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Love Is Blind S10E10 Vanishing Mode 1 H 264 - Video
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00:08I just can't wait to start the rest of my life with her.
00:11I love her.
00:12I didn't think like someone like her even existed.
00:14You stuck with me.
00:15When you can close your eyes and like envision who's gonna experience life with you, I envisioned you.
00:20Nice to you, really nice.
00:23Love you.
00:23I love you.
00:24Looks good on ya.
00:25It just feels right.
00:28I love you.
00:28Baby, I love you too.
00:30You happy?
00:34Ash is a different type of person than I would have gone after.
00:36I do like darker futures.
00:38I like certain things in my woman.
00:40We haven't been intimate.
00:41Are you not attracted to me?
00:43In the pods, it really came down to like you and Connor.
00:45I appreciate you for like just vigor and energy you have for life.
00:49Like it's so attractive.
00:50Over the past two days, I was thinking about like what it would be like if I was with the
00:55number two person I had.
00:56Do you think we have a good physical connection?
00:58I do.
00:59Do you not?
01:00I just don't know if it's like there for me.
01:03Did she say she wants to be Donna?
01:04Yeah.
01:05She's like, I can't be around you anymore.
01:08Emma immediately looked at my ring and she goes, what is that?
01:11Have you got to meet her yet, Emma?
01:13No.
01:13I'm a little nervous.
01:15Like when she doesn't like me.
01:16Never have I ever had to hate you.
01:17I can give you a first one.
01:19I don't want to hate you.
01:19I don't like that you don't ever really tell me that I'm pretty because I don't know if they're attracted
01:23to me.
01:23You're forcing me, well now I don't feel like it's genuine if I say anything.
01:27Do you think you were afraid of having kids because of your birthmarks?
01:32Oh yeah, 100%.
01:33If we get married and then we have a kid and you resent that, you resent your child, you resent
01:38me for what happened, I could never live with that.
01:42So what makes you think you can settle down?
01:45You're tired of moving?
01:46Absolutely.
01:47Different chicks?
01:48I won't lie, absolutely.
01:50Do you still have a relationship with any of your ex?
01:52Yes.
01:53The travel nurse?
01:54Yes.
01:54Saw her in Austin for a week.
01:57What was that dynamic when you visited her then?
01:59I mean we hooked up.
02:00If you had that type of relationship with someone like that is kind of concerning.
02:05The keg outside.
02:06Yeah.
02:06This is a frat house.
02:07This is literally a normal blue collar dude, like I work for a dumpster rental company.
02:12You need someone who's going to be more dominant in your life and to help you like guide you and
02:15like show you places you've never been before.
02:17I saw you and I was like that is the girl I would literally propose to.
02:36We saw you and her together, it was like we thought 100%, it was like you guys were totally in
02:42it because I feel like the emotional connection was like there.
02:47Why didn't you say this stuff in Cabo?
02:50Because like at the end of it we were so sure of like our decisions, like no hard feelings, like
02:54we were like cool.
02:56I'll be honest with you.
02:57Yeah.
02:58The night where Jess was like, oh you're my number one Chris, I told Connor.
03:05Because you knew we were dating.
03:08Yeah.
03:08And he's like alright I'm gonna go with three then.
03:12I'm gonna make her my number one then.
03:16I'm just saying.
03:20I think that's what fucked it up.
03:21I should have told him that.
03:24Because like he would have went with Emma?
03:26Yeah.
03:27100%.
03:27I'm being honest.
03:29Would you have like broken it off then?
03:30I would have broken it off 100%.
03:32What worried me honestly was like you were just friends with like a lot of dudes but like you were
03:37friends with like a lot of loser dudes.
03:40Dudes who were like happy with life, going through the vibes and like somebody who's like hey I have a
03:47clear path to where I want to be in like five years, ten years, twenty years.
03:50Like we need to like have these like types of assets.
03:53Guys who are like literally directional driven.
03:56I just gotta say it now.
03:58I'm back in the real world and I'm like fuck she lives a half a mile from me.
04:01She's hot as fuck.
04:02And we vibed so well.
04:04Can I ask you a crazy question?
04:05Can you be honest with your wedding ring on?
04:07Yeah.
04:08I'm like what?
04:12Are you like attracted to me?
04:14I would take you.
04:16The four pieces.
04:17Like stay in there.
04:18That's maybe luxurious to normal people.
04:21Yeah.
04:22Room service in the rows for Mr. Fusco.
04:24Baby stop.
04:27Stop.
04:29We would have a good time.
04:31Yeah.
04:31It's just guaranteed.
04:33I felt like we would have been like fuck buddies.
04:37I saw your Instagram and I was like yes.
04:41Yeah.
04:42I'm just saying.
04:43I sent you that message but you're like you never responded back so I was like.
04:47Well I'm in a relationship.
04:49I know.
04:51Connor would have dropped me.
04:52I would have been out.
04:53Honestly I would not go through this with anybody but him.
04:56is it's all the best I can do?
04:59I don't know what your desires is.
05:00Okay, so, I don't see a Christian.
05:00Mr. Brightside, you like that?
05:01Yeah.
05:04Ooh.
05:07Apparently you like I'm Andrew Tate, apparently.
05:09You're a doo
05:10The crazy Andrew Tate guy.
05:12Oh, I don't know that person.
05:13Okay, all right, whatever.
05:27Kev, this is Emma.
05:29Hi, I'm Emma. Nice to meet you.
05:30Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.
05:31Nice to meet you.
05:32Hi.
05:33Hey, how are you doing?
05:35Good, it's good to see you.
05:36It's good to see you.
05:38I'm Kia.
05:38Yeah, in the flesh.
05:41Lavin in the flesh, yes, yes, yes.
05:42Kevin in the flesh.
05:44Yeah, you look amazing.
05:47Do you mind if I move to a seat?
05:49Yeah.
05:49You lead the way, I'm there.
05:51What's your story?
05:52What happened with you?
05:55So I had a...
05:59I had a connection with two women.
06:01In his defense, though, they were badass women.
06:04They were.
06:05But Kia, you're one of the most amazing people
06:08she was, like, one of the first women in my life
06:10to ever have me, like, open up my heart.
06:14Just, like, learning, like, okay,
06:16this is what you need to do as a man.
06:19What do you do?
06:20You step up.
