34:05Uh-huh.
00:34:07We're gonna...
00:34:08Okay.
00:34:13How?
00:34:14Yes, you will.
00:34:14So why didn't you mention them to me?
00:34:16Why didn't you discuss with me?
00:34:18You only told me of, uh, two.
00:34:19Well, you never really asked.
00:34:21and so I just never mentioned it, but there's, yeah.
00:34:32I don't feel bad.
00:34:35You can get married to a hundred men and divorce,
00:34:40but when you meet your God-given husband,
00:34:46it lasts forever.
00:34:49So what transpired?
00:34:51Well, they haven't all been faithful.
00:34:54Really?
00:34:54Yeah.
00:34:55Did they cheat?
00:34:56The men?
00:34:57One did.
00:34:58Okay, one did.
00:34:59The fifth one.
00:35:01So tell me, tell me about these 50 men.
00:35:04What happened?
00:35:08Yeah.
00:35:12The fifth one was really bad.
00:35:15We were married a few months,
00:35:18and then they ran off to be with somebody else,
00:35:21and I couldn't locate them for quite a while.
00:35:24And I recently located them.
00:35:27Okay.
00:35:28And I filled out the divorce papers,
00:35:30but I'm still married.
00:35:35You are still married to the fifth one.
00:35:38I am still married.
00:35:44I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you,
00:35:47but you asked me to marry you in the middle of the airport
00:35:50with everybody there,
00:35:51and I couldn't say no,
00:35:53and I couldn't tell you that.
00:35:56So I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:36:01We are legally separated.
00:36:14You don't know what you have cost me.
00:36:17Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:36:20They will banish you.
00:36:21I'm sorry.
00:36:28Daniel, listen.
00:36:30I have not been with this person for nine years.
00:36:32Nine years.
00:36:33We've been married,
00:36:34but we have not lived in the same state.
00:36:36We have not lived,
00:36:37shared the same bed for nine years.
00:36:39We have been separated for nine years.
00:36:41I call you on the phone every day.
00:36:43Yeah.
00:36:45After a conversation,
00:36:45I will tell you I love you,
00:36:47and you will respond.
00:36:48Because I love you.
00:36:49You love me,
00:36:50and you have not told me about it.
00:36:51I have not told you.
00:36:51Can you keep...
00:36:53Shut up.
00:36:53Keep quiet.
00:36:57This is a monster I've been dating.
00:37:00You never told me.
00:37:02No.
00:37:03I was scared to tell you.
00:37:06It took me a long time to get the divorce,
00:37:09but the divorce is almost here.
00:37:20I've told you all the things you want me to know about me.
00:37:25I never hide anything.
00:37:28You told me you love me.
00:37:30I do love you.
00:37:33Sleeping with another man's wife,
00:37:35I don't think it's love.
00:37:38I'm sorry.
00:37:42You're sorry?
00:37:44I'm sorry.
00:37:46My uncle came all the way from Goveri to Lagos
00:37:48because of you and I.
00:37:52My friends came.
00:37:55But I never know you have, you know, hidden stuff.
00:37:58So I lied to them.
00:38:00You didn't lie to them.
00:38:01I did this.
00:38:04I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell you.
00:38:10This is unbelievable.
00:38:13I don't know how to fix this.
00:38:15I...
00:38:17I'm sorry.
00:38:17Do you want your ring back?
00:38:20I'll give you your ring back and I'll leave.
00:38:22Oh, my goodness.
00:38:51I've been sleeping with her, sleeping with another man's wife.
00:38:58No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:39:00Dad, I don't know what to do.
00:39:03Oh, my God.
00:39:17How are you?
00:39:18How are you feeling?
00:39:19Are you nervous?
00:39:20I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness.
00:39:23I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, Elise.
00:39:25I'm obsessed with her, so I'm hoping she will like me as much as I like her.
00:39:31It is definitely...
00:39:32What, is it a couple of hours?
00:39:33Yep, yep.
00:39:34You're f***ing yourself, aren't you?
00:39:37The guy keeps calling the border control in Australia.
00:39:40My visa's been denied eight times.
00:40:23Last night, Trish was very cold, and I felt like she needed her space.
00:40:30And I've been trying to make the most of our last day here at Nosy Bay, trying to remind
00:40:35Trish of how fun things could be between us.
00:40:39I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
00:40:43I don't know for sure.
