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00:08I've handcuffed nine pairs of total strangers.
00:14A barmaid and a multimillionaire.
00:18A proud feminist and an alpha male.
00:21Call me baby one more time.
00:23And we ain't got to be winning this money.
00:26The last pair standing wins £100,000.
00:30F*** me, what the f*** do in my own house.
00:32One pair has quit.
00:34I did my bit.
00:35Eight pairs remain.
00:37In a divided Britain,
00:39can walking a mile in each other's shoes bring us a little closer together?
00:43Even though I annoy the f*** out of her, I won't leave her.
00:48This is a survival show where you have to survive someone else.
00:52Welcome to Handcuffed.
01:00The pairs I've handcuffed together all have different lifestyles, beliefs and views.
01:06But each of them has something I think they can learn from their opposite.
01:10If only they can get along.
01:22The thing that I'm finding the toughest being handcuffed to Sarah is that she doesn't stop.
01:27She's hard work.
01:29Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right.
01:33Here I am stuck in the middle with you.
01:42Shall we meet our next pair?
01:45Why don't we? Let's get our next contestant on.
01:49Meet Nina, a hairdresser from London's East End.
01:53When I first meet somebody, I'm like...
01:56Initially.
01:59Until...
02:00Until I'm not.
02:01What is your reason for coming in here? What are you hoping to achieve?
02:04I want to know how tolerant I can be, how understanding I can be, how kind and patient I can
02:09be.
02:10I'm a Christian.
02:11Have I lived a Christian, stain-free life?
02:16No.
02:18I haven't.
02:18Hopefully I'll be paired with somebody that is going to teach me patience, I think.
02:22It's going to teach me understanding.
02:24Well, do I have the perfect partner for her.
02:27Meet Sarah, a proudly outspoken mother of seven.
02:31How would you describe yourself when someone meets you the first time?
02:33Oh, they don't like me, but I grow on them like mould.
02:36And then they're like, oh, she's actually really nice when she's not talking.
02:40I'm very opinionated.
02:42I am the female Nigel Farage.
02:45He says what he means and he owns it.
02:48I will say what I want.
02:50Sometimes I offend people really quickly, but I don't mean it.
03:09I love her.
03:12I love her.
03:13Oh, bless.
03:14Feelings mutual.
03:15It is Nina and Sarah.
03:17Good luck.
03:18Good luck.
03:22I was just, oh gosh, I've got another daughter.
03:25And I'm really happy with this beautiful lady that I've got.
03:29The first thing she did was link my finger and it kind of made me feel all warm and fuzzy.
03:33She looks like a bit of a talker.
03:35I can have my moments of being a talker and then I can have my moments of not.
03:39So it's how well she'll cope when I'm not in the mood to talk.
03:42We'll see.
03:45So, a Christian looking to be more tolerant with a woman who loves speaking her mind.
03:51Sorry sweetie, don't mean to squeeze your hands.
03:53No, do anything you like, I don't care.
03:56I'm 100% here for you and I mean that.
03:58And we're going to respect each other and we might even have a little moan at each other, but then
04:03we'll look at each other the next day and go, love you all.
04:05I can't guarantee that.
04:06Oh.
04:09All the pairs must begin the competition by spending time in each other's homes and these two are off to
04:15Nina's East London flat.
04:18Sarah wastes not a second getting Nina up to speed.
04:21I had seven kids, four husbands, two long term relationships.
04:26How did you fit all that in in 55 years? Four husbands?
04:29Yeah, easy, easy, when I was 20.
04:32Second one was 23, the next one I didn't marry but I had two kids with him.
04:37But I didn't know I had ADHD at the time.
04:40Wow.
04:40And when ADHD people are bored of something they'll walk away.
04:43So you were bored of your marriages?
04:45Yeah, it was the same shit every day.
04:47I have ADHD and I'm proud.
04:50It's not a bad thing at all, you know, to be expressive.
04:54It's my superpower and I'm sticking with it.
04:58The pair have been handcuffed for less than an hour and Nina's search for tolerance is well underway.
05:04I said to them, I said, what if you have an accident and me or Nina gets trapped behind the
05:07seat?
05:08I said, I'm not in the mood to be gnawing off my wrist.
05:10They said, bring a swimming costume. I went, you know I don't like water.
05:13You've got the sciatic nerve but under that is a piriformis.
05:16And for two years of perimenopause, my hip was on fire, I couldn't walk.
05:20Wow.
05:20What does silence look like to you?
05:22I don't have silence. Even now, in my head, I've got three voices, four songs playing.
05:27So what do you do?
05:28Get up, pop around the house, do the house, go and sort my friends out.
05:30I never sit still.
05:32And then sometimes, my kids, they don't ring me because I don't shut up.
05:37Sorry!
05:40Don't laugh and cry all the time.
05:42Don't laugh.
05:44God forgive me, God forgive me.
05:45Don't think I've got to get it all out in one.
05:47I'm so sorry, I did not mean to laugh.
05:49No, you can, because it's made me laugh.
05:53Do you know what I'm going to do with you?
05:54What?
05:55I'm going to play the let's be quiet game.
05:57Yeah, all right.
05:58Can you see that car?
05:59All right.
06:00You're not going to say nothing until we get to that car.
06:02Not a word.
06:03Yeah?