06:21You step up for that woman.
06:22You're right.
06:23You're right.
06:24Have you guys been talking?
06:25Nah, so we haven't been talking.
06:27How do you feel about Kia choosing herself?
06:30As she should.
06:31And I apologize.
06:33I appreciate that.
06:34I'll never forget you.
06:36Oh, I mean, duh.
06:38Are you kidding me?
06:42Oh, that was right, babe.
06:44I recognize this game.
06:46Oh, it was so close.
06:47You talked to Felicia for a while.
06:48You're doing good.
06:49But you're okay.
06:50You know where your head's at.
06:54Oh, my God.
06:55You ended up with my wife?
06:56This is my wife, actually.
06:57You were friends with my wife.
06:59Wait, so how do you guys know each other?
07:00Well, Chicago is where we first met.
07:03Yeah, yeah.
07:04And then I ran into you in Austin.
07:05Yeah, that was good as well.
07:06But I thought you said you, like, moved there.
07:08Uh, for a little bit, yeah.
07:09I was back and forth between Cleveland and Austin.
07:10I thought you were looking for a place in Austin.
07:12I was looking for a place in Austin.
07:13I was back and forth between it.
07:14It was, like, one of those
07:15because I was trying to figure out
07:16where my lease was going to be.
07:17And I did want a place down there, realistically.
07:18Yeah, yeah, yeah.
07:19So, yeah.
07:19In Austin?
07:20I was one of them, yeah.
07:22We've talked about this.
07:23You were in there to see your ex.
07:25At that time, yeah.
07:26You were staying at your ex's place, travel nurse.
07:29Yes.
07:30Yeah, yeah, yeah.
07:30She was either on an assignment or something
07:33and that we were staying at the place.
07:35Yeah.
07:35Anyways.
07:36You look off.
07:38Just the story was a little different
07:39when you told it.
07:41Which part?
07:42You made it seem like you went to the F1 race
07:44to see her.
07:45You guys hooked up.
07:46Oh, so she wasn't on an assignment.
07:48She was on an assignment in Austin.
07:50I stayed at her place.
07:51Oh, so she was there when you were...
07:52Correct.
07:53...there.
07:53Oh.
07:54Which I said.
07:54Which I said.
07:55No, you didn't say that.
07:57I...
07:57I said that I was staying at her place.
07:59We hooked up.
08:00Well, she was on an assignment.
08:01When you say she was on an assignment,
08:02I'm assuming she is, like, out of Austin.
08:04She was not there.
08:05Travel nurse that was living there,
08:07working there for a few months at a time.
08:09I stayed at her place
08:10and then went to the F1 with her.
08:12It made sense for me at that point
08:13because I wasn't in a relationship
08:14or had met either...
08:16I've met you before but hadn't met you.
08:19So then you went back?
08:21Yeah.
08:21I feel like I'm being, like...
08:22No, wait.
08:23No, no, no.
08:23Just double teamed right now.
08:24What's going on?
08:25No, no, no.
08:25You told me you were in Cleveland
08:26for a year and a half.
08:27I was.
08:28My license is Cleveland.
08:29I lived in Cleveland for a year and a half,
08:31realistically.
08:32When you tell someone
08:33that you just moved to Austin...
08:36Did I say I just moved to Austin?
08:38You definitely told me
08:38that you had moved there
08:40and then I thought, actually,
08:41the girlfriend was, like...
08:42Or the ex-girlfriend was
08:43on a random assignment.
08:45That's why you were staying at her place.
08:46But I didn't realize
08:47that you guys were simultaneously
08:48living in the same home.
08:49At the one week that I met you,
08:51yes, we were.
08:52Is this a problem?
08:53I've just, like,
08:54asked you the timeline so many times
08:56and you make me feel like an idiot
08:57when I ask about it.
08:58And now the story is changing.
09:00Do you know where you were
09:01three years ago on a Tuesday
09:02in May?
09:04No, but the way you tell your stories,
09:06it seems like you do.
09:07I don't.
09:08Like, I can pull up my Airbnbs
09:10if you would like
09:10and we can go through it together.
09:12I don't care.
09:12But, like, you're asking...
09:13Well, you do care
09:14because you ask my timeline
09:15every time I speak.
09:16And when you say
09:16that you've lived in Cleveland
09:18for a year and a half...
09:19Do you want my license?
09:20I'm expecting, like...
09:21No, I don't give a fuck
09:21about your license.
09:22Okay.
09:23When you say that you've lived in Ohio
09:24for a year and a half,
09:25I'm expecting you to live in Ohio
09:26for a year and a half...
09:27That's my home base.
09:28And now she's saying
09:28that you lived in Austin.
09:30Like, now you've lived there.
09:30Now you're like,
09:31I lived in Florida.
09:31Have I not said
09:32I've lived in Florida,
09:33in Austin,
09:34in Phoenix,
09:34in San Diego?
09:34You never told me you lived
09:35in Austin.
09:36You said you went
09:36to visit your ex.
09:38On that occasion,
09:38I also lived in Austin
09:40previously before all of that
09:41without my ex.
09:42When I ask you questions,
09:43you seem to get annoyed with me.
09:45But when something changes,
09:46I don't know why.
09:46Right now, I feel attacked
09:47at the moment.
09:47Like, I feel it's a two-on-one.
09:48I'm not attacking you.
09:49So where did you fly in here?
09:51I didn't know anything
09:51was not being said.
09:52You told me you flew in
09:53from Cleveland.
09:54You asked where I lived.
09:54I lived in Cleveland.
09:55Yeah, why did you fly in Austin?
09:57Because I'm flying back and forth
09:58trying to figure out
09:58if I want to live and work there.
10:00This has never come up
10:01in our conversation, though.
10:02Because I've already come up
10:04with the answer,
10:04I don't want to live
10:05in Austin, Texas.
10:06And is that because
10:07your ex lived there?
10:08No.
10:09I mean, did you have
10:11anything before as well?
10:12Yes, I told you.
10:12Have you never hooked up
10:13with anyone in between that?
10:15No.
10:15Okay.
10:16I mean, I question that,
10:18but this wasn't
10:19an exclusive relationship
10:20to where I don't view it
10:21as something that
10:22you need to know about,
10:22but if you want,
10:23every time I jerk off,
10:24I'll let you know.
