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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Should've knew when you failed the sex ed class,
00:04we was doomed.
00:05I'm 15 years old, and I'm 34 weeks pregnant.
00:08I'm 13, and I'm the father.
00:10I don't want to be two grades above you.
00:1210th grade dating an 8th grader, we've got a toddler.
00:15I was looking at Hunter's grades,
00:17and I see that he's failing everything.
00:19Is there anything stressing you out?
00:20Well, different subject.
00:22I think a lot of it is he doesn't get to see his dad
00:24anymore, and it kind of all fell apart
00:26after Bella got pregnant.
00:30And this is Sammy.
00:31Say hi.
00:33My mom, I did it.
00:35Now that the baby's here, the real work starts.
00:38Let's see if you guys can handle it.
00:40Hopefully, this is not going to happen anytime soon again.
00:45I'm Mia's dad, and yes, I was disappointed in Mia
00:48getting pregnant at 16.
00:50Hello.
00:51Hello.
00:52Is your dad still saying no to me coming over,
00:54or am I coming?
00:55Come over.
00:56It's awkward having Jesse around,
00:58because I don't really care for him.
01:00He's not staying here.
01:01That's all I can say.
01:03You don't want to live with Bryce?
01:06No.
01:06Got to get a job first.
01:08$10 won't do nothing.
01:09You would just make an effort.
01:11That is all my mom is asking.
01:13Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
01:16I think her mother's sticking her nose in it.
01:18You know, that's not right.
01:19That's not the life he dreamed of.
01:21His grandparents are enabling Bryce to think
01:23that he doesn't have to do anything, and he does,
01:25because he helped make this kid.
01:42Are you mad at me?
01:43I don't want to talk.
01:45If anybody should be mad, I should be mad.
01:48Dinner went very awkward,
01:50and I'm just sitting around waiting for Bryce to take me home,
01:55because Bryce is Nan and Pawpaw.
01:58They're just enabling him to think that not working is okay,
02:02and being a deadbeat is okay,
02:04when he could simply go get a job.
02:06I was just trying to get them to see my side,
02:08but instead, like, it was miserable.
02:16You got a little heated there when you were talking with her.
02:20I know.
02:20Well, I'm not going to have Bryce put it down.
02:23He didn't expect this.
02:24He was going to play baseball, go to college, okay?
02:27Live the dream, you know?
02:28Well, now he's expected to take a $10 an hour job somewhere?
02:32I don't think so.
02:33Not Bryce Palmer.
02:34Bryce Palmer's made for something big.
02:39Hello.
02:40Well, hi there.
02:41We both have to use the restroom, so.
02:43Yeah.
02:44Oh, yeah.
02:46Look what we got.
02:47Legs and shrimp.
02:49I'm Connie.
02:50I'm 39 years old, and I'm Bryce's mom.
02:52Your butt's too close to me.
02:53That's nasty.
02:55I don't know where that butt's been.
02:58Okay, stop.
03:00Do y'all want to fill me in on what's going on here?
03:03She, like, wants him to go get a job for $10 an hour or whatever.
03:06And I kind of got heated with her a little bit, you know, about it, because this is his
03:10old future.
03:11I'm not going to see him run down, you know?
03:13And she was saying, well, my mom wants him to do this, and my mom wants him to do that.
03:17And...
03:18Me and her mom, ever since this pregnancy thing has happened, we haven't even talked.
03:22When I found out Isabella was pregnant, I was kind of a little excited.
03:26I cried a little bit.
03:27Tears, you know?
03:28I was more worried about telling my grandparents.
03:30I feel like they held higher expectations than mom because they were there more often.
03:36No offense, but that's just how I felt about it.
03:39So, when it comes to Isabella, I honestly don't know quite enough about her.
03:45Preferably, I would like somebody that we knew their family and their kid.
03:49And, you know, that would be...
03:50A rich girl would have been nice, okay?
03:52That's what we were looking for.
03:53When you know the other side of the family, that is a little bit nicer, because you know
03:57what you're looking at.
03:57You know what you're dealing with.
03:58They're not surprises.
03:59They're not blind surprises.
04:00Yeah.
04:00You didn't hit it and quit it.
04:02You ain't supposed to tell him your name.
04:04Kevin.
04:07She wants him to do what she wants him to do.
04:10But bottom line is, she either likes Bryce or she don't.
04:13You know, he's Bryce Palmer, okay?
04:16Born blessed by God.
04:17And I won't see him kicked around.
04:19He needs to stand up and be a man and tell her.
04:32Me and Bryce, he's not even talking to me.
04:35So I'm already irritated at this point because I'm just getting ignored.
04:38And I, like, glance over at his phone and he's laying, like, on his side.
04:44And he doesn't think I can see his phone.