06:04OK, cool.
06:04Got that.
06:07You can't even whistle, nothing.
06:09Don't think.
06:09No noise.
06:10OK.
06:11Just, just, just breathe.
06:13And don't, yeah, just don't make a, just nothing.
06:16OK?
06:17Just until we get to the car.
06:23Hey, Macarena.
06:25Oh my God, baby.
06:27To remain in the running for the hundred grand prize, all the couples need to do is keep their
06:33handcuffs on.
06:36While some pairs seem to be getting along, for others, living together isn't easy.
06:51How did you sleep?
06:54With your eyes closed.
06:55Yeah?
06:56Yeah.
06:57Did you sleep?
06:58I don't think so.
06:59It's sad when your brain just can't switch off.
07:03In Manchester, it's been a sleepless night for feminist Jo.
07:09Since being handcuffed to alpha male Ruben, they've been struggling to find common ground.
07:14Ruben's quite rigid in how he sees things, so I thought I'd tell him about my sexuality.
07:20Maybe help him see me a little bit differently.
07:24So I know we've not really touched on this, but I've got a pretty good idea.
07:28But, like, what is your sexual preference?
07:30That's right. Women only.
07:32I'm also attracted to women.
07:35Well, you've got more in common than you think.
07:37Although I identify as a lesbian, I have been with men.
07:42However, a big thing was that they always wanted me in, like, secret.
07:48You find, as a fat girl, some men do want to, like, sleep with you and that.
07:53But it's kind of always very private.
07:55There's a saying in the manners field is, if you go for a girl who's a little bit bigger,
07:59she'll be a bit more grateful, she'll put her back into it.
08:07The comments that he was making is so invalidating.
08:11Just show a bit of compassion. Do you know what I mean?
08:14I just don't think I want to do this.
08:20It's up we get.
08:21Hands off her cocks and hands on socks.
08:24For fuck's sake.
08:25Shower.
08:28The enormity of the challenge is beginning to dawn on Jo.
08:35I don't think I can.
08:39I was hoping to use the shower to decompress.
08:43Reset myself ready to carry on with the challenge.
08:46Jo asks for a call with the producers.
08:50Not on the phone for you.
08:52Hi Jo, how are you?
08:53I'm just a bit stressed now about this bath situation.
08:58The pairs can request a longer chain for number twos,
09:02but must shower using the regular handcuffs.
09:04It's about you to try to work together.
09:08I'm not comfortable doing that.
09:11No, I don't. I want to go and get the key.
09:14100%.
09:14Hang on. One second.
09:16I want to go and get the key.
09:20We can work out a solution.
09:21There's no solution.
09:23Do we not remember why we're doing this though, Jo?
09:25I don't care. It's not worth it to me.
09:28I don't care about the money.
09:30Can you please come with me and get the key?
09:34I'm not doing this. No, I'm not doing this.
09:36Give me the fucking key.
09:39Right now.
09:40I'm not doing it.
09:44She's here. She's here. She's on coughing.
09:46It's done.
09:57All that.
10:03How are you feeling?
10:05Sorry, I can't say much. I'm fucking fuming.
10:08No, no, I understand it. I understand it.
10:09We signed up this challenge. We knew it was going to be hard.
10:12It didn't change my opinion that fat people lack accountability,
10:15they lack discipline and they lack motivation.
10:18She's a nice person, but she was never cut out for this competition.
10:23It was like nothing I've ever, ever encountered in my life.
10:28Every single thing that comes out of his mouth is to impress somebody.
10:33But he really needs to learn to show a bit of compassion.
10:40There's a positive I can take for this.
10:43I've stopped him from winning and that is worth 500 grand, let alone 50 grand.
10:50I'm actually quite proud of you for breaking the handcuff just to piss him off.
11:16With two pairs taking their cuffs off so quickly, I'm already down to seven.
11:21All learning to live with each other for that £100,000 prize.
11:26I'm really hoping that despite their obvious differences,
11:29for some, this might just be the start of some beautiful friendships.
11:37In Enfield, millionaire classic car collector Anthony
11:40is waking up a long way from home.
11:44The pair have travelled to the house barmaid Tilly shares with her mum.
11:48We have got a very fun day today.
11:51No?
11:51A very busy day.
11:53We're going to do some cleaning on a fairly large scale by the look of it.
11:58Now that Anthony's in my world, I'll put him to it, actual hard graft.
12:03Hopefully, he won't throw a robbery.
12:07I want to win.
12:08I actually need £50,000.
12:11Obviously, usually I'm a little more organised on this.
12:15I've worked since I was 13.
12:17My first job was in a dry cleaners.
12:18I got paid £15 a day.
12:20I was shit at it.
12:21Mind your head.
12:22Here.
12:23Ow.
12:24Now, I work three jobs, you know.
12:26I've got it.
12:26No, no, no.
12:27If I won a share of £100,000, I would pay a year's rent up front on a one-bedroom
12:36flat.
12:36Not that I thought about it or anything.
12:41I'm a great long sock fan in the sun.
12:43It's terribly stylish, I think.
12:46Right.
12:46So, this is it.
12:48I grew up in a family who were extremely wealthy.
12:51We had staff.
12:52I had a nanny.
12:54I had maids without wishing to be conceited or pompous.
12:57Having the life I have, it's incredible.