10:26That was stupid.
10:28That was a nice.
10:29Not, but I'm just like,
10:30your story changes so much.
10:32I have been very open
10:33with the fact
10:34that I don't have a home base
10:35and I haven't had
10:35a home base for four years.
10:36I'm pretty sure you told me
10:37you flew in from Cleveland.
10:39I did tell you
10:39I flew in from Cleveland.
10:40It was easier for me
10:42to explain it that way
10:43without having to go
10:43through this entire process
10:44of, yes, I flew back and forth
10:46between Austin and Cleveland.
10:48I flew in from Austin.
10:48Why didn't you tell me that?
10:49Because you didn't have
10:50a billion questions
10:51that I wouldn't feel
10:52like answering
10:53because they're not
10:54relevant to this
10:55entire process.
10:56Hmm.
10:57The penis marriage.
10:59Now I feel like a two-on-one.
11:00No, no, no.
11:01No, no, no.
11:01That's okay.
11:02It's a two-on-one now.
11:02You just said that,
11:03so I'm just saying,
11:04like, you called me.
11:04So it's a two-on-one.
11:05It's not a two-on-one.
11:06You just said something
11:07and I'm trying to be
11:08your friend also
11:08and tell you, like,
11:09My friend.
11:09Okay.
11:10It's not a process.
11:11Like, it's a marriage.
11:12So everything should be
11:13on the table.
11:13Between us two, right?
11:14Correct.
11:15So why are you here?
11:16Okay.
11:17Okay, you don't need
11:18to get snappy with me.
11:20I don't take shit
11:21like that.
11:22I think you guys
11:23continue this conversation.
11:25I think...
11:26Yeah, thank you.
11:27I was in Austin, Texas
11:27for a race
11:29for the weekend.
11:30Do you understand
11:30how Demo look right now?
11:31Like...
11:31No.
11:34The story didn't line up,
11:35like, to the hour.
11:36It's not to the hour.
11:38To the day?
11:40No, to the fucking year.
11:41Like, you say a lot
11:42of words sometimes
11:43and, like, sometimes
11:44it just has nothing to it.
11:47Okay.
11:48I mean, do you want me
11:48to explain it again?
11:50Like...
11:50No, I get it.
11:51You were with your ex
11:52on F1
11:53and then you went
11:54back and forth
11:54but no, you did not see her
11:55and that makes total sense to me
11:57and she's back in Florida
11:58and now she has a boyfriend
11:58and you guys talk about
11:59how great it is
12:00that she has a boyfriend.
12:01That's totally normal.
12:02And I've given the timeline
12:03like ten times.
12:05Just be honest with me.
12:06Like, I'm very understanding
12:07as a person.
12:08If you were to come to me
12:09and be like,
12:09I fucked up
12:10or like, hey,
12:12I told you this
12:12but I actually meant this
12:13or I need to tell you this
12:14I'd be, like,
12:15much more calm right now.
12:17Just come to me.
12:18Okay.
12:19Where does that leave us?
12:21I think that's in your hands.
12:29Yeah.
12:32What's up, Matt?
12:33How are you?
12:33You okay?
12:33Yeah, I am good.
12:34Good, buddy.
12:35How are you?
12:36Not bad.
12:37Good to see you.
12:40Good to see you.
12:41I actually went to all of the
12:43spinelists, please.
12:44How are you?
12:44I'm good.
12:45How are you?
12:46Good to see you.
12:47Good to see you, too.
12:48You look good.
12:49So nice.
12:50I feel like we should,
12:52um,
12:53I'm so sorry.
12:54This is, like,
12:56can we, like,
12:57kind of talking privately?
12:59Okay.
13:00Can we just, like,
13:01couch?
13:01Maybe, like, over there
13:02where no one's at?
13:03I think it'll be fun.
13:05Do you have a good drink?
13:06Mm-hmm.
13:07What are you drinking?
13:08Coke.
13:09Wait, you're not drinking alcohol?
13:13That dude is hammered.
13:15Dude.
13:16Chris.
13:16He couldn't even open his left eye.
13:21Oh, God.
13:25It's, like, crazy to see you.
13:29You look good, though.
13:30I appreciate it.
13:32Is it, like,
13:33okay, like,
13:34going back to work?
13:34Like, you feel, like,
13:35okay and, like,
13:36normal again?
13:36No, it's bad.
13:38Last week,
13:39I was in love
13:40and thought I was getting married.
13:41Okay.
13:42Since then,
13:42I've worked every single day.
13:44You never text me once, though.
13:47Are you fucking kidding me?
13:49All of Monday
13:50and all of Tuesday?
13:51That's the only text I got
13:52was,
13:52are you alive?
13:54That's okay.
13:55Who cares, though?
13:56I do.
13:57Okay.
13:57Well, that's the only text I got.
13:59That's convenient.
14:01Listen,
14:01I wasn't trying to be mean.
14:03Mm-hmm.
14:03I'm sorry
14:04if it came off that way.
14:06I appreciate you apologizing.
14:07I appreciate you apologizing.
14:08Like, I think you're
14:08very attractive, Jess.
14:13You have dark features.
14:15I don't,
14:16you don't have to tell me
14:17why I'm attractive.
14:18Okay.
14:19I know you hate me.
14:20It's okay.
14:21There's a lot of people
14:21I hate you.
14:21I didn't say that.
14:22In my life.
14:23I am really, really,
14:24really hurt,
14:25and I was 110% in.
14:28When's your next day
14:29like to chill?
14:30It doesn't matter.
14:31It doesn't matter to me.
14:33You had your time
14:34to make sure of things,
14:36and that time is over.
14:37You don't want me
14:37to worry about that?
14:38That's fine.
14:39I'll do my own thing
14:40and worry about my own life
14:41then for the rest of my life.
14:42I thought you already were.
14:44I honestly feel like
14:46you don't feel like
14:47you know me.
14:52I thought I did.
15:04I love you too, buddy.
15:06I'm ready to be home.
15:08Yeah.
15:08Snuggled with you.
15:10I love you.
15:16Those girls are beautiful.
15:18Have you met Emma yet,
15:19or no?
15:19Not yet.
15:20Matt, so I just met
15:20Matt, which is the dad,
15:22this weekend.
15:23That's supposed to be
15:23me and Emma meeting,
15:25which is like,
15:26I bought her a little present.