04:46And then he texts his friend talking about, well, I hope she catches me.
04:50I hope she catches you doing what?
04:52Don't just spit out.
04:53What the hell?
04:55Stop.
04:55What's wrong?
04:56Get off me.
04:57Stop.
04:58No.
04:58Get off me.
04:58What the hell?
05:00Belle, stop.
05:01Wait, Belle.
05:02Hey, hey, wait, wait.
05:03Belle.
05:04What's wrong?
05:05Belle.
05:06Hey, Belle.
05:08What's going on with her?
05:10What happened?
05:11I don't know.
05:17Hey, Belle.
05:18What's the matter, babe?
05:19He wants to sit in there and be a brat.
05:21And then he wants to tell his friends he's going to go out and cheat on me.
05:26He's going to go cheat?
05:26He said, I hope I do get caught.
05:29I don't know why his grandparents think he's an angel.
05:32I mean, he's literally a cheater.
05:35He's cheated on me multiple times.
05:37I actually seen him kissing other girls.
05:39This was last spring break.
05:42And, like, now I'm pregnant with his kids.
05:45So I would think that he would have more respect for me.
05:47But he obviously doesn't.
05:49And it just really pisses me off.
05:54Please come get me.
05:57Belle, he is not going to do that.
05:59I seen it.
06:00Like, I literally seen it on his phone.
06:02And I'm not going to sit in the room with a little cry baby because y'all enable his behavior.
06:11It's bull .
06:13She's going to regret this.
06:16A little drama biatch.
06:20I just can't believe it's you.
06:25You take my breath away.
06:31Hello.
06:32Hey.
06:33You ready to go see your dad?
06:35Yep.
06:37What's that?
06:38Something.
06:38Love you.
06:39Always.
06:40Have fun, Hunter.
06:40All right.
06:41We'll see y'all later.
06:44Today, Hunter's going to see his dad.
06:46I'm really excited for him because I know he's super excited.
06:50But I am worried that his dad, he might not show up.
06:54Because we have seen this in the past where he just stands Hunter up.
06:59And I know that that'll definitely break Hunter's heart.
07:08What's up?
07:09Better cut.
07:15Are you super excited?
07:20I'm excited for him.
07:23Hunter's dad and I split up after Hunter was about a year, a year and a half old.
07:28But despite our relationship and the way that it ended, I've always wanted him.
07:33And he's always been given the chance to be in Hunter's life.
07:37Because every 13-year-old boy needs his dad.
07:40But honestly, Hunter's dad got remarried about seven, eight years ago to his new wife.
07:46And then he just stopped showing up and being there.
07:49And that's why I'm just nervous.
07:52Last time I saw my dad was about a month ago.
07:54Uh, that didn't go well.
07:56He pretty much told me I ruined my life.
07:59But before Bella getting pregnant, we'd go out to eat, go outside, play baseball, and then go to the basketball
08:08courts.
08:09Because I do miss spending time with my dad.
08:21We're on the way there.
08:22Yeah, it's going to be like 30 minutes.
08:25Uh, about a month.
08:36All right, that's fine.
08:41I already knew.
08:43Deep down, you know what I mean?
08:44The gut feeling that it wasn't going to happen.
08:46It never does.
08:47It just really pisses me off.
08:49But I knew he was going to do it.
08:51I mean...
08:55Everybody's a lawyer, and I'm going to kill some sex myself.
08:59Okay.
09:03He's a piece of .
09:05He just is.
09:06He's a piece of .
09:10I love you.
09:11I love you.
09:12I love you.
09:15Turn back around.
09:21I do feel like my dad chooses this new family overspending one-on-one time with me.
09:29It makes me super mad.
09:32Hunter's an amazing kid.
09:34Hunter deserves a dad that's going to be there, going to support him, going to love him.
09:39Especially as he's becoming a dad himself.
09:41But unfortunately, that's not happening at all.
09:47I don't care to take you if you still want to go.
09:50That engages.
09:51I shouldn't go to bed.
09:54Because it hurt your feelings, huh?
09:56Yeah, it did.
09:57It hurt your feelings.
09:59No, it didn't.
10:00When Hunter says he wants to go to bed,
10:03that's his go-to whenever he's trying to bottle something up.
10:07And he just wants all of it to disappear.
10:11I do not feel like I'm going to be able to help Hunter
10:13unless he opens up.
10:17One of my biggest fears is that Hunter will let Bella and the baby down just like his dad did
10:24us.
10:25But I mean, they are their own selves.
10:28All we can do is try to help guide them.
10:30So, with that said, we'll see.
10:39Almost done. He's ready.
10:40Okay!
10:42Okay, you gonna help her over here?
10:44That's like really setting in that this is my whole life now, you know?
10:47Can you get a band-aid?