13:01I consider it a challenge to do what I'm about to do.
13:04It won't be easy, but it'll be attested to me more than anything.
13:09How are you looking forward to getting your hands dirty?
13:12I don't think anybody looks forced to getting their hands dirty, but I'm certainly not afraid of work.
13:16No.
13:17There was a quote once from Sir Henry Royce.
13:20Whatever is done in life, no matter how humble, if it is done well, it is noble.
13:26You do something, do it properly, that's what I say.
13:29Same thing?
13:29Yeah.
13:30Slightly different wording.
13:33Let me just spray this first.
13:40I've never experienced this, it's just not in my vision.
13:46Right, push that.
13:48That's true.
13:48Oh, Christ.
13:49And it is alien to me, yes it is.
13:52I'm not ridiculously house proud, but everything has to be absolutely pristine and in the right place.
13:59If there's a party and everybody uses it, great, but it has to go back into that regimentation.
14:03It doesn't mean to say there can't be a mess, it's just we've got to be, you know,
14:07look what happened at the house while you were there, it was absolute mess everywhere.
14:10But miraculously in the morning it was all back to normal, wasn't it?
14:15Yeah.
14:15Yeah, but that's because you had people to do that though.
14:21When he comes home or he goes to bed and wakes up in the morning, everything is done.
14:26When was the last time you reckon you cleaned the toilet?
14:321975, I think it was.
14:34Been a while then, yeah?
14:36This is probably knackering for him, he must be exhausted.
14:40I found it really difficult keeping up with Tilly because she goes at everything at a thousand miles an hour.
14:46And I certainly couldn't do that.
14:47Day in, day out, no.
14:49It wouldn't be for me.
14:56In East London, mum of seven, Sarah, is still testing Christian Nina's tolerance.
15:02Have you got a partner?
15:04Do I have a partner?
15:06No.
15:06I didn't think you did.
15:08I'm sorry?
15:09I didn't think you did.
15:10Not because you're not beautiful and attractive, it's because it's your way or the highway.
15:15With men?
15:16Not really.
15:18Being handcuffed to somebody is going to be a test.
15:22I work in a salon that does afro hair, I work with black people.
15:26I'm surrounded by people that get me and understand me.
15:30Dealing with a stranger, it's going to teach me about myself.
15:33I'd have to give that person a chance.
15:38So, now I'm going to ask you a question.
15:40You aren't trans, are you?
15:47You said you had size eight feet, I thought.
15:49You thought that I was trans.
15:53For the first two minutes.
15:55And you do have quite a sort of, I can't, what words, what am I looking for?
16:00Help me explain.
16:01Masculine, manly.
16:04You're very, not very dainty.
16:10Were you born a woman?
16:12Yes.
16:12OK.
16:15The thing I'm finding the toughest being handcuffed to Sarah is that she doesn't stop.
16:20But hopefully, once she starts to feel a little bit more comfortable, she'll shut up.
16:29Let's see.
16:32It's very important.
16:33I go to the toilet, I won't say the word, once every morning, once I've had my cough and...
16:39Why is that relevant now?
16:41Why do you feel you have to say it?
16:42Because I need one right now and that's not me.
16:45Right, come on in.
16:46I'll have rejection sensitivity as well.
16:50The pairs must remain handcuffed 24-7, but can request a longer chain when they need a number two.
16:58Hang on, let me get me skirt up.
17:01Right.
17:01Are you missing me?
17:02Absolutely.
17:03You're not?
17:04No.
17:04Don't make faces, because my kids do that.
17:06I'm not making faces.
17:06She is, she's going to roll her eyes.
17:09Going to roll your eyes.
17:09Well, I shall roll them right back.
17:11Right.
17:12Always put paper down first.
17:15I know, too much information.
17:19Why are you not talking?
17:21Just sing something.
17:22Sing anything.
17:24I'll sing for you.
17:29Come to the cabaret.
17:33Oh!
17:35Won't be long.
17:39Won't be long.
17:40I'm trying to work out whether or not...
17:44If Sarah is annoying, or if I've got low tolerance.
17:48I don't know which it is.
17:50I don't know which it is.
17:54Hey, Macarena!
17:56I think it's the former.
18:03Just a few short miles away,
18:09Millionaire Anthony is off with Tilly for their second shift of the day,
18:13at the fishmonger's arms.
18:15My normal day would start from like 6 o'clock in the morning,
18:19where I do my cleaning,
18:21and then I'll start here 6 o'clock in the evening
18:24till about 12, 1 o'clock.
18:26Are we here till 12 or 1 o'clock?
18:27Yeah.
18:28Dear Pete.
18:29I'm pretty weary, actually.
18:33Right.
18:34Let's do this.
18:35Hello, how are you?
18:36Good evening.
18:36May I ask what you like to drink?
18:38Two pints of bretti.
18:39One with a tiny splash of lime.
18:41There's an after this.
18:42Oh.
18:44May I ask you to tap on here, please?
18:47Take it off. Take off.
18:50People think that I've been lucky,
18:53and I'm privileged to be in that position,
18:55but it has needed to be created.
18:58By taking the right decisions in life,
19:01it can happen to anyone, regardless of your class.
19:06You're not afraid of hard work.
19:07You proved that today.
19:09But then again, you are younger than me.