15:27I got a little gift bag.
15:28Man.
15:29Coloring books,
15:30some good color,
15:30some of the good ones,
15:31the colored pencils.
15:32Okay.
15:33Yeah.
15:34It'll be good,
15:34but it's like,
15:36it's a relationship
15:36that I also have for people.
15:38I don't want to feel like
15:38I'm just like invading
15:39their space.
15:40Yeah.
15:42So, see how it goes,
15:43but like, it's scary.
15:47Hey, babe.
15:48Yeah?
15:50I just want you to know,
15:51like, if you do want to bail
15:53at any point,
15:54just let me know.
15:55Wait, stop, stop.
15:56You're hearing the wrong
15:57thing right now.
15:58Amber, you're hearing
15:59the wrong thing right now.
16:22I wasn't trying to attack you or anything tonight.
16:27I've been lied to in the past, but I've never felt that from you, so I guess tonight it
16:32was kind of a shock.
16:34I guess the only question I have is, like, what is your relationship like with this girl
16:39now?
16:40I've had my phone back for, what is it, two weeks now?
16:43We haven't talked.
16:45Like, there's no tie at all.
16:47Okay, so if I were to break things off tonight, would you go in two days and text her, though?
16:52Like, that's...
16:52No.
16:52No.
16:53Okay.
16:53She has somebody that she's happy with.
16:56I'm very happy for her.
16:57She's happy for me.
16:59Are you happy?
16:59Yes.
17:10Okay.
17:11You okay?
17:13Yeah.
17:15Nuggets?
17:16What's happening?
17:18McDonald's?
17:19Yeah, I need something.
17:21I need nuggets.
17:22Coke?
17:22Fries?
17:24Yeah.
17:25Tempes?
17:27Buffalo?
17:28Honey?
17:29What do you got?
17:30Buffalo?
17:32Buffalo?
17:33Yeah.
17:35A large Coke?
17:37You want fries?
17:38Yeah.
17:39There we go.
17:40There we go.
17:41There we go.
17:43Dirt starts Monday.
17:45Supposed to fit into a wedding dress at some point here.
17:49So...
17:49You'll be fine, I'm sure.
17:52I'm sure.
18:16I'm sure.
18:17talking about it tonight.
18:26Can we talk?
18:32Amber?
18:37Tonight, I'm just trying to talk to Amber, trying to be honest.
18:41She got pissed.
18:43I was like, well, if you're not certain, then that's that, and we're not doing this.
18:48She got upset and left, and she's still pretty pissed, and...
18:53It was the first time we've ever had a disagreement.
18:54I haven't even met her daughter yet, and I've never been in, like, a father figure role.
19:01And, I don't know, I was just trying to talk about the way that I felt.
19:04Well, I'm scared.
19:06Amber, would you like to talk?
19:08I'm gonna fuck off.
19:11Okay.
19:19The good news is, at least I found somebody else I can't talk to my feelings about.
19:25One-way street.
19:27One-way street, brother.
19:35Tell me about your conversation with our little buddy.
19:38We talked about how he DM'd me, and it was really crazy, because he was like,
19:43I told you to call me, like, why didn't you ask for my number?
19:46And I literally was like, because I'm, like, with, I'm in a relationship.
19:54He literally said to me, do you find me attractive?
19:56And I said, listen, there is nobody else that I would choose over Connor.
20:01Is Connor a nobody?
20:03That shows me who he is, too.
20:05I'm like, why are, like, you're saying, like, inappropriate things?
20:08Just weird stuff, you know?
20:10Yeah.
20:10And then try to dap me up after.
20:12That dude's not anybody's friend anymore, so...
20:14Can I ask you a question, though, that he brought up to me?
20:17Okay.
20:18Basically, when he came in from night dating with Jess one night, he was like,
20:21hey, man, like, I think I'm gonna put, like, Jess number one.
20:25And you're like, okay, okay, cool, then I'll put Brie number one.
20:28No.
20:30I mean, you were my number one that night.
20:32And I'm saying that 100% honestly.
20:35He's trying to plant doubt and get us to go against each other.
20:38We fell in love sight unseen.
20:40It wasn't about money.
20:41It wasn't about how we look.
20:43Like, me and you fell genuinely in love.
20:45I don't know if it's, like, a jealous thing or what the deal is,
20:48but, like, he also fell in love, and then now that they've seen each other,
20:52now he wants to pivot.
20:53I think it's disrespectful.
20:54It's just hard because I did really respect him,
20:57and, like, I thought he was really cool.
20:59So did we.
20:59And then it's like, I just see...
21:01This just totally gives me the ick.
21:03I mean, yeah.
21:04I guess it's just almost, like, a shock.
21:07This dude just flipped out of nowhere.
21:13Not Fusco putting me on, um...
21:17What do we say? Disappear mode or what?
21:19Vanish mode?
21:20You wanna do the honors?
21:21Let's see it together.
21:23Chris Fusco, let's see it.
21:25Are you staying in GV tonight?
21:29Do you want me to answer?
21:31No.
21:31All right, it's fine.
21:33The more I disengage with him, the more it's gonna keep going.
21:35Like, if I'm like, yes, I am.
21:37And then I'd be like, well, why?
21:38Like, I don't need to poke the bear.
21:40Exactly.
21:41It's one of those people that you just cut talk to people out of your life.
21:44Yeah, it's just like, exactly.
21:44Why give it any more energy?
21:46Yeah.
21:47So...
21:47Maybe a little bit jealous.
21:48You know that.
21:50But...
21:50I'm trusting you 100%.
21:55Ooh, your hands are cold.
21:59Stop.
22:00Oh, man.
22:01Why are you, like, good at this?
22:02This is, like, weirding me out that you're good at this.
22:05Don't worry.
22:06Why are we doing this also?
22:07You have, like, a strong thumb.
22:12Toast.
22:13All right, fine, you win.
22:14Not the thumb war.
22:16How'd you win in a thumb war?
22:17I crushed you.
22:18Oh my God.
22:18You're actually really good at that.
22:20You're the man I need.
22:22Talk to me.
22:26Talk to me.
22:27Talk to me.
22:27Talk to me.
22:28Be the man that I need.
22:30Talk to me.
22:31Talk to me.
22:32Be the man that I need.
22:33I need, I need.