10:49We don't have band-aids.
10:50Call them and ask for a band-aid, please!
10:52I have to go back to work.
10:54And so you need to be able to do this.
10:56It seems to me she's trying to give you the bump.
10:58One thing after another, she wants to criticize him.
11:01Okay, I don't want to talk to you either.
11:04Sue, you're a bitch who raised a bitch.
11:07You're either with us or you're against us.
11:09It's on now, okay? We can do it like that.
11:28Damn, I can't hit it.
11:30Jesse, in a moment.
11:32Huh?
11:34I'm gonna go run and get a spatula.
11:36Keep an eye on it.
11:38I'm Ashley, I'm Jesse's mom.
11:41And I go by AK because, you know, I'm explosive.
11:44And I'm gonna be called honey to my new grandbaby.
11:49You are not getting called honey.
11:52You're getting called grandma.
11:54I'm not getting called grandma.
11:56I'm 36. I'm about to be a grandma at 36.
11:59You hear me?
12:01What?
12:02Sit up.
12:04But anyways, I love Mia.
12:07She's my type.
12:09Not like that.
12:15You know, Jesse, you could come help so you could start learning how to grill for your woman.
12:20I do know how to grill.
12:21Okay.
12:23Then come on.
12:24Come help flip some burgers.
12:25Hell no.
12:28When I found out Mia was pregnant, I was very upset.
12:31My goal was for them to not have to rush and grow up because it's hard.
12:35But when I gave the birds and bee talk, we had got a whole bag of condoms.
12:40But Jesse decided to play water balloon fight with them.
12:44And that's how it all went down.
12:46And then got more condoms.
12:50And I'm assuming they never got used.
12:54None of them.
12:56What were you doing with them?
12:57The water balloon fights.
12:59Again?
13:00Oh, Lord.
13:01What about the third set?
13:04Here we are.
13:08Do you already know who's all coming for the baby shower?
13:11A lot of people.
13:12Mia has her whole family coming.
13:14So I got to meet everybody?
13:15Like 50 plus people.
13:17But her dad's not going to be there.
13:19Which is weird because I wouldn't let 50 plus people at my house without me being there.
13:24I don't know why he's not going to be there.
13:26I guess it's because he's leaving for work early in the morning.
13:29Okay.
13:30I do not know Mia's parents very well.
13:32I've never met her mom.
13:33And I only talked to Keith a couple of times since the kids have been together.
13:37But I do blame her dad for Mia's pregnancy.
13:41Because he said that he was going to go put her on birth control.
13:44And he never did.
13:46So it just upset me because I think that she wouldn't be pregnant right now if he did what he
13:53said he was going to do and put her on birth control.
13:56You were going over there to go help her right?
13:58Yeah.
13:58Are you going to be able to stay over there?
14:00No.
14:00Her dad's still saying no.
14:02I don't know why he don't let you sleep over so you can be already there.
14:06That way y'all can first set up first thing in the morning.
14:09She's already pregnant.
14:10Ain't like she's going to get pregnant again.
14:13That's her dad.
14:14I don't know why he's like the...
14:16He said it's against his morals.
14:18Mm.
14:19I am concerned that Keith is not letting Jessie stay over before the baby shower.
14:25Because it can lead into Keith not wanting him to stay over after the baby's born.
14:29And I think it's very important for Jessie to be there.
14:33He helped make this baby and he needs to help take care of her too.
14:37For the baby shower.
14:38Just make sure that you interact with everybody.
14:40And get to know her family more.
14:42Because they're going to expect you to step up and make sure you're doing the right thing.
14:48Yeah, I know.
14:48Are you really eating the food and I ain't even done?
14:52Oop.
14:53Now you gotta go wash that because you're not touching our food with this.
14:56Can you go wash it?
14:57Sure.
14:57My goal for us grandparents, I would love for us to be on the same page.
15:03Maybe get to hang out, get to know each other.
15:05So that way I know what to expect and who I can call on and who I can't call on.
15:10But since Keith won't be there, I plan on having a conversation with Mia's mom at the baby shower.
15:15And from what I heard about her, that should be interesting.
15:18What have you heard about Mia's mom?
15:22She's just very not dependable.
15:25One minute she's here, next minute she's not.
15:28So I just hope she shows up for the girl.
15:30I love you.
15:31Yeah, I'm sure you do.
15:35I'm not going to sit in the room with the little cry baby because y'all enable his behavior.
15:45Wow, Bill.
15:46Ooh.
15:49From what I understand, she had seen a text message Bryce sent to one of his friends that led her
15:56to believe that he was cheating on her.
16:00But at this particular moment where Isabella was screaming at me and just, you know, really showing anger and aggression
16:08towards me, it was, I was shocked.