00:40:48So why was the round so short?
00:40:51Like, they was only into it for like 20 seconds.
00:40:55I don't know.
00:40:58I thought you knew something about this.
00:41:01How are we going to...
00:41:02I don't know their rules.
00:41:06Moringa fight started in Madagascar, and you don't use something on your hand.
00:41:11You just fight directly.
00:41:15It's scary, but that's the culture.
00:41:18Because before, we didn't have anything to protect.
00:41:22This is why.
00:41:23And we keep the culture till now.
00:41:28We should solve our problem, and I will win.
00:41:32Oh, you will?
00:41:33I'll give you one free shot.
00:41:38We could watch them, you know, fighting here, and then we could do some wrestling at home.
00:41:46I cannot forget all the things you have done, but it makes me feel a little bit happy and smile.
00:41:56I want this relationship to work.
00:41:59That's why I'm trying to give him a chance.
00:42:03Okay, this is the deal.
00:42:05You have to pick one, and if the one you pick win, we do have sex tonight.
00:42:12If the one I pick win, we don't have sex tonight.
00:42:18I'm going to put my sex life on the lawn in some other man's head.
00:42:24No, that's my rule, so pick the good one.
00:42:28I mean, dude over there is much taller, so I'm going to have to go with him.
00:42:33Okay, I'm going to take the blue shirt.
00:42:36Okay, okay, okay.
00:42:37You got to get him for me, man.
00:42:39My sex life depends on it.
00:42:52I don't know the rules to this thing.
00:42:55I don't know how points are scored.
00:42:57Come on, my man, get him.
00:42:58But after everything we've been through,
00:43:00I'm just happy that she's even considering having sex with me.
00:43:05Kim, keep that distance.
00:43:07I hate seeing people fighting.
00:43:09Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:43:10Oh, yeah.
00:43:10Get him.
00:43:11Yeah.
00:43:12Oh, he opened it up more.
00:43:13He opened it up more.
00:43:14It's over.
00:43:15It's over.
00:43:16It's over.
00:43:22Come on.
00:43:23Come on, ref.
00:43:24Do the right thing, ref.
00:43:26Yeah!
00:43:27Yeah!
00:43:29I'm super glad.
00:43:32I'm getting some, baby.
00:43:33Get ready.
00:43:34Get ready.
00:43:35We had a really good day, but there is no way.
00:43:40We are going to have sex tonight.
00:43:43I don't want him to touch me at all.
00:43:46It's too soon for that.
00:43:50Oh, look at the...
00:43:52That's what they used to use in the Jesus days right there.
00:43:55Yeah, we use it to carry everything.
00:43:57You'll see a lot of it in my own town.
00:44:02Yeah.
00:44:05So, um, what do you think, baby?
00:44:07Do you still want me to lead you down?
00:44:13I already told my dad that you were here, and we are coming to visit them, so I cannot go
00:44:21back.
00:44:28You're not going to tell them about what happened, are you?
00:44:30No, I'm not.
00:44:35No, I'm not.
00:45:00I'm not going to be so much more anxious than I was before about this meeting with her family.
00:45:05I'm worried about going there and dealing with their expectations when we're not even in a good place.
00:45:13They want a younger guy that's, you know, never been married, and that is excited about having children, and that's
00:45:23something that I'm not.
00:45:25I love Trish so much, and I really want to be with her and make this work, but right now,
00:45:32it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:45:47I love Trish.
00:45:59I'm supposed to be boarding my flight to Australia right now,
00:46:03but I'm stuck here because my visa's been denied eight times.
00:46:07The guy keeps calling the Board of Control in Australia.
00:46:10I am panicking and I'm freaking out.
00:46:14It worked.
00:46:16What?
00:46:17It's worked.
00:46:19We got it.
00:46:20Give me a high five.
00:46:22Let's get the guys going.
00:46:23Come on.
00:46:24Thank God.
00:46:25They got it.
00:46:27Thank you so much.
00:46:28If I wasn't about to go meet the love of my life,
00:46:30I would ask you for your number.
00:46:32My guy told me that I put my first name as my last name
00:46:36when applying for the visa.
00:46:38So it didn't match my passport.
00:46:42What a sire relief because like I'm so excited to go see Josh.
00:46:47I always do this ritual before flying.
00:46:53I have to do it.
00:46:55I cannot believe that I am traveling the world for someone I've never met in person.