19:11But I'll probably be working like that for the rest of my life.
19:14I doubt it.
19:15You can change it, but for some reason,
19:18you're putting yourself in a cul-de-sac all the time,
19:21and you're not allowing yourself out of it.
19:22It's a reality for me that no matter how hard I work,
19:26I will not get a property on my own.
19:29I don't accept that.
19:30The energy that you've got must be channelled into the same thing.
19:34Energy don't pay bills.
19:35People that are working hard, two, three jobs,
19:40cannot afford to live.
19:41Well, where are they all?
19:43Huh?
19:43They're here.
19:44It's me.
19:44It's me.
19:45I live at my mum's house.
19:47I live at my mum's house.
19:49You think, I want to be living at my mum's house.
19:51Because you're being a little bit close-minded to it.
19:54You know, where are these people?
19:56They're here.
19:57It's me.
19:58With respect, my love,
19:59and don't think I'm being patronising,
20:01there are a lot of people who are very busy fools.
20:06I'm actually lost for words.
20:09He doesn't realise his privilege.
20:14It's not about, you know, having the right mentality all the time.
20:19Sometimes that isn't enough.
20:21He thinks he understands it.
20:23But I think sometimes ignorance is bliss.
20:28If she just shut up and listened,
20:30she might just be able to think about how
20:33the world could change for people who genuinely like her,
20:37want to get on in life but can't seem to do it.
20:40I think it's an education thing more than anything.
20:47Travelling home,
20:48Kelly spots a local homeless man she knows,
20:51wandering the streets.
20:52Who's this way, darling?
20:54I've been worried sick about you.
20:56This is my mate Anthony.
20:58Anthony, this is my mate Chris.
20:59Hi, how are you?
21:00Hello.
21:00Nice to see you.
21:01Yeah, nice to see you.
21:03Come on, we have to go.
21:04Lovely to meet you.
21:05Can we go in?
21:06Oh, please.
21:06Five minutes, please.
21:06Yeah, just five minutes, five minutes.
21:08Let me just say hello.
21:09Listen, I was worried sick about you.
21:12Now, on Thursday, make sure you go and get that dinner.
21:16Yeah, certainly.
21:17You're in the town tomorrow?
21:19Yes.
21:19Yeah?
21:20I'll see you.
21:21Alright?
21:22Thank you too.
21:24I love you.
21:25I love you too, darling.
21:26I love you.
21:27I'm glad you're alright.
21:28I'm really glad that I've seen you.
21:31Alright?
21:32Yeah, I love you.
21:33Love you, sweetheart.
21:34Alright?
21:35You be good.
21:36Yeah.
21:36Try and get a good night's sleep when I see you tomorrow, yeah?
21:38Alright?
21:39Love you, sweetheart.
21:40Keep your chin up.
21:41Take it easy.
21:43I can love you back.
21:44Sorry, I've been so worried sick about him.
21:46Is he homeless?
21:47Yeah.
21:48Oh, dear.
21:49He's been homeless for a long time.
21:50Oh, for God's sake.
21:52He needs a good haircut, you know.
21:54He probably can't afford one, can he?
21:55Don't be ridiculous.
21:56Of course he can get a haircut if he wants one.
21:58He might not want one.
22:00Where's he going to get a haircut?
22:01I could take him somewhere straight away to get a haircut.
22:04Yeah, but you could take him somewhere straight away,
22:07but he couldn't walk into a barber's and get a haircut.
22:12Oh, don't start all that again. I haven't the energy.
22:14No, but it's correct.
22:16Of course he can get a haircut.
22:17Everything costs money, Anthony.
22:19People don't do things for free, sadly.
22:23The fucking audacity of this homeless man looking shabby.
22:28I think that just kind of showed that he's just so oblivious to everything, you know.
22:33And I know I've always got a choice, but I need money.
22:47In the rolling hills of West Sussex, another pair hoping to win the £100,000.
22:54Now, they say you should never judge a book by its cover.
22:57What were your first impressions?
23:00You look very posh.
23:01Prim and proper.
23:03You know, like Princess Anne.
23:07What do you do, Rob?
23:09You want to know?
23:10Or maybe I'll tell you every dinner tonight.
23:19My husband just sent me a few lovely texts this morning.
23:22He said, darling, we're all rooting for you.
23:25I'm just so lovely.
23:26Meet traditional homemaker, Charlie.
23:29I'm very, very old fashioned.
23:32I have really strong morals.
23:34I'm a massive prude.
23:35I really hope that doing this experience will be a good thing for me.
23:39Maybe I will lose some of my inhibitions.
23:43If she wants to lose her prudishness, then I think I have the perfect partner.
23:48Six foot eight, fridge of a man, Rob.
23:50I'm a straight man, but I make gay porn for the gay industry.
23:55Just because I look like a thug and I look like I belong on Crimewatch.
24:00Don't judge her but by the discoverer.
24:13Charlie, meet Rob.
24:15Rob, meet Charlie.
24:16Nice to meet you.
24:16Are you ready to win?
24:18Yeah, let's do it.
24:19Let's do it, man.
24:19Let's do it.
24:20So, first impressions?
24:21It's like a big bear.
24:23Yes.
24:25I don't know many people that are as big as Rob with a beard and lots of tattoos.
24:30I mean, look at him.