16:16That's, like, so ugly. Why would you talk to me like that?
16:19Y'all don't know what happens behind closed doors.
16:22Well, we don't assume to know what happens behind closed doors.
16:24But you also don't, you also don't reach out and talk to anybody either. As his mother, I'm here.
16:29Are you okay?
16:31Please come get me.
16:32I'm glad that my mom's on the phone to hear all this because this is actually insane.
16:36Like, what makes them think that I would talk to them about anything?
16:41It's always something with them.
16:44Honestly, they just disgust me.
16:47I mean, that's actually part of your responsibility to say, hey, let me pull you aside and let me talk
16:52to you.
16:52Hell to the no, and that is what is wrong.
16:55Y'all think that I should have to reach out and I'm the only one.
16:58And that's what's wrong with them too.
17:00You're the one with the complaint.
17:01Tell him to get a job and take care of the kid he made.
17:05It is hard for me to keep up with what Belle is actually upset about.
17:11Is it Bryce cheating? Or is it he needs a job? Or is it he's not providing?
17:17Does she mean not providing emotionally, not providing financially?
17:20And if she's upset about all of it, that should be something we talk about.
17:25I mean, she didn't attack me.
17:27But when you attack the character of somebody's son, you might as well just take your fist and hit me
17:32or spit in my face.
17:34I don't recommend doing it, but it's about the same thing, you know?
17:38He should handle his business, period.
17:41He does handle his business, okay? He's 18 years old, okay? You want to run him down?
17:48I don't think she should have involved her mom.
17:50I feel like it's really childish. Like, it should not matter what the going on between me and her.
17:56That's our business, and I stay out of it.
17:58What is it that you're lacking? What is it that you need right now?
18:01I need to leave, because I'm not going to sit with a crappy-ass little boy.
18:05What are you lacking right now that he can't give you?
18:07You need a car?
18:08Go get a job!
18:10He will get a job. Do you want him to get a job or what?
18:12Is the baby here? Do you need diapers?
18:14What do you need for the baby right now?
18:16What have any of y'all bought for her? She's here in two months.
18:19Where have you registered at? Who have you told about?
18:21Okay, and I should have to...
18:22You're actually acting like a very big brat.
18:24Okay, and you're bullying my son, and I'm telling you...
18:27Do not tell me I'm bullying your son. You don't know what your son has put me through.
18:31Just stop.
18:32You better handle your girl.
18:33Y'all can forget it. It's gone. You will never see this baby.
18:39I personally think that Bryce's whole family is just showing their true colors.
18:45I think that they just put on, like, a front for so long.
18:51And now I've messed with their perfect little boy, Bryce.
18:54So now they've got to go in attack mode.
18:57I you. I tried to be nice to you. You're stupid.
19:00But what did I do?
19:01Leave me alone!
19:02Can I just talk to you?
19:04Go with your...
19:05I just want to know why.
19:06Why?
19:06And that enables your fucking bullshit.
19:08Why do you do?
19:09Move!
19:10Get away from her before I call contemplation gun!
19:13You threw me to the dirt the whole time!
19:15That's what the...
19:16What do you do for me?
19:18What do you do for me? Nothing!
19:20I don't give a fuck.
19:21Fuck that shit.
19:23I'm...
19:24Hey, can you have this mic?
19:26I'm not playing.
19:27Her mom's talking about coming, and I'm not even...
19:28I don't give a fuck.
19:29That's a lot of cops.
19:30I don't care.
19:31Her mom's coming up here.
19:33I don't give a fuck who's coming up here.
19:34That's right.
19:35Finally, Bryce has had enough.
19:37Oh, man.
19:38We'll know what's gonna happen now.
19:43And some pop-up or something like that.
19:45Your dad?
19:46Hunter will tell everyone he's okay, even if he's not.
19:49Are you upset?
19:49I'm going to sleep.
19:51I just worry.
19:52Yeah.
19:52You know, as a mom.
19:54Sooner or later, Hunter's gonna have to stop expecting things to change.
19:58That's a hard pill to swallow at 13.
20:06I don't like this.
20:09Know nothing about it.
20:16He wasn't able to make it.
20:19Your dad?
20:20He's not coming?
20:22No.
20:23He had something pop up or something like that.
20:27Wow.
20:30Hunter hasn't seen his dad since they told him that Bella was pregnant and they're supposed
20:35to go hang out at the batten cages today.
20:37But unfortunately, that didn't happen because he chose his new family over Hunter.
20:43Hunter called him on speakerphone, you know, just to let him know, you know, we're on our
20:48way.
20:48And he literally said, I had something come up.
20:56We're having a cookout over at my house.
21:00No way he said that.
21:03Yeah.
21:09It sucks that he picked a barbecue besides hanging out with me.