00:47:04But I'm doing this because I truly believe that Joshua is my partner.
00:47:09And I've never felt more ready in my life.
00:47:14Oh my God.
00:47:16I'm going to Australia.
00:47:39I have to do it.
00:48:07Hey, Dickhead.
00:48:16My name is Joshua. I'm 39 years old and I live in Sydney, Australia. I'm sort of in
00:48:21between places at the moment. How are you? Elise is s**t. It is, it is. Yogurt, veggies.
00:48:31My girlfriend Elise is coming and I want a nice place for her. So my friend and I, Chris,
00:48:36have a rental that we have organised for when she gets here. Did she request all of,
00:48:41literally every bit of this? She requested a lot more. And how are you feeling? You're nervous?
00:48:46I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness. So it is definitely a couple of hours. Yep. Yep.
00:48:51Until I have to pick her up from the airport. You're s**t yourself, right? Come check this out.
00:49:01What is it? I thought I'd establish a hierarchy really quickly. Are you kidding?
00:49:10It's in my bedroom. Wow. Elise is going to f**king hate it. I like it.
00:49:18Tell me about this photo that Chris puts above your bed. It's typical Chris, you know. Jesus.
00:49:25You don't have to take me right now. You can build up to it. She gets here tonight so we'll,
00:49:30uh,
00:49:31we'll see if it stays up or not. I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, you know, after talking for
00:49:36six months. Elise makes me feel excitement because she could be the one. Elise is beautiful, but what
00:49:47I love about Elise is that she's an unbelievable listener and you can tell she cares. Elise is very
00:49:53fiery, but I think that's an attractive quality. I know when she gets here that I will be obsessed
00:49:59with her. So I'm hoping that she will like me as much as I know I like her.
00:50:13What are you going to wear? Oh, blue pants, cream jacket. Wait, so we're wearing the same thing.
00:50:18How's she going to know who's who? No, I'm just joking. Today's the Melbourne Cup race. So it's,
00:50:24it's a horse race. All of Australia watches it. This is something that Chris and I would typically
00:50:29celebrate together. Ready Princess? Princess is almost ready. It's an excuse to dress up and have
00:50:37a few drinks. We're going to whisk her straight off the plane and straight to watch the race. She says
00:50:42she's spontaneous, so I think she'll be okay with it. So we can go straight from the airport,
00:50:47the Melbourne Cup, off a 25-hour flight.
00:50:55I'm now starting to be like, oh, it's actually happening. Yeah, big day. I'm jumping into a
00:51:03relationship with someone that I've never met, like, in person. It's so different. So, um,
00:51:08being a Miami chick, how do you think she's going to fit into, to the circle over here?
00:51:13I don't know. If she has a problem, it'll be with Nat, not me, I reckon. Yeah, if she has
00:51:17a problem,
00:51:18it'll definitely be with Nat, not you. Yes. Do you think American girls are more, more jealous?
00:51:23Do you think it's weird for them? Do you think it's different, like, male and female friends?
00:51:26What do they think? You make a good point. Um, I didn't think about that.
00:51:32My friend that's a girl, Nat, she's just a special person that looks after everyone.
00:51:37Like, she's let me stay with her while I've been looking for a place.
00:51:42So, I've been living with her for three months.
00:51:46Wait, let me step back for one second, because Elise said that you, you told her you were with your
00:51:51parents. Oh. No.
00:51:58We're here. Wow. Well, I am, I'm nervous. Very nervous.
00:52:04Jesus. Hold my hand.
00:52:11I got you, boy.
00:52:13It is really important for me that this works out. You know,
00:52:17I dragged halfway across the world. I wouldn't do that on a whim or just for fun.
00:52:25But, you know, I feel a bit embarrassed because I don't have a lot of stability in my life at
00:52:29the
00:52:29moment. And I know that's important to a girlfriend. Like, I hope she can see that
00:52:35I'm ready to get really serious and, you know, settle down.
00:52:40She's already, is she already here?
00:52:42Oh. Yeah, she just touched down, so.
00:52:44Yeah.
00:52:45Yeah.
00:52:47I literally just landed in Australia. I am tired. I'm overwhelmed. But I am about to meet
00:52:54Josh for the first time. Oh, my God. I cannot believe I'm here. My adrenaline is pumping.
00:53:01Oh, my God. I'm going to go do it.