22:34Oh, I like these.
22:37Yeah, you need some color in it.
22:38I know I'm gonna do one of these guys. What's the occasion? Wedding. Yes. Thank you. What do you think?
22:46Should we do more of a round or more of like a spread out? So you're coming down the aisle.
22:51Do you want the
22:52flowers to be all encompassed? I think I'm more like nice and neat. I think if I'm gonna toss a
22:57bouquet
22:58You want it to be
22:59Tight so let's go for tall. Okay, and then I'll add in as just wherever. Yeah
23:06Okay
23:07Okay
23:09On the outside
23:11Looks good. I can't wait to see you come down the aisle
23:19Thanks, hmm, I just feel
23:22Very very very lucky very grateful. No fears. No fears. Yeah, would you tell me if you did?
23:29If I have fears, I'll let you know. Okay. Yeah at any point five years from now ten years from
23:33now
23:33Uh-huh. There are none. None.
24:06I don't know. Me neither. Yeah.
24:06Are you opposed to green?
24:09So tell me honestly, you don't want green?
24:12I think it's whatever you want
24:16No, babe, I want you to like it too
24:18Obviously, you're in white
24:20I was actually gonna go with a pink dress
24:23Like a tutu? Yeah
24:25I do want an espresso martini tower
24:27I like that
24:28I like that
24:28But I realized everyone's gonna be gold goblet so you can't really do a martini tower
24:31What the hell we can't?
24:33First ever gold goblet martini tower
24:35Um, Italian castle
24:37Yeah
24:38But in Columbus, Ohio
24:40Those two things should never be in the same sense
24:52Step into my office
24:54Light it up, light it up
24:56Would you like the bedformer on?
25:01No
25:03When most people think like, oh you do lashes in your basement
25:07It's probably a little like janky
25:11But I wanted it to be somewhere when my clients come
25:14They don't feel like they're in a home
25:15They feel like they're in a little oasis
25:19You actually have really pretty lashes
25:20You could just do a lash lift
25:22Although you might look a little crazy
25:23I mean like super curled lashes
25:25I don't know
25:27But my home, it's gonna become ours
25:29I've never had that before
25:31Like I've never been able to come home and be like
25:34Hello, I'm here
25:35Like honey, I'm home
25:36So I'm super excited for that, um, moment
25:42My dad helped me build this whole fireplace
25:44Like this was all black and gold
25:46You guys like took it out
25:47And we put all of this stone in
25:49I like that
25:49It is a fireplace that works
25:51I have never used it
25:53Because I'm scared to burn my house down
25:56Where's your spot on the couch?
25:57My couch spot is here
26:00Okay, that's good
26:01I always sit here
26:02Because it's like right in front of the TV
26:04See, I need the long spot
26:06Is that that far away?
26:08I'll touch your foot
26:10You talk during movies, I already know
26:12Only sometimes
26:15Do you watch the movies with the captions on?
26:17No
26:17Like you got a little lash soldier from downstairs
26:22I'll get used to that
26:24I'll get used to that
26:24Yeah, we'll have lashes all over your socks
26:26Right now, like what's your monthly output?
26:30Mortgage is like
26:321215
26:33Okay
26:34Like 1800
26:35Got it
26:36For bills
26:36For bills
26:37I don't even think it's that much
26:38Like all in
26:38Yeah
26:39Yeah, that's not bad at all
26:41My previous house in Charlotte
26:43My previous house in Charlotte
26:43Just my house bills alone
26:44Before you started getting utilities and stuff
26:46Was like 5200
26:47A month
26:48Said that
26:49Oh my god
26:50He's gonna throw up
26:54It's sales, it's weird
26:55Like one month I can make 12,000
26:59One month I can make 40,000
27:01So like
27:02It just really
27:03Whoa
27:04I don't think I've ever made that much money in a month
27:07I try to have at least like 6 to 8 months
27:09Like in reserves
27:10Like quickly
27:11Maybe you should be in charge of our finances
27:14I try to be financially smart
27:17I mean I am a shopper for sure
27:19And sometimes I do go overboard
27:21But if you run out of your own fun money
27:22Don't come looking in my pot
27:25I like help
27:26You're gonna have to leave
27:27What do you mean?
27:27Are we gonna have a joint account?
27:29I'm excited to share bills
27:31This is great
27:34So this is gonna be our little home
27:36It's gonna be our little home
27:49Okay, so we are zooming up to Grand Rapids
27:52To meet my family
27:54My dad
27:56A.k.a. G-Man
27:58But you will be calling him Mr. McNeese
28:00I already know
28:01I just don't bring guys around a lot
28:04So I don't know how this is gonna go with my dad
28:09We did a little pit stop and stop in Ann Arbor
28:11And I'm taking Connor around to all the spots that I know and love in college
28:17The tradition is if you kiss under this arch you get married
28:20So I guess he has to get it
28:24You better freaking get married
28:27We have the honor of cutting the cake
28:30So we figured this would be a really good practice
28:33All right, Connor, wait
28:34I feel like we have to do it together
28:35Yeah, we do
28:36All right, you ready?
28:37Oh, my God
28:37You ready?
28:42Okay, this is actually pretty good
28:44And then you put it in her mouth
28:45And she puts it in yours
28:47Okay, so keep it in yours
28:49Stay done
28:51Yay!
28:52Now you kiss!
28:53Now you kiss!
28:55Yay!
28:56You gotta show the rest of the fame
28:58From the Grand Rapids crew
29:01If it's you
29:04You can tell me to go, go, go, go
29:15This was definitely the first, like, argument that we've gotten in
29:19And I wouldn't say it was good
29:20I definitely get needing to take a beat
29:23And, like, go take a breather
29:25Because that's how I'm in a lot of times
29:26Like, I have to cool my head
29:28So that I understand
29:29But, like, the total silence is
29:32I mean, you can't work with that
29:44Hey!
29:45Hi!
29:46How's it going?
29:47What's going? How you doing?
29:55How was your day?
29:57I just need a drink
29:58Okay
30:10I, like, completely understand your disposition
30:13With wanting to meet Emma
30:15What I don't understand is
30:17Why the fuck didn't you tell me
30:18Before you told Vic?