21:16But it is what it is.
21:31What?
21:32Are you upset?
21:34No.
21:35You're sure?
21:35I'm going to sleep.
21:37I'm fine.
21:39Okay.
21:52Hunter's go-to when he's upset is definitely to just be by himself.
21:55He'll tell everyone that he's okay, even if he's not.
21:58And, like, I do think it's important for Hunter and his dad to have a good relationship.
22:03But, I mean, you can't rely on someone who's never there.
22:06So, I really hope Hunter can shift his focus away from what's going on with his dad.
22:13And, to me, because we still have a baby to prepare for.
22:17And, hopefully, Hunter graduates eighth grade.
22:21Oh, Hunter's going to graduate eighth grade.
22:23This year.
22:24Not in five years.
22:25No, this year.
22:26This year.
22:26I'm going to get dressed and we're going to take Hunter to town, so.
22:31He don't want to go do anything.
22:32I just asked.
22:33He's done.
22:35For the day.
22:37Like, he's, when something like that happens, he shuts down like me.
22:42You're depressed.
22:44You're done.
22:47Sooner or later, Hunter's going to have to stop expecting things to change.
22:50Except things for what they are, I mean.
22:53That's a hard pill to swallow at 13.
22:55Oh, I understand.
22:56Yep.
22:58I do think it's important for Hunter to have his dad in his lap.
23:02He's a 13-year-old boy, about to have a child of his own.
23:05But his dad needs to be consistent.
23:07I think his dad only has two choices.
23:09It's to either accept the pregnancy and move forward, no matter how hard it is,
23:14or go against it and probably do things that she'll regret later down the road.
23:20When does the disappointment stop?
23:22When are you going to quit disappointing your son?
23:24It is his game, his manipulative game.
23:27Mm-hmm.
23:28That he has played on that child from the beginning.
23:30He's played on me from the beginning.
23:32He's a creep.
23:35I feel bad because he was so excited.
23:38I don't want it hurt.
23:43Anymore, like, I'm sick of it.
23:45I'm sick of him being hurt.
23:47I am.
23:49Maybe this will show him that he can't rely on his dad.
23:52I do worry about Hunter trying to make the same choices and decisions as his dad as far as not
24:00being there consistently, not helping Bella.
24:02I know that I've shown him different, but I do worry about that.
24:06I don't, though.
24:08I feel like he's going to be the opposite because he sees it with his dad and how he is.
24:14Like he knows.
24:15Like he knows.
24:16Because he's been there.
24:16Yeah.
24:17And he knows what you've been through, so I think he'll be better.
24:20I just worry.
24:21Yeah.
24:22You know, as a mom.
24:31Yeah.
24:35Well, do you want to give him dress so that he's ready to go?
24:39My god.
24:40I don't think I'm sure...
24:40The doctor is ready to go home.
24:42I can send him somebody to him.
24:43Really?
24:44We've been here for three days.
24:48I wasn't ready to be discharged.
24:50Honestly, taking Sammy home is really scary because, like,
24:55I'm really worried, like, if I drop him or something.
24:58Or, like, I don't know, just for him to be in the outside world
25:02and not in, like, the safeness of a hospital
25:05with nurses and stuff.
25:07Yeah, stuff's about to get real.
25:13Let's go. He's ready.
25:15You want some clothes on?
25:16OK.
25:21I don't know what Jose's doing, but I don't tell you.
25:26I look over, and Jose's just over there, food in his mouth.
25:30Like, come on, bro.
25:31Help us out over here.
25:33Like, why am I doing it, and it's not you?
25:36You need to be able to do this.
25:42You're not going to help her over here?
25:44Jose, you going to help her over here?
25:47Are you just looking at the wall?
25:48No, no, I was trying to see what else I have to take.
25:53What the hell?
25:54Where is he bleeding from?
25:55His...
25:57Um, can you get a Band-Aid?
25:59Here.
26:00We don't have Band-Aids.
26:01It's not his toe.
26:03It's, like, he's...
26:04OK, can you call him and ask for a Band-Aid, please?
26:07We're both super anxious this morning because, like, taking care of the baby is in full effect.
26:13It's, like, really setting in that this is my whole life now, you know?
26:17I, like, I prepared myself as much as I could, but I feel like it's a lot of responsibility
26:21to take care of, like, a new human.
26:33I know he's cold.
26:35I'm trying to...
26:37Why not just press the button and tell him to come here?
26:41You can panic.
26:42I know.
26:43I definitely feel like I know a lot more about what I'm doing and how to do stuff than
26:48Jose does, but it's still nerve-wracking.
26:51It's all a learning process.
26:55You gotta learn how to hold the baby properly, how to feed him at a certain angle so he's
27:00not getting air, how to swaddle him to make him comfortable.