00:53:03Beautiful lady.
00:53:04Thank you. Hopefully, my husband thinks I'm beautiful, too. I'm about to meet him for the
00:53:07first time.
00:53:10You want me to maybe stand a little back or should I be right here next to you?
00:53:13Well, that was always the case. You weren't coming right up with me, right?
00:53:15Okay, right. Well, okay. Does she know I'm here, though?
00:53:20I don't know. No. I didn't say anything, no.
00:53:22Okay.
00:53:25I have so many emotions right now. Like, I literally just saw on Chris's social media
00:53:30that Chris and Josh are, like, in, like, straight suits and ties. First of all, weird
00:53:37that Chris is coming to pick me up. I have so much anxiety already, how it is. Like, so much
00:53:42anxiety.
00:53:46Do you want a light massage? Take the nerves away.
00:53:50I've been envisioning this moment for so long, and I've already had a travel day from hell.
00:53:56So the fact that he has to bring his friend to the airport, is he not comfortable enough to meet
00:54:02me on his own? Like, what the ****?
00:54:05I just traveled 30 hours, so I have all this time to think, and I'm starting to spiral out of
00:54:11control.
00:54:12This guy's 39 and has a roommate. And on top of that, he has this job incident.
00:54:19And I'm thinking about all the things my parents said to me and the overwhelming pressure of, like,
00:54:24not trying to let them down. Good luck.
00:54:32I've been wrong so many times, and I've done not only damage to me, but damage to my family.
00:54:37I don't have another wrong in me.
00:54:47Hello.
00:54:47Hi.
00:54:48Hi.
00:54:49Nice to meet you.
00:54:49This is my dad.
00:54:50Hi.
00:54:50When it comes to dating, my son is always drama. Talking to a bunch of girls. When he said that
00:54:56he's
00:54:56serious as Elviva, I have to question it. That girl said, you guys actually hooked up before
00:55:03about a month ago. So is any of this true?
00:55:22Oh, look, there they are. That must be his dad.
00:55:31Hi.
00:55:32Hi.
00:55:33How are you?
00:55:34Hello.
00:55:35Spring.
00:55:36Nice to meet you.
00:55:37Hi. Nice to meet you.
00:55:39I'm Elviva.
00:55:40Nice to see you.
00:55:42Can I offer you guys a drink, or what are you drinking?
00:55:45Yes.
00:55:45I would love a drink. I don't know.
00:55:47Did you try Panty Ripper yet?
00:55:48No.
00:55:49You might be one of those.
00:55:51To Panty Ripper, please.
00:55:52Yes, please.
00:55:53I had plans to meet up with Stig's dad tonight, and I'm really, really nervous.
00:56:01I don't want to come off as just this crazy girl meeting his dad for the first time.
00:56:07But after talking to Corinne's friend, I learned so much today, and I definitely want to bring this
00:56:15up to Stig. I wanted Aunt Spring to be here because she can ask all the hard questions and basically
00:56:21play a bad cop, and she doesn't have to worry about the repercussions.
00:56:27You took her away from me all day, Aunt Spring.
00:56:29It's definitely been an interesting day.
00:56:33Yeah.
00:56:33Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
00:56:36There's a lot to talk about.
00:56:38Oh, really?
00:56:39Oh, really?
00:56:41Aviva has been gone since morning with her aunt.
00:56:44Right now, the vibes are off.
00:56:47Aviva has basically been, like, ignoring my texts all of today.
00:56:52I'm pretty sure Aunt Spring is there putting stuff in her head, so I'm, I don't know. I'm anxious.
00:57:01My dad came to the hotel earlier. I gave him a quick summary of what went down with Aunt Spring.
00:57:07Last night, Aunt Spring pull up swinging.
00:57:09Yeah?
00:57:10Yes.
00:57:11Pull out the phone and asked me, so what is this?
00:57:15So I got a picture of me and a girl and a whole of my waist, and I did.
00:57:19Really?
00:57:21You sure you don't have done with this girl?
00:57:23No, no, no, no. I didn't even know this would be the father.
00:57:26Where do we start?
00:57:28What? Jump right into it?
00:57:30I don't know.
00:57:32I mean, you're meeting my dad for the first time.
00:57:33I know, I know.
00:57:34This is very uncomfortable.
00:57:36Sorry that you have to be here for this.