30:21I'm just pissed
30:23That's really what, like, shot the pain for me
30:25Was because, like, I thought we really had this, like, open level of communication
30:28I trust you, like, with all my heart
30:30That you were, like, communicating everything to me
30:33Now I'm just, like, having some skepticisms and, like, doubts
30:37And I need to know the honest-to-God truth at this point, like, right now
30:41Like, if it is Emma
30:44We can work on it
30:45If it's not
30:46And it's like, hey, I wasn't really feeling this
30:48Or, like, I was feeling another type
30:49Why you just need to be straight up with me?
30:52You know, I feel bad that you think that
30:55Any, like, feelings that I have for you are not, you know, not genuine like what I've said
30:59Because I, I, uh, I think you're incredible
31:02Like, I don't think I've ever felt this way about anybody before
31:05The only reason I've gone as far is because of you
31:09But before, you know, making a lifelong commitment
31:12Like, I have to meet Emma first
31:14Never meeting her before and, like, trying to build a relationship
31:17It's, it's a scary thought
31:19That I totally understand
31:20But, like, when did these thoughts come into your head?
31:22And, like, why didn't you tell me these?
31:26I don't know, I think it's just gotten more real in the last week
31:29I think the nerves of, like, she's the person I've been most nervous to meet
31:32She's the most important person in your life, so
31:36Have you thought about, like, what if she doesn't like me?
31:38Because that's something that plays in my head a little bit
31:40That's, like, a scary thought
31:43It seemed like I told her to brush her teeth this morning
31:45It would be one thing if, like, you were, like, a bad person
31:48Or, like, we had a toxic relationship
31:50Or we're fighting all the time
31:51It's a different story
31:53I just don't understand, like, the knowing and coming into it
31:56Like, you kind of knew that was a thing
31:58Like, I still, I still love you, I was never trying to bail
32:02I just, it's a step-by-step process
32:04Like, all of the steps need to happen for it to be successful, so
32:08I'd like to work on it
32:10I don't know where you stand on things
32:11I understand if you need some time
32:15It's so, so hard for me to, like, trust a man
32:21They will tell you they're gonna marry you and, like, all this other bullshit
32:24I wouldn't have said all the things I said to you if I didn't feel that way
32:28Men say fucking bullshit all the time
32:30Okay, I'm not, I'm not the dudes that you, that you're with
32:32You haven't proven that to me yet
32:34That makes me feel shitty
32:35It's like, I feel like I've put myself out here and you're just comparing me to a bunch of dirtbags
32:40that you've dated in the past
32:41Like, that's not fair
32:43I've had to build this barrier to protect myself
32:47I can empathize with having to put walls up and, like, protect your daughter, I get that
32:51And I know that you've had shitty people in your past
32:54But I don't know what to do for you to, to trust me
33:03I still do trust you, but usually I go into, like, fight or flight
33:06Like, usually I would just be, like, completely gone and just, like, and I'm not doing that
33:11I showed up today
33:17I've been so anxious, I haven't eaten all day
33:19Why?
33:20Because I'm feeling a ball of nerves
33:23I didn't know how this was gonna go, if you were gonna leave, or, how, I just, yeah, I've been,
33:28I've been so anxious
33:49I still really love you, I'm really sorry for just, the way that this played out
33:56Me too
33:59I feel really pretty today
34:00Me too
34:05Can you just make sure you're, like, telling me everything straight up?
34:08Yes, yes
34:10As soon as I think it
34:12As soon?
34:13As soon as I think it
34:15I mean, you know, I don't miss a beat
34:17I know
34:36I got kinda updated on, like, some of the things with Chris
34:38What, you heard about him?
34:39Yeah, bro, and I was like, what the F?
34:41I'll never talk to that dude again
34:43Yeah
34:43You shouldn't
34:44We had a very close relationship
34:46I talked to him about a lot of shit
34:47Yeah
34:48And then he started using that against me to try and talk to my fiance
34:51Did he send her a text or something after too?
34:53He DM'd her that night
34:54DM'd, okay
34:55And, uh, she goes, can you not respond to him?
34:58I should have sent a picture of your nut sack
34:59From her account
35:00From her account
35:02What are we, what, what are you doing, dude?
35:04We're going through this
35:05We, we have a solid group
35:06And then to just fucking disrespect you like that?
35:10Go nuts
35:10He thought that he was gonna, like, steal her from me?
35:12Yeah, I...
35:13Buddy, you're 5'6", so...
35:16And Brie won't date anybody under 5'9", so...
35:18I just wanted a man
35:19Yeah
35:19Oh
35:20Oh
35:22That came to the other one on the back
35:25Somebody stop me
35:26What's up, fellas?
35:27Oh!
35:28You're a little over a week away
35:30From standing at the altar
35:33In front of the love of your life
35:35The tux, the suit you pick out today
35:37Represents your personality
35:38And represents your love
35:40I'm so happy for all of you
35:43Talking through a wall
35:44Finding someone
35:45And now picking out your wedding dress
35:47It's absolutely incredible
35:49I do already have my own wedding dress
35:53Before you went on the show
35:54You bought the dress
35:55Yep
35:56Just by the man
35:59I bought her dress because I said
36:01This here is faith
36:03We truly believe that you're going
36:05To find your person
36:08So we did
36:09We bought the dress
36:10I love it
36:12I truly hope that you guys prove love is blind
36:15Because I want for all of you
36:18A marriage that lasts the test of time
36:20This is a beautiful day
36:22Have a blast
36:23Pray on some suits
36:24I wish you guys nothing but the best
36:27Thank you
36:27Good luck, guys
36:28All right
36:30All right, let's go
36:31Let's go, let's go, let's go
36:35This is what we're waiting for
36:38So it's not a perfect fit
36:40Okay
36:40But we're going to see what we're working
36:41All right
36:42I see you, smooth criminal
36:44You think you're going to have some tears coming down?
36:46It's going to be good
36:46I'm excited about it
36:47I'll tell you that much
36:48No, I'm excited for you
36:49Yeah
36:50Any reservations?
36:52All right
36:52No
36:52It's a happy day
36:59You guys got your tissues ready?
37:01Oh, yeah
37:01I'm so excited
37:05Gorgeous
37:06Oh
37:07Oh my god, it's so beautiful
37:08Oh my
37:09I kind of hate it
37:10And I was literally going to say
37:12I'm not a fan
37:13I hate it
37:14Not at all me
37:15It's not
37:16We tried something different
37:17And we know that it's not it
37:21Stop it
37:22Oh my goodness
37:23Oh wow
37:25What do you think?