24:31He's huge.
24:33Charlie does look very posh.
24:35Because I'm an OnlyFans creator, I definitely think she might frown upon my lifestyle choices.
24:40We'll see.
24:43So, a porn star seeking acceptance with a self-confessed prude looking to be more open-minded.
24:49I think these two have more to learn from each other than they realise.
24:54Oh, my.
24:55This is going to be interesting.
24:57Whoa.
24:58They'll begin their time together at Charlie's Country Cottage in West Sussex.
25:03So, this is yours, yeah?
25:05Yeah.
25:05Look at the size of it.
25:07Where she lives with three children, five chickens, two horses and husband, Simon.
25:13Oh, that's not him.
25:14Hello.
25:15How are you?
25:16Good to meet you.
25:17You've got the short story.
25:18You've got the right hand.
25:20Hi there.
25:20How are you doing?
25:22What have you let yourselves in for?
25:24What's she like sleeping?
25:25Because this is probably the worrying thing for me now is how are we going to sleep?
25:28Does she fidget?
25:29To be perfectly honest, she could sleep standing up.
25:31And if she gets a bit tired, I've got every confidence of you being able to carry her.
25:35Oh.
25:35Because she's very precious to me.
25:37Yes, yes.
25:37I'll look after her, don't worry.
25:39OK?
25:39I love you.
25:41I'm like the third wheeler on the date.
25:45Oh, yes.
25:46I love you.
25:46I love you, darling.
25:47Oh, yeah.
25:50In case it gets too much, I've given them a way out.
25:53I've placed a key to the cuffs in all the couple's homes.
25:56I need a wee to be honest.
25:59You can go first.
26:01Oh, done.
26:02Well, you need to come further in.
26:07You can take my hand with you to do what you need to do.
26:11It's just weird.
26:13I don't even like my husband seeing me with nothing on.
26:16I barely even took my pants off to give birth to the children.
26:19Hold on.
26:20I can't piss.
26:21I think, you know what I might do?
26:22Put the tap on.
26:23Yeah.
26:24When you hear water, you're more likely to go for a pissing.
26:27I'm not going to lie.
26:28I'm quite apprehensive.
26:30Oh, there you go.
26:31It's coming out.
26:32It's not so bad, is it?
26:36I think we're getting on quite well so far.
26:38We've survived our first wee, but I'm a little bit nervous.
26:42Charlie's very innocent.
26:44I don't know how she's going to react when I reveal to her what I actually do for a living.
27:00It's a flannel.
27:02There you go.
27:03In East London, Nina is growing increasingly keen to stop Sarah talking.
27:08Literally, I was quite busy.
27:09Do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do.
27:12Sorry, I've got to pick up your towel.
27:14It's going to make me...
27:14Yes, I was going to, but I couldn't turn myself around.
27:17It was my criticism.
27:18Oh, my gosh.
27:20This is terrible.
27:21Sarah, please, just, please.
27:24Stop talking.
27:24Just five minutes.
27:25OK.
27:26Please.
27:26Yes.
27:30I've never met anybody that talks as much as Sarah.
27:32Never.
27:33I'm a hairdresser, so I listen to people all the time.
27:35Never in all of my 53 years have I ever been around anyone that talks as much as this woman.
27:40What have you done today?
27:42Like a super king duvet on a single bed.
27:44Remember what we said before?
27:45You started.
27:46Remember what we said?
27:47No.
27:47Don't you remember?
27:48I'll tell you what we said.
27:49We said that you're not going to talk.
27:50That's what we said.
27:51No, you said five minutes.
27:52You were being bossy.
27:53That was 12 minutes ago.
27:54Let's do a new one.
27:55No, let's not.
27:56Argh!
27:57I just need to not have your voice in my head.
28:01That wasn't me.
28:01All right then, but you keep changing the rules.
28:03Because I'm sat there quiet and then you start going,
28:07And being all loud.
28:08And I'm like, oh okay, two ways to street.
28:10What the actual fuck are you talking about?
28:13My mum is from Sierra Leone.
28:16My dad was from Nigeria.
28:18With an African household, you just have to have respect.
28:22To me, manners and respect is very important.
28:25I'm not going to put up with anyone that pushes my buttons intentionally.
28:30And in return, I'll offer you the same courtesy.
28:33But you're not going to take the piss.
28:36Seeking some relief, Nina's taking Sara to see her friends.
28:40But they've got to get there first.
28:43Do you like being on the tube?
28:46No, you're not going to do that.
28:48Do you like it though?
28:49Just answer the question.
28:52I'm not asking me a question.
28:53Don't be rude.
28:57Go on, give me your worst bitch face.
28:59Go on.
29:00Do you want me to carry the wine for a little while?
29:02Are you going to break the bottle?
29:03No.
29:04Okay.
29:04As if.
29:05I can't wait for you to have a drink.
29:08I used to carry my mum's whisky home every night from the off-licence back in the day.
29:12I never drop one.
29:13Yes.
29:14It's way nearly.
29:16Woo!
29:17The one nearly one.
29:18I'm not joking.
29:22Oh, it's a donkey.
29:26Ready.
29:27Off we go.
29:30Would I like a share of £100,000?
29:33Absolutely I would.
29:34But there's limits.
29:37Do you get what I mean?