00:57:41Aviva, maybe you should be the one to explain to him what's going on today?
00:57:49I mean, I talked to that girl and...
00:57:51What girl?
00:57:52Current?
00:57:53No, not to my niece.
00:57:55Yeah.
00:57:55To the girl in the photo.
00:57:57The random girl I took a picture with.
00:58:05What happened?
00:58:07She said that you guys actually had, you know, hooked up before.
00:58:15It was about a month ago, and that apparently you're going to San Pedro in the month with her.
00:58:27So is any of this true?
00:58:29No.
00:58:31No.
00:58:32I swear.
00:58:33I swear, I swear.
00:58:36I can see where Anne Spring is coming from.
00:58:38I don't know.
00:58:39When he said that he's serious with Aviva, I have to question him, because when it comes to dating, my
00:58:44son is always drama.
00:58:48He's always been talking to a bunch of girls, and I just never saw him just settling down now, especially
00:58:55with the work that he's doing.
00:58:58Show my dad the photo so he could tell.
00:59:01I don't know why a best friend would lie to a best friend.
00:59:03That's supposedly the text between them.
00:59:06What happened there?
00:59:08She said, my man happened.
00:59:09My man happened.
00:59:11So, I mean, I can see why.
00:59:12And so we called her to clear up that, and she spoke with Aviva.
00:59:15Probably not a good look, but it's not a good look, but to me, it's not a definite.
00:59:20I would figure that if this girl really wants to prove that this is going on, she'd say, here's a
00:59:27text.
00:59:28That was the last one she provided with him telling her that he loved it.
00:59:32But we've seen, like, conversations, like...
00:59:35Not long conversations.
00:59:36Yeah, not long conversations, but the only texts that I saw were...
00:59:39Like, saying, like, well, can I meet you?
00:59:40Can I see you?
00:59:41Everything like that, that'll prove that...
00:59:44Yeah, no, it's about it.
00:59:47Young lady probably didn't even have my number when we died.
00:59:49That's crazy.
00:59:51I have no reason to lie.
00:59:54She just completely made that up.
00:59:58What do you need from me?
01:00:00Call me every day.
01:00:01You want my location?
01:00:03I don't have nothing to hide.
01:00:06Hey, I'm here having you with my dad.
01:00:08Do you think I'm not serious about you?
01:00:14I'm not sure if he's just lying and making this stuff up,
01:00:17but he did bring up a point that the girl in the photo couldn't provide solid evidence.
01:00:25I don't even know if she actually has Sig's phone number.
01:00:29So all I have right now is his word against hers.
01:00:35Well, I'm going to take your word for it that maybe she's just trying to cause drama.
01:00:43What's the humor about?
01:00:46I don't know.
01:00:46Man, Spang, you don't believe me?
01:00:47I mean, I don't know.
01:00:51I do feel that Aviva is quick to trust Stig.
01:00:55Stig may be able to fool Aviva, but he's definitely not fooling me.
01:00:59But I have given her all the information, and it is her choice to make her future decisions.
01:01:08And if I do later, you know, find out that, you know, you weren't telling the truth,
01:01:12I obviously wouldn't want to continue, but I do still want to work things out.
01:01:17Like, I want to, I want this to work it out with you.
01:01:20Dave, for the millionth time, I don't mind it could be a billionth time.
01:01:26I'm going to be as transparent as I can in this relationship.
01:01:29I live in a glass house, nothing to hide, all right?
01:01:32I got to.
01:01:35I'm glad all the drama is done.
01:01:37I have a clean slate right now, but I'm definitely worried about what else could come out in the future.
01:01:46A few months ago, when Aviva was hinting about being exclusive, I did take some steps and made
01:01:51some changes, but I wasn't 100%. I was still entertaining people. I wasn't sleeping around,
01:01:58but I was texting people, hanging around people. I'm not really proud of it now, but I was still
01:02:03unsure about Aviva because we haven't met in real life.
01:02:09But Aviva doesn't love us?
01:02:12Yeah, she doesn't notice. I didn't want to scare her away. And now that we've met in person,
01:02:17and it's what I thought it was, no other woman in the picture. I'm done with all that.
01:02:23Now I'm just hoping, and she doesn't find out. We're good.
01:02:29Let's move forward from it.
01:02:30Okay.
01:02:31Yeah.
01:02:37She called me a liar. She called me a scammer. What? She's the real scammer.