37:27I don't like it either
37:29She's like, I gotta get out of this thing
37:33Oh my god
37:35Oh my god
37:37Oh, it's a slut
37:39Oh my god
37:40Okay, you're beaming
37:42Oh my god
37:45Yes
37:46Now I can't get you out of my head
37:49This is amazing on you
37:51There's some elements that are working
37:52I do really like some of this
37:54Yeah, yeah
37:55I do like the slits
37:56I feel like you do have the stomach though
37:58You look amazing in that
38:00Oh, it's pretty
38:01Oh, I like the back
38:02Oh, the back
38:03Oh
38:04It's...
38:05I still just don't know about the top
38:07I don't think I'm being picky
38:09It's the wedding dress, Christine
38:11Yeah, yeah
38:11If it's not perfect, it's not perfect
38:13Yeah
38:14Do you want to try a veil with it?
38:15Sure
38:16Okay
38:17Thank you
38:17Aww
38:19Aww
38:20Aww
38:21You're so beautiful
38:22I feel bridal
38:24I'm already like getting emotional
38:26But it's not the dress that makes you emotional
38:28It's...
38:29It's everything behind the dress
38:30Yeah
38:32I've really wanted this for a long time
38:33And uh...
38:36I just have the perfect person to do it with
38:43How is this woman?
38:45I don't know
38:46This is a fresh...
38:47This is a fresh dress
38:48That was really good
38:48Yeah
38:49I think you could rock a midnight blue also
38:51My colors for the wedding are green
38:53Green?
38:55Emma like likes like the deep green
38:57Like a... the green floral
38:58Oh, alright, so that one
38:59So it's black, it's black and green
39:01Proudy, man.
39:02Brilliant.
39:09Yay!
39:12Wait, are you wearing your shoes already?
39:14Look at this.
39:15Yeah.
39:15Oh, my God.
39:16Look at that tree.
39:17Gorgeous.
39:18Beautiful.
39:20It's like a little garden.
39:21It's so pretty.
39:22I feel like it's exactly what I would picture for you.
39:25Just the perfect amount of glitz, but, like, still simple for you.
39:29Yeah.
39:29And it's just gorgeous.
39:30I like the sheer at the top.
39:32Oh, it is very sheer.
39:37Mom wants some sauciness.
39:39Yeah, I, like...
39:40Do you feel comfortable?
39:40I feel really comfortable.
39:42Like, I can, like...
39:43Give us some dance moves.
39:44I can dance.
39:45Okay.
39:45Do you know, like, I can do my Irish jigs?
39:47Oh, good.
39:49Are you?
39:50I don't know.
39:51This is gonna kill me.
39:52Oh, my God.
39:54Oh, my God.
39:55Oh, my God.
39:56Oh, my God.
39:59Oh, my God.
40:00This is crazy.
40:01Oh, my God.
40:04Oh, my God.
40:06Yes.
40:07You have to wear a veil.
40:08Mm-hmm.
40:12Okay.
40:13Oh, stunning.
40:15Like, it just feels so...
40:17Right.
40:18Like, surreal.
40:19Like, I didn't hear you here.
40:27The dress seals the deal.
40:28The dress seals the deal.
40:30It's perfect.
40:33It'll work.
40:34It'll do.
40:35It'll do.
40:39It'll do.
40:41I'm feeling excited.
40:43Finally getting the suit fitted.
40:44I'm gonna do a tie clip that matches her dress.
40:46Oh, yeah.
40:48See our dreams come to life.
40:52We've been waiting for so long.
40:55As a little girl, I definitely dreamed about my wedding dress, getting all dolled up, putting
41:00the veil on, the flowers, all of it.
41:02So, I'm super excited that my dream was coming into fruition.
41:06I feel like a bride.
41:08Super excited.
41:09I do already have my own wedding dress.
41:11There's so much hype around this dress now.
41:13I feel like buying the dress before definitely jumped full force into this journey of believing
41:21that this is what I'm supposed to do.
41:23Now, everything that I've always dreamed of is gonna happen.
41:26My gosh, I'm getting married.
41:28I will be a full-on bride.
41:31Oh, so good.
41:33Yeah, okay.
41:34Yeah, that makes sense.
41:36Oh, my God.
41:37You look beautiful.
41:39Wow.
41:40Oh, my God.
41:41I love it.
41:42I think this is stunning.
41:45This is my dress.
41:51I'm glad you bought one before.
41:53I know, yeah.
41:55Oh, my gosh.
41:56It's so pretty.
41:57This is, like, my wedding day, what I want to look like.
42:01I feel like a bride.
42:02Mm-hmm.
42:03That's gorgeous.
42:04Where's the veil?
42:05Bring the veil.
42:07Stunning.
42:08Oh, yeah.
42:09Very funny.
42:11Gorgeous.
42:12Beautiful.
42:17She's waited a long time.
42:21And you're getting everything.
42:23He checks every box, you said.
42:26And it's been worth the wait.
42:29Yeah.
42:29He was more than worth the wait.
42:31Yes.
42:32And, like, he's the person that I've literally been looking 32 years for.
42:35I'm happy.
42:38Next week, I'm going to get to call on my husband.
42:41He better lose it when he sees you.
42:43He is literally a man of few words.
42:45And I have just come to accept that.
42:48He may not have words, but he's going to be choking.
42:51Oh, my God.
42:52We're getting married.
42:54Yes, we are.
43:00You're going to get married.
43:01How do you feel?
43:02How do you feel, guys?
43:03Ooh.
43:03Let's see it.
43:04I might be a bow tie.
43:05Scale of one to ten.
43:06Good God.
43:06Is that James Bond?
43:08Yeah, there it is.
43:08He has to say, give me finger guns.
43:10Yeah.
43:10So I don't look like a dweeb in it?
43:12No.
43:12It says I'm formal.
43:13I'm ready to get married.
43:15I feel confident in this.
43:16I feel good.
43:16Yeah, this is going to be the only time I get married.
43:21Yeah.
43:22This is an I do touch.
43:29My mom and Connor's mom are here today.
43:32It's so fun to have moms meet.
43:34And, like, it's beyond just picking out my wedding dress.