29:38So it could be £50,000 a little more if this woman continues.
29:41I'm uncuffing.
29:43There's nothing that's going to stop me.
29:44No amount of money.
29:54Sorry?
29:55Nothing.
29:56Oh.
29:57I don't know.
29:58Don't know if he's talking to me or not.
30:01I'm not.
30:02I'm not.
30:03I'm in your hometown and you're being fucking rude.
30:07I would not do this to you if you were mine.
30:09I'm really a very tolerant person and I know you're going through a lot.
30:13Raise your voice at me again.
30:14But you're sat there with her face like a slapdash.
30:16Raise your voice at me again.
30:18Mate, I've been through all my hormones, love, and you know, you're taking the MSC bar.
30:23What is it then?
30:24You like this all the time.
30:25It's you.
30:26It's you.
30:26What have I done?
30:27You don't stop.
30:28I haven't stopped.
30:29I haven't talked all the way.
30:30You don't want to talk.
30:31I need to go insane for it.
30:32I don't want to talk.
30:34I don't want to talk.
30:35I don't want to talk.
30:36Shut up then.
30:37I'm just trying to be polite.
30:38My girl.
30:39My girl.
30:39Don't make me.
30:40Security.
30:42Please.
30:43Take them off.
30:46Take them off.
30:46Okay.
30:47Because if I do her to them, it's not going to be funny.
30:50Are you saying you want to run a car?
30:51I'm saying I want her to stop talking to me.
30:54Just leave me alone.
30:55I'm saying I want her to stop being on route.
30:58I'm saying I want her to stop being on route.
31:002-1-5.
31:022.
31:03Leave that in the campsite.
31:17In West Sussex, after some initial awkwardness...
31:21Can you hang that up there?
31:23This one.
31:24The middle one.
31:25There you go.
31:25Perfect.
31:26Traditional homemaker Charlie and porn-style Rob seem to be hitting it off,
31:31though Charlie is still clueless about Rob's profession.
31:35We can time this and see how quick we can be.
31:37Ready?
31:38Go.
31:39Easy work, man.
31:40This is easy.
31:41Here we go.
31:42I'm getting dizzy now.
31:43Slow down.
31:44Rob, can you get the demerara sugar from up there?
31:47Yeah, I can try.
31:48It's always a tricky one.
31:51Not for a giant, it's not.
31:53You're right.
31:55We are making Gisborne elderflower crumble.
31:58Oh, nice.
32:00You like to cook, don't you?
32:01I love to cook.
32:03Did your mum like to cook, Rob?
32:05Did she cook when you were growing up?
32:06Yeah.
32:07We couldn't be really picky.
32:08We would just have what was given to us.
32:10Oh, yeah.
32:10Me too.
32:12When my mum and dad divorced, my mum was a nurse.
32:15She was a hairdresser and she was running like three jobs to provide for me and my brother.
32:20My mum, bless her, she did the best.
32:23I had a bit of a difficult childhood and hugely, hugely privileged.
32:28My father was a very successful businessman.
32:31Oh, okay.
32:32But then it all went wrong and we couldn't live with him anymore.
32:35Oh, really?
32:36So we actually, well, we escaped.
32:39Really?
32:39My dad hid the car keys and trapped us in the house and locked my brother out of the house.
32:46He said he was never allowed back in.
32:48What?
32:48And I gave mum the car keys and I said, let's go.
32:52Yeah.
32:56And I never went back.
32:58Yeah.
32:58My childhood really affected my confidence for many years.
33:03It's taken quite a long time to find self-worth, self-respect.
33:07And I think I get that today because my family are the most important thing to me.
33:12I love looking after them.
33:13I just love taking care of people, to be honest.
33:17What age was it?
33:18I was 16.
33:1916 at the time.
33:22But it wasn't a very happy home.
33:27So, I get it.
33:28Yeah, you get where I come from.
33:30I get it.
33:34I was feeling really anxious earlier, but I'm chilling out a bit.
33:39Rob is a really nice guy.
33:41And he's very sensitive, which I wouldn't have got from first impressions.
33:47So, he's making it much easier than I thought it was going to be.
33:51Hello.
33:52You're beautiful, aren't you?
33:54You should never judge a book white's colour.
33:56I thought she was really privileged, but she's not.
33:59She's just down-to-earth human, just like the rest of us.
34:02But I'm a little bit nervous because until we reveal to her what I actually do,
34:07we don't know.
34:08That might really freak her out and I want her to stay to my wrist as long as possible.
34:12Do you know what I mean?
34:18Oh!
34:18Ow!
34:21I bloody hurt that clunked in that wire on my leg.
34:25Sarah and Nina have made it to her friend's house.
34:28Yay!
34:30But after an intense journey, their relationship and their shot at the £100,000 prize is hanging by a thread.
34:38Are you alright?
34:40No.
34:40Help me, Jesus.
34:42Would you guys like a drink?
34:44Yes, please.
34:45What would you like?
34:45Anything.
34:47I came into this experience hoping that I'd become more patient and more tolerant.
34:51However, enough is enough and I don't know if I can stay handcuffed to Sarah.
34:57So, how have you found it so far?
35:00Very, very challenging.
35:02Very challenging.
35:03I've got ADHD and I don't shut up and it drives a nut, so I'm really trying.
35:07By your own admission, you are...