27:05Swaddling is hard, though.
27:06Nobody talks about how hard it is.
27:08Like, when I do it, it comes out loose.
27:11It's not tucked in.
27:13He's moving out of it in, like, five seconds.
27:15He's doing karate in there.
27:16It's terrible.
27:18You know how to buckle him in?
27:19You know how to adjust these to get him in?
27:22Yeah.
27:22I do.
27:24No, that's not how it is.
27:25No?
27:26Lift it forward?
27:27No.
27:28Okay.
27:28Look right there.
27:29Yeah.
27:29See these?
27:30Yeah.
27:30I was just trying to do my best, my first time, of course, which was hard.
27:37I feel like Jose's expectations of being a father was, oh, it's all fun.
27:44I'm going to get to play with him, take pictures.
27:46Like, no, this is the hard time.
27:48This is the sweat, blood, and tears.
27:51Oh.
27:51Here, take this.
27:52Take this.
27:53It's not the drill.
27:54Oh.
27:57It needs to be tight.
27:59Trust me.
27:59You have enough room.
28:00I know that Sammy's in there, baby.
28:03But if you're doing something wrong, I'm going to tell you about it.
28:05I'm going to tell you what you're doing wrong and how we're going to correct it.
28:09Check where he's been came there with you.
28:11Jose, you don't need this.
28:13You need to see him.
28:15What if he throws up and he's gagging on himself?
28:17You have him covered up.
28:18I got superhuman.
28:19It is not cold outside.
28:21And if he keeps throwing the blanket over him and not paying attention to certain things,
28:27like, we're going to have a problem.
28:28Because she's like a, she's a, you know.
28:33You mean she's a good mom?
28:35No.
28:35She's been a mom for a while.
28:36Like, what's the word?
28:39I don't know, but she's not new to this.
28:41She's true to this.
28:42That's right.
28:43Mama G, OG.
28:45Let me see.
28:46OK.
28:47No, I'll carry her.
28:49Well, she's not carrying hands.
28:51I don't think they realize what they got themselves into here.
28:54And I think they have their hands full, but I got a full-time job.
29:01I can't be here all the time.
29:02I have to go back to work.
29:04So they're going to have to step it up.
29:07All right.
29:08Let's go.
29:12Hey, babe.
29:13How are you?
29:15It's awkward having Jesse around.
29:17I don't really like him.
29:18Can Jesse stay the night?
29:20No.
29:21He's making it hard.
29:22Like, he is making it harder than it has to be.
29:36Jesse just got here.
29:37I'm going to go good.
29:38All right.
29:39Jesse's coming over to look at the stuff I bought for the baby shower that we're having
29:42later this week.
29:43But my dad doesn't like it when he comes over, so I don't know how it's going to go.
29:47You can come on, babe.
29:48Jesse wants to build a relationship with my dad, but my dad's stubborn.
29:52He still won't let him stay the night.
29:53And I want Jesse to stay over after the baby's born, and that wouldn't probably really happen
29:58if my dad doesn't get to know him more.
30:06Hey, babe.
30:08How are you?
30:10Okay.
30:11Look.
30:11I met him two or three times, and I kind of didn't like him.
30:14But whatever.
30:16Then this happened.
30:18Well, I definitely don't like the kid now.
30:20I mean, duh.
30:21So, no.
30:23I don't want him in my house.
30:25Baby daddy or not.
30:29How's the door, bud?
30:33I love Mia with all my heart.
30:36And I would bury her today if I was able to, but, like, when we first started dating,
30:41I sent her dad a paragraph about, like, what I liked about his daughter and stuff.
30:46And he sent back a thumbs up emoji.
30:50And I just never texted him again, because I felt played.
30:56I was showing dad everything I got for the baby shower.
31:02That looks like a lot.
31:04No.
31:05A lot of stuff, huh?
31:07You went overboard.
31:09No, I didn't.
31:12What?
31:13These are essentials.
31:16Yeah.
31:17Essentials.
31:19It's awkward having Jesse around.
31:21I've had to be forced to get to know him, because he got my daughter pregnant.
31:25You know, I mean, if it would have happened other ways, it would have been more of a natural, you
31:31know, way of getting to know somebody.
31:33It was kind of like, this is this guy, and you've got to like him.
31:36And I'm going to be like, I don't really like him.
31:38You know?
31:39So it's kind of like that.
31:43That was not needed.
31:47I'm sorry.
31:50All right, well, y'all deal with all this stuff, and please don't let this stuff stay right here whenever
31:56I get out the shower.
31:58I was hoping my dad would stay and like hang out with me and Jesse for a little while to
32:02get to know him, but maybe once my dad sees how Jesse is with the baby and sees how he
32:06is as a father, he'll soften up.