43:36It's also just another step within the process of, like,
43:39joining our families together.
43:40Connor would not care what she has on.
43:43Absolutely not.
43:45She could have on.
43:47Sweatpants.
43:47He'd be perfectly happy.
43:49That might be option two.
43:51Connor and I both come from big families.
43:53We're super communal.
43:54So I'm not surprised that our moms are getting along
43:56because they're Midwest moms that love their kids.
43:59Are you nervous to see her?
44:00Mm-hmm.
44:02This whole weekend was a lot for us of, like,
44:04picking up the marriage license.
44:06We went back to Grand Rapids.
44:07We met my dad.
44:08And the big bad dude, like, we were just a wild card.
44:11I didn't know how he was going to show up.
44:13I mean, he only has one daughter.
44:16I'm his baby girl.
44:17And, you know, there was some tough questions asked of Connor
44:20by my aunts and my dad and everybody
44:22because I know they love me and want what's best.
44:24It was great seeing them interact.
44:26They all love him.
44:28Gave me the confidence that I needed to go into today.
44:30Here she comes.
44:31Sorry.
44:33I was, like, also not my hair.
44:35Oh, my God.
44:36Oh, my God.
44:38That is beautiful.
44:39There you go.
44:40Give me a little orange.
44:41It's so beautiful.
44:43I know.
44:43I'm just, like, but does it feel too simple?
44:45Like, is there...
44:46I don't know.
44:47Oh, honey.
44:50You know how long I've been waiting for this?
44:52No.
44:53I don't think you need all the sparkles and everything.
44:56No.
44:56This is, like, you.
44:58I feel like it fits you so perfectly.
45:00Stunning.
45:01It's absolutely gorgeous.
45:09I guess you're right.
45:10I'm not trying to be someone I'm not
45:11and try on glitter and...
45:14...forals.
45:14Connor will be blown away.
45:17He hit it out of the park.
45:19Did he not?
45:31Whoa.
45:34Clean cut.
45:36Did I get that right?
45:37Yeah.
45:37Feeling good?
45:37I think you guys know I make decisions intuitively so maybe this is this is
45:43telling of itself but like I look at it and like I'm not nervous like I'm not
45:47necessarily feeling nervous when it comes to it were you guys never seen your
45:49guys weddings like coming into it or putting on tuxes or right yeah all right
45:54yeah I think I bring a level of confidence and you know I don't want to
45:59say emotionless but a rock type thing in the sense of I'm very comfortable in
46:02situations like this so I'm not necessarily nervous it's more excited at
46:06this point so I'm ready for the big day it does feel you know relatively normal
46:10for me
46:22you look like a cake topper I know it's enough for me this is not the dress it's
46:33nice to finally see her get her moment she's obviously stunning she looks
46:37literally like Barbie I want her to be happy and whatever that looks like I'm
46:42so proud of the journey she's had like a year ago I can't even imagine seeing her
46:46in this position just want the best for her oh my god oh okay oh my god this is
46:57stunning you're getting wedding Barbie yeah no this is totally your vibe just
47:02got up here that is very very I was like totally fine in there I swear you guys you look
47:10perfect
47:12don't cry oh I'm like shaking you're you're a bride I'm a bride oh my goodness like we've
47:20been fiance's but now we're brides we're brides it's really incredible stunning this elegant it's
47:26exactly what I would picture you and it's cute it is simple no like frills or no lace or anything
47:35but I feel absolutely like gorgeous in this dress you are gorgeous you deserve the world you are the
47:40most special person I know for so much of your life you felt like you weren't but it's everything
47:47you deserve and more and you look so beautiful you've always put everyone else I'm so happy for
47:53you this is your time I'm fine here comes a veil I'm literally gonna lose it oh no no it's
48:06just wild
48:06we're getting married in a week I remember having conversations and being like I'm not gonna get
48:11engaged no one's gonna like me and now I'm up here standing like ready to marry Alex and okay
48:17bring Alex in cuz I can't like yeah this is the one this is the wedding
48:36all right oh boy okay that looks good yeah this looks pretty sharp does it feel like something you
48:44want to wear to get married to the love of your life I mean I think this looks pretty damn
48:47good
48:48what do you think Amber's gonna think look she likes me regardless you like that yeah oh yeah
48:54ah you're pulling my hair I'd give you my 401k all right I'll be back all right I want this
49:01suit to
49:01fit right you know I'm a big boy but I want that thing to be maybe slim me down a
49:06little bit
49:07dude I like well like a champagne or brown tie but she doesn't care about what I'm gonna wear
49:12this is pretty nice it's a more complete love than I've ever had I come out wearing gym shorts
49:19she probably wouldn't like that but I could and I'd still be cool with it but uh you know we've
49:24been
49:25working on this relationship and and just the the bond um that's the that's the whole reason we're
49:30here that's the most important part he was like Jamie this is like different I was yeah finally for
49:48you you know I mean like that's why I'm so happy for her oh my god that is so beautiful
50:05you're just
50:07like sparkling it's so pretty what would Emma say if she saw you she wanted all the sparkles and
50:26all the flowers so that's why I picked a sparkly dress because she wanted that oh it's amazing and
50:33Emma does deserve to like see her mommy be a princess and she deserves everything and
50:40I love you I'm done
50:44I am more excited to show Emma what true love looks like more than anyone can know
50:51oh oh my god she deserves that and she deserves to know like what it's like to have a good
50:57guy
50:57loving her so do you so do you I think you're the best role model
51:03Emma could ever have no and you do it very well this dress just matches her personality like you
51:10sparkle and she sees that and so do we so the greatest mom in the world
51:20this is the one
51:25it's a special moment you know to see yourself in a dress I've never been in a wedding dress or
51:30anything like that I feel very excited oh my gosh I deserve the world but it never gives it to
51:39me
51:39I need Jordan to meet Emma but I think our love is strong enough to overcome most obstacles I am
51:48ready
51:48it's just me to be by Jordan's side forever
51:50I don't know what you get
51:57I don't know what you get
52:04I don't know what you get
52:10I don't know what you get
52:19Don't know what you've got
52:23Love is rushing to light
52:26Don't know what you've got
52:29Love is rushing to light
53:11Don't know what you've got
53:44Love is rushing to light
54:04Don't know what you've got
54:05Don't know what you've got
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