01:02:43I'm sorry. I came here to tell you the truth in person. I came here to tell you everything.
01:02:50I want you to go home, please.
01:02:54And he doesn't even know she's a she. Oh, my God.
01:03:11I feel like dying.
01:03:25I've done the worst. I've committed the worst sin sleeping with another man's wife. I feel like
01:03:32someone poisoned me. Someone.
01:03:36Shouldn't have never known him.
01:03:38I should have kept it a secret.
01:03:41In America, they have been legally separated.
01:03:43No, no, no, no, no. Don't tell me in America. You don't have to tell me that.
01:03:49I respect my culture.
01:03:53I'm engaged with another man's wife. In my culture, we don't do that.
01:03:58It's a very big offense if you should do it in our tribe.
01:04:02It's something that will bring shame not only to me, but to my family as well.
01:04:06I could be banished because of Lisa, because of her lies.
01:04:12I want to go back to him, but I'm scared.
01:04:16This is forbidden, and I don't know how to talk to my God. I don't know how to talk to
01:04:21the ancestors
01:04:23because I have to ask for apology.
01:04:29Daniel, I'm sorry. Daniel, Daniel, no, listen to me.
01:04:35Daniel, stop, stop.
01:04:37Please listen to me. I'm sorry. I'm sorry I didn't tell you the truth.
01:04:43I'm sorry I didn't speak to you about this before now. I'm sorry.
01:04:47I came here to tell you the truth in person. I came here to tell you everything.
01:04:53I love you, and I want us to be together forever. I'm so sorry.
01:05:00Riley.
01:05:01Please forgive me.
01:05:03You're messed up. That's all I have to say.
01:05:19Can you stop? Stop.
01:05:25I feel empty.
01:05:29I don't think he's ever going to forgive me, and I haven't even told him everything.
01:05:36I should have told him in the beginning.
01:05:40I waited, and I waited, and I held off, and the worst case scenario happened.
01:05:47He doesn't want me near him. He doesn't want to hear me.
01:05:52I'm worried that I have lost Daniel. There's no coming back from this.
01:06:00I'm a f***ed up person.
01:06:11She called me a liar. She called me a scammer.
01:06:29And I told them, you know, why these people tell us the truth.
01:06:42I've given her my hat. I trusted her. I believed in her.
01:06:49What did I do to deserve all this?
01:06:52I mean, for God's sakes, I've been separated for nine years. Separated.
01:06:59For nine years. Didn't know where she lived. And he doesn't even know she's a she. Oh, my God.
01:07:07When he finds out she's a she, I don't know what he's going to think.
01:07:11I haven't even been with a man for 21 years. I don't have any hope anymore.
01:07:22I want you to go home, please.
01:07:45He's not going to forgive me.
01:07:49He's not going to forgive me.
01:07:52He's not going to forgive me.
01:07:58He's not going to forgive me.
01:08:22so why are you so dressed up it's melvin cup day do you want to come and have a few
01:08:27drinks
01:08:28the last thing i thought possible was one to bring chris and two to take me to a bar the
01:08:35second i
01:08:35landed at the airport after a few tequilas you won't even forget that you haven't had showered or
01:08:41put it on your hands
01:08:54oh man
01:09:12oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
01:09:37i'm so happy i'm finally touching me oh yes i know the same wow wow
01:09:43you're sexy so are you don't need my side
01:09:50oh my god i'm so happy to see you you're so sexy i think
01:09:54thank you all you think is no i know i know i know
01:10:02feels really really good finally finally how good does it feel amazing
01:10:08how does she look she looks amazing do you feel like you look amazing no i feel like i look
01:10:13like
01:10:13absolute what are you talking about i didn't i did not want him to see me for the first time
01:10:17looking
01:10:18like this especially when he's dressed up like this like it's like an oxymoron right wait oxymoron
01:10:24means wait um i don't know but i just feel like like he looks really good and like i just
01:10:31look
01:10:31like slummy you look amazing i need reassurance every five minutes okay i'm happy to do that every
01:10:37three you actually look exactly what i thought perfect yeah so do you so do you i was so scared
01:10:46and i had so much anxiety but then seeing him standing there and seeing the look in his eyes
01:10:51i felt like i just have to follow my heart and like i have to give this a chance and
01:10:56then i hugged him
01:10:57and i felt like i've known him for years i really didn't expect to feel this comfortable this soon