35:11Can I be honest?
35:14But that's...
35:15Can I just say?
35:16You see that?
35:17I'm trying to be tolerant of it.
35:19Why should you be tolerant of it?
35:21Because I can't get a word in.
35:22What I want to do is be able to finish one sentence today.
35:27That's what my kids don't really.
35:28Sarah does not come up for air.
35:31She's like a petulant child.
35:33Yes, I am.
35:33She goes on and on and on.
35:36But you've got to remember, I don't see many people.
35:38But do you know what?
35:38And I'm saying this to be really fucking honest.
35:40I wish I could get away from me.
35:45Growing up I was an only child really and I used to get very lonely.
35:52I ended up going to boarding school when I was 12.
35:55I was a little girl and I got sent away.
35:57So when I was little I'd think I'm going to have loads of kids and I'm never going to feel
36:00lonely.
36:01And that's what I did.
36:04But now I don't see my children every day because they've all got busy lives.
36:08They're always jetting off all around the country.
36:10So I spend a lot of time at home, alone.
36:13I'm a very solitary person.
36:16I just want it all to come back.
36:17I just want it how it used to be.
36:19You know, and just have a laugh.
36:22But there's not much laughing going on at the minute.
36:24You know, but there might be when I'm on this show.
36:28One thing I can tell you, I might come across a chatty patty,
36:32but when it's important stuff, I will listen.
36:36And I will take that in.
36:37You seem like a really, um, Zora.
36:39You seem very caring, very nice.
36:42I'm sorry, okay?
36:43Can we start again?
36:45Did you say, can we start again?
36:47Yeah.
36:47Can you leave me? I don't care.
36:49I'll super glue them on them.
36:53I will.
36:54I'm not the most tolerant of people.
37:00And to be fair, I'm a little bit like Zora.
37:06So I do get easily excited.
37:08I can talk a lot if I'm in the right company.
37:12Nothing that she does, she does with any ill intent.
37:15I don't think she can help it.
37:19I don't want to unhandcuff. I don't.
37:22Because rather than get short-tempered with you,
37:25I need to be a bit more understanding and tolerant.
37:31But it's a lot.
37:32I know.
37:34I'm sorry and I'm going to be more patient with you.
37:37I'm going to try to be more patient with you.
37:38And I'm going to try to be quiet and listen.
37:41I'm really going to try, I promise.
37:45It's so challenging.
37:47It's really, really difficult.
37:49But I don't want to quit.
37:52So I have to change myself in order to be able to tolerate her.
37:56If I want to continue with the experience, that's what I'm going to have to do.
37:59These cushions are going to stay in the middle.
38:01There's a little wall.
38:03Yeah, no worries.
38:05She might not like Donald Trump, but she's built a wall.
38:12I know I'm not easy to get on with.
38:15I don't get on with myself most of the time.
38:18But you know what?
38:19I'll give it a good try.
38:21She doesn't get rid of me that easily.
38:30In West Sussex.
38:32We're currently now 12 hours in.
38:36With the house to themselves,
38:38porn star Rob is preparing to broach his profession with self-confessed prude Charlie.
38:44People look down at my job and make assumptions about what I do as an adult content creator.
38:48I've lost a few friends from it.
38:49I did have a best friend of like 12, 13 years and we did everything together.
38:54Do you know what I mean?
38:55And then it was just like one day, just never spoke to me ever again.
38:58So that's why my walls are always up with my heart.
39:00Try not to get too close to people or too attached now because I always get let down.
39:08So I've had many jobs in the past.
39:11I worked in McDonald's.
39:12I was a personal trainer fitness coach.
39:14Structural engineer for eight years, foreman.
39:16Working so many hours, 50, 60 hours a week.
39:19And then it was just like, this isn't making me money.
39:23What can I do?
39:24So there was this website called OnlyFans.
39:28Okay.
39:29And I make gay porn for the gay industry.
39:37Good God.
39:39I basically film content with men for a subscription site of $10 a month.
39:45I'm a straight guy, but I've got a very big gay fan base.
39:50Okay.
39:50Because they love me for my size, my tattoos, all that kind of stuff.
39:54Okay.
39:55And so.
39:56Yeah.
39:57Okay.
39:58Yeah.
39:58A bit of a shock.
39:59A bit of a shock, yeah.
40:00A bit of a shock.
40:02And not a world I know anything about.
40:04Yeah.
40:05Yeah.
40:07I've heard of it, but I've never looked at it.
40:09Like, I don't know what happens.
40:11I can use my imagination.
40:13Yeah.
40:15Oh, man.
40:30What are you looking for?
40:31My fans are fucking roasting.
40:34Do you want to use this one?
40:36In East London, it's the morning after the night before.
40:40Christie and Nina is hoping that today, she and Sarah can find some understanding.
40:45To deal with Sarah, you need to have the patience of a saint.
40:49But really and truly, I'm supposed to have the patience of a saint.
40:53Do you get what I mean?
40:53So, it's like it's a test.
40:58My faith is important, but I'm not a Bible basher.
41:02I'm not going to be quoting scriptures like Dot Cotton every minute.
41:07That's just not who I am.
41:08But do I try to adhere to what I think God wants me to do and who he wants me
41:12to be?
41:12Absolutely, I do.
41:15I am probably just as annoying as you are.