32:08I doubt it.
32:10But I'm hoping that I'm wrong, because I really hope to stay here and help and be a part of
32:16my daughter's life full time, and also be with her all the time, and not just come and go.
32:23Good save there, honey.
32:24The baby shower's Friday, huh?
32:26Yeah.
32:26Will you just talk to your dad when you're staying on Thursday?
32:29I will, but I don't know if he's going to let you know.
32:33What do you need to ask?
32:35Ugh.
32:36So the plan for my baby shower is we are having it at my house Friday.
32:45Jesse wants to stay over and help set up early in the morning, but I'm just nervous to bring it
32:49up to my dad because I don't think he's going to be very happy about the idea.
32:54Dad!
32:56Come here.
32:59Stop messing with your fingernails.
33:01Stop talking to me.
33:02Did you say stop talking to me?
33:05Yeah.
33:07I want to sit down and talk to him about, like, why can't Jesse move in or, like, things like
33:12that.
33:13And, like, when I try to, it's like he's the parent, so he tries to overrule everything I say.
33:21Thursday night before the baby shower, can Jesse stay the night?
33:25Why?
33:25He'll be here in the morning to set up for the baby shower.
33:28So why can't he come over with anybody else?
33:32I'm sure he could.
33:34We were just saying.
33:36No.
33:37Okay.
33:39That's all I needed to know.
33:42If he can't stay one night now, then how is it going to go over when he wants to stay
33:47after the baby's born?
33:48Come on now.
33:49To help me, like, at night and stuff, Dad?
33:52Come on now.
33:52He's not staying here.
33:55It's all about principle, Mia.
33:57You know, what's wrong and what's right.
34:00I was raised Catholic.
34:02These are part of my morals.
34:04I mean, it's just not...
34:06Look, I moved back in with my mom and dad when I was a grown-ass man, okay?
34:13I couldn't have women at my house, not with my mom and dad there.
34:16I was a grown-ass man.
34:18Grown.
34:19So, no.
34:23I'm sorry. I'm not trying to hurt nobody's feelings.
34:26I love you.
34:27Love you, too.
34:27Is that it?
34:28Yeah.
34:29That's all I needed.
34:33He's making it hard.
34:35Like, he is making it harder than it has to be.
34:37I get why he was strict, like, in the beginning of a relationship, because, like, all parents usually are.
34:41Now that we're having his granddaughter, I feel like he shouldn't allow me over there a lot more and spending
34:49the night.
34:50Eventually, it's gonna happen.
34:52Okay.
34:54That sucks.
34:58My question is, what is this thing about her being worried about you cheating?
35:01She came out here and blew up because she's mad because she saw a text message on your phone about
35:06you cheating, saying, I hope she catches me.
35:09I don't have no...
35:10It seems to me she's trying to give you the bump, okay? We all wanna be honest here.
35:14Yeah.
35:14She's trying to give you the bump.
35:16I think Belle just wants to be out of the relationship with Bryce, but she just won't say it.
35:21Because first she says, Bryce needs to get a job, then Bryce is cheating.
35:27Nan enables his behavior.
35:29One thing after another, she wants to criticize him instead of just saying, hey, I don't wanna be in this
35:34relationship anymore.
35:35I agree with that. I don't think she wants to be in the relationship or her mother doesn't want her
35:41to be in the relationship.
35:42And so, if you want out, just get out.
35:50So, where is she at right now?
35:51Over there, probably on the phone with her mom.
35:53Mom, are you leaving? If not, I'm fixing to have Ileana pick me up.
35:58Like, I'm literally stranded. I do not wanna be around them, because they're just saying, like, some offensive stuff that's
36:03just, like, hurting my feelings, like, degrading me as a person, and they don't really even know me.
36:08But if they're gonna attack me, they're not gonna like what happens next.
36:13I just don't wanna frickin' be here.
36:24Can Ilea go right now and get you?
36:26She said, let me know if you need me to come.
36:30Yeah, let her come get you.
36:31Okay.
36:32I think it makes more sense, and it's safer for her sister to go get her than me.
36:37Because when it comes to my kids, I have no sense.
36:41Like, I don't think first. Just take action.
36:45She has to either love you, Bryce, or not.
36:47If she don't, then you'll take care of the baby, and you'll find somebody that does.
36:54Actually, can one of y'all go get the necklace from her?
36:57When he said, go get the necklace, I knew in his heart that that was the end of it.
37:05Because when Bryce was born, and I would hold him, he would always clutch the necklace that I had on.
37:13And that brought me to the thought of that whenever he gets married, I'm going to give this necklace to
37:21his wife.
37:22And so after Bryce and Isabella told us that they were pregnant, I took the necklace off and put it
37:30on her.
37:31And she's been wearing the necklace ever since.