01:11:03so why are you so dressed up um because it's melbourne cup day this is the biggest day of the
01:11:09year okay
01:11:10so we were hoping that you might want to come and have a few drinks and let your hair down
01:11:15i know
01:11:15that you're probably jet lagged i'm tired i feel like i look like i need a shower we don't have
01:11:22time
01:11:23so where are we going to
01:11:31we're going out yeah i know it's bad timing but after a few tequilas you won't even forget that
01:11:39you haven't had showered or put makeup on or done your hair yep and time is a factor so yeah
01:11:45it is
01:11:46so yeah first race is in 13 minutes
01:11:50if it makes you happy i'll do it but i feel really uncomfortable
01:11:53you guys look very good and i
01:11:55so there's something in your 50 bags
01:11:59so should we should we do it right here no i didn't think that far ahead and surely josh
01:12:05there's a weekend have like a party of what elise could wear i like when people pick out my outfit
01:12:12each boy grab a suitcase and open it up
01:12:23i see dresses joshua liked that on me i send him a picture
01:12:29i kind of want to dress sluttier
01:12:31dress what sluttier
01:12:33no you dress how you want i don't mind
01:12:35i don't need a bra or underwear with this dress
01:12:38that saves time saves time
01:12:40yeah that's time
01:12:41let's let's get ready
01:12:42all right i will go get ready in the bathroom
01:12:45yep we'll be outside just here right here
01:12:48okay
01:12:50i like that she's a trooper that is attractive for someone that's sort of like yep you know
01:12:53what you want to do it let's do it
01:12:59so what do you think about
01:13:01good that went well i think
01:13:03yeah yeah she's a firecracker
01:13:05yeah
01:13:07i just can't believe that i'm actually getting ready
01:13:10in a bathroom at the airport to go to a bar
01:13:13to watch an event
01:13:15i really just hope josh sees how much like effort i'm putting into this relationship
01:13:22obviously this isn't the ideal first day with josh
01:13:26the last thing i thought possible was one to bring chris and two to take me to a bar
01:13:32the second i landed at the airport
01:13:36but i flew across the world to like get a glimpse of his life and figure out if he's the
01:13:40person i want to be with
01:13:42everything seems good right now our connection and our chemistry was like it's there
01:13:47so i'm really going to just try and make the best of it
01:13:53i am here
01:13:54hey there she is
01:13:56you look stunning
01:13:57i'm not even wearing underwear
01:13:59oh well
01:14:01just hope it doesn't get too windy
01:14:06all right well now i'm dressed like you boys
01:14:08fit up outside
01:14:10it's the three musketeers
01:14:19are you going to be part of our lives or not
01:14:22you're gonna give me the ultimate forrest
01:14:27i'm just a little bit
01:14:28excuse me
01:14:29you know
01:14:29excuse me
01:14:30you going on your little attack
01:14:32i don't like the attitude you're having
01:14:44you made it perfectly clear that you mentally cannot handle
01:14:46my decisions
01:14:50you seem like you're way too stressed out
01:14:53we don't want to cause you any more stress
01:14:58well you're the big man now aren't you you're the big grown-up that can handle all that and make
01:15:02all the decisions on his own right
01:15:05thank you
01:15:06thank you yes yes i am
01:15:12i have always had to protect forest because of his autism and it's happened before where
01:15:21he's been taken advantage of and used and hurt deeply
01:15:27i'm absolutely positive that sheena manipulated forest again just so that he would propose to her
01:15:34but in the grand scheme of things forest is gonna do what forest wants to do
01:15:41and now i feel like i lost my son i really feel like i lost my son
01:15:48and it makes me really sad
01:15:56you know forest you have done this crap to me over and over again
01:16:00and i am tired
01:16:03i am so tired
01:16:05i am tired of the mess that you keep throwing me into
01:16:11and then when i crawl up to grab you out again
01:16:16and crawl up to save you out of a situation
01:16:18or to help you
01:16:19you turn around and you give me the big bird
01:16:21well it's none of your effing business mom
01:16:26and do you think
01:16:27that the next time
01:16:29it crumbles and falls
01:16:31that when you go to pick up the phone to call me to save you
01:16:34that i'm gonna be there
01:16:35i promise i won't come to you
01:16:40sheena and i are gonna move forward
01:16:43okay
01:16:45you're gonna be in our lives but