41:19However, today, I'm going to try and be better for you.
41:23But you need to just listen.
41:26When somebody tells me, can you just be quiet, it's almost a trigger.
41:31I get louder.
41:32And I don't mean it.
41:34You told me to tell you to be quiet.
41:36Yeah, but it's how?
41:38Oh, it's my tone that you don't like.
41:40Okay.
41:41My children are very close.
41:44Very close.
41:45I'm just mum.
41:47You kind of get excluded.
41:49They're not the kids that come round and say, oh, we'll do this, we'll do that.
41:52They ignore me on the phone.
41:54Even on something really important, they ignore me.
41:56You know, I do feel lonely.
42:00Oh, God doesn't put everyone else first.
42:02Okay.
42:04Why do you, why is everything that you do have to be for other people?
42:07Why can't it be for you?
42:09If you can't put everyone else first because you don't like you, you don't like yourself.
42:17I said that there's something that you're going to have to work on.
42:22Sometimes I shout out, Sarah's shut the fuck up to myself.
42:26It's a sad place to be, Sarah.
42:28I know, but I've been there for 50 odd years, so.
42:34Even though I annoy the fucking shit out of her, I won't leave her.
42:41I get her.
42:43She's lovely.
42:46Just have a little time to think it over.
42:51Just have a little room to work it out.
42:56And that's what we're going to do.
42:58Yeah.
43:02Over in West Sussex...
43:04You can go first.
43:05I'll go first, yeah.
43:06There's a towel there.
43:08For self-confessed prude, Charlie, showering with porn-style Rob is the least of her worries.
43:14I am so knackered.
43:16It's been so much to kind of take in.
43:18It was quite tough when I discovered what Rob does,
43:22because that is just really foreign and alien for me.
43:27So good because I've got Velcro.
43:30And it's weird having him here in my home, like, with my family around.
43:37Oh, that's so nice.
43:40I am very old-fashioned, and I am quite prudent.
43:45But my mind is certainly being opened and tested.
43:49Mm-hm.
43:50Telling Charlie about what I do for her work, it was a bit daunting.
43:55She didn't really know a lot about it, which is a good thing, to be honest.
43:58I know she's got to tell her husband and stuff, and that's probably going to be a tricky situation.
44:04I'm not sure what words I have right now.
44:06No, no.
44:07I feel really, really anxious and totally, totally, totally out of my comfort zones.
44:13So much that I just don't know how to get myself back to a place where I feel comfortable.
44:20Charlie, with Rob in tow, decides to tell husband Simon what Rob does, away from the cameras.
44:28Oh, that's fucking disgusting.
44:31Grim.
44:32Hideous.
44:33Just not comfortable with an audience.
44:37You know?
44:38I mean, Rob, I didn't know you from Amber.
44:41Really?
44:41I'm sure you're a nice guy.
44:43You're in the poor movie business, and that's what we do.
44:46How do you think I feel?
44:47I fucking...
44:48I don't think I can cope with it.
44:49He's given me palpitations.
44:51I'm feeling fucking sick with it.
44:55Sorry, Rob.
45:00I do what I do to provide for my family.
45:02What you do is unusual for us as a family.
45:08You know, I'd like you to stay in the competition.
45:11If you need to put your family first...
45:13I have to put them first.
45:14They've always been my priority.
45:16It's fucking shit because I wanted to win this competition.
45:18Yeah.
45:19It's the most enormous headfuck.
45:21And I feel like the pressure's all on me, to be perfectly honest.
45:24I choose to do what I do.
45:25You choose to do what you do.
45:27You choose to do anything that you want to do.
45:28I can't stop you doing that.
45:29At the moment, Rob, do you mind?
45:30Can we just have a moment of just...
45:32Silence, yeah?
45:32Yeah, because I just...
45:35Need to just chill.
45:36Yeah, I just need to process...
45:56I don't know you, but you come from that sort of world that you're in.
46:01Right.
46:01You know, to be frank, it's probably what one would call probably a bit sleety.
46:05Yeah.
46:06It doesn't matter.
46:06Like, I don't care what people think about what I do.
46:08I couldn't give a fuck to you.
46:09It's what people think about what I do as a job.
46:11Do you know what I mean?
46:12And so to bring that...
46:15Into our family home.
46:17Is...
46:18Is...
46:19Is...
46:19It's a challenge, yeah.
46:20And that's part of the show, isn't it?
46:22That's the whole termesis of the show.
46:24And, you know, the side of me which is absolutely fucking furious.
46:29I'm anxious about the fallout of this for you and the family.
46:35That's a big area of anxiety for me.
46:40And, yeah, it's getting me pretty stressed out.
46:43I'm feeling really, really anxious and really sick.
46:46And I've got a dry mouth.
46:48Yeah.
46:48And this is, like, the most uncomfortable scenario I've ever been in.
46:52And I'm just feeling...
46:57..really uncomfortable.
46:58Yeah.
47:01You all right?
47:03What's up?
47:06What?
47:07There you go.
47:08It's all right, mate.
47:13It's all right.
47:13It's all right, mate.
47:15Cool.
47:16I don't think I can do this.
47:20It's all right.
47:33I don't think we know.
47:40In the past.
47:41In the past.
47:47Thank you so much.
47:47I can take a look.
47:47you
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