37:34Don't get it now. It'll be alright.
37:36No, no, get it. Because I ain't talking to her after today.
37:38I'm being dead ass. Get the necklace, and I don't want you to go over there and raise hell about
37:41it.
37:43In light of everything that has taken place, I don't know if there is a way forward for the two
37:51of them.
37:52Can you please just go? I don't feel like talking to anybody right now.
37:55Okay, I don't want to talk to you either. Bryce told me he wanted me to come over here and
37:59ask you for that necklace back.
38:01Oh, that's fine. I don't give a about that necklace. She's lucky I didn't pawn that bitch.
38:07Well, I thought it was stupid that they gave her the necklace to begin with. I think it was for
38:12all the wrong reasons that the necklace was given to her.
38:16I think it was for, oh, look, we're going to give you this necklace and, you know, now you're one
38:22of us and we can do whatever we want to you and say whatever we want to you.
38:28Sue, you're a bitch. Bitch who raised a bitch.
38:32Sue should have told her bitch ass grandson to walk over here and come get it.
38:39Like, that's his problem. Y'all do everything for him.
38:41I'm surprised he wipes his own ass.
38:45All right. Thank you.
38:49It's okay, Belle. We got this him.
38:52Did you get it?
38:53Yeah.
38:54What'd she say?
38:56She said, yeah, okay. And she handed it to me and her mother was on the phone and she said,
38:59Sue, you're a bitch.
39:01Who raised a bitch?
39:03Yeah, whatever.
39:03So, yeah, okay.
39:07All right. It's on now, okay? We can do it like that. Yeah.
39:11I mean, I was taken aback that she would say that to me. You know, I mean, she doesn't even
39:20know me.
39:21She's got a big mouth.
39:24Her mom raised a real bitch, like an actual bitch.
39:28Okay.
39:30All she does is complain.
39:32Hmm. Well...
39:33I dealt with it for 11 months.
39:36It was good the first two months and then she started complaining about every thing.
39:40That's right.
39:42For the sake of their child, I think Bryce and Isabella need to work on getting along and communicating to
39:50where they can argue constructively.
39:54Ridiculous. You know, that's not gonna happen.
40:00Hello?
40:00You need to hit the gas pedal.
40:03I think we should go in, and she can come over here and pick up her daughter and take her
40:09home. And that can be that because I'm sorry.
40:11Bryce can take her home, right?
40:12Are you?
40:13No.
40:14She's letting me take her home?
40:15Absolutely not.
40:15She won't even talk to me.
40:17No, and she just like cussed my mother.
40:19She just cussed my son.
40:21All right.
40:22Yeah, no.
40:23Take it down a notch.
40:24She's not going to take her home.
40:25OK, go in for a minute.
40:26OK?
40:38This is all her mother's doing.
40:40Bryce has been taking it and taking it.
40:42And tonight, he finally said, I'm not
40:44going to be used anymore.
40:45You know?
40:46This isn't over.
40:47No.
40:48Honestly, I think it's a very good thing
40:50that my mom didn't come pick me up.
40:51You're right.
40:52I have a hot temper.
40:54Like, I'm bad about just flying off the handle.
40:57And when I'm angry, I do not have impulse control.
41:01But this isn't the last time that they'll hear from me.
41:04Like, I need them to see where I'm coming from
41:07as Isabella's mother.
41:09I don't have a choice.
41:10It's my daughter.
41:11She's having a baby.
41:15When it comes to me and my family,
41:17you're either with us or you're against us.
41:20And if you're against us, just get out of our way.
41:23Get me the out of here.
41:27Next time on Unexpected.
41:30I'm going to go meet with Connie and Stu.
41:32Because of the way they treated you at the dinner
41:34the other night.
41:35I've had enough.
41:37What's wrong?
41:38I just feel a little nervous, you know?
41:40I'm hopeful for a resolution.
41:42But never underestimate a mama bear.
41:50My son's going to be a daddy.
41:52My baby shower started at 2, and my mom still isn't here.
41:55Are you afraid that your mom's not here?
41:57Are you supposed to be coming?
41:58That is your child's baby shower.
42:00Sorry, but that makes me upset.
42:05Financially, they're going to have to step up 25% to contribute
42:09into the household income.
42:11Every month?
42:12Yes.
42:12This is more than what I was expecting.
42:16There we go.
42:17It's really frustrating.
42:18I have to take maternity pictures alone.
42:20Where's Hunter, by the way?
42:21His mom called and said he was asleep.
42:23Ever since Hunter's dad bailed on him,
42:25he's been really distant.
42:27You're either going to have to change,
42:28or you're going to have to leave.
42:29He's 13.
42:31You have to cut him some slack.
42:32You just always take his side, and it's not fair.
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