01:16:46you think
01:16:48i think
01:16:48you might be surprised forest
01:16:51oh
01:16:51well
01:16:51you just might be surprised
01:16:56all right
01:16:57well
01:17:00have a good night to you
01:17:07i'm sorry by law
01:17:09thank you for standing over me
01:17:15it's hard to think that my mom would actually step away from my life
01:17:20rather than accept sheena as my wife
01:17:24i never thought it would come to this and that my own mother would put me in this situation
01:17:33losing my mom is something i've never expected to lose on this trip
01:17:38i lost my best friend
01:17:41the person who's been with me my entire life
01:17:43the person who gave birth to me
01:17:46and it's tearing me apart
01:17:49my god
01:17:51it is time that mommy just cut it
01:17:56mommy has to let him be the man
01:17:58and take the knocks and not bail him out
01:18:01forest is on his own now
01:18:03yep
01:18:10oh god i'm starting to be like sheena
01:18:13oh my god
01:18:17i taught him the truth and he won't even talk to me
01:18:20did you even tell him about the women
01:18:22no i haven't mentioned the women
01:18:24he's going to be destroyed by the women
01:18:28yes he is
01:18:30i can't tell him that i can't tell him
01:18:32you have to
01:18:33i can't
01:18:40i can't tell you
01:18:42what do you mean
01:19:02you have to
01:19:15I don't think it's a good idea for us to stay together, so I'm going to get myself a different
01:19:21room. Hi, do I have a separate room, please?
01:19:53Hi. I just told Daniel how many times I was married and then I'm still married. He didn't
01:20:03take it very well, and I'm in a whole different room. I told him the truth and he won't even
01:20:10talk to me. Did you even tell him about the women?
01:20:14No, I haven't mentioned the women. I've only told him about the marriages.
01:20:20But you didn't just lie about the marriages. You lied about a whole part of your life.
01:20:27He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:20:31Yes, he is. I can't tell him that. I can't tell him.
01:20:35You have to.
01:20:36I can't. He's never going to forgive this. I wasn't going to forgive that.
01:20:41I know you don't want to tell him so you can stay together, but you will find out eventually.
01:20:54I'm sorry.
01:20:56Daniel is the one forever, Faith. He's really the one.
01:21:01I want him, Faith. I want Daniel.
01:21:06I want Daniel.
01:21:08I don't want this to be over.
01:21:18We're here.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, not leading with sex.
01:21:28But at the same time, he's hot.
01:21:30And I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might be getting.
01:21:36Josh!
01:21:39We're packing up to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
01:21:44This is like make or break.
01:21:46I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
01:21:50I told you, yes.
01:21:52So what else do you want?
01:21:54Just tell me now.
01:21:55Just tell me.
01:21:59Emma!
01:22:00Maddie!
01:22:01You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
01:22:04What's wrong?
01:22:05It literally went to with him, leaving me alone in the desert.
01:22:08Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
01:22:12Don't be mad.
01:22:13What?
01:22:18The other night, I called my friend Michael, because I have concerns.
01:22:25And now Michael has the same concerns.
01:22:28He has no place in our relationship.
01:22:30Well, he wants to come here.
01:22:33He already bought a flight.
01:22:34What?
01:22:36Oh, my God.
01:22:37I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:22:39This is wild.
01:22:42Oh, my God.
01:22:44I'm not giving up at walking away like I have every other relationship.
01:22:47I'm going to wipe the tears, and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
01:22:51I'm asking you to give me a chance.
01:22:53I plan a small romantic getaway.
01:22:57Is this a kind of a trip?
01:23:03Is this being romantic?
01:23:05Yeah.
01:23:06Did I pass the test today?
01:23:07Kind of.
01:23:07Okay.
01:23:08You still have to be nicer to me, Michael.
01:23:11I think that you got comfortable.
01:23:13Don't ever get too comfortable.
01:23:15Ever.
01:23:16You don't want to bitch your wife.
01:23:19Don't be a asshole.
01:23:21I'm like, I don't have to talk.
01:23:22I don't want to see you ever again.
01:23:25Don't come home.
01:23:26Ever.
01:23:27Ever.
01:23:30I don't want to see you ever again.
01:23:31I don't want to see you ever again.
01:23:31I don't want to see you ever again.
01:23:31I don't want to see you ever again